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- 0:00Speaker 1: This story contains adult content and language. Listener discretion is advised.
- 0:21Speaker 1: Welcome to The Knife off Record. I'm Hannah Smith, I'm
- 0:24Speaker 1: patia Eton. First, just a quick thank you to everyone
- 0:28Speaker 1: who has taken the time to rate and review the Knife.
- 0:31Speaker 1: It's been really helpful. You can also email us at
- 0:35Speaker 1: The Knife at exactlyrightmedia dot com or follow us on
- 0:39Speaker 1: Instagram at The Knife Podcast. We have two stories for
- 0:42Speaker 1: you today, both involving scams. Mine shorter kind of a
- 0:46Speaker 1: mini story, so I will jump right into it. Yeah,
- 0:49Speaker 1: let's hear it. So I first came across this story
- 0:53Speaker 1: on Reddit, as we do, and it was a post
- 0:56Speaker 1: from twenty fifteen by this guy named Alec Kor. He
- 1:01Speaker 1: lives in Canada. He's a professor and he made this
- 1:03Speaker 1: post and this is the title of it. For the
- 1:06Speaker 1: past eight years, my photos have been used by romance
- 1:09Speaker 1: scammers aka catfishers. I really need Reddit's help to have
- 1:14Speaker 1: this get the attention of Facebook. So he claims that
- 1:18Speaker 1: around two thousand and seven he became aware of someone
- 1:22Speaker 1: using his photo when his then partner got a call
- 1:26Speaker 1: from a woman that she didn't know and the woman
- 1:28Speaker 1: was basically like your partner has also been dating me
- 1:33Speaker 1: and she was really upset about him breaking up with her.
- 1:36Speaker 1: First of all, how would you feel if you got
- 1:39Speaker 1: that random call? Not great?
- 1:41Speaker 2: I would be very confused. And also, like, you have
- 1:46Speaker 2: to think, if someone's going that far out of their
- 1:48Speaker 2: way to call you, you got to feel like they're
- 1:52Speaker 2: not making it up, or at least it's worth looking
- 1:54Speaker 2: into or figuring out. I wouldn't be dismissive of it,
- 1:57Speaker 2: like fully trust my husband, but I would never be
- 2:00Speaker 2: of it. I would definitely be like, what's up with this? Yeah,
- 2:02Speaker 2: we got to get to the bottom of what's going
- 2:04Speaker 2: on here for sure. So his partner confronted him and
- 2:07Speaker 2: they started looking into it. And I don't know the
- 2:09Speaker 2: details of that very first case, but it became clear
- 2:13Speaker 2: that it wasn't him. First of all, it was a
- 2:15Speaker 2: different profile on Facebook and under a different name, but
- 2:18Speaker 2: it was using his photos. So he reported to Facebook.
- 2:22Speaker 2: I don't think anything was done, and he thought it
- 2:25Speaker 2: was a fluke, like a weird one off, weird someone
- 2:28Speaker 2: used my photo. He had a Facebook profile that was
- 2:32Speaker 2: public and he had photos of himself, his partner, his life,
- 2:35Speaker 2: his kids. But then he starts getting contacted by more
- 2:39Speaker 2: people all women. They start contacting him thinking that they
- 2:44Speaker 2: had been dating him, and some of them are just
- 2:47Speaker 2: like heartbroken because they've been ghosted. But a lot of
- 2:50Speaker 2: them have lost money, oh and no then been ghosted. Okay,
- 2:56Speaker 2: so a lot of the time, if he ends up
- 2:59Speaker 2: talking to these on the phone, they realize pretty quickly
- 3:01Speaker 2: that it's not him because they've spoken on the phone
- 3:05Speaker 2: to whoever it is and his voice sounds different. But
- 3:08Speaker 2: he starts getting people when they reach out to him
- 3:10Speaker 2: to send him the profiles because he doesn't know what
- 3:13Speaker 2: they're talking about. So he starts getting all these profiles,
- 3:16Speaker 2: and every time he gets one, they're all Facebook profiles.
- 3:19Speaker 2: He reports it to Facebook as this is not me,
- 3:22Speaker 2: someone is stealing my identity, but nothing is really done
- 3:26Speaker 2: about it. He starts finding more and more of these pages,
- 3:31Speaker 2: and it's not just him. Some of these scammers have
- 3:35Speaker 2: made Facebook pages for his mother, his brother. They've found
- 3:41Speaker 2: pictures of his family and then use those photos to
- 3:44Speaker 2: create multiple Facebook accounts to enact their scams. So you
- 3:48Speaker 2: can imagine the mother's messaging them being like, oh, yeah,
- 3:51Speaker 2: my son, it's so believable. Yeah, it makes it so
- 3:55Speaker 2: real for that person.
- 3:56Speaker 1: Yeah, so he's reporting all of these and he's that
- 4:00Speaker 1: nothing's being done. He even contacts his local police, but
- 4:03Speaker 1: they can't or won't do anything because they say it's
- 4:06Speaker 1: outside their jurisdiction because it's online. And this was in
- 4:10Speaker 1: twenty fifteen, so ten years ago, but he's been dealing
- 4:13Speaker 1: with this since two thousand and seven. Oh my gosh.
- 4:16Speaker 1: And it's interesting looking at that Reddit post from twenty
- 4:18Speaker 1: fifteen the comments on it, people are still kind of
- 4:22Speaker 1: confused and even defending Facebook and sort of like, well,
- 4:29Speaker 1: why did you put your photos publicly on a Facebook
- 4:32Speaker 1: profile if you didn't want this to happen?
- 4:34Speaker 2: Who is out there defending Facebook? Like, who's like, you
- 4:37Speaker 2: know in the morning, Like Facebook needs my support.
- 4:40Speaker 1: Yeah, they're just so hard working. We got to support them. Yeah.
- 4:44Speaker 1: I mean twenty fifteen was a different time, and I
- 4:47Speaker 1: think it shows that the understanding that this is happening
- 4:51Speaker 1: on a wide scale was still so lacking.
- 4:54Speaker 2: Right, and also how it could really impact someone's life.
- 4:57Speaker 1: Yeah, and also everyone was putting photos of everything from
- 5:01Speaker 1: their life on Facebook in twenty fifteen public profiles.
- 5:05Speaker 2: Oh yeah, if this didn't happen to you, you're like lucky.
- 5:08Speaker 1: Yeah. And so this continues to happen for years. This professor,
- 5:13Speaker 1: this guy Alec, he's dealing with this. You know, he's
- 5:16Speaker 1: a professor. He actually teaches educational technology and media. And
- 5:20Speaker 1: I just point that out because he is someone who
- 5:23Speaker 1: is Internet literate and you know, had resources and tools
- 5:27Speaker 1: available to try to figure this out. He reported it,
- 5:31Speaker 1: He went through all the right channels, and oftentimes the
- 5:34Speaker 1: profiles were not taken down because they technically met Facebook's
- 5:39Speaker 1: you know, user agreement. So he just was sort of like,
- 5:42Speaker 1: I don't know what to do about this, so he
- 5:45Speaker 1: just kind of had to deal with it.
- 5:46Speaker 2: That's terrible. It's also so surprising because if whoever is
- 5:50Speaker 2: using his photos to like create this persona and date
- 5:54Speaker 2: people is also stealing. Yeah, so like they didn't take
- 5:58Speaker 2: it down. That's wild.
- 5:59Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and it's been an ongoing issue, and since
- 6:02Speaker 1: twenty fifteen, Facebook has really made some changes. They've cracked
- 6:06Speaker 1: down on scammers. And I think you were telling me
- 6:10Speaker 1: that now when you create a Facebook profile, you have
- 6:12Speaker 1: to like verify your identity.
- 6:15Speaker 2: Yeah, it was something along those lines. I don't recall
- 6:17Speaker 2: exactly what it was, but it was definitely more hoops
- 6:20Speaker 2: I was jumping through because back when I had my
- 6:23Speaker 2: first Facebook when I went off to college way back,
- 6:26Speaker 2: Like I have one now that I use for marketplace
- 6:30Speaker 2: or for like telling people to listen to our podcast. Yeah,
- 6:33Speaker 2: so I don't have any like real friends or anything
- 6:36Speaker 2: but on Facebook. But yeah, I remember having to like
- 6:40Speaker 2: do a lot more to make my account. And I
- 6:42Speaker 2: also now, even though I have a Facebook, I think
- 6:46Speaker 2: I have one like kind of grainy photo because I'm
- 6:49Speaker 2: scared of stuff like this.
- 6:50Speaker 1: Yeah, I think now it's probably good to be more
- 6:54Speaker 1: aware of what you're putting out there on the internet, right. Yeah, So,
- 6:57Speaker 1: I like did another interview in twenty twenty, and he
- 7:01Speaker 1: said that at that time a lot of the scammers
- 7:04Speaker 1: had moved from Facebook because of their new regulations onto
- 7:08Speaker 1: dating apps. And at that point in twenty twenty, he
- 7:12Speaker 1: said he'd been experiencing this for thirteen to fourteen years,
- 7:17Speaker 1: and he said he was getting two to three victims
- 7:21Speaker 1: reach out to him a day. Still it's been thousands.
- 7:25Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. That's also so scary because you know,
- 7:30Speaker 2: like in the first instance of this that you mentioned,
- 7:32Speaker 2: the person pieces together pretty quickly that it's not the
- 7:36Speaker 2: voice of the person that she thinks she's been dating.
- 7:38Speaker 2: So clearly this isn't the guy she's been swindled. But
- 7:42Speaker 2: not everyone is that quick to sort of lift the
- 7:46Speaker 2: veil on something they've been believing in, and that could
- 7:49Speaker 2: be really scary once someone thinks that you stole money
- 7:51Speaker 2: from them. Oh yeah, I mean it's caused a lot
- 7:54Speaker 2: of problems for him. He said that his morning routine
- 7:57Speaker 2: as he wakes up, gets his coffee open his computer,
- 8:01Speaker 2: reads his email, and just knows that there are going
- 8:03Speaker 2: to be emails from people in there. Then he has
- 8:07Speaker 2: to be the one to explain to them what the
- 8:10Speaker 2: situation is. So eventually he actually created a website and
- 8:14Speaker 2: it has like a page that he sends to people.
- 8:16Speaker 2: Now it's like FAQ almost because the emotional burden and
- 8:21Speaker 2: the time to try to explain this to every single
- 8:25Speaker 2: person that's reaching out is just not possible for him.
- 8:28Speaker 2: So I went to this website and it starts with hi, there,
- 8:31Speaker 2: my name is Alex Corros. If I have shared this
- 8:33Speaker 2: page with you, there's a good chance you've been the
- 8:35Speaker 2: target of a romance scam and may have been led
- 8:38Speaker 2: to believe that you are in a relationship with someone
- 8:40Speaker 2: who looks like me.
- 8:42Speaker 1: Oh and me is hyperlinked and when you click on it,
- 8:45Speaker 1: it just takes you to a Google image and there's
- 8:47Speaker 1: like tons of pictures of him. So he's like, if
- 8:50Speaker 1: you've been in a relationship with someone who looks like
- 8:52Speaker 1: this me, then you're.
- 8:54Speaker 2: Not imagine getting a response from him and it being
- 8:58Speaker 2: that link and going down that rabbit hole of like
- 9:02Speaker 2: realizing you've been conned and also sometimes probably heartbroken. Yeah,
- 9:07Speaker 2: like that is total devastation. But how nice of him,
- 9:11Speaker 2: yeah to put that together, Yeah, because he could just
- 9:14Speaker 2: not respond to people. Yeah, And so on this website,
- 9:24Speaker 2: it says he's done his best to try to get
- 9:27Speaker 2: these pages down, he's tried to report this happening. He
- 9:30Speaker 2: kind of explains everything that he's done, and the thing
- 9:33Speaker 2: that he's doing is trying to raise awareness about it
- 9:36Speaker 2: to try to get this to stop. And then there
- 9:39Speaker 2: are times that he's posted exchanges that he's had with
- 9:42Speaker 2: people who've contacted him on the page, but crossing out
- 9:45Speaker 2: their identity maybe, I think, in an effort to convince
- 9:49Speaker 2: people or like an additional evidence that this is real.
- 9:52Speaker 2: This is happening, and people are reaching out to me,
- 9:55Speaker 2: and sometimes you know, they're really sad, and people are
- 10:00Speaker 2: a broken hearted. Sometimes they're really angry, and like you said,
- 10:05Speaker 2: sometimes they believe him and sometimes they don't. There have
- 10:07Speaker 2: been instances where he's like, hey, this is the situation
- 10:11Speaker 2: and people are like, I don't care. I think it's
- 10:13Speaker 2: still you and they're harassing him. It's a lot to
- 10:16Speaker 2: deal with. That's heavy.
- 10:18Speaker 1: Yeah, So this is just one example of an email
- 10:21Speaker 1: that Alex has gotten. Good morning, Alec. I called you
- 10:24Speaker 1: yesterday and hung up without saying anything. I'm sorry about that.
- 10:28Speaker 1: I wanted to hear your voice to see if you
- 10:30Speaker 1: had an accent. You did not, if you wonder where
- 10:33Speaker 1: I called. I have just spent the last six months
- 10:35Speaker 1: falling in love with you, well, at least your picture.
- 10:38Speaker 1: I am still dealing with this now unknown person whom
- 10:42Speaker 1: I thought was you, and I'm not sure what to do.
- 10:45Speaker 1: I was ready to spend the rest of my life
- 10:47Speaker 1: with him as soon as he returned from work in
- 10:49Speaker 1: the Buffort Sea. We speak almost daily, including last night.
- 10:54Speaker 1: I find it hard to believe he would have such
- 10:55Speaker 1: sinister intentions. He has such a good heart. I'm shocked
- 10:59Speaker 1: at something like this could even have happened to me.
- 11:01Speaker 1: I am a smart, college educated female and work in
- 11:04Speaker 1: employment law for a major international retailer. I just happened
- 11:07Speaker 1: to do a Google image search with a picture last
- 11:09Speaker 1: night and saw the pictures this man sent me were
- 11:12Speaker 1: also tagged to you. And I must also say I
- 11:15Speaker 1: think you are very handsome, not the flattery you know.
- 11:20Speaker 1: I connected to you on Twitter last night as well.
- 11:22Speaker 1: From what I saw, You've been dealing with silly females
- 11:24Speaker 1: like me for years? What happened? How many people have
- 11:27Speaker 1: used your pictures? Why you? Where are they from? Is
- 11:30Speaker 1: it a group of people or is it many non
- 11:32Speaker 1: connected individuals. Am I dealing with one person? Or is
- 11:35Speaker 1: he one of many working together? He knows my address,
- 11:39Speaker 1: my name, where I work? Is that an issue? Should
- 11:41Speaker 1: I be scared? I truly am in love with him.
- 11:44Speaker 1: He's kind, sensitive, funny, values the same things. He has
- 11:47Speaker 1: a good heart. He makes me smile and I do
- 11:50Speaker 1: not do that a lot. I still find it hard
- 11:53Speaker 1: to believe he is part of this thing. And she
- 11:55Speaker 1: kind of goes on to say, like, you know, any
- 11:58Speaker 1: advice that you have would help? I hope I don't.
- 12:00Speaker 1: I'm crazy. I'm sure you hear this a lot. Blahlah blah.
- 12:02Speaker 1: I mean, it's just like ah, the emotional situation that
- 12:06Speaker 1: this person has found themselves in is horrible.
- 12:09Speaker 2: That's horrible. Yeah, It's like he could just not respond
- 12:13Speaker 2: because he really he played no role in this at all,
- 12:16Speaker 2: but like he's responding to be kind and try to
- 12:20Speaker 2: correct the issue because he hasn't been able to get
- 12:23Speaker 2: all these accounts dealt with. And then you also don't
- 12:27Speaker 2: have answers for that person. And how could you not
- 12:30Speaker 2: be impacted by an email like that, especially when they
- 12:33Speaker 2: come in so often. It's just that's sad. That's sad.
- 12:38Speaker 1: I do.
- 12:39Speaker 2: She's like, why your photo? It's like, well, you just
- 12:42Speaker 2: said you think he's reallysome I know.
- 12:47Speaker 1: It is curious. Why is what I mean? He is good, lucky,
- 12:49Speaker 1: and I'm just like, yeah, I see this guy, We'll
- 12:52Speaker 1: post a picture. Yeah yeah. I don't know if he
- 12:55Speaker 1: is like classically good looking in a way where the
- 12:58Speaker 1: scammer thought this is great. I don't know. But it's
- 13:01Speaker 1: not just romance scams. He also was contacted by a
- 13:04Speaker 1: man in Russia who was sending him legal documents. He
- 13:07Speaker 1: claimed that Alec or someone using Alex Photo, took money
- 13:11Speaker 1: from him for an investment and then disappeared. So now
- 13:13Speaker 1: this guy's like giving back my money, threatening him that
- 13:17Speaker 1: he's going to end up in a jail in Russia,
- 13:18Speaker 1: And it's just like, so the legal implications are difficult
- 13:22Speaker 1: with something like this. Oftentimes nothing is done even after
- 13:25Speaker 1: the discovery that someone has used a photo to scam
- 13:28Speaker 1: someone else. It's also like how do you find out
- 13:31Speaker 1: who the real person is? And then there's this whole
- 13:33Speaker 1: issue of jurisdiction. I think that's really interesting with cases
- 13:37Speaker 1: like this, especially when the scammer might not live in
- 13:40Speaker 1: the US or in Canada, like they might live abroad
- 13:43Speaker 1: in a different country. So then who do you contact?
- 13:46Speaker 1: Whose job is it to track this person down? And
- 13:49Speaker 1: back in the day, I mean sounds like this is
- 13:51Speaker 1: continued on. But back in the day when this started
- 13:53Speaker 1: for him, you weren't facetiming with people, right, Like that
- 13:58Speaker 1: thing video call was that they but it wasn't like
- 14:01Speaker 1: it is now, not like it is now. I feel
- 14:03Speaker 1: like nowadays, if you have really sort of any level
- 14:07Speaker 1: of like online dating savvy, continuing on a long distance
- 14:12Speaker 1: relationship with someone without facetiming would be a big red flag. Yeah,
- 14:18Speaker 1: that's a good point. I wonder if things have changed
- 14:22Speaker 1: for him since you know, everyone is zooming and facetiming.
- 14:27Speaker 1: I wasn't able to find an update, but be interesting
- 14:29Speaker 1: to find out.
- 14:30Speaker 2: Yeah. I wonder if he's also getting hit with those
- 14:32Speaker 2: like deep fakes that are getting better and better, because
- 14:36Speaker 2: that is another concern I would imagine.
- 14:39Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I found an article from July of
- 14:42Speaker 1: twenty twenty five that Facebook removed ten million Facebook profiles
- 14:47Speaker 1: that impersonated other users. Ten million profiles. Wow, just in
- 14:51Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. And part of this is them trying
- 14:54Speaker 1: to combat the use of AI. Now okay, but it's
- 14:57Speaker 1: an ongoing effort, and you know, to wrap it up,
- 14:59Speaker 1: Alec basically has said that, you know, this has taken
- 15:03Speaker 1: a toll on him on his personal life, even though
- 15:07Speaker 1: he has nothing to do with it. He sometimes still
- 15:09Speaker 1: feels guilty that even his photo was used to harm
- 15:13Speaker 1: all these people, and it's emotionally difficult, and he wishes
- 15:17Speaker 1: that he could do something to stop it. But he's
- 15:19Speaker 1: just trying to raise awareness that this is happening.
- 15:21Speaker 2: Wow. Well, I feel like his website is a noble
- 15:24Speaker 2: attempt and probably the most you can ask of someone
- 15:26Speaker 2: in that situation.
- 15:27Speaker 1: Yeah, and we'll put a link to that in the
- 15:29Speaker 1: show notes.
- 15:30Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a wild story and actually reminds me of
- 15:33Speaker 2: a documentary I just watched which is on Hulu and
- 15:36Speaker 2: it's called Hey Beautiful, Anatomy of a Romance Scam, and
- 15:40Speaker 2: it's a very similar situation. A man's likeness is used
- 15:44Speaker 2: by multiple people scamming women who think that they're dating him,
- 15:49Speaker 2: and it really unravels his world.
- 15:53Speaker 1: Wow, that sounds really interesting. I'll give that a watch. Yeah,
- 15:56Speaker 1: well that is my story for today.
- 15:59Speaker 2: Today, I'm going to to tell you a story about
- 16:01Speaker 2: a young woman named Kristin Lewis So I actually met
- 16:05Speaker 2: way back before we first worked together, and I found
- 16:10Speaker 2: Kristin's story on Reddit. I reached out to her through
- 16:12Speaker 2: that Reddit post and asked her if she would tell
- 16:16Speaker 2: her story to me on tape, and cool, I'm excited
- 16:18Speaker 2: to tell you about it. It's you know, Kristin had
- 16:22Speaker 2: her identity stolen. Kristin is from Arizona. She grew up
- 16:26Speaker 2: in a single parent household. She said they didn't have
- 16:29Speaker 2: a lot of money, but it was a really good childhood.
- 16:32Speaker 2: Her mother, you know, supported them and they're close knit family,
- 16:36Speaker 2: but money was always tight. It was always something they
- 16:38Speaker 2: were thinking about. So she started working right away. And
- 16:41Speaker 2: where is she located? Phoenix, Arizona. Okay, she's living in Phoenix.
- 16:44Speaker 2: She gets a job as soon as she turned sixteen,
- 16:46Speaker 2: and she has that job until twenty eleven. And she's
- 16:50Speaker 2: driving to work and she's on the freeway. Traffic is
- 16:53Speaker 2: slowing down. There's some construction up ahead, and so everyone's
- 16:56Speaker 2: coming to like not quite a stop, but you're now
- 16:59Speaker 2: going very slowly. Yeah, and the person behind her doesn't
- 17:03Speaker 2: see that, and I don't know if they're not paying
- 17:06Speaker 2: attention or what happened, But they hit Kristen going about
- 17:08Speaker 2: sixty five miles an hour and she's stopped or going
- 17:13Speaker 2: really slowly. She's going really slowly, she said. She's probably
- 17:16Speaker 2: going less than five miles an hour by the time
- 17:18Speaker 2: they hit her.
- 17:19Speaker 1: And so this is like my nightmare. This sometimes will
- 17:22Speaker 1: happen because in LA you'll be going and then suddenly
- 17:25Speaker 1: it's like stop traffic. And I always worry about that, Like,
- 17:29Speaker 1: I hope people are paying attention because you could turn
- 17:31Speaker 1: a corner and then there's stop traffic.
- 17:34Speaker 2: I know, and or if I'm driving through the hills,
- 17:36Speaker 2: I'm like, if someone's pulled over. Yeah, it's really scary
- 17:40Speaker 2: and it happened, and so she gets hit and her
- 17:43Speaker 2: car she described like the tires were basically flipped inside out,
- 17:47Speaker 2: totally smashed up. She obviously lives, but she's messed up,
- 17:51Speaker 2: you know. Her back is in a lot of pain,
- 17:54Speaker 2: but she's not quite sure what happened, and she goes
- 17:57Speaker 2: to the doctor. Her car is totaled. Of course, she
- 18:00Speaker 2: can no longer work. By this time, she's in her
- 18:02Speaker 2: early twenties, so she's been working at Kohl's this entire time,
- 18:05Speaker 2: having a very steady job. Yeah, and now she's out
- 18:08Speaker 2: of work. She's in immense pain, and they don't have
- 18:12Speaker 2: a lot of resources. So she goes to the doctor.
- 18:15Speaker 2: Eventually is able to get surgery, and that surgery happens
- 18:19Speaker 2: in twenty twelve. And so the surgery to repair the
- 18:24Speaker 2: disc that was her needed disc, I believe, is successful
- 18:27Speaker 2: and she feels a lot better. But she's put on
- 18:30Speaker 2: pain medication, as anyone would be in that situation, and
- 18:36Speaker 2: she eventually develops a reliance on this medication and she's
- 18:41Speaker 2: in very real chronic pain. Even despite the success of
- 18:45Speaker 2: the surgery, the surgery did not alleviate her of all
- 18:48Speaker 2: chronic pain, but it did help a lot.
- 18:50Speaker 1: Right, So she's still dealing with all of this pain
- 18:53Speaker 1: in her back.
- 18:54Speaker 2: Yeah, so she's dealing with chronic pain. She's becoming reliant
- 18:57Speaker 2: on this medication. The doctor's not monitoring it very closely.
- 19:02Speaker 2: And this is the tale as old as time, like,
- 19:03Speaker 2: totally not unique to Kristin. These medications are highly addictive,
- 19:08Speaker 2: and you know, if someone's living with chronic pain, who's
- 19:10Speaker 2: to say they shouldn't have access to them. But it's
- 19:12Speaker 2: a very careful line. And so Kristin is now also
- 19:17Speaker 2: out of work. Gosh, you know, it's like, what kind
- 19:21Speaker 2: of job can you do if you're in incredible chronic
- 19:24Speaker 2: back pain.
- 19:25Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so sad to hear about that, Like having
- 19:28Speaker 1: an incident like that happen and then suddenly so much
- 19:31Speaker 1: in her life has changed because of this physical pain
- 19:37Speaker 1: that she's dealing with that's now sounds like causing her
- 19:39Speaker 1: not be able to work and then sort of creating
- 19:42Speaker 1: this addiction situation. It's horrible.
- 19:45Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, even in Kristin's modest home life, she
- 19:49Speaker 2: still had the benefit of one parent who could you know,
- 19:53Speaker 2: she could live with them? And this is the ripple
- 19:56Speaker 2: effect of bad luck. If you don't have money, yeah,
- 20:00Speaker 2: and so, you know, her life gets a little tricky
- 20:03Speaker 2: and she's looking for ways to make money because she
- 20:05Speaker 2: cannot work. And so she decides, Okay, I'm going to
- 20:08Speaker 2: go around my house and if I'm not using it,
- 20:10Speaker 2: I'm going to see if i can sell it, you
- 20:12Speaker 2: know online.
- 20:13Speaker 1: Maybe. Yeah.
- 20:14Speaker 2: She finds some stuff and she lists it, and immediately
- 20:17Speaker 2: someone reaches out about one of the items. It's just
- 20:19Speaker 2: a household items. She didn't even recall what it was. Okay,
- 20:22Speaker 2: and she knows this person, so she's like, well, great,
- 20:24Speaker 2: I'll just meet you at this gas station by my house. Awesome.
- 20:28Speaker 2: So she heads over there and he just hops in
- 20:30Speaker 2: the car with her because they're kind of acquainted, and
- 20:33Speaker 2: she feels totally comfortable with that, and he purchases this
- 20:37Speaker 2: item and they chat for a minute. He gets out
- 20:40Speaker 2: of the car, she goes home. Okay, when she gets home,
- 20:44Speaker 2: she gets that feeling that most women have had at
- 20:47Speaker 2: least once in their life, when your stomach drops and
- 20:49Speaker 2: you realize.
- 20:50Speaker 1: I don't know where my purse is. Oh gosh, the worst. Yeah,
- 20:54Speaker 1: that's such a bad feeling.
- 20:55Speaker 2: The worst feeling. And she had been actively looking for
- 20:58Speaker 2: work for you know, many months, and so she's got
- 21:01Speaker 2: all of these identification documents in her purse because she's
- 21:06Speaker 2: filling out applications, and I mean it makes you think,
- 21:09Speaker 2: like these job applications ask for so much information before
- 21:14Speaker 2: they even ever meet with you, let alone hire you.
- 21:16Speaker 1: Yeah, like your social Security number.
- 21:18Speaker 2: I know. I'm like, is it so necessary? So she
- 21:22Speaker 2: realizes her purse is missing. She calls the gas station.
- 21:24Speaker 2: She's like, but I don't think I went in, but
- 21:27Speaker 2: what happened here? And I'm assuming she's like searching her car.
- 21:29Speaker 2: It's not in the car. Yeah, it's not in the car.
- 21:32Speaker 2: She luckily had her phone in her pocket. Okay, so
- 21:35Speaker 2: she had her cell phone, but her purse is gone,
- 21:37Speaker 2: and she was, you know, to add insult to injury.
- 21:41Speaker 2: This happens in like January, So now we're in twenty fifteen,
- 21:46Speaker 2: so it's a few years past her accident. We're in
- 21:48Speaker 2: early early twenty fifteen. She's been out of work, but
- 21:52Speaker 2: she got a few gift cards for Christmas and they
- 21:54Speaker 2: were in her purse. So it's just like horrible, terrible, Yeah,
- 21:59Speaker 2: and so what did she think happened to the purse? Well,
- 22:02Speaker 2: she then starts assuming this person took it.
- 22:04Speaker 1: The person who she met up with to sell like
- 22:07Speaker 1: whatever she was selling that she knew, she thinks then
- 22:10Speaker 1: took her purse.
- 22:12Speaker 2: Yes, so Kristin thinks that this guy took her purse
- 22:15Speaker 2: because she remembers her purse being on the passenger's side
- 22:19Speaker 2: floor of her car. He was sitting in her passenger
- 22:21Speaker 2: seat and when he got out, it was gone. But
- 22:24Speaker 2: she also knows that this guy is kind of a
- 22:26Speaker 2: sketchy character, and so in my speaking with Kristin, she
- 22:31Speaker 2: was super transparent about her struggle with addiction that really
- 22:35Speaker 2: started when she was prescribed painkillers by a doctor after
- 22:38Speaker 2: this terrible car accident. But she had been trying really
- 22:42Speaker 2: hard to overcome this still, you know, it's not easy,
- 22:46Speaker 2: and it did at times put her in questionable situations
- 22:50Speaker 2: with people who, you know, maybe aren't always living life
- 22:54Speaker 2: on the straight and narrow. And that is how this
- 22:57Speaker 2: person came into her world. So confident that this is
- 23:01Speaker 2: the person who took her purse, and she knows she's
- 23:03Speaker 2: not going to call him and say do you have it?
- 23:06Speaker 2: Can you give it back? She knows it's gone, and
- 23:16Speaker 2: so what do you do? You go on with your life.
- 23:18Speaker 2: She applies to get a new license and continues applying
- 23:21Speaker 2: for jobs and she ends up meeting someone. So later
- 23:26Speaker 2: that year she meets a guy and they start dating.
- 23:29Speaker 2: And now in twenty sixteen, they're out shopping in Phoenix
- 23:34Speaker 2: and they go to this place called Zia Records. Okay,
- 23:37Speaker 2: it's this sort of by sell trade record shop. Kristen
- 23:43Speaker 2: loves it. She's been going, she said, her whole life.
- 23:45Speaker 2: And yeah, and so she would sell them things and
- 23:48Speaker 2: collect points and so she had a bunch of points
- 23:50Speaker 2: racked up and she was excited to use them on
- 23:53Speaker 2: something once she found something she wanted. So she's there
- 23:57Speaker 2: with this new ish boyfriend and she up to the
- 24:00Speaker 2: counter and she gives him her license or this is
- 24:03Speaker 2: her new license, right. She's like, I have points here
- 24:06Speaker 2: that I want to use to purchase this. And he's like,
- 24:09Speaker 2: you're not even allowed in here. You were banned for shoplifting,
- 24:12Speaker 2: Like you have to go, and she's like, I've never
- 24:16Speaker 2: shoplifted from here. I've been coming here my whole life.
- 24:19Speaker 2: I don't shoplift. Yeah, and this new guy that she's
- 24:23Speaker 2: dating is right there, and so it's horrible or embarrassing,
- 24:27Speaker 2: so embarrassing, and so they go out of the store
- 24:30Speaker 2: she's you know, embarrassed and sort of like, I don't know,
- 24:34Speaker 2: it's unsettling, like why did he just say that about me?
- 24:38Speaker 2: Her new boyfriend believes her immediately, which is a relief,
- 24:42Speaker 2: and he's like, well, why did this happen? And she's like,
- 24:45Speaker 2: you know, my purse was stolen and I just have
- 24:48Speaker 2: a feeling it's related to that because I had my
- 24:52Speaker 2: ID in there. And he's like okay. So they're on
- 24:54Speaker 2: the same page about it, and so about another year
- 24:58Speaker 2: goes by, So now we're in twenty sixteen.
- 25:01Speaker 1: Did she like try to report this or I don't
- 25:04Speaker 1: know what she would have done.
- 25:06Speaker 2: She reported it at one point, but I don't even
- 25:08Speaker 2: know that anything was officially like filed. She wasn't really
- 25:11Speaker 2: sure what to do. And so about another year goes
- 25:14Speaker 2: by and Kristin's at home with her mom, and her
- 25:19Speaker 2: mom comes into the room and is like, I just
- 25:21Speaker 2: got a really strange call from your uncle who says
- 25:25Speaker 2: that there's a warrant out for your arrest. So Kristin
- 25:28Speaker 2: is stunned by this and very confused. So she and
- 25:33Speaker 2: her mom dig into the Maricopa County Court Wreckers to
- 25:36Speaker 2: try and find more information about this warrant and the
- 25:39Speaker 2: charges for this warrant are related to intent to sell
- 25:43Speaker 2: drug paraphernalia. Kristin, despite her struggle with an addiction to painkillers,
- 25:49Speaker 2: knows that she has never sold drugs and she has
- 25:52Speaker 2: never sold drug paraphernalia.
- 25:54Speaker 1: She never tried to.
- 25:55Speaker 2: She knows this is not her, but her name is
- 25:58Speaker 2: on this warrant. So she's pretty quickly starting to connect
- 26:01Speaker 2: that this has to be related to the person who
- 26:05Speaker 2: took her purse. She's also calling back to this experience
- 26:09Speaker 2: at the record shop where she's accused of shoplifting, but
- 26:12Speaker 2: she's never shoplifted. She's actually had points there she could
- 26:15Speaker 2: have used that she was really excited about and that,
- 26:18Speaker 2: you know. She's also pretty convinced that this has something
- 26:22Speaker 2: to do with her purse having been stolen, and she's
- 26:25Speaker 2: piecing all of that together and she's like, this is
- 26:28Speaker 2: not me. And so she is like, well, what do
- 26:32Speaker 2: I do about this? They can't walk into a police
- 26:35Speaker 2: station and say there's a warrant from my arrest and
- 26:38Speaker 2: then try to explain the situation.
- 26:41Speaker 1: So what other information did she get? It was there
- 26:44Speaker 1: a picture? There was no picture, It was just text.
- 26:49Speaker 1: And so she's like, well, I know this isn't me.
- 26:51Speaker 2: I have a feeling this is again related to the
- 26:54Speaker 2: ZEA records shoplifting thing. Yeah, like probably the same person
- 27:00Speaker 2: who who? Yeah, because the person who was in her
- 27:03Speaker 2: car at the gas station.
- 27:04Speaker 1: Was a man, so probably he's not using her ID. Yeah.
- 27:08Speaker 2: And so she's like, well, I didn't know what to do.
- 27:10Speaker 2: We don't have the money to hire an attorney, and
- 27:13Speaker 2: I can't walk into a police station and be arrested.
- 27:15Speaker 2: I need to find work.
- 27:16Speaker 1: Because if she walked into a police station to try
- 27:18Speaker 1: to figure this out and say this isn't me, my
- 27:21Speaker 1: purse was stolen, like, probably she would just be arrested. Yeah,
- 27:26Speaker 1: without an attorney to be like I'm going to assert
- 27:28Speaker 1: this person's rights and fight this really strongly, they would
- 27:32Speaker 1: just arrest her because you know, I'm sure a lot
- 27:35Speaker 1: of people say it wasn't me.
- 27:38Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, and she knew that, and so she just
- 27:41Speaker 2: waited and ash, what a horrible position to be in. Yeah,
- 27:44Speaker 2: just so much anxiety. You know, she said, this happens,
- 27:47Speaker 2: and then another year goes by, so she's you know,
- 27:50Speaker 2: for a year, she just I think it was she
- 27:52Speaker 2: was almost a year. I think it was like ten months,
- 27:55Speaker 2: but she said, I was just looking over my shoulder.
- 27:57Speaker 2: I knew it was a waiting game, but I needed
- 28:00Speaker 2: to try to work. I needed to make money. I
- 28:02Speaker 2: didn't have money for a lawyer. Like what was I
- 28:04Speaker 2: supposed to do? And so in twenty seventeen, Kristen is
- 28:08Speaker 2: at the grocery store and she walks out to her
- 28:12Speaker 2: car with a small bag of groceries and she sees
- 28:14Speaker 2: that there's a cop in the parking lot and she
- 28:17Speaker 2: said that she just knew this was the moment she
- 28:20Speaker 2: would be arrested. And she's been replaying this scenario in
- 28:25Speaker 2: her head for upwards of a year, like what am
- 28:28Speaker 2: I going to say when this happens. I'm going to
- 28:31Speaker 2: go to jail. I've never been to jail. That's so scary.
- 28:34Speaker 2: And the cop comes up to he says, are you
- 28:35Speaker 2: Kristin Lewis And she says, yes, I know you have
- 28:38Speaker 2: a warrant for my arrest. It's not me. I can
- 28:40Speaker 2: tell you what happened. And the cop listens and believes her,
- 28:46Speaker 2: and so he's like, well, I do I do have
- 28:48Speaker 2: to now take you to jail because this is you
- 28:51Speaker 2: and I do have this warrant, But I think you're
- 28:54Speaker 2: telling the truth. And so what I can do for
- 28:57Speaker 2: you is I can take you home in my life car,
- 29:00Speaker 2: in his cop car so that you can give your
- 29:03Speaker 2: mom your car keys so that it won't be impounded,
- 29:06Speaker 2: and you can put your groceries away.
- 29:07Speaker 1: So how did this cup find her?
- 29:10Speaker 2: So? Yeah, she said that he was running plates. He said,
- 29:13Speaker 2: I was running plates in the parking lot, which you're
- 29:15Speaker 2: not supposed to do. You're just sitting there running people's plates.
- 29:18Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, Because it's not like she was some high
- 29:22Speaker 1: level threat where they were out to find her. It
- 29:25Speaker 1: was kind of like she's living her life for a
- 29:28Speaker 1: year hoping that she doesn't get pulled over for something random,
- 29:32Speaker 1: or her license isn't run to where someone would realize
- 29:36Speaker 1: that she has a warrant. Yeah. Right, and then she's
- 29:39Speaker 1: just going to the grocery store in seventh and they
- 29:41Speaker 1: run her plates.
- 29:42Speaker 2: Okay wow Yeah, And she was terrified, and so he
- 29:47Speaker 2: takes her to jail and it's really just a holding cell.
- 29:50Speaker 2: It's like a smaller office, and puts her in a
- 29:54Speaker 2: holding cell, as if her luck cannot get any worse.
- 29:57Speaker 2: She's sitting in this holding cell and she looks through
- 30:00Speaker 2: like the great like the drain and the floor, and
- 30:02Speaker 2: she sees a bag of pills. Oh god, and she's like, Okay,
- 30:05Speaker 2: someone discarded this. Now what do I do? Do I
- 30:08Speaker 2: tell them, hey, there's a bag of pills in here.
- 30:10Speaker 2: It's not mine. No, I wouldn't say anything. Well she did,
- 30:14Speaker 2: really yeah. She was like, I mean and look, I
- 30:17Speaker 2: guess you got to just make a judgment call in
- 30:18Speaker 2: that moment.
- 30:19Speaker 1: But it's terrible. And so she because she was worried
- 30:21Speaker 1: they would think it was hers or something.
- 30:23Speaker 2: She was worried if they came in and found it,
- 30:25Speaker 2: they would say did you do this? And so I
- 30:27Speaker 2: think at that point they were just like whatever, and
- 30:29Speaker 2: they just kind of heard her and took her word
- 30:32Speaker 2: for it, because at that point she's already arrested, so
- 30:36Speaker 2: it's not over. Then she's taken to what she called
- 30:39Speaker 2: like the real jail. This is downtown Phoenix. She's put
- 30:43Speaker 2: on a bus with these other people. They're all handcuffed.
- 30:46Speaker 2: She's taken to the downtown jail, put in another cell
- 30:50Speaker 2: with a bunch of people. And so I think about
- 30:53Speaker 2: eighteen hours past, and mind you that during that time,
- 30:57Speaker 2: she doesn't have her phone or any thing she's just
- 31:00Speaker 2: sitting there.
- 31:01Speaker 1: But like, to find yourself in that situation like she did,
- 31:04Speaker 1: where you literally didn't do anything wrong and then you're now,
- 31:09Speaker 1: you know, having to go through the system and for
- 31:12Speaker 1: the state to think that you have a felony drug
- 31:15Speaker 1: charge when you don't.
- 31:16Speaker 2: Right, and they're not going to listen to you. So
- 31:18Speaker 2: now you have a public defender. So she goes and
- 31:21Speaker 2: gets in front of the judge. He lifts off these charges.
- 31:24Speaker 2: There are multiple felony charges, all related to possession of drugs.
- 31:28Speaker 2: And she's like, I'm not even going to bother telling
- 31:32Speaker 2: this judge right now. This isn't me. I don't want
- 31:34Speaker 2: to anger him. I'm just gonna like stand there and
- 31:37Speaker 2: say okay, thank you, okay, thank you, you know whatever.
- 31:40Speaker 2: And so he just lets her go. So she's let
- 31:44Speaker 2: out of jail. There's no bail or anything. He's like,
- 31:47Speaker 2: this is your court date. You're going to get a
- 31:48Speaker 2: public defender and then you're going to have a court
- 31:50Speaker 2: date for these charges. So she just walks out of
- 31:54Speaker 2: jail and downtown Phoenix. So Kristen calls her mom, gets
- 31:58Speaker 2: picked up, and now this whole other process starts of
- 32:03Speaker 2: she's got to fight these charges, yeah, because they don't
- 32:06Speaker 2: belong to her, and she's got to do it with
- 32:07Speaker 2: the public defender.
- 32:08Speaker 1: And even though she has struggled with like trying to
- 32:11Speaker 1: get off these painkillers, like she's like living a life,
- 32:14Speaker 1: she's trying to work. She has sounds like a boyfriend,
- 32:17Speaker 1: like she's holding down this relationship she has, is on
- 32:19Speaker 1: good terms with her mom, and she knows she's never
- 32:23Speaker 1: been arrested for any of this, but now she has
- 32:26Speaker 1: to try to prove that I guess.
- 32:28Speaker 2: Yeah, And so it feels like her luck is starting
- 32:32Speaker 2: to turn. And she gets this female public defender who
- 32:35Speaker 2: sits down with her, listens to her story, believes her,
- 32:38Speaker 2: and is like, okay, great, we're going to fight this.
- 32:41Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 32:41Speaker 2: She's like, thank god, like someone cares. I've now, you know,
- 32:46Speaker 2: been picked up by a cop who was running plates,
- 32:49Speaker 2: taken to jail, sat there without my phone, anyone to
- 32:52Speaker 2: contact my family for eighteen hours in this small cell.
- 32:55Speaker 2: And now here's this person who's gonna help me and
- 32:59Speaker 2: if really lucky. And then within a couple of weeks,
- 33:03Speaker 2: this woman says, you know, they are going to reassign
- 33:06Speaker 2: me to a different case and get you someone new
- 33:08Speaker 2: because there's a conflict of.
- 33:09Speaker 1: Interest here, Oh gosh.
- 33:12Speaker 2: And so Kristen's like, Okay, she's bummed, but she's hopeful
- 33:16Speaker 2: because this public defender listened to her, heard her story,
- 33:19Speaker 2: wanted to help get rid of these charges. So her
- 33:22Speaker 2: next public defender, who she refers to as Tyler. That
- 33:25Speaker 2: was his first name, you know, not his full name.
- 33:28Speaker 2: He is the complete opposite. She meets him for the
- 33:32Speaker 2: first time when they go in front of a judge
- 33:35Speaker 2: and he does not so much as introduce himself. It's
- 33:37Speaker 2: just like a hearing where it's like, here are the charges,
- 33:41Speaker 2: you know, how do you plead not guilty? And then
- 33:45Speaker 2: Tyler says to her, you need to just plead guilty
- 33:47Speaker 2: and they'll give you a year. And she's like, take
- 33:50Speaker 2: a year in jail for this, like these are not
- 33:52Speaker 2: my charges. And so she's like chasing him down the
- 33:56Speaker 2: courtroom hallway, is trying to get him to listen to
- 33:58Speaker 2: her story. He just has no interest in listening to her,
- 34:01Speaker 2: not at all. Will barely respond to an email. It's
- 34:04Speaker 2: a nightmare and so so horrible, so horrible. So she's
- 34:09Speaker 2: now like, Okay, this guy is awful. I'm gonna have
- 34:12Speaker 2: to do my own investigation to prove my innocence. So
- 34:18Speaker 2: she gets the police report and finds out that this
- 34:22Speaker 2: person who identifies themselves as Kristen, they were arrested in
- 34:25Speaker 2: a casino parking lot. They were in their car, they
- 34:29Speaker 2: were not doing well. A security guard comes up to them,
- 34:32Speaker 2: sees the arrest happening, and this person says they're having
- 34:35Speaker 2: a medical emergency. It's a woman, a young woman. And
- 34:38Speaker 2: so when this person is arrested and tells the cop,
- 34:42Speaker 2: I'm having a medical emergency, she's then taken to a hospital.
- 34:47Speaker 2: So Kristen sees this in the police report and she's like, well,
- 34:49Speaker 2: these medical records are all going to be under my name.
- 34:53Speaker 2: This person has identified themselves as me, and.
- 34:56Speaker 1: Wow, good thinking.
- 34:57Speaker 2: Yeah, so she goes to the hospital.
- 35:00Speaker 1: You can't just I mean, people know this, but you
- 35:01Speaker 1: can't just like call and get someone else's medical records
- 35:04Speaker 1: because of hippa, right, you cannot be good Yeah, but.
- 35:07Speaker 2: I mean if I were Kristin, I would have done
- 35:09Speaker 2: the same thing.
- 35:09Speaker 1: But it's this other person. So she's saying, this other
- 35:12Speaker 1: person was arrested and sent to a hospital, but had
- 35:17Speaker 1: maybe given her idea or something, so that all of
- 35:21Speaker 1: that would have been listed under Kristen's name, right.
- 35:23Speaker 2: So along with the police report, Kristen is then given
- 35:26Speaker 2: bodycam footage of this woman at the hospital being questioned
- 35:30Speaker 2: by police, and so she's looking at this woman and
- 35:32Speaker 2: she's like, I recognize her. Her name is Courtney. Courtney
- 35:37Speaker 2: is a friend of the man who got into Kristen's.
- 35:38Speaker 1: Car that day. Wow.
- 35:41Speaker 2: Yeah, And Courtney has a record for drug charges. This
- 35:45Speaker 2: is something that she has done before. And so it's
- 35:48Speaker 2: a thirty seven minute bodycam video on the bodycam facing Courtney,
- 35:54Speaker 2: who we now know to be Courtney, and Kristen's like,
- 35:58Speaker 2: this is irref you evidence. I am not her, she
- 36:02Speaker 2: is not me. She just gave them my identification. I
- 36:04Speaker 2: can connect the dots of like how she even came
- 36:07Speaker 2: to be in possession of it.
- 36:08Speaker 1: This feels a huge discovery. Huge.
- 36:11Speaker 2: Also, she's looking through all these medical records. You know,
- 36:13Speaker 2: she's had this massive spine surgery, right she has, So
- 36:17Speaker 2: there's differences in all of their medical records. This person,
- 36:21Speaker 2: Courtney list's allergies that Kristin doesn't have, Like she doesn't
- 36:24Speaker 2: have the same spyin X ray that Kristin would have.
- 36:27Speaker 2: It's just everything is different, and so Kristin takes all
- 36:31Speaker 2: of these medical records and other evidence of witnesses to
- 36:35Speaker 2: her attorney. He says, I'm not going to look at it,
- 36:38Speaker 2: and neither is the judge. You just need to plead.
- 36:41Speaker 2: And by the way, he says, more charges are imminent.
- 36:45Speaker 2: So this person has continued using her ID, getting more
- 36:49Speaker 2: charges and he doesn't care. He doesn't even open the folder,
- 36:52Speaker 2: he doesn't take one second to even try to see
- 36:55Speaker 2: if she's telling the truth. And so she's like, I'm
- 37:00Speaker 2: not going to jail for a year. These are not
- 37:02Speaker 2: my charges.
- 37:03Speaker 1: Yeah, sort of lucky that she, I mean, it makes sense,
- 37:07Speaker 1: but that she sees the camera footage and she knows
- 37:11Speaker 1: this person or recognizes that she's met this person before
- 37:15Speaker 1: versus a random stranger. But that confirms that that original
- 37:22Speaker 1: person who she met in her car took her purse
- 37:26Speaker 1: and probably somehow gave Courtney her ID. I guess, yeah.
- 37:30Speaker 2: And so seven months and nine court dates go by.
- 37:35Speaker 2: So this is like all consuming for her. You know,
- 37:38Speaker 2: she's looking at a year in jail with a public
- 37:40Speaker 2: defender who could care less. Yeah, and so she's completely lost.
- 37:45Speaker 2: The final time she sees this man in the hallway.
- 37:48Speaker 2: She is so frustrated. She's there with her mom. They
- 37:51Speaker 2: don't have the money to hire an attorney. But she
- 37:53Speaker 2: just gets so fired up. She's like, you're fired. I'm
- 37:56Speaker 2: going to find an attorney. And she said he laughed
- 37:58Speaker 2: in her face and he was good luck. And that
- 38:01Speaker 2: is just like so callous. He truly did not care.
- 38:06Speaker 2: She's like, in that moment, it went from this adrenaline
- 38:09Speaker 2: rush of like I've had enough, I'm gonna do something
- 38:12Speaker 2: about it, to realizing, like, my family doesn't have the
- 38:15Speaker 2: money to hire an attorney, and now this man who
- 38:17Speaker 2: didn't like me before likes me even less. Like it's
- 38:21Speaker 2: just dismal. And so her brother sets up a gofund
- 38:25Speaker 2: me and in his GoFundMe he details the entire situation.
- 38:31Speaker 2: He says, my sister's life has been turned upside down
- 38:34Speaker 2: by an impostor who has stolen her identity, using her
- 38:37Speaker 2: ID and personal information. They stole her purse. This has
- 38:40Speaker 2: caused her problems, mixed up medical records, ambulance bills, finding
- 38:44Speaker 2: her name blacklisted at certain shops that this person has
- 38:47Speaker 2: stolen from. That's another thing. All of these medical bills
- 38:50Speaker 2: from the hospital were getting directed to Kristen, Oh, the
- 38:53Speaker 2: ambulance bills, and so she's already not making money, didn't
- 38:57Speaker 2: have a lot to begin with.
- 38:58Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's like a snowball effect worse for her.
- 39:04Speaker 1: M Oh, that's horrible. It's horrible.
- 39:06Speaker 2: And so her friends they're able to raise a little
- 39:10Speaker 2: bit of money, but it's not enough. She does, however,
- 39:14Speaker 2: have a friend who's a professional skateboarder, and he sees
- 39:16Speaker 2: that this is happening to her and he gives her
- 39:19Speaker 2: the remainder of the money that she needs to hire
- 39:22Speaker 2: a real attorney, and y'all shout him out. His name
- 39:26Speaker 2: is Aaron Hamoki. His nickname is Jaws. Jaws, Jaws, Yeah,
- 39:30Speaker 2: I have it. They grew up in the same circle.
- 39:32Speaker 2: And so he comes through and helps Kristin and she
- 39:35Speaker 2: gets this real attorney. Thanks Jazz, Thanks Jaws. So Kristin
- 39:40Speaker 2: is able to hire an attorney named Carrie Lackey, who
- 39:43Speaker 2: actually corresponded with to verify, you know, we fact check
- 39:46Speaker 2: everything totally Kristin's story, and he said it's absolutely true.
- 39:50Speaker 2: He said that she came to him, she was able
- 39:52Speaker 2: to pay his fee, and he took one look at
- 39:55Speaker 2: her case and all of the evidence she herself had collected,
- 40:00Speaker 2: and he was able to get it dismissed in two weeks.
- 40:03Speaker 2: Kristin never even had to go back into court with him.
- 40:07Speaker 1: Wow. And one of the most disturbing details of all
- 40:12Speaker 1: of this is that the security guard that was present
- 40:15Speaker 1: at the casino that witnessed this arrest of this person
- 40:18Speaker 1: who was impersonating Kristin, who we later found out is Courtney,
- 40:23Speaker 1: who we later find out is Courtney. He did appear
- 40:26Speaker 1: at one of Kristen's court hearings and he pointed to
- 40:29Speaker 1: her and said, yes, that's her, that's the woman from
- 40:32Speaker 1: the parking lot. And this really like solidified to any
- 40:37Speaker 1: skeptics of the fact that she was telling the truth, like, yeah,
- 40:40Speaker 1: it's her.
- 40:40Speaker 2: Don't believe her story. She's guilty, and she was there,
- 40:44Speaker 2: that's her. So this was really working against her. And
- 40:47Speaker 2: then that security guard, I don't know why, if he
- 40:50Speaker 2: just like had a guilty conscience or if he realized
- 40:53Speaker 2: he was wrong, but he later called the court, called
- 40:57Speaker 2: the prosecutor's office or her defense attorney. He didn't contact
- 41:00Speaker 2: with someone. It's on her record and said, I got
- 41:03Speaker 2: it wrong, that was not her. I got it wrong.
- 41:07Speaker 1: Wow.
- 41:07Speaker 2: And so he, I don't know what the right word is,
- 41:10Speaker 2: recanted that statement that he had seen Kristin and she
- 41:14Speaker 2: was never told that her defense attorney had that information,
- 41:17Speaker 2: the public defender, and he never told her that terrible, terrible,
- 41:22Speaker 2: He straight up didn't care. And so Kristen's charges were dismissed.
- 41:28Speaker 2: But Courtney Johnson, who took her ID and used it,
- 41:33Speaker 2: has never been charged with any crimes related to stealing
- 41:36Speaker 2: Kristen's identity and just you know, continued to use her
- 41:43Speaker 2: ID at certain points. Yeah, but Kristin now she hasn't
- 41:47Speaker 2: had any further charges on her record, but they were
- 41:49Speaker 2: never able to like go and take the ID from Courtney.
- 41:53Speaker 2: It's still out in the world. And so this is
- 41:55Speaker 2: just something that she now has to really just watch
- 41:58Speaker 2: all the time. Is just now ending for her. Wow,
- 42:01Speaker 2: what about like the hospital bills? Was she able to
- 42:05Speaker 2: get those sort of you know, I don't know how
- 42:07Speaker 2: that ended. I know she didn't pay them because she
- 42:09Speaker 2: didn't have any money to pay them, but I think
- 42:11Speaker 2: she did tell the hospital this is what's going on,
- 42:15Speaker 2: So maybe someone there listen to her. But I do
- 42:17Speaker 2: also want to say, Kristen is today doing great good? Yeah,
- 42:21Speaker 2: she's still with the boyfriend right see your records. I
- 42:24Speaker 2: believed her right away, which I love, and she used
- 42:27Speaker 2: in chronic pain, but she's no longer suffering from addiction
- 42:30Speaker 2: and oh good, she's just a very warm, resilient person.
- 42:36Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, it's so good to hear. I mean, wow,
- 42:39Speaker 1: she went through a lot.
- 42:41Speaker 2: She went through so much.
- 42:42Speaker 1: I mean even before the identity theft, she went through
- 42:45Speaker 1: a lot. Identity theft is so tricky, Like, I'm so
- 42:50Speaker 1: glad that she got a good attorney who was able
- 42:54Speaker 1: to get these charges dismissed. But it still begs the
- 42:59Speaker 1: question what are you supposed to do? How do you
- 43:03Speaker 1: avoid this? And the fact that Courtney was still using
- 43:05Speaker 1: her idea after all this happened. It's like, what are
- 43:08Speaker 1: you supposed to do if you find yourself in this situation? Obviously,
- 43:11Speaker 1: get a good attorney if you can afford that, or
- 43:13Speaker 1: if you have someone like Jaws in your life. But
- 43:15Speaker 1: so grateful that Kristen was able to do that, But like,
- 43:18Speaker 1: what are the steps that you're supposed to take? Do
- 43:20Speaker 1: you know? Yeah?
- 43:22Speaker 2: Well, so I've since looked into it, and basically, if
- 43:25Speaker 2: your person stolen, if your identification is stolen. You can
- 43:29Speaker 2: report your license as lost, or you can report it
- 43:31Speaker 2: as stolen. You should report it as stolen, yeah, because
- 43:34Speaker 2: that flags it. So that would give you something to
- 43:36Speaker 2: point back to if say, someone did use it nefariously gotcha.
- 43:41Speaker 1: So I ideally was that like, let's say someone steals
- 43:45Speaker 1: your person and your licenses in it, and then they
- 43:47Speaker 1: try to use that if they're pulled over or they're
- 43:50Speaker 1: getting arrested, if you've reported it as stolen, will that
- 43:53Speaker 1: like pop up in a system?
- 43:54Speaker 2: I think it will because I think it changes the
- 43:57Speaker 2: number on your license.
- 43:58Speaker 1: It's like interesting, it'll give you a new number. I
- 44:01Speaker 1: think that's how it works. But it will at least.
- 44:04Speaker 2: Be cataloged somewhere where your attorney, your public defender hopefully
- 44:08Speaker 2: if they care, Yeah, can look and say, oh, yeah,
- 44:11Speaker 2: you did have your license doolen a year ago and
- 44:13Speaker 2: this did happen.
- 44:14Speaker 1: Right, So if it's on record that this is the
- 44:16Speaker 1: date it was stolen, that you flagged it as stolen,
- 44:19Speaker 1: and then two months later someone uses it when they're arrested,
- 44:23Speaker 1: you can prove that more easily in court. Yeah.
- 44:25Speaker 2: Absolutely, And you know you can also put like if
- 44:28Speaker 2: your credit cards are in there, you can freeze your
- 44:31Speaker 2: credit so that the banks, if someone's trying to apply
- 44:34Speaker 2: for a loan in your name, you can go to
- 44:36Speaker 2: some place like TransUnion and freeze your credit or experience
- 44:38Speaker 2: frase your credit, no free ads, and that way, if
- 44:43Speaker 2: someone tries to take out a loan in your name,
- 44:45Speaker 2: the bank has to go through extra measures. Just make
- 44:47Speaker 2: sure it's you. Yeah, and I've since done that. And
- 44:51Speaker 2: you know, I actually a couple months ago had my
- 44:54Speaker 2: purse in the bottom of my stroller and it fell
- 44:56Speaker 2: out at a park and I got lucky. Someone turned
- 45:00Speaker 2: it in actually to the police station. It's so nice,
- 45:03Speaker 2: so nice. This happened on a Friday, and I thought
- 45:06Speaker 2: there's no way someone turned it in. Maybe I'm just pessimistic,
- 45:09Speaker 2: but I reported my license stolen right away, froze all
- 45:12Speaker 2: my cards. Actually what happened is I was able to
- 45:16Speaker 2: go get my purse. I can't remember if it was
- 45:19Speaker 2: like the following Monday. I think it was a Monday,
- 45:22Speaker 2: because we had work and I had to go to
- 45:24Speaker 2: the police station and get my purse. And then the
- 45:27Speaker 2: cash that was in my purse hadn't been like processed yet,
- 45:30Speaker 2: and so they were like, but you can't get your
- 45:33Speaker 2: cash today. And I was just thinking, like, okay, what
- 45:38Speaker 2: and I think it was like fifty bucks or something.
- 45:40Speaker 2: But you know, I'm self employed, like I have flexibility.
- 45:43Speaker 2: It's not like it's easy to just take all this
- 45:45Speaker 2: time to go somewhere and do something the middle of
- 45:47Speaker 2: a work day. But I do have the option. And
- 45:51Speaker 2: you know, what if you didn't. What if you're Kristen
- 45:52Speaker 2: and you're busy and you're looking for work and you
- 45:54Speaker 2: need that cash, Like it's I don't know, I wish
- 45:57Speaker 2: they had a different process for that. Was felt really
- 45:59Speaker 2: like someone turned my person in. But I thought about
- 46:03Speaker 2: how you know, my keys were in there and I
- 46:05Speaker 2: had to wait the whole weekend. Like I happened to
- 46:08Speaker 2: be married and my spouse can let me into the house,
- 46:11Speaker 2: but like what if. Yeah, so not a perfect process
- 46:14Speaker 2: for that either, But I was lucky someone turned it in.
- 46:18Speaker 1: Yeah. Listening to you tell that story, it made me
- 46:21Speaker 1: think about that documentary. I just looked up the name
- 46:24Speaker 1: of it, Fanatical The cat Fishing of Tegan and Sarah.
- 46:28Speaker 2: Oh yes, yeah.
- 46:29Speaker 1: It came out like, I don't know a few months
- 46:30Speaker 1: ago or something. I thought it was so good. It
- 46:33Speaker 1: was it was so good, and I guess it's it's
- 46:36Speaker 1: different because it's about cat fishing, but it also involves
- 46:41Speaker 1: stolen identity. Tegan and Sarah are pop duo. They're twins,
- 46:47Speaker 1: and they got really huge in like the late nineties
- 46:51Speaker 1: early two thousands and had this like huge online following,
- 46:55Speaker 1: and then Teagan her identity was stolen, and the documentary
- 46:59Speaker 1: go into all the specifics of it. There's like a
- 47:02Speaker 1: whole cat fishing element that's like very creepy, but they
- 47:06Speaker 1: talk about the logistical nightmare of having your identity stolen,
- 47:11Speaker 1: and then it was like causing all these issues with
- 47:14Speaker 1: everyday things that you have to do, coupled with them
- 47:19Speaker 1: trying to do things like play shows and go on
- 47:21Speaker 1: a tour, rent a car or something like that, and
- 47:24Speaker 1: how it really can like immobilize you and not only
- 47:29Speaker 1: cause like fear, like there was a whole fear element
- 47:32Speaker 1: for them here, but just like incredible inconvenience and difficulty,
- 47:37Speaker 1: and they weren't even like at the level like what
- 47:40Speaker 1: Kristen was, where she's suddenly like thrust in the criminal
- 47:43Speaker 1: justice system when she didn't commit a crime and the
- 47:46Speaker 1: horror of that. But it just really reminded me of
- 47:49Speaker 1: it. It was a good doc So I can recommend that
- 47:51Speaker 1: one because you know, you hear about these stories of
- 47:53Speaker 1: identity theft and then someone is just like, well, what
- 47:55Speaker 1: am I supposed to do?
- 47:57Speaker 2: Yeah? That story also, you know, because this person was
- 48:00Speaker 2: interacting with their fans. Yeah, it's just such a sacred release.
- 48:04Speaker 1: Cat Fisher identity thief was interacting with Tegan and Sarah's
- 48:09Speaker 1: fans pretending to be Teagan.
- 48:11Speaker 2: Right, and so you know, someone's whole perception of you
- 48:15Speaker 2: is being formed by someone who's just an impostor.
- 48:19Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 48:19Speaker 2: And then you know, there's this crazy moment in the
- 48:22Speaker 2: documentary where Teagan comes into contact with a person who
- 48:27Speaker 2: believes that they've been in all of this correspondence online
- 48:31Speaker 2: and she never was, and so it's just this totally
- 48:34Speaker 2: jarring experience for both of them.
- 48:37Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I had kind of forgotten about the details
- 48:40Speaker 1: of that. So there's all these other victims in this
- 48:42Speaker 1: story who are also victims of this person who's pretending
- 48:46Speaker 1: to be Teagan right but believe that they have this
- 48:50Speaker 1: deep connection with her, when in reality, it's this like
- 48:54Speaker 1: Cat Fisher person. Yea, yeah, I mean it's heartbreaking, Yeah, totally, yeah,
- 48:59Speaker 1: I mean, go ahead and just recommend everything. Directed by
- 49:02Speaker 1: Aaron Lee Carr. That's right, Okay, I have I do
- 49:06Speaker 1: have a wreck.
- 49:07Speaker 2: I'm not all the way through it, but I feel
- 49:09Speaker 2: very good recommending it. It's called catch Me if you can.
- 49:14Speaker 2: It's from the Binge. I'll read you the long light.
- 49:16Speaker 2: I don't want to give too much away. Okay, catch
- 49:19Speaker 2: me if you can. Investigates the never before told story
- 49:21Speaker 2: of a scam that happened from Los Angeles to Italy,
- 49:24Speaker 2: telling people he was a billionaire son, a crypto mogul,
- 49:27Speaker 2: and a tech genius can allegedly lord victims by promising
- 49:31Speaker 2: to make them rich, leaving a trail of beautiful woman
- 49:33Speaker 2: and broken promises in his wake. Mm.
- 49:36Speaker 1: Yeah sounds good. So are you saying catch me if
- 49:39Speaker 1: you ken hen k n Yes, got very clever. Yeah, interesting,
- 49:44Speaker 1: great title, love that title. This is a series podcast series, okay,
- 49:48Speaker 1: podcast series from the Binge cases cool. Yeah, it's awesome.
- 49:51Speaker 1: Can't wait to listen to that one.
- 49:52Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm episode three right now.
- 49:56Speaker 1: Great? I love it. Whenever you can't even get all
- 49:59Speaker 1: the way through through listening to something before you recommend
- 50:01Speaker 1: it because it's that good. Well, I'm so glad that
- 50:05Speaker 1: you talked to Kristen and were able to tell me
- 50:09Speaker 1: and our listeners that story, because it's really powerful and
- 50:12Speaker 1: I'm so thrilled to hear that she's doing well.
- 50:14Speaker 2: Yeah, she's awesome. I mean, I just love that I
- 50:17Speaker 2: reached out her on read it and she was like, yeah, sure,
- 50:20Speaker 2: I'll get on a zoom with you. Person who has
- 50:22Speaker 2: zero podcasting experience, and we have just stayed in touch.
- 50:25Speaker 2: I think she's awesome.
- 50:26Speaker 1: Yeah, very cool.
- 50:27Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks for listening. We'll be back next week. I
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- 50:47Speaker 2: And me payshia E. Our producers are Tom Bryfogel and
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- 50:52Speaker 1: This episode was mixed by Tom Bryfogel.
- 50:54Speaker 2: Our associate producer is Christina Chamberlain.
- 50:57Speaker 1: Our theme music is by Birds in the Airport.
- 50:59Speaker 2: Artwork fi Vanessa Lilac.
- 51:01Speaker 1: Executive produced by Karen Kilgarriff Georgia Hardstark and Danielle Kramer