Latest / The Trauma Therapist / Episode 758: Accessible Mental Health Care for All with Dr. Christopher S. Taylor
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- 0:10Or welcome back to the Trauma Therapist Podcast. My name is guyming Person.
- 0:14My mission is to help trauma therapists be their incredible cells, to be human,
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- 0:37That's the Trauma Therapist Project dot com. Let's get started, all right,
- 0:42here we go, So five or three, two and one, our folks,
- 0:47welcome back to the podcast. Very excited to have us. My guest
- 0:50today doctor Christopher as Taylor. Christopher welcome, Hello, thanks for having me
- 0:55Guy, You're welcome. So doctor Taylor utilizes existential psychotherapy to by treatment for
- 1:00individuals struggling with loss of identity. Twenty fifteen, he was appointed by Governor
- 1:06Greg Abbott to serve on the Texas State Board of Examiners Professional Counselors as a
- 1:11professional member. In twenty eighteen, he was unanimously voted as vice chair of
- 1:15the board and was reappointed to a second term in twenty nineteen. Working with
- 1:21various state and private organizations such as Child Protective Services. Since two thousand and
- 1:25eight, Doctor Taylor has experienced a lack of community support for broken homes in
- 1:30both urban and rural communities and endeavor to alleviate this issue. Doctor Taylor served
- 1:36as a court coordinator the program Developer or Legacy Family Court in Dallas County.
- 1:42All right, doctor Taylor, before we get going on here, share with
- 1:46all listeners where you're from originally and where you are currently. Oh yeah,
- 1:49sure, So I'm from Florida and I'm now in Dallas, Texas, And
- 1:56you know, a little a little funny story about being from Florida. Growing
- 2:00up in Florida, I always thought they were called Florida ceiling windows because we're
- 2:04the Sunshine state and that's where all the sun comes in. And true story,
- 2:07it was not until I moved to Texas and I was standing in a
- 2:09home depot where I saw a big sign that said floor to ceiling and I
- 2:14was like, Oh, that totally makes sense. Also, my life is
- 2:19based on a lie, so that's very funny. All right, So how
- 2:25did all this start for you? How did you get into this field?
- 2:30So getting into counseling for me was sort of a I guess, kind of
- 2:34failing upwards. I don't know, it just kind of happened. I was
- 2:38in I was at Texas Adam University working on my bachelor's in philosophy, and
- 2:44I was going to go in the Air Force as a as a pilot,
- 2:47and it just kind of didn't seem like that was going to happen. The
- 2:51Interforce was kind of going in a bit of a different direction with drones and
- 2:54unmanned you know, flights and stuff, and so it didn't really seem like
- 3:00I was going to work out for me, and so I kind of had
- 3:02this sort of epiphany if you want, or just sort of you know,
- 3:07deep soul searching, and I just realized that wasn't my life path, you
- 3:10know, that's not the way I'm supposed to go. So I but I
- 3:14didn't know what the path was. So I didn't know what where I was
- 3:15supposed to go, what I was supposed to do. And several of my
- 3:20friends had mentioned that they really enjoyed talking to me, that they enjoyed sharing
- 3:24their problems with me, that they liked, uh, you know how well
- 3:29I listened that I was you know, one of my favorite quotes of all
- 3:30women quote is you know, be curious, not judgmental. That I was
- 3:35never judgmental about what they were struggling with. And one of them suggested I
- 3:38do that for money, and I was, you can just do nothing for
- 3:42money. You could just sit here listen to people for money. And so
- 3:46so that kind of started my journey down, you know, down the road
- 3:50of becoming a professional therapist. That's really interesting because some might say there's a
- 3:55very kind of stark uh friends, between the service and counseling. How did
- 4:04you swing over there? What? What what inspired you to swing that way?
- 4:10Yeah, I mean, if if you've if you've ever watched Forrest Gump,
- 4:13you know Lieutenant Dan as a member of his family that's fought and died
- 4:15in every war. Well, that's that's my family. I mean, my
- 4:18dad was in the Navy, my brothers in the Navy. I'm a son
- 4:21of the American Revolution with my with my ancestor being Jesse Lane, you know,
- 4:28who fought against the British at the Battle Cowpens. Like I mean,
- 4:32I just everyone in my family has gone into the military, and so me
- 4:36not going into the military, it was kind of a big deal, and
- 4:41there was some Yeah, I mean it was tough. It was a tough
- 4:43moment and so but but you know, really looking at it and saying is
- 4:46this really for me and realizing that it wasn't and that was not my direction.
- 4:51It was a tough choice, and then you know, the rest of
- 4:55it just kind of opened up for me. Well, I mean, I
- 4:59think it takes a lot out of insight and guts to make a choice like
- 5:03that, to switch gears like that. So how so walk us through,
- 5:09you get into you decide to shift gears, you go to school for counseling
- 5:13or what? Right? So I had some some of my friends on my
- 5:18pastors some other people recommended Dallas Theological Seminary this and this is a great school.
- 5:24I have a great counseling program. You can go there. You can
- 5:26get your master's degree in counseling, and you can learn more about being a
- 5:29professional counselor. I wasn't quite ready to do that yet. So after I
- 5:32graduated, I moved back home to Florida. But instead of going to Jacksonville,
- 5:35I moved to the Florida Keys and I got this sort of job working
- 5:40as a as a dive guide to rescue diver on a dive boat, just
- 5:44basically living for tips and uh and just you know, working on this boat
- 5:48all day every day, very very like escapist. Right, there's getting away
- 5:51from the world, you know, I you know, do that for a
- 5:56while. Then I realized, like this, you know, I think I'm
- 5:59ready to get serious about life. And so so I moved back home to
- 6:01Jacksonville, and I get a job working at Child Protective Services at CPS.
- 6:05And this is really where I get like my introduction into how bad the world
- 6:11can get. Uh And and so so this is where I experienced a real,
- 6:16real poverty. Uh. This is where I experience an actual broken home,
- 6:21not just a not just a divorced home or a home with a with
- 6:26a tough go, but like a home where children actually starving, where they
- 6:30have not Let's pause for a second there, so share with us an example
- 6:34of what impacted you specifically. Yeah. So, one of the most vivid
- 6:40memories I have is walking into this house with the sheriff. Uh And and
- 6:46there's no floor. The whole house have a floor. The floor, even
- 6:51the subfloors rotted and you can literally see the dirt and you can see bugs
- 6:57everywhere, and you can and you can see this in this has eight kids
- 7:00in it, and and uh and and the grandfather that's doing his best to
- 7:05take care of is an oxygen is an oxygen aerian, right, So he's
- 7:09he's on oxygen all day. He is way too old to be caring for
- 7:14these kids. And he knows the look on his face. He knows it's
- 7:16like, we're gonna have to take these kids away, you know. And
- 7:20so, I mean he was doing the best he could in the situation he
- 7:23had. But you know, so so these are kind of the tough stuff
- 7:26that we that we experienced. So you were was it kind of an internship
- 7:32or a practical No, this is a job. This is a job.
- 7:34I was a CPS investigator. Yeah, oh man, how long were you
- 7:42there? How long were you working that job? Less than a year?
- 7:45Less than That's that's where I got the like, Okay, yeah, this
- 7:47is the path I want to go down. I want to be in this
- 7:50field professionally. That that next semester, that's when I that's when I came
- 7:57back here to Dallas and went into grad school. It said, Okay,
- 8:01this is about I don't want to go down but what about that experience inspired
- 8:07you to say pursue that further. That's crazy stuff. It's hard to bring
- 8:16up. But there was this one There's this one boy that, oh,
- 8:18man, it's gonna give me emotional guy. I wasn't expecting that. Man,
- 8:24there's this one, this one boy who just man, he he looked
- 8:31at me like I was the stable thing in his life and that was like
- 8:35really powerful. And helping him and helping his mom get back to where they
- 8:41needed to be, that was powerful. And I was like, man,
- 8:45this is real change. We're doing something real here, and I want to
- 8:50see how I can do that more, How can I do this best?
- 8:54And that inspired me to get my masters and then my doctor. So a
- 9:01lot of times people think of when they hear CPS, they hear of uh,
- 9:07kids being taken away, And yet the example you just shared, it
- 9:13sounds like you were doing something else. What specifically were you doing in these
- 9:18So, I mean it's both. So in many cases, you're you're you're
- 9:22removing them from the environment, putting them in a new environment. Uh,
- 9:28you're you're working the case to get mom or dad the treatment or or into
- 9:33the place where they need to be. Usually there's some kind of legal case
- 9:35that's going on. Uh. And in some cases I was transporting the child,
- 9:41and so I would, you know, I mean, I would put
- 9:43in a car seat and like drive over there and pick up this kid from
- 9:46the from the placement home and and bring him into the supervised visitation area.
- 9:52I would do the supervised visitation, or we'd have somebody else. I might
- 9:56take him to to therapy. I might you know, I might meet him
- 10:01and his mom at McDonald's and allow them to have, you know, lunch
- 10:05together or something and just kind of, you know, be there, but
- 10:09try to be in the background. You know what I mean? That that
- 10:13that that's such a loaded job. I mean it seems to speak and say
- 10:20something about our culture. You know, as as you as you were having
- 10:28that experience, you know, what was going through your mind? What was
- 10:33good? Who were you? How are you reassessing? Uh, not only
- 10:37yourself and your purpose, but this is such a big question, but our
- 10:41culture. So I mean, look, I was twenty two, so I
- 10:46don't know that I was really that tuned into American culture. But I will
- 10:52tell you, just for me from a personal space, it really gave me
- 10:56a glimpse into how phenomen dominole my childhood was. How grateful I am to
- 11:03have anything that I have, How grateful I am to have parents that love
- 11:09me, that are there for me, that supported me. How grateful I
- 11:11am to you know, be able to do these kinds of things. And
- 11:16so that has really created this spirit of desire to give back and gratitude for
- 11:20me. So walk us through what happened after that experience at CPS there.
- 11:26Yeah, So after that, I moved back to Dallas, or I moved
- 11:31to Dallas, and I go to Dallas Theological Seminary. There I start a
- 11:37while I'm going to grad school, I start working for one of my professors
- 11:41and his private practice, so I get to learn our practice runs and operates.
- 11:46I graduate from Dallas Seminary and I get approached by Dallas County to run
- 11:52this drug court program, start the drug court program. This is also the
- 11:56subject of my dissertation, which was just how these family drug court programs can
- 12:03have a much better different impact on this population other than just putting people in
- 12:09jail and taking their kids away, right, And so we developed and created
- 12:13the Legacy Family Court, which is Dallas County's first and I still think only
- 12:20a drug court program. That was that in several other drug courts throughout the
- 12:24Southeast were a part of the subject of my dissertation, my research study that
- 12:30we did there. We utilized social learning theory to prove categorically that these programs
- 12:37are far more effective than our traditional traditional criminal courts and family courts programs.
- 12:45And out of that came the concept of human capital, which is a part
- 12:50of social learning theory, and it was how we were investing in and the
- 12:54drug court participants. By investing in them, they could have then invested in
- 12:58themselves and others. And that is now the chief core value of Taylor Counseling
- 13:03Group. So explain to us what a drug court is. What is it?
- 13:09Right? So kind of like when I was working at CPS, when
- 13:11you know, we were taking these kids out for some reason. Usually that
- 13:13starts because there's a CPS call. Somebody calls in and says, hey,
- 13:18this child is the subject of some kind of abuse, so we want to
- 13:22take the child out. Usually that comes with a legal problem. Right,
- 13:26there's family courts that are set up that do exactly this, where the child's
- 13:31removed. You go into court and you try to get your child back and
- 13:35you do ab and c. Maybe there is some drug use, maybe there
- 13:39was some abandonment, maybe there was physical abuse, maybe there was prostitution,
- 13:43you know, whatever it is, this child's in an unsafe environment. Well,
- 13:46the traditional court system is you go to jail or you lose your rights
- 13:50to see your kids. Right, well, we know that operating classical conditioning
- 13:54just don't work. There is not a strong enough stick or hard enough caret
- 14:00to break addiction, right, It's just not And so this is an alternate
- 14:03program. This is kind of like a divert court where instead of going into
- 14:07the traditional family court system, you would then go into this alternate program that
- 14:13was eighteen months long and had a ton of stipulations. And if you did
- 14:18all this stuff, you know, you you you came into court every week,
- 14:22you went to AA meetings, you you know, passed all your drug
- 14:26tests, all that stuff. Then you would be reunified with your child.
- 14:30And there was also additional support, meaning they would help you with housing,
- 14:35they would help you with job placement, really just actually help this person become
- 14:39a functioning member of society. That that is a positive instead of a drain.
- 14:46And also these cases would usually get dismissed at the end of it.
- 14:52When I was working in a county clinic, it was part of my internships.
- 15:00We you know, I saw a number of people who were appointed by
- 15:03the court. Uh. So that is happening. But what you're describing here
- 15:09just sounds like it's more intense, thorough, much more guided system. Now
- 15:16is this something that's prevalent throughout our country? Yes? Yeah, this started.
- 15:20This started, ironically enough, in Florida, where I'm from, where
- 15:24the first drug court occurred in Miami Dade County. Uh And they came up
- 15:28with this crazy idea of saying, hey, let's stop putting people in prison.
- 15:33Maybe that's just not working. Uh. And so that's this movement is
- 15:37spread throughout the country. Uh. And now there are drug courts all over
- 15:41the country. So I want to go back a little bit when you are
- 15:46not to put you on the spot here when you were getting emotional about that
- 15:50kid. Yeah, what is it about this work that that does get you,
- 15:58that drives you. I don't know if you've ever read The Alchemist,
- 16:03but you know, my personal legend is helping people find their way. I
- 16:08love it. I absolutely I have the greatest job on the planet. I
- 16:11get to meet people when they are in dark times, and I get to
- 16:15walk with them to a better version of themselves that many cases they didn't even
- 16:21know they could achieve. And I love that. I love walking with people
- 16:26in those times. It's just so amazing. It gets me jazzed every morning
- 16:30when I wake up and I see, oh, I got somebody on my
- 16:33schedule that I get to talk to today. I love it. That's awesome.
- 16:37Let me just remind everyone of them. Seeing good doctor Christophers Taylor.
- 16:41I want to take a moment to thank our sponsors, all right, Christopher.
- 16:47So I'm smiling because that's so inspiring to hear that. What about that
- 16:52gets you? How were you always like that? Yeah? I don't know.
- 16:57Maybe I as a kid, I was very curious. I know my
- 17:02dad hated when I would take apart the toaster just to see how it worked.
- 17:07He got really mad when I took when I took apart the VCR and
- 17:10if you remember those, but yeah, I just wanted to know how those
- 17:14little pictures got so big now I couldn't put it back together, and so
- 17:17that he was a little upset about that. But I was just always very
- 17:19curious about those things I always wanted to be, to be a part of
- 17:25building something and contributing to something. I guess maybe it's that that sense of
- 17:30service that my family has and I'm just kind of serving in a different way.
- 17:34What do you when you look back on or you think about the system
- 17:40of CPS and the families there, You look at that and in your mind,
- 17:48how do you describe what's going on there? What do people? How
- 17:55do people get to that point? A man, that's a tough that's a
- 18:02tough question. Guy, I'm not I don't know actually how people get there.
- 18:06But what I can tell you is that we are all struggling in very
- 18:08different ways, and some of us just have a rougher go of it.
- 18:14And I think we all have the potential to be in those places. It's
- 18:18just life can be very very hard, and some of us just don't have
- 18:26the tools and the resources that they need that we need to elevate. I
- 18:30think all these people want better lives, just maybe they don't have the tools
- 18:36or resources to get there. Because I think working in a setting like that,
- 18:41you have a unique window into what's going on. Because a lot of
- 18:47people who aren't in the mental health space, who haven't had that experience.
- 18:52It's very easy for them to look at someone like that or look at a
- 18:56family like that, and I think, to judge, right, yeah,
- 19:02to judge, it's so easy to condemn actions and why aren't they doing this?
- 19:07Etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. There's so much under there. How did
- 19:15h Taylor Counseling Group come to be? What was your initial thoughts and inspiration
- 19:21for developing that? So it was several things that sort of came together.
- 19:25One was this, you know, idea that I love to build stuff,
- 19:27and so I wanted to build something with legacy, something that was bigger than
- 19:30me. Uh. It came out of the fact that watching my professors run
- 19:34their practice, I realized that, you know, they didn't want to take
- 19:38insurance because it was too difficult and they could just charge private pay. They
- 19:42could charge one hundred fifty dollars an hour, three hundred dollars an hour,
- 19:45and that's fine, but that's not affordable. You got to go to therapy
- 19:48once a week for a month. You're paying one hundred fifty dollars. That's
- 19:52six six hundred dollars a month. That's the that's the lease on a brand
- 19:56New Audi A six that's a luxury that's a luxury car, a German luxury
- 20:00car. Right, it should be way more affordable. But insurance is just
- 20:03really tough to take. Also, our system is very disorganized, and there
- 20:08wasn't really this place for therapists to go and get a job as just sort
- 20:12of like a W two employee. That wasn't a thing really when I was
- 20:17starting Taylor Counseling Group. And then this idea of human capital that I had
- 20:22worked on in my dissertation from drug courts, like, I wanted to fuse
- 20:26all that together and that gave birth to Taylor Counseling Group, which focuses on
- 20:30providing affordable, reliable, accessible mental health to the state of Texas and just
- 20:37Texas. That's our focus, and we want to elevate Texas from last and
- 20:41access to mental healthcare to first and access to mental healthcare. That's our goal.
- 20:45Now are they currently ranked? Were last? Right now? Yes?
- 20:49Wow? Yeah? And that's according to Mental Health of America. That's not
- 20:52just something I made up. Let's go back to human capital. What is
- 20:57that capital? Is the idea that if I invest deeply in you guy,
- 21:03and I invest in you and I care about you, and I do the
- 21:07best I can to make your life better. Well, then you will turn
- 21:11around and make your family life better and you'll invest in people around you,
- 21:15and then those people will do that with other people. And this is how
- 21:19we take a simple thing and make big impact on the world. And so
- 21:23that's what we're interested in. We want to invest in our people. We
- 21:26are employee first. We take care of our therapists first. We invest deeply
- 21:33in them, and we do that through culture. We do that through fixed
- 21:37salaries, we do that through award winning support. We do that in a
- 21:41myriad of ways, and we make their lives as best as possible so that
- 21:45they can do the thing that they love, which is helping others find their
- 21:48way. Wow, how did you get to this point where not only did
- 21:56you want to create your own practice, but do it in such an incredible
- 22:00way. Well, I got a lot of nose, I got a lot
- 22:03of that will never work, I got a lot of that's crazy. You
- 22:07shouldn't do that. And my mentor in high school, master's Sergeant Robert Dody,
- 22:15told me very directly said, Chris, you must always invest in yourself
- 22:19above everything else. And so I just said, you know what, I'm
- 22:23going to invest in myself and I'm going to keep doing that and we'll talk
- 22:29about more. How do you invest in the people that who who work for
- 22:33you? Yeah, So when we started Taylor Counseling Group, the idea of
- 22:37a salary was very unconventional in my field and private practice. You would hire
- 22:41somebody to work in your practice, you would pay them a split maybe of
- 22:45what they brought in or they were ten ninety nine, you know, or
- 22:48maybe they got some kind of some kind of bonus or something. But but
- 22:52that's just sick. It's a service based industry. So I mean, you
- 22:56know, you can only make money when you when you work with a client,
- 23:00right, So if you're not working with a client, then the operator,
- 23:03the owner, they can't really pay you, you know. So that's
- 23:06that's sort of how it worked out. And I said, hey, you
- 23:07know what, that's a terrible idea. There's no stability in that. That
- 23:11creates competition, not collaboration. We want collaboration. That's how we grow,
- 23:15right. We want to work together, not against each other. And so
- 23:19as soon as we took money off the table of some cool stuff happened,
- 23:23clients just show up. You know, they know they've got a copay.
- 23:27The therapist has no idea what insurance the clients on how much they pay.
- 23:33They don't care. Money is not a part of it. They just get
- 23:36a show up and do their job and it's amazing. And then they get
- 23:38that same check every week and that creates security, That creates stability, and
- 23:45that creates just a wonderful space for people to really grow and become really great
- 23:51team. They become a great team. That's that's awesome. I mean it's
- 23:55almost the antithesis of what I and I know a lot of other peble To
- 24:00experience when they were going through internships and practicals and there was not at all
- 24:07that sense of collaboration. In fact, it was this feeling like these people
- 24:14care about us. We just feel like you're on this treadmill that's really really
- 24:18interesting, and how are you getting out? How are you reaching the people
- 24:25who need the care. So we we have offices in DFW, Houston,
- 24:30San Antonio, Waco, Austin, and Walks A Hatchie. We take all
- 24:36major insurances and we have a very very affordable private pay rate of one hundred
- 24:41dollars an hour, and we have associates on staff that are able to work
- 24:45even lower than that if necessary. And so we've just been really successful in
- 24:49being able to service our communities. We invest in our communities directly financially and
- 24:56through through volunteerism, through developments, through you know, organization. Yeah,
- 25:02when you work with your therapists, what do you feel it's important for them
- 25:11to know when they're working with, say, kids who are coming out of
- 25:15broken homes, etc. Yeah, I'm not sure I understand the question.
- 25:23What do I feel You know, you've you've had this, I think a
- 25:26pretty rich background working in CPS. When you're working with the newer therapists,
- 25:34younger maybe less experienced therapists, what do you feel it's important for them to
- 25:37know when they're encountering such types of clients. Oh? Well, I mean
- 25:41one of the biggest things about therapy is is this is a place free of
- 25:45judgment. There's no judgment here. You know, we are here to support
- 25:51our patients. We are here to to provide a very rich sense of community
- 25:57support, collaborative. Uh. You know, these are core values, and
- 26:02so we we have these values and we we we reward, recognize, hire
- 26:08and fire people based on these values. And so we want to see our
- 26:12therapists living them out and and that's that's what they take into the session,
- 26:18is the sense of human capital. It doesn't matter, you know, what
- 26:21problems this person has in their lives. Our job is to invest in them
- 26:23right now for this hour, for this hour. That's it. You know,
- 26:27we don't judge them. We are here to help to provide that therapeutic
- 26:33service, to provide that very safe place where you can come and it's all
- 26:37about you for this one hour. And you know, we're here to listen
- 26:41and we're here to help. When you were, uh, starting out,
- 26:47I'm guessing, like a lot of people, there were some mistakes, missteps,
- 26:52errors. I wonder if you can share an early clinical error, Oh
- 26:56yeah, what you learned from that. Absolutely, we we invest heavily into
- 27:02technology. So one of the things that makes us really great is that we're
- 27:06very efficient and we're always staying up on the next piece of technology, and
- 27:10we always try to automate, and we automate as much as we can.
- 27:12In the beginning, we didn't really do a great job of training our therapists
- 27:15on some of that technology. And some therapists, as much as I love
- 27:19my fellow therapists. Yeah, technology is not for everybody, and so there
- 27:26were some issues there for sure. We also one of the first things I
- 27:30did that was just really a big misstep was we didn't get a big enough
- 27:34office. I got a small office because I was worried about the budget instead
- 27:38of just getting the big office that I wanted because we ran out a room
- 27:44very quickly. How about working with your experience of working with clients errors there.
- 27:56I don't really know a lot of people. A lot of people say,
- 27:59well, going too fast, asked when I was working with this person,
- 28:00or uh, maybe I got triggered myself and I hadn't, you know,
- 28:06worked on my own stuff, or I'd say I learned. I learned
- 28:10very quickly that I didn't want to do play therapy anymore. Uh. I
- 28:14love working with kids, but but parents can be rather difficult, which I
- 28:18say as a parent myself. So yeah, I don't forget it. Uh.
- 28:22Talking with doctor Taylor again, What is the best way for people to
- 28:26get in contact with you, Chris? Uh? Yeah, you can just
- 28:29reach us on the website Taylor Counseling Group dot com. Info at Taylor Counseling
- 28:33Group dot com. We'll get you straight to me. Okay, awesome Appaci
- 28:37being here. Christopher, We'll be in touch absolutely Thanks guys all take care of