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Johnjay and Rich Present: WAR of the ROSES · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich, you're getting ready for War the Roses.
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  Speaker 1: We got Rose on the line.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, Rose, Good morning guys.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm calling in because I'm convinced that my husband
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  Speaker 3: is cheating on me. My friend sent me a pretty
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  Speaker 3: damning photo and I need to know what's going on.
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  Speaker 2: All right, that's perfect, We'll take it. Let's move on.
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  Speaker 2: War the Roses starts next with John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 2: Right the Gonside show got damaged by the boat, so
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  Speaker 2: he dummy. If you get free roses, it's a trap.
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  Speaker 2: War of the Roses starts.
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  Speaker 4: Right now on John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 2: John Jay and Rich, It's time for War the Roses.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, Rose.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Are you a speakerphone? What's your story?
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  Speaker 5: So?
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  Speaker 3: I need to do this because I think my husband
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  Speaker 3: is cheating on me. I actually found out you went
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  Speaker 3: on a date with another woman.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, yeah you think?
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  Speaker 5: Are you no?
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  Speaker 1: Right?
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  Speaker 6: That sounds like a confirmation.
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  Speaker 2: What do you need the roses for?
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  Speaker 3: So my friend sent me a picture of them while
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  Speaker 3: she was out with her husband, like sitting together, and
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  Speaker 3: he swears that it wasn't like that. And he's trying
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  Speaker 3: to tell me some story about like what really happened,
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  Speaker 3: but honestly, I'm not buying it.
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  Speaker 2: What story does he tell you?
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  Speaker 3: He says, I've blocked I didn't listen to much of it.
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  Speaker 3: I actually blocked him for the last day because I
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  Speaker 3: was kind of tired of hearing his excuses. But basically,
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  Speaker 3: he says that it wasn't a date and it wasn't
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  Speaker 3: what it looks like.
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  Speaker 6: Did you ask her who it was? Who is that?
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  Speaker 3: I think I recognized her from like other outings with people,
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  Speaker 3: but they were always outings with people that were never
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  Speaker 3: just the two of them. She was supposed to be
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  Speaker 3: going on a hike with a group.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, well, definitely not hiking. So at the very least
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  Speaker 7: he lied, right, So we get him.
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  Speaker 2: On the phone.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna listen, and we're going to see where he
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  Speaker 1: sends the flowers to. Does he send him to you Rose,
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  Speaker 1: or does he send them to mystery hiker? Or did
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  Speaker 1: he go hiking with her? Or you said somebody sent
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  Speaker 1: you a picture? Is that what you said?
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  Speaker 3: My friend sent me a phoe. She was out with
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  Speaker 3: her husband. They were having lunch at a local place,
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  Speaker 3: and yeah, she sent me the photo of just the
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  Speaker 3: two of them sitting together. Awfully close.
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  Speaker 1: You know what happened. I have a friend of mine.
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  Speaker 1: He was in a relationship with somebody and he was
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  Speaker 1: having sitting outside having a sandwich with a friend, a
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  Speaker 1: friend who's a woman, but it's a friend, and the
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  Speaker 1: girl he was dating, her friend was at a red
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  Speaker 1: light and saw them eating and took a picture and
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  Speaker 1: sent it to his girlfriend, and his girlfriend called him,
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  Speaker 1: yelled at him, and broke up with them without letting
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  Speaker 1: him even explain.
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  Speaker 7: The story sounds a lot like what maybe happen could be,
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  Speaker 7: although he didn't lie about he said he was hiking
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  Speaker 7: anyone true, not the friend with your.
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  Speaker 2: But what happens. He broke up with her, And my
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  Speaker 2: friend has a new girlfriend and she's fantastic.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, that's what usually happens when that kind of
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  Speaker 5: stuff goes on.
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  Speaker 1: What's your husband's name, Rose, Lewis Lewis, Okay, hold on,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna get loose on the phone. I'm hoping her
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  Speaker 1: name is Rose and your name is Rose, and you
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  Speaker 1: guys get into a fight and it really will be
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  Speaker 1: a war of the roses. Well not deep, but hilarious,
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  Speaker 1: very exciting war of roses continues.
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  Speaker 2: Next, you're talking about we are in the middle of
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  Speaker 2: War of the Roses.
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  Speaker 1: You've got Rose who thinks her husband Lewis is cheating
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  Speaker 1: because her friend sent a picture of her husband Louis
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  Speaker 1: with another woman at a lunch or something like that, Right.
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  Speaker 6: Rose, Yes, that's right.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. And when you confronted him, you didn't let him listen.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I listened as much as I could.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't let him speak. You didn't. Yeah, whatever I'm
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  Speaker 2: trying to say. Anyway, Okay, we're gonna get him on
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  Speaker 2: the phone. Are you ready, Colin Fudg?
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  Speaker 6: I'm ready.
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  Speaker 8: Hello, Good morning.
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  Speaker 6: Is Lewis available?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 8: This is see who's going?
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  Speaker 4: Hi?
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  Speaker 6: Hey, So my name's Charlotte. I'm with a new company.
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  Speaker 6: We're called jan R. Flowers.
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  Speaker 7: We have this really cool social media campaign that you've
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  Speaker 7: been chosen for and it's it's really good for you. So, Lewis,
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  Speaker 7: you get to send our most romantic bouquet of roses
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  Speaker 7: to whoever you want, and it's really free for you.
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  Speaker 7: We just kind of ask in return that you post
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  Speaker 7: about us and whichever social media platform you use the most.
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  Speaker 8: Oh wow, Well, don't really use a whole lot of
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  Speaker 8: social media these days. But I don't know how useful
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  Speaker 8: PP guys in that way.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, no, that's okay.
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  Speaker 7: They just hand me a list of people to call,
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  Speaker 7: so I'm not really sure. But it really is sort
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  Speaker 7: of just like a word of mouth campaign. So even
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  Speaker 7: if you just tell people out Jay and our flowers,
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  Speaker 7: it works for us. It's marketing things. So that's why
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  Speaker 7: we get to give it to you totally free. I
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  Speaker 7: don't need any personal information from you. I know, in
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  Speaker 7: the back of your head you're like, what's the catch.
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  Speaker 7: I'm not going to ask you for credit card information
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  Speaker 7: or anything like that. I will send the roses out
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  Speaker 7: with like a nice little card, and I always tell
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  Speaker 7: people like, this is your chance to personalize it. They are,
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  Speaker 7: you know, pretty romantic on their own, so they do
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  Speaker 7: send their own message, but it's your chance to you know,
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  Speaker 7: depending on the nature of the relationships, some people get
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  Speaker 7: fun or flirty or you know, sometimes X rated. So
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  Speaker 7: it's totally up to you what you want to write
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  Speaker 7: on the card. Let me know what message you want.
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  Speaker 7: We can actually get them sent out as early as today.
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  Speaker 7: I can get name an address after you give.
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  Speaker 6: Me that message.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't think I'm going to be getting X
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  Speaker 8: rated do people get X.
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  Speaker 7: Rated, but yeah, it's kind of crazy. That's why I'm like,
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  Speaker 7: I just don't want anyone to feel like shy. I've
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  Speaker 7: really heard it all, trust me. Yeah, So I mean,
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  Speaker 7: whatever you want to whatever you want to write, let
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  Speaker 7: me know right now. I've got the card here, and
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  Speaker 7: then we'll do name address, and like I said, i'll tell.
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  Speaker 6: You when they're going out.
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  Speaker 8: Oh yes, sure, this is that. This sounds great. Thank
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  Speaker 8: you guys so much. Yeah, we'll just have it's a.
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  Speaker 6: I love you, love you endlessly. That's really sweet. That's
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  Speaker 6: one of the sweetest ones I've ever seen.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, and then and then obviously you want like a
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  Speaker 7: love Lewis or like an xoxo or something like that.
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  Speaker 8: Oh yeah, of course obviously right two rows.
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  Speaker 6: Rose should love these. She'll be very excited about.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, that's perfect, great that, Thank you guys so much.
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  Speaker 8: There's nothing else.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Louis, this this still isn't adding up. Okay, I'm
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  Speaker 3: so sorry, Like this isn't adding up. You're on a
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  Speaker 3: date with another girl.
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  Speaker 2: Look, let me tell Louis what's going on. Lewis. You're
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  Speaker 2: on the radio. You're on the John Jay and Rich
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  Speaker 2: radio show. A war of the roses. Rose thinks that
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  Speaker 2: you're cheating on her.
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  Speaker 8: What rosetun But would you gotta be kidding me? Why
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  Speaker 8: in the world would you think that.
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  Speaker 3: The picture was clearly just you and this girl out
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  Speaker 3: at a coffee shop.
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  Speaker 4: Having a date.
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  Speaker 8: Baby, baby, Okay, all right, just slow down, slow down,
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  Speaker 8: and just listen to me. Okay, I just listen to me.
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  Speaker 8: I did not go on a date with her, all right,
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  Speaker 8: Look all right, Look, so you know how like I
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  Speaker 8: had my regular Sunday hiking group, right, uh huh, yeah,
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  Speaker 8: yeah that Sunday, nobody else showed up but her, and
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  Speaker 8: so we did our hike like we usually do, and
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  Speaker 8: then we went to the coffee shop to get a
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  Speaker 8: drink like we usually do. It just wasn't with the
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  Speaker 8: rest of the group. It was just hers. So yeah,
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  Speaker 8: that's it. That's all that happened.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you got to you gotta know, like how
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  Speaker 3: that looks Lewis like, at least send me a picture.
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  Speaker 3: It's just you tube like that.
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  Speaker 2: That's a date.
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  Speaker 4: That feels like a date, especially if you don't know
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  Speaker 4: about it, right Rose, if you don't even know, Hey,
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  Speaker 4: not many people showed up some at the coffee shop.
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  Speaker 2: I'll be home in twenty that's one thing. But to
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  Speaker 2: not share it at all.
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  Speaker 5: I'm shocked at you. I'm shocked you feel that way
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  Speaker 5: rich because I feel like usually you would be like, hey,
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  Speaker 5: like he went to do his hiking, he did what
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  Speaker 5: was normal. Hey, it's all right to not check until after,
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  Speaker 5: but like me on that and like I would be livid,
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  Speaker 5: Like yeah, it might be innocent, but at least shoot
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  Speaker 5: me a text and let me know what's going on
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  Speaker 5: so I'm not caught off guard.
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  Speaker 7: Also, it's kind of just like a weird situation. Do
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  Speaker 7: you even end up going on the hike at that point?
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  Speaker 2: What do you say to the girl, Hey, I can't.
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  Speaker 7: Hike with you, nobody else is here, Let's just scrap it,
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  Speaker 7: you know. But then to go on it does kind
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  Speaker 7: of become a date, and that in that sense, it's
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  Speaker 7: not it was not intentional, It wasn't playing buy that,
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  Speaker 7: but then afterwards to decide to go to coffee too,
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  Speaker 7: it's like that you enjoyed yourself.
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  Speaker 1: But if you do that every Sunday with a big
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  Speaker 1: group of people, you do it every Sunday, and then
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  Speaker 1: just a bunch of people know shows so just you
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  Speaker 1: and somebody of the opposite sex.
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  Speaker 2: You know, it could be totally innocent, but I mean
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  Speaker 2: it sounds to me like it was innocent.
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  Speaker 6: But yeah, yeah, the optics not good.
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  Speaker 2: But I can.
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  Speaker 1: Feel for the guy because then let's say that girl
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  Speaker 1: is completely uninterested in him and he's and she's like,
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to hike?
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  Speaker 3: Now?
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  Speaker 2: What do you mean? Like, I'm married, I have kids,
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  Speaker 2: Like what do you why can't we go hike together?
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  Speaker 5: What do you stop? And you call your wife and
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  Speaker 5: you let her know what's about.
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  Speaker 2: To go down, and then your wife says, no, you go,
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  Speaker 2: my wife will let me hike that.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, because then what happens Then you're like, oh, we
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  Speaker 7: did this thing together and oh we have so much
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  Speaker 7: in common, and then that could lead to, you know,
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  Speaker 7: the not good thing that we thought was happening that
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  Speaker 7: hadn't happened yet but could happen.
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  Speaker 6: Down the road.
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  Speaker 2: I'd be like, we already had sex, We just want
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  Speaker 2: to go hiking.
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  Speaker 4: No, No, I wrong, all no, just know what she
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  Speaker 4: should be happy for my cardia.
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  Speaker 7: I think the point is there should have been more
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  Speaker 7: communication about it, and that could have reduced what it
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  Speaker 7: looks like because like I said, the objects aren't here.
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  Speaker 2: You should go back and look at it.
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  Speaker 1: But when you're living in it and it's happening right
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  Speaker 1: in front of you, and you're like, oh god, what
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  Speaker 1: do I do?
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  Speaker 2: Oh God, what do I do?
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  Speaker 1: Like that's why I can I kind of feel for
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  Speaker 1: the guy, Like I don't think there's any found play.
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  Speaker 2: I think it was just a it's you're in it.
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  Speaker 5: I just feel for Rose because I can only imagine
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  Speaker 5: like the pit in her stomach when she got that
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  Speaker 5: text from her friend, Like you really think that the
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  Speaker 5: person that you're going to sleep with every single eye
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  Speaker 5: is just taking it up with some girl, Like that's
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  Speaker 5: a terrible.
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  Speaker 1: Fail Ueah, why didn't this friend walk up and go hello, Lewis?
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, hey's we're supposed to go hiking.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody canceled anyway, Lewis your.
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  Speaker 8: Thoughts in the moment, Like I wasn't like, it's just
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  Speaker 8: it's just my routine, that's just what we do. It
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  Speaker 8: just there tends to be like you know, five to
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  Speaker 8: seven more people that are out with it. But look,
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  Speaker 8: I understand where you're coming from. I understand that you
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  Speaker 8: know how it looks, But I mean, I look I
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  Speaker 8: promise you not a date. And I you know what,
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  Speaker 8: maybe I hated that this is how you how you
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  Speaker 8: found out about the two of us being there together,
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  Speaker 8: but like, you're right. I mean I could have just
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  Speaker 8: headed all this off, but just being more communicative about it,
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  Speaker 8: and as soon as I got home told you and
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  Speaker 8: it was just you're right, You're right, baby, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 7: I mean, it's not defensive about it, which is a
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  Speaker 7: good sign. And I think that you can use the
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  Speaker 7: situation and learn from it so something like this doesn't
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  Speaker 7: happen again.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I love the Lewis.
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  Speaker 8: I do believe you.
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  Speaker 3: I just I've been sitting in a hotel for two
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  Speaker 3: days thinking the worst, and yeah, I guess I just
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  Speaker 3: needed a little I need some reassurance, to be honest,
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  Speaker 3: because this whole thing really scared me. I was ready
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  Speaker 3: to jump ship.
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  Speaker 1: Well, thanks for bringing it to us and we solved
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  Speaker 1: the problem. So thank you both for being on the
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  Speaker 1: air with us.
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  Speaker 2: Thank by communication at all levels. War the Rosses, Junda
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  Speaker 2: Ridge