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Coachella Explained with Bri & Tracy · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with I R Radio. We may have been away, but
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  Speaker 1: we are not forgotten. The Almost Famous podcast is heating
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  Speaker 1: up once again. We're just a few a few weeks
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  Speaker 1: away from the start of the Bachelor app. Ashley and
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  Speaker 1: I took a few weeks kind of off back and forth,
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  Speaker 1: but we're back at it today and we have a
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  Speaker 1: really special episode and episode that I think I will
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  Speaker 1: be learning a lot from. It's gonna be about Coachella.
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  Speaker 1: Coachella was this last weekend, and more and more recently
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  Speaker 1: and marketing said, I know you're in studio. Coachell has
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  Speaker 1: been a thing for a while, and more and more
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  Speaker 1: recently it feels like it's becoming a joke amongst everybody
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  Speaker 1: about who is there and why they're there. Do you
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  Speaker 1: feel that way, Yeah, absolutely, it's becoming a joke. Well, like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I was at an event last night. I
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  Speaker 1: was at Caitlin Bristow's Life podcast last night, and on
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  Speaker 1: three different occasions, somebody on stage made some joke about
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  Speaker 1: how life is better not going to Coachella, or if
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  Speaker 1: you went to Coachella, do you actually ever go to
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  Speaker 1: a concert? Or is it just a place to take pictures.
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  Speaker 1: And then I saw a video this morning when I
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  Speaker 1: woke up on Instagram of a bunch of people, like
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  Speaker 1: guys taking pictures of their girlfriends at Coachella, and they're
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  Speaker 1: making fun of that. So it just feels like it's
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  Speaker 1: becoming a joke. Or I want to talk to Two's
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  Speaker 1: really special guest Tracy and Bree, who are at Coachella,
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  Speaker 1: uh this last week and find out from them what
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  Speaker 1: the vibe is right now at this festival. What does
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  Speaker 1: it feel like I've never been? Is it not your scene?
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  Speaker 1: Or could you see going it's someday. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if it's either like I feel like I never was
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  Speaker 1: invited because I've never been. I think it's like, from
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  Speaker 1: the outside looking at it feels like a very fashionable, hip,
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  Speaker 1: cool event that you know, people get seen at and
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  Speaker 1: they kind of party at, and for whatever reason, I've
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  Speaker 1: never been invited to like the parties. Maybe I'm not
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  Speaker 1: that much fun, but I've never been invited to this.
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  Speaker 1: I'm always on the outside. This goes back to pre Bachelor.
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  Speaker 1: This is like even high school and college. Ben, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: well yeah, I mean I feel like college has been
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  Speaker 1: just kind of forced himself into any party that was available.
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  Speaker 1: But now like those events that you get invited to,
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  Speaker 1: I mean Bachelor, people are going because they've been asked
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  Speaker 1: to buy a brand or the festival themselves. I've never
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  Speaker 1: been been invited to this, so I'm not one to
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  Speaker 1: speak on it because I don't know about Coachella. But
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  Speaker 1: you know who does Tracy shop Off from this last
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  Speaker 1: season of the Bachelor. She was at Coachella, and we
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  Speaker 1: have her on the Almost Famous podcast today to talk
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  Speaker 1: about it. Tracy, welcome, Hi, how are you? I am?
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  Speaker 1: I'm really good and I Tracy, I need your help today,
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  Speaker 1: all right to help. Here's the thing. So you're a
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  Speaker 1: thirty one year old wardrobe stylist from Los Angeles. You
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  Speaker 1: you know the hip the scene, like you're in the
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  Speaker 1: hip scene. I am not. I'm gonna yes, I am. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you're you're you're still as hip as ever. Because you're
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  Speaker 1: at Coachella this last week. I've never been. I have
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  Speaker 1: a theory though, and I want you then to explain it.
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  Speaker 1: So I was just talking to the guys and I
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  Speaker 1: went to a podcast last night, was a live podcast,
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  Speaker 1: and there's three different jokes about Coachella. Made. One was
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  Speaker 1: about how you know, everybody's taking pictures of them of
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  Speaker 1: each other. One was that people don't even go to
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  Speaker 1: the show, they just go to Palm Springs to take
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  Speaker 1: a picture in fancy clothes, and the other one is
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  Speaker 1: that it's just not a cool place to be. However,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like from the outside looking in, it is
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  Speaker 1: a cool place to be. Can you give us a rundown?
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  Speaker 1: And what exactly Coachella is? Yeah, I mean, I think
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  Speaker 1: there's a difference between Weekend one and weekend two. Weekend
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  Speaker 1: one mostly has a lot of like the really cool
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  Speaker 1: parties that everyone definitely wants to go to. They're fun,
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  Speaker 1: there's lots of people out them that you want to
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  Speaker 1: see their celebrities and what not, and just like, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it's a cool party. But also, I mean, what's the
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  Speaker 1: point of going down if you're not going to go
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  Speaker 1: to the festival. The whole point is music. So I
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  Speaker 1: think it's kind of just like getting a balance of
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  Speaker 1: laying out at a pool, going to a party, going
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  Speaker 1: to the festival, and like, I don't know, having some
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  Speaker 1: of your friends, but it's kind of just basically getting
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  Speaker 1: the balance, which is extremely difficult. So you can hear
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  Speaker 1: my voice is going from it. How many years have
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  Speaker 1: you been? Uh, this is my third time going. Have
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  Speaker 1: you felt a difference year every year? Every year? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going was like second God, I don't even remember
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  Speaker 1: two dozen, twelve or something, and that was like not
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  Speaker 1: a time when like the whole influencers thing was like
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  Speaker 1: as big, and like I think parties were kind of
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  Speaker 1: just starting up. So that was definitely more like the
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  Speaker 1: music being going to the festival and like you take
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  Speaker 1: the pictures at the festival. And then the second time
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  Speaker 1: I went, definitely the parties were way bigger. But again,
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  Speaker 1: like I think this time specifically was like the heaviest
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  Speaker 1: parties and I went weekend to the last two times,
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  Speaker 1: but then wee can one. Going this past weekend was
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  Speaker 1: like it's really in the thick of it. Is it
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  Speaker 1: feeling like it's more fun? I mean, okay, So if
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  Speaker 1: I'm just you know, Jersey, I'm I'm years removed from
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  Speaker 1: the Bachelor at this point, and if I went, would
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  Speaker 1: I feel awkward if I wasn't an influencer? No, I
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  Speaker 1: don't think so. I think that the whole point of
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  Speaker 1: going is to just have fun and enjoy yourself, Like
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  Speaker 1: there's a million people. They're not every single person. There's
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  Speaker 1: an influence, like there are people that are there just
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  Speaker 1: to enjoy the music. Tracy, I've never wanted to be there.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest. I never wanted to be there
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  Speaker 1: because I hate parties and I don't like crowds, and
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  Speaker 1: like my introvert extrovert like really shines there where Like
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  Speaker 1: I could you really converted, But in those overwhelming environments,
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  Speaker 1: I like to go into a shell. I just can't
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  Speaker 1: do it. But in sync performing with Ariana the other
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  Speaker 1: day made me feel like I could have I could
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  Speaker 1: have managed one day there. How was that performance? Um?
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  Speaker 1: It was really exciting. So I we got like the
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  Speaker 1: leaked information that I think might be there right before
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  Speaker 1: we went to go watch the show, So I was
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  Speaker 1: already like the kind of spoiled by it, Like I
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  Speaker 1: didn't want to know that that was gonna happen. But
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  Speaker 1: it was so good. I just was Justin was there also,
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  Speaker 1: Like it felt like there was a pith sing but
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  Speaker 1: Arianna like filled in the hole forgame. That's an amazing
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  Speaker 1: theory for that. Um. Did you see Justin's You see
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  Speaker 1: Justin's post yesterday where he said like, proud of you guys. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: I was like they must have sent him Aselfie and
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  Speaker 1: then he was like shut up, like this nice post.
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  Speaker 1: But I was like, honestly, we just really want to
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  Speaker 1: do there. I know. It's so sad because I I
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  Speaker 1: really don't think they're ever going to unite, but they
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  Speaker 1: just have to keep teasing us, like every couple of
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  Speaker 1: years with these reunions, and Justin apparently is in their
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  Speaker 1: group message, Like they have a group message that they
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  Speaker 1: talk in very regularly, and like, if you're talking so often,
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  Speaker 1: can you just do one little thing, a mini tour,
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  Speaker 1: one single? You don't even have to tour it literally
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  Speaker 1: just tease us a little bit. But also at the
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  Speaker 1: same time, I mean, like them coming out this year,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like I did a lot of the younger people
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  Speaker 1: going to Coachella like appreciate it as much as I did,
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  Speaker 1: because like I grew up like a big and think
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  Speaker 1: fan and like went to their concerts. So did everyone else.
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  Speaker 1: Like who is the younger generation that they appreciate it?
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  Speaker 1: I like, I kind of want to know they definitely
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  Speaker 1: didn't appreciate like we would'st Yeah, here's a while. So
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  Speaker 1: I was at an event um for my I was
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  Speaker 1: at my cousin's wedding this last week and I was
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  Speaker 1: talking to one of the dads here and he's a
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  Speaker 1: little bit older than I am. Uh, and he has
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  Speaker 1: a daughter who is like fifteen, and we're talking about
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  Speaker 1: like her celebrity crush, and somebody around the table was like, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: mine's justin Timberlake. You know what her response was, Oh No,
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  Speaker 1: she doesn't say him that. No, she goes, oh, he's
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  Speaker 1: so old. I was going to say he's been an
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  Speaker 1: old man or something. Isn't that sad? I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know where time goes, team, but this is flipping
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  Speaker 1: by way fast that we needed to like what she
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  Speaker 1: wasn't even born when they broke up. That's so find
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  Speaker 1: like make me also like a piece of garbage. It's
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  Speaker 1: it's hurts well. I mean that kind of ties us
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  Speaker 1: in Tracy to something else we've got to talk about.
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  Speaker 1: You've wanted the topics during your time in the Bachelor
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  Speaker 1: was that Demi had had hold you old and a
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  Speaker 1: Kruger at one point? Do you feel I mean I
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  Speaker 1: just turned thirty. Ashley Uh is in her thirties as well,
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  Speaker 1: do you feel old at this point, are you feeling
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  Speaker 1: like you're just really hitting your your stride. No, I
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  Speaker 1: like to never feel old. I have a very I
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  Speaker 1: think I have a young soul, and I don't ever
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  Speaker 1: know when to quit. Honestly, I literally just went straight
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  Speaker 1: from Kurtchalla, came back, went to Disneyland last night, and
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  Speaker 1: now I'm like, I don't know, I probably got like
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  Speaker 1: two hours of sleep, and now I'm on that right
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  Speaker 1: now at work like I'm losing my voice. I just
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  Speaker 1: need to literally don't never know when to quit. I
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  Speaker 1: don't feel old at all. I feel like I'm probably
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  Speaker 1: way younger in like mentally, not like mentally, but in
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  Speaker 1: my body. Then a lot of younger people than me,
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  Speaker 1: I see younger people like really like tired. I they
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  Speaker 1: went probably like a barely move now, and I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I haven't even stopped. Well, I mean parties. I can't
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  Speaker 1: handle the way I used to. But I did look
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  Speaker 1: at a picture of myself to other or day we
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  Speaker 1: Jared and I were at Pretty Woman on Broadway, which
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  Speaker 1: is pretty awesome, and I was wearing a crop top
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  Speaker 1: because I wanted to dress like Vivian, like a little
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  Speaker 1: bit like a nod, not like a full on hooker,
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  Speaker 1: but like a nod And I was like, I'm thirty one,
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  Speaker 1: At what age can I stop regularly wearing a crop top?
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  Speaker 1: Two events? So I don't. I will never stop wearing
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  Speaker 1: a crop top workout. I thought gonna work out as
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  Speaker 1: hard as I do. I'm going to wear those crop tops.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't really care how old I am, like forty,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I have a question what makes you
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  Speaker 1: feel old? Because we all feel old at a certain point,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm older than all of you. But for me,
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  Speaker 1: it's what I see um ear gauges, you know, those
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  Speaker 1: giant holes and people's ear lobes. Feel like an old man.
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  Speaker 1: That and people watching other people play video games. I'm like, really,
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  Speaker 1: that's a thing now. It makes me feel very old. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I mean that's super God. What makes me feel old?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know being around young people literally, I think
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  Speaker 1: it goes off of what we were just talking about
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  Speaker 1: with in Sync. I think it's listening to music on
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  Speaker 1: like the two thousands channel. I love some early two
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  Speaker 1: thousands step up. Yeah, And I'm thinking there are eighteen
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  Speaker 1: year olds that weren't alive, like college students that weren't
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  Speaker 1: alive when this song came out and it feels like
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  Speaker 1: the song came out yesterday. Um here, I'll give you
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  Speaker 1: an example. I think I was at dinner was Free
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  Speaker 1: recently and we were talking about something I can't remember
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  Speaker 1: it was, and we started kind of doing the age
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  Speaker 1: thing and figuring out when I was at this point
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  Speaker 1: in life, where were you? And it was an insane
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  Speaker 1: age gap like when we were younger. Like now, it
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  Speaker 1: doesn't seem like because we go to dinner and profinitely
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  Speaker 1: hang out all the time. But comparing it like, oh
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  Speaker 1: I was in high school I was. I think it
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh, I graduated high school this year. She's like, no,
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  Speaker 1: there's no way that you did that. She's like I
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  Speaker 1: was in my elementary school. I'm like, yeah, that's actually true,
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  Speaker 1: and that's so ridiculous. And now you're making me feel
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  Speaker 1: superle all right. You know what makes me feel is
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  Speaker 1: when I show up to my buddy's house to hang
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  Speaker 1: out and we end up watching his kid jump on
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  Speaker 1: the trampoline. Yeah. But truly, no matter how many times
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, that came out then and that person
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  Speaker 1: is that old, I would never go back in time.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I'd like go back in time to an experience,
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  Speaker 1: a concert, or a certain moment in my life. But
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  Speaker 1: I would never want to go back to another age.
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't go back to another age. No, I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I've exhausted every age that I spent in and
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  Speaker 1: I need to keep moving forward, understand you. So we'll
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  Speaker 1: expect to see you back at Coachella next year. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I just think I expect to go with this or
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  Speaker 1: let's about last minute, Hey, we think for you nights
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  Speaker 1: at next Coachella, I will be there. I'll do the
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  Speaker 1: dead thing. I'm going to make you go with me
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  Speaker 1: next year so we can be old and wear our
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  Speaker 1: crop tops together and like lock it. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: that's so funny. Well, thank you so much for coming
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  Speaker 1: on and telling us about your bachelor Coachella experience, trazy.
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  Speaker 1: you think, Ashley. I was just you know, it's been
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  Speaker 1: a while since we want to get together and talk.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: You've got a tongue going on your life, You've been
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: doing a little book tour, you're planning for this wedding.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: Is there anything like super exciting that is new in
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: your life or it's just are you just full on
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: wedding planning? Um? I wouldn't say there's anything super new
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: to talk about. I am. I We are releasing something
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: next I think like that's going to be very exciting.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: But I think I'm going to address it more next week.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: But here's your tease that you have a tease to
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: look forward to next week. Um. But yeah, wedding planning
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: has been fun. It's been really fun. We're very little
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: stress involved. I think the only thing that's really stressful
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: about the wedding is just like putting money into one day.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: You know, You're like, I am scared that I'm going
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: to like experience this day and before you know it,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: we're gonna be lying in bed that night and be
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: like it's over. It's over, and and the money went
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: into it and now it's gone. I know, what can
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: I do to make sure that I do my part?
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Because you're obviously paying for my meal? Um, how can
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: I make sure to do something to make it up
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: for you paying for my meal? Um? Just you know what?
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: Lead Dean and Nick with the whole um booking a
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: hotel or an airbnb thing already on it texted him
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: yesterday and they were shocked, shocked that I had my
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: flight book like beyond onto Maze and I'm like, yeah,
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: Nick doesn't, Yeah, I know, it's you gotta be better,
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: So I will. I will lead that little team and
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: make sure that they're they're prepped and ready to go.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be fun. I was actually so ash. I
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: just did. I was the officiant and my cousin's wedding.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: I saw it was super. The first time your parents
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: met Jessica though right, no, no, they've got out her now.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: A couple of times but this was this was obviously
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: like a really big time because she met my whole
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: family on my mom's side and it went great. I mean,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: Jessica was just she crushed it and just crushed it
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: by being herself and so it was it was just
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: a ton of fun. But one thing I learned from
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: this wedding and my cousin's wedding was great. It's a
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: It was an Indiana wedding, so it wasn't like super
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: massive or whatever it was. If you do a very
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: like intimate ceremony but a massive party, people will leave
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: your wedding excited, joyful, and happy. And I've been to
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: weddings that don't feel like that. And so if you're
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: as your wedding planning, if for anybody out there listening,
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: what's like one thing, one advice that you would have
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: for them prepping for that big day. Oh my god, bad,
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: I can't believe you, just because Jared and I keep
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: telling everyone and especially all the vendors involved, we don't
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: want a party. We go. We don't want a party. No,
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: we don't want a party. We want a romantic experience.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: That's our tagline. Yeah, because we're not party people. We
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: want to make you feel like you walked into beating
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: the beast. Okay, so should I rephrase my first No? No, no,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: Let's walk through this together. This is a grand conversation. Yeah,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: should I rephrase? Do you think I'm wrong? Should I
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: rephrase my first statement to say? Maybe it isn't the party,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: but the like reception is at best best done, is
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: a elabration, I think sometime I think I like to
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: think of it as entertaining. It can still be entertaining
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: and not necessarily a party. Of course, there's going to
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: be dancing, but Jared and the epic moments that we're
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: really looking forward to are before the dancing portion. Isn't that,
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: don't you? I mean, I'm just thinking about that now,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: and anyboy out there listening, please give us your thoughts
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: on how you plan a successful wedding. I think people
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: resort to uh, alcohol and music because it's it's easy,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: and then people enjoy that. But it sounds like you
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: all are going the extra mile and trying to plan
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: an experience which seems like a lot of work. It
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: is a lot of work. We actually have a number
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: of different musical guests performers, one of which is a
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: celebrity performer. Um, so we have like one person performing
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: at the wedding, at the ceremony itself, we have one
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: band performing at the cocktail party. Then we have our
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: guest performer, and then we have a DJ. So we're
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: like separated out, so you have different vibes all night.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: This is shocking, I mean, and we what we want,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: what's so important to us is that when it comes
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: to the dance music, it's all curated by us. We
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: don't want a DJ playing like regular standard top forty
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: hits that don't mean anything to us. Everything is going
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: to be hand selected by Jared and I and like
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: have meeting to us this, I mean, this feels like
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: this is this will be on like any wedding event.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: I mean, Tanner and Jade's wedding seems like very similar.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Had Cel come out and play and there was great
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: music and great food, but that was playing by you
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: know obviously ABC. What do you hope then, and what
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: are you Okay, Let's let's do this more in a
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: holistic way. What do you think people should walk away
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: from weddings feeling for the couple. I think like deep
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: love in romance, So you think of a celebration, being
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: like a party where you're like drinking and jumping and
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: all that stuff. And I like to put our love
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: on display. But it's also because Jared and I love
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: to like be extra and be dramatic and like pretend
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: like we're in a romance movie. So that's the theme
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: of our wedding. I guess I can tell you that
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: our theme of our wedding is a romance movie. Oh
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: I forgot. There's also another musical guest, not not celebrity,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: but another type of performance during dinner that is going
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: to be different. There's going to be the celebrity performer,
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: the other performer during dinner, and then the party performer. Yeah,
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: it's like a whole bunch of different chapters. Oh my, hey,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: this is a bachelor wedding unlike any other. I'm ash,
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: I'm excited to be there. I'm excited to keep talking
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: more about it. I'm learning more about weddings week by
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: week here. Uh and and as an officiant now, I
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: am going to be very critical but very excited to
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: experience this whole new wedding that isn't a part. It's
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: a romantic celebration. It doesn't mean that we won't have
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: a couple of drinks and really jam out. But just
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: know that you may not be jamming out to the
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: typical songs that you usually do at weddings. Hey, Ash,
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: this is your wedding, this is not mine. I'm just
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: pumped to be there. Thanks, thanks for coming, Ben, thanks
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: for being on top of the crew, the Bachelor Boy
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: crew as well. Because it's really important that you know
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: Dean is there. Because you know Dean, we always joke
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: it's like who's the wedding guest? That's like very important
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: to be at your wedding, but but it's also the
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: most likely to like have something crazy come up and
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: he wasn't able to make it. It's like in that
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: episode of Full House when Uncle Jesse didn't make it
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: to his own wedding because he got stuck in the
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: tree because he had to jump out of a plane
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: before getting married. So I feel like that's gonna be Dean,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: Like he's gonna get stuck in a tree that that week.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: We've got to bring on later too. I need you
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: to ask him directly, is he going to show up
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: your wedding or not? But right now, as we have
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: a couple things going on in Bachelor Nation that we've
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: got to catch everybody up with or they're gonna be
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: super fiery. Um. Here here's the thing, Caleb Bruce. I
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: went to her live podcast last night and podcast in Boston.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: She does a great job, and it was packed in
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: Denver at the Paramount Theater. There are some amazing people,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: there's a great vibe and Caitlin had made a joke
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: on stage about how she was just recently uh in
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: a couple of articles because of a comment she made
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: about how Caitlin UH and Jason were hooking up once
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: and he picked her nose and uh they got hot
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: and heavy by doing a little like Uh, I just
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: feel weird saying I'm not gonna say because I just
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: feel odd even saying it. Anyways, they she said, they
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: were like, let's let's call this rubbing rubbing goodies together
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: outside the clothes and uh of the best I think
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: just say term would probably be less cringing. Uh. But
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: she mentioned says she was on her period, and periods
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: have been a very popular topic and Bachelor Nation right now,
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: you know, with Colton's recent comments uh on a podcast
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: about how you know women had had period panties and
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: it was like pooping their pants. It's good, not great.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Obviously a very popular topic. Caitlin is getting a lot
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: of backlash because of this, because it was too much
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: to share about her and Jason. Do you agree to disagree? Personally,
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't share that steamy of info, but I don't
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: not expect it from Caitlin. She's a totally different personality,
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: and I think it is in line with their personality.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's a bad thing at all. Like
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: I love Caitlin. I love her personally. I think it's
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: hilarious and I love how she get away with so
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: much raunch. So I think it's kind of like depends
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: on the mouth that it comes out of, on whether
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: it is or is not appropriate. Yeah, you know, Caitlin.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: Caitlin has always been that, and that's what we love
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: about Caitlin, right. She's very, uh like, very open, very honest.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: She she says things that most people want to say,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: and I think that's why women and men both love her,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: because she isn't filtered. And I don't want Caitlin to
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: change with that. And so I read these comments by her,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: and maybe it's because I do know her like, of
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: course she said that. Here's the Here's this part that
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: surprising to me is Jason is not like that at all.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: So do you think that they had a conversation after it. No.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: I think Jason loves her and knows that her intentions
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: are good. So I don't think he was upset. I
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: just think that if we if from an outside looking
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: and I have no clue, I bet he just She's
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: just pushing him to be a little more open, and
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: Jason's pushing her to be a little bit more protective
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: of what happens in private. I mean, here's the thing
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: about Caitlin. We've known Caitlin for years now, Like, there's
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: no secrets to who Caitlin Bristow is. She's great, She's
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: great this. But she got some heat for that. And
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: let's then move into the Colton comments. Colon got a
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: lot of heat here recently for his comments on a
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: podcast about period panties. I didn't know women had period panties.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: I had asked Jess Guy, I said, is this a thing? She?
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: Of course, it's a thing. I had no clue, So
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: I cannot blame Colton for being a little naive on
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: that topic. But there was a comment that made that
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: I think keyd up the public when he said he
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: compared it to pooping your pants and that women should
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: throw away their period panties once it's done. Ashley, You've
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: never lied to our audience about this kind of stuff,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: even if it's been a little controversial. Do you get
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: where he's coming from. Do you agree or disagree, or
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: do you think he was just completely out of place.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: I think he was a little bit out of place here.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: Um it was like, seemed a little bit young and
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: naive to say. Um, it seemed like somebody who didn't
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: really have much experience with women and wasn't necessarily like comfortable,
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: would be like anatomy and all that goes on with us.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: I would never think to throw out my underwear during
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: period underwear and not just wash it and unless it's
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: like super unless you you got your period and you
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: didn't have protection, and then it kind of was a
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: little bit more of an I don't want to, you know,
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: get really graphic here, but you know what I mean, Like, sure,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: I've thrown out panties before because of period reasons, but
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: I would never like think a little spot, I wouldn't
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: just wash out but I think it does just show
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: he's just not super just comfortable with that biology yet,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: which is totally I think, kind of normal for a
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: guy who hadn't had sex before. Yeah, that's the thing
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: is is Colton's coming from this from a completely different
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: place everybody else. And it's kind of one of the
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: things I love about this podcast that you and I
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: have ASH is that I'm learning a ton of from
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: you and from our guests about you know, women and
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: about relationships that I never knew before. And I honestly
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: I had no clue that women had period panties. It
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: wasn't a thing in periods. And I like, they don't
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: gross me out. I get them, Like I don't get them.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: I understand that you know, it is is a natural thing.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: It doesn't make me like at all repulsed. But I
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: had no clue that there is period panties, and I do.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: I think that Colton probably learned a lesson from this
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: comment because of the backlash that he got. I don't
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: have period panties. I just I don't have period panties
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: that are designated from my period. I think that you
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: usually look away, you're I don't know, I don't have them,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: but I totally know what they are and I understand
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: their purpose. I want to know from a guy, would
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: you ever think to compare period blood to poop? No? No,
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't, But I mean, that's just that's kind of difference.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: Like I think because of my years, you know, living
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: um with my ex fiance and and Lauren, I guess
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: everybody here knows um. And then also just you know,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: being thirty now, I'm aware of what's happening and more
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: and more, and so I would never compare it because
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: it is natural and it is uh something that should
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: not be frowned upon, and so I would never compare
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: the two. But here's here's also like the caveat to
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: all of this. We're all learning. And so my question
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: then would be to anybody out there, because we have
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of women listeners, how would
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: you like men to respond to situations like this that
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: they have no clue about? Right? So Colton obviously doesn't
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: know a ton about how a period works or how
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: women manage it and handle it, and so how would
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: you have rather him responded? Would it have been with
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: the honesty that he portrayed here, or should he have
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: just said I don't know how women do this, and
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: I can't speak about it. I think it probably would
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: have been okay if he had just been like, oh
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: my god, I had no idea their period panties, Like
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: I didn't know you guys even like leaked like that
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: was a thing. Um And then but I think it
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: was the comparing it to poop that was probably like
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: the distasteful part of it. Yeah, But then again, I
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: have said so many stupid things before, but a lot
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: of it has been just pure naive teg And I
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: don't want anybody to like, I don't want to villainize
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: him for this at all. I mean, he just it's
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: just he was just naive to it. He thought it
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: was kind of gross, but like didn't realize that, you know.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: He it's just something that he has to kind of
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: get comfortable with now, being especially a partner to a woman.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: Would you guys to bring Barns into this conversation, Oh sure,
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: let's do it, Heybury, Hey guys, how's it going good?
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: How are you pretty good? Just recovering from Katla? You know,
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: jump it back into things and I know you keep
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: relaxing and keep hydrating. Um, so we didn't want to.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: We're bringing you into a little bit of an awkward
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: conversation here, do you know how? And Colton was on
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: the Lady Gang podcast a couple of weeks ago that
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: he compared period blood and panties pop. Oh no, I um,
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: I didn't know about that. Are they comparable? That is
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: the question we're asking ourselves right now, Bree, and I've
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: got to step in as the resident mail here and say, okay, breath, Yeah,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: I learned that period panties were a thing. I didn't
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: know that was a thing. If if who If you
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: didn't know that Colton had just said this, what would
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: be your response to a man saying that women should
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: should throw away their panties and comparing it to poop?
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I guess to know, Like what
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: are we saying when we're comparing it too? Like I
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: just feel like this is such a weird topic for
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: so many people, but it's like natural, and it makes
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: women feel uncomfortable because we can't do anything about it,
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: you know, So it's a little bit weird for us.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: It's natural and we don't think of it as a
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: gross thing. First period, it's a little bit startling, but
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, and I wish that more people would
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: be more comfortable talking about it so we don't have
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: to feel weird about it. But I mean I have
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: like my set paintings from that time of the month
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: and everything, you know, like I don't, I don't throw
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: them away? What was that for all of this? What
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: was said through all this? Like? What? What is what
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: exactly is he saying? I think where Colton's coming from
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: is a place that he I mean, shock right, And
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: I just said earlier, I didn't know that that women
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: had a designated set on the side for for like
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: that time of the month. He But I think what
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: really like infuriated people was when he compared your period
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: to pooping your pants and then would you were underwear
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: that you just pooped your pants in? And I think
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: that's where women got fired up. So anyways, I think
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: what we need to do here is ask our listeners. Listeners,
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: what was your thoughts on this? Is it something that
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: was offensive to you? Um? Do you understand Colton's being
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: a little naive to this situation and you know with
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: with just this topic in general, how would you prefer
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: men respond? Please email us at been An Ashley at
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: I heart Meatia dot com. Bree, we have to talk
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: about Coachella. I started out the podcast with Tracy, so
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: Tracy Ashley and I talked to Tracy and I was
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: saying that I feel like coach Ill. I was at
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: Caitlin Bristow's live podcast last night and Coachell has made
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: fun of three times, and it was made fun of,
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: you know, for for the reasons that everybody makes fun
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: of it. When you're there, does it feel like the
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: place to be? Is it the cool place to be?
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: And if I'm never if I've never been invited, should
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: I take offense to that? No. Honestly, it's so funny
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: because me and my girlfriend went for work and um,
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: we kind of just like this big joke. But it's
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: kind of just like you're in this den with all
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: these influencers, and you know it just it feels like
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: everyone's kind of trying to one up everyone, and everyone
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: wants to be there for the music that like, I
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: genuinely care about it, and I just think it's a
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: weird vibe. I'd rather be a stagecoach. Personally. I'm really
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: bad because I'm going in two weeks. But it's touchelogists.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: It feels like a lot of like anxiousness, and especially
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: when you're in v I P and and running into
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: everyone and all of that. It's not really just about
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: like having a good time at the festival. You know, Um,
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: I went for work. I don't go for fun. Um
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: I was working with a brand, but I did. I
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: made like the most of it. I really did, like
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: um a few of the people that were playing, but
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: like I didn't show up until you know, later in
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: the night. And you know, it's it's a lot like
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: you're walking around probably nine miles every single day and
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: trying to get ubers and all that. It's it's really
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: it's technic. So do the people out there who are
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: having fomo looking at pictures from Gotela and thinking that
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: everybody is so beautiful and stylish and having the best time,
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: are you kind of debunking that and saying that's just
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: something that is portrayed on social media and you're not
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: really having the best time. I mean, yeah, I feel
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: like not everyone talks about like what's really going on
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: behind the scenes, and like getting me on Carnival and
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: getting out of me on Carnival and trying to get
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: drinks and getting that perfect shot and how many photos
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: it takes to get that perfect shot. You know all
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: that it's it's it really is hechnic. I think, um
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: not everyone says open about it gives me anxiety just
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: here too. Oh gosh, giving that perfect shot. Man. I
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: just posted a picture last night and it was the
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: first time in a long time I've looked at a
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: picture and said, yeah, then you get you can get it,
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: Like that's good. But getting that perfect shot stresses me out.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: It is so stressful and knowing that you have a
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: weekend where you have to get like a certain amount
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: of posts all weekend long, and just thinking like, wow,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: will I even be able to enjoy this, like kind
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: of just what's going on your in your head the
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: whole time. You know that people like we understand the
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: stress that comes with getting the perfect shot and getting
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: a certain amount of pictures, and there there is really
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: stress involved. But you know that a lot of people
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: listening to this podcast are going to be like, oh,
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: poor influencers, they have to get good pictures. So what
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: do you have to say to people who are gonna
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: give you that little brow Well, and I hate to
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: come off that way. It's just I don't like to
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: inconvenience people to ask them to like help me with stuff,
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: so it just gets a little hectic. Like I have
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: to have like certain people with me that I know,
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: like also comfortable asking to help. And it's like editing
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: and all that other stuff like that. It takes time
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: to do all of this, but also like I'm appreciative
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: that I get to do these sorts of things, you know,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: like for work and um, getting to getting to go
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: to a festival in general, Like it's a good time. Um.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: I think like if you haven't experienced it, like it's
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: a once in a lifetime thing, you should do it once.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: But it's definitely effected. You know. We uh we love
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: on this podcast Breathe. We want to break down the
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: barriers if if we if this podcast ends in twenty
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: years and we look back on our time doing the
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: almost famous podcast, I want to be able to say
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: that we broke down the barriers and that we took
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: down that fourth wall and we allowed everybody out there
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: to see the life of you know, of luxury that
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: Instagram leads to Breathe. Coachella seems great, and you did
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: go for work, well, for anybody out there that's envious
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: or a little sad they weren't invited, or they can't
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: go to these kind of festivals, or maybe they can't
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: take the pictures. What would be your advice to them? Um,
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: my advice to them? I mean, I think if you
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: if you go, if you enjoy festivals, you know, go,
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: But it just I mean, like I said, it's it's
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: just it's something that you don't be really you know,
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: you don't know what's going on behind the scenes, and um,
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: wheneveryone's up to I think maybe just go to go
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: to g a, have a good time, bring your girlfriends,
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: bring your guy friends, whoever you're with, um and make
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: the most of it. I don't think um going for work.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: It's the best time, but it's fun. Well, leading in
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: now to a whole new conversation. We've been talking on
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: this podcast today, which has been great to catch up
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: with Ashley because I haven't got to hear about her
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: wedding planning. Ashley and Jared have a massive wedding coming
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: up and one of the group's men is Dean Ungler,
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: who is a very sought after man and Bachelor Nation.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: He's one of my greatest friends, and I love him dearly.
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: Uh and and so does Ashley. Bring on on our
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: podcast a few months ago, you mentioned that Dean was
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: a man that you maybe would have your eye on
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: in Paradise. So there's two questions I want to ask there.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: One is, uh, will you be going to Paradise? And two,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: if you do go to Paradise, what's the chances that
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: you're Dean's date to Ashley and Jared's wedding. Oh wow,
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: I feel like that's a pretty far shot, because one
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: is this wedding it's in August August. I mean, if
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: I go on Paradise, I guess we'll have to see
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: what happens from there. That's a terrible answer. I'm not no,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: I'm not taking that answer. Yeah, she really fluffed over
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: that question. Okay, free let me rephrase this. How excited?
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: What would be your feelings? I guess I should say
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: an excitement level if you were Dean's date to Ashley
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: and Jared's wedding, I think we would have a great time.
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: I hope it happened. There you go. That's way better.
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: That's so much. Hey, that's great for you. Thank you
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: for thank you for doing that for us. Okay, have
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: you talked to him since we last interviewed you on
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: the Almost Face podcast. Yes, so I finally answered his DM. Um,
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: he was really upset about that. I stepped back and
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: remind them of the listeners you first c ms me. Yeah,
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: he asked me to go on his podcast, and at
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: the time I didn't know like if I could respond,
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: and um, there was it was just like hectic. I
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: was getting a lot of people reaching out, so I
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: didn't respond right away. And then after I left the show,
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: he DMed again, so he like deleted his original d
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: M so I wouldn't see it and asked again and
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: then um, and then I started talking about him in
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: podcast um with you guys, and UM went on his
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: podcast and then we started damming after that. So it's
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: been a little bit of talk, a little bit of
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: communications since. All Right, so you guys have talked, So
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: if he does show up in Paradise, we know that
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: there was a well actually we know there was a
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: prior communication. But can you talk about whether it's gone
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: beyond podcast chat and into more personal chat. Um. Yeah,
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: like we've dammed, we've exchanged numbers. I think it's just
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: a little hectic because he's quite the traveler. I'm always
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: working and um comducent, we haven't had the time to
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: you know, make that go anywhere. But I think that
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: like we're both hoping that we get a chance to
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: go on Paradise and you know, maybe hit it off there.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: I don't know. We'll see, we'll see what happens. Okay,
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: all right, Well, you guys do live in the same city,
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: so it can't be that. I mean, I can understand
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: what hard, right you would think it would couldn't be.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: It wouldn't be that hard. But Dean is a traveler.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: That man is always on the go, so he might
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: be the most challenging person to really get a hold
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: of and hang out with. Anyway, I would put you
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: guys in an awkward situation where I put you both
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: on the phone at the same time. But I'm gonna
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: let you have that public interaction for the first time
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: in Paradise if Dean and if you do decide to go,
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: so breee, I'm about to get on the phone with
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: your possible man. Thank you so much for calling in,
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: and we hope to talk to you during Paradise time.
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: I hope so too. It's talking with you guys. So
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: good talking to you. Thank you bye. So Jared and
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  Speaker 1: of one hundred dollars or more. Actually, I know Dean
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  Speaker 1: is a groomsman in your wedding, and you guys have
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: a relationship that I cannot have with Dean. You understand
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: him better than I overwhel So I'm gonna let you
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: ask these tough questions to Dean. Well, thank you all right?
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: Hello Dean Unglert. Hello, Hey, So Jared recently asked you
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: to become a groomsman and our barridal party. Thank you
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: for saying yes. What an honor it is to be
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: up there on the stage. What's it called up there
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: on the all through with you guys as you exchange
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: your rowse. I'm thrilled, Dean. How did you react? I
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: have a video of it. Maybe you'll post this on
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: the podcast comes out. It's so cute. Your reaction was
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: so adorable. Are you surprised Jared was scared to ask me?
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: It's like you. I think he was worried. I was
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: gonna say no, no. Jared and I have felt that
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: asking people to be our groomsman or bridesmaids has been
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: the most awkward thing. It's like asking somebody to prom
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: It's like literally asking your friend out. You're like, so,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I have a question, will you be my bridesmaid. It's
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: just like so cringe e for us for some reason.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: I can see why, but I guess my thought process
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: is if you're comfortable enough asking someone to be your
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: bridemaid or your groomsman, then you should know that they're
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: going to say yes anyways, Like there's not a million
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: year litter. So no, I'm flattered, but I'm so to
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: be up there. Um, I've never been in a group
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: wetting before, so oh my gosh, it's a great honor. Dean,
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: that's so cute. I'm so glad to be your first.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: Were that were your first? That's awesome. Du Well, you're
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: not going to have that many responsibilities. Were kind of
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: like covering it all for you guys. But there is
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: a groomsman quiz that I found online and I thought
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: we should have you take it to see how good
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: of a groomsman you're gonna be or how much research
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do on the topic before standing
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: up there. Okay, I mean I've already done. I'm already
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: started playing the bachelor party. I know it's not my responsibility,
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: but I'm taking it into my own hand. Really, because
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: what are you planning on doing for your bachelor party.
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: I don't want Jared to die before he marries me.
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: Just agree with me that I'm inviting okay, because you
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: guys have you know Dean out there. He is an
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: adventurer at heart, and I don't know how much I
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: how I'm if I'm okay with like Jared skydiving or
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: like climbing Mount ever before our wedding. We're going to
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: put the adventures side island, Rhode Island, I think, or
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: wherever we are. I don't really remember. To got it,
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: that would be awesome. Well, you booked your flight, so
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: i'd hope you know it was It's RHO Rhode Island.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: I guess that was a lot to share it. Oh yeah,
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: you are so okay. We're gonna start the quiz now, Dan,
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: does there have to be the same amount of bride'smaids
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: as there are groomsmen? Oh? Great, that's that's correct. False
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: Is the right answer? True or false? The groomsmen and
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: the bride'smaids are usually the first to dance after the
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: newly weds and their parents. Apparently this is true, but
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: I also was not aware of this tradition. I thought
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: it was just it was just every man from South
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: after you kind of just blended on the dance floor.
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: So Jared and I are planning this grand entrance for
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: you guys into the ballroom, and we are we're very,
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: very excited about this. Do you know of any of
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: my bridesmaids that you would like to be paired up with? Oh? Yeah, okay,
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: we can make that work, I think. Okay, great, Okay.
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: Question number three? Sure or false? All groomsmen need to
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: give a speech on the wedding day. Come on, ask
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: you me some hard questions. All okay, good, because it's
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: typically the best man and for any of you guys,
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: I love speeches. Do you like speeches at weddings? Um? Well,
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: like I said, I haven't really been the any weddings.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: If I was the audience, I would hate it. But
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: because I mean this one, I want to give a speech,
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: even though I might not be allowed to. I want
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: to fill it up with so many speeches because I
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: love speeches. They're my favorite parts of weddings, even if
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: I'm not super close to the bride and groom. So
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know what we'll think about it. Um. For
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: the traditional wedding, the bride sits on the left while
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: the groom's family sits on the right of the ceremony space.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think this is true? False? It's true? Okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it is true. A groomsman does not need to get
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  Speaker 1: the couple a wedding gift. True or false. Everyone needs
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  Speaker 1: to get the couple of wedding gifts. Very good. Go
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  Speaker 1: to Crane Barrel dot com right now. Do you have
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  Speaker 1: a we have a registry with Cranton Barrel. Okay, cool.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't even take that yet, but I will. I
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  Speaker 1: was gonna go off the registry or do I have
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  Speaker 1: to go on? Do I have to We appreciate any
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: gifts and we don't even need anything. Okay? You have
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: to include your family, even your sister in law or
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: brother in law's in your brile party. Is this true
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  Speaker 1: or false? It is false, but there's no formal etiquette
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  Speaker 1: to this. But it's a nice gesture. Your sister wasn't
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  Speaker 1: in your brittle party. I think you'd be a little upset.
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: That would be pretty crazy. Last of this round of questions.
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  Speaker 1: The groom's men typically pays for their own suit or tailoring. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: you guys are paying for it for me? Actually, we
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  Speaker 1: are not, Um, we are getting you an amazing deal
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  Speaker 1: on a tux, an amazing deal for a tailored custom
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  Speaker 1: to U tux that you will have for the rest
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  Speaker 1: of your life. Deanu Alert, Um, that's it. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you get to keep it. What color is it? Black?
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  Speaker 1: It's not like a page or something. Huh. No, No,
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  Speaker 1: do I going to personalize any part of my outfit? Um? No,
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: that this is where I become a Bradzilla. So that's
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: like a very common question I've been getting asked do
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: you have any brad Zilla moments? And the only one,
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: funny enough, was Jared wanted to offer you guys a
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: choice between getting suits or touch is for the wedding,
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  Speaker 1: and I said, no, just taxes. Sorry, also no blue option,
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  Speaker 1: just black. Well, I agree with the taxes over suits,
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  Speaker 1: but I was just thinking, like I mean, selfishly, I
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh, well, I want to have a different
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  Speaker 1: colored bow tie or pocket square than the rest of
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  Speaker 1: the people that are gonna be up there. But I
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: understand from your perspective why you don't want that. Probably not.
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: I like unity, but I also love your style. So
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: you know, come to the rehearsal dinner wearing anything you want.
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  Speaker 1: I'm wearing some high waters and like a very tight
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  Speaker 1: European cut suit, so you can customize it to you
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: your suit, Yeah, your talx. Okay, moving on, here's some
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  Speaker 1: fun questions specific to our wedding. Can you name all
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  Speaker 1: of Jared's groomsmen? I just know that Nick and I
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: are are in there. Okay, Well I would get to
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  Speaker 1: know these guys, Nick Tanner, Paul Eric, those are his cousins,
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  Speaker 1: Chad one of his best friends from home, Jim Jimmy
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  Speaker 1: one of his best friends from home, Kenny another friend
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  Speaker 1: from home, Justin, his brother in law, and his dad friend.
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  Speaker 1: His dad is the best man. How cute is that?
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  Speaker 1: I was about to ask you the best man? That's awesome,
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  Speaker 1: I mean cool. Well, we're gonna have a rip and
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: raddy time at his bachelor party that he's not invited to.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: Jared and I are barely going to the grocery store
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  Speaker 1: whole foods, but online and like half the prices mind boggling.
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  Speaker 1: You can shop for thousands of best selling organic food
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  Speaker 1: and natural products at fifty percent ent below traditional retail prices.
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  Speaker 1: Shopping at Thrive Market means supporting a select group of
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  Speaker 1: make the world a better place by shopping at Thrive
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  Speaker 1: Market because they only sell non gmo food snacks, vitamins, supplements,
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  Speaker 1: personal care products, eco friendly cleaning supplies, even beauty products.
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  Speaker 1: We have been getting all the non toxic cleaning supplies
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  Speaker 1: from Thrive Market, and when we clean, it smells a
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  Speaker 1: lot less chemically in our house, which is really really nice.
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  Speaker 1: Plus it's all shipped straight to your door. Some of
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  Speaker 1: my favorite things from Thrive Market are there amazing pasta sauces.
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  Speaker 1: They have a whole bunch of different varieties of pastas
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  Speaker 1: You're going to be fed so well. Get so many
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  Speaker 1: cleaning supplies for your house that's good for you to
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  Speaker 1: breathe in and stuff, and a lot of really cool
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  Speaker 1: beauty products that are totally natural. Just go to thrive
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  Speaker 1: market dot com slash almost famous. Again, that is thrive
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: market dot com slash almost famous. Speaking of parties, what
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: is Jared's drink of choice? Oh? I should probably know that.
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: Uh Um, I'm gonna say avocada red wine to start,
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  Speaker 1: and then he'll probably switch over to beer. I'll pay off. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I just remember I was thinking that around bock was
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  Speaker 1: and he was drinking vodka like it was like he
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  Speaker 1: was a fish. Oh really Yeah, you don't remember when
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  Speaker 1: we were all Yeah, I guess he was, so I
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: like cranberry vodka. That is what I can down the
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  Speaker 1: the easiest. All right, what hair will you be sporting
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: during our wedding? What hair cut? Hair? Yeah? Um, well
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: my hair is gonna be what We're still three months away?
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: Four months away, we're five months away. Uh yeah, we're
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: like four and a half. I mean, I don't really
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  Speaker 1: have any plan on cutting my hair between now and then,
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  Speaker 1: so it's gonna be long. I'm gonna then sweet. It's
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: gonna look good in the talks very Jack Dawson, Yeah,
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: very jacked. Often. Maybe I'll have like a head band
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: on if you guys will allow it. I forgot that
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: I am going to have to blow so many of
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: your fashion dreams for this. And the last question I
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: have for you, Deane is what is a song that
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: will be our first dance? Oh my god, it's gonna
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: be probably the song from Titanic. No, but I did
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: realize that we have to incorporate it in the DJ
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: said for sure, it's going to be ever the same
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: by Rob Thomas. I never would have gotten that, but
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: Rob Thomas sounds like something you guys would have at
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: your wedding. Definitely, definitely will be incorporated in our day. Well, Dean,
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: to be part of the day, even just getting a wedding,
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: but I we talked about but now I'm gonna be
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: part of it. It's amazing getting like you wouldn't be
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: into the wedding, You're so Sweetean. I love you, and
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: I'm so tend to be there with you. I love you,
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: and I'm so glad you're gonna be there. Okay, I
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: like that. When I'm crying, I can look to you
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: and I just know that you're going to have the
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: most gigantic smile on your face, which will probably make
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: me laugh. I'll be I'll be smiling through and through.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: I know, I know. Okay, um let we couldn't let
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: you go here on the Almost Famous podcast without asking
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: you if you are thinking about going to Paradise, because
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: there's so any rumors about it and so many girls
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: that want you to be there. How do you don't know?
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: I think that's uh, that's just one of those things
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: that only time is going to tell. But time can
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: only tell for too much longer because you have to
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: make a decision soon. I haven't been approached about it,
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: so I don't know. Yeah, right, if they want me,
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: I would maybe have the conversation. See if at least anything,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: But until that moment happens, I mean obviously not things
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: really ever going to be setting up. Dean. If you
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: were to go to Paradise, would you want to go
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: in with the original cast that first day, or would
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: you want to be one of the guys that enters
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: in a couple of days later. I think it be
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: good to be because the original cats first time, so
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: it would be nice. Maybe try something different, come down
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: with the date cards, you know, Okay? And how would
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: it be if you if Danielle or Christina, the people
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: that you were in a love triangle with during Bachelor
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: in Paradise Season four, how would that be? I personally
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: and have any issue with it. I would support them,
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: and if someone found them interesting, I would encourage them
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: to explore it. I don't really bear any resentment or
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: or harsh feelings or either of them, so, um, nothing
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: but supportive for my end. I'm sure they would probably
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: talk a little craps about me rightfully, so but um, yeah,
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: I'm sure. I don't know. I don't think it'd be
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: that awkward. Well we don't. We don't have to worry
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: about Leslie being there because she has a boyfriend. Well
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: that's good. I don't really know what to say that one. Sorry.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: I love putting their guests in tough situations. That's the one.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: You're a tough one, all right? Well, thanks for joining us. Dean,
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: and I'm so glad that you're part of our wedding.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: You're going to really light up the experience. I know
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: I don't want to steal the States from Jared, but
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: I think I might not have a choice. What you
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: talked to Jared about those plans on your own podcasts
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: help I suncud dating what if the aster asked if
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: there are any objections? And I storm out and I
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: yell and I said, I won't allow it to happen.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: Please don't do that. But what if you never know?
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: I've always we did a podcast. We didn't. I don't
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: get a podcast about a wedding being interrupted because everybody's
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: like the biggest I don't know how to say this.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: Everybody always wonders if there's any point in saying, does
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: anybody have anything left to say? Forever? Now or now
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: or forever? Hold your piece? Right? Yea? So we did
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: a podcast on if there has been anybody out there
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: that's experienced this, and we found like three people and
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: it was dramatic. Yeah, don't you think by that point
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: the objection started to be well known? Like why would
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: you wait up until literally the last fossible moment to
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: object one girl she knew that the groom was cheating
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: on the bride and interrupted and told that story. Okay,
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: but why not before embarrassing? Oh, it's so embarrassing, it's horrendous.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: I have no idea. Why wait to that moment? It
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: seems very old fashioned to present that question, because I
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: think that in this day and age, people are a
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: little bit more like communicative. It seems like something that
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: would happen in the eighteen hundreds with a couple that
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: didn't even know each other's mind bobbing. Wait, did you
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: guys get to the point of knowing whether or not
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: they went through the wedding? They didn't. They didn't go
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: through at the wedding, They went to the reception and
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: had a party or like enjoyed the food. That's well, yeah,
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: it's not all right. Thanks Dean, thank you, thank you,
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: thank you, and I'll see you soon, miss you bye.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: All right. Well, that was a good one. Always fun
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: talking to Dean and grilling him. Such um, such a
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: man who who can just charm the pants off of you,
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: you know. Anyway, thanks to Dean for being on this
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: and Bree and Tracy. Great hearing about the Coachell The
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: weekend that we thankfully missed out on. Anyway, i've been, actually,
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: and i've been been by. Follow the Benn and Ashley
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• 1:05:24
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