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ONE OF THE TWOTS is joining Celebrity Big Brother… · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellon Cats and
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Speaker 1: Tambra Judge. Hi, guys, welcome to this week's two Teas
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Speaker 1: in a Pod with myself and Tamra Judge. Hi, Tell,
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Speaker 1: how are you? I'm hanging in? Oh my gosh, what
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Speaker 1: did you do this weekend? Well? Um, for those of
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Speaker 1: you guys who can't see me, I'm in quarantine now
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Speaker 1: you know. I announced earlier that, um, I'm doing Celebrity
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Speaker 1: Big Brother, and I am officially now on day seven.
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Speaker 1: Hasn't been seven days? Seven days? Today's your last day? Well?
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Speaker 1: I thought today was my last day, but it's actually tomorrow.
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Speaker 1: But I lose my phone today? No, yeah, Like what
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Speaker 1: do you mean, Like, why can't you just hand it
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Speaker 1: over when you leave? Why do you have to lose
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Speaker 1: it today if you're not going to leave tomorrow. Think
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Speaker 1: it's we lose the phone own the day that it's
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Speaker 1: announced that who's in the Big Brother House because like
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Speaker 1: right now there's still so many rumors about who's in
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Speaker 1: the house who's not. And then I don't think they
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Speaker 1: want us because we're not allowed to know, Like, but
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Speaker 1: you should see me like trying to put my eye
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Speaker 1: up to like the little people in my hotel room
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Speaker 1: trying to hear voices. Oh my gosh, I can only
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Speaker 1: imagine you have you probably have a cup to the one. Now,
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Speaker 1: do you know it's like everybody in the same row,
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Speaker 1: Like I'm so intrigued by this. Well I don't know
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Speaker 1: for in the same row, but I have heard like
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Speaker 1: because we could we get COVID tested, we get our foods,
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Speaker 1: We get all of these things pretty much in prison,
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Speaker 1: but with a phone. So you have not you don't
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Speaker 1: have a balcony. You can go outside. I don't have outside.
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Speaker 1: There is a window, but I don't. I can't, like
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Speaker 1: there's nothing I can step onto, Like I could crack
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Speaker 1: the window, but I can't like stand on a balcony. However,
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Speaker 1: the only person which this I may or may not
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Speaker 1: be wrong, that I think that I've figured out is
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Speaker 1: in Celebrity Big Brother is Shanna Mogler. Because i's time
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Speaker 1: to time look at her Instagram, and you know, I
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Speaker 1: texted you this pick, but this is just for everybody else.
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Speaker 1: I recognized her balcony. Even though we don't have balconies,
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Speaker 1: we still have like what is what a railing? I
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Speaker 1: recognized her and her anst story because she was posing
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Speaker 1: in a bathing suit. Oh my gosh, well, I have
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Speaker 1: to say you sent me the picture and then the
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Speaker 1: picture of your railing. You're like, is that the same railing?
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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, it looks like the same railing. And
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Speaker 1: I can see her being on because you know, her
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Speaker 1: ex is now dating and engaged to Kardashian, so she's
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Speaker 1: kind of been in the press a lot lately. So
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Speaker 1: who else do you think? So why can't they just
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Speaker 1: tell you? Because it's a social experiment, which before agreeing
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Speaker 1: to the show, I hadn't you know. I've watched a
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Speaker 1: little bit, but never like religiously. I didn't fully understand it.
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Speaker 1: I didn't know the rules. I didn't understand vetos and
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Speaker 1: backdoors and like all of these different things that now, um,
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Speaker 1: I've watched two full seasons of Celebrity Big Brothers since
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Speaker 1: being in here an I learned, well, yes, I learned
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Speaker 1: all the sayings, which there's a lot of sayings like
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Speaker 1: the power of veto and head of household and blah
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Speaker 1: blah blah. No idea what you're talking about? I know?
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Speaker 1: I neither did I, but now I know. Um. But
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Speaker 1: what I do know is that some people go in
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Speaker 1: with like one like a plan and like how they're
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Speaker 1: going to form alliance. Like on Housewives, it's for Boden
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Speaker 1: to like have alliances, Like you're not supposed to have alliance?
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Speaker 1: Is this you have? Like alliances keep you safe? Okay,
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Speaker 1: And it's a game. I'm gonna bene watch old episodes.
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Speaker 1: We can we talk about it because I really don't
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Speaker 1: I've never seen what. I don't really know. Yeah, so
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Speaker 1: it's like you want to win, but you don't want
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Speaker 1: to win so badly that you become like a threat.
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Speaker 1: Like Olympians always go first, So that's pretty good news
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Speaker 1: for me. I don't like because they're they're so competitive
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Speaker 1: and like they're mentally strong, but you're competitive. Well, I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna have to try to play it down a little bit.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to be somewhere in the middle. But
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Speaker 1: what I originally thought was that America voted you in
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Speaker 1: and out, and I was like, that could really get
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Speaker 1: me in trouble. But it's actually the other people in
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Speaker 1: the house the vote you in and out, and then
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Speaker 1: at the end of the season, the house all everybody
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Speaker 1: that's booted out picks like the top two and votes
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Speaker 1: the winner. However, the only thing that America does vote
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Speaker 1: for is America's favorite house guest, and you win two
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Speaker 1: dollars if you're America's favorite house guest. Yeah, that's that. Um,
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Speaker 1: I've learned. That's where I am. That's scared excited. UM,
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Speaker 1: I'm really scared. UM. So you're having um Yeah, that's
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Speaker 1: why on the last episode I was having like severe
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Speaker 1: acid reflux. That's like my tell. I always like when
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Speaker 1: I was on Housewives, I'd have to pop toms like
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Speaker 1: went out of business. I get respecitive. I'm sensitive, sensitive,
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Speaker 1: So I think I'm just most nervous not to be
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Speaker 1: able to talk to the kids and Edwin. So what
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Speaker 1: is the longest you could post from here on out
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Speaker 1: not having your phone? What is the longest you can
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Speaker 1: go without? Senior? Family winner is announced February, so okay,
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Speaker 1: it's almost like twenty three days, five days days. Um.
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Speaker 1: And then when somebody leaves or gets vote kicked off? Whatever?
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Speaker 1: Is it a weekly process? I well, sometimes it'll be
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Speaker 1: like a double elimination or weekly. But I do know
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Speaker 1: that we go in, we have a competition, and somebody
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Speaker 1: will go home, and then we have like five or
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Speaker 1: six days where there's like nothing and then that's when
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Speaker 1: the live showing starts. But by nothing means like we're
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Speaker 1: still in the house, but that's when we're like getting
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Speaker 1: to know each other and all that kind of stuff.
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Speaker 1: I'm I don't understand is if you are going to
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Speaker 1: just start filming in the next couple of days, how
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Speaker 1: does it air almost immediately, like within a day because
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Speaker 1: it's live. Oh, it's live live, so it'll be February
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Speaker 1: two will be live, and then they'll show back feed
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Speaker 1: from the first competition because but I'm gathering, and then
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Speaker 1: they show our confessionals. But then it comes on like
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Speaker 1: multiple times a week and stuff, and then I had
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Speaker 1: no idea it was live. Okay, that makes sense, So
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Speaker 1: how did they turn it around that quick? Yeah? So
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Speaker 1: it's live. And then the crazier part is that there's
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Speaker 1: a live seven feed that starts after your week in
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Speaker 1: the house and people can sign on, get a membership
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Speaker 1: and watch you twenty four hours a day. Mm hmm.
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Speaker 1: Who I think I'm gonna have viewing parties. So that's
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Speaker 1: what we are. Okay, we'll make us proud. How are you?
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Speaker 1: What's going on with you? Nothing? Much? Um, I have
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Speaker 1: a little stomach issue over the weekend too, so I
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Speaker 1: don't know, We're just getting all nervous, I know, I know.
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Speaker 1: I went to my son's house, you know, because he
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Speaker 1: moved out. Spencer has his own apartment, and he made
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Speaker 1: me dinner. Oh he did what he mad. He made me.
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Speaker 1: He bought him an air fryer for Christmas because he
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Speaker 1: really wanted one. He loves to cook, so he made
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Speaker 1: me chicken and then he made French fries, which which
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Speaker 1: I was on a no carb thing and I couldn't
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Speaker 1: say no, so I had to eat them because I mean,
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Speaker 1: he's never made me dinner before. And um, we watched
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Speaker 1: a movie together and so it was nice to me.
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Speaker 1: I took Sophia and then of course Ozark is back,
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Speaker 1: so that's been every night slipping into bed and watching
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Speaker 1: oz Ark. But I you know what I TV is
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Speaker 1: like a sleeping pill for me. Like I laid watch
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Speaker 1: TV and within ten minutes, I'm like out, So you
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Speaker 1: gotta watch Yellow Jackets next. So everybody's telling me that good.
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Speaker 1: It's like I told the producers on Big Brother. I'm like,
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Speaker 1: I don't know that I can go into the house
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Speaker 1: until I finish this. Oh my gosh. Okay, so i'd
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Speaker 1: have to do I'm gonna work write that one down yellow. Okay, yeah,
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Speaker 1: but that's about it. Just I got Eddie to find
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Speaker 1: the hang up the curtains in the house after the remodel,
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Speaker 1: and um, yeah, he was piste off. That's I mean,
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Speaker 1: that's pretty much. I'm well, you don't have very many
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Speaker 1: jobs around here. Just do it. Do it like I
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Speaker 1: put up twats. I know, I do wear I put it.
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Speaker 1: I do everything around here. I'll drill holes and put
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Speaker 1: up shells and do everything. So he was a little annoyed.
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Speaker 1: But and then he made a tomahawk steak pigle. We
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Speaker 1: rarely eat me, but when we do, you go for it,
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Speaker 1: go big and bad to get into our Q and
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Speaker 1: a Q and yeah yeah sure. Um of all the housewives,
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Speaker 1: who do you always have an reaction to when you
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Speaker 1: hear them speak? I don't know. Um, I could just
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Speaker 1: stick to our franchise franchise. I think Shannon, No, she
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Speaker 1: just everything she says bugs me. But that's because I
9:35
Speaker 1: don't like her. But Noela too, Like she has this
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Speaker 1: way of talking. It's like she talks really like it's
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Speaker 1: just like just spit it out. Yeah, it's a fact
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Speaker 1: about you. The reaction to when I hear them speak,
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Speaker 1: I mean trying to think my last season, I don't know,
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Speaker 1: I didn't have the world's best time was utton, Oh
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Speaker 1: you didn't know? Weirdly, we didn't have the best time together.
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Speaker 1: So I mean kind of her. But then she's gonna
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Speaker 1: be funny too, So I guess I don't know. I've
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Speaker 1: got to see what she does this season to be
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Speaker 1: perfectly honest, because I'm so far removed now that I
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Speaker 1: feel like I can watch more. Is your than like
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Speaker 1: as a friend? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah? Was it hard for
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Speaker 1: you to hide your feelings, your true feelings, your facial
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Speaker 1: reactions about someone you didn't like on camera? I think
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Speaker 1: we both were always pretty open about Yeah, that's part
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Speaker 1: of my problem, is my facial expression to give it away,
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Speaker 1: like if somebody says, I'm like really, yeah, me too.
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Speaker 1: I think it was pretty if I was scared, if
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Speaker 1: I was sad, if I was happy, you know. Um,
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Speaker 1: how did you feel when other women were arguing in
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Speaker 1: front of you while filming? Was it awkward or hard
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Speaker 1: for you not to chime in? Um? I definitely chimed
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Speaker 1: in time that I shouldn't have. And I think I
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Speaker 1: learned from that. And if I'm because I was involved
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Speaker 1: in so much drama, if it's something that did not
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Speaker 1: pertain to me, I tried to step back for the
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Speaker 1: most part, but if it was like if I had
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Speaker 1: anything to add to it, I would Yeah. I when
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Speaker 1: other people are arguing in front of like on camera,
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Speaker 1: like I would be like, who, it's not this time. Um. However, um.
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Speaker 1: In regards to training in to me, I always it
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Speaker 1: was like a numbers thing, so like if one person
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Speaker 1: was really just like out on their own being argued with,
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Speaker 1: then probably I would say something. Yeah. I mean, granted,
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Speaker 1: let's be honest, I've pretty much said something regardless. Always
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Speaker 1: got me. Course, Now do you talk to Garcela or
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Speaker 1: Sutton um like catch up to No, when I saw
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Speaker 1: them last I got along fine with both of them.
11:54
Speaker 1: But they're not like, no, they're not like you. They're
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Speaker 1: not in your text chain, not on my Fox poide.
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Speaker 1: What's going on? No? Um No. I feel like Sutton
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Speaker 1: will like sometimes I'll hear from her and she's like
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Speaker 1: we should get drinks, but then we never schedule it.
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Speaker 1: Oh you know it's like yeah, sure yeah, um And
12:16
Speaker 1: then Garcel. The last time I did see her, it
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Speaker 1: actually was completely adercent fine, oh good, like, but I
12:22
Speaker 1: think that that's really how she you know, like, didn't
12:26
Speaker 1: she call you? She called me like or something. It
12:29
Speaker 1: was a gnat. I'm sorry she called her was a
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Speaker 1: little dramatic, idn't remember. It's just a bigger bug, just
12:39
Speaker 1: a little a little dirtier, dirtier, like, don't cock her
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Speaker 1: to eat poop. I don't know, um no. But then
12:49
Speaker 1: I saw her and in my mind I was like
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Speaker 1: and then I was like no, But I had texted
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Speaker 1: her back during it, during that whole thing, like I
12:57
Speaker 1: sent her text and said like, hey, you know it
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Speaker 1: just it really hurt my feelings. You know, when you're
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Speaker 1: in a position where you have to go back on
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Speaker 1: a show like that that you were a part of
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Speaker 1: for three years, and then you know, you don't say
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Speaker 1: anything to my face, and then you say it and
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Speaker 1: your confessionals like, and meanwhile you're texting me asking me
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Speaker 1: for like referrals and stuff like that. That that hurt
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Speaker 1: my feelings. And she never wrote me back. So I
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Speaker 1: was like kind of worried when we saw each other
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Speaker 1: in person, but she didn't bring it up, and I
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Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I don't need to bring
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Speaker 1: it up either. That's another reason why I didn't want
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Speaker 1: to go back this season to do a few scenes,
13:31
Speaker 1: because you don't get interviews. Your castmates can totally bash you,
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Speaker 1: and you can end up looking you know. Yeah, it
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Speaker 1: doesn't doesn't do you any favors. Yeah, And it doesn't
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Speaker 1: make you feel good to go back in that capacity. No, No,
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Speaker 1: it just doesn't. If you had to pick one other
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Speaker 1: housewife to host this podcast, what this is? I mean,
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Speaker 1: whoever wrote these questions? It's a little dirty considering I'm
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Speaker 1: about to be gone for If you had to pick
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Speaker 1: one other housewife to host this podcast with, who would
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Speaker 1: it be? Well, I'm gonna say Vicky because if I
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Speaker 1: don't say Vicky, she'll probably kill me. Okay, other than
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Speaker 1: other other than Vicky, Oh my gosh, that is difficult. Um,
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Melissa Gorga Oh yeah,
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Speaker 1: I love her, Yeah, because I feel like she's well
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Speaker 1: spoken for, she's fun, she's probably trying to think of
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Speaker 1: everybody's personalities, like yeah, and she'd be easy to work with,
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Speaker 1: like she wanted to kill effortless. Um, ready, have you
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Speaker 1: ever gotten to a big fight with Kyle. I have no,
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Speaker 1: no never. I think one time we were like stressed
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Speaker 1: while we were filming and we just like gotten a
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Speaker 1: back and forth, like we disagreed on something. But it
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Speaker 1: wasn't a fight. It was just like both of us
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Speaker 1: were like, no, I see this, and we're you know.
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Speaker 1: It was just one of those things. But never fight.
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Speaker 1: I don't really fight with my friends. Yeah, I don't either.
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Speaker 1: I can have conversations and disagree and learn from each other,
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Speaker 1: but I don't fight with my actual friends. Um, if
15:23
Speaker 1: you had one Housewives wardrobe, who would it be? Du
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Speaker 1: It would be great so I can sell it all
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Speaker 1: off and my kids through college or buy a house
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Speaker 1: with it or something. Oh, I know she's back. She's
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Speaker 1: back on the Graham showing the licks. They all showed
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Speaker 1: their random beauty looks. Um, if you had to go
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Speaker 1: back on the show but be on a different franchise,
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Speaker 1: what show would it be? Salt Lake City, Salta City
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Speaker 1: or Miami Miami? For me, I feel like it's a
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Speaker 1: toss up. I'd rather live in Miami than Salt Lake City,
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Speaker 1: I think because I don't I'm not a huge cold weather. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I'd rather live in Miami too, but I don't know
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Speaker 1: both of them would be great. Um, do you maintain
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Speaker 1: a relationship with Andy Cohen? Who else would be a
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Speaker 1: good host if you left? I'm not answering the second
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Speaker 1: part of that question. I'm not either Well, I don't
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Speaker 1: even know, but yeah I do. I still talk with him,
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Speaker 1: text with him, um, damn with him on Instagram? Who
16:24
Speaker 1: else would be a good host if he left? I
16:26
Speaker 1: don't think there's any replacement for Andy. I think, um,
16:30
Speaker 1: if he left, then he left. Although I do like
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Speaker 1: his co host on his radio show, John Hill. I
16:38
Speaker 1: really like him, and I feel like sometimes I can't
16:40
Speaker 1: tell who's talking. They sound alike. He's good looking. I
16:44
Speaker 1: could see him hosting. Um, I wouldn't hate it. The
16:48
Speaker 1: thing I love about Andy is like any time you
16:51
Speaker 1: message him or any time you always here right back, Yeah,
16:55
Speaker 1: he's alway. He makes you feel like and then the
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Speaker 1: one thing you talk about another housewife, he just doesn't answer.
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Speaker 1: He's very politically correct alright l O L yeah, or
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Speaker 1: like heart, but he tries not to engage, he tries
17:11
Speaker 1: not to be you all wrapped up. Um, which housewife
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Speaker 1: do you think you wouldn't click with, but you ended
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Speaker 1: up liking and having a relationship with. Um. We gotta
17:23
Speaker 1: go on your I think we gotta go on our
17:24
Speaker 1: own franchises. Like obviously I didn't click with Erica from
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Speaker 1: the beginning, but it wasn't that we didn't click. It
17:32
Speaker 1: was that we both felt something from each other, and
17:35
Speaker 1: we just assumed that was that we didn't like each other,
17:39
Speaker 1: but really it was just like nervous energy, and once
17:41
Speaker 1: we got to know each other, completely clicked and she's
17:46
Speaker 1: one of my good friends now. I think for me, Um,
17:49
Speaker 1: I always went into every season liking the new person,
17:52
Speaker 1: like I'm a type of person like I like you
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Speaker 1: until I don't like you, So I like you until
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Speaker 1: you show me that I have reasons not to like you.
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Speaker 1: So I always went in liking Um. But I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I'm stumped on this one. I don't know who I
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Speaker 1: didn't click with and ended up liking Alright, Marriage and kids.
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Speaker 1: What is the one thing you have to agree to
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Speaker 1: disagree on with your husband? The kids? It's the kids.
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Speaker 1: We we we would argue in the early days because
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Speaker 1: you know, Eddie doesn't have any kids, but yet he's
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Speaker 1: so he's such a disciplined guy. He's almost like military,
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Speaker 1: living like the military with him, and um, so he
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Speaker 1: he thinks that I should be harder on them, and
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Speaker 1: I definitely raised them for many years out of guilt,
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Speaker 1: you know, the the guilt mom, because we were fighting
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Speaker 1: all the time and you don't want to make him
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Speaker 1: upset because they might want to go there, and he
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Speaker 1: didn't want to make it was just I should have
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Speaker 1: been harder on him, you know. Um, I was always afraid,
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Speaker 1: like if I'm too hard on you know, Sophia's she's
18:58
Speaker 1: gonna go run to her dad. And so I don't know,
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Speaker 1: just like being harder on the kids, making him do
19:04
Speaker 1: more things around the house. But the kids are all
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Speaker 1: good and great and so we don't. Really it's not
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Speaker 1: an issue anymore. Ours is about timing, like I think
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Speaker 1: it's not. It's it wasn't just on the show. I'm
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Speaker 1: very particular about timing. For me, it's about respect and
19:24
Speaker 1: other people's time. And Edwin is more just like I'll
19:29
Speaker 1: be there when I'm there. I'm gonna show up when
19:31
Speaker 1: I show up. And he's always kind of been that
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Speaker 1: way and I had to actually like say to him,
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Speaker 1: like it hurts my feelings. I take it personal. I
19:41
Speaker 1: understand that that's just how you are, but like I can't,
19:45
Speaker 1: I physically can't do it. Like if I'm late to
19:49
Speaker 1: the anxiety, I get anxiety. Like even at a party situation,
19:53
Speaker 1: if somebody tells me it starts at five, I feel
19:56
Speaker 1: like forced myself not to arrive at five. Yeah, I'm
20:00
Speaker 1: same way. So Eddie and I can totally relate to that.
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Speaker 1: But Eddie has a habit of when we were filming
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Speaker 1: or even now, if we're gonna go out to dinner something,
20:07
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, we're gonna leave at five. He'll stay
20:09
Speaker 1: at work until four and show up five minutes to
20:13
Speaker 1: five and I'm like, where are you? And he literally
20:16
Speaker 1: he will pull it off. He will jump in the
20:18
Speaker 1: shower get ready for his close on. He's like, I'm ready,
20:20
Speaker 1: and he does it every single time, and every single
20:22
Speaker 1: time it annoys me. Yeah, And it's the same with
20:25
Speaker 1: the airport. It's just all those things timing, and then
20:30
Speaker 1: if I nagged too much, then it sets the tone
20:34
Speaker 1: off raw Yeah, and then it's like there's tension. There's tension.
20:38
Speaker 1: So it's like I have to either let him just
20:40
Speaker 1: be who he is and he has to let me
20:42
Speaker 1: be who I am or but if we try to
20:43
Speaker 1: push each other too much in the other direction, it's
20:47
Speaker 1: not ideal. So how have you or will you bring
20:50
Speaker 1: up safe sex with your kids? Now, your kids are
20:54
Speaker 1: pretty little, so you probably haven't had that conversation, but
20:56
Speaker 1: I'm assuming you will when the time is right. Yeah. Um,
21:00
Speaker 1: I I think I talked about this before in the pod,
21:02
Speaker 1: but with Spencer, he had got it in his first girlfriend.
21:04
Speaker 1: He was in high school. He was seventeen years old,
21:07
Speaker 1: and I didn't know that things are going on. But
21:10
Speaker 1: I suspect that things are going on, and so I
21:12
Speaker 1: just bought a box of condoms. I wrote them out
21:14
Speaker 1: a little letter and just said, because you know, I'm
21:17
Speaker 1: not stupid, I don't want you to be. We don't.
21:19
Speaker 1: I never have to talk about this again. Just left
21:23
Speaker 1: it there. Yeah, I mean, I think you have to
21:25
Speaker 1: have the conversation. Um. I don't know if it will
21:28
Speaker 1: be a conversation Edwin and I have together with them
21:30
Speaker 1: or what it will be. I would assume the conversation
21:33
Speaker 1: with the girls will be different, probably than the top
21:35
Speaker 1: with crews, but also with the girls. There's so many
21:38
Speaker 1: conversations leading up to even before that, it's like, you know,
21:41
Speaker 1: once they're going to be getting their periods, all those
21:44
Speaker 1: types of things. There's ways that you can start to
21:47
Speaker 1: bring up the conversation. And now there's so many of
21:50
Speaker 1: these things on television shows where it like starts to
21:53
Speaker 1: open the I mean when I was younger, I don't
21:55
Speaker 1: feel like like nine O two and o's like the
21:57
Speaker 1: first show where we were like what people are having
22:01
Speaker 1: some you know that type of thing. So I just
22:03
Speaker 1: really try to keep the dialogue relatively open. Yeah, And
22:07
Speaker 1: plus they have you know, in school, they will talk
22:10
Speaker 1: over things and they learn things like what dreams and
22:13
Speaker 1: things like that, and and then you know, some kids
22:16
Speaker 1: are very private. Don't want to repeat it, but I
22:18
Speaker 1: feel like both my boys came home from that health
22:21
Speaker 1: class and was like, so we talked about what dreams today?
22:24
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh god, do you watch I don't
22:26
Speaker 1: want to hear this. So then that kind of does
22:28
Speaker 1: start the conversation. But that's UM. You used to have
22:32
Speaker 1: a little ways for that as well. Do you think
22:34
Speaker 1: couples should go to couples therapy even if they don't
22:37
Speaker 1: necessarily need to? Um, I think it depends on you.
22:42
Speaker 1: You know, like there are times that Edwin and I
22:44
Speaker 1: have been in couples therapy, or there's times that I've
22:46
Speaker 1: been in therapy. Um, I think the biggest thing is communication,
22:52
Speaker 1: regardless if you need a therapist to be a mediator
22:55
Speaker 1: or if you just even have like somebody in your
22:58
Speaker 1: life where you guys bound. It's off things because sometimes
23:01
Speaker 1: I think as couples it's hard if you're really set
23:05
Speaker 1: in your ways. It's hard to see the other side
23:08
Speaker 1: if you're heated. Yeah, we don't fight very often, but um,
23:13
Speaker 1: when we always say, like every six months or once
23:15
Speaker 1: a year, we'll get into like a huge blowout fight.
23:18
Speaker 1: And the last one we got into it was probably
23:20
Speaker 1: a year ago. He's like, and we need the a
23:22
Speaker 1: pay Like, okay. The next day, I'm like, do you
23:26
Speaker 1: want to go with therapy? Now You're like, I have
23:29
Speaker 1: a question for you. This isn't somebody didn't write this end.
23:31
Speaker 1: But whenever you guys have gotten mad, have you ever
23:34
Speaker 1: threatened divorce? Like some couples throw that in each other's
23:39
Speaker 1: That's one thing I like, do not that we've actually
23:42
Speaker 1: talked about that, that's one off limits because when I
23:44
Speaker 1: was married to Simon, we always threaten each other with divorce,
23:48
Speaker 1: and it gets it gets to be like just something
23:50
Speaker 1: you throw out there and you don't even really doesn't
23:52
Speaker 1: really mean anything anymore. So that's one thing, like we know. Yeah,
23:55
Speaker 1: that's so I can't even if I say, like if
23:58
Speaker 1: we ever got divorced, and he'd be like, don't even
24:01
Speaker 1: say that, don't don't even put that energy out there.
24:03
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'm just saying, like, you know, no,
24:07
Speaker 1: can you go to sleep mad um or do you
24:11
Speaker 1: like have to hash it out. I try to hash
24:13
Speaker 1: it out, but he's like, just let me be. But well,
24:16
Speaker 1: ed one will get over things always. He'll be like Edwin,
24:19
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm done. I'm over it in two seconds.
24:22
Speaker 1: Not my ask stew on the ship. I can chew
24:24
Speaker 1: on it for weeks. Now I have to talk it through,
24:28
Speaker 1: like I have to have closure on the situation or
24:32
Speaker 1: else I even if they've moved on, I don't believe it. Yeah, well,
24:36
Speaker 1: it's kind of hard to not get closure because then
24:39
Speaker 1: in the back of your mind, depending on if I
24:43
Speaker 1: when you guys fight, is there like mean words we
24:48
Speaker 1: fight completely different. I more am like in your face
24:53
Speaker 1: about like what exactly it is. Edwin will stay like calm,
24:57
Speaker 1: but then say something he knows will really hurt my favor.
25:00
Speaker 1: That's how Eddie is, And I'm like, well, I never
25:03
Speaker 1: do that. I really don't. I don't try to like
25:05
Speaker 1: stick him where it hurts. Yeah, that's the worst way
25:08
Speaker 1: because those things like then you think in the back
25:10
Speaker 1: of your head, like, oh, does he really feel that way,
25:12
Speaker 1: like you're saying this when you're angry, like yeah, and
25:15
Speaker 1: then I fester over it. Yeah. Pretty, I don't have
25:17
Speaker 1: to always necessarily like talk out the fight, but like
25:21
Speaker 1: before I go to bed, like I want that like
25:23
Speaker 1: hug or that like I love you and like feel it.
25:26
Speaker 1: I want to feel that there's a resolution and we're
25:29
Speaker 1: on each other's team. I agree. I agree. Now, do
25:32
Speaker 1: your kids understand what the housewife franchise is? No? I
25:36
Speaker 1: mean I think a little bit. I mean they understand
25:41
Speaker 1: that they were like on television. They understand that, like,
25:44
Speaker 1: but they they were so little when I first started.
25:47
Speaker 1: They didn't realize, like when I started that all of
25:49
Speaker 1: those girls weren't just my friends and they were filming us. Yeah,
25:53
Speaker 1: my kids were. They were only on for three years,
25:55
Speaker 1: but they were really little and they no, it's no
25:58
Speaker 1: big deal. But recently Eva, who is now um seven
26:03
Speaker 1: almost seven, She went on to say that she is
26:06
Speaker 1: a star, She's a TV star. I'm like, you're what
26:10
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, I've been on TV so I'm like, oh, brother, yeah,
26:16
Speaker 1: Well that's the problem with the internet. Now my kids
26:19
Speaker 1: will be like should we should we google us? So
26:22
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, we should not, we should not parental controls.
26:35
Speaker 1: Would your husbands be careful what they said on camera?
26:38
Speaker 1: Would they avoid PDA or did they not care? Um
26:42
Speaker 1: Eddie was very careful about what he said on camera.
26:44
Speaker 1: He just felt like he didn't ever want to. First
26:47
Speaker 1: of all, he didn't really think it was his place
26:49
Speaker 1: to get involved, and so he stayed out of most
26:53
Speaker 1: of the stuff, except obviously when him and I were
26:54
Speaker 1: talking rehashing what went down the night before, he was like,
27:00
Speaker 1: kill me. But they avoid pt Eddie will not avoid
27:06
Speaker 1: p p d A no matter where he's at. We
27:10
Speaker 1: could be at the grocery store and I'm like, okay, cool.
27:13
Speaker 1: Your jets like always like wrapping his arms around me, kissing.
27:17
Speaker 1: He's all He's very touchy feely, lovey all the time,
27:21
Speaker 1: even with friends like not love you, but he's always
27:24
Speaker 1: you know, like hand on the shoulder, pat you on
27:27
Speaker 1: the back, hugs his guy friends, hugs his girlfriends and
27:30
Speaker 1: like at the gim hands on. He's a hands guy,
27:33
Speaker 1: like we'll have you know, he trains girls and it's
27:35
Speaker 1: always like, you know, rub the back. I'm like, do
27:37
Speaker 1: you really have to do that all the time? Really,
27:42
Speaker 1: Like I think you could just put your hand near yeah,
27:45
Speaker 1: let them know you're there. Yeah, I don't. He's a
27:48
Speaker 1: big hugger um edwin. In regards to being careful, he
27:52
Speaker 1: was not our first season. He was not careful what
27:55
Speaker 1: he said. But for whatever reason, I got like saved
27:58
Speaker 1: my first season. I mean they they and when I
28:04
Speaker 1: had like a brutal conversation on camera and I was
28:08
Speaker 1: like and then we got in our biggest fight we've
28:10
Speaker 1: probably ever gotten into on the way home with camps
28:15
Speaker 1: and I was like, they're going to show this and
28:17
Speaker 1: are like our lives about that, Paul, And they didn't
28:21
Speaker 1: show any of it. It was never discussed. And then
28:24
Speaker 1: I but I think why it wasn't as I never
28:26
Speaker 1: talked about it again, like I just let it die.
28:30
Speaker 1: And then it interviews, they'd be like, do you want
28:34
Speaker 1: to talk about your no? What like I just there's yeah,
28:38
Speaker 1: if nobody talks about it afterwards, and it's like they
28:41
Speaker 1: usually don't show it. So but after after that time,
28:45
Speaker 1: I was kind of just like, you gotta at least
28:49
Speaker 1: have somewhere withal on what you're saying. Yeah, because like
28:53
Speaker 1: I want you to be yourself, but I don't want
28:56
Speaker 1: you to be yourself to a point where like that
28:58
Speaker 1: where I'm like, oh jeez, there getting me in trouble
29:01
Speaker 1: right right? Um, other, are you still friends with any
29:06
Speaker 1: of your childhood friends? Yes? Yeah, me too. I have
29:10
Speaker 1: the same like exact like best friends since the third Grandad.
29:13
Speaker 1: I like this question who's more high maintenance, Teddy or Tamera?
29:19
Speaker 1: I would say probably we're both in different ways though, Yeah,
29:22
Speaker 1: but I don't even feel like either one of us
29:24
Speaker 1: are high maintenance, Like neither one of us are like
29:28
Speaker 1: like I like nice things I like to go to,
29:30
Speaker 1: Like I like a cute outfit, but for example, we
29:36
Speaker 1: don't get glam. On this new show that I'm on,
29:41
Speaker 1: they asked me, um if I was able to put
29:43
Speaker 1: lashes on when I entered the house, and I was like,
29:46
Speaker 1: I tried yesterday. You have no idea what I looked like.
29:51
Speaker 1: So you've never put your own eyelashes on. Never. Okay,
29:55
Speaker 1: you're more high maintenance and me, it's not about being
29:57
Speaker 1: high mats, but I just don't wear ashes in my
30:00
Speaker 1: day to day life. Like, yeah, I don't either, but
30:03
Speaker 1: you have nice big eyes, so you don't really need them,
30:06
Speaker 1: Like you can just put mask on, right. I sent
30:08
Speaker 1: a video to Kyle of it, and I go, do
30:11
Speaker 1: you think I could pull these off? And she goes,
30:13
Speaker 1: I don't know why you put so much eyeliner on
30:15
Speaker 1: with the lashes, and I was like, listen, that's not eyeliner,
30:18
Speaker 1: it's glue. I mean, it's definitely art and you have
30:25
Speaker 1: to find an eyelash. It's easy to work with. I
30:28
Speaker 1: have smaller eyes, and I just recently took off eyelash
30:31
Speaker 1: extensions that I got to go on the Girl's trip
30:33
Speaker 1: because I thought, I don't want to have to bother
30:35
Speaker 1: with eyelashes. I'm gonna get eyelash extensions. I got them
30:38
Speaker 1: put on and then I'm like, oh, these are kind
30:39
Speaker 1: of cool, and I left him on. Now I have
30:42
Speaker 1: hardly any eyelashes left. I pick on them like I
30:45
Speaker 1: would like this, and I did glue and pick it
30:48
Speaker 1: up and it hurts too. So I have been using
30:51
Speaker 1: eyelash sir um to try to make them grow. And
30:54
Speaker 1: when I go out to dinner or something, I now
30:56
Speaker 1: I have to put lashes on. Nothing crazy. You can
31:00
Speaker 1: do it like, I'm so good at doing it. I
31:04
Speaker 1: watched like fifty two TikTok's and tried to put them on.
31:08
Speaker 1: My hands are like little pigs in a blanket. They
31:11
Speaker 1: just don't move. There's it was, It's impossible, and I
31:15
Speaker 1: was just like, you know what, I'm gonna have to
31:16
Speaker 1: take one. I'm gonna I'm gonna go in with no
31:21
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put self tanner on. That's where I'm gonna
31:23
Speaker 1: really up my game. Um. But yeah, I think we're both.
31:28
Speaker 1: There's certain things that we care about. Okay. What is
31:30
Speaker 1: a deal breaker and friendship? M hmm. I mean I
31:35
Speaker 1: had to break off some friendships um after I started
31:39
Speaker 1: the show because I felt like people would talk to
31:42
Speaker 1: the press about me that I knew. Um, lie get
31:47
Speaker 1: really involved, you know in the show, and that's all
31:51
Speaker 1: you know, only came around as filming like certain things
31:53
Speaker 1: like that. But I don't know, I think if somebody
31:55
Speaker 1: is trashing you or lying to you or something like
31:57
Speaker 1: that like that's a deal breaker, but I haven't had
32:00
Speaker 1: that issue. Yeah, I would say my biggest deal breaker is,
32:03
Speaker 1: like I want to know. I mean for the people
32:05
Speaker 1: that are my close friends, Like I got I got
32:09
Speaker 1: heat in that one episode that you and I had
32:11
Speaker 1: where I said, oh, she's a different type of friend.
32:14
Speaker 1: People like, what do you mean You're fake that. I'm like, no,
32:16
Speaker 1: you have to me. I have friends that I enjoy
32:19
Speaker 1: going on hikes with, are going to lunch and catching
32:22
Speaker 1: up and write small talk, and I love them in
32:25
Speaker 1: that type of friendship. But I also have friends that
32:27
Speaker 1: I would like bear my entire soul too and travel with.
32:30
Speaker 1: Two I feel like traveling is like that, you know,
32:33
Speaker 1: that's a good friend to me travel with and then
32:34
Speaker 1: travel with kids versus travel with adults. Like there's just
32:37
Speaker 1: different types of friendships for me. A deal breakers. I
32:42
Speaker 1: really don't like when people are passive aggressive with me,
32:45
Speaker 1: Like I don't beat around the bush if something's irritating
32:49
Speaker 1: you or if you don't want to do something, like
32:51
Speaker 1: don't do something because you think that's what I want
32:53
Speaker 1: to hear, because ultimately that type of friendship it won't
32:58
Speaker 1: last long term with me. I just don't like fake.
33:01
Speaker 1: That's the only thing. Yeah, it kind of makes sense. Yeah,
33:05
Speaker 1: I don't like it. Okay, my friend, I feel like
33:08
Speaker 1: you are just gonna slip away from me and I'm
33:11
Speaker 1: not going to see you for a while. I am
33:14
Speaker 1: excited for you, and like I said, a little scared. Okay.
33:18
Speaker 1: The first episode is February second. Okay, I'm gonna put
33:22
Speaker 1: it out there. I'm gonna tweet it. I'm gonna like
33:25
Speaker 1: it's a sponsored post act, like I'm getting paid for it.
33:29
Speaker 1: I Am just gonna push it out there and have
33:31
Speaker 1: to push it out there, um and have fun, keep
33:35
Speaker 1: getting these amazing numbers. But don't have so much fun
33:39
Speaker 1: that you don't want me back. Now, that's never gonna happen.
33:42
Speaker 1: It's never gonna happen. I'll be very monotone and not
33:46
Speaker 1: talk about anything. You have to just you can't let
33:49
Speaker 1: our numbers go. No, I don't want our numbers to
33:51
Speaker 1: drop up. But I am worried about that because you
33:53
Speaker 1: know what, it's not. It takes two in this, like
33:56
Speaker 1: I know, but you are our chemistry and talking together
33:59
Speaker 1: and how we're good, like you've had you're a rock
34:02
Speaker 1: star and you're sweet. You are and you now know
34:08
Speaker 1: all of these shows as good as anybody else, Like
34:11
Speaker 1: you're gonna I have, I have no My only worry
34:14
Speaker 1: is but you're not gonna know. No way, it's not
34:18
Speaker 1: gonna happen. So I know that Megan Edmonds is gonna
34:22
Speaker 1: be co hosting with me. She's gonna come on for
34:25
Speaker 1: one brandy text. She's come on if you want. Um.
34:30
Speaker 1: I mean, oh, Melissa Gorga is gonna come on. Yes,
34:33
Speaker 1: Melissa Gorga, Yes, I'm actually gonna do her podcast on Wednesday.
34:38
Speaker 1: See perfect, Um Alexia is coming on. I mean, it's
34:41
Speaker 1: gonna be fun. You're gonna have so many and it's
34:43
Speaker 1: gonna be horrible. It's gonna be horrible without you. I
34:47
Speaker 1: can't believe I'm not going to be able to watch
34:49
Speaker 1: while I'm in there. I'm gonna have to come back
34:51
Speaker 1: and like have a screening party where I just binge
34:54
Speaker 1: everything that I missed. What happens if you bring in
34:56
Speaker 1: like a secret film, do they like pat you down,
34:59
Speaker 1: They go through your back eggs, look under your tongue.
35:02
Speaker 1: You cannot do they do the like you can gel.
35:06
Speaker 1: They go up your crevices. Like even if you have medication,
35:09
Speaker 1: you have to give it to the person. Oh my gosh,
35:13
Speaker 1: but hold down before I am. I'm gonna miss you.
35:17
Speaker 1: I mean it's gonna feel so weird, not just not
35:20
Speaker 1: living in this room any longer after today. I don't
35:23
Speaker 1: know he did it. By the way, if you see
35:25
Speaker 1: me on the opening show with eyelashes on, feel very
35:28
Speaker 1: proud because it means I figured it out. You should
35:32
Speaker 1: just get a bunch of just get like the cheap
35:35
Speaker 1: ardel I did. They're so easy to put on. Do
35:39
Speaker 1: you have to cut them so they're perfect for your
35:41
Speaker 1: ey because they're not perfect size for your eye? Then
35:44
Speaker 1: right now, it's not that hard. It was like this,
35:51
Speaker 1: This is how I look. Are you using like a
35:53
Speaker 1: magnifying mirror? Yes? Right, Like I don't have no word,
35:57
Speaker 1: I have not ship on like that. No, I just
36:01
Speaker 1: I can't use those. I just put them down. Bend
36:05
Speaker 1: him first, like bendam so their FLEXI put the glue on,
36:08
Speaker 1: set it down, and then get a Q tip and
36:10
Speaker 1: like pack down different areas that are popping up. Oh,
36:14
Speaker 1: it must be nice. We'll see guys. Let's hope that
36:18
Speaker 1: there's like a beauty queen or someone in the house
36:21
Speaker 1: that's really good at doing glam I saw on the Internet.
36:29
Speaker 1: I saw on the Inner Web, the Inner Web, and
36:32
Speaker 1: I know it could be anyone. I know. Someone even
36:35
Speaker 1: put on the Inner Web that it's Megan McCain and
36:37
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, great, she like hated me. Yeah, that
36:41
Speaker 1: would be a problem. I don't think. I doubt she's
36:44
Speaker 1: doing Celebrity Big Brother. Yeah. I heard another Housewife is
36:47
Speaker 1: gonna be on. But then again, I don't know. I tried,
36:50
Speaker 1: but I've looked on all the Grahams and I haven't
36:52
Speaker 1: found another housewife. Okay, by the way, you can't look
36:56
Speaker 1: on somebody's Graham because you're posting pictures and more wanting
37:00
Speaker 1: to have Really, can you believe did you bank all
37:04
Speaker 1: those would you do? You pulled up their old videos?
37:06
Speaker 1: Now I pulled old I pulled old videos and just
37:09
Speaker 1: cropped my nails out. I'm all, damn, she's good. I
37:12
Speaker 1: know everyone's like. And then and and started posting yesterday
37:18
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, stop, stop when I go quit.
37:21
Speaker 1: But you can't post a going out on a Saturday
37:25
Speaker 1: night without me, without me, We're going to start figuring
37:29
Speaker 1: it out to mention me trying to post my workout
37:32
Speaker 1: videos in here and not show that I'm in a
37:34
Speaker 1: hotel room. It's it's like pitch black in here, Like
37:38
Speaker 1: I mean, look at this. I mean, oh, do you
37:41
Speaker 1: want to see the creepiest part? Yes, you guys have
37:45
Speaker 1: to see this. This thing is what looks at me
37:47
Speaker 1: all day freaking long. Wait. Wait, what is that she's
37:54
Speaker 1: trying to put her eyelashes on. That's actual footage to
38:00
Speaker 1: me putting my eyelash God, oh god. Okay, I gotta
38:03
Speaker 1: got nurse here waiting to COVID test me for alright
38:08
Speaker 1: about tomorrow. Okay, well, good luck my friend. Alright, Bye bye.
38:13
Speaker 1: You guys, keep tuning in send messages. I'll have someone
38:16
Speaker 1: running my socials too, so keep sending stuff that you
38:19
Speaker 1: want us to talk about. Bye bye, missy Tam, is
38:24
Speaker 1: it too? Good luck? Thanks,