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Da'Vinchi Calls Us Lazy, Trump vs. LA & Savannah's Plane Seat & Dara's GOATED Scene in The Drop · Two Personal with Joy Taylor

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  Speaker 1: Road life is crazy. A lot of potato chips. But
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  Speaker 1: there's a lot going on around the world. So let's
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  Speaker 1: get into it. What are we talking about first? There is.
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  Speaker 3: So I want to start talking about Da Vinci. Hector
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  Speaker 3: Da Vinci, he recently went on Cam Newton's Funky Friday podcast.
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  Speaker 3: If you are not familiar with his name, he plays
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  Speaker 3: Terry Flannery on BMF. He's young Meech's brother on the show.
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  Speaker 3: So their conversation started when Cam asked why British and
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  Speaker 3: other overseas actors keep landing American roles. And Da Vinci
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  Speaker 3: said some producers probably just prefer an overseas actor because
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  Speaker 3: they're going to be more locked in on the work.
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  Speaker 3: and less worried about being a celebrity or an influencer,
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  Speaker 3: AKA he called us very lazy. He went ahead and
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  Speaker 3: said that people in higher positions don't feel like they
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  Speaker 3: can trust the American work ethic. And he said, we
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  Speaker 3: baby our kids in that we've got people at 25, 30,
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  Speaker 3: 35 who can't do their own laundry. And he was
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  Speaker 3: taking care of himself at eight years old. First of all,
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  Speaker 3: what eight year old is fully capable of taking care
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  Speaker 3: of themselves? Like, please be for real. So Cam pushed
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  Speaker 3: back and his point was that America isn't lazy. but
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  Speaker 3: it's built on efficiency. So if there's an easier or
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  Speaker 3: faster way to do something, we will do it. Da
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  Speaker 3: Vinci's answer was that kids in the country end up
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  Speaker 3: paying for that.
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  Speaker 2: And he also said we should move on.
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  Speaker 3: Past slavery because Caucasians have enslaved Caucasians and Black people
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  Speaker 3: have enslaved Black people. So Cam then put it on
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  Speaker 3: the table and he said, you know, there's a stigma
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  Speaker 3: that people from the Caribbean, Africa, and the UK think
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  Speaker 3: they're better than Black Americans. And Da Vinci said he
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  Speaker 3: thinks it's true. There's a lot of backlash going on.
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  Speaker 3: This wrecked a lot of havoc on the internet. I
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  Speaker 3: have a few opposing opinions on this. I want to
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  Speaker 3: get your take. As a world, like, you know, you're
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  Speaker 3: very traveled. You know a lot of different walks of life.
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  Speaker 3: What do you think about our guy Da Vinci's comments?
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  Speaker 1: I gotta be honest with you. I had no idea
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  Speaker 1: who this man was. You didn't watch BMF? I did
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  Speaker 1: not know who this man was. Sorry to this man. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I did not have a single clue who this man
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  Speaker 1: was before this interview. Shout out to Cam. Shout out
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  Speaker 1: to my brother, Cam. Yeah. I did not know who
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  Speaker 1: this man was. So let's start with that. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know you. So this is my first introduction to him.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry to this man. One, two, he gave himself a nickname.
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  Speaker 1: What's the nickname? Da Vinci. Okay. Leonardo Da Vinci. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So to quote my girl, Scottie Beam, what do we expect?
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  Speaker 1: Like someone who gives themselves their own nickname is bound
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  Speaker 1: to say outlandish, ridiculous shit. My overall takeaway from this
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  Speaker 1: is two things. One, I hate listening to pseudo intellectuals.
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  Speaker 1: It's painful to me. I want to hear intelligent conversations
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  Speaker 1: from people who are subject matter experts. He was born
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  Speaker 1: and raised in Brooklyn, New York.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, his family's just from Haiti. So his household, he
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  Speaker 3: referred to, my household was Haiti, but outside it was America.
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  Speaker 1: No, baby, it wasn't. It was in Brooklyn, in the
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  Speaker 1: United States of America. That's where your house was. You
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  Speaker 1: walk out the front door, you in New York. You
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  Speaker 1: on in Haiti. So... I'm very confused on all that,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't want to get too much into the
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  Speaker 1: weeds of all of the dumb things that he said.
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  Speaker 1: I really just want to focus on like the big
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  Speaker 1: picture pullout. And I thought a lot about all of
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  Speaker 1: the dumb things that he said. And this is my
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  Speaker 1: overall takeaway because I've, I've heard these conversations many times.
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  Speaker 1: Mind you, I lived in Miami for 10 years. I,
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  Speaker 1: am in Miami often. I have a lot of friends
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  Speaker 1: who come from immigrant families or immigrants themselves who are
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  Speaker 1: black and Brown immigrants is which, which is the important
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  Speaker 1: part of this conversation. Cause that really is what he's
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  Speaker 1: talking about. Like people were trying to defend him saying like, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: he's just talking about America as a whole. No, you're
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  Speaker 1: not baby. No, no, you're not. No, you're not. I
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  Speaker 1: have a real problem as a red-blooded American with the
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  Speaker 1: mentality that these other ethnicities have when they come here
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  Speaker 1: to the US and have any type of success or
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  Speaker 1: build any kind of stability. And then it's immediately that
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  Speaker 1: Americans are lazy, that Black people are lazy, that there's
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  Speaker 1: this superiority complex that because you're an immigrant and you
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  Speaker 1: came here and had success and that there are people
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  Speaker 1: in the black community, black American community who haven't had success,
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  Speaker 1: that the cause of that is laziness. Crazy. It infuriates
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  Speaker 1: me for a multitude of reasons. And I've had these
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  Speaker 1: conversations with friends of mine who are immigrants. Now I
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  Speaker 1: come from Black America, Black African American slave ancestry, and
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  Speaker 1: obviously white immigrants, because all white people in the United
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  Speaker 1: States come from immigrants. They are not native ancestrally to
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  Speaker 1: the United States, to America, to North America. White people
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  Speaker 1: do not come from North America. Indigenous people from this
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  Speaker 1: land We're not white. So anyone who is white that
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  Speaker 1: lives in the United States comes from, or, or, or
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  Speaker 1: has whites in their ancestry comes from immigrants, period, full stop.
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  Speaker 1: So my takeaway from this is that it's all about
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  Speaker 1: start to finish the whole conversation, the move on from slavery,
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  Speaker 1: the laziness, the entitlement conversation, the efficiency conversation, the, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I know how to take care of myself when I
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  Speaker 1: was eight years old. All of it can just go
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  Speaker 1: into a pile of proximity to whiteness. That is what
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  Speaker 1: this is all about. The Cuban community in Miami, looking
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  Speaker 1: down on every other immigrant, the Asian community thinking that
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  Speaker 1: they're the ideal immigrant. Like I can go down the
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  Speaker 1: line with every single every single ethnicity, every single background,
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  Speaker 1: every single part of it comes back to proximity to whiteness.
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  Speaker 1: That somehow, because you have come to United States of
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  Speaker 1: America or your family came to the United States of
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  Speaker 1: America and you were able to have success within this system,
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  Speaker 1: which was built by Black Americans, Black Americans built this
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  Speaker 1: country for free. That somehow, you're better than the people
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  Speaker 1: that were born here on this land. White people do
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  Speaker 1: not give a fuck about you. They don't care. You
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  Speaker 1: are still not white. It doesn't matter how successful you are.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't matter how many businesses you start. It doesn't
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  Speaker 1: matter how you drug dragged yourself from the slums and
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  Speaker 1: retired your parents. It doesn't matter how hard you work.
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  Speaker 1: you are not white. Okay. And it drives me fucking
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  Speaker 1: crazy to listen to these people, to hear their barking
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  Speaker 1: about Trump, to hear them put down the black community. Oh, laziness. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's all about taking shortcuts. Oh, you know, if you
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  Speaker 1: were raised how I was raised, then you would be
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  Speaker 1: where I am. If you knew how to run a
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  Speaker 1: household at eight, we don't push our kid shut the
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  Speaker 1: fuck up white people are not going to like you
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  Speaker 1: any fucking more just because you're out here putting everyone
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  Speaker 1: down i have no problem with people appreciating their culture
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  Speaker 1: their ethnicity their family their ancestry i think that's a
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  Speaker 1: beautiful thing but if you have to put other people
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  Speaker 1: down in order to do it you're a fucking lame
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  Speaker 1: you're a fucking little lapdog for white supremacy bark bark
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  Speaker 1: okay and and the whole it's it's across the whole
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  Speaker 1: spectrum of of ethnicities of backgrounds like they all do
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  Speaker 1: this at one point actually let me take that back
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  Speaker 1: they don't all do this Of course, all people from
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  Speaker 1: different backgrounds do not talk like this. But you will
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  Speaker 1: find these conversations within every single immigrant community. And what
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  Speaker 1: he did wrong, which I am stopping myself from doing,
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  Speaker 1: is he generalized all Americans, right? All Black Americans, all, all, everything.
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  Speaker 1: You have not gone to every single household and talked
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  Speaker 1: to every single person about what their background was and
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  Speaker 1: what their struggles are and how their family did this
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  Speaker 1: or that. You don't know. right? So similarly to how
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  Speaker 1: the Latino community is not all on board with Trump,
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  Speaker 1: the fact that any are on board with Trump should
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  Speaker 1: tell you that they believe that they have proximity to whiteness,
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  Speaker 1: that they are going to benefit from putting other communities down,
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  Speaker 1: from putting other ethnicities down. It's rooted in colorism, racism,
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  Speaker 1: it's rooted in ideology, and It is sad, pathetic, and embarrassing.
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  Speaker 1: And I just find the conversation to be so stupid
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  Speaker 1: because the only people that win from this conversation is
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  Speaker 1: white supremacy. White supremacists win from this. White people who
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  Speaker 1: are trying to keep everyone else down get bonus points
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  Speaker 1: for this. So you are just carrying water for white
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  Speaker 1: supremacy when you talk like this. You can be so
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  Speaker 1: proud of where you come from. You can be so
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  Speaker 1: proud of your family. You can be so proud of
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  Speaker 1: what you've been able to accomplish, despite the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you had to leave your country to come to the
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  Speaker 1: United States of America to try and have success. But
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  Speaker 1: if you somehow think that you are special, that you
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  Speaker 1: worked harder, that you have some sort of special sauce
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  Speaker 1: that Black American people do not have, and that's why
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  Speaker 1: you're successful, baby, these white people do not give a
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  Speaker 1: fuck about you. You sound dumb. Mm-mm.
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  Speaker 2: No, he played himself on this one.
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  Speaker 1: He played himself. Oh, he sure did. He sure did.
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  Speaker 1: Because I don't, you had to, I don't even want
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  Speaker 1: to say you had to come from somewhere. You were
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  Speaker 1: born in fucking Brooklyn. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And he's paid by black people. Black American people.
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  Speaker 1: American people. A check.
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  Speaker 2: Like, please make it make sense.
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  Speaker 3: I don't understand. This makes zero sense. Yeah, he was
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  Speaker 3: tripping on that one.
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  Speaker 1: Well, listen, he could have stayed quiet and I still
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't have known who he was. So congratulations.
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  Speaker 2: I did know who he was.
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  Speaker 1: And he's a great actor.
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  Speaker 2: I'll give him that.
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  Speaker 3: There's no shame to him.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what, people are going to think twice
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  Speaker 1: before casting him again.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and before he's sitting on another podcast, he better.
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  Speaker 2: Check what he about to say.
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  Speaker 1: Cause that's not, it just causes, you know, there was
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  Speaker 1: just so many layers of things that he said that
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  Speaker 1: were so fucking dumb and lacked nuance and more importantly,
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  Speaker 1: lack empathy. And when you are, listen, I have my
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  Speaker 1: own opinions about how young people are being raised in
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  Speaker 1: today's society. I do not think it is a cultural
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  Speaker 1: and ethnic, a race thing. I think it is a
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  Speaker 1: societal thing across the board. with AI, with technology, with,
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  Speaker 1: you know, communication skills, like all of those things. But
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  Speaker 1: it's a nuanced conversation that of course, first and foremost
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  Speaker 1: needs to be rooted in empathy. Like black American people
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  Speaker 1: built this country, this country that you had to come
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  Speaker 1: to leave your country to come to to give your
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  Speaker 1: family a chance. And then you get here and it's like, oh, well,
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  Speaker 1: you need to get over it. Oh, well, you don't
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  Speaker 1: work as hard. Oh, well, you have all these opportunities
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  Speaker 1: that you don't take advantage of. Maybe, maybe, please. Like
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  Speaker 1: it is white supremacy. These are white supremacist talking points
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  Speaker 1: that you're just bark, bark, repeating. You look dumb, you
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  Speaker 1: sound dumb. They will not come save you. You are
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  Speaker 1: not better. If you have to do anything, if you
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  Speaker 1: have to put other people down in order to praise yourself,
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  Speaker 1: you aren't doing shit. And you're not fucking smart. You're
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  Speaker 1: not well-read. You're not the most traveled. Oh, American people,
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  Speaker 1: they don't think about other places. Baby, I've been to
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  Speaker 1: six of the seven continents. There are all kinds of
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  Speaker 1: places in the world that do certain things better than
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  Speaker 1: the United States of America. Okay. Of course. But at
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  Speaker 1: the end of the day, People pull from Black culture
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  Speaker 1: for film, television, music, fashion, art, poetry, hair, makeup. I
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  Speaker 1: can go on and on and on about the creativity
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  Speaker 1: and invention that has been stolen from Black Americans, repurposed,
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  Speaker 1: and now all of a sudden it comes from you.
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  Speaker 1: You're playing... black American characters.
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  Speaker 3: He's literally, like, he's portraying an American drug dealer. Like,
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  Speaker 3: what are you even talking about?
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  Speaker 1: Anyway, he sounds dumb. And the biggest takeaway is, like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the Zoom out conversation is that I have a real
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  Speaker 1: problem with that conversation because I see it across so
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  Speaker 1: many different spaces in the United States of America when
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  Speaker 1: it comes to immigrants. And at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 1: white people do not fuck with you. They don't. There's
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  Speaker 1: no ideal immigrant. There's no good, well-adjusted, right way of
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  Speaker 1: doing things shut the fuck up we have concentration camps
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  Speaker 1: guess who's not up in that bitch black american people.
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  Speaker 3: Right there's that too well our other our other mans
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  Speaker 3: uh had some crazy things to say this week good
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  Speaker 3: old trump.
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  Speaker 2: Oh You know, when does he never not?
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of white people that don't fuck with you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, literally.
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  Speaker 3: So he had a midterm campaign rally in Grand Island,
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  Speaker 3: Nebraska on Monday. He was talking about the war with
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  Speaker 3: Iran and higher prices people are paying because of it.
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  Speaker 3: He told the crowd that, you know, these costs are
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  Speaker 3: a small price to pay for keeping the country and
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  Speaker 3: the world safe.
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  Speaker 2: And then he went on to.
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  Speaker 3: Say, they can take out a city. Let them take
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  Speaker 3: out Los Angeles. Let them take out San Diego. This
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  Speaker 3: is a very small price to pay.
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  Speaker 2: And the crowd cheered.
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  Speaker 1: What? Excuse me?
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  Speaker 3: Do you understand how large the two cities you just
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  Speaker 3: named are?
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  Speaker 2: For one, let's start there.
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  Speaker 1: Like, they do wonders. Millions and millions of people. Yeah. Well, listen, I....
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  Speaker 2: It's over 10 million people.
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  Speaker 1: To say that he has said treasonous things over the
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  Speaker 1: course of his presidency would be a wild understatement. The
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  Speaker 1: implications of saying it's okay to take out San Diego,
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  Speaker 1: to take out Los Angeles and have people cheering just
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  Speaker 1: shows you the level of delusion that and psychosis that
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  Speaker 1: his followers have at this point. There's no reason that
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  Speaker 1: the president of the United States of America should be
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  Speaker 1: encouraging another country that we are at war with to
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  Speaker 1: attack American citizens on American soil. And saying that as
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  Speaker 1: a statement is insanity, right? Why should I even need
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  Speaker 1: to say that? Yeah. But, you know, I keep believing
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  Speaker 1: that something that he says, something that he says is
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  Speaker 1: going to shake the roots of his followers, right? Of
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  Speaker 1: his cults, of his groupies. But the reality is the
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  Speaker 1: only thing that is going to move these people out
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  Speaker 1: of their psychosis is suffering. real suffering saying that, that,
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  Speaker 1: that Iran should attack Los Angeles or San Diego should
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  Speaker 1: put any normal functioning, intelligent American into a rage. I
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  Speaker 1: am into a rage, right? You are threatening the lives
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  Speaker 1: of millions of Americans, right? By the way, San Diego
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  Speaker 1: is a massive military city.
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  Speaker 3: It's like one of the largest hubs we have.
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  Speaker 1: So... It's treason. It's insanity. It's treason. It's a dictator
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  Speaker 1: speaking about the people that he represents with absolute, complete disregard.
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  Speaker 1: It should... It should send everybody into a frenzy. But
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  Speaker 1: there's been so much groundwork laid for these quote unquote
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  Speaker 1: liberal cities, these blue cities, that there is this honest
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  Speaker 1: hatred for places like Los Angeles around the country. It's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's just a bunch of hippies that live there and
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  Speaker 1: everyone's leaving and no one can afford. Baby, we keep
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  Speaker 1: other states functioning. The money that California sends out to
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  Speaker 1: the rest of the country keeps your state afloat.
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  Speaker 3: People don't understand that.
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  Speaker 1: It's the fourth or fifth largest economy in the world,
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  Speaker 1: on the planet of Earth. Not in the United States,
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  Speaker 1: in the world. That's how much money is generated in
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  Speaker 1: the state of California. You don't have to like it
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  Speaker 1: and you can't afford it, baby. But that does not
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  Speaker 1: mean that Americans that live there should be living under
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  Speaker 1: a threat from our own president. And all of this, again,
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  Speaker 1: I can say this until I'm blue in the face.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone has said it. I am at the point where
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  Speaker 1: I have concluded and actually accepted that these people who
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  Speaker 1: support him, these people that stand beside him and continue
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  Speaker 1: to do this bullshit and to cheer for this bullshit
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  Speaker 1: and to make excuses for this bullshit have to suffer.
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  Speaker 1: They have to starve. They have to lose their homes.
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  Speaker 1: They have to lose their businesses. They have to not
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  Speaker 1: be able to afford medicine. They have to not be
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  Speaker 1: able to have money to put put fuel in their car.
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  Speaker 1: They have to be in abject poverty, suffering, not having
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  Speaker 1: the ability to find food, to understand that he is
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  Speaker 1: the cause of this because he can't blame that on Biden.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: He can't blame this war on Biden. He cannot blame
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: these gas prices on Biden. And if there is a
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: full economic collapse, which is totally possible, that is the
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: only way that they will understand because reason is gone.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: Normal sentences like the president of the United States should
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: not threaten to blow up Los Angeles via another country
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: that we're at war with. If you can't say that
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: to a person and have them be like, yeah, he
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: shouldn't do that, they're gone. They're gone. Their brain is gone.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Their brain is gone. They are not to be reasoned with.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: These are absolute groupies. They would let him piss down
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: their throat if he asked them to. And... That is
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: the reality that we are facing, which is why I'm
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: constantly barking about voting. These midterms, like the importance of
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: these midterms cannot be emphasized enough. And him saying this, well,
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: it obviously infuriated me. It doesn't matter. I already hate him.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: Like if it can't move a normal American person to
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: hear that and be like, yo, that's fucking crazy. Like
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: our president should not be talking like that. You're gone, bro.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: Like you're a groupie and there's you can't be saved.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: You cannot be saved. So, yeah, I mean, our only hope, honestly,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: to move these people off of him is that they
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: fucking starve. Yeah, I don't I don't wish that for people,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean, they don't when when reason is
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: not accepted, consequences are the only teacher.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: It's unfortunate, but it's the truth.
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: It's the same shit with that.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: I mean, how do you feel when you hear that?
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: Oh, I was, I was nervous, like anxious driving my
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: son to school today. Now, do I think something's going
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: to happen right now? No, but still, like it just,
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: I couldn't get it out of my head. Like, it's
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: so crazy to hear the person that you think runs
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: the country say that.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: Like, what?
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: And other people just celebrating that. It's just the most ignorant,
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: just outlandish. Like it doesn't even feel like real life.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: It literally doesn't.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, he finds new ways to creatively destroy
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: everything that the country stands for pretty much every day.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: And because everyone is so dumb and so inundated with
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: news and confusion and lies and misrepresentation. It's like, you know, you,
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: you can read all you want to, like I can
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: read all I want to, I can know everything that
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I know. It's, it's not helpful. People do not. They,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: they are at the point now where they have to
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: experience consequences. Yeah. He is the, he is the most
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: corrupt president we have ever had. He is the most
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: corrupt leader we have ever had. It doesn't matter. He is,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: literally running a grift on the entire country and they
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: are still supporting him so the only way that they
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: will ever learn is if they suffer dire consequences otherwise
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: they're just going to keep marching behind him you know
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: licking his little butthole clean which is a lot of
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: shit to eat because he got a diaper on.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh Yeah, it's crazy.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: He's going to say even more crazier things throughout these midterms.
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: And I'm just preparing myself for it. Because at this point,
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: that's all we can do. Did you hear about the
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: airplane seat conversation that went on this week?
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: I sure did.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: And let me say, before we get into this, I
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: apologize for continuing this discourse. I know we wanted to
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: put this to bed last week. But I, as a traveler...
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: and as a bestie had to get into this conversation.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: So I am, I'm apologizing ahead of time, but we
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: got to talk about it. I haven't had a chance
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: to talk about this topic with Savannah and April, so
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: I have to get into it. Yeah.
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: And I'm excited to hear your thoughts because you and
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: I haven't talked about it. So for those of you
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: who don't know really quick, the both of them sat
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: down on boardrooms, mental wealth podcast with which rich climate
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: and Jack Howard, they were asked how money plays into
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: their friendship. So for context, these two have been besties
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: for 15 years. They're business partners and they host a
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: podcast together. Obviously, you know who Savannah's husband is, billionaire lifestyle.
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: They live two very different lives.
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: So the point that April made that everyone seems to
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: be so upset about is that she gave an example
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: that because their lifestyles are different, Savannah understands that and
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: meets April where she is. So they may have conversations of, hey,
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: let's go to Europe tomorrow, right? But Savannah understands that
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: April may not be able to just go to Europe tomorrow. Yeah,
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: I can go to Europe, but I got a plan
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: for it.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Like I have kids. I'm on a budget.
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: Like my life is not set up like yours. So
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: they have a mutual understanding. These are unspoken boundaries, right?
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: A part of in their friendship when it comes to money.
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: So they obviously live two very different lives, have two
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: different financial lifestyles. And April told a story that her
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: and Savannah recently went to Japan and Savannah was in
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: first class April was in business and these were both
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: by choice and the internet was pissed off about it
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: they felt like Savannah should have just bought April a
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: first class ticket if she was buying one for herself
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: and the two of them as friends have an understanding
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: and they spoke about how that's not an expectation amongst
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: their relationship so I want to ask you Joy because
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: you I know you like to travel the way you
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: like to travel and So let's just say you and
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: I are going on a trip. We also have two
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: very different financial lifestyles. Is it, should I expect you
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: to put me in first class if you're going in
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: first class? Like, I don't think I should.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: Now, if you offer, sure. I'll gladly sit in first
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: class with you.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: I'm not a billionaire. My family together does not have
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: a billion dollars. I don't have a husband that is
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: LeBron James, but even on the, even on the level
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: of our friendship and, you know, working relationship. No. Yeah.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: And when you travel with people, this is a, this
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: is a normal traveling conversation. If you're all going on
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: a trip, maybe somebody is very, very wealthy and someone isn't,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: you have to have the conversation ahead of time of, Hey,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: how are we splitting things? Are we staying in the
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: same hotel? Are we going to the same restaurants? Like
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: what kind of budget do you have for this? And
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: I travel with my friends a lot and we have
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: already established those expectations and those boundaries. And when we
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: book a hotel, we have the conversation of, okay, are
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: we gonna stay in this hotel? Are we gonna stay
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: in this hotel? Are we getting a private driver for
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: this day? Are we going to take a cab? Like
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: we have those conversations so that there is no issue
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: When it comes to money, when we are on the trip,
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: but the bigger conversation around like that blew up the
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: internet was this expectation that because Savannah has all of
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: this money that she's obligated to make sure that her
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: friend that's traveling with her is traveling the same way
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: she is. So I, first of all, I have to
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: point out like the, the, the main thing that stood
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: out to me with the outrage around this is that
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: you're not traveling. Okay. These people who are commenting on
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: this are not traveling. I went to Tokyo. I have
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: gone to Tokyo. Okay. is in Japan. If you are
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: on a flight that has first class business, premium economy,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: and economy, that is a massive plane. There might be
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: another one in the middle of there too. That's a
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: massive plane. Each of those different seats has different costs. However,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: business class, which I travel in often is a wonderful
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: class to be in. Okay. You are going to have
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: a great seat. You are going to get food and drinks.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: You're going to get a pillow and a blanket. You're
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: going to get your own headphones. Okay. You're going to
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: get a little pack with some, some lotions and such
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: business class is very expensive and it is a great seat. Now,
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: first class is a whole different experience. When you have
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: first class and business class, first class could be like
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: a $ 15, 000 ticket. I was going.
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: To say, what is the difference?
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: You have a bed. You have basically an apartment. On
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: some planes, you can take a shower. You're getting caviar
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: and fucking champagne. It's basically like flying in a hotel room.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: But it is also wildly expensive. But business class is
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: a perfectly appropriate way to travel. They're making it seem
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: like she was in row 76R in the back by
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: the fucking toilet and the seat doesn't recline. Like babes,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: have some perspective. Do a little research before you start
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: freaking out and overreacting. She wasn't in the back of
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: the fucking plane. She was in a great seat. I
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: promise you. And if I promise you, it still costs
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: thousands of dollars, her seat. Yeah, no, it didn't cost $ 20, 000,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: but her friend is not obligated to put her in
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: that seat. Now, listen, if I was, if I'm Savannah
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: and I'm traveling to Tokyo and my friend is riding
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: in the very back of the plane, I'm gonna be like, girl,
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: let me, you know, let me make sure that you're
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: rested when you get there. Let me, let me put
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: you in business class so that you can, you know,
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: lay back and be comfortable. Right. But, No, she does
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: not need to put her in first class. First class,
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: business class, there's a big fucking difference. But business class,
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: it's still an amazing seat. I'm quite sure that Savannah
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: travels in business class if she has to get somewhere.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: And that is all that is available on that plane.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: So just even the perspective and understanding of what this
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: travel is like is irritating me as a traveler because
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: you're making it seem like she was stuck in the
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: back of the plane and she wasn't. The other part
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: of this conversation, though, is that when you have reached
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: a certain level of success and you have friends who
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: are not in that same space, there's a respect and
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: understanding that has to be established and respected when it
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: comes to boundaries around money. Because if you... just open
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: the floodgates that, you know what? I'm always going to
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: pay for your meal. I'm always going to pay for
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: the Uber. I'm always going to pay for the flights.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: I'm always going to pay for the hotel. I'm always
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: going to pay for everything when you're with me. Well,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: when that stops, there is usually a very visceral reaction. Yeah.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: And she did say that, which I did like about
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: this interview. A lot of, first of all, we know
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: people don't watch full interviews.
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: They watch clips. So I'm sure y'all missed this part.
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: But Savannah did say, That her and her friends as
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: a whole have a very clear understanding of what you
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: just said. There's been things communicated up front. It's not
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: even a question. It's not a conversation. Like there is
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: no friction and animosity and this like invisible tension being
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: created because someone didn't do this and this person expected
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: them to do that.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: There's none of that.
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: Like they've been grown adults. They've discussed it and it's done.
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: They don't ever have to talk about it again.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: It's very important. It's a conversation that happens a lot
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: around sports specifically because young people will come into a
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: lot of money right away and they have friends that,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: you know, at one point we were all on the
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: same level. Now all of a sudden I have millions
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: of dollars. Well, great. Like you're, you're the one who
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: made it. So now we're going to the club and
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: now we're going shopping and now we're going here and there.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Now we're traveling and you know, you, you've got the
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: bottles and you've got the hotel and for a little while,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: you know, that's fun and you're celebrating. And then after
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: a while you're draining your bank account because you're taking
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: care of all of these other people. And, and that
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: is something that financial managers, it's something that coaches and
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: organizations and agents talk to, young people about ad nauseum
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: when it comes to sports, because that is a very
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: good way of going broke is taking care of people
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: that feel an expectation that you should be spending money
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: on them because they were there with you before you
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: had money. Your family starts calling asking for 10,000 here
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: or invest in my business here, or I need a
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: house or I need a car, or I need you
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: to clear this debt. And you feel badly about it
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: because you, you, you know, you used to be in
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: that struggle. So you know what it's like to not
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: have money. And now you're the person with money. You're
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: the person that can change these lives. You're the person
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: that can make a difference for, you know, people that
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: you care about. And if you say, no, there is
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: this anger, there's this resentment of like, oh, you know,
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: you got put on and now you change, you know,
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: or you have money now and you think you're better
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: than everybody. And it happens all the time. It happens
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: in music. It happens in In movies, it happens. In sports,
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: it happens all the time. And when you have money,
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: you have to have those kind of boundaries with people.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: And I think it's very smart that Savannah has them.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: And I think it's very important that her friends respect them.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: When you have friends who are not on the same
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: financial status as you, they're not on the same fame
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: level as you, they don't have the same obligations to business,
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: they don't have the same obligations to their family, and
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: they expect something from you or they get used to
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: something from you, It's a very dangerous place to be.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: It is a very dangerous place to be because those
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: people become vicious when they get cut off. And it's, it's,
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: I can tell you, I have lived this and I
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: will never live it again. I will never, never ever
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: have that problem again. You will, you, you do not,
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: I am not, I don't owe you shit. I don't
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: owe you a fucking thing. I take care of the
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: people in my life that I have an obligation to
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: take care of. My mother, my nieces and nephews, right?
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: My immediate family, my friends that I have known for
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: 20 plus years. I don't have an obligation to take
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: care of them. They can call me and I can
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: say no. And if their reaction is negative, baby, you're
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: not gonna talk to me again. Right. You're not gonna
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: talk to me again. So be careful. Be careful what
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: you ask for and be careful how you respond to it.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: And I'm a generous person. Like I don't, I wouldn't
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: even never even say that about myself because what's the
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: need for it. But in the, in the terms of
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: this conversation, like, would you say I'm a generous person? Yeah.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: I'm too generous actually. Yeah.
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: There's, I agree on that one.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: We can dial it back a little bit.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: We could roll it back a little bit. And financially, financially,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: I'm very generous. So I so agree with this arrangement.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: I think people's reaction was very, very silly. I think
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: a lot of it was rooted in the idea of
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: what you would do if you had access to that
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: kind of money. And I'm not saying you can't treat
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: your friends. I'm not saying that you can't pick up
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: a check here. I'm not saying that you can't, you know,
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: upgrade the hotel here and there. Like Of course. And
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: I'm sure April has enjoyed plenty of those upgrades from
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: just the proximity to Savannah. But their friendship and respecting
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: those boundaries, that's how you have a friendship like that.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: Because expecting people to buy you a house because you're
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: my pookie and....
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: No.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: Girl. The expectations are crazy. And it's why those friendships fail.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: And so many people who get fame and get money
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: learn the hard way that people who have expectations of
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: you financially or for clout or proximity or favors, it's like,
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: it's a very, very dangerous place to be. Because when
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: you cut those people off, they freak the fuck out.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: They become vengeful. They lie. They sue. They create negative
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: scenarios for you. They want to get back at you.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: for taking away the thing that they feel obligated to,
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: even though it is your success that put them on
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: in the first place. So yeah, all you gotta do
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: is Google it and say, what does a business class
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: flight look like to Tokyo when there is also first class?
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: And then you will see that it is actually a
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: very nice seat. Savannah wasn't doing anything wrong. Now listen,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: if Savannah had her in the back of the plane,
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, all right, look, we can't, you know
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: what I mean? You got it. You got to push
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: in some miles in a comfy seat, but you're in
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: business class and first class, like what if first class
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: was sold out? She's gonna take a whole nother flight
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: like the whole thing is crazy and.
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: One last thing this is why i'm i'm a huge
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: advocate for just because they're your friends and people around
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: you they don't need to know everything about your finances
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: because guess what money comes and it goes it goes
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: up and it goes down and people clock your fucking
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: pockets And just because you still got the bracelets and
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: the bags and your hair and your bundles and your
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: clothes and the car when you had the money and
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: when you down, they still think you got it. And
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: they're going to act as such and they're going to
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: expect as such and they're going to treat you as such.
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: And what you're going to do is keep people out
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: your fucking financial business.
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: I don't care how close you are with them. No
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: one needs to know anything.
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: No one should know everything about your financial situation. And
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: money is just something that causes a lot of friction
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: with people. rightfully so. And it's why you should have
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: good boundaries with money. And again, I circle back to like,
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: this is the conversation that a lot of young people
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: have when they come into money is like, hey, decide
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: early how much you're going to give to your mom,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: how much you're going to give to your sisters, you know,
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: how much are you going to give to your boyfriend
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: or your girlfriends? Like, and, and, and establish with them, like, Hey,
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: this is either a one-time thing or you know what,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: I'm going to retire you. And this is going to
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: be your budget. And you know, like I have to
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: keep money too. And just because now listen, when you
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: get into the billions, obviously it's a different conversation, but
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: she is not her family. That is her friend. That
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: is not, it's not, and it's not the bronze friend.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: It's her friend. She is not obligated to make sure
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: that she gets, she has, she's, she's spending money. $ 30, 000
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: on flights to Tokyo. Be fucking for real. How do
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: you think rich people stay rich? I'll tell you how
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: they stay rich. They don't spend a fucking extra $ 15, 000
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: on every trip because their bestie needs their own bed
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: as well.
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: Crazy.
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: I just got to have a public service announcement here.
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: Dara is the motherfucking goat.
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: She is the goat.
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: Let me tell you, that scene in the drop when
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: she marched up to Leon with Wanda right there. Let
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: me tell you why I love this scene so much.
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: In today's day and age, females will smile in your face, kiki, like, oh, like,
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: you and your boo.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: And then the second you leave the room or.
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: The next day, in the DM, is that really your girlfriend?
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: Like, nope, not Dara.
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: She said, is he a man or not? I need
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: a motherfucking gangster in my life and I want you.
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: I need a gangsta. Yeah. So if you haven't seen
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: the scene in Stofall, it's trending everywhere on social media.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: And it sparked a whole conversation about yearning and women,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: you know, saying that they saying how they feel and
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: what they want. And yeah, I mean, she walked right
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: up to Leon and said, listen, she didn't even look.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: That's what I want.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: She didn't look at Wanda at all.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: And Wanda with her hand on his shoulder, girl, that
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: is not your man. You just said that's not your man.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: Literally, she just said my ex.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: As much as I love that scene, I'd rather count
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: all the sand on planet Earth. I would rather, as
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: I say, eat rock soup. I would rather chew nails, okay?
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: What do you mean?
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: You're not expressing your desire in that way?
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: Fuck no. Why? Hell motherfucking no. Hell no. Nah. Hell
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: to the nah. No. This microphone has me like I'm singing. No.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: I love it. First of all, I am not walking
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: up to a man whilst another woman walks. who I
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: know is involved with him, is standing there and declaring
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: my love and desire for him.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: That's how you know Dara could fight.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: Send me to the gulag. Oh, no, no, no. I
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: know they both could fight, okay? But I could fight too,
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: but I'm not fighting over a man? Over a man?
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: Absolutely not, okay? Absolutely not.
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: One.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: Two, the quickest way to get a man off you
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: is to tell him that you like him. And men
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: are not gonna like this. They are not gonna like this.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: But I'm telling you, The quickest way to get a
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: man to stop being interested in you is tell him
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: that you like his ass.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: See, I think it's the way you do it.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: Stay gone. Oh, that old personality I had? Here's a
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: new one.
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: No, spoiler alert.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: This one is I'm not looking for anything serious. I.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm just, you know, I'm just kind of
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: vibing right now. You know, we could definitely kick it, but,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm not trying to be anyone's man right now. No.
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: See, I think it's all in the delivery. That was
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: so just boss bitch.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: Oh, no, it was bossy. It was bossy. I'm going
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: to give it to her. It was bossy. And I
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: got the cookies. What you want, you should go after
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: what you want. And if what you want is a
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: man and you feel like you need to say that,
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: by all means. Now, me personally, couldn't be me. Could not,
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: could not. Could not be me, baby.
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: So when do you tell a man you want him?
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: You just don't. They got to figure it out.
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: After he says I love you.
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: He got to want, there's a period of time that
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: goes before he loves you. So you're not expressing nothing
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: in that time? You just holding it.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: Listen, I have learned. I have learned. Okay. I am a,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: I am a sponge to information. Okay. And habits. Listen,
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: if you tell a man that you like him, he
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: is going like, I like this. It's so quick. I
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: can see it happen. Like it's, I'll be like, you
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: know what? Like, kind of like you right like I'm
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: I'm cute yeah I have you know I'm just like
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: it because the thing about it is is I really
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: am a lover girl I love the fuck out of
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: people deeply deeply but if I tell you that now
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden you gassed up now all of
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: a sudden you're like oh wait a minute do I
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: actually like is this could I do better immediately go
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: ahead and try don't come back over here okay Don't
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: come back over here. Listen, it's not me. I love
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: it for her. And I love it for the men
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: who want to be. Listen, I am a yearner. Okay.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: I am a desire. I love the fuck out of
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: the men. The men that I love. I tell them
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: I love them. Yeah. Every fucking day. 17 times a day.
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: I will smother you. But I'm not doing it before
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: you say I love you. I have to know and
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: feel it. And not just like a fake I love you, right?
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: Not like in the first 24 hours. Although I do
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: love a love bomb. Yes. I need to know. I
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: need to know.
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: You are hilarious.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: No, I ain't fucking doing it. Ain't no fucking way.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: You are not.
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: That's why I'm not the one to ask dating advice
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: because I'm a fucking girl.
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: Say it.
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: Tell that man. That's what I'm going to say.
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: That's not. Listen. I am not in the habit of
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: giving blanket advice, right? Because everyone's situation is different. So
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: you do what you want to do. You like that man? Girl,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: tell that man you like that man. Me? No, no. No, no. Well. No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: I'm excited to see what happens with Dara and Leon.
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: We're going to find out.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: Listen, listen. If you want some dick, you could do that.
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: Now, all of a sudden, my prediction is Wanda going
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: to be like, all right, let me get back together.
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: Because remember, first she said, that's my ex. Then she said,
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: we're better as friends, right? She's fighting it. Because she's
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: so focused on what she's trying to build that's hers
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: outside of everyone around her. So I understand her not
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: wanting to deal with a relationship right now. But that
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: shit right there? Oh, that shit hit her in her core.
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: She's going to rethink some shit.
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: Oh, no, I know. She was like, well... Yeah, because
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: because women, to your point earlier, like women do have
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: a tendency when they see a man that is desired.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: They're like, oh, wait, like what did I not see
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: in him that she sees in him? You know, what
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: what did what what did I overlook? Because this one
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: is a bad. This one is a badass. Like she's tough.
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: She's a boss. And she wants this man that I
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: am saying I don't want. So I must be missing something.
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: What am I not seeing? Women do that all the time.
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: I hate it. Yeah. Yeah. And that's, it's why it's
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: why it's part of the reason. One of the many
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: reasons why I wouldn't be in a public relationship again,
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: because as soon as you publicly claim a man, there's
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: all these little dusties. They're like, wait a minute. I
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: would have never looked at this man, but she got
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: him and she flaunted him. So he must have something
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: that I didn't see in him before. Yeah. It's me, bitch.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: That's what the fuck you see.
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: Dara said, I could be any kind of woman you
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: want me to be.
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: Any kind.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: Listen it was it was a delivery okay i gotta
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: hand it to her 10 out of 10 delivery me
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: you ain't going to catch me doing that.
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: Goated scene.
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: You are not going to catch me doing it. No.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: Hell no. All right. What's our would you rather? Okay.
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: Would you rather win the lottery or have a genie
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: grant you three wishes, but the wishes cannot involve money?
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: Hmm.
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: This is a hard one.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: I think it is hard because like there are some
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: things that money cannot buy.
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: It's true.
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: So there are also a lot of things I know
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: eventually going to lead to a bag.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: Maybe I just wish for one of them.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you could loophole it for sure. But like, you know,
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: it feels selfish to because the lottery is not like
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: You got to consider this. This is what I'm breaking
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: this down. The lottery, you don't actually get the amount
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: that you win in the lottery. Right. Cause you, you
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: have to take the lump sum, right? Like there's always
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: a conversation of like, would you just get the, you know,
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: the payout, but you're never going to live long enough
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: to get the payout. So of course you take the
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: lump sum. So let's say it's like, you know, $ 500 million.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: Like the lottery has gotten up to a billion and
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: you win $ 500 million. Right. Um, or three wishes that
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: don't involve money.
• 50:44
  Speaker 3: I'm winning the lottery.
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: I think I'm taking the lotto too. I do think
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: I'm taking the lotto because I think that life has
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: to be lived, you know? And if I had $ 500 million,
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: I could fix a lot of the problems that I
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: would want to fix. Like what I do in the streets,
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: like what I do to like help people. I feel
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: like I could do that. A lot more of that
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: with $ 500 million. The wishes, I don't know what would
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: come of that. It feels selfish, but I think I'm
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: going to take $ 500 million.
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: I'm winning the lotto.
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: And when I go claim, I'm suited up like Spider-Man.
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: You ain't going to know it's me. Oh, no, no, no.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: I'm disappearing.
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: Full disguise.
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: I am going to be in the background forever. But
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: it does depend on what the lotto is like. We
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: have in this question, it has to be like the
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: most the lotto has ever been and like lump sum.
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: So I'm going to say like because if the lotto
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: is like twenty five million, like, yeah, I'm taking the wishes.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: But if it's five hundred twenty five million. Yeah. Yeah.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: Three wishes. I think. Yeah.
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: She it. I'll take the dub five.
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: 500 million i'm gonna take the lotto 25 million i
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: feel like i can get creative with the three three wishes.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: Okay that's fair yeah that's fair yeah that's a good one.
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: Um yeah these these would you rathers are really good
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: get you thinking like these um well good hang uh
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: i will definitely make sure that you're not flying in
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: the back of the plane if we travel together it's
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: the best i can do though the best i can
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: send you some miles it's the best i appreciate you Um,
• 52:29
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