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ROR 133: Chaos, Part 3 · Red Onion Randy - Life in a Supermax Prison

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  Speaker 1: Hello, this is a pre bay call for us and
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  Speaker 1: make it the Pritian Department of Corrections read a new
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  Speaker 2: This is Randall Bob.
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  Speaker 1: I'm currently serving one thousand, two hundred and fourteen years
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  Speaker 1: for capital murder and right on your state person in
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  Speaker 1: to me today.
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  Speaker 3: This is Randall Bob. I'm currently serving one thy two
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  Speaker 3: hundred and fourteen years for capital to murder and on
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  Speaker 2: It may be.
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  Speaker 3: The number is one eight eight five two four one
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  Speaker 3: nine three two. That's in the United States. Anyone outside
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  Speaker 2: Hope to hear from me. This is part three of
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  Speaker 2: the Chaos episode. Hopefully I can finish up in this episode.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think y'all want to listen to a part
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  Speaker 2: four of this. Now, I left off where I'd made
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  Speaker 2: the decision into chow Hall, even though I had previously like,
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  Speaker 2: you know what, I'm just gonna go ahead and fight
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  Speaker 2: and get it over with. You know, I need to
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  Speaker 2: give some stuff off my chest, you know, I need
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  Speaker 2: to go ahead and remind dudes of who the hell
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  Speaker 2: I am, you know, of what I'm capable of. But
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  Speaker 2: when I got over there, you know, I had to
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  Speaker 2: change are. I realized how much I would really lose
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  Speaker 2: if I do this.
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  Speaker 3: Now.
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  Speaker 2: Granted there was gonna be no weapon involved. You know,
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't thinking about stabbing, and that never even crossed
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  Speaker 2: my mind. Beating his ass absolutely, but I didn't do it,
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  Speaker 2: you know, and sing, and thankfully I didn't. You know,
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  Speaker 2: I think the fact that I did call my buddy John,
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  Speaker 2: and you know, he prayed for me and everything that
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  Speaker 2: I think that helped me. And to be honest, I
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  Speaker 2: think even after the phone call, I think he you know,
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  Speaker 2: he was, he probably prayed some more, you know, at
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  Speaker 2: least off and on which I'm grateful for. You know.
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  Speaker 2: But the next day I actually see Chaos. I was
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  Speaker 2: walking back from medical and he was on the reck yard.
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  Speaker 2: Him and his pard were headed towards Chowdhaw for launch,
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  Speaker 2: and he called me. I'm like, yo, bro, look man,
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  Speaker 2: what the is going on with you? Man? Like, what
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  Speaker 2: the hell are you doing? He's like, no, no, man, dude,
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  Speaker 2: you don't want man like And that's when he explained
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  Speaker 2: to me the situation of he had to send his
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  Speaker 2: tablet to be to Be three. So you know, we
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  Speaker 2: had a talk. I'm like, look, man, and he actually
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  Speaker 2: got mad at me because Cupcake wind up cussing him
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  Speaker 2: out for what he did. And you know, they kind
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  Speaker 2: of got back and forth from Cupcakes like, you know what,
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  Speaker 2: screw you. You ain't the dude you portray yourself to be.
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  Speaker 2: And she cut him off and changed her phone number.
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  Speaker 2: Now that's between them. I got nothing to do with that.
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 2: You know Cupcake, well, she can be a hell cake
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  Speaker 2: from time to time. Now we're sitting there talking and
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  Speaker 2: he gets mad at me. I'm like, man, dude, why
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  Speaker 2: you got Cupcake cussing me out? Blah blah. I'm like, bro,
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  Speaker 2: that guy, get her to cut you out. This is
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  Speaker 2: what I told her to tell you, whether you did
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  Speaker 2: it on purpose, whether it was an accident, or whether
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  Speaker 2: someone throw the information from you. I don't care, man,
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  Speaker 2: it's your problem. Clean it up and fix it because
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  Speaker 2: you're causing problems between me and my woman. So he like,
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  Speaker 2: knobra or not? This is this and that, man, And
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, look, man, either way, bro, like, I'm putting
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  Speaker 2: you on the wall. When we run across each other.
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  Speaker 2: He said, man, person, you wrong for doubting me. Man like,
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  Speaker 2: how could you doubt me? And I'm like, I'm not
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  Speaker 2: doubting you. I'm just saying, clean up your fucking mess.
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  Speaker 2: And that's what he doesn't understand. He's trying to play
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  Speaker 2: the martyr victim. Okay, I understand you didn't do this
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  Speaker 2: on purpose. I get that. I respect that. It doesn't
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  Speaker 2: matter whether you did it on purpose or not. It's
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  Speaker 2: your mess. You clean it up. So you know, we
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  Speaker 2: went back and for we were through the fence. Otherwise
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  Speaker 2: we probably would have done it right then and there.
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  Speaker 2: I love this boy and he loves me. We're still
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  Speaker 2: we're still bros. We're still friends. That ain't ever gonna change,
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  Speaker 2: you know. But if we want to cross each other again,
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  Speaker 2: before I give this time back and go home, I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna stand him up to on the wall, and I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna punch him in the chest as hard as I can,
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  Speaker 2: and then we're gonna hug it out, and we're gonna
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  Speaker 2: go grab some food and we're gonna cook together, and
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  Speaker 2: we're gonna sit down break bread together, and we're gonna
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  Speaker 2: talk and laughing joke, and this situation is gonna be
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  Speaker 2: behind us. But he doesn't want to accept the fact
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  Speaker 2: that he was in the wrong, and he's in the
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  Speaker 2: wrong by putting his information in a place where somebody
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  Speaker 2: else has access to it. If you don't want somebody
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  Speaker 2: getting access to it, you delete that email off of
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  Speaker 2: your player, especially if you're gonna let if I let
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  Speaker 2: somebody use my player, which I do not. I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to go through all of my emails and any address,
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  Speaker 2: any phone number, any email address. I don't care, any
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  Speaker 2: contact information whatsoever. I'm going to write it down in
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  Speaker 2: a separate place, and I'm going to delete those emails.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care if they've got pictures attached to them
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  Speaker 2: or not. That email is getting deleted because I'm not
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  Speaker 2: going to let someone have an opportunity to reach out
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  Speaker 2: to you. I won't disrespect you like that. Hell, I
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  Speaker 2: won't disrespect myself like that, but he refuses to accept that.
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  Speaker 2: So it is what it is now. Eventually, Carly, like
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  Speaker 2: I said previously, she found out exactly who this guy
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  Speaker 2: is now. The guy who's asked I was planning on
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  Speaker 2: beating Cracker into chow hall actually had nothing to do
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  Speaker 2: with this whatsoever. He would have been completely innocent. And
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  Speaker 2: that's why I'm so grateful to God that he saved
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  Speaker 2: me from myself. Now, look, people, you have to understand. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: I'm a Christian. Yes I believe in God. I do
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  Speaker 2: my best to live according to what the Bible says
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  Speaker 2: and teaches. I'm not perfect. I don't pretend to be perfect,
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  Speaker 2: but I do the best I can. Sometimes I get
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  Speaker 2: it right, sometimes I get it wrong. But I also
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  Speaker 2: live in prison. I live in an environment that the
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  Speaker 2: overwhelming majority of you you're never going to understand or
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  Speaker 2: comprehend it because you've never lived in here. You've never
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  Speaker 2: been in here. Even the staff members that work in
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  Speaker 2: prison for years and years and years don't get it.
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  Speaker 2: They don't understand what it's like to be a prisoner.
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  Speaker 2: I can intellectually comprehend the pain from a childbirth, but
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  Speaker 2: unless I grow a pussy and I pop a child out,
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  Speaker 2: I ain't gonna understand it. I might comprehend it, but
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  Speaker 2: I will never understand it. And the same goes for you.
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  Speaker 2: You don't understand what it's like to live in here.
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  Speaker 2: You cannot allow things like this to slide. And I'm
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  Speaker 2: torn between two worlds. And and so I get out
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  Speaker 2: of prison, I'm gonna constantly be torn between two different
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  Speaker 2: worlds of living, living the way God wants me to live,
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  Speaker 2: or live in the way a convict should live in prison.
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  Speaker 2: And there they're polar opposites of one another. You know,
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  Speaker 2: it's a heaven or hell type of situation. And that's
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  Speaker 2: what I struggle. I struggle between these two, these two
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  Speaker 2: dynamics in my life.
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  Speaker 4: And sometimes it's even though I've overcome a lot, even
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  Speaker 4: though I've crown a lot, it's still.
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  Speaker 2: A fight sometimes of what's right. Because this is the
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  Speaker 2: thing in both situations. I'm right if I beat this
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  Speaker 2: dude's ass, and I've punished this cat from a convict standpoint,
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  Speaker 2: from a prison standpoint, I'm in the right, and everyone
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  Speaker 2: in here respects me for that because I did what
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  Speaker 2: a man is supposed to do. He protects his loved ones,
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  Speaker 2: and he sends a message, don't mess with them. But
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  Speaker 2: if I let it go, I forgive this guy. I
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  Speaker 2: don't do what my base or instincts are screaming.
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  Speaker 4: At me to do.
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  Speaker 2: And I do what I did. I let it go.
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  Speaker 2: Me and my wife had we had to get some
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  Speaker 2: help from Michael too, my tech guy, my new editor.
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  Speaker 2: You know, he helped Nick, you know, get a new
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  Speaker 2: phone number and you know, delete the old one and
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  Speaker 2: all that stuff so that you know, this guy can
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  Speaker 2: no longer call like I did, you know, according to
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  Speaker 2: God and according to society and you know, civilization and
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  Speaker 2: just being you know, a decent human being. I did
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  Speaker 2: the right thing. I let it go, you know, and
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  Speaker 2: me and me and and you know Nick, we put
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  Speaker 2: it behind us and we move forward. And sometimes that's
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  Speaker 2: it's a hard choice to make, you know, I'm at
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  Speaker 2: that point in my life. I don't give a damn
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  Speaker 2: what anybody thinks of me, you know, beyond the people
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  Speaker 2: I love and care about. I care what Nick thinks.
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  Speaker 2: I care what you know, Michael and Michael think. I
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  Speaker 2: carry what Paulie thinks. I care what Anti thinks, I
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  Speaker 2: care what Sinclair thinks. I care what John thinks. And Josh,
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  Speaker 2: you know, Giovanna and Ava like you know, Rahie.
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  Speaker 4: I have so many friends now that.
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  Speaker 2: I do care about what they think, but there's still
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  Speaker 2: that part of me. It would be so easy to
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  Speaker 2: go back. And that's and that's I've realized. I still
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  Speaker 2: have a lot more to still. I still have a
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  Speaker 2: long road to hit up it. I still have a
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  Speaker 2: lot of growing to do. I still have a lot
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  Speaker 2: of self control to master. And I'm going to do
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  Speaker 2: it because I made my choice. I've chosen God and
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  Speaker 2: the things of God. I've chosen to do things in
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  Speaker 2: a different way. Now that doesn't mean help. I might
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  Speaker 2: get into a fight five minutes from now. I'm not
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  Speaker 2: saying I won't. I'm just saying I won't start it,
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  Speaker 2: and I'll do my best to avoid it. And that's
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  Speaker 2: why I'm telling you all this story, even though it
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  Speaker 2: doesn't exactly you know, paint me in the best light.
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  Speaker 2: H We all get called up in things that are
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  Speaker 2: not of our making. Are we going to react or
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  Speaker 2: are we going to respond? And in that situation, for
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  Speaker 2: that moment, in my head, in my in my emotions,
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  Speaker 2: I was I was reacting. I was acting like a child.
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't the one being disrespected. It was Nick. But
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  Speaker 2: I made it about me. That's why I was going
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  Speaker 2: to go over there and beat that boy's ass. How
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  Speaker 2: dare he do this to me? How dare he try
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  Speaker 2: to take something from me? I wasn't thinking about Nick
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  Speaker 2: in that situation, and ultimately that is what made me
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  Speaker 2: change my mind when I was sitting there in the childhall,
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  Speaker 2: at that table. M hm.
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  Speaker 1: H m hm.
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  Speaker 2: H m hm.
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  Speaker 1: H m hmmm h.
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  Speaker 2: Now I haven't had a chance to speak to Chaos
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  Speaker 2: since then, you know, since that day on the yard,
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't talk through the fence. I will eventually, But this
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  Speaker 2: is the thing about Chaos. He's no longer here a
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  Speaker 2: keen mountain. He got sent back to Wallace rich because,
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  Speaker 2: and I understand he was trying to impress Carly, and
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  Speaker 2: I can't blame the boy, you know, he was He
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  Speaker 2: wrote some dumb stuff in the email. On top of that,
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  Speaker 2: he got snitched on by some of the Bloods in
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  Speaker 2: B three because when he found out who pickles real
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  Speaker 2: identity was, he tried to get over there to be three.
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  Speaker 2: He was in the process of setting it up when
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  Speaker 2: a bunch of the other Bloods found out because of
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  Speaker 2: the Bloods in before they knew what time it was,
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  Speaker 2: and they sent word over there to tell this dude
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  Speaker 2: Pickles to stay in the cell. Like he couldn't come
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  Speaker 2: out to sell to Chow, he couldn't go to breakfast, lunch,
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  Speaker 2: at dinner, he had to stay in his cell and
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  Speaker 2: eat because Chaos was he was hunting for the boy.
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  Speaker 2: So the Bloods actually came him like, yo, look dude,
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  Speaker 2: we understand what happened. We're gonna take care of it
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  Speaker 2: in house, meaning they was gonna beat his ass, which
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  Speaker 2: as far as I know, they never actually did. They
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  Speaker 2: just lied, but they wound up paying Chaos off and
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  Speaker 2: Chaos accepted their money. He accepted what they offered and
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  Speaker 2: gave him, and you know, he did what he did
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  Speaker 2: with it, and he was still going to go. But
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  Speaker 2: this boy, you know, he got on the tip line
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  Speaker 2: and he called it in and they came and investigated
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  Speaker 2: the situation and found out where chaosid wrote and he
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  Speaker 2: even carly did he was going to kill him whenever
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  Speaker 2: he got a chance. And uh so when they read that,
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  Speaker 2: the investigators came and locked him up, and ten days
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  Speaker 2: later they uh they packed him up and sent him
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  Speaker 2: back Wallace Rich, so chances ours I'm never going to
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  Speaker 2: see I'm never going to see him again inside of
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  Speaker 2: a person, simply because I've made that choice. I'm working
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  Speaker 2: on going home. Yeah, it's the situation all the way around.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I almost lost a good friend over this,
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  Speaker 2: almost got into it would cast like if me and him,
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  Speaker 2: if we wouldn't have had that fence in between us
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  Speaker 2: when we was conversating, it probably would have went down between.
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  Speaker 1: Me and him.
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  Speaker 2: And the sad thing is, you know, it's not like
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  Speaker 2: he did it on purpose. So that's that's the chaos situation.
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  Speaker 2: That's you know, that little story. I probably didn't tell
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  Speaker 2: it the best I could, but you know I did
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  Speaker 2: my best because at the end of the day, like
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  Speaker 2: it's still bringing up frustrating feelings, he still wants to
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  Speaker 2: bring up that anger and me just simply thinking and
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  Speaker 2: talking about it. But at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 2: you don't have to let that anger rule you. And
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  Speaker 2: when you do get angry, don't listen to Pan Terror.
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  Speaker 2: They're a great band. I listen to them all the
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  Speaker 2: time when I'm getting ready to work out, but when
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  Speaker 2: I start to get emotional, I'm no longer going to
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  Speaker 2: allow myself to listen to metal or rock. I'm actually
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  Speaker 2: going to put on nature mute, and I have done
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  Speaker 2: that several times. There's been a couple of times since
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  Speaker 2: then where somebody has pissed me off. You got this
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  Speaker 2: one dude in here. He doesn't even have a job,
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  Speaker 2: but he runs around trying to do everything. He's always
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  Speaker 2: running up to the CEOs and talking to him and snitching.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, he's just doing some really really dumb ass stuff.
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  Speaker 2: And like, I really like, dude, what the f Wake up? Man?
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  Speaker 2: It's a prison where you can't do this, you know.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't go and listen to Meddle no more.
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  Speaker 2: When I do get mad, when I do get angry,
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  Speaker 2: I'll go and I put on some nature music. So yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's a that's the chaour story, and those those are
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  Speaker 2: the little tricks that you use when you find yourself
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  Speaker 2: getting mad. Don't put on metal, listen to something soft,
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  Speaker 2: quiet and calming, and actually take a moment.
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  Speaker 1: To step back.
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  Speaker 2: You think about the people you love and care about,
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  Speaker 2: and then say, Okay, how are my actions and my
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  Speaker 2: choice is going to affect them? How is it going
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  Speaker 2: to affect me? What is the best route to take
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  Speaker 2: in this situation, and that's something that I'm still learning
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  Speaker 2: and I'm still working on. I hope you enjoyed listening
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  Speaker 2: to it. I hope you take something from this. Take care,
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  Speaker 2: stay safe out there.
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