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- 0:10Speaker 1: Hey there, folks. It is Thursday, March nineteenth. They have
- 0:15Speaker 1: to cancel Taylor Frankie Paul's season of the Bachelorette because
- 0:22Speaker 1: now there is video, and with that, welcome to this
- 0:25Speaker 1: episode of Amy and TJ Robes. Everybody's been talking about this.
- 0:29Speaker 1: We knew there was a chance, but now there is
- 0:31Speaker 1: a leaked video that is out there Robes of a
- 0:33Speaker 1: domestic violence incident that we knew about from twenty twenty three,
- 0:36Speaker 1: in which he pled guilty. I will start with this
- 0:40Speaker 1: with you, babe, Bachelorette disposed. This new season supposed to
- 0:44Speaker 1: start on Sunday. We weren't together when this video came
- 0:47Speaker 1: out just a little while ago. You happened to be
- 0:49Speaker 1: out in an appointment, so we didn't watch it together.
- 0:52Speaker 1: Let me ask you, aside from Bachelorette, forget show, forget entertainment,
- 0:56Speaker 1: forget Disney, give me your human reaction to seeing this
- 1:01Speaker 1: video of a domestic violence incident that we'd heard about
- 1:04Speaker 1: with Taylor Frankie Paul. Just give me your human reaction
- 1:07Speaker 1: when you watched it.
- 1:09Speaker 2: I felt disgusted. I actually felt physically ill. I felt
- 1:13Speaker 2: nausea actually, and it was yes.
- 1:16Speaker 3: The video, but for me.
- 1:18Speaker 2: It was almost more the audio because you can hear Taylor,
- 1:23Speaker 2: Frankie Paul's five year old little girl at the time,
- 1:26Speaker 2: crying in the background. You can hear her after she
- 1:30Speaker 2: gets hit with a metal barstool that you see Taylor throwing,
- 1:36Speaker 2: and you hear her ex pleading for her to stop.
- 1:40Speaker 1: Okay, we need to And I think at this point
- 1:42Speaker 1: Roaes everybody has followed this story. They know who she is.
- 1:45Speaker 1: Frankie Taylor Paul, the firebrand, the lead, the star of
- 1:49Speaker 1: Secret Lives of Mormon Wives on Hulu. It's in its
- 1:52Speaker 1: fourth season now. ABC trying to revive the Bachelorette, plucked her,
- 1:59Speaker 1: select did her, and we knew what they were trying
- 2:03Speaker 1: to go after. She She's a firebrand. She's different from
- 2:05Speaker 1: any bachelorette they ever had. Some thought it was a
- 2:08Speaker 1: good decision, a good way to revive the brand. People
- 2:11Speaker 1: will follow her. It's going to be crazy, that was
- 2:15Speaker 1: the strategy. But Rodes they selected her knowing that she
- 2:19Speaker 1: had pled guilty in a domestic violence incident.
- 2:24Speaker 2: So what's changed, exactly right, And let's back it up
- 2:30Speaker 2: even before that, because when Hulu had her be a
- 2:33Speaker 2: part of and of course Disney owns Hulu to be
- 2:36Speaker 2: a part of the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. They
- 2:39Speaker 2: knew that this whole show became what it was around
- 2:43Speaker 2: a swinging, a soft swinging situation. So you've got, you know,
- 2:48Speaker 2: folks who might not agree with that from a moral standpoint.
- 2:52Speaker 2: Just how she came into fame on mom Talk, on TikTok.
- 2:56Speaker 2: It was all blown up and she became a name
- 2:59Speaker 2: because of a swinging scandal.
- 3:01Speaker 1: We're talking about criminal activity now and violence and what
- 3:04Speaker 1: didn't they shut down production for a while on Secret
- 3:06Speaker 1: Lives of Mormon Wives because she was dealing with this
- 3:09Speaker 1: domestic violence incident, correct twenty twenty three, right, correct?
- 3:12Speaker 2: So yes, so this all happened then while that was
- 3:16Speaker 2: being filmed, and you are correct, Disney, Hulu, ABC. They
- 3:20Speaker 2: all knew that she pleaded guilty to what we are
- 3:26Speaker 2: seeing on this video. And look, we don't know for
- 3:29Speaker 2: sure if they knew there was a video, but I'm
- 3:32Speaker 2: guessing they did, and they were hoping or maybe they
- 3:35Speaker 2: were reassured that whoever had ownership of this video, her
- 3:40Speaker 2: ex is the one who shot it, or who at
- 3:42Speaker 2: least recorded it.
- 3:43Speaker 3: Maybe they felt reassured that this video would never see
- 3:48Speaker 3: the light of day. How could they not have known
- 3:50Speaker 3: about it?
- 3:51Speaker 2: If this was a part of an investigation, clearly the
- 3:53Speaker 2: police would have known about this way.
- 3:54Speaker 1: My argument is, what difference does it make you knew
- 3:56Speaker 1: there was an incident in domestic violence, she played guilty,
- 3:59Speaker 1: and you decided to go forward. What difference does the
- 4:02Speaker 1: video make? Are you going to come back now and say, well,
- 4:05Speaker 1: it was domestic violence, but we didn't think it was
- 4:08Speaker 1: that bad? What can you say?
- 4:09Speaker 2: That?
- 4:10Speaker 3: Is what they'll have to say, you knew this.
- 4:11Speaker 1: The only option they have, is it not Robes, is
- 4:14Speaker 1: to say she misrepresented what the incident was, and now
- 4:18Speaker 1: that we've seen this, we can't move forward. They are
- 4:21Speaker 1: either about to throw her under the biggest bus you
- 4:25Speaker 1: can find, or they are going to have to quadruple
- 4:29Speaker 1: down and move forward for the sake of ratings.
- 4:32Speaker 2: They knew that she pleaded guilty to aggravated.
- 4:37Speaker 3: Assault with you yes, So it's.
- 4:40Speaker 2: Really hard for me and I'm thinking you as well,
- 4:44Speaker 2: to believe that they didn't know the risk they were
- 4:48Speaker 2: taking and they went ahead anyway and took it.
- 4:51Speaker 1: So maybe that's it. They took the risk and they
- 4:52Speaker 1: just lost. Because this show cannot air, We're going to
- 4:55Speaker 1: let you hear this audio. And you might have seen
- 4:58Speaker 1: the video already, but to your point, Robes, it's the
- 5:01Speaker 1: audio that stings. It's so painful, it is so hurtful
- 5:06Speaker 1: to hear. And is that moment? And we've heard about
- 5:09Speaker 1: ropes describe the incident before we even saw the video.
- 5:13Speaker 1: This incident's been talked about for years, what it looked like,
- 5:16Speaker 1: how it went down, what was thrown, choke holes and Okay,
- 5:20Speaker 1: we knew about all this, did we not?
- 5:21Speaker 2: Yes? And Babe, we sat down with Taylor on our
- 5:26Speaker 2: podcast talking and she referred to this talking about this
- 5:30Speaker 2: incident because she had to deal with it, she had
- 5:32Speaker 2: to address it, and she apologized. She said she was drunk.
- 5:35Speaker 2: She said she got sober after that night. And you
- 5:38Speaker 2: can tell she's drunk.
- 5:39Speaker 3: She is slurring her words.
- 5:41Speaker 2: You can tell she is absolutely a neebreated and she
- 5:43Speaker 2: has admitted that she was.
- 5:44Speaker 3: In fact, that was in a way her defense.
- 5:47Speaker 2: I was wasted, I was so drunk, I was out
- 5:49Speaker 2: of control.
- 5:50Speaker 3: And that was the night I got sober. And I
- 5:52Speaker 3: think everybody was rallying around her in that moment. She
- 5:56Speaker 3: turned her life around. She wanted to do better. To
- 5:59Speaker 3: be better.
- 6:00Speaker 2: But now with this second investigation, there it is there.
- 6:04Speaker 2: It is about another alleged domestic violence incident where Dakota,
- 6:08Speaker 2: who is in this video and this audio you will
- 6:11Speaker 2: hear him, claims that she was violent again towards him.
- 6:16Speaker 2: She claims he was violent towards her. But you can
- 6:19Speaker 2: even hear her in this video saying you did it,
- 6:21Speaker 2: you did it. But what you see is her doing it,
- 6:25Speaker 2: not him.
- 6:26Speaker 1: Okay, so we are going to go ahead and let
- 6:27Speaker 1: you hear this. Now it goes a little and again
- 6:30Speaker 1: we know this now or is coming out now because
- 6:31Speaker 1: of TMZ TMZ and I think you read it as well, Rose,
- 6:35Speaker 1: But it's a little unclear exactly how they got it.
- 6:38Speaker 3: They're not saying how they got it.
- 6:39Speaker 1: They were saying this was part of evidence in the
- 6:43Speaker 1: case against her at the time, but they're not exactly
- 6:47Speaker 1: saying how they got their hands on it. They were
- 6:50Speaker 1: a little vague there, point being it's out there now.
- 6:54Speaker 3: It was leaked.
- 6:54Speaker 2: I guess that's the verb everyone is using, leaked video.
- 6:58Speaker 2: Leaked old video. This is video of an incident we
- 7:02Speaker 2: already knew about. But my god, it's one thing to
- 7:04Speaker 2: hear about it hear it described, it's another thing to
- 7:07Speaker 2: actually see it and listen for yourself as it happens.
- 7:10Speaker 1: And if you have seen it already, it is still
- 7:13Speaker 1: I would argue, Robes a little different when you're just
- 7:16Speaker 1: hearing to the audio of it. So, folks, just gonna
- 7:18Speaker 1: let you hear about fifty to fifty five seconds of it.
- 7:22Speaker 1: It goes I think three minutes or so, but we
- 7:24Speaker 1: will let you take a listen. Now again, this is
- 7:26Speaker 1: the beginning of it. To set the scene, he is
- 7:29Speaker 1: recording in a larger living room that goes into the
- 7:33Speaker 1: kitchen area. There is a couch in the living room
- 7:35Speaker 1: area where he is, and she is a little distance
- 7:38Speaker 1: away at some points and starts throwing you'll hear them
- 7:42Speaker 1: metal chairs, and then closer to the end you do
- 7:45Speaker 1: hear the incident and Robes it was. It's tough. I
- 7:49Speaker 1: think it was the third stool she had thrown.
- 7:51Speaker 3: Yeah, and that multiple stools.
- 7:53Speaker 1: That's the one where you hear him say your child's here,
- 7:57Speaker 1: And as soon as the third one is thrown, you
- 8:00Speaker 1: hear the child start crying immediately and you can't help
- 8:03Speaker 1: but her so here it is now, folks, take a quick.
- 8:06Speaker 3: Listen, Yeah, look at you.
- 8:08Speaker 4: Look.
- 8:08Speaker 3: Look, yeah, look, this is called physical abuse.
- 8:15Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, See Taylor, this is all you do.
- 8:23Speaker 4: It's the only thing you know how to do is
- 8:25Speaker 4: hurt me.
- 8:27Speaker 3: Huh.
- 8:27Speaker 1: And you think this is okay.
- 8:29Speaker 3: It's not okay. Let me go stop dude, leave me alone.
- 8:41Speaker 4: Oh my god, your daughter is great here. Oh my gosh,
- 8:53Speaker 4: oh my.
- 8:56Speaker 3: You you.
- 9:00Speaker 4: Stop stop freaming at it. Yeah, Taylor, you're done, Taylor,
- 9:20Speaker 4: that is no, You're gone. Be un.
- 9:29Speaker 1: Robes. Uh. Listening to it is almost worse than seeing it.
- 9:33Speaker 1: It's heartbreaking to uh in a lot of way. And
- 9:35Speaker 1: it's you hear that kid's cries and you can't help,
- 9:39Speaker 1: but it that stings. That's difficult, that's brutal. We're all
- 9:43Speaker 1: hearing this now and on Sunday. ABC is expecting us
- 9:47Speaker 1: to watch a television and watch her hand out roses
- 9:50Speaker 1: and smile and date and we're expected to root for her,
- 9:56Speaker 1: which is possible, Robes, I guess, but it is very difficult.
- 10:02Speaker 1: It's Thursday, baby, The show is in three days. Is
- 10:06Speaker 1: there any way this show airs on Sunday?
- 10:11Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 10:12Speaker 2: As soon as I watched it, I thought not a chance.
- 10:15Speaker 2: Look and as of this recording, ABC, Disney, Hulu. No
- 10:19Speaker 2: one has officially said anything about this. And look, even
- 10:25Speaker 2: with this second domestic violence allegation and investigation that is
- 10:29Speaker 2: ongoing right now enough to put Mormon Wives taping filming
- 10:35Speaker 2: on hold, we still saw Taylor Frankie Paul make the
- 10:40Speaker 2: rounds the last two days. She did a live interview
- 10:43Speaker 2: on Good Morning America, She spoke to People Magazine, she
- 10:45Speaker 2: spoke to several of the other entertainment outlets. So just
- 10:49Speaker 2: talking about how heavy it was, how hard it was,
- 10:52Speaker 2: so they were still pushing through everything.
- 10:57Speaker 1: As we are sitting here with you, folks, it just
- 11:01Speaker 1: popped up on our screen that TMZ reporting that, yes,
- 11:05Speaker 1: in fact, her season has been canceled. As we are
- 11:09Speaker 1: sitting here, as we are talking, and now we're seeing
- 11:11Speaker 1: notes from our people out in La or iHeart, folks,
- 11:14Speaker 1: it's canceled. This is just happening, folks, in this moment.
- 11:18Speaker 1: The video came out, Sweetheart, an hour ago.
- 11:20Speaker 2: You cannot you can't and you hear it, you cannot
- 11:23Speaker 2: unsee it.
- 11:24Speaker 3: It involves a child.
- 11:26Speaker 2: And yes, the only thing I thought, could they hold
- 11:28Speaker 2: on to this notion that they knew about it already,
- 11:32Speaker 2: and that She's changed her life. Maybe they could have
- 11:34Speaker 2: had there not been a second investigation.
- 11:36Speaker 3: If there was not, that was my question.
- 11:38Speaker 2: If there had never been a second alleged incident, if
- 11:42Speaker 2: there wasn't now another police investigation, could they have said
- 11:46Speaker 2: she has changed her way, she has gone to therapy,
- 11:49Speaker 2: she has redeemed herself. She you know, all throughout the
- 11:52Speaker 2: second you can't say any of those things now with
- 11:55Speaker 2: another police investigation alleging the exact same type of behavior.
- 12:01Speaker 1: This is sad. This is so sad. And you know
- 12:03Speaker 1: who I'm the first you know what I'm thinking about. Yeah,
- 12:06Speaker 1: we think about the child, we think robes. I'm sad
- 12:09Speaker 1: with Jesse Palmer. I'm sad for all the bookers who
- 12:14Speaker 1: work forever to find these guys. I'm sad for all
- 12:17Speaker 1: those people who work to make sure they did background
- 12:20Speaker 1: checks on all these guys. I'm sad for all those
- 12:22Speaker 1: people who put all this effort into making this show
- 12:26Speaker 1: a hit and this has happened to them.
- 12:29Speaker 2: Yeah, because all of those people had nothing to do
- 12:32Speaker 2: with the decision.
- 12:33Speaker 3: To choose Taylor Franky Paul as the bachelorette.
- 12:36Speaker 2: All of that work and you know how much work
- 12:39Speaker 2: forget even the money, but just how much of an
- 12:41Speaker 2: investment of your time? And I do believe Jesse Palmer
- 12:46Speaker 2: and the folks there at The Bachelorette believe in their show.
- 12:50Speaker 2: Yes it's a reality show, Yes it's entertainment, but they
- 12:52Speaker 2: have always been proud of the fact that they genuinely
- 12:56Speaker 2: and legitimately were trying to help people find love, find
- 13:00Speaker 2: lasting relationships, and yes, find a beautiful marriage.
- 13:04Speaker 3: And this flew in the face of all of that.
- 13:06Speaker 1: From the beginning that this was the one, This was
- 13:09Speaker 1: the year right, this was supposed to be the comeback.
- 13:12Speaker 1: They bet big, babe, they lost big. This is coming
- 13:16Speaker 1: to us again. We have not TIMZ Celebrity News is
- 13:21Speaker 1: just as trusted as anybody else out there. They've made
- 13:23Speaker 1: their mistakes, but this is not some wild tabloid we're
- 13:25Speaker 1: talking about here. TMZ reporting the headline the Bachelorette Taylor
- 13:29Speaker 1: Frankie Paul season canceled. They have a statement in here
- 13:32Speaker 1: robes from the Disney spokesperson that's sitting here, so they're
- 13:36Speaker 1: saying they actually have talked to somebody from Disney and
- 13:41Speaker 1: gave them a statement confirming that, in fact, this show
- 13:44Speaker 1: will not go forward on Sunday Robes. This is not
- 13:46Speaker 1: information we had when we hit record to record this podcast,
- 13:50Speaker 1: but we thought there was no way, and sure enough,
- 13:52Speaker 1: here it is.
- 13:52Speaker 3: Yes, this is happening in real time.
- 13:54Speaker 2: A Disney Entertainment spokesperson said, in light of the newly
- 13:58Speaker 2: released video just surface today, we have made the decision
- 14:02Speaker 2: to not move forward with the new season of The
- 14:05Speaker 2: Bauch Threat at this time, and our focus is on
- 14:09Speaker 2: supporting the family. This is worst case scenario and there
- 14:15Speaker 2: is going to be a lot of finger pointing and
- 14:18Speaker 2: fall out over this. This is a massive, massive development.
- 14:24Speaker 1: Finger pointing. You know, there is man's robes. Where do
- 14:28Speaker 1: you even start? Who chose her? Who missed this in
- 14:31Speaker 1: the background, who didn't know the video was out there?
- 14:34Speaker 1: How did the video get out? How did this other
- 14:37Speaker 1: incident take place? How do we know it know about that?
- 14:39Speaker 1: Who said we should put her on the red carpet
- 14:40Speaker 1: at the oscars? Who said we should have her do
- 14:43Speaker 1: the interview on Good Morning America and not ask her
- 14:45Speaker 1: a serious question? Robes, over and over and over. This
- 14:48Speaker 1: is what you talked about. She did that interview this morning.
- 14:52Speaker 1: You said, guys, this is how you do it. You
- 14:55Speaker 1: give her a tough question. You have a combative interview.
- 14:58Speaker 1: She's been out there and she's addressing and taking it
- 15:00Speaker 1: head on. So if something like this comes up, Robes,
- 15:04Speaker 1: this was your argument, you can look better as a network,
- 15:07Speaker 1: as a company by putting her on your network and
- 15:10Speaker 1: holding our feet to the fire.
- 15:12Speaker 3: Correct.
- 15:12Speaker 2: She needed to explain this, And now that we see
- 15:15Speaker 2: this video where she's talking about her pain and her hurt,
- 15:19Speaker 2: it really, really, really is. I hate to use the
- 15:24Speaker 2: word disgusting, but that is how it feels. It feels gross,
- 15:27Speaker 2: it feels itchy, it feels manipulative. And you saw this
- 15:31Speaker 2: roll out, this pr campaign, and then you see this
- 15:34Speaker 2: video and again coupled with new allegations.
- 15:39Speaker 3: Of the same type of behavior. How is that allowed?
- 15:44Speaker 3: How is this ever?
- 15:45Speaker 1: Okay, I'm looking. I'm going back through our our text messages,
- 15:53Speaker 1: go to where is this? I said, Babe, it's bad.
- 15:57Speaker 1: TMZ has somehow gotten the video of the twenty twenty
- 15:59Speaker 1: three domestic Isolents video with Taylor Frankie. It's not quite ditty,
- 16:04Speaker 1: but it's bad. They cannot stand by this girl. This
- 16:09Speaker 1: is sad.
- 16:10Speaker 2: Then I said, Oi, I had a feeling that was
- 16:13Speaker 2: coming because we had heard there was already talk that
- 16:16Speaker 2: there were videos, right, so you said, go to their website.
- 16:18Speaker 3: It's at the top. Sucks.
- 16:20Speaker 2: And then I wrote to you, no way Sunday can
- 16:22Speaker 2: go on as planned. You wrote, it's really ugly.
- 16:27Speaker 1: This is unsurvivable for AVC to put her on the air.
- 16:33Speaker 1: I robes, this is a devastating story. It's devastating for
- 16:43Speaker 1: that network. It's devastating for Disney, it's devastating for that show,
- 16:46Speaker 1: The Bachelor Nation. It is devastating. I don't know what
- 16:49Speaker 1: lessons we learn here, babe, but it was one of
- 16:52Speaker 1: the early There are conversations I was wanting to have
- 16:55Speaker 1: that I didn't understand, and that is why we consider
- 16:59Speaker 1: domestic violence. Why this story wasn't serious enough, why it
- 17:03Speaker 1: didn't feel like and even after watching the video, I
- 17:06Speaker 1: stopped and thought, maybe some people will see this and go, well,
- 17:08Speaker 1: she's just a little girl and tiny girl, and she
- 17:11Speaker 1: got upset and throwing some things. No big deal. This
- 17:14Speaker 1: isn't the same as a man putting his hands on
- 17:17Speaker 1: a woman.
- 17:18Speaker 2: When you see her like literally attempting to choke him,
- 17:22Speaker 2: and you hear his voice struggling, when you see her
- 17:25Speaker 2: hurling heavy metal objects at him, as hard as she can,
- 17:30Speaker 2: screaming uncontrollably, you did this as she's doing it, and
- 17:36Speaker 2: then Babe to see her response through her spokespeople after
- 17:41Speaker 2: the video was released to me, that was it was
- 17:46Speaker 2: even worse because there's zero acknowledgment of what we're all seeing.
- 17:50Speaker 1: So the plan we had, folks for this episode was
- 17:54Speaker 1: to actually let you know about the video, play the
- 17:56Speaker 1: audio of the video, and let you know what all
- 17:58Speaker 1: sides are saying. Right now. We do want to let
- 18:02Speaker 1: you hear the statement from Taylor Frankie Paul's camp, but
- 18:07Speaker 1: this was the statement they put out after the video,
- 18:10Speaker 1: but before we heard about the cancelation. Stay here. We'll
- 18:14Speaker 1: let you know about this and let you hear this.
- 18:18Speaker 1: How'd you just describe rate? It was confusing, this tone
- 18:21Speaker 1: deaf statement from her camp. Stay here continuing now here
- 18:34Speaker 1: on Amy and TJ, The Bachelorette is canceled, according to TMZ,
- 18:38Speaker 1: citing a statement they have now gotten from Disney spokesperson
- 18:42Speaker 1: saying that the Taylor Frankie Paul season of Bachelorette season
- 18:46Speaker 1: twenty two that was supposed to start on Sunday with Rose,
- 18:50Speaker 1: when was she announced? How many months ago? Was it?
- 18:52Speaker 3: Oh? I find some time ago. I believe in the summer.
- 18:55Speaker 3: It was long time.
- 18:57Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, there has been a build up and
- 18:59Speaker 1: a build up and a build up of folks in
- 19:00Speaker 1: the you just heard it here. We are getting word
- 19:03Speaker 1: as we were recording about this Robes we were talking earlier.
- 19:10Speaker 1: When we started recording, we had only known that the
- 19:12Speaker 1: video was out and that her camp put out a
- 19:15Speaker 1: statement in response. Before we give any kind of interpretation
- 19:19Speaker 1: or our feelings about it, just let the people hear.
- 19:21Speaker 3: Oh.
- 19:22Speaker 2: I got a lot of feelings about it. I did
- 19:23Speaker 2: as soon as I heard it. But we'll let you
- 19:25Speaker 2: all have your feelings and then we can discuss. This
- 19:28Speaker 2: is what Taylor Frankie Paul spokes people said after the
- 19:32Speaker 2: video was released. It's sad to see the latest installment
- 19:36Speaker 2: of his never ending, desperate, attention seeking, destructive campaign to
- 19:41Speaker 2: harm Taylor without any regard for the consequences for their child.
- 19:45Speaker 2: Releasing an old video which conveniently omits context on their
- 19:50Speaker 2: son's birthday is a reprehensible attempt to.
- 19:54Speaker 3: Distract from his own behavior.
- 19:56Speaker 2: Thankfully, the public has seen this act before and knows
- 19:59Speaker 2: who he is is, and sadly many will recognize this
- 20:03Speaker 2: pattern of manipulation, both in his actions on the show
- 20:07Speaker 2: and from their own experiences.
- 20:09Speaker 1: Go ahead, have your reaction first.
- 20:11Speaker 2: Gas lighting one oh one. I know what I saw
- 20:14Speaker 2: in that video. It doesn't require context. I don't care
- 20:17Speaker 2: what the context is. It is never acceptable to choke someone,
- 20:20Speaker 2: to throw heavy metal object at someone, and certainly to
- 20:24Speaker 2: do any of that when your five year old child
- 20:26Speaker 2: is right there. And then when the video shows you
- 20:29Speaker 2: out of control, drunk and actually harming your child. The reaction,
- 20:34Speaker 2: the statement should be, this is mortifying, this is horrific.
- 20:38Speaker 2: I have done so much work to evolve from this
- 20:40Speaker 2: person who I see in that video. I don't even
- 20:42Speaker 2: recognize that person. I'm sober. You take accountability. All they
- 20:46Speaker 2: did was say.
- 20:49Speaker 3: Dakota is to.
- 20:49Speaker 1: Blame what Okay, I didn't put it in as full
- 20:54Speaker 1: of context as you just put it. There was no
- 20:57Speaker 1: accountability in the station, deer roam. She's not responsible at
- 21:01Speaker 1: all for any of that behavior, according to the statement. Now, Rose,
- 21:05Speaker 1: we don't know who put this video out and we
- 21:06Speaker 1: don't know why, But what difference for ABC should it make?
- 21:15Speaker 1: You Remember the Ray Rice situation NFL running back. It
- 21:19Speaker 1: was with Baltimore at the time, there was a horrific
- 21:21Speaker 1: video of him hitting his fiance at the time. You remember,
- 21:25Speaker 1: it's in the elevator and then he's dragged knocked her
- 21:27Speaker 1: out and dragged her to Okay, you know what I'm talking.
- 21:31Speaker 1: So the NFL had done the punishment to him behind
- 21:35Speaker 1: the scenes and everything, he'd done his time, and then
- 21:38Speaker 1: the video came out and they came back and tried
- 21:41Speaker 1: to punish him more, and a court stepped in and said, nope,
- 21:45Speaker 1: you knew about this. Nothing is changed. You just see video.
- 21:50Speaker 1: You can't change it now, is there any way? There
- 21:54Speaker 1: was a conversation about that, should we feel any differently
- 21:58Speaker 1: about it just because we see it? If I hear
- 22:01Speaker 1: domestic violence and a man versus takes on a woman
- 22:04Speaker 1: with domestic violence, he is an instant monster. He is instantly,
- 22:10Speaker 1: instantly a monster. Why is it? Then rogues, we've heard
- 22:14Speaker 1: about this domestic violence. Okay, let's push forward, and now
- 22:18Speaker 1: we see it and all of a sudden, okay, this
- 22:20Speaker 1: is ugly.
- 22:21Speaker 2: The truth is she's barely five feet tall and it's
- 22:24Speaker 2: a he said, she said, kind of a thing. And yes,
- 22:26Speaker 2: police wait and police did do the investigation. But you
- 22:29Speaker 2: can maybe create some allowances in your mind or how
- 22:32Speaker 2: bad was it really? Like how much did she actually
- 22:36Speaker 2: overreact and did.
- 22:37Speaker 3: She just throw one chair or three? What was her demeanor?
- 22:40Speaker 2: Like?
- 22:40Speaker 3: You just what when you see and hear this video?
- 22:43Speaker 2: It is undeniable, It is unmistakable, and it's actually, for
- 22:47Speaker 2: me one hundred times worse than I imagined it was.
- 22:50Speaker 1: You know, that was a good phrase you use. You
- 22:52Speaker 1: said allowances in your own mind, and we were willing
- 22:56Speaker 1: to do that, and we have to admit that that
- 22:58Speaker 1: is something we don't subconsciously do. But now, Robes, this
- 23:04Speaker 1: is violent. This is not just ugly. This is not
- 23:07Speaker 1: a scandal, This is not a tabloid headline. This is violence.
- 23:11Speaker 2: I don't think she can go back to Mormon wives
- 23:14Speaker 2: at all, period. And the women have come out on
- 23:17Speaker 2: their different social media accounts saying they're the ones who
- 23:20Speaker 2: asked for the pause, that they didn't want to film
- 23:22Speaker 2: with her, that they were deeply concerned about the first incident,
- 23:27Speaker 2: but now with the second one being investigated, they were like,
- 23:29Speaker 2: we don't want to be a part of anything with her.
- 23:32Speaker 2: So the idea of her actually ever coming back in
- 23:35Speaker 2: any way seems slim to not at this point, And
- 23:38Speaker 2: who knows what's going to happen with this other police investigation.
- 23:41Speaker 2: There was taught that I think he got to a
- 23:44Speaker 2: point this is what he claims that it's happened enough times.
- 23:47Speaker 2: He started recording it because think about it. As a man,
- 23:51Speaker 2: what's his defense.
- 23:52Speaker 3: She's going to say you hit me first, or you
- 23:54Speaker 3: hit me too, or whatever.
- 23:56Speaker 2: So he started recording so he had a defense, so
- 23:59Speaker 2: he could defend him.
- 24:02Speaker 3: And he wasn't charged.
- 24:03Speaker 1: She woh god, damn, oh my god. This is awful.
- 24:08Speaker 1: This is just awful. What are we gonna take out
- 24:11Speaker 1: of it? What are we gonna learn from it? I
- 24:13Speaker 1: don't know what the conversation should be. She in this video,
- 24:17Speaker 1: Robes looks troubled. She needs help, She needs help, and
- 24:21Speaker 1: she said she has admitted that she got it. Okay,
- 24:24Speaker 1: if she got it, should we will put that behind
- 24:28Speaker 1: and say, okay, we're gonna support you. You can do that, Robes.
- 24:32Speaker 1: It's just such a big ask when the type of
- 24:36Speaker 1: show she's trying to do, she's not just trying to
- 24:39Speaker 1: do a Mormon lives follow my Life. She is trying to.
- 24:42Speaker 2: Say I'm datable, I'm a I'm marriage material. Take me
- 24:46Speaker 2: home to your Mom, that's what that show is. It
- 24:51Speaker 2: is it's it's not the right show.
- 24:54Speaker 1: So let's go with the last couple of things to
- 24:56Speaker 1: wrap up here, Robes, the guys, that's not fair to them.
- 25:00Speaker 1: Those guys. We actually know people personally who have gone
- 25:03Speaker 1: through the process of dealing with bachelor and bachelorette and
- 25:06Speaker 1: going through the process of being selected, and it is you.
- 25:10Speaker 1: They put you through the ringer. All these guys went
- 25:14Speaker 1: through that ringer. They took time off from friends, family, work,
- 25:18Speaker 1: to sacrifice to be here for something and Robes, some
- 25:21Speaker 1: of them might have been looking for some clout, but
- 25:24Speaker 1: there you have to think that there's some guys who
- 25:27Speaker 1: were genuinely interested in Frankie Taylor, in her and wanting
- 25:31Speaker 1: to find love.
- 25:32Speaker 2: Yeah, we do have a friend who went through the process,
- 25:34Speaker 2: got up towards the very end, and he would even
- 25:36Speaker 2: tell us about how intrusive you go through like multiple interviews,
- 25:40Speaker 2: they meet your friends in truth to your family, they
- 25:43Speaker 2: actually find out who you are. What you could think
- 25:45Speaker 2: about the liability you know on that show, you you're matchmaking,
- 25:50Speaker 2: you're introducing people to each other. You have to make
- 25:52Speaker 2: sure that people who you're introducing other people to are
- 25:57Speaker 2: legit nonviolent, safe, you know, as best as you can.
- 26:02Speaker 2: So with all of that said, it is a head
- 26:05Speaker 2: scratcher that it got as far as it did, all
- 26:07Speaker 2: for ratings, all for publicity, all for clicks, and this
- 26:12Speaker 2: is what has happened, and it's just sad all around.
- 26:19Speaker 1: The defense of Disney. This is gonna sound crazy, But
- 26:23Speaker 1: if you were okay with them putting her on knowing
- 26:26Speaker 1: about this incident, then why shouldn't you still be support
- 26:29Speaker 1: above them after the incident. We knew about it. Now
- 26:33Speaker 1: it's just we see it and like, ooh, now it's
- 26:36Speaker 1: too much for us. No, you knew your bachelorette had
- 26:39Speaker 1: a domestic violence guilty plea on her record, and we
- 26:44Speaker 1: were okay with it.
- 26:45Speaker 2: Then I think people were hoping that it wasn't as
- 26:47Speaker 2: bad as maybe it seemed or as they heard.
- 26:50Speaker 3: When you see that, when you hear it, there is
- 26:53Speaker 3: no gray area.
- 26:55Speaker 2: Well, so then what happens next now ropes, Well, I think,
- 26:59Speaker 2: like I said, I think there's gonna be a lot
- 27:00Speaker 2: of finger pointing. There's gonna be a lot of cya
- 27:03Speaker 2: going on, and it's gonna be interesting to find out
- 27:05Speaker 2: if anyone who was involved in that show and making
- 27:09Speaker 2: the decision, knew about the video, saw the video, and
- 27:12Speaker 2: if TMZ could get the video, then I'm gonna go
- 27:15Speaker 2: ahead and tide Disney should have been able to get
- 27:19Speaker 2: that bit.
- 27:19Speaker 1: Uh. I don't know. TMZ has its ways. I don't know,
- 27:24Speaker 1: but if we knew about it, I could have described
- 27:26Speaker 1: as incident to any Disney official that asked. I said, yeah,
- 27:30Speaker 1: so what she did was she put them in chokehold.
- 27:32Speaker 1: And the record says that she threw these metal barstools
- 27:35Speaker 1: and her child got hit by one. That's what the video,
- 27:39Speaker 1: any video would show. They knew that, and they knew
- 27:43Speaker 1: about it, and they said, you know what.
- 27:45Speaker 3: That's cool, Let's make her America sweetheart.
- 27:47Speaker 2: Shit.
- 27:49Speaker 1: The only thing Roles that can save them possibly is
- 27:53Speaker 1: to throw her again under the biggest greyhound they can
- 27:57Speaker 1: find and say she lie to us and misrepresented what
- 28:03Speaker 1: that incident was and we would have never gone through
- 28:07Speaker 1: with this had we known about that, that it was
- 28:10Speaker 1: that bad, but she assured us that it wasn't. What
- 28:14Speaker 1: other option do they have than to throw her under
- 28:16Speaker 1: a bus.
- 28:18Speaker 3: I don't know, but I don't think that's gonna work.
- 28:21Speaker 1: Really, You come on, who gets more heat Disney or her.
- 28:27Speaker 3: I think Disney ultimately is going to need the heat
- 28:29Speaker 3: for this.
- 28:30Speaker 1: You think the audience is going to support her, her fans,
- 28:33Speaker 1: her tailor army or whatever. You think they'll just.
- 28:35Speaker 2: No, She's obviously going to be completely destroyed by this,
- 28:38Speaker 2: But I think Disney is going to take a huge
- 28:41Speaker 2: hit for this. Really, people question their choice from the beginning.
- 28:46Speaker 2: It was controversial from the very beginning, and now it
- 28:51Speaker 2: ends like this worst case scenario controversial.
- 28:55Speaker 1: It looked fine to me on Sunday when I watched
- 28:57Speaker 1: the Oscars. She was the big star there as far
- 29:01Speaker 1: as talent for ABC reporting from the red carpet. What
- 29:05Speaker 1: are you talking about?
- 29:07Speaker 3: It was controversial in many many circles that they picture.
- 29:10Speaker 1: I know what you all believe. I know what you're saying.
- 29:12Speaker 1: But we had gotten to a point where it seemed
- 29:14Speaker 1: to be celebrated. Even thought it was a good move,
- 29:16Speaker 1: it was emotional.
- 29:18Speaker 3: Oh absolutely, Oh this.
- 29:20Speaker 1: Is awful, folks, to tell you. I mean people, redemption
- 29:25Speaker 1: can happen.
- 29:26Speaker 3: Babe, I mean people can I believe that.
- 29:28Speaker 1: Awful, awful decision. Look, there are people out there who've
- 29:33Speaker 1: had DUIs and they had manslaughter charges. There people who
- 29:36Speaker 1: served time for killing folks. There are people who have
- 29:38Speaker 1: done all kinds of horrific things, and Babe, you can
- 29:40Speaker 1: turn your life around.
- 29:41Speaker 2: Agreed that that can happen, But you probably shouldn't go
- 29:47Speaker 2: on a dating show where you're lauded as an American sweetheart,
- 29:52Speaker 2: someone to bring home to Mama, when you have been
- 29:56Speaker 2: or at least you've pleaded guilty to domestic violence charge
- 30:00Speaker 2: and are now in the middle of another domestic violence investigation,
- 30:04Speaker 2: criminal investigation with that same ex boyfriend who you had
- 30:09Speaker 2: zero issue telling the world you slept with the night
- 30:12Speaker 2: before you went on to go start filming The Bachelor.
- 30:16Speaker 2: That just shows you how seriously she was actually taking
- 30:20Speaker 2: this as an opportunity to find love. That to me
- 30:23Speaker 2: is almost spitting in the face of the show.
- 30:27Speaker 1: I guess and us who actually look at Tristan and
- 30:31Speaker 1: Ryan and turn that show on, so we are Tristan
- 30:34Speaker 1: and Ryan are why I still give the show any
- 30:37Speaker 1: ounce of legitimacy. I was like, oh, wow, this can work,
- 30:41Speaker 1: it can and it has. We've known hell Rachel Lindsay
- 30:45Speaker 1: got married, she ended up getting divorced. These are friends
- 30:47Speaker 1: of ours. Matt James had a long relationship ends up
- 30:50Speaker 1: not being together.
- 30:51Speaker 2: But it was a legitimate relationship where they were thinking
- 30:54Speaker 2: about marriage.
- 30:55Speaker 1: Absolutely, we've been a part, We've seen it work. This
- 30:58Speaker 1: says to us to the audience that it's something else.
- 31:02Speaker 1: Now it's a spectacle, a spectacle, and this is what
- 31:07Speaker 1: this was. Folks. We appreciate you listening. We just wanted
- 31:11Speaker 1: to hop on. This wasn't the episode we expected now
- 31:14Speaker 1: and quite frankly, this ropes. This is the first time
- 31:16Speaker 1: the news has broken while we are in the middle
- 31:18Speaker 1: of red.
- 31:18Speaker 3: This is a first and takes us back. Yeah right,
- 31:21Speaker 3: it was almost like breaking news takes us back.
- 31:24Speaker 1: Well, folks, we appreciate you. Anything else hopped out on
- 31:26Speaker 1: this one. I do want to ropes. We mentioned did
- 31:28Speaker 1: you see this up on yours as well? TMZ. Also
- 31:31Speaker 1: this note here that they're saying Dakota has actually filed
- 31:36Speaker 1: for some kind of restraining order and wants sole custody
- 31:39Speaker 1: of their child. Here it is ropes.
- 31:41Speaker 3: Oh my goodness.
- 31:42Speaker 1: So this is getting messier and messier and messier.
- 31:45Speaker 2: Yeah, this is just the beginning. Unfortunately, this is what
- 31:49Speaker 2: tends to happen. And yes, now Dakota, it appears, is
- 31:52Speaker 2: looking for soul custody and after that video.
- 31:55Speaker 3: He probably has a pretty decent case.
- 31:58Speaker 1: So our look, our thanks on our credit right now
- 32:01Speaker 1: to TMZ that has gotten hands on the video and
- 32:04Speaker 1: has pushed this story forward. Is the last thing to you? Babe?
- 32:09Speaker 1: Was this important? Did we need to see this video
- 32:14Speaker 1: before the show?
- 32:15Speaker 2: Now?
- 32:15Speaker 1: If it would have come out in the middle of
- 32:16Speaker 1: the show, that would have been horrible. But did we
- 32:18Speaker 1: need to see this? Did we need did this video
- 32:22Speaker 1: need to come out? If this would have just gone away,
- 32:25Speaker 1: was buried and never existed with things have just gone
- 32:28Speaker 1: on as planned?
- 32:30Speaker 2: Probably And I was thinking about this moment when Harvey
- 32:34Speaker 2: Levin knew he had this video, he had to.
- 32:37Speaker 3: Know when he put it up.
- 32:39Speaker 2: He had to know that he was changing a lot
- 32:43Speaker 2: of lives and that this show was almost certainly going
- 32:46Speaker 2: to get canceled. He knows this business. He knew what
- 32:49Speaker 2: he was going to happen when he made this public.
- 32:51Speaker 1: He probably called Disney before he posted and say, hey,
- 32:55Speaker 1: heads up up, I got this. Do you have a
- 32:58Speaker 1: coming yet? Folks? T J. Holmes here on behalf of
- 33:02Speaker 1: my dear Amy Robach. We will be talking to you soon.
- 33:05Speaker 1: Anything hops out on this story, we certainly will will
- 33:08Speaker 1: update you but we appreciate you as always so spending
- 33:10Speaker 1: some time here with us