Latest / The Manifestation Station / Ep 15. 10 Steps to Guide you Towards your Goals
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- 0:00Music.
- 0:07You're listening to the Manifestation Station podcast.
- 0:11I'm your host, Holly Edwards, and together we can help create your magic.
- 0:22Hi, you gorgeous lot. We are back with another episode of the Manifestation Station.
- 0:29I actually don't know what number episode this is. I was just going to say welcome to number...
- 0:34I feel like it's 15. which I feel like it's exciting. I got a little medal sent
- 0:40to me by my podcasting company that was like, congratulations on your 10th,
- 0:45congratulations on your 2000 download.
- 0:49Very exciting. How are we all? How are we feeling today?
- 0:54Whatever headspace you are in right now, if you're feeling good,
- 0:59if you're feeling positive, if you're feeling light and energetic and proactive.
- 1:03Good for you. I am here with you.
- 1:07Please send that energy through the pod to all of the listeners because we all
- 1:12need to share that energy.
- 1:14So if that's you, good for you. You go get them, Tiger.
- 1:18Amazing. If you're feeling a little bit low, a little bit lost,
- 1:23a little bit unmotivated, a little bit, what the hell am I doing?
- 1:29Then we're here for you because we can raise our vibrations.
- 1:34Listen to the pod. I've got 10 steps to guide you towards your dreams today.
- 1:41And jumping on with these 10 steps, if you go off and do these,
- 1:45it's going to bring you peace. It's going to bring you harmony.
- 1:48It's going to bring you happiness. It's going to bring you positivity.
- 1:52And in turn, that is going to help us manifest our goals.
- 1:56So shall we get stuck in? 10 steps to manifest your dreams.
- 2:02So step number one is to create your vision statement of the year.
- 2:08So create a personal statement for you that will be your compass,
- 2:14it will be your guide and it will be personalized to whatever your focus is about.
- 2:21Now I have a bit of a motto for this year. I think I mentioned it in the last podcast.
- 2:27My motto this year, and it has totally.
- 2:31I feel like it is exactly what I
- 2:34need and it has become my driving force and
- 2:37my motto for this year is progress
- 2:40not perfection so I've wound
- 2:44that into my own mission statement to give
- 2:47you an example so it's I am
- 2:50committed to moving forward with my goals
- 2:53focusing on progress not perfection
- 2:57and to follow through with my dreams and
- 3:00ideas so it's just one
- 3:03of those progress not perfection with persistence
- 3:06in following your dreams and be consistent you will push forward and you will
- 3:12be always moving rather than just getting stale or feel like you're moving backwards
- 3:17consistency equals moving forward so rather than just waiting for the perfect time to start.
- 3:26Just start. So if you're like me, you might be a bit of a perfectionist and
- 3:31have all these grand ideas and I'll do this and I'll do this.
- 3:34Sometimes you can hold back in when you get things done, whether this is your
- 3:38dream body, a new business, whatever your goal is, sometimes you can be waiting
- 3:45for the perfect time to start.
- 3:47So don't wait until Monday to healthy eat or to start exercising.
- 3:53Do it now. Do it tonight. Do it tomorrow. Start now. No waiting is needed.
- 3:59Don't wait to send that email.
- 4:02Don't wait to start writing your book or to start a new podcast.
- 4:06Don't wait to start your new side hustle. Just start.
- 4:12Progress, not perfection. you
- 4:16won't get close to perfection unless you start
- 4:19and you take those first steps and along the
- 4:22way you will learn you will grow you will make mistakes and
- 4:25you'll get better every time but
- 4:28the point is that with progress not perfection you will
- 4:32grow and with consistency you will
- 4:35move so this step is creating your
- 4:39own vision or mission statement for the
- 4:42year so let's look at some examples for you
- 4:45if you have a goal say one
- 4:48of your main goals is to get fit this
- 4:51year and to have your dream dream body I mean
- 4:54I prefer to say let's get strong and healthy but if
- 4:57your goal is to get your dream body and improve
- 5:00your fitness you could create a mission statement
- 5:03that says I'm committed to becoming the healthiest
- 5:07and strongest version of myself this year
- 5:10embracing consistency in my workouts nourishing my body with wholesome foods
- 5:17and celebrating each step of progress as I achieve achieve my dream physique
- 5:24that's quite a mission statement isn't it that actually also makes me want to adopt that one.
- 5:29So rather than it being, I'm going to do 100 squats on Monday and I'm going
- 5:34to eat lettuce leaves and I'm going to just have this is that your mission is
- 5:39becoming the healthiest, strongest version of yourself,
- 5:42embracing consistency and workouts, nourishing your body. What a lovely mission statement.
- 5:47So if you want your mission statement, say this year that you just want to grow
- 5:52in confidence to make you step out of your comfort zone, to take on challenges
- 5:57that perhaps you don't feel like you have the confidence to do.
- 6:00So say your focus is to grow your confidence this year.
- 6:05Your mission statement could be something along the lines of I will step into
- 6:10every opportunity with courage and self-belief,
- 6:14embracing challenges as a chance to grow and cultivating unshakable confidence
- 6:21by staying authentic to myself and celebrating,
- 6:25my unique strengths.
- 6:27Now, I've gone into a lot of detail in these. You could just be like,
- 6:31I will step into every opportunity with courage and self-belief.
- 6:34That could be it. But if you want to add a little bit more, a little bit extra,
- 6:37or you can borrow mine, you might just need to press playback and listen to that again.
- 6:43Say your focus or your goal is starting a new business.
- 6:47Now, I am hearing this so much at the moment. People that would like to earn
- 6:51more money, to be earning money while they sleep, but also to get out of their current job.
- 6:56So say this is you and you have an idea, you have a new business idea,
- 7:01a side hustle that you want to make some extra money.
- 7:04Perhaps your mission statement for starting a new business could be,
- 7:08this year I will launch my dream business,
- 7:13dedicating my time to research, planning and action while staying adaptable
- 7:20and focused on creating value for others through my passion and skills.
- 7:27I love that one. It's just like, it's kind of holding yourself accountable,
- 7:31isn't it? Do you know what?
- 7:32If you have, what I love about these mission statements is write this down somewhere,
- 7:37put it up, maybe put it up on the wall, put it on your screensaver on your phone
- 7:42and let this be your compass.
- 7:44Let this mission statement guide you and just embody
- 7:47everything about it my progress not perfection
- 7:50mission statement that i gave you at the start that has become embedded
- 7:54in my subconscious and now so much show that
- 7:57everything i'm doing i'm just doing it just starting it just going ahead with
- 8:01it not waiting for perfection not waiting for the perfect time just moving so
- 8:06this mission statement is going to be kind of it's going to come into everything
- 8:11that you do it's going to you're going to come back and reference this statement and think,
- 8:15am I following my mission statement for the year?
- 8:17Another example, say you want a mission statement for being more proactive.
- 8:22I can have this sometimes. You just need that little push to be more proactive.
- 8:26Maybe your mission statement could be, I will take charge of my time and energy.
- 8:33Prioritize meaningful tasks and seizing every opportunity to grow,
- 8:38stay organized, disciplined and ready to act in alignment with my goals.
- 8:45Love that. I want to print off all of these mission statements because they're
- 8:48all so good. Let's do one more. One more example.
- 8:51Let's just do getting fit a lot of January goals
- 8:54a lot of clients that I have at the moment are looking to
- 8:57just get fit and healthy so your
- 9:00mission statement could be I will prioritize
- 9:03my physical and mental health by integrating
- 9:07movement into my daily routine setting clear
- 9:10fitness milestones and approaching each
- 9:13day with determination and positivity to build
- 9:17the strong fit body I envision
- 9:21also love that I mean
- 9:24any of these you can you can take on
- 9:26board create your own whatever your goal
- 9:29is just create your mission statement
- 9:33and in there make sure you're kind of including what your actionable steps are
- 9:38so you're kind of saying that what your goal is I'm committed to becoming a
- 9:41healthier stronger stronger version of myself by embracing consistency in my
- 9:45workouts so just kind of how you can do those things and how you're going to
- 9:49implement them. That is your step one.
- 9:51Create your vision or mission statement for the year.
- 9:55Step two is to define and be really clear on your top three dreams.
- 10:03When people are manifesting, it can become quite overwhelming and feel like
- 10:08a big daunting task and suddenly become a bit overwhelming because you're trying
- 10:14to do too much at once and trying to manifest too much at once.
- 10:18Now, if you improve your mental health, improve your lookout on life,
- 10:23your peace, your positivity, those things that you want at your core will be
- 10:29attracted to you anyway and will come to you.
- 10:32But pick your top three priority dreams.
- 10:37So really take a minute now to think, if I'm going to prioritize three things
- 10:42in my life that I want to attract in, what are they?
- 10:46Write those down and be really, really clear.
- 10:50It's really important to have clarity here because I think sometimes people
- 10:55know roughly where they want to go, but the universe does not know how to deliver
- 10:59your dreams unless you're really precise and really clear.
- 11:02Now, if you focus on your top three dreams, far more likely that you can give
- 11:07them more love, more energy, more focus, where your focus goes, your energy flows.
- 11:13So the more that you can do that with your top three goals,
- 11:18the likelihood is that you're going to achieve them so much quicker and that
- 11:23you're going to feel really good about life and that you are going to be working
- 11:27towards those specific goals and you've got direction and focus.
- 11:31Step three is pick a word for the year.
- 11:37Word for the year that embodies you or that you want to embody.
- 11:42What is your word for the year? It's similar to having a mission statement but
- 11:46how lovely. So mine of course, you may have guessed it, is progress.
- 11:51Just progress. But you can pick anything that you feel that you really want to align yourself with.
- 11:58And whenever you see this word, whenever you speak this word,
- 12:02whenever you see it written down, it is your word. And again,
- 12:06it's something that is going to drive you.
- 12:09Put it on your vision board, write it down, and
- 12:12just let the word embed within you feel
- 12:15it become it let it be your guide and
- 12:18everything that you want to achieve so some
- 12:22examples of words that you could pick just to give you an idea you might already
- 12:26know exactly what your word is already but if you need a little bit of help
- 12:31you could pick I mean you could pick anything have have a look be inspired this
- 12:36is also a fun little game when you can kind of go and find your word.
- 12:40Take today, take the weekend, go and find your word.
- 12:44Put love into this task. Here's some examples of words that you might want to borrow. Okay. Action.
- 12:52Authenticity. I love that one. I feel like this is a word that I've definitely
- 12:57had before, maybe even last year, but it's definitely, it goes there alongside with progress for me.
- 13:03Authenticity. You are the only person like you in the whole world.
- 13:10So if you are authentic, you'll be aligned with your goals.
- 13:14If you're not being authentic, you'll likely feel stressed. you'll
- 13:18feel out of sorts if you're your authentic self and
- 13:21stick to your values then people are
- 13:24going to be attracted to you opportunities are going to be
- 13:27attracted to you and no one else can be you another
- 13:30word consistency love that I love consistency I've
- 13:34spoken so much about consistency on my past episodes I
- 13:37think the key do you know what I'm tempted to
- 13:40write a book about consistency the more
- 13:44that I am working within the manifesting world I
- 13:48realize and anything achieving any goals in
- 13:51life whether you're manifesting or you're just a CEO who doesn't believe in
- 13:54manifesting consistency is the key small consistent steps is going to get you
- 14:00to accomplish whatever it is that you want to accomplish transform love that
- 14:05energize calmness lovely so many of us I think,
- 14:11at the moment are just running at a hundred miles per hour.
- 14:16Life is busy. Our brains are busy. Don't have much room for any kind of mental capacity.
- 14:23So calmness, I really love this as an idea for a word, that you're just going
- 14:28to bring more calmness into your life.
- 14:30It doesn't mean that you're going to be lazy and that you're not going to be
- 14:33proactive or achieve your goals, but calmness is happiness and I think a calm
- 14:38place is a lovely place to be.
- 14:41Balance, courage, resilience, strength.
- 14:48Health, energize, rejuvenate, innovate, execute, ambition, empowerment,
- 14:56flourish, happy, unstoppable.
- 15:01Oh, it gave me goosebumps. Momentum, discipline, boldness.
- 15:05There's just a selection that I've found for you, which I kind of really felt
- 15:09myself being drawn towards.
- 15:11But you can pick anything you want it doesn't have to be a super a super duper
- 15:16amazing word it can just be something so relevant to you let this be your word
- 15:21for the year let it guide you let it motivate you.
- 15:24Step number four is to create a morning routine that makes you thrive in the
- 15:32morning now I think this is so underestimated,
- 15:35but I also think this is something that I am in need of doing.
- 15:41So I'm going to take my own advice here.
- 15:43I think to create a morning routine that kind of makes you want to get up,
- 15:49I think is really important and really powerful.
- 15:52You are setting yourself up for your day ahead. So if you wake up miserable, tired,
- 15:58I don't want to be getting up out of bed, I'm cold I
- 16:01don't want to do this you're not going to thrive throughout
- 16:04the day you're always going to be on the back foot trying to
- 16:07kind of paddle and keep up with the day itself so what can you do to create
- 16:13a morning routine that makes you thrive in the morning now I'm thinking about
- 16:18this now myself and when I get off this podcast besides having to do some work and do some writing,
- 16:25I'm going to create my morning routine because I can kind of,
- 16:29I have a rough routine that if I'm not filming,
- 16:33so if you don't know me in real life, I also have a job where I work in film and TV.
- 16:38That can be trickier because it's up and out to work so early in the morning.
- 16:42When I'm not filming, I try and go for a walk, but I just wake up naturally
- 16:47and I go for a walk if I feel like it.
- 16:49I'm trying to do this more, but I think it's actually about setting a solid
- 16:54routine and trying to make it a habit.
- 16:57Now, the first step in creating a morning routine, a good morning routine,
- 17:01is to not go on your phone straight away.
- 17:04Now, I try to do this, but sometimes it slips and I go, oh, just have a quick look.
- 17:08And before you know it, you've gone down a rabbit hole on TikTok,
- 17:12you're reading the news and it's just
- 17:15not think about your lovely calm brain waking
- 17:19up in the morning think about that brain waking up
- 17:22and then all of a sudden you're just forcing this bright light into your eyes
- 17:27looking at technology scrolling reels scrolling news it's like heavy information
- 17:32it's I can't imagine ever feeling really alive and going yeah I've been on my
- 17:38phone I feel ready for action.
- 17:40So firstly, ditch the technology at least for half an hour.
- 17:45The next thing I would say is just to move. So even if you don't have time.
- 17:51There will be, you know, set your alarm five minutes earlier and just move.
- 17:56Whether that is just making it to the mat on the floor and stretch and stretch
- 18:03and maybe do a little bit of light yoga, lay on the yoga mat,
- 18:07do some deep breathing and breath work.
- 18:10They say if you take deep breaths in, hold for four seconds and release.
- 18:14It regulates the system inside you and it regulates the nervous system and you'll feel calmer.
- 18:21That's already going to set you up. But my advice is to move.
- 18:27If you can, get out for a walk, whether it's five, 10 minutes, half an hour.
- 18:33This is a game changer for your mood.
- 18:36And I have been adopting this process so
- 18:40much more recently and when I come back I feel
- 18:43even on days where I just don't feel
- 18:46motivated and I need I need to be productive but I'm not feeling it and perhaps
- 18:52feeling a little bit flat going for a walk and going for a walk outside being
- 18:57outside will really really help so if you can get even five minutes and walk
- 19:02to the lamppost at the end the road and back.
- 19:05I guarantee you it's going to help lift your mood. You can get a shower and
- 19:08get ready for your day and it's going to really help you kind of set yourself up for the day.
- 19:14So not only is this going to set yourself up for the day but it's about creating
- 19:17a morning routine that actually makes you want to get up.
- 19:21So think about what it could be that you could introduce into your morning.
- 19:26That you look forward to. Is it that you've prepped some really lovely breakfast?
- 19:31Maybe you've done some really lovely overnight oats with some fruit and some
- 19:35chocolate chips. Maybe you've got a lovely smoothie downstairs.
- 19:38Maybe you can come downstairs, have your smoothie, have your cappuccino,
- 19:43whatever it is, and maybe just sit indoors, be mindful.
- 19:47It might be that. It may just be coming down and having that lovely smoothie
- 19:50and having your quiet drink for five minutes on your own.
- 19:53I know one of my sisters, she's very busy and she has lots of school drop offs to do.
- 19:58And she often gets up quite considerably early, earlier than she needs to,
- 20:04because that is her quiet time in the morning before the kids get up,
- 20:08before her husband gets up.
- 20:10So that's her time. So that's creating a morning routine that she looks forward to.
- 20:15She come downstairs and might watch her favourite show, have
- 20:18her breakfast while she's watching her show and it's her quiet time she looks
- 20:22forward to that so what can you look forward to maybe listen
- 20:25to music put your favorite song in the morning while
- 20:28you're having your shower what can you do to
- 20:31make it fun make you thrive in the
- 20:34morning move music calmness breath
- 20:38work nice food nice drink
- 20:41something along those lines and it'll make you
- 20:44feel good I also now this isn't something that
- 20:47makes you want to get up in the morning but I have started ending
- 20:50my really warm showers I've been having super super
- 20:54hot showers and I just can't get out of them in the morning I need
- 20:57warmth I'm not good with the cold but I
- 21:00do have a 30 second cold burst at
- 21:03the end of my shower and I dread it so this
- 21:06doesn't quite go in hand with do something in
- 21:09the morning that makes you want to get up but what it does
- 21:12do a little bit similar to the walk you might not fancy it
- 21:15but once you've done it I am fully awake
- 21:18I'm fully alive you know when you want to just keep snoozing your alarm clock
- 21:23and you have to get in the shower and you don't wake up if I follow my shower
- 21:27with a cold burst at the end I am raring for the day so that's just a little
- 21:32bit of advice just to help you go in for the day but this is more about.
- 21:36Creating a routine that makes you want to get up. So find what it is that makes
- 21:41you want to get up so that you can enjoy your morning, which will set you up for the day.
- 21:46And imagine if you consistently do that every day, how much better your days
- 21:51will be, how much more positive you will feel on those days and therefore be
- 21:56able to work on manifesting your goals.
- 21:59Step number five is to write down
- 22:02your daily wins so perhaps in the evening grab out your notepad no matter how
- 22:08small your wins are now I did an episode last week on the podcast if you haven't
- 22:13listened to it yet it's a really good one about how important it is to celebrate
- 22:19your small wins and no matter.
- 22:21How dull your day might have been or how
- 22:25bad you think your day might have been there will
- 22:28be things in there that you can celebrate as wins
- 22:31so even if you just made your bed or you
- 22:34spoke to someone on the school run you've done a few chores
- 22:37you got up and got dressed celebrate your
- 22:40wins but you may have bigger wins too and
- 22:43that might be you smashed a 5k walk or maybe
- 22:47you had a brilliant interview for a new job make sure
- 22:51you focus on those wins because the
- 22:54more you focus on your wins you're going to lift your
- 22:57moods but also you're going to start recognizing the wins
- 23:00in your day which might otherwise just pass you by
- 23:03so it's so important here to celebrate everything that you've achieved so maybe
- 23:08go through them in your head write them down and I think you'll be surprised
- 23:13at how many wins you can find on a day-to-day basis even if you think you haven't
- 23:19got anything to celebrate today.
- 23:22So step six is to be present. We've heard that saying like happiness isn't the
- 23:28end goal, it's the journey.
- 23:29But I can't emphasize how true that is.
- 23:35It's not about getting to the end goal and that the happiness awaits you there.
- 23:43Manifesting really is about being so content in the now and so present that
- 23:50you almost release attachment to your outcome. So you release attachment to that goal.
- 23:55So almost to the point where you go, do you know what, whether I get that goal
- 24:00or not, it actually doesn't matter because I'm present.
- 24:03I'm happiness. You're looking for the happiness along the way.
- 24:07But being present really, really helps this. It's about being mindful.
- 24:12And what are your gratitudes today? Be present. If you're out with people,
- 24:17you're having lunch with friends.
- 24:18Be there. Be present. Give people your time and attention.
- 24:24And I guarantee you, you will have better experiences. You will notice more small joys around you.
- 24:31Put your phone away and just be. Take in your surroundings.
- 24:37Now, whether this is when you're on a walk, on a run, out
- 24:40with friends if you're watching a
- 24:43film watch it take it in in everything
- 24:47you do try to be
- 24:49present and I guarantee you you will
- 24:53notice far more joys around you and
- 24:56you will feel more satisfied in yourself you will
- 24:59feel more satisfied in your interactions with people you
- 25:02will feel more satisfied at the job that you have
- 25:05just undertaken so whether like I said even if you're watching it
- 25:08watching a series but you're not on your phone and you're present you're going
- 25:11to pick up on far more things
- 25:15with like attention to detail be in the moment if you're
- 25:17listening to this podcast even if
- 25:20you're doing the housework right now or you're
- 25:23driving just look around you look around you what
- 25:26can you see who's around you how
- 25:29are you feeling be present in yourself even
- 25:32if you're not with anyone be present in yourself step number seven is to find
- 25:40something every day that brings you joy it can be a really really small moment
- 25:47that might just be sitting outside in the sun.
- 25:51That might just be eating, eating a nice lunch, not on your phone.
- 25:55Might be having your favorite food or it might just be a lovely conversation
- 25:59or a text message exchange with your friend.
- 26:04Find something that brings you joy every day. And if it gets to the evening
- 26:08and you haven't had something, create something.
- 26:11Do something even for five minutes that brings you joy.
- 26:14This will bring more joy to your days in general.
- 26:17And it's also about taking ownership
- 26:20and prioritizing joy in your life what
- 26:23brings me joy what can I do today that brings me
- 26:26joy no matter how small so step number
- 26:29eight is to focus on one new
- 26:32habit every month so often we can feel overwhelmed with
- 26:35trying to change our habits or must have dropped a
- 26:38new exercise regime I'm going to start
- 26:41cleaning every every Monday and Wednesday and
- 26:45we can just become overloaded so only focus on
- 26:48one new habit every single month
- 26:51and it's just simplifying everything so
- 26:54that it's far more achievable and once you
- 26:57get to kind of three weeks and then three months it's
- 27:00going to be embedded in you and it will become habit anyway and
- 27:04this goes for focusing on a new hobby as well every
- 27:06month if there's ever something that you've wanted to try push
- 27:10yourself out of your comfort zone try new things try
- 27:13a new class if you want to learn to sew go
- 27:16on youtube buy yourself a sewing kit so many
- 27:19people i know at the moment go i want to go to pilates i want to
- 27:22try yoga step out of your comfort zone and
- 27:25try something new and again
- 27:28even if it's a class that could become a habit so start
- 27:31and just but focus on just one thing for
- 27:35the month step number nine is prioritizing
- 27:39your health and wellness so important.
- 27:42If you're healthy or making healthier choices.
- 27:46It will improve your mental health
- 27:49so not just your physical health but the
- 27:51fact that you are taking steps to
- 27:54improve your physical health will in turn
- 27:57help your mental health as well
- 28:00it will help raise your vibrations you're.
- 28:03Going to feel good about yourself you will notice
- 28:07that you're being proactive and just making healthier choices
- 28:10and good wellness practices and
- 28:13wellness choices it is going to
- 28:16do absolute wonders and it's one of the things that should go to the top of
- 28:21your list is prioritize health and wellness what can you do to improve your
- 28:26mindset and improve your health I've mentioned this before but even if it's
- 28:31just starting small and said I'm going to drink more water.
- 28:34I'm going to drink more water. I guarantee you within a week,
- 28:38even a couple of days, you'll start to feel better, not only because you're
- 28:41pumping your body with water, but you just feel like you're taking charge of
- 28:45your life. I'm a healthier me.
- 28:48I'm a happier me. It's going to let off some good endorphins.
- 28:52Just make healthier choices and wellness practices that are going to lift your spirits.
- 29:01Prioritize health and wellness. Number 10, our final step for the podcast this
- 29:06week is to really reflect on your past 12 months.
- 29:11Just take some time, sit down somewhere. You can have a think now.
- 29:16What have you been through in the last 12 months? Think of the good things that have happened to you.
- 29:22Think of the gratitude that you have for the past 12 months.
- 29:26Big or small things, maybe you got a new job, maybe you're earning money,
- 29:30maybe you made a new friend, but also reflect on things that maybe you feel
- 29:36might have been tests or struggles.
- 29:38Because sometimes we can kind of hang on to this baggage and be carrying baggage
- 29:43for the previous 12 months and not ever really dealing with it.
- 29:48And sometimes almost feeling a little bit sorry for yourself.
- 29:51Write down these reflections from the past 12 months. Write down the good things
- 29:55and write down the things that have tested you.
- 29:59Write down how they made you feel.
- 30:02Then the most important step, particularly if there have been tests and struggles
- 30:09that you've had to face, write down the lesson that you learnt within that thing.
- 30:14What did you actually learn from
- 30:17it there will always be a lesson
- 30:20in the difficult moments that we have and
- 30:23learning something from it will always be a positive write those things down
- 30:29really dig deep and think about all the things even if they're tiny little things
- 30:33about an altercation or something that an argument or a disagreement you had
- 30:38with your partner write it down how it made you feel and what you have learned from it.
- 30:42Write these down and then I want you to burn the paper.
- 30:46So it's up to you how you do it. Be safe when you're doing it. Burn it.
- 30:50And as you're burning the paper, just release those feelings and the attachment
- 30:55to those memories, the ones that have tested you and the struggles that you've had.
- 31:00If you want, you can burn the gratitude ones too, or you can keep hold of them.
- 31:04But you're basically letting go of those
- 31:08thoughts and feelings from the past 12
- 31:11months and you'll feeling good about the gratitude moment they're going to help
- 31:14you grow into who you are and who you want to be this year and releasing and
- 31:20let go of any kind of pain or upset or anger that you still have attached to
- 31:28some of the memories that did test you.
- 31:30Once that has burnt completely, that attachment and that release is complete.
- 31:36So feel yourself, feel the burden lifted, feel the weight on your shoulders
- 31:41lifted and be back to the present.
- 31:44And we know how important being present is because we've already spoken about that, haven't we?
- 31:49So they are our 10 steps in guiding you towards your dreams.
- 31:54I hope that you can adopt some of those, if not all of them.
- 31:57They're all quite quick they're all quite simple I
- 32:01guarantee you all of these really really simple steps
- 32:04are going to improve your life
- 32:07drastically remember consistency small
- 32:11consistent steps so see how
- 32:14you get on with those please do let me know
- 32:17if you if you take on those 10 steps how you find them
- 32:20if there's anything that resonated with you I would
- 32:23really really love to hear your mission statements and
- 32:26I'd really love to hear your word of the year so if
- 32:29you could be as so kind to slide into
- 32:33my dms on instagram at the holly
- 32:36edwards or at the dot manifestation
- 32:40station also on tiktok at
- 32:43the holly edwards so please do let me know everyone has been so kind and generous
- 32:50in sharing their manifesting achievements so far this year and their journeys
- 32:57and all of the amazing things that have happened to you guys,
- 33:00whether it's health, financially,
- 33:02relationships and meeting people.
- 33:04Honestly, I'm so happy for everyone and let's
- 33:07keep spreading that good energy be kind
- 33:11to each other and let's just make 2025
- 33:14the bestest baddest
- 33:18happiest year yet and let us
- 33:21go up and up and up and may you be successful healthy financially thriving in
- 33:29love and loving life i'm going to leave you with a quote about progress because
- 33:35it is my word of the year please join me in loving this.
- 33:39Every imperfect step forward rewrites your story and brings you closer to the life you dreamed of.
- 33:48Perfection is a myth, but progress is power. Goodbye.
- 33:55Music.