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Vocal De Frag Episode 212 The Sounds Of Bosses Firing People Your Numbers Up · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: When I'm listening to a podcast. There are many times
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  Speaker 1: that I lose interest. It just falls apart. So I
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  Speaker 1: have those moments where you go, I'm not into this anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Enjoy your exploration.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, caerol, And this is vocal defragging. Vocal defragging is
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  Speaker 2: I call it an art. It is the art of
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  Speaker 2: physically taking the time to ask yourself the questions and
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  Speaker 2: then question the answers. You really do have to skillfully
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  Speaker 2: craft out something that is building upon a path that
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  Speaker 2: gives you the opportunity to explore the depth of who
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  Speaker 2: you are, what you are, why you are, how you are,
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  Speaker 2: and where the hell are you even going? Because if
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  Speaker 2: you don't have a path, then all you've got is
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  Speaker 2: wonder and worry. This is vocal dfrag, asking the questions,
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  Speaker 2: questioning the answers. How about this one when your boss
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  Speaker 2: makes you feel like you're losing your job, but they
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  Speaker 2: won't admit it to you face to face. Yet their
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  Speaker 2: actions and reactions to all things that are happening in
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  Speaker 2: front of you pretty much clearly state your days are numbered,
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  Speaker 2: your number is up. You are headed out that door.
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  Speaker 2: And that's when they start doing things where they document
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  Speaker 2: every breath you take because they are watching you, and
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  Speaker 2: in doing so, you get that guilt trip inside that
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  Speaker 2: dull ache. It affects the way you sleep, It affects
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  Speaker 2: the way you eat, It affects the way you have
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  Speaker 2: a conversation with another coworker or even the boss him
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  Speaker 2: or herself. So what do you do in a situation
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  Speaker 2: like that when you get that gut wrenching feeling of
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  Speaker 2: oh crap, I think it's over, and it's in the
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  Speaker 2: documentation that they do and when they make you sign
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  Speaker 2: it and you start seeing physical path and listen, this
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  Speaker 2: is nothing new to what I do. And what I
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  Speaker 2: mean by that is I came from the radio industry
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  Speaker 2: forty six years in broadcasting, and how many times was
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  Speaker 2: I in that HR department and how many times did
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  Speaker 2: I hear them say, you know, we're beginning to hear reports.
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  Speaker 2: I think we all go through it. Not everybody's as
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  Speaker 2: open as I am when it comes to sharing it,
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  Speaker 2: to believe in the purpose and the plan of all
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  Speaker 2: things involved here and right now. Their little secret, it's
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  Speaker 2: not really a secret. It's in the body language, it's
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  Speaker 2: in the way they act, talk, and they pass the
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  Speaker 2: stories forward, because there's no such thing as a secret
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  Speaker 2: in any business. Someone is always going to talk. He
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  Speaker 2: you know, obviously it's true. And even when it comes
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  Speaker 2: to the White House, what are they doing there collecting phones?
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  Speaker 1: Now?
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  Speaker 2: People are sharing too much information that shouldn't be getting out. Now.
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  Speaker 2: That's happening in your business as well. Sadly this time around,
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  Speaker 2: your name is the one that keeps being brought up.
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  Speaker 2: What do you do in a situation like that? Just
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  Speaker 2: go with the flow, Just accept it. If your number
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  Speaker 2: is up, your number is up. There's nothing you can
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  Speaker 2: do about it. You can kiss as much tail as
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  Speaker 2: you want, you can put down on the table as
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  Speaker 2: many flaws and flub ups that they do. You can
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  Speaker 2: do whatever you want. But when one man or woman's
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  Speaker 2: mind is made up and you're going out that door,
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  Speaker 2: go with the flow, go with the idea of knowing
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  Speaker 2: this particular journey is on its end. Wow, that sounds
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  Speaker 2: like a doomsday crisis, doesn't it? What do you do
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  Speaker 2: if you don't want to do what I did with
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  Speaker 2: one broadcasting company when I knew that it was over.
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  Speaker 2: It was more than just the signs and the signals.
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  Speaker 2: It was the physical operation of all things. Now, keep
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  Speaker 2: your eye on the emails, keep your thumbs on your
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  Speaker 2: because you don't need to be starting something that's just
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  Speaker 2: going to be added to another list and then you
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  Speaker 2: have to sign off on that as well. So just
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  Speaker 2: go with the flow. Learn to understand that change is
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  Speaker 2: every day, and your presence doesn't guarantee that there isn't
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  Speaker 2: going to be change. And if you are part of
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  Speaker 2: that change, you went with the flow. You know, you
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  Speaker 2: look at them straight in the eye and you say,
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  Speaker 2: you know what, God's got a bigger plan, obviously, and
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  Speaker 2: thank God that you're no longer a rock in my stream.
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  Speaker 2: I am about flow, and I don't need something that's
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  Speaker 2: going to get in the way of that stream. I
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  Speaker 2: don't need a damn. I don't need something that's going
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  Speaker 2: to gather water. I'll never use you, understand what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: You're getting the full picture here. You still have to
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  Speaker 2: make it about you. Yeah, there's a real potential here
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  Speaker 2: that there could be some change that doesn't agree with
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  Speaker 2: your lifestyle or daily plans, and what does that mean
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  Speaker 2: and how is it going to change everybody else involved.
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  Speaker 2: That's what gets a lot of people sick in the gut.
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  Speaker 2: That's why you're sleepless at night. That's why you're sitting
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  Speaker 2: there trying to figure out if you're going to today
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  Speaker 2: because you just don't feel like it. Well, you got
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  Speaker 2: to go with flow. You gotta eat, you gotta get sleep,
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  Speaker 2: you gotta do whatever you got to do. Just don't
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  Speaker 2: do the alcohol and the drugs because it's not an answer.
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  Speaker 2: It might be a momentary release, but it's just not
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  Speaker 2: the place to plant your feet on a day when
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  Speaker 2: you're sitting there going I think my number is up.
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  Speaker 2: I think there's going to be change. I do a
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  Speaker 2: lot of defraggening. I do a lot of writing. I
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  Speaker 2: do a lot of questioning, and then I question the answers.
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  Speaker 2: I mean that shit is real. And the thing about
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  Speaker 2: it is, though, is that if you were to go
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  Speaker 2: through any of this writing, you would go this guy,
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  Speaker 2: the hell doesn't he break down? It could be the
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  Speaker 2: smell of a fart and he's going to sit there
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  Speaker 2: and break down what that person ate when they ate it,
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  Speaker 2: how it was released, and what's going to happen now
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  Speaker 2: that it's in the wind. Will it serve as a
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  Speaker 2: seed so that roses grow on the other side of
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  Speaker 2: the mountain? A little bit too much, But the fact
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  Speaker 2: of the matter is is that you go with the flow.
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  Speaker 2: If you've got a lot of problems, you've got a
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  Speaker 2: lot of questions, you've got to a lot of needs
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  Speaker 2: in your life, are you listening to them? Because that's
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  Speaker 2: the thing about it. Yesterday I was with somebody please
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  Speaker 2: having a terrible time, and I said, if you asked
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  Speaker 2: yourself these questions, because you're asking me and before I
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  Speaker 2: beapop an answer into your heart and soul, can you
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  Speaker 2: tell me what you told yourself. Oh? I don't do
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  Speaker 2: that really, So I am a man of one. You
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  Speaker 2: think I've got experience in life, when in fact, in
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  Speaker 2: this day and age, every day is a brand new beginning.
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  Speaker 2: I've never put my feet in your shoes, I've never
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  Speaker 2: walked your lifestyle. And you think I've got an answer
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  Speaker 2: for you. No, My answer to you is one thing.
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  Speaker 2: Go get to know you better. Ask the questions, question
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  Speaker 2: the answers ask yourself those questions. Don't ask me, don't
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  Speaker 2: ask somebody else, and God forbid, don't go ask a boss.
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  Speaker 2: What do they know? They were just trying to fill
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  Speaker 2: a position so they could get more money in their
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  Speaker 2: bank account to pay for rent and health insurance. Do
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  Speaker 2: they really have the skills to be who it is
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  Speaker 2: and what it is that they're doing. I don't know, man,
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  Speaker 2: I'm out of this vote, and I don't know why.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's because I'm bipartisan and more. That's a
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  Speaker 2: cheap shot, isn't it. Ask yourself, the questions, question, the
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  Speaker 2: answers vocal, be fragging. I'm eryl