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Pericles Rellas · Postcards to the Universe

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa Capria. Do
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Speaker 1: Here is your host, Melissa Capria.
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Speaker 2: Hey everybody, and welcome to Postcards to the Universe with
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Speaker 2: Melissa creating the life you crave.
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Speaker 3: How are you guys doing.
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Speaker 2: It's Wednesday, my favorite day of the week. I hope
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Speaker 2: everybody is doing well. Today we're going to be talking
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Speaker 2: about money, right, money abundance.
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Speaker 3: I'm really excited. I have Periclease reill us on.
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Speaker 2: He's a money mindset expert and he's my guest today
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Speaker 2: and he's going to join me in just a few minutes.
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Speaker 3: So if you guys.
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Speaker 2: Are new to my show, I want to say welcome.
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Speaker 2: Thank you so much to my regulars. Oh my god,
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Speaker 2: I love you guys.
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Speaker 3: Thank you for coming back.
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Speaker 2: Each week, and thank you for your emails and sending
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Speaker 2: in manifesting postcards.
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Speaker 3: It means the world to me.
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Speaker 2: But like I said, if you are new a little
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Speaker 2: bit about me, I'm an author, I'm a photographer.
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Speaker 3: I have a book.
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Speaker 2: It's titled Postcards to the Universe, Harness the Universe's power
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Speaker 2: and manifest your dreams. And I take people's manifesting postcards,
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Speaker 2: which is kind of like a little mini vision board,
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Speaker 2: and I photograph them, and when they're manifestation shows up
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Speaker 2: in their reality, I share their story.
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Speaker 3: So I have thirty of those in my book.
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Speaker 2: And I'm always asking people, my guests and people who
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Speaker 2: are listening to my show, sending a manifesting postcard, and
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Speaker 2: when your story becomes our shows up in your life
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Speaker 2: as physical evidence, yeah, let's share it. And that would
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Speaker 2: be great. And let me tell you something. You don't
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Speaker 2: even know how many postcards because we're going to be
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Speaker 2: talking about it today about people wanting to manifest more money.
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Speaker 3: Right. I was just saying before we came on, we could.
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Speaker 2: All use more cash, and money is just energy. So
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Speaker 2: Pericles is going to teach us how to shift our
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Speaker 2: mindset so that we can bring more of that into
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Speaker 2: our life. Nice, and I'm just but I did want
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Speaker 2: to announce one thing. If you're in South Florida and
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Speaker 2: you're interested. On Monday, October twenty eighth, I have a
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Speaker 2: talk and an artist in residence that I'm doing at
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Speaker 2: the inter Continental Intercontinental let me say that again, hotel
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Speaker 2: in Miami. It's an artist in residence and the show
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Speaker 2: is called almost Me. And every Monday there's been a
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Speaker 2: different artist and this Monday is me. It's between five
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Speaker 2: and seven pm. So I'm going to do a talk,
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Speaker 2: We're going to play with some postcards. I'm going to
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Speaker 2: do a book signing. So anybody who's interested, and if
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Speaker 2: you want more information, let me know and I'll send
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Speaker 2: it to you. But it's October twenty eighth, between five
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Speaker 2: and seven pm at the Intercontinental Hotel in Miami. Okay,
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Speaker 2: So to get on to today's show. So Pericles Rellis,
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Speaker 2: he's a money mindset expert and he helps people create
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Speaker 2: a healthy relationship with money and themselves by creating a
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Speaker 2: powerful money mindset so they can live the lives of
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Speaker 2: joy and fulfillment. He noticed that his coaching clients exhibited
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Speaker 2: similar patterns around money. Regardless of how much they made
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Speaker 2: their situation and experience around money stayed the same. Stress, anxiety, overwhelmed,
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Speaker 2: treading water, being behind, or just being stuck. We all
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Speaker 2: have a financial thermostat setting or a money mindset, and
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Speaker 2: this setting determines how much we can earn, how much
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Speaker 2: money we keep, as well as our thoughts, feelings, and
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Speaker 2: emotions around money.
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Speaker 3: And he talks about.
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Speaker 2: That there are four keys to resetting the financial thermostats
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Speaker 2: so that money can flow more easily and abundantly into
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Speaker 2: our lives. Without a powerful money mindset, we are just
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Speaker 2: building a house of cards.
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Speaker 3: That is so true.
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Speaker 2: So if you want to know more about him, you
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Speaker 2: could go to his website and I'm going to spell
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Speaker 2: it out for you since we're on radio. So it's
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Speaker 2: www dot paraclesrelus dot com, which is p E r
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Speaker 2: I c l E S R E l l A
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Speaker 2: s dot com.
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Speaker 3: Welcome Paracleas. Thanks so much for being here with me today.
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Speaker 4: Melissa, Thank you for having me. It's a pleasure.
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Speaker 3: Oh I'm so excited.
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Speaker 2: So like I said in the beginning, and nobody that
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Speaker 2: I know doesn't want more money.
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Speaker 3: Right, because money, what does money give you?
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Speaker 2: Money gives you more freedom to do what you want
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Speaker 2: to do, right, and that's what we want. So I
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Speaker 2: love that you say, because I believe this so wholeheartedly.
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Speaker 2: That we have a ice call it when I talk
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Speaker 2: about it, a story.
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Speaker 3: We have a money story. You call it a money mindset.
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Speaker 2: Right, we all carry this with us and maybe it's inherited.
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Speaker 2: It's inherited from our parents, grandparents down the line. So
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Speaker 2: let's talk about that. So I'm going to let you
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Speaker 2: share a little bit about your and what are you
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Speaker 2: coming across from most of your clients, Like, what is
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Speaker 2: this money mindset that most of us are carrying?
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Speaker 3: That's obviously not working for us.
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Speaker 4: That's why we're.
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Speaker 3: That's why we're coming to you because we need help.
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Speaker 4: We listen. First of all, thank you for that wonderful introduction,
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Speaker 4: and you know, I kind of felt like I don't
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Speaker 4: need to do anything. You handle it all. It was
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Speaker 4: really amazing, So thank you. But you know, I've been
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Speaker 4: doing this for about thirty years now, and as you said,
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Speaker 4: when I first started working with my clients, it was
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Speaker 4: about growing and expanding their business, growing and expanding their
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Speaker 4: ability to make more money. And they were doing just that.
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Speaker 4: They were accomplishing the outcomes that they wanted, which was
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Speaker 4: more money. But when we looked back, or when I
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Speaker 4: looked at them month over month, they were still in
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Speaker 4: the same situation every single month, if they were just
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Speaker 4: treading water before they started working with me, they were
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Speaker 4: still treading water even though they were making sometimes thousands
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Speaker 4: and thousands of dollars more every month, or if they
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Speaker 4: were behind the same situation and that stress and anxiety
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Speaker 4: and worried, they were still in that cycle. And so
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Speaker 4: I really started. I noticed the pattern, and I said,
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Speaker 4: there's something going on here. I have to understand what
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Speaker 4: it is. And I started to do some research and
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Speaker 4: study it and really look at it. And over the
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Speaker 4: next two years, I discovered two things. One is that
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Speaker 4: we all have a money mindset, or what I like
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Speaker 4: to call a financial thermostat, and in some cases it
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Speaker 4: could be your story, and that determines, as you said,
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Speaker 4: how much money we can earn, how much money we
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Speaker 4: can keep, and our thoughts, feelings and emotions around money.
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Speaker 4: And then the second thing I discovered were the four
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Speaker 4: keys to resetting our financial thermostat. And so I started
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Speaker 4: applying this technology and this education with my clients and
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Speaker 4: the results were extraordinary. It's suddenly they went off the charts.
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Speaker 4: Not only were they making more money, they were keeping
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Speaker 4: more money, they were saving more money, they were building
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Speaker 4: the kind of wealth that they wanted, and they had
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Speaker 4: a sense of peace and they had a sense of
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Speaker 4: fulfillment in their lives. And so from that point forward,
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Speaker 4: I really started to focus on the money mindset aspect
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Speaker 4: of my mindset work. And it's been that way for
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Speaker 4: the last twenty five years.
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Speaker 2: Okay, did you always seem, though, to naturally have a
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Speaker 2: mindset of financial abundance or did you personally have to
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Speaker 2: work on it for yourself?
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Speaker 4: I did not. I in the home that I grew
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Speaker 4: up in, and I grew up in a very loving family,
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Speaker 4: we never talked about money. It was taboo. We were
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Speaker 4: not allowed to ask people out about money. We certainly
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Speaker 4: never talked about how much money we made. My parents
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Speaker 4: never told me how much money they made. It wasn't
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Speaker 4: until my mom was in her seventies or eighties that
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Speaker 4: it was suddenly okay for her to start sharing about
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Speaker 4: what she used to make. It just was off topic.
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Speaker 4: And so you grow up in this environment of well,
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Speaker 4: money is something we're not supposed to talk about, and
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Speaker 4: then we live in a society where everybody's saying, oh,
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Speaker 4: I I know how to make money, and I make
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Speaker 4: a lot of money, and I'm really wealthy and all,
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Speaker 4: and now we live in an Instagram world where everybody
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Speaker 4: looks the part of having wealth and it's kind of like, well,
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Speaker 4: how's this o's all happening? What's going on? I don't understand.
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Speaker 4: You know, I'm trying to manifest and it's not working.
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Speaker 4: And I know I'm doing the manifestation right, but there's
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Speaker 4: still something in the way, and it can be very,
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Speaker 4: very frustrating and disheartening. So the important thing I think
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Speaker 4: for people to know is that there is a way
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Speaker 4: to shift this. There is a way to reset their
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Speaker 4: financial thermoce that just like I did, and it comes
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Speaker 4: from noticing the conversations that we have around money. So
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Speaker 4: I want to share a distinction that I've created around
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Speaker 4: money with you and then kind of elaborate a little
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Speaker 4: bit if I may. So you mentioned it earlier that
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Speaker 4: money is an energy, right, and money is in fact
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Speaker 4: in the energy. It's a universal band of energy now
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Speaker 4: and in our plane it shows up as coins and
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Speaker 4: bills and things like that, but it is in fact
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Speaker 4: a currency, and it flows like a current, just like
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Speaker 4: any other current like electricity or water or air. Now,
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Speaker 4: money flows in a unique way in that it flows
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Speaker 4: in a circle. It flows to us, through us, and
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Speaker 4: then away from us, and then back around to us,
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Speaker 4: through us and away from us, with this reservoir on
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Speaker 4: the side that we get to keep now because it
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Speaker 4: flows in a circle like that. Blocks anywhere in that
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Speaker 4: flow are blocks everywhere in the flow. So if we
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Speaker 4: have blocks in the flow of money coming to us,
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Speaker 4: and when I say blocks, I mean mental blocks. If
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Speaker 4: we've got negative conversations going on around money, those blocks
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Speaker 4: are going to impede the money flowing to us, and
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Speaker 4: the same thing for money flowing away from us. What
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Speaker 4: do these blocks look like. Well, blocks in the flow
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Speaker 4: of money coming to us look like and these are
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Speaker 4: just a small stamp. There are limitless numbers. Money is
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Speaker 4: the root of all evil. I hate the wealthy. I
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Speaker 4: resent the wealthy. If you're rich, you got there by
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Speaker 4: breaking the law. I hate my boss. Any one of
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Speaker 4: those kinds of conversations are all going to be blocks
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Speaker 4: in the flow of money coming to us. Blocks in
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Speaker 4: the flow of money going away from us, look like.
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Speaker 4: I hate paying my bills on time. I hate paying
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Speaker 4: people on time. I never want to pay what people
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Speaker 4: are asking. I always want to negotiate it down. I
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Speaker 4: want to get it for cheaper. I hold on to
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Speaker 4: my money and I just don't ever want to let
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Speaker 4: it go. I hate paying taxes. All of those things
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Speaker 4: are blocks in the flow of money going away from us.
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Speaker 4: Now again, because money flows in a circle, blocks anywhere
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Speaker 4: in the flow, blocked everywhere in the flow, including that
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Speaker 4: reservoir on the side. So what do we do? Number one?
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Speaker 4: We want to notice these blocks, and for each of
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Speaker 4: us they're unique, and for you it could be that
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Speaker 4: story you've told yourself. And then it gets even more nuanced.
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Speaker 4: So I'll give you an example from my life. When
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Speaker 4: I was growing up, I'm going to date myself here,
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Speaker 4: my family was watching this show called Lifestyles of the
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Speaker 4: Rich and Famous, and in general, that show was about
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Speaker 4: wealthy people, and there was always this kind of slant
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Speaker 4: on how their lives were not really that good, you know,
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Speaker 4: how there was something that always went wrong. And we
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Speaker 4: watched this one particular episode, and I was about seven
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Speaker 4: years old, and my mom says, very casually, nonchalantly, after
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Speaker 4: the show's over, I never want to have that kind
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Speaker 4: of money. You'll lose your whole family. And in that moment,
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Speaker 4: an instant, that seven year old boy decided without knowing it,
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Speaker 4: decided I'm never going to have that much money because
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Speaker 4: I don't want to lose my family. I love my family. Now,
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Speaker 4: that block in the flow ran my financial future. As
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Speaker 4: I got out of high school and then into college
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Speaker 4: and then started working, I noticed that there was a
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Speaker 4: glass ceiling and I could not break through that glass
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Speaker 4: ceiling and earn the kind of money that I ultimately
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Speaker 4: wanted to earn. And it wasn't until I started getting
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Speaker 4: into this conversation around our many mindset that I was
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Speaker 4: able to distinguish that for myself and then clear that block.
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Speaker 4: And as soon as that block was cleared, suddenly that
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Speaker 4: glass ceiling got shattered and I was able to expand
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Speaker 4: the amount of money that I was able to earn
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Speaker 4: the amount of money that I was able to keep.
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Speaker 4: So for each of your listeners, you want to look
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Speaker 4: for what are those negative conversations that you have around
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Speaker 4: money and start to clear those blocks out.
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Speaker 3: Hmmm, yes, oh definitely.
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Speaker 2: And I so interesting because I discovered my r blocks
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Speaker 2: because of my family. So my family is the complete opposite. Actually,
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Speaker 2: it's a choke in my family. There's no boundaries, like
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Speaker 2: there's stuff that my sister, and I shouldn't know that,
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Speaker 2: my you know, it's just like all right, we don't
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Speaker 2: need to know.
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Speaker 3: All this information.
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Speaker 4: But so everybody loves Raymond over at your house, right.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly that is it exactly because we're also Italian,
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Speaker 2: so it.
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Speaker 3: Is exactly that exactly. Thank you. That's great.
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Speaker 2: So money was always like kind of feast or famine
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Speaker 2: in a way, like we always like like like there
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Speaker 2: would be like there's always always a fire to put out,
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Speaker 2: so any kind of reserve of money. Boom got to
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Speaker 2: take care of this issue. Boom got to take care
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Speaker 2: of this issue. We were always middle class, never poor, luckily,
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Speaker 2: blessings thankfully, but it was never a financial overload abundance
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Speaker 2: of like money coming in. And I realized I inherited
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Speaker 2: that right that I took that story on and when
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Speaker 2: I went into adulthood.
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Speaker 3: And it's been probably.
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Speaker 2: Since I started really doing this kind of work and
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Speaker 2: the manifesting work myself, that I've started shifting that story.
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Speaker 3: I started shifting about it.
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Speaker 2: But I think it's super important for anybody who's listening.
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Speaker 3: To know what is you?
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Speaker 2: So how can people find out where they're what do
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Speaker 2: you call it? Your your financial thermometer setting is what is.
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Speaker 4: That financial thermoce that. Yeah, this is a great question,
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Speaker 4: and it is. It is probably one of the easiest
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Speaker 4: things to start to ascertain. So just stop and think
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Speaker 4: for a moment when you look at your relationship to money,
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Speaker 4: when you think about money, when you talk about money,
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Speaker 4: what's your experience in that moment. Are you stressed, are
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Speaker 4: you worried, are you excited? Are you happy? Are you fulfilled?
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Speaker 4: Or are do you have a sense of dread? Look
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Speaker 4: at the emotional states that show up. That is your
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Speaker 4: financial thermoce that when it comes to your thoughts, feelings,
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Speaker 4: and emotions around money, then look at what's it like
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Speaker 4: for you around money. Are you like your family it
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Speaker 4: was we build up this reserve and then something would
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Speaker 4: show up and take it away. We build up this
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Speaker 4: reserve and something would take make it away. That pattern
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Speaker 4: is part of your financial thermostat setting. If you're somebody
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Speaker 4: who's really good at earning money, like, oh yeah, I've
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Speaker 4: got earning money handled, but at the end of the month,
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Speaker 4: I have no idea where it went. It's gone. It's
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Speaker 4: like water on the sand, it's disappeared. That's your financial
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Speaker 4: thermocet setting. Around money. You can earn lots of it,
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Speaker 4: but you can't keep it. You just can't keep it.
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Speaker 4: Or you may be someone that can. You can't earn
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Speaker 4: a lot, but you're really good at saving. You love
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Speaker 4: to be able to earn more, you're really good at
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Speaker 4: putting it away. Or you're somebody you'd earned a lot,
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Speaker 4: you keep a lot, but you don't have a sense
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Speaker 4: of fulfillment or joy in your life around money. All
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Speaker 4: of these things are the the pointers towards what your
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Speaker 4: financial thermostat setting is. And then it's all about noticing
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Speaker 4: what are those blocks that are showing up, what are
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Speaker 4: those negative conversations? And they can be as insidious as
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Speaker 4: I want to make more money, and then you hear
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Speaker 4: this little voice in your head saying, yeah, but you're
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Speaker 4: not smart enough, or you're not handsome enough or pretty enough,
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Speaker 4: or you don't deserve it, you're not worthy, or money
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Speaker 4: is the root of all evil. Anything like that that
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Speaker 4: shows up, that's negative, that is one of the blocks
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Speaker 4: in the flow of money, and you want to then
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Speaker 4: clear that block. So if you like, I can take
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Speaker 4: you through the three step process that I've created the
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Speaker 4: clear blocks in the flow. Okay, great, absolutely, the first thing,
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Speaker 4: and this is that all three of these steps are
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Speaker 4: just equally important. So first you have to notice the conversation,
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Speaker 4: and then you have to own that that's your conversation.
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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, there's that conversation. Money is the root
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Speaker 4: of all evil. I've had that conversation for decades. Okay,
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Speaker 4: I can own that. That's my conversation. That's that's my conversation.
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Speaker 4: I've had that for however many years I've had it.
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Speaker 4: You've owned it number one. Now step number two is
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Speaker 4: you're gonna let it go, and you're gonna say out loud,
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Speaker 4: I release that negative conversation about money. I surrender it
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Speaker 4: into the care of the universe or God or the
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Speaker 4: trees or whatever it is you want. I don't care.
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Speaker 4: You're gonna surrender it out into something other than yourself
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Speaker 4: and give it up. It no longer has dominion over me,
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Speaker 4: It no longer has power over me, It no longer
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Speaker 4: holds space in my life. I release it and let
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Speaker 4: it go. And you and you cannot do this in
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Speaker 4: your head. You have to do this out loud, and
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Speaker 4: so you say it, and you say it until you
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Speaker 4: actually feel a sense of relief and relief like you'll
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Speaker 4: feel this moment. Wow, I can actually feel it going away.
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Speaker 4: And in that moment when you created that little bit
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Speaker 4: of space, that's when you create and declare who you
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Speaker 4: are or what money is for you in your life.
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Speaker 4: In that moment, newly money flows to me easily and
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Speaker 4: abundantly every single day. That's just an example you you
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Speaker 4: create whatever it is for you in your life in
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Speaker 4: that moment. So number one, own it. Number two, let
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Speaker 4: it go. Number three in that space of release and relief.
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Speaker 4: Who are you going to be or what is money
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Speaker 4: going to be for you from that point forward? And
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Speaker 4: then write it down on a post it, Put it
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Speaker 4: on your nightstand, put it on your computer, put it
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Speaker 4: on your rearview mirror, and remind yourself every single day
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Speaker 4: of that who you are around money. Now, I'm going
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Speaker 4: to give you the brain science around this and then
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Speaker 4: the energetic spiritual side of it as well, because I
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Speaker 4: want to make sure we cover both of those.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to hear this. No, I was going
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Speaker 3: to say and set a postcard.
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Speaker 2: Go ahead, yeah, exactly, a manifesting postcard about money that
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Speaker 2: you want and send that in.
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Speaker 4: And you can send a manifesting postcard in with the
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Speaker 4: declaration that you've just made using that thresolutely because you're
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Speaker 4: putting it out into the world and you're giving it
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Speaker 4: more volume, more mass, and more reality. So from the
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Speaker 4: brain science, this is an amazing guy called doctor Joe Despenza.
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Speaker 4: I love his work. He works in the field of meditation.
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Speaker 4: He probably knows who is right. One of the things
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Speaker 4: he talks about is how our neural pathways they fire
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Speaker 4: and wire together, you firing, wiring, firing and wiring, and
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Speaker 4: they become automatronic. After a while, they just automatically occur.
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Speaker 4: It's like a jukebox a one. And this is what happened. Well,
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Speaker 4: when we acknowledge and recognize and own a conversation that
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Speaker 4: we've had for decades or years or however long it's been,
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Speaker 4: we immediately interrupt that neural neural pathway. We're interrupting an old,
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Speaker 4: very very strong neural pathway. And then when we release
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Speaker 4: it by saying out loud, I'm letting this go, we're
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Speaker 4: continuing to break that neural pathway. And then in the
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Speaker 4: moment that we declare who we are, what money is
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Speaker 4: for us in our lives, we've created a new neural pathway.
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Speaker 4: And that new neural pathway is just a baby. It's
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Speaker 4: just a little infant and it needs to be nurtured,
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Speaker 4: and it needs to be loved, and it needs to
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Speaker 4: be cared for and provided with attention so that it
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Speaker 4: gets stronger and stronger and stronger. And so when you
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Speaker 4: look at that that posted, when you wake up in
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Speaker 4: the morning and you read who you are, you're making
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Speaker 4: that neural pathway stronger. It's firing and wiring and firing
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Speaker 4: and wiring when you see it on your computer, when
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Speaker 4: you see it on your mirror, it continues to get
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Speaker 4: stronger and stronger. That old neural pathway gets weaker and
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Speaker 4: weaker and weaker. Now it will never go away. Those
21:39
Speaker 4: old negative conversations will never go away, but they will
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Speaker 4: get quieter and quieter and less frequent and less quid.
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Speaker 4: And trust me, they will show up again and again,
21:49
Speaker 4: especially when we're at our weakest, especially when we've got
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Speaker 4: a moment where we're struggling and dealing with a challenge.
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Speaker 4: It'll come right back in and rear its ugly head.
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Speaker 4: See I told you, and you have to just owe it,
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Speaker 4: release it and declare again who you are. So that's
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Speaker 4: the brain science around this. Now, from an energetic point
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Speaker 4: of view, we're talking about manifestation, law of attraction, Abraham Hicks,
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Speaker 4: whatever you want to say, it is about feeling feeling.
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Speaker 4: You're feeling that old conversation and letting it go, so
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Speaker 4: you're releasing that vibrational frequency. And then when you make
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Speaker 4: this new declaration of who you are for money or
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Speaker 4: who you are around money, or what money is for you, you
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Speaker 4: will feel how that feels, that new relationship, and that
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Speaker 4: will alter your vibrational frequency. And in that moment of
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Speaker 4: shifting your vibrational frequency, you will start to attract more
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Speaker 4: of that. Because life attract that which is to itself,
22:47
Speaker 4: it is attracted, and that is the energetic or the
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Speaker 4: spiritual side of it. So either way wherever you're looking
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Speaker 4: at it from, it will allow you then to start
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Speaker 4: manifesting that which you want in your life. And it's
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Speaker 4: all about focusing on what you want and surrendering, letting
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Speaker 4: go of all those other negative conversations and never a
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Speaker 4: dread like never's Oh god, I remember when I had
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Speaker 4: this old negative conversation. Boom, you just shifted your old
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Speaker 4: You've gone back to that old vibrational frequency. It's like, no,
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Speaker 4: I let it show. It's gone, it's not mine. Here's
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Speaker 4: who I am now today, and feel it, feel it
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Speaker 4: in your heart, feel it in your body, and allow
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Speaker 4: that vibration to get bigger and bigger.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh I so one hundred percent agree. And in
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Speaker 2: my book, I talk about money as one of the
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Speaker 2: subjects in the sections of the book, and I talk
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Speaker 2: about instead of thinking about money, for example, just cash,
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Speaker 2: think about if you had let's say an X amount
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Speaker 2: of money, what could you do with it that you
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Speaker 2: can't do now? And maybe it's you know, maybe you
23:54
Speaker 2: love animals and it's opening up a sanctuary where you
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Speaker 2: treat and take care of annie animals.
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Speaker 3: That is a.
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Speaker 2: A good of Oh God, that would feel so good
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Speaker 2: like and then you could visualize, you know, like I
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Speaker 2: could buy this farm and I could do this, and
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Speaker 2: I could hire a vet and then you know what
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Speaker 2: I'm saying. So it's like because it is difficult to
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Speaker 2: get into the feeling, like if I say to somebody
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Speaker 2: or you have like five dollars in your bank account,
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Speaker 2: but picture a million dollars.
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Speaker 3: That's no, they can't. How do you go from five
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Speaker 3: to a million?
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Speaker 4: Right?
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Speaker 3: But maybe you can picture one hundred dollars, what would
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Speaker 3: you do.
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Speaker 2: With that hundred bucks? Like it's yours to play with.
24:39
Speaker 2: Go play with one hundred dollars, you know. People can
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Speaker 2: kind of do that. So it's like a stepping stone.
24:44
Speaker 2: And I think one of the biggest things that people
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Speaker 2: have is they feel like there's not enough money for everybody.
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Speaker 3: And I don't. I don't agree with that.
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Speaker 2: I believe money is energy and there is enough for everybody,
24:58
Speaker 2: and we'll just create more. Like you don't have to
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Speaker 2: worry about that there's not enough to go around for everybody.
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Speaker 4: We do this every day. We see money every single day.
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Speaker 4: There is no nob to the amount of money, just
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Speaker 4: like there's no limit to the amount of well being.
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Speaker 4: You wouldn't say to yourself, well, I don't want to
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Speaker 4: have too much well being because I don't want to
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Speaker 4: take it away from someone else. That's not how it works.
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Speaker 4: There is plenty of money. Trust me, you will manifest
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Speaker 4: that which you focus on. And here's the other thing
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Speaker 4: about what you were saying, which I think is really important, Melissa,
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Speaker 4: is why do you want money? But also being really
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Speaker 4: clear about what money can and cannot provide us I've
25:38
Speaker 4: worked with a ton of clients who are like, you
25:41
Speaker 4: know what, if I just make one hundred thousand dollars
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Speaker 4: a year, I'll be happy. And then we get to
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Speaker 4: one hundred thousand dollars and say, you know what, I
25:48
Speaker 4: think maybe it's two hundred thousand. Okay, And then they
25:51
Speaker 4: start working towards two hundred and if they're still not happy.
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Speaker 4: Money cannot buy you happiness. Money cannot buy you of mind,
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Speaker 4: it cannot buy you security, It cannot buy you the
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Speaker 4: things you think it can. Because when we expect it
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Speaker 4: to provide something it cannot provide, we end up in
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Speaker 4: the hamster wheel, and we're constantly chasing after something that
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Speaker 4: it cannot provide. And so when we get clear about that,
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Speaker 4: we suddenly get clear about, Wow, this is what money
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Speaker 4: can provide me. And then when that money comes to us,
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Speaker 4: we're clear about our relationship with it. And another thing too,
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Speaker 4: is and I love this exercise. I will do this
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Speaker 4: exercise with a lot of my clients and I'll say.
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Speaker 3: Okaya, hold that thought.
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Speaker 4: Go ahead, sure, sure. I give this exercise to my
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Speaker 4: clients and it's very telling. So I will say them, Okay,
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Speaker 4: I'm giving you a million dollars free and clear tax
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Speaker 4: free spree and clear million dollars. What are you going
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Speaker 4: to do with it? And immediately they will start listing, Okay,
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Speaker 4: I'm gonna buy a new house, I'm gonna pay off
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Speaker 4: my mom and dad's house, buy a new car, I'm
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Speaker 4: going to go on vacation, I'm going to this in business,
30:11
Speaker 4: and what they're doing is listing off ways of disappearing
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Speaker 4: money rather than actually using that money in a manner
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Speaker 4: that will allow them to sustain and grow and expand
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Speaker 4: their own lives in a positive way. So it's kind
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Speaker 4: of like I like to relate to our relationship to
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Speaker 4: money as a relationship to a significant other. If we
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Speaker 4: related to a significant other the way most people relate
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Speaker 4: to money, our relationships would be very very short. In
30:47
Speaker 4: other words, we expect money to be there, we demand
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Speaker 4: that it's there. We're always annoyed because we don't have
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Speaker 4: enough of it. We want to use it when we
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Speaker 4: want to use it, and then we're not using it,
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Speaker 4: we're not even thinking about it, we're not paying time
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Speaker 4: to it. And then when we do get something, we
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Speaker 4: don't have any gratitude for it. We just expect it
31:05
Speaker 4: and demand it to be there like an object. Now,
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Speaker 4: imagine treating your significant other that way. They would be
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Speaker 4: out the door in a nanosecond. But imagine imagine if
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Speaker 4: you treated if money showed up in your life and
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Speaker 4: you treasured it, and you were so grateful in that
31:23
Speaker 4: moment that it showed up, and you spent your time
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Speaker 4: appreciating it and thinking about, how can I expand and
31:31
Speaker 4: develop this relationship, how can I make it better? How
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Speaker 4: can I have more of it? How can I have
31:37
Speaker 4: them feel or it feel in the conversations of money?
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Speaker 4: How can I have it feel wanted and appreciated and
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Speaker 4: welcomed in my life? How can I make my life
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Speaker 4: better and Money's life better in the process of this relationship.
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Speaker 4: Imagine what your personal relationship would be like if you
31:58
Speaker 4: treated it that way. It would be extraordinary. They would
32:02
Speaker 4: want to show up and be in your life. Your
32:04
Speaker 4: significant other would love being in your presence, because they
32:07
Speaker 4: would know that they would be honored and cherished and
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Speaker 4: appreciated that you're going to spend your time. How am
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Speaker 4: I going to make this relationship better? Well, if we
32:17
Speaker 4: relate to money in the same way, we will have
32:19
Speaker 4: a completely different relationship to it, and money will want
32:23
Speaker 4: to show up in our lives. Money will want to
32:26
Speaker 4: be there every single day. You know what, if you
32:29
Speaker 4: were thinking about, well, how can I better understand money?
32:33
Speaker 4: How can I better relate to it? How can I
32:36
Speaker 4: work with money in such a way that it becomes
32:39
Speaker 4: bigger and better than it is? Imagine what your life
32:43
Speaker 4: and your relationship would be like that. I want to
32:45
Speaker 4: elevate my partner. I want them to feel bigger and
32:48
Speaker 4: better every single day. Well, if we did that around money,
32:51
Speaker 4: we would understand how to work with and interact with
32:54
Speaker 4: money in a way that it would grow and it
32:57
Speaker 4: would get better. And when we did use money to
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Speaker 4: buy something, we have such gratitude and appreciation for it.
33:04
Speaker 4: You know, if we if we had a significant other
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Speaker 4: and we say, oh, you know what, I have to
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Speaker 4: go to this party and I have to bring a date,
33:09
Speaker 4: would you come with me? I would love for you
33:11
Speaker 4: to join me, and I want you to have a
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Speaker 4: great time. He'd be like, yes, of course I'd love
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Speaker 4: to go, Versus I need you to be there. I
33:19
Speaker 4: need you to be there, and I need you to
33:20
Speaker 4: wear this, and I need you to look really great.
33:22
Speaker 4: So I look really great. Was like, look in the wayler, Wait,
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Speaker 4: this is not what's what's going to happen here. So
33:28
Speaker 4: look at how you relate to money, and are you
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Speaker 4: relating to it the way you would want to relate
33:32
Speaker 4: to your significant other? Are you expanding your capacity around money?
33:38
Speaker 4: You know, eighty percent of all Lauter winners go broke
33:42
Speaker 4: within the first five years, simply because their money mindset
33:46
Speaker 4: or their financial service that is not designed for that
33:49
Speaker 4: kind of money. Alpatina just came out with a book
33:52
Speaker 4: and he was doing an interview and he was saying,
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Speaker 4: I had fifty million dollars at one point in my life,
33:57
Speaker 4: and I blew it all said because I didn't speak
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Speaker 4: the language of money. Now, that's his money mindset that
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Speaker 4: he's talking about. That's his financial thermo set that he's
34:07
Speaker 4: talking about. Articulated in a different way, but that's exactly
34:12
Speaker 4: what he's talking about. Now I understand more about money
34:15
Speaker 4: now I know how to appreciate it. Now I know
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Speaker 4: how to use it in the right way. I know
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Speaker 4: how to have it grow and expand and provide me
34:23
Speaker 4: with the things that it can. And it won't provide
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Speaker 4: me with the things that it can. Hmmm.
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Speaker 2: I love those thinking of it like a significant other.
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Speaker 3: You know about how you would treat money, And I.
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Speaker 2: Talk about this all the time, about gratitude and how
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Speaker 2: gratitude for the things we already have will totally help
34:44
Speaker 2: expand anything that you want.
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Speaker 3: So, if it's gratitude for if you want.
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Speaker 2: In a relationship, be grateful and look at the relationships
34:52
Speaker 2: you already have. If it's money, be grateful for what
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Speaker 2: you're already doing with whatever money is in your account
34:58
Speaker 2: already that you you know now, and then it can expand.
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Speaker 2: So I love I love that you're you're saying that
35:05
Speaker 2: because we don't think of it like that.
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Speaker 3: We always think of it as like, oh, I have so.
35:10
Speaker 4: Much fun object a month.
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Speaker 2: Say yeah, and I gotta this month has got to work,
35:15
Speaker 2: you know, it's got to work. I gotta pay my rent,
35:17
Speaker 2: I gotta pay this, I gotta do this, I gotta
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Speaker 2: pay my mortgage.
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Speaker 3: So yes, I mean and if you treated like your spouse,
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Speaker 3: like like you.
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Speaker 2: Got to clean the house and you got to do this,
35:26
Speaker 2: and you got to do this, they'd be like, look
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Speaker 2: at it.
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Speaker 3: You're like, what the heck am I doing here?
35:30
Speaker 4: I don't want to be near you exactly. Yeah, Or
35:32
Speaker 4: every time you had to interact with them, you were
35:34
Speaker 4: stressed and you were worried, or you're like, yeah, it
35:38
Speaker 4: would be a whole different relationship, a whole different relationship.
35:42
Speaker 2: And I've noticed, and obviously you're you've noticed, because this
35:46
Speaker 2: is your business, that the people that are always worried
35:49
Speaker 2: about money never ever have financial abundance.
35:54
Speaker 3: Never, There's always something.
35:56
Speaker 4: No matter how much money they have, no matter how
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Speaker 4: much you much money they have. I have worked with
36:03
Speaker 4: verified billionaires, right, and I have sat at a dinner
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Speaker 4: table with one and listen to them say there's never
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Speaker 4: enough money. Wow, Oh, there's just never enough money. And
36:18
Speaker 4: then I would watch as they go through their lives
36:21
Speaker 4: with privilege beyond anything most people would ever be able
36:24
Speaker 4: to imagine, and it's always a miserable experience. They're going
36:30
Speaker 4: on a trip, the nicest, you know, whether it's first
36:33
Speaker 4: class or a private jet or a private yacht, there's
36:36
Speaker 4: always something wrong, there's always some disaster, there's always some upset,
36:41
Speaker 4: there's never this sense of joy and happiness, and there's
36:45
Speaker 4: never a sense of security. A lot of people think, well,
36:48
Speaker 4: money would buy me security, I feel safe. Nope, this
36:51
Speaker 4: person was not secure and not safe. They were always
36:53
Speaker 4: worried about lawsuits, always worried about, you know, getting sued
36:57
Speaker 4: or some legal situation, never stop. And it wasn't the money.
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Speaker 4: It was simply them. And you know, I want to
37:07
Speaker 4: speak to if I made the conversation of money is
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Speaker 4: the root of all evil? Yes, because there's a lot
37:13
Speaker 4: of evidence out there for us to look at and say, wow,
37:16
Speaker 4: look at so and so, Look at so and so.
37:18
Speaker 4: They've got a lot of money, and all they do
37:20
Speaker 4: is evil, All they do is bad blood out of
37:22
Speaker 4: that right, money is neither good nor evil. Money simply
37:27
Speaker 4: amplifies that who we are already.
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Speaker 3: Yes, I agree.
37:32
Speaker 4: So if you're some and look, we all have we
37:35
Speaker 4: can we all have the ability to be cruel or
37:39
Speaker 4: evil or dark, and we all have the ability to
37:41
Speaker 4: be good and kind and generous. It's what traits do
37:46
Speaker 4: we want to allow to be amplified. So there are
37:49
Speaker 4: some people in life they start to make more money,
37:52
Speaker 4: and they get really successful, and they make more money,
37:54
Speaker 4: and they allow the good parts of them to be
37:58
Speaker 4: amplified by that money. And then on the opposite end
38:01
Speaker 4: of the spectrum, we've got people that go the opposite direction.
38:04
Speaker 4: They allow those darker parts of their personality to become amplified.
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Speaker 4: It's not the money, it's them and the choices that
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Speaker 4: they make. So don't worry about money being evil. It
38:15
Speaker 4: is not. It is just paper. It's just a universal
38:18
Speaker 4: band of energy. If you are someone who's truly commended
38:22
Speaker 4: to being good, go do good, Go be good, Go
38:27
Speaker 4: make the difference in the world that you want to make,
38:30
Speaker 4: and make as much money as you want in that process.
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Speaker 4: That will never change. If you're on the opposite end
38:36
Speaker 4: of the spectrum, we're not having the same conversation, so
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Speaker 4: I can't speak to that.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Well, I find it interesting that it's also
38:44
Speaker 2: a form of control, right, because if they scare you
38:48
Speaker 2: and they tell you money.
38:49
Speaker 3: Is the root of all evil, and.
38:53
Speaker 2: It puts fear in you, right, and nobody wants to
38:56
Speaker 2: be associated with evil, So then there's a way for
38:59
Speaker 2: someone else, some other groups have control over you, and
39:02
Speaker 2: it's easier to have control over people if they have
39:05
Speaker 2: no money and they're poversized, right because they're looking for
39:09
Speaker 2: you know, they're looking at others to help them and
39:13
Speaker 2: not looking within themselves realizing they have all the power
39:16
Speaker 2: within to change their own life.
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Speaker 4: Right, Exactly, No one has power over you in any
39:23
Speaker 4: situation unless it's forced, you know, unless somebody physically forcely.
39:27
Speaker 4: That's called violence. That's not power. Power. Power comes from within.
39:33
Speaker 4: There is There is no one that can curse you.
39:37
Speaker 4: There is no one that can negatively energetically impact you.
39:40
Speaker 4: And there are a lot of people out there that
39:43
Speaker 4: love to use that as a way of manipulating. There
39:45
Speaker 4: are i'll use the quote unquote healers out there, and
39:49
Speaker 4: this is not all of them by any means at all.
39:52
Speaker 4: There's some great people out there, yes, but there are
39:54
Speaker 4: ones out there that will say, ooh you're in danger,
39:57
Speaker 4: you have to do this, and oh you're in more
39:59
Speaker 4: danger you have to do this as a way to
40:01
Speaker 4: manipulate you to continue to work with them. Anyone who
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Speaker 4: tells you that, anyone who tries to use that kind
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Speaker 4: of fear or manipulation run. You can only give away
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Speaker 4: your power. You can only hand it over to someone else.
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Speaker 4: They cannot take it from you. It is yours to
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Speaker 4: keep forever and ever. Own it, cherish it, nurture it,
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Speaker 4: and use it for good, and you will live the
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Speaker 4: kind of life that will be. You know, people will
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Speaker 4: look at you and want the kind of life that
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Speaker 4: you've got.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, they'll want to know how you did it. So
40:34
Speaker 2: why share with us, like some of the some of
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Speaker 2: your clients who have had some really amazing success stories,
40:43
Speaker 2: if that's okay, if you don't mind share, of course, I.
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Speaker 4: Won't share who they are, but I'll share about them
40:48
Speaker 4: because I think you know, there was there was one
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Speaker 4: woman and she was just so amazing. And I remember
40:53
Speaker 4: when I was speaking to her before we started working together,
40:55
Speaker 4: and she said to me, Apparent, please, I have got
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Speaker 4: I'm about to retire. I've got everything in my life
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Speaker 4: in order except money. I need to handle my relationship
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Speaker 4: with money. And she was clear it was her relationship
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Speaker 4: with money, and she said, I need to get this
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Speaker 4: sorted because I'm about to retire and I don't want
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Speaker 4: to go into retirement not having this sorted out. And
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Speaker 4: so we started working together and by the time we completed,
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Speaker 4: she said to me Pericles, I have freedom around money
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Speaker 4: for the first time in my life. This is exactly
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Speaker 4: what I was looking for. And that sense, that word
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Speaker 4: freedom is so extraordinary. We take it for granted oftentimes,
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Speaker 4: but it is such an extraordinary thing when you go
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Speaker 4: from stress and anxiety and worry about money all the
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Speaker 4: time to never that again, but just a sense of freedom.
41:51
Speaker 4: And that's to me the kind of work that I
41:55
Speaker 4: love doing. I had another client in kind of the
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Speaker 4: completely different areas who who very well educated, multiple degrees,
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Speaker 4: also a pastor, and he was he had multiple degrees
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Speaker 4: in US history and he loved to talk and lecture
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Speaker 4: about how US history and religion kind of interspersed along
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Speaker 4: the way, how they developed each other and influence each other.
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Speaker 4: Just fascinating subjects. And he said to me when we
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Speaker 4: first started working, this is Particlarly, I just want you
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Speaker 4: to know I've never charged a penning for my time.
42:31
Speaker 4: I have no sense of value when it comes to
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Speaker 4: my time, and I know it came from my family
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Speaker 4: growing up. I give away my time all the time.
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Speaker 4: All I do is go around and give lectures and
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Speaker 4: talks for free. And I need to have a shift
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Speaker 4: in that so that I can start earning money doing
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Speaker 4: what I love doing, and I said okay, and so
42:51
Speaker 4: we started working together. By the time we finished working together,
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Speaker 4: he would not open his mouth without getting fifteen hundred
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Speaker 4: dollars an hour, and he was fully booked at fifteen
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Speaker 4: hundred dollars an hour. People were scrambling to have him
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Speaker 4: do that. And then he landed this extraordinary gig on
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Speaker 4: a on a riverboat where they hired him throughout the
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Speaker 4: whole season to come talk about his area of expertise
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Speaker 4: to all the people that were on the riverboat. So
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Speaker 4: he was on a riverboat, staying on a riverboat, living
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Speaker 4: on this riverboat for six months out of the year,
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Speaker 4: talking about what he loved and getting paid to do it.
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Speaker 3: That sounds fun.
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Speaker 4: That's the kind of well, it sounds extraordinary, doesn't It's like,
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Speaker 4: oh gosh, I'd love to do something like that. And
43:36
Speaker 4: that's the kind of power to resetting one's financial thermostat
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Speaker 4: where suddenly we moved from those negative conversations to all
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Speaker 4: new positive conversations where we have self worth, where we
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Speaker 4: have personal value, where we know what our time is worth,
43:53
Speaker 4: where we're we got that sense of freedom and ease
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Speaker 4: around money. That's the whole point of the work that
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Speaker 4: I do, and it is available to anyone who wants it.
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Speaker 4: It doesn't make any difference how old or young you are.
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Speaker 4: And I think this is a great thing for parents
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Speaker 4: to start implementing with their children right away. We've got
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Speaker 4: people who have generational mindsets that are negative around money,
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Speaker 4: of course, where one generation passes it on to the next,
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Speaker 4: the next, and the next. We can break those cycles
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Speaker 4: and raise our kids in an environment where money flows
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Speaker 4: to them effortlessly every single day. I knew somebody who
44:32
Speaker 4: when he was a kid, his mom used to at night,
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Speaker 4: they she'd give him some money to put into his piggybank,
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Speaker 4: and then they count all the money in the piggy bank,
44:41
Speaker 4: and then when he woke up in the morning, she'd say,
44:43
Speaker 4: let's count your money again. Well, what he didn't know
44:46
Speaker 4: was that at night she'd go in and put some
44:47
Speaker 4: more money in, so when he counted his money, there
44:50
Speaker 4: was more the next morning than there was the night before.
44:53
Speaker 4: And what she said exactly, that's exactly what she said
44:56
Speaker 4: to seeing your money magically gross. And this this is
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Speaker 4: a world that he lives in, and money just flowed
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Speaker 4: everywhere around him because that's the mindset that he grew
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Speaker 4: up in. And now some people may be saying, oh,
45:09
Speaker 4: well that's fake because his mom faked it. Well, that's
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Speaker 4: no more fake than my mom saying I never want
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Speaker 4: to have that kind of money because I'll lose my
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Speaker 4: whole family, and me deciding never make that kind of money.
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Speaker 4: We made up the conversation ourselves. We can make up
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Speaker 4: a new conversation, and why not make up a conversation
45:28
Speaker 4: that empowers us.
45:29
Speaker 3: Yeah, people don't realize it is.
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Speaker 2: They're thinking of it in a way, like in a
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Speaker 2: literal way. But if you look at everything is energy,
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Speaker 2: that means money has to be energy, and everything vibrates
45:39
Speaker 2: on a certain frequency that if you shift your mindset,
45:42
Speaker 2: what starts to happen is things and synchronicities, which we
45:47
Speaker 2: call synchronicities.
45:48
Speaker 3: Come into your life.
45:49
Speaker 2: You meet somebody who, let's use your pastor for example,
45:53
Speaker 2: who knows somebody who is looking for somebody to give
45:56
Speaker 2: a speech.
45:57
Speaker 3: You you come across an email emails you out of the.
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Speaker 2: Blue and says, hey, you know, somebody gave me your name.
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Speaker 2: Because that's what starts to happen. Right, So, because we've
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Speaker 2: shifted our frequency about money.
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Speaker 3: So those things like.
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Speaker 2: Like attracts like that is like us will be attracted
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Speaker 2: to us. So you know because people listen to me
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Speaker 2: like yeah, sure, well how does that work? So now
46:22
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get fifteen hundred dollars an hour? And then
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Speaker 2: what somebody's just gonna book me? You know, well, yes
46:28
Speaker 2: and no they will if you if you believe that
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Speaker 2: you're worthy of that. It may not happen tomorrow, but
46:36
Speaker 2: you know maybe in a month from now, you'll meet
46:38
Speaker 2: so and so who introduces you to so and so,
46:40
Speaker 2: and then so and so and then that's how it
46:42
Speaker 2: happens exactly.
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Speaker 4: And this is what Abraham Hicks is talking about when
46:47
Speaker 4: they say allowing, because most people are clear about the
46:53
Speaker 4: process to manifesting, well, what they miss is when they're
46:57
Speaker 4: sitting there feeling it and like, oh I'm I want this,
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Speaker 4: I want is then I feel it. What they're ignoring
47:03
Speaker 4: is that little voice that's coming to say but you'll
47:06
Speaker 4: never have it. It will never work for you. You
47:10
Speaker 4: aren't smart enough. All of those negative conversations, those are
47:14
Speaker 4: the things that are blocking that allowing. And until we
47:18
Speaker 4: clear those blocks, you will never be able to manifest
47:22
Speaker 4: the thing that you want. You can try to force
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Speaker 4: it out, you can try to make it happen, but
47:26
Speaker 4: it will be much more challenging. It's kind of like
47:30
Speaker 4: your financial thermocet. Your money. Mindset is the foundation underneath
47:35
Speaker 4: the home that you want to build. If you've got
47:37
Speaker 4: a poor foundation, a weak foundation, a cracks foundation, that
47:40
Speaker 4: house is doomed to fall down. And it's the same
47:43
Speaker 4: thing with manifesting. If your mindset isn't in a place
47:47
Speaker 4: where you can actually manage that manifestation and allow it
47:51
Speaker 4: to happen, it's not going to happen. So this is
47:54
Speaker 4: why people fail and manifesting. There's nothing wrong with you.
47:58
Speaker 4: There is nothing defective about you. You just need to
48:02
Speaker 4: see where the blocks are that are keeping you from
48:05
Speaker 4: allowing the thing to manifest in your life.
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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, because we don't realize how much we block.
48:12
Speaker 2: Like you'll say you want something, Oh I want a
48:14
Speaker 2: new I want a new car. Oh okay, well you
48:17
Speaker 2: know you want a brand new car, right and you
48:20
Speaker 2: meet you you meet somebody who says, oh, I have
48:23
Speaker 2: this really cool car and you got to come see
48:25
Speaker 2: and it's a great price in and let's say it's white,
48:28
Speaker 2: but you wanted a black car No, No, that's not
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Speaker 2: what I want to You have to be open to
48:34
Speaker 2: allowing things to come to you and let letting the universe,
48:39
Speaker 2: you know, because because a lot of times we shut
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Speaker 2: it down. And this happens with women, especially in relationships.
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Speaker 3: I want a guy, I want a guy. I want
48:46
Speaker 3: a guy. Okay, you want a guy. You want to
48:47
Speaker 3: manifest relationship? You want a guy. Here he is, he's great,
48:51
Speaker 3: he checks off all the boxes. But he doesn't have
48:53
Speaker 3: dark hair.
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Speaker 4: I wanted somebody, right, yes, okay.
48:59
Speaker 3: Then I don't know. It's a tell you what I mean.
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Speaker 4: Right, And it is that exact conversation. This is brilliant, Melissa.
49:06
Speaker 4: What you're saying is because it is a that exact conversation.
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Speaker 4: That is with money as well. You know there are
49:12
Speaker 4: I do the same thing with people who say they
49:14
Speaker 4: want a relationship. Great. I want you to write down
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Speaker 4: every single thing you want in the perfect about man
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Speaker 4: or woman, whatever that looks like. Write it down. Have
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Speaker 4: you read it all that? Yes? Are you clear about that? Yes?
49:24
Speaker 4: Now go burn it, burn it and let it go
49:28
Speaker 4: into the universe and then watch what shows up in
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Speaker 4: your life. Because yes, there are times when the perfect
49:34
Speaker 4: man or woman shows up in our lives and we
49:36
Speaker 4: cut them out because they don't have the right color hair.
49:39
Speaker 4: And we have just said to the universe, I'm really
49:41
Speaker 4: not interested in the perfect man in my life. I'm
49:44
Speaker 4: interested in only my version of what that might look like.
49:48
Speaker 4: And the universe will be like, okay, great, you're really
49:50
Speaker 4: not interested. I'm gonna not you know, I'm going to
49:52
Speaker 4: keep putting the same kind of loser in front of
49:54
Speaker 4: you that you're used to because that's ultimately what you want.
49:57
Speaker 4: Same thing with money, if you were to actually start
50:02
Speaker 4: to allow money to flow and look at every opportunity.
50:07
Speaker 4: I seeple to say this all the time. I said, Okay,
50:09
Speaker 4: where did money show up in your life today? Well?
50:11
Speaker 4: I didn't. Okay, you didn't see money anywhere. You didn't
50:15
Speaker 4: see any opportunities. Well, you know, I saw a penny
50:18
Speaker 4: on the ground, but I didn't pick it up because
50:19
Speaker 4: I would never pick up a penny. Great, you just
50:21
Speaker 4: told the universe that you're not interested in money flowing
50:25
Speaker 4: into your life. Because you said you want money, the
50:28
Speaker 4: universe put a penny in front of you, and you
50:30
Speaker 4: ignored it. A penny makes up a hundred of those
50:33
Speaker 4: makes up a dollar. If you can't love the part,
50:37
Speaker 4: how can you love the hole? It was going back
50:40
Speaker 4: to my relationship. Oh my my significant other. Their fingers
50:43
Speaker 4: are so ugly. Oh, I can't even look at them,
50:46
Speaker 4: but I love them so much. How do you think
50:48
Speaker 4: they're gonna feel when they walk into the room with you,
50:50
Speaker 4: They're gonna be like they hate my hands, they're my fingers. No,
50:53
Speaker 4: you have to love all the parts of it and
50:56
Speaker 4: welcome it in and allow that to come in. But
51:00
Speaker 4: you want may not look the way you expected to look.
51:04
Speaker 4: With the universe puts it in front of you. Allow
51:07
Speaker 4: that to happen, and you will see your life transform
51:09
Speaker 4: in a nanosecond.
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Speaker 2: Because than cost of the times, it's better than you
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Speaker 2: even imagined. And I have so many people as you
51:19
Speaker 2: know that can say to me who who have said
51:23
Speaker 2: they wanted something and what showed up was not at
51:25
Speaker 2: what they expected, and it was one hundred times better
51:28
Speaker 2: than they even thought.
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Speaker 3: That they that it could have been for them. So
51:31
Speaker 3: we have to.
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Speaker 2: Be able to allow so apparently, I want to know
51:34
Speaker 2: what it looks like when you work with clients.
51:36
Speaker 3: Do you do one on ones? Do you have groups?
51:39
Speaker 3: How long do you like to work with somebody.
51:42
Speaker 2: It is in your commitment eight weeks.
51:44
Speaker 3: Like how do how do you like to work?
51:46
Speaker 4: Great question, I work. So the only way to work
51:50
Speaker 4: with me is to start by doing my free masterclass.
51:54
Speaker 4: In my free master class, which is available on my website.
51:57
Speaker 4: You just go to the website. It's right there on
51:59
Speaker 4: the front page. Sign them for my free masterclass, enter
52:01
Speaker 4: your name and email, and you've got instant access. It's
52:05
Speaker 4: the four keys to resetting your financial Thermostat. It will
52:09
Speaker 4: give you everything you need to do in order to
52:12
Speaker 4: reset your financial thermostat now. For people who are ready
52:16
Speaker 4: to take the next step. At the end of that masterclass,
52:19
Speaker 4: there are instructions that hey, you want to do more,
52:21
Speaker 4: you want to go to the next level, here's how
52:23
Speaker 4: you can do it, here's what it costs, et cetera.
52:25
Speaker 4: And it's an eight week program, so very simple group programs,
52:29
Speaker 4: eight weeks. I've got a membership site. You go through it.
52:31
Speaker 4: There's lots of training, we go all sort of really
52:34
Speaker 4: amazing stuff to take it to the next level. So
52:38
Speaker 4: whatever works best for people, but I encourage them. I
52:42
Speaker 4: don't care where you are. If you're not ready, at
52:46
Speaker 4: least sign up for the masterclass. And watch it, see
52:48
Speaker 4: what you can get from it, take as much as
52:51
Speaker 4: you can from it, and then start applying it to
52:53
Speaker 4: your life today, and it will make a difference. That's
52:56
Speaker 4: why I designed it, That's why it's there, is to
53:00
Speaker 4: make a difference in people in resetting their financial thermoscepts.
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Speaker 3: I love that.
53:05
Speaker 2: I love that you give that as an offering to people.
53:07
Speaker 2: And I'm sure you've noticed this also, which I've noticed
53:10
Speaker 2: some people people, Some people think they are ready for something,
53:15
Speaker 2: but they're really not right because you say you want
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Speaker 2: a money more money, or you say you want a relationship,
53:21
Speaker 2: but you aren't really ready for how your life will change,
53:26
Speaker 2: so you are maybe unconsciously blocking it, right because maybe
53:31
Speaker 2: maybe for in your situation, having more money is going
53:34
Speaker 2: to mean having more responsibility, and you're not you don't
53:37
Speaker 2: want that responsibility, so secretly, deep down you're like, no,
53:42
Speaker 2: you know, I say I want the million dollars, I
53:45
Speaker 2: don't really want.
53:45
Speaker 7: The responsibility that comes with a million dollars, right, Or
53:49
Speaker 7: I say I want the relationship, but I don't really
53:52
Speaker 7: want to share my you know, my life with anybody
53:55
Speaker 7: or my space with anyone yet.
53:56
Speaker 3: So how ready are you? And I think that there's really.
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Speaker 2: Import questions we have to ask ourselves.
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Speaker 4: Don't you absolutely and be truthful with yourself. If you're
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Speaker 4: not ready, you're not ready. You might be ready tomorrow,
54:09
Speaker 4: but no one there's no rule book anywhere that says
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Speaker 4: you need to be ready by this state. No choose
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Speaker 4: for yourself, and just know that when you do declare
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Speaker 4: that you're ready, Like the moment we make that declaration,
54:23
Speaker 4: the moment we take that step, things alter. As you
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Speaker 4: were saying earlier, the universe notices when we make that shift,
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Speaker 4: and things will change. I've literally had clients who I
54:35
Speaker 4: start working with this it's like, oh my god, I
54:36
Speaker 4: just had this huge opportunity drop into my lap. How
54:40
Speaker 4: lucky am I? I'm like, there is no luck involved
54:42
Speaker 4: with this. This is you making a declaration and the
54:45
Speaker 4: universe aligning with that declaration. Now, it doesn't always happen
54:50
Speaker 4: that way, but it can happen that way. And it's
54:52
Speaker 4: all about your commitment and the actions that you take.
54:56
Speaker 4: So it's one thing to say you're committed. It's another
54:59
Speaker 4: thing to say you're committed in take actions consistent with
55:01
Speaker 4: that commitment. So take the actions that are consistent with
55:05
Speaker 4: that commitment. And you will see the fruits of your labor.
55:08
Speaker 4: You will see the results as long as you follow
55:11
Speaker 4: the coaching of whoever it is you're working with. I
55:13
Speaker 4: don't care if it's me or someone else. Find someone
55:16
Speaker 4: that you trust, that you feel comfortable with, that you're
55:19
Speaker 4: willing to surrender to, and then just do what they
55:22
Speaker 4: tell you to do as long as it's consistent with
55:24
Speaker 4: your own values and watch the results happen.
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Speaker 2: M love that, Okay, tell people your website again to
55:32
Speaker 2: sit there.
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Speaker 4: You can find me in two places, Periclesrelius dot com
55:36
Speaker 4: or reset your Financial thermostat dot com. They both go
55:42
Speaker 4: to the same place. My masterclasses right there. You can
55:45
Speaker 4: read testimonials, you can see other podcasts, all sorts of
55:48
Speaker 4: really great information, and trust me, do the work however
55:53
Speaker 4: you choose to do it, whether it's with me or
55:55
Speaker 4: someone else. Don't sit on the sideline. Change your life today.
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Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you all much, Pericles.
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Speaker 2: It was a great conversation all right, everybody, Thanks for
56:04
Speaker 2: listening to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa creating the
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Speaker 2: life you crave and wishing everyone a wonderful week filled
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Speaker 2: with joy, abundance, and love.
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Speaker 4: Peace,