Latest / Rabbi Benjy's Shiur / Orot Hateshuva 4
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- 0:01Our rats had Shiva sheet #4 Okay.
- 0:05Let's start with something that is not going to be very nice to
- 0:08listen to. I think we can say as a rule of
- 0:11human understanding or self knowledge is that we don't love
- 0:15ourselves as we should. We've spoken previously about
- 0:18the importance of loving other people, so that's one level of
- 0:22challenge. But what about loving ourselves?
- 0:25If, for example, we hurt our child, or a child hurt
- 0:27themselves, we would feel pain at their suffering.
- 0:30We're sensitive to our children, We desperately want them to do
- 0:35right, and so any divergent from that in their own lives causes
- 0:39us tremendous pain and heartache.
- 0:41What about our own lives? We can go astray.
- 0:44We feel unable to return to our sham, and we don't necessarily
- 0:49respond in that same level of grief and panic.
- 0:52We don't feel the urgency to correct ourselves as we would
- 0:56those we love or to care about ourselves sufficiently.
- 1:00Now the danger here is like this.
- 1:01If you're just living on an island, well, that would be less
- 1:04danger because you'd be on your own and no one would pick up the
- 1:08contradiction in your behavior. But says we have most should
- 1:11Weinberger's forest. Eventually, however, our
- 1:14children will perceive our moral compromises and challenge them,
- 1:18and ideally, this will inspire us to take the proper steps to
- 1:21rectify our lives. In this way, our children help
- 1:24us become better people. Indeed, they are our best
- 1:27educators. Our children are our best
- 1:31educators because they force us to reevaluate ourselves and our
- 1:34values. As long as the person has not
- 1:36grown completely corrupted, his awareness of the mistakes he's
- 1:40made should cause them serious and terrible pain.
- 1:44Then he does whatever he can to correct this crookedness.
- 1:48Now Rob Cook now goes on to a different understanding of
- 1:52Teshuva. So we've spoken of Teshuva to
- 1:55it, this natural Chiva, the physical body type of restoring
- 1:59our physical health and recognizing the conscience
- 2:03challenges of making compromises for ourselves where we wouldn't
- 2:07make them for other people. And now comes to Shiva emunit,
- 2:13the Teshuva of faith. He had Hayabalami Makarahama.
- 2:17Sorry to have that. Where does this faith comes
- 2:19from? Comes from the world of Tara,
- 2:21the world of religion. And the Taraanda Tanak has so
- 2:25much to say on this concept. Why?
- 2:27Because it can only have come from Hashem.
- 2:29The very concept that we can, as we've said previously, rewrite
- 2:34the narrative of our lives. That's what the show is.
- 2:38We have a story, version number one, Life one to have a story of
- 2:44our lives of ups and downs. Version #2 is that same story
- 2:50but through the prism of Toshiva.
- 2:52Now those falls might have been catalysts for further growth,
- 2:56inspiration for doing something better, or God forbid they might
- 2:59just remain false. But Toshiva allows you to
- 3:01rewrite the past and change the story that is your life without
- 3:05actually going back in time. Hatora Mafti, Khale, Chave
- 3:10Pasha, What does the Tora promise us?
- 3:12It's a promise. It's not an idea.
- 3:14It's not a suggestion. It promises those who want to
- 3:17try and change Slika that they'll be forgiven.
- 3:23This is not the knowledge that a person must know within him, his
- 3:26inner organs, himself. Rather, this is part of our
- 3:28traditional belief Hashem has promised through his profits.
- 3:32If you come back to me, I will return to you Shuvu a lie.
- 3:36You make the first move to come back first.
- 3:39Shuva Alejan and I will then continue that journey and that
- 3:42everything we did wrong will then be completely erased.
- 3:45Hataltayakidvat Sibor named Kim Aladecivat Nima him.
- 3:49The sins of the individual and the community are wiped out or
- 3:52raised through to Shuva, the Apostle says in in Yeshiya
- 3:58Isaiah chapter 4422. I have wiped away your sins like
- 4:01a thick cloud and your transgressions like a cloud.
- 4:04Return to me for I have redeemed you and finally for today had
- 4:12Shiva Hassihlit. This last one is the the the
- 4:15Shiva of the intellect in that which has already acquired
- 4:19natural and faith-based to show up.
- 4:21So anyone you've gone through these first two stages, can you
- 4:24then move on and we'll discover what that's all about next time.
- 4:28Have a very lovely day.