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DONKEY: Charlamagne Calls Out NBA YoungBoy For Saying He’s 'Not Really Big On Fatherhood' · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: You ext appreciate on the Donkey of the day is
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  Speaker 1: something to.
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  Speaker 2: God for you to read. He gave me dunky other
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  Speaker 2: day and I deserve that. People need to know what
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  Speaker 2: you need to tell them. I am you have they
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  Speaker 2: tell them it's time for donkey.
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  Speaker 3: It's a read, but you're so good at it.
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  Speaker 2: Damn solo man, who do you people? Dusky other day too? Now?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, donkey today for Wednesday, January tenth goes to the
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  Speaker 1: young man known as the NBA Young Boy. Now NBA
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  Speaker 1: Young Boy recently sat down and had a conversation with
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  Speaker 1: the good brother Buttlet keV dropping the clues bombs of
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  Speaker 1: Bootleg keV the Bootley Cab podcast. keVs phenomenal at what
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  Speaker 1: he does. Been my guy for a long time. I've
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  Speaker 1: been singing Kev's praises in this media business for a
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  Speaker 1: decade or better.
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  Speaker 2: So it's great to see him shining and I exleute
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  Speaker 2: to my guy. But back to who we was.
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  Speaker 1: He was having a conversation with or the young Brother
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  Speaker 1: NBA Young Boy. Now, if you aren't familiar with NBA
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  Speaker 1: Young Boy, he's very popular, been popular for a long
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  Speaker 1: time amongst the youth them. I respect what he's built
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  Speaker 1: for himself. He seems to live a very secluded life.
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  Speaker 1: He seems to be pretty out the way he lives
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  Speaker 1: in Utah, which his music out of minds, his business cool,
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  Speaker 1: which snapp of fact. About the NBA Young Boy, he
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  Speaker 1: has eleven kids Okay, yes, eleven churn and he's twenty
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  Speaker 1: four years old.
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  Speaker 2: He's won away from having as many as Nick can.
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  Speaker 1: And the difference is Nick is forty three, NBA Young
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  Speaker 1: Boys twenty four Right now, NBA Young Boys kids can
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  Speaker 1: almost fill out an entire NBA team roster. If he
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  Speaker 1: keeps going at this place, he will be the not
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  Speaker 1: so proud owner of two NBA teams by the time
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  Speaker 1: he's forty eight.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, Uncle Shaul, what do you mean.
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  Speaker 1: Not so proud owner? Well, this is why we are
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  Speaker 1: here today, folks. See, NBA Young Boy spoke about fatherhood
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  Speaker 1: because Bootleg keV asked him about fatherhood. Let's go to
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  Speaker 1: Bootle Kev's podcast report. Please, you do have a lot
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  Speaker 1: of children, and I've been around you just to see
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  Speaker 1: in a short amount of time that you're a great father.
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  Speaker 2: How important is fathering to you? Man?
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  Speaker 1: Not really big on it, to be honest, What.
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  Speaker 2: Do you mean by that you're not big on that. Thank.
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  Speaker 2: I mean you're a family man. I'm here with you,
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  Speaker 2: I see it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm only I'm only in yeah because you will.
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  Speaker 2: Oh. Well, I don't believe it's.
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  Speaker 1: A crazy topic because I'm not the type of sugar
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  Speaker 1: coat name. But I'm full walls. Oh every day when.
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  Speaker 2: You say four walls, you locked in?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, just hone in on the music. Yeah, he has
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  Speaker 1: eleven kids, but in his words, he's not really big
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  Speaker 1: on fatherhood. NBA Young Boy treating fatherhood the way the
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  Speaker 1: NBA's Nicola Jokis treats the NBA. You ever hear Joker
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  Speaker 1: talk about basketball at the same level. It don't give
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  Speaker 1: a f that NBA Joki has about basketball, NBA Young
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  Speaker 1: Boy seems to have about being a father to his
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  Speaker 1: eleven kids. I shouldn't have to tell y'all that one
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  Speaker 1: of those things is not like the other. Okay, Now,
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  Speaker 1: Donkey Today is all about giving people the credit they
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  Speaker 1: deserve for being stupid, But it's also about using things
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  Speaker 1: like this as a teachable moment. I didn't know I
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  Speaker 1: would have to say this, but my brothers, that is whack,
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  Speaker 1: all right. So many of us come from broken home.
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  Speaker 1: So many of us had fathers and mothers that weren't
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  Speaker 1: big on having kids. But what bothers me about statements
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  Speaker 1: like this? Since you NBA Young Boy talks that gangster
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  Speaker 1: talk in his records, not only does he talk that
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  Speaker 1: gangster talk, he talks that big money talk.
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  Speaker 2: Well, in the words jay Z, a man.
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  Speaker 1: That don't take care of his family can't be rich.
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  Speaker 1: So don't talk money talk to me. If you're not
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  Speaker 1: big on fatherhood and as far as being gangster, you
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  Speaker 1: can kill thousands of people in your records, but if
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  Speaker 1: you're not big on fatherhood, you not g at all
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  Speaker 1: to me.
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  Speaker 2: Okay? What did the Lina say the Caine in Minister Society, Kane,
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  Speaker 2: I'm pregnant. You man enough to take a life, you
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  Speaker 2: ain't man enough to take care of one.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, You're mad enough to take a life, but
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  Speaker 1: you not man enough to take care of one.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: And what was absolutely insane to me was when Bootleg
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  Speaker 1: cav said the NBA Young Boy, you are a family
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  Speaker 1: man from what I see, and young Boy says, I'm
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  Speaker 1: I'm only in here because you're here, as if he
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  Speaker 1: was just using the kid as a problem for the conversation, Like,
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  Speaker 1: young boy, I had a prosectd me consultation this week. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: my wife wants me to cut the cable. You should
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  Speaker 1: do everyone in the biggest favor and probably do the same. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. At what point do you realize you're
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  Speaker 1: not big on fatherhood?
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  Speaker 2: Is it after child?
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  Speaker 1: One fish? Two fish, three fish, bluefish? Like why do
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  Speaker 1: you have eleven children?
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  Speaker 2: You know?
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  Speaker 1: Did it take eleven children to get to the point
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  Speaker 1: to say you not big on fatherhood? Listen, we are
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  Speaker 1: in the era of generational curse breaking. Okay, those dysfunctional
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  Speaker 1: cycles we had to deal with. We the generation as
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  Speaker 1: supposed to break those and by the way, we are. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: let's not get a twist. Because the NBA Young Boy facts,
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  Speaker 1: seventy percent of black fathers who live with their children
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  Speaker 1: were most likely to have babe dress changed or help
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  Speaker 1: their child with the toilet every day, compared with their
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  Speaker 1: white and Hispanic counterparts. White is sixty percent, Hispanic is
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  Speaker 1: forty five percent. And that's according to the US Centers
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  Speaker 1: for Disease Control and Preventions National Health Statistics Report. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: those black fathers were also more likely to have eaten
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  Speaker 1: the meal with their children. Okay, the datas showed, and yes,
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  Speaker 1: these numbers are high. The data shows not just for
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  Speaker 1: biological fathers living inside the home, but it also indicates
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  Speaker 1: that black fathers often step into the role of step
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  Speaker 1: parent are maintained consistent involvement when living outside the home.
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  Speaker 1: And that's not coming from me. Don't listen to me.
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  Speaker 1: I got a lisp. Okay, that came from doctor Er
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  Speaker 1: Longer Turner, a licensed psychologist and associate professor of psychologist
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  Speaker 1: you at Peperdine University in Malibu, California.
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  Speaker 2: Don't let NBA, young boy, fool you.
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  Speaker 1: There's a myth of the missing black father because once again,
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  Speaker 1: stats show that close to seventy percent of all births
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  Speaker 1: to black mothers are non non marital okay, which gives
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  Speaker 1: rise to the stereotype that black fathers are largely absent. However,
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  Speaker 1: while black fathers are less likely than white and Hispanic
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  Speaker 1: fathers to marry their child's mother, many black fathers continue
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  Speaker 1: to parent through cohabitation and visitation, providing caretaking, financial and
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  Speaker 1: kind support. Young boy, you get into the money, so
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  Speaker 1: you got the resources. But let me tell you something, King,
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  Speaker 1: that money don't mean as much as your time. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you need to be big on fatherhood, all right. You
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  Speaker 1: don't have the luxury of not being big on fatherhood
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  Speaker 1: because no present is better than your presence, and you
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  Speaker 1: can't just physically be there to be present, You have
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  Speaker 1: to mentally and emotionally be there, be the adult you
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  Speaker 1: need it as a child. And look, man, n be
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  Speaker 1: a young boy, Ill shoot him bare. He's only twenty four.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know the age of his oldest child, but
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  Speaker 1: I know that NBA young boy is only twenty four.
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  Speaker 1: Your full frontal cortex hasn't even fully develop. Again, that's
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  Speaker 1: a fact, Okay, The rational part of his brain won't
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  Speaker 1: be developed until he's twenty five. But I'm encouraging that
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  Speaker 1: young brother to do better now because a father's impact
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  Speaker 1: on child development is everything. Okay, and you have eleven children,
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  Speaker 1: those are your greatest responsibilities. Never broke again. Shouldn't just
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  Speaker 1: be about finances. It should be about homes. If you
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  Speaker 1: come from a broken home, you should make it your
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  Speaker 1: duty to never want to be a part of a
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  Speaker 1: broken home ever again. Sometimes we subconsciously become what we hate.
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  Speaker 1: We know that children who grow up with absent fathers
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  Speaker 1: can suffer lasting damage. Right, They're more likely to end
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  Speaker 1: up in poverty, or drop out of school, become addicted
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  Speaker 1: to drugs, have a child out of wedlock, or end
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  Speaker 1: up in prison. That's why you have to be big
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  Speaker 1: on fatherhood, NBA, yell boy, especially since you got the
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  Speaker 1: opportunity to be king. You're alive, You're actually here for
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  Speaker 1: your kids physically, you're not in prison.
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  Speaker 2: You are here able and.
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  Speaker 1: Capable of taking care of those eleven sharing all right.
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  Speaker 1: When you make a decision to have a child, you're
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  Speaker 1: also make the decision to take responsibility for that child.
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  Speaker 1: You have eleven responsibilities and you cannot abandon your obligation
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  Speaker 1: as a parent because you have other plans. Like the
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  Speaker 1: music can't come before the children. The money can't come
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  Speaker 1: before the children.
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  Speaker 2: It just can't.
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  Speaker 1: No matter how big you think you doing it, you're
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  Speaker 1: not doing it big at all. If you not big
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  Speaker 1: on fatherhood, please give the NBA young boy the biggest
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  Speaker 1: he are just the teachable moment. Man, Come on, man,
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  Speaker 1: we gotta be big on fatherhood now.
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  Speaker 3: I just want to tell you. You said you know
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  Speaker 3: he is in Utah. Well he's on house arrest in Utah.
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  Speaker 3: That's why he's out the way. He can't he can't
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  Speaker 3: leave the house. That's why he's in Utah. And I'm
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  Speaker 3: gonna try that at home tonight. When my kids come
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  Speaker 3: up to me and say that they're hungry, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 3: be like, I don't feel like fathering today.
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  Speaker 1: You don't feel like well, he didn't say he don't
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  Speaker 1: feel like being fathering. He actually he's not big on fatherhood.
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  Speaker 1: That's'm gonna tell h I'm not bad on fatherhood today.
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  Speaker 2: No, you're not. You're not gonna do that. When my
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  Speaker 2: daughter has to go to dance, I'm like, that's mom
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  Speaker 2: the driving. You know why you're not. You know why
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  Speaker 2: you're not. You're not gonna do that because you know better.
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  Speaker 3: When the baby comes in her panther gotta be changing.
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  Speaker 1: Like that because you know better. But once again, like
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  Speaker 1: I said, I shoot him a little bit of beout.
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  Speaker 1: He's twenty four years old, forefront of cortext On developed tent.
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  Speaker 1: You're twenty five. The rational part of his brain not
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  Speaker 1: even working yet. Okay, we don't know what hell could
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  Speaker 1: be causing, you know, his brain not to be logically
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  Speaker 1: processing things the way that it should. But listen, I
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  Speaker 1: just want to tell all brothers out there, because this
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  Speaker 1: ain't just about n being a young boy. You have
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  Speaker 1: to be big on fatherhood. Okay, And there's a myth
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  Speaker 1: of the missing Black fathers, because black fathers are here
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  Speaker 1: and we are showing up for our children. You heard
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  Speaker 1: the status that I just read. Okay, Okay, seventy percent,
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  Speaker 1: that's a big number.
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  Speaker 3: But let's let's open up the phone line because there's
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  Speaker 3: a lot of brothers out there that are big on father.
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  Speaker 2: Good dad game. That's right, it's a it's a huge
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  Speaker 2: good dad. Now. I'm just joking. You know.
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  Speaker 3: I take care of my kids. I love my kids.
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  Speaker 3: I take my kids everywhere they need to go. I
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  Speaker 3: make sure I'm there. I try to nourish them. I
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  Speaker 3: try to give them everything I possibly can, uh more
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  Speaker 3: than my dad gave me. That he knew more than
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  Speaker 3: I can afford, whether it's financial to every generation. Absolutely,
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  Speaker 3: and my my father and my mother are there for
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  Speaker 3: my kids as well. But let's open up the phone
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  Speaker 3: line so all the good dads out there. Everybody has
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  Speaker 3: a big on fatherhood.
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  Speaker 2: If you're big on big on fatherhood, reach out and
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  Speaker 2: touch US's.
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  Speaker 3: Eight hundred five eight five one oh fathers. I'm talking
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  Speaker 3: to all the girl dads out there. I'm talking to
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  Speaker 3: all the fathers out there and make sure they take
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  Speaker 3: care of their kid, whether you're with the mom or not,
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  Speaker 3: that you are there for your child. I'm talking about
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  Speaker 3: the dads to do the stupid girl dad the chairs
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  Speaker 3: which your daughter. I do it too, I did yesterday.
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  Speaker 3: I want to see the chair me and my daughter
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  Speaker 3: put together. It was to be put a ring on
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  Speaker 3: like no, no, that's what as song as that.
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  Speaker 2: Ring on?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, me and my daughter ladies single ladies. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 3: don't remember this. So it was a TikTok dance. But anyway, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I'm nice with it.
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  Speaker 2: I could do the You sure you ain't the mom?
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  Speaker 2: Are you positive? Sure? I don't know what you identify
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  Speaker 2: as anymore? Sure?
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  Speaker 3: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five. You know
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  Speaker 3: my daughter asked if babies come out the butt?
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  Speaker 1: All right, man, all of everybody that's big on fatherhood
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  Speaker 1: callers right now, how to answer that? One hundred and
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  Speaker 1: five five one oh five on is to breakfast Breakfast
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