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Why Your ‘New Year Motivation' Fades — And What Feminine Women Do Instead · Mindful Success Path

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  If your New Year motivation has already disappeared, it's not because you're lazy and it's not because there's anything wrong with you, it's because your body is tired of being pushed.
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  And in this video, I'm gonna be teaching you the feminine energy way to actually keep your resolutions.
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  Hi, my name is Amanda.
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  Welcome to this channel where we talk about how to manifest what you want in life without all the extra stress, chaos, and drama.
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  That most people are accustomed to.
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  If that's something that you're interested in, make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don't miss a single video that we have it coming out on this channel.
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  The content is based on my 15 years of experience coaching women in different areas of their lives.
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  I'm also a certified professional coach since 2013, a certified holistic healer.
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  I've been trained in a bunch of different modalities most importantly, it's based on my own transformation, where I went from being a stressed out, hyper independent, perpetually single, attracting more feminized men, um, you know, hormone problems, and running myself into the ground to make money.
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  To in less than two years, manifesting my protector, provider husband, moving to another country, healing my hormones, and now having beautiful businesses like this that bring in passive income and money into my life from a place of ease and flow, and that quite frankly, feel like destiny and like I am more.
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  On purpose.
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  And as always, if I have any other resources that can help you as I go through the content, I will let you know what those resources are throughout.
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  I can tell you that the best place to start is completely free and you can download or enhance your feminine energy guide below you just input your name and your email.
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  And you will get the guide emailed to you.
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  And you will also get a username and password to our client portal, which I call our temple.
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  And you can access it there forever and not have to worry about losing it in your email.
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  And what I cover in that guide is simple ways that you can increase your feminine energy over the next seven days so you can start seeing more ease and flow in different areas of your life.
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  So let's get into it.
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  First and foremost, let's breathe.
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  So inhale and exhale.
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  Make sure your exhale is longer than your inhale, and I want you to do that a couple more times and pause this video so you can do that and come back to it when you're ready.
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  Okay, so let's start this New Year in truth, not in pressure.
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  Happy New Year, by the way.
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  So here's why Motivation fades and why it doesn't work.
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  For most women, motivation is masculine adrenaline.
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  It'll spike in early January and then it's gonna collapse.
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  So you might be saying, Hey, Amanda, we're already in early January, but I promise you some of you already stopped going to the gym by January 6th.
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  And I say this after 15 years of coaching, right?
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  And the reality is that the body cannot sustain pressure without safety.
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  Now I wanna be real here.
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  I spent a lot of my life running on masculine adrenaline, and it did get me places.
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  I had an almost seven figure business, okay?
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  I did have a lot of achievements.
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  I wrote an Amazon's bestselling book at 25.
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  I did get in shape, but because I was doing it from masculine adrenaline, eventually it all crashed and burned.
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  Eventually I was having hormone problems.
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  Eventually, I'd built a business that was basically a cage where I had to hustle all the time because there was no sustainability built into that business, and there wasn't proper support built into that business.
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  And if you've done our magnetic woman transformation training, which you can grab below as well, then you've heard all the stories on how my subconscious basically did that because my beliefs were, I am not supported.
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  I have to prove myself.
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  Everything needs to be hard.
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  Everything is a challenge.
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  Then what did I build?
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  I built a life where everything was hard and I had to prove myself and everything was challenged, right?
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  So, um, so that's what ends up happening.
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  The feminine way is different, right?
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  The feminine way of creating comes from grounding, not hype.
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  It comes from desire, not survival.
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  The feminine asks what feels aligned, not.
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  What do I need to force?
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  And when you do it from that perspective, I promise you it feels completely different.
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  Let me give you an example.
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  I am on video 10 that I am filming today for the YouTube channel.
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  This one was prerecorded because my husband and I are gonna be traveling.
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  For a month, we're gonna be in Miami, visiting families, spending the holidays there, and then we're going to The Bahamas for our wedding anniversary.
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  So what does that mean?
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  It meant like I needed to get ahead on stuff, right?
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  I could have also done nothing but feeling nothing did not actually feel aligned.
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  What felt aligned was let me put out less content.
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  And then schedule it out ahead of time so that I can help these women move through this portal of the new year.
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  These things are coming out, even though I'm traveling and technically out of the office, and it doesn't feel like I'm forcing anything.
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  And the reason why it doesn't feel like I'm forcing anything, even though I'm on video 10, is number one, I love to talk about this stuff.
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  Number two, it's easy for me to talk about this stuff.
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  And number three.
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  Number three, I'm doing it for you, the viewer.
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  So that helps to motivate me.
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  But number four, it's because it's actually aligned.
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  It's not coming from a place of force.
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  It's not coming from a place of, I don't do this.
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  I'm not going to make money.
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  It's coming from a place of this is what I was guided to do, and it's a lot of fun.
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  Totally different energy.
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  And when you do it from the place of this is a desire and this is fun, and it's in alignment with the purpose, then it's not a big deal and you can more easily stick to things.
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  So I'm gonna teach a practice right now to help you start getting in tune with what it is that you actually want.
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  So one of the things that you can do to manifest from more of a feminine way is actually get in tune with your body and let your body tell you what your desires are.
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  Because what most of us do is that we will go into a new year and it's all based on logic and it's all based on solving problems.
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  The logic is.
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  Oh, I'm upset with my man.
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  He needs to change.
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  I need to change him.
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  Or the logic is, I'm fat.
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  I need to go lose 10 pounds.
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  Or the logic is, I'm sick.
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  I need to get healthy.
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  Or the logic is I am in debt, so I need to go make more money.
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  Or the logic is, I hate my job.
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  I need to go figure out a business.
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  Right?
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  But these are all problems that you are trying to solve.
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  And the only, and the masculine is really good at solving problems.
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  What the feminine is really good at is finding a way to her desires and magnetizing them to her.
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  It is completely different energy, and the way that you get to that energy is by putting a hand on your heart and a hand on your belly breathing.
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  Inhale, and then exhale longer than your inhale.
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  And the reason why we put a hand on our heart and a hand on our belly is because it'll help release oxytocin and let your body know that you're safe.
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  Do that a few more times.
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  And ask yourself the magic question, how do I want to feel in 2026?
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  And from that place, your desires are going to start being known to you.
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  And from that place, you are figuring out what those desires are from a place of grounding, not from a place of hype, and not from a place of trying to solve problems.
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  And when you do that from a place of feminine energy, it is so much more sustainable and so much more fun.
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  And that one question, how do I want to feel in 2026 will rewire your entire year.
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  Hit the notification bell and also sign up for our email list, because next week I'm gonna be opening up a beautiful portal to help women who are ready to rise through ease and not exhaustion.
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  In 2026, I'm going to be offering something that I haven't offered in.
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  Years and I'm so excited to do it from this new space.
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  And I will be letting the email list know first.
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  So make sure to sign up for the email list and then, in signing up for the email list, you'll get our free enhanced your Feminine Energy Guide automatically and get added to our email list.
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  Then it's the email list, and then finally YouTube.
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  So next week we have something really delicious coming out to help you become more magnetic in 2026, and again, help you rise from ease and desire and not exhaustion and trying to solve problems.
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  Thank you so much for giving me your time today, and I'll catch you on the next one.