Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / Female Firsts: Moms Mabley
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Steph.
- 0:07Speaker 1: I never told your production of I Heart Radio. It
- 0:18Speaker 1: is time for another female first, which means we are
- 0:21Speaker 1: once again joined by our good friend Eves High. Eves, Hello,
- 0:27Speaker 1: oh man. We're always excited to see you. I know
- 0:30Speaker 1: I'm excited to It always felt like a celebration. It does.
- 0:34Speaker 1: It does, And even though we're still you know, we
- 0:36Speaker 1: had our one brief cheesecake champagne moment from the studio
- 0:40Speaker 1: in person. Other than that we're still coming from our
- 0:44Speaker 1: home studios, it does feel like, oh yeah, we get
- 0:47Speaker 1: to see each other again, and it is a celebration.
- 0:49Speaker 1: I totally agree. And we just had a rousing discussion
- 0:54Speaker 1: about horror movies, which I'm very excited about because for
- 0:58Speaker 1: a while we were doing like horror movie reviews at
- 1:01Speaker 1: the beginning of these we stopped that pretty quick, but
- 1:07Speaker 1: season so it's allowable now. I mean, I'm ready all
- 1:10Speaker 1: the time. But yes, I suppose not everyone is into
- 1:14Speaker 1: not everyone's into Heart. That's cool. But uh, not to
- 1:18Speaker 1: tease you listeners and then not tell you what we
- 1:21Speaker 1: were talking about. But I did want to ask you, Eves,
- 1:23Speaker 1: because we also a long time ago we talked about
- 1:25Speaker 1: like talent shows and kind of infamous talent shows in
- 1:31Speaker 1: our lives, and you are an excellent writer and performer, Um,
- 1:37Speaker 1: do you still do you get nervous when you're performing
- 1:41Speaker 1: in front of people? And I mean, is that something
- 1:44Speaker 1: you've always been into from like childhood? Still get nervous?
- 1:49Speaker 1: I usually moderate that by breathing, Like breathing has been
- 1:53Speaker 1: a thing that's really helped me. But I'm one percent
- 1:56Speaker 1: nervous and I was not. I don't, historically do not
- 2:00Speaker 1: like being in front of people. Like I'm a very
- 2:03Speaker 1: what people would think of as a like stereotypical writer. Um.
- 2:09Speaker 1: And that's like I wanted to be in the closet
- 2:11Speaker 1: all day long, which I guess is like in podcasting
- 2:13Speaker 1: we can be in closets now, so it kind of
- 2:15Speaker 1: works out true. I don't like to be the center
- 2:19Speaker 1: of attention at all. I don't like to be in
- 2:22Speaker 1: front of crowds. Crowds really freaked me out, So I guess, honestly,
- 2:26Speaker 1: like now that I'm thinking about it, that one talent
- 2:28Speaker 1: show that I did when I was a kid was
- 2:30Speaker 1: kind of me stepping out on a limb, because you know,
- 2:33Speaker 1: I was always into like the arts and forms of storytelling.
- 2:35Speaker 1: It was like in mild place, like nothing serious or anything.
- 2:39Speaker 1: But I did do like performance things, but it was
- 2:42Speaker 1: never something that I was like, this is my time
- 2:44Speaker 1: to shine. I'm in the spotlight. This is where I'm
- 2:46Speaker 1: meant to be. Like never that for sure. I like
- 2:52Speaker 1: that you wait for a pose in this in this telling.
- 2:56Speaker 1: I like that to embody that and that was not
- 3:00Speaker 1: what I was. Yeah, I still get really nervous too.
- 3:05Speaker 1: I find this really interesting about performing for me is
- 3:11Speaker 1: I'm both very nervous and I also really love it.
- 3:15Speaker 1: But it's it's very It sounds silly to say, but
- 3:19Speaker 1: I love it. When it's going well. It's not going well,
- 3:24Speaker 1: I'm like, never again shall I do this thing? But
- 3:28Speaker 1: when you have that like synergy and vibe with an audience,
- 3:32Speaker 1: the nerves can kind of work in my favor, I think,
- 3:35Speaker 1: and I do really enjoy it. But it's something that
- 3:37Speaker 1: every time I ask myself, why am I doing this?
- 3:40Speaker 1: This is I'm so scared, I'm so miserable. Why am
- 3:43Speaker 1: I doing that? Yeah, I think in the same way,
- 3:47Speaker 1: it's that like the anticipation is what gets me, Like
- 3:51Speaker 1: I get sleepless the night before whenever, and knowing that
- 3:55Speaker 1: something is coming, and then I black out during often,
- 3:59Speaker 1: especially if it's like us giving speeches or having panels
- 4:02Speaker 1: and such anything like that, I black out like wait
- 4:06Speaker 1: did I did I do? Okay, what did I say?
- 4:08Speaker 1: What did I say? Can someone tell me? And I
- 4:11Speaker 1: feel like during that time, I definitely respond to people's
- 4:15Speaker 1: reaction to me. So if I can get one or
- 4:16Speaker 1: two good responses, then I'll focus on that, which is
- 4:20Speaker 1: why you plant people in the audience. That's my new discoveries.
- 4:23Speaker 1: At least planting people like you have to laugh at
- 4:25Speaker 1: some of the things that I said, please, or I
- 4:29Speaker 1: might pass out the fact, you know, being like okay,
- 4:32Speaker 1: I did it, and feel like I did something really huge,
- 4:35Speaker 1: as if I just ran a marathon. Because of that
- 4:36Speaker 1: will hide and then I'm like okay, I mean planting
- 4:42Speaker 1: sounds so nefarious. It could also just be you have
- 4:45Speaker 1: supporters for sure to be there. Yeah, I didn't threaten
- 4:51Speaker 1: the life or promise drinks or something one of those things.
- 4:58Speaker 1: The reward of the feedback and the gratification that comes
- 5:01Speaker 1: from the audience response is definitely something that helps. But
- 5:05Speaker 1: um I it's not something that I would run towards,
- 5:09Speaker 1: you know, like it's like I can do it, and
- 5:11Speaker 1: it's great, and it's definitely rewarding. And I think one
- 5:14Speaker 1: of the things about it is to like, if it's
- 5:16Speaker 1: something that I've like, if it's something that I've created,
- 5:21Speaker 1: it's really rewarding to share it with people and to
- 5:24Speaker 1: be like, yeah, there's this thing that I did that
- 5:27Speaker 1: came from my own weird mind mills and from my
- 5:31Speaker 1: own hands. And there are other people that are getting
- 5:35Speaker 1: something out of this enough to be able to make
- 5:37Speaker 1: voices or you know, look like they're enjoying themselves in
- 5:42Speaker 1: some way. But being solo, like having someone else there,
- 5:46Speaker 1: it's also very helpful being solo when all the lights,
- 5:51Speaker 1: the glory and the pressure is just on me. That
- 5:53Speaker 1: also definitely makes it a lot more difficult for some reason.
- 5:59Speaker 1: You know, you have those memories that just come back
- 6:01Speaker 1: and torment you and you're like why why. When I
- 6:04Speaker 1: was a kid, I used to give comedy shows to
- 6:07Speaker 1: a very you know, unwilling audience of my family, and
- 6:11Speaker 1: I remember I went through this phase where I told
- 6:14Speaker 1: knock knock jokes, but I clearly didn't understand the setup
- 6:17Speaker 1: of knock knock jokes. And so one of the jokes
- 6:20Speaker 1: I told was like, knock knock, who's their garbage truck?
- 6:24Speaker 1: Garbage truck? Qu oh, it smells like that was the joke. Um,
- 6:29Speaker 1: And for some reason that joke caught me. It worked,
- 6:34Speaker 1: It worked everything, and my older brother was like, that's
- 6:41Speaker 1: not funny, and my mom was like, yeah, at least
- 6:46Speaker 1: your mom was supportive. She was very, very very supportive.
- 6:49Speaker 1: I have dabbled in like comedy and improv in that level,
- 6:53Speaker 1: and I don't think. I think I just get so
- 6:55Speaker 1: nervous and timing is so key in comedy. But I
- 6:57Speaker 1: did enjoy like that feeling of making people and like
- 7:00Speaker 1: they were connecting to you. My bad knock knock jokes aside,
- 7:03Speaker 1: But I wanted to bring this up because you brought
- 7:07Speaker 1: somebody that I actually have heard of and I'm very
- 7:09Speaker 1: excited to talk about. Yes, so who did you bring
- 7:13Speaker 1: for us today? Eves? Today is Mom's maybe, which is
- 7:17Speaker 1: not her real name. Her real name is Loretta Mary Aiken,
- 7:20Speaker 1: but she is famously known as Moms Mayblye And yeah,
- 7:26Speaker 1: so what was your what was y'all's if any I
- 7:29Speaker 1: don't know Samantha if you're familiar with her before but Annie,
- 7:32Speaker 1: what was your relationship to Mom's. Maybe I had definitely
- 7:38Speaker 1: seen some things that had her in it when I
- 7:41Speaker 1: was growing up, and it was one of those things
- 7:44Speaker 1: where my dad he liked a lot of and this
- 7:48Speaker 1: is also just when he grew up, but to me
- 7:50Speaker 1: old older things, so he would constantly be watching them,
- 7:54Speaker 1: and I remember seeing and hearing some of moms maybe. However,
- 8:00Speaker 1: here I'm not sure I would have recognized the name
- 8:05Speaker 1: other than I had seen marvelous Mrs Mazel recently, and
- 8:09Speaker 1: when I saw that, I was like, oh, yeah, I
- 8:11Speaker 1: know who that is, and it just like brought al
- 8:13Speaker 1: these things back. So it was from like a young age,
- 8:16Speaker 1: and then there was a long period where I hadn't
- 8:19Speaker 1: seen anything or heard anything from her or about her.
- 8:22Speaker 1: And then when I saw that Wanda Pyke says, mom,
- 8:25Speaker 1: Maples on marvelous Mrs Mazel, that's a lot of him,
- 8:31Speaker 1: it all kind of came back to me. So I'm
- 8:33Speaker 1: very happy. I was happy to look more into her,
- 8:36Speaker 1: and I'm happy that we were talking about her today.
- 8:39Speaker 1: Did you have a history with her, Eves? No, I didn't,
- 8:43Speaker 1: and I I think, and just backing up a little bit,
- 8:47Speaker 1: like Mom's Mayblee is a she's a comedian, like, did
- 8:51Speaker 1: a lot of work on stage and in the Vaultville circuit.
- 8:54Speaker 1: She was also in films and appeared on television. Such,
- 8:56Speaker 1: she had a huge, like rise to stardom, but you know,
- 9:00Speaker 1: didn't necessarily garner a lot of recognition before that time
- 9:04Speaker 1: when she was really popping and did mention of her
- 9:07Speaker 1: and recognition of her and her legacy did kind of
- 9:11Speaker 1: dwindle a little bit after she passed away. But no,
- 9:14Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't have much of a relationship to
- 9:18Speaker 1: mom's maybe, but I'm super glad that I learned a
- 9:21Speaker 1: lot more about her because she had her hand in
- 9:24Speaker 1: so many pots, Like she was a part of so
- 9:28Speaker 1: many different fascinating cultural, musical, storytelling realms and clearly clearly
- 9:38Speaker 1: has influence and had such a big hand and being
- 9:40Speaker 1: a pioneer in comedy. Um, but it's not it's I
- 9:44Speaker 1: didn't know a ton about her story, and I'm really
- 9:47Speaker 1: grateful that I got to learn more about the history
- 9:49Speaker 1: that she was in because it's so integral to things
- 9:52Speaker 1: that I care about, like you know, the Harlem Renaissance
- 9:55Speaker 1: and storytelling and music. Um, so yeah, excited to talk
- 10:01Speaker 1: about her today. Yeah, yeah, me too, Me too. And
- 10:04Speaker 1: there's a lot to go over because, as you said,
- 10:06Speaker 1: she had her hands in a lot of pots. She
- 10:08Speaker 1: had quite the life and quite the impact. So why
- 10:13Speaker 1: don't we get started. Let's let's so first, I guess
- 10:17Speaker 1: we'll talk about her first, which was that ninety nine
- 10:20Speaker 1: she became the first female comedian to appear as a
- 10:23Speaker 1: solo act at the Apollo Theater. It was in Harlem,
- 10:27Speaker 1: and it was really noted for all of the black
- 10:29Speaker 1: performers who launched their careers there early on, and she
- 10:34Speaker 1: did a lot of work in advocating for civil rights
- 10:36Speaker 1: through her comedy. Um really kind of merged social issues
- 10:40Speaker 1: and political issues with the comedy that she was doing.
- 10:44Speaker 1: First first was really catering to black audiences, and then
- 10:49Speaker 1: later on moved on into white audiences, and that's kind
- 10:52Speaker 1: of where her mainstream I guess you would call it
- 10:55Speaker 1: success came into play. And then the other big thing
- 10:58Speaker 1: about her story was the speculation around her sexuality, around
- 11:03Speaker 1: her queerness, around her like being gay. I think some
- 11:07Speaker 1: people have called her the first out lesbian comedian, but
- 11:11Speaker 1: it's reported that she had relationships with men and women,
- 11:14Speaker 1: and she wasn't really open about her personal life a
- 11:17Speaker 1: ton and interviews, although she did reference sex a lot,
- 11:23Speaker 1: like sex and sexuality and her performances, and it's something
- 11:28Speaker 1: that was really subversive in many ways. So that's one
- 11:33Speaker 1: of those things in her story that has been speculated about.
- 11:36Speaker 1: And I think it's really nice to try to put
- 11:38Speaker 1: a label on things and and and make it, you know,
- 11:41Speaker 1: something that is a standout in her biography. But I
- 11:46Speaker 1: will note that on the subject of sexuality, just to
- 11:50Speaker 1: put a content warning here, because there is mention of
- 11:52Speaker 1: sexual violence in today's episode, so um, just wanted to
- 11:56Speaker 1: make note of that up front. Yeah, and I I
- 12:00Speaker 1: can't wait till we talk about because I'm always so
- 12:02Speaker 1: fascinated when people are able to kind of have these
- 12:06Speaker 1: juxtapositions that they embody and make into art. And you know,
- 12:10Speaker 1: one of hers was she kind of like the as
- 12:14Speaker 1: the name's moms might imply. She kind of presented this
- 12:17Speaker 1: very like what we would say is, you know, almost
- 12:21Speaker 1: desexualized motherly figure, and she would be very sexual her
- 12:29Speaker 1: in her performance, which yeah, I mean comedy I find
- 12:33Speaker 1: I find really fascinating and powerful in a lot of ways.
- 12:35Speaker 1: In the commentary, it can make so Yeah, I'm excited.
- 12:39Speaker 1: I'm excited to dig into that. Yeah. So we'll start
- 12:57Speaker 1: when she was born, which was some time between eighteen
- 13:00Speaker 1: ninety four and eighteen nineties seven in Brevard, North Carolina.
- 13:04Speaker 1: There's a year discrepancy because we don't know when she
- 13:07Speaker 1: was exactly born, but she did say in an Ebony
- 13:10Speaker 1: article that when it comes to her age, moms is
- 13:13Speaker 1: as evasive as a hostile Watergate witness. Signs of the times.
- 13:17Speaker 1: There are a lot of signs of the times in
- 13:18Speaker 1: her performances, obviously because she was performing a specific time,
- 13:22Speaker 1: but she was also talking about so much topical, so
- 13:25Speaker 1: many topical things in her work that you know, it's
- 13:27Speaker 1: often dated like that. But she she didn't tell specific
- 13:33Speaker 1: details of her life to a lot of interviewers, and
- 13:36Speaker 1: her parents died when she was really young. She was
- 13:39Speaker 1: mostly raised by her grandmother, and she was raped by
- 13:44Speaker 1: two men in her community, and by age fifteen she
- 13:46Speaker 1: had given birth to children whom she placed for adoption,
- 13:50Speaker 1: and later in life she did have more children. So
- 13:55Speaker 1: she began her performance career at age fourteen. She was
- 14:00Speaker 1: helping her family out. She joined a minstrel troupe which
- 14:03Speaker 1: was that toured across the United States, which was a
- 14:05Speaker 1: big thing at the time. Um she first started for
- 14:09Speaker 1: black performers and what was available to them where they
- 14:12Speaker 1: could actually go to perform and make money for it.
- 14:14Speaker 1: Um was within these black spaces. So when she first
- 14:17Speaker 1: started performing, she included singing and dancing in her ax
- 14:22Speaker 1: Um and she performed with people like blues singer Bessie
- 14:26Speaker 1: Smith multiple times and growing up, she moved up the
- 14:31Speaker 1: Eastern Coast and moved to Ohio. She met a performer
- 14:34Speaker 1: there named Bonnie Bell Drew and she encouraged her to
- 14:38Speaker 1: go into show business. She ended up going to Pittsburgh
- 14:41Speaker 1: got a role in a traveling play called The Rich
- 14:44Speaker 1: from Utah. It's kind of like the rest is history.
- 14:46Speaker 1: She started her career and performance pretty early and just
- 14:49Speaker 1: never stopped. Never Um and she had a really long career.
- 14:54Speaker 1: Like that's another big part of her story. So she
- 14:58Speaker 1: changed her name to Jackie Maybe when she went to
- 15:01Speaker 1: show business. The story is that a family member didn't
- 15:05Speaker 1: want the family name Akin to be attributed or associated
- 15:08Speaker 1: with show business, so that's why she changed her name
- 15:11Speaker 1: to Jackie Mayblei. But obviously from there she later went
- 15:14Speaker 1: on to be called Moms but there's a lot of
- 15:17Speaker 1: her work that is from before that that is not
- 15:19Speaker 1: within that persona to which she's attributed Jackie Babley. But um, yeah,
- 15:25Speaker 1: that and that name is said to be attributed to
- 15:27Speaker 1: the performer Jack Maybley, who was an acquaintance of hers,
- 15:30Speaker 1: and she once said about him, he took a lot
- 15:32Speaker 1: off me. The least I could do was take the name,
- 15:36Speaker 1: which that is time very funny. I'm gonna figure out
- 15:39Speaker 1: how how I can be repaid, and naming is so important,
- 15:42Speaker 1: and I'm just like, well, that's that's actually very meaningful
- 15:45Speaker 1: because her name is a big deal. That's true. And
- 15:49Speaker 1: especially I mean at the time there wasn't like Google,
- 15:51Speaker 1: but now he was Googling. You might help them boost theirselves,
- 15:58Speaker 1: thinking like a true millennial. That's right, not a shame
- 16:05Speaker 1: shouted the Google era, that's right. Um. She moved to
- 16:10Speaker 1: New York in the early twenties and in the nineteen
- 16:14Speaker 1: thirties and forties. This is when she was performing Voughtville
- 16:17Speaker 1: sketches and monologues on the Chipland Circuit, which was a
- 16:21Speaker 1: group of performance venues where black entertainers were welcome to
- 16:24Speaker 1: perform in the gym curl era, so She was a
- 16:28Speaker 1: regular in black theater reviews in Harlem in the nineteen thirties,
- 16:33Speaker 1: and she was putting in work, so she opened for
- 16:36Speaker 1: orchestras at places like the Cotton Club and the savoy Um.
- 16:40Speaker 1: She worked with is Ra'neil Harston on the nineteen thirty
- 16:43Speaker 1: one Broadway show Fast and Furious, a colored review in
- 16:47Speaker 1: thirty seven scenes. It would take forever if we just
- 16:49Speaker 1: sit here and listed all the things that she did,
- 16:51Speaker 1: But she did a lot of work in that right now.
- 16:55Speaker 1: She was also featured in films, so the all black
- 16:59Speaker 1: cast films really popular at the time that were kind
- 17:01Speaker 1: of catered to black audiences. Some of those films were
- 17:04Speaker 1: the big timers, Boarding House Blues and Killer Diller. In
- 17:09Speaker 1: the forties, and by that decade she was also performing
- 17:12Speaker 1: stand up comedy, and like we said it talked about
- 17:15Speaker 1: the top like she really helped builds the genre. Like
- 17:19Speaker 1: she was very integral and a pioneer in terms of
- 17:22Speaker 1: the growth of the genre and the type of stand
- 17:25Speaker 1: up that she was doing, where she had this social
- 17:28Speaker 1: and political commentary. Under the guidance of the Vauteville team
- 17:32Speaker 1: butter Beans and Susie, she developed Moms as a solo act,
- 17:36Speaker 1: and this was the act that she's the most famous for.
- 17:40Speaker 1: She became the only woman on the TOBA circuit, and
- 17:43Speaker 1: TOBA just stands for Theater Owners Booking Association. That was
- 17:47Speaker 1: a vaulteville circuit that a lot of black performers went to.
- 17:50Speaker 1: So she was the only woman on the Toba circuit
- 17:52Speaker 1: to perform comedy without a male counterpart. And as her
- 17:57Speaker 1: mom's act, she wore a house stress. This is this
- 18:01Speaker 1: is you. So you can see this in a lot
- 18:03Speaker 1: of places. You'll see it on her album covers. You
- 18:07Speaker 1: can go and listen to her work right now. It's
- 18:10Speaker 1: on streaming, you can go watch it, you can watch
- 18:11Speaker 1: her film. So a lot of the fortunate thing is
- 18:14Speaker 1: that there's a lot of her worker is out there
- 18:16Speaker 1: for us to like be witness to today, which is
- 18:19Speaker 1: not always the case. So that's a big privilege. But
- 18:22Speaker 1: she wore a house dress, floppy shoes, nick cap as
- 18:27Speaker 1: her persona that was mom's. And she once said about
- 18:31Speaker 1: the name moms that I'm just a mom. A child
- 18:34Speaker 1: is born and it ain't no good nowhere, no how
- 18:37Speaker 1: without a mom. I'm that mom. People talked about how
- 18:42Speaker 1: it's said that her the nickname Moms came from the
- 18:44Speaker 1: fact that she was super protective of the performers that
- 18:48Speaker 1: she was surrounded with, and so she kind of had
- 18:50Speaker 1: that caring persona, which was just a persona. It was.
- 18:55Speaker 1: It was just that. And I know that you mentioned
- 19:00Speaker 1: the Annie the kind of the discrepant fees are dichotomies
- 19:05Speaker 1: between these roles that she was playing, just out of curiosity,
- 19:09Speaker 1: like what did you think when you saw the role
- 19:12Speaker 1: that she was playing and knowing I guess a little
- 19:15Speaker 1: bit about how that wasn't It was completely a persona
- 19:17Speaker 1: made up and it wasn't who she was necessarily in
- 19:19Speaker 1: that moment. Right. So when I I my first memories
- 19:23Speaker 1: of this, I was pretty young, and her acts, for
- 19:26Speaker 1: people who haven't listened to it, can get quite what's
- 19:29Speaker 1: the word a lot of people use, ribald, Like I
- 19:32Speaker 1: can get pretty. H I don't want to say scandalous,
- 19:36Speaker 1: but that is a word that people would use, is like, oh,
- 19:39Speaker 1: this older woman, this older black woman is talking about
- 19:42Speaker 1: like how she wants to have sex with younger men
- 19:46Speaker 1: or whatever. So I think a lot of that went
- 19:49Speaker 1: over my head as a young person, but I remember
- 19:54Speaker 1: thinking that I I really loved there was something about
- 19:59Speaker 1: like this just willingness to embrace that and too, and
- 20:05Speaker 1: people laughing at it, and me knowing like, this isn't
- 20:09Speaker 1: like I haven't seen something like this, or this isn't
- 20:11Speaker 1: quote unquote like regular lady like behavior, but she's going
- 20:16Speaker 1: against it and people think it's funny. And so for
- 20:19Speaker 1: that I found that That's one of the things, Like
- 20:21Speaker 1: it's not like I remember particular act necessarily, but I
- 20:25Speaker 1: just remember watching it and feeling like almost oliberated, almost
- 20:30Speaker 1: like wow, this is somebody who's doing this and getting
- 20:33Speaker 1: laughs and it's not what women usually do, and it
- 20:38Speaker 1: felt I don't want to attribute this necessarily to her,
- 20:42Speaker 1: but to me it felt like a really like brave
- 20:44Speaker 1: and kind of I don't know, like inspired. I don't
- 20:47Speaker 1: know it was weird. I just remember watching it and
- 20:49Speaker 1: thinking it was funny, even though I didn't get it
- 20:52Speaker 1: because because it felt so new to me. I guess
- 20:56Speaker 1: maybe I don't know if I'm explaining it well, but yeah,
- 20:59Speaker 1: I follow you. Yeah, that's that's what I remember the most,
- 21:02Speaker 1: is thinking like she shouldn't be talking about that she is, yes,
- 21:08Speaker 1: and it was disarming. She did go on later talk
- 21:11Speaker 1: about how much of her life she spent as this persona,
- 21:15Speaker 1: so she started it before she was the age that
- 21:18Speaker 1: she was portraying, which was on the more elderly side.
- 21:21Speaker 1: She was playing in her younger and middle aged years,
- 21:26Speaker 1: and she later does talk about how she didn't regret
- 21:31Speaker 1: how long she played it, like she was fulfilled by it,
- 21:36Speaker 1: but it did feel a little weird when she all
- 21:38Speaker 1: actually got to the age that she was portraying and
- 21:40Speaker 1: she was still doing act. But it was disarming to
- 21:44Speaker 1: a lot of people. Initially it was she was performing
- 21:47Speaker 1: as moms for black audiences and she was still challenging
- 21:51Speaker 1: what was deemed appropriate for a black woman to say
- 21:54Speaker 1: in public and on stage. And you know this, it was,
- 21:58Speaker 1: it was created. It was is a creative persona. Her
- 22:01Speaker 1: her comedy was often fictionalized, so the story she was
- 22:06Speaker 1: we're telling were stories and she made. She did satirical songs,
- 22:12Speaker 1: so based on real songs, she would insert her own
- 22:16Speaker 1: narratives about uh, you know, younger men a lot of
- 22:20Speaker 1: the time and not liking older men. Um these fictional
- 22:24Speaker 1: relationships that she had, fictional events and occurrences like dealings
- 22:29Speaker 1: that she had with the White House. UM. So a
- 22:32Speaker 1: lot of her stories as well that she was telling
- 22:35Speaker 1: on stage and her performances just were made up. She
- 22:40Speaker 1: was never married, but the persona of Moms was in
- 22:43Speaker 1: her routines. Um. But she credited her sense of humor
- 22:47Speaker 1: to her grandmother on the nineteen sixty four album The
- 22:50Speaker 1: Funny Sides of Moms Mablie. She did talk a lot
- 22:54Speaker 1: about um, like she didn't after she began performing on
- 22:58Speaker 1: the Toba circuit. She didn't live but low the Mason
- 23:00Speaker 1: Dixon line again. Um. She would say things like she
- 23:04Speaker 1: would refer to the South as that other country or
- 23:07Speaker 1: a foreign country. Is clear and for obvious reasons. You
- 23:11Speaker 1: know why she would derive the region like that, after
- 23:14Speaker 1: her background and what she went through herself, and knowing
- 23:17Speaker 1: also being so conscious of the civil rights issues and
- 23:22Speaker 1: clearly the type of person to take a very vocal
- 23:24Speaker 1: stand against them, why she would have that kind of
- 23:28Speaker 1: portrayal of the South. Even in her work, and she
- 23:32Speaker 1: a lot of her work with satire, she would talk
- 23:34Speaker 1: about gender and race and war. And she even said
- 23:38Speaker 1: in one interview, the things I record, very few of
- 23:41Speaker 1: them are jokes. And then what's funny though, like if
- 23:45Speaker 1: you go I still laugh at them today because you know,
- 23:48Speaker 1: stuff can stuff can get dated, and you know, everybody
- 23:53Speaker 1: since the humor isn't for every person. But I genuinely
- 23:56Speaker 1: find myself laughing out loud to a lot of her
- 23:59Speaker 1: jokes and just thinking of how some of them were
- 24:03Speaker 1: coded into where they were insular jokes. They were inside
- 24:06Speaker 1: jokes for a lot of black people. But she was
- 24:08Speaker 1: also able to have such a widespread audience, like so
- 24:13Speaker 1: many different type of people in her audience over time,
- 24:15Speaker 1: and that that was, you know, a testament to the
- 24:19Speaker 1: work that she was doing. She her criticisms and her
- 24:22Speaker 1: challenges were really layered into her humor and her songs,
- 24:25Speaker 1: and a lot of them may have seemed really absurd
- 24:29Speaker 1: and ridiculous on their face, and also including her delivery.
- 24:32Speaker 1: So I can't do her delivery right now for you,
- 24:35Speaker 1: but like, after listening to this, you can go and
- 24:38Speaker 1: check out some of her work and just you know,
- 24:42Speaker 1: see how her delivery was, what her vocal quality was.
- 24:45Speaker 1: She had kind of this raspy voice on the deeper side,
- 24:49Speaker 1: but you know her, she had a very specific way
- 24:52Speaker 1: of of delivering the messages, and her messages were often
- 24:56Speaker 1: ones of protest and yeah, so that was that was
- 25:01Speaker 1: a through line in her work. She first appeared on
- 25:16Speaker 1: Final in the nineteen fifty six, Van Guard Records released
- 25:19Speaker 1: A Night at the Apollo, and this was around the
- 25:24Speaker 1: time that she really blew up in the nineteen sixties.
- 25:26Speaker 1: That was a time when comedy albums were also garnering
- 25:29Speaker 1: a lot of steam, and she became a household name.
- 25:33Speaker 1: So she signed with Chess Records and she released her
- 25:36Speaker 1: first solo comedy album, Mom's. Mainly on stage, she was
- 25:42Speaker 1: famous for her live shows and mostly northern U. S. Cities,
- 25:47Speaker 1: and she appeared on a lot of TV shows like
- 25:50Speaker 1: The Smothers Brothers Comedy Our, The MERV Griffin Show, The
- 25:54Speaker 1: Sullivan Show, on ABC's Music Scene and and others. So
- 26:00Speaker 1: her audiences were becoming a lot more white, and her
- 26:04Speaker 1: non threatening persona as this matron lee person who was
- 26:09Speaker 1: dressed a certain way, who didn't appear to be sexualized,
- 26:13Speaker 1: um and you know, but was saying a lot of
- 26:18Speaker 1: sexual things. It was an approachable persona for a lot
- 26:21Speaker 1: of people. So it was a way of easing a
- 26:27Speaker 1: lot of the messages that she was actually talking about.
- 26:31Speaker 1: And it's like things like segregation and war, and she
- 26:36Speaker 1: was saying stuff that was so heavy and loaded and political,
- 26:43Speaker 1: and people were laughing like they were hysterical. They were
- 26:48Speaker 1: you know. Her audiences responded really well to the things
- 26:51Speaker 1: that she was saying, and she got a lot of
- 26:52Speaker 1: love and a lot of applause when she would come out.
- 26:55Speaker 1: And that's even though she did become more overtly political
- 27:00Speaker 1: in the later years of her career. She did speak
- 27:04Speaker 1: out about how little progress there have been for the
- 27:08Speaker 1: visibility of black comedians and black representation on television, so
- 27:14Speaker 1: things that are still being talked about to this day.
- 27:16Speaker 1: She talked about the consciousness of that that so many
- 27:20Speaker 1: of us black folks have in the US. Of that
- 27:23Speaker 1: going back to that duplicity, that dichotomy of being both
- 27:28Speaker 1: like the the state of being desired and shunned at
- 27:32Speaker 1: the same time. Is a lot that went into it.
- 27:34Speaker 1: And she did say once a white man loves the
- 27:37Speaker 1: negro until he gets what he wants from him. But
- 27:41Speaker 1: she was popular. She acknowledged how much heart, work and
- 27:46Speaker 1: practice that she put into it. It wasn't just about
- 27:49Speaker 1: her talent. She talked about how much training she had,
- 27:52Speaker 1: how many theaters she was in, how much she rehearsed.
- 27:56Speaker 1: You know, she acknowledged how much work that you put
- 28:00Speaker 1: into her getting to the place where she was, even
- 28:03Speaker 1: if some of the things that she may have wanted
- 28:05Speaker 1: to happen didn't happen as soon as she wanted them to,
- 28:08Speaker 1: so she had She released a lot of albums over
- 28:12Speaker 1: the course of her career. She did things like she
- 28:14Speaker 1: performed at the Sing Sing Correctional Facility in nineteen seventy
- 28:20Speaker 1: and her last album was I Like Them Young, which
- 28:24Speaker 1: was released in nineteen seventy two. Her last TV appearance
- 28:28Speaker 1: was as a prisoner at the nineteen seventy three Grammys,
- 28:31Speaker 1: which was pretty funny. And there are, like I said earlier,
- 28:34Speaker 1: there are a bunch of recordings of her work that
- 28:37Speaker 1: are available today, so you can go watch her TV
- 28:40Speaker 1: appearances and films and stand up and she was also
- 28:45Speaker 1: on the cover of the January three, nineteen seventy four
- 28:48Speaker 1: issue of Jet magazine and a future called Mom's Maybe
- 28:51Speaker 1: Raps about old Women Young Love. And she was also
- 29:01Speaker 1: in the film Amazing Grace in nineteen seventy four, which
- 29:03Speaker 1: was very near the end of her life, but it
- 29:07Speaker 1: was her first starring role in a major film. She
- 29:11Speaker 1: had a heart attack while she was filming Amazing Grace,
- 29:14Speaker 1: and she got a pacemaker, and she returned to filming
- 29:17Speaker 1: after having that during the course of filming, but it
- 29:20Speaker 1: did lead to her declining health. That said, she had
- 29:25Speaker 1: no plans of slowing down, and she wanted to stay
- 29:27Speaker 1: in show business. She died in nineteen seventy five in
- 29:31Speaker 1: her home and great plans New York and Dick Gregory
- 29:34Speaker 1: gave ulogy at her funeral. Was beloved like she people
- 29:39Speaker 1: did recognize the work and her importance in the field,
- 29:43Speaker 1: and she set the stage for future black feminist comics.
- 29:46Speaker 1: Like she really emerged joy and resistance in her performance.
- 29:51Speaker 1: I think those were, like you said earlier, any like
- 29:53Speaker 1: perfect way to put it, Like there were so many
- 29:55Speaker 1: things that were that may have seemed antithetical that she
- 29:59Speaker 1: did in her work. There is a quote by the
- 30:02Speaker 1: author Caitlyn hell Would in the book Cracking Up Black
- 30:05Speaker 1: Feminist Comedy in the twentieth and twenty first century United
- 30:08Speaker 1: States that um I wanted to share. She said in
- 30:12Speaker 1: the book, Moms was funny to audiences because she spoke
- 30:15Speaker 1: the kinds of truths characteristic of older family and community members,
- 30:19Speaker 1: and because she strayed from the many other roles that
- 30:22Speaker 1: older women are expected to occupy. In white ages, in
- 30:25Speaker 1: hetero sexist frameworks. So she was she was really subversive
- 30:30Speaker 1: in a lot of ways. But she was also a
- 30:32Speaker 1: lot of fun. You know, she was full of joy.
- 30:34Speaker 1: You can just tell in her interviews, the written ones,
- 30:38Speaker 1: and in her work itself that she just had so
- 30:40Speaker 1: much she was full of so much life, and that
- 30:44Speaker 1: she was having fun and doing what she was doing.
- 30:46Speaker 1: And of course that's a huge joy to watch and
- 30:49Speaker 1: to listen to and to be able to bear witness
- 30:51Speaker 1: to today. Yeah, long, long, very long career. Yeah, for sure.
- 30:55Speaker 1: And I I'm just so impressed whenever anybody can find
- 31:01Speaker 1: a way to to combine, like I really do think
- 31:08Speaker 1: comedy can be something very powerful in a way to
- 31:12Speaker 1: get people to listen more and to have these like
- 31:16Speaker 1: deeper edgeyer conversations and and have like these forms of protests.
- 31:21Speaker 1: And the fact that she was able to make it
- 31:24Speaker 1: look easy, even though, as you said, she practiced a
- 31:26Speaker 1: lot and really put her time into it and had
- 31:29Speaker 1: fun doing it and then was making people laugh and
- 31:33Speaker 1: people were connecting with her, and that she had this
- 31:38Speaker 1: long lasting impact, I just think it's so impressive. I
- 31:43Speaker 1: really really think that's amazing. Yeah, she influenced a lot
- 31:46Speaker 1: of comedy. I was the first thing I thought of,
- 31:48Speaker 1: and it makes so much more sense to me. Is
- 31:50Speaker 1: like the Carol Burnett Show and The Mama's Family Show,
- 31:54Speaker 1: which was based on a comedy a woman who was
- 31:57Speaker 1: fairly young dressing up as a grand mom majorn league
- 32:01Speaker 1: character and just being sassy essentially, and that's the whole thing.
- 32:06Speaker 1: And she started that. She began that. I can't imagine
- 32:09Speaker 1: her having to figure out the best persona for her
- 32:13Speaker 1: to fit, but at the same time, as you said,
- 32:15Speaker 1: kind of have that dichotomy in order to kind of
- 32:18Speaker 1: shock and make it seem unassuming of what she's going
- 32:20Speaker 1: to talk about or what she's going to bring out,
- 32:23Speaker 1: and then doing it as one of the first females,
- 32:25Speaker 1: first women to be in this industry, which is still
- 32:28Speaker 1: hard to break into. It's still hard to get any
- 32:31Speaker 1: respect that today, and doing that and breaking the mold
- 32:35Speaker 1: and being on all of these huge shows during a
- 32:38Speaker 1: time unfortunately, I hate to think what she would think
- 32:41Speaker 1: of where we are today when we talk about women
- 32:43Speaker 1: in comedy, black women in comedy, the respect for black
- 32:46Speaker 1: people in general, and black lives altogether. I'm so sad
- 32:50Speaker 1: to think about that. But just in general breaking through
- 32:53Speaker 1: in these huge shows that were for white audiences when
- 32:57Speaker 1: oftentimes black talent there but heal was being stolen at
- 33:01Speaker 1: that point and done and she was able to maintain
- 33:04Speaker 1: and make a name for herself. That's amazing. Yeah, yeah,
- 33:08Speaker 1: she her legacy is definitely very apparent. There are so
- 33:11Speaker 1: many things that are still relevant to conversations today, like
- 33:14Speaker 1: when it comes to how black women are viewed and
- 33:17Speaker 1: how they speak about sex and women in general and
- 33:21Speaker 1: comedians and how we speak about sex and what we're
- 33:23Speaker 1: allowed to say, how explicit we're allowed to be. When
- 33:26Speaker 1: we're explicit, we're not fitting within a mold of appropriateness
- 33:30Speaker 1: and what is expected of a woman. And yeah, it's
- 33:35Speaker 1: just and speaking out about social issues and it being
- 33:39Speaker 1: something that maybe needs to be more tame, you know,
- 33:43Speaker 1: for audiences to be able to consume it. Um, there's
- 33:46Speaker 1: I mean always been issues like that that are at
- 33:49Speaker 1: the forefront with black comedians in general and are still
- 33:53Speaker 1: still present today. And and payment of people, like you said, Samantha,
- 33:58Speaker 1: like recognizing people for their work and then on top
- 34:00Speaker 1: of that paying them adequately. Yeah. So I am glad
- 34:06Speaker 1: that she chose the career path that she did you know.
- 34:10Speaker 1: As with so many people we talked about in these
- 34:12Speaker 1: first it's like who's to say, what where we be
- 34:16Speaker 1: now or what people would have, you know, launched their
- 34:22Speaker 1: own careers if these people did not exist, And it
- 34:26Speaker 1: definitely seems that way from Moms maybely like she has
- 34:28Speaker 1: such a huge influence on comedy and theater and black
- 34:35Speaker 1: performance and glad that we could talk about her today. Yeah,
- 34:40Speaker 1: I really want to go check out her sets now.
- 34:42Speaker 1: I need to. I need to find them. Yeah, fun homework,
- 34:51Speaker 1: delve into that. Yes, yes, yes, I'm very glad that
- 34:54Speaker 1: that exists, but that that is still around and we
- 34:56Speaker 1: can still find it. Um Wow always Eaves. Thanks you
- 35:01Speaker 1: so much for being here. It's always a delight. Where
- 35:05Speaker 1: can the good listeners find you? So? You can find
- 35:08Speaker 1: me on Instagram at Not Apologizing, I'm on Twitter at
- 35:13Speaker 1: Eve's Jeff code Um on many many episodes of Female
- 35:17Speaker 1: First right here, on Stuff Mom Never Told You, and
- 35:22Speaker 1: on the podcast Unpopular and episodes of This Day in
- 35:27Speaker 1: History class talking about more people in history and more
- 35:31Speaker 1: events in history, people that broke the mold, were subversive.
- 35:34Speaker 1: All of those things you can find if you're interested
- 35:37Speaker 1: in more on those podcasts. Yes, and definitely go check
- 35:41Speaker 1: that out all of that. If you haven't already, Thank
- 35:44Speaker 1: you again, Eaves, you can't wait for the next installment,
- 35:49Speaker 1: and thank you listeners for listening. You can email us
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