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Are You Making THIS Mistake Manifesting Your Ex? (They DON'T Want You To Know) l Neville Goddard · Neville Goddard Mindset

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  I'm going to tell you the brutal truth about your ex.
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  They aren't gone. They are merely reflecting back
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  to you, your deepest unspoken fears about yourself, and you
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  are actively preventing their return with one fatal mistake.
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  If you're the man who wakes at 3:00 AM with a hollow ache in
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  your chest, instinctively reaching for your phone to check
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  their social media, replaying every last conversation in your
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  head, feeling that sickening not in your stomach at the thought
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  of them with someone else, and desperately wondering what you
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  could have done differently. By the end of this session,
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  you'll understand why your current efforts are pushing them
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  further away and possess the exact shift in self concept that
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  brought my students back from seemingly hopeless separations
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  to heartfelt reconciliations within 30 days.
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  But most will reject this uncomfortable truth and continue
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  to chase shadows, perpetuate the very outcome they dread, and
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  never truly understand the power they hold.
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  I'll reveal in the next 7 minutes the the precise self
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  concept mistake you're making and the revision technique to
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  instantly correct it. Miss this and you'll keep losing
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  what you desire most. Core .1 The law of you pushed
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  out. Story proof stack.
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  I discovered this principle not in some dusty tone, but through
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  the hard won lessons taught by my dear friend and teacher
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  Abdullah. When I first met Abdullah, I
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  was, like many of you, grappling with what I perceived as
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  external circumstances controlling my life.
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  I remember a time early in my studies when I was struggling
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  financially. I felt the world was against me,
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  that opportunities eluded me. And this belief, this deep
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  seated assumption was consistently mirrored back to me
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  in every failed venture, every closed door.
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  I blame the economy. I blamed my lack of connections.
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  I even blamed my own perceived limitations.
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  Abdullah, with his piercing eyes and unwavering certainty, looked
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  at me and said, Neville, you are not seeing the world, you are
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  seeing yourself pushed out. Until you change what you
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  believe about yourself, the outside world will remain a
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  faithful mirror. This was an uncomfortable truth,
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  a monumental obstacle to my ego. I wanted to argue, to point out
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  the facts of my situation, but he insisted my perception of
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  myself as lacking was creating the lack.
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  The result? As I reluctantly began to assume
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  the feeling of financial security, of being a man of
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  means, the outer world began to conform.
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  Opportunities I hadn't seen before materialized.
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  Money came from unexpected sources.
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  My external reality shifted to reflect my internal conviction.
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  Subconscious programming. Your subconscious mind is not a
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  reasoner, it is a servant. It accepts as fact whatever
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  impression you habitually feed it.
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  If you constantly assume that you are unwanted, that you are
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  not good enough, that your ex has moved on and forgotten you,
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  then your subconscious mind gets to work manifesting exactly that
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  reality. It doesn't question whether
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  these assumptions are true, it merely projects them into your
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  outer world. Your ex, therefore, isn't acting
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  independently. They are merely playing their
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  part in the drama you have written in the theater of your
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  own mind. They are a reflection, a perfect
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  echo of your deepest self concept regarding your
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  relationship with them. Contrast, Trap.
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  Most men blame their ex, or fate, or their free will,
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  believing they must do something external to win them back.
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  They chase, they beg, they plead, all the while reinforcing
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  the very assumption of separation.
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  The man who truly understands this, however, knows that his ex
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  has no free will outside of his consciousness.
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  He realizes that their choices, their actions, their very being
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  in his reality reflects his assumption about them.
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  He changes himself, and in doing so, changes them.
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  Let me ask you truly honestly, what is the core assumption you
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  hold about yourself in relation to your ex right now?
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  Is it that you are unwanted? That you are not worthy?
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  That they are he better off without you?
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  Hold that thought because that is the specific internal
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  assumption you hold about yourself that is literally
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  projecting your ex away from you.
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  We will correct this core point to the futility of pursuit.
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  The fatal mistake. Story proof stack.
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  I remember counseling a young man distraught over his fiance,
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  who had abruptly ended their engagement.
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  He had sent her countless messages, called her endlessly,
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  even showed up at her workplace, all attempts to logically
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  persuade her to return. He would tell me, Neville, if I
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  could just explain myself, she'd understand.
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  But each attempt was met with more resistance, more coldness,
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  until she blocked his calls entirely.
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  He was heartbroken, confused by her stubbornness.
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  I explained to him, My dear boy, you are doing precisely what you
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  must not do. Every message, every call, every
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  act of pursuit screams one thing to your subconscious mind and by
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  extension, to her. She is gone, She is absent.
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  I must chase what I do not have. He was projecting the very state
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  of separation he desperately wanted to avoid.
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  The result of his efforts was not reconciliation, but an even
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  deeper chasm. This was the precise self
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  concept mistake he was making. He saw himself as the man she
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  left, and his actions merely affirmed that belief.
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  Subconscious programming. Your subconscious does not
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  understand no or don't. It only understands images,
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  feelings, and assumptions. When you pursue, beg, or
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  logically persuade, you are inherently operating from the
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  premise of lack. You are assuming their absence
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  and your actions are simply a desperate attempt to fill a void
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  that you believe exists. The subconscious, ever obliging
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  simply mirrors back more of that absence.
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  It reinforces the notion that your ex is on and therefore they
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  remain gone. This is why begging or logical
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  persuasion will only push them further away because it implies
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  their current absence. Contrast trap.
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  Most men believe that if they just try harder, if they just
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  say the right words, if they can convince their ex with facts or
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  promises, then their ex will return.
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  This is the way of effort, of struggle, and it always fails.
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  The man who understands the law knows that the external actions
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  are fruitless. He ceases the desperate chase.
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  He understands he cannot get his ex back through external
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  actions. He must become the person they
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  desire him to be within. This leads to the only true and
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  lasting solution. Hear me now.
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  Stop chasing shadows. Stop attempting to force an
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  outcome through desperate external action.
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  That path always leads to heartbreak.
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  In the next 3 minutes I will reveal the profound technique of
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  revision that corrects this fatal mistake and can instantly
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  begin to transform your inner and outer world.
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  Core .3 the power of revision correcting the past.
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  Story proof stack. Florence Scoville Shin, a
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  wonderful teacher of truth, always emphasize the power of
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  the spoken word and the imagination to bring forth
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  desired conditions. Her teachings deeply resonated
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  with my own experiences of revision.
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  My teacher Abdullah taught me a similar technique, but one
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  focused intensely on the feeling of the past being different.
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  Let me share a truly astonishing example from my own experience.
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  There was a time when I had a rather unpleasant interaction
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  with a landlord. The memory of his harsh words,
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  his rude demeanour and the injustice I felt lingered.
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  It bothered me, truly, and I found myself replaying it,
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  feeling the anger and resentment.
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  This was an obstacle to my peace, and I knew it was keeping
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  me tied to an unwanted state. Abdullah challenged me.
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  Neville, why hold on to a memory that brings you pain?
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  Rewrite it. So each night, as I drifted off
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  to sleep, I would replay that scene.
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  But I would change it. Instead of the landlord being
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  rude, I imagined him being incredibly kind, apologetic and
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  understanding. I wouldn't just think it.
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  I would feel the relief, the warmth of that revised
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  interaction. I did this perceive Raul Knights
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  the result. Within a week, the landlord
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  contacted me, completely unprompted, with a surprisingly
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  generous offer concerning my lease, an offer entirely out of
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  character for the man I had initially encountered.
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  The outer world conformed to my revised inner world.
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  The old hurtful memory, once revised, could no longer project
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  a negative present. This is how my own teacher,
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  Abdullah, used this exact principle to resolve a seemingly
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  important possible interpersonal conflict.
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  And it works with your EX2 subconscious programming.
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  Your subconscious mind does not differentiate between a vividly
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  imagined event and a real one. When you revise a past memory,
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  you are literally changing the blueprint for your present and
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  future. You are sending a new set of
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  instructions to the subconscious.
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  Instead of projecting the pain of the breakup, the fight, the
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  coldness, you now project a memory of warmth, understanding,
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  and reconciliation. This new impression overwrites
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  the old, and the outer world must conform.
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  The past in truth is only real in your present imagination.
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  Change the imagination of the past and you change the present
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  reality of your relationship. Contrast Trap Most men are held
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  captive by their past mistakes, replaying arguments, regretful
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  words, and the moment their ex walked away.
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  They believe the past is fixed, an unchangeable truth that
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  defines their present. The man who truly harnesses his
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  power, however, understands that the past is fluid in his
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  imagination. He knows that by altering the
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  internal memory of the past, he cleanses the slate for a new
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  desired future with his ex Command affirmation.
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  Affirm. Allowed.
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  Now I revise the past and I rewrite my future.
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  Repeat this daily. Core .4.
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  Living in the Assumption. The Bridge of Incident.
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  Story Proof Stack. My good friend and fellow
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  explorer of the mind, Joseph Murphy, often spoke of the power
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  of the feeling of the wish fulfilled.
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  I taught this tirelessly and lived by it myself.
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  I recall a time when I desired to travel from New York to
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  Barbados, but I had no money for the fair.
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  The logical mind screamed impossibility.
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  My brother Victor was in Barbados and I longed to be with
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  him. Instead of dwelling on my lack
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  of funds, I began each night to feel myself physically in
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  Barbados. I imagined the warm tropical
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  air, the scent of the sea, the feeling of walking on the sand,
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  the joy of embracing my family. I did not imagine how I would
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  get there. I simply assumed the feeling of
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  being there. I fell asleep in the assumption
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  of the wish fulfilled. I maintained this feeling
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  consistently. An incredible bridge of
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  incidents unfolded. A sudden, unexpected invitation
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  to lecture in another city brought in the exact amount of
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  money needed for my passage to Barbados.
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  I received a letter with a prepaid ticket, not to my
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  initial destination, but to a connection city that would take
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  me to Barbados. The how was never my concern.
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  The feeling was the result was inevitable.
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  I arrived in Barbados precisely as I had imagined and felt.
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  This is the power you hold over your relationship.
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  Subconscious Programming. Your subconscious mind, once
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  impressed with the feeling of the wish fulfilled, constructs a
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  bridge of incidents to lead you to its realization.
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  It doesn't matter how impossible it seems from your current
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  vantage point. When you feel the joy, the
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  peace, the love of being reconciled with your ex, now in
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  your imagination, you impress this upon your subconscious.
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  It then reorganizes your reality, orchestrating events,
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  thoughts, and actions, both yours and theirs, to bring that
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  assumed state into physical manifestation.
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  Contrast Trap. Most men are trapped in the gap
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  between what is and what they want.
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  They focus on the absence, on the problem, on the how.
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  They constantly question, how will she come back?
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  What must I do? This questioning of the how
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  introduces doubt, and doubt is the greatest enemy of faith.
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  The man who understands, however, knows that the how is
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  the domain of infinite intelligence.
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  His job is simply to live in the end, to assume the feeling of
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  the wish fulfilled and trust that the universe will reveal
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  the perfect path. Listen to me.
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  Your ex has no free will outside of your consciousness.
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  Their choices reflect your assumptions about them.
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  If you assume they are with you, they will be.
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  If you assume they are gone, they will remain gone.
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  This is why no contact can be the worst strategy if your inner
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  world remains unchanged because you're simply creating an
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  external void while your internal assumption of absence
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  remains dominant. Core .5 The feeling of being
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  desired. The ultimate Magnet Story Proof
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  Stack. Emmett Fox, a profound
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  metaphysical teacher, often spoke of the magnetic power of
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  consciousness. He taught that like attracts
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  like and that our dominant mental state determines what we
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  draw into our lives. I found this to be absolutely
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  true, especially in matters of the heart.
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  I remember a woman who came to me utterly distraught.
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  Her husband had left her for another and she felt completely
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  abandoned, undesirable and unloved herself.
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  Concept was shattered. Every attempt she made to
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  contact him came from a place of desperation and perceived
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  unworthiness. Naturally, he recalled.
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  Further, I guided her to stop focusing on his absence or his
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  new relationship. Instead, I instructed her to
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  begin each night and multiple times throughout the day, to
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  assume the feeling of being deeply desired and cherished by
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  her husband. Just to imagine his arms around
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  her, hear his words of love, feel the warmth of his
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  affection, and know without a shadow of doubt that she was the
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  woman he loved most in the world.
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  This wasn't about wishing, it was about feeling it as a
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  present reality. She started small, recalling
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  moments he had made her feel special, and then amplifying
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  that feeling in her imagination. The result was astonishing.
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  Within a few weeks, entirely unexpectedly, her husband
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  reached out. Not with anger or indifference,
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  but with a profound sense of longing for her.
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  He confessed his mistake, expressing how much he missed
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  her, the woman she was now reflecting internally.
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  He returned and their relationship was transformed
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  because she had transformed her inner self concept from unwanted
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  to deeply desired. Subconscious programming.
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  Your subconscious mind responds to the feeling.
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  The feeling of being desired, loved and cherished by your ex
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  is the only true mind magnet. It's not about being outwardly
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  attractive, it's about radiating an inner conviction of your
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  desirability. When you impress upon your
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  subconscious that you are the person they deeply desire, that
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  you are the person they love and cannot live without, your inner
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  state shifts. This inner shift then projects
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  outward, influencing your ex to reflect that very desire back to
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  you. You are creating the very
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  emotional resonance that draws them in.
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  Contrast Trap. Most men, feeling unwanted,
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  either try to prove their worth by changing their appearance,
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  their job or their personality, or they simply withdraw into
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  self pity, believing they are fundamentally unlovable.
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  This is operating from a place of not enough.
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  The man who applies this truth, however, doesn't try to become
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  desirable. He assumes he is desirable.
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  He is the chosen 1, he is deeply loved.
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  He lives in this feeling, and the world, including his ex,
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  must conform to his assumption. Declaration, affirmation.
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  Say this with me now. I am deeply desired, I am
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  cherished. I am the one he she loves.
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  Feel it as you say it. Core .6.
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  The unseen influence your ex's free will.
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  Story Proof Stack. Thomas Troward, a brilliant
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  mind, wrote extensively on the immense power of individual
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  thought and its creative potential.
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  His work, like mine, always pointed to the subjective nature
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  of reality. This might be the hardest pill
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  to swallow for many, but it is the absolute truth that I have
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  proven countless times. I remember a young woman who was
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  convinced her husband would never a turn because he had
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  fallen for another woman whom he claimed was his soulmate.
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  She clung to the idea that his free will was dictating his
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  choices and she was powerless. I challenged her directly.
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  Your husband is merely playing out the role you've assigned him
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  in your consciousness. If you believe he desires
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  another, he will. If you believe he desires you,
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  he will. She found this utterly
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  terrifying, as it placed the entire responsibility on her.
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  Her initial reaction was, but he chose her.
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  I explained that his choice was an external manifestation of her
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  own underlying assumptions about herself and her relationship
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  with him. Perhaps an unspoken fear of
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  being abandoned or belief that she wasn't enough.
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  Reluctantly, she began to imagine her husband expressing
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  love and desire only for her. She visualized him telling her
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  he loved her more more than anyone, that she was his one
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  true partner. She focused on the feeling of
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  being his sole desire. The external reality of his free
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  will seemed insurmountable, yet she persisted.
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  The result? Within a remarkably short time,
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  her husband, despite his previous declarations, began to
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  express doubts about his new relationship.
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  He started calling her not with resentment, but with confusion,
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  and then with genuine longing. He eventually returned stating
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  that he realized his choice had been a mistake and that he truly
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  belonged with her. He had simply reflected her
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  internal shift. This completely destroyed the
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  belief challenge that her ex had free will outside of her
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  consciousness. Subconscious programming.
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  When you hold an assumption about another person, especially
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  a consistent, deeply felt assumption, you are actually
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  impressing that image upon their subconscious mind, even if they
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  are thousands of miles away. It's not about manipulation,
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  it's about the interconnectedness of
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  consciousness. We are all aspects of the One
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  God. When you alter your internal
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  conception of your ex, their mind being connected to yours
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  receives these new instructions and begins to behave in a way
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  that aligns with your new internal image.
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  Their choices become a reflection of your changed
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  beliefs about them. Contrast Trap.
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  Most men are caught in the trap of observing what is, observing
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  their ex's actions, their words, their current relationships and
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  reacting to it, thereby perpetuating it.
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  They believe their ex's free will is an unchangeable force.
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  The man who truly knows this law understands that the only free
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  will that matters is his own power to choose what to assume.
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  He dictates the play and his ex as an actor in his mental drama,
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  must follow the script he has written within process
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  affirmation. Repeat this daily.
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  My assumptions about my ex create their desires and actions
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  towards me. Core .7 Consistency and
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  persistence the unwavering mind story proof stack My teachings
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  always emphasized persistence, the importance of dwelling in
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  the state of the wish fulfilled. It's not enough to do it once,
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  you must live there. I recall a student who had a
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  profound desire to mend a broken relationship with a business
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  partner. They had fallen out bitterly and
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  the partner had effectively cut him off, making reconciliation
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  seem impossible. My.
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  The student tried the techniques, and for a few days
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  he felt confident, but then doubts would creep in.
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  He would observe the outward situation, see no change, and
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  revert to his old feelings of resentment and hopelessness.
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  I had to be firm with him. You must be persistent.
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  You are like a man planting a seed and then digging it up
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  every hour to see if it has grown.
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  You must plant it, water it with feeling, and trust it to grow in
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  its own time. I instructed him to return
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  without fail to the feeling of reconciliation.
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  Every time doubt arose, he had to assume the pleasant memory of
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  cooperation, of shared success, of mutual respect.
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  He had to live in the end of that restored partnership.
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  The initial obstacle was his own wavering mind.
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  He wanted the result, but he lacked the inner discipline.
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  The result of his early attempts was nothing, because his inner
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  state was inconsistent. When he finally committed to
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  consistent, persistent inner work, living solely in the
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  feeling of the restored partnership, the external world
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  began to shift. An unexpected meeting, a
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  seemingly chance encounter, led to a conversation that healed
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  the rift. His partner, who had been so
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  resolute in his anger, softened and expressed a desire to
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  rebuild. The key was the unwavering,
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  consistent assumption. Subconscious Programming Your
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  subconscious mind requires consistent instruction.
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  It's like building a muscle. Sporadic effort yields little
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  result. But persistent, disciplined
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  exercise build strength. When you consistently impress
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  the feeling of the wish fulfilled, you are not only
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  instructing your subconscious, you are also building a new
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  habit of thought and feeling. This new habit then
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  automatically operates in the background, drawing in your
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  desired reality. Without conscious effort, it
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  becomes your dominant state. It is not motivation that brings
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  the result, it is reprogramming your subconscious contrast trap.
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  Most men try the these techniques for a day or two, see
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  no immediate external result, and then declare them
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  ineffective. They give up, convinced that the
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  law doesn't work for them, thereby reinforcing their belief
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  in their powerlessness. The man who truly understands,
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  however, knows that persistence is paramount.
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  He understands that if he's chosen in a state isn't
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  manifesting, it is always because an underlying assumption
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  of lack or doubt or an unrevised past is still dominant.
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  He returns to the inner work not with effort, but with faith,
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  knowing that the harvest is inevitable.
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  What if I told you that every single time you check your ex's
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  social media or recount the story of your breakup, you are
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  actively undoing your own creation?
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  You cannot get your ex back through external actions.
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  You must become the person they desire you to be within, which
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  means consistently feeling like that desired person.
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  Tension and release cycle the throughout core points.
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  Initial pain of separation, Pain anchor, Desperation of chasing
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  Core 2. Feeling of hopelessness course
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  6. But there is a way out.
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  Promise proof. Then introduction of revision in
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  core three. Challenge of consistency Course
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  7. But the reward is absolute
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  certainty lead to closing. Here's exactly how you implement
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  what I have taught you. Starting tonight, before you
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  drift off to sleep, engage your imagination.
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  Do not replay the breakup, do not dwell on the what ifs, and
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  do not check their social media. Instead, go to the end.
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  Imagine a specific brief scene that implies your reconciliation
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  and their desire for you. Perhaps it's feeling their hand
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  in yours, hearing them say I missed you so much, or seeing
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  their face light up when they look at you, conveying deep love
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  and desire. Make it vivid.
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  Engage your senses. Feel the emotion of that scene.
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  Feel the relief, the joy, the certainty that they are back and
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  deeply desirous of you. Replay this scene over and over
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  in your imagination like a short film, until you feel the
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  naturalness of it, until you fall asleep in that feeling.
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  This is the implementation ritual.
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  Do this every single night and whenever doubt creeps in during
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  the day. By committing to this consistent
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  application, living in the feeling of the wish fulfilled,
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  your ex initiates contact or shows clear, undeniable signs of
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  renewed interest and desire within 30 days of consistent
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  application or you will clearly diagnose the exact self concept
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  belief still blocking the reconciliation because the law
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  never fails. You have now understood that
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  your ex has no free will outside of your consciousness.
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  Their choices reflect your assumptions about them.
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  The notion that you must beg or logically persuade them has been
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  destroyed as you've seen that such actions only imply their
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  absence and push them further away.
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  And the most crucial truth has been revealed.
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  You can T get your ex back through external actions.
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  You must become the person they desire you to be within a state
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  achieved through the disciplined use of your imagination.
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  We have answered why no contact can be the worst strategy if
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  your inner world remains unchanged because without
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  altering yourself concept, you simply perpetuate the internal
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  assumption of absence. Do you now know the specific
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  internal assumption you hold about yourself that is literally
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  projecting your ex away from you?
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  It is the assumption of being unwanted or unworthy.
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  And you have seen how my own teacher, Abdullah used this
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  exact principle to resolve a seemingly impossible
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  interpersonal conflict. Just as you can now.
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  The choice is yours, as it always has been.
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  Will you continue to chase shadows, to dwell in the pain of
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  absence, and to blame external circumstances for your
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  heartache? Or will you claim your divine
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  power, apply these immutable laws, and assume the feeling of
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  the wish fulfilled, drawing your ex back into your life with
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  renewed love and desire? This is not a suggestion.
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  It is a declaration of law. Play this again.
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  Return to this daily. Let these truths sink into the
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  very core of your being. Your manifestation is waiting.