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2nd DATE UPDATE: Seth & Keegan · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to.
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  Speaker 2: Do is called second Date Update because that's what we're
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  Speaker 2: going to try and get and that's what the bit
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  Speaker 2: is called Second Date Updates.
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  Speaker 3: Starts right now on John Jay and Rich one oh
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  Speaker 3: four to seven Kiss FM, John Jay and Rich. It's
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  Speaker 3: tip for second date updates. So you meet somebody, you
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  Speaker 3: go out on a date, you have a great time.
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  Speaker 3: You expect there to be a second date. It doesn't happen.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe you're texting getting ghosted, or maybe you set up
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  Speaker 3: a second day and they didn't show up. But here's
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  Speaker 3: what happens. You bounce it off. Your friends, your parents
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  Speaker 3: eventually come to us. We want to hear your story.
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  Speaker 3: They were going to call the person that blew you
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  Speaker 3: off and find out why.
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  Speaker 1: Seth. Good morning, Welcome to John Jay and Rich Second
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  Speaker 1: Ate Update.
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  Speaker 4: Good morning, How are you good?
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  Speaker 1: What's your story? Man?
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  Speaker 5: So I met this girl, you know, like you see
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  Speaker 5: somebody and you're like oh wow, yeh, like not just pretty,
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  Speaker 5: but like oh wow, Like this is the person I
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  Speaker 5: could get to know, easy to talk to, funny. So
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  Speaker 5: we went to Dave and Busters playing some games, having
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  Speaker 5: a couple of drinks, having a couple of wings right,
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  Speaker 5: having a good time. They kept going, went back to
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  Speaker 5: my place, threw on some Netflix, Netflix and chill.
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  Speaker 1: I guess.
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  Speaker 4: So we ended up hooking up.
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  Speaker 5: She was like, wow, I've never done that in a
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  Speaker 5: first date before, but I felt like you're special and
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  Speaker 5: all these other guys suck and like dating is awful,
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  Speaker 5: but I could definitely see.
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  Speaker 4: Myself falling for you, and so I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 4: you know, she's not.
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  Speaker 5: Playing games either, she's not just blowing smoke, and.
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  Speaker 4: So I don't know, it felt like she was the.
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  Speaker 5: One pushing like, hey, let's just date each other, you know,
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  Speaker 5: and I'm like all right, yeah, like let me lock
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  Speaker 5: this down.
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  Speaker 1: Like we've been texting.
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  Speaker 5: She didn't you know, disappear or anything. But it's like
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  Speaker 5: simple responses, and every time I say a second date,
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  Speaker 5: she kind of like dodges it. She just she's like, oh, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: we'll see. Oh you know, I'm kind of busy coming up.
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  Speaker 6: And I'm just like, yeah, that's a blowoff, because if
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  Speaker 6: she was wind by you, she would want to get
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  Speaker 6: together with you again as soon as possible to further
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  Speaker 6: cement the lock it down part.
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  Speaker 2: But it also tells me that it might not be
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  Speaker 2: something that bad because she's not completely ghosting him.
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  Speaker 1: Right, one word answers though, is not right?
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  Speaker 2: Well, she's being nice, so I'm I'm like thinking, like,
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  Speaker 2: maybe she just didn't have as good of a time
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  Speaker 2: as you thought you did.
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  Speaker 7: She's like seeing somebody else more appealing.
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  Speaker 1: Right, I mean you're out here dating, right, You're not
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  Speaker 1: committed to right.
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  Speaker 3: So first date, Well, what stood out for me was
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  Speaker 3: the whole Oh I've never done this before on my
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  Speaker 3: first date. Yeah, because you said you hooked up with it, right,
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  Speaker 3: you guys go when you say netflix and chill, you
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  Speaker 3: guys did.
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  Speaker 1: The whole thing. You guys went all. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: did it all.
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  Speaker 4: I wanted to tell.
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  Speaker 1: This before, But what does that mean?
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  Speaker 7: Like why?
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  Speaker 1: Because maybe ask what she does and then just love
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  Speaker 1: him and leave him. Yeah, that's what my wife yesterday
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  Speaker 1: asked my son Jake.
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  Speaker 3: You ever heard of the thing Jake called hinge?
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  Speaker 1: It's like, was she offering it as a suggestion?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, she read Jake. It's like, yeah, the
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  Speaker 3: dating app, Yeah, mom, she's why I heard. It's a
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  Speaker 3: lot better than the other app, the other apps just
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  Speaker 3: for sex. I'm like, what are you one hundred.
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  Speaker 1: Tender?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I go, I go. Kyle has friends. They
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  Speaker 3: got married because of Tinder.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway, that was a little side note there. But anyway, Seth,
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  Speaker 1: all right, let's call her and find out why she's
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  Speaker 1: blowing you off.
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  Speaker 4: Man, Yeah, got a million questions.
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  Speaker 1: All right, what's her name? All right?
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  Speaker 3: You hang tight, We'll get Keegan on the phone. Second
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  Speaker 3: date update continues next with John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich, we are like a whole.
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  Speaker 3: We're in the middle of second date Update. You got
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  Speaker 3: Seth who went on a date with Keegan and it
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  Speaker 3: was a great day. They like make things happen, you know,
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  Speaker 3: But now she's blowing them off. One word answers, he
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  Speaker 3: wants answers, so he's coming to us.
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  Speaker 6: Well, Seth says that he's a good guy, that he's
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  Speaker 6: got a job, the people like him, and he's a
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  Speaker 6: good catch. But did Keegan catch the ick after they
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  Speaker 6: hooked up?
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  Speaker 1: Let's find out it was a good recap at my right, Seth, I.
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  Speaker 5: Mean it sounded like news at eleven.
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  Speaker 6: But yeah, I think she didn't like the way you
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  Speaker 6: made love.
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  Speaker 1: I think is what's gonna come down to. Let's call her.
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  Speaker 8: Hey, hey, ty, where you get on the phone, hold on.
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  Speaker 9: Hello, Hi is this Keegan? She Hi, my name is Keaton.
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  Speaker 6: Hi.
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  Speaker 9: I'm with John, Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 2: We just wanted to talk to you on the radio
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  Speaker 2: about a few things if you're up for it this morning.
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  Speaker 10: Okay, So Keegan.
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  Speaker 3: So thanks for jumping on there with us. So we
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  Speaker 3: got a call from a guy. He was telling us
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  Speaker 3: about this date he going on with this great girl.
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  Speaker 3: He said it was fantastic, told us a lot of things. Now,
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  Speaker 3: the girl's kind of blowing him off a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: Every time he tries to plant a second day, she's
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  Speaker 3: blowing him off one word text messages says she's busy.
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  Speaker 3: And so we were like, yeah, it's you, lets say.
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  Speaker 3: We were like, can we just look Yeah, we'll just
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  Speaker 3: call her and hear from America. Can you tell us
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  Speaker 3: what's going on? Talking about Seth?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 10: I remember Seth?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 10: What does he want to know or what do you
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  Speaker 10: want to I don't know, I don't understand.
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  Speaker 1: Well, how did the date go?
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  Speaker 10: The date was good, I mean he's a good guy.
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  Speaker 10: I just I just don't want to see him again.
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  Speaker 10: Like and it sucks too, because like on paper, totally perfect,
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  Speaker 10: like truly like good looking, planning the whole date. He
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  Speaker 10: has his life together, kind, respectful, total green flags. Big
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  Speaker 10: problem for me was he fries like a lot. That's
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  Speaker 10: the best way I could put it.
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  Speaker 6: Did you say cries are tries? Cries like weeps cries?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, like like like crying and listen like I'm all
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  Speaker 10: for a man being like emotionally available, Like I love that,
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  Speaker 10: I really do therapy king energy. That's great, But this
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  Speaker 10: felt like like advanced placement emotions.
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  Speaker 11: I'd say, what does that mean?
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  Speaker 10: Like he he cheered up talking about his little sister,
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  Speaker 10: which is like okay hee uh. Then he got like
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  Speaker 10: misty talking about his friends, and it's like, sir, your
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  Speaker 10: fantasy football league cannot mean that much to you, Like
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  Speaker 10: it was just a little it was a little much.
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  Speaker 10: And then like to top it off, we had hooked
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  Speaker 10: up and after that he cried twice.
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  Speaker 2: Because he was just that moved by your guys intimacy
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  Speaker 2: or was he upset?
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  Speaker 1: You feel like.
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  Speaker 10: I don't I don't know. I felt like I was like,
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  Speaker 10: did you like pull a hamstring? Like what?
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  Speaker 1: Nice?
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  Speaker 10: It was weird because like I'm confused. In the moment,
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  Speaker 10: I was like, you know, like I could totally fall
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  Speaker 10: for you. And it was like feeling really like romantic
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  Speaker 10: and intense, but like processing it all after it happened,
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  Speaker 10: I'm like, hold on, was I like dating a man?
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  Speaker 10: Or was I in the notebook? Like what is going on?
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  Speaker 10: It was just weird. I don't know, like I want
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  Speaker 10: a nice guy obviously, but like do I want a
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  Speaker 10: guy that's gonna like sob after sex, like you just
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  Speaker 10: want an oscar? Like I don't know, like part of
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  Speaker 10: me wants someone was like a little more edge.
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  Speaker 9: I guess hi.
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  Speaker 5: Okaya, hi, yeah, hi, okay, So not gonna lie that,
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  Speaker 5: Like I thought.
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  Speaker 4: Like, don't women like a man who's like open and emotional?
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  Speaker 4: Isn't that a good thing?
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  Speaker 10: No, it definitely is. I'm not saying it's not. It
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  Speaker 10: just felt like a lot and it was really fast,
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  Speaker 10: and I'm just not really sure how to process that.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, But like that was me being real with you, know, so.
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  Speaker 4: I felt comfortable.
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  Speaker 1: I liked you.
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  Speaker 4: I wasn't trying to be like too much.
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  Speaker 10: Oh I know, and listen, I did like you. That's
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  Speaker 10: why I'm still talking to you. I just I think
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  Speaker 10: it caught me off guard, like how intense it cut?
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  Speaker 5: Okay, So again, I'm sorry, but so crying automatically makes
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  Speaker 5: me too soft.
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  Speaker 11: Just crying a lot, Come on, that's not fair, Like
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  Speaker 11: it's not just that you cried, it's it's when you cried,
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  Speaker 11: like after sex twice, Like that threw me, Like, I don't.
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  Speaker 10: Know what to do with that.
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  Speaker 4: Well, we had sex twice, so I don't see you,
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  Speaker 4: know what I mean, Like.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how to tell you it. Are you
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  Speaker 1: gonna cry every time?
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  Speaker 7: Or was it just those times?
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  Speaker 5: Because it was like such a beautiful week, that's like, Okay,
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  Speaker 5: I'm feeling something.
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  Speaker 4: I have a connection to you.
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  Speaker 5: This isn't just like wham bam, thank you, ma'am right.
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  Speaker 2: But do you think it could get like a little
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  Speaker 2: overwhelming for someone?
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  Speaker 7: I think Seth, Like what she's saying is like she
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  Speaker 7: respects that you have those feelings, and she's not knocking
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  Speaker 7: you for getting emotional and showing your emotions.
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  Speaker 1: That's great.
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  Speaker 7: She just feels like she's not equipped to be with
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  Speaker 7: someone who shows their emotions that much, which is okay,
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  Speaker 7: two things can be true at the same time.
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  Speaker 10: I think I just really need a little more balance,
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  Speaker 10: you know, Like I want depth, but I also want
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  Speaker 10: someone who feels a little grounded, I guess is the
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  Speaker 10: way I would use like I don't know how to
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  Speaker 10: explain this.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, but you want you could see a
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  Speaker 6: second date with him, though right where he tries to
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  Speaker 6: control the emotion a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: I would have waited for second date to see he
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  Speaker 3: cries again, like have you cried with a girl before
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  Speaker 3: during sex?
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  Speaker 1: Seth?
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  Speaker 4: I haven't felt that connection in a long.
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  Speaker 1: Time's got some.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, like wow, holy smokes.
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  Speaker 7: But it wasn't just that it was when he was
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  Speaker 7: talking about his friends's.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't just that very emotional what a sweetheart.
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  Speaker 12: Come on, I don't know if that matches what I'm
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  Speaker 12: go tracted out. That's okay at least now you know
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  Speaker 12: after I thought about it, Like again, you're a great guy.
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  Speaker 12: It's just I don't think you're the guy for me.
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  Speaker 5: Or I'm not the girl for you, you know HOOI yeah,
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  Speaker 5: that's a bummer. I feel like I don't know. I'm
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  Speaker 5: trying to I don't know. I'm in my thirties, you
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  Speaker 5: know what I mean. I'm not playing any games.
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  Speaker 1: So this is me.
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  Speaker 4: And if you want a guy who's not afraid to cry,
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. I mean I respect it.
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  Speaker 5: I'd rather hear that than just be out here and
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  Speaker 5: keep guessing.
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  Speaker 3: I guess yeah, okay, Well, thank you both for going
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  Speaker 3: on the air with us.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you you got it, same here all right. That's
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  Speaker 1: second date update with John Jay Rich