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Transforming Adversity into Empowerment: Tammy Lewis Journey from Cancer Survivor to Health Advocate and Entrepreneur · Ready Set Collaborate with Wanda Pearson

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  Speaker 1: Set Collaborate podcast on a journey towards achieving your goals with host Wanda Pearson.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the Ready Set Collaborate podcast with Wanda Pearson.
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  Speaker 2: I am so excited to have my guest here, tamara Lewis from St Louis.
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  Speaker 2: That's right.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm so excited to have her here and I wanted to start this actually not start it off at the end of the month, but Breast Cancer Awareness Month, because October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month.
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  Speaker 2: And who is better to be my guest but Tamara, because she's been through it all and she's such an inspiration to actually help people, to have those tips that she can share with us.
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  Speaker 2: But, tammy, tell us a little bit about yourself and I'm going to talk about your bio.
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  Speaker 2: But just you.
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  Speaker 2: Tell us a little bit about you and then I'm going to read your bio.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you.
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  Speaker 3: First of all, thank you, ms Wanda, for reaching out to me and entrusting me with this message, of course, to increase the awareness of breast cancer.
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  Speaker 3: And so a little bit about my background.
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  Speaker 3: My background is actually healthcare.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of people don't know that's how I started.
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  Speaker 3: My first grant as a health educator was the Breast and Cervical Cancer Project.
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  Speaker 3: So it's just, it's amazing.
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  Speaker 3: It's not amazing, it's all divine, right.
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  Speaker 3: How life comes back, kind of full circle.
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  Speaker 3: I did that.
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  Speaker 3: I went into pharmaceutical sales for a little while and then left pharmaceuticals and went into finance.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm a broker.
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  Speaker 3: Now I have two beautiful young ladies that we're raising.
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  Speaker 3: We are raising to become women, and my passion has always been women's empowerment.
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  Speaker 3: When I got diagnosed in 2018, of course, nobody ever thinks it's going to happen to them because I have girlfriends who say look, if you can get breast cancer, anybody can get breast cancer and at first, when I remember my first girlfriend told me that I was like, oh, that's odd for somebody to say.
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  Speaker 3: But I said but you know what?
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  Speaker 3: Now that's my purpose, because now people who think that they're immune they've seen me, they see me run races they're like you're probably the healthiest person we know and so I think that's just part of my journey is that I ran a 10K literally 30 days before I got diagnosed In my tip-top shape at 44, which surprisingly is not that old and when I went through all my processes I was actually the youngest person at that time, but my mentee she got diagnosed at 28.
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  Speaker 3: I think a lot of women think that they're immune because we're not old.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, no, breast cancer has no race, no age, no creed, any of that.
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  Speaker 3: So Absolutely.
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  Speaker 2: I appreciate that because actually it's funny and I'm going to get to your bio.
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  Speaker 2: My mother actually had got breast cancer.
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  Speaker 2: This is my stepmother.
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  Speaker 2: She got breast cancer.
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  Speaker 2: Her doctor told her to make sure your daughter go and get a mammogram.
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  Speaker 2: His daughter got it at 25 years old.
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  Speaker 2: So I actually started getting breast mammograms since I was in my 20s and I get it every year.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care, I just get it every year and I tell my daughters the same thing you got to go get tested because you just never know.
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  Speaker 2: Now they have such better equipment to do the mammograms.
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  Speaker 2: Because after they found out I had a cyst thank God it was not malignant, but it was a cyst.
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  Speaker 2: But they had to go through that.
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  Speaker 2: But they only found out through the 3D Exactly.
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  Speaker 2: But let me I don't want to waste time I'm going to talk about your bio.
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  Speaker 2: Let people know all what you've been doing here.
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  Speaker 2: So Tammy Lewis from St Louis I know Tammy Lewis from St Louis and I'm from Chicago, so we're from the Midwesterners here, right?
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  Speaker 2: That's right, Because NPHRVP is a regional vice president of Primerica, founder of Pink Pearl Hero and creator of One Dope Planner.
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  Speaker 2: I have that.
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  Speaker 2: After a 12 year career in pharmaceuticals, she transitioned her career to finance and entrepreneurship to help others achieve financial success.
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  Speaker 2: Following the breast cancer diagnosis in 2018, she launched the Pink Pearl Hero to increase awareness of breast cancer, promote self-care and women's empowerment, and develop One Dope Planner to enhance productivity.
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  Speaker 2: Tammy is also a member of Delta Sigma Thea Sorority Incorporated.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't know that.
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  Speaker 2: I'm learning more about you than what you speak, but thank you so much, Tammy.
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  Speaker 2: I'm calling you Tammy, that's why I know you're Tammy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's where I go by.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you so much for being on this, because you have such a wealth of knowledge and inspiration that you can actually help us through this here.
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  Speaker 2: So let me ask you a question about your experience.
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  Speaker 2: Can you share your personal journey with breast cancer and I think you already said something about it and how it has impacted your life?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So I call my breast cancer journey my Jonah moment, and it didn't start like that, though, and I always tell people look, I ran a 10K.
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  Speaker 3: I was actually checking off my bucket list, and here's why the 10K is important is, that was actually my therapy and my gauge through this whole process, because anytime I had a surgery, I was always like, what can I get back on the trails?
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  Speaker 3: When can I start running again?
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  Speaker 3: Not knowing that would be my therapy through the process.
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  Speaker 3: So I ran a 10K.
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  Speaker 3: I thought it was a 5K that's a different story, but that's where it started triggering the mindset.
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  Speaker 3: That's a different story, but that's where it started triggering the mindset, because when I realized, literally 30 days before the peach tree, that it was a 10K and not a 5K, in my mind I said, okay, tammy, it's only three more miles, just figure it out, it's just three more miles, and I did and I actually did pretty good, considering my first time.
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  Speaker 3: Then I get diagnosed 30 days later, my first time.
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  Speaker 3: Then I get diagnosed 30 days later, and when I got the official diagnosis, because I went for my mammogram and this was my second visit to my well woman exam, because I missed the first one because I was so busy and I got there late, I almost missed the second one.
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  Speaker 3: Because of the same thing, and I share that, because we as women if we're not our own heroes and take care of ourselves first, because everybody knows when mama goes down, the ship goes down, but for some reason we don't understand or we don't correlate.
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  Speaker 3: When we're on a plane it says, if the plane is going down, you put your mask on first and then you put everybody else's on, but in life it doesn't cross.
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  Speaker 3: For some reason it doesn't.
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  Speaker 3: So I almost missed it.
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  Speaker 3: So my lump was found at my woman exam that's why they're so important and it was a big one.
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  Speaker 3: It was sitting right underneath the left breast and my midwife she was like you never had a mammogram, you're actually late.
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  Speaker 3: So let's go ahead and get this baseline the baseline in 24 hours turned into.
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  Speaker 3: We found something.
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  Speaker 3: We want to look some more.
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  Speaker 3: And the ultrasounds, the biopsies, and when we got the final diagnosis and I actually knew before, my doctor told me because it was the one test result I couldn't see because she had it locked.
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  Speaker 3: And when I went to go see my breast surgeon and she told me, she said my recommendation is a left breast mastectomy and I said why are we messing around with this thing?
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  Speaker 3: Let's do both.
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  Speaker 3: And we go, we going to do this, guns a blazing.
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  Speaker 3: And I just remember saying Lord, why me?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, oops, it's okay, it's okay, oops.
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  Speaker 2: It's okay.
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  Speaker 3: It's okay, you survived girl, you survived.
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  Speaker 3: I think when we walk through life, most of us walk in man's world, and I'm not talking about gender, man.
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  Speaker 3: I'm talking about man's world and when I was like Lord, why me?
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  Speaker 3: I did everything right I went to school, got the education, got married, Then I had kids.
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  Speaker 3: But then I had to realize that's man's, not God's will.
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  Speaker 3: And as soon as that came into my spirit, I said you know what I said?
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  Speaker 3: That came into my spirit, I said, you know what I said, something big is about to happen, Amen.
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  Speaker 3: And let's go.
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  Speaker 3: I said, and in that process I'm going to meet some phenomenal women and we're going to lock arms and do some phenomenal things.
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  Speaker 3: And that's when my whole mindset started shifting on this whole process, Literally probably a day after I got home from the surgery.
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  Speaker 3: So I did, they did both of my surgeries.
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  Speaker 3: So they did the reconstruction and the double mastectomy at the same time, so it was a six hour surgery.
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  Speaker 2: Once.
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  Speaker 3: I got home, my mentor called me and she said hey, Sugar, I need you to read this book for me, and it's called Jonah by Priscilla Schreier.
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  Speaker 2: Jonah, something to read this book for me, and it's called.
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  Speaker 3: Jonah by Priscilla Schreier.
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  Speaker 3: Jonah something but, it's by Priscilla Schreier and it basically was talking about how sometimes in life, god has to sit you down for your next journey, and that's again was another mindset reshift.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, so this is just my Jonah moment.
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  Speaker 3: The Lord, you ain't listening and I know you better than you, and this is the only way I can get your attention and because of breast cancer.
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  Speaker 3: That's why I started Pete Pearl Hero.
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  Speaker 3: That's why I started really researching why women don't have the wealth that we should have, and that's also where the One Door Planner came in.
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  Speaker 3: None of that, none of that was in the vision before breast cancer.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, go ahead.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, no, and that helped.
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  Speaker 2: And my favorite verse of when I retired from my dean was Jeremiah says that has a plan for you.
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  Speaker 2: You just never know.
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  Speaker 2: It didn't stop when I left IBM.
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  Speaker 2: It didn't stop there, but he has a plan for it, even though we say, no, that's not going to happen to me, but it does.
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  Speaker 2: But you have a purpose, tammy, to be able to share what you just shared emotionally, because a lot of people can't deal with it, and that's what the strength that you bring to other women to be able to help them during this difficult time and I want to ask you this question too.
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  Speaker 2: So that was an unexpected moment of your life and you got the strength and you got the support that helped you get through these tough times, and you did.
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  Speaker 2: But how did your perspective of life change after your experience with breast cancer?
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  Speaker 3: so one.
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  Speaker 3: I enjoy the moment and and I am a lot of people when they see me, they see me in the business mode, but I'm like if it ain't fun, I'm done, I'm gonna have fun, I'm gonna experience life.
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  Speaker 3: I don't experience people.
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  Speaker 3: So my perspective on life and people sometimes folks see me from the outside.
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  Speaker 3: They're like you're always so busy.
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  Speaker 3: I'm.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like no, I'm catching up and collapsing timeframes because there's some other things that I want to do in life.
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  Speaker 3: So you may see it as me being busy, but everything I do is intentional.
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  Speaker 3: Now, and I think intentionality has been the biggest thing.
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  Speaker 3: And then I just really now I understand my purpose, that I'm walking in purpose, one of the things that and it's just like a lot of things in life I'm like, oh okay, that makes sense.
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  Speaker 3: God, that's why you had me do that, because I needed to do this.
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  Speaker 3: So everything is now coming into alignment, where I understand why I went through.
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  Speaker 3: Me saying went through, but it was all part of the process, the biggest thing that really helped me as I was going through that and I always say growing through it now Instead of going through it.
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  Speaker 3: I was growing through it Even though my body was physically in 2018, my mind was in 2019.
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  Speaker 3: So everything I was doing was to impact 2019.
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  Speaker 2: Even though I physically had to go through things, and that's so true.
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  Speaker 2: But you're going through the future, you're thinking ahead or what's going to happen.
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  Speaker 2: So what advice would you give to someone who has just been diagnosed with breast cancer?
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  Speaker 3: yeah, one is is the first thing here, is the first thing.
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  Speaker 3: The first thing is to get back into the word, because you're going to need a very strong faith.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, because you're going to have to make decisions and you're going to need discernment in that process and you're going to need either.
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  Speaker 3: You're going to need discernment and you're going to need people around you.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody around you is not going to have your best interest and you got to be able to discern that.
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  Speaker 3: So that's why I said first get into your word, start from Genesis.
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  Speaker 3: I'm on 1 Samuel right now.
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  Speaker 2: I started all over.
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  Speaker 3: I was like oh my God, this was in the Bible.
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  Speaker 3: Now, what does that have to do with breast cancer?
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  Speaker 3: It has to do with the faith part of it.
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  Speaker 3: I met.
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  Speaker 3: We just got back and we did the Sister Strut in St Louis our pink pro hero team which is for breast cancer awareness and I met a newly diagnosed breast cancer survivor and the first thing I told her was because she was talking about her faith and I said do me a favor.
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  Speaker 3: I said take a moment and find out what he's really trying to tell you, because he's pausing you for a purpose purpose.
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  Speaker 3: But do you know what the pause is for?
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  Speaker 3: And she looked at me and look, the crazy thing, miss wanda is.
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  Speaker 2: I shocked myself yeah, that's what god had you say to her.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, that moment you just never know when he's going to come out and just put those words in your mouth to help somebody.
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  Speaker 2: And it's about tough love too, about thinking about yourself and all that.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm glad you did do that.
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  Speaker 2: So, and you are, I am so proud of you.
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  Speaker 2: I really am, because I met you in 2018.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's when I met you in 2018.
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  Speaker 2: Then you told us about your journey and it's just so great to hear someone like you and especially, you're right, you got to have your faith in the word.
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  Speaker 2: You got it, because that's what's going to help you get through those tough times.
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  Speaker 2: Some people may say, oh, I don't believe in god, I don't believe yet, but god got you here and you never know what plans he have for you and he already know what plans he has for you.
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  Speaker 2: But you got to go through that journey and make those mistakes and get through it to and my brother told me this you got to go through what you're going through to understand why you're going through it, and I have a consent.
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  Speaker 2: He preached about that.
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  Speaker 2: I never forgot that, because I said why am I going through it?
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  Speaker 2: Don't ask why.
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  Speaker 2: Just ask God, help me Lord, help me Lord.
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  Speaker 2: So I am so proud of you, what you're doing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was going to ask you about the coping strategies that you find most helpful when dealing with emotional and physical total of treatment.
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  Speaker 2: What kind of coping strategies did you deal with?
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  Speaker 3: One part, of course, was my faith.
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  Speaker 3: That was first.
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  Speaker 3: The second thing was running.
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  Speaker 3: That was my biggest coping strategy because I knew I was back Now.
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't running, but two weeks after surgery, I walked to the trail.
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  Speaker 3: That was my mindset.
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  Speaker 3: If I can't walk to this trail, then I'm not progressing.
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  Speaker 3: Now, like I said, I ain't run, I ain't even do a fast walk, I just literally walked to the trail and walked right back, because our home is right by the trail and that just let me know mindset-wise.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, you're going in the right direction.
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  Speaker 3: Every surgery okay, you're going in the right direction.
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  Speaker 3: Every surgery, though I was telling my plastic surgeon, so when can I start running again?
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  Speaker 3: He was like, can you give me like a couple of weeks?
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  Speaker 3: We just did a major surgery and so that was my biggest one.
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  Speaker 3: But that's where me being outside and seeing the butterflies and seeing the grass grow and seeing the transition, that whole mindset, it was a faith run for me.
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  Speaker 3: Actually, it was a faith run that and again writing my goals down.
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  Speaker 3: I think a lot of people again, we just walk haphazardly.
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  Speaker 3: We're just in life Get up, go to work, come home, get up, go to work.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, it's the weekend and I pulled the list.
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  Speaker 3: I've completed everything on that list except for two things, and those things will get done this year.
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  Speaker 3: So I got to the end of this year to get it done.
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  Speaker 3: But when I pulled the list out I'm like, oh my God, I did all of that.
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  Speaker 3: I got all that done in 2019.
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  Speaker 3: And I think our current paradigm, especially when you're growing through that, and I think our current paradigm, especially when you're growing through that because the original game plan was the double mastectomy done.
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  Speaker 3: So in my mind I'm like great, let's just get this done and we don't keep this thing moving.
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  Speaker 3: And then, after the surgery, it was like we found another spot in the surgery, so they're like so now we need to do radiation.
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  Speaker 3: And it changed the whole plan because I was doing reconstruction, we found out that I was also estrogen positive, so I had to have another surgery.
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  Speaker 3: And so when you're going through, okay, we're here, and then all of a sudden you got another loophole.
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  Speaker 3: You got to look at what's going to be happening in the future and that was the thing that kept me focused, like all right, let's deal with it, but this is where I need to go, this is the goals.
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  Speaker 3: I know we got to deal with this right now, but that is not where we're going.
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  Speaker 3: And that kept me with forward thinking.
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  Speaker 2: And that's awesome and, like I said, you definitely have a lot to share here.
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  Speaker 2: So we're winding down because I want you to tell us about your one dope plan and also what you have planned.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: I know you got something planned as far as everything you're doing, because I've been to one of your women's.
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  Speaker 2: What is it?
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  Speaker 2: Women Empowerment yeah, women in Wealth yeah, women in Wealth.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: That's awesome.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: That's awesome.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: We're here in Atlanta, guys, but I don't know, do you do it all over?
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: We're doing a networking event in Nashville, so now I'm down in Nashville, st Louis, and then here in Atlanta.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: Okay, let me know when it's here in Atlanta again, but I definitely love meeting those different ladies there.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: So let me ask you something Can you share any tips or advice for managing the side effects of breast cancer treatment?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So I think the biggest thing is to work with your doctor.
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  Speaker 3: I always tell people to get clearance from your doctor.
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  Speaker 3: For me, the health educator came back.
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  Speaker 3: So things that I've known from research, seen firsthand, a lot of it is diet and exercise.
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: Cancer loves sugar, Cancer loves estrogen and that's why, with our nonprofit, our focus is now going to be more on number one, supporting women with our Hero Box.
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: So we have our Pink Pearl Hero box that also supports women in business.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: So we're supporting women entrepreneurs and then women who are and men who are actually going through breast cancer.
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  Speaker 3: But also now we're looking at the component of post-cancer care because it's you know, it dawned on me as I'm growing through that part of my journey is when I was in the midst of cancer, you could not put sugar around me.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: It was black coffee, no sugars, Don't put a sprinkle of nothing on my because I was just so paranoid about the cancer feeding off of the sugar.
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: But then, after everything was done, I started adding sugar back.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: But one of the things that we know is my body can have cancer.
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: So, now I got to turn it into a fighting machine.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: Post-cancer care still diet, so if you can get a nutritionist, and so these are the things that the nonprofit is looking at is diet, exercise, mindset and other therapies.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: My girlfriend, tammy, owns a wellness oasis here in Woodstock, georgia, so I do the hyperbaric chamber, because cancer does not grow in oxygenated environments.
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: So it's like looking at those things, but the problem is a lot of people don't have access to those resources because of cost and insurance doesn't cover it.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad you mentioned those things.
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  Speaker 2: I actually wanted a gift certificate from tammy and I still have.
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: Oh, you need to go small treatment and I said I said, oh god, I still have to go and do this, but that's good.
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: But I'm glad you said that because, uh, and you said everything that I was going to ask you any about, such as diet, exercise and even meditation.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's beneficial during your treatment.
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  Speaker 2: And when you say sugar, I got to add that that's one of the problems.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: I got to give up.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: I love my sweets and stuff.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: The last question then we're going to get into your one dope and then your nonprofit what advice do you have for those who have completed their treatment and are transitioning back to everyday life?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the biggest thing for me once that happened and I talked to a couple of my pink sisters about it it was because you're in that moment of treatments and surgeries and healing and all that and when it's done, it's oh, now what do I do?
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: And I went through that phase like, okay, so now what?
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: Because now I'm not doing that anymore, so now what I do?
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: But I think it just goes back to that alignment of goals and say, okay, so now what do you want to do?
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Because now you're not juggling two pieces, now you could just be totally focused.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: What are some of the dreams and aspirations that you have that you want to get done and put the plan in place and not fall back and go back to your old you, like there was a.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: I know people.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: I think it takes people a while to realize that okay, I grew through this or this was just part of my journey and there's a reason.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: So let's figure this thing out.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: And if you haven't figured it out by time, you're done.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: Here's a great opportunity to say I got a new lease on life, so now what do I want to do with it?
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: But it is my real purpose.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: That is so true and that is a great way to put it.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: As far as getting now, what do you do?
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: Now you start taking care of yourself.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: You're talking about self-care, right?
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: You got a lot of time during that time.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: We're trying to take it, but also, your family is a big part of going through this with you.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: You got to have the support of your family Now.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: You made some great comments and I wish we could stay longer.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: So let's talk about your one dope planner, and then let's talk about your pink pearl hero.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: Let's talk about pink pearl hero, so talk about your one dope planner.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so talk about your one dope planner.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: So I've always had an iPad.
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: And my friends who know me from the corporate sector and now they know that I am the planner, I'm always organized, I've always had Levengers or Franklins.
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: And my surgeon my plastic surgeon, who did all the reconstruction when he saw my bag he said all that got to go.
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: And I'm like so how am I still going to do business and run a business if I don't have my planners?
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: But all that got to go Because I couldn't carry anything over 12 pounds.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: So again, divine timing.
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: I'm looking at something.
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: This is like right after my surgeries I'm looking at this digital planner and I'm like that's interesting.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: I've always had an iPad, but I've never seen this before and I'm a pretty techie person.
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: I just don't tell people.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: I'm a techie person because then they have me doing stuff, but now everybody knows.
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: But so I that was part of my therapy too I self-taught how to make these planners because I saw them and I'm like I would never use it like that.
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: And then I just self-taught myself.
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: But again it's things coming back full circle, because when I was a health educator, I I actually created databases for one of the clinics that I worked at, Because I'm like this is archaic Because it was like an index type system and I learned how to create databases.
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: That is not my background, but that part of my life was planted for this part.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: So the One Dope Planner if you could just visualize paper meeting digital Because everybody has their phones, right, some people still like to write, because then there's science behind people who write, but nobody wants to carry 5 million notebooks and their planners.
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: So the digital planner is the marriage where you have a PDF writing app so you can use like good noteses or Noteshelf.
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: But the One Dope Planner has 12 months, it's all hyperlinked, it's tactile, so you can write on it with your stylus, and then it has seven five-subject notebooks and you can label each subject.
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: We pre-labeled two of them about finance and goals, so people can have that part and I don't need anything Literally.
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: This right here, this is all I need.
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: And then it syncs to my phone.
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: So if I can't pull out my iPad fast, all my notes are right here too.
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: Wow, that's awesome.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's pretty dope Literally.
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: I think I was doing like a fourth revision before.
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: Like the launch, and it was again.
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: My divine.
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: Time is between three and four in the morning and I'm looking at this.
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: I'm like man, it's pretty dope, one Dope Planner, and literally that's how we came up with it.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: I love the title.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: So how do people get that One Dope Planner?
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: How can they get that?
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, right now we're just through social media.
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: There's links in there to purchase One Dope Planner.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: So I partnered with my best friend from oh shoot.
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: We've been friends for a little while We've been friends for over 20 years but my best friend Allison, I partner with her and then my daughter is also a partner.
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: You could go on our social media One Dough Planner on Instagram, facebook and YouTube and TikTok, so they're on all of those formats.
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: Okay, I was going to ask you how do they get in touch with you as far as your social media and what's your yeah, so the best way to get in touch with me is really through Pink Pearl Hero and we're on Instagram and on Facebook I have my personal pages, so they're like Tammy Gigi Lewis.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: That's probably actually the best one.
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: Facebook I look at it, but on Instagram it's Tammy Gigi Lewis.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: But for the Pink Pearl Hero, the nonprofit, and for One Dope Planner we check those as well.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: You're going to send that to me and that's going to be in the show notes so people begin to touch it that way.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so they can get.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: So tell us real quick about your pink pearl hero nonprofit.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so we have, we started a nonprofit.
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: And what happened again, it was during my divine time in St Louis, it was like between three and four, and what I saw was I was researching all the surgeries because I had what's called a latissimus dorsi reconstruction, where they take your lat muscles and move them to the front and then they put the implant in for the reconstructive part.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: And I would just be, and I was up that night that morning and I would see the rates of breast cancer.
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: The mortality rates in breast cancer for women of color were so high and I'm like, why is nobody talking about this?
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: And literally the Holy Spirit said we're a health educator and your first grant was the breast and cervical cancer grant.
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: Why don't you talk about it?
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, and so still during that time I was running before the surgeries keep my mind together and all that.
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: And I was in St Louis and I'm running down this major street called Forest Park and out of nowhere and it just seemed out of nowhere because I just don't people don't park where I was running and this older couple, this lady, stops me in mid run and she said are you running with your pearls on?
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: And I have a strand of pearls on still and she said are you running with your pearls on?
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: And I have a strand of pearls on still and I said, yeah.
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: She said that's so classy.
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, yeah, that's me and that's where the pearls go.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: I love it, yeah.
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: And then I started really looking into it more.
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: That a pearl has to be crushed.
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: It's over time, it's the hardening and the crushing, just like with diamonds, it's over time, it's the hardening and the crushing, just like with diamonds, and the hero part came from the National Institutes of Health.
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: There was a study called the superwoman syndrome, but they call it like Shima, and it really looked at women of color and comorbidities because of the syndrome, and breast cancer was one of them.
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: So it just came back to you.
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: Look, I can't be your hero, whoever you are husband, mom, family, whoever it may be until I'm mine, I got to take care of me first and it is okay to do that, and that's where we started Pink Pearl Hero.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: So yeah, so they can get in touch.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: Go on your pinkpearlherocom or org or how to.
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: So right now, as of this taping, the website is under reconstruction.
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: I'm saying, look, god bless me with an intern.
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: Shout out to my sorority sister for reaching out to me, Say, hey, do you need it?
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: I got somebody who needs an intern.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh my, and she's my intern.
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: Amaris is actually getting her undergrounded Xavier in public health and I'm like this is perfect, so I'm able to coach her and mentor her.
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: She's taking care of things for me.
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: So the website is under construction, but the social media sites are still going.
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: They're still going.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: So definitely, yeah.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: So everyone, please get in touch with Tammy Lewis and her Pink Pearl Hero.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: She's doing an awesome job in spreading the news, helping you to deal with breast cancer awareness and survivor tips and all of that, but also that one dope plan.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: We all need to get that because we care about so many stuff.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: My doctor even said you got that pop-up book.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: You got to make it a little bit smaller than what you have here, so I want to thank you, tani, so All of them was just being happy.
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: I want to thank you, tammy, so much.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: We could have went on and on.
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: I just love having you on here because you share so much knowledge with us here.
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: But I want to thank you so much for being part of my Ready Set Collaborate podcast and definitely make sure you get in touch with Tammy Lewis or Tamara Lewis on your social media.
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: It's on my Instagram it's TammyGGLewis was a tamra lewis.
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: On the.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: On your social media it's um.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: On my instagram it's tammy gg lewis.
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: Gg is but tammy gg lewis.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, so definitely get a touch with her because she definitely could share her story and this is going to be coming out soon before breast cancer witness month that's over 30th.
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: But thank you so much, Tammy, for being on my podcast Audience.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Listen to the next episode of Ready Set, Collaborate with Wanda Pearson and thank you.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: Thank you, Tammy, once again for being on my podcast.
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: Thank you, Ms Wanda, for having me and thank you for thinking about me.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: Oh, absolutely, thank you.
• 30:26
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