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Inspiring Human Potential Inner Growth Stories with 5D Self-Empowered Enlightened Channeled Guidance · Inspiring Human Potential

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  Welcome to the inspiring, human potential podcast you will find
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  on this podcast Channel inspiring human potential, inner
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  growth, 5D self-empowered, enlightened channeled guidance,
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  episodes the 5dc I am expanding Consciousness episodes inner
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  growth. Set episodes 5 DC Krishna Lila
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  lightworker episodes. The adventure of a lifetime and
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  twin flames and soulmates or like workers life and much, much
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  more. And some of these will be
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  subscription-based content and some will be freely available
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  content. What's most important to know
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  about the ihp podcast is that we unconsciously love being people.
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  We are Actual life, love expanding Consciousness.
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  We are infinite higher human potential Consciousness.
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  And so, every episode is meant to support those who are on a
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  personal development Journey, becoming the version of
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  themselves that has began life at their first year of age, 0
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  years of age. You know, we bring together many
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  different topics and it's all about the amazing journey of a
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  lifetime this life. It is educational because it's
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  meant to To support those who will endure at some point in
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  time have taken a look at the inner growth mindset.
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  And really, it's because bringing together, all of these
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  episodes has been a lifetime journey of my own personal
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  eight-year-old self to help people.
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  Just to be able to know, it's okay to be yourself.
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  And while many will come at this, being yourself in a
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  gazillion different ways, here's what I'm going to share with
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  you, and for all of those who will become regular, Hers.
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  I love having you as a community.
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  I look forward to getting together and talking about our
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  love for life. Our love cycles for those who
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  are new. Welcome, I hope you enjoy.
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  Oh, and let me make sure that everyone knows here's what a
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  lovely naysayer had to share about this type of content.
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  And it is something that those who do not resonate with the
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  enlightenment Soul, age, group, will feel, and I'm going to
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  leave that at that. So, this lovely naysayer.
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  Thank you so much as shared. Heard that this content is
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  pseudoscience bullshit and self-help crap.
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  So please keep that in mind and also keep in mind that we don't
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  spell out truths. I bring together many different
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  topics from a Consciousness perspective and they are again,
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  educational in the format of trying to support, and form and
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  share perspectives communities and a lot more.
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  Not only on a mindset that has been researched and tended to,
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  By Me Myself Maria. And I, and then shared as
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  courses. Has future books.
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  Yeah, okay. So, without further Ado, here's
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  what I wanted to primarily share with you The simplest of things
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  can brighten up the day and our ability to love unconditionally
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  with flaws and Imperfections allows for every moment of life
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  to be full of gratitude. Bliss.
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  Abundance, and ever-expanding, love.
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  When you see, or furthermore, I should say, when you can see how
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  your life is the most amazing love affair.
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  Alongside all your loved ones and Humanity, that life is a
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  never-ending creator of Miracles and puzzle pieces which always
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  brings about your Consciousness expansion.
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  And that of humanities that is if the opportunity to expand and
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  create is taken. And remember that, we do have to
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  choose to practice being in our bunch of a ghost eight guys,
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  that nervous system response and our mindfulness brain.
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  And we get to talk a little bit about that and most of the
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  episodes. So remember that's very
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  important because the hijacked, your brain will not be able to
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  take that opportunity because they're already in a defense
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  mechanism. Their nervous system and their
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  brain has been again hijacked by that, fear response, whatever
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  safety. Behaviors, have served them to
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  stay safe. Again, enough of that.
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  So when the choice of expanding Consciousness has been taken and
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  then you will know what enlightenment is and what it
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  actually means to live it every day.
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  FYI, that is a person being a functional adult, forgiving
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  nuanced, knowing that there is not an evil button.
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  There is a shame button and it really isn't a button.
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  It's an actual physiological stance that our body can take.
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  And there's a way that our brain wires and all of this is
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  indicative of why. There are many adoptive children
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  out there who are harsh, unforgiving, not in any way,
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  shape, or form open-minded, although, they may think they
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  are so long story, short, Enlightenment is a functional
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  adults, who is open-minded and knows, everyone has trauma not
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  that there's this evil thing existing in somebody's body, but
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  that there is a nervous system and a brain that develops a
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  certain way. So again, as we move forward, it
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  is from a mind, heart and body. In this place that you will know
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  what living the isness of life. Is what living beyond your
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  quote-unquote self, is what doing something to help all
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  people. In all living things, including
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  our Earth's resources is it is here that you truly catch a
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  glimpse of what the word love Lov, capitalized, action means
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  in action which is also exactly what.
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  In Consciousness is an Enlightenment as a sole age.
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  Group knows all of these things. FYI, pure love compassion.
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  Kindness empathy. These are the aspects that give
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  a sense of safety from within. And without the external it is
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  from this place that we see the True Heart of all people.
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  All Humanity has a heart that is this may not know it, but it is
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  this, that we create and co-create.
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  What we want to bring forth worldwide divided is a Choice by
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  the people of all lands. Every time people choose to
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  speak act and take steps that are not loving, not
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  compassionate, or equanimous when differences arise amongst
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  each other. So, whenever people choose to be
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  in their adoptive child responds, the choice of staying
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  separate and battling is not something that stems from the
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  heart. It stems from our hijacked, for
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  your brain, survival fear, and lack.
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  In fact, it's a physiological response guys.
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  This is where these individuals are not.
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  Actually thinking clearly because they're already in their
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  safety Behavior response, they don't know who they are because
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  they're not connected to their ventral, Bagel State as a
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  person. So, their prefrontal cortex is
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  not engaged. What is engaged in their
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  amygdala? And if they're already in their
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  survival mode? Yes.
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  What happens is the hippocampus, as it gets saturated with
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  cortisol and by the way, the stress hormones, such as
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  cortisol, turn off our lovely oxytocin.
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  Jean. Our love hormones, if you're not
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  in a state of love and compassion, which most people
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  are not, if they're getting upset at anything, you're not
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  going to be able to tune into your body's love, because your
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  body is not in a sense of safety.
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  And FYI that also is why people don't feel their trauma without
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  further Ado again as I continue sharing in this lovely intro,
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  which my regular listeners will most likely skip or I hope you
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  can. And if you can't well you guys
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  got to be reminded about this which I would say is quite
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  awesome. Come on.
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  I'm trying to make it fun, see? Also, the only answer I have
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  always been the same. It's called, love cooperation
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  compromise, structure organization, communication, and
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  so much building together. So, when we choose to be from
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  Hearts, we are always doing loving Cooperative, compromising
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  structure, all of it. It's not going to be perfect.
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  Again, flaws and Imperfections. So what is this?
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  This is I am life. I am love.
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  I am expanding Consciousness. I'm infinite higher.
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  Amin Consciousness, potential, love Maria.
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  And just so that we close with a couple of great quotes.
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  And before we do that, I actually will have some other
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  added information, Seneca or cynical, I don't know how they
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  pronounce. But one time, discovers truth,
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  very true, always always. And then here's another one
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  where ever there is a human being, there is an opportunity
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  for a kindness. This is always Seneca.
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  But my favorite and the one that represents what an
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  Enlightenment. So age group person is because
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  we are connected and embody, being always expanding
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  Consciousness. Those of us in the indictments
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  old age group, we are life. We are loved.
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  We are expanding Consciousness which is why we are a
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  representation of the infinite higher human consciousness
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  potential. We live it and again Rumi this
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  is roomy. Goodbyes are only for those who
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  love with. Their eyes because for those who
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  love with heart and soul, there is no such thing as separation.
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  The entire life of an Enlightenment Soul age group
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  person and anyone who enters into this 5D Oneness
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  Consciousness perspective as well as this still age group
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  does not know separateness were one big ball of energy, we're
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  one big Soul. If you want to call it that and
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  there's a depth of knowing our bodies.
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  They contract our nervous system contracts when somebody It's to
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  quote unquote. What?
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  When they present a limited Consciousness perspective and so
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  will stand up and say be yourself, but we won't mean be
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  yourself from the ego will mean be your expanded Consciousness
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  self our bodies contract. Whenever there is anything that
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  is beneath the 0 by bration, beneath the land of neutral, the
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  land of equanimity and we will always be already at the Top
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  with the infinite, having perceived, a lot of other
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  aspects, depths of Dimensions. This is why we have Shiva and
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  Kali resides. Krishna Leela, Leela, we
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  experience the depth and the profound and seriousness with
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  playfulness. We have an irrepressible child
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  is not a child. It's a depth of our emotions
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  because we feel from the ventral visual stream Shiva.
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  We know non-being. We have been unseen unheard and
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  validated on accepted by our loved.
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  In our vulnerable places and loved ones is all of humanity,
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  because when we get up and say, we love all people, we've been
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  told that we should not because evil exists.
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  Apparently for those who still live in, the medieval times are
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  non being is because Shiva was never scary.
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  Darkness is not scary. Nor is it evil?
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  We actually know what it's like. Again, not to be seen or heard
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  or validated and we understood why Kali?
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  Because our Mastery over life and death is always been a
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  burning fire. Of life and expanding
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  Consciousness in knowing that you cannot tell me what I can
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  feel, or think you may suggest, or give me your opinion, or
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  whatever it may be. But besides that, no matter what
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  age you were, this is where your body immediately just allowed.
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  And as you got older. So this is a little bit of that
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  5dc. I am expanding Consciousness
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  perspective that you'll begin to hear.
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  And again, before we close out this intro, what you also I want
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  to know that the inspiring human potential.
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  Inner growth content is also a mentorship type content again,
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  that's why it's educational. And it includes a journey and
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  mindset that was brought together and researched and
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  still is ongoing because I keep up to date with my
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  psychoeducation and I plan on integrating quantum physics.
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  If I am able to grasp those Concepts, but the bringing
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  together of human and spiritual elements, so, humanity and
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  spirituality wanted in the Same. Although obviously they have
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  their reasons for wise, we bring together existentialism
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  psychology, sociology Neuroscience, the spirituality
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  elements involve Ascension discussing clears astrology, met
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  astrology metaphysics. 3D 4D, 5D these by mentions.
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  Some time to talk about Spiritual Awakening, tarot
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  akashic records readings or just talking about things like
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  akashic Akash. Okay?
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  We explore human. And with the understanding that,
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  that is the expanding Consciousness.
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  So all these subject matters in more it's a multidisciplinary
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  approach, okay, we bring together again, human and
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  spiritual elements to explore the human evolution in
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  Consciousness. Those of you who are life, love
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  expanding Consciousness and infinite higher human Potential
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  from your mind are going to be able to follow those who are
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  linear. You might have questions, please
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  feel free to reach out. I'm here to share any thoughts
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  on anything. That is of support.
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  Again it's something to give the enlightenment so age group
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  specifically, their voice because we don't have a voice
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  out there. I have yet to hear the voice of
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  expanding Consciousness and here's what I will leave you
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  with is something that involves always seeking not believing.
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  We don't believe in the sense of there's only one truth.
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  We're always adding To Our Truth bank, if you will, because all
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  opinions are perspectives, all thoughts, our emotions exist and
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  so began. Welcome to the ihp podcast.
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  I look forward to hearing from you guys on any questions on
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  anything again, even those who would like to perhaps present a
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  completely up to opposing view. We're open to hearing everything
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  because you know as long as it's loving obviously.
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  And when I say loving, I mean that it supports the Expansion
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  of consciousness of humanity and us working together and being
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  functional. Adults, meaning we can agree to
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  disagree peacefully and allow our life, which needs air water
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  and food to keep existing. We need those Bare Necessities
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  from that moment forth. We can always use our words.
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  That's exactly one of those things that we have as a people
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  don't welcome again and I look forward to hearing from you.
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  Welcome back to my lovely HP Community.
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  I wasn't sure to use or enlightening time and so I did a
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  short story instead, some Child Guidance short story, it all
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  depends. So, we've been talking a lot
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  about our oversoul and Enlightenment, as ASL, age
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  group, differences, between those who are in Enlightenment
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  5D those who are in an actual 5e State of Consciousness.
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  When this Consciousness Christ Consciousness, unconditional
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  love and neutrality self-empowerment.
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  As always, and really you want to look at the self from the
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  psycho educational perspective. Because I know some people,
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  People like to use the word so and obviously, we can integrate
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  as Miss and holistic and people who are in this spiritual stuff
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  with those Clare's, those experiences definitely have us
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  be aware that we are these Souls if you will, but Souls is
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  connected. Also to belief system and words
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  in general are very much connected to a lot of belief
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  systems, though. People who know the difference
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  between being a secret believe, Are only really those who are in
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  that inclination to be in the enlightenment.
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  So a trip. So person who is not going to
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  want to have to be a part of a her, so person who is not in
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  shame, blame fault, or Revenge Cycles is a person who can
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  notice differences, in a way that is subtle, but clear, the
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  ones who can notice the differences, but still inclined,
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  to want to be part of that. I'd heard so they're still.
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  Shame blame fault, Revenge cycles of some sort and why.
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  Shane, and really we could just stop at that one, but shame is
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  explained. I remember correctly, Ron.
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  Siegel is the one who talks about the hierarchy and our
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  evolutionary upbringing or know our species Evolution
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  essentially so biologically speaking, our ancestors did need
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  each other physically, they if they were alone, Own they'd face
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  nature, which was quite dangerous compared to today, cuz
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  we back, then we didn't have tools, we didn't have
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  technology, we don't have a lot of things.
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  So, He Arcane there is something that he mentions about here key
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  and therefore shame is a part of that because there are these
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  ways that the way back when would work to survive
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  physically, while people who are again, inclined to be wanting
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  heard in this way, the enlightenment.
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  So each person who comes from a love cycle, Akeley will know,
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  otherwise, Those Who come out a shame, we'll figure it out and
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  what will be figure out those subtleties, the subtleties that
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  say to be independent doesn't mean you don't go create or you
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  don't have that social engagement because actually we
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  engage socially because we feel safe because we can learn how to
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  self-soothe. In fact, the Pug Maple Theory,
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  which I have a course on that one.
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  I'll try and get it done sooner than later so we can Use that
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  information in our episodes usually, but here's where I'm
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  going to read you an email that I got from the website where I
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  got to purchase the courses. It's called embodied philosophy.
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  It's a really great website. They have a bunch of different
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  courses by the way, So that explains to us.
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  How do we react when we're faced with negative experiences?
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  So we react to negative experiences which is adopted
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  based on our personal history. There's three systems,
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  quote-unquote of responding social engagement.
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  Mobilization collapse, collapse is associated with the core
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  unquote, free response. So freeze, shut down.
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  Remember freeze farm when we experience a threat.
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  We shut down. Dissociate act, as if that.
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  And so this is one of those ways that people who have trauma and
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  are not aware. Of they're traumatized, brain,
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  they go from hyper to so, mobilization High person, that's
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  the sympathetic, well, collapses the dorsal legal, okay?
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  And social engagements, that is, the ventral people nervous
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  system response. So, mobilization is associated
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  with the fight or flight response, we actively fight back
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  or run away from the threat. And finally social engagement is
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  when we turn to others for help talking Co regulating, we're
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  self-soothing He goes on to say it's not hard to imagine which
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  one of these is preferable. Polyvagal Theory suggests that
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  the other two responses become our default when social
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  engagement fails us repeatedly from a young age.
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  So what you'll notice is that most of the psycho Educators
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  when they talk about trauma and the development of the self and
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  attachment Styles, it will be connected to those first years.
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  In fact, it's the first year that your development the right
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  brain. Develops and that right?
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  Brain hemisphere is going to be under developed because of some
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  circuitry not being able to get used in an abusive neglectful.
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  Household of course not one that has enough social engagement and
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  safety cubes. So the default Network
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  establishes, your safety behaviors which really is going
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  to establish how you navigate again circumstances.
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  And so if from a young age Social engagement failed, you?
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  So to talk to go regulate or substitute, you're going to have
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  an easier way or actually it's not even easier going to be
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  inclined to be in the collapse or mobilization.
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  And so we see hyper and hypo, we see sympathetic dorsal vapor and
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  I now that I have all these pieces of knowledge when I'm
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  encountering people, right? I can tell certain things and
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  I've seen the collapse action as I am.
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  Interact with people in the past still.
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  Now sometimes there are people that I know obviously doesn't
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  tend to take place when we are engaging but it has it a few
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  times it has I remember exactly what it was like and now I know
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  what I can, so see to it humanly speaking.
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  Now, for the Claire's, this is where people are in 3D 4D.
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  They keep talking about each other as if humanity.
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  Is evil monsters, the whole energy vampires.
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  People siphoning the whole narcissist a half Story.
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  And there's reasons for all of these, you always look at all of
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  them but for the enlightenment still a true person.
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  We don't actually treat each other with these We don't treat
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  the heard as if it's less or more.
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  We have a way of understanding that those who know how to be
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  social will socialize and those who don't will not and those who
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  don't they may seem Associated or scared or angry but what they
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  really are incompletely is in a self-defense mode.
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  So this biological rudeness this yellow and red versus a green
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  And in today's ERA this is called getting stressed out.
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  And really what it is is it's an adoptive child responds when it
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  comes to interpersonal relationships.
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  So people who are cancel out culture, who called each other,
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  toxic people who think that they actually can demand respect in a
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  specific way. And this is where I'm trying to
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  get us to our story which deals with if you recall, my one
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  lovely attachment style friend ambivalent That made certain
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  statements and also interacted with me.
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  And then, I recently saw her publicly post something, which
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  was very fascinating and that's where the story's coming from
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  the way for you all to understand the huge difference,
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  when your 5D self-empowered, enlightened ending like mental
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  age, group versus when you are unaware of your own self and you
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  stay as an adoptive child. Now granted with her Little bit
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  more compassion because herself is not wired in a way that her
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  body feels safe and social insight.
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  And her mannerisms are all reactive when she gets stressed.
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  So, this is where understanding that we need the science to know
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  it. But once I had the science that
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  even understood why her energy is this touch cry for help.
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  Whenever there's stuff going on, there's this immense suffering
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  that has always been part of these Dynamic, which you know
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  that. Again I know what it is.
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  It's clear and it has nothing to do with an energy vampire.
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  It has everything to do with the person who's agitated and we're
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  all one big energy. By the way, we're all a big
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  sound and we pick up on each other's stuff because that's how
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  it works, even though people don't believe it, but those who
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  are Mystics and ballistics, we know it.
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  We don't have to believe it. We live it.
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  So, when you are a person who has Claire's and you are aware
• 24:39
  of what, Means and you also are aware that your Consciousness
• 24:42
  and that you can pick each other up.
• 24:43
  Yeah, there you go. That's why I titled 5D's of
• 24:47
  empowered and lightning. So that only people who at least
• 24:50
  have some experience from this concern to something that is
• 24:53
  educational for their own growth and really it's for that
• 24:56
  Enlightenment Soul age group alone because those who are not
• 24:59
  here will not actually get what we're talking about.
• 25:03
  Because the egos way to quote unquote, big meaning the
• 25:06
  insecurities of the South are way too much cream.
• 25:09
  Dating some glasses. Here's the difference in night
• 25:13
  my still a tree person will know that.
• 25:16
  We also have a self and ego that can be that big.
• 25:20
  Okay? And this is where I think it was
• 25:23
  today that you'll hear the episode or yesterday, maybe
• 25:27
  where I said, we always are aware that we can hurt others
• 25:32
  the same way, they can hurt us because that's exactly where
• 25:35
  there can be misunderstandings. Where people we're apples, and
• 25:38
  oranges is nothing. Abnormal for the common sense
• 25:41
  person, the common sense person is only the person who's
• 25:44
  actually confident, anybody else is not going to be common sense.
• 25:49
  So when we interact with our loved ones and something like
• 25:53
  this happens, it does emotionally affect us, meaning,
• 25:56
  it hurts her feelings. Because when we share our life
• 26:01
  with people, we were doing so because we care not we may not
• 26:05
  meet their demands, but that to us is nothing abnormal if they
• 26:09
  want. Demands to be met.
• 26:10
  They should go find. I don't know somebody or
• 26:12
  something that wants to nor lots of pets back again, it's really
• 26:18
  interesting. No, the more we're like, wow.
• 26:22
  You know, it has nothing to do with Humanity being evil or
• 26:25
  selfish. It just has to do with a lot of
• 26:27
  unevolved pieces of Consciousness.
• 26:30
  A lot of adaptive children who are in their collapse submit or
• 26:35
  attach cry for help, or please appease, which are safety.
• 26:39
  Mayors which are biological rudeness.
• 26:41
  In fact, in which we see on TV all the time, all over the place
• 26:44
  man all over the place to see the Adaptive children going at
• 26:48
  it. So let me finish reading the
• 26:51
  email and then we'll keep moving forward to the story.
• 26:57
  It's not hard to imagine which one of these is preferable
• 26:59
  polyvagal Theory suggests that, okay?
• 27:01
  So the young age part, that's very important, young age, the
• 27:04
  first two months of your life that the last trimester in your,
• 27:08
  and your mother's, boom. This is where I still have to
• 27:11
  watch that video but we absorb the stress stuff that is going
• 27:14
  on. So our brain also is affected by
• 27:16
  that. The circuitry, in fact, if you
• 27:19
  remember from Gabor mate, when he talks about, ADHD says, it's
• 27:23
  not a disease. It's Adaptation of the brain
• 27:27
  circuitry for the environment around and it's just not
• 27:31
  working, obviously more for you as you grow up.
• 27:34
  But if you're in a environment that is not safe, which is what
• 27:39
  abuse and neglect involved. What could a person who has a
• 27:43
  nervous system who is not in safe and social themselves?
• 27:47
  They will not be in energy. That is safe and social their
• 27:50
  body, their chemistry. Everything will be in a specific
• 27:54
  spectrum of stress. And the person is going to
• 27:57
  absorb it. This is why those who are
• 28:00
  insecure. Read the room and don't realize
• 28:03
  that they're affected by room, and that they can do something
• 28:07
  about it. The ones who realize it in a way
• 28:09
  of thinking, they're saving, someone those are the ones who
• 28:12
  want to call themselves, empaths, who don't realize that
• 28:15
  we are not here to save each other.
• 28:16
  We co-create together and expand together.
• 28:19
  It's two different things we evolved together.
• 28:20
  So they just don't know enough about the human stuff because
• 28:23
  they haven't gained that interest in learning.
• 28:25
  How their body actually works or brainer how Humanity Works any
• 28:29
  way shape or form because a couple declares and stories, got
• 28:33
  them to think that they can know people just by being able to
• 28:36
  interact with them. Through the energetic field, we
• 28:39
  can know people through our own vessel which is this eyes our
• 28:43
  ears. What you learn and remember that
• 28:45
  you have your own reality that you've created since the day you
• 28:48
  were born. So you got your own story.
• 28:50
  Now, how many pieces are part of your story?
• 28:53
  So for those who are very And in that Enlightenment.
• 28:57
  So they shipped, the story is where human beings.
• 29:00
  He all love, we all can hurt. We all learn how to apply Free
• 29:04
  Will. As we grow up.
• 29:06
  And Free Will means. I choose every time I'm going to
• 29:09
  respond to, which means I choose what words come out of my mouth,
• 29:12
  I tried to, as I grow up, I learn how to be better at it and
• 29:16
  better and better. And I learned even how to manage
• 29:18
  my emotions as I grow up something straightforward, but
• 29:23
  the boobies, well they show. Oceans and very different
• 29:26
  format. We got a bunch of adoptive
• 29:28
  children around creating these types of beautiful, dramatic,
• 29:32
  little triangles. So we get to not participate by
• 29:35
  the way but we get to. Now know what that is again.
• 29:40
  Not everybody chooses Enlightenment because while we
• 29:43
  can see the difference between a demand that is ridiculous and
• 29:49
  that is self-centered versus a demand that is of an actual life
• 29:54
  threat situation be. We going down and or really just
• 29:58
  also Common Sense again. And or really just, you know,
• 30:02
  having relationships that are independent, not dependent.
• 30:07
  So, some people will want to, or be always inclined, not to
• 30:11
  actually know that they have a herd mentality that they are
• 30:14
  part of her. They want the herd and they're
• 30:17
  drawn to that because the herd is about the mammalian Heritage,
• 30:22
  every person just like Educators explain will want to be being
• 30:25
  accepted validated and heard in their vulnerable places by their
• 30:29
  loved ones ever. Want those thumbs up, it will
• 30:31
  want to feel cuddled and want to feel that they are surrounded by
• 30:36
  people. So here's the deal, we might
• 30:39
  men. So each person knows what that
• 30:41
  means, but our life is too precious when I say life, when
• 30:45
  I'm trying to say is the essence of life that we are.
• 30:50
  And so, we are not something we won't, we don't need to hurt.
• 30:55
  That you don't need to be accepted validated seen, or
• 30:59
  heard in our vulnerable pieces. That's not what life is made of
• 31:02
  life, is made of be needing air, food and water.
• 31:06
  I don't need you to say great job and can hurt my feelings.
• 31:09
  If you say horrible job, but I'll get over it.
• 31:12
  Because why wouldn't I? This is the connectedness of
• 31:16
  pure Consciousness that those of us in the enlightenment, silly
• 31:19
  troop and those who come from their expansion with the love
• 31:23
  cycle, half the Priority of your life.
• 31:26
  I'm only for you. I have never once thought, oh my
• 31:30
  God. I'm such a horrible.
• 31:32
  Human being, I can be as horrible, as anybody else can
• 31:35
  is. All I can say because I will be
• 31:37
  exempt from being considered a horrible human being by
• 31:40
  somebody. That's actually what we know.
• 31:43
  And we know that that's actually normal what we want to see.
• 31:49
  It is just because it's just Yeah, so the heard they like the
• 31:56
  feeling of being together seeing each other accepting each other.
• 31:59
  And in fact, like I said, not everybody is for the
• 32:01
  enlightenment. So age group, you got plenty
• 32:03
  that will stay within their secure attachment so they will
• 32:07
  look to treat and b. And end.
• 32:10
  What really is is that the way they feel about things continues
• 32:14
  to use shame guilt, apathy, all of those regret, everything
• 32:22
  below the Challenged adults because they still navigate it
• 32:25
  for the enlightenment. So each person will know why
• 32:27
  will feel slightly guilty? You don't actually have shame
• 32:31
  because we don't do things that are against their own
• 32:33
  Consciousness. With this means is we take
• 32:35
  ownership of every word we speak will know will fuck up and we
• 32:39
  don't have secrets are afraid of coming out because we know that
• 32:42
  everybody has Secrets. Like again, these are all these
• 32:46
  adoptive children, harsh unforgiving, they are
• 32:49
  self-preserving. So they're still wanting that
• 32:51
  approval from their Parents. They're wanting to feel safe in
• 32:54
  their households. They want the herds accept it,
• 32:57
  they can't live without her like they're their actual shattered.
• 33:02
  Mass comes from not being accepted so they will be in
• 33:06
  their social engagement in a way of wanting to talk to get that
• 33:11
  approval and to even be regulated by each other and to
• 33:16
  also learn to self-soothe. But with each other indictment,
• 33:19
  so age group will be able to do All of this all on their own and
• 33:24
  not feel that something is missing.
• 33:27
  And in fact actually went in the indictments old age, would be
• 33:29
  find that it's best not to express too much because we get
• 33:34
  human spraying a lot. We get people who start to
• 33:38
  create their story around something.
• 33:40
  That is a sure when you find self Empower people not the case
• 33:44
  we actually listen, they share, you know, their compassion
• 33:49
  they're able to also be unconditionally loving because
• 33:52
  they're Powered. So, they understand being a
• 33:54
  person. And they understand that we can
• 33:56
  all hurt each other, but we don't have to whine about it.
• 34:01
  So, the self empowered individual is that in the
• 34:04
  individual, who will see the subtleties and who will be the
• 34:08
  only ones who are slightly inclined to be in that 5D
• 34:12
  Oneness, Consciousness, Christ, Consciousness, and invite mental
• 34:15
  age, but they might still prefer that heard stuff.
• 34:21
  So that's where the shame Mmmmm cycle is not a bad thing.
• 34:24
  I know the word doesn't make it sound quote-unquote neutral,
• 34:29
  actually not. So I know that shame as a word
• 34:32
  is not really the that neutrally.
• 34:34
  But the shame cycle is the inner critic, outer critic.
• 34:37
  You're denying things through addictions drugs, sex food
• 34:40
  alcoholic and busy, busy busy withdrawal isolation.
• 34:43
  That's the last piece, and then the reassessment, there's not a
• 34:46
  expansion. There's a, I'm going to do it
• 34:48
  again. So, When the self is not wired
• 34:53
  correctly, this is what a person ends up looping into their own
• 34:58
  way of life and that limits their potential because they
• 35:01
  don't expand to more, they're staying within their safety
• 35:04
  zone. And usually they're interacting
• 35:06
  with their same Dynamics over and over again, which is why the
• 35:09
  other still age groups. They do have Karma.
• 35:13
  We do Dharma indictment still a jerk.
• 35:15
  So Dharma is where you dismantle Karma and you're expanding
• 35:19
  consistently. It is not hard to imagine.
• 35:23
  This email says, which one of these is preferable, polyvagal
• 35:27
  Theory suggests, a young age. It's not hard to imagine
• 35:30
  circumstances of trauma that would hardwire us to depend on
• 35:34
  mobilisation and collapse instead of social engagement.
• 35:38
  But how do we quote on quote, we program this hardwiring to be
• 35:41
  able to be receptive again to the possibilities of our social
• 35:45
  engagement system. This is where Compton plate of
• 35:49
  practices come in as they Have the capacity to cultivate a
• 35:52
  sense of safety in the body. So as to condition a range of
• 35:56
  responses, beyond the ones we've become accustomed to, this
• 36:00
  Insight is just one of many, empowering ones, discovered
• 36:03
  through an engagement with polyvagal Theory, what's an
• 36:07
  Insight you've discovered since starting the polyvagal theory
• 36:09
  course with Stephen. Porches so contemplative
• 36:14
  practices, I haven't started the course yet.
• 36:17
  So we'll find out about that and eventually, but what I can tell
• 36:20
  you, You is that quote, unquote reprogramming is something that
• 36:24
  a person who choose to become, who chooses to become a adult,
• 36:28
  will enact all on their own. It will notice difference
• 36:31
  between being a person who is demanding as an adopted child or
• 36:40
  a person who is learning to work with their implicit memories
• 36:43
  stuff the reactiveness. So once you choose who you want
• 36:48
  to be, is really where your Journey Begins.
• 36:51
  That can begin at any age, you are 89 times. 13 is usually the
• 36:56
  age because One, we accumulate trouble until the age of seven
• 37:01
  or eight and that's probably because we're in our Theta
• 37:04
  brainwave State until the age of seven.
• 37:06
  I forget where I got the data point, but that's where my
• 37:09
  conclusions come. I'm sure that the brain
• 37:13
  scientists have other things to say, furthermore, it's by 25
• 37:17
  that our frontal lobes finished to develop.
• 37:19
  So until that day, your brain still developing, certain
• 37:22
  aspects in the frontal lobes are for long-term thinking Chemistry
• 37:28
  our body changes. So when you're a teenager,
• 37:30
  there's a bunch of chemistry and different things.
• 37:33
  We would be ideal for people to learn how to obviously work with
• 37:36
  their energy but they're too busy watching the drama being in
• 37:39
  drama and, you know, they're insecure.
• 37:41
  They're looking to their peers to gain that security with their
• 37:44
  unresolved. Now trauma stuff.
• 37:46
  So, they're their insecurities. I'm broken.
• 37:49
  I'm unworthy, I am a problem or I was, I am afraid.
• 37:57
  Or it's unfair. So the it's unfair is what's the
• 37:59
  most popular? In fact, the grown-ups are all
• 38:02
  there is. That's a teenager and it is
• 38:05
  masked with their anger and their ego which is at that point
• 38:08
  inflated because they're actually go does not have a
• 38:11
  sense of safety all on its own Enlightenment.
• 38:14
  So age of person our sense of safety comes from within us all
• 38:18
  on our own. We choose to understand that we
• 38:21
  will not be seeing accepted validated or taken in on yada
• 38:26
  yada yada and our vulnerable places for our loved ones and we
• 38:29
  begin that Journey as teenagers besides already having had it at
• 38:33
  the home because we all have wounded Parts.
• 38:37
  Those parts that were unseen, unheard unaccepted, unvalidated,
• 38:41
  etc, etc. The difference is the amount.
• 38:43
  Mental age of a person didn't get pissy, and ignore the fact
• 38:48
  that anger mask sadness which masks again other feelings.
• 38:53
  And when it comes down to shame and guilt, oh, here's where they
• 38:56
  might So age, the person can have identified.
• 39:00
  Those emotions when they arose if they ever Rose and they're
• 39:05
  very quick to understand what they are and why they're there.
• 39:08
  So God keeping our conscious clears very easy for us because
• 39:12
  we know what guilt means is when you actually do something that's
• 39:16
  wrong and that brought about hurt.
• 39:19
  We will not do feel shame because we're not able to read
• 39:22
  the minds of people or to acquiesce to their every request
• 39:26
  of how we should. Should be able to behave.
• 39:27
  So that's where the shame for us did not happen.
• 39:31
  The only moment of for example, for me shame very few and really
• 39:36
  one that stands out and it's because of how I was raised and
• 39:40
  to think I immediately noticed whenever even if I think of
• 39:44
  other things that could possibly bring about these feelings of
• 39:47
  shame or embarrassment, it has nothing to do with me.
• 39:50
  It's all made up. It's bullshit.
• 39:52
  So it's easy for me to see it know where it comes from.
• 39:55
  Yeah, I'm not heard person. Excuse me for being an
• 39:58
  independent person you know or not so much.
• 40:00
  Not it's very nice to be independent in a way that makes
• 40:04
  complete sense. So While others again, they're
• 40:06
  going to keep on ignoring the fact that they can choose when
• 40:10
  that moment arises, what they're going to Value more, the essence
• 40:15
  of life, they are and understanding that they don't
• 40:17
  need to feel not even optimal shame because it's bullshit.
• 40:20
  We don't need that to work together.
• 40:22
  You don't need that to create together some actual, very
• 40:25
  distinctive. Motion that you will pick up
• 40:28
  besides posture that you will say.
• 40:30
  I don't there's nothing, no our ancestors, needed it because of
• 40:35
  specifics for self-preservation. This is and it really was
• 40:39
  because they we didn't have thinking great that did not have
• 40:41
  thinking brains. So if you keep using your self
• 40:44
  preservation brain alone and only those mechanisms will of
• 40:48
  course you're going to stay in that level of Consciousness.
• 40:51
  That's the point and that's why not everybody gets to that
• 40:54
  lovely. In my insulation, they're going
• 40:56
  to keep choosing That know where you going to follow the
• 40:59
  bandwagon of using optimal shame.
• 41:02
  Why? Because they actually don't
• 41:03
  trust in humanity, their species to be independent and to be able
• 41:07
  to rule their own selves, to each be their own create or
• 41:11
  ship. So there is no trust in each
• 41:13
  person becoming their full functional adult and that's
• 41:17
  masked by so many belief systems by the way, so many histories.
• 41:21
  So Mel, yeah, the movies. Let's not forget about the
• 41:23
  stereotypes, all of the things that Captive children in moments
• 41:28
  were there under stress will look to it's unfair, I'm angry,
• 41:33
  I'm upset, I'm afraid this is, and they will find every one of
• 41:36
  those. And that's not common sense, by
• 41:38
  the way. And that's not a brain, that was
• 41:40
  clear, by the way, that's a brain that's taken over if you
• 41:43
  will by those emotions and Now is acting with them.
• 41:47
  It's not looking at the emotions which are the reactiveness
• 41:51
  intending to them first. Men speaking, let me Vance, you
• 41:58
  the story and let me read some of what was written in a way
• 42:03
  that I won't disclose it entirely because really it's
• 42:07
  unnecessary. But basically it's been a couple
• 42:12
  of this issue be by myself and only with people who will follow
• 42:17
  my rules. And they go on to say how they
• 42:20
  actually realized that, you know, the parents, don't teach
• 42:25
  you how to be independent it. I'll teach you how to actually
• 42:28
  get respect from other people. They don't teach you about
• 42:30
  self-love. And so this is where they
• 42:33
  finally decided that they're going to only be around people
• 42:37
  that follow their rules and they presented in fact two of their
• 42:40
  friends throughout these months, things that didn't sit well with
• 42:44
  them one was because this person would share with them stories of
• 42:48
  sadness and then not ever asked him to go out with them when
• 42:52
  they told him this. The friend got upset.
• 42:54
  The other is because Answering days after days and basically
• 42:59
  telling me that they work and that they're busy, and they
• 43:02
  can't, which would be me, raising my hands, and I let them
• 43:08
  know that this thing is not, okay, for me and they were
• 43:12
  upset, but they didn't admit their position.
• 43:15
  So, this is this made me laugh because actually, I didn't admit
• 43:19
  a position because I didn't do anything wrong.
• 43:21
  That's the point. So, right here is where you will
• 43:24
  find. How perspectives?
• 43:27
  Of selves of people actually have a way of seeing things very
• 43:32
  differently about the differences, of course, I'm
• 43:35
  aware of their hurt, and they're feeling of being left alone and
• 43:41
  their unreasonableness would be equated to their
• 43:44
  self-centeredness, they're stressed their emotional.
• 43:48
  So, everything that is their life that they're going through
• 43:51
  is very true is very valid. Same thing though, with me and
• 43:55
  having work is not a Excuse, it's me, I have work.
• 43:59
  There's things that I will have to tend to, and, or prioritize,
• 44:05
  which are of my actual survival. So, here is where, when it comes
• 44:08
  to work, you know, it's funny how people will come and crap on
• 44:12
  you, because you can't give them time.
• 44:14
  But the one thing that has a began grown-up was very clear.
• 44:17
  As are you going to pay my bills if I become poor?
• 44:20
  Are you going to tend to me? Are you going to give you a
• 44:22
  home? Are you, are you actually here
• 44:24
  to even like theirs? No other way for me to put it.
• 44:28
  And really, when any person in our life for the enlightenment
• 44:32
  Soul age, group makes any type of ridiculous, ridiculous
• 44:36
  demand. Like that is ridiculous.
• 44:38
  Not because of the emotions behind it.
• 44:41
  It's because of the blindness of an individual to their own self
• 44:45
  and their blindness means you thinking that a person's
• 44:47
  actually done something wrong when they haven't, because doing
• 44:51
  something wrong means that I intentionally without even
• 44:54
  informing it. And then Reven that here's Or
• 44:56
  the subjectiveness comes into the mix and here's where it
• 44:59
  might mentally. Drew people.
• 45:01
  We actually don't go down this path.
• 45:03
  This is a waste of time. That's all for those who are in
• 45:06
  their own adaptive children and their in rumination.
• 45:09
  And in fact, they actually stay there and separation
• 45:12
  Consciousness thinking of the things that they could do and
• 45:15
  others could do. And that's their mental cruising
• 45:17
  here is that inner critic. Outer critic.
• 45:19
  We don't do any not even a little bit.
• 45:21
  Because, as soon as somebody presents something like this,
• 45:25
  it's bullshit. As a teenager, I saw the
• 45:28
  bullshit. I'm an adult.
• 45:29
  And I see the bullshit. And again, objectively speaking
• 45:33
  everyone has a heart. Her heart has been obviously.
• 45:38
  What's it called hurt? My heart hurt.
• 45:41
  Of course, because there is a lack of recognition of a person
• 45:46
  who I care about about their demands, which are definitely
• 45:50
  from a place of stress this part, we know, but their demands
• 45:54
  are now turning into about a Critic.
• 45:56
  She's actually adorable with the attached pressure.
• 45:58
  Help collapse of me all of the therapists.
• 46:00
  I'm not their therapist, I'm their friend, but when your
• 46:03
  friends together we grow together.
• 46:05
  So here's how the oversoul gets people who want to achieve their
• 46:09
  environment to get to their Enlightenment.
• 46:10
  If they choose to get out of their heads, which most people,
• 46:14
  they don't because they do want the hurt.
• 46:16
  So they seek each other for safe and social.
• 46:19
  They have those needs and here's where they're not in communion
• 46:22
  with truth during communion with entanglement and attachment they
• 46:26
  Want to feel safe. Now, the people who instead are
• 46:29
  completely independent, functional adults, they don't do
• 46:32
  this. This is the dance of the drama
• 46:34
  people. We do another Dance, It's called
• 46:37
  an independent dance of Spicer's of life.
• 46:40
  And so we don't need to reassure each other.
• 46:42
  Every second of the way that we are loved, we don't have demands
• 46:46
  for each other, where it's unnecessary or where we
• 46:48
  basically know if they say, no, they can, it's straightforward
• 46:51
  or our feelings. Don't get hurt because you don't
• 46:53
  have time for us. We we get it.
• 46:55
  We get it cuz we are also Also, we also know what it means to
• 46:58
  have a life emotionally speaking.
• 47:00
  The people who are self empowered, they're independent
• 47:03
  and so they support each other with their emotions.
• 47:06
  They don't throw them at each other.
• 47:08
  People who don't have a very great wiring of their self.
• 47:11
  They have a window of tolerance for moments of aloneness and
• 47:15
  stress. And yet are at that is not very
• 47:17
  sturdy. In fact they are already in
• 47:20
  their stress stuff. So granted this individual has
• 47:24
  done nothing wrong except for Express their Onion.
• 47:27
  But here from this angle, if you want to look at Maria angle,
• 47:31
  it's all bullshit, but that's why the opinion of Maria in this
• 47:35
  case, doesn't matter. And here's where we have a
• 47:37
  spirituality process. We said, grew says person, who's
• 47:41
  in that spirituality process is able to put their personality
• 47:44
  aside and do what is the greater good and do for harmony.
• 47:49
  This is where the heard people won't ever see this, because
• 47:53
  they're going to be too busy and these others all age groups,
• 47:55
  trying to prove their point. See each other because they're
• 47:57
  all insecure and they all want each other's thumbs up.
• 48:01
  So in this case for me and anybody who's in an indictment
• 48:04
  still age, group with people that they love their oversold
• 48:07
  that are in adoptive, child responses, there is no
• 48:11
  wrongdoing or their hurt feelings.
• 48:13
  Of course, there are it would be ridiculous and actually I'm true
• 48:18
  to say that there are not feelings even those who think
• 48:21
  they're not hurt. When they say I'm angry, that is
• 48:24
  masking. Their sadness, anger.
• 48:26
  Our masks hurt. It allows a person to feel
• 48:29
  strong in a moment where instead they would probably want to cry.
• 48:32
  And in fact, remember, in our evolutionary science sadness, is
• 48:36
  something that the body learned not to be in because it would
• 48:40
  make us easy prey for animals. So, again, we don't need any of
• 48:44
  the metaphysics is, at are some stories and their lovely way of
• 48:47
  talking about siphoning energy to understand why people do what
• 48:50
  they do. If only a person looks into
• 48:52
  brain science and psychoeducation effectively is
• 48:56
  very Ford. This is a person in fact with an
• 48:58
  attachment style, does not know how to self-regulate
• 49:01
  co-regulated anything and we'll throw people under the bus
• 49:05
  because their emotional demands are not met and they will have
• 49:08
  the outer critic all over it. That's the math.
• 49:10
  Right? There are the protectors,
• 49:13
  they're not tending to their wounded.
• 49:14
  Child, their protectors just created a villain, which would
• 49:18
  be there. Those friends and, you know,
• 49:20
  here's the funniest part, let me continue reading because they go
• 49:24
  on to explain demonstrate. It's treating that I'm weak.
• 49:29
  Something about it. Created visible parts of me that
• 49:34
  are true and maybe this is what has created me created a
• 49:38
  closeness to people who really care about each other or
• 49:43
  something like that. And then she goes on to talk
• 49:45
  about boys men and how they treat her or treat people such
• 49:50
  as herself that don't demand respect or didn't demand
• 49:53
  respect. And again I'm not going to read
• 49:55
  all of it but She could include with also binding, telling us
• 50:01
  that she's found people that do really accept them and match,
• 50:07
  which is really great. I'm very happy to know that they
• 50:09
  have a person. They feel right now, matches
• 50:12
  everything they want them and that will accept who they are,
• 50:17
  even if there is a disobedient child.
• 50:19
  So, do you know the use of words again?
• 50:21
  Very fascinating. And remember the different still
• 50:24
  age groups. So here we have Society and
• 50:27
  relationships, definitely. There's that teenager.
• 50:30
  Plus a young adults potentially and concluding with.
• 50:34
  It takes a lot of efforts to have people respect.
• 50:38
  So the effort is, it's hard. It's so hard to have people
• 50:42
  respect me, but I'm gonna do it and there we go.
• 50:46
  And now, I'm so happy to be myself and to not feel guilty,
• 50:51
  if somebody gets offended, when I tell them the truth, this one
• 50:55
  is a real kicker. I love about the truth is that
• 50:58
  box are not truths and Truth. Really go on the philosophical,
• 51:04
  exploration of that. If we wanted to, We tend not to
• 51:07
  get wasted in our time here guys.
• 51:11
  We tend to not waste our time. So feeling guilty, when I say
• 51:18
  the truth, very much a part of ego.
• 51:23
  That's masking the fact that a person's Opinions are not truths
• 51:28
  their opinions, their subjective.
• 51:31
  The fact that guilt has nothing to do with another but it has
• 51:36
  everything to do with you. Not realizing that there's
• 51:39
  nothing to feel guilty of thoughts or emotions, but
• 51:43
  there's also that shame. And so there's an entire group
• 51:46
  of emotions and, or instincts quote-unquote, reactiveness and
• 51:52
  distant memory stuff, nervous system stuff that's going on in
• 51:55
  one millisecond, right? Obviously, we use words to
• 51:58
  express our Concepts. The part here is where this
• 52:02
  person is upset. So, I got upset after reading
• 52:06
  it, of course, in fact, I could tell and even as I shared the
• 52:11
  topic, it's a topic that is sensitive because it's
• 52:14
  definitely unpleasant to have people who think of themselves
• 52:23
  as right. And Choose others of being
• 52:28
  wrong. Here's where the ego has its
• 52:31
  rope. But again, for those of us in
• 52:33
  the enlightenment of age group, we don't actually care about
• 52:37
  being right or wrong, those who cared are to do the unpopular.
• 52:42
  So, here's where the thing is, there's always going to be two
• 52:45
  sides and we don't do inner critic and we don't do out a
• 52:48
  Critic. We recognize this guilt or shame
• 52:51
  comes up. And we are not going to point
• 52:53
  the finger and say you're to blame your default or About us
• 52:58
  and we're not going to go and be afraid and say we're helpless.
• 53:03
  And oh my gosh. How sad is it to be?
• 53:06
  The one left behind or get angry and stick to this anger and
• 53:11
  think this is completely unfair. This is ridiculous.
• 53:14
  Probably we can have done that as we're going up that's the
• 53:17
  part of where we learn to mature and how do we learn this?
• 53:21
  Because we realize that anger is masking hurt.
• 53:27
  Unfair as masking, the egos hurt.
• 53:30
  What is the egos hurt? We'll go back to our heard.
• 53:33
  I was unapproved unaccepted unvalidated in my vulnerable
• 53:38
  places by a loved one, it seems very straightforward and the
• 53:42
  minute we're in our centeredness with Shiva nothingness, which is
• 53:45
  what we all are waking up every day with the knowledge that they
• 53:49
  told me. Who are the person is going to
• 53:51
  make that difference in how you smile or don't smile and how you
• 53:54
  feel in this body and that would be us.
• 53:57
  Indictments of age. The person in 5 DC knows this
• 54:01
  without a shadow of a doubt, which is why it would play.
• 54:03
  So, make doesn't matter who you present, what life sends you let
• 54:07
  me read, said your fact, we don't even need said Guru, but
• 54:10
  he's great. What he, wait a minute, my
• 54:15
  phone's acting up, but he's great at what he shares and how
• 54:21
  he shares. It opened my pictures.
• 54:24
  Again, when we are real Realizing Humanity, all through
• 54:30
  life. Well, this one's a different
• 54:32
  one. This one's great though.
• 54:33
  Your physical body will age, but your energy body need not age.
• 54:36
  You can keep it, like, it was just born and here's this.
• 54:41
  Other person says, if you have enough energy or physical, Bobby
• 54:44
  won't age, either, I guess we'll find out what we but that's not
• 54:48
  what said Guru says. He just says that we can
• 54:51
  maintain our energy body which is really great.
• 54:54
  This one's good, too. Whether you have a plan, Even
• 54:57
  predictions is what makes the difference between success and
• 55:00
  chance Guru and where are you whatever life throws at you if
• 55:08
  you learn to shake it off and stand on it you can make it a
• 55:11
  basis of your growth maturity and well-being.
• 55:14
  Now this sentence can be used by those who will think I'm
• 55:18
  stronger than you and I'm going to put you you know, beneath my
• 55:21
  feet and this is still anger. So being upset with a person who
• 55:27
  Says unkind things is what you will want to look at as
• 55:30
  something normal, as an adult, which is why it's functional.
• 55:34
  Adult is forgiving a new ones, we don't have protector lenses
• 55:37
  on because we don't have a wounded child, they don't have a
• 55:39
  self. That feels unworthy.
• 55:41
  What we have is the awareness that we've been unseen, unheard
• 55:44
  unaccepted unvalidated in are vulnerable places by loved one.
• 55:48
  Meaning my day to day is going to be lived in x, y z, d ways it
• 55:53
  has just been used in a way that is against me, period.
• 55:57
  A person who has had time with me.
• 55:59
  So the part about feeling that unfair, here's where that's
• 56:02
  another whining moment because for me to be upset at having
• 56:06
  shared time, for example, with a person without getting that
• 56:10
  quote, unquote respect is egoic and it is childish, it will take
• 56:15
  place though we might mental age of a person in 5 DC will be
• 56:19
  aware of these through. So we're not doing inner critic
• 56:21
  or outer critically. Doing, here's my ego.
• 56:23
  Here's their ego. Here's my personality.
• 56:26
  Here's their Leti. Here's our emotions because
• 56:29
  we're both human beings and here's both of our hearts being
• 56:32
  heard because that's what happens when distance is
• 56:34
  created, which is what they've done obviously, but they have
• 56:38
  their reasons. Their friend is not a friend.
• 56:41
  It's a, their friend doesn't meet the demands they want.
• 56:44
  They're not going to recognize what they've done because their
• 56:47
  friend didn't do anything for them.
• 56:49
  Because here's the other part about the protector of items,
• 56:52
  they will create vilification over generalizations.
• 56:55
  They will be in the black and white thinking about The
• 56:57
  children, they don't think they're being reactive adults.
• 57:00
  That's why they're not autonomous.
• 57:02
  Are also part of a hurt and they want safe and social with the
• 57:06
  hurt. So here's the deal.
• 57:08
  They're not an energy vampire although the 4D Community that's
• 57:12
  why they will call these types of people that are in people's
• 57:15
  lives energy vampires. What this is are people that are
• 57:19
  in attachment Styles who are of a heard type inclined
• 57:23
  personality and yada yada 3D 4D, body type have no idea.
• 57:27
  What 5D even means because they don't know unconditional love,
• 57:30
  they only know conditions and their conditions rule.
• 57:33
  So if they can't have what they want, their will go down there.
• 57:36
  Shame blame fault Revenge Cycles, very straight forward
• 57:40
  until they choose, not to with Free Will by the way, just very
• 57:43
  simple seeing the bullshit of their mouths.
• 57:47
  So here's the thing, the bullshit of my mouth doesn't
• 57:50
  come out because as an adult, they can see both sides and the
• 57:54
  bullshit is that it's really humorous.
• 57:57
  Then again it's not because the person is upset.
• 58:00
  But then again they're angry so they're not even sad about it
• 58:03
  and they actually think they're self-righteous that they think
• 58:05
  they're right. So you know they're in a good
• 58:07
  spot there in a strong spot. Right now, what will want to see
• 58:10
  is in years in time, what happens when they get to their
• 58:14
  low point? Which I hope doesn't happen
• 58:17
  because honestly, you know, I would say that at this point of
• 58:20
  their Journey, they've made their choices quite clear.
• 58:23
  However let's hypothetically say at their low point.
• 58:26
  They Siddur, re-evaluate, or they just find themselves.
• 58:29
  So desperate that they must reach out to someone and they
• 58:32
  will have nobody else, but say to turn to a person who will be
• 58:37
  on the other end of the spectrum, will know the right
• 58:39
  silence and will know how to be supportive for those who need
• 58:43
  support. Because that's exactly where
• 58:45
  again, life is not going to be taken away from you.
• 58:49
  If you share a little time with a person and or anyone who needs
• 58:53
  emotional, support, mental, support, physical support in a
• 58:57
  way. Way of a friend, we don't need
• 59:00
  respect. That's not what relationships
• 59:02
  involve when they are independent.
• 59:06
  And since our relationships, our independence we simply always
• 59:10
  choose one thing when we're in community was truth, is this
• 59:14
  something that I can do? Can I help this person in this
• 59:19
  moment of life that they're reaching out?
• 59:22
  The past stays in a little bag, which we already have with this
• 59:27
  person. It's not the first time we
• 59:28
  actually part ways. The first time I was the one who
• 59:32
  said, I will not be able to meet your demands.
• 59:34
  It's a French this time. They're the ones who in a
• 59:38
  different way points out another individual, as a person who is
• 59:41
  not a friend, that's okay because their demands were not
• 59:45
  met. So what stands true is that we
• 59:47
  are incompatible because I don't do shame blame.
• 59:50
  Guilt fault or Revenge. JH.
• 59:52
  Nor do I stand or sit or listen in a way of seeing?
• 59:56
  Yes, no, I saying I can't do that, I can't do that.
• 1:00:01
  I can't do that. And very clearly by the way,
• 1:00:04
  which is where the introduction to beginning of friendship was
• 1:00:08
  with the, this is how my life is, but it turned into what it
• 1:00:12
  is now. And again, the realization that
• 1:00:16
  anger unfairness equals sadness, equals ego equals
• 1:00:20
  self-centeredness Very straightforward.
• 1:00:22
  This is why there are no sides. When this Consciousness, we
• 1:00:26
  don't have sides, we understand that love can equal hurt and so
• 1:00:31
  hurt people hurt people. This is not a toxic environment
• 1:00:35
  for person who self empowered. It's only a toxic for those who
• 1:00:39
  actually are still insecure with each other, because they're
• 1:00:42
  seeking each other's approval. So, they feel it's so hard to
• 1:00:46
  have people respect me. That's how a person who.
• 1:00:50
  And, I know I have A compassion hat on.
• 1:00:52
  But again, I am sharing with those who are inclined to be 5
• 1:00:57
  DC and enlightened and then like, mental age group.
• 1:00:59
  So they're not going to sit in that and pal.
• 1:01:02
  They're not going to sit and pout with anger.
• 1:01:03
  They're not going to sit and pout with winding us.
• 1:01:05
  They're not going to sit and pout with.
• 1:01:07
  They're not going to sit and think this is right.
• 1:01:09
  They're going to know, wait a minute.
• 1:01:12
  Okay. Okay ego.
• 1:01:14
  Lets, you know, let's take this a step further and remember
• 1:01:17
  that, we don't deny emotions. We see very clearly what our
• 1:01:21
  emotions will. And my emotions definitely
• 1:01:24
  brought up. Wow, really really huh?
• 1:01:27
  And I got to share in a safe space.
• 1:01:29
  I got to share it with self empowered people, you got to
• 1:01:32
  share briefly because really one minute, three minutes, maybe
• 1:01:35
  five is what I gave. And then I said, you know, she
• 1:01:38
  gave me a very good episode to share with my community because
• 1:01:42
  here's where we do have emotions difference, is they depend on
• 1:01:47
  us? Not on not being seen or heard
• 1:01:49
  or validated. Because again, that person sees
• 1:01:52
  life through their eyes, not my eyes, I don't have their body, I
• 1:01:55
  don't know, I can know what it's like to live their body because
• 1:01:58
  they described it to me. I can feel very, very bad for
• 1:02:02
  them because of knowing how hard it is inside their body, they
• 1:02:07
  feel life, is weighing them down.
• 1:02:10
  And here's where the Akash and there's is hammering them, well,
• 1:02:14
  for me, no, it's very Blissful. I wake up every morning feeling
• 1:02:18
  like as a feather, especially with my loved ones because it Is
• 1:02:22
  one thing that the enlightened so a tree person will be so
• 1:02:25
  blunt and so straightforward. This is why, when somebody's,
• 1:02:29
  where they feel put to the side, are put to the side, and we
• 1:02:34
  won't be arrogant or I'm polite about it.
• 1:02:37
  Again, will be very straight and clear.
• 1:02:40
  So we have nothing to say, because we always stand in
• 1:02:45
  authenticity and transparency, and we're not part of the herd
• 1:02:49
  in a way of, oh, you have to accept me for who I I am we're
• 1:02:52
  part of her because we were Humanity.
• 1:02:53
  We live on the planet that has seven point.
• 1:02:55
  Nine billion people. You're going to be a part of a
• 1:02:57
  hurt whether you want it or not. You're going to be creating
• 1:03:01
  stuff with others, right? So trust we don't worry about
• 1:03:05
  that because that match really expands when people right here
• 1:03:09
  in this case, trust is not being built.
• 1:03:11
  Because there is a person who does not trust in the situation.
• 1:03:15
  They want to have control, they want to have security, they want
• 1:03:19
  to have power, and they want that from a So what about the
• 1:03:22
  child that seeking people to be there for them as they call them
• 1:03:27
  to be there when they're not, they call that hard and they
• 1:03:30
  call it a lot of things. Even the fact that they're an
• 1:03:33
  empath and they only have, you know, people who wants to
• 1:03:37
  narcissist and that they're going to break free from this.
• 1:03:39
  So there's all these different ways that the adoptive child
• 1:03:42
  will tell themselves a story. The 43d in fact is fully
• 1:03:48
  immersed in it. The other Soul age groups, the
• 1:03:50
  difference will be Wendy's other Soul age groups, find their
• 1:03:54
  soulless within their within their day-to-day life.
• 1:03:58
  So when that happens they just solidify.
• 1:04:00
  In fact that so age group and they begin to experience
• 1:04:05
  relationships and their reality every day.
• 1:04:07
  Men after all remember, Katie all special are cycles for
• 1:04:11
  reason. There's rumination, they're
• 1:04:14
  sitting in that inner critic, outer critic and they're sitting
• 1:04:16
  in their stories, they will deny the truth and other means and
• 1:04:20
  they will only Spotlight, their suffering and then they will
• 1:04:23
  withdraw and isolation and they'll do it over again.
• 1:04:26
  So limited Consciousness doesn't involve because every time free
• 1:04:30
  will is there whenever they're in their lows, they just repeat
• 1:04:34
  their patterns, they don't see, you know, we can thank the
• 1:04:38
  movies and every stereotype out there in generalization that
• 1:04:41
  people still use to talk about each other.
• 1:04:44
  As if it's a fact versus realizing that these are based
• 1:04:48
  on a past of our species that is still evolving says Argos,
• 1:04:52
  people want to hold the past as a Truth Versus realizing that
• 1:04:57
  that word, you know, truth is nothing.
• 1:05:00
  Nice with Shiva colleague and then krsna's Lila.
• 1:05:04
  And really what we want. Also, remember is that for Life?
• 1:05:11
  The truth is we need air water food.
• 1:05:14
  The truth is we don't live in prehistory anymore.
• 1:05:17
  The truth is that the self-preservation brain does
• 1:05:19
  work is certainly. And so the truth is some people
• 1:05:21
  will They've adopted child responses because their brain is
• 1:05:26
  in a state where they're not aware of their implicit memory
• 1:05:29
  stuff. And when somebody has a way of
• 1:05:32
  presenting it in a nice way, in a technical way, I presented my
• 1:05:36
  friend many things throughout the times that we were speaking.
• 1:05:40
  It did not take any of it up. In fact, you know, the part
• 1:05:43
  about. Why should I work on me when
• 1:05:45
  everybody else is an asshole? So, this is where a person who
• 1:05:49
  is actually in, Ian will not notice that they can improve
• 1:05:55
  their life and they may think of Enlightenment.
• 1:05:57
  But they won't necessarily get there for real.
• 1:06:00
  They'll have a mantle and they'll have their little book
• 1:06:02
  of morality codes, you know, Enlightenment only, when you can
• 1:06:06
  recognize her equals hurt. So again to close out this is
• 1:06:11
  not ever something. That is a pleasantry to me where
• 1:06:14
  we are. This is something that is very
• 1:06:18
  sad to say the least wherever there is anger.
• 1:06:21
  It's Asking the sadness and the reality is, because it's time
• 1:06:26
  that we invest with each other, it feels it will always feel
• 1:06:30
  that that time has been invested without any expansion, but the
• 1:06:36
  reality is for us we've expanded the others have not expanded.
• 1:06:40
  So that disruption is in fact because the other individual is
• 1:06:44
  still in their shame blame fall Revenge cycle.
• 1:06:46
  They're in their adoptive child self.
• 1:06:48
  They haven't actually moved into a high.
• 1:06:51
  Higher vibration. They're still in that same so it
• 1:06:55
  disconnects and creates a, what's it called?
• 1:06:58
  With me. It creates a disagree Librium.
• 1:07:02
  So it doesn't match my vibration.
• 1:07:04
  They're vibing out of vibration and living.
• 1:07:06
  Like a shack was a repeat. So I know that cycle.
• 1:07:09
  So the time spent it feels quote-unquote wasted but it
• 1:07:13
  really isn't. That's where again, we can
• 1:07:16
  always be objective about where our own personality ego comes
• 1:07:19
  into the mix because we choose I Goes to share my time.
• 1:07:22
  I could have chosen otherwise I put into practice my free will.
• 1:07:26
  Every time we will take ownership of one thing alone,
• 1:07:30
  it's not about control. Its that we chose and we choose
• 1:07:33
  always consciously if we're going to share a moment with you
• 1:07:36
  or not and we don't choose it based on entanglement or
• 1:07:39
  attachment we don't choose it based on you do this for me we
• 1:07:44
  choose it based on pure and simple love and that love means
• 1:07:48
  not to what I want you to do. And Trust doesn't Mean do what I
• 1:07:52
  want you to do. Tell me what I want you.
• 1:07:54
  It's we choose because we were part of each other.
• 1:07:57
  We're all inclusive. And really what it is is if I
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  can be of support, even if it's for a second, it's not because I
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  need you to do something. I don't need you to change.
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  I don't need you to become. That's the part.
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  We don't take our time and share it for an outcome.
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  We will take ownership of know, I chose Free.
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  Will I chose to give you my time?
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  Because I care that's all and it doesn't mean that you're going
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  to have to do whatever it is that, you know.
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  So that's it's it's a we only live conservation ships from, we
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  will notice when our own mammalian, Heritage being
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  unseen, unheard unaccepted, unvalidated comes into the mix,
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  and we'll be able to tend to that business up for a whiner
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  that really doesn't do much for us our own wine or doesn't do
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  anything for us we except for it.
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  Wait. Actually, our Winery, gives us
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  the opportunity to keep enlightening.
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  So, see here's how our oversold, all of our fragments, and that's
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  the whole world beside your intimate loved ones, gave us the
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  opportunity. This person gave me the
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  opportunity to share the story with you and all a lot of
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  Stories. The fact that they hurt is not
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  very nice for me to know, but guess what?
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  I'm not a person that they consider their friend anyways,
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  because I don't do the things that they want me to do the way
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  they want me to do it. And they also are oblivious to
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  this. And they're Not the only person,
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  by the way, there's, I, I'd say that.
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  I know, maybe they're harsh unforgiving.
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  They don't know that their own life and apparently, they didn't
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  get the memo. It's very much, you know, the
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  council thing culture. There's a reason why for D is
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  the biggest bandwidth by the way, because most people don't
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  actually have the ability sit and say, you know what, I'm not
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  saying, I a I'm saying, I'm imperfect, I'm flawed and
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  imperfect and what I'm saying though is that I've given you
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  the authentic truth and You've chosen to twist it and shape it
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  into whatever it is. You want it to be which is fine.
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  Twist it, twist it. All you want.
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  In the meantime while you twist, I'm going to keep moving forward
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  with my life and move along with grownups because the
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  enlightenment still agent. That's the thing we're moving
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  along with grownups or at the very least self empowered
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  people. They may not be full-blown
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  grown-ups but they will know what's what and you find them.
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  We find people who are independent and won't twist our
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  words and twist entire situation.
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  Ian, this Person also Twisted, a whole bunch of other stuff.
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  So again, the past, the patterns, always clear to those
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  of us who can see. And for those of us who love
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  unconditionally, we will still be there if the need arises.
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  Because, why wouldn't we? It's simply sharing a moment of
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  love with the person. Who will, if ever reach out need
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  that, it has not taken away from any of my stuff.
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  It has given me the ability to love more to share with you all.
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  And again, that's exactly where the infant higher human.
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  Consciousness potential comes into the mix.
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  Goodbye and experiences calling in or leave a message.
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  Have a great day. Consciousness potential comes
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  into the mix. Goodbye and experiences calling
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  in or leave a message. Have a great day.