Latest / Honey Badger Radio / Rachel Wilson Ends It AGAIN, NotSoErudite Most Affected
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Good morning good afternoon good evening wherever you may be
- 0:02Speaker 1: and welcome back to honey badger radio my name is
- 0:04Speaker 1: brian i'm here with allison and this is maintaining frame
- 0:07Speaker 1: uh what's the name of this fucking thing again rachel
- 0:10Speaker 1: wilson ends it again not so erudite most affected i
- 0:13Speaker 1: don't know why i like what i i yeah i
- 0:18Speaker 1: like forgot where i was for a moment i couldn't
- 0:21Speaker 1: find the title where i was for a.
- 0:23Speaker 2: Moment yeah i got it.
- 0:25Speaker 1: It was it was rumble it was rumble being weird
- 0:30Speaker 1: All right. So, yeah, we're going to basically continue our journey.
- 0:34Speaker 2: It's been sort of an endless sameness in a way.
- 0:39Speaker 1: What do you mean?
- 0:40Speaker 2: Yeah. Like an endless sameness of, well, I mean, we've
- 0:44Speaker 2: done this like three, four times now.
- 0:47Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So we have to keep
- 0:49Speaker 1: coming up with new ways to introduce it. Yeah.
- 0:52Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 0:53Speaker 1: But yeah, no, it's a good conversation, I think.
- 0:56Speaker 2: Yes, it's great.
- 0:58Speaker 1: But we're going to continue going through the debate between
- 1:02Speaker 1: Rachel Wilson and Kyla, also known as Not So Erudite,
- 1:07Speaker 1: on whether or not feminism is doing more good or harm,
- 1:11Speaker 1: which is Rachel Wilson is arguing in the affirmative that
- 1:14Speaker 1: it is doing harm, and Not So Erudite is trying
- 1:18Speaker 1: to blame anything else. And that's basically the... That's the
- 1:22Speaker 1: conversation right now. Yeah.
- 1:24Speaker 2: But also it seems to be like she's not wanting
- 1:28Speaker 2: to admit that it's a problem that the birth ratings
- 1:32Speaker 2: are tanking. I mean, I think that she does admit
- 1:35Speaker 2: it at some point.
- 1:36Speaker 1: She admits the issue, but she thinks the blame is
- 1:40Speaker 1: it can't possibly be feminism. It's anything but.
- 1:43Speaker 3: Right.
- 1:44Speaker 1: It's anything but that's kind of where we were.
- 1:46Speaker 2: Anything, anything but the ideology, the one ideology.
- 1:51Speaker 1: Yes.
- 1:52Speaker 2: We're going to kill families. We're going to kill we're
- 1:54Speaker 2: going to kill pair bonding and women and motherhood. Well,
- 1:58Speaker 2: not women, but motherhood, women having children and being wives
- 2:02Speaker 2: and mothers. We're going to destroy that. It can't possibly
- 2:06Speaker 2: the destruction of those things cannot be credited to the
- 2:09Speaker 2: movement that said they were going to destroy them. That's
- 2:15Speaker 2: some unique gaslighting, don't you think? That's the next level gaslighting.
- 2:22Speaker 2: It's like, I don't know, the U.S. saying, you can't
- 2:26Speaker 2: credit us with the bombing of Nagasaki and Hiroshima. No,
- 2:32Speaker 2: we didn't do that. But you did, and you said
- 2:35Speaker 2: you were going to do it, and you did it,
- 2:36Speaker 2: and you ended the war. I'm just saying, it's such
- 2:40Speaker 2: a manifestly obvious thing. The feminists said they were going
- 2:44Speaker 2: to do it and they did it. And now everybody's like, no, no,
- 2:49Speaker 2: that didn't happen. Yeah, but it did. I know you're
- 2:56Speaker 2: trying to piss on our legs and tell us it's raining,
- 2:58Speaker 2: but it did happen. They did say that and they
- 3:00Speaker 2: did do it. And they even laid out how they
- 3:03Speaker 2: were going to do it. And then they proceeded to
- 3:05Speaker 2: do that thing. Their plan. It's just, you know, it's
- 3:09Speaker 2: just really like it gets to the point of being
- 3:12Speaker 2: absolutely infuriating when anyone denies this. I mean, the biggest
- 3:17Speaker 2: and most, the biggest success feminism ever did, their biggest
- 3:21Speaker 2: success story is they laid out a plan to destroying
- 3:26Speaker 2: the nuclear family, to destroying heterosexuality, destroying pair bonding between
- 3:30Speaker 2: men and women and destroying the process of a society
- 3:34Speaker 2: replicating itself. They laid out that plan. They said, this
- 3:37Speaker 2: is what we're going to do. Yeah, guys, this is
- 3:39Speaker 2: what we're going to do. This is how we're going
- 3:41Speaker 2: to do it. This is what we're going to promote
- 3:44Speaker 2: to this end. And then they did it. And it worked.
- 3:49Speaker 2: And everybody's like, no, he's not going to come. We
- 3:55Speaker 2: need a logical fallacy here. Just to contain this level
- 4:00Speaker 2: of human mendacity. How could it not be them? They're
- 4:08Speaker 2: the only ones who wanted to do it. Not even
- 4:10Speaker 2: the communists wanted to do that. The Nazis still had
- 4:14Speaker 2: children and marriage. The only one, the only of the
- 4:18Speaker 2: big ideologies that requires hating a good portion of the
- 4:22Speaker 2: human race, the only one that specifically said, hey, we're
- 4:26Speaker 2: going to kill family, was feminism. And so they did.
- 4:32Speaker 2: And now we're arguing over it. This is a victory
- 4:37Speaker 2: lap for feminism. Not only do they kill family and
- 4:40Speaker 2: pair bonding and marriage, marriage basically not only did they
- 4:44Speaker 2: kill that their victory rap their victory lap over the
- 4:51Speaker 2: society whose future they killed is to insist that they
- 4:55Speaker 2: didn't do it now we didn't do it but if
- 4:59Speaker 2: we did it's pretty awesome and it's exactly what we
- 5:02Speaker 2: wanted jesus christ all right anyway let's continue.
- 5:08Speaker 1: Well, no, I'm just saying that's the topic, I guess.
- 5:11Speaker 1: Do the things.
- 5:13Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 5:14Speaker 2: Oh, do the things.
- 5:15Speaker 1: All right.
- 5:15Speaker 2: Sorry, guys. All right. If at any point throughout the
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- 7:13Speaker 5: Whatever.
- 7:14Speaker 2: All right. Let's do it.
- 7:16Speaker 1: All right. Let's get into it. So we're basically like, well,
- 7:20Speaker 1: we're still talking about, again, the debate is, is feminism
- 7:24Speaker 1: doing more harm or good or harm? And let's just
- 7:29Speaker 1: pick it up.
- 7:32Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
- 7:34Speaker 1: All right, Rachel, two minutes.
- 7:36Speaker 6: So it would.
- 7:37Speaker 1: All right, let me like.
- 7:38Speaker 2: Ooh, echo.
- 7:40Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 7:40Speaker 2: Why do you get the echo fix? And to my argument.
- 7:43Speaker 1: What?
- 7:44Speaker 2: It's still there. Why do you get the echo fix?
- 7:45Speaker 2: I just want to point out, like, I just, I'm astounded. Right.
- 7:50Speaker 2: Why do we even have to have this debate? Can
- 7:52Speaker 2: we not just have the debate? Hey, feminism destroyed marriage.
- 7:56Speaker 2: We sort of need that. Like, how do we fix
- 8:00Speaker 2: it now?
- 8:01Speaker 1: Yeah, well, the thing is, yes, we should be having
- 8:04Speaker 1: that debate, but there are people who are terrified of
- 8:09Speaker 1: losing feminism. So they all fight tooth and nail to
- 8:13Speaker 1: hold on to it by basically excusing every way that
- 8:18Speaker 1: it has engaged in overreach, or just plain attributing things
- 8:24Speaker 1: that are observably the consequence of it on something else, because...
- 8:29Speaker 1: They can't, they're, they are terrified. Like they see it
- 8:33Speaker 1: like a security blanket and they.
- 8:35Speaker 2: Don't want to, they don't want to lose it. Huh? Yeah. Yeah. No,
- 8:39Speaker 2: I'm saying you're right. Um, it's, there's some kind of emotion.
- 8:43Speaker 1: They think that it, it, it's like a ward, like
- 8:46Speaker 1: a magical circle that protects against men. Like if, if
- 8:50Speaker 1: it goes away, they're just going to like be oppressed suddenly.
- 8:53Speaker 1: Like it's the only thing it's literally magical thinking, but
- 8:56Speaker 1: it is the thinking. That is what it is.
- 8:59Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 9:00Speaker 2: And yet feminism is also the thing that conjecturizes that
- 9:03Speaker 2: men oppress women in the first place. Actually, before we continue,
- 9:07Speaker 2: I did want to do a couple of corrections from
- 9:10Speaker 2: the last time we did this. One, in terms of
- 9:14Speaker 2: sheer body count, of course, Nazism and communism have a
- 9:20Speaker 2: bigger number than feminism, at least until feminism's project. to
- 9:26Speaker 2: destroy family and thus the future of civilization, it reaches fruition,
- 9:32Speaker 2: which I guess you could argue some of that is already,
- 9:35Speaker 2: if you want to count the abortion thing. But yeah,
- 9:38Speaker 2: so I wanted to clarify that. But as I said
- 9:41Speaker 2: in the beginning, both systems did not attempt to destroy
- 9:44Speaker 2: human pair bonding and the family, at least not the
- 9:49Speaker 2: Soviet communism. They were very pro-natalist. And the other correction
- 9:53Speaker 2: I want to make is I did look at the
- 9:55Speaker 2: statistics and yes, the Soviet bloc countries did have a
- 10:00Speaker 2: higher fertility than the West prior to the fall of
- 10:03Speaker 2: the wall. They did recover after the wall fell to
- 10:10Speaker 2: something that was, I think, still higher than the West.
- 10:13Speaker 2: And then the international banking feminists attacked, nation attacked. and
- 10:20Speaker 2: it started to fall significantly. So that aspect of the argument,
- 10:28Speaker 2: both I think Rachel and not so erudite, I don't
- 10:34Speaker 2: think they're using the correct stats. And the correct stats,
- 10:38Speaker 2: I think, support the point that Western feminism is of
- 10:43Speaker 2: the devil. So, okay, let's go. I just want to
- 10:46Speaker 2: make that correction, just briefly.
- 10:47Speaker 1: That's fine.
- 10:47Speaker 2: All right, let's go.
- 10:50Speaker 3: Whatsoever, if Martians came down in 1910 and told the
- 10:55Speaker 3: women to go join the workforce and that's when it
- 10:58Speaker 3: happened or how it happened or why, it doesn't matter
- 11:00Speaker 3: to my argument.
- 11:02Speaker 1: Yeah, so Erudite was saying before this, do you want
- 11:04Speaker 1: me to go back to her saying, here, let's go
- 11:08Speaker 1: back a little bit because I think there's some context.
- 11:10Speaker 2: I am in your hands, Brian.
- 11:12Speaker 3: Huh?
- 11:12Speaker 2: Huh? I'm in your hands. I merely attack whatever.
- 11:17Speaker 4: You point me to.
- 11:17Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fine. It's fine. All right.
- 11:20Speaker 5: So it's shorter, but you already brought up the two
- 11:24Speaker 5: minute response.
- 11:24Speaker 1: Okay.
- 11:25Speaker 4: Let's talk about the 1970s since you're not going to
- 11:27Speaker 4: answer the question and your narrative does hinge it on it.
- 11:29Speaker 6: Your argument is fun.
- 11:30Speaker 1: So the question she's referring to is like, what, what
- 11:32Speaker 1: is your, if it's true that feminism did this and
- 11:36Speaker 1: why is it happening to the Gulf States as well?
- 11:39Speaker 1: They don't, they obviously like, Erudite would say they obviously
- 11:43Speaker 1: don't have feminism in the Middle East. I would argue
- 11:46Speaker 1: they do, but they're just a little behind.
- 11:50Speaker 2: I will tell you. I can tell you exactly. So
- 11:56Speaker 2: she's essentially saying, oh, this is the counter evidence to
- 12:00Speaker 2: your proposal. The Gulf states have lowered fertility. And also
- 12:07Speaker 2: in the 70s, it was not... a sharp rise in
- 12:12Speaker 2: women in the workplace it was just part of a
- 12:15Speaker 2: long-term uh increase of women in the workplace now i
- 12:20Speaker 2: can answer both of those um do you want me
- 12:23Speaker 2: to answer them or shall we get.
- 12:24Speaker 1: To let's see what let's see what what what erudite
- 12:27Speaker 1: actually says and how rachel.
- 12:28Speaker 4: Responds fundamentally this in the 1970s in fact i believe
- 12:32Speaker 4: your quote was in the 1970s something changed. And it
- 12:36Speaker 4: wasn't these various economic factors that we've been seeing for
- 12:39Speaker 4: the last 50 years.
- 12:40Speaker 1: Hold on, we have to give her a chance. Go ahead, Carolyn.
- 12:42Speaker 3: I didn't say that here, but I said that on
- 12:44Speaker 3: Joe Rogan.
- 12:44Speaker 1: You're right, it's.
- 12:45Speaker 2: Not just economic factors. I don't know why. I'm just
- 12:50Speaker 2: finding this amusing. It's like, erudites, well, you pointed out
- 12:53Speaker 2: these economic factors, and it's like, yeah, they weren't the issue.
- 13:00Speaker 1: Perhaps.
- 13:00Speaker 2: I don't know how that helps erudites' argument. that it
- 13:05Speaker 2: wasn't feminism. It's just like, well, let's take these factors
- 13:09Speaker 2: that aren't feminism off the board. Okay, let's do that.
- 13:13Speaker 2: But okay, let's keep going.
- 13:15Speaker 1: All right. Kyla, go ahead, finish your point.
- 13:18Speaker 5: Okay.
- 13:19Speaker 4: In the 1970s, which is what you hinged it to
- 13:22Speaker 4: in this conversation when I asked you what time feminism
- 13:25Speaker 4: started infusing women into the workforce and the she economy began,
- 13:28Speaker 4: you did say that. In the 1970s, the thing that
- 13:31Speaker 4: you actually think that was magical that happened is called
- 13:34Speaker 4: the quiet revolution. That's what you're citing. Claudia Golden's work,
- 13:38Speaker 4: which by the way, I chatted to her before this conversation.
- 13:41Speaker 6: She loves your book, by the way.
- 13:43Speaker 4: Claudia Golden discovered and coined the term the Quiet Revolution,
- 13:47Speaker 4: which in the late 1970s, there was a revolution, not
- 13:50Speaker 4: in an infusion of women in the workplace in the 70s,
- 13:53Speaker 4: that was the same since the 40s. It's been a
- 13:55Speaker 4: consistent progressive trundle up. What was different is women's relationship
- 14:01Speaker 4: to work. Pre the Quiet Revolution, work was temporary, acute,
- 14:07Speaker 4: and low skilled for women because they understood they would
- 14:09Speaker 4: have to go home and take care of kids. After
- 14:12Speaker 4: the 1970s, they went, I think I could get an
- 14:14Speaker 4: education and get long-term career prospects. So that's what's changed
- 14:19Speaker 4: in the 1970s, that you're blaming all of the economic downturn,
- 14:22Speaker 4: which I agree, there's a lot of economic problems on,
- 14:25Speaker 4: which is not feminism.
- 14:27Speaker 6: The 1970s, the.
- 14:29Speaker 4: Economic problems that started there is connected to the gold
- 14:33Speaker 4: standard and the Triffin dilemma.
- 14:34Speaker 1: All right. So let's... Real quick, I want to explain
- 14:40Speaker 1: what the... I would like to explain what the... No,
- 14:43Speaker 1: the silent revolution. The quiet revolution. All right.
- 14:47Speaker 2: Okay, sure.
- 14:47Speaker 1: So, Claudia Golden is the Harvard economic historian who coined
- 14:52Speaker 1: the quiet revolution for a shift. Now, this wasn't something
- 14:55Speaker 1: that was created. It was something that was named, you know, like,
- 14:58Speaker 1: by this person. So, for a shift in how American
- 15:02Speaker 1: women planned work, schooling, and family, she won the 2023
- 15:05Speaker 1: Nobel Memorial Prize... in economic sciences for that body of research.
- 15:11Speaker 1: The Quiet Revolution that Transformed Women's Employment, Education, and Family
- 15:16Speaker 1: is a review paper. That's what it is. So essentially,
- 15:23Speaker 1: there were these phases that they're calling organic of women
- 15:30Speaker 1: entering the workforce, which of course, women have always worked.
- 15:33Speaker 1: This is something we've said on here for a long time.
- 15:38Speaker 1: But maybe entering the workforce is something a little bit different.
- 15:41Speaker 1: But regardless, she divides the modern economic role of American
- 15:45Speaker 1: women into four phases. The first three she calls evolutionary.
- 15:49Speaker 1: The last she calls revolutionary. Phase one, 19th century to
- 15:54Speaker 1: the 1920s. Phase two, from about 1930 to 1950. Phase three,
- 15:59Speaker 1: from 1950 to the late 70s. And phase four, the
- 16:02Speaker 1: quiet revolution from the late 70s on.
- 16:03Speaker 3: So....
- 16:06Speaker 1: I mean, I don't have to read the whole thing,
- 16:08Speaker 1: but I just wanted to explain what it is. Now, Alison,
- 16:12Speaker 1: if you wanted to say something to that, that's okay.
- 16:15Speaker 1: I'm guessing that Claudia Golden is a feminist, though. But
- 16:19Speaker 1: go ahead.
- 16:21Speaker 2: Yeah, well, what this says is that women's employment has
- 16:25Speaker 2: nothing to do with feminism. Thank you, feminists. Thank you
- 16:30Speaker 2: for undermining one of the biggest issues arguments you use
- 16:35Speaker 2: as a shield for your actual agenda to destroy the
- 16:38Speaker 2: relationship between men and women, right? Because they tie it
- 16:41Speaker 2: to that, that kind of sense of purpose or efficacy.
- 16:47Speaker 2: And they use that as a shield against their true purpose.
- 16:52Speaker 2: They say, well, if you get rid of feminism, you'll
- 16:54Speaker 2: get rid of women in the workplace. Well, no, because
- 16:57Speaker 2: feminism had nothing to do with that. I fully embrace
- 17:01Speaker 2: this argument. Thank you, Claudia.
- 17:03Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 17:04Speaker 2: I think it's, but at the same time, if you're
- 17:07Speaker 2: going to argue that feminism had nothing to do with that,
- 17:10Speaker 2: you can't use it as a shield. So women need
- 17:12Speaker 2: to know that feminism has nothing to do with whether
- 17:16Speaker 2: or not you have a career, has nothing to do
- 17:19Speaker 2: with the jobs that you have. This was just a revolution,
- 17:23Speaker 2: or as they said, an evolution in people's thinking, probably
- 17:26Speaker 2: because the post-industrial household was no longer a unit of production.
- 17:32Speaker 2: Simple as that. And also because of men's innovations making
- 17:36Speaker 2: the workplace and travel to the workplace safe and something
- 17:42Speaker 2: that women could actually do. I mean, if you have
- 17:45Speaker 2: to constantly harness up a horse, it's a little bit
- 17:48Speaker 2: more difficult to go 40 miles to work a day.
- 17:50Speaker 2: In fact, you can't, right? And also when you don't
- 17:54Speaker 2: have power steering, you're limited in how much you can
- 17:58Speaker 2: actually commute because it's exhausting, right? especially for women who
- 18:02Speaker 2: don't have the same upper body strength as men. So
- 18:05Speaker 2: all of the innovations that men made to make workplaces safe,
- 18:10Speaker 2: travel to workplaces, something that was feasible for women, that
- 18:16Speaker 2: resulted in what she's terming the quiet revolution, which is
- 18:19Speaker 2: women going into the workplace. And it's understandable, too, because
- 18:24Speaker 2: women always had a purpose. They always had ways of
- 18:27Speaker 2: contributing to the family in the home. They were always working.
- 18:33Speaker 2: So the fact that they wanted to continue to work
- 18:35Speaker 2: is not necessarily a bad thing. The assumption is that
- 18:40Speaker 2: women wanting to work outside the home is inconsistent with
- 18:44Speaker 2: them continuing to be wives and mothers. If you look
- 18:46Speaker 2: at the ex-Bloc or the Soviet Bloc nations, that's not
- 18:51Speaker 2: the case. They still were wives and mothers. There still
- 18:54Speaker 2: was a pro-natalist society. I'm not going to go to
- 18:58Speaker 2: the bat for any of the communist economic theories at all,
- 19:02Speaker 2: but in terms of their actual social policy, it wasn't
- 19:05Speaker 2: as disastrous as Western feminism. Women worked. Women got educations.
- 19:10Speaker 2: Women had purpose outside the home because their purpose in
- 19:13Speaker 2: the home was no longer there because it was post-industrial.
- 19:17Speaker 2: I mean, think about it, like 150 years ago, a
- 19:20Speaker 2: woman is working 12-hour days, six days a week to
- 19:23Speaker 2: keep her family alive, canning, making candles, hauling wood, or
- 19:27Speaker 2: often chopping wood. Doing laundry was an incredible task, right?
- 19:34Speaker 2: And hauling water, ensuring that food was edible in the winter,
- 19:38Speaker 2: and gathering from her environment, her local environment, All of
- 19:45Speaker 2: this stuff is a tremendous amount of work and it
- 19:47Speaker 2: gives a sense of purpose that you are serving the
- 19:51Speaker 2: survival of your family. So the fact that when that
- 19:55Speaker 2: was lost for women, they wanted to replace it with
- 19:58Speaker 2: something and the only thing available to them in a
- 20:01Speaker 2: post-industrial society was work outside the home, that's just a non-starter, right?
- 20:07Speaker 2: We can have this discussion. I mean, I would say
- 20:09Speaker 2: that Young children probably need both their parents' attention up
- 20:16Speaker 2: to the age of seven. If we want to go
- 20:21Speaker 2: totally naturalistic, women's intense involvement probably ends at around two.
- 20:30Speaker 2: And then there's a period of socialization. If you look
- 20:32Speaker 2: back into what's being revealed to me from the anatomical record,
- 20:38Speaker 2: there's probably a period of intense socialization between two and
- 20:41Speaker 2: seven where the father is absolutely critical and that's gone.
- 20:45Speaker 2: Then had to give that up to the post-industrial system.
- 20:49Speaker 2: And nobody's talking about that. And nobody's talking about that
- 20:53Speaker 2: effect on the child. So, I mean, there's lots of
- 20:57Speaker 2: conversations that have to be had about parents with young
- 21:00Speaker 2: children going to work and the deleterious effects on those children.
- 21:05Speaker 2: That's fine. But the fact is that when she says, oh,
- 21:08Speaker 2: this is a quiet revolution, yeah, it is. It's a
- 21:11Speaker 2: quiet revolution because women lost their purpose in the home, right?
- 21:15Speaker 2: They decided they wanted to find a purpose and they
- 21:18Speaker 2: found it out in the work world, which was made
- 21:22Speaker 2: accessible to them by the tremendous amount of work and
- 21:24Speaker 2: sacrifice of men, sorry, not women, men. Men made this possible,
- 21:30Speaker 2: public toilets. How do women go in public without toilets?
- 21:35Speaker 2: And the problem isn't because men horribly hoarded the toilets
- 21:39Speaker 2: to themselves. First of all, there were none for the
- 21:41Speaker 2: longest time. And second of all, women need more elaborate
- 21:46Speaker 2: toiletry facilities than men. And while we were establishing the
- 21:52Speaker 2: concept of public toilets, men were easier to serve. And also,
- 21:56Speaker 2: men were willing to do it. There was an exhibition
- 22:01Speaker 2: where they introduced the concept of public toilets. And women
- 22:06Speaker 2: didn't use them like men. Maybe it was privacy concerns.
- 22:11Speaker 2: Maybe it was other issues. Maybe it's because men actually
- 22:14Speaker 2: get arrested for public indecency for urinating in public and
- 22:17Speaker 2: women don't. Who knows? But men adopted it first. They
- 22:22Speaker 2: established the infrastructure. Now women benefit from the infrastructure of
- 22:26Speaker 2: public toilets, which allows them to be in public. All
- 22:29Speaker 2: of this can be laid at the feet of men.
- 22:32Speaker 2: Men did this. Men made it possible for women to
- 22:35Speaker 2: enter the workforce. Okay, this has nothing to do with feminism.
- 22:39Speaker 2: Thank you, Claudia. Thank you for establishing that the quiet
- 22:43Speaker 2: revolution is absolutely fuck all to do with feminism. So
- 22:46Speaker 2: take that off your arsenal of talking points that defends
- 22:50Speaker 2: your actual agenda, which is the destruction of the family, right?
- 22:54Speaker 2: And like I said, I'm not gonna stand here and say, oh,
- 22:57Speaker 2: women shouldn't work outside at home.
- 22:58Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 23:00Speaker 2: Should men work outside the home with a child under seven?
- 23:03Speaker 2: Possibly not. If we want to rearrange our society for
- 23:07Speaker 2: the benefit of children. And again, these conversations are completely
- 23:12Speaker 2: separate from whether or not feminism got women out into
- 23:16Speaker 2: the workforce.
- 23:18Speaker 1: Right?
- 23:20Speaker 2: Because it didn't. It has nothing to do with that.
- 23:22Speaker 2: That was what men did for women. And it was
- 23:26Speaker 2: also women seeking a purpose that they lost in post-industrial household.
- 23:31Speaker 2: That's nothing to do with feminism. But that's, again, if
- 23:36Speaker 2: you tie the idea that our fertility is declining because
- 23:40Speaker 2: of women in the workforce, if you tie those two together,
- 23:44Speaker 2: then you hand ammunition to feminists when they say, oh, well,
- 23:49Speaker 2: that's not what happened. Feminism isn't responsible for that. No,
- 23:54Speaker 2: feminism isn't. Again, it's men's sacrifices, making workplace and public
- 23:59Speaker 2: life accessible to women. and women's desire to pursue a purpose,
- 24:05Speaker 2: now that their purpose in the home was gone. Okay,
- 24:08Speaker 2: so that's off the table. That has nothing to do
- 24:11Speaker 2: with the fertility decline that's caused by feminism. Because you
- 24:16Speaker 2: can do all that, we've just proven, you can have
- 24:19Speaker 2: women in the workplace, right? You can even keep a
- 24:21Speaker 2: fertility level, because you proved that with the Soviet bloc countries,
- 24:27Speaker 2: if you don't have Western feminism. telling women that being
- 24:31Speaker 2: a wife and mother is a source of oppression. Do
- 24:35Speaker 2: you see how that works? This is not even an issue. Yes,
- 24:40Speaker 2: these are a whole bunch of very important conversations. How
- 24:43Speaker 2: much women should work? Should they work outside the home?
- 24:45Speaker 2: Should men work outside the home with a kid under seven?
- 24:49Speaker 2: All of these things. How post-industrial family life has changed.
- 24:53Speaker 2: Is it a good thing? Can we Can we kind
- 24:56Speaker 2: of lessen the effects of it? All great conversations, irrelevant
- 25:01Speaker 2: to feminist feminism destroying marriage, destroying the relationship between men
- 25:06Speaker 2: and women. And thanks to this woman and with her
- 25:08Speaker 2: quiet revolution and her Nobel Prize, we now can say
- 25:12Speaker 2: that it is irrelevant. So let's zero in on the problem.
- 25:17Speaker 2: which is feminism saying they wanted to destroy marriage, telling
- 25:21Speaker 2: us how they were going to do it, and then
- 25:22Speaker 2: subsequently succeeding in doing so. But again, the problem with this,
- 25:28Speaker 2: the argument in terms of Rachel's side of it is
- 25:32Speaker 2: she's tying the fertility decline to women in the workplace,
- 25:36Speaker 2: which again, the Soviet bloc countries indicate this isn't the case.
- 25:41Speaker 2: Women can work and still have children and be mothers.
- 25:45Speaker 2: This is possible.
- 25:47Speaker 1: Right.
- 25:48Speaker 2: And if you tie the fertility decline, and yes, there
- 25:51Speaker 2: is a fertility decline involved, but it's not necessarily under replacement.
- 25:55Speaker 1: Okay.
- 25:57Speaker 2: So if you tie these two concepts together, you're sort
- 26:00Speaker 2: of handing, she handed not so erudite a surface to
- 26:03Speaker 2: attack and there is none.
- 26:05Speaker 1: Okay.
- 26:07Speaker 2: There is none here because it's irrelevant. This argument that
- 26:12Speaker 2: not so erudite is irrelevant to feminism and Destroying marriage,
- 26:18Speaker 2: destroying the relationship between men and women, and tanking the
- 26:21Speaker 2: fertility rate because of that. Now, let's see. So, where
- 26:30Speaker 2: are we? Okay, actually, let's listen to a bit more
- 26:31Speaker 2: because I've gone on for a while.
- 26:35Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 26:35Speaker 1: Oh, okay. Yeah, sure. I got some super things to read. So,
- 26:42Speaker 1: I got a Rumble rant from Roboto for a dollar,
- 26:45Speaker 1: and he says, are you saying feminism is not taking
- 26:47Speaker 1: credit for it? That is very strange, considering they are
- 26:50Speaker 1: not feeling well. Are they not feeling well?
- 26:52Speaker 2: Okay. But they take credit inconsistently.
- 26:56Speaker 1: Yeah, it depends on whether or not it makes feminism
- 27:00Speaker 1: look good.
- 27:00Speaker 2: So... Yeah, if somebody says, wow, you've really done a
- 27:05Speaker 2: fantastic work with making the fertility rate decline to under-replacement,
- 27:10Speaker 2: that's an amazing thing feminism did. I think they deserve
- 27:13Speaker 2: all kinds of money and accolades and awards. Feminisms would
- 27:18Speaker 2: be like, oh, yeah, that's totally what we did. But
- 27:22Speaker 2: the instant somebody said, you know, we sort of need
- 27:24Speaker 2: that fertility rate for the survival of our culture, feminism is, oh,
- 27:28Speaker 2: that wasn't something we did. Yeah. It's entirely contingent on
- 27:34Speaker 2: whether or not they're being praised or criticized.
- 27:37Speaker 3: Exactly.
- 27:37Speaker 2: Whether or not they take responsibility for something. Which, you know,
- 27:41Speaker 2: if you think about it, isn't like the behavior of
- 27:43Speaker 2: a five-year-old.
- 27:46Speaker 1: Yeah. But anyway. No, for sure. Okay. Albatross gives us
- 27:51Speaker 1: $ 5 Super Chow and says, progressive slash feminist asking why
- 27:54Speaker 1: people don't want to get married is literally the Eric
- 27:57Speaker 1: Andre shooting meme. It's pretty good. Yeah, anyway, one thing
- 28:02Speaker 1: I wanted to say, and I did watch this whole thing. Unfortunately,
- 28:06Speaker 1: I do have a criticism of Rachel only insofar as
- 28:12Speaker 1: she gets– she kind of takes the bait and ends
- 28:16Speaker 1: up in the weeds with this whole birth rate thing.
- 28:22Speaker 1: I know that that's her primary objective. It's not even
- 28:25Speaker 1: really the debate itself. I don't know if the prompt
- 28:28Speaker 1: was something that they discussed. But the prompt being, is
- 28:31Speaker 1: feminism doing more harm, good or harm, is I think
- 28:35Speaker 1: something that she probably could have focused, like hyper-focused on
- 28:40Speaker 1: so that not so erudite couldn't find ways to escape
- 28:44Speaker 1: the allegation that feminism is responsible for specifically the birth
- 28:49Speaker 1: rate decline. Now, I think it is. I think that
- 28:53Speaker 1: you can make the argument and that I think what
- 28:55Speaker 1: Rachel would say is that it was feminism that basically
- 28:59Speaker 1: pushed women into the workforce. Now, not working, they've always worked,
- 29:04Speaker 1: but I think she's referring specifically to entering the workforce,
- 29:07Speaker 1: like office jobs, education, nursing, childcare, and these other things
- 29:13Speaker 1: that women were already doing before they entered the workforce.
- 29:17Speaker 1: Like when, you know, before we had schools, like public schools,
- 29:23Speaker 1: women would teach their children or the community would come
- 29:25Speaker 1: together and do it. I know that like where I live,
- 29:28Speaker 1: It's a city, but it's a small city. And like
- 29:33Speaker 1: in my specific church, there's a lot of homeschooling, but
- 29:37Speaker 1: the homeschooling isn't like separated. It's not like the the
- 29:40Speaker 1: the mother is only homeschooling her children like they collaborate
- 29:44Speaker 1: with the other mothers and that's probably what we were
- 29:47Speaker 1: doing forever it's just that now women are you know
- 29:51Speaker 1: they're working in it's a public job it's paid for
- 29:54Speaker 1: by the state it's um it's run sort of top
- 29:57Speaker 1: down in that way the department of education or whatever
- 30:01Speaker 1: your respective analogs for that are in your respective country,
- 30:06Speaker 1: but they're basically doing the same thing, but now there's
- 30:09Speaker 1: just more red tape, more bureaucracy that's in there too.
- 30:13Speaker 1: Now you have unions, now you have these other entities.
- 30:17Speaker 1: So I think that, in my opinion, I would have
- 30:21Speaker 1: tried to not get caught up in only discussing the
- 30:26Speaker 1: birth rate, I would have specifically talked about what it
- 30:29Speaker 1: was that feminism promotes and what are the consequences of
- 30:34Speaker 1: it so that not so erdo I can't escape into
- 30:37Speaker 1: a grippas trilemma or, you know, the gold standard or
- 30:41Speaker 1: these other things that she can use to escape those allegations. Um, that's,
- 30:46Speaker 1: that's my, you know, mild criticism, I guess I would
- 30:50Speaker 1: have is that You know, you're not dealing with people
- 30:53Speaker 1: who care about the truth. You're dealing with sophists. Their
- 30:56Speaker 1: job is to use rhetoric to win arguments and make
- 30:59Speaker 1: people think they're correct, even if they're not. And they
- 31:02Speaker 1: don't care what the consequences of that are going to be. Because,
- 31:06Speaker 1: you know, like, I mean, Kyla doesn't have children. Now,
- 31:10Speaker 1: she miscarried, according to her, which is unfortunate, but... She
- 31:13Speaker 1: doesn't have any children, so that means that the future
- 31:16Speaker 1: for her, at least right now, is just her. It's
- 31:19Speaker 1: her life. If you don't have kids and you're not
- 31:23Speaker 1: the kind of person that would think about other people
- 31:26Speaker 1: or the future, then every move you make, every life
- 31:32Speaker 1: decision is only going to be... Yeah, every breath you take.
- 31:37Speaker 1: It's only going to be for that lifetime. So if,
- 31:41Speaker 1: let's say, Not-So-Eradite lives to be 80, let's say, then
- 31:46Speaker 1: she's going to be thinking about 80 years, like her
- 31:49Speaker 1: entire lifespan, of goals and accomplishments. And whatever happens after
- 31:53Speaker 1: she's gone doesn't matter. Rachel can't do that because she
- 31:58Speaker 1: has children. So she's got to think about their lifespans
- 32:02Speaker 1: and her grandchildren's lifespans and so on. So the way
- 32:06Speaker 1: that they approach, you know, accomplishing things and doing things and,
- 32:11Speaker 1: you know, the, the, the priority of things is going
- 32:14Speaker 1: to be completely different.
- 32:15Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 32:16Speaker 1: And so anyway, my, my point is though, you know,
- 32:20Speaker 1: I don't know if they, if, if the prompt was
- 32:23Speaker 1: something they agreed on, but the prompt being what it is,
- 32:25Speaker 1: I think that it will be better if Rachel didn't
- 32:29Speaker 1: get caught up in the birth rate thing. But I
- 32:31Speaker 1: think that she sees it possibly as the most obvious thing.
- 32:35Speaker 1: consequence of feminism, but then she has to prove the correlation.
- 32:41Speaker 2: What you mean is not the birth rate thing, but
- 32:43Speaker 2: the employment thing, right?
- 32:45Speaker 1: Yes. But she's saying that the birth rate thing is
- 32:48Speaker 1: a product of the employment thing. And I think that, yeah,
- 32:52Speaker 1: that could be true, but all you really have to
- 32:55Speaker 1: demonstrate is that feminism is what pushed for these changes,
- 33:00Speaker 1: for women's perspective on their role as women in society
- 33:05Speaker 1: and by extension, the way that they view men. So, yeah. Well, yeah.
- 33:10Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 33:11Speaker 2: I would say that I would say that the way
- 33:12Speaker 2: that they view men is the critical factor. And in fact,
- 33:15Speaker 2: that is the biggest product of feminism is the marginalization
- 33:18Speaker 2: of masculinity, which creates the preconditions for a financialization economy. Um,
- 33:27Speaker 2: but I'll get into that in another era.
- 33:29Speaker 1: All right.
- 33:30Speaker 2: Let's, let's, let's, what are we, What I wanted to
- 33:34Speaker 2: point out was I think that Rachel might have the
- 33:37Speaker 2: causal arrow reversed here. And I don't think that it's
- 33:42Speaker 2: I don't think it's feminism that necessarily encourages women into
- 33:46Speaker 2: the workplace, because obviously we now have the other contender,
- 33:50Speaker 2: which is this quiet revolution, which I'm sure Claudia doesn't
- 33:54Speaker 2: actually say is mostly men making the workplace safe for women. Um,
- 34:03Speaker 2: but the, uh, what I think is actually happening is
- 34:05Speaker 2: feminism is creating, instilling singledom in women and single women
- 34:12Speaker 2: have to work.
- 34:14Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 34:14Speaker 2: Right. I think that's what, I think the causal, I
- 34:17Speaker 2: think Rachel might have the causal error.
- 34:18Speaker 1: Well, and the thing is Claudia Golden was a feminist.
- 34:21Speaker 1: She is a feminist. She's still alive. So her, she
- 34:24Speaker 1: was basically using sociology or her, her economy rather. She's
- 34:29Speaker 1: an economic historian. To sort of like give credence to
- 34:33Speaker 1: the idea that women, you know, that's why when it
- 34:36Speaker 1: was evolution, i.e. natural, it was just called that. But
- 34:41Speaker 1: in the last, the quiet revolution from the late 70s
- 34:45Speaker 1: on is probably when the feminist movement really took root
- 34:48Speaker 1: in the minds of women. Like to basically get them
- 34:51Speaker 1: to change. Like it wasn't just the technology that men
- 34:55Speaker 1: just made it easier for women to be women. you know, to,
- 34:58Speaker 1: let's say, do the housework with a lot more spare time,
- 35:05Speaker 1: you know, because it didn't take, like, all day like
- 35:07Speaker 1: it used to. But rather, I think there was, you know,
- 35:10Speaker 1: there was a, to call it a revolution already suggests
- 35:13Speaker 1: that people were taking an affirmative position on entering the workforce.
- 35:18Speaker 1: And it was specifically to, quote, liberate themselves. It also
- 35:23Speaker 1: allowed the government to tax double the number of people, so.
- 35:27Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I would say that the framing, again,
- 35:30Speaker 2: if it's feminist, it's going to be feminist laudatory, like
- 35:34Speaker 2: we did this or something.
- 35:36Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 35:36Speaker 2: But we aren't to blame for it at the same time.
- 35:38Speaker 1: Well, I looked up whether she was a feminist, and
- 35:43Speaker 1: she basically said that she no longer uses it because
- 35:47Speaker 1: it's become a very bad word in America. That's not
- 35:50Speaker 1: a condemnation. That's a brand shift. So, yes. Yes. She
- 35:57Speaker 1: used to use it. She no longer uses it.
- 35:59Speaker 2: Even if she is a spiritual feminist and she's done
- 36:03Speaker 2: this work and we can now have a solid argument
- 36:07Speaker 2: that all of these changes can't be attributed to feminism.
- 36:09Speaker 2: And I would argue and I will argue that the
- 36:12Speaker 2: real change happened is the post-industrial household didn't have a
- 36:17Speaker 2: purpose like it used to. And so women were seeking
- 36:21Speaker 2: a purpose and men made the the external workforce accessible
- 36:27Speaker 2: to them, the public life accessible to them. And that's it,
- 36:30Speaker 2: that's all you need. You don't need a feminist revolution.
- 36:35Speaker 2: You don't even really need like a communist revolution for
- 36:41Speaker 2: that to be something that happens to women. But the
- 36:46Speaker 2: other thing is that a rate of female workforce participation
- 36:52Speaker 2: may be a result of feminists, not women, feminists convincing
- 36:57Speaker 2: women that their relationship with men are the source of oppression,
- 37:02Speaker 2: which encourages the amount of women who stay single and
- 37:05Speaker 2: thus have to derive their sole benefit from a job
- 37:09Speaker 2: as well as their source of survival. You see what
- 37:11Speaker 2: I'm saying? Yeah, so that's why I say the causal
- 37:15Speaker 2: arrow might be reversed. Feminism encourages women to be single
- 37:19Speaker 2: and single women have to have jobs. as opposed to
- 37:24Speaker 2: feminism encourages women to work. And women working is the factor. Now,
- 37:34Speaker 2: I say this having gone through the statistics on the
- 37:38Speaker 2: various societies and cultures around the world and how they've
- 37:44Speaker 2: responded to feminism and the various ideological shifts of the
- 37:49Speaker 2: 20th century. And the thing is that When I talk
- 37:53Speaker 2: about the various marriage regimes, so for example, Northern Europe has,
- 37:57Speaker 2: I think, a Christian romantic marriage regime. I don't know,
- 38:00Speaker 2: there's a lot of controversy over the word romantic, but
- 38:03Speaker 2: essentially it involves a courtship, but also consent by the parties.
- 38:09Speaker 2: And then you have the Southern Europe, which is a
- 38:11Speaker 2: familial romantic model, which also involves a courtship, but veto,
- 38:17Speaker 2: the family gets a veto over whether or not the
- 38:21Speaker 2: person is appropriate. for their family member. Then you have
- 38:24Speaker 2: the kin selection cultures like the Caribbean, the Gulf states,
- 38:29Speaker 2: and then you have the marriage broker, social obligation cultures
- 38:33Speaker 2: like the Far East, right? So all of these different
- 38:37Speaker 2: regimes absorb feminism differently. So you first have to understand that.
- 38:42Speaker 2: It's like, and when not so erudite says the Gulf
- 38:47Speaker 2: states are a counterexample, It's actually like saying, if you
- 38:56Speaker 2: starve a fat person and a thin person, the thin
- 39:00Speaker 2: person dies immediately and the fat person survives. After a week,
- 39:04Speaker 2: he's still alive, right? Therefore, the issue isn't starvation. It's thinness.
- 39:11Speaker 2: That's the logic she's using. Because each of these cultures
- 39:16Speaker 2: will respond to feminism in different ways. and see different outcomes.
- 39:22Speaker 2: And until you understand how these cultures are different. And
- 39:26Speaker 2: the other thing is the Gulf nations or the, kin
- 39:30Speaker 2: selection Muslim nations differ on whether they're creditor versus debitor nations.
- 39:36Speaker 2: So some of them offer lines of credit to other nations.
- 39:41Speaker 2: Others have to take debit or have to take on
- 39:45Speaker 2: credit or like a debt in order to develop. So
- 39:50Speaker 2: that also changes how feminism is delivered and metabolized in
- 39:55Speaker 2: those cultures. It's all very, very different. You have to
- 40:00Speaker 2: look at all of it sort of like in its place,
- 40:03Speaker 2: or you don't really understand what's going on in terms
- 40:06Speaker 2: of feminism and fertility. And I don't think that Not
- 40:10Speaker 2: So Erudite has looked at that to that depth. And
- 40:14Speaker 2: when you do, you see patterns. The creditor nations, like
- 40:20Speaker 2: the Gulf states, first of all, yes, all of the
- 40:25Speaker 2: Muslim nations are seeing declines in fertility. But the declines
- 40:29Speaker 2: in fertility are concentrated in the debitor nations, not the
- 40:35Speaker 2: creditor nations. So does she know that? Does she know
- 40:41Speaker 2: what that implies in terms of the adoption of international
- 40:45Speaker 2: banking culture? Right. No, probably not. But she'll she'll talk
- 40:49Speaker 2: about the gold standard and trifles.
- 40:53Speaker 1: Dilemma. Yeah.
- 40:55Speaker 2: But she won't talk about this other stuff that actually
- 40:57Speaker 2: bears specifically on her question and undermines it. But anyway,
- 41:02Speaker 2: let's let's continue.
- 41:03Speaker 1: All right. Let's continue. All right.
- 41:05Speaker 5: We can kick it back to Rachel. Both speakers have
- 41:08Speaker 5: been told by the audience to shut up. So, Bob, Bob,
- 41:12Speaker 5: if you can do me a favor, come to the front.
- 41:14Speaker 5: is the next time someone does something like that, we're
- 41:16Speaker 5: going to take them out of here, regardless of which
- 41:19Speaker 5: speaker they're saying it to. I just.
- 41:23Speaker 6: Want to get.
- 41:26Speaker 1: To the counter-argument part. All right, Rachel, two minutes.
- 41:34Speaker 3: So it wouldn't matter to me and to my argument
- 41:38Speaker 3: whatsoever if Martians came down in 1910 and told the
- 41:43Speaker 3: women to go join the workforce and that's when it
- 41:45Speaker 3: happened or how it happened or why.
- 41:47Speaker 6: It doesn't matter to.
- 41:48Speaker 3: My argument one bit how, when, or why. It just
- 41:53Speaker 3: matters that in every nation on planet Earth, when you
- 41:56Speaker 3: send all the women into the workforce in huge numbers,
- 41:59Speaker 3: they stop having kids. And what happens is what happened
- 42:03Speaker 3: to Russia, what happened to China, what happened to South Korea,
- 42:07Speaker 3: which is you don't have a future anymore. There is
- 42:10Speaker 3: no next generation to continue on. There is no future
- 42:14Speaker 3: if you don't show up for it. So if you
- 42:17Speaker 3: think you can continue this first world industrialized type of
- 42:21Speaker 3: economy that you moved here for because you love the
- 42:24Speaker 3: United States, you said we have problems, I agree. I'm
- 42:27Speaker 3: not blaming like economic problems on women. I'm saying, well,
- 42:31Speaker 3: it's extremely inefficient and it's basically all propped up by
- 42:35Speaker 3: men's tax dollars as I proved in my opening.
- 42:38Speaker 2: But it wouldn't matter. Like I could just grant everything
- 42:41Speaker 2: you're saying.
- 42:42Speaker 3: It wouldn't affect my argument whatsoever because we still have
- 42:44Speaker 3: this problem, which is do you want a future with
- 42:47Speaker 3: human beings in it? Or do you want more crumble
- 42:50Speaker 3: cookies and more psychologists and more interior designers at the
- 42:54Speaker 3: cost of a future generation that can maintain first world
- 42:59Speaker 3: infrastructure and complex systems that feminism relies on?
- 43:04Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm going to have to actually go out
- 43:08Speaker 2: and say that I disagree with Rachel here, and I
- 43:10Speaker 2: think the statistics disagree with her too. Again, the Soviets
- 43:15Speaker 2: had higher rates than the West of female labor force participation,
- 43:20Speaker 2: maintained a higher fertility, and then after the fall, they
- 43:25Speaker 2: saw a reduction in their fertility during the fall of
- 43:28Speaker 2: the wall, and then afterwards it recovered and then the
- 43:33Speaker 2: international banking nations attacked and they saw a precipitous and decline.
- 43:38Speaker 2: In most of those nations, except for one, but that
- 43:41Speaker 2: one has a bit of a confound because they had
- 43:43Speaker 2: a dictator that was very antinatalist. So once he was gone,
- 43:48Speaker 2: there was a bit of a rebound. But anyway, what
- 43:52Speaker 2: I'm looking at statistically, and that's the control case relative
- 43:55Speaker 2: to the West. That is the pure control case. So
- 44:00Speaker 2: women in the workplace can still maintain fertility. And again,
- 44:03Speaker 2: we can have the argument. I'm not saying that women
- 44:05Speaker 2: have to work or that we can't have the discussion
- 44:09Speaker 2: about other deleterious effects, but that isn't the causal relationship here.
- 44:15Speaker 2: The causal relationship is squarely with, in my opinion, with feminism.
- 44:18Speaker 2: When you remove all of the other factors off the board,
- 44:21Speaker 2: the one that remains is telling women that being in
- 44:25Speaker 2: a relationship with a man is a site of oppression.
- 44:28Speaker 2: that codes men's custodial behaviors towards women, which evolved, guys.
- 44:34Speaker 2: Those custodial behaviors evolved for women to be able to
- 44:37Speaker 2: survive childbirth, right? That's why I say that a man
- 44:41Speaker 2: who shows up, a man who is reliable, a man
- 44:45Speaker 2: who provides in whatever way is appropriate for the environment
- 44:49Speaker 2: that they're in, that is a precondition for a woman
- 44:53Speaker 2: to become reproductive. And when feminists inject toxin directly into
- 44:59Speaker 2: that aspect of relationship between men and women, they destroy it.
- 45:03Speaker 2: So when they frame men's custodial behavior towards women as
- 45:07Speaker 2: inducing dependency, as if the men are the ones creating
- 45:12Speaker 2: the biological dependency, which is absurd. And it's not just
- 45:16Speaker 2: females' dependency on men, it's the fact that human offspring
- 45:20Speaker 2: are so altricial, they're so difficult to raise to adulthood.
- 45:26Speaker 2: I mean, inside it, we don't realize how odd our
- 45:29Speaker 2: life cycle is. But hominins are extremely difficult breeders. And
- 45:37Speaker 2: that's simply because our children's weight outstrips their mobility for years,
- 45:44Speaker 2: for decades. So all the hominins are restricted by the
- 45:49Speaker 2: fact that they can't move their kids. Right, so this
- 45:53Speaker 2: is something that means that there's gonna be a really
- 45:56Speaker 2: strong evolutionary pressure to increase the pool of potential resources
- 46:03Speaker 2: for a child. And that starts with the father. All right,
- 46:08Speaker 2: so for hominins, that invested father is likely a precondition
- 46:12Speaker 2: to the fertility of the female. And again, feminists inject
- 46:16Speaker 2: poison right there. Then they say, that custodial behavior is
- 46:20Speaker 2: men inducing, intentionally inducing dependency in women. A dependency that
- 46:26Speaker 2: has been in our evolutionary line from millions upon millions
- 46:29Speaker 2: of years. Men have induced it in the last, I
- 46:32Speaker 2: don't know how long has civilization, 6,000 years, right? They
- 46:35Speaker 2: induced it to create the precondition for man points, right?
- 46:40Speaker 2: So they create dependent women because serving the dependency makes
- 46:43Speaker 2: them feel like men. This is the formulation. and thus
- 46:49Speaker 2: men oppress them. And then they grow up for the
- 46:51Speaker 2: worst examples of male behavior to justify how horrible men
- 46:57Speaker 2: are to their wives. The one group of people or
- 47:01Speaker 2: entities that got human women from the prehistory to now
- 47:09Speaker 2: allowed them to survive with their children. The one group
- 47:12Speaker 2: that cared that much for millions of years that we
- 47:15Speaker 2: still exist. And feminists said that they hate the thing
- 47:19Speaker 2: that they exist to provide and protect for. They injected
- 47:23Speaker 2: poison right into the relationship. And that's where the destruction is.
- 47:28Speaker 1: Okay?
- 47:29Speaker 2: I mean, again, maybe women in the workplace isn't ideal. Hell,
- 47:34Speaker 2: maybe men in the workplace with a child under seven
- 47:36Speaker 2: isn't ideal.
- 47:37Speaker 1: Right?
- 47:37Speaker 2: These are conversations we can have. But that's not where
- 47:41Speaker 2: the destruction in marriage lies. The destruction in marriage lies...
- 47:46Speaker 2: with feminists saying that a husband is a woman's enemy.
- 47:52Speaker 2: Where else would it be? And then marriage, it isn't like,
- 47:59Speaker 2: and here I've looked at this as well, okay? Marriage,
- 48:05Speaker 2: East Asian and white women, European women do not have
- 48:10Speaker 2: children outside of marriage. There's the occasional single mother But
- 48:16Speaker 2: their fertility, those two groups, fertility outside of marriage or
- 48:20Speaker 2: whatever is considered a committed relationship in the region, in
- 48:23Speaker 2: like Northern Europe, they have cohabitation, but that's considered marriage
- 48:27Speaker 2: without the ceremony, right? So whatever is considered a committed
- 48:32Speaker 2: relationship in wherever they are culturally, European women do not
- 48:37Speaker 2: have children outside of it. Asian women, East Asian women
- 48:41Speaker 2: do not have children outside of it. They do not.
- 48:45Speaker 2: the fertility of those groups of women outside of some
- 48:49Speaker 2: form of a committed relationship is 0.19. It is one
- 48:54Speaker 2: fifth of a child. Inside, it's usually over two with
- 48:59Speaker 2: East Asian women being lower, right? So you got two
- 49:03Speaker 2: groups of women who do not breed outside of pair bonding.
- 49:06Speaker 2: They just don't. And then you have groups of women,
- 49:09Speaker 2: Hispanic and black women who will, To a much lesser extent.
- 49:15Speaker 2: So within a committed relationship, Hispanic and Black women have
- 49:18Speaker 2: like 2.6 children. Outside of it, they'll have one. So
- 49:23Speaker 2: they have a little bit more flexibility. But all of
- 49:26Speaker 2: these statistics point to the fact that marriage is a precondition.
- 49:31Speaker 2: A committed relationship is a precondition to unlock women's full fertility.
- 49:37Speaker 2: And feminism destroyed it. Everything else is a side story.
- 49:41Speaker 2: Women in the workplace, side story. Women in education. There
- 49:45Speaker 2: are some cultures where women go into education, like Victorian culture.
- 49:49Speaker 2: Women would be highly educated, then they would get married
- 49:53Speaker 2: in their mid to late 20s, and they would have children,
- 49:56Speaker 2: and then they would be educating those children so that
- 49:59Speaker 2: they would excel. So a woman's education became a trousseau,
- 50:03Speaker 2: and that's the same in a lot of Gulf nations.
- 50:06Speaker 2: And it makes sense because That is investment in the children,
- 50:09Speaker 2: ultimate investment in the children, because she's going to use
- 50:12Speaker 2: her education to educate the children, right? That's women's education.
- 50:18Speaker 2: Another side story. We can manage that. We can manage workplace,
- 50:21Speaker 2: like women in the workplace. We can manage women in education, right?
- 50:25Speaker 2: We can manage all of that. What we cannot manage,
- 50:29Speaker 2: what is ultimately destructive, is feminism saying that marriage is
- 50:35Speaker 2: the worst thing that ever happened to women. We cannot
- 50:39Speaker 2: manage that.
- 50:39Speaker 1: Hold on a second. Somebody's at my door.
- 50:46Speaker 2: Oh, boy. Should I just keep going?
- 50:50Speaker 1: All right.
- 50:51Speaker 2: So regardless of what we decide in terms of women
- 50:56Speaker 2: working or don't decide or if women have the freedom
- 50:59Speaker 2: to work, the freedom to go into education, we cannot
- 51:02Speaker 2: continue to have feminists frame marriage and men in the
- 51:06Speaker 2: way that they have. Not only is it a tremendous lie,
- 51:12Speaker 2: because there's no evidence ever. Feminists just asserted this. In
- 51:18Speaker 2: the 1960s, a bunch of women felt resentment. And then
- 51:24Speaker 2: they went and they said, well, we have this feeling.
- 51:26Speaker 2: Where does it come from? Obviously, it must come from men.
- 51:30Speaker 2: So we are going to develop a conjecture around how
- 51:34Speaker 2: men have caused us to feel this resentment. And then
- 51:37Speaker 2: we're going to activate this. We're going to take action
- 51:41Speaker 2: based on our conjectures about why men cause this sense
- 51:44Speaker 2: of resentment. Are you back, Brian? Oh, no, it's not back.
- 51:50Speaker 2: All right, so they created this entire farce based on
- 51:55Speaker 2: a feeling of resentment. And now this is propagated generation after,
- 52:00Speaker 2: like year after year after year into academia to the
- 52:03Speaker 2: point where we now have international banking institutions creating surveys
- 52:12Speaker 2: that are essentially asking men to tell how much they
- 52:15Speaker 2: resemble the caricature women, feminists constructed out of their resentments.
- 52:23Speaker 3: Right.
- 52:23Speaker 2: And then based on that, they're making funding decisions. And
- 52:28Speaker 2: that's the, that's the funny thing. The entire psychology of
- 52:30Speaker 2: men and masculinities field is based on on feminists saying,
- 52:36Speaker 2: why do we feel this resentment? We're going to look
- 52:38Speaker 2: and figure out what men must be in order to
- 52:40Speaker 2: explain why we have resentment towards them. And they construct
- 52:44Speaker 2: an entire caricature of what men must be in order
- 52:47Speaker 2: to justify their resentments towards them. And then that becomes
- 52:51Speaker 2: the basis of treating men in the psychology of men
- 52:54Speaker 2: and masculinity field. Let me go through that again, because
- 52:57Speaker 2: it's astounding to me, right? So we have a bunch
- 53:00Speaker 2: of women in the 60s and the 70s who feel
- 53:03Speaker 2: resentment because apparently their lives are too easy or they
- 53:06Speaker 2: don't have a sense of purpose, they're bored, right? They
- 53:09Speaker 2: go out and they develop an explanation for why they
- 53:13Speaker 2: feel this resentment. And then they project what men must
- 53:18Speaker 2: be to justify their feeling of resentment. And then 25
- 53:22Speaker 2: years later, men who have mental health issues are treated
- 53:28Speaker 2: based on that. based on all of the academia that
- 53:33Speaker 2: came out of trying to determine how much men resemble
- 53:37Speaker 2: the caricature they need to be to justify women's resentment.
- 53:40Speaker 2: So women's resentments became the basis for medical treatment for men.
- 53:46Speaker 2: Just wrap your hands around that. Justified. Okay, Brian, surely
- 53:54Speaker 2: you're back yet. I think we've been completely abandoned by
- 53:58Speaker 2: the producer. This is an interesting situation. I guess I'll
- 54:02Speaker 2: just keep going. I will explain why this has been
- 54:08Speaker 2: adopted so widely in the financial system. Because there's one
- 54:12Speaker 2: thing where feminism actually constructs this, why do we feel
- 54:17Speaker 2: this resentment? Men must look like this in order to
- 54:21Speaker 2: justify our resentment. So literally, they're defining men based on
- 54:24Speaker 2: women's resentments towards men, okay? They're defining men based on
- 54:29Speaker 2: how women feel towards them.
- 54:31Speaker 1: All right. I'm back. Sorry. It was building maintenance. They
- 54:35Speaker 1: needed to do something.
- 54:37Speaker 2: Okay. No evidence for why this, no, no objective evidence
- 54:43Speaker 2: for the justification of the resentment. So women just feel
- 54:45Speaker 2: this resentment and then they define men, what men need
- 54:50Speaker 2: to be in order to justify that resentment. And then
- 54:52Speaker 2: that entire thing becomes the foundation of how men are
- 54:56Speaker 2: treated in psychology. All right, I filibustered for a while here, Brian.
- 55:00Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I appreciate it. Let's get back. I did
- 55:03Speaker 1: get a super chow from Dylan for $ 20. Thank you.
- 55:08Speaker 1: And he says, they say modern marriage is like a grenade.
- 55:11Speaker 1: When you pull the ring, there goes the house. Also,
- 55:13Speaker 1: they say the singer from the band, the police glows
- 55:17Speaker 1: blue whenever orcs are nearby. What? Oh, sting. I get it.
- 55:21Speaker 1: All right, let's go back to this.
- 55:24Speaker 3: I want you to answer that question.
- 55:32Speaker 4: So if your theory of everything, of all these problems
- 55:35Speaker 4: that you've outlined, and I agree, a lot of these
- 55:36Speaker 4: are legitimate problems. If your theory of everything is to
- 55:40Speaker 4: put it at the feet of feminism, as you did
- 55:42Speaker 4: in your intro statement, I'm going to say to you,
- 55:45Speaker 4: I think things are probably a little more complex than
- 55:47Speaker 4: you're giving it granted for. For example, as we've already agreed,
- 55:51Speaker 4: although I think.
- 55:52Speaker 1: What?
- 55:53Speaker 2: No. Again, I think Rachel's giving her a huge surface
- 55:59Speaker 2: to attack on. It's not complex at all. You guys
- 56:01Speaker 2: said you wanted to destroy marriage, and you did.
- 56:04Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 56:05Speaker 2: Unfortunately, fertility went with it.
- 56:07Speaker 1: Oh, well, I mean, that's going to happen. Like, what
- 56:11Speaker 1: are you... All right.
- 56:14Speaker 4: I think you forgot, it's not when you send women
- 56:16Speaker 4: into the workforce that birth rates decline, it's education, as
- 56:19Speaker 4: we've already talked about. But again, a really big kink
- 56:23Speaker 4: in your armor for that narrative is that.
- 56:25Speaker 1: It's chink in the armor, not kink in the armor.
- 56:28Speaker 2: Kink, ooh, kinky armor.
- 56:29Speaker 1: Yeah, kinky armor.
- 56:31Speaker 4: Gulf states don't have feminism, but they do have declining
- 56:35Speaker 4: birth rates. And they don't typically let women proudly participate
- 56:40Speaker 4: in the workforce. So what's going on in Gulf states?
- 56:43Speaker 4: And the major difference is women getting education. Now, if
- 56:46Speaker 4: you want to say that women getting education is feminism,
- 56:49Speaker 4: I guess my prescription, my question would be what your
- 56:51Speaker 4: prescription is, that we just don't educate women at all?
- 56:54Speaker 4: Because when you want to talk actually about economy, I
- 56:56Speaker 4: would totally grant to you that men are.
- 56:58Speaker 1: Well, wait a minute, wait a minute. Let's... I would
- 57:01Speaker 1: say that education has to change, because women do learn
- 57:06Speaker 1: feminism when they go to school. So yeah, it's not
- 57:09Speaker 1: like knowing your ABCs and how to do math, that's
- 57:11Speaker 1: the issue. But maybe it's like, I don't know, going
- 57:14Speaker 1: to school and learning that men are the enemy and
- 57:16Speaker 1: that you should wait until 40 to get married. I mean,
- 57:20Speaker 1: that's where it's coming from, so.
- 57:23Speaker 2: If you get married.
- 57:25Speaker 1: Yeah, if you get married.
- 57:26Speaker 6: Of an economy in every single country. And I think
- 57:28Speaker 6: that that's awesome.
- 57:29Speaker 4: And I think that it's sad that men, I think,
- 57:31Speaker 4: oftentimes don't get the credit that maybe you deserve for
- 57:35Speaker 4: their ingenuity into.
- 57:37Speaker 6: The GDP engine. But the reality.
- 57:40Speaker 1: So she's pandering to men a little bit here by saying, oh,
- 57:43Speaker 1: men don't get enough credit for, you know, their contributions. Yeah.
- 57:49Speaker 2: Of economics.
- 57:50Speaker 4: is that what matters most for a country is that
- 57:54Speaker 4: you are economically competitive against other global nations. Would you
- 57:58Speaker 4: agree that the relative competitiveness is what matters when we're
- 58:02Speaker 4: talking about GDP?
- 58:04Speaker 2: Oh, boy. Oh, boy. I feel the adrenaline rise in
- 58:10Speaker 2: me now. Oh, boy, not so area day. You're moving
- 58:14Speaker 2: into my territory. Oh, man, I wish I was there. Ah, yes.
- 58:21Speaker 2: I wish I was there. Okay, let's hear.
- 58:23Speaker 1: What she says.
- 58:25Speaker 3: Okay, so I'll just grant everything you said there. Simone
- 58:30Speaker 3: de Beauvoir famously said in an interview with Betty Friedan
- 58:34Speaker 3: that if we allow women the choice, most of them
- 58:38Speaker 3: are going to want to stay home and have babies.
- 58:40Speaker 6: I'm paraphrasing.
- 58:41Speaker 3: Which is why she said, we can't allow that. We
- 58:43Speaker 3: shouldn't allow that. We should tell them that they have
- 58:45Speaker 3: to go to work, which is what the CCP did.
- 58:47Speaker 3: That's what the Soviets did. That's what a lot of
- 58:50Speaker 3: the Asian nations have done. They've said, like China had
- 58:54Speaker 3: a one-child policy because they were like, you ladies need
- 58:56Speaker 3: to be working, right? What we see every time is.
- 59:00Speaker 2: It was because of overpopulation. This is Malthusian thing stuff.
- 59:06Speaker 1: That was concerned for overpopulation, yeah.
- 59:10Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 59:10Speaker 3: That birth rates crash.
- 59:13Speaker 2: Yeah? No, no, I'm just agreeing, yes. It's concerned for overpopulation.
- 59:18Speaker 3: Those governments have to correct course. All of them have
- 59:21Speaker 3: had to try, and what happens is it doesn't work.
- 59:24Speaker 3: You've created an economy that depends on two incomes, that
- 59:27Speaker 3: depends on women.
- 59:28Speaker 6: Working, like you said.
- 59:29Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 59:30Speaker 3: If it's the most important thing to be competitive in
- 59:32Speaker 3: the global market, and these countries are having all their
- 59:35Speaker 3: females work, then we got to do that too. And
- 59:38Speaker 3: what I said in my opening is we're trading long-term
- 59:41Speaker 3: stability for short-term gains, and it's coming back right now
- 59:44Speaker 3: to bite us in the ass. So yes, it's very complex.
- 59:48Speaker 3: But how do we make babies? And what are we
- 59:50Speaker 3: educating women for? When I say education, I have no
- 59:53Speaker 3: college degree. I went to cosmetology school, yet here I
- 59:56Speaker 3: am with a best-selling book debating on a world.
- 59:59Speaker 2: Stage, doing all kinds of things.
- 1:00:00Speaker 3: But I did it after raising five human beings that
- 1:00:05Speaker 3: are going to go off into the future and contribute.
- 1:00:13Speaker 3: So I'm not now, nor have I ever been making
- 1:00:16Speaker 3: the case that women can't learn, be educated. I'm self-educated.
- 1:00:22Speaker 3: We have the internet now. We have more access to
- 1:00:24Speaker 3: information than ever before in history. What we don't need
- 1:00:27Speaker 3: to do is send women to a university, saddle them
- 1:00:29Speaker 3: with an average of $ 60, 000 in debt, expect them to
- 1:00:33Speaker 3: start a career, and then they don't even start a
- 1:00:35Speaker 3: family until they're 31 and it's almost too late.
- 1:00:38Speaker 1: Sure.
- 1:00:38Speaker 3: That's backwards.
- 1:00:40Speaker 2: That's actually not the worst scenario. Because, so for example,
- 1:00:45Speaker 2: Prim Reaper started having children at 32, and she has
- 1:00:50Speaker 2: two kids now. I've seen this now, is there is,
- 1:00:56Speaker 2: at least in our community, even if you start later,
- 1:01:00Speaker 2: we have women having children, and we have women having
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: children at a replacement level. But the real crux of
- 1:01:09Speaker 2: it is that our community heals or at least challenges
- 1:01:16Speaker 2: the notion that a relationship with a man is a
- 1:01:20Speaker 2: site of oppression, which I think, and also that child
- 1:01:26Speaker 2: having children is the destruction of self, right? So I
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: think that that does a lot to, even if women
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: are having children later, just knowing that they can have,
- 1:01:39Speaker 2: recognizing that they have a reliable partner seems to unlock
- 1:01:43Speaker 2: that fertility. So even if it's in the 30s, you
- 1:01:46Speaker 2: can still get two, three children, right, on average from women,
- 1:01:52Speaker 2: but they have to be prepared to start. And the
- 1:01:55Speaker 2: other problem is that even in marriage, feminism doesn't prepare
- 1:01:58Speaker 2: them to start because it constantly creates this zero-sum game
- 1:02:03Speaker 2: between men and women that the relationship is not a
- 1:02:07Speaker 2: source of mutual support, but constant fighting over everything. over
- 1:02:12Speaker 2: emotional labor, over chores, over how much work he's doing
- 1:02:17Speaker 2: or how little work he's doing. So it actually, even
- 1:02:20Speaker 2: in a marriage, it undermines the security that women seem
- 1:02:25Speaker 2: to need to actually have children. And I don't mean
- 1:02:27Speaker 2: security financially, I mean security psychologically. So the other thing
- 1:02:31Speaker 2: that improves this is shared parenting. In those states that
- 1:02:36Speaker 2: have adopted shared parenting, they've seen an increase in fertility
- 1:02:40Speaker 2: because Men who know that their investment in their children
- 1:02:44Speaker 2: is not going to be arbitrarily torn away show up
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: more reliably and do more work. What a surprise. What
- 1:02:50Speaker 2: a shock. They present as more reliable partners. Not that
- 1:02:56Speaker 2: men aren't reliable, but it's more difficult for men to
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: do so when their investment is not assured. And then
- 1:03:03Speaker 2: also the fact that the woman can't easily get away
- 1:03:07Speaker 2: from him means that she works with him instead of
- 1:03:09Speaker 2: constantly fighting him. And that's what shared parenting does, right?
- 1:03:14Speaker 2: And that's not like saying to women, oh, you have
- 1:03:17Speaker 2: to have children. And we should probably encourage younger childbirth,
- 1:03:23Speaker 2: but it's not a disaster if we do the Northern
- 1:03:25Speaker 2: European model, which has been in place for thousands of years,
- 1:03:29Speaker 2: or at least a thousand years, where women have children later,
- 1:03:34Speaker 2: but once they start, they get down to business. That's
- 1:03:38Speaker 2: a very Northern European pattern. You know, you get married
- 1:03:42Speaker 2: in your mid to late 20s and you have six
- 1:03:45Speaker 2: children by the time you're like 37. Very Northern European pattern.
- 1:03:51Speaker 2: And that was workable. But the problem is that at
- 1:03:55Speaker 2: every stage, feminism attacks that sense of having a reliable
- 1:04:01Speaker 2: partner who cares and is invested for women because it
- 1:04:05Speaker 2: attacks men. And you know what it's doing. Okay, so
- 1:04:09Speaker 2: I think that you get them married, that'll probably solve
- 1:04:14Speaker 2: some of the workplace stuff. And also the birth rate.
- 1:04:19Speaker 2: And maybe doing a bit more shaming of this degenerate, like,
- 1:04:24Speaker 2: 18 to 25 fuck-everything-that-moves culture. That's gross. And it's... What
- 1:04:33Speaker 2: is the word?
- 1:04:33Speaker 1: It's disingenic. It's just.
- 1:04:36Speaker 2: It is.
- 1:04:39Speaker 2: Yeah. It's just like, why should women, and this is
- 1:04:43Speaker 2: interesting because I've been doing some research into what colleges
- 1:04:46Speaker 2: are actually doing. And I mean, I'm totally on board
- 1:04:50Speaker 2: with Rachel being like, yeah, what, what is the education
- 1:04:53Speaker 2: we're talking about here?
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: Right.
- 1:04:55Speaker 2: What, what, because what it looks like colleges are actually
- 1:05:00Speaker 2: doing is men's degrees tend to cost more in terms
- 1:05:06Speaker 2: of expenses, right? Because they're going into engineering, they're going
- 1:05:09Speaker 2: into science, they're going into degrees that require laboratories and
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: research budgets and safety protocols and all that kind of stuff.
- 1:05:20Speaker 2: Women's degrees are cheaper in terms of expenses, right? Because
- 1:05:27Speaker 2: how much do you really need to pay as a
- 1:05:30Speaker 2: college to fill a 200 seat seminar room for a
- 1:05:37Speaker 2: trans basket weaving humanities course, right? It's comparatively much less, right?
- 1:05:45Speaker 2: So you can pack them in like sardines and give
- 1:05:47Speaker 2: them an education that's practically worthless and doesn't cost much,
- 1:05:51Speaker 2: and you charge them almost the same, right? So what
- 1:05:55Speaker 2: happens is there's an incentive to bring in women into
- 1:06:00Speaker 2: colleges to get these frankly worthless degrees, But it's more
- 1:06:04Speaker 2: about the experience. It's more about how the degree makes
- 1:06:07Speaker 2: you feel, makes you feel like a true activist, somebody
- 1:06:10Speaker 2: making a change in the world, somebody who cares. You
- 1:06:14Speaker 2: know what I mean, Brian? It's like you're not selling
- 1:06:18Speaker 2: the increase in your income potential or your job market.
- 1:06:23Speaker 2: You're selling how the degree makes you feel. And when
- 1:06:26Speaker 2: you sell a degree to a population who cares about that,
- 1:06:30Speaker 2: you get more churn, they might spend a couple more years,
- 1:06:34Speaker 2: and they spend more at your institution. But here's the
- 1:06:36Speaker 2: other thing that they're doing. They have to keep men
- 1:06:41Speaker 2: at at least 40% population of colleges because when men
- 1:06:49Speaker 2: go under 40% of the college, women stop coming. Men
- 1:06:53Speaker 2: will go to a college that's 100% male because they're
- 1:06:57Speaker 2: going for different reasons. We have this stereotype of the
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: frat bro, but the truth is that most men are
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: going to college because for survival, they have to have
- 1:07:07Speaker 2: a job. People don't randomly give them a living like
- 1:07:10Speaker 2: they do with women. Two, self-respect and the respect of others.
- 1:07:16Speaker 2: Their income is a big portion of their respect and
- 1:07:18Speaker 2: their ability to be employable is a big portion of
- 1:07:20Speaker 2: how they respect themselves and how others respect them. And
- 1:07:24Speaker 2: then three, in order to be marriageable. So they have solid, pragmatic,
- 1:07:29Speaker 2: concrete reasons to be in the school or in a
- 1:07:33Speaker 2: college in order to create a better life for themselves. Women, again,
- 1:07:39Speaker 2: appear to be there for a feeling. And because they
- 1:07:44Speaker 2: then have that different kind of solid, pragmatic reason for
- 1:07:46Speaker 2: being in a college, they will go to a college
- 1:07:51Speaker 2: that's 100% male because they're not there for the party culture,
- 1:07:54Speaker 2: at least not as consistently as women are. See what
- 1:07:57Speaker 2: I'm saying?
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:08:00Speaker 2: The difference in the behavior. So if men go under 40%,
- 1:08:06Speaker 2: women stop coming because women are there for the feeling
- 1:08:10Speaker 2: and they're fair for the dick buffet. And that is
- 1:08:14Speaker 2: the kind of customer that the college wants because they
- 1:08:19Speaker 2: can get them to stay way, way longer for degrees
- 1:08:23Speaker 2: that are worthless and Because it's the experience that matters,
- 1:08:26Speaker 2: the feeling that matters. And their degrees are cheaper. It's
- 1:08:31Speaker 2: like the situation where a lot of gyms, where these
- 1:08:36Speaker 2: gyms survive not because of the people who show up regularly,
- 1:08:39Speaker 2: but because of the people who get a subscription to
- 1:08:41Speaker 2: the gym and never come at all. That's what the
- 1:08:45Speaker 2: women in college are. They are... the customers that you
- 1:08:50Speaker 2: use in order to keep your business afloat because they
- 1:08:53Speaker 2: don't really use the services. They're just there for a vibe.
- 1:08:57Speaker 2: They're just there to say they have a membership or
- 1:08:59Speaker 2: to pretend like they're ever going to go that's the
- 1:09:02Speaker 2: the average call a female college student so what did
- 1:09:05Speaker 2: what kind of education is that at the end of
- 1:09:07Speaker 2: the day they're literally going to college for a feeling
- 1:09:11Speaker 2: it's not pragmatic it's not going to improve their life
- 1:09:14Speaker 2: like in terms of their income I guess it might
- 1:09:16Speaker 2: get them an avocado toast job if they're on the
- 1:09:18Speaker 2: top of their class. And then they're also appear to
- 1:09:21Speaker 2: be there for reasons that really are not great. Because
- 1:09:26Speaker 2: if men are there because of survival, self-respect, and to
- 1:09:29Speaker 2: be marriageable, and women are there for a vibe and
- 1:09:33Speaker 2: to fuck around, and again, if the reason, if women
- 1:09:37Speaker 2: stop going to college is because men fall below a certain,
- 1:09:41Speaker 2: they're there for the men. They're there for their sexual liberation, right?
- 1:09:47Speaker 2: They're there to feel like a cool activist who's doing
- 1:09:50Speaker 2: things in the world while getting fucked by multiple men. Like,
- 1:09:54Speaker 2: why have we constructed this extended, that this is completely new?
- 1:09:58Speaker 2: And I know why we have, because colleges have a
- 1:10:01Speaker 2: huge financial incentive to churn women through, to bring them in, say, oh,
- 1:10:07Speaker 2: it's really about the college life and the experience and
- 1:10:10Speaker 2: how you feel about being so activist-y, you know? And
- 1:10:13Speaker 2: then the very lifestyle encourages them to drop out or
- 1:10:20Speaker 2: spend more or extend their stay, because they're not there
- 1:10:23Speaker 2: for a serious reason. And they don't seem to have
- 1:10:25Speaker 2: quite as much of an understanding of debt at that
- 1:10:29Speaker 2: age for women, right? So they're just accruing this debt,
- 1:10:34Speaker 2: which is basically just a extended bacchanal for them. And
- 1:10:40Speaker 2: at the end of the day, what do they got?
- 1:10:42Speaker 2: They're not more marriageable. Many of them have incredible debt,
- 1:10:46Speaker 2: but they're working at Starbucks, right? And they have now
- 1:10:50Speaker 2: a huge body count and probably an STD. What was
- 1:10:53Speaker 2: that education for? Aside from fattening college's bottom lines. Like,
- 1:11:01Speaker 2: so I'm 100% with Rachel. We really need to ask
- 1:11:04Speaker 2: these questions. Why are you sending your daughters to a
- 1:11:10Speaker 2: six-year cruise? With an all-you-can-eat dick buffet. What is the
- 1:11:16Speaker 2: purpose of that? And at the end, she has no more,
- 1:11:21Speaker 2: nothing more useful than what she would if she'd had
- 1:11:24Speaker 2: gone on a six-year cruise. 100% with Rachel, what the
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: hell is this? What is the purpose of this education
- 1:11:34Speaker 2: for women? What is the purpose of it? And I
- 1:11:39Speaker 2: can tell you what the purpose of it is. It
- 1:11:40Speaker 2: doesn't make money for colleges. Anyway, I won't go further
- 1:11:45Speaker 2: into it, but I just wanted to elaborate on, I
- 1:11:47Speaker 2: agree with Rachel there. I don't think that she's getting
- 1:11:53Speaker 2: off course when she starts to bring in the work thing.
- 1:11:56Speaker 2: Because again, I've seen cultures that manage that without seeing
- 1:12:01Speaker 2: a decline in fertility. I think that we need to
- 1:12:05Speaker 2: focus like a laser on what feminism said they were
- 1:12:09Speaker 2: going to do. the plan that they had for destroying
- 1:12:12Speaker 2: the relationship between men and women, and how they enacted it.
- 1:12:16Speaker 2: And everything else becomes secondary. Okay, continue, Brian.
- 1:12:19Speaker 1: I'm sorry. All right. No, it's all right. Let's play
- 1:12:21Speaker 1: some more.
- 1:12:22Speaker 4: And why people invest in early on education is it
- 1:12:25Speaker 4: dominantly comes from, again... capitalism and modernization, because what you
- 1:12:29Speaker 4: do early on in life is going to have the
- 1:12:31Speaker 4: most net returns, right? Anybody who knows anything about investment
- 1:12:34Speaker 4: knows this, right? If you, as a young person, invest
- 1:12:37Speaker 4: in education early and you are guaranteed a higher income,
- 1:12:40Speaker 4: that will have net returns for your whole life longer.
- 1:12:43Speaker 4: The reason why men and women are choosing to get
- 1:12:46Speaker 4: married later is, frankly, because of what we've taught them
- 1:12:49Speaker 4: with the Protestant work ethic and being good stewards of
- 1:12:52Speaker 4: their family and their children. The reality is I'm super
- 1:12:56Speaker 4: happy that you've been really successful, right?
- 1:12:58Speaker 1: So now she's basically saying it's the fault of Protestantism.
- 1:13:03Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay.
- 1:13:03Speaker 1: Men and women are waiting.
- 1:13:05Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Well, first of all, again, my entire
- 1:13:10Speaker 2: long rant about college really begs the question, what is
- 1:13:16Speaker 2: it that women are doing or getting from that?
- 1:13:20Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:13:21Speaker 2: Is this really an education? No, it's not. Is it
- 1:13:24Speaker 2: really increasing their job opportunities? No, it's just making colleges wealthier, right?
- 1:13:30Speaker 2: It's making them very, very, very rich. It's fattening their purse,
- 1:13:36Speaker 2: which I guess goes to the GDP. There you go. But, um,
- 1:13:41Speaker 2: so the, the question is like, well, what is this
- 1:13:43Speaker 2: education doing? That's a really good question. And then, sorry, like, uh,
- 1:13:51Speaker 2: I briefly got distracted by my cat, and now my
- 1:13:54Speaker 2: brain has... I've lost my.
- 1:13:57Speaker 1: Train of thought. I'm just saying that she's... Oh, no,
- 1:13:59Speaker 1: thought is the Newark ethic. Okay, yeah.
- 1:14:01Speaker 2: Yeah, well, she has a... Okay. Judging from Northern European
- 1:14:08Speaker 2: societies historically, it could be entirely possible for women and
- 1:14:15Speaker 2: men to pursue a K-type strategy in which they focus
- 1:14:18Speaker 2: on resource acquisition... and for their offspring, and then they
- 1:14:23Speaker 2: marry later. But then you have to address fertility in marriage.
- 1:14:30Speaker 2: And here's the issue. Feminist women have declined fertility. Even
- 1:14:34Speaker 2: when you get rid of or you just control for
- 1:14:37Speaker 2: a singledom, feminist women in marriage see declined fertility. And
- 1:14:43Speaker 2: it could entirely, considering the factors that increase fertility, it
- 1:14:46Speaker 2: could be entirely because they have invested in a narrative
- 1:14:50Speaker 2: That destroys their sense of the reliability of their partner
- 1:14:53Speaker 2: as a father and a husband.
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: Okay.
- 1:14:57Speaker 2: So it goes right back to the feminist framing of
- 1:15:00Speaker 2: men and women.
- 1:15:02Speaker 3: Right.
- 1:15:02Speaker 2: Let's like, before we can, we do all of this
- 1:15:04Speaker 2: other stuff. Let's just get rid of that. Maybe see,
- 1:15:06Speaker 2: see if it improves things. All right, let's keep going.
- 1:15:09Speaker 3: All right.
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: I got another couple of super comments. So Gary Thomas
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: gives us a $ 5 Super Chow and says, So Allison,
- 1:15:16Speaker 1: you're advocating for the Ursula von der Leyen life plan.
- 1:15:20Speaker 1: No idea. For those who don't know, Ursula von der
- 1:15:26Speaker 1: Leyen is the president of the European Commission. She got
- 1:15:29Speaker 1: married at 27, and between the ages of 28 and 41,
- 1:15:32Speaker 1: she gave birth to seven children while also completing medical
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: training to become a doctor. She is who I think
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: of when Allison describes the historical marriage and motherhood patterns
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: of European women.
- 1:15:43Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. I mean, that's where the Protestant ethic comes,
- 1:15:47Speaker 2: work ethic. That's what she's deriding.
- 1:15:50Speaker 1: Martin Luther was German.
- 1:15:53Speaker 2: Seriously, ladies, you've got to stop being scrubs. Your great-great-great-great-great-grandmother
- 1:16:00Speaker 2: had 16 children while pursuing the current-day equivalent of a master's.
- 1:16:05Speaker 2: What are you guys doing?
- 1:16:08Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. Uh, Roboto gives us a dollar and says,
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: if only there were only female colleges, wait, there are,
- 1:16:15Speaker 1: why are feminists not for all female colleges? Who of
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: the women benefit from college the most? Is it the
- 1:16:21Speaker 1: rich or well women or the working woman? All right.
- 1:16:26Speaker 1: Thank you for that. Uh, let's continue. Go ahead.
- 1:16:30Speaker 2: I would say that, uh, anybody who can take on
- 1:16:33Speaker 2: a gigantic liability as a signal, uh, It probably is
- 1:16:37Speaker 2: upper middle class. Probably a lot of this is preying
- 1:16:40Speaker 2: on upper middle class social climbers.
- 1:16:43Speaker 1: Right.
- 1:16:44Speaker 2: Who just want a daughter with a degree because it
- 1:16:47Speaker 2: looks good. But anyway, let's keep going.
- 1:16:51Speaker 1: All right.
- 1:16:52Speaker 4: When Andrew are world level, you've got, I think you
- 1:16:55Speaker 4: have a massive income at this point, right? That your
- 1:16:58Speaker 4: story isn't everyone's story and it can't be because not
- 1:17:01Speaker 4: everyone can be a best selling author or a world
- 1:17:04Speaker 4: traveling debater. The reality is that a lot of women
- 1:17:07Speaker 4: who opt for the postponing education typically never go back
- 1:17:11Speaker 4: to it. They never actually end up achieving. And it's really,
- 1:17:14Speaker 4: really hard actually to be 36, no background of education.
- 1:17:19Speaker 6: You haven't worked in years.
- 1:17:20Speaker 4: To try to vie for now career prospects that will
- 1:17:23Speaker 4: be sufficient enough to fund you and your child.
- 1:17:25Speaker 6: I agree that the dual income issue.
- 1:17:26Speaker 2: Well, don't leave your husband. Don't leave your husband. And
- 1:17:32Speaker 2: of course, the argument there is all men are so abusive. Well,
- 1:17:34Speaker 2: that's why they suppress evidence of symmetry and abuse. Because
- 1:17:38Speaker 2: the truth is that men and women, actually women are
- 1:17:41Speaker 2: more physically abusive. They instigate abuse more. So any kind
- 1:17:47Speaker 2: of concern over domestic violence and not leaving your spouse
- 1:17:51Speaker 2: should at the very least be equally applied to men.
- 1:17:55Speaker 2: So when I say, don't leave your partner, right? They
- 1:17:59Speaker 2: will say, but what if he's abusive? Well, okay, but
- 1:18:03Speaker 2: the same thing applies to men, right? Until we actually
- 1:18:08Speaker 2: get services for men and equal care for men, right?
- 1:18:12Speaker 2: You can't use that. As an excuse for women to
- 1:18:16Speaker 2: leave their partners. As far as I'm concerned. There's no
- 1:18:19Speaker 2: moral basis for it.
- 1:18:20Speaker 1: Okay?
- 1:18:23Speaker 2: Because it's a risk that men run and it looks
- 1:18:27Speaker 2: like they run more of it. So how can you
- 1:18:30Speaker 2: use that as an excuse for women to leave their
- 1:18:32Speaker 2: partners but not men? And still create this situation of
- 1:18:36Speaker 2: effective men at fault divorce. Anyway, I wanted to point
- 1:18:39Speaker 2: that out. It's like, why are you leaving your partner
- 1:18:42Speaker 2: at 36? And again, most women leave their partner for
- 1:18:47Speaker 2: no reason because they got bored. yeah right so what
- 1:18:53Speaker 2: what and also if you do leave your partner at
- 1:18:56Speaker 2: 36 why doesn't he have equal custody okay so why
- 1:19:02Speaker 2: isn't he also taking care of the child like half
- 1:19:05Speaker 2: the time and at that point why did you get
- 1:19:07Speaker 2: divorced in the first place but you know like it's
- 1:19:09Speaker 2: just She uses these edge cases in order to argue
- 1:19:16Speaker 2: that all women should be educated. Well, okay. So essentially
- 1:19:22Speaker 2: what you're saying is that all women have to do
- 1:19:25Speaker 2: as much work, get as much education as men, enter
- 1:19:31Speaker 2: the workplace, have no reduction in their hours. Because what
- 1:19:37Speaker 2: I'm getting at is she's saying that Women should not
- 1:19:42Speaker 2: do anything to reduce their employability at any point in
- 1:19:46Speaker 2: their life. Well, you're not going to be having kids then, right?
- 1:19:51Speaker 2: You're not going to be taking off time to take
- 1:19:53Speaker 2: care of them if you do. And for whatever reason,
- 1:19:57Speaker 2: feminist women don't like house husbands. So I guess you're
- 1:20:02Speaker 2: just going to not have children if this is your attitude.
- 1:20:05Speaker 2: And the attitude, again, comes from this belief that husbands.
- 1:20:08Speaker 1: Are the enemy.
- 1:20:09Speaker 2: Do you see that? It's like, it's sort of like
- 1:20:11Speaker 2: she's sneaking it in there, Brian. She's saying all, but
- 1:20:17Speaker 2: women always have to be prepared. They have to be
- 1:20:19Speaker 2: prepared to enter the workplace at the same terms as
- 1:20:23Speaker 2: everybody else, because the husband, that creature from the black
- 1:20:29Speaker 2: lagoon that lives in their house with them might turn
- 1:20:33Speaker 2: on them.
- 1:20:34Speaker 3: Right.
- 1:20:35Speaker 2: And then that has to preclude any kind of concession
- 1:20:37Speaker 2: to bearing children or getting, you know, being a wife
- 1:20:41Speaker 2: and mother and putting that identity first. You see how
- 1:20:45Speaker 2: she's framing this? And it all comes back to the
- 1:20:48Speaker 2: assumption that men are women's enemies, that the husband is
- 1:20:53Speaker 2: the enemy of the wife. That's what she's basing this on.
- 1:20:58Speaker 2: Once you get rid of that assumption, you can say, well,
- 1:21:02Speaker 2: it's a perfectly valid life choice for a woman to
- 1:21:06Speaker 2: rely on a man's income. And then stay at home
- 1:21:08Speaker 2: and take care of the kids. And educate them. Homeschool them.
- 1:21:11Speaker 1: Whatever.
- 1:21:12Speaker 2: Probably homeschool is probably a good idea at this point. Right?
- 1:21:16Speaker 2: Maybe have a market garden.
- 1:21:18Speaker 1: Okay?
- 1:21:20Speaker 2: And that is a perfectly valid choice. I would say that.
- 1:21:24Speaker 2: That's a perfectly valid choice. Probably absolutely no harm will
- 1:21:27Speaker 2: come to you from that. I mean, almost certainly no
- 1:21:30Speaker 2: harm will come to you as a woman. In relying
- 1:21:34Speaker 2: on a man like that. But she's saying, oh, no.
- 1:21:37Speaker 2: You can't do that. You have to pursue education. You
- 1:21:41Speaker 2: have to pursue work. You have to do all of this,
- 1:21:44Speaker 2: because even if you live with a man, you never
- 1:21:47Speaker 2: know when he's gonna talk on you. And then you'll
- 1:21:52Speaker 2: be stuck with Satan. You don't wanna be stuck with Satan, ladies.
- 1:21:58Speaker 2: And it's all predicated on the feminist conjecture that again,
- 1:22:04Speaker 2: men's custodial behavior, not even their abusive behavior, their custodial
- 1:22:08Speaker 2: behavior is oppression of women. Okay, just pointing that out,
- 1:22:12Speaker 2: because she's trying to sneak that in. I wonder how
- 1:22:14Speaker 2: Rachel responds to it.
- 1:22:16Speaker 1: Well, let's find out.
- 1:22:18Speaker 4: Poses the biggest issue for families, and it poses a
- 1:22:21Speaker 4: problem for men and for women. And the reason that
- 1:22:24Speaker 4: that's happening isn't feminism at all. It's runaway inflation, right?
- 1:22:30Speaker 4: It is It's called the K-shaped economy, right? You have
- 1:22:36Speaker 4: people who are lower income. They have less ability to
- 1:22:39Speaker 4: negotiate wages because it is actually more profitable for businesses
- 1:22:43Speaker 4: to offshore manufacturing because of the Triffin dilemma. If you
- 1:22:46Speaker 4: can build a $ 2 toy and you can build it
- 1:22:49Speaker 4: in Vietnam for 50 cents than in America because workers
- 1:22:53Speaker 4: are more.
- 1:22:54Speaker 2: Triffin dilemma. Okay, so because the U.S. is the world
- 1:22:58Speaker 2: reserve currency, there's always a tendency... to take out more
- 1:23:03Speaker 2: debt to sell to internationally. So that tends to create
- 1:23:08Speaker 2: a situation where offshoring and financialization happens. Because the debt
- 1:23:15Speaker 2: encourages a trade deficit with the US as the one
- 1:23:23Speaker 2: within deficit. Because the demand is for the dollar. not
- 1:23:31Speaker 2: necessarily American products. And because the demand for the dollar
- 1:23:35Speaker 2: is greater than the demand for American products, there creates
- 1:23:38Speaker 2: a gap. That's what the Triffin dilemma is. All right, madam.
- 1:23:43Speaker 3: Okay.
- 1:23:45Speaker 2: The Triffin dilemma explains the US's declining fertility rate in
- 1:23:51Speaker 2: your model. What explains Canada's, Norway's, UK's, Iran's, South Korea's, Japan's, Russia's.
- 1:24:04Speaker 2: All right. What explains Brazil's?
- 1:24:07Speaker 6: Okay.
- 1:24:09Speaker 2: What explains Costa Rica? What explains Mexico's declining? Not all
- 1:24:14Speaker 2: of these countries have the Trifelt dilemma.
- 1:24:18Speaker 1: Right?
- 1:24:18Speaker 2: They don't all have that. So why are they declining? Huh?
- 1:24:26Speaker 2: You see, this is why I say that she just
- 1:24:28Speaker 2: is applying these concepts. like a sledgehammer. And it's ridiculous.
- 1:24:37Speaker 1: Yeah. Right?
- 1:24:38Speaker 2: She's saying, oh, well, look at the Gulf. They're declining
- 1:24:41Speaker 2: in fertility. Well, yeah, but the debitor Gulf, the debitor
- 1:24:45Speaker 2: Muslim nations are declining less than the creditor. Why?
- 1:24:47Speaker 1: Okay?
- 1:24:51Speaker 2: She's applying this stuff like a sledgehammer. She's applying these
- 1:24:54Speaker 2: talking points not as topics of debate, but as gotchas.
- 1:25:00Speaker 1: Yes.
- 1:25:02Speaker 2: And it's ridiculous. Okay, let's keep going.
- 1:25:05Speaker 1: All right.
- 1:25:05Speaker 4: More educated and expect higher income and their dollar is
- 1:25:08Speaker 4: worth more. You unfortunately have to offshore it.
- 1:25:12Speaker 6: It's more effective. That's why manufacturing left. It's not feminism. Well,
- 1:25:17Speaker 6: a lot of early.
- 1:25:20Speaker 2: What? I would argue it is, but that is a
- 1:25:25Speaker 2: complicated argument. Essentially, what I would argue is the feminism's
- 1:25:29Speaker 2: marginalization of men in marriage by the whole men's custodial
- 1:25:34Speaker 2: behavior as a source of oppression also led to their
- 1:25:37Speaker 2: marginalization of that kind of behavior in the economy, which
- 1:25:40Speaker 2: means that, to use an example of what that resulted in,
- 1:25:45Speaker 2: prior to the 1970s, okay, so there is a index
- 1:25:48Speaker 2: that whose name that I'm blanking on, but it's probably
- 1:25:53Speaker 2: not relevant to your interest, that shows the relationship, the
- 1:25:57Speaker 2: ratio between a company's buyback of their stocks, which creates
- 1:26:03Speaker 2: a signal of value in that company that is, like
- 1:26:07Speaker 2: it signals value. It signals an artificial demand for that
- 1:26:11Speaker 2: company's stocks, which increases its value, versus a company investing
- 1:26:16Speaker 2: in Capex in its capital market, Like investing in capital
- 1:26:20Speaker 2: means investing in greater productivity, right? Increasing the value of
- 1:26:26Speaker 2: your product that you bring to market in order to
- 1:26:28Speaker 2: increase your income. This also corresponds to a shift in
- 1:26:31Speaker 2: how CEOs were compensated. So prior, CEOs got compensation that
- 1:26:37Speaker 2: was proportionate to the revenue of the company, which itself
- 1:26:41Speaker 2: was based on its productivity. So if a company was
- 1:26:44Speaker 2: very productive, if, I don't know, Acme Co. created more widgets,
- 1:26:49Speaker 2: then Acme Co's CEO would get more money if they
- 1:26:52Speaker 2: sold more widgets. So if they supplied the demand in
- 1:26:58Speaker 2: the free market, that was what their compensation was tied to,
- 1:27:02Speaker 2: what a CEO's compensation was tied to. Now it's tied
- 1:27:05Speaker 2: more to stock price. So there's this perpetual incentive to
- 1:27:10Speaker 2: buy back stocks to create increased demand to signal worth
- 1:27:17Speaker 2: in order to increase the worth of your stock portfolio.
- 1:27:21Speaker 2: And this started in the 70s, right? This started then.
- 1:27:26Speaker 2: And the problem is that when you invest in buying
- 1:27:29Speaker 2: back stocks, you actually don't invest in the maintenance of
- 1:27:33Speaker 2: your productivity, the maintenance of your factories. In fact, you
- 1:27:36Speaker 2: can even offshore them, get rid of all that, right?
- 1:27:40Speaker 2: You don't invest in your labor force. You don't invest
- 1:27:43Speaker 2: in anything that is related to your effectiveness and your productivity. Instead,
- 1:27:47Speaker 2: you invest in a signal of worth. And I would
- 1:27:51Speaker 2: argue that prior to the 70s, that attitude of investing
- 1:27:56Speaker 2: and making the thing and doing the thing, it's like, again,
- 1:28:00Speaker 2: I go back to that argument you had with Natty, Brian,
- 1:28:02Speaker 2: and then you just got so frustrated with her and
- 1:28:04Speaker 2: you were like, well, what do we do? Where does
- 1:28:08Speaker 2: this touch grass? Where does this become a reality? That
- 1:28:12Speaker 2: attitude is masculine. The attitude of when does this, what
- 1:28:17Speaker 2: happens if we have to stand for delivery? Like, why
- 1:28:20Speaker 2: are we not being compensated for our productivity in the
- 1:28:24Speaker 2: real world and switching over to being compensated for how
- 1:28:28Speaker 2: well you signal prosperity, right? That signaling is a feminine modality.
- 1:28:35Speaker 2: It's a woman's way of thinking. You signal a position
- 1:28:39Speaker 2: and you... and the ceos now get value from signaling
- 1:28:43Speaker 2: the best position right as opposed from building the best
- 1:28:47Speaker 2: product getting down in the dirt making things selling things
- 1:28:52Speaker 2: making things work that is a shift in cognitive modality
- 1:28:57Speaker 2: in the economy And that difference between buybacks versus investment
- 1:29:01Speaker 2: and CAPEX represents, is a symptom of that shift. It
- 1:29:05Speaker 2: is a shift from seeing things in terms of making
- 1:29:08Speaker 2: stuff and doing the thing to seeing things in terms
- 1:29:10Speaker 2: of signaling a position, being the thing of worth. And that,
- 1:29:15Speaker 2: I believe, is a result of marginalizing how men think.
- 1:29:19Speaker 2: Because that attitude of seeing the substrate, seeing the material,
- 1:29:25Speaker 2: seeing the thing that needs to get done, wanting to
- 1:29:28Speaker 2: do the thing that, or even just doing it for fun,
- 1:29:30Speaker 2: like digging a hole in a beach, that's male. It's
- 1:29:33Speaker 2: much more seen in men than women. So when you
- 1:29:36Speaker 2: marginalize men's attitude towards things economically, you make this situation
- 1:29:44Speaker 2: where things become about signaling and where your position is
- 1:29:48Speaker 2: in the stock market, as opposed to what you're actually
- 1:29:52Speaker 2: producing as a company.
- 1:29:54Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:29:55Speaker 2: So yeah, I would argue that you can lay a
- 1:29:59Speaker 2: lot of this at the feet of feminism. Actually, what
- 1:30:01Speaker 2: I would argue is that feminism was adopted by individuals
- 1:30:07Speaker 2: who had an invested interest in changing the corporate culture
- 1:30:11Speaker 2: from things that are made to serve the customer to
- 1:30:15Speaker 2: signaling a position and how much more money they could
- 1:30:23Speaker 2: make just signaling positions, because that's what creates the K-shaped economy, right?
- 1:30:28Speaker 2: You got on top, the top V is all the
- 1:30:31Speaker 2: people who are signaling a position, either in the stock
- 1:30:35Speaker 2: market or they're signaling a position in relation to funding
- 1:30:41Speaker 2: from the government. So, you know, yeah, like this all about,
- 1:30:45Speaker 2: the economy is all about signaling positions. That's the top
- 1:30:48Speaker 2: of the wedge and the bottom of the wedge is,
- 1:30:51Speaker 2: is anything to do with serving somebody and creating a product.
- 1:30:56Speaker 2: And here's the kicker. When you have an economy that's
- 1:31:01Speaker 2: entirely about signaling with no product, nobody has anything to buy.
- 1:31:04Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 1:31:06Speaker 2: Unless they're part of the group that actually can leverage
- 1:31:10Speaker 2: their signaling into buying things internationally. So this is the causal,
- 1:31:17Speaker 2: this is the reason for the enshitification. And it's feminism.
- 1:31:22Speaker 2: Feminism marginalizes masculinity, that's its essential product, and vested interests
- 1:31:27Speaker 2: took that and said, hey, we can use that to
- 1:31:30Speaker 2: change the corporate culture from being productive to signaling position
- 1:31:35Speaker 2: and make a whole lot of freaking money on nothing,
- 1:31:40Speaker 2: on producing nothing, being accountable to nothing.
- 1:31:45Speaker 5: Right?
- 1:31:45Speaker 2: I mean, think about it. A CEO just buys back stocks,
- 1:31:48Speaker 2: uses whatever money he gets. Usually a loan from the
- 1:31:50Speaker 2: government buys back stocks, increases the perception of the worth
- 1:31:54Speaker 2: of that company, puts nothing into CAPEX. So they're not
- 1:31:57Speaker 2: producing anything more. It's all just a signaling game, a churn,
- 1:32:01Speaker 2: a positional signaling with nobody producing anything. Why do you
- 1:32:05Speaker 2: think everything is becoming so much more expensive? Because nobody's
- 1:32:08Speaker 2: producing everything. Everybody's just creating a position. All right.
- 1:32:14Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:32:16Speaker 2: Okay. I don't know if people understood that. So let's
- 1:32:17Speaker 2: get back to.
- 1:32:18Speaker 1: All right. Let me just see. Cause I did get
- 1:32:20Speaker 1: more super comments. I got to read through. So.
- 1:32:23Speaker 6: Cool.
- 1:32:23Speaker 1: All right. Anonymous gave us $ 5 and said, as someone
- 1:32:27Speaker 1: who went to college for electronics engineering, I can confirm.
- 1:32:30Speaker 1: Not many women go into STEM. I don't understand the
- 1:32:34Speaker 1: frat party lifestyle. The other people claim to have. I
- 1:32:36Speaker 1: remember having to study different equations in six weeks. Most
- 1:32:41Speaker 1: of my classes were 90% men. The classes I had
- 1:32:44Speaker 1: with women were softer courses like philosophy and public speaking.
- 1:32:48Speaker 1: Seeing what most of the women there took, I can
- 1:32:52Speaker 1: see why they are poor and I am not, but
- 1:32:54Speaker 1: I can also see why most media is feminist slash left-leaning.
- 1:32:58Speaker 1: Those women are writing man-hate pieces, writing man-hate pieces as
- 1:33:04Speaker 1: on systems men like me invented and designed. Absolute thanklessness
- 1:33:09Speaker 1: and ignorance. Thank you for the anonymous comment.
- 1:33:11Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's... That's a demonstration of what I'm talking about.
- 1:33:15Speaker 2: Women went into positional signaling. They don't necessarily get on
- 1:33:19Speaker 2: the very tippy top of the positional signaling ziggurat. They
- 1:33:23Speaker 2: end up in HR and PR. They end up writing
- 1:33:26Speaker 2: screeds in newspapers and stuff like that. Or they end
- 1:33:30Speaker 2: up completely destroying the industry and the publishing industry. But yeah,
- 1:33:36Speaker 2: that's exactly a demonstration of what I'm talking about. And
- 1:33:40Speaker 2: I don't think that many men are actually in college
- 1:33:44Speaker 2: for the frat lifestyle. I think they know why they're there.
- 1:33:48Speaker 2: But the problem is that when you're young, when you're
- 1:33:51Speaker 2: like 18 to 22 as a man, it's very easy
- 1:33:56Speaker 2: to be convinced to get into that lifestyle because you're
- 1:34:00Speaker 2: lonely or horny, right? And that's when the meat hooks
- 1:34:06Speaker 2: come out because... One of the problems with this situation
- 1:34:11Speaker 2: is that colleges guarantee a good time for women. And
- 1:34:15Speaker 2: they guarantee it by stripping you of your due process
- 1:34:19Speaker 2: as a man. That's why they teach the enthusiastic consent.
- 1:34:23Speaker 2: It's a sales pitch. You're going to enjoy your time here.
- 1:34:27Speaker 2: And if you don't, it's a man's fault. And we
- 1:34:30Speaker 2: will make sure to punish him.
- 1:34:32Speaker 1: Yep.
- 1:34:34Speaker 2: That's the college sales pitch to women. Anyway, let's go.
- 1:34:37Speaker 1: All right, another super chat from Josh Hunter, 7742. A
- 1:34:40Speaker 1: new one. I've never seen this person before, so welcome
- 1:34:45Speaker 1: to the show. 16 kids is literally a classroom. By
- 1:34:49Speaker 1: no stretch of the imagination is that digging deep into,
- 1:34:53Speaker 1: to ante up to adequate parenting as an example. Do
- 1:34:57Speaker 1: whatever on your lives, just don't say the sky is orange.
- 1:35:02Speaker 2: That was a new hyperbole, dude.
- 1:35:04Speaker 1: Okay. All right. Roboto gives a dollar rumble and says,
- 1:35:09Speaker 1: if the profit motive was removed from college, also feminism
- 1:35:12Speaker 1: would simply die down like communism, etc. Yeah, I mean,
- 1:35:18Speaker 1: women are convinced that college is important. Everyone is, actually.
- 1:35:21Speaker 1: They're just told that you should go. And so people go,
- 1:35:25Speaker 1: even though people don't need a college education to have
- 1:35:30Speaker 1: a satisfying life. I don't even have to say career,
- 1:35:33Speaker 1: because I think career... that's like a bloated word with
- 1:35:36Speaker 1: a lot of baggage. Like even if you were just
- 1:35:38Speaker 1: like you started your own small business or something like that,
- 1:35:41Speaker 1: you don't need a college education for most of the things.
- 1:35:44Speaker 1: And most people aren't going to benefit from it really.
- 1:35:47Speaker 1: So you could argue that it's for profit colleges. I
- 1:35:51Speaker 1: just think that's one factor. I think that it would
- 1:35:55Speaker 1: require us to look back at what the reasoning behind
- 1:35:59Speaker 1: making universities accessible to everyone is. not that it wasn't,
- 1:36:04Speaker 1: but you know, it used to be a harder to
- 1:36:07Speaker 1: get into. Like you had to meet certain criteria. Now
- 1:36:11Speaker 1: anybody can go, but they end up having to, you know,
- 1:36:15Speaker 1: put themselves in a lot of debt by getting loans
- 1:36:18Speaker 1: and whatnot. And if you don't like take, if you
- 1:36:20Speaker 1: don't go into a field or a major, that's actually
- 1:36:23Speaker 1: going to allow you the opportunity to make the money
- 1:36:26Speaker 1: to pay off those loans. And you're going to end
- 1:36:28Speaker 1: up like most people who go to college because they're
- 1:36:30Speaker 1: just told to go and they don't really have like
- 1:36:33Speaker 1: Any idea what they're capable of, what they should be doing.
- 1:36:37Speaker 1: And most of the stuff that kids learn in college today,
- 1:36:39Speaker 1: they were learning in high school like years ago, even
- 1:36:42Speaker 1: in my generation. When I was going to high school,
- 1:36:46Speaker 1: I remember going to high school, graduating, and then I
- 1:36:48Speaker 1: took a little break to do some jobs. And then
- 1:36:51Speaker 1: I went to college. And when I went to college,
- 1:36:53Speaker 1: even though it was probably like a five or six
- 1:36:56Speaker 1: year gap, uh, college already was just doing what high
- 1:37:01Speaker 1: school was doing. Like I was, you know, and I
- 1:37:03Speaker 1: wasn't like in some advanced program or anything like that.
- 1:37:05Speaker 1: I just think that the, let's just say the curriculum
- 1:37:08Speaker 1: has become watered down. So, you know, you go into
- 1:37:11Speaker 1: college to learn stuff you would probably would have learned
- 1:37:13Speaker 1: as a sophomore in high school, but that's to justify again,
- 1:37:16Speaker 1: having to go to college. Uh, but I don't think
- 1:37:19Speaker 1: it's necessary. So anyway, um, Roboto, thank you for that.
- 1:37:25Speaker 1: Nobafan gives a dollar and says she blames capitalism for
- 1:37:27Speaker 1: the decline in marriage, but we have had several decades
- 1:37:30Speaker 1: of the Industrial Revolution and what the left calls capitalism.
- 1:37:34Speaker 1: And then he says for another dollar, but it wasn't
- 1:37:37Speaker 1: really until the 1960s where women hating men that the
- 1:37:39Speaker 1: birth rate actually started to decline. The Industrial Revolution and
- 1:37:43Speaker 1: the negative outcomes of it do not explain our recent
- 1:37:46Speaker 1: birth rate decline. No, they don't. No, they don't.
- 1:37:51Speaker 2: And women in the workplace doesn't really either. And women
- 1:37:54Speaker 2: in education doesn't really either. It's like literally, I mean,
- 1:37:58Speaker 2: those things don't help. Like we probably should have a
- 1:38:01Speaker 2: serious conversation about what the hell we're doing, sending girls
- 1:38:04Speaker 2: to the all you can eat Dick buffet for their
- 1:38:08Speaker 2: Caribbean cruise dressed up as an education. But, but, you know,
- 1:38:12Speaker 2: like that's a really serious conversation. I would also like
- 1:38:15Speaker 2: to put on the docket the fact that based on
- 1:38:18Speaker 2: my anthropology work, It looks like kids would seriously benefit
- 1:38:24Speaker 2: from some intensive socialization by their fathers between the ages
- 1:38:27Speaker 2: of two and seven. Like seriously. benefit from that. So
- 1:38:31Speaker 2: maybe we can have a conversation about that as well.
- 1:38:34Speaker 2: We could bring that back into the conversation because we
- 1:38:36Speaker 2: just sort of sacrifice men's time with their children in
- 1:38:40Speaker 2: our post-industrial society. And that's a non-starter. Nobody's even talking
- 1:38:44Speaker 2: about the deleterious effects of that. And I think that's
- 1:38:47Speaker 2: actually possibly worse than women working. But it's a conversation
- 1:38:52Speaker 2: we should have. All of these things are conversations. But
- 1:38:55Speaker 2: the one thing that's killing us is feminism saying that
- 1:39:01Speaker 2: men's custodial behavior towards women is the site of oppression.
- 1:39:05Speaker 2: That a husband is a wife's worst enemy. Yet that's
- 1:39:10Speaker 2: the thing that's killing it right there. And if you
- 1:39:15Speaker 2: actually solve that, you might find... that women decide at
- 1:39:20Speaker 2: the age of 19, 20 to settle down with a
- 1:39:22Speaker 2: man and maybe have a couple of kids while they're
- 1:39:27Speaker 2: in their most fertile years. And that women who get
- 1:39:30Speaker 2: an education maybe decide in their late 20s and 30s that, hey,
- 1:39:36Speaker 2: you know what? I think I wanna buckle down and
- 1:39:39Speaker 2: have some kids with this guy that I have found, right?
- 1:39:43Speaker 2: You will discover that they'll make it work if you give,
- 1:39:48Speaker 2: if you get rid of this narrative that husbands are
- 1:39:52Speaker 2: women or wives oppressors and enemies, that these couples will
- 1:39:58Speaker 2: start having children again. Because again, like the thing I
- 1:40:03Speaker 2: based that on is shared custody. What does shared custody
- 1:40:06Speaker 2: really change in order to increase fertility? It increases the
- 1:40:11Speaker 2: investment of the father and his children and also the
- 1:40:15Speaker 2: investment of of a woman in the relationship, right? So
- 1:40:20Speaker 2: just get rid of everything that's preventing that. And even
- 1:40:23Speaker 2: if a woman gets married at 28, she might say,
- 1:40:26Speaker 2: you know, actually, I think my life or the way
- 1:40:30Speaker 2: I see my life is having this man's kids, right?
- 1:40:33Speaker 2: That's something that's overlooked in the entire argument. How critical
- 1:40:39Speaker 2: getting women to the point of saying, hey, I want
- 1:40:41Speaker 2: this man's children is to the birth rate. Then maybe
- 1:40:46Speaker 2: we should be looking at that. And what's impeding that? Okay. Yeah.
- 1:40:53Speaker 1: All right. And then Roboto gave a dollar and said,
- 1:40:57Speaker 1: has there been a doctorate for the HR path yet? Yeah, right?
- 1:41:04Speaker 1: That's an interesting point. All right.
- 1:41:07Speaker 3: Feminists wrote a lot about how once we achieved full
- 1:41:10Speaker 3: Marxism and communism, because feminism is... There's a capitalist side.
- 1:41:14Speaker 3: That's what my first book was about. But the second
- 1:41:16Speaker 3: one is about the Marxist communist side, which wanted to
- 1:41:19Speaker 3: destroy the family so that we could have women workers
- 1:41:22Speaker 3: and we could have communally raised children where everybody's loyalty
- 1:41:26Speaker 3: is to the state and nobody can pass down private
- 1:41:30Speaker 3: property or anything like that. When you send all the
- 1:41:33Speaker 3: women to work early and you tell them they have
- 1:41:35Speaker 3: to go to college and they invest.
- 1:41:38Speaker 1: She did say that. The feminists just said they want
- 1:41:41Speaker 1: to destroy the family. So there is that she knows
- 1:41:43Speaker 1: about that.
- 1:41:44Speaker 3: All of their fertile years, those feminists over a hundred
- 1:41:48Speaker 3: years ago saw that this was going to be a problem.
- 1:41:50Speaker 3: And they said in the future, our main obstacle is
- 1:41:54Speaker 3: going to be biology. We're going to have to overcome biology.
- 1:41:57Speaker 3: We're going to have to have transgenderism. We're going to
- 1:42:00Speaker 3: have to have artificial wombs. We're going to need some
- 1:42:02Speaker 3: way of dealing with the demographic cliff that's caused by
- 1:42:06Speaker 3: pushing mothers out of motherhood and into the workforce because
- 1:42:09Speaker 3: you can't do both. Motherhood is not a nights and
- 1:42:13Speaker 3: weekends gig that you do when you have time and
- 1:42:16Speaker 3: you're not at work.
- 1:42:16Speaker 2: You know what just occurred to me? It just occurred
- 1:42:18Speaker 2: to me. Maybe... part of the decline in fertility can
- 1:42:24Speaker 2: be attributed to men being not having that, like women,
- 1:42:29Speaker 2: men not actually having as close or relationship with their children.
- 1:42:35Speaker 2: Because if the situation is that women are, and specifically
- 1:42:42Speaker 2: they have more children when men not, not general household chores,
- 1:42:47Speaker 2: but when men spend more time with their children, women
- 1:42:49Speaker 2: are more fertile. Then maybe the process of post-industrial civilization
- 1:42:55Speaker 2: of women or men being pushed out of the home
- 1:43:00Speaker 2: because they were also, like, usually it would have been, like,
- 1:43:02Speaker 2: a family business or a farm, you know, and now
- 1:43:06Speaker 2: men don't have that involved relationship with their children. Maybe
- 1:43:10Speaker 2: that's part of the original, like, reduction in fertility, if
- 1:43:15Speaker 2: you think about it, as a result of post-industrial system. Right? Like,
- 1:43:20Speaker 2: maybe that's... part of it and i don't know like
- 1:43:25Speaker 2: i mean i don't think anybody's even thought about that
- 1:43:29Speaker 2: like maybe maybe the initial reduction in fertility that we
- 1:43:33Speaker 2: see as a result of post-industrial civilization is because men
- 1:43:37Speaker 2: are no longer taking care of their kids as much
- 1:43:39Speaker 2: as they did i don't like that's a possibility i
- 1:43:43Speaker 2: don't think anybody's proposed it but let's let's continue All right,
- 1:43:45Speaker 2: let's continue.
- 1:43:46Speaker 3: Full-time job that deserves full-time attention. And there's never going
- 1:43:50Speaker 3: to be a way around that unless you do want.
- 1:43:52Speaker 3: everybody to do the Dave Rubin thing and, you know,
- 1:43:55Speaker 3: just buy designer babies and we'll just outsource wombs, we'll
- 1:43:59Speaker 3: outsource daycare.
- 1:44:00Speaker 1: You know.
- 1:44:01Speaker 6: And by the way, who's doing that?
- 1:44:02Speaker 2: Just other women.
- 1:44:04Speaker 3: So for you and I, if we want to have kids,
- 1:44:06Speaker 3: our privilege of going to work means some other random
- 1:44:10Speaker 3: woman who doesn't care about our child is now going
- 1:44:12Speaker 3: to be raising them for 11 or 12 bucks an hour.
- 1:44:16Speaker 2: What about her? Another thought. This is against not so
- 1:44:20Speaker 2: erudite and her statements about how women need to do education.
- 1:44:25Speaker 2: And all right. Do you remember on that dating panel,
- 1:44:28Speaker 2: that woman who was like, I didn't want to get
- 1:44:30Speaker 2: in a relationship because of pursuing my career.
- 1:44:33Speaker 1: She was like an assistant manager at like a, that one.
- 1:44:36Speaker 2: Not even a business, just a job. Like my career.
- 1:44:39Speaker 1: She just had a job. Yeah.
- 1:44:41Speaker 2: Yeah. As an assistant manager of a thrift store. And
- 1:44:43Speaker 2: I'm like, are you sure? She isn't like saying like
- 1:44:50Speaker 2: something like, ah, My career as a Hollywood, as a
- 1:44:53Speaker 2: top corporate lawyer.
- 1:44:54Speaker 1: As like a writer and like all these books or yeah, whatever.
- 1:44:57Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:44:57Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:44:59Speaker 2: I mean, really like, this recalls to me mine that
- 1:45:03Speaker 2: what not so erudite was saying about women losing the
- 1:45:08Speaker 2: opportunity to go to education and succeed in the workplace.
- 1:45:12Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:45:12Speaker 2: But most women, like what are you thinking end up being?
- 1:45:15Speaker 2: Like a management at a thrift store?
- 1:45:17Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 1:45:18Speaker 2: Like, is that really that much better than being a
- 1:45:21Speaker 2: wife and mother? And furthermore, why can't you do both?
- 1:45:27Speaker 2: Why do you have to spend up to 33 working
- 1:45:30Speaker 2: so hard to become a manager at a thrift store?
- 1:45:34Speaker 2: I mean, from what I'm and I'm not saying that's
- 1:45:37Speaker 2: bad or it should be mocked, but I'm saying that
- 1:45:39Speaker 2: that doesn't seem incompatible with also being a wife and mother.
- 1:45:43Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
- 1:45:44Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:45:45Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure thrift stores don't demand 14-hour work days
- 1:45:50Speaker 2: from their employees.
- 1:45:51Speaker 1: No, no, no. And again, yeah, that's not the same
- 1:45:54Speaker 1: as what men, what they invest in. When they get
- 1:45:57Speaker 1: a job, a lot of times, most of the time,
- 1:46:02Speaker 1: they work longer hours, they work riskier jobs, and they
- 1:46:05Speaker 1: also work jobs that are just plain more important. They're
- 1:46:09Speaker 1: jobs that if they didn't exist, all of the jobs
- 1:46:13Speaker 1: that women want to do generally would also not exist.
- 1:46:16Speaker 1: They can't exist.
- 1:46:17Speaker 2: Right.
- 1:46:18Speaker 1: So, yeah.
- 1:46:19Speaker 3: But anyway, liberating and empowering for her, is it liberating
- 1:46:23Speaker 3: and empowering for me to spend all day at work
- 1:46:26Speaker 3: and not see my child take their first steps?
- 1:46:28Speaker 2: Or does it make more sense? Is it liberating? I
- 1:46:33Speaker 2: think another aspect of this conversation that's never talked about
- 1:46:37Speaker 2: is again, men just sacrifice their time with their children.
- 1:46:42Speaker 2: in the post-industrial economy, and nobody comments on it. So
- 1:46:49Speaker 2: we're sitting on top of a sacrifice made by men
- 1:46:51Speaker 2: that nobody talks about. Can we talk about that? And
- 1:46:59Speaker 2: when we talk about women being able to spend time
- 1:47:01Speaker 2: with their children, can we talk about the fact that
- 1:47:04Speaker 2: that's sort of bought on the back of men not
- 1:47:06Speaker 2: being able to spend time with their children? I think
- 1:47:10Speaker 2: that would make a much more equal conversation about all
- 1:47:13Speaker 2: of this. And it would also force feminists to go
- 1:47:16Speaker 2: back to that whole thing that they failed to do
- 1:47:22Speaker 2: in 1970 to 1985, which is derive the material benefit
- 1:47:26Speaker 2: that men get from this current relationship, this current post-industrial
- 1:47:31Speaker 2: family life. They couldn't derive the material benefit.
- 1:47:35Speaker 3: Right?
- 1:47:35Speaker 2: Because it goes to women and children. And fine, if
- 1:47:38Speaker 2: that's what you want, but can we at least recognize
- 1:47:41Speaker 2: the depth of the sacrifice that men have made? Right?
- 1:47:45Speaker 2: And maybe see that maybe it's not so good for
- 1:47:47Speaker 2: children either. Like, can we do that? I mean, I
- 1:47:50Speaker 2: don't know if we can change it, but can we
- 1:47:53Speaker 2: start this conversation with, hey, you know, men had to
- 1:47:56Speaker 2: sacrifice so that women could continue. And it's literally in
- 1:48:00Speaker 2: the record of what men did during the Industrial Revolution.
- 1:48:06Speaker 2: They would take the jobs that were incredibly dangerous and
- 1:48:11Speaker 2: uncomfortable and destructive to their health so their wives could
- 1:48:15Speaker 2: stay at home or take jobs that were less so.
- 1:48:19Speaker 2: This is literally what they did.
- 1:48:20Speaker 1: Okay? Yep.
- 1:48:24Speaker 3: Right?
- 1:48:25Speaker 2: And I want to start this conversation recognizing that. Like
- 1:48:28Speaker 2: we talk about, oh, well, what about women having time
- 1:48:31Speaker 2: with their children? Yeah, but what about men? Okay? And
- 1:48:34Speaker 2: maybe we can't fix it, but we should acknowledge it.
- 1:48:38Speaker 2: Men sacrificed a lot. for female homemakers. They sacrificed more
- 1:48:43Speaker 2: than they should have, and maybe children shouldn't have sacrificed
- 1:48:46Speaker 2: it too. But these are problems that I don't know
- 1:48:49Speaker 2: if there is a solution, but the very least they
- 1:48:51Speaker 2: should be recognized as having existed, trade-offs that existed, not
- 1:48:55Speaker 2: just be silently in the background saying nothing, being referred to,
- 1:49:00Speaker 2: not even being recognized. It's like everything, it just infuriates
- 1:49:05Speaker 2: me that men make all of these sacrifices and nobody
- 1:49:08Speaker 2: recognizes them. Okay, let's keep going.
- 1:49:14Speaker 1: All right.
- 1:49:15Speaker 3: Look, you can do a lot in this life. There's
- 1:49:18Speaker 3: a lot of living after 40. But, you know, focus
- 1:49:22Speaker 3: on family first. Find your husband. Build your family. Grow together.
- 1:49:26Speaker 3: Your husband's income will grow as your family grows. And
- 1:49:29Speaker 3: then after that, there is a ton of stuff that
- 1:49:31Speaker 3: you can do. There's all kinds of other options.
- 1:49:35Speaker 6: Starting to sound like a Marxist socialist, Rachel.
- 1:49:39Speaker 2: What?
- 1:49:40Speaker 4: So, I'll be the first to grant you that the
- 1:49:42Speaker 4: way that America has its orientation towards mothers, particularly within
- 1:49:46Speaker 4: like capitalism and the way that we, for example, don't
- 1:49:49Speaker 4: give them any maternity leave. I think in many states
- 1:49:51Speaker 4: it's like two weeks here, which is crazy, right? There's
- 1:49:54Speaker 4: very little tax credit incentives to make.
- 1:49:56Speaker 2: I just boggle that we're arguing over a benefit that
- 1:50:00Speaker 2: men sacrifice for and it's not even talked about.
- 1:50:03Speaker 1: Enough.
- 1:50:04Speaker 3: Oh.
- 1:50:05Speaker 2: Enough. Or at all. Like, I mean, I would start
- 1:50:08Speaker 2: this argument by saying, You realize that this is an
- 1:50:11Speaker 2: argument over a privilege that women have because men sacrifice
- 1:50:15Speaker 2: to give it to them. Men sacrifice their time with
- 1:50:20Speaker 2: their children in an industrial situation that became sort of
- 1:50:26Speaker 2: the foundation of the way we structure our lives now.
- 1:50:29Speaker 2: They sacrifice that so women could keep it. They sacrifice that.
- 1:50:35Speaker 2: And now we're discussing how best to apportion the thing
- 1:50:38Speaker 2: that men gave to women. without even recognizing that they
- 1:50:42Speaker 2: did it. Okay, let's continue to argue over how best
- 1:50:49Speaker 2: to benefit women. Okay, continue.
- 1:50:52Speaker 4: Having a family more affordable for the common man, right?
- 1:50:55Speaker 4: So there are many things that I think the government
- 1:50:57Speaker 4: can and should do to make it.
- 1:50:59Speaker 2: No.
- 1:50:59Speaker 6: Oh, good Lord.
- 1:51:02Speaker 1: Wait, what happened?
- 1:51:04Speaker 6: Is that those marriages are the most likely to dissolve.
- 1:51:06Speaker 2: Marxist socialism happened, Brian.
- 1:51:10Speaker 1: Say what?
- 1:51:11Speaker 2: Marxist socialism.
- 1:51:13Speaker 1: No, no, no. I don't think that's what Erudite is saying.
- 1:51:16Speaker 1: I think that she's actually blaming capitalism or something.
- 1:51:20Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no. I know she is.
- 1:51:22Speaker 1: Oh, okay, okay.
- 1:51:24Speaker 2: Yeah, capitalism. As if what we have now isn't socialism.
- 1:51:28Speaker 2: I wish people would recognize that. It's just the socialism
- 1:51:31Speaker 2: that actually happens. You think that socialism is giving the
- 1:51:36Speaker 2: average person a living. Well, no. And also that does
- 1:51:41Speaker 2: not how it works, right? No, socialism is always about,
- 1:51:46Speaker 2: it's always for the elites, right? That's how socialism works
- 1:51:50Speaker 2: in practice. The elites get it, get it. You get
- 1:51:54Speaker 2: the tax burden, right? The corporations get the bailouts. You
- 1:52:01Speaker 2: get to pay for them. That's how it works in reality, right?
- 1:52:07Speaker 2: That's how it works when you get rid of an
- 1:52:08Speaker 2: economy based on men protecting and providing for their families.
- 1:52:14Speaker 2: And replace it with an economy that's about positional signaling
- 1:52:17Speaker 2: and fed backstopping if those positions blow up for you.
- 1:52:22Speaker 2: That's why it's shit now. Because it is socialism. It's
- 1:52:25Speaker 2: just corporate socialism. And incidentally, Soviet socialism was party socialism.
- 1:52:31Speaker 2: If you weren't part of the party, you got fuck all.
- 1:52:34Speaker 2: You got to farm your turnips so you go to
- 1:52:36Speaker 2: the gulag. This is what sort of infuriates me about communists.
- 1:52:42Speaker 2: They don't realize that we always have it. Like communism
- 1:52:46Speaker 2: is the thing we're always fighting. You know, Versailles, like
- 1:52:50Speaker 2: Louis XIV, that was communism, but just for the aristocrats.
- 1:52:55Speaker 2: That's the way it always works, guys. The ones who
- 1:52:57Speaker 2: get a living are the ones on top. The ones
- 1:53:01Speaker 2: who pay for their living, whether it's Soviet Russia, or
- 1:53:06Speaker 2: the court of the Sun King or modern day non-capitalism. Yeah,
- 1:53:11Speaker 2: it's everybody else. The elites get a living, you get
- 1:53:14Speaker 2: to pay for their living. That is socialism. All right,
- 1:53:19Speaker 2: let's keep going.
- 1:53:20Speaker 1: Well, okay, I got about a little bit less than
- 1:53:23Speaker 1: 10 minutes.
- 1:53:24Speaker 4: And should do to make it so that family rearing
- 1:53:27Speaker 4: is more affordable.
- 1:53:29Speaker 6: The reality though that- So.
- 1:53:30Speaker 1: Basically men have to pay for, and again, I've said
- 1:53:33Speaker 1: many times, very poor people Have had many, many children.
- 1:53:37Speaker 1: It's not really a matter of not having the money.
- 1:53:40Speaker 1: It's just a matter of people willing to make the
- 1:53:42Speaker 1: sacrifices and the time to do it. And I think
- 1:53:45Speaker 1: it can be done. And you don't have to have
- 1:53:47Speaker 1: 10 kids. So I don't think that this works on
- 1:53:51Speaker 1: its face. But anyway.
- 1:53:53Speaker 4: You're prescribing for people of the young girl who's at 19,
- 1:53:56Speaker 4: stays home, gets married, has kids. Number one, the reality
- 1:54:00Speaker 4: is that those marriages are the most likely to dissolve.
- 1:54:03Speaker 4: It's the highest divorce rate group is young people getting married.
- 1:54:06Speaker 6: Second of all- Are you sure about that?
- 1:54:08Speaker 1: That's probably because, well, yeah, I don't know if it's true,
- 1:54:12Speaker 1: but go ahead.
- 1:54:13Speaker 2: Divorce is becoming less of an issue for whatever reason,
- 1:54:16Speaker 2: probably because the people who are still getting married are
- 1:54:19Speaker 2: a lot more invested in it.
- 1:54:21Speaker 1: It might be, but then you also have to ask,
- 1:54:23Speaker 1: if divorce is going down, is marriage going down? Because
- 1:54:28Speaker 1: the men checking out thing is still happening too.
- 1:54:32Speaker 2: Well, I mean, men are checking out, but honestly, I
- 1:54:36Speaker 2: don't think the big driver of the divorce reduction is
- 1:54:39Speaker 2: men checking out. It's women and their hyperbolegomy.
- 1:54:45Speaker 1: Well, the driver of divorce, yeah. Yeah, for sure.
- 1:54:48Speaker 2: No, the driver of not even getting in a relationship.
- 1:54:50Speaker 1: Or not getting in a relationship, yeah.
- 1:54:53Speaker 2: The remaining single. It's hypergamy gone hyperbolic. But yeah, I
- 1:54:59Speaker 2: think that's the big driver for the lack of marriages.
- 1:55:02Speaker 2: But what's wrong? Why is it that we have such
- 1:55:07Speaker 2: a contempt for a 19-year-old woman deciding she likes this
- 1:55:11Speaker 2: dude and wants to have children with him Versus a
- 1:55:15Speaker 2: 19-year-old deciding she wants to fuck three men at a
- 1:55:19Speaker 2: ketamine-fueled party and, you know, give herself a nice case
- 1:55:23Speaker 2: of herpes by the time she's 25. So the 19-year-old
- 1:55:27Speaker 2: who just settles down has two kids, right? And, you know,
- 1:55:31Speaker 2: maybe at 25 she's thinking about some adult education, you know,
- 1:55:34Speaker 2: going to college, you know, night classes or whatever as
- 1:55:39Speaker 2: her kids go to school. Or maybe she's a homeschooler, whatever, right?
- 1:55:43Speaker 2: Why is that life path seen as such an imposition
- 1:55:48Speaker 2: and such a corruption of the female soul versus the
- 1:55:51Speaker 2: ketamine-fueled orgy in a frat house life path? The life
- 1:55:57Speaker 2: path with 25% of women have an STD. Why is
- 1:56:03Speaker 2: that one? And honestly, one is more mature. And maybe
- 1:56:07Speaker 2: that's part of the issue. Maybe 19 is... But then again,
- 1:56:09Speaker 2: 19 is a bit.
- 1:56:13Speaker 2: So we can look at the life path where a
- 1:56:16Speaker 2: 19-year-old signs on for a college loan that will take
- 1:56:20Speaker 2: her until she's in her 45 to pay off, plus
- 1:56:23Speaker 2: an STD, plus some drug-fueled orgies. That's a respectable life path, guys.
- 1:56:31Speaker 2: But God forbid that 19-year-old marry a dude and have children.
- 1:56:35Speaker 2: That's not respectable. Not respectable at all.
- 1:56:41Speaker 3: Okay.
- 1:56:44Speaker 2: Okay.
- 1:56:45Speaker 1: All right. Let's do a little more.
- 1:56:47Speaker 4: Reality is that that young man, he basically will have
- 1:56:51Speaker 4: to sacrifice if he even wants to begin to having
- 1:56:56Speaker 4: any amount of income to be able.
- 1:56:58Speaker 6: To afford his five babies.
- 1:57:00Speaker 4: For example, the reality is that man is going to
- 1:57:03Speaker 4: entirely sacrifice his fatherhood, right? How many men here work
- 1:57:07Speaker 4: more than 40 hours a week already?
- 1:57:11Speaker 6: I believe, yeah.
- 1:57:11Speaker 2: Oh, I can't believe that she's bringing it up. Wow.
- 1:57:15Speaker 1: Well, she's going to use it to make her argument
- 1:57:17Speaker 1: that feminism saved men from, like, overworking.
- 1:57:20Speaker 6: You won't work more than 50.
- 1:57:21Speaker 2: Oh, boy.
- 1:57:23Speaker 1: Well, I mean, that is the goal here.
- 1:57:25Speaker 2: Oh, boy.
- 1:57:28Speaker 6: More than 50 hours. Okay. More than 50. You, sir, too? 60.
- 1:57:32Speaker 2: Yeah, but do you have children?
- 1:57:33Speaker 1: We've got an auction.
- 1:57:33Speaker 2: 80, 80.
- 1:57:34Speaker 1: Okay, yeah.
- 1:57:35Speaker 4: Men work so much. They work so much, and your
- 1:57:39Speaker 4: prescription is that they miss their childhood's first steps.
- 1:57:43Speaker 6: They miss talking to their.
- 1:57:44Speaker 1: Rachel's not prescribing this. I'm just letting you know. This
- 1:57:47Speaker 1: is the point where you always know someone's up to
- 1:57:50Speaker 1: something when they start telling the audience what someone is
- 1:57:54Speaker 1: saying when they're not actually saying it.
- 1:57:57Speaker 4: They miss fatherhood because they're attached to their GDP output
- 1:58:01Speaker 4: to provide for their family.
- 1:58:03Speaker 1: My GDP, my number go up. Again, not that important.
- 1:58:07Speaker 4: His mom shouldn't work and shouldn't work for an economically
- 1:58:10Speaker 4: viable option.
- 1:58:11Speaker 6: That's ridiculous, right?
- 1:58:13Speaker 4: That's actually telling young men, abandon your children for the
- 1:58:17Speaker 4: next 10 years until you've made it.
- 1:58:19Speaker 1: It is.
- 1:58:22Speaker 2: Wait. Wait, okay.
- 1:58:25Speaker 6: I agree, that's very.
- 1:58:28Speaker 2: Okay, so Rachel's going to respond to that.
- 1:58:31Speaker 1: Yes, she is.
- 1:58:31Speaker 2: Let's listen to Rachel's response.
- 1:58:32Speaker 6: It's very bad for Rachel. All right.
- 1:58:37Speaker 4: I've miscarried twice, but nice try.
- 1:58:39Speaker 1: Relax, relax.
- 1:58:41Speaker 6: Didn't dipstick as well as you hoped it would, hey?
- 1:58:44Speaker 1: Go ahead, Rachel. We'll give you two minutes. All right,
- 1:58:47Speaker 1: in the back. Keep it down.
- 1:58:48Speaker 6: Are they going to be exited or just the ones
- 1:58:50Speaker 6: that are heckling, by the way? I mean, he said
- 1:58:53Speaker 6: weird stuff about my children.
- 1:58:55Speaker 2: Okay, all right. I need to respond to this, but
- 1:58:58Speaker 2: now we're in this side where she's being precious.
- 1:59:01Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. Well, let's get past it. Let's just
- 1:59:03Speaker 1: get past it and hear Rachel's response.
- 1:59:06Speaker 6: It made some comment about me not having children.
- 1:59:08Speaker 3: Listen, we don't need to make any of this personal, guys.
- 1:59:12Speaker 3: Totally unnecessary.
- 1:59:14Speaker 6: It's i i care about.
- 1:59:15Speaker 4: The arguments in the world views uh i miscarried but
- 1:59:18Speaker 4: thank you for your concern help us help us find
- 1:59:20Speaker 4: that person we're gonna walk them out.
- 1:59:24Speaker 1: Is folks.
- 1:59:27Speaker 5: Sorry about that i honestly i i thought it was
- 1:59:30Speaker 5: like they were agreeing with you i didn't hear what
- 1:59:32Speaker 5: they said so i agree with you yeah folks don't
- 1:59:35Speaker 5: bring up people's families and again if it's I want
- 1:59:39Speaker 5: to be easygoing, so if it's something playful and you
- 1:59:41Speaker 5: agree or something, I'm not going to flip out. But
- 1:59:44Speaker 5: if it is malevolent toward one of the speakers, then
- 1:59:47Speaker 5: we're just going to take you out right now. Who's
- 1:59:50Speaker 5: two-minute response?
- 1:59:51Speaker 1: Go ahead, Rachel.
- 1:59:52Speaker 3: So Elizabeth Warren, of all people, wrote a book called
- 1:59:55Speaker 3: The Two-Income Trap. And there's a reason why you could still,
- 1:59:59Speaker 3: post-industrialization and post-technological revolution, have a janitor... who could support
- 2:00:05Speaker 3: a family of six or something like that on a
- 2:00:07Speaker 3: single income, and now you can't. Yes, there's lots of
- 2:00:11Speaker 3: economic factors, but the biggest one, and the one that's
- 2:00:14Speaker 3: different than every other economic downturn throughout all of history,
- 2:00:18Speaker 3: is that when you push, and this is, proponents of
- 2:00:21Speaker 3: feminism actually say this. They say, oh, it's great when
- 2:00:24Speaker 3: you send all the women and the moms to work,
- 2:00:26Speaker 3: you get this much higher luxury standard of living, you
- 2:00:29Speaker 3: get a higher GDP. But they'll also admit that this
- 2:00:33Speaker 3: does create a reliance on that. So we're building sectors
- 2:00:36Speaker 3: of the she economy around things like education. Women dominate
- 2:00:41Speaker 3: health care and education over every other type of job.
- 2:00:44Speaker 3: And then everything else is like cottage industry stuff like Etsy.
- 2:00:48Speaker 3: Like I have an Etsy shop and I have a
- 2:00:49Speaker 3: brownie shop. You guys see like the 5,000 different cake
- 2:00:52Speaker 3: and cookie shops that are in every single mall now.
- 2:00:55Speaker 3: It's like how many of these do we need? We
- 2:00:58Speaker 3: started offshoring all of our, you know, manufacturing and all
- 2:01:01Speaker 3: of that. This is all bad stuff, but it was
- 2:01:03Speaker 3: made possible. It was made possible by pushing all the wind.
- 2:01:06Speaker 3: Now we have all this new labor. This was what
- 2:01:09Speaker 3: the big industrialists of.
- 2:01:10Speaker 2: The Gilded Age did. All right, so does she directly
- 2:01:14Speaker 2: address not so erudite's point? Because I'm going to right now.
- 2:01:18Speaker 1: Yeah, but.
- 2:01:19Speaker 2: I know that we don't have a lot of time.
- 2:01:21Speaker 1: I know, I know, but I... Can we let Rachel's
- 2:01:24Speaker 1: point finish? And then as soon as, not so, because
- 2:01:27Speaker 1: I don't remember, to be honest. So I want to
- 2:01:30Speaker 1: let Rachel finish and then you can go ahead and
- 2:01:32Speaker 1: say your piece.
- 2:01:33Speaker 3: Get the women into the factories, pay them cheap labor
- 2:01:35Speaker 3: like you said.
- 2:01:36Speaker 6: This was the beginning.
- 2:01:37Speaker 3: Then you pass the income tax. Now we're taxing two
- 2:01:40Speaker 3: people in the household instead of just one. Then we
- 2:01:42Speaker 3: pass compulsory education systems. Now you have to send your
- 2:01:45Speaker 3: child to public school and you have to pay the
- 2:01:47Speaker 3: taxes for that too. So the net result of all
- 2:01:50Speaker 3: of these things coming together and creating this new great
- 2:01:53Speaker 3: society is the daddy is your government now.
- 2:01:56Speaker 6: Or the government's your daddy now. Sorry, I switched it.
- 2:01:59Speaker 3: The government's your daddy now, and all those men who
- 2:02:02Speaker 3: just raised their hand who work 50, 60 hours a week,
- 2:02:05Speaker 3: how many of you would prefer your wife to go
- 2:02:08Speaker 3: to work and your children to be raised in daycare
- 2:02:11Speaker 3: so that you can work less?
- 2:02:12Speaker 1: None.
- 2:02:13Speaker 2: None.
- 2:02:13Speaker 1: Of course not.
- 2:02:14Speaker 2: Exactly. So, again, my.
- 2:02:16Speaker 4: They'd prefer to be home with their kids as well,
- 2:02:18Speaker 4: I suspect. They would probably prefer to be able to
- 2:02:21Speaker 4: know your kids' first words. You don't want to watch
- 2:02:23Speaker 4: your kid walk for the first time?
- 2:02:24Speaker 2: You don't want to be there? Yeah, fair enough.
- 2:02:25Speaker 6: That's a sacrifice men make.
- 2:02:27Speaker 2: Okay so is is i think that this is going
- 2:02:30Speaker 2: to go on a while because now it's becoming a
- 2:02:32Speaker 2: back and forth so i want to address not to
- 2:02:34Speaker 2: erin's point we can pick this up next time all
- 2:02:36Speaker 2: right okay one hey if a man starts uh his
- 2:02:43Speaker 2: family in his early 20s all right and does not
- 2:02:47Speaker 2: have a uh college debt He will end up having
- 2:02:53Speaker 2: more children than a man who goes to college and
- 2:02:55Speaker 2: takes a college debt and starts his family in the 30s.
- 2:03:00Speaker 2: And that guy who goes to college does not actually
- 2:03:04Speaker 2: pay off his debt and earn more until he's in
- 2:03:06Speaker 2: his 40s because he took himself out of the labor pool.
- 2:03:10Speaker 2: So the idea that the man who has a stay-at-home
- 2:03:14Speaker 2: wife in his early 20s is working so hard is
- 2:03:18Speaker 2: a myth. If you actually look at the statistics, and
- 2:03:23Speaker 2: this is the time you study, men with a stay-at-home
- 2:03:26Speaker 2: wife actually work less than other men. They work about
- 2:03:31Speaker 2: 40 hours, whereas men with a dual-income couple work more.
- 2:03:40Speaker 2: How does that make sense? And they have less children.
- 2:03:43Speaker 2: And the other thing is that the communities that focus
- 2:03:46Speaker 2: on family and recognizing men as providers, because The subtle
- 2:03:51Speaker 2: thing that not so erudite is trying to put out
- 2:03:54Speaker 2: there is that feminism changed the expectation that men be providers. No,
- 2:04:00Speaker 2: it just said provision is oppression.
- 2:04:02Speaker 3: Okay.
- 2:04:03Speaker 2: Now I'll just look at the communities that still recognize
- 2:04:07Speaker 2: men as providers as that being a positive contribution to
- 2:04:10Speaker 2: the family. Those communities also are more likely to say
- 2:04:15Speaker 2: that a man can invest too much time in his career.
- 2:04:18Speaker 2: to the detriment of his family. So they recognize provision,
- 2:04:24Speaker 2: but they also recognize it goes too far. That the
- 2:04:28Speaker 2: family is the center, that he should not be spending
- 2:04:31Speaker 2: so much time on his career that he's avoiding spending
- 2:04:34Speaker 2: time with his family, which may be why these men
- 2:04:37Speaker 2: with stay homes don't work as much. They aren't working
- 2:04:41Speaker 2: the 50 hour jobs. That's the astounding thing about all
- 2:04:44Speaker 2: of this. They're having children at lower incomes, not working
- 2:04:49Speaker 2: the 50-hour jobs, probably because their wife, in conjunction with
- 2:04:54Speaker 2: being a homemaker, maybe takes on local jobs to supplement,
- 2:05:00Speaker 2: maybe does homeschooling, maybe has more reasonable expectations in terms
- 2:05:06Speaker 2: of furnishing their household, vacations, and other luxury goods. So
- 2:05:12Speaker 2: in other words, that household is able to afford their
- 2:05:15Speaker 2: kids and able to afford the husband going out less
- 2:05:18Speaker 2: to afford the kids because the wife is more interested
- 2:05:22Speaker 2: in seeing herself in terms of her family rather than
- 2:05:25Speaker 2: a luxury job and luxury goods.
- 2:05:29Speaker 4: Okay?
- 2:05:30Speaker 2: So this is the entire framework that not so erudite
- 2:05:34Speaker 2: is constructing that conservative women, they got the whip on
- 2:05:37Speaker 2: the men. They're just whipping them. Yeah, do more work, men.
- 2:05:41Speaker 2: That's bullshit. When the women with the whip are liberal women,
- 2:05:49Speaker 2: the ones who say that provision is oppression and then
- 2:05:51Speaker 2: require 2.3 times more of it to marry men. Right.
- 2:05:57Speaker 2: And then the the men who are working the most
- 2:05:59Speaker 2: are in the two couple household where the woman wants
- 2:06:02Speaker 2: the luxury vacations and the McMansion and to change her
- 2:06:07Speaker 2: decor once every three months. Right. Those are the guys
- 2:06:11Speaker 2: who are on the grindstone, but they have like one child,
- 2:06:15Speaker 2: if that.
- 2:06:16Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 2:06:17Speaker 2: Those are the guys who are putting in 50 hours
- 2:06:19Speaker 2: of work week. Okay, so her not so erudite point
- 2:06:25Speaker 2: is dead in the water. First of all, there is
- 2:06:28Speaker 2: no connection between income and having children. People with lower
- 2:06:33Speaker 2: incomes have more children.
- 2:06:34Speaker 1: Yes.
- 2:06:35Speaker 2: Not significantly more, but they do. They manage it. And
- 2:06:39Speaker 2: they likely manage it because the woman is part of
- 2:06:41Speaker 2: a community where she's actually shamed for vanity and pride
- 2:06:45Speaker 2: and excess. So she's not expecting... two vacations a year,
- 2:06:50Speaker 2: to change her household decor several times a year, to
- 2:06:54Speaker 2: have expensive outfits, to eat out constantly. Her expectations are
- 2:07:01Speaker 2: that the man provide for a family, but not too
- 2:07:03Speaker 2: much because he should be at home to be with them.
- 2:07:07Speaker 2: That is the conservative or the more church-going. And I'm
- 2:07:11Speaker 2: just saying this based on the statistics. That's the church-going attitude. Okay?
- 2:07:18Speaker 2: I mean, even liberal church, even people who identify as
- 2:07:22Speaker 2: liberal but go to church have more of this attitude.
- 2:07:27Speaker 2: Family first. No excess displays of wealth. No excess consumption.
- 2:07:33Speaker 2: No signaling to the Joneses. Focus on your family. Focus
- 2:07:37Speaker 2: on your kids. Make sure the husband has time with
- 2:07:40Speaker 2: his kids. So strip it down to what the necessities are,
- 2:07:45Speaker 2: the household necessities are. That's the attitude. Where you're in
- 2:07:48Speaker 2: a community that shames women for their vanity, for their pride,
- 2:07:53Speaker 2: for their greed.
- 2:07:56Speaker 1: Right?
- 2:07:57Speaker 2: Then they control that. And then everything. works somehow. But
- 2:08:03Speaker 2: when you look at the liberal household, a liberal man
- 2:08:07Speaker 2: right off the bat needs 2.3 times more income. That's
- 2:08:11Speaker 2: where you're going to see the 50, 60, 70 hour
- 2:08:14Speaker 2: work week for the men if they want to get married.
- 2:08:17Speaker 2: And then what they marry to is a woman who's
- 2:08:19Speaker 2: also working, not as much as they are ever. I'll
- 2:08:23Speaker 2: point that out. But what she's doing is she's using
- 2:08:27Speaker 2: his income to enhance her social standing. All the expensive
- 2:08:33Speaker 2: vacations to Europe, to the Caribbean, all of the expensive
- 2:08:38Speaker 2: home decor, the expensive outfits, the expensive everything for the children.
- 2:08:43Speaker 2: And they have less children overall. That's where the whip
- 2:08:49Speaker 2: is being applied. It's liberal men, liberal women to their
- 2:08:54Speaker 2: liberal male husbands with their standards, which are insane. And
- 2:09:02Speaker 2: why are they insane? Because they do not credit him
- 2:09:05Speaker 2: for his provision. They don't credit him for being able
- 2:09:08Speaker 2: to provide the necessities of a household. And they don't
- 2:09:12Speaker 2: value him as a person. They don't value him. his
- 2:09:16Speaker 2: relationship to their children. So this thing that erudite is
- 2:09:20Speaker 2: trying to present that conservative or church-going women are putting
- 2:09:25Speaker 2: their men to the grindstone and whipping them, work, work, work, men, work.
- 2:09:29Speaker 2: And then the liberal women are like, oh no, dear,
- 2:09:32Speaker 2: you should have all this time with your children. What children?
- 2:09:35Speaker 2: Let's be honest. No, that's not the way it is.
- 2:09:41Speaker 2: Liberal men need 2.3 times the same amount of income
- 2:09:43Speaker 2: to get the same odds of marriage as a conservative
- 2:09:47Speaker 2: or a conservative man or a moderate man for that matter.
- 2:09:51Speaker 2: Don't even go conservative. This is just the liberal male penalty.
- 2:09:55Speaker 2: This is just the feminist man's penalty. 2.3 times more
- 2:09:59Speaker 2: provision or he ain't gonna get a wife. And then
- 2:10:04Speaker 2: when he gets a wife, she wants to spend his income,
- 2:10:07Speaker 2: his greater income, right? He wants to spend it on her,
- 2:10:11Speaker 2: not children. So this guy's at the grindstone for a
- 2:10:19Speaker 2: woman's lifestyle. So everything erudite is saying is blown up
- 2:10:26Speaker 2: by the statistics. It does not bear out. People don't
- 2:10:31Speaker 2: have more children than they have more money. They don't
- 2:10:35Speaker 2: have more. The families in which the woman is staying
- 2:10:38Speaker 2: at home The man is actually working less somehow, probably
- 2:10:42Speaker 2: because her expectations are not enormous in terms of consumer goods.
- 2:10:49Speaker 2: All right, and he probably has more time with his kids.
- 2:10:52Speaker 2: And not just that, this situation was much more common
- 2:10:55Speaker 2: in the 50s and the 60s. Men and women worked
- 2:11:00Speaker 2: less in the 50s and the 60s than they do now, less.
- 2:11:06Speaker 2: So a 50s father actually had more time with his kids.
- 2:11:10Speaker 2: And she's trying to argue that this double income is
- 2:11:14Speaker 2: going to give men time with their kids. Every statistical
- 2:11:17Speaker 2: factor says the opposite. Now, I say that it is
- 2:11:20Speaker 2: a sacrifice that men made. This post-industrial system, they sacrificed
- 2:11:25Speaker 2: their time with their children. But it seems like the
- 2:11:28Speaker 2: best option for a man right now is a stay-at-home
- 2:11:35Speaker 2: wife in a community that actually still shames people for
- 2:11:39Speaker 2: their vanity. their excesses, their greed. So her desires, her
- 2:11:44Speaker 2: material desires are reasonable and relate to the necessities of
- 2:11:48Speaker 2: raising children, right? And then he starts young. So he
- 2:11:53Speaker 2: doesn't have a debt. He's going to end up with
- 2:11:56Speaker 2: more children and he's going to be earning more than
- 2:11:59Speaker 2: the man who went to college until he's in his
- 2:12:01Speaker 2: like late thirties. And the guy who went to college
- 2:12:05Speaker 2: is still paying off that debt into like the forties.
- 2:12:09Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 2:12:09Speaker 2: So college, yeah, like none of this, none of what
- 2:12:12Speaker 2: she's saying provides for a life path that is worth having.
- 2:12:17Speaker 2: Unless you want women at the age of 25 with herpes,
- 2:12:22Speaker 2: orgy body counts, and tremendous amounts of debt for educations
- 2:12:27Speaker 2: they don't need. And you want men who, like, there
- 2:12:33Speaker 2: is a premium to going to university for men, university
- 2:12:36Speaker 2: and college. However, You need to make sure you're not
- 2:12:39Speaker 2: a dropout. And you need to be prepared that you
- 2:12:43Speaker 2: are probably not going to earn more than a man
- 2:12:45Speaker 2: who stayed in the workforce during the time you were
- 2:12:49Speaker 2: out of it until your 30s, your late 30s. And
- 2:12:52Speaker 2: they're probably not going to pay off that student debt
- 2:12:54Speaker 2: until your 40s. And at that point in time, you've sacrificed.
- 2:12:58Speaker 2: And guys have this too. Statistically, guys also have a
- 2:13:01Speaker 2: fertile window, right? After 44... You're not adding children to
- 2:13:08Speaker 2: the pool for men. I mean, you can, some men
- 2:13:11Speaker 2: manage that lottery, but most men don't. So you're sacrificing
- 2:13:18Speaker 2: your fertile years as a man from 18 to 25
- 2:13:21Speaker 2: to make a whole bunch of money in your 40s
- 2:13:24Speaker 2: so that you can marry a 40-year-old woman who's gonna
- 2:13:26Speaker 2: use that money for your lifestyle, for her lifestyle, right?
- 2:13:31Speaker 2: So none of the statistic bears out on what not
- 2:13:36Speaker 2: so erudite is trying to say, which is that a
- 2:13:38Speaker 2: dual income household somehow frees men from expectations because they're
- 2:13:43Speaker 2: with a woman who's working and liberal minded. No, the
- 2:13:48Speaker 2: expectations rise and the amount of children lowers because she
- 2:13:54Speaker 2: expects your money to go to her and her lifestyle choices.
- 2:14:00Speaker 2: And she wants a whole lot more of it. All right. So,
- 2:14:05Speaker 2: I mean, I'm done. I know that you need to.
- 2:14:08Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to go. I got to go pick
- 2:14:10Speaker 1: up the wife. So we'll pick this up next time.
- 2:14:14Speaker 1: It is a long debate, but I think it's it's
- 2:14:16Speaker 1: worth going through. So we'll just pick this up next week.
- 2:14:20Speaker 1: All right.
- 2:14:21Speaker 2: Yep.
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- 2:14:55Speaker 2: I've only found one Princeton survey from 2009 that does
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