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- 0:03Speaker 1: And Charlomagne the guy my dad asked up to breakfat Club.
- 0:07Speaker 1: Is I'm not Koka Love coming here. I'm never not
- 0:15Speaker 1: gonna come here. You guys are good to me, and
- 0:16Speaker 1: lati of them away was gonna be good deal for
- 0:18Speaker 1: a lot of people in hip hop generation. The Breakfast
- 0:20Speaker 1: Club is where people get the information on the topics,
- 0:22Speaker 1: on the artists and everything like that. In that aspect,
- 0:25Speaker 1: Radio student pot the Breakfast Club for my name, come on,
- 0:28Speaker 1: respect you, good morning Usa yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:42Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:44Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:46Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo. I'm DJ Envy
- 0:50Speaker 1: And how body named is Charlotmagne, the guy with the
- 0:52Speaker 1: world the most dangerous morning shore the Breakfast Club and
- 0:54Speaker 1: currently we are on vacation man, totally disconnected. Yes, we're
- 0:58Speaker 1: not even really here. You think you're listening to us,
- 0:59Speaker 1: but we're not. Well, we are not. We're here in spirit. Yeah. Yeah,
- 1:04Speaker 1: and we're gonna be playing some of our top interviews
- 1:06Speaker 1: and some throwbacks, So keep a lock bad it's gonna
- 1:09Speaker 1: be running the boards and uh, we'll see ell in
- 1:11Speaker 1: the new year. Happy holidays. It's the breakfast Love, good morning,
- 1:15Speaker 1: I'm what's doing? This is your time to get it
- 1:21Speaker 1: off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed. Eight hundred
- 1:24Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five one. We want to
- 1:26Speaker 1: hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello, who's this?
- 1:30Speaker 1: Oh good? More than breakfast club is oh good? More
- 1:33Speaker 1: than breakfast club is ay yee? Charlot mane ever been
- 1:37Speaker 1: good morning, the oil, y'all piece and blessing. My name
- 1:41Speaker 1: is nil Ni Queens. I now reside in Atlanta, Georgia. Okay,
- 1:46Speaker 1: hard working black man. I'm recently divorcing my wife because
- 1:50Speaker 1: you know what, the second time just saw me, it
- 1:51Speaker 1: wasn't my fault. And what they're going to work out, Okay,
- 1:54Speaker 1: up earlier trying to look at hard liberty long no wall,
- 1:59Speaker 1: work on money to get to my kids because right
- 2:00Speaker 1: now though I'm walking on my last two weeks with them,
- 2:03Speaker 1: it's my turn with them. I got them for the
- 2:05Speaker 1: for the summer, Okay, they got to go back to Pennsylvania. Um. Really,
- 2:10Speaker 1: I'm just asking for you know, pressing everybody and shout
- 2:14Speaker 1: out to every single father who's out there trying. You know,
- 2:17Speaker 1: I started my own business just so I can make up,
- 2:19Speaker 1: you know, some kind of a legacy and financial stability
- 2:22Speaker 1: for my kids. I'm a proud owner of Detail of Denial.
- 2:26Speaker 1: I'm a mobile car detailer. Okay, so next car s
- 2:30Speaker 1: I'll give you a call because we definitely need mobile
- 2:32Speaker 1: uncleanings for all the car So next time, I appreciate
- 2:36Speaker 1: check out my work on ig Detail of Denial. Okay, brother, Well,
- 2:39Speaker 1: thank you for calling it. Check it in hey if
- 2:41Speaker 1: you're on mine cause I shut up mom my, Cash Haaf,
- 2:44Speaker 1: So ifverybody don't say that can help me out. I'm
- 2:46Speaker 1: really trying to build up my home for my kids
- 2:48Speaker 1: in Pa. So everybody can help me get a jumpstart.
- 2:50Speaker 1: I really appreciate that. Nope, so Cash Haf tag is
- 2:53Speaker 1: um ride to detail Rand. Charlomagne loves you. Now you
- 3:00Speaker 1: know why did not think of that? I should have known.
- 3:01Speaker 1: Charlomagne gonna go with that and a matter of fact,
- 3:04Speaker 1: charlotmaan to you too. Brother. I gotta give a shout
- 3:06Speaker 1: out to you. I met you once when you came
- 3:09Speaker 1: out to Georgia for your book signing. Dwo is your books.
- 3:12Speaker 1: Thank you brother, your signed to them my books, Thank you, brother.
- 3:17Speaker 1: I appreciate I appreciate that. Man, you had a guy
- 3:20Speaker 1: in front of me who shouted, God, Papa, get his music.
- 3:22Speaker 1: Thing started out. I gonna say it with a CD.
- 3:24Speaker 1: He tried to give you a one hundred dollars You
- 3:25Speaker 1: remember that. I was gonna ask you how it was
- 3:29Speaker 1: because he was gonna so hard. Don't say I try
- 3:31Speaker 1: to get you to listen to him with a hundred dollars.
- 3:32Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, maybe he got a
- 3:34Speaker 1: little skills. Don't lie. I am that guy. Oh it
- 3:41Speaker 1: was you? Remember you? Well? Yeah, you know it was me.
- 3:45Speaker 1: If you remember me and said I sucked, I wasn't
- 3:47Speaker 1: gonna mention that it was me, but since you did
- 3:49Speaker 1: not listen, I'm gonna tall it was me. I tell you.
- 3:51Speaker 1: The worst thing you could do. The worst thing you
- 3:53Speaker 1: could do is trying to offer somebody money to listen
- 3:56Speaker 1: to your music and play your music. Anybody that anybody
- 3:58Speaker 1: that takes your money to listen to your music play
- 4:00Speaker 1: of music is a complete sucker and you should not
- 4:02Speaker 1: trust them in any way, shape or form. Oh no,
- 4:04Speaker 1: you definitely gave me a hundred dollar bill back. I
- 4:06Speaker 1: appreciate that. I don't want to pay you for your time.
- 4:09Speaker 1: That's all. Nah, man, I appreciate you coming out. You
- 4:11Speaker 1: bought two books. Man, that's more than enough support. I
- 4:13Speaker 1: appreciate that. And the regulation was the right place to
- 4:16Speaker 1: rap for him. I don't know if the book signing
- 4:18Speaker 1: was the right place to rap for him and give
- 4:20Speaker 1: him that well, you know what, it was a once
- 4:24Speaker 1: a lifetime thing. I was like, I've been listening to
- 4:26Speaker 1: y'all since the decision and it's been on and popping. Well,
- 4:29Speaker 1: thank you for appreciate you. Who how are you leaving
- 4:36Speaker 1: now that you shouldn't have been been at? But you
- 4:38Speaker 1: need to stop doing this. And I was actually being
- 4:40Speaker 1: good this weekend. When I need to get off my chest,
- 4:43Speaker 1: I have to ask everyone on the Pop Morning crew,
- 4:46Speaker 1: is there anything wrong with being friends with your acts? No?
- 4:51Speaker 1: I don't think so. Well. I got to know about
- 4:53Speaker 1: what the situation Isn't that happen? No? No, no, what's it?
- 4:55Speaker 1: Are you in a relationship now? Are you married? No? No? No? No? Um?
- 5:00Speaker 1: Halfway single? Trying to work on myself. I been friends
- 5:05Speaker 1: with my act. We were together for ten years. We
- 5:08Speaker 1: have kids involved, so we continue to still be friends.
- 5:12Speaker 1: His new girlfriend decided to go through his sail phone
- 5:16Speaker 1: and get upset because we are still friends. Well what
- 5:19Speaker 1: did she saying there? Like, when you say friends, what
- 5:21Speaker 1: kind of messages? Um? I messitched him like, hey, how
- 5:26Speaker 1: you doing, how's the kids doing? You know, it was
- 5:29Speaker 1: nice talking to you the other day, or hey, you
- 5:32Speaker 1: know because our kids are going to college. You know,
- 5:34Speaker 1: we got teniors, you know, and hey, baby girl needs
- 5:38Speaker 1: anything for college, you know, have her call me. Okay,
- 5:42Speaker 1: So nothing weird, like I love you, I miss you. No, no,
- 5:46Speaker 1: hell no, it's better to be single and just friends
- 5:49Speaker 1: because I couldn't stand him as a boyfriend, right, friends, Well,
- 5:55Speaker 1: it's really not your problem. He's got to handle that. Then,
- 5:57Speaker 1: as long as you're not doing anything that's out of
- 5:59Speaker 1: bounds and y'all got kids together, you know he's gonna
- 6:02Speaker 1: have to handle that, not you. Man, stop texting that
- 6:04Speaker 1: woman boyfriend. Okay, listen, Like I told her, you are
- 6:09Speaker 1: a placeholder for me, that woman boyfriend. Now that you
- 6:15Speaker 1: comes out, that's why she don't like you exactly. No,
- 6:19Speaker 1: she doesn't know. She doesn't like me because of the
- 6:21Speaker 1: simple fact that, no, we don't have any biological fids together.
- 6:25Speaker 1: But if you kids like for ten years, you know
- 6:28Speaker 1: what I'm saying ma'am, ma'am. Lead that woman boyfriend alone. Man.
- 6:32Speaker 1: Oh like I told her if I wanted him, I'd
- 6:34Speaker 1: have her again. Yeah, this is why she don't like you.
- 6:38Speaker 1: You didn't say. You didn't say you told her that. Okay,
- 6:42Speaker 1: we'll see. Listen, you know what, angel I cannot wait
- 6:45Speaker 1: until you get your whole show because you bring out everything,
- 6:47Speaker 1: but see the man. They always don't, you know, side
- 6:50Speaker 1: with the men and stuff. I'm not sorry with the man.
- 6:52Speaker 1: I'm just telling you that you I can I can
- 6:53Speaker 1: hear as soon as you told the story. I'm like,
- 6:55Speaker 1: it's simple. Lead that woman boyfriend alone, because you wouldn't
- 6:58Speaker 1: want nobody doing that to your boyfriend. Maybe you didn't
- 7:00Speaker 1: tell us that you said I could have him anytime
- 7:02Speaker 1: I want them. You a place her hair, her head
- 7:04Speaker 1: in her voice. No, no, listen, I can't be a
- 7:08Speaker 1: I can be a patty person. But the thing is
- 7:11Speaker 1: legitly we have you know, we have kids. I've been
- 7:14Speaker 1: in his kid's life. I definitely don't want you texting
- 7:18Speaker 1: my boyfriend. Nodded. I don't heard you on the breakfast
- 7:20Speaker 1: club and heard what you really about that. Leave that
- 7:25Speaker 1: woman's boyfriend alone. Okay, did she hung up on us
- 7:31Speaker 1: because truth. Nobody will hear the truth. If you want
- 7:33Speaker 1: to give us some bs generic nothing nothing did, She'll
- 7:36Speaker 1: take that when you tell them truth. If you want
- 7:38Speaker 1: to run somebody with me like that about my breakfriend,
- 7:41Speaker 1: I'd be okay with it. What's the breakfast club? Good morning?
- 7:45Speaker 1: The breakfast club? Drinking? That's what I said, grow up
- 7:50Speaker 1: the hell you drink? Boking toe quiller, rum gent? Why Hello?
- 7:55Speaker 1: Who's this? Hello? Hello is Morotoo. That's a very original name.
- 8:06Speaker 1: I've never heard that before. What are you calling from?
- 8:09Speaker 1: I'm going from Angola, Africa? Africa? All right? Africa? Wo
- 8:13Speaker 1: all right, the motherland? What's happening? Get it off your chest?
- 8:17Speaker 1: Good morning? Good morning? Beca angry good morning from them
- 8:22Speaker 1: of God? What's up? King? Good morning? Very long distance called.
- 8:28Speaker 1: I might spend it here. I had the dollar ustimently spots.
- 8:32Speaker 1: I just want to I just want to say that
- 8:33Speaker 1: this this show is amazing. Um, you guys are doing
- 8:36Speaker 1: an incredical job. And I lifted to every day in
- 8:39Speaker 1: my Apple podcast and I don't even know it program
- 8:42Speaker 1: most Life. I just called ok some potivity, yeahs doing
- 8:47Speaker 1: and keeping spill. What time is it in Africa right
- 8:50Speaker 1: now and Angola? What time is it? Eleven sixteen? Okay,
- 8:56Speaker 1: pma am am okay, all right, I'm good to talk
- 9:00Speaker 1: to your brother. Hello. Who's this? Yo? Yoo? Angel Louis
- 9:06Speaker 1: shame Djen? What's up getting chub? But that is my birthday.
- 9:11Speaker 1: I'm twenty six years old, man, happy birth Yeah. I
- 9:17Speaker 1: woke up early this morning just to call you guys
- 9:20Speaker 1: and say, yo, I'm so happy. Um, I'm a long
- 9:24Speaker 1: time listening at first time callege from Florida. Okay, my
- 9:29Speaker 1: happy birthday, brother. How you gonna tell that? No? Uh,
- 9:35Speaker 1: cash money Blaze two four and ninety six. Now, I'm
- 9:38Speaker 1: gonna be honest with you. That's not enough for nobody
- 9:40Speaker 1: to want to put nothing in your cash app. I
- 9:42Speaker 1: mean you're not the only person with a birthday out here, sir.
- 9:44Speaker 1: I mean if anybody feel generous, everybody feels big ball.
- 9:49Speaker 1: I don't know. Yes, I ain't got it for you
- 9:52Speaker 1: this morning. What you doing for your birthday? Dude? I
- 9:57Speaker 1: thought I heard you guys get that girl's seake. I
- 10:00Speaker 1: was like, oh man, me and my wife love it.
- 10:02Speaker 1: She had a better story than you did, and I
- 10:04Speaker 1: think she was It was something to do with her children.
- 10:07Speaker 1: I'll send you a book though. I got a copy
- 10:09Speaker 1: of Anita Colpack Shallow Waters. I'll send you that for
- 10:12Speaker 1: your birthday. I got you happy birthday. It's well. You
- 10:17Speaker 1: have a good one, brother, you got it. Than hold on.
- 10:20Speaker 1: They'll get your address to Breakfast Club. Good morning to
- 10:24Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. J mvy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we
- 10:31Speaker 1: are to Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in
- 10:32Speaker 1: the balloting. I'm not used to seeing them like this either.
- 10:35Speaker 1: He got record label people with them like major. I'm
- 10:38Speaker 1: like drinking wine level up man again, ladies, beca, how
- 10:46Speaker 1: are you feeling feeling so so separately out right now?
- 10:50Speaker 1: This is your first first solo major label deal. That's it? Yeah? Okay, yeah, yeah,
- 10:54Speaker 1: that's my first major album and I put out period
- 10:57Speaker 1: well made. You decided to do that now? Um lambo?
- 11:00Speaker 1: My manager really to be honest, Yeah, my partner Norvay,
- 11:04Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like he've been trying to
- 11:05Speaker 1: like sign me to have made it for a long time. Man,
- 11:07Speaker 1: So you know, it just worked out perfect. E Sterning system.
- 11:10Speaker 1: It's just a good business move. What can they do
- 11:12Speaker 1: for you that you weren't already doing for yourself. Joyman
- 11:15Speaker 1: nominated for Grammys. I mean it looked, it looked good,
- 11:18Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like you see it. You
- 11:20Speaker 1: know you noticed the change when I walked into So
- 11:23Speaker 1: I mean, you know it's definitely extras on that theme
- 11:25Speaker 1: we're doing right now, you know what I mean, Like,
- 11:26Speaker 1: you know, we gotta I gotta record added that radio.
- 11:29Speaker 1: I ain't never been that. I ain't never had none
- 11:31Speaker 1: of that. Um, you know, top twenty Billboard release, I
- 11:34Speaker 1: ain't never had that. So you know it's definitely change
- 11:36Speaker 1: has been made it. Sometimes it's nice not to have
- 11:38Speaker 1: to do everything yourself that too, and pay for everything
- 11:41Speaker 1: yourself that too. It's always good to eat on their dollars. Absolutely,
- 11:46Speaker 1: we had a lot going on. Frady gets by the way.
- 11:49Speaker 1: I think the album is pretty amazing. Thank you. I
- 11:51Speaker 1: aprediate that you give music is never in question. People
- 11:54Speaker 1: know you make good music. Yeah, if everything else that
- 11:57Speaker 1: comes with it, it's probably with date question the question.
- 12:00Speaker 1: They just not have questions about questions about being like
- 12:05Speaker 1: very honest. You know a lot of people sensed themselves
- 12:08Speaker 1: about things that they might say. And really, I mean,
- 12:11Speaker 1: you know, I'm from a small town man, you know
- 12:13Speaker 1: what I mean. So it's like, you know, it ain't
- 12:16Speaker 1: hard to be with me, you know what I mean.
- 12:18Speaker 1: So I feel like, you know, a lot of people
- 12:21Speaker 1: take offense to, you know, stuff I say and things
- 12:24Speaker 1: I do, but you know, you gotta do something about it.
- 12:26Speaker 1: You gotta deal with me. Y'all gonna feel me. So
- 12:28Speaker 1: they killed meself. It is what it is. So why
- 12:31Speaker 1: is the jokes because people, you know, I'm a comedian
- 12:33Speaker 1: man jokes, The jokes ain't nothing. Jokes is like that.
- 12:38Speaker 1: It's the violence. The jokes ain't nothing. I don't know.
- 12:40Speaker 1: I don't I don't initiate the violence. I just do
- 12:43Speaker 1: what a man would do and just can do himself.
- 12:45Speaker 1: And in certain occasions I didn't. I ain't never initiating
- 12:48Speaker 1: no violence on the rappers. And you know if I did,
- 12:50Speaker 1: you wouldn't know about it, you know what I'm saying,
- 12:52Speaker 1: Like I didn't have problems with people. You know what
- 12:54Speaker 1: I'm saying that with way too deep, you know. But
- 12:57Speaker 1: I don't need to you know, yeah, I don't need
- 12:59Speaker 1: to pub the size that I think that like a
- 13:01Speaker 1: lot of these guys that had issues with me, you know,
- 13:03Speaker 1: they come in to fight with camera crews, you know
- 13:05Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like it's were in the cloud era.
- 13:07Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, they think they thought it
- 13:10Speaker 1: was a free pick. So they just want to, you know,
- 13:12Speaker 1: do what they gotta do to get their cloud up.
- 13:14Speaker 1: But I don't gotta do nothing like that, you know
- 13:15Speaker 1: what I mean, They're getting no cloud up because, like
- 13:17Speaker 1: you said, the musics before stuff. My brother, you know
- 13:19Speaker 1: what I'm saying, we leave street stuff in the streets.
- 13:21Speaker 1: I mean, get into that. He said someone now I'm
- 13:23Speaker 1: now is interesting that And I wanted to because I
- 13:25Speaker 1: never thought about it, but you said you make people
- 13:28Speaker 1: feel good about coming from Gary, Indianas And I was like, well, damn,
- 13:31Speaker 1: I want to. I never thought about what impact did
- 13:33Speaker 1: the Jacksons have on young black kids coming from Gary.
- 13:36Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, you know, it was definitely
- 13:38Speaker 1: motivation to see the you know, the biggest musical family
- 13:41Speaker 1: come from right around the corner where you're from. But
- 13:43Speaker 1: you know, it wasn't really like a direct you know,
- 13:47Speaker 1: tangible impact, you know what I mean. But it's hard, man,
- 13:50Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like Gary's a it's a
- 13:52Speaker 1: tough place to be from, you know what I mean.
- 13:54Speaker 1: And I don't go back enough, you know what I mean,
- 13:56Speaker 1: because I got stuff that I got going on, and
- 13:57Speaker 1: I'm trying to pursue. So I feel like I'm in
- 13:59Speaker 1: a position and now Walker go back and make changes.
- 14:02Speaker 1: But I wasn't in the beginning of my career because
- 14:04Speaker 1: I'm still trying to get to where I needed to be.
- 14:05Speaker 1: I can see how you're more relatable than the Jackson
- 14:07Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. Oh yeah, you know what I'm saying.
- 14:09Speaker 1: I didn't like that, but he didn't like the fact
- 14:11Speaker 1: that people would say, you know, from the same place
- 14:13Speaker 1: as Jackson. Yeah, because you said that at the Double X.
- 14:17Speaker 1: I remember that. I was mad than like. You know
- 14:20Speaker 1: that because I didn't like you for a long time.
- 14:22Speaker 1: I ain't like you. I did not know, I tell you.
- 14:29Speaker 1: So it was it was wasn't Actually the Blox was MTV?
- 14:33Speaker 1: Was it? So we had to show on MTV. You
- 14:35Speaker 1: know how MTV writes the scripts. So the teleprompt that
- 14:38Speaker 1: says from Gary, Indiana, the same one with the Jackson
- 14:41Speaker 1: five and Michael Jackson, Freddie Gibbs, No, No, don't do it, Envy,
- 14:44Speaker 1: what was it? What was it? They wrote it out
- 14:48Speaker 1: and that's the way it was red. That's where it
- 14:49Speaker 1: was written. But you ain't say it like that. You said,
- 14:52Speaker 1: like Gary, he was cloudy. I believe you, Freddy, I
- 14:58Speaker 1: noticed cloud I believe, yeah, I believe I took the
- 15:01Speaker 1: fence to that. But you know we cool. It was
- 15:04Speaker 1: this is like body. It was like fifteen years. So
- 15:05Speaker 1: why you don't like him because you mess up? I
- 15:08Speaker 1: didn't mess up. I said it the right way. He
- 15:09Speaker 1: gotta say, I ain't from Gary, and he said something.
- 15:13Speaker 1: I know he didn't say that. You just lying on him.
- 15:14Speaker 1: I know he didn't say that. It was something Freddy All.
- 15:17Speaker 1: He doesn't say, I'm not funn What did you say?
- 15:20Speaker 1: The slight skin as trip, That's what I That's what
- 15:25Speaker 1: I said. No, it's just the first time y'all made up.
- 15:28Speaker 1: No three times by the way, span of thirteen years.
- 15:35Speaker 1: That's why I'm shot. I've never heard you saying like
- 15:37Speaker 1: Freddy year, I've never heard that big love respect for
- 15:40Speaker 1: when he didn't like me. I feel like it was
- 15:42Speaker 1: a little we spoke after that. Believe it was. There
- 15:43Speaker 1: was a little time ago back he was like fourteen
- 15:46Speaker 1: years ago. Silliest all his beef Siciliest don't be this
- 15:52Speaker 1: is this isn't like something he said? Can I have
- 15:54Speaker 1: my opinion not to like something? I got beef for
- 15:55Speaker 1: the body? Man was very sensitive. Would you consider yourself sensitive?
- 16:00Speaker 1: Amy Lights getting man's right to be sensitive. He's a
- 16:02Speaker 1: stereotyping stereotype. That's that's all it is. As soon as
- 16:07Speaker 1: I walked in, I said, my Lights getting brother. That's right,
- 16:09Speaker 1: that's my brother. Oh wait, we always be I do
- 16:12Speaker 1: want to along these lines. I do want to talk
- 16:14Speaker 1: about some things you did say on the album. Right,
- 16:16Speaker 1: So you and Jeez you talked about your own immaturity
- 16:20Speaker 1: in that situation, correct, So what made you come to
- 16:23Speaker 1: that realization because this is something that for years you've had,
- 16:26Speaker 1: you know, kind of a chip on your shoulder about it.
- 16:28Speaker 1: But now you're like, you know what, I was immature.
- 16:30Speaker 1: I wasn't ready. You even said, you've listened back to
- 16:31Speaker 1: some of those old songs, yeah, and so on Rabbit Vision. Yeah.
- 16:36Speaker 1: I was just ready to just get past that in
- 16:37Speaker 1: my career, you know what I mean? Like I didn't
- 16:39Speaker 1: really you know, me and me and me and Jez
- 16:41Speaker 1: ain't never had no like physical stuff or anything of
- 16:44Speaker 1: that nature. So it's just like, you know, like we can,
- 16:46Speaker 1: you know, I can. I can move past that. That
- 16:47Speaker 1: was just a business disagreement. Did you'll have a conversation
- 16:50Speaker 1: because you said some wild stuff about Jess back in
- 16:52Speaker 1: the day. No, we didn't have a real conversation, but
- 16:54Speaker 1: we've seen each other and we uh, you know sometimes
- 16:57Speaker 1: just you know, a handshake is worth a thousand words.
- 16:59Speaker 1: You know, we should each other hand He was with
- 17:00Speaker 1: his wife, I was with my girl, and we just
- 17:02Speaker 1: kept it pushing. We was in the airport. But I mean,
- 17:05Speaker 1: the conversation can't be had. But I don't even think
- 17:07Speaker 1: if we need to then. But yeah, yeah, I don't
- 17:10Speaker 1: have none against none of that, you know what I mean?
- 17:12Speaker 1: Like that, that situation definitely made me stronger and made
- 17:15Speaker 1: me a better artist. So you know, I pay homage
- 17:16Speaker 1: to Due even when we wasn't when I wasn't with him,
- 17:19Speaker 1: I'll still bumping trap a bag like I wouldn't, you know,
- 17:21Speaker 1: I said, I'll still listen to the music. So they
- 17:23Speaker 1: made you a buss, Yeah, definitely, But but I had to,
- 17:25Speaker 1: you know, I had to level up man, you know,
- 17:27Speaker 1: he said. I remember one time I had a conversation
- 17:29Speaker 1: with him in an interview and he said that it
- 17:31Speaker 1: just really you upset because things didn't work out for
- 17:34Speaker 1: you as an artist with him, correct correct like Like
- 17:36Speaker 1: I said, it was just a bad, you know, business disagreement,
- 17:39Speaker 1: you know, but I didn't. I took it too far
- 17:42Speaker 1: and made it personal. And that's what and that's why
- 17:45Speaker 1: I messed up at you know what I'm saying. But
- 17:46Speaker 1: I did that really to you know, show a younger artist,
- 17:50Speaker 1: you know under me, you know that you can't you
- 17:53Speaker 1: ain't a gangs unless you can keep your composed. And
- 17:55Speaker 1: in that situation, I ain't keep my composure and I
- 17:57Speaker 1: let it, you know, I let my emotions spill all
- 17:59Speaker 1: over the place, and I shouldn't did that. All right,
- 18:00Speaker 1: We got on with Freddie Gibbs. When we come back,
- 18:02Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, the Breakfast
- 18:06Speaker 1: Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy.
- 18:13Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with
- 18:15Speaker 1: Freddie Gibbs. Charlomagne. What is the title Soul sold separately me?
- 18:20Speaker 1: This album is about taking risks, and you know, life's
- 18:22Speaker 1: a real gamble and I've definitely taken a lot of
- 18:24Speaker 1: risk in my life. Man, so I just wanted to
- 18:26Speaker 1: just get it out there. And you know, like I said,
- 18:29Speaker 1: this is my first major label album that I put out,
- 18:33Speaker 1: so I was working on it since I got the
- 18:35Speaker 1: Grammy nomination, and I was like, you know what I
- 18:38Speaker 1: you know, if I don't come with my best album
- 18:42Speaker 1: this time, then it might I might not have another one.
- 18:45Speaker 1: So I was like, all right, let me you're really focused.
- 18:47Speaker 1: So I really got focused on this, you know what
- 18:49Speaker 1: I'm saying, like extra focus. You feel like more eyes
- 18:51Speaker 1: on you now because of Grammy nominated and the label
- 18:54Speaker 1: so now, which it opens you up to an audience
- 18:57Speaker 1: you might not have had before. Yeah, definitely, definitely, definitely, Like, man,
- 19:00Speaker 1: I'm about to go on tour with the Grillists, you
- 19:02Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's like I'm doing you know,
- 19:03Speaker 1: I'm just trying to just create my own lane in
- 19:05Speaker 1: the game. Man, you know that's it. And an actor
- 19:08Speaker 1: down with the King. Congratulations on that actor and producer.
- 19:12Speaker 1: I don't forget that now, like that. Definitely a produce
- 19:14Speaker 1: on that film as well. We took that the Cans
- 19:16Speaker 1: Film Festival. So acting is cool, it's great, but you know,
- 19:20Speaker 1: I want to attack the film world. The same way
- 19:22Speaker 1: I attack the music industry. You know what I mean,
- 19:24Speaker 1: I want to create things. I want to you know,
- 19:26Speaker 1: I want to be the producer. I want to be
- 19:27Speaker 1: the director. You know what I mean. I want to
- 19:29Speaker 1: you know, just you know, not do what and just acting.
- 19:31Speaker 1: You know, you was really out there, like farming and
- 19:34Speaker 1: playing with animals. Yeah, we really did do that, you
- 19:36Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like the animals is real too.
- 19:39Speaker 1: What did you what did you learn from that experience?
- 19:41Speaker 1: It was? It was pretty funny and interesting to see
- 19:43Speaker 1: you in that environment, you know what, man, I was
- 19:45Speaker 1: like that playing that role and doing that thing was
- 19:47Speaker 1: real therapeutic for me because I was really on that
- 19:49Speaker 1: farm for two months, you know, like away from the
- 19:53Speaker 1: rap game and all of that and it you know,
- 19:55Speaker 1: it was COVID, so you know, it was a real
- 19:57Speaker 1: difficult time even shooting a film during COVID. Everybody the
- 20:00Speaker 1: set got masks on you know. Um, I had a
- 20:03Speaker 1: baby on the way at the time, you know what
- 20:05Speaker 1: I mean, Like I remember hate ter saw you doing that.
- 20:07Speaker 1: Shout out my baby mom. But she was going in
- 20:10Speaker 1: labor while I was on movie setting, and like it
- 20:13Speaker 1: was COVID, so I couldn't go in the hospital to
- 20:16Speaker 1: see the baby. It was. It was just a real wild,
- 20:18Speaker 1: tumultuous time, you know what I mean. But uh, you
- 20:21Speaker 1: know those times make it stronger. You know. It's a
- 20:23Speaker 1: family and everything he was on. He was on bus
- 20:25Speaker 1: down a lot. I got a lot of kids. I
- 20:29Speaker 1: ain't going for Nick Cannon record, but uh three just
- 20:34Speaker 1: three twelve kids. But his mother's got really mad at
- 20:38Speaker 1: you after this album came out because you named her.
- 20:40Speaker 1: I would be like that. You know, people just get frustrated,
- 20:42Speaker 1: you know, to be like that. You know that was
- 20:44Speaker 1: a time. But you know I spoke to about it
- 20:46Speaker 1: before they came out and everything. It was a decent conversation.
- 20:48Speaker 1: And she didn't get mad after they came out because
- 20:50Speaker 1: you the way you explained it probably is not the
- 20:52Speaker 1: way it came out on the record. No, not at all,
- 20:54Speaker 1: said it word for word that thing, and she didn't.
- 20:56Speaker 1: She wasn't upset at all. It's what it is, man.
- 20:58Speaker 1: Baby was loving y'all love it. Man. It's all about
- 21:00Speaker 1: raising kids. It probably hit different when the album come out.
- 21:03Speaker 1: Heit different album come out and everybody listens hitting Yeah,
- 21:05Speaker 1: they're hitting her. Yeah, yeah it is, man, because you
- 21:07Speaker 1: did say you're about to squeeze academics titties. I love
- 21:11Speaker 1: a fat bitch. Yeah? Where did that? What? Why? Why
- 21:14Speaker 1: you're talking about what? I need to know your thought
- 21:24Speaker 1: for that second way? You talk about one that you
- 21:26Speaker 1: gotta explain, and you said I love a fat bitch.
- 21:28Speaker 1: Then you talk about the academic city baby mama fat?
- 21:31Speaker 1: No, no no, no, no, no, my Babyma's not fat. But
- 21:33Speaker 1: I like understanding the second way you're talking about lines
- 21:35Speaker 1: that he has to retalk does though, that's that's my thing.
- 21:39Speaker 1: I'll do, Like I just blew kiss the Lizzle, but
- 21:41Speaker 1: she didn't look at me. What did you blow kissing?
- 21:43Speaker 1: I've seen her somewhere and then I've seen a pitch
- 21:45Speaker 1: on the wall that I went in serious and I
- 21:46Speaker 1: was like, man, I want to meet Lizzle one day.
- 21:48Speaker 1: Everybody giving liz Or a hard time and you need
- 21:50Speaker 1: to leave her alone. You ain't met little yet. Nah.
- 21:52Speaker 1: I saw it before, and I'm like, hey, if she
- 21:54Speaker 1: just looked at me, I was like, get your ass
- 21:57Speaker 1: that what's what's You're an academics, y'all just never squash whatever? Yeah,
- 22:01Speaker 1: back can man, it ain't nothing like that, you look, man,
- 22:03Speaker 1: academics as a person that I only see when I
- 22:05Speaker 1: pick up my phone. You know what I'm saying, Like
- 22:06Speaker 1: to me, it ain't even like real, you know what
- 22:08Speaker 1: I mean. It's like some internet troll thing, you know
- 22:10Speaker 1: what I mean. But if I'll probably only seen him
- 22:12Speaker 1: in personal at one time. But yeah, I'm a sensible guy, man,
- 22:15Speaker 1: I ain't stupid, Like we could have a conversation, you
- 22:17Speaker 1: know what I mean. No matter what you said, you know, lose,
- 22:19Speaker 1: you don't put your hands on me. Ain't things fixable?
- 22:22Speaker 1: I didn't even see it, but I saw something yesterday.
- 22:24Speaker 1: Somebody sent me something. I don't know where it started,
- 22:25Speaker 1: but he was like, you only what he said, you
- 22:27Speaker 1: you got you got beat up twice this year. You
- 22:29Speaker 1: only saw half your records or something like that. Nobody
- 22:32Speaker 1: checking for you leave big acolone. That's all kept. So
- 22:36Speaker 1: I mean, you know that's all cap I mean, that's
- 22:39Speaker 1: what That's what academics do. Like I said, man, that's
- 22:40Speaker 1: the I gotta pick up my phone to see academics.
- 22:43Speaker 1: I don't see him out here, you know what I'm saying.
- 22:45Speaker 1: So you know he gonna he gonna push the narrative
- 22:47Speaker 1: of you know to his favorite all times and he
- 22:49Speaker 1: don't like me, so I'm supposed to do you know
- 22:51Speaker 1: what I mean, Like somebody don't like you, you you know,
- 22:52Speaker 1: they're gonna say not nice about you, but they ain't
- 22:54Speaker 1: gonna say the truth about you, so he can keep,
- 22:56Speaker 1: you know, spreading the falsehoods. I mean, he said my
- 22:58Speaker 1: brother was a district attorney. My brother guyd of college US.
- 23:03Speaker 1: I'm saying, like the top guy of college. I'm like,
- 23:09Speaker 1: what are you talking about? So it's like, you know,
- 23:10Speaker 1: like he gonna gonna he gonna spread his own heart,
- 23:13Speaker 1: you know what I mean. My brother has a PhD.
- 23:19Speaker 1: My brother, you know what I'm saying. So it's like, yeah,
- 23:23Speaker 1: I don't I don't feel That's why I don't feel
- 23:25Speaker 1: no no way about nothing that he say. I'd just
- 23:27Speaker 1: be like, all right, man, okay, would you want to
- 23:28Speaker 1: do the show? Would you ever do his podcast? If
- 23:30Speaker 1: he asked me to come on there, I got a
- 23:32Speaker 1: little bit boy. Yeah, we got to hit for five
- 23:34Speaker 1: minutes and then we can we can go do Yeah,
- 23:37Speaker 1: we go five minutes, then we can go we can
- 23:38Speaker 1: do whatever we need to do. It's I never could
- 23:41Speaker 1: understand how somebody could not like Freddy gives. I mean
- 23:44Speaker 1: I get people get sensitive though if you say something
- 23:46Speaker 1: about them, So I understand that part of it jokes,
- 23:50Speaker 1: but you do have the jokes, and I'm gonna be
- 23:52Speaker 1: honest with I don't know what none of this started, Freddy,
- 23:55Speaker 1: I don't know what it with many started. I don't
- 23:56Speaker 1: know what it with Jim start. I have no idea
- 23:58Speaker 1: how any of this. I even saw Biddy recently saying
- 24:01Speaker 1: that it just went too far. But yeah, I mean
- 24:04Speaker 1: with Jim, like you always in New York, y'all y'all
- 24:06Speaker 1: ran by each other millions of times like that was weird.
- 24:08Speaker 1: I thought, I'm still in New York despite whoever had
- 24:11Speaker 1: an issue with me, you know, thinking about to give
- 24:13Speaker 1: me a career about it too, So you know, I
- 24:14Speaker 1: don't really you start from. I don't know, man. I
- 24:19Speaker 1: let street shit stay in the streets, and you know,
- 24:22Speaker 1: I don't got no problem with nobody that's like, you know,
- 24:24Speaker 1: doing better than me. So it's okay. I don't really
- 24:27Speaker 1: worry about that. I let all the hate come from
- 24:28Speaker 1: the bottom and just you know, deal with it had
- 24:30Speaker 1: come with you know, it is what it is. But
- 24:32Speaker 1: people know who I am and what and who I'm with,
- 24:34Speaker 1: So did y'all really get into a tussle in Miami. Uh,
- 24:38Speaker 1: it was some stuff furniture moving. It was some furniture moving.
- 24:40Speaker 1: But like, ain't nobody really get Uh, it was just
- 24:44Speaker 1: it was just like a food fight or something like that.
- 24:45Speaker 1: It wasn't nothing like. It wasn't even crazy. That's an
- 24:47Speaker 1: expensive food fighting that rest. Yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't
- 24:49Speaker 1: nothing crazy like that. Ain't nobody get like, you know,
- 24:52Speaker 1: up to that point, you know, it ain't nothing that
- 24:54Speaker 1: you know, people can't move past we were on. You
- 24:56Speaker 1: feel like any of that overshadowed your artistry? No, not
- 24:59Speaker 1: at all. It just made y'all talk about me more.
- 25:01Speaker 1: And my music is good, So I don't even manage
- 25:04Speaker 1: like you're still getting all the great guest appearances. You
- 25:06Speaker 1: know who I loved on the album ray Kwan, Yeah, Yeah,
- 25:10Speaker 1: it's one of my favorite songs, that one and Rabbit Vision, Yeah,
- 25:14Speaker 1: just to you know, to get guys like ray Kwon,
- 25:16Speaker 1: scar Face, how you how you can vince scarf fees
- 25:18Speaker 1: to get back wrapped? That's my dog. Yeah. Me and
- 25:20Speaker 1: Scott faced real closer. And that ain't the first collaborate
- 25:22Speaker 1: did he collaborate me on on Pinyada, So it's like,
- 25:26Speaker 1: you know, I look up to him. You know, I
- 25:28Speaker 1: got a great relationship with guys like him and Bunby.
- 25:30Speaker 1: You know, they was like some of the first, you know,
- 25:32Speaker 1: big name features that I did coming in. So it's
- 25:35Speaker 1: like they kind of they sharpened me up, you know
- 25:36Speaker 1: what I mean. So I'm always gonna pay hommas for
- 25:38Speaker 1: Brad you know. And DJ Paul. That was crazy. That
- 25:42Speaker 1: was a crazy studio session. I love DJ Paul, you
- 25:44Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like that was because when I
- 25:47Speaker 1: was telling somebody's like when I was recording the album,
- 25:49Speaker 1: I was in a real dark space, and that session
- 25:52Speaker 1: really like brightened everything up. We came in, he was
- 25:54Speaker 1: just like happy and like the song was fun, and
- 25:57Speaker 1: it was just like damn, you know what I'm saying, because,
- 25:59Speaker 1: like I said, I was going through a lot of stuff,
- 26:01Speaker 1: getting in fights, getting into it. You know. I had
- 26:03Speaker 1: street stuff going on, homies getting killed, you know what
- 26:06Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, uh, legal stuff, you know, And I
- 26:09Speaker 1: was putting all of that into the record. And then
- 26:11Speaker 1: when DJ Paul came in, he like really like cheered
- 26:13Speaker 1: me up. Man, He really like lifting my spirits to
- 26:16Speaker 1: help me finish the album. You know what I'm saying
- 26:18Speaker 1: in the correct fashion, and you should get out of
- 26:20Speaker 1: the space do music is definitely music is therapeutic for me.
- 26:24Speaker 1: Like I don't really you know, I hear you talking
- 26:26Speaker 1: about therapy all the time, but I don't really like therapy,
- 26:28Speaker 1: Like right, I tried, it ain't really like, man, my
- 26:31Speaker 1: therapist is cute too, so I had I couldn't get back.
- 26:33Speaker 1: You're flirting though, So I don't like talking to dudes,
- 26:37Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So it's like, you know,
- 26:39Speaker 1: I was like, all right, man, let me get out
- 26:40Speaker 1: this therapy and just make another album. So, but there
- 26:42Speaker 1: is other ways to heal though, Like therapy is not
- 26:44Speaker 1: the only only way, true, true, true. I might do
- 26:47Speaker 1: like I did in the movie, just take a hiatus
- 26:49Speaker 1: because yeah, going to farm, you know what I'm saying,
- 26:51Speaker 1: Just you know, switching up the environment. Man, rap get
- 26:54Speaker 1: you know, it get kind of redundant sometimes, so you
- 26:56Speaker 1: gotta like, you know, find other inspirations so you can
- 26:58Speaker 1: like keep keep doing it. I've been doing it for
- 27:00Speaker 1: a long time. It's the breakfast club, good morning, it's
- 27:04Speaker 1: topic time. Because the phone called eight hundred five eight
- 27:11Speaker 1: five one oh five, want to join it to the
- 27:12Speaker 1: discussion with the breakfast club. Talk about it morning. Everybody
- 27:16Speaker 1: is DJ Envy Angela Ye, Charlomagne the guy we are
- 27:20Speaker 1: the breakfast club. Now if he's just joining us, we're
- 27:23Speaker 1: talking musty stories now, right. You've smelled a few times? No,
- 27:29Speaker 1: I remember one time. It was as recently when fifty
- 27:33Speaker 1: with fifty car came through. I ran out the house,
- 27:36Speaker 1: didn't put the odor in on, and I'm a sweater
- 27:38Speaker 1: and I smelled muscle during that interview. I ran in
- 27:41Speaker 1: the back and I even tried to put the odor
- 27:42Speaker 1: in over the funky. It didn't work. So that's why
- 27:45Speaker 1: with that picture, I kind of took a picture I left.
- 27:47Speaker 1: I got out of dogs because I didn't wonder why
- 27:48Speaker 1: they smell me. So I've been there before. What about
- 27:50Speaker 1: you guys? Um, I don't really get musty too much,
- 27:54Speaker 1: you know you're saying, not that I know of. I
- 27:55Speaker 1: don't really get musty too much, but you know, I've definitely, um,
- 27:59Speaker 1: you know, been in situations where you know, the wife
- 28:01Speaker 1: had to let me know my ass was thanked, like
- 28:03Speaker 1: my ass, like my actual ass, Like I'm not going
- 28:06Speaker 1: back there, like like the actual ass Oh, yes, that
- 28:11Speaker 1: is a very humbling experience. I don't know what it
- 28:14Speaker 1: smells like, but yeah, that's a very that is a
- 28:16Speaker 1: very humbling experience. But you know, that's when you know
- 28:18Speaker 1: you got like a real partner because she's not judging you,
- 28:22Speaker 1: She's just letting you know, like, avery, bro, you need
- 28:25Speaker 1: to go do something about that. I definitely think during
- 28:27Speaker 1: the pandemic day with times when I was just home
- 28:29Speaker 1: for a couple of days, didn't shower, and then I'd
- 28:32Speaker 1: be like, I think I got to take a shower. Yeah,
- 28:35Speaker 1: what's crazy is the part of the body that I think,
- 28:37Speaker 1: at least for me as a man, that I smell
- 28:39Speaker 1: the most is testicle. Like you smell your testicle, Yeah,
- 28:43Speaker 1: like after you work out or something like. That's the
- 28:45Speaker 1: that's the part that really be right, you know what
- 28:47Speaker 1: I mean absolutely, that's the one like when you take them,
- 28:50Speaker 1: you know, your your box of briefs off or whatever.
- 28:52Speaker 1: Like I wouldn't want to smell anyone's testicles. You know
- 28:54Speaker 1: what I did have? Um, I did date this guy
- 28:58Speaker 1: who when he would take it ends off his feet stock.
- 29:01Speaker 1: I told him though, and then he had to go
- 29:03Speaker 1: get like medication, like put his medications. Yeah, yeah, that's
- 29:07Speaker 1: usually when people don't wear socks. That's that's you. You
- 29:10Speaker 1: don't wear socks. Sometimes wear socks my shoes. I don't
- 29:13Speaker 1: wear socks when I wear I've seen you in here
- 29:16Speaker 1: a couple of times bare footage. No, that's true. Like
- 29:18Speaker 1: I always thought. I always thought low socks, always thought
- 29:21Speaker 1: think feet was like fake, like just something you see
- 29:23Speaker 1: on TV. Until back in the day we started wearing
- 29:25Speaker 1: what we would call N word socks, which was no socks.
- 29:27Speaker 1: And yes, when your feet sweat, you'd be like, damn, yeah,
- 29:30Speaker 1: well I didn't cheese, I wear low socks. Let's go
- 29:33Speaker 1: to the phone lines. Hello, who's this, Yanna? That's why
- 29:39Speaker 1: you be musty right there, That's why that's why you
- 29:42Speaker 1: be musty right there, Yanna. Hey cancer gang, Now, stop
- 29:51Speaker 1: working up a sweat. Now, stopped working up a sweat
- 29:53Speaker 1: with that natural crystal rock deodor and you got on stupid.
- 29:56Speaker 1: We can sell you. First of all, I I love
- 30:00Speaker 1: you guys. I have a call for years and Charlotte man,
- 30:02Speaker 1: I do want to shut up for the mental health
- 30:07Speaker 1: m I kind of topic one time about I'm a
- 30:10Speaker 1: correct you officer. I work in the prison. But now
- 30:13Speaker 1: I'm a nurse in correction, so I know about mental
- 30:16Speaker 1: health in the correction system, so I would love to
- 30:19Speaker 1: have a conversation with you. But anyway, so the incident
- 30:23Speaker 1: was me and this guy. We had one out and
- 30:25Speaker 1: every time I go out, I get really really uh
- 30:28Speaker 1: nervous in our start sweating. So we went to a
- 30:31Speaker 1: restaurant and I had smelt something when the way to
- 30:33Speaker 1: have walked by and I was like, m and then
- 30:35Speaker 1: he was like, why did you make that face? My
- 30:37Speaker 1: boom what I was with. I was like, I thought
- 30:39Speaker 1: I do this, he must be I'm like, you know
- 30:42Speaker 1: when you first get musty, when you're hitting puberty. And
- 30:44Speaker 1: he was like, oh okay. So we're talking to stuff
- 30:46Speaker 1: and we have our fun were eating stuff. We get
- 30:49Speaker 1: ready to leave. I steal it's another must. And then
- 30:51Speaker 1: I'm like, well, maybe maybe one's the wages. Maybe it's
- 30:53Speaker 1: the dude that I went So as I'm walking off
- 30:55Speaker 1: to myself and I'm talking to myself and then I
- 30:58Speaker 1: had walked off, I had, you know, want to give
- 31:00Speaker 1: him a husble. When I reached my arm around, I
- 31:02Speaker 1: was about waiting a minute, is that me that he
- 31:05Speaker 1: wasn't me, but my arm pits. I had the biggest
- 31:08Speaker 1: sweat under my arm pits and I hurried up and
- 31:10Speaker 1: put it down. He was like, babe, he was like,
- 31:12Speaker 1: I slipped that same smell that I smell. I said,
- 31:18Speaker 1: I was said, I know, I said, bushed up against.
- 31:22Speaker 1: I said, when I talked to you, playing that hustle
- 31:24Speaker 1: out in my car, and couldn't believe that it was
- 31:26Speaker 1: it was me. Why are you saying why? Why are
- 31:28Speaker 1: you just saying, order a whole bunch of onions to
- 31:30Speaker 1: make it to throw them off a little bit. Oh gosh,
- 31:33Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it. I could not believe I smelled
- 31:36Speaker 1: like when I first got musty, and that is that
- 31:38Speaker 1: that first onion smell. And I couldn't believe it. Have
- 31:41Speaker 1: you spoken to him since? No, we didn't last that
- 31:44Speaker 1: long because I was so in bear. So I sablitized
- 31:46Speaker 1: the relationship because I feel like I can't get over
- 31:49Speaker 1: a guy on the first day of being musty, because
- 31:51Speaker 1: I'm gonna look at you was always musty, you know,
- 31:53Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna smell it, you know how.
- 31:55Speaker 1: You know that's how he described you when he run
- 31:56Speaker 1: across you on social media, be like, oh, that's old
- 31:58Speaker 1: musty ass draft from that restaurant. Yeah, musty girl from
- 32:02Speaker 1: the restaurant. You know musty girl, remember musty girl. Seriously
- 32:11Speaker 1: birth sirs our jewel twenty nine. Yeah, I'll cancer and um,
- 32:15Speaker 1: like I said, the mental ill, the mental health. Somebody
- 32:17Speaker 1: called an action about the prison system, and like I
- 32:20Speaker 1: saw the corrections officer for sixteen years, I went back
- 32:23Speaker 1: and got my back. Hold on. I'm gonna put you
- 32:27Speaker 1: on holding. I'm gonna get you information right all right. Now,
- 32:29Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. What's worse musty smelling
- 32:33Speaker 1: or burnt hair smelling? Musty are you talking about? What
- 32:37Speaker 1: are you talking about? Now? Burnt that burnt head smell?
- 32:40Speaker 1: That smells kind of that's that's well. He burnt hair.
- 32:42Speaker 1: Burnt hair, you can't can really control. It's like you know,
- 32:45Speaker 1: you burnt your hair, curlin iron was too hot, whatever
- 32:47Speaker 1: it was. But must that's all on you, all right.
- 32:51Speaker 1: It is a breakfast club the morning, the breakfast Club.
- 32:56Speaker 1: It's DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlo Migne, the guy. We
- 33:00Speaker 1: all to breakfast club. We got a special guest in
- 33:02Speaker 1: the building, Kelly Price. Welcome, thank you, feel you know
- 33:08Speaker 1: what great? Happy to be alive. I'm gonta, y'all. Yeah,
- 33:11Speaker 1: all Rockaway, Yeah, de jaaway Yeah, fall Rockaway queen. We
- 33:20Speaker 1: got put out. We were homeless, okay, yeah, and you know,
- 33:23Speaker 1: kind of rolling around and landed. But my grandfather's church
- 33:26Speaker 1: was on the South side of Jamaica, so like those
- 33:28Speaker 1: were my stomping grounds. I was between far Rockaway and
- 33:31Speaker 1: South side of Jamaica, and so yeah, all day long,
- 33:34Speaker 1: I'm yeah, yeah, yeah. We were homeless a lot. Really yeah.
- 33:39Speaker 1: I was homeless probably for the last time, right before
- 33:43Speaker 1: I turned eighteen. Times were crazy. My dad, um, he
- 33:48Speaker 1: passed when I was nine, right before my ten the birthday,
- 33:51Speaker 1: but he had a substance abuse problem, and so you know,
- 33:53Speaker 1: there was that um and so my mother trying to
- 33:56Speaker 1: raise three girls in this city and on welfare and
- 33:59Speaker 1: you know, all of it I did. My grandfather was
- 34:03Speaker 1: my first pastor, and so we I feel like I
- 34:06Speaker 1: was in church nine days a week when you're homeless, right,
- 34:09Speaker 1: what gives you the audacity, the hope, the audacity to dream.
- 34:13Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you something, and it sounds crazy.
- 34:16Speaker 1: It was my faith. It was this belief that as
- 34:21Speaker 1: long as I do my part and I'm respectful about it.
- 34:25Speaker 1: God has to make it happen for me. You know, people,
- 34:27Speaker 1: whether whether you put it out like some people say,
- 34:29Speaker 1: what goes around comes around, if you call it the universe,
- 34:32Speaker 1: whatever it is, there are laws and principles in life
- 34:35Speaker 1: period that if followed, they have to service you back.
- 34:38Speaker 1: It's so easy to be better in a situation like that.
- 34:41Speaker 1: You no, no, I just wanted a better day. And
- 34:45Speaker 1: then turning up pregnant at eighteen years old, coming from
- 34:48Speaker 1: this real sactified family, I was like, okay, so now
- 34:52Speaker 1: what you're gonna do because you getting ready to have
- 34:54Speaker 1: a baby. And at this point I'm sleeping in the
- 34:57Speaker 1: downstairs level of my grandparents house. I don't want to
- 34:59Speaker 1: tell them that I'm pregnant. So all of this is happening,
- 35:02Speaker 1: and Mabria carry gigg happened like early in my pregnant
- 35:08Speaker 1: that they push you away because they're so into the church,
- 35:10Speaker 1: so about values that they say, you know what, we
- 35:12Speaker 1: don't want you here. No, No, I have to honestly
- 35:16Speaker 1: say that, as strict as that upbringing was, I have
- 35:20Speaker 1: to say my grandparents they weren't happy about it, but
- 35:22Speaker 1: they embraced me. They didn't make me feel like I
- 35:25Speaker 1: was dirty. They were transformative for me, and that they
- 35:29Speaker 1: were the catalysts to having me think another way about
- 35:33Speaker 1: what I've been hearing in church. Your grandparents gave you
- 35:35Speaker 1: something that that you named your new album Grace. Yeah,
- 35:39Speaker 1: Grace yeah. And then I always say, you know, like
- 35:41Speaker 1: I was going to ask you, when is the time
- 35:43Speaker 1: that you needed grace? But you yeah, you answered it. Yeah.
- 35:45Speaker 1: I've needed grace a lot in my life and we
- 35:47Speaker 1: all do. Every time I've talked about this project when
- 35:51Speaker 1: people ask me, I say, I think the problem is
- 35:53Speaker 1: is that we as humans, we really can do better
- 35:55Speaker 1: about extending grace to other peoples. Man. Most of the time,
- 35:58Speaker 1: we don't realize how important grace is until we need
- 36:00Speaker 1: it for ourselves. I have a a uverse reading plan
- 36:04Speaker 1: that's coming out I think in about two weeks on
- 36:07Speaker 1: the subject of grace, and I broke the word down
- 36:10Speaker 1: into an acronym um. Grace is a gift. It is
- 36:13Speaker 1: the gift of giving responsibility, accountability of yourself and to
- 36:18Speaker 1: expect accountability of other people. But with compassion and empathy.
- 36:25Speaker 1: That's real grace because at some point when you need it,
- 36:28Speaker 1: that's right, that's what you're gonna want why doesn't this
- 36:31Speaker 1: eric give more grace? You know, cancel culture is the
- 36:35Speaker 1: is the polar opposite of grace. Yes, everybody's screaming cancel, cancel, cancel,
- 36:40Speaker 1: but you're not gonna want to hear cancel when it's
- 36:41Speaker 1: time to cancel you. So did you watch it versus
- 36:45Speaker 1: because I know obviously Asi brothers played a really important
- 36:48Speaker 1: role in your career. So what did you think? So
- 36:51Speaker 1: I haven't seen it all the way through because I
- 36:53Speaker 1: literally went to bed early. So I started watching some
- 36:56Speaker 1: of it and I want to see the rest of it.
- 36:58Speaker 1: So everybody was like, you gotta pick one. You how
- 37:00Speaker 1: to pick one? I'm like, but I love them both.
- 37:02Speaker 1: Having to pick one, of course, I'm gonna say super biased.
- 37:06Speaker 1: You can't ask me like the dude literally when everybody
- 37:09Speaker 1: was telling me I was too fat, too black, and
- 37:11Speaker 1: too loud to make a record, he was like, you
- 37:13Speaker 1: could be twelve hundred pounds and blue. Who wouldn't buy
- 37:15Speaker 1: that voice? I was like, don't left to everybody else
- 37:18Speaker 1: in the business, like I'm the check. They hiding in
- 37:20Speaker 1: the room with a microphone, like, yeah, that's so hard
- 37:22Speaker 1: because you were talking and you've spoken on this before.
- 37:25Speaker 1: How when you were about to get a record deal.
- 37:28Speaker 1: They had an issue with your weight. Yeah, they said
- 37:30Speaker 1: you shat you down and told you you had to
- 37:33Speaker 1: lose weight in order for them to be able to
- 37:35Speaker 1: sign you. No, it was jive turkeys over there and
- 37:44Speaker 1: wait till signing day. We hadn't have been negotiating for months.
- 37:47Speaker 1: And I came into the city to sign that day
- 37:49Speaker 1: and they told me to stop by the offices before
- 37:52Speaker 1: I went to my attorney. That was the first deal
- 37:56Speaker 1: and so um, I was choked up. But I was
- 37:59Speaker 1: like not Christ sitting in this. I was sitting with
- 38:02Speaker 1: the head of every department in the conference room, and
- 38:05Speaker 1: I said, I just have one question. Who gets to
- 38:08Speaker 1: say when it's enough? So what did they say? Like
- 38:10Speaker 1: in the meeting they would say, hey, we're gonna sign
- 38:11Speaker 1: this deal. But we had been in negotiations. The copy,
- 38:17Speaker 1: the execution copy was in my attorney's office at that time.
- 38:20Speaker 1: I got a call from my lawyer saying, go buy
- 38:23Speaker 1: the jive officers before you come to sign. They say
- 38:25Speaker 1: they need to meet with you about something. Best call
- 38:27Speaker 1: I could have ever received, because had I signed the
- 38:30Speaker 1: paperwork first, I would have been locked into something and
- 38:34Speaker 1: possibly sat on a shelf, turning the deal down. Yeah
- 38:37Speaker 1: I did. Oh wow, I walked away. That's real faith,
- 38:40Speaker 1: right then? Yeah, and that was that after more money,
- 38:43Speaker 1: more problems, after all of this, that was right before it. Yeah,
- 38:48Speaker 1: how do they say that to you? M I walk in,
- 38:50Speaker 1: I sit down, and there's awkward silence, and so, you know,
- 38:54Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, hi, everybody, it's supposed to be a
- 38:57Speaker 1: great day. I'm gonna signed it. Yeah, I'm all the side.
- 38:59Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, we're gonna talk about you know, yeah,
- 39:03Speaker 1: we want to know who you want to work with
- 39:05Speaker 1: and okay um, and then awkward silence, and so Jeff
- 39:09Speaker 1: Finster is his name? Listen, I'm forty eight and I've
- 39:14Speaker 1: been doing this for thirty years. I earned the right
- 39:16Speaker 1: to call that. Uh says, you know, why don't we
- 39:21Speaker 1: just go ahead and say it? It's you know, let's
- 39:23Speaker 1: just say it. And I'm like, say what he says, Listen,
- 39:27Speaker 1: We're gonna need you to lose a significant amount of
- 39:29Speaker 1: weight before we put this record out. So my eyes,
- 39:33Speaker 1: I'm like a deer in headlights in this moment, and
- 39:37Speaker 1: so I say, okay, how much weight? Like do you
- 39:41Speaker 1: want me? Whitney Houston? Then do you want me? Because
- 39:44Speaker 1: like I come from a family where the women women
- 39:47Speaker 1: are you know, whether they're bigger or smaller, they're still
- 39:51Speaker 1: they're thick. Who gets to decide how much is enough?
- 39:55Speaker 1: And no one knew and nobody knew and I said, okay, Well,
- 39:58Speaker 1: then the question is if I get to a place
- 40:01Speaker 1: where I'm feeling okay about it and you don't what
- 40:03Speaker 1: happens to the record And the answer was, we don't know. Wow,
- 40:08Speaker 1: you see what happened to Jeff Fence to them so well?
- 40:11Speaker 1: He was he went over to another label. Allegedly he
- 40:14Speaker 1: was let go because of sexual misconduct with a former employee. Wow,
- 40:20Speaker 1: it felt like you know, when I was doing mixtapes,
- 40:22Speaker 1: everybody knew your name right because you had vocals. You
- 40:24Speaker 1: were singing over everything, but it felt like the world
- 40:27Speaker 1: was hiding you didn't want to see you even if
- 40:29Speaker 1: no more money, more problems video. It was like the
- 40:31Speaker 1: little screen your inside. How did that feel? Because you
- 40:38Speaker 1: knew you could sing, you know, you could out sing
- 40:40Speaker 1: most of the people I were out there, but it
- 40:41Speaker 1: felt like everybody didn't want to show you. You know,
- 40:44Speaker 1: it was interesting. I was just grateful I was asked
- 40:46Speaker 1: to be in the video because other people weren't putting
- 40:48Speaker 1: me in the video. I've been Martha washed, like and
- 40:51Speaker 1: when I say that, I mean having written for people.
- 40:54Speaker 1: And then I would go demo the record. The artist
- 40:57Speaker 1: is supposed to go in and sing their own music.
- 40:58Speaker 1: I can remember riding down the street hearing the song
- 41:00Speaker 1: start and I'm like, oh, it's out, but I'm hearing
- 41:03Speaker 1: me and I'm like, wow, you said Marfa washed as
- 41:09Speaker 1: in like they Sometimes the labels would leave my vocals on,
- 41:12Speaker 1: but it was their artists, and they wouldn't show that's
- 41:15Speaker 1: somebody that that happened to. You know what happened with you.
- 41:17Speaker 1: You're driving down, You're hearing the song on the radio,
- 41:20Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden you're like, yo, this
- 41:21Speaker 1: is my voice. Yeah, I was shocked. Sometimes they would
- 41:25Speaker 1: come back and say, well, we want to keep your
- 41:26Speaker 1: background vocals. That was common, But to hear the record
- 41:30Speaker 1: and to hear that in the verses, I'm hearing my
- 41:33Speaker 1: voice laced in between, like and I can hear the punches.
- 41:37Speaker 1: My ear is fine tuned. And you know what I
- 41:39Speaker 1: mean when I say I can hear where they punched
- 41:41Speaker 1: the enginet punched me in and then popped her back
- 41:44Speaker 1: in Tasha Holiday, and she wouldn't have known that that
- 41:48Speaker 1: was what was happening. And that's a call that was
- 41:50Speaker 1: over her head. She had just gotten signed. Somebody at
- 41:53Speaker 1: the label said, we don't like it. Picks it up,
- 41:55Speaker 1: all right, we got more with Kelly Price when we
- 41:57Speaker 1: come back, don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning.
- 42:00Speaker 1: Everybody is en Angela yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are
- 42:04Speaker 1: to Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Kelly Price. Yee. Yeah.
- 42:07Speaker 1: During this time when all this is happening, were you
- 42:09Speaker 1: married already? I got married very early. I ended up
- 42:13Speaker 1: marrying my baby's dad. That was that. Now, that was
- 42:17Speaker 1: the thing that I should have probably tried to escape.
- 42:19Speaker 1: But you know, growing up the way we did, like
- 42:21Speaker 1: for me, you know, back then it was like you
- 42:23Speaker 1: got pregnant, you get married. It is it good at first?
- 42:26Speaker 1: In retrospect, no, it was never good. It was just
- 42:29Speaker 1: what was supposed to be done right. And I think
- 42:31Speaker 1: that that's a mistake. Like I don't think you tell
- 42:34Speaker 1: somebody you're in this position you need to get married
- 42:38Speaker 1: because y'all might not need to be together. You feel
- 42:41Speaker 1: like that was the godly thing to do. That's what
- 42:43Speaker 1: the church taught. How did you get the strength to
- 42:46Speaker 1: finally leave that marriage? Because that took a while. It
- 42:49Speaker 1: took a long time, and it took a lot of
- 42:51Speaker 1: It was like twenty five years yeah wow, a lot
- 42:56Speaker 1: of hurt, a lot of mistrust, a lot of outside
- 43:01Speaker 1: Um and he was your manager, Yeah wow, Jesus. So
- 43:05Speaker 1: he was intertwined personally and professionally. Like leaving, I had
- 43:10Speaker 1: to rebuild my life. What was the last strow? What
- 43:13Speaker 1: was the thing that was like I can't do this anymore.
- 43:15Speaker 1: I had a dream and I saw everything around me
- 43:18Speaker 1: burning and being destroyed, and then I saw myself and
- 43:21Speaker 1: I looked really sickly and then I saw like the
- 43:24Speaker 1: end of my life. And this was literally year after
- 43:28Speaker 1: my baby sister died. That was a rough year for me.
- 43:33Speaker 1: My baby sister had a drug issue and her body
- 43:38Speaker 1: was just over it. One by one, her organs started
- 43:41Speaker 1: to shut down and so um she passed on Easter
- 43:45Speaker 1: Sunday in twenty fourteen. Um and between yea and my
- 43:50Speaker 1: grandfather passed on Easter Sunday last year. So this year
- 43:53Speaker 1: from it was important to refocus and try to reposition
- 43:56Speaker 1: this time of the year between that time from the
- 43:59Speaker 1: time time that she died and that time where I
- 44:03Speaker 1: had this dream, pretty much I packed on probably about
- 44:07Speaker 1: seventy five eighty pounds. I was drinking very heavily every day,
- 44:12Speaker 1: going and doing my shows, knocking them out, getting back
- 44:14Speaker 1: to the hotel, and drinking until I passed out. It
- 44:18Speaker 1: was a crazy year. And I looked at myself in
- 44:21Speaker 1: the mirror on my way to do a show in Chicago,
- 44:24Speaker 1: and I broke down crying. I looked at myself. I
- 44:26Speaker 1: was like, like, what happened to you? And I said, Okay, God,
- 44:29Speaker 1: if you give me the strength to get myself together,
- 44:33Speaker 1: to pull my life back together, I'll do it. And
- 44:36Speaker 1: I had no idea where I was going to go.
- 44:38Speaker 1: The kids were grown though. The kids were grown, yes,
- 44:41Speaker 1: and that was the biggest relief for me. I didn't
- 44:44Speaker 1: want to blow their life up. You think that's a mistake.
- 44:46Speaker 1: Two people who stayed together for the kids. Yeah, I
- 44:49Speaker 1: think it's worse for kids to see toxic parents. Did
- 44:53Speaker 1: they ever talk to you about that? I thought I
- 44:56Speaker 1: was shielding them from it. And what I didn't learn
- 44:59Speaker 1: until they became adults and came back and had conversations
- 45:02Speaker 1: with me about it is that. I mean, they saw things,
- 45:07Speaker 1: but they were kind of like sat in the middle
- 45:10Speaker 1: of things. I called myself trying to shield it from them.
- 45:12Speaker 1: Their father had a very different approach. One of the
- 45:15Speaker 1: kids said to me that their father told them, you know,
- 45:19Speaker 1: if you tell your mother, she's going to have a
- 45:21Speaker 1: nervous breakdown. She can't handle it. So he kind of
- 45:24Speaker 1: dumped the weight of that on them. And literally I
- 45:27Speaker 1: didn't know this until again, they were grown, they were
- 45:30Speaker 1: out of the house and they felt comfortable enough to
- 45:32Speaker 1: come and say something to me about it, probably process
- 45:35Speaker 1: in their own traumas. Yeah, and how that impacted them
- 45:37Speaker 1: when they was kids. Yeah, that that angered That angered me.
- 45:40Speaker 1: It angered me so much. And so to what you're saying, no,
- 45:45Speaker 1: there's no such thing as staying together for the kids.
- 45:47Speaker 1: You the way to keep it together is if you're
- 45:49Speaker 1: not working separate, because what that becomes is what they
- 45:52Speaker 1: see as normal. So trauma bond, trauma bonds caused trauma
- 45:56Speaker 1: to everybody who sees them. Now, did you, I know
- 45:59Speaker 1: your husband just like you go easily. I know he
- 46:01Speaker 1: was probably furious. He was, but it wasn't his choice, right,
- 46:05Speaker 1: He had the opportunity to hire, you know, whoever he
- 46:09Speaker 1: needed to hire to try to do whatever he needed
- 46:12Speaker 1: to do. And you know, I was prepared for it.
- 46:15Speaker 1: I was the bretwinning the family. So I was gripping
- 46:18Speaker 1: myself for what was to happen, you know, if it
- 46:22Speaker 1: was devastating financially or whatever. Did not he did not,
- 46:26Speaker 1: that was a miracle. I actually was gearing up for
- 46:28Speaker 1: a fight. I wanted to go back to your meeting
- 46:30Speaker 1: with jib right, Like, psychologically, what happens to you when
- 46:33Speaker 1: somebody tells you that you're too big? Like what happened?
- 46:36Speaker 1: What was your mind state moving forward after that meeting?
- 46:39Speaker 1: It messed with my head. I had heard it said
- 46:41Speaker 1: like I heard whispers of it. True story. At Daddy's
- 46:45Speaker 1: house working on a record for a group that was
- 46:47Speaker 1: signed to Motown. What was their name? Group that was
- 46:50Speaker 1: signed to Motown. Puff was producing the record. I was
- 46:52Speaker 1: there as the vocal producer, and I was there cutting
- 46:56Speaker 1: the song on the guys and so I wanted to
- 46:58Speaker 1: make a change lyrically to something, so I told him,
- 47:02Speaker 1: y'all take a break. I went and sat in a corner,
- 47:05Speaker 1: like behind one of those folding things inside of the
- 47:08Speaker 1: room where the microphone was, sat on the floor with
- 47:10Speaker 1: my pen and pad, and I hear the guys walking
- 47:14Speaker 1: in the hallway outside the room. Then they come into
- 47:17Speaker 1: the room and they're having a whole conversation and just
- 47:19Speaker 1: out of nowhere, the conversation turns to, yo, did you
- 47:22Speaker 1: get a look at her? She looks like a fat
- 47:25Speaker 1: aid nel carter and so but I'm I'm in the corner,
- 47:30Speaker 1: and so I'm like, dang. So they walk out the room,
- 47:35Speaker 1: they're in the hallway. They're in the hallway and I'm
- 47:37Speaker 1: sitting there. I don't want to have that awkward moment
- 47:39Speaker 1: of walking out of the room and going past them,
- 47:42Speaker 1: but they won't leave, and I'm like, okay, you got
- 47:44Speaker 1: you on the clock. You gotta get the session goes.
- 47:47Speaker 1: So I pulled it together, walked out the door and
- 47:51Speaker 1: walked past them, and they're looking like I went back
- 47:54Speaker 1: into the control room. They came into the control room,
- 47:58Speaker 1: Miss Kelly, Can we have a word with you? I said, no,
- 47:59Speaker 1: we have work to do. We should just go ahead
- 48:01Speaker 1: and finish the record. Wow that group a pop. Nope,
- 48:06Speaker 1: I did get an apology from one of that I
- 48:08Speaker 1: swear to god, I was walking through an airport and
- 48:10Speaker 1: this guy was trying to stop me and he's like
- 48:12Speaker 1: remember me. I'm like, no, I don't, just tell me
- 48:14Speaker 1: where I know you're from. And he told me, he said, well,
- 48:16Speaker 1: remember when you did that song for the group of
- 48:18Speaker 1: blah blah. He said, we were idiots, we were blah
- 48:20Speaker 1: blah blah. Yeah, And I'm like, what you got going
- 48:22Speaker 1: on right now? He's like no, we're still trying to
- 48:24Speaker 1: figure it out. And I'm but I'm you know, this
- 48:26Speaker 1: is years later and I'm like, okay, who was your
- 48:31Speaker 1: next deal after that? Because yeah, okay, So the true story,
- 48:40Speaker 1: he did put an offer on the table and I
- 48:43Speaker 1: said it started. So there was a bit of a
- 48:47Speaker 1: bit in war that did happen. It ended up being
- 48:49Speaker 1: between MCA did he had paperwork on the table and
- 48:55Speaker 1: and then it wasn't deaf Cham. It ended up being
- 48:57Speaker 1: Ronald Eisley, who I met because huz of Puff. I
- 49:02Speaker 1: was in the studio working on a track that he
- 49:05Speaker 1: was doing for a Leah finished it. I'm on my
- 49:08Speaker 1: way out. He was on his way in. He was like,
- 49:09Speaker 1: where are you going. I'm like home, I'm done. He's like, no,
- 49:12Speaker 1: I need you to stay. I got something popping like.
- 49:14Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, what you got? He said, Eisley Brothers,
- 49:16Speaker 1: I'm like, don't. He was like, okay, so I need
- 49:19Speaker 1: you to write it. I'm like, yeah, I can do that.
- 49:20Speaker 1: I said, Well when does it need to be done?
- 49:22Speaker 1: He said, like right now? Right now? He said, He's here,
- 49:26Speaker 1: He's leaving his hotel on his way to the studio
- 49:29Speaker 1: right now. Well, you have to be kidding me. You
- 49:31Speaker 1: have to be kidding. He was like no, yeah, so
- 49:35Speaker 1: big ups to New York traffic. It took him about
- 49:38Speaker 1: forty five minutes to get to the hotel to the
- 49:40Speaker 1: to the studio from the hotel, which was enough time
- 49:44Speaker 1: for me to depend someone that first one back. Wow,
- 49:49Speaker 1: So what deal did you take at that time? Because
- 49:51Speaker 1: you did? He gave you off of the deal you
- 49:53Speaker 1: had ron Eisley off of the deal that already said.
- 49:56Speaker 1: He doesn't care what you wait, what you look like?
- 49:58Speaker 1: Your voice is amazing? And where did you decide to
- 50:00Speaker 1: go from there? Um? I ended up being with Ronald.
- 50:03Speaker 1: He had the least amount of money on the table.
- 50:05Speaker 1: Puff was mad at you. Yep, the guy that I
- 50:08Speaker 1: introduced you to you signed with he found he felt
- 50:10Speaker 1: a way about it, but I and I said to him,
- 50:13Speaker 1: I said, I need you to understand, I'm I'm thinking
- 50:16Speaker 1: like from business. At this point I told him, I said,
- 50:19Speaker 1: Faith and I are not the same, but we are
- 50:21Speaker 1: too similar. One of us is not gonna make it here,
- 50:26Speaker 1: and she's already here. So I wouldn't assume that I
- 50:30Speaker 1: would be the priority not to mention. Puff probably wanted
- 50:32Speaker 1: all your publishing that yeah, no, don't move. We got
- 50:37Speaker 1: them all with Kelly Price. When we come back, it's
- 50:38Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club the morning morning, everybody is DJ Envy,
- 50:42Speaker 1: Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we are the Breakfast Club
- 50:45Speaker 1: was still kicking it with Kelly Price. Charlomagne, I wanted
- 50:48Speaker 1: to talk to you about twenty twenty because you did
- 50:49Speaker 1: deal with a lot in twenty twenty. You know, you
- 50:51Speaker 1: lost your your mom, my mother, my grandfather. For that,
- 50:56Speaker 1: by the way, thank you, I appreciate it. I'm sure
- 50:58Speaker 1: you're still in the process of what does that process
- 51:01Speaker 1: look like to you? The greatest project it ultimately was
- 51:05Speaker 1: the thing that kept me, I feel like, from probably
- 51:08Speaker 1: going over the edge. At the end of the year,
- 51:10Speaker 1: school friends, church friends, to the tune of about fifteen
- 51:13Speaker 1: or more people lost in my life last year. Did
- 51:16Speaker 1: you even get to see your mom last year in
- 51:20Speaker 1: the casket when you recorded the album? Was you know
- 51:25Speaker 1: they always say sometimes when you're trying to stay busy
- 51:27Speaker 1: as a response to trauma you're not dealing with. Did
- 51:30Speaker 1: you actually want to work or was it a trauma response?
- 51:33Speaker 1: A little of both but necessary, necessary because I had
- 51:37Speaker 1: been in the house all year. But yes, it was
- 51:40Speaker 1: a trauma response. But that has always been my goal too.
- 51:44Speaker 1: When I was a young kid, I can remember just
- 51:46Speaker 1: like finding a pad and a pencil and just doodling
- 51:49Speaker 1: whatever was coming out of my head, whatever was going on.
- 51:52Speaker 1: Have you given yourself time to grief? Not enough? Because
- 51:56Speaker 1: following death are things that have to be done, things
- 52:00Speaker 1: that need to be put in place. If they're not
- 52:02Speaker 1: already in place, if there's not a directive left, then
- 52:05Speaker 1: you know the family's kind of stuck trying to put
- 52:07Speaker 1: things together. And so I absolutely have not had enough time.
- 52:11Speaker 1: And I feel that sometimes when I feel that day
- 52:14Speaker 1: coming on, I allow myself to have that moment. The
- 52:18Speaker 1: blows from last year, I think God will teach me
- 52:21Speaker 1: how to live with them. I don't. I have to,
- 52:23Speaker 1: honestly say, being filled with faith. I don't know that
- 52:27Speaker 1: those are things that you ever get over, right, but
- 52:30Speaker 1: you learn how to continue to live with them and
- 52:32Speaker 1: process them, and eventually you get to a place where
- 52:35Speaker 1: the thought of it doesn't make you cry. You can
- 52:38Speaker 1: smile and go, dang, I miss them. You'll please protect
- 52:41Speaker 1: your mental health. That's what I would tell you. Oh, absolutely,
- 52:43Speaker 1: And I believe in God. But I got a therapist.
- 52:45Speaker 1: I do too, I do too. I listen, I promise you.
- 52:48Speaker 1: I think that God gave us doctors for a reason. Yeah.
- 52:50Speaker 1: I actually got to refer very recently to go to somebody. Yeah.
- 52:55Speaker 1: I remember when you first got divorced, you were saying
- 52:57Speaker 1: how difficult it is dating because you had never really dating,
- 53:00Speaker 1: So how it didn't Now it's been some years, Jesus,
- 53:04Speaker 1: I don't like dating life in the twenty first century.
- 53:07Speaker 1: It's wow and mental groupies too. They might Kelly for
- 53:12Speaker 1: you just because you Kelly Prace. Yeah, I didn't like it.
- 53:16Speaker 1: I'm off the market, jus. Yeah, and happily so a
- 53:24Speaker 1: lot of Yeah. Yeah, yeah, it was it. Dating was Ikey.
- 53:30Speaker 1: The very first date that I went on. I laugh
- 53:34Speaker 1: at it now, but I was traumatized after that date.
- 53:36Speaker 1: I thought the date went well. I got home, I
- 53:38Speaker 1: went out to dinner, had great conversation, had a great
- 53:42Speaker 1: glass of wine. I'm like, okay, it's cool. I drove
- 53:44Speaker 1: my own car. I didn't want to get picked up.
- 53:46Speaker 1: I don't need you to know where I live in
- 53:47Speaker 1: Casion crazy um, And like two hours after I got home, thing,
- 53:51Speaker 1: I look in the phone and I'm like, whoa, really
- 53:54Speaker 1: he's in a penis nation. Oh yes, girl, Oh yes.
- 53:57Speaker 1: I was like that wasn't great. Go wait a second,
- 54:02Speaker 1: no context, no nothing, No, what did you respond or
- 54:08Speaker 1: say anything? I was like, I was what did you
- 54:13Speaker 1: talk about it? Oh? You trying to blame? I thought
- 54:16Speaker 1: we had really good, grown, intelligent conversation. Now did you
- 54:21Speaker 1: reply at all? What the hell? That could be taken
- 54:25Speaker 1: out of context though, Like that could be like what
- 54:26Speaker 1: the hell and taking out of context once they were
- 54:31Speaker 1: blocked though, Like I just you know who does that?
- 54:34Speaker 1: That's no, that's crazy from the up angle underneath. Didn't
- 54:42Speaker 1: that's been about six years. Hey, give him from grace. Grace.
- 54:48Speaker 1: The grace was he didn't catch a tongue lash. I'm
- 54:51Speaker 1: talking about it just because of Yeah, I could have
- 55:00Speaker 1: picked my words better how do you have a vocabulary
- 55:04Speaker 1: use it? So can you finish your thought on why
- 55:07Speaker 1: this area doesn't give grace? Earlier you got cut off
- 55:10Speaker 1: a little bit. And you know, I think that we
- 55:12Speaker 1: are living in a time where everything is so right now,
- 55:15Speaker 1: right now, right now, right now, right now, And if
- 55:17Speaker 1: you can't get it, then this person can. And if
- 55:19Speaker 1: this person can't, then that one can. And I think
- 55:22Speaker 1: it's beyond microwave mentality. For I think the two thousands,
- 55:27Speaker 1: early two thousands nineties would have that was microwave mentality.
- 55:30Speaker 1: This is something else. This is like astro rocket juice.
- 55:34Speaker 1: What like every the attentions when you're talking about fifteen
- 55:38Speaker 1: second videos and that's the height of somebody's day, Like
- 55:42Speaker 1: we want quick thrills, We have less of an attention span.
- 55:46Speaker 1: We were becoming harder to please. We want more and
- 55:49Speaker 1: more and more and more and more dumbed down. And
- 55:52Speaker 1: I think it has everything to do with that. I
- 55:54Speaker 1: think it has everything to do with people not learning
- 55:58Speaker 1: that process is necessary. And so, in all fairness to them,
- 56:02Speaker 1: God help them, they don't they don't extend grace to others,
- 56:05Speaker 1: but they really don't know how to extend grace to themselves.
- 56:08Speaker 1: When you look at people who have that kind of
- 56:10Speaker 1: a mentality, there's also a lot of self destructiveness there too.
- 56:15Speaker 1: And I realized that about myself I can forgive somebody
- 56:18Speaker 1: else had a hard time forgiving myself when I really
- 56:21Speaker 1: sat down and thought about you could have did this differently.
- 56:24Speaker 1: You could have did that differently, Like your kids are
- 56:27Speaker 1: grown now, but you're listening to them tell you how
- 56:29Speaker 1: this affected them and why this and why that, and
- 56:32Speaker 1: why you could have stopped that. That was a huge
- 56:35Speaker 1: thing for me to feel like in doing what I
- 56:38Speaker 1: thought was the best for them, it wasn't. No. And
- 56:43Speaker 1: SIT's like literally at the center of the places where
- 56:46Speaker 1: they questioned themselves, question relationships, have trust, you know issues.
- 56:53Speaker 1: I'm like, you could you could have did something about that.
- 56:56Speaker 1: Grace forgiveness. It's important for us to know how to
- 56:59Speaker 1: be that to our selves, because you can't really do
- 57:02Speaker 1: it for somebody else if you haven't practiced it. And
- 57:05Speaker 1: people do tend to be hard on themselves. But we
- 57:08Speaker 1: also live in a society where the beauty that we
- 57:11Speaker 1: see being put in front of us doesn't even exist
- 57:14Speaker 1: to allow our culture to be infiltrated and then dictated
- 57:17Speaker 1: to what our beauty is supposed to be. To watch
- 57:21Speaker 1: our people deconstruct their bodies to only go back and
- 57:26Speaker 1: build it back up to be a not authentic version
- 57:30Speaker 1: of what you were already given. We let people get
- 57:34Speaker 1: in our heads and tell us your lips are tooth thick,
- 57:37Speaker 1: your nose is are too wide, you know, your booty
- 57:40Speaker 1: is too big, Get this is too that, and we
- 57:44Speaker 1: drink the kool aid and now we're watching it's like,
- 57:51Speaker 1: you're right, we're creating this unattainable bar of perfection. You
- 57:54Speaker 1: can't even get to that, it's impossible, but you gotta
- 57:57Speaker 1: get you And then when you make mistakes, we're not
- 57:59Speaker 1: giving nobody any grace. So it's just like, how do
- 58:01Speaker 1: you grow and evolved? Like my whole life I was
- 58:03Speaker 1: taught about growth and evolution to people I gravitated towards,
- 58:06Speaker 1: whether's Malcolm, x Mine, Angel whoever. It was yes, because
- 58:09Speaker 1: they evolved and they grew and we saw it. But
- 58:11Speaker 1: now it's like, nope, you're not allowed to make any mistakes,
- 58:13Speaker 1: Like how do you live like that? That's not human.
- 58:16Speaker 1: That's why you got to filter out the noise and
- 58:18Speaker 1: at some point just silence everything. Learning how to be
- 58:22Speaker 1: still and sent to yourself is one of the best
- 58:25Speaker 1: things that anybody can do for themselves. And I'm not
- 58:29Speaker 1: even saying this to try to be funny. Listen to
- 58:32Speaker 1: all the voices in your head and figure out which
- 58:35Speaker 1: one is telling you the right thing. Ohay, Key Price,
- 58:39Speaker 1: Kelly Price. Well, let's let's get into a record right now?
- 58:41Speaker 1: What record you want to I want to play. I
- 58:43Speaker 1: want to thank you. I love, we appreciate you for
- 58:47Speaker 1: joining us. Thank you. I want to thank you because
- 58:53Speaker 1: we definitely need more grace dress world. So thank you
- 58:55Speaker 1: for coming and sharing your story. And I don't know
- 58:57Speaker 1: somebody's gonna be inspired by you test I hope so. Well,
- 59:01Speaker 1: it's Kelly Price. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning for
- 59:08Speaker 1: the craziest people in America. Come from the Bronx and
- 59:11Speaker 1: all of flour. Yes, you are a donkey. The Florida
- 59:16Speaker 1: man a tapped and at n for a very strange reason.
- 59:19Speaker 1: It gave him too much money. Florida man is arrested
- 59:22Speaker 1: after definitely stay he's rigged the door to his home
- 59:24Speaker 1: and an attempt to electricate his pregnant wife. Police arrested
- 59:26Speaker 1: in Orlando man for talking a Flaminia The breakfast club
- 59:30Speaker 1: Bitchy Donkey other day with Charlom Hain't the guy. I
- 59:32Speaker 1: don't know why y'all keeping him? Get y'all elected me
- 59:36Speaker 1: me donkey. The day goes to a spring Hill, Florida
- 59:39Speaker 1: man named Thomas Eugene Coluchie. Now, what does your uncle
- 59:43Speaker 1: Charla always tell you about the great state of Florida.
- 59:46Speaker 1: The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and
- 59:49Speaker 1: all of Florida, and today is no exception. Now, there
- 59:52Speaker 1: have been stories like Thomas before, but I have a
- 59:56Speaker 1: different perception of these kinds of stories now that it's
- 59:58Speaker 1: twenty twenty two. Okay, there has been things that have
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: happened in our society that make me give Thomas the
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: credit he deserves for being stupid, but not really just
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: slightly stupid. See, Thomas is a meth head, ladies and gentlemen, Okay.
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: In fact, in his own words, here's an experienced drug used,
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: an experienced drug user, okay, a master of meth, a
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: professional crank connoisseur, a human with a high degree of
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: knowledge of speed. Yes, that is Thomas Eugene Collucchi. So
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: imagine his surprise when he went out and purchased some
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: of that cotton candy, and that meth didn't hit like
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: it should have. Okay, didn't produce the expected sensation. He
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: wanted nothing worse. And when you go out and buy
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: your drug a choice and it ain't hitting on nothing. Man, Well,
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: Thomas did what any savage as speed user would do
- 1:00:43Speaker 1: in that situation. He called the police. Yes, nine one one,
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: we have an emergency. And the emergency is I ain't
- 1:00:49Speaker 1: tweaking and I want a tweak. Well, Thomas, maybe you
- 1:00:52Speaker 1: were and didn't know it. Let's go to w FLA
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: news Channel eight for the report. Police Forty one year
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: old Thomas Collucci called her Hernando County Sheriff's Office. Authorities
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: say he told deputies he bought meth from a man
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: he met at a bar. He said, all right, coming
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: over to give ye and I heard him laughing in
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: the background. Collucci told authorities he was a quote experienced
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: drug user who quote knew what it should feel like,
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: and when I spoke it up, it was just like it.
- 1:01:19Speaker 1: So I sniffed a little bit and when I think
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: I got was best solved. Collucci then requests an unmarked
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: squad car from the dispatcher I don't want anything coming
- 1:01:27Speaker 1: house because I'm really tarn't know these guys just planting
- 1:01:29Speaker 1: to kill me, Okay, so I could show him what
- 1:01:33Speaker 1: he told me. I really just want to show a
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: police office and what he told me. I really don't
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: want to get two guys arrested. I just want to
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: show that if something happened to me, authority said. Colluci
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: handed them two bags of the drug. Field testing confirmed
- 1:01:45Speaker 1: the presence of meth amphetamine. Colucci was charged for possession
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: of the drug and two counts a possession of drug paraphernalia.
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: Thomas said his meth wasn't hitting on nothing. I'm not
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: too sure about that. It sounds like he was tweaking
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: to me. He called the police because he did not
- 1:01:58Speaker 1: want other people to purchase fake meth from the person
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: who sold it to him. He wanted to put the
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: person in trouble for potentially selling dangerous drugs. Listen, all
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: of that sounds absolutely logical to me. Why, Because we
- 1:02:11Speaker 1: live in the era of supervised drug use sites. They
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: have a lot of supervised drug in sections injection sites, okay,
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: which are medically supervised facilities designed to provide a hygienic
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: environment in which people are able to consume illicit recreational
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: drugs and prevent deaths due to drug overdoses. You hear
- 1:02:28Speaker 1: about all of these people dyeing a fenting all okay,
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: fencing all overdoses. They have fencing all test scripts. Now
- 1:02:33Speaker 1: you remember we had doctor Carl Heart up here and
- 1:02:35Speaker 1: we were debating with him. I'm a person who feels
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: like we should spend more money on resources to get
- 1:02:40Speaker 1: folks clean as opposed to creating safe spaces for them
- 1:02:42Speaker 1: to do drugs. But doctor Carl Heart feels like we
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: can have responsible adult drug usage. I would think calling
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: the police to make sure my drugs are real and
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: to report a drug dealer for potentially selling fake drugs
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: is part of responsible adult drug usage. I read an
- 1:02:59Speaker 1: article a week ago go on ABC News about the
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: first official safe in jection site here in America, located
- 1:03:05Speaker 1: right in New York City. Okay, local officials are allowing
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: legal drug use to make it less deadly. I know
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: different states through different things, and there is no state
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: like Florida. But as Thomas really wrong for being a
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: responsible adult drug user? Is that even really a term?
- 1:03:20Speaker 1: Because that sounds like an oxymoron to me. To have
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: responsible in drug uses in the same sentence. But they
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: have these supervised consumption spaces. Remember about a month ago
- 1:03:29Speaker 1: when they said the Biden administration was given out crack
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: pipes and the Democrats are so terrible at messaging they
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: couldn't explain what they were actually doing. Wow, they were
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: doing what a lot of these safe spaces for drugs
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: were doing. It's called the Harm Reduction Grant Program, and
- 1:03:43Speaker 1: they gave money to support community based overdose prevention programs okay,
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: serene service programs, and other harm reduction of services. And
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: part of the funding can be used to purchase supplies
- 1:03:56Speaker 1: such as safe smoking kits, clean crack pipes, and overdose
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: reversal medication safe thing. These safe spaces for drug you
- 1:04:03Speaker 1: start doing it, these you know sites, People bring their
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: own drugs to the consumption rooms. And this safe space
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: has syringes and alcohol wipes, scross for snorting, other paraphernilia,
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: probably clean crack pipes, and most importantly, crucially, most importantly
- 1:04:18Speaker 1: oxygen and opioid overdose reversing drugs. See how easy I
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: explain that, you dumb ask democrats. My god. The moral
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: of the story is this, this energy, these new facilities
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: y'all are opening all across the country. Are why people
- 1:04:31Speaker 1: like Thomas feel like they can call the police and
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: let them know it's bad meth in these streets? Okay?
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: That the reason I will give Thomas donkey today. It's
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: because he should know better than to call the police. Okay.
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: The police are the arrest people for crimes, and tell
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: drugs like meth are decriminalized in this country. That's what's
- 1:04:48Speaker 1: going to happen when you call the police. Now. I
- 1:04:50Speaker 1: don't know if supervised consumption spaces exist in Florida. I
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: guess not if the first one was just opened in
- 1:04:56Speaker 1: New York dub But if they did, that's where you
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: should go, Thomas, Okay, not to the police, all right,
- 1:05:03Speaker 1: And experienced meth user like yourself should know not to
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: trust pole. Pole Now look at you, Okay, it's all arrested,
- 1:05:11Speaker 1: all right, charges all right? Also, because you was a
- 1:05:14Speaker 1: person who decided to snitch as if you wasn't doing
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: something wrong your damn self. Yes, the man sold it
- 1:05:19Speaker 1: to you, but you bought it because you wanted to
- 1:05:21Speaker 1: use it. You're both committing crimes in the eyes of
- 1:05:23Speaker 1: the law. What if you called the police on you
- 1:05:25Speaker 1: for using high Thomas. Please give Thomas Eugene Colucci the
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: sweet sounds and the Hamletones. Oh now you are the
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: doge the day, do gee, oh the day. Now should
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: we play a game? I guess where race it is?
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: Or is it too easy? Meth Florida. I think that's easy, okay,
- 1:05:57Speaker 1: and do you think yeah it's too easy? I still
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: wanted to play though, now when it's easy? All right,
- 1:06:06Speaker 1: all right, all right, well thank you for that, Dogyn.
- 1:06:09Speaker 1: Today don't move. It's to breakfast club. Good morning, the
- 1:06:12Speaker 1: breakfast club. Come on these relationship advice, need personal advice,
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: just need real advice. Haul up now for asking morning.
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: Everybody is dj Envy Angela, Yee, Charlomne the guy. We
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: are the breakfast club. It's time to ask ye hello,
- 1:06:36Speaker 1: who's this? Oh? What's the matter? Gavanna whispering. I'm whispering
- 1:06:43Speaker 1: because my college students home, okay, okay, and I don't
- 1:06:46Speaker 1: want her to hear my question? Oh boy, mommy freaky.
- 1:06:49Speaker 1: All right, let's go. Yea happy university, my husband to
- 1:06:53Speaker 1: have you celebrating twenty four years of summer ties. Wow, congrats, yes,
- 1:06:59Speaker 1: same are you saying to you? My question is I
- 1:07:03Speaker 1: don't know how you deal with all those kids, But
- 1:07:05Speaker 1: what to do napthyse kids at home when you're trying
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: to get freaky with yours. But why you sustaining these
- 1:07:14Speaker 1: loans our marriages, because you'll do all kinds of crazy stuff,
- 1:07:17Speaker 1: you know. But we're trying to figure it out. Just one,
- 1:07:22Speaker 1: just one, but okay. From college, he's he's graduated last
- 1:07:26Speaker 1: year's thank goodness. But you know, with everything going on,
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: his grad plans that work out. He was supposed to
- 1:07:32Speaker 1: relocate to California. He's home with us. We have a
- 1:07:36Speaker 1: condo and can't get down the way we usually get down,
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: you know, who So is there is he ever going outside?
- 1:07:43Speaker 1: Is there someplace like outdoor space? Not mall? And we
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: you know, normally would go to parks, but parks have
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: been closed. We don't want to get arrested because he's essential.
- 1:07:55Speaker 1: I own a case of this kind of you know,
- 1:07:56Speaker 1: in the in the public eye. I don't want to be,
- 1:08:00Speaker 1: you know, known for anything scandalous. But of course, no, no, no, no,
- 1:08:07Speaker 1: she said, yeah, yes, not now, not now, not daring now.
- 1:08:14Speaker 1: Of course everything is shut down. We're trying to be safe.
- 1:08:17Speaker 1: As I said, my husband is essential. I own the
- 1:08:20Speaker 1: cater and business. Shut up small business owners. I fed
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: the front line, still doing my business. Let's plug that
- 1:08:26Speaker 1: too while we're on here. Oh thank you, Impa Mama's
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: signature recipes. Where I'm in clip Side Park, But I
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: worked out of a commercial kitchen and ingloy So Inglod Hospital,
- 1:08:37Speaker 1: Holy name tea neck feed the front line. We're still
- 1:08:41Speaker 1: doing more so. But now, Javannah, let me ask you this.
- 1:08:44Speaker 1: Doesn't your son have to go to sleep at some
- 1:08:45Speaker 1: point um now that he's home? Not really? I mean,
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: come on, you know these older kids on FaceTime all
- 1:08:51Speaker 1: hours of the night, you know, um, and we're not quiet,
- 1:08:56Speaker 1: you know what? You know what? I think it's fine.
- 1:08:58Speaker 1: You need to have sex quietly, quietly, yes, and that
- 1:09:02Speaker 1: actually is really fun, but it doesn't normally happen. But
- 1:09:05Speaker 1: it's actually very exciting when you know people louder than me. Actually,
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: you're gonna have to cover his mouth while you're doing it,
- 1:09:15Speaker 1: but it's actually something really fun about trying to be
- 1:09:19Speaker 1: quiet while you have sex. And that might just be
- 1:09:21Speaker 1: something you're gonna have to do, just be careful quiet.
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: It is exciting that we're gonna try. Mama, Mama, Mama,
- 1:09:28Speaker 1: I could I be honest with you, especially from DJ
- 1:09:32Speaker 1: all those kidst Well, first of all, first of all,
- 1:09:35Speaker 1: the kids go to sleep, The kids go to sleeping,
- 1:09:37Speaker 1: and the older kids exactly. But oh, he knows what's
- 1:09:40Speaker 1: going on. You don't think he having sex him to
- 1:09:42Speaker 1: hear that. Nobody want to hear their parents that. The
- 1:09:45Speaker 1: kids don't want to hear that. A lock on that door,
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: and you, in your heart, you're gonna walk in. Don't
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: worry about it. He'll put his headphones on and he'll
- 1:09:53Speaker 1: be in this video game. Let me, let me tell
- 1:09:55Speaker 1: you what else you can do. Let me tell you
- 1:09:57Speaker 1: what else you can do because you said the head
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: but I'm glad you said that. Put it on the
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: floor and have sex quietly on the floor. We have
- 1:10:03Speaker 1: carpet on our under the floor under our babe. But
- 1:10:06Speaker 1: all right, but listen, put on some music, put the
- 1:10:12Speaker 1: TV on, whatever you gotta do. Mama, don't even worry
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: about your son. You know, my daughter came into me.
- 1:10:17Speaker 1: She came into my room the other morning. Was like, guys,
- 1:10:20Speaker 1: you know I don't go to sleep at twelve o'clock, right,
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: you know, I hear everything that was going on, and
- 1:10:24Speaker 1: and you know what I said. I said, well, you
- 1:10:26Speaker 1: know how you got here, right, And then she just
- 1:10:27Speaker 1: walked out. It is what it is. My daughter's eighteen.
- 1:10:30Speaker 1: Your son is he graduated college. You gotta be in
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: his twenties. He understands. I listen. I just want to
- 1:10:36Speaker 1: I just want to say, you just need to make
- 1:10:38Speaker 1: a fun game out of it. Put that sheet on
- 1:10:40Speaker 1: the floor to him. All right, we gotta be quiet,
- 1:10:42Speaker 1: turn on some music kind of low, and just have
- 1:10:44Speaker 1: sex slowly and quietly. He's a grown ass boy, Mama,
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: he's in your house. He's old enough. Now you and
- 1:10:52Speaker 1: Hubby get freaky. He doesn't want to see his mother's face.
- 1:10:56Speaker 1: His father come out smiling, but he doesn't want to
- 1:10:58Speaker 1: see me come how to make his avocado toaes after
- 1:11:01Speaker 1: I didn't avocado TOAs. I hope you would wash your hand,
- 1:11:09Speaker 1: washing my hands and everything. But okay, we'll try the
- 1:11:12Speaker 1: sheet on the four things. Oh, mama gets you a
- 1:11:15Speaker 1: freaky ass. Hey, emmy, this is asking. She wanted advice,
- 1:11:20Speaker 1: and my advice guys have some problem with that. It's
- 1:11:22Speaker 1: a different time, it's a different error. She don't want
- 1:11:24Speaker 1: her son to hear but that she's on the floor
- 1:11:27Speaker 1: to be quiet. Quarantine sex, I mean taking the long
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: term marriages. You gotta do what you got any time.
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: And every time he makes a little noise with his
- 1:11:37Speaker 1: mouth and he stays getting too loud, just cover his
- 1:11:38Speaker 1: mouth and be like, hey quiet, mama. Nah, and let
- 1:11:41Speaker 1: me ask you a question. When you find out what
- 1:11:43Speaker 1: you would help me out with the bed because I
- 1:11:45Speaker 1: haven't figured that out. Yeah, my baby squeaking. We haven't
- 1:11:47Speaker 1: figured that out, man, we haven't figured we'd be used
- 1:11:49Speaker 1: w D forty. We put the mattress and everything, and
- 1:11:51Speaker 1: it's still it's still to the mattress said, label it
- 1:11:57Speaker 1: a type of match. You have a air mattress. No,
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: we don't have, no, please, we would bustling a hair mattress.
- 1:12:03Speaker 1: We tried that back in trying to play you. Angelie,
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: just tried to play you. Mom. You're a grown ass woman,
- 1:12:11Speaker 1: trying to play you like some young mattress I have.
- 1:12:21Speaker 1: I have. I actually have an air mattress as a
- 1:12:23Speaker 1: spare mattress in my house in case I have company.
- 1:12:26Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, here's an air mattress. So sometimes
- 1:12:28Speaker 1: people come and no, I don't know that's work, And
- 1:12:36Speaker 1: it said, actually, it's a it's a pillow top air
- 1:12:38Speaker 1: mattress and it's very nice. God daughter played automatically. Yeah,
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: I have that for guests, but I don't think that's
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: gonna work. MoMA, go in door about him. We're gonna
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: go and go. Okay, I'm gonna take your advice. Go in.
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: He knowstand so I know you know DJ and long
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: term marriage. You gotta do what you gotta do. That's right,
- 1:12:59Speaker 1: that's right. Or stick your face out the window. Let
- 1:13:01Speaker 1: help you hit it from the back of that way.
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: If you yellous outside you go in, you get freaky.
- 1:13:06Speaker 1: I've already had notices under my door from my neighbors,
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: so that's the last thing that needed for them to
- 1:13:10Speaker 1: see my hanging out the window. Now to hanging out
- 1:13:20Speaker 1: the windows, pick my face out the window. That's gonna
- 1:13:27Speaker 1: come next, get on that floor and to stay these long,
- 1:13:35Speaker 1: long term marriages we out here doing it too. Black love,
- 1:13:39Speaker 1: black black love. Don't you don't do your catering straight
- 1:13:43Speaker 1: from doing what you do with your husband. Just make
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: sure you're washing your hand shower. We don't want any
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: extra loving it boy, all right, thank you, mama. Alright?
- 1:13:51Speaker 1: Eight und that ain't love and at creamy eive five
- 1:14:00Speaker 1: one oh five, won't keep a lock? This to breakfast club,
- 1:14:02Speaker 1: Good morning, I'm keep read some real advice with Angela
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: ask morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angeline Charlemagne, the guy
- 1:14:14Speaker 1: we are to breakfast club? Is time for asking? Ye? Hello?
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: Who's this? Hi? This is Nicole? Hey Nicole, what's your
- 1:14:20Speaker 1: question for? Easy? Um? So, the situation is, um, I've
- 1:14:24Speaker 1: been in a relationship for maybe like seventeen years and
- 1:14:27Speaker 1: just interns my relationship. He had like different sexual interests,
- 1:14:33Speaker 1: and um, I thought, I'm like the doctor doctor natrix.
- 1:14:36Speaker 1: I've been I like control in the bedroom, and he
- 1:14:41Speaker 1: seemed like he was into it. I like to turn
- 1:14:44Speaker 1: them out, but I don't really like when they're into it.
- 1:14:47Speaker 1: So I've been noticing more and more where they are. Um,
- 1:14:51Speaker 1: he is like hooking his booty out or because it's
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: like paying and I kind of not interested in it
- 1:15:00Speaker 1: no more. So I want to know how do I
- 1:15:02Speaker 1: bring up the conversation with him without hurting his feelings
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: or emasculating him because so wait, let me So the
- 1:15:12Speaker 1: problem is that you're a dominatrix, right, but he's enjoying
- 1:15:15Speaker 1: it too much. I wouldn't say yea that it's a problem. Okay,
- 1:15:20Speaker 1: you want him, you want him to be like anymore.
- 1:15:23Speaker 1: It's like, are you really now like interested in that
- 1:15:26Speaker 1: or you know? Okay, So in the beginning he wasn't
- 1:15:30Speaker 1: enjoying it, No, he was. I liked what I said.
- 1:15:33Speaker 1: I like to to turn him out. So he was like,
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: heck no, stay with in that area. What you think
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: this is kind of like okay, so you mean with
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: you know, like putting something in his Yeah, okay, all right, Well,
- 1:15:45Speaker 1: first of all, you said the goal is to turn
- 1:15:47Speaker 1: someone out. It worked, yeah, did so now that you
- 1:15:52Speaker 1: turned him out your board. But the thing is we
- 1:15:55Speaker 1: are like partners, and I don't know if this is
- 1:15:58Speaker 1: gonna mess up my actual relationship well as a dominatrix,
- 1:16:03Speaker 1: maybe you need to find something else to do to
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: him next to turn him out on Yeah, I mean, okay,
- 1:16:10Speaker 1: look what other things do you do as a dominatrix
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: in this relationship, because I guess the dynamic now is
- 1:16:15Speaker 1: messed up. Right. As a dominatrix, he's supposed to be
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: like no, I don't want that, don't like that. He's resistant,
- 1:16:21Speaker 1: but now he's like, yes, bring it, do it? To me,
- 1:16:24Speaker 1: peg me, yes, I know that before I'm ready to
- 1:16:33Speaker 1: actually take it, and I'm like, right now, this is now,
- 1:16:38Speaker 1: this feels like something we both enjoy and it wasn't
- 1:16:40Speaker 1: supposed to be like that. So are there are there?
- 1:16:42Speaker 1: Are there things that you do to him and in
- 1:16:44Speaker 1: that situation, that relationship to uh you know, maybe there's
- 1:16:48Speaker 1: something else you could do where you're stepping on him
- 1:16:50Speaker 1: with the high heels. Maybe a little light whipping anything
- 1:16:53Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, we we do a little roll puy
- 1:16:57Speaker 1: of you know, I want to say please and or patient.
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: We do like a little role plays. But like I said,
- 1:17:05Speaker 1: it's just more of now like we regular doing regular sects.
- 1:17:11Speaker 1: He's ready too, Okay, but if he used a bigger
- 1:17:16Speaker 1: deal though, why are we doing this is so wrong?
- 1:17:20Speaker 1: Why is it wrong? Men do not let women play
- 1:17:22Speaker 1: in your button unless they're willing to make a real
- 1:17:24Speaker 1: commitment to you. Okay, yeah, I mean he gave you
- 1:17:26Speaker 1: the button. Now all of a sudden, it's too far bad. Okay,
- 1:17:31Speaker 1: they're not married, right, Actually we are married. What he
- 1:17:36Speaker 1: gave you his button and now you're saying it too much?
- 1:17:40Speaker 1: Your gonna like it? You know that. But the problem
- 1:17:43Speaker 1: is that you did turn him out and got him
- 1:17:45Speaker 1: to like something that he was resistant to at first,
- 1:17:47Speaker 1: and now you don't like it anymore. So I mean,
- 1:17:51Speaker 1: what can you do? It works some suggestions, it's not
- 1:17:57Speaker 1: like I'm really like, I'm in a hard place. I
- 1:18:00Speaker 1: don't want to say to him I don't want to
- 1:18:03Speaker 1: do it anymore. And like I said, I'm the one
- 1:18:05Speaker 1: that started. Yeah, but whoa, maybe you could do it.
- 1:18:10Speaker 1: Maybe you could do the opposite now right and torture
- 1:18:13Speaker 1: him by not doing it? Man, what you don't do
- 1:18:17Speaker 1: to another man, but somebody else where else will? I mean,
- 1:18:25Speaker 1: is it is it that you don't want to peg
- 1:18:27Speaker 1: him anymore at all? What if he acted that she doesn't?
- 1:18:33Speaker 1: What if he acted like he doesn't like it? Now?
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: Moving forward? And you let him? I ask him to
- 1:18:38Speaker 1: like with just a little bit more, Yeah, tell him like,
- 1:18:41Speaker 1: tell him like, look, the dynamics of what this was
- 1:18:44Speaker 1: is not what it is now, and this is what
- 1:18:46Speaker 1: I need you to do for me to fail turned on.
- 1:18:49Speaker 1: He might actually enjoy that too. That's not fair, mama.
- 1:18:52Speaker 1: If he likes something and now all of a sudden
- 1:18:54Speaker 1: you're supposed to be a couple, you're supposed to enjoy
- 1:18:56Speaker 1: each other. Well, she's not enjoying it, but he is.
- 1:18:59Speaker 1: But he might enjoy also doing the role playing of
- 1:19:01Speaker 1: acting like this is his first time doing it. He
- 1:19:04Speaker 1: didn't want to do it in the first play, why
- 1:19:06Speaker 1: he broke down for her to do it, and now
- 1:19:08Speaker 1: what he actually likes it? If he wants it, he
- 1:19:10Speaker 1: might have to play along. You know why a lot
- 1:19:12Speaker 1: of men don't like but play because they feel like
- 1:19:13Speaker 1: it makes him feel like less of a man, right,
- 1:19:15Speaker 1: it makes him feel like a sucker. Right. So so now, ye,
- 1:19:19Speaker 1: I've been vulnerable with you. You turned me out, and
- 1:19:22Speaker 1: now you're telling me to stop backing like a bitch.
- 1:19:24Speaker 1: Well guess who turned me in one? I'm just saying anyway,
- 1:19:29Speaker 1: have you communicated any of this to him? But not
- 1:19:36Speaker 1: very direct saying oh this is how I feel I
- 1:19:39Speaker 1: do turn moment. How to make a change, Well, be direct,
- 1:19:42Speaker 1: you're a dominatrix. Be direct, okay, and tell him, look,
- 1:19:46Speaker 1: this ain't fun for me no more. Before it was
- 1:19:48Speaker 1: a resistant situation. You ain't want it. Now you tuting
- 1:19:50Speaker 1: it up that dang up daddy, make your role What
- 1:19:55Speaker 1: I like are regular helpful situation Like it's like I
- 1:20:01Speaker 1: have to take control of everything, and it's like, is
- 1:20:04Speaker 1: that from the the way our room APIs? And now
- 1:20:10Speaker 1: it's like I don't want to call him bitching out
- 1:20:11Speaker 1: because I don't want to downplay he needs to be
- 1:20:14Speaker 1: far from a female dog, but like he's revery now
- 1:20:19Speaker 1: though off, or he's not taking control as I think
- 1:20:23Speaker 1: a man in the house. Okay, he might think this
- 1:20:26Speaker 1: is what you want, and if you haven't communicated that
- 1:20:29Speaker 1: you don't like it, he might think this is the
- 1:20:31Speaker 1: dynamic that you wanted. Charlomagne did say something real true
- 1:20:35Speaker 1: what you don't do, somebody else will. It's the truth.
- 1:20:38Speaker 1: You turned them onto it, so he likes. You need
- 1:20:41Speaker 1: to let him know that this is not working for
- 1:20:43Speaker 1: you and this is not what your intention was, so
- 1:20:45Speaker 1: he can take charge in certain situations. Again, this is
- 1:20:47Speaker 1: why men don't open up. Our hearts are butts to
- 1:20:49Speaker 1: people because the situations like this, all right, but the
- 1:20:53Speaker 1: main thing is that you're not telling him what it
- 1:20:55Speaker 1: is that you need. You gotta let him much. She
- 1:20:57Speaker 1: wanted it at first, and he didn't want to do
- 1:20:59Speaker 1: it at first day. He finally opened up and did
- 1:21:01Speaker 1: it and got turned out, And you are doing all right.
- 1:21:08Speaker 1: So listen, talk to him. Okay, I'm got to work
- 1:21:11Speaker 1: through this. You begged the playing my butt and let
- 1:21:14Speaker 1: you play in my butt. Now you look at me
- 1:21:15Speaker 1: like I'm soft. Let's just keep that. This is crazy.
- 1:21:19Speaker 1: This is this is crazy. This is topic. What's his number?
- 1:21:24Speaker 1: We need the care he no, stop it. This is
- 1:21:26Speaker 1: topic humanity on the spot. Yeah, don't do it? All right?
- 1:21:30Speaker 1: All right, this is toxic. We have no problem answering
- 1:21:34Speaker 1: any question opened up for her. He finally he enjoys
- 1:21:39Speaker 1: it now and now she's just gonna take it back.
- 1:21:41Speaker 1: I'll say, y'all can't get him into communicate. We open
- 1:21:44Speaker 1: up then, y'all tell us, y'all like what we say.
- 1:21:45Speaker 1: You say we don't share our emotions. We open up
- 1:21:48Speaker 1: our hearts, y'all break our hearts, y'all say, y'all, we
- 1:21:50Speaker 1: don't want like butt play. We open our butts. Now,
- 1:21:52Speaker 1: look to take you back. You guys have been too
- 1:21:54Speaker 1: in to ask you these past couple is crazy? Yea,
- 1:21:58Speaker 1: this is crazy, this is foul. He's we need to protest.
- 1:22:05Speaker 1: Ask you. We get five five breakfast the breakfast club?
- 1:22:22Speaker 1: Is that time again? Ask Charlomagne and DJ Envy anything
- 1:22:26Speaker 1: pick it up, Pick it up, pick it up. It's
- 1:22:29Speaker 1: time to ask you an e morning everybody in DJ Envy,
- 1:22:33Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast club.
- 1:22:37Speaker 1: It's time for asking if you need relationship advice and
- 1:22:40Speaker 1: any type of advice, you get this right now. Hello.
- 1:22:41Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey Kendrick, go morning. What's your question for seeing?
- 1:22:47Speaker 1: I actually have a question for you, Envy. Here North Carolina,
- 1:22:52Speaker 1: and I'm wanting to get into something, but I don't
- 1:22:55Speaker 1: know where to start. Okay, Well, first of all, how's
- 1:22:57Speaker 1: your credit? Your credit good? Yeah, that's the important thing.
- 1:23:00Speaker 1: And then now you have to find the property. There's
- 1:23:03Speaker 1: a couple of websites that I use across the country.
- 1:23:05Speaker 1: One is auction dot com okay, and the other one
- 1:23:08Speaker 1: is hubzoo dot com. Now, those two websites I have
- 1:23:12Speaker 1: no affiliation with, so I don't get no paid for
- 1:23:14Speaker 1: it or nothing. These are just the websites I actually use.
- 1:23:16Speaker 1: Those are the websites I used to find properties that
- 1:23:19Speaker 1: are usually being auctioned off that you can get at
- 1:23:22Speaker 1: a great price, way undermarket value. And that's where you
- 1:23:25Speaker 1: should look first. And you should look at the comps
- 1:23:27Speaker 1: in the area and see what those properties are worth.
- 1:23:30Speaker 1: When you look at those properties, you should take somebody
- 1:23:32Speaker 1: with you to see how much those properties will cost
- 1:23:34Speaker 1: to fix up. See what's wrong with the property, if
- 1:23:36Speaker 1: it needs in the roof, if it needs electric, if
- 1:23:38Speaker 1: it heed's plumbing, if it needs flooring, if it needs sighting,
- 1:23:41Speaker 1: if it needs whatever it may be, and then make
- 1:23:43Speaker 1: your your analysis from there. So if the property is
- 1:23:46Speaker 1: five hundred and needs one hundred thousand dollars worth work,
- 1:23:48Speaker 1: that's six hundred thousand, but it's worth eight hundred thousand.
- 1:23:51Speaker 1: That's a good flip. Okay, I want follow your partner
- 1:23:55Speaker 1: on Facebook and Instagram, and I wanted to one of
- 1:23:58Speaker 1: your seminars that I'm working on that that would be
- 1:24:02Speaker 1: a good one because during the seminar, there's so many
- 1:24:05Speaker 1: people there that like do finance, and we a lot
- 1:24:08Speaker 1: of times we have the people from those sites actually come.
- 1:24:11Speaker 1: So function dot Com tells you how to navigate through
- 1:24:13Speaker 1: the site to buy the actual properties. We have hard
- 1:24:16Speaker 1: money lenders. We have financial people there to tell you
- 1:24:19Speaker 1: how you can get the loans and help you get
- 1:24:21Speaker 1: those loans. So it's a it's a really good seminar.
- 1:24:23Speaker 1: You should definitely check it out. If you have a chance,
- 1:24:24Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Thank you, all right, and just continue
- 1:24:27Speaker 1: to follow me and Caesar because we're gonna do some
- 1:24:29Speaker 1: courses online because we can't make it to all these cities.
- 1:24:32Speaker 1: We just got so much going on where we can
- 1:24:33Speaker 1: help people online and we just want to see our
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: own people just you know, continue to purchase land and property. Yeah,
- 1:24:38Speaker 1: I'm trying to build generational wealth. So all right, mama,
- 1:24:42Speaker 1: thank you. Hello, who's this? This is before our nails
- 1:24:45Speaker 1: design questions. I have a question for you, Envy. Why
- 1:24:50Speaker 1: are you so insecure and your masculinity that you won't
- 1:24:53Speaker 1: let ye say of me when you're not there yet?
- 1:24:56Speaker 1: So you will great question question queen. Um, I'm not
- 1:25:02Speaker 1: insecuing my masculinity. He was allowed to do mixes a
- 1:25:05Speaker 1: long time ago, but I believe they said she was
- 1:25:06Speaker 1: trash or they didn't want her to never happened. You
- 1:25:08Speaker 1: are such a lie. But that was a problem that
- 1:25:13Speaker 1: was out at the time, not the pre program stuff
- 1:25:16Speaker 1: you got going off. Well, I don't play the music
- 1:25:19Speaker 1: during the show man, but if if you know, if
- 1:25:21Speaker 1: if Ye's mix wasn't trash, they would have invited her
- 1:25:24Speaker 1: to play again. It is your next. I don't know,
- 1:25:30Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Maybe you should start
- 1:25:33Speaker 1: um an Instagram page and try. I don't know, but
- 1:25:35Speaker 1: that's what they told me. That trash And they said
- 1:25:42Speaker 1: they said that because the mix is so trash. They
- 1:25:44Speaker 1: didn't they didn't want her back. I'm sorry you said
- 1:25:46Speaker 1: you're gonna see her already. That was you. You were
- 1:25:50Speaker 1: being shady. I'm not being shady. But you have a
- 1:25:52Speaker 1: good morning, though. I love you whatever. Send her healing energy.
- 1:25:57Speaker 1: Hello this Hey, this is um. Oh boy, fake name.
- 1:26:04Speaker 1: What's your question for seeing? I just had a question, um,
- 1:26:08Speaker 1: how do you deal with like trusting someone after like them?
- 1:26:13Speaker 1: She and you know you have a baby together. Oh
- 1:26:17Speaker 1: that's not on you, that's on him, you know what
- 1:26:18Speaker 1: I mean. The best apology is change behavior, Like he
- 1:26:21Speaker 1: has to regain your trust, you know what I mean? Like,
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: that's not that's not something you gotta force yourself to
- 1:26:26Speaker 1: do me. Yeah, and it takes time. Don't don't don't
- 1:26:28Speaker 1: let him force you to be like, oh, you gotta
- 1:26:29Speaker 1: you forgave me so you gotta no, no, no, it
- 1:26:31Speaker 1: takes time. Whenever you're comfortable, whenever you feel okay, that's
- 1:26:34Speaker 1: when you feel okay. Like Charlomagne said, it ain't about
- 1:26:37Speaker 1: telling me, it's about showing me. And are you open?
- 1:26:39Speaker 1: Are you open to trusting him again? I am definitely
- 1:26:42Speaker 1: open to trusting him again. And it's just like the fact,
- 1:26:45Speaker 1: like feeling like the price and like feeling betrayed by someone,
- 1:26:49Speaker 1: all good feelings are not good feelings but all natural
- 1:26:52Speaker 1: feelings to have. All you gotta do is remain open
- 1:26:54Speaker 1: to trusting him, and he has to regain your trust
- 1:26:58Speaker 1: by changing his behavior and that's it gonna come over time.
- 1:27:01Speaker 1: Just like you knew he was cheating, there's like your
- 1:27:03Speaker 1: six since that woman, since intuition knew he was cheating,
- 1:27:06Speaker 1: you're gonna know when you're doing right, and that makes sense.
- 1:27:09Speaker 1: Thank you, And if you're still uncomfortable, every once in
- 1:27:12Speaker 1: a while, do a phone check. Phone check, Nick, give
- 1:27:14Speaker 1: me a phone Thank you. Guys. Hello, who's this? Hey?
- 1:27:20Speaker 1: This is naughty? Hey Nannie, what's your question for CNE?
- 1:27:23Speaker 1: So I just found out my husband and was texting
- 1:27:28Speaker 1: really like what the test was a co worker. I'm
- 1:27:31Speaker 1: a month pregnant and um, I've been going through a
- 1:27:35Speaker 1: lot of like let's carry scares, So this whole time
- 1:27:40Speaker 1: I'm like, why would you think it's okaying for you
- 1:27:43Speaker 1: to be doing me things when we are going through
- 1:27:46Speaker 1: like so hard at home, like we can lose the baby,
- 1:27:50Speaker 1: And every time I bring it up to him, he
- 1:27:52Speaker 1: kind of just like, just get over it, you know,
- 1:27:54Speaker 1: let's move on. Um, I didn't do nothing, but like,
- 1:28:01Speaker 1: you work with this girl and I've watch you multiple
- 1:28:03Speaker 1: times to like contact her in front of meself, Like
- 1:28:06Speaker 1: it's ober, you know, like I don't want to know
- 1:28:07Speaker 1: how do with you, but he won't do it. Yeah,
- 1:28:11Speaker 1: I mean, I'll be honest with you. I think it's
- 1:28:12Speaker 1: very disrespectful. The fact that you're pregnant and it continues
- 1:28:16Speaker 1: to text this girl. I know it has to be
- 1:28:17Speaker 1: difficult for you because every day he goes to work,
- 1:28:20Speaker 1: you have to think about your your husband seeing this
- 1:28:22Speaker 1: other woman that he's been texting explicitly. And it's not
- 1:28:25Speaker 1: a matter of just get over it and it'll go away. No,
- 1:28:28Speaker 1: it's not that you put that you keep that pressure
- 1:28:29Speaker 1: on that man's neck. The fact that he has been
- 1:28:31Speaker 1: doing it is very disrespectful. Your husband is a boy.
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: We've all had our boy opportunities and our boy aspects
- 1:28:37Speaker 1: of our lives, but he has to grow up and
- 1:28:39Speaker 1: understand he has responsibilities. He has a wife at home
- 1:28:41Speaker 1: that's pregnant, and he should be taking care of home,
- 1:28:44Speaker 1: making sure that you know that life that you're building,
- 1:28:46Speaker 1: that you're completely stressed. Free, Yo yo yo, queen. Get
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