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The Vanishing of Bonnie and Her Car · Crime Night

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Speaker 1: How does a two ton vehicle simply vanish into thin
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Speaker 1: air right.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of a major American city?
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Speaker 1: Exactly? I mean picture this for a second. It's the
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Speaker 1: night of July three, nineteen ninety seven. Okay, you are
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Speaker 1: standing in this quiet Indianapolis subdivision. The warm summer air
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Speaker 1: is thick, and you can hear that steady ambient sound
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Speaker 1: of crickets echoing through the neighborhood.
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Speaker 2: Sounds like a perfect summer night.
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Speaker 3: It really does.
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Speaker 1: The soft yellow glow of porch lights is illuminating the driveways,
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Speaker 1: and you see a mother of two, Bonnie, waving goodbye
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Speaker 1: to her ten year old daughter, Gretchen and her husband Rick.
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Speaker 1: Right she pulls out of the driveway, heading off to
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Speaker 1: attend a coworker's birthday party. It looks like just an
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Speaker 1: ordinary summer night. But here's the chilling reality. She would
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Speaker 1: never return.
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Speaker 2: Oh wow.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, So today you and I and you listening at home,
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Speaker 1: we are fellow investigators standing at the edge in a
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Speaker 1: mystery that has gone unsolved for nearly thirty years.
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Speaker 2: It's a long time, it is.
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Speaker 1: And our mission for this deep dive is super clear.
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Speaker 1: We are going to reconstruct the fractured timeline of Bonnie's disappearance.
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Speaker 4: Which is deeply fractured, by the way, so fractured, We're
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Speaker 4: going to strip away decades of neighbor rumors and really
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Speaker 4: examine how investigative tunnel vision and.
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Speaker 1: Honestly, a cascade of truly catastrophic early police errors may
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Speaker 1: have buried the truth forever.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a profound tragedy, and you know, it forces
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Speaker 2: us to look critically at how investigations are actually built
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Speaker 2: from the ground up, because when we examine the facts
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Speaker 2: of this case, we really have to rely on a
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Speaker 2: coordinal rule of criminal investigation. In unsolved mysteries, the absence
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Speaker 2: of evidence is often just as telling as the evidence itself.
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Speaker 3: That is so true.
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Speaker 2: I mean, sometimes the gaping holes in a case file
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Speaker 2: point us exactly to where the system failed.
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Speaker 1: Okay, so let's step right into the immediate aftermath. The
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Speaker 1: sun comes up on the morning of July fourth, and
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Speaker 1: Bonnie is not in her bed right, she hasn't come home. Now,
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Speaker 1: as happens in almost every single case where a wife
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Speaker 1: goes missing, the spotlight immediately blindingly falls.
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Speaker 3: On the husband.
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Speaker 2: Always the husband first.
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Speaker 1: Always, Rick is cast as the prime suspect before the
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Speaker 1: first twenty four hours or even.
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Speaker 2: Up, which I mean isn't unusual. But they lock onto
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Speaker 2: it fast here, so fast.
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Speaker 1: The police start building a narrative. They note that the
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Speaker 1: marriage had some strain, like a couple of years prior,
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Speaker 1: Bonnie's mother had passed away quickly from cancer.
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Speaker 2: Oh that's awful.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it had severely shifted Bonnie's perspective on life.
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Speaker 1: She had talked about wanting a divorce, though Rick was
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Speaker 1: trying to talk her into intermediate steps first, counseling that
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Speaker 1: sort of thing, right, trying to say the marriage exactly.
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Speaker 1: But the police zoom in on what they believe is
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Speaker 1: the ultimate trump card, a financial motive. Ah, of course
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Speaker 1: they discovered that right around the time she disappeared, the
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Speaker 1: couple cashed out a life insurance policy for eighteen thousand dollars. Boom,
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Speaker 1: A tidy, classic motive.
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Speaker 2: But and this is a big butt.
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Speaker 1: Right, I know you've looked at the financial records here.
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Speaker 1: Does that narrative actually hold water?
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Speaker 2: It shatters completely once you look at the actual financial
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Speaker 2: mechanics of that eighteen thousand dollars check.
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Speaker 3: Really, how so well?
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Speaker 2: The police narrative implies this was some secret policy Rick
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Speaker 2: took out on his wife to cash in on her
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Speaker 2: death right.
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Speaker 3: That's exactly what it sounds like.
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Speaker 2: The reality is the money was from a policy on
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Speaker 2: Rick himself.
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Speaker 3: Wait, his own policy.
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Speaker 2: Yes, at the time, Rick had taken out a loan
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Speaker 2: against his company's profit sharing plan. For context, this operates
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Speaker 2: very similarly to borrowing against your four to one k today. Okay,
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Speaker 2: I fall So he was considering changing jobs. But if
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Speaker 2: you leave a company before a profit sharing loan is
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Speaker 2: paid off, the remaining balance is treated as early taxable income.
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Speaker 2: Oh yikes, exactly in the nineteen nineties, the tax hit
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Speaker 2: and the financial penalties on that would have been absolutely devastating.
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Speaker 1: Wait, so the eighteen thousand dollars was just a mechanism
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Speaker 1: to avoid a tax penalty on his own retirement account.
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Speaker 2: Precisely, it was a mutual, highly practical financial decision to
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Speaker 2: cash out the life insurance policy on him so they
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Speaker 2: could pay off the loan before he changed jobs.
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Speaker 1: So it had nothing to do with her disappearing.
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Speaker 2: Nothing. It was entirely above board. Bonnie was fully aware
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Speaker 2: of it, and investigators later confirmed the money went exactly
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Speaker 2: where Rick said it went, directly to pay off that
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Speaker 2: profit sharing loan. It wasn't a windfall triggered by her
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Speaker 2: disappearance at all. Now, Bonnie did have her own life
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Speaker 2: insurance policies totally about fifty thousand dollars, but those were standard,
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Speaker 2: heavily regulated.
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Speaker 1: Policies, meaning they don't just hand you a check because
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Speaker 1: your spouse isn't answering their phone.
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Speaker 2: Correct, standard life insurance only pays out upon legally proven death.
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Speaker 2: If someone simply vanishes without a body, the surviving spouse
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Speaker 2: receives absolutely nothing until a missing person is legally declared
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Speaker 2: dead in absentia.
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Speaker 3: Which takes years.
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Speaker 2: Right, Rick didn't see a single dime of that fifty
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Speaker 2: thousand dollars until seven years later.
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Speaker 1: Good grief, seven years.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, in two thousand and four, when he finally went
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Speaker 2: through the agonizing legal process of having Bond officially declared dead.
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Speaker 1: I really want to pause here and look at how
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Speaker 1: dangerous this initial police logic is. I mean, building a
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Speaker 1: murder case against a husband based on this eighteen thousand
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Speaker 1: dollars transaction. It's like, well, it's like building a spam
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Speaker 1: filter for your inbox, but programming it incredibly poorly.
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Speaker 2: Oh, that's an interesting way to put.
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Speaker 1: It, right, Like Once the algorithm decides an email is spam,
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Speaker 1: it filters all subsequent emails from that sender into the
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Speaker 1: junk folder, even if they are urgently important. The police
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Speaker 1: effectively turned on a Rick is guilty filter on day one.
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Speaker 1: They absolutely did, and from that moment on, all exonerating evidence,
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Speaker 1: all of the logical financial explanations, it just went straight
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Speaker 1: into the junk folder. I mean, they lived within their means.
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Speaker 1: Her disappearing made his financial life exponentially harder, not easier, exactly,
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Speaker 1: because now he's raising a ten year old and an
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Speaker 1: older son on a single income.
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Speaker 2: That spam filter analogy is honestly the perfect way to
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Speaker 2: understand confirmation bias. When investigators lock on too as suspect
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Speaker 2: that early, they view every subsequent piece of data through
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Speaker 2: the lens of guilt.
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Speaker 3: Everything becomes suspicious, right.
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Speaker 2: And the real danger of that tunnel vision isn't just
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Speaker 2: the false motives, it's the massive operational blind spots it creates.
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Speaker 2: Because law enforcement was so hyper focused on proving Rick
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Speaker 2: did it, they completely neglected to execute the most basic
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Speaker 2: standard investigative protocols required for a missing person.
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Speaker 1: Which brings us to a detail that, as someone who
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Speaker 1: studies these cases leaves me absolutely stunned.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, this one is rough.
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Speaker 3: When Bonnie vanished that night, her car vanished with her.
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Speaker 2: YEP.
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Speaker 1: The standard operating procedure in nineteen ninety seven and today
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Speaker 1: for that matter, is that you immediately enter the missing
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Speaker 1: vehicle's details into the NCIC, the.
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Speaker 2: National Crime Information Center database.
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Speaker 1: Right, And the mechanism is so simple. If any patrol
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Speaker 1: officer anywhere in the country runs a license plate or
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Speaker 1: a VIN during a routine traffic stop or even while
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Speaker 1: checking an abandoned vehicle, the system immediately flags it as
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Speaker 1: connected to a missing person.
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Speaker 2: It's the most basic net we have exactly.
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Speaker 3: But what actually happened here?
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Speaker 2: Well, a local report noted that quote her car was gone,
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Speaker 2: but the actual vehicle details, like the license plate, the VIN,
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Speaker 2: the make and model, they were never submitted to the
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Speaker 2: national NCIC database.
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Speaker 3: Are you kidding me?
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Speaker 1: Nope, The entry was completely botched, so no one was
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Speaker 1: looking for it at all.
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Speaker 2: For two full years.
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Speaker 1: Two years.
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Speaker 2: Yes, it wasn't until nineteen ninety nine that a different
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Speaker 2: detective doing a routine check and balance on cold cases
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Speaker 2: realized the car was never put into the system.
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Speaker 3: That is just I can't even process that.
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Speaker 2: The catastrophic ripple effect of this administrative failure. It just
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Speaker 2: cannot be overstated. A human body can be hidden in
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Speaker 2: a relatively small space, right, but a large vehicle.
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Speaker 1: A vehicle is incredibly difficult to conceal.
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Speaker 2: Exactly, by failing to execute that NCIC entry, investigators lost
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Speaker 2: their absolute best chance of tracking Bonnie's movements in the
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Speaker 2: critical days after she vanished.
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Speaker 1: I mean, imagine a patrol officer seeing That's if a
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Speaker 1: car parked strangely on the side of a highway on
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Speaker 1: July sixth, nineteen ninety seven.
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Speaker 2: Right, they see it, they run the plates.
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Speaker 1: And because of the error, the system returns nothing suspicious.
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Speaker 3: The officer just drives on.
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Speaker 2: And the evidence is lost forever.
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Speaker 3: It's heartbreaking.
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Speaker 1: And if you thought the car was about oversight, the
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Speaker 1: way they handle the digital evidence is arguably worse. All
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Speaker 1: the cell phones, let's talk about the cell phone. Having
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Speaker 1: a cell phone in nineteen ninety seven was still somewhat
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Speaker 1: of a luxury, but Bonnie did have one. Rick told
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Speaker 1: police he tried calling her repeatedly that night and all
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Speaker 1: through the next day, which.
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Speaker 2: Is what you do when your spouse doesn't come home.
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Speaker 1: Exactly, the police built part of their timeline on the
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Speaker 1: claim that there was no activity on Bonnie's phone for
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Speaker 1: a day or two before she went missing, suggesting she
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Speaker 1: wasn't answering calls. But did they actually pull the hard
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Speaker 1: copy phone records to verify Rick's timeline? Did they check
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Speaker 1: the cell towers?
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Speaker 2: No, they absolutely They relied entirely on a verbal confirmation
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Speaker 2: over the phone from Bonnie's service provider over the phone
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Speaker 2: just to quick chat, And this represents a found misunderstanding
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Speaker 2: of how technology worked at the time. In nineteen ninety seven,
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Speaker 2: cell phone billing mechanisms were entirely different from today's digital.
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Speaker 1: Logs, right because the systems were designed for billing, not
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Speaker 1: for tracking location exactly.
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Speaker 2: Many providers only logged to call on the physical record
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Speaker 2: if it actually connected and resulted in a per minute charge.
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Speaker 3: Oh so if it just rang.
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Speaker 2: An unanswered ringing phone often didn't register on the provider's
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Speaker 2: end at all. By relying on a verbal summary instead
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Speaker 2: of subpoenaing the physical records of both Rick and Bonnie,
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Speaker 2: the police effectively guessed at the timeline.
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Speaker 1: So we have a faulty timeline based on a fundamental
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Speaker 1: misunderstanding of nineties telecom infrastructure and a massive blind spot
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Speaker 1: where a two ton vehicle should be.
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Speaker 2: It's a disaster.
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Speaker 1: It is fast forward to today. The current detective on
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Speaker 1: the case notes there have been over twenty water searches
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Speaker 1: looking for this car. Private groups using advanced sonar have
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Speaker 1: scoured the area. The bodies of water along her route
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Speaker 1: home have been totally cleared.
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Speaker 2: They've looked everywhere, everywhere.
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Speaker 1: The car was never found abandoned on land, never sold
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Speaker 1: for scrap, never popped up in a tow yard. If
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Speaker 1: the police algorithm filtered out everything but rick and Rick
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Speaker 1: was at home with his daughter, who slipped through the
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Speaker 1: cracks like who actually saw her?
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Speaker 2: Last to answer that we really have to look outside
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Speaker 2: the marriage because Bonnie was leading a pretty complex life.
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Speaker 2: She was having an affair with a man named John.
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Speaker 2: According to the police files, John was at the same
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Speaker 2: birthday party at the bar that night. He provided a
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Speaker 2: statement to the police saying he watched Bonnie drive away
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Speaker 2: headed home and that he had absolutely no idea she
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Speaker 2: was missing until two days later on Saturday, when a
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Speaker 2: coworker informed.
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Speaker 1: Him, and the police just accepted that.
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Speaker 2: Well. They gave John a polygraph test you reportedly passed
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Speaker 2: and based largely on that they cleared him and deemed
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Speaker 2: his timeline credible.
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Speaker 1: Okay, I have to push back on the police relying
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Speaker 1: on a polygraph to clear the lover.
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Speaker 2: I know it's wild.
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Speaker 1: We know now that polygraphs do not detect a lot.
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Speaker 1: They measure physiological stress responses, heart rate, blood pressure, skin conductivity.
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Speaker 1: Passing one in nineteen ninety seven might have taken you
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Speaker 1: off the suspect board, but it is an inherently flawed mechanism,
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Speaker 1: hilely flowed. And we know it's flawed here because a
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Speaker 1: reporter recently uncovered brand new information that completely shatters John's timeline.
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Speaker 2: Yes, this is a massive detail, right.
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Speaker 1: The reporter tracked down John's daughter, Kim. Kim lived in
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Speaker 1: Texas at the time, but in this bizarre stroke of
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Speaker 1: cold case luck, she happened to be visiting her dad
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Speaker 1: in Indianapolis that exact fourth of July weekend.
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Speaker 3: Thought about timing seriously.
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Speaker 1: Kim, who was sixteen in nineteen ninety seven, revealed that
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Speaker 1: she and her dad were supposed to meet Bonnie on Friday,
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Speaker 1: July fourth, the day after she disappeared exactly. They were
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Speaker 1: going to a concert called the Uncle Sam Jam to
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Speaker 1: see the bare naked ladies supposed to be a big introduction,
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Speaker 1: you know, But Bonnie never showed up, and Kim explicitly
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Speaker 1: remembers that her dad was worried sick that Friday. It
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Speaker 1: ruined their entire day.
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Speaker 2: This completely up ends the official record. I mean, in
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Speaker 2: his police statement, John claimed he didn't know she was
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Speaker 2: missing until Saturday, right, Yet his own daughter vividly recalls
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Speaker 2: him actively worrying about her unexplained absence on Friday afternoon.
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Speaker 2: This forces us to really analyze the psychology of his statement.
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Speaker 2: Why lie to the police about when you realize she
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Speaker 2: was gone?
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Speaker 1: Right? If someone you love doesn't show up to a concert,
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Speaker 1: you tell the police everything. You don't hide the timeline.
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Speaker 2: Well you might if your primary goal is self preservation.
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Speaker 3: Ah. True.
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Speaker 2: The innocent explanation is that John, a married man having
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Speaker 2: an affair, wanted to minimize his connection to a missing
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Speaker 2: woman to protect his.
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Speaker 1: Secret life just trying to stay out of the spotlight.
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Speaker 2: Exactly, He might have assumed she was simply dealing with
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Speaker 2: marital strife at home and backed away to avoid the fallout.
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Speaker 2: But by withholding the detail about the misconcert, he fundamentally
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Speaker 2: altered the investigator's understanding of the.
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Speaker 1: Timeline and the vacuum of information just keeps growing because
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Speaker 1: John wasn't the only one guarding secrets. You really have
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Speaker 1: to look at Anita, the coworker whose birthday party Bonnie
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Speaker 1: attended that night.
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Speaker 2: Oh, this part is just baffling.
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Speaker 1: Decades later, Bonnie's neighbor Diane, who by the way, was
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Speaker 1: one of the people who initially suspected Rick, reached out
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Speaker 1: to Anita. She begged for any detail, any scrap of
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Speaker 1: information about Bonnie's state of.
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Speaker 3: Mind that night.
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Speaker 1: And Anita's response, she absolutely refuses to speak, not to Diane,
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Speaker 1: not to investigators, and most chillingly, not to Bonnie's children,
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Speaker 1: who have practically.
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Speaker 3: Pleaded for answers. It's hard to hear her reasoning.
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Speaker 1: She stated, quote, I would never betray her trust.
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Speaker 2: So from a psychological standpoint, this is a fascinating, if
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Speaker 2: incredibly destructive defense mechanism. How so well, when as sudden,
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Speaker 2: ambiguous trauma occurs, some individuals lock their memories in a
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Speaker 2: mental vault, they convince themselves that maintaining a secret they
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Speaker 2: promised to keep in life is a noble way of
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Speaker 2: honoring the deceased.
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Speaker 4: Wow.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, he gives them a false sense of control over
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Speaker 2: an uncontrollable tragedy.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I understand psychology, I really do, but I
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Speaker 1: have to push back hard on this vault mentality. Oh absolutely,
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Speaker 1: we are talking about a mother who vanished into thin air.
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Speaker 1: Why keep a secret when your friend might have been murdered?
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Speaker 3: Is twisted?
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Speaker 1: Loyalty really overwriting basic logic.
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Speaker 2: And justice not friendly? So for her?
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Speaker 1: If I go missing, I want my friends screaming my
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Speaker 1: deepest secrets from the rooftops if it helps find whoever
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Speaker 1: took me. Refusing to speak to a son who is
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Speaker 1: desperately looking for his mother because of some misguided in
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Speaker 1: nineteen ninety seven Girl Code, it isn't noble. It's an
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Speaker 1: obstruction of truth.
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Speaker 2: It is deeply frustrating, but it highlights the dense environment
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Speaker 2: of secrecy surrounding Bonnie. In those final weeks. We have
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Speaker 2: an affair hidden by lies, a strained marriage, and silent coworkers.
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Speaker 3: A perfect storm of missing information.
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Speaker 2: Exactly when traditional investigative avenues dry up because people won't
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Speaker 2: talk and evidence wasn't logged properly. Human nature abhors the vacuum,
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Speaker 2: and people often turn to unconventional methods to find answers.
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Speaker 1: Which leads us directly to the neighbor Diane and the
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Speaker 1: psychic profile.
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Speaker 2: Here we go.
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Speaker 1: Now, I know some of you listening might instinctively roll
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Speaker 1: your eyes at the mention of mediums in a true
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Speaker 1: crime investigation, but set aside the supernatural element for a
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Speaker 1: moment and listen to the theory it generated, because it
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Speaker 1: is chillingly pausible. Over the years, Diane visited three entirely
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Speaker 1: separate mediums, and without prompting, every single one of them
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Speaker 1: told her the exact same phrase, it's not who you
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Speaker 1: think that.
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Speaker 2: Did it, meaning that has been was a red herring.
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Speaker 3: Exactly, But it goes deeper.
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Speaker 1: Recently, a very well known medium provided a highly specific
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Speaker 1: profile without knowing any of the case facts beforehand.
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Speaker 2: Okay, what was the profile?
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Speaker 1: This profile suggested an alternative theory. Bonnie was targeted by
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Speaker 1: a stranger, specifically someone with a burglary record who had been.
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Speaker 2: Watching her a crime of opportunity right.
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Speaker 1: The theory suggests a swift, silent ambush right in her
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Speaker 1: own driveway as she pulled in late at night. The
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Speaker 1: attacker overpowers her, never lets her out of the car,
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Speaker 1: and drives off with her and her own vehicle. The
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Speaker 1: theory even points to her remains being in a wooded
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Speaker 1: area with walking paths near housing developments that were under
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Speaker 1: construction in nineteen ninety seven, specifically pointing toward the Eagle
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Speaker 1: Creek area on the west side of Indianapolis.
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Speaker 2: You know, if we strip away the psychic delivery system
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Speaker 2: for a second and ground this purely impractical criminal profiling,
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Speaker 2: this theory resolved several major evidentiary black holes that the
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Speaker 2: police narrative just ignores.
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Speaker 3: Really, how so well, if this was a.
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Speaker 2: Stranger rebduction of opportunity, a predator who watched a lone
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Speaker 2: woman pull into a quiet driveway, it perfectly explains the
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Speaker 2: mechanics of the vanishing car.
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Speaker 1: Oh right, because he drives it away exactly.
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Speaker 2: It wasn't an elaborate cover up by a husband with
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Speaker 2: hours despair. It was a mobile crime scene driven away
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Speaker 2: by the perpetrator. It also explains why the driveway yielded
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Speaker 2: absolutely no forensic evidence.
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Speaker 1: Because there was no bloody struggle on the pavement.
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Speaker 2: Right, she was forced back into her seat, or perhaps
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Speaker 2: she'd never even had the chance to put the car
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Speaker 2: in park and out.
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Speaker 1: But logistically, how does that actually work? My pushback here
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Speaker 1: is really about the environment. How could a struggle, even
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Speaker 1: a muffled one, happen in a suburban driveway without waking anyone.
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Speaker 2: It's tough, but it happens.
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Speaker 1: I mean, Gretchen, her ten year old daughter was sleeping
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Speaker 1: just inside the house. Rick was presumably inside. The houses
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Speaker 1: in that subdivision are close together. An ambush like that
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Speaker 1: implies a terrifyingly fast and controlled abduction.
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Speaker 2: It requires immense control, but in profiling, it is a
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Speaker 2: known mechanism of attack. Predators who stock their victims often
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Speaker 2: wait for a specific moment of.
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Speaker 1: Transition, transition like from the car to the house.
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Speaker 2: Exactly between the perceived safety of the car and the
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Speaker 2: lock safety of the home. In tactical terms, we actually
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Speaker 2: call this the fatal funnel.
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Speaker 3: The fatal funnel.
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Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, the victim is distracted, the engine is off,
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Speaker 2: They are grabbing their purse, checking their keys, just letting
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Speaker 2: their guard down. If a perpetrator blitz attacks with a
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Speaker 2: weapon in that specific window, compliance is usually.
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Speaker 3: Immediate because they're just completely shocked.
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Speaker 2: Right. The victim goes entirely silent out of sheer terror,
18:06
Speaker 2: hoping compliance will save their life.
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Speaker 1: And in that moment of terror. That phantom car that
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Speaker 1: won't be entered into the national database for two whole years,
18:15
Speaker 1: reverses out of the driveway and speeds away toward a
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Speaker 1: construction site near Eagle Creek exactly. And because the police
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Speaker 1: algorithm has already filtered for Rick, they aren't looking for
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Speaker 1: a burglar, they aren't looking for a stranger. They're literally
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Speaker 1: pulling up the carpet in Rick's living room.
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Speaker 2: It's tragic. The cascade of systemic failures combined with a
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Speaker 2: narrow initial hypothesis allowed a predator to just drive off
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Speaker 2: into the night.
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Speaker 1: And we have to examine the collateral damage of that
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Speaker 1: tunnel vision because it is immense and it is multi generational.
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Speaker 2: It truly devastated the family.
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Speaker 1: Let's bring this back to the present day. Rick lived
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Speaker 1: the rest of his life under a heavy, unproven suspicion
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Speaker 1: of murder. He never remarried. He eventually moved to Michigan
18:57
Speaker 1: trying to start fresh.
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Speaker 3: But the cloud just always followed him or where he won.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he died in twenty twenty two, having never
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Speaker 1: been cleared by the police and having never found out
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Speaker 1: what happened to his wife.
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Speaker 2: The police essentially adopted a strategy of attrition with him.
19:12
Speaker 2: What do you mean they believed he did it and
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Speaker 2: they were simply waiting for him to slick up. I mean,
19:17
Speaker 2: think about it. A full decade later, in two thousand
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Speaker 2: and eight, investigators traveled all the way up to Michigan
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Speaker 2: and executed a tense, nearly seven hour interrogation with him.
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Speaker 2: Seven hours. Yeah. They secured a search warrant for his home,
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Speaker 2: casting a massive net looking for anything, browsing history, hidden keepsakes,
19:34
Speaker 2: a number one mom necklace, you name it. They confiscated
19:37
Speaker 2: all of the family's electronic devices and what did they
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Speaker 2: find After all of that? They found absolutely nothing connecting
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Speaker 2: him to the disappearance.
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Speaker 1: But what that two thousand and eight raid did do
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Speaker 1: was shatter whatever remaining trust Bonnie's children had in the system.
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Speaker 1: We have to talk about the heartbreaking reality for Bonnie's son, Josh.
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Speaker 2: This part is so unfair.
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Speaker 1: It's infuriating. During that intense search of their home looking
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Speaker 1: for evidence of a murdered mother, the police happen to
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Speaker 1: find a tiny amount of weed in Josh's room.
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Speaker 2: Just unbelievable priorities.
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Speaker 1: Right, and instead of focusing on the mission of finding
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Speaker 1: a missing woman, the local police actually slapped Josh with
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Speaker 1: a charge for it.
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Speaker 2: Talk about losing sight of the goal.
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Speaker 1: And it gets worse when the Indianapolis police finally returned
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Speaker 1: the Famili's computers and phones years later, they returned them
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Speaker 1: completely broken and unusable.
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Speaker 2: So destructive.
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Speaker 1: Think about the psychological mechanism at play there. You are
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Speaker 1: the victim of a horrific life altering loss, and the
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Speaker 1: people sworn to protect you and help you find your
20:35
Speaker 1: mother are instead treating you like a criminal and destroying
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Speaker 1: your property.
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Speaker 2: It creates profound, permanent alienation. Law enforcement shifts from being
20:44
Speaker 2: the advocate to being the adversary for a child who
20:46
Speaker 2: has lost a parent. That creates a secondary trauma that
20:49
Speaker 2: just never heals.
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Speaker 3: It's a wound that stays open.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. In psychology, we call what the family is experiencing ambiguous.
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Speaker 3: Loss ambiguous loss right.
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Speaker 2: It was coined by doctor Pauline Boss, and it describes
21:03
Speaker 2: a loss that occurs without closure or clear understanding. Because
21:07
Speaker 2: there is no body, no car, no definitive proof of death.
21:10
Speaker 2: The human brain cannot fully process.
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Speaker 3: The grief, so they're just stuck.
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Speaker 2: Every possibility, no matter how remote, remains agonizingly alive in
21:18
Speaker 2: their minds.
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Speaker 1: Yet despite all of that betrayal by the system and
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Speaker 1: the weight of that ambiguous loss, Josh has never given up.
21:25
Speaker 1: Even now, living in Florida, he works with private dive teams.
21:28
Speaker 2: He's relentless.
21:29
Speaker 1: He spends his nights scouring topographical maps for bodies of
21:32
Speaker 1: water that might hide a car. He looks into old
21:35
Speaker 1: flooded quarries north of Indianapolis.
21:37
Speaker 2: He is physically carrying the entire weight of this investigation
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Speaker 2: on his own.
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Speaker 1: Shoulders, and that leaves us with a provocative, deeply unsettling
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Speaker 1: thought for you to mull over. As we close this file.
21:48
Speaker 1: We often demand the simplest narrative. The husband did it.
21:51
Speaker 2: It's easy, it's safe, right.
21:53
Speaker 1: It fits a trope, we understand, and frankly we cling
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Speaker 1: to it because the alternative is simply too terrifying to.
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Speaker 2: Process, because the alternative means anyone is vulnerable exactly.
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Speaker 1: But if Rick was innocent, and the staggering lack of
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Speaker 1: evidence heavily suggests he might be, then the tragedy of
22:11
Speaker 1: this crime is doubled. How So, while a mother was
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Speaker 1: stolen in the dead of night by a phantom stranger
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Speaker 1: operating in the shadows of her own driveway and a
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Speaker 1: father's life was stolen by the very system designed to
22:24
Speaker 1: protect him.
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Speaker 2: That is a chilling way to look at it.
22:26
Speaker 1: But perhaps the most haunting part of this case is
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Speaker 1: where it leaves us today. Because law enforcement closed the
22:31
Speaker 1: book early with a neat, easy narrative, the immense physical, financial,
22:35
Speaker 1: and emotional burden of justice has been entirely outsourced to
22:39
Speaker 1: a grieving.
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Speaker 2: Son, which is just a colossal fail.
22:42
Speaker 1: Ask yourself, what does it say about our justice system
22:44
Speaker 1: when a private citizen has to spend his weekends funding
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Speaker 1: sonar searches of freezing quarries just to do the job
22:51
Speaker 1: the state failed to do thirty years ago.
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Speaker 2: It really asks us to consider who truly owns the
22:57
Speaker 2: burden of the truth when the system walks away.
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Speaker 1: Digging, keep questioning the narrative. We'll see you on the
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Speaker 1: next deep dive.