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Episode 14 - The Dick Matrix: Why Women Crave the Full Package (Not Just Size) · The Bull Brotherhood

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He who seeks the approval will lose her respect.
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But when you're out here, when you are commanding
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mastery and speaking with mastery, then you're
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doing what? You're getting what from her. You're
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commanding her desire. She desires you more and
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more. When you speak to a woman or a couple,
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you're not exchanging words. You're exchanging
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power. And the energy is rare within the first
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five seconds of you starting that conversation.
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Always put a woman's needs first, especially
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in the lifestyle. And here's why. Let me tell
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you what it doesn't mean first. It doesn't mean
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put your needs last. Your needs become second.
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But it doesn't mean that she can disrespect you
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if meeting her needs means that. It doesn't mean
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she can neglect your desires and fantasies if...
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Meeting her needs means that. It doesn't mean
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she has the right to be neglectful or not consider
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you and who you are. It doesn't make you lesser
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This is not your average lifestyle podcast. This
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you're not just curious. You're ready to elevate.
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So to all the bulls, hot wives, stags, and open
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-minded explorers, we see you. Let's go. Ladies
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and gentlemen, good evening. Welcome to another
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informative episode of the Bull Brotherhood podcast.
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I'm the Sigma male himself, Brian Morgan, coming
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at you with my lovely family and podcast team,
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the beautiful and seductive Siren. Good evening.
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As well as my perpetual student, nephew himself,
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Socrates. What's good? What's good, y 'all? Take
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it over, brother. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. So we're
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really excited about this episode. I'm very excited
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about this. So if I'm going to open up to our
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listeners a little bit, I have a big dick. Hallelujah.
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Well, let's tell it like it is. Wait, people
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were under the impression that I had married
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you for the money and that you had a micropenis,
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and now you're going to reveal this? Oh, shit.
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Now they know I'm shallow. As did he. I put that
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on my manifestation, though. I'm on big dick.
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Let's just get down to it. Mr. Sigma male isn't
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so bad himself. And the reason why I say it like
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that is because I don't mind admitting that most
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of my life I didn't think that way. And I struggled
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with that for a while. And when I entered into
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the lifestyle, you know, I entered in. with my
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ex and we you know did our thing but i did not
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play solo i didn't play a lot because she wasn't
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comfortable with that which is fine so when i
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got divorced i got into the lifestyle straight
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away as a bull right and when i got online one
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of the first interactions i saw was a lady who
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was like called herself a size queen. So I was
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like, okay, you know, I should be able to fit
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that. And I asked her, well, you know, being
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the student I am, I was asked a lot of questions.
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I'm like, well, you know, what do you consider
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size queen? And, you know, we've asked this question
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a lot with a lot of people on, I think on both
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podcasts. And it's interesting what women say
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when they say they're a size queen. Yeah, it's
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a range. It is a range. I think so far I've heard
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everything from a minimum of six inches to a
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minimum of eight, right? Well, this lady was
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like. No, we've heard higher than that. Oh, okay.
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It's been six to ten has been the minimum. Okay.
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And then one lady said she didn't really care
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about length. It needed to be the girth of a
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Coke can. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Ooh.
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So the lady that. I was talking to online was
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like 11 inches. And I was like, damn. Now, I'm
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not going to give you all my size, but I ain't
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11. I will say, you know, the empirical researcher
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that I am, the national average for men in general
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in America is six and a half inches. No, I'm
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sorry. For white men, five and a half inches
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for white men. For a black man, it's six and
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a half. That's the average. I am well above that.
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However, I did not know that, and nor did I feel,
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had that walk around with that big dick energy
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for a long time. I really didn't. So I had some
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concerns. I had insecurities about it. I didn't
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know, you know, and don't get me wrong, women
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have told me I had a big dick, but I didn't believe
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them, you know. I really didn't. So one time,
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So my ex sat down and she was explicitly explaining
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to me, you know, you don't need to worry about
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that. And I didn't get it. You know, I didn't
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understand it. So she sat down and she wrote
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a matrix for me. And I have been trying to duplicate
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that matrix visually, especially for, you know,
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today's like this episode to be able to put something
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online to show you. And I haven't come up with
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that, but I called it the dick matrix. and that's
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what we're going to talk about today. We're going
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to talk about her perspective, and I've talked
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to many other women who share this perspective,
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and based on the research that I've shared and
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the things that we've learned being in this lifestyle,
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especially from Unk, about what really matters
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for most women, period, and for specifically
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most women in the lifestyle. So we're going to
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get into this today. But for us, we're going
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to move from the dick matrix to what we're calling
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the bull value matrix. So when you get into this
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lifestyle and you are looking at, well, you know,
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what makes a bull? Especially in this lifestyle,
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we are in ethical non -monogamy and we are really
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heavily into interracial. That's a, you know,
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a niche of a niche in this community. So whenever
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you're coming to any kind of event that features
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black men or you're looking for black men, you
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know, almost all of them are at least on their
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top 10 list of things they're looking for is
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size. Right. But that's not all they're looking
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for. Right. They're looking for values and things
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that they can look for, that they can get, that
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they will interact with them. a black man or
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any man that have more value than just dick size
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and penetration. So we're going to talk about
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that today. Before I get started on that, tell
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me what you, like, for your experience in this
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lifestyle, you know, especially in Europe, what's
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the approach or opinion of European women? when
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it comes to dick size and when they're selecting
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for black men, especially? Nephew, European women
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absolutely go gaga over black men. And it starts
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off with, of course, the physical, the physical
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traits. I can, if you were to line up maybe five
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black guys. And they all have different body
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types, you know, from the mesomorphic or muscular
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physique to the slender guy in the now physique,
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but still has some form of muscularity to the
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guy that might be a little bit heavier. Not fat,
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but just a little bit thicker. They go crazy
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over the body. first and foremost the body game
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speaks a lot then they look facial the facial
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recognition and it doesn't matter if you're dark
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skin light skin brown skin caramel whatever um
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that's what attracts them first and then it is
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the whole it comes down to you hear me talk about
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the aura the charisma right um the swag you know
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of black men compared to what you know most other
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races don't have um and then once they get with
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you it you have some that that that will consider
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themselves size queens but here again once you
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put the equation together as that good as that
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good boy that knows how to do everything to a
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woman, not only just physically, but get inside
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her head emotionally and mentally, when you put
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all that together and get with her, she's done.
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I mean, it's, it's nice to stick a fork in it.
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She's done. Okay. So that is the whole, you know,
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that's the whole stigma of, of how they look
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at black men. Yeah. I love it. And that really
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makes sense. Siren. really talks about, and I'll
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let her explain it because I don't want to mess
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this concept up, but she loves, what do you call
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it, the average man? I just call it the average
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dude. Yeah. And so, go ahead. It's such a positive
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thing because my husband first was like, don't
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go around telling guys that you love an average
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dude. But here's what I mean. I mean an average
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dude. The dude that maybe ladies walking down
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the street. is not necessarily going to catch
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their attention physically, okay? He's not a
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bad -looking dude, but he doesn't have, like,
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a six -pack, and he's not 6 '4", and, you know,
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just chiseled features and all these things,
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you know? He's no model, but neither am I, you
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know? But I just find those guys, oh, delightful
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for so many reasons. We're getting ready to go
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to Splash. um, in Fort Lauderdale next week.
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And it seems like there's going to be a lot of
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new faces for us. And my husband said, oh, maybe
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there'll be, you know, all these good looking
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da -da -da -da -da -da, you know, lists off all
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these things. And I said, oh, I hope not. I said,
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I hope there's a whole bunch of average dudes
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because that's what I love. And these guys are
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just They have all these other things going for
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them besides the physical. They know how to talk
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to you. They're a little bit nerdy. So they just
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put in that effort to the experience that I just
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really love and enjoy. So that's my short explanation.
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And that's exactly what I mean by gentlemen who
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bring everything to the table. Don't get me wrong.
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I'm a gym rat. And yes, you know, I try to look
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a certain way, you know, present myself a certain
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way. But here again, if I would show you pictures
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of how I look when I was younger, I look like
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a pencil and you just put my damn head on top
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of a pencil. OK, and I just didn't like looking
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like that. But I had to learn how to how to.
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with the physical, take the genetics that I had
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and create my best body. But then I was taught
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how to, again, by my handler, how to talk to
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a woman, how to approach a woman, just how to
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be myself, my true self around, you know, around
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women and be able to talk about it, about any
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and everything and just treat women the way that
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they want to be treated. I don't care if it's
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a splashy event or if you're going, if you meet
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a woman in the grocery store, you know what I
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mean? If you know how to damn talk and treat
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her the way that she wants to be treated, you're
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going to get the response. You're going to get
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that positive response. And that's what I want
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the bulls to know right now is embrace who you
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are. That's what I'm trying to say. Embrace who
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you are and bring your best version to the table,
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okay? You don't have to look like damn Mr. Olympia.
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and walk around with them six -pack abs and all
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that stuff like that, but love who you are and
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then put together your best package and then
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be confident and present it, you know, and let
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the chips fall where they may. And you'll see
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what I'm talking about. You'll be a successful
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bull. And a successful guy. One of the things
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I love about this podcast, and we're going to
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talk about a keyword that Unk said, the package.
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One of the things I love about this podcast is
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we're talking about skills that anybody can use.
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You could be 100 % vanilla listening to this.
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You don't want anything to do with the lifestyle.
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But the skills we're going to talk about are
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going to help you in dating, help you have a
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lot more confidence in the bedroom, help you
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have a lot more confidence if you're a bull who
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has, you know, on the way to see a hot wife or
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a single female, whatever you're doing. And you're
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concerned because you're new and you're concerned
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about your dick size. You ain't got an 11 -inch
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dick or 12 -inch dick or you ain't got a third
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leg in between your, you know, a third leg, kickstand.
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You know, we're going to have some things for
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you. And the thing we're talking about is the
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package. So let me explain to you what my ex,
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how she explained it. She explained it that a
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dick is a filler. And that filler can bring you
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over the top. It can compensate. Or it can be
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something that takes away. So what she's explaining
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is the same way that Brian is talking about,
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which is what are your looks? How do you present
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yourself? Not looks in what you can't control,
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but, you know, like Anka's saying, are you working
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on your body? Are you presenting yourself? Well,
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we've talked about this in a quality episode.
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Are you... Your breath? Good, right? Did you
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wash your ass? Right? Please wash your ass. All
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of those things, right? Everything. Everything
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that you just said right there, nephew. Everything.
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I didn't mean to interrupt, but keep talking.
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Yeah, no, no, no. And so she also talked about,
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you know, how well you interact with women. Are
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you funny? Are you humorous? Do you have something
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interesting to talk about? Are you... confident
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enough in yourself to let her talk, to be inquisitive,
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right? Do you have a plan in life? Are you going
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somewhere? And she said, look, genuinely, women,
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and, you know, listen, I'd love to hear from
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our listeners, especially you ladies on this.
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We'd love you to hit us up on Instagram or email
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us, thebullbrotherhoodpodcast at gmail .com.
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We'd love to hear your thoughts on this, but
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it's like, When you have an average or smaller
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-sized dick, but you can work it, you know how
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to talk to women to get to that situation. Again,
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you know the experience, right? You know foreplay.
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You know how to approach a woman's body. You
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know how to get her in the mood, keep her in
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the mood. You know those things. We're going
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to go over some of those details. That's the
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full package. And I got some stories. And Siren's
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got some stories. And so... When you come as
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a full package, a lot of, if you don't have,
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if you ain't packing and you have all those other
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skills, then you don't need that size. And the
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reverse is true. Being in this lifestyle, especially
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as, you know, we are in our crazy phase. A friend
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of ours said, you know, we're getting a lot of
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experience. And I have talked to several ladies
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in this lifestyle and vanilla ladies who say,
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look, like there's the guys that do have the
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third leg. And a lot of them, not all, a lot
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of them, not all are just pounded out guys. And
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again, that's not putting them down. Some women
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just want you to come in, you know, beat the
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coins out of them and go about your business.
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I like that sometimes. Yeah. But a lot of women
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eventually say, well, I either move on from that
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or at least I want a lot of other things that
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I can get out of the experience, right? Especially
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a woman who's been in the lifestyle for a long
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time. A lot of those ladies are looking for something
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more than a guy who's packing something and can
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pound it out. Now, you should be able to do all
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of it. But when you are just relying on your
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dick, it is only, even if you're just a pounding
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out guy and you got everything, six pack abs,
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you know, over six feet tall, making six figures
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and your dick is over six and a half inches or
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whatever. And you got all of that. If you don't
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have the personality, the confidence, the looks,
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the how to interact with women, it's only going
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to take you so far. Right. So we're going to
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go over a few of these things. But before we
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do, let's get it. Let's hear some of these stories
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that Siren's talking about, because I know some
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of my favorite stories that she has that I, you
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know, I want to hear some of the experiences
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that she's had that says, yeah, you know, like
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this guy wasn't packing, but he was, you know,
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he did his thing. Well, I'll just give the most
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the most recent is one of my favorite current
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regulars. And, let's say, good -looking guy.
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The first time we kissed, it was amazing. He's
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well -spoken. He's got things going on for him
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in life. But he ain't packing. But, man, he's
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got all the other tricks in the book. He knows
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from the minute he walks in the door, he pulls
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me close immediately and kisses me. And then
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we go out to our hot tub. He pulls me close in
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there, immediately starts rubbing my feet. How's
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your week been going? You know, immediately starts
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engaging in the conversation, listening, letting
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me just ramble on. You know, get all my words
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out because women, we like to talk, right? And
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then lets me do that for a little bit, maybe
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five minutes or so. And then he moves to the
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next step. You know, pulls me in close, starts
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kissing me. He's an amazing kisser. And then
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someone told me the other day, if someone's an
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amazing kisser, they're probably pretty damn
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good at pussy eating too. And I found that to
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be true with this gentleman. So, every step of
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the way, by the time you get to the point where
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the dick comes out, you don't even care. Because
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he's already taken you on this whole journey
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of like feeling good, getting comfortable. And
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before he even brings that out, you know, you've
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probably already had three or four orgasms. So
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that's just one example, you know, and then you
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just forget all about that. You know, so he just
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takes you on this journey from the second he
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walks in the door to the second he leaves. He's
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fun. He's engaging. He's confident. You know,
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if you didn't know, if you didn't see, you would
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think he was packing 10, 12 inches because that's
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how he carries himself. Not in a cocky manner
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at all, but in a very confident, I know what
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I bring to the table in all the areas. You know,
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he'll pick the music. You know, he just, he's
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got it together. He's got his shit together.
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So we like to say. He has learned how to not
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only talk to a woman, but also dominate their
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mind. He also speaks a couple of languages. So
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sometimes he'll just. spit out a couple french
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phrases and i have no idea he could be saying
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you dumb bitch but i have no idea i just it sounds
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romantic because it's in french yeah uh so that's
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that's just one of the more recent ones i'm curious
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to know socrates what some of your favorite ones
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are that you that you wanted did you have a specific
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story that you wanted me to share uh um We might
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have to edit this part. I'm not sure, but the
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three -inch guy that looks like Elmer Fudd. That's
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my favorite one. Oh, that's your favorite one?
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What was that now? That three -inch guy that
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looks like... Well, and that... So early on in
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the lifestyle, even though I pretty much exclusively
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dated black men after I got divorced from my
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first husband, early on in the lifestyle, I was
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kind of just... I was trying out all the flavors
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before... I settled into, really, I'm a queen
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of spades. You know, I just am. So we went to
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a club, and it was New Year's. We were interacting
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with a couple. The wife was what Socrates likes,
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thick, curvy, cute, fun, and they were interested
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in us. both of them and he was just kind of dorky
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looking like we say he looked like Elmer Fudd
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just kind of a pudgy guy uh not attractive I
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was like hey well I'll go back there and kind
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of just see you know I wasn't really I didn't
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really have high expectations but I was like
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you know this couple they keep coming to us they're
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very friendly the vibe seems to be good let's
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try it out It was pretty entertaining, actually,
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because later in the after -action report, Socrates
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said that he didn't really have that much fun
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with the wife, which is kind of an unusual situation,
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because he usually always has fun with the woman,
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and it's usually me that's kind of getting the
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short end of the stick in a full -swap situation.
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But this guy, and he was a little bit girthy,
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not really. He wasn't, I think, I don't know,
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three inches if he was that small. But it was
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pretty small, like four, three, four. And I didn't
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have much hope for what was going to happen when
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I saw it. But that guy pounded the shit out of
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me. And he was just, like, really good at oral
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and all of the other things. And he was just
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smiling at me the whole time. And then his wife
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was cheering him on. And I would say that's definitely...
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One of, one, if not the best experience that
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I have ever had with a white man. And he had,
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he had like nothing, he, but he had all the confidence
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in the world. Like he was, he knew what he was
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doing. He knew how to touch you, where to touch
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you, what to do. And I was screaming my head
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off like siren does. So that's why I say, you
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know, go ahead. May I ask how old was he? Oh,
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they're probably in our, you know, the same,
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like the. 40s, early 40s range. So he probably
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learned at a very early age. He learned at a
26:38
very early age. He accepted the fact that, hey,
26:41
I'm not one of these guys that's got 8, 9, 10
26:44
inches, but I am going to master the other art.
26:49
You know what I mean? I'm going to know how to
26:51
damn do gray oil. I'm going to know how to talk.
26:53
I'm going to know how to touch, caress. And I
26:56
am going to still bring it as if I have eight,
27:00
nine, or ten inches. You know what I mean? Yeah,
27:03
and it was just enthusiastic. Here again. Exactly.
27:07
Confidence, confidence, confidence, men. Okay?
27:10
Don't let things get inside your head. I think
27:13
that's what happens to a lot of our bulls. And
27:18
regardless if it's at Splash or just in life
27:21
in general, you think, hey, I have to be a man
27:26
to be a true bull. I got to be this. My dick's
27:29
got to be this long, and I got to look like this.
27:32
I got to look like that. That's bullshit. You
27:36
shoot that as bullshit. Okay? That is a crock
27:40
of bullshit. You know, this guy right here, look,
27:43
you said, look, wasn't attractive, looked like
27:45
Elmer Fudd, but hey, he got in there and he handled
27:49
his damn business. That's what it's about. That's
27:52
what it's about. You know, this is what I bring
27:53
to the table and damn it, I'm going to bring
27:55
it. Okay? And you're going to have, I'm going
27:59
to make sure that you have a good time. It was
28:01
all about Siren. You know, it was all about Siren.
28:04
It was all about the Siren's pleasure. So, yeah,
28:07
hey, hands off to Elmer Fudd. Well, and, you
28:10
know, a lot of time in a full swap situation,
28:12
we have found where the husband hasn't been able
28:14
to concentrate on me because he's been so distracted
28:18
by what's happening with his wife and Socrates.
28:20
Sure, exactly. He wasn't worried about that.
28:23
No, he was able to look over once in a while,
28:26
smile at his wife, and keep on trucking. So he
28:30
was, you know, they had been in their lifestyle
28:32
for a while. Oh, yeah, and you can tell. Love
28:35
it. So if we ever hear, if these people ever
28:41
hear this episode, I just want to say, it's not
28:43
that the wife was bad or anything. What I realized
28:46
looking back is that I can tell she's been in
28:50
a lifestyle a long time and she had a process.
28:53
Wasn't like she's being manipulative or running
28:55
me through a system or anything, but you can
28:57
tell she had a process. And I saw it and it just
29:02
jolted me because I'm like, I like it. I have
29:05
a process, and that process comes from an authentic
29:08
place, so I'm okay with it. And it's also because
29:11
I'm kind of on the spectrum just a little bit,
29:13
so I need to kind of have those things to keep
29:17
my mind focused. But she was great. It was just
29:22
I could tell she was like, I've been here, done
29:25
that. I'm kind of doing the things that I usually
29:27
do, and I was like that. Getting back to Elmer
29:30
Fudd, what I like about this dude is that he
29:33
was smooth all the way through. And he checked
29:38
in on me, made sure I was good, checked in on
29:41
his wife, made sure that she was good. And the
29:43
guy just knew what he was doing all the way around.
29:46
You know? Ultimate confidence, ultimate aura,
29:49
charisma all the way around. Sound like a great
29:51
couple. Oh, yeah. Sound like great. And I love
29:54
where it sounds like she completely... endorses
30:01
her man. You know what I mean? Stands by her
30:03
man. You know what I'm saying? She wants him
30:05
to have a great time and he wants her to have
30:09
a great time. And when you have that closeness
30:12
like that, just like you two have, when you have
30:15
that closeness like that, then you're going to
30:17
have great, great encounters every damn time.
30:20
Whether it's a full swap same room or if you
30:24
guys had a splash and you're going one way and
30:27
you know... The other's going west while you
30:30
go east. You're going to have great encounters
30:32
every damn time. So, here again, hats off to
30:36
Elmer. Does Elmer Fudd have, like, something
30:42
that he always says? I forgot, yeah. He's always
30:46
has that hat and carrying his gun, though, and,
30:48
oh, wascally wabbits. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, he's
30:51
always hunting. He's hunting. He's hunting. He's
30:54
always hunting wabbits. He's always hunting wabbits.
30:57
He found a rabbit. There you go. There you go.
31:02
There you go. Yeah. He went down the hole and
31:08
found that rabbit for sure. Hey, sounds like
31:12
he went down that rabbit hole and did what he
31:15
was supposed to do. Yeah. That's all to him.
31:18
Because I was not expecting, I had the, just
31:22
my, but I think that was one of the guys that
31:25
helped me see. like even the most you know just
31:30
that guy was probably like you know what you'd
31:33
consider below average on attraction or whatever
31:35
but man just showed me, like, ladies, sometimes
31:41
you pass it over a good thing when you get hung
31:44
up on them having all the sixes, right? Over
31:47
six foot, six figure, six pack, over six inches.
31:50
Sometimes you are missing out on some treasure.
31:53
So at Splash, when there's like average dudes
31:56
are like, oh, I didn't think that you'd even
31:58
talk to me because you're so popular. First of
32:01
all, I don't even consider myself popular, but
32:03
okay. And then they're like... Oh, I didn't know
32:06
that you talked to me. And I said, are you kidding?
32:07
I am on the prowl for the average dude. So please
32:12
come talk to me if that is you. That's my favorite.
32:18
Siren, believe me. Just like the women do their,
32:21
what am I trying to say? When they check everybody
32:28
out, like in the Splash Mocha, I guess it's the
32:31
Splash Mocha. What is where everybody's in there
32:34
and you can kind of like communicate exactly
32:37
in a chat room type thing. They got the guys
32:39
do their research too. Okay. So they, I believe
32:42
me, they know who siren is. They know, they know
32:45
who to fire. I call it the, it's like the high
32:48
school basketball players or football players
32:50
where you have the, the, the three, four and
32:53
five star, you know, all star people. You consider
32:57
that, I guess one of the five star recruits.
32:59
So you might, sometimes I think you may. Yeah,
33:03
sometimes I think you might, you might, you along
33:05
with some other ladies might like, might like
33:07
intimidate some of the guys. Really. And this
33:10
is not a bad thing. And that's what I'm telling
33:15
the guys right now. Don't be intimidated. You
33:18
know what I mean? Walk up to these ladies and
33:20
be the gentleman that you are and introduce yourself
33:22
and go from there. Have that confidence and treat
33:25
them like, just treat them like a lady. Treat
33:28
the ladies like the queens that they are. And
33:32
you'll be surprised what the outcome will be.
33:34
That's a good song for the whispers, y 'all.
33:36
Check it out. Treat her like a lady. That's it.
33:40
That's it. That is it. Part of that equation
33:44
that we were talking about earlier, right? Yeah.
33:46
And wait for us to talk about that episode. And
33:49
hopefully when we hear these podcasts too, guys,
33:51
you know that my husband's not scary either.
33:55
If you just high -five, he'll high -five you
33:57
in the hallway on the way out of our room. after
33:59
you just got done with me. Yeah, I'm just here
34:03
to protect her safety. So, you know, I'm here
34:06
to protect her emotionally, spiritually, financially,
34:08
you know, physically. You know, if you're not
34:11
attacking her, putting her down, doing anything
34:13
negative or wrong or neglectful, disrespectful
34:15
to her, then have a good time. Shit, you know,
34:18
like, I'm here to protect her. You know, so if
34:20
you can harboring her in some way, then, yeah,
34:22
we don't, you know, like Bernie Mac says, it's
34:24
going to be some furniture moving around these
34:26
motherfuckers. As it should be. That is your
34:32
queen. Yeah, that's my queen. That's your queen.
34:34
But besides that. You know what I mean? Yeah.
34:36
And I'm definitely not a lightweight as far as
34:40
like, you know, if I tell my daddy about you
34:43
in a negative way, that means you fucked up because.
34:47
I'm 99 % easy to please, happy. So don't be intimidated.
34:53
But know I'm going to be honest with you. And
34:55
if I'm not interested, I'll just tell you. I'm
34:57
not going to lead you on. And don't worry about
34:59
your dick size. Don't worry about your personality
35:01
and how you work it and, you know, what you're
35:04
doing with it. So we're going to get into a few
35:08
things. I'm really excited, y 'all. Nerd Alert,
35:11
ChatGBT5 came out today, and I'm super excited.
35:15
I won't get into what that means, but all of
35:18
my nerds know what it means. Hey, can I share,
35:21
though? I just looked up how to measure your
35:23
penis. So for those of you that are curious on
35:26
the proper way to measure your penis, I just
35:28
wanted to share the tips. Okay. Oh, just the
35:31
tip? They're just measuring the tip? The tip
35:35
needs to be... Okay, go ahead. It says, if you
35:37
want to measure your penis, the length is measured
35:39
from the top to the tip. From the top down to
35:43
the tip. The top of your penis is where it meets
35:45
your pubic bone. And the tip is the very end
35:49
of the glands, a .k .a. the head. To get the
35:52
most accurate measurement, compress any fat in
35:55
front of your pubic bone. So that's a good tip
35:58
for you full -bodied men, you know, that need
36:00
to get a little out of the way, you know. Also,
36:03
don't include any extra length from your foreskin.
36:05
So bad news for you uncircumcised men. You can't
36:08
use that as an extra measurement. If you want
36:15
to measure girth, measure around the base or
36:18
middle of your shaft. So, you know, you can't
36:22
be wrapping your balls up in there and like,
36:24
you know, thinking that's part of your girth.
36:26
Sorry, fellas. So I just thought that was a fun
36:29
little factoid. So go ahead. And gentlemen, I
36:32
say cheat, cheat, cheat. Measure from the bottom.
36:36
and measure your foreskin, everything. And if
36:40
she calls you on it, be like, hey, I didn't go
36:45
to dick measuring school. I'm just telling you.
36:48
You know what? I don't know if I've really, I've
36:54
asked a guy how tall he is. I don't know if I've
36:56
ever asked a guy. Like, I know we measured yours
37:00
together. you know, because we were curious,
37:03
but I don't think I've ever asked a guy, how
37:06
long is your penis? I don't think I've ever have.
37:10
You can just tell. We can just tell. Yeah, but
37:15
in reality, though, a lot of women, if you took
37:18
a poll, a lot of women, they really do not care.
37:22
They don't. You have some that say, yeah, I'm
37:25
a size queen, and that's all bullshit. I know.
37:29
I've been with women who, yeah, I'm a size queen,
37:32
I'm a size queen, and then when I put this thing
37:34
on, all five years from first to fifth, they
37:39
forgot. They forgot all about that. You know,
37:44
we've joked about how guys talk themselves out
37:47
the pussy. Well, you talk yourself into the pussy.
37:51
That is your skill. I don't know. I saw it for
37:55
a second, you know, and then bloop. Right? It's
37:59
like talk yourself into it, you know? Yeah. I
38:04
have mastered a whole lot of skills in my years
38:12
on this. Believe me. So, you know, to play with
38:15
me, I'm bringing a whole package. I am truly
38:19
bringing a package. All right? We're going to
38:21
go to school. We're going to go from kindergarten
38:23
to goddamn 12th grade. All right? So... Let's
38:27
do it. You know. I'm ready. Oh, boy. Oh, boy.
38:34
I looked up some stuff on chat, and I really
38:37
want to read this because I was really thinking
38:40
about the anatomy of the pussy. and there's a
38:45
lot that comes out, but I'm only going to read
38:47
a few excerpts. Comes out. I am holding back.
38:51
No, this is where you're supposed to not hold
38:53
back. He has said like 10 things already where
38:57
I was like snickering. No, see, that's where
38:59
you got to get it straight because, listen, y
39:02
'all, the reason why we have Siren on this podcast,
39:08
she has her own, check it out, the Siren of Freedom
39:11
podcast. And the reason why we're leaning heavily
39:15
into this woman being in this industry is because
39:18
she will not fucking shut up about sex. All the
39:23
damn time. And I had to cut her out sometimes.
39:27
Like, look, when we talk in business, can you
39:29
not bring up sex? But I make the construction
39:32
workers blush. Yeah, but see, the whole thing
39:36
is a time and a place. I want you to go wild
39:39
here. not when we're trying to talk about marketing
39:43
strategies for our businesses that have nothing
39:45
to do with sex. That's all I was saying. Okay,
39:48
so a woman's... I'm going to read this. Go ahead,
39:53
Unc. No, I was about to say, I know what you're
39:56
talking about, nephew, because I got one down
39:58
in Jacksonville, North Carolina, that I swear
40:00
to God, I thought I was bad, bro. Her and I are
40:05
two people. Two peas in a pod. She's just the
40:08
red -headed person. You've never got a twin,
40:09
but I'm trying to tell you, she cannot. She is.
40:14
I don't know what to say about it sometimes.
40:16
I'm just like, sweetie, I just want to put you
40:19
in a damn box or something and damn close it
40:22
up. Like, you can't stop. I mean, she cannot
40:26
stop. She can't stop talking about it. Dude,
40:30
we can lay in the bed. We are asleep, okay? And
40:35
all of a sudden, I hear something over there.
40:37
And she's playing with her damn... I'm like,
40:40
God damn, sweetie. You know, can't you... In
40:43
our sleep? Yes, in her sleep. I do that. I rub
40:48
your balls, and then I'm like, sleep. Lord, man.
40:54
I'm telling you, brother. I'm telling you, so
40:56
I know what you're going through. You poor guys.
41:00
Look, I'm playing on here to our listeners because
41:04
nobody fucking cares. Even my boys who have none
41:09
of my squad have a problem with poonanny, with
41:12
sex, with attracting women, with pleasing women.
41:15
None of them. They are top notch. Even my boys
41:18
is like. Bro, if you don't shut up, we ain't
41:20
trying to hear that. We ain't trying to. I'm
41:25
like, it's too much, y 'all. Brother, sit down.
41:28
So I like this little excerpt here. So Chad GBT
41:32
says, a woman's vaginal canal does not shrink
41:34
or mold itself permanently to one's particular
41:37
penis size, but it does respond dynamically in
41:42
the moment to arousal, emotional comfort, and
41:46
pelvic floor muscle tone. which makes it feel,
41:50
and this is the key word, custom fit to a particular
41:54
person. But that's due to muscle control, elasticity,
41:58
not anatomical shrinking. So I wanted to hit,
42:04
it goes into this really deep explanation, but
42:08
I wanted to hit something that's called sensory
42:11
feedback loop. So this is the, for all of my
42:14
nerds, it's the scientific. An anatomical response
42:18
to some of the things we're going to talk to
42:22
you about doing and being that is going to get
42:28
you to the point where whatever size. Now, if
42:31
you call yourself a bull, you know, a micro penis,
42:33
we can't help you. Anybody's average or above,
42:39
this is for you. They're confused now because
42:42
the siren of freedom, you said you had a micropenis
42:45
and now you're telling everyone you have a big
42:46
dick. So I guess ladies. The ladies are going
42:49
to have to find out for themselves. Figure that
42:52
out. Just email me and I'll send you a picture.
42:59
Send it in three parts so it can still look like
43:02
a micropenis. Like this is the first. Third,
43:06
right? And then, no, anyway. Back to the sensory
43:10
feedback loop stuff. So nerve endings in the
43:15
vaginal walls, cervix, and pelvic floor send
43:17
feedback to the brain about stretch, pressure,
43:20
and movement. With a regular partner, right?
43:24
And this is some of you bulls who have regular
43:26
play partners, or you have... You know, regular
43:29
unicorns that you play or your wife or, you know,
43:32
some guys like me are marables, whoever you're
43:34
regular with. And I think you can hack this,
43:37
too, but we won't get into that one today. With
43:39
a regular partner, her brain learns their thrust
43:43
rhythm, girth and curvature and unconsciously
43:48
adapts muscle engagement to amplify pressure,
43:51
pleasurable contact points. Think of it like
43:55
I love this part. Think of it like dancing with
43:58
someone, you know, well, your bodies remember
44:00
each other's timing. So this is what I'm saying.
44:05
I love that. This is what I'm saying here. What
44:07
I'm telling you, gentlemen, is that if you have
44:11
game and what I call game is not being deceitful
44:14
or lying. Game is the ability to speak to a woman
44:17
in her language from a masculine perspective.
44:20
OK, and when you have a. uh sex appeal and that's
44:25
not about being the hottest guy in the room sex
44:28
appeal is about being able to present yourself
44:31
to a woman in a way that makes her feel like
44:34
you're sexy and makes her feel like you know
44:36
what you're doing in the bedroom and when you
44:39
have all the understandings of how to interact
44:43
with that woman this is my claim her body will
44:48
respond and meet your dick where it's at. I'm
44:53
being serious. Her body will respond and meet
44:57
your dick where it's at. Now, some of these,
45:02
I've seen it on the bigger side, but then I was
45:04
really researching it because I've seen women
45:06
who are like, oh, I don't, you know, the guy
45:08
pulls his dick out and they're like, what you
45:10
doing with that? That, you know, that's too big.
45:12
This and that. And then most of the women are.
45:15
are like, well, I ain't no quitter. Let's see
45:17
what we can do, you know? And the body responds,
45:24
right? That was like me with the guy at the last
45:27
splash. Man. This is on the opposite end of the
45:33
spectrum, but along those lines, it's like, this
45:36
guy, it's Saturday night. We've been flirting
45:39
all week. We finally, our timing works out. And
45:42
I said, I'm yelling at him. Mr. Mocha hooked
45:45
me up. Mr. Mocha was my wingman on this. And
45:47
he he points up at the guys trying to get my
45:50
attention. And I yell out my room number. A bunch
45:53
of other guys are, you know, pretending to write
45:55
it down. I was like, no, no, just him. So we
46:00
go to the room and, you know, we do the thing
46:03
with kissing, you know, start taking our clothes
46:07
off. Well, I turn around because I try to, you
46:09
know, be kind of cute and show off my butt. And
46:12
I turn around, this man, I would not be surprised
46:16
if he told me it was 14 inches. And bigger than
46:21
a Coke can around. Much bigger. And I said, what
46:26
the fuck? And then the guy's name. And then I
46:31
said, it's Saturday night. What? do you think
46:35
i'm gonna do with that on a saturday night after
46:37
i've been getting fuck senseless all week i opened
46:41
the door and i said get the fuck out get the
46:44
fuck out and he looks at me all wide -eyed and
46:47
then i just laughed you know and shut the door
46:48
and then i was just like i don't know what i'm
46:52
gonna do what i'm gonna do and i just start circling
46:54
the bed and and then i just start being funny
46:57
you know i'm like she circles the bread bed eyeing
47:01
her prey you know And, you know, and then I got
47:05
up. It's like my favorite story from that splash.
47:07
I told all my vanilla girlfriends. They laughed
47:09
and laughed. And then I got up on the bed, and
47:13
we put some lube on that sucker. I mean, this
47:15
guy has, like, custom -made condoms from Australia.
47:18
They have fucking pole tabs on them. Like, I
47:22
said, why don't you just call Hefty up? Send
47:24
them some dick pics. They'll make you some condoms.
47:28
Hefty really does need to get into the Splashmo
47:30
casino and start making some condoms. Anyways,
47:34
so I just like lower myself down on it. And then
47:37
I'm like taking lots of breathing, you know,
47:40
deep breaths. And I finally get like kind of
47:44
comfortable. And then all of a sudden something
47:46
inside me just got hit just right. And he wasn't
47:49
even doing anything yet. And then I just got
47:52
this huge surge of adrenaline. And that's what
47:55
you're talking about, right? The memo to the
47:58
brain. Okay, girl. And I grabbed his shoulders
48:02
and I said, are you ready? And he was like, gentlemen,
48:06
start your engines type voice. And he just looked
48:09
at me just frightened. And then I just jackhammered
48:12
the shit out of that dick and squirted all over
48:15
him, all over the bed. It was flying everywhere.
48:19
And I was amazed at myself on that one. And that
48:23
is a prime example of what you're talking about,
48:26
how my body and my brain just responded. And
48:29
when I looked at that, I was like, there's no
48:31
way. There's no way. It works both ways. If the
48:34
woman is attracted to you and you know what you're
48:36
doing and you approach it the right way, the
48:39
body lubricates. It expands because the vaginal
48:43
walls are very, very elastic. And it'll say,
48:48
you know, it'll say, hold my beer. Let's see
48:50
what we can do. Yeah, and it didn't ruin me for
48:52
the next guy who was much, much, much, you know,
48:56
different. But it starts, though, with him being
49:01
able to read, to read you, being able to understand
49:05
and recognize what you're looking for, and then
49:08
act accordingly. Okay? And like I said, it started
49:12
with the communication first. You know what I'm
49:15
saying? Yeah, oh, I had no idea. Guys, let me
49:17
tell you. I had no idea. I've never guessed that
49:20
that was going on because of the way he treated
49:23
himself. Yep, there you go. There you go. Gentlemen,
49:28
listening right now, listen to what I'm about
49:31
to tell you. When you speak to a woman or a couple,
49:34
you're not exchanging words, you're exchanging
49:37
power. Okay? I'm going to say it again. When
49:41
you speak to a woman or a couple, you're not
49:44
exchanging words. You're exchanging power. And
49:47
the energy is red within the first five seconds
49:49
of you starting that conversation. I'm going
49:52
to say that again. Energy is red within the first
49:55
five seconds you're starting that conversation.
49:58
Okay? Because she can feel if you're nervous,
50:01
she's going to see it. If you're anxious, she's
50:02
going to feel it. If you're trying to impress,
50:04
she's going to know it. All right? Period. Facts.
50:10
Right there. That is facts. So, I mean. Yeah,
50:18
Socrates' jaw just dropped open when you said
50:21
that. Yeah, I wrote that shit down. I wrote that
50:24
shit down. It's going in my bull. journal right
50:30
now. I'll send it to you. I'll be able to remember
50:35
it. I didn't write it down, but I'll be able
50:36
to remember it and I'll send it to you. But that
50:38
is facts what I just spoke right there. That
50:41
is facts. Yeah. So we're coming up on time. Let's
50:47
go over a few things that we can specifically
50:49
talk about that will get you there. I had kind
51:01
of went over these things with Unk and we had
51:04
talked a lot about it and I sent it to him. So
51:08
I just want to go over a few of those excerpts
51:09
on, you know, what we came up with. And this
51:13
is what we're talking about, that package being
51:15
the complete package. Right. And taking advantage
51:19
of the bull value matrix, which is one skill
51:25
based traits. Right. So we've talked a lot about
51:30
these before. I'm just going to go down the line.
51:31
There are nine basic things we're talking about
51:33
here. One, physical appearance. Right. We've
51:36
talked about that. Your looks, your hygiene,
51:38
your fitness, how you present yourself. That
51:40
matters. This is all before you pull your dick
51:43
out. Right. Emotional presence. Right. Attuned,
51:47
not needy. Right. So you are being you're you're
51:53
watching her body language. Right. You're watching
51:56
how she talks to you, how she responds. A lot
51:59
of guys I've seen, not just a splash mocha, but
52:02
all kind of events. We've gone to clubs. We go
52:04
to local events. We go to house parties. We throw
52:07
parties. And I watch the way men interact, especially
52:10
at my parties. I like to watch the way men approach
52:14
women, talk to them, get them interested. And
52:18
a lot of it is about eye contact, being focused,
52:22
making her feel like she's the only one in the
52:24
room. Right? Read the room. Reading the room.
52:28
Read the room first. I don't mean to cut you
52:30
off, but read the room first. Read it first.
52:34
And then act on what you see. I love that. Yep.
52:39
Third thing, romantic energy. Right now, in the
52:42
lifestyle, if you're a bull and you might be
52:46
saying, I ain't trying to do no romantic stuff.
52:47
This ain't poly. Well, you know, again, our poly
52:50
people, you know, these will help you. What we
52:54
mean by that is sensuality and intimacy. See,
52:57
even for those pounded out guys, there's time
53:01
and a place for be sensual, to take your time,
53:04
to create ambiance. Like, you know, I know a
53:08
lot of guys, a lot of single men, who they almost
53:12
give a massage every single time they play. Set
53:16
the mood, you know, candles. They're making it
53:20
clear to these women, look, I ain't marrying
53:22
you at the end of this. Now I'm sending you back
53:24
to your husband or back home to your kids or
53:26
whatever you're doing. But you won't forget me.
53:28
But you won't forget me. Right. Number four,
53:31
humor and wit. This is where I struggle, and
53:35
I've gotten a lot better. But listen, again,
53:39
I listen to a lot of red pill content. which
53:43
is just kind of the more Andrew Tate's. I don't
53:46
agree on a lot of it, but I listen to a lot of
53:48
that stuff because they have a lot of advice
53:49
on how to approach women. On our podcast, one
53:54
of the books we talk about is The Way of the
53:56
Superior Man. And he talks about being able to
54:00
banter, have charm, and have timing. That's what
54:03
humor is about. And every single dating coach,
54:08
woman's coach... You know pick up artist man
54:12
is fear Feminine it doesn't matter who they are.
54:16
They'll tell you a man that can make a woman
54:19
laugh is gonna get him them draws period point
54:22
-blank Right, that's how Homer Foote got me right
54:27
Oral mastery right Enthusiasm and technique right
54:36
um me I like to start off Eating pussy. It's
54:42
a turn -on for me. It definitely gets the woman
54:46
in the mood. It's teasing. It's getting those
54:50
vaginal walls to loosen up, to lubricate, to
54:54
get going, right? And I think there was a recent
54:57
study that showed that almost 70 % of women,
54:59
and I think this is a terrible number. I think
55:02
it's not where it should be. I think it's because
55:03
there is an epidemic of men not knowing what
55:07
to do with women anymore. 70 % of women prefer
55:11
orgasms through the clitoris or clitoral orgasms
55:17
because I just think men don't know what they're
55:19
doing with the dicks. But use your mouth game,
55:22
brothers. Six, consideration and aftercare, right?
55:28
Now, you might be saying, well, that's after
55:30
the fact, right? But if she's thinking about
55:34
you and you got an average dick. And now you've
55:37
approached her correctly. You've spoken to her
55:39
correctly. You've used the right amount of intimacy,
55:42
humor. You've used the right amount of foreplay
55:47
all the way up to oral. And you've done the deed.
55:51
You've done what you needed to do. You've delivered.
55:54
And after that, you were considerate of her time
55:57
or what her mental state was. And you took care
56:00
of her work. I'm telling you, she's going to
56:02
want to come back for more. Do you know what
56:06
aftercare is for me after we've had some great
56:11
sex and I know that she's come, you know, multiple
56:15
times and stuff. And I, hell, regardless if I
56:19
have come or not, but the fact that I might still
56:22
be laying there with her, I may be inside of
56:26
her or not, but I'm caressing her. I'm holding
56:29
her. I'm kissing her. I'm looking at her. We're
56:32
still having conversation, you know. Like I said,
56:36
I might still be inside of her, laying on top
56:38
of her, but we're still looking at each other,
56:40
talking, kissing, caressing. It's like having
56:46
a great workout, and then you get your cool -down
56:50
period for about 10 minutes before the workout
56:55
is over. So that's how I see it. Nice. That will
56:59
make her definitely want to, once you give her
57:04
back to the husband, and, well, he reclaims her,
57:07
what's my saying? I might not be on your bones,
57:11
but I'm on your mind. So that's how you do that
57:15
to me. That's the aftercare. That's what I do.
57:18
Right. And I think that's important because unless
57:21
you've planned a quickie experience, like I know
57:24
at the last splash. you know, Socrates and I
57:28
have a certain process in the evenings. Well,
57:30
he really wanted to play with this lady. And
57:32
I said, all right, you got 30 minutes. And they
57:36
ran up and did the thing, ran back down. And
57:39
so unless you have something planned like that,
57:42
you know, where you're like, hey, we're just
57:43
going to have a quick experience. I think that,
57:46
you know, no woman likes you to just hop off
57:50
of her and throw your clothes on and run out
57:52
the door. even at splash you know that's it's
57:56
nice yeah and like you know and just talk about
58:00
whatever just kind of ease out like you said
58:02
that cool down period um and that's you know
58:05
what in the long run helps me become friends
58:07
with guys that i've played with is the conversation
58:11
surrounding it so it's a little it's a little
58:13
joke that most of the guys i've played with more
58:15
than once know that i say i gotta fuck you three
58:18
times before I can see if I'm going to be your
58:21
friend. But all of that is part of it is just
58:24
seeing if I enjoy that whole process with you
58:27
because that's what will build a friendship for
58:29
later is not just that time but taking the time
58:33
to do all those steps. So I appreciate that.
58:36
I love it. I love it. So we're going to move
58:38
on to some of the things that our vanilla listeners
58:41
out there can benefit from. So if you're working
58:45
on a permanent relationship or long -term, Some
58:48
of the other considerations. And this one I think
58:51
is really interesting because I heard somebody
58:54
say, you know, I also follow a lot of, you know,
58:57
self -help guys or people that help you try to
59:00
make your money and step up your financial game
59:03
or your business game. And this one guy said,
59:06
you know, when you're wealthy, you don't have
59:09
to try as hard. I mean, look, I don't condone.
59:16
Go -diggers or people who build relationships
59:20
only are transactional. I don't put you down.
59:23
I got no disrespect to any of those. I truly
59:26
believe in being principle -centered and having
59:31
vision and purpose and being in love, having
59:36
life goals that are not just compatible about
59:40
your music or your food taste, but your values
59:42
and your decision -making. When it comes to financial
59:47
stability and in financial and environmental
59:50
stability it affects a woman there's a thing
59:53
called hypergamy and Those who listen to the
59:56
manosphere know that we're very well and high
59:58
permanent for hypergamy is what's called an evolutionary
1:00:01
Psychologist term it means that women marry or
1:00:06
have in serious relationships her Equal like
1:00:11
people on their same equal level or above Right.
1:00:14
Even to this day with independent women to make
1:00:17
more money, they're still looking for men who
1:00:20
at least match their energy financially or make
1:00:23
more than them. That's just a fact. Now, that's
1:00:25
a fact for the population level. That's not every
1:00:28
single woman. Right. When I don't mind saying,
1:00:31
you know, my wife doesn't like telling a lot
1:00:33
of people, but I was broke as schmuck when she
1:00:35
met me. Because it doesn't matter to me, but
1:00:37
I appreciate you. And. She knew I had hustle.
1:00:42
She knew I had my own place. I had my own cars.
1:00:44
I paid my own bills. But I didn't have a lot
1:00:47
of extra money. But she saw my earning potential,
1:00:50
right? As a pre -gold digger. As a pre -gold
1:00:54
digger, right? I had my own gold, but I was like,
1:00:58
this guy can get some gold too. I see it. So
1:01:02
financial or environmental stability is very
1:01:05
important. It says to a woman, I don't have to
1:01:08
worry about bills all the time. If a woman's
1:01:09
going to bed, worrying about bills or worrying
1:01:11
about your end of it, that affects her emotional
1:01:15
state of being, which is going to affect her
1:01:17
vaginal state of being. Yeah, for real. Right.
1:01:24
Sensitivity without weakness. Right. Be be sensitive.
1:01:29
I like it like it's like for my Star Trek people
1:01:34
out there. You have sensors, right? You have
1:01:38
things that are reading the next ship. And how
1:01:43
well you attune those sensors tells you all the
1:01:47
details you're going to know, the more details
1:01:49
you're going to know about that ship. Are there
1:01:52
weapons powering up? Is there shield powering
1:01:57
up? Oh, shoot, these guys are about to attack.
1:01:59
Are there weapons down? Are there shields not
1:02:02
powered up? Or is there hyperdrive powered up?
1:02:06
Oh, these guys about to run. Right. Being sensitive
1:02:09
doesn't mean being emotionally weak. It means
1:02:12
attuned to her needs. Right. And then the last
1:02:17
one is orgasm giving potential. Right. Do you
1:02:21
have the ability? And I'm going to put this out
1:02:24
there. And I know some of my brothers in the
1:02:27
squad and the brotherhood disagree with me on
1:02:29
this. But this is my position. Always put a woman's
1:02:33
needs first. especially in the lifestyle. And
1:02:37
here's why. Let me tell you what it doesn't mean
1:02:39
first. It doesn't mean put your needs last. Your
1:02:42
needs should come second. But it doesn't mean
1:02:45
that she can disrespect you if meeting her needs
1:02:48
means that. It doesn't mean she can neglect your
1:02:51
desires and fantasies if meeting her needs means
1:02:55
that. It doesn't mean she has the right to be
1:02:57
neglectful or not consider you and who you are.
1:03:01
It doesn't make you lesser of a person. But what
1:03:03
it does do... Is it says, you know what? I'm
1:03:07
here to please you. And the way women operate
1:03:11
is that response when they can feel that you
1:03:14
are well put together, that all of your basic
1:03:18
fundamental needs are met. You don't need her.
1:03:21
You're not. You want her. You want her in her
1:03:24
life. You don't need her sexually because you
1:03:26
have the ability to get sex however way you want.
1:03:30
Or, you know, eventually get the kind of women
1:03:33
you want. When you walk in there and you're not
1:03:35
needy and you put her first, her desires first,
1:03:39
her pleasure first, right? Knowing, especially
1:03:42
me, I practice seed retention and I'm not going
1:03:45
to, I don't, I don't really like having orgasms
1:03:49
or coming with other women besides my wife. You
1:03:52
know, if you can get it, you can get it. But
1:03:54
I do that because I want to put her needs first.
1:03:56
And what I've experienced is that women go crazy
1:04:00
because once they know. He's going to make sure
1:04:02
that I'm well taken care of by the way he talks
1:04:05
to me, by his foreplay, by how he takes care
1:04:09
of me during the play period or for vanilla friends,
1:04:14
you know, while you're having sex or making love
1:04:16
to your wife or whoever you're with. And like
1:04:18
Mr. Morgan said, you know, that aftercare, the
1:04:23
taking the time, the, you know, cool down period.
1:04:28
When you have that process down. they explode
1:04:32
and they want to make you feel good. It's the
1:04:38
same principle as, you know, the old saying,
1:04:40
you give a woman a house and she gives you a
1:04:43
home, right? When you make sure that she has
1:04:46
a place that she feels comfortable, well taken
1:04:48
care of, protected, then she is ready to just
1:04:52
give you whatever the fuck you want. And what
1:04:55
I learned about in this lifestyle is women are
1:04:57
freakier than men. Period, point blank, end of
1:05:01
story, read you a damn sex novel. Let me say
1:05:06
this, though, nephew. Let me say this, nephew,
1:05:09
and to all the bulls out there listening, I agree
1:05:12
with you. I do agree with you. But at the same
1:05:14
time, though, bulls and nephew, we're not seeking
1:05:17
approval. Right, right, right, right, right.
1:05:20
We're not seeking approval because he who seeks
1:05:23
the approval, you lose her respect. I'm going
1:05:28
to say that again. He who seeks the approval
1:05:30
will lose her respect. But when you're out here,
1:05:33
when you are commanding mastery and speaking
1:05:38
with mastery, then you're doing what? You're
1:05:44
getting what from her. You're commanding her
1:05:45
desire. She desires you more and more. Okay,
1:05:51
so if you're seeking approval, you're going to
1:05:52
lose respect. But if you're speaking and you're
1:05:55
dominating with mastery. You got to command her
1:05:57
desire. Period. I'm done. That was the mic drop
1:06:02
right there. When he's going to leave, I was
1:06:05
like, what else am I going to say? Cue the music.
1:06:08
Cue the music. So, yeah, I mean, to close this
1:06:14
out, like, one of the reasons why I was so excited
1:06:19
about doing podcasts and I've been excited about
1:06:21
podcasting is because I fumbled through this.
1:06:25
lifestyle you know i started when podcasts first
1:06:29
started coming out eight nine years ago i started
1:06:32
when people first started talking about this
1:06:34
openly and even then people were losing their
1:06:36
jobs and you know getting canceled and all that
1:06:39
kind of stuff but i approach everything with
1:06:42
a mastery mindset i'm going to study and research
1:06:46
that's why i'm the perpetual student i'm going
1:06:48
to uh and i'm going to have a set time where
1:06:52
i'm going to study so i don't um You know, as
1:06:55
they say, when you when you play in dominoes,
1:06:57
study long, study wrong. Right. Like, but I'm
1:07:00
going to research. I'm going to ask questions.
1:07:03
I'm going to look into certain things. I'm going
1:07:06
to talk to people and then I'm going to try and
1:07:08
then I'm going to try. I'm going to go for trial
1:07:10
and error because I've started off with some
1:07:13
of the fundamentals. And that's what we're trying
1:07:15
to give you guys. Right. And even for the ladies
1:07:18
and the vanilla people, we want everybody. Their
1:07:22
sex life to improve we want everybody to have
1:07:24
better sex lives a better interpersonal relationships
1:07:26
and these are some of the skills that You know
1:07:31
the Sigma male has been perfecting for over 30
1:07:34
years Right and there's small cultural differences
1:07:38
in Europe But women are women and he's also came
1:07:42
here and I've seen him work his magic on American
1:07:45
women women are women You know so I just want
1:07:51
to encourage you guys to hit us up, man. We're
1:07:53
on Instagram. We're on Telegram. We're on, you
1:07:56
know, we will be on TikTok and other things.
1:07:59
Talk to us. But we want to be your, you know,
1:08:04
go -to people where you want to find wisdom and
1:08:07
skill sets and direction. That's what we're trying
1:08:09
to do here. So hopefully this, you know, was
1:08:14
of value to you guys. And, you know, you guys
1:08:17
can. Utilize this, and women and other couples
1:08:21
can look for these things in other bulls and
1:08:23
single men and manicorns and things of that nature
1:08:26
and know what you're looking for. So, Unc, did
1:08:28
you want to close it out with anything else?
1:08:31
Brother, I have nothing else to say. You and
1:08:33
Siren have done an absolutely wonderful job tonight.
1:08:38
And I'd just like to tell the listeners out there,
1:08:41
this is all facts. This was coming from the perpetual
1:08:45
student, Socrates, and, of course, his lovely
1:08:48
wife, the beautiful Siren. And this is the Sigma
1:08:51
male himself, Brian Morgan, telling you guys,
1:08:54
until next time, we wish you a good night. And
1:08:58
as usual, to all my brothers of the brotherhood
1:09:00
out there, I wish you guys a good night. And
1:09:03
to all my sexy hot wives and unicorns as well,
1:09:07
good morning. Until we meet again, y 'all, and
1:09:11
speak again. Keep it sexy. Sigma out.