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Sheree Whitfield and Martell Holt Dating? PLUS a chat with LAMDC’s Ashley Silva · Reality with The King

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  Speaker 1: We must talk about Martel Holt from Love and Marriage
• 0:05
  Speaker 1: Huntsville Dating Charae Bone Collector with Field.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Carlos, I have to I have questions, but
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  Speaker 2: the girls want to know, like starting out, did you
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  Speaker 2: hook them up?
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  Speaker 3: The answer is stay tuned.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we have to get into the Charae and
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  Speaker 1: Martel T baby right after.
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  Speaker 3: It's a quick break.
• 0:36
  Speaker 1: Welcome to Reality with the King. It's me Carlos King,
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  Speaker 1: the King of Reality TV and one of the most
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  Speaker 1: sought after executive producers in reality television with over ten
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  Speaker 1: years of production experience. Twice a week on Reality with the.
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  Speaker 4: King, we'll sit down with my friends across the entertainment industry,
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  Speaker 4: recap our favorite reality shows and revisit unforgettable moments that
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  Speaker 4: we are still.
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  Speaker 1: Talking and tweeting about.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, rain drops.
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  Speaker 1: So today's episode is dedicated to the Love and Marriage franchise, right,
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  Speaker 1: So later on I'm going to give you guys an
• 1:20
  Speaker 1: exclusive interview that I had with Ashley Silva from Love
• 1:25
  Speaker 1: and Marriage DC where we are going to recap the
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  Speaker 1: Part one reunion and just her place on reality television,
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  Speaker 1: where she opens up about being cast three times on
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  Speaker 1: the Real House Spots of Potomac, but they turn her
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  Speaker 1: down because she only had one bins.
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  Speaker 3: But before we get.
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  Speaker 1: Into all of that, we must talk about Martel Holt
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  Speaker 1: from Love and Marriage Huntsville dating Charae Bone collector Whitfield.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Carlos, I have to I have questions. All
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  Speaker 2: of your fans, all of your listeners, all the rain drops,
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  Speaker 2: we have so many questions.
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  Speaker 5: I hate to just like jump in like.
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  Speaker 1: This, that's okay, they know you, jazzmin.
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  Speaker 2: But the girls want to know, like starting out, did
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  Speaker 2: you hook them up?
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  Speaker 5: Because that's been a question.
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  Speaker 2: Where everybody's list So please let us know. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I feel so bad for just jumping in, but did
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  Speaker 2: you hook them up?
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  Speaker 5: Because we have to know.
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  Speaker 1: So for my listener, she needs no introduction. This is
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  Speaker 1: my executive producer, Jasmine hilly Brown, who is asking if
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  Speaker 1: I hooked up Charae and Martel.
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  Speaker 3: The answer is no, I did.
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  Speaker 1: Not hook them up. We'rech is shocking, and I promise
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  Speaker 1: you listen, y'all know me. I don't mind taking credit
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  Speaker 1: for things that are iconic.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I had no idea.
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  Speaker 1: Martel and Charay were dating until six weeks ago.
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  Speaker 5: So neither of them told you.
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  Speaker 1: Let's just say this, please say.
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  Speaker 6: So.
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  Speaker 3: The world found.
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  Speaker 1: Out this week where Charay confirmed that she is, you know,
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  Speaker 1: hanging out with Martel, seeing him, dating him, whatever the
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  Speaker 1: case may be. I found out six weeks ago before
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  Speaker 1: you guys, because I was told by a mutual friend.
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  Speaker 1: I am not the mutual friend Charae with Phil Speaks,
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  Speaker 1: by the way, but I was told through somebody who
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  Speaker 1: knows Charae and Martel that they were seeing each other.
• 3:34
  Speaker 1: And I was in my drop top s and my
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  Speaker 1: Usher Raven boys, okay, cruising the streets. I was going
• 3:44
  Speaker 1: to the airport. I literally had to pull over because
• 3:48
  Speaker 1: your boy was gagging, and I really thought, like, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: it's a publicity stunt. This isn't real. They're trying to
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  Speaker 1: have a conversation. Right fast forward to two weeks after that.
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  Speaker 1: My listeners and the Love and Marriage Unskill fans know this.
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  Speaker 1: I have a great relationship with all my cast but
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  Speaker 1: when it comes to Martel, whenever I call him, he
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  Speaker 1: gets nervous. That means he's always in trouble. So I
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  Speaker 1: called Martel two weeks after I learned that he may
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  Speaker 1: be seeing chara but I was calling him about something
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  Speaker 1: unrelated and yes, guys, he was in trouble. So Martel
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  Speaker 1: answers the phone. Hi, Carlos, I said, Hey, Martel, he said,
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  Speaker 1: before you yell at me because you only call me
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  Speaker 1: when I'm in trouble. Somebody wants to say hi to you,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like who, and I hear hello, I said,
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  Speaker 1: Charae's that you?
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  Speaker 3: Hey, Carlos.
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  Speaker 2: So they were riding around as a couple. Okay, wait, wait,
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  Speaker 2: was the mutual friend that told you? Was it mel
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  Speaker 2: Was that the friend that told you mel? Who Melody?
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  Speaker 5: Chari? Is that who told you they were dating? Did
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  Speaker 5: she find out?
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  Speaker 3: That's a very good question.
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  Speaker 1: So no, I did not learn from Melody Cherie. I
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  Speaker 1: would tell you I did not know from her. I
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  Speaker 1: knew from somebody else. But when she said hello, I
• 5:09
  Speaker 1: was like wait and he said no, she's on the
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  Speaker 1: other line. I just conferenced her in because you called me,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, what are y'all doing? And they
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  Speaker 1: both started laughing, and then I was like, Chari, I
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  Speaker 1: will call you later. I have to cuss off Martell
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  Speaker 1: about something unrelated to this scoop that just fell into
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  Speaker 1: my lap. And that's how I learned that Martell and
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  Speaker 1: Shari were seeing each other.
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  Speaker 5: But okay, so how does Mel feel? Does Mel know?
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  Speaker 1: Obviously Mel knows now, So one thing about my relationship
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  Speaker 1: with my cast I don't spread their business, Like it's
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  Speaker 1: not my job to spread business that you talk to
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  Speaker 1: me personally about. I'm not that guy. So I never
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  Speaker 1: told anybody. I didn't tell nobody in my close friends.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't tell you. Jazz, me and me and you
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  Speaker 1: talk all the time since.
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  Speaker 2: I know about that, But it's okay, it's all right.
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  Speaker 5: I'll forgive you at some point.
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  Speaker 1: But it goes to show you I'm a good friend.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna spread your teeth. Y'all call me messy
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  Speaker 1: all the time. I'm not messy like I think I am.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't tell anybody, so Melody, I'm just going to
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  Speaker 1: assume you know what exclusive for you. Martel dating Charae
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  Speaker 1: is being discussed on this season eleven marriage Huntsville, which
• 6:25
  Speaker 1: comes back in September, not spring summer, but the real September.
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  Speaker 2: That was gonna be my question because I'm like, we
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  Speaker 2: have to see this play out on the show. I
• 6:34
  Speaker 2: need the reaction from mil I need the reaction from
• 6:37
  Speaker 2: the rest of the cast. I need the reaction from
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  Speaker 2: Coast Law, like when she make an appearance, I need
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  Speaker 2: to know how she feels because she did all that
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  Speaker 2: only to not get the man for him to move
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  Speaker 2: on with a real housewife of Atlanta. So I want
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  Speaker 2: to know how Arian feels, and I know other people
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  Speaker 2: do too.
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  Speaker 1: If that's Coast Law, it's Charae Cabbage.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, Charae the way be looking, how good she looks.
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  Speaker 2: She is all of his desert. She is the relvel
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  Speaker 2: red velvet cake, the peach cobbler. Honey, she is the
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  Speaker 2: upside down the seven of cake.
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  Speaker 5: She is the dessert.
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  Speaker 1: You're right, She's a peach cobbler. So she is Charae.
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  Speaker 1: You are the peach cobbler.
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  Speaker 3: Honey.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's by the Coast Law. Hello to peach Cobbler.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, which one? Which one do you prefer? Carlos peach
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  Speaker 5: Cobbler exactly. I love I love a good snack, I love.
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  Speaker 3: A good I love a good dessert.
• 7:34
  Speaker 1: But to answer your question, Melody addresses it on love
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  Speaker 1: and marriage Huntsville, and so do the rest of the cast,
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  Speaker 1: and without giving too much away, because I want you
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  Speaker 1: guys to watch the premiere September tenth at eight o'clock
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  Speaker 1: on Martel and Marceau have this funny conversation about this
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  Speaker 1: rumor he's dating chara and it reminded me of when
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  Speaker 1: Ben Affleck first started dating j Lo, and Ben Affleck
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  Speaker 1: said this story about his boys from Boston was like, Yo, man,
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  Speaker 1: you fucking Jlo like damn like being you fucking j Loo.
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  Speaker 1: So all I would say is Marcel and Martell's conversation
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  Speaker 1: about the possibility of him dating Charae reminded me of that.
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  Speaker 2: Well, they have a nickname like Bennifer, because you know
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  Speaker 2: they have the iconic couple name.
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  Speaker 5: It was Bennifer. What are we gonna call chara and Martel?
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  Speaker 3: Is it he bought Charae?
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  Speaker 1: Is it?
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  Speaker 3: Is it Mark?
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  Speaker 1: Is it Marche Marree?
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  Speaker 3: They have to be telling.
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  Speaker 6: It, sweetie.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I know is day that is? That is a fine
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  Speaker 2: ass couple. I mean, I don't blame Charae. I heard
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  Speaker 2: the news outside, bitch, get it in. Then I don't
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  Speaker 2: blame you from a physical standpoint. Now, I know this
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  Speaker 2: is a longer conversation and we probably don't have time
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  Speaker 2: for it. Martel comes with some baggage that I don't
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  Speaker 2: know if my girl needs. But from a physical standpoint,
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  Speaker 2: I don't blame you.
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  Speaker 6: I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want my man to hear me saying that's
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  Speaker 2: too loud, But I do not blame you girl.
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  Speaker 1: Same here, Sis. No, The thing is this, I feel
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  Speaker 1: we all can admit that Martel, despite what you think
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  Speaker 1: of him, Martel is a very attractive man. I've gone
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  Speaker 1: on record saying Martel is probably the most attractive man
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  Speaker 1: on reality television. He's a gorgeous specimen. And one thing
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  Speaker 1: I know about Chara I know Charae for fourteen years.
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  Speaker 1: Charay is very private. Martel is too. To a certain extent.
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  Speaker 1: They're both capricorns. Okay, I think they're a day apart.
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  Speaker 1: Charay is a certain age, Martell is forty.
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  Speaker 3: There is an age gap.
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  Speaker 1: So I think this because a lot of people are like,
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  Speaker 1: is this a publicity stunt?
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  Speaker 3: Carlos, are you setting this up to be messy? What's
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  Speaker 3: going on here?
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  Speaker 1: I believe Scharae, the charre that I know for fourteen years,
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  Speaker 1: Jasmine Chara is having fun. I think she's getting her
• 9:58
  Speaker 1: back blown out. And I don't blame her because she
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: said recently that Tyrone wasn't laying her right in the bed, allegedly,
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  Speaker 1: so one thing would know about Martel. He busted wide open.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, he looks. He looks like he does. And I think, Charai, look,
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  Speaker 2: you said it. Charai's raised her kids, she got that
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  Speaker 2: big ass house. She is able to to stay on
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  Speaker 2: her own. But she's probably like, look, I don't want
• 10:23
  Speaker 2: my bed to be empty a night. I don't want
• 10:26
  Speaker 2: to grow no cob webs down there like I want
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  Speaker 2: some like young fine man. And if she's just having fun,
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  Speaker 2: I love this for her. But I'm gonna get out
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  Speaker 2: of here because I know you got some more stuff
• 10:36
  Speaker 2: to talk about, DC, and you gotta get to Astra's conversation.
• 10:38
  Speaker 2: I just wanted to ask the questions that all of
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  Speaker 2: the fans were asking, So thank you for delivery.
• 10:43
  Speaker 1: No, of course, And I'll leave you with this because
• 10:45
  Speaker 1: a lot of people are asking like you did earlier.
• 10:47
  Speaker 3: Melody has moved on.
• 10:48
  Speaker 1: And again I'm not going to share my personal conversation
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: with Melody, but I had a recent personal conversation with Melody,
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  Speaker 1: and the only thing I will say about that conversation
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: is Melody has moved on, So in my opinion, I
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  Speaker 1: don't think Melody cares at all that Martel is seeing
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  Speaker 1: Chara period.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, but before we move on.
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  Speaker 1: To Ashley Silva's interview, I need to ask my brain
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  Speaker 1: drops tweet me the name that we should give Martel
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  Speaker 1: and Charay. I vote for shay Tail, she buy Shirtail,
• 11:23
  Speaker 1: whatever the name could be, Jasmine. What name do you
• 11:26
  Speaker 1: want the rain drops to vote for. I think I'm
• 11:29
  Speaker 1: gonna go with Maray Marray.
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  Speaker 5: I kind of like that too, Marayah.
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  Speaker 3: All right, so rain.
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  Speaker 1: Drops go on Twitter hashtag reality with the King and
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: let us know which name should Martel and Charay be called.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up next, we have Ashley Silva from Love and
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  Speaker 1: Marriage DC.
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  Speaker 3: After this quick break, this is Reality Keep with the King,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm Carlos King.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get into my conversation with Ashley Silva from Loving
• 12:06
  Speaker 1: Marriage to DC.
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  Speaker 3: Talk to me.
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  Speaker 1: About your desire to enter into reality television because for
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: so long you were happy being at home, being Quick's wife,
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: raising these beautiful kids.
• 12:23
  Speaker 3: And now you are one of.
• 12:26
  Speaker 1: The greatest reality stars who had an amazing freshman year.
• 12:30
  Speaker 6: Oh thank you.
• 12:31
  Speaker 7: You know so, my journey with reality TV started over
• 12:38
  Speaker 7: thirteen years ago. I was first asked too this is
• 12:42
  Speaker 7: so embarrassing. Every time I say this now, I'm so embarrassed.
• 12:46
  Speaker 7: But I was going to do it. I was asked
• 12:48
  Speaker 7: to audition for Back Girls Club, the season that had
• 12:53
  Speaker 7: like Natalie None on it, and I remember I was
• 12:57
  Speaker 7: going through that process, and I think the film and
• 13:00
  Speaker 7: dates started like during when the cook was going to
• 13:03
  Speaker 7: be away for a wedding, and I just was like,
• 13:05
  Speaker 7: oh my god, I just can't couldn't even believe I
• 13:07
  Speaker 7: was considering doing this. And then when I watched that season,
• 13:11
  Speaker 7: there was a mom on that show, so I was like,
• 13:14
  Speaker 7: this must be the girl they picked when I decided
• 13:16
  Speaker 7: not to do it, and I was like, oh my god,
• 13:18
  Speaker 7: that would have just been a mess.
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  Speaker 6: So fast forward about.
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  Speaker 7: Two three years later, there was a showing her Love
• 13:26
  Speaker 7: Love Sweating Heels on Bravo.
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: Oh, Blood Sweating Hills, Yes, Yes.
• 13:32
  Speaker 7: Blood Sweating Hills, And they were trying to do a
• 13:34
  Speaker 7: DC spin off, and I was in contract with them
• 13:37
  Speaker 7: for two years and then New York ended up getting
• 13:41
  Speaker 7: canceled and then the DC show never happened. Then right
• 13:45
  Speaker 7: after that, after that didn't happen, It's when like the
• 13:48
  Speaker 7: housewifs talk started. The Potomac Housewiffs talk talk had all started,
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  Speaker 7: and I think they were kind of done casting with somebody.
• 13:57
  Speaker 7: One of the producers with somebody casting people. They reached
• 13:59
  Speaker 7: out to me and he was like, oh, so you
• 14:05
  Speaker 7: only have one Binz.
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  Speaker 6: Oh.
• 14:09
  Speaker 7: And at this point, I'm from Baltimore. I am very
• 14:12
  Speaker 7: familiar with who Robin is. I was very familiar with
• 14:15
  Speaker 7: what their financial situation is. And I said to him,
• 14:18
  Speaker 7: I said, I know Robin Dixon is on the show.
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  Speaker 7: How dare you ask me? Do I ownly have one BNZ?
• 14:23
  Speaker 6: Like, yes, I do.
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  Speaker 7: It's my bins, it's my house that we own that
• 14:30
  Speaker 7: our bills are paid for.
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: No. And this is so interesting because now you remind
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: me of Melody hold story in the sense of you
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: always knew you had this stardom and it was just
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: about the right place at the right time. And the
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: beauty of you, Ashley is you weren't desperate. Yeah, And
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: this is no shade to people who joined Bad Girls
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  Speaker 1: Club or who's joining.
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  Speaker 3: The new iteration of it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not calling you desperate, but I definitely think you
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: have to look at what works for you and what doesn't.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: I cannot see you on Back Girls Club with Natalie
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  Speaker 1: none that that to me is not you at no.
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  Speaker 7: I mean it was me then, it was he probably
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  Speaker 7: thirteen fourteen years ago.
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  Speaker 6: You know, I was still in my twenties. I was.
• 15:16
  Speaker 7: I think I was like twenty three when you called me,
• 15:19
  Speaker 7: and I mean I've always had this mouth. It probably
• 15:22
  Speaker 7: was worse than you know, because I hadn't matured. I
• 15:26
  Speaker 7: still got some grown up to do. But then, oh
• 15:29
  Speaker 7: I was hands was quicker in the mouth back then.
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: I love you so much.
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: But take me to what that auditioning process was for
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: Potomac Housewives.
• 15:43
  Speaker 6: You know, I feel like it was very similar to
• 15:45
  Speaker 6: how ours was.
• 15:47
  Speaker 7: You know, they would we did a phone I think
• 15:49
  Speaker 7: we did about two rounds of like phone.
• 15:52
  Speaker 6: Interviews, and then I did do.
• 15:56
  Speaker 7: I think back then it with skype interviews, and it
• 15:59
  Speaker 7: was just questions about, you know, who are you, how
• 16:01
  Speaker 7: do you interact? You know, how's your marriage? Like all
• 16:05
  Speaker 7: these things. And I was literally even back then, I
• 16:08
  Speaker 7: was like, I understood some of the reasons why you
• 16:14
  Speaker 7: wanted some of these women.
• 16:15
  Speaker 6: I get it.
• 16:17
  Speaker 7: Like I said, I'm from Baltimore. I would have wanted
• 16:19
  Speaker 7: Jamorrow's Bryant's wife on the show. Everybody has wanted her
• 16:22
  Speaker 7: on the show. And I remember being a little girl
• 16:24
  Speaker 7: hearing about Jamal having ATMs in his church and vip
• 16:28
  Speaker 7: seedon and I always was like, oh, wow, that's that's
• 16:31
  Speaker 7: different for church.
• 16:32
  Speaker 6: But it's interesting that it mays forok great TV.
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  Speaker 7: But you know, but it was it was very I think,
• 16:40
  Speaker 7: like more materialistic than about who we were. And then
• 16:44
  Speaker 7: it was like, okay, if I still don't understand the
• 16:47
  Speaker 7: materialistic side of it, because no one on there, who Karen,
• 16:52
  Speaker 7: that might have been only person that had money, like
• 16:53
  Speaker 7: the first season for.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: Real, yes, the only one that had money the first
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: season was Charis.
• 16:59
  Speaker 7: Okay, oh yeah, sure, serious, yes, yeah, I forgot about her.
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  Speaker 7: I didn't know about them from that world. And I
• 17:05
  Speaker 7: was like, okay, well I got the Robin Dixon and
• 17:08
  Speaker 7: you know, because he was a big name in this
• 17:10
  Speaker 7: area or whatever. But for me, like I said, they
• 17:13
  Speaker 7: just made me feel like the sum of the earth,
• 17:14
  Speaker 7: Like I was so full with my one little bens
• 17:16
  Speaker 7: and my one little single family house and my one
• 17:19
  Speaker 7: and they were like, what are you gonna say when
• 17:21
  Speaker 7: these women say, oh, your husband's just the DJ. That
• 17:24
  Speaker 7: was one of the questions I always remember that they
• 17:27
  Speaker 7: asked me, and I literally was like what, Like, no
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  Speaker 7: one has ever.
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  Speaker 6: Just the DJ my husband, Like, what the fuck does
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  Speaker 6: that mean?
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: It goes to show you how sometimes the casting producers
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: can't do too much. And this is no shade to Potomac.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Everybody knows it's my favorite housewife.
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: I love the show.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: I never looked at Potomac Housewives as a glamorous show
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: with rich women. So the idea of you getting shade
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: because you have one Mercedes Bens is very interesting. But
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: I am so happy he did that because you now
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: are on Love and Marriage DC, and this show is
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: not about materialism. It's really about relationships and friendships and
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: the beauty of what it's like to be a monsters collective.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: So when you got asked by Monique to have her
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: throw your name in the hat for Love and Marriage DC,
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: what was your initial thoughts going into it?
• 18:25
  Speaker 6: At first?
• 18:26
  Speaker 7: I was like, I'm not about to go through this again.
• 18:28
  Speaker 7: Like I literally went I talked to Househoves producers three
• 18:31
  Speaker 7: different seasons, three different seasons.
• 18:33
  Speaker 6: They shitt it on me. I was like, I am
• 18:36
  Speaker 6: not about to do this again.
• 18:37
  Speaker 7: I mean, I don't have anything else to give. I
• 18:38
  Speaker 7: feel like I'm giving the same auditions to everybody.
• 18:41
  Speaker 6: I'm like, this is Ashley. This is who I am.
• 18:44
  Speaker 6: Take it or leave it. I don't know what.
• 18:45
  Speaker 7: Else, what else I'm supposed to give you. Honestly, at
• 18:48
  Speaker 7: this point, it's just so. And then I remember talking
• 18:52
  Speaker 7: to my mom and she watched Hunstville. I had never
• 18:55
  Speaker 7: watched Hunstville before, and she was like, Mark Talten had
• 18:59
  Speaker 7: a baby.
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: And something something, and I was like, let me.
• 19:04
  Speaker 7: Go watch this damn show, okay, And I was looking.
• 19:10
  Speaker 7: I was like, you know, I was like, it's so interesting.
• 19:13
  Speaker 7: But and I had such strong emotions about certain people
• 19:16
  Speaker 7: on their show from episode one, and I.
• 19:18
  Speaker 6: Was like, oh, I don't know if that's what we
• 19:20
  Speaker 6: can give them.
• 19:20
  Speaker 7: Though, I was like, quick, you better fuck you bring
• 19:23
  Speaker 7: up I was our baby over here if you want to.
• 19:25
  Speaker 6: It's gonna be a funeral show. Okay. It's gonna be
• 19:30
  Speaker 6: some slow singing and some flower bringing.
• 19:34
  Speaker 7: So I was like, oh, okay, this is I mean,
• 19:36
  Speaker 7: I was like, But at the same time, I always
• 19:38
  Speaker 7: tell people there are so many layers to marriage, especially
• 19:42
  Speaker 7: when you have been married as long as we have,
• 19:45
  Speaker 7: as young as we.
• 19:46
  Speaker 6: Both were, we have literally literally like grown up together.
• 19:51
  Speaker 7: And then I feel like I remember the first day
• 19:54
  Speaker 7: somebody was like, you could just first day I was
• 19:56
  Speaker 7: aris Mom was like, well you could just sit home
• 19:58
  Speaker 7: and spend quick money. And I'm like, I do you
• 19:59
  Speaker 7: do that? But there's so much more that I would
• 20:02
  Speaker 7: want to do, you know. But it is easy to
• 20:05
  Speaker 7: be a housewife, and it is easy to be judge
• 20:08
  Speaker 7: and at aspect. So I remember a lot of times
• 20:10
  Speaker 7: the conversations, even before we started feeling with me and Monique,
• 20:13
  Speaker 7: would be those kind of conversations how we felt like
• 20:15
  Speaker 7: people look down on us, that we were dress moms,
• 20:17
  Speaker 7: just wives. We didn't have goals, we didn't have aspirations,
• 20:20
  Speaker 7: and how easy they felt like our lives were. And
• 20:23
  Speaker 7: I tell you, I mean I laugh every time Chris's
• 20:26
  Speaker 7: on the screen because it's like nobody Chris, them kids
• 20:29
  Speaker 7: wearing me out, And it's so funny because I remember
• 20:34
  Speaker 7: the first time I left quit home, I had just
• 20:37
  Speaker 7: Ash was a few months he had Antonio. Ashen I
• 20:40
  Speaker 7: came home, I may have been gone like two three hours.
• 20:42
  Speaker 7: You would have thought desert storm hit my house.
• 20:45
  Speaker 6: Like I was like, what the hell has happened here
• 20:47
  Speaker 6: in two hours? That you couldn't keep it together? He
• 20:51
  Speaker 6: looked so defeated. He looked so defeated. In a few hours,
• 20:55
  Speaker 6: I was like.
• 20:56
  Speaker 7: Nane, you see how I feel when I'm telling you
• 20:57
  Speaker 7: that all day long, I've been in here with these
• 20:59
  Speaker 7: kids and.
• 21:00
  Speaker 6: Want to pull every alash out of my face. So
• 21:04
  Speaker 6: you know I was.
• 21:05
  Speaker 7: I was happier that we were going to be a
• 21:07
  Speaker 7: show that got to show more of our marriage instead
• 21:11
  Speaker 7: of me just what I thought was going to be,
• 21:13
  Speaker 7: instead of me just arguing and bickery with women I
• 21:16
  Speaker 7: didn't know.
• 21:16
  Speaker 6: But here I am arguing in bickery with a motherfucker
• 21:19
  Speaker 6: I don't know.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: So knowing that you went through this process a couple
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: of times, for dating back to thirteen years ago when
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: you got the phone call that you were going to
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: be on Love and Marriage DC, how did that feel
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: knowing that, wait a minute, it's finally about to happen.
• 21:39
  Speaker 7: It was exciting, But I didn't want to get too
• 21:41
  Speaker 7: excited because, like I told you, I was in a
• 21:43
  Speaker 7: contract before for two years. Like I was on in
• 21:46
  Speaker 7: a signed contract as a cast member for two years.
• 21:49
  Speaker 7: So I was like, all right, Ash, you've been here before.
• 21:52
  Speaker 7: You've been so excited before. You didn't told people before
• 21:55
  Speaker 7: running my mouth knowing I wasn't supposed to begin young
• 21:57
  Speaker 7: girl about to be so.
• 21:58
  Speaker 6: With the show and then show okay, but it was
• 22:03
  Speaker 6: so funny.
• 22:03
  Speaker 7: We got the I think we got an email first
• 22:06
  Speaker 7: on October twenty fifth, which my birthday is October twenty third,
• 22:09
  Speaker 7: so it was that Monday after my birthday, so I
• 22:11
  Speaker 7: was like.
• 22:11
  Speaker 6: Oh, happy birthday to me. It was like a birthday present.
• 22:15
  Speaker 6: So yeah, then you know, after we talked.
• 22:17
  Speaker 7: Then after the email, I think we had the zoom
• 22:19
  Speaker 7: with you and Angela and it was like, okay, this
• 22:22
  Speaker 7: is real, Like now this is real.
• 22:25
  Speaker 6: My dealing with casting directors telling me I'm poor, So.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: Let's get into this season. You are such a natural
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: on camera. And when I got the first episode, the
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: producer sent me the first fourteen minutes of episode one, which.
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: Was Monique's party.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: The podcast, Yeah introduced all of the women you Arena, Tasha,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: and Winter. We were watching the episode, me and my producers,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: A love Scott Brant, you're your showrunner, and I immediately
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: and I never do this, I immediately showed my boyfriend.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: I said look at this and he said who is she?
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: And I said which one? He said, the one the
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: yellow dress, and I was like Ashley. He said, Oh,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: she's the star of the show, like it's her show.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: And I was so amazed by how natural you are
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: because I do tons of shows, as you guys know,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: and it's not easy on your first day of filming
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: to be a natural. And the lesson in all of this,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: guys is, in the words of Lady Gaga, you can
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: have ninety nine knows, but it's that one yes. It's
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: that one yes that can change your life.
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: And you.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: Change what even I thought this show was going to be.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: So as you watch this season, is this show everything
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: you and imagine it would be?
• 24:01
  Speaker 7: Uh, it's somewhat of what I would imagine it to be,
• 24:04
  Speaker 7: probably about seventy five percent of what I would imagine
• 24:07
  Speaker 7: it to be. As you know, we all have complained
• 24:10
  Speaker 7: about editing in some type of way.
• 24:15
  Speaker 6: I know I have mope.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: For me.
• 24:18
  Speaker 6: I think episode one is the only episode.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I really feel.
• 24:21
  Speaker 7: I was like, Okay, they played me, and it's like,
• 24:23
  Speaker 7: this is the fucking beginning.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: And tell me what it was.
• 24:27
  Speaker 7: Okay, So this is our very first time filming at all,
• 24:31
  Speaker 7: Like we hadn't done any other scene work. So like
• 24:33
  Speaker 7: you're saying, like I didn't know what to expect. It
• 24:35
  Speaker 7: was like I'm driving, pulling up, it's cold as hell.
• 24:37
  Speaker 7: They're like, okay, go walk in. We get there, we're filming,
• 24:40
  Speaker 7: and uh, you know, the.
• 24:43
  Speaker 6: Before the podcast starts, Monique is talking. So the only
• 24:47
  Speaker 6: thing that not the only thing, but the main thing.
• 24:50
  Speaker 7: That I feel like I've had the issue with is
• 24:52
  Speaker 7: when I, me and Arana are sitting it, Winter's talking
• 24:58
  Speaker 7: and I turned to Raina and I I say, I
• 25:01
  Speaker 7: drink when I'm bored.
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: I do.
• 25:04
  Speaker 6: I'm more so mad, I'm like anxious.
• 25:07
  Speaker 7: Like it literally was like and this is why I'm
• 25:09
  Speaker 7: whispering at her, because as you see, I've probably never
• 25:11
  Speaker 7: whispered to anybody after this day. I'm looking is the
• 25:14
  Speaker 7: camera's smacking in our face, and I looked down, like,
• 25:16
  Speaker 7: oh shit, they could fucking hear me anyway. I got
• 25:18
  Speaker 7: this damn mic on me. But I was It was
• 25:25
  Speaker 7: more of a nervous energy than bored. It wasn't even
• 25:27
  Speaker 7: about what Winter was talking about, because Winter talked about
• 25:31
  Speaker 7: other stuff before she.
• 25:33
  Speaker 6: I was most intrigued when I heard nanny and two babies.
• 25:37
  Speaker 7: I was not bored at that part. Okay, I was
• 25:39
  Speaker 7: very intrigued, all right. So that was just the only thing.
• 25:44
  Speaker 7: And everybody's like, you weren't from that time you saw
• 25:47
  Speaker 7: that woman, you couldn't stand her, and I was like,
• 25:50
  Speaker 7: it's not true, it's not true. I probably hadn't paid
• 25:53
  Speaker 7: any attention to her until she said that. So that
• 25:57
  Speaker 7: was probably my biggest thing with editent. I was like,
• 26:01
  Speaker 7: so it's like that kind of sat me as I
• 26:04
  Speaker 7: can't stand winter.
• 26:05
  Speaker 6: I'm bored with winter.
• 26:06
  Speaker 7: And then later on and the season when she is
• 26:08
  Speaker 7: boring me, I'm like, she's bored and be like, oh,
• 26:11
  Speaker 7: you're always bored with her.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: Well, look, I'm glad we talked about that because one
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: thing I always tell people is when you're on reality TV,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: a lot of people complain about editing. And I've been
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: doing this for fifteen years, so I heard all the time.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: So let's talk about the editing. So number one, you
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: are absolutely right in terms of how sometimes you can
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: have a moment where you do say things out your
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: own mouth, but it doesn't mean you said at that
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: moment of what's happening around you. So that's so I
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: completely understand that. And just to let everyone know what
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: that means is obviously there's tons of producers there's tons
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: of editors who put the episodes together, and sometimes they'll
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: put a moment of Ashley saying I drink when I'm
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: bored while a scene is happening, But it doesn't mean
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: it happened at that right time or that exact time.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: And that's the reason why we have reunions or we
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: definitely want you guys and propel you guys to tweet
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: because we want you to be able to have a voice.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: And I feel like you're you're not able to address
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: how you feel, so thank you for telling me that.
• 27:21
  Speaker 7: But you know what, we cannot win against these Twitter streets.
• 27:26
  Speaker 7: I mean, they know you better than you know yourself.
• 27:29
  Speaker 7: They know why you're blinking, they know why you breathe hard.
• 27:33
  Speaker 7: They know that if you cough that means oh, you
• 27:36
  Speaker 7: must be lying. If you blink to slow you're upset.
• 27:40
  Speaker 7: Like they know everything that's going on in your head
• 27:43
  Speaker 7: even when you don't. Okay, So I'm like, the Twitter
• 27:46
  Speaker 7: streets are funny.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: I love.
• 27:48
  Speaker 6: I didn't think I was gonna like going back.
• 27:50
  Speaker 7: And forth with people, but every time I'm gonna get
• 27:53
  Speaker 7: your ass every time.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: So wait, you actually like class back at the Twitter
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: fans and what's interesting is this this cast Love and
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: Marriage DC. They would clap back at the Twitter trolls
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: and I follow all of them on Twitter, and I
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: sometimes laugh loud to myself.
• 28:14
  Speaker 6: But that's me too.
• 28:16
  Speaker 7: I giggled me too if I laugh. Like most of
• 28:20
  Speaker 7: the time, I don't even say anything. I'll just like
• 28:22
  Speaker 7: tweet out a picture of them. I'll go on their
• 28:24
  Speaker 7: page and like just respond to them with their own
• 28:27
  Speaker 7: self and I'm like, okay, like you, the joke is
• 28:30
  Speaker 7: going to write itself.
• 28:31
  Speaker 6: Like I don't even have to do much work. You know.
• 28:35
  Speaker 7: They want me to be a mean girl, so sometimes
• 28:37
  Speaker 7: sometimes I'll give it to them.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: Well, you gave a lot at this part one reunion.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: It set Twitter on fire. People are still talking about it.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: I haven't had this much fanfare of reunion since I
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: would say the last Love and Marriage Huntsber reunion. Let's
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: just get right into it. The winter of it all
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: and you having Q cards trying to take my job
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: as the host, You had Q cars label aggressive Ashley,
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: and you had your own questions. So what was your
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: thought process going into this reunion?
• 29:16
  Speaker 7: My thought process was I knew there was going to
• 29:19
  Speaker 7: be a bunch of winter talk.
• 29:21
  Speaker 6: As much as I have been over it, I just
• 29:25
  Speaker 6: knew that there was going to be so much talk
• 29:27
  Speaker 6: with her.
• 29:27
  Speaker 7: And I know that she is someone who likes to
• 29:30
  Speaker 7: backpedal and forget, like little things that she says.
• 29:34
  Speaker 6: She's someone who likes to tweet and delete.
• 29:36
  Speaker 7: So I was like, every time you say something, yatcha bitch,
• 29:40
  Speaker 7: You're not gonna do that with me, okay, So every
• 29:43
  Speaker 7: single time, I just for my own facts, for my
• 29:46
  Speaker 7: own records, just to have it.
• 29:48
  Speaker 6: And right before we left.
• 29:51
  Speaker 7: To go to reunion, I just it was all these
• 29:55
  Speaker 7: soft stories and how everyone was so mean to her
• 29:58
  Speaker 7: and how we all just were attacking her and bullying her,
• 30:00
  Speaker 7: and you know, every time a fan would say this,
• 30:04
  Speaker 7: she's just like.
• 30:04
  Speaker 6: Yes, it's disgusting.
• 30:06
  Speaker 7: It's just disgusting how they've act towards me.
• 30:10
  Speaker 6: And I was like, okay, because you forgot.
• 30:12
  Speaker 7: All the disgusting things that you've said, so I'm just
• 30:15
  Speaker 7: going to have it for you. And you know, I
• 30:16
  Speaker 7: went to school for journalism, so I just feel like,
• 30:19
  Speaker 7: you know, aggressive actually shows like Natural.
• 30:25
  Speaker 6: Whenever you need to go host up here, I.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: Know, bitch, you're trying to take my job, and I
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: love it.
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: I was here for it. I was here for it.
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: I thought it was super iconic.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: It was a prop that was unexpected, and you had
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: a lot to say because what the audience saw was
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: your disdain for the fact of why would any woman
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: sit up here and say there's rumors about another woman's
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: husband without receipts or facts proving that. Did you feel
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: like Winter was single handedly trying to ruin the reputation
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: of your marriage.
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: Quick I do.
• 31:03
  Speaker 7: It's funny because our first thing back at Monique's podcast,
• 31:07
  Speaker 7: when I first thought someone so, I said Hi, I
• 31:09
  Speaker 7: hugged her and she said, oh, I think I know
• 31:13
  Speaker 7: you. Your husband's a DJ. Right, So how did it go
• 31:16
  Speaker 7: from Oh, your.
• 31:16
  Speaker 6: Husband's a DJ.
• 31:17
  Speaker 7: I think I think I've heard of you too. Oh, no,
• 31:20
  Speaker 7: now you know all my business two weeks later, like
• 31:22
  Speaker 7: I was genuinely confused. I've never met this woman. I
• 31:25
  Speaker 7: wouldn't have never met, never forgotten like a god awful
• 31:29
  Speaker 7: haircut like that ever in my life. Like so if
• 31:31
  Speaker 7: I had met you before, I would have remembered that
• 31:34
  Speaker 7: I met you. As she has stated multiple times, you
• 31:38
  Speaker 7: don't know us. We don't share friends, we don't hang
• 31:40
  Speaker 7: out at the same places. But then it's like, well,
• 31:42
  Speaker 7: I've heard this and I you know, Telimony, Well, you're
• 31:45
  Speaker 7: not in DC streets. You're not in the streets that
• 31:47
  Speaker 7: I'm insance, like, we're not in the same streets. Our
• 31:49
  Speaker 7: streets are very different. You're on the curb, I'm.
• 31:52
  Speaker 6: In the streets, like we're not in the same area.
• 31:55
  Speaker 7: And even on that first day when she talked about
• 31:59
  Speaker 7: her husband, her first husband, we talked a little bit
• 32:02
  Speaker 7: after we were done Filma and I told her. I
• 32:04
  Speaker 7: was like, thanks, my stuff. I was like, I'm sure
• 32:06
  Speaker 7: that was so hurtful for you. That's crazy. And she
• 32:08
  Speaker 7: was like yeah, and you know, I'm going through a
• 32:11
  Speaker 7: divorce now. And I was like, wait, you're married again,
• 32:13
  Speaker 7: and she's like, yeah, only for six months. We'll have
• 32:16
  Speaker 7: to talk about that later. I was like, oh, bitch,
• 32:19
  Speaker 7: you try to go to show I see what you're doing, okay.
• 32:22
  Speaker 6: And I if I was Carlos.
• 32:25
  Speaker 7: Or Agelo, o'bran whoever else, I would have done the
• 32:28
  Speaker 7: same thing and you would be here because it's interested
• 32:32
  Speaker 7: as hell, all right. And I think I even say
• 32:34
  Speaker 7: that to her at the reunion and I said that, like,
• 32:37
  Speaker 7: so I got it. And even when we got into it,
• 32:40
  Speaker 7: at the Vegan dinner about her being relationship coach and whatever.
• 32:46
  Speaker 6: I remember also saying to her then, I would never.
• 32:49
  Speaker 7: Bring up what happened in your first marriage because I
• 32:51
  Speaker 7: can't imagine how hurtful that is to you and to
• 32:53
  Speaker 7: your children.
• 32:53
  Speaker 6: I would not do that. So when we talked about rumors.
• 32:56
  Speaker 7: At the Ocean Prown with me, Tasha and a Rain,
• 33:00
  Speaker 7: it was it was a general like, girl, yeah, i've
• 33:03
  Speaker 7: heard rooms about him. I heard RUMs all myself. I've
• 33:05
  Speaker 7: heard rumors about right now. And I said to her,
• 33:06
  Speaker 7: I said, I don't know you, so I heard nothing
• 33:08
  Speaker 7: about you guys. I don't know who you are.
• 33:10
  Speaker 6: And that was pretty much the end of that.
• 33:13
  Speaker 7: And we ended that Osha Prime dinner on a really
• 33:16
  Speaker 7: positive note. And I told her like, I'm tired here
• 33:19
  Speaker 7: about your husbands. I don't know anything else about you.
• 33:21
  Speaker 7: Let's talk about something else. Let's reget to know each other,
• 33:24
  Speaker 7: let's start over.
• 33:25
  Speaker 6: Blah blah blah. That's where I.
• 33:26
  Speaker 7: Thought it was until Monique came back from Tanza Niya
• 33:30
  Speaker 7: on Tanzia.
• 33:31
  Speaker 6: Oh the hell, she's.
• 33:34
  Speaker 7: Okay, so and I just was like, even with that
• 33:38
  Speaker 7: with her lantic to Monique, I'm like okay, if you
• 33:41
  Speaker 7: want to say we Ashley said that she heard rumors
• 33:44
  Speaker 7: like say what I said, don't just because how she
• 33:48
  Speaker 7: what she did. I just felt like, you know, this
• 33:49
  Speaker 7: is what all the Instagram bloggers and stuff say, they
• 33:52
  Speaker 7: say she put twenty on ten and that's exactly what
• 33:55
  Speaker 7: she did. Like, you're adding a lot more to this
• 33:57
  Speaker 7: story than it really was. Not how I went down,
• 34:01
  Speaker 7: you know, Dan was and she keeps saying, you you know,
• 34:03
  Speaker 7: you know I'm the rap.
• 34:04
  Speaker 6: You know, I'm gonna say how I feel. You know, Dan, Well,
• 34:07
  Speaker 6: you was not in my face like this, that's what
• 34:08
  Speaker 6: you know, like said how it was and that's it.
• 34:12
  Speaker 7: That was So that was my biggest ripe with it.
• 34:15
  Speaker 7: I was like, I just told this lady, let's get
• 34:17
  Speaker 7: to know each other. Let's have a kumbaya, let's go
• 34:19
  Speaker 7: skip around the park and tell me your favorite color.
• 34:21
  Speaker 6: And e was y' already playing me?
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: Is that the reason why Well, one of the reasons
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: why you got really upset is because you were so
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: adamant about the fact that Winter not your words. You
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: never said this, I'm gonna say it. It appeared that
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: you were trying to say, like winter, this image you're
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: trying to uphold ain't real. You have a boyfriend who
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: you're sleeping with. You're not abstinate. You're having this guy
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: go on Twitter and social media talking crap about me
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: and my husband. And that's when Quick got really upset.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: And just so the world, No, Quick did not call
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: Winter a bitch. I want to make that very clear.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: Quick did not call.
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: Winter a bitch.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: He referred to this alleged boyfriend as a bitch because
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: they know who this guy is. So I want to
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: make that very clear and Quick defense whether or not
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: he should have got angry, whatever, but he did not
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: call her bitch. Okay, talk to us about why your
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: husband was so upset in that moment.
• 35:26
  Speaker 6: So thank you for clearing that up.
• 35:28
  Speaker 7: I even said the Monique show, I was like, you know,
• 35:30
  Speaker 7: sometime at it didn't play us, I said, but they
• 35:33
  Speaker 7: put that close caption it at the bottom and it
• 35:35
  Speaker 7: said I'm not talking to her, I'm calling him a bitch.
• 35:38
  Speaker 7: I still hate that Quick guy as upset that he
• 35:41
  Speaker 7: got because the guy wasn't there. So to give a
• 35:44
  Speaker 7: little context to that, I hadn't saw Winter after we
• 35:49
  Speaker 7: finished filming after my book party. I didn't see her
• 35:52
  Speaker 7: until our premiere party. We had a little basket when
• 35:57
  Speaker 7: Mike I had basket where everybody I called Jamie the
• 35:59
  Speaker 7: bad bitch on the cast, like I talk with shit.
• 36:02
  Speaker 6: That's what I did.
• 36:03
  Speaker 7: Okay. Her daughter was in the hospital. I saw that
• 36:07
  Speaker 7: on Instagram. I were not friends. I don't want her
• 36:10
  Speaker 7: phone number. I don't know how. I did reach out
• 36:12
  Speaker 7: to her and DM her and we talked about her daughter.
• 36:14
  Speaker 7: I wish her well. I'm thinking everything is okay. And
• 36:18
  Speaker 7: then some one of one of my family keeps sending
• 36:21
  Speaker 7: me clips and they was like who is this man?
• 36:23
  Speaker 6: And I'm say, oh the hell it is.
• 36:25
  Speaker 7: And then right after that, Quick got a call from
• 36:29
  Speaker 7: one of his friends that he's been friends with for
• 36:32
  Speaker 7: a really long time, and she was basically like, uh,
• 36:38
  Speaker 7: you know what is Ashley doing to this Winter girl?
• 36:42
  Speaker 7: And so this is like week two or three, and
• 36:45
  Speaker 7: Quoke was like what she was like, Yeah, apparently she
• 36:48
  Speaker 7: can't eat, she can't sleep, she's so upset because Ashley's
• 36:51
  Speaker 7: spins are attacking her online and blah blah blah. And
• 36:54
  Speaker 7: he just wanted your phone number because he wanted to
• 36:56
  Speaker 7: come and talk to you as a man, because he
• 36:58
  Speaker 7: doesn't like that his girl is going through this, So
• 37:02
  Speaker 7: we're like, we don't know him, don't give him my
• 37:03
  Speaker 7: fucking phone number, Like, no, it's not happening. So then
• 37:06
  Speaker 7: about a week later, Winter's doing a live and he's
• 37:09
  Speaker 7: on that with her.
• 37:09
  Speaker 6: He's sitting beside her.
• 37:10
  Speaker 7: He's like rubbing her hair, he's sniffing her hair, he's
• 37:15
  Speaker 7: sniffing her arm, he's like sniffing her under on pants.
• 37:17
  Speaker 6: He's basically sniffing her pussy. Like all it's so much
• 37:20
  Speaker 6: going on, right, So I got sense a.
• 37:25
  Speaker 7: Part of that where he said, I guess Winter is
• 37:28
  Speaker 7: like reading the comments, but I couldn't see it because
• 37:31
  Speaker 7: I guess once it's not live, you can't see what
• 37:32
  Speaker 7: everybody's saying or whatever. So I guess someone in her
• 37:36
  Speaker 7: comments must have been saying something about me. And he's
• 37:38
  Speaker 7: like looking at the comments, like, oh, y'all want to
• 37:41
  Speaker 7: talk about y'all want talk about miss Ashley. I was like, okay, sis.
• 37:46
  Speaker 7: So he's like though, he takes her phone. So Wench's like, no, no,
• 37:51
  Speaker 7: we're not doing that, stop it, stop it. So he
• 37:54
  Speaker 7: takes her phone and it's walking around wherever they are,
• 37:57
  Speaker 7: and he says, and I have it in my phone
• 38:00
  Speaker 7: because I'm pretty sure she's deleted it by now. He's like, oh,
• 38:03
  Speaker 7: she don't want to say it, but I'm gonna say
• 38:05
  Speaker 7: because I know these people in real life.
• 38:07
  Speaker 6: I know these people in real life, like I really
• 38:09
  Speaker 6: know them.
• 38:10
  Speaker 7: That keeps repeating this, and he's like, yeah, they want
• 38:14
  Speaker 7: to be on these shows talking about how they love
• 38:16
  Speaker 7: their wives, but they be dogging them out in these
• 38:19
  Speaker 7: DC streets and something something, and he's just going on
• 38:21
  Speaker 7: and on and on, and so I show up quick.
• 38:23
  Speaker 7: I'm like, have you ever seen this man before in
• 38:25
  Speaker 7: your life? He has never seen him. I've never seen him.
• 38:28
  Speaker 6: Sir. We don't know you.
• 38:29
  Speaker 7: Like y'all have to stop using this I know you
• 38:31
  Speaker 7: stuff when you're a fan so loosely you may have
• 38:33
  Speaker 7: seen us before, you don't know us, so please stop
• 38:36
  Speaker 7: saying you know us and then to mention me by
• 38:38
  Speaker 7: name when I do not know you. And at the
• 38:41
  Speaker 7: same time him and Winz are like, well, yeah, maybe
• 38:43
  Speaker 7: you do need to come on for season two for
• 38:45
  Speaker 7: some backup. So I'm like, okay, I see this plan again,
• 38:48
  Speaker 7: because this is what she does. She likes to do
• 38:51
  Speaker 7: stuff like that, So I said, okay, okay, sir, you
• 38:54
  Speaker 7: want attention.
• 38:54
  Speaker 6: Now you got it. And then I've never seen this
• 38:57
  Speaker 6: man in person.
• 38:57
  Speaker 7: I did go on his Instagram page and notice that
• 38:59
  Speaker 7: he ever lifted up his top lip in any of
• 39:03
  Speaker 7: the pictures except for when he had fronts in his mouth.
• 39:06
  Speaker 7: And I was told by someone else that either his
• 39:09
  Speaker 7: front teeth are very pushback or one doesn't exist.
• 39:14
  Speaker 6: So that's where the toothlist comment came from.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm trying to take this.
• 39:24
  Speaker 6: I'm just giving you all the contexts. Okay, I know
• 39:27
  Speaker 6: I want to leave loophole.
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to be a professional.
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: So we have Part two coming up, and it's an
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: explosive Part two. I'm not going to give anything away.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: You have to tune in. It's more of aggressive Ashley cards.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: We have more props coming out. It's a doozy. But
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: when it comes to a potential season two, right, Ashley Silva,
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: what would you like for a.
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: Season two to be?
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: When it comes to you and you your husband going
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: into this.
• 40:02
  Speaker 7: Again, if we do get a season two, you know,
• 40:06
  Speaker 7: I would just like a little bit more for us.
• 40:10
  Speaker 7: We talk every especially in the beginning, like quick work
• 40:13
  Speaker 7: so much. They show quick work in that one damn
• 40:15
  Speaker 7: time on this whole season. That man works sixteen seventeen
• 40:20
  Speaker 7: hours a day, and y'all got him at Peter's Bar
• 40:24
  Speaker 7: in Baltimore eating French fries at twelve o'clock in the afternoon.
• 40:31
  Speaker 6: But no, it is that that eighty seven businesses, y'all.
• 40:36
  Speaker 6: Y'all will show one.
• 40:37
  Speaker 7: Okay, we were not filming lessons at our club next time.
• 40:41
  Speaker 6: Okay.
• 40:41
  Speaker 7: I don't have a house no more. I live in
• 40:43
  Speaker 7: the club. I sleep at the club, I eat at
• 40:45
  Speaker 7: the club. That's what y'all will show, all right.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: In our defense, Just so you know, we shot quick
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: DJing during CI double A. So unfortunately, when you don't
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: have cleared music because your husband is one of the
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: hottest djis in the world and he ain't planned that
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: whack shit that we have to play because it's cleared music.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: So that's some insight for you guys at home. We
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: can't play popular music, we can't play Beyonce Break my Soul.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: But you're right, we shall see more, you know.
• 41:17
  Speaker 7: I do wish that some of our our family dynamic
• 41:21
  Speaker 7: could have been shown a little bit more.
• 41:22
  Speaker 6: I did shoot my.
• 41:23
  Speaker 7: Mom and kind of the reason why I took on
• 41:27
  Speaker 7: such a huge responsibility to be a wife. I think
• 41:29
  Speaker 7: a lot of that plays into the relationship that I had.
• 41:31
  Speaker 6: With my mom. You know, I would like to talk
• 41:35
  Speaker 6: more about that.
• 41:36
  Speaker 7: My mom moved out when I was sixteen years old,
• 41:38
  Speaker 7: so I have been on my own since then. So
• 41:41
  Speaker 7: when a lot of people realize that Cook and I
• 41:43
  Speaker 7: were engaged and got a house on all this stuff
• 41:45
  Speaker 7: before I was twenty two years old, it's like they,
• 41:48
  Speaker 7: like so many people have been like that was so young.
• 41:50
  Speaker 7: I didn't even know how to cook a meal at
• 41:53
  Speaker 7: twenty two years old. But I feel like I always say, like,
• 41:56
  Speaker 7: you know, nobody show me how to be a wife.
• 41:58
  Speaker 7: But I was always had be very independent. You know,
• 42:02
  Speaker 7: I wasn't this child. I wasn't a child that was
• 42:05
  Speaker 7: someone washed my clothes and cooking for me and making
• 42:07
  Speaker 7: sure I was off to school and things like that.
• 42:08
  Speaker 6: I had to always do things like that for myself.
• 42:10
  Speaker 7: So just a little bit more on my backstory, because
• 42:12
  Speaker 7: I feel like we did get a lot of quicks
• 42:13
  Speaker 7: backstory this season. So that I want to involve some
• 42:18
  Speaker 7: of my real life friends that I am friends with.
• 42:22
  Speaker 7: Brent our chowron I has met many of my friends
• 42:25
  Speaker 7: and he knows how they are.
• 42:27
  Speaker 6: And I tell people all the.
• 42:28
  Speaker 7: Time if they think that aggressive Ashley is something we
• 42:34
  Speaker 7: until they meet these motherfuckers that I hang out with
• 42:38
  Speaker 7: all times.
• 42:39
  Speaker 6: They hurt my feelings.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: Okay, I heard about them too.
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: One of them name is Alicia, right.
• 42:46
  Speaker 6: That's my best friend. Yes, she's she's we.
• 42:50
  Speaker 7: You know, we always tell people were twins, and I'm like,
• 42:52
  Speaker 7: I'm the good twin and that lets you.
• 42:54
  Speaker 6: Know how she is.
• 42:55
  Speaker 7: Okay, Oh, I am good twin. She is bad twins, yes,
• 43:00
  Speaker 7: and her birthday is on actual Halloween, so.
• 43:02
  Speaker 6: She's a scorpio too. You know how scorpios are.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot Ooh okay, I'll be calling you later, okay,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: really quickly. You said you moved out at sixteen.
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: Can you talk to us about.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: That and why you did that and where you were
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: in that process.
• 43:19
  Speaker 6: Yeah, well, I.
• 43:20
  Speaker 7: Didn't move out at sixteen. My mom moved out at sixteen.
• 43:24
  Speaker 7: I talked about it in my book, and like I said,
• 43:26
  Speaker 7: I did do a scene that we went to my
• 43:29
  Speaker 7: childhood home. We shot there. I hadn't been to my
• 43:31
  Speaker 7: childhood home since I moved out. I moved out when
• 43:34
  Speaker 7: I was nineteen, and that's when I moved there with quick.
• 43:37
  Speaker 7: I hadn't been back there since, you know, because I
• 43:41
  Speaker 7: do talk about it in my book. I don't want
• 43:43
  Speaker 7: to give too much away, but I think my mom
• 43:47
  Speaker 7: had to go and find herself and find her happiness.
• 43:50
  Speaker 7: And I understand a little bit more now being a mom.
• 43:53
  Speaker 7: I do not make excuses for her leaving, but I
• 43:57
  Speaker 7: do understand being a mom and me being me.
• 44:00
  Speaker 6: I've always been who I am. I've always had this
• 44:02
  Speaker 6: mouth my mom until this day.
• 44:04
  Speaker 7: It's pissed off that I did not want to be
• 44:06
  Speaker 7: a lawyer because she was like, with that mouth, that
• 44:08
  Speaker 7: is what you should have did, because you will argue
• 44:10
  Speaker 7: anybody down and make somebody feel as low as hell,
• 44:13
  Speaker 7: and somebody's will be guilty.
• 44:14
  Speaker 6: Okay, but you know that I don't want to get
• 44:20
  Speaker 6: Like I said.
• 44:21
  Speaker 7: I don't want to get too much away. And it's
• 44:23
  Speaker 7: still a sensitive topic for me and my mom. I'm
• 44:25
  Speaker 7: about to be thirty seven years old. This happened twenty
• 44:27
  Speaker 7: years ago, and it's still a topic that me and
• 44:30
  Speaker 7: my mom aren't able to really openly discuss, and her
• 44:35
  Speaker 7: to be openly honest with you know, everybody else in
• 44:38
  Speaker 7: my family knows what happened. And from that, it was
• 44:42
  Speaker 7: the summer I just got my license. It was May,
• 44:46
  Speaker 7: was going into the summer, I was going to the
• 44:48
  Speaker 7: twelfth grade. This high school that I went to, we
• 44:51
  Speaker 7: got to we had extra credits because it was like
• 44:54
  Speaker 7: a really smart school. After my first semester of twelfth grade,
• 44:58
  Speaker 7: I didn't go to school anymore because I had enough
• 45:00
  Speaker 7: credits to graduate in any state. So all of that
• 45:04
  Speaker 7: played into that and why I grew up so fast.
• 45:08
  Speaker 7: And then I started partying and going out and then
• 45:09
  Speaker 7: I met quick and I So all of that plays
• 45:13
  Speaker 7: into a part of why I am how I am
• 45:15
  Speaker 7: and why I think sometimes I am so defensive and
• 45:18
  Speaker 7: I feel like I have my guard up and I
• 45:19
  Speaker 7: got to protect myself from people because I've always just
• 45:21
  Speaker 7: had to take care of myself.
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: Well, no, thank you for sharing that.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: And guys, her book is called do that Shit.
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: You have to get it.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: We I mean, it's a very very very special book
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: where you get to learn a little bit more about
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: this queen named Ashley Britney Silva. So, Ashley, where can
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: the listeners find you?
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: Follow you, support you?
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: I talked about the book, but give us more where
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: we can buy it?
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: Pre order all that stuff.
• 45:50
  Speaker 7: Yes, I am on all social medias as Ashley Brittany.
• 45:55
  Speaker 7: My website is Ashley Britney Silver, where you can purchase
• 45:58
  Speaker 7: my book in the VIP bundle, but you can also
• 46:00
  Speaker 7: purchased it one Amazon, Barnes and Nobles.
• 46:03
  Speaker 6: And book Simlion.
• 46:03
  Speaker 7: Because I'm a real author, I don't write ebooks. I
• 46:07
  Speaker 7: am a real authorist. And I also have a podcast
• 46:14
  Speaker 7: called by the Time.
• 46:15
  Speaker 6: Mom's with my best friend Alicia, who I just told
• 46:17
  Speaker 6: you guys about itself. If you want to hear how
• 46:19
  Speaker 6: horrible her mouth is, please go listen to that.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: Ashley, I'm gonna say this to you, and I mean
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: every word you know this, thank you so much for
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: deciding to do Love and Marriage DC, and I mean
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: that we could not have done this show without you
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: and quick you brought something to this show where your
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: energy truly has made Love and Marriage DC standout and
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: following Huntsville is not the easiest thing to do, but
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: I just want to personally say this to you, thank
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: you for joining this show.
• 46:57
  Speaker 6: Thank you.
• 46:57
  Speaker 7: I mean I really appreciate it, like for you know,
• 47:00
  Speaker 7: we've only been on for now two and a half months,
• 47:03
  Speaker 7: three months, and so much in my life has changed
• 47:05
  Speaker 7: because of you, because of the show.
• 47:07
  Speaker 6: So I'm really appreciative to you.
• 47:09
  Speaker 7: And I always say the hardest thing probably is to
• 47:12
  Speaker 7: make people like you and be interested in you for you,
• 47:15
  Speaker 7: And that's what we're doing. Like most of us on
• 47:18
  Speaker 7: the show aren't faking, aren't fronting ourselves. For me, I know,
• 47:22
  Speaker 7: I'm giving y'all ninety eight percent of me because the
• 47:24
  Speaker 7: other two percent of me is something terrible that y'all
• 47:27
  Speaker 7: don't want, Okay, So I'm just so thankful.
• 47:31
  Speaker 6: I'm appreciative to you, to everybody, I mean, even down.
• 47:35
  Speaker 7: A lot of questions that we would get asked all
• 47:37
  Speaker 7: the time, like is do you forget the producers are
• 47:39
  Speaker 7: there and everybody and like the camera, And I was like,
• 47:41
  Speaker 7: not that you forget they're there, but it's just like
• 47:44
  Speaker 7: I was like, if it was more like Brent is
• 47:47
  Speaker 7: over there, so and they made us feel so.
• 47:49
  Speaker 6: Comfortable, our entire crew.
• 47:52
  Speaker 7: My mom is in here making dinner for that and
• 47:53
  Speaker 7: stuff on some days like it's we had such a
• 47:57
  Speaker 7: good experience with it, and I've heard horrible experiences from
• 48:02
  Speaker 7: from for me to things like that. So I just
• 48:04
  Speaker 7: I'm thank you and thank you for giving us Brett
• 48:07
  Speaker 7: because I know he came from Huntsville.
• 48:09
  Speaker 6: He came here with us, So thank you.
• 48:11
  Speaker 7: Because I don't think nobody else could probably deal with
• 48:14
  Speaker 7: me but Hill okay, because I think member the cuss
• 48:18
  Speaker 7: each other out every week of filming.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: Now I'll see why I said Ashley Silva was going
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: to be one of the most shadiest and iconic reality
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: stars in the world.
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: Baby, she spilled so much tea.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: I had no idea that she was cast three times
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: for Potomac and then turned down because of a fucking
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: Benz like having one Benz and the shade treaty Robert Robin.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: You know, I love you. It's all fun, shade, it
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: is what it is. But y'all, ghosties show you that
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: your destiny is not always in the hands of who
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: you think they're in the fact that she wanted to
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: be on Bad.
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: Girls Club, Honey.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: Can you imagine her and Natalie Nun together? Bitch?
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: Okay? But what's crazy is this, y'all? No shade.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: I can see her on Potomac and I can see
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: her reading those girls for Phil So hey, is y'all lost?
• 49:25
  Speaker 3: And my game? Thank you much?
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: Y'all can catch part two of Love and DC Reunion
• 49:34
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