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how to request what you want from the universe · Beauty In Positivity

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  SPEAKER_00: Hello, and welcome back to the Beauty and Positivity Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: My name is Alyssa Skinner.
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  SPEAKER_00: I created my dream life with all of the information that I share on this podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I share all the mental practices and perspective shifts, everything that you can put into practice every single day.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's exactly what I've done to build my dream life, my dream income, dream body, dream business, dream marriage.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am using all of this information still to expand my dream life, to it go even bigger than where I'm at right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm bringing you along with me.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you want to go deeper, you can always go to my social media at Gorgeous by Alyssa, click the link in my bio, and sign up for my Enlightened Babe Academy that goes even deeper and it's the exact identity work and how you specifically manifest.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've already done it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I dedicated six months to being very deliberate and specific.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you can go even deeper and do that.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's in the link in my bio.
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  SPEAKER_00: But for now, here is all the free information I offer here.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's get into the episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: I feel like people have been telling me back to back, they're going through this weird liminal phase.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's some weird energy right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: A lot of us are feeling it like we're in the in-between stage or the void, and it can be very uncomfortable.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've shared on my stories recently.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, I was going through it too.
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  SPEAKER_00: I could feel it.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I've also explained when you're going through this, that weird energy, that stuck energy, the directionless feeling or feeling like what you're try what you're doing isn't working.
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  SPEAKER_00: I shared on my Instagram stories that you must know with absolute certainty and confidence and trust, this is simply pivoting you.
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  SPEAKER_00: These types of energies, this void, it's all shifting you and it's nudging you in the next direction.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's pushing you to the next level.
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  SPEAKER_00: And a lot of times when we get pushed into this discomfort, it's either we weren't gonna do it on our own, so now we're being forced to, or it's the next natural energetic shift.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is time.
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  SPEAKER_00: You've done the work, it's time to implement it, and now it's time to learn how to hold more.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I've shared this analogy before, it's my favorite analogy.
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  SPEAKER_00: To bring in the new car, you must clean out the garage first.
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  SPEAKER_00: So a lot of things can feel like they're falling apart before everything falls into place.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is normal.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've learned and I've made peace with discomfort and challenges because I know when it comes, I'm about to up level.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you have to know that to get there faster because you could stay in a spiral if you're fighting it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't focus on the how, what, where, when, and why when you are going through these energies.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is the quicker you surrender that, and you don't try to answer those questions, you don't try to force anything, you just surrender, you just be, you accept it, you feel it.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is the quicker exit.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's how you get out of this energy faster.
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  SPEAKER_00: Surrender.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because it's all being done for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's nothing for you to do right now but feel it and accept it, which is arguably the hardest part.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, with that being said, we think that we are the ones waiting.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I don't believe that's true.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't believe we're waiting.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't think surrender means waiting.
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  SPEAKER_00: Waiting attracts more waiting.
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  SPEAKER_00: I believe the universe is waiting on us.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we sit here and we wait for the universe to show us, to give us something, whether that's the next direction, the next experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: It brings us a person, place, or thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're just sitting around waiting.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the universe is waiting on us.
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  SPEAKER_00: The universe is waiting on your vibration to see what reality it should match to you now.
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  SPEAKER_00: You've been sitting around waiting for the universe to give you this specific life or experience, or maybe the next action to take.
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  SPEAKER_00: But here's the thing: you've already been given the life that you've asked for.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are literally vibrating at the life you are currently living in this moment.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every part of your life right now, that's a part of your vibration.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the frequency you are matched to right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: That might make you happy, that might make you upset.
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  SPEAKER_00: But it's okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because when you see something you don't want, go to the exact polar opposite of that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now you know what you do want, and now you can focus on that.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, vibration.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you are still understanding the law of attraction, vibration in general, manifestation, if you're kind of new to this world, it can be a little confusing to be like, well, what do you mean?
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  SPEAKER_00: My vibration, how do I know my vibration?
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  SPEAKER_00: What I mean by what you are vibrating at, the current life you're living right now is a frequency match.
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  SPEAKER_00: I use frequency and vibration intertwiningly.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your vibration is what you feel and think at the same time.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you are thinking, I want more money, I need more money, I deserve more money, but you are feeling because I don't have enough money, how is the money gonna come though?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like when is it gonna come?
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  SPEAKER_00: I've been doing this and that, I don't understand.
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  SPEAKER_00: The money is not coming, I've done the work.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are thinking and feeling two completely different things, and they are misaligned, which means you are vibrating out an incoherent signal, which what we think and feel at the same time, that is our signal to the universe.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is our request to the universe.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is what I want, universe, this is what I'm asking for, this is what I deserve, this is what I'd like next, please.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like placing an order.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you must think and feel the exact same thing to send a coherent signal.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're thinking, I want more, I deserve more, but you're feeling I don't have, and I've been waiting, and blah blah blah, those are two misaligned feelings and emotions.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you're thinking and feeling the exact opposites, and that's an incoherent signal.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you're thinking, I really want my partner to do this for me, I really want my partner to make me feel this way, but you're feeling my partner's never done that, my partner probably won't do that, they've never done it in the past, they probably never will, they're probably not even capable of that.
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  SPEAKER_00: You see how you're thinking exactly what you want, but you're feeling the opposite of what you want.
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  SPEAKER_00: We all do the thinking part correctly, we all know exactly what we want to experience and feel, but we always lose it at the feeling, and that's why I talk about visualization all the time.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you can't think exactly what you want to experience and not feel it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's why visualization helps so much only when you hold a thought long enough to allow the emotion to come in, that's when you send the coherent signal.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can't just think about it for a minute and go, yeah, that would be nice.
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  SPEAKER_00: That sounds great.
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  SPEAKER_00: You don't give your body long enough time to feel what it feels like to have it.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you won the lottery, you would probably scream and cry.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if you're just thinking about winning the lottery and you're not screaming and crying, your body's not catching up yet.
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  SPEAKER_00: You didn't you didn't not think about that long enough.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every time I visualize, I cry.
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  SPEAKER_00: I have to visualize my dream life long enough to get emotional.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm an emotional girl in terms of tears of joy.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't cry a lot outside of happiness.
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  SPEAKER_00: I cry when I'm happy.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's how you know your thinking and feeling is aligned.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you want a different life than you're living right now, you must start embodying the life you want.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the moment the universe can match the frequency and finally give you the lifestyle that you desire.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you want to feel like a wealthy person, you must start walking through the world pretending to be a wealthy person.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've talked about this before, your movie.
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  SPEAKER_00: Pretend you're in a movie.
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  SPEAKER_00: The world absolutely does revolve around you.
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  SPEAKER_00: We've been told the opposite growing up, but it does and it should.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're the main character of your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: You get to make all the choices and all the decisions in your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And being the main character is not selfish.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you had your dream life, how much would you give?
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  SPEAKER_00: We all at a soul level love to give.
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  SPEAKER_00: It makes us feel good to make others feel good.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you deserve to have more.
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  SPEAKER_00: More money, more love.
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  SPEAKER_00: You deserve to feel good about yourself, you deserve to look good because when you look good, you feel good.
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  SPEAKER_00: Be the main character of your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: You get to decide what happens in your life, in your career, in your partnerships, your money, friendships, vacations, successes, failures.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is literally all about you.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's your movie.
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  SPEAKER_00: So own that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Start owning that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Start walking throughout your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Wake up every day and pretend there's a camera on you.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is your show.
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  SPEAKER_00: Start walking, talking, acting like a wealthy, successful version of you.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is how you align the thinking and feeling part.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's when you send a coherent signal to the universe, a coherent request.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you ask, it is always given.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you must send a clear request because it won't be given.
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  SPEAKER_00: The universe is gonna be like, girl, you're sending me two different things.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know which one you want.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we're gonna just hold off until you know.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's what attracts the waiting.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if you're sending, it's not coming, it's not coming, I'm waiting for it to come, I'm waiting for it to come.
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  SPEAKER_00: The universe always says yes, which means a match.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes, you're right.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are waiting for it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, you're waiting?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you're right.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are waiting currently.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's always a yes, it's always a direct match.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let me know in the comments if you resonate with this, what magical things start happening for you the second you start living the main character in your movie.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm sending you so much love and success.
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  SPEAKER_00: Bye.