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Amanda Frances EXCLUSIVE: RHOBH, Money & Manifestation Secrets · Reality with The King

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Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
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Speaker 2: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
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Speaker 2: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
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Speaker 2: scripted as well. Hey, rain Drops on today's episode of
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Speaker 2: Reality with the King, I'm so thrilled because I am
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Speaker 2: speaking to the woman who I and you rain Drops
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Speaker 2: have been saying needs to go visit doctor Terry debrou
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Speaker 2: because she may need back surgery for carrying this season.
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Speaker 1: Give it up, o men, the Princess.
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Speaker 3: What a compliment. Thank you.
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Speaker 1: You're a pretty woman.
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Speaker 3: You're so sweet, and you're pink.
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Speaker 1: You're so sad a match.
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Speaker 3: We're pretty cute together. Honestly, did we manifest this? Probably? Probably?
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Speaker 3: I manifested a lot of good things today other than
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Speaker 3: the traffic girl, I could not get here today.
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Speaker 2: No, but listen, I'm because look I told you guys,
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Speaker 2: I wasn't lying. I have Amanda's book rich as fuck,
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Speaker 2: and look, I need you to sign an autograph this.
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Speaker 1: Of course before you leave. Yes, absolutely, I bought this
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Speaker 1: at twenty twenty three.
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Speaker 3: That the I think the reason I'm here. I think
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Speaker 3: the reason I said like no, because you get a
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Speaker 3: lot of people wanting you to talk about a lot
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Speaker 3: of you know, how to is go on the show
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Speaker 3: and everyone wants to talk to you. The reason I said no,
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Speaker 3: I want to do that. One I want to talk
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Speaker 3: to him is because you did a real that said
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Speaker 3: I read her book before she was a housewife and guys,
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Speaker 3: it's good, it's good. And I was like, that's the
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Speaker 3: podcast I want to go on.
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Speaker 2: Oh no, but I want to start there because the
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Speaker 2: thing with me is this my audience knows that I'm
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Speaker 2: very spiritual.
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Speaker 1: I'm big on manifestation.
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Speaker 2: I read tons of books about self improvement, self help.
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Speaker 2: One of my favorite books is now I'll have a
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Speaker 2: brain part about my favorite book? Why can I think
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Speaker 2: of It's probably not no, it's well, it's not the
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Speaker 2: Law of attraction, but like the Alchemist is one of
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Speaker 2: my favorite book.
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Speaker 3: This is an amazing book, an amazing concept. Everything he
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Speaker 3: wrote is good. Paul Okahuila or how his books are.
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Speaker 2: Yes, but this is also really good because I am
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Speaker 2: a money magnet and and and.
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Speaker 3: I believe that no, no, no, no, no, Yes, I.
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Speaker 1: Have a money magnet. Okay, well maybe that's why you.
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Speaker 3: Get me, because you understand that when I say manifest
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Speaker 3: manifesting money, plying energetic and spiritual principles the money in business,
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Speaker 3: you don't hear me saying sit around and meditate and
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Speaker 3: do nothing. You've done the work. You get that this
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Speaker 3: is work. It's looking at this shit, looking at your
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Speaker 3: limiting beliefs and livecen stories around money is so much work.
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Speaker 3: It's so much work.
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Speaker 2: Yes, and so talk to my audience because I do
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Speaker 2: feel like they don't along with your cast, don't understand.
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Speaker 3: Daily sending light in life.
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Speaker 2: Explain to my audience some of the tips. I do
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Speaker 2: want them to buy the book, which is fucked, but
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Speaker 2: talk them through some of the tips that you talk
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Speaker 2: about in terms of the relationship with money, how to
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Speaker 2: attract it, not having limiting beliefs, like all of the
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Speaker 2: things that I believe.
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Speaker 3: In so much. I mean, where do we want to start?
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Speaker 2: Like?
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Speaker 3: We could start so many places. So here's what the
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Speaker 3: journey was like for me. I start a life coaching business.
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Speaker 3: I'm nearly done with my master's degree. The first time
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Speaker 3: someone writes me a check to help their daughter with
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Speaker 3: my life coaching services ball my eyes out. I didn't
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Speaker 3: know how to receive money for doing something I love.
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Speaker 3: And I was like, wait, this is all I've ever wanted,
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Speaker 3: and now someone has paid me, and I don't know
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Speaker 3: how to be comfortable being paid. So there was clearly
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Speaker 3: psychology around my experience with money. Who am I to
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Speaker 3: earn money this way? What is it to be a
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Speaker 3: middle class person from an Oklahomaha at lower middle class
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Speaker 3: who has never viewed herself as someone who can be rich? Right?
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Speaker 3: So I'm realizing there's like an identity piece, there is
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Speaker 3: a nervous system piece. I don't feel safe with money, right,
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Speaker 3: So that kind of starts my journey. And then this
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Speaker 3: other weird thing happened. Right, so start my life coaching business.
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Speaker 3: I do get more comfortable making money. I have a
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Speaker 3: lot of happy clients, little dot, but I start a
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Speaker 3: PhD program. It was my dream to get my PhD.
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Speaker 3: So I'm in the PhD program. One year. I ended
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Speaker 3: up quitting the program because my business was growing and
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Speaker 3: I felt like the business was going to help me
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Speaker 3: help more people and make more money. The PhD was
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Speaker 3: not going to help me help more people make more money. Like,
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Speaker 3: I felt like I had a pretty solid education and
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Speaker 3: I wanted to do more personal development work and less
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Speaker 3: academia work. Right, So I quit my PhD program. So
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Speaker 3: that means my stipend from the University of North Texas
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Speaker 3: went away. So you know, it's so annoying about being
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Speaker 3: on your house. My sorry side note, though, every time
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Speaker 3: you say anything, you're like, wait, is that going to
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Speaker 3: confuse the audience? Or then I say I'm lying because
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Speaker 3: my master's was from SMU, and I've said that many,
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Speaker 3: many times, and now I just mentioned another school, so
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Speaker 3: now people can go wait, I thought she went to
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Speaker 3: graduated SMU and then I went on to my doctorate program.
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Speaker 3: But like everything you say constantly when you're on this
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Speaker 3: show is scrutinized and people pick everything apart and it
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Speaker 3: makes you crazy.
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Speaker 1: Well, I want to talk back to my story.
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna make it. I know it's long, right now,
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Speaker 3: It's okay. I quit my PhD program. My stipend stops
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Speaker 3: the very next next month, I make the exact same
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Speaker 3: amount of money as I made the month before. So
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Speaker 3: with the stipend gone, like the stipend left me in May,
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Speaker 3: I didn't have it anymore. So like in June, I
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Speaker 3: make the same amount of money I made in May.
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Speaker 3: And I'm like, what is that? Do I have some
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Speaker 3: kind of set point? Do I have some kind of
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Speaker 3: I call it an energetic minimum and energetic maximum in
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Speaker 3: the book. But do I have some kind of like
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Speaker 3: number that I expect to make every month that I
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Speaker 3: have a pretty strong expectation around. So it's like I
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Speaker 3: didn't intentionally add more clients from the one month to
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Speaker 3: the next month. I didn't intentionally schedule more sessions. I
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Speaker 3: had more time to see clients, But how did I
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Speaker 3: make the same amount? Like buy the dollar? So then
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Speaker 3: I start like that opened up a whole thing in
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Speaker 3: my brain, like like what is this? Like at the time,
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Speaker 3: I didn't know the idea of like being a vibrational
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Speaker 3: match or amount of money, So I'm like what is this?
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Speaker 3: So I start looking at my work. I'm done with
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Speaker 3: all my clients. I'm like, how is it This client
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Speaker 3: mentioned that she paid off her credit card debt, but
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Speaker 3: the next month there was an expense. Now she has
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Speaker 3: the exact same amount of debt. Again, I'm like, do
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Speaker 3: we have a set point around debt, around savings, around earning,
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Speaker 3: around spending, around all the things where we get in
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Speaker 3: these habits, around many where we can't imagine having more
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Speaker 3: or less than this amount or that amount in an
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Speaker 3: account or through our income or by the end of
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Speaker 3: the month or whatever it is following. Yes, Okay, so
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Speaker 3: all of this is happening, and I'm thinking, Wow, there
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Speaker 3: is so much more to money than we've ever been taught.
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Speaker 3: So I'm just a girl running a life coaching business,
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Speaker 3: exploring this for herself, exploring it with my clients, and
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Speaker 3: I'm like, I so this goes on for a few years.
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Speaker 3: I'm like, I think I have to start talking about this.
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Speaker 3: I think I have to tell women that there's more
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Speaker 3: to it than just dollars and cents. There's what they
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Speaker 3: believe about themselves, the identity they have around mony and
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Speaker 3: who they are, and what it means to be someone
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Speaker 3: who is no longer in the income bracket they've been
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Speaker 3: a lot of people are afraid that if they make
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Speaker 3: money or want to make money, it'll mean they're a
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Speaker 3: bad person. People are afraid if they make money or
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Speaker 3: want to make money, It'll mean they're ostracized by their family.
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Speaker 3: They're a peer group, their community, they came from their church.
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Speaker 3: They're like even in therapy world, where people had private
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Speaker 3: practices and we're making decent money, we were supposed to
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Speaker 3: pretend like we didn't want money. Like a lot of
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Speaker 3: industries where people are helpers, we're supposed to pretend we
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Speaker 3: don't want money. It's okay to want money. So I'm
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Speaker 3: looking at all of this all the time, and then
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Speaker 3: eventually I create a course called Money and Toddy Makeover.
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Speaker 3: I'm like, let me just start breaking this down. So
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Speaker 3: there's like a manifestation piece, but there's a big psychology piece,
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Speaker 3: and there's a big what you believe about yourself in
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Speaker 3: your life please, And it's all of this together. And
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Speaker 3: that course has grown and grown and grown and grown.
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Speaker 3: It's now like has thirty hours of content or something.
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Speaker 3: I've added to it every year for like fourteen years.
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Speaker 3: And I put a lot of that same information in
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Speaker 3: the book, not all of it, because you can't fit
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Speaker 3: it all, right. You can do a lot more in
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Speaker 3: a course than you can do in a book. But
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Speaker 3: I put a lot of it in here and do
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Speaker 3: you think that summed it up?
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Speaker 1: Yes, No, let's think you.
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Speaker 3: I mean, I know you get it.
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Speaker 1: I receive it.
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Speaker 2: And the reason why I receive it, Amanda, is because
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Speaker 2: I know that there is a such thing as Limington believes.
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Speaker 2: You have to you have to believe you deserve it,
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Speaker 2: and you have to be okay with wanting it.
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Speaker 3: You have to be okay desiring it. You have to
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Speaker 3: believe you're worthy of it. You have to be Your
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Speaker 3: worth is not in question. That God or higher power
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Speaker 3: universe isn't saying you aren't worthy of this much. That destiny,
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Speaker 3: your financial destiny, wasn't written in the chalkboard in the sky.
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Speaker 3: But it's fully up to you decide what kind of
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Speaker 3: earner you're going to be in life. Yeah, because kisses
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Speaker 3: people off when they aren't in their power.
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Speaker 1: Well, we were seeing that this season.
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Speaker 2: I mean, we just discover that Dereite owes a lot
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Speaker 2: of money and back mortgage payments or her house may
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Speaker 2: be taken away from her.
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Speaker 1: Do you think when Deree was googling three hundred.
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Speaker 2: And fifty seven pages to find out you were in
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Speaker 2: a cult, that she should have read three hundred and
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Speaker 2: fifty seven pages to learn how to pay her mortgage.
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Speaker 3: I think it may have gone better for her because
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Speaker 3: here's the thing, and I think this is why I'm
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Speaker 3: getting a lot of help. People assume that manifesting means
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Speaker 3: like you just sit and say meditations, affirmations, and money comes.
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Speaker 3: I'm getting people to question the constructs they build their
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Speaker 3: life around, you know what I mean. And that's real
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Speaker 3: and hard work. So what does Deit believe about money?
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Speaker 3: I don't fucking know. But say she believes it's hard
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Speaker 3: to come by. Say she believes it's always ready out.
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Speaker 3: Say she believes there's just enough. Maybe you make just enough,
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Speaker 3: but then it's gone really really quickly. Can I tell
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Speaker 3: you I made money on the show. Let me let
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Speaker 3: me just explain it. I was getting glam the same
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Speaker 3: amount I was always getting glam. I was wearing the
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Speaker 3: clothes that were always in my closet. So when everyone
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Speaker 3: was talking about how being on the show so expensive,
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Speaker 3: I'm like, being on this show isn't expensive, because to me,
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Speaker 3: it wasn't. I'm so like that just shows different beliefs
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Speaker 3: and perceptions about money would create a different experience, because
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Speaker 3: I think there's more than enough.
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Speaker 2: So I was just about to say that because again,
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Speaker 2: what people don't realize is and words have power.
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Speaker 1: And by the way, a lot of this is biblical.
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Speaker 3: And again, oh it's absolutely difficult, and I qute the Bible
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Speaker 3: here this whole thing.
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Speaker 1: I know, girlfriend, That's why I'm like, you guys have
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Speaker 1: to read the book.
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Speaker 2: But the thing for me is even hearing that. And
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Speaker 2: when I look at Deret for example, and I saw
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Speaker 2: how she had a heart on for you, I was
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Speaker 2: surprised that she didn't take a liking to you so
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Speaker 2: that he's able to understand her relationship with money, because
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Speaker 2: I do believe that Dury has a lack mentality, which
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Speaker 2: is why she's always And again maybe I have this wrong,
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Speaker 2: but what was your experience as you were filming with her?
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Speaker 3: I don't know because think about it, we didn't really
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Speaker 3: film together that much like other than those big group
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Speaker 3: dinners I meet with her and Bose where I feel
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Speaker 3: like I do get to know her better. I do
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Speaker 3: hear about more what's going on for her. I do
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Speaker 3: feel like I gave her some good advice, even if
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Speaker 3: Bose later questioned it in an interview. At the time
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Speaker 3: when I was giving the advice, bos was saying hallelujah, Amen, sister,
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Speaker 3: and Bo's has said that you'll see her say it
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Speaker 3: in the reunion, So watch the reunion. It's coming very soon.
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Speaker 3: Bose and I agreed on a lot of things when
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Speaker 3: I was giving to read advice. So my expectation after
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Speaker 3: that lunch was I will have more opportunities to talk
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Speaker 3: to dure it. And I'm excited about this. I think, like,
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Speaker 3: I think I can really help her. That's what was
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Speaker 3: going on in my mind. And you saw how we
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Speaker 3: got totally sidetracked and de reiled from the thing I
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Speaker 3: said at Kathy's, which wasn't really even anything that we've
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Speaker 3: seen it. Now that we've seen the scene at Kathy's,
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Speaker 3: it happened just like I said. It happened like I said.
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Speaker 3: I went over there. They asked me what I thought
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Speaker 3: about to read. I recapped the lunch a little. I said.
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Speaker 3: Kyle's kind of worried about this. I can see that.
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Speaker 3: Jennifer says, oh, you know, her ex didn't like it
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Speaker 3: when she said he was an alcoholic, And I say, well,
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Speaker 3: if it's true, like it wasn't me coming down hard
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Speaker 3: on to reet. You're talking about her ex. It was
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Speaker 3: just a group conversation. We've seen that. Now we've seen
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Speaker 3: that what I told her I said is exactly what
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Speaker 3: I said.
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Speaker 2: Do you think unfortunately, Derey possibly could have just been
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Speaker 2: jealous of the new pretty blonde that enter the show.
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Speaker 3: I think that some women on this show believe it
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Speaker 3: is their job, in order to keep the show interesting
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Speaker 3: and entertaining and whatever, it is their job to just
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Speaker 3: find dirt on each other. But here's why that was
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Speaker 3: hard for me. I went into it going, I'm just
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Speaker 3: going to get to know everyone. I'm just gonna get
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Speaker 3: to know everyone and see who I connect with. I'm
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Speaker 3: just going to be friends with everyone. Part of that,
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Speaker 3: and this is how I always am. Though. That means
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Speaker 3: I'm looking for the best in everyone. That's how I
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Speaker 3: like go throughout the world as I look for the
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Speaker 3: best in people I didn't know until like we're like
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Speaker 3: midway through the season and I'm like, oh fuck, they're
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Speaker 3: gonna look for the worst in me no matter what
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Speaker 3: I do. So if I'm coming out life looking for
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Speaker 3: the best, looking for the best, and they're coming out
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Speaker 3: life looking for the worst, looking for the worst, like,
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Speaker 3: how are we gonna get anywhere? Because I'm just like
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Speaker 3: wanting to repair with her wanting to figure out. You
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Speaker 3: see it in Italy. I'm wanting to repair. I'm wanting
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Speaker 3: to figure it out. I'm wanting to move on. I'm
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Speaker 3: thinking we can put this behind us and go forward.
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Speaker 3: But I'm looking for the best. I'm thinking I'm gonna
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Speaker 3: be helpful anywhere I can. And they're looking for the
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Speaker 3: certain people or looking for the worst and gonna tear
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Speaker 3: down anywhere they can. That's a very different way to
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Speaker 3: view life. And what was crazy is that that to
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Speaker 3: them was suspicious. Someone going through life looking for the best,
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Speaker 3: being positive, talking about how good their life is, being
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Speaker 3: proud of what they've accomplished, is suspicious. Isn't that interesting?
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Speaker 2: Well, this is reality with the King and I'm Carlos King.
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Speaker 1: Let's get back into the show.
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Speaker 2: I think the unfortunate thing is you came on this
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Speaker 2: season as a newbie, but so did Rachel Zoe. But
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Speaker 2: you two had a very different experience in terms of
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Speaker 2: the reception.
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Speaker 3: But no one's gonna try to dig up shit on Rachel.
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Speaker 3: She's Rachel.
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Speaker 1: I said that on my podcast States Spade.
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Speaker 3: She is Rachel Zoe.
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Speaker 1: I said on my podcast.
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Speaker 3: Now, no one's trying to figure out the bad in her.
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Speaker 1: Explain why she is established.
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Speaker 3: She is iconic. We all know who she is. That
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Speaker 3: is like they're all, we're just gonna be thankful for
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Speaker 3: her little cute like one liners, and I can't because
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Speaker 3: it's like funny and comic relief. That's why she was
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Speaker 3: loved on her last show. I've never said this, but
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Speaker 3: here we are, let's say it. I was never like
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Speaker 3: a diehard fan of her show or anything, but I
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Speaker 3: did watch it as like a how old would I
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Speaker 3: have been there? Twenty five or so? Twenty four as
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Speaker 3: a young woman living in Dallas, Texas in grad school,
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Speaker 3: I had some close friends who were in art school
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Speaker 3: who met to watch her show every week. We had
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Speaker 3: all gone to undergrad together at Oh are You and
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Speaker 3: they would invite me over to watch the Rachel Zoe Project.
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Speaker 3: Oh that's what it was called, right. I would invite
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Speaker 3: me over, we would watch it. So it's not like
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Speaker 3: I was again a diehard fan, but I very much
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Speaker 3: was someone who I think everyone my age looked up
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Speaker 3: to her. I think everyone my age looked up to her,
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Speaker 3: thought she was amazing, could quote her little lines like
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Speaker 3: knew she was a woman doing things in the world. So,
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Speaker 3: I mean, no one's doubting that she's amazing, right, But
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Speaker 3: what was so crazy to me, like my feelings are hurt.
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Speaker 3: What makes me have a visceral reaction right now and
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Speaker 3: feel really sad is I found out that someone I
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Speaker 3: consider to be iconic didn't like me by watching the interviews.
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Speaker 3: She was nice to my face one hundred percent of
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Speaker 3: the time until the reunion. She never said one negative thing,
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Speaker 3: one skeptical thing, one cynical thing, one questioning thing. Until
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Speaker 3: the reunion. She was one hundred percent nice to my
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Speaker 3: face one hundred percent of the time. I found out
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Speaker 3: she didn't like me from watching the show, and my
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Speaker 3: feelings are heard about that they are.
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Speaker 1: Why are you getting emotional now about?
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Speaker 3: I guess that fucking sucks to find out someone who
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Speaker 3: the whole world looks up to, you know, is looking
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Speaker 3: for the worst.
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Speaker 1: Don't you do?
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Speaker 2: You think it was my proxy of her just trying
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Speaker 2: to find commonality with these girls who were befriending her,
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Speaker 2: and by you being the one they picked on the most,
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Speaker 2: that is better to just beat themthing join them.
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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, is it group think? Yeah?
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Speaker 3: Maybe it's a little group think, ye, I don't know.
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Speaker 3: I mean like when I because you know, you watch
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Speaker 3: the show and then you have to reflect back on
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Speaker 3: what your experience was like because there's the show and
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Speaker 3: then there's like being a human being filming the show, right,
17:04
Speaker 3: and like that scene where you know, I'm like audioing
17:07
Speaker 3: my team and I'm like check on the website, La
17:09
Speaker 3: da da da da and make sure this content goes
17:11
Speaker 3: out today, and la da da. I sent like three
17:12
Speaker 3: audios in the car. I wasn't on the phone for
17:15
Speaker 3: an hour, and between audios, I was talking to Rachel
17:18
Speaker 3: and they let me clarify this hole much what Happens Live.
17:20
Speaker 3: So I don't think it's a secret because they because
17:22
Speaker 3: I basically without saying it was editing, I just told
17:25
Speaker 3: the story how watch what happens Live, and they kept it.
17:27
Speaker 3: So I don't think it's like a think you know, yeah,
17:31
Speaker 3: no listen. So I would I would audio something. Okay,
17:35
Speaker 3: I understand that we gave that person a three month contract.
17:37
Speaker 3: We only needed them for two months, so I think
17:38
Speaker 3: just go ahead and pay them for the third month
17:40
Speaker 3: and let them go. I would say that in the audio,
17:42
Speaker 3: and then me and Rachel will talk about what it's
17:44
Speaker 3: like to fire someone She's like, yeah, I've had to
17:45
Speaker 3: do that. You start to keep paying the per So
17:47
Speaker 3: we'd have a conversation like so I'm sending these little audios,
17:49
Speaker 3: but then I'm talking to the group, talking to the car,
17:52
Speaker 3: like in that car ride to Sadona, I told them
17:55
Speaker 3: about like this horrible aahuasca experience I had, Like we're
17:57
Speaker 3: talking about all kinds of stuff, So like, maybe it
18:00
Speaker 3: was annoying that I was audioing my team on a
18:02
Speaker 3: girl's trip to Sedona, but it was surprising to then
18:05
Speaker 3: see a scene Rachel's like, what is she a nineteen
18:08
Speaker 3: sixties flight attendant? Which is the last episode I watched?
18:12
Speaker 2: Was it also hard for you? When they say all
18:16
Speaker 2: you do is talk about labels? Which I've been watching
18:18
Speaker 2: Bill b Hill since season one, and the through line
18:23
Speaker 2: of why that franchise it's so special is because everybody
18:27
Speaker 2: walks around talking about the Armass, the Kelly, the Burkins
18:30
Speaker 2: and everything else, and even watching this season, Rachel doesn't
18:34
Speaker 2: mince words when she talks about like oh this is
18:36
Speaker 2: bench of Chanelle Benure's diyor so like they all do
18:39
Speaker 2: it and d Reed does it too. Why Why why
18:43
Speaker 2: was it for you?
18:45
Speaker 1: You think I don't know.
18:46
Speaker 3: Wasn't it highlighted though in like a weird way, like
18:49
Speaker 3: I would say something and then they would make it
18:50
Speaker 3: like they're silence like been in real life. I experienced
18:54
Speaker 3: its just having a conversation about stuff. I don't I've
18:58
Speaker 3: said it on watching oppins, I've in a million times now.
19:00
Speaker 3: I thought it was a show about rich women with
19:02
Speaker 3: cool stuff. I thought we was suppos talk about the
19:03
Speaker 3: cool stuff. I thought that was like part of the thing,
19:05
Speaker 3: so to be like really really transparent. I think there's
19:08
Speaker 3: part of me that thinks this is the job, like
19:11
Speaker 3: we're cute stuff and talk about your cool shit or whatever.
19:14
Speaker 3: And there's a little part of me going like, oh, yay,
19:16
Speaker 3: I have cool things too. Let me tell you guys
19:19
Speaker 3: about it, right, like the girl who didn't grow up
19:21
Speaker 3: with the cool things. But it didn't feel insecure. I
19:25
Speaker 3: don't know. I thought I was. I thought I was
19:26
Speaker 3: trying to understand the assignment.
19:27
Speaker 2: Honestly, are you disappointed in how some of the audience
19:35
Speaker 2: and the girls have reacted to you thinking you are
19:39
Speaker 2: you know, delusional when it comes to how you make
19:43
Speaker 2: your money. They think you're braggadocious, they think you are
19:47
Speaker 2: aloof does that had.
19:49
Speaker 3: The braggadocious doesn't bother me really that much because I
19:53
Speaker 3: think in my world and in my friend groups that
19:56
Speaker 3: it's very celebratory. We all talk about what we have
20:00
Speaker 3: and it's but it's from a place of like, go, girl,
20:01
Speaker 3: good job, do that buy that for yourself? So if
20:04
Speaker 3: that's translated poorly, I don't really care that much about that.
20:09
Speaker 3: I do agree that everyone does it, though, so it's
20:10
Speaker 3: not exactly fair. But the new money stuff doesn't bother
20:16
Speaker 3: me at all because I'm super duper crazy proud of
20:18
Speaker 3: being new money. Like do you want to be new money? Money?
20:21
Speaker 3: Are like anciently broke? Like I think being new money
20:23
Speaker 3: is fabulous. I'm gonna be like I like, yeah, be
20:26
Speaker 3: fucking new money. I also inspire and empower and encourage
20:31
Speaker 3: women to make their own money, so like anyone who
20:33
Speaker 3: follows my work and follows the advice is likely going
20:36
Speaker 3: to be new money. I mean, I've had some people
20:37
Speaker 3: that come from money and my work for sure, but
20:39
Speaker 3: a lot of us become new money. So I think
20:41
Speaker 3: that's a good fucking thing. Delusional. I think some amount
20:46
Speaker 3: of delusion is absolutely required to create a life that
20:48
Speaker 3: doesn't make sense for you. So I think we need
20:50
Speaker 3: to lean into delusion a little.
20:51
Speaker 1: Bit, agreed, like, not fully, but you got to have
20:54
Speaker 1: a little bit of delusion to you got to have this.
20:57
Speaker 3: You gotta have exactly. You have to have some imagination
21:00
Speaker 3: to be able to look at a life that isn't
21:01
Speaker 3: there yet and believe it's possible for you. That is delusion. Yeah,
21:04
Speaker 3: you can have your feet on the ground and be
21:06
Speaker 3: grounded and be intentionally delusional, which I think I've been
21:08
Speaker 3: pretty good at. I mean, they heard me talk about
21:12
Speaker 3: the Malibu Barbie scene, which they made sound so silly,
21:16
Speaker 3: but like it's true. I've been working on this life
21:19
Speaker 3: I live now, my entire life. But I didn't just
21:22
Speaker 3: dream of it as a little girl. I never stopped
21:24
Speaker 3: dreaming of it and working toward it every day for
21:28
Speaker 3: so many years now. And then, what else did you
21:31
Speaker 3: say aloof I don't know. I think it's pretty clear
21:35
Speaker 3: I'm neurodivergent, Like I don't have a super normal brain.
21:38
Speaker 3: So that means some of the time I don't perceive
21:40
Speaker 3: a social situation correctly, and a lot of the time
21:43
Speaker 3: I don't care if I'm perceiving a social situation. Character
21:46
Speaker 3: social hierarchy is not in my value system. I don't
21:49
Speaker 3: get it. I don't understand. It doesn't make sense to me,
21:51
Speaker 3: like networking doesn't make sense to me, like my brain
21:54
Speaker 3: and the way my brain works doesn't do any of that.
21:56
Speaker 1: I thought I was the only one who don't like networking,
21:59
Speaker 1: and I don't.
22:00
Speaker 3: I think all neurodivergent people we can't handle it because
22:02
Speaker 3: it feels fake to us.
22:03
Speaker 1: It freaks us out a man that you're my people.
22:06
Speaker 1: I tell people networking is the biggest scam in the world.
22:09
Speaker 3: Can you I'm gonna go here and pretend to have something,
22:12
Speaker 3: like to get something from you, to.
22:14
Speaker 2: Get something in exchange for that I'd rather get on
22:17
Speaker 2: my own, which leads me to do you think the
22:19
Speaker 2: reason why some of these girls may not understand you
22:22
Speaker 2: is because and this is not shade because you talked
22:24
Speaker 2: about in your interview. Is it because you did not
22:29
Speaker 2: have to depend on a man to make your money
22:31
Speaker 2: and your your income isn't?
22:34
Speaker 1: Isn't because you may already into it.
22:36
Speaker 3: I mean, but like Rachel, well Rachel didn't Mary into it,
22:39
Speaker 3: but she comes from money bose. I'm not super clear
22:42
Speaker 3: on her at her her spouse who passed had money,
22:47
Speaker 3: and I know that there was there was something hard
22:49
Speaker 3: because she mentioned it to me once or we were
22:52
Speaker 3: in a car with a group of us. She said
22:53
Speaker 3: he died and she didn't know what to do financially
22:59
Speaker 3: when he died. But we know she at some point
23:02
Speaker 3: obviously did her thing and made a lot of money.
23:04
Speaker 3: But we know there was some point on the journey
23:06
Speaker 3: where she was dependent on a manner. At least that's
23:07
Speaker 3: how it sounded to me. Do you know are you
23:09
Speaker 3: clear on that?
23:10
Speaker 2: Well? Based based on some of that and then obviously
23:12
Speaker 2: the worst she's done with Nephilix and Apple not Apple Uber,
23:18
Speaker 2: were you surprised when Bows made comments? She even made
23:22
Speaker 2: some most watch What Happens Live, you know, making seem
23:25
Speaker 2: like your career as a scam.
23:30
Speaker 3: I want everyone to watch the reunion for what she
23:32
Speaker 3: says about that. I just want everyone to watch the reunion.
23:37
Speaker 3: Just watch the reunion. So I was surprised when I
23:40
Speaker 3: saw it. You're gonna need to watch. I can't spoil
23:45
Speaker 3: what she ends up saying about that.
23:47
Speaker 1: What do you think of bowse.
23:53
Speaker 3: It's at that's This is a hard one because I
23:55
Speaker 3: liked her so much in so many moments when we're
23:58
Speaker 3: quoting there, we talk about this reunion, so people are
24:01
Speaker 3: going to see me talk to us talk about it.
24:02
Speaker 3: I think probably the day we met, we quoted Bible
24:05
Speaker 3: verses back and forth to each other about abundance. I
24:07
Speaker 3: was quoting like, with faith as small as a muster seed,
24:10
Speaker 3: and Mark eleven, verse twenty three and twenty four say
24:12
Speaker 3: of the mountain be cast into the sea and it
24:13
Speaker 3: she'll be done if you believe in your heart and
24:15
Speaker 3: do not doubt. Like we were talking about manifestation from
24:17
Speaker 3: a very biblical place before Darite got there, and I
24:20
Speaker 3: was like, me and this girl are going to be fine.
24:22
Speaker 3: We both say praise the Lord to shit all the time,
24:24
Speaker 3: Like you know. I think in some ways she does
24:29
Speaker 3: understand me a lot. I think she's very into mindset.
24:32
Speaker 3: I think she knows mindset is a really, really big deal.
24:35
Speaker 3: I think she decided to get stuck on the manifestation part,
24:38
Speaker 3: the word manifestation instead of the fact that both of
24:41
Speaker 3: us believes very similar things about connecting to God or
24:46
Speaker 3: whatever we want to call it to create a wonderful life.
24:49
Speaker 3: I think we don't have that different views.
24:51
Speaker 2: Mask comment that bows makes into Night's episode. We were
24:55
Speaker 2: all sort of like taking him back by it because
24:59
Speaker 2: she's pretty much inferring that you're fake.
25:02
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, that there's two size to you.
25:07
Speaker 3: And it's just not true. Like I don't hide anything.
25:11
Speaker 3: I don't hide anything. They bring up the colt. I say,
25:13
Speaker 3: let's talk about it, like anything they ever brought up.
25:16
Speaker 3: I'm like, what do you want to know? It's like,
25:19
Speaker 3: if here's how it feels to me, if I'm not
25:22
Speaker 3: flying off the handle about something, if there isn't dirt
25:26
Speaker 3: to dig up, if everything is really good in my life,
25:30
Speaker 3: then it must be fake. Eddie and I were talking
25:33
Speaker 3: about this this weekend. We're having a little delightful weekend
25:35
Speaker 3: at Newport Beach in our house where kids are running around,
25:37
Speaker 3: we're happy, the sin is shining. We get in a
25:39
Speaker 3: little tip about something I remember what our little tif was.
25:41
Speaker 3: We cleared up pretty quickly and I was like, this
25:43
Speaker 3: is what I wish people could see. It's like, it's
25:46
Speaker 3: not that it's a perfect life. It's just very intentionally
25:49
Speaker 3: created from where I want my kids to be spending
25:52
Speaker 3: their weekends to where I want us to be going
25:55
Speaker 3: or what I want us to be eating like and
25:57
Speaker 3: how I just want us to be living like the
25:58
Speaker 3: lifestyle of the quality of life to me and Eddie
26:00
Speaker 3: having a little tiff and knowing how to resolve it
26:02
Speaker 3: and then having Sunday afternoon sex, like people could never
26:05
Speaker 3: just know. Why is it skeptical that life is good
26:08
Speaker 3: when someone's known for manifestation? And manifestation is such like
26:12
Speaker 3: a buzzword. So like, let's break it down. I'm really
26:17
Speaker 3: good at being what I call in the book the
26:19
Speaker 3: gentle observer, the person who observes their thoughts all day
26:23
Speaker 3: long and notices what they're thinking. And I'm very aware
26:26
Speaker 3: of how my thoughts affect my emotions and how my
26:29
Speaker 3: emotions affect my vibration, and how all of that affects
26:32
Speaker 3: my fucking life. So I don't let myself think crazy
26:34
Speaker 3: shit all day, right, So, like I'm very good, And
26:38
Speaker 3: that's neuroplasticity, intentionally thinking certain thoughts to create new neuropathways,
26:43
Speaker 3: to have new expectations. Like we're talking about neuroscience. Like
26:47
Speaker 3: if in my book, if we like, I made it you,
26:50
Speaker 3: I made it reader friendly. But if I wanted to
26:52
Speaker 3: make it like super Mensa, like I could have had
26:55
Speaker 3: some parts of neuroscience, some parts we could put quantum
26:58
Speaker 3: physics over the top, Like, I mean, a lot of
27:00
Speaker 3: this is fucking rooted in science. Wait where was I
27:03
Speaker 3: going with this? Oh? So like I've.
27:04
Speaker 1: Intentionally mask I being fake.
27:07
Speaker 3: I've intentionally created lie. I intentionally created a good life
27:12
Speaker 3: and it was not necessarily easy. But yeah, it is good.
27:16
Speaker 3: It looks good because it is good, And that's what
27:19
Speaker 3: they were questioning. I saw Sutton on Entertainment Tonight the
27:23
Speaker 3: other day saying something like she should just tell us
27:25
Speaker 3: what's really going on in her family, because we all
27:27
Speaker 3: have stuff in our families too, And I'm like, there's
27:30
Speaker 3: nothing going on in my family. One, I'm never ever, ever, ever,
27:34
Speaker 3: ever in a million year is going to talk about
27:36
Speaker 3: my step kid's mom.
27:37
Speaker 1: Ever.
27:38
Speaker 3: Two, we get along great. She was at my house last.
27:40
Speaker 2: Night, Like there's just like, you know, but do you
27:42
Speaker 2: find a rich No pun intended that I made that
27:46
Speaker 2: comment knowing that, you know, she doesn't really talk much
27:50
Speaker 2: about We just learned this season that her ex husband
27:55
Speaker 2: left her for her friend.
27:57
Speaker 3: Well, and she shares that with us, and you know,
28:00
Speaker 3: I think every woman on the planet's like, oh, that
28:02
Speaker 3: would hurt instinct. And she's handling with a lot of grace.
28:04
Speaker 3: And I think we've all told her she's handling with
28:06
Speaker 3: a lot of grace, and she shared that. But it's like, okay,
28:11
Speaker 3: no one is sharing everything. Everyone is deciding what parts
28:16
Speaker 3: of their lives they're willing and comfortable to bring to
28:18
Speaker 3: the show based on kind of agreements they have with
28:22
Speaker 3: themselves and their friends and their family. Like Kyle has said,
28:24
Speaker 3: I was dating someone they did not want to be
28:26
Speaker 3: on this show. I will never talk about this. Like,
28:28
Speaker 3: so everyone's kind of doing this like juggle. Eric is like,
28:32
Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring the domestic violence thing forward. I mean,
28:35
Speaker 3: that's beautiful of her. I was's like, I'm gonna bring
28:36
Speaker 3: the fertilities so forward. Everyone's showing parts of their life.
28:42
Speaker 3: Knock on fucking what. I don't have anything bad happening.
28:45
Speaker 3: I don't have anything bad happening.
28:47
Speaker 2: You know, when you decided to join the show, you
28:54
Speaker 2: clearly have a lot of money because you bought Kyle
28:56
Speaker 2: Richard's home. Yes, and not only did you buy It's love,
29:00
Speaker 2: you also renovated it, okay, which which of course is
29:05
Speaker 2: additional money to.
29:06
Speaker 3: Do that cash money, Like I don't have a construction
29:09
Speaker 3: owner or anything, Like I'm using my money to renovate
29:12
Speaker 3: from my income every month.
29:13
Speaker 1: Yes, what is your relationship like now with Kyle?
29:21
Speaker 2: Because she did make a comment recently about feeling like
29:26
Speaker 2: it was opportunistic of you to.
29:30
Speaker 1: Have the book come out?
29:34
Speaker 3: What book? This book?
29:35
Speaker 2: A new book, your new book, and she was on
29:38
Speaker 2: Amazon Live and she felt that it was a little
29:42
Speaker 2: bit opportunistic of you to.
29:46
Speaker 1: Have this book be so ready available after.
29:50
Speaker 3: You after bringing it up. I think I said, didn't
29:55
Speaker 3: I say in an interview, I will capitalize. Didn't I
29:58
Speaker 3: say that, Yeah, You're gonna put me through this shit
30:01
Speaker 3: all summer and I'm not gonna make money. On the
30:02
Speaker 3: other side, Uh, yeah, gonna capitalize. What do they icking
30:06
Speaker 3: want me to do? Not make money on this bullshit? Yeah,
30:09
Speaker 3: I'm gonna monetize. That's crazy, Okay, But let me give
30:12
Speaker 3: you a little more context. When I will own that
30:14
Speaker 3: all day long, I saw an opportunity to make some
30:17
Speaker 3: many Yeah, I'm going for it. Who wouldn't. We're not
30:21
Speaker 3: gonna pretend, But I'll give you some context because it's worthwhile.
30:24
Speaker 3: I outlined the book. It's so, this is my money.
30:27
Speaker 3: But I have four books I'm gonna write in my lifetime.
30:29
Speaker 3: I've known this for years and year, so this is
30:31
Speaker 3: the money book. Now we're writing the God Book. I
30:33
Speaker 3: outlined the God Book when I was pregnant with Canaan
30:36
Speaker 3: and Zion, like pulled over on the side of the
30:38
Speaker 3: road and wrote the outline in the notes of my phone,
30:40
Speaker 3: like like you know what a download. The download was there.
30:46
Speaker 3: I knew what the book needed to be outlined it.
30:48
Speaker 3: And I don't have time to write a book right
30:50
Speaker 3: now because I have four kids and two of them
30:51
Speaker 3: are early little and like, I have a business, and
30:53
Speaker 3: I was gonna put off this book for probably like
30:55
Speaker 3: three more years. I just didn't think I had the
30:56
Speaker 3: time in this space to write a book. But then
30:58
Speaker 3: to read starts bringing up theok and she's bringing up
31:01
Speaker 3: the cult, and she's bringing up the cult. She's bringing
31:03
Speaker 3: up the cult. So I go and look at the outline.
31:06
Speaker 3: After the Santa Monica dinner, I look at the outline.
31:07
Speaker 3: I'm like, I could start writing this now. I was like,
31:10
Speaker 3: I'll probably have time in Italy because it's busy. When
31:14
Speaker 3: we're on cast Trust, there is like chunks of downtime.
31:17
Speaker 3: I was like, I think I probably start this while
31:19
Speaker 3: we're in Italy. I was like, I should thank Derriy
31:21
Speaker 3: for bringing it up and inspiring me to start it
31:24
Speaker 3: in Italy. So I so, uh wait, they see that
31:29
Speaker 3: I'm getting the episodes confused now they see that you
31:32
Speaker 3: haven't seen that yet. Me think, durat No, okay, so
31:35
Speaker 3: that's what you do see tonight. Okay, So you see
31:37
Speaker 3: me at dinner in Italy the first Italy episode. I
31:40
Speaker 3: thank Drie and then I get on. I get on
31:45
Speaker 3: my insist stories and I'm like, hey, guys, you've been
31:47
Speaker 3: asking for the God Book forever. Here it is. I'm
31:50
Speaker 3: writing it. Here's the intro. I show them the intro
31:53
Speaker 3: and I just started it. It was always going to
31:56
Speaker 3: be written, but I am starting it now because we
31:58
Speaker 3: talked about it on a reality show. Yeah, ye is
32:01
Speaker 3: that crazy?
32:02
Speaker 1: No, it's what they all do, all the girls.
32:04
Speaker 3: It's not opportunistic because I didn't plan it, had to
32:07
Speaker 3: read and not brought it up. I wouldn't be writing
32:08
Speaker 3: it right now. Thank you to read.
32:11
Speaker 1: I think it's mar I think it's mar one thing
32:13
Speaker 1: that I.
32:14
Speaker 3: Do want to I'm right working on chapter seven right
32:16
Speaker 3: now and it's coming along and I'm proud of it.
32:18
Speaker 3: It's a good book. It's a better book than this book?
32:20
Speaker 1: Can I get advanced copy?
32:21
Speaker 3: Absolutely? Thank you.
32:24
Speaker 2: You made a comment that a lot of housewives dinan
32:27
Speaker 2: I like of other franchises.
32:30
Speaker 1: You made a comment that you're one of the first.
32:34
Speaker 3: I said, one of right, you said you did just
32:36
Speaker 3: say the first. I said one of right. Okay, yeah,
32:40
Speaker 3: I said one of I think, I said. Because my team,
32:43
Speaker 3: I had my team go look it up. Okay, So
32:45
Speaker 3: here's let me tell you what happened on my end.
32:47
Speaker 3: I walk out of Good Morning New York and TMZ
32:50
Speaker 3: is standing there and they say, Amanda, what do you
32:54
Speaker 3: say about being what do you say about all this
32:56
Speaker 3: commotion about being one of the first bread winning housewives?
32:59
Speaker 3: And I was like, well, if that's true, it's an honor.
33:01
Speaker 3: Thank you so much. And then I get in the van.
33:03
Speaker 3: I say to my team, I think I'm missing something.
33:05
Speaker 3: I don't think TMZ. I think tmsz's talking. I don't
33:07
Speaker 3: know what TAMZ is talking about. So they start looking
33:09
Speaker 3: it up and they find it in the Entertainment Tonight clip.
33:12
Speaker 3: Bryce says, you know, you're a different kind of housewife
33:14
Speaker 3: and I don't know what I said first, and they say, yeah,
33:16
Speaker 3: I think I'm maybe one of the first Bread Winning
33:18
Speaker 3: a Housewives l Da Da Da Da Da. I was
33:20
Speaker 3: just saying, I'm not a typical housewife. What does lord
33:23
Speaker 3: housewife mean? What does lord housewife mean?
33:25
Speaker 2: Well, the Webster Dictionary definition of a housewife is a
33:30
Speaker 2: stay at home mom who.
33:32
Speaker 3: Works inside the home, doesn't make money out the home.
33:35
Speaker 3: Guard h yeah, so okay, So I like, honestly, I'm
33:40
Speaker 3: gonna be really honest. I said this to Kyle off camera,
33:43
Speaker 3: be really honest. I didn't know that the women on
33:46
Speaker 3: the show made money. I didn't know outside of Bethany Frankel,
33:50
Speaker 3: I didn't know the women on the money on the
33:51
Speaker 3: show made money. When I toured Kyle's house the first
33:55
Speaker 3: time in Alexia was one of the agents touring the
33:57
Speaker 3: house her daughter. I pointed out a room that's now
34:00
Speaker 3: to Lilah's room, and I said, what did you guys use.
34:02
Speaker 2: That room for?
34:02
Speaker 3: Was that like your homework room? And she was like, no,
34:04
Speaker 3: it's my mom's office. I was like, I thought your
34:05
Speaker 3: mom was a housewife, which is crazy, because of course
34:09
Speaker 3: Kyle works very hard. No one on the planet is
34:11
Speaker 3: doubting that. But when all I didn't know anything about
34:14
Speaker 3: Kyle Richard's at all, nothing other than she was on
34:16
Speaker 3: a show called Real Housewives. So I thought that meant
34:18
Speaker 3: she didn't work or make money. Like I apologize Kyle
34:21
Speaker 3: and humanity. I didn't know. So I have this perception
34:25
Speaker 3: that the women on the show, that the whole premise
34:27
Speaker 3: is that they don't work or make money. And then
34:29
Speaker 3: I'm asked to be on the show and i watch
34:31
Speaker 3: an episode. I watch an episode from season ten, very random,
34:34
Speaker 3: and Kyle's doing a fashion show. I'm like, okay, so
34:36
Speaker 3: they have various endeavors. This isn't a show about women
34:39
Speaker 3: who don't make money. But I don't like, I'm just
34:41
Speaker 3: catching up to the fact that I have no Bravo
34:43
Speaker 3: legacy in my brain.
34:46
Speaker 1: So you don't know about like the other franchises, the
34:49
Speaker 1: other women.
34:49
Speaker 3: I've never seen a single episode of any franchise.
34:52
Speaker 1: You've never seen them Real Housewives.
34:54
Speaker 3: Well, now I've seen episode one of season ten.
34:56
Speaker 1: No prior to joining.
34:58
Speaker 3: Right before I joined, I watch episode season ten and
35:02
Speaker 3: that was it. That was it. And then now I've
35:03
Speaker 3: seen some of the episodes I'm in. I stopped watching
35:06
Speaker 3: in Sedona.
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Speaker 2: How do you feel about joining this zeitgeist of scripted
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Speaker 2: television because the Bravo audience, sister, They're like no other
35:18
Speaker 2: fan base.
35:18
Speaker 1: In the world.
35:19
Speaker 3: It's really an interesting thing.
35:21
Speaker 1: Do you regret doing it?
35:22
Speaker 3: No, I don't regret doing it, and I don't have
35:25
Speaker 3: regrets here for multiple reasons. One, I like the rest
35:29
Speaker 3: of the season for me. Everyone keep watching. I think
35:32
Speaker 3: they see more of me. Now do we get to
35:34
Speaker 3: the depths of my soul and the aner workings of
35:36
Speaker 3: my being? And does everyone get to know my heart fully? No,
35:38
Speaker 3: because it's really hard in an environment like that where
35:40
Speaker 3: everyone's questioning you. But I do have a stronger rest
35:43
Speaker 3: of the season. So watch two. We've had some iconic moments.
35:50
Speaker 3: I walk up to, like the barista at any coffee
35:53
Speaker 3: shop and they're like half home enough out yeah, like right,
35:58
Speaker 3: So some of that zeitgeistness is really cute and really fun,
36:00
Speaker 3: Like I enjoy that stuff, like it's part of the culture,
36:04
Speaker 3: the webbings of our culture. It's it's interesting to be
36:07
Speaker 3: a part of that. And then my third reason was
36:10
Speaker 3: we Amanda Francis, Inc. Has attracted a lot, a lot
36:14
Speaker 3: of people, a lot now tens of thousands of new
36:18
Speaker 3: people reading my book, which is amazing. But also I
36:21
Speaker 3: very intentionally created a lot of like offers at various
36:24
Speaker 3: prices over the past few months. Like we've always had
36:26
Speaker 3: some low cost offers, some things that are twenty dollars
36:29
Speaker 3: and thirty dollars, but in the past few months, I've
36:31
Speaker 3: done a lot of like pay what you feel to
36:32
Speaker 3: pay five dollars, eleven dollars, And there's a lot of
36:35
Speaker 3: people like kind of opening up to spirituality for the
36:37
Speaker 3: first time. And that's like my actual job. It's my
36:41
Speaker 3: actual job. So it's okay if like the haters don't
36:43
Speaker 3: want to come by a five dollar thing, but we're
36:46
Speaker 3: getting my team is getting emails constantly like you're opening
36:49
Speaker 3: me up to a whole new world. You're helping me
36:51
Speaker 3: reconcile my relationship with God, recon some my relationship with money.
36:53
Speaker 3: Like to me, that's really meaningful, important work. So yeah,
36:58
Speaker 3: And I think as people watch their they're not called reruns,
37:02
Speaker 3: I don't know what they're called anymore in twenties races.
37:04
Speaker 3: As the show lives on, they'll probably always be people
37:07
Speaker 3: who watch it and hate me, but there'll be other
37:09
Speaker 3: people that watch it and get curious enough to come
37:10
Speaker 3: check things out. And that's a good thing.
37:13
Speaker 1: Would you come back from another season.
37:16
Speaker 3: Decisions have not I have not made a decision. I
37:20
Speaker 3: have not made it.
37:21
Speaker 1: I would like you too.
37:23
Speaker 3: Okay, let's talk through this. What do you think I'm
37:25
Speaker 3: gonna get out of this? Like?
37:27
Speaker 2: What do you like?
37:28
Speaker 3: How's this gonna go?
37:29
Speaker 2: Well? I think that the thing, the thing that you're
37:31
Speaker 2: bringing to the show this season is a new perspective,
37:34
Speaker 2: right absolutely, And you are somebody we haven't seen on TV,
37:37
Speaker 2: especially on the Housewise before. You are a woman who
37:39
Speaker 2: made her money in a very peculiar way that is
37:42
Speaker 2: interesting and fascinating and new. And you're millennial, right so
37:46
Speaker 2: I do think you represent a large group of women
37:50
Speaker 2: who understand everything that you're talking about. And I love
37:54
Speaker 2: the fact that you stand on business, you know, like
37:57
Speaker 2: you say what you mean and you mean what you say.
37:59
Speaker 2: And we appreciate the fact that you are somebody that
38:07
Speaker 2: appears right to be very confident but also very vulnerable
38:12
Speaker 2: and are giving us the truth. And even when they
38:15
Speaker 2: brought up a cult and they tried to make it
38:17
Speaker 2: something so controversial, you lean into and you said, if
38:21
Speaker 2: you ladies want to know the story, I have time
38:24
Speaker 2: to talk about let's talk about it now. But I
38:26
Speaker 2: don't want to talk about it at a time where
38:28
Speaker 2: I'm dealing with something else that's more important. So I
38:30
Speaker 2: say all of that to say and as somebody who's
38:32
Speaker 2: produced more than ten years of Housewives, I'm saying to
38:35
Speaker 2: you as a former producer that.
38:37
Speaker 3: You've produced Housewives.
38:38
Speaker 1: Yes, I did Atlanta and Jersey, so you.
38:41
Speaker 3: Really know the inners of all of us. This is
38:44
Speaker 3: this is really you really really know.
38:46
Speaker 1: Okay, this is my wheelhouse.
38:47
Speaker 2: And as a person who understands how the sausage is made,
38:54
Speaker 2: my advice to you is to come back, okay and
39:00
Speaker 2: continue to grow because we need someone like you to
39:04
Speaker 2: represent a different lifestyle of women who are making money
39:09
Speaker 2: because we've seen in other various ways. And that's fine
39:12
Speaker 2: and applaud and yay, go girl, but there's another avenue
39:17
Speaker 2: that we haven't been exposed to. And just because people
39:20
Speaker 2: may not understand it initially, it doesn't mean you have
39:23
Speaker 2: to walk away from something because they don't get it.
39:25
Speaker 1: If anything, you lean into it, well.
39:27
Speaker 3: Here's okay. Are we good?
39:31
Speaker 1: Your lucky huh?
39:32
Speaker 3: Okay? If I were to do it again, there was
39:35
Speaker 3: there are things I would understand more. I would understand
39:39
Speaker 3: that people aren't just all trying to be friends. I
39:42
Speaker 3: would understand that people are going to try to bring
39:45
Speaker 3: up stuff on you. People are going to come at
39:46
Speaker 3: you at very strange angles with very different thinking than
39:51
Speaker 3: what I'm used to. So I think if I were
39:53
Speaker 3: sitting at a table right now and someone came and
39:56
Speaker 3: we've recorded the reunion now, so I felt I felt
39:59
Speaker 3: this way. The way the woman kind of threw things
40:02
Speaker 3: at me was the same way it had always been,
40:04
Speaker 3: but I felt more ready. I felt more like, okay,
40:08
Speaker 3: like I'm going to squash that talk about this, move
40:12
Speaker 3: to that. Like I felt more ready, and I felt
40:15
Speaker 3: more emotionally regulated, like which I felt pretty emotionally regulated
40:18
Speaker 3: the whole time, but I felt like, no, I can
40:21
Speaker 3: actually be really really grounded while you guys do whatever
40:25
Speaker 3: the fuck you want to do. Like it doesn't you know,
40:27
Speaker 3: if it affected me way less, it was less overwhelming,
40:30
Speaker 3: less overwhelming. So I think I could come into a
40:32
Speaker 3: new season and have that going for me. I think
40:35
Speaker 3: I would probably go a little crazier on outfits, not
40:40
Speaker 3: to an eric A degree, But I was just wearing
40:42
Speaker 3: like my favorite stuff from my closet, you know what
40:43
Speaker 3: I mean. I wasn't like trying to make a costume.
40:46
Speaker 3: But I think I would be I think I'd bring
40:48
Speaker 3: a little more for outfits, and I think there would
40:50
Speaker 3: be a little bit more of a what the fuck ever?
40:52
Speaker 3: To me? Like fuck off? I think that more of
40:55
Speaker 3: that would come out. But it's as you know, it's
40:57
Speaker 3: a lot of work, a lot of work. But and
41:00
Speaker 3: it's a lot of work, not like anything else I've done.
41:02
Speaker 3: I love hard work. This is in a category of
41:04
Speaker 3: its own. Not that it's harder, it's just different than
41:08
Speaker 3: anything else. You can't compare it to any other job.
41:11
Speaker 3: It's not like anything.
41:12
Speaker 2: All the housewives at this upcoming reunion, which housewife do
41:17
Speaker 2: you get into it with the most bos?
41:20
Speaker 3: You know that answer? Everyone in America knows that answer.
41:25
Speaker 2: All right, So look, rain Drops, make sure you guys
41:29
Speaker 2: watch the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills every Thursday eight
41:32
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41:40
Speaker 2: Follow you and support all of your amazing endeavors.
41:43
Speaker 3: I am exa Amanda Francis on all the social medias.
41:46
Speaker 3: My book is called Rich as Fuck More money than
41:48
Speaker 3: you know what to do with. It's available on Amazon
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41:52
Speaker 3: Walmart dot com, et cetera. Did you know that we
41:55
Speaker 3: have six thousand and five star reviews between Amazon and Goodreads.
41:58
Speaker 3: I love it.
41:58
Speaker 1: I'm one of them. Yeah, oh my god, I know
42:03
Speaker 1: how word that is.
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Speaker 3: Thank you, Amanda, Thank you for having me.
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