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Was She Being Presumptuous · Podcast - Big 98.7

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  Speaker 1: The problem?
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  Speaker 2: This is am I the problem? Where you send us
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  Speaker 2: your side of the story and we let you know
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  Speaker 2: if you're in the rite or if maybe, just maybe
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  Speaker 2: you are the problem. Gabe, we had someone right in
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  Speaker 2: who we have to keep them anonymous.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Wow, hi gave an angie.
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  Speaker 2: I have a question that I would like the listeners
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  Speaker 2: to give their opinion on, and can you let me
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  Speaker 2: know am I the problem? I would like to remain
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  Speaker 2: anonymous because I don't think my boyfriend listens to you guys,
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  Speaker 2: how dare you?
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  Speaker 3: He's the problem on.
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  Speaker 2: A daily basis, But I know he has family members that.
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  Speaker 4: Do Oh hello, boyfriend's family members.
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  Speaker 2: So we will call her anonymous Sita because she wants
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  Speaker 2: to be anonymous.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I'm really proud of that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I have been living with my boyfriend for almost
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  Speaker 2: a year. He has a class reunion coming up. He
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  Speaker 2: met to me the date and location. I went and
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  Speaker 2: got got addressed, scheduled nail appointment, et cetera. I jokingly
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  Speaker 2: asked him who he was taking and he said himself.
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  Speaker 2: I said, wait, you mean I'm not going? And he
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  Speaker 2: said it is expensive and you won't know anyone. I
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  Speaker 2: told him I would cover the cost for myself. If
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  Speaker 2: that's a concern. He still said that I would be bored.
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  Speaker 2: I want to know from the listeners. Was I presumptuous
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  Speaker 2: to assume I was going. Here's the deal I struck
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  Speaker 2: up with him. If the listeners agree with me, he
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  Speaker 2: has to make arrangements with the person coordinating the responses
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  Speaker 2: and tell them I am coming. If they agree with him,
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  Speaker 2: I will drop it and not mention it again. I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to tell you this right now, Ananymosita. He doesn't
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  Speaker 2: want you to go because there's a high school flame
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  Speaker 2: that he wants to rekindle or see if there's like
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  Speaker 2: something still there. That's where my head's at. I think
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  Speaker 2: he doesn't want you to go because he's trying to
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  Speaker 2: see if there's anything left with any of his old
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  Speaker 2: hookups back in high school.
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  Speaker 3: You think, I think so one hundred percent.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe he just wants to like harmless. I can't even
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  Speaker 4: say this.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe he just wants to like harmlessly and openly flirt
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  Speaker 1: with you, not a route.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, I think that's just as bad. Here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, that is like a form of cheating. If you're
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  Speaker 1: going to act away, that's different. Yeah, Partners around very sketchy.
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  Speaker 2: Let us know what you think seven oh one two
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  Speaker 2: eight on one nine eight seven. I think that anonymous
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  Speaker 2: Sita because they've been they've only they've been together for
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  Speaker 2: almost a year, is what she said. And I feel
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  Speaker 2: like maybe he just doesn't think that it's serious enough
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  Speaker 2: to bring her as his Yeah, like, but that would
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  Speaker 2: make me mad.
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  Speaker 3: And you better know that I'm the one.
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  Speaker 1: Before the year, I will say to play devil's advocate
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  Speaker 1: a little bit. To go out and like buy a
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  Speaker 1: dress and grab all these things to get ready before
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  Speaker 1: you even have a clue of if you're going or
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  Speaker 1: not is kind of a weird move.
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  Speaker 4: Why would you so.
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  Speaker 2: You think it is presumptuous of her? You think she
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  Speaker 2: should have confirmed.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying you could have saved yourself some money
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  Speaker 1: and not about the dress and asked about going first,
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  Speaker 1: not asked, that's not the word, but confirmed. Wouldn't you
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  Speaker 1: just like check in with that, like, oh, I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to this right, and then go buy the dress?
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  Speaker 2: But that's her question. Was she presumptuous to assume that
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  Speaker 2: she is going? So you were saying that she's the
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  Speaker 2: problem in this scenario.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I imagine this, right, Corey and I are sitting
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  Speaker 1: at the old dinner table. Okay, she has some work
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  Speaker 1: function she needs to go to, and I sprint to
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  Speaker 1: Target to get a brand new button up shirt and
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  Speaker 1: brand new pants and shoes and get home. And then
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  Speaker 1: she's like, oh, it's actually just a work thing, Like
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  Speaker 1: You're not going that?
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  Speaker 4: Isn't that a bit?
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  Speaker 1: Like?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I would, I gets do that.
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  Speaker 3: Well, yeah, okay, I see what you mean.
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  Speaker 2: But I am thinking that he's the problem because I
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  Speaker 2: don't know. I just think he's trying to hook up
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  Speaker 2: with someone from the past.
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  Speaker 1: Definitely is trying to talk to that girl that kind
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  Speaker 1: of shot him down when he was seventeen one hundred percent.
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  Speaker 1: Let us know seven oh one two eight zero one
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  Speaker 1: nine eight seven. What do you think who's at fault?
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  Speaker 1: What should what? What's her name again? Anymous Anonymousita? Let
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  Speaker 1: us know what she should do? Here? On Big ninety
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  Speaker 1: eight point seven, we.
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  Speaker 2: Had an anonymous person ride in. She we're calling her Anonymousita,
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  Speaker 2: and it's her boyfriend of almost a year who she
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  Speaker 2: lives with. It's his class reunion and she assumed that
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  Speaker 2: she was going to go, and then when she went
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  Speaker 2: to confirm with him, he was like, no, you're not.
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  Speaker 2: He did not invite her to go to this reunion,
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  Speaker 2: and so she wants to know is she the problem?
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  Speaker 2: Was she being presumptuous or is he the problem? Because
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  Speaker 2: what do you mean You're not bringing me your girlfriend
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  Speaker 2: of a year to your class reunion.
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  Speaker 4: That's right, And we do have Alisha on the phone, Alisha,
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  Speaker 4: what's up? But I just have some.
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  Speaker 5: Input on our anonymous Tita.
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  Speaker 1: I kind of think.
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  Speaker 5: They're both to get the wrong. Actually, she was presides
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  Speaker 5: making the assumption. She feels like, just be going. But
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  Speaker 5: I do think it's a little weird that he is
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  Speaker 5: not bringing her. If they live together and they bend
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  Speaker 5: together that fall.
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  Speaker 3: They're both the problem. I like that. I don't think
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  Speaker 3: we've ever had that before.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like you should want to bring your
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  Speaker 5: partner and show them.
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  Speaker 3: Off that part. My reunion is next year, and.
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  Speaker 2: I sure as heck I'm going to bring Mike and
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  Speaker 2: be like, look.
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  Speaker 3: At my mans.
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  Speaker 5: I did imagine not having brought my boyfriend to my reunion.
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  Speaker 5: I was showing him off, like crazy, look.
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  Speaker 2: At my man.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, because he looked better than all them crusty,
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  Speaker 1: dusty dudes.
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  Speaker 4: You went to school with right. Oh, oh, you know it.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you for the call a Lisia. We appreciate it.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the thing, though, we did get a text message
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  Speaker 2: from Leah that maybe is on the boyfriend's side. She said,
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  Speaker 2: maybe he wasn't popular in school and he doesn't have
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  Speaker 2: any friends and he's embarrassed.
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  Speaker 1: Could you I bet you feel real guilty right now
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  Speaker 1: if you are blaming this fella for that. Okay, I
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  Speaker 1: bet you feel terrible. This dude is clearly in the right.
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  Speaker 1: You leave her at home, all right, Broday's.
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  Speaker 4: Variety, Big ninety eight point seven.
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  Speaker 1: It's gave an Angie a lot more fall like today
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  Speaker 1: sunshine and fifty nine, which for Angie is almost like
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  Speaker 1: a massive victory today.
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  Speaker 2: This is so great to me because I live for
• 6:42
  Speaker 2: the fall weather.
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  Speaker 3: I overheat.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a hot blooded broad and so when it's chilly
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  Speaker 2: to most, I'm like, Okay, I'm finally comfortable.
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  Speaker 4: All right, that's where I'm ready to go. Yeah, all right.
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  Speaker 1: We start off the show every day with some little victories.
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  Speaker 1: We like practicing gratitude here on Big ninety eight point
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  Speaker 1: seven because we think it's important. What's a little victory
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  Speaker 1: you have, Angie? Boy do you have a lot to
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  Speaker 1: choose from that involved me?
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  Speaker 3: That is true, Gabe.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like could we kind of joint celebrate victories
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  Speaker 2: because I feel like we had an Angie moraless gave
• 7:17
  Speaker 2: Gliden mash up weekend. So on Saturday morning, I got
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  Speaker 2: to go thrifting with your beautiful wife Corey, which actually
• 7:27
  Speaker 2: just turned to we went to the mall, but we
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  Speaker 2: only shopped sale racks, and I feel like that's like
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  Speaker 2: the compromise between thrifting shopping at the mall.
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  Speaker 4: Did I hear you stock for your first time? Yes?
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  Speaker 5: Stock.
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  Speaker 2: No. I didn't even know what it was and I
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  Speaker 2: had asked Corey. I was like, what is even this storm?
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  Speaker 2: She goes, I honestly can't explain. You just have to
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  Speaker 2: go in it. Yeah, I can't explain it. But there
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  Speaker 2: was a victory there because I got myself a new
• 7:54
  Speaker 2: flannel for Flannel Friday.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so that was great.
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  Speaker 2: But then also we had you guys over for game night,
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  Speaker 2: which was so fun.
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  Speaker 4: I'll what is your little victory, I'll let you like
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  Speaker 4: take over.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I was just I was gonna jump on board
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  Speaker 1: with this. I was in a kind of piggyback. Yeah, Saturday,
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  Speaker 1: we went to Angi's house. Corey and I and just
• 8:17
  Speaker 1: had dinner in a game night and hung out with
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  Speaker 1: you and Mikey and the two boys. And then Sunday
• 8:23
  Speaker 1: it was the boys turn to run around. I went
• 8:26
  Speaker 1: golfing yesterday. We both made a long putton. We each
• 8:30
  Speaker 1: got a birdie on one hole yesterday, which is always
• 8:32
  Speaker 1: kind of the goal. Hey, can I get one birdie
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  Speaker 1: and we'll take it? And we did that while listening
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  Speaker 1: to the Vike's playing golf.
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  Speaker 3: What a great weekend.
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  Speaker 2: I will say this, Mikey has a huge sweet tooth
• 8:45
  Speaker 2: and your wife made this amazing like no baked cheesecake,
• 8:51
  Speaker 2: delicious sweet treat dip that you can like dip apples
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  Speaker 2: in it. Yeah, yeah, Karma white chocolate chips like it
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  Speaker 2: was just a really gorgeous dip. And my family devoured yes,
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  Speaker 2: especially in the middle of the night. I knew Mike
• 9:09
  Speaker 2: he was going to wake up at one in the
• 9:10
  Speaker 2: morning and go in the fridge and get down on
• 9:12
  Speaker 2: this like sweet treat dip, So he was very happy.
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  Speaker 2: We were all very impressed with all the treats that
• 9:17
  Speaker 2: you guys brought over.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was definitely all Corey's doing. Actually, I contributed
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  Speaker 1: zero to that I carried the bag, so okay, see
• 9:25
  Speaker 1: I tried to do something.
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  Speaker 2: Oh and then the last thing is that you and
• 9:29
  Speaker 2: my eight year old Liam created a hand We.
• 9:34
  Speaker 4: Got a little secret hands secret hands secret.
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  Speaker 2: No because also I took a video of it and
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  Speaker 2: I posted it to the Big ninety eight point seven
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  Speaker 2: Facebook page. If you want to see Gabe and Liam's handshake.
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  Speaker 2: It's so adorable.
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  Speaker 1: He was so happy. It was a big moraless glitten
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  Speaker 1: weekend call it.
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  Speaker 3: Who knew?
• 9:51
  Speaker 2: We're friends in real life?
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  Speaker 1: Friday, Big ninety eight point seven. It's Gabe and Angie.
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  Speaker 1: We've got a very fall like day today. Some would
• 10:01
  Speaker 1: argue the first day that has really felt like fall,
• 10:03
  Speaker 1: sunshine and high of fifty nine here today and Angie.
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  Speaker 4: I have been reading some of.
• 10:09
  Speaker 1: The reviews on the Taylor Swift album that song in particular, Yeah,
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: very interesting, some of these reviews on this new Taylor
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: Swift album.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like the opinions on this are like polar opposite,
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  Speaker 2: like either you hate it or you love it.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm no Swifty, but I love it.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like there's a lot of discourse about Oh,
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  Speaker 2: but the lyrics isn't she supposed to be a lyricist,
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  Speaker 2: blah blah blah, and it's like you guys decided that
• 10:36
  Speaker 2: Taylor Shift just makes the music. I feel like, in
• 10:40
  Speaker 2: this life, I have loved many a song that don't
• 10:44
  Speaker 2: say anything particularly deep. It's just like a fun song.
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  Speaker 2: So I feel like a lot of people are very
• 10:50
  Speaker 2: pressed about it in a way that like, if you
• 10:54
  Speaker 2: don't like it, that's fine, and if you like it.
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  Speaker 3: That's fine too.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no right or wrong answer. Yeah, it's just subjected.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it's interesting, you know, for the most
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  Speaker 1: for the most part, for most of the albums Taylor
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  Speaker 1: has put out. I feel like most people or especially
• 11:09
  Speaker 1: Taylor Swift fans, you know, they love him.
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  Speaker 4: It's the greatest or what have you.
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  Speaker 1: And the people who dislike them are just haters or
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  Speaker 1: they're you know, fifty year old men who she doesn't
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  Speaker 1: write songs for.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: And it's kind of interesting just to see some of
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  Speaker 1: the reviews and you know, first, first things first, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: Taylor Swift is a billionaire, all right, She's wiping her
• 11:30
  Speaker 1: tears with one hundred dollars bills.
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  Speaker 4: But I feel like this.
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  Speaker 1: Is the first the first time where like more than
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  Speaker 1: just haters are kind of like, eh, good try not
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  Speaker 1: the not this one for me.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I've never seen that.
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  Speaker 2: That is true, because there are Swifties who are like, uh,
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  Speaker 2: turning on her, so to speak, like yeah, but you
• 11:51
  Speaker 2: know what, not you're a favorite artist, isn't always gonna
• 11:54
  Speaker 2: come up with bangers that you love every time. I
• 11:57
  Speaker 2: will say this, a lot of people are saying, like,
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: I don't like Taylor Swift in love, like that that's
• 12:03
  Speaker 2: affecting the music or whatever. For me, I'm finally in
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: like the best relationship of my life.
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  Speaker 3: So this is the album where I'm like super like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I feel you, Taylor. We're so happy.
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  Speaker 1: We were kinna joking here earlier, Angie I was saying,
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  Speaker 1: you know, poor Taylor Swift, right, she's just gotta write
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: man hating albums for the rest of her life for
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  Speaker 1: people to like these. She can't just have a nice
• 12:26
  Speaker 1: swap love album about Travis Kelsey.
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  Speaker 3: She cannot. I will Oh.
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  Speaker 2: This is another thing is that everyone like if the
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  Speaker 2: new thing is we don't like in love Taylor, because
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  Speaker 2: then the music is in his like heart wrenching and whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Is this a safe time for her to then pivot
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: and maybe just like sing songs that other.
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  Speaker 3: People have written.
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  Speaker 1: Let Bruno Mars and Chris Stapleton write you a couple joints.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but then will people be mad that No, because
• 12:54
  Speaker 2: her songs used to be so personal about her.
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  Speaker 3: She can't just pivot now you know what I was
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  Speaker 3: gonna say. She did?
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  Speaker 2: She does, Damned she doesn't, except for this woman is
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  Speaker 2: always winning because she is so rich.
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• 15:00
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