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Take Me To The Big O · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to we talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
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  Speaker 2: Talk to We're just two unapologetically black women with an
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  Speaker 2: opinion who talked back.
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  Speaker 3: What's up, y'alls? Your girl, AJ Holiday? What's up Tam Bam?
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  Speaker 2: Y'all, it's Tam Bam. I love y'all so so very much.
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  Speaker 2: It's a new week, it's fall, so I'm extra happy.
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  Speaker 2: So AJ, how is your weekend?
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  Speaker 3: My weekend was just fine. It was great.
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  Speaker 1: I spent all week last week hanging out at my homegirls.
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  Speaker 1: And what did I do for the actual weekend? Just
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  Speaker 1: ketch up on life, business, shit, clean my house, got
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  Speaker 1: rid of a bunch of shit. I still got CDs, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I got about twenty eleven hundred different cords
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  Speaker 1: and cables. I had to throw out a bunch of
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  Speaker 1: clothes I haven't worn and kept saying, and I'm a
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  Speaker 1: fitting at some point from fucking college. Uh hell yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I even have Uh No, I got the CDs. I
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  Speaker 1: kept my CDs. I actually ordered CD cases from Amazon,
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  Speaker 1: and then I still have my You know, how you
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  Speaker 1: go to college, you have a trunk?
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  Speaker 2: Did you have a trunk?
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  Speaker 1: I still got my college freshman year trunk full of transcripts,
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  Speaker 1: student loan shit that I ain't never paying, all types
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  Speaker 1: of shit in there. My list is in there. One
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  Speaker 1: of my exes went through that same trunk. The year
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  Speaker 1: was two thousand and five or some shit like that,
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  Speaker 1: two thousand and four or something like that, and a
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  Speaker 1: nigga went through that thing and found my list and
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  Speaker 1: was mad he wasn't at the top of it, Like
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  Speaker 1: it's not in chronological order.
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  Speaker 2: Sir, right now?
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  Speaker 1: I said, well, it is in chronological order. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: you weren't the first, so you aren't at.
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  Speaker 2: The top, right, you at the bottom actually.
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  Speaker 3: Current? Yeah, maya fucking business.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, that's all I did, actually clean up and
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  Speaker 1: get rid of a bunch of shit and stop with hoarding,
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  Speaker 1: like I aspire to be like one of those people
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  Speaker 1: who I'm such a hoider when it comes to close mail,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like if I haven't, if you haven't touched
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  Speaker 1: it all year through that shit in trash.
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  Speaker 2: If you ever gave me a greeting card between twenty
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  Speaker 2: ten and now, I still got it, maybe even before.
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  Speaker 1: That, like birthday cards, I got all that shit letters
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  Speaker 1: like I got, I'd be having everything.
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  Speaker 2: I'm the same way. Girl, I just need to get
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  Speaker 2: rid of a lot of shit. I just can't part
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  Speaker 2: ways with it. And that's the missing brought.
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  Speaker 3: I bought a shredder too, so I have been partner
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  Speaker 3: these with stuff.
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  Speaker 2: What did I do this? Girl? I watched all of
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  Speaker 2: Stranger Things from beginning.
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  Speaker 3: To ooh, that's my favorite show.
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  Speaker 2: Girl. Also, I'm not done.
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  Speaker 3: Is it a new season on?
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  Speaker 2: I know, but it's coming in November. I just made
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  Speaker 2: it to season four. But when I tell you, when
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  Speaker 2: Jim Hopper died, I cried so hard. I cried. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, my boy, hop, I was so hurt. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I love Gym. I can't believe they killed him my dad. Like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm just so sick about it. It really ruined my day.
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  Speaker 2: He might just be in the upside down girl, you
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  Speaker 2: know what, because we didn't see him evaporade. But you know,
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  Speaker 2: like the last time that sit exploded, everybody there turning
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  Speaker 2: to mush on the ground. So I'm just, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, but either way, I'm upset. I'm about
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  Speaker 2: to start season four and see I've.
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  Speaker 1: Never missed the season, and I would I watched. I
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  Speaker 1: watched Stranger Things as soon as the seasons come out.
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  Speaker 1: That's I'm like, wait, it's a new season that.
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  Speaker 2: You know, my my little young thing put me on
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  Speaker 2: in So, yeah, we watched that together.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, I don't okay, season four? What season is coming up?
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  Speaker 1: Is it season five?
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  Speaker 3: Okay? So you are in season four? So have you
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  Speaker 3: gotten to Russia yet?
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  Speaker 1: Actually got into the Like there's like scenes in Russia.
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  Speaker 3: You haven't gotten there yet.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, the whole the whole last season was in the mall.
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  Speaker 3: That's not the first season.
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  Speaker 2: That's season three.
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  Speaker 3: What the fuck?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was in the mall the whole time, but
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  Speaker 2: it was like under the mall.
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  Speaker 1: So maybe a season four. Possibly, it has to be
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  Speaker 1: season four. But there's some parts in there that when
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  Speaker 1: Brittany Griner was locked up in Russia, I'm like, man,
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  Speaker 1: I was associating her with stranger things because of these scenes.
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  Speaker 3: We'll talk about it when you get there.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I want to see it. But yeah, that
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  Speaker 2: was my weekend.
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  Speaker 1: And I really think this is that's how that's the
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  Speaker 1: world we live in, you know. I really believe like
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  Speaker 1: there is an upside down, Like there's this universe and
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  Speaker 1: there's like a bad version of this universe or this
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  Speaker 1: is the bad version, right and there the flip side
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  Speaker 1: is a good side, because this shit is not nice.
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  Speaker 2: Stranger things have happened, all right, So let's getting the sins.
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  Speaker 1: Cleane, y'all going on this with y'all. Diddy is trying
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  Speaker 1: to serve his fifty months sentence.
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  Speaker 3: So last week Friday, I think it was.
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  Speaker 1: All the headlines started coming out that Diddy was sentenced
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  Speaker 1: to fifty months in prison four years essentially. So he's
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  Speaker 1: been in jail since around this time last year, since
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  Speaker 1: like last September. So maybe he'll get some good time served.
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  Speaker 1: This is Feds we're dealing with, right, so you got
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  Speaker 1: to serve all your time. It ain't like the state
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  Speaker 1: where you get low eighty percent. But he can get
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  Speaker 1: time served for the time he's spent in the counted.
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  Speaker 2: The fourteen months that he did will go.
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  Speaker 3: Is it fourteen months?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it was last it was in last September.
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  Speaker 1: It might have been last July then that he went
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  Speaker 1: to jail that he got arrested.
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  Speaker 2: He says he want to go to Fort Dix to serve.
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  Speaker 1: And that's the other funny party, and that's how I
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  Speaker 1: be spelling dicks.
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  Speaker 2: D I X, if I had to go to jail,
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  Speaker 2: I would want to go to Fort Dix.
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  Speaker 3: Sounds like fun to me. The Fort Dix is like a.
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  Speaker 1: Minimal minimal, minimal, minimum security shit is probably some Hollywood shit,
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  Speaker 1: And I mean it's in Jersey, so he will still
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  Speaker 1: be close to his family.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, those girls, when I started walking out their courtroom,
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  Speaker 2: I just my heart went out to them because you
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  Speaker 2: were screaming crazy shit at them.
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  Speaker 3: And they're still kids.
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  Speaker 2: They're still kids, little girls. You know, the boys too,
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  Speaker 2: but the little girls especially.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think about so fifty he said he
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  Speaker 1: was going to write a letter to the judge. He
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  Speaker 1: didn't write the letter to the judge, but he posted
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  Speaker 1: it on social media.
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  Speaker 3: Have you seen that?
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  Speaker 2: No? Okay? Was it a letter in support of Diddy.
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  Speaker 1: Or absolutely fucking not okay? And I had a great
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  Speaker 1: debate with somebody regarding the letter because I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: understand like rules of engagement like artor war and all
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  Speaker 1: that shit, but what does this do for? And I
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  Speaker 1: guess maybe we are well super far away from keeping
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  Speaker 1: it real or just real nigga shit. Like It's just
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  Speaker 1: I'm not in the streets. I'm a grown ass man.
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  Speaker 1: And Diddy is essentially bad for the ecosystem.
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  Speaker 3: This is what fifty cents letter he supposed.
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  Speaker 1: He said he was saying sending this to the judge,
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  Speaker 1: but he posted it online and to me, it's equivalent
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  Speaker 1: to sending it.
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  Speaker 3: To the judge. So the letter says yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It says I have had an ongoing dispute with Puffy
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  Speaker 1: for over twenty years. He is very dangerous. Multiple times
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  Speaker 1: I have theared for my life. I think you should
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  Speaker 1: consider the safety of the general public your honor before
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  Speaker 1: unleashing him upon them. There hasn't been enough time for
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  Speaker 1: him to reform or make any adjustments, despite his trying
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  Speaker 1: to teach a class in there. As you are already aware,
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  Speaker 1: the government has spent a maximum amount of money on
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  Speaker 1: deploying federal agencies, which appeared to be an army in
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  Speaker 1: two locations simultaneously. Later, his son, who's dealing with his
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  Speaker 1: own rape allegations, claimed that the fees had hit the
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  Speaker 1: wrong house. He did that in a song this the
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  Speaker 1: son com what's the little sun name? Justin Sean, just
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  Speaker 1: no Sean, the junior. I don't know right, he says right,
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  Speaker 1: and then it says anyway, Diddy's only going to return
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  Speaker 1: to high caring more male sex workers, and keeping most
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  Speaker 1: of the baby oil away from the general public any
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  Speaker 1: and babies needed, he said. He said, my Netflix doc
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  Speaker 1: on this SCANDALSS subject that's coming soon. So this is
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  Speaker 1: a letter he said he was going to write to
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  Speaker 1: the judge, But to me, posted that on social media
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  Speaker 1: is essentially the same thing as far as.
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  Speaker 2: He really posted that.
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  Speaker 1: This is off of his Twitter account, Oh well yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it says this is my letter to the judge on
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  Speaker 1: Ditty's case.
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  Speaker 3: What I'm scared for my life? Lol?
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  Speaker 2: Like he is just such the hugest troll. You don't
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  Speaker 2: have nothing to do with that.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, conne he does. I mean essentially like his
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  Speaker 1: son's mom was wrapped up in the shit. Some can
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  Speaker 1: say that that Diddy had her first and basically put
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  Speaker 1: her on fifty cent.
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  Speaker 3: What's her name his kid's mom? Is it Daphne?
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  Speaker 2: Uh yeah, m hm.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I just feel like it's real. It's just whack, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, did he is down? The
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  Speaker 1: nigga's down?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't think that I'll kick him, but that's
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  Speaker 2: like fifty cent energy though, this don't surprise me about
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  Speaker 2: him at all that he would do that. It's just
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  Speaker 2: he's very he's like the penniless, he's a cancer. So
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  Speaker 2: I know he can get low radl snake low. So
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  Speaker 2: when they mad, I know how cases can get. I
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  Speaker 2: am one, so I get it. But he just take
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  Speaker 2: it too far.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because this ain't no real nigga shit. Man, you
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  Speaker 1: writing letters to the judge, dog, that's.
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  Speaker 3: What you're doing.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm kind of torn about it because did he
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  Speaker 1: was facing some real, you know, real charges, they still
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  Speaker 1: got him on that Man Act, which to me is
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  Speaker 1: very racist. Right, So this is what he's He was
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  Speaker 1: essentially charged with Man Act and if you guys don't
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  Speaker 1: know what that is, it's just essentially, you know, taking
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  Speaker 1: somebody across state lines. They created that racist asked charge
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  Speaker 1: when they arrested Jack Johnson, a boxer, for taking his
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  Speaker 1: white wife across state lines, so trafficking.
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  Speaker 3: So this is what R.
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  Speaker 1: Kelly was also charged with as well. So I feel like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know has there been any white men
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  Speaker 1: charged with that type of charge before?
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  Speaker 3: I'd like to know.
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  Speaker 1: I hope, I hope that he gets his his wish
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  Speaker 1: and gets to you know, go over to Fort Dix.
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  Speaker 2: But okay, so let me tell you what else happened. Uh,
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  Speaker 2: Portia william is back outside, Williams, excuse me, it's back outside.
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  Speaker 2: She's currently currently only seeing two people, a man and
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  Speaker 2: a woman, and this is four months after finalizing divorced
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  Speaker 2: from assignment. And she says she's talking to two people
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  Speaker 2: and she wants to keep their eyes densities private. But
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  Speaker 2: he is nice and she is nice as well.
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  Speaker 3: Interesting, Yeah, interesting, I.
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  Speaker 1: Want to know is it is? I mean, do people
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  Speaker 1: get to be like forty plus and then say hey,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna try some Guccie Because I just feel like
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  Speaker 1: if you was gonna try some Gucci, you already been
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  Speaker 1: trying some Gucci.
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  Speaker 3: This ain't like new right.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes people do, but yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Add forty what's that?
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  Speaker 2: Jenner? The Jenner? The man, the man who became a
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  Speaker 2: woman at sixty something years old. So people do some
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  Speaker 2: shit later in life and then hoes. Oh, I ain't
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  Speaker 2: gonna say that because people are gonna get mad. Let
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  Speaker 2: me just lead it on, he said, wolves what about
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  Speaker 2: the hose as become gay? An I had like a
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  Speaker 2: bunch of dick m h. I'll be bored. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: try something new. That's it my theory. I might be wrong.
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  Speaker 3: Is it a theory?
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  Speaker 2: Let me know?
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  Speaker 3: Is it really a theory or you speaking from experience?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Because I feel like I done did all the things
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do. Like you can't churse me for one.
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  Speaker 1: You know some dudes that try to no nigga. If
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  Speaker 1: I was going to do a three, some would have
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  Speaker 1: been done one hundred times over. I don't like Cuci, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I know because I fucking know.
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  Speaker 3: Like I like oysters. I don't like Kuci, though.
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  Speaker 2: Do you like oysters? See?
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  Speaker 3: This is what gay bitches do right here? How do
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  Speaker 3: you now?
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  Speaker 1: How do you know why? Okay, bitches who like Cuchi,
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  Speaker 1: this is.
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  Speaker 3: What they do.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like Cucie either.
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  Speaker 3: How do you know? Why would you ask me that
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  Speaker 3: if you didn't like I'm just.
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  Speaker 2: Saying like you don't know. It's like saying, oh, I
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  Speaker 2: don't like pizza that you never had pizza before? You know.
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  Speaker 1: I listen certain foods. I don't got to taste it
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  Speaker 1: to know I don't like it. I don't like how
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  Speaker 1: it looks, I don't like how it smells, only like mine? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I know my Kucie been at too, Like if I
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  Speaker 1: were a.
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  Speaker 3: Mad I don't know if I would be out here
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  Speaker 3: you and Kucci.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't know because it's a ratchet pussy I hear.
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  Speaker 1: I'll have y'all know.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know where my Kucie been.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's a lot of I heard that the
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: men's restroom looks better than the female restroom.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if that's true.
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  Speaker 2: A friend's locker room. I used to work in the gym.
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  Speaker 2: The men's locker room was always cleaner than the female's
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  Speaker 2: locker room.
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  Speaker 3: That says a lot. Okay, that's a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Women, when ain't nobody looking, bitches can be nasty. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So fellas of that microwave dirty, of that bathroom dirty.
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  Speaker 1: If the heel on that shoe is looking like something
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  Speaker 1: like a mouse stunt chewed up on it.
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  Speaker 2: The he'll of her shoe, that's not fair. What does
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  Speaker 2: she just say got money for new.
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  Speaker 1: Shoes That tap only cost seven dollars to give replaced.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. And they be walking on
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  Speaker 1: that nail.
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  Speaker 4: That if you don't throw them damn shoes in the trash.
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  Speaker 3: I just told y'all get rid of all that old ship.
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  Speaker 1: That those are little small indications okay, that no, something
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  Speaker 1: might be up.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, so uh so, basically, what I'm hearing is that
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  Speaker 5: Magic City took their show on the road recently.
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  Speaker 3: And they actually had a pop up strip club.
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  Speaker 1: Essentially in Japan, and the locals are calling it jack Lana.
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  Speaker 3: What do you think about that, Tammy?
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  Speaker 2: I want to go. I don't want to go. I
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  Speaker 2: don't if I could go because from the pictures, y'all,
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  Speaker 2: there was so much money on the ground. Mm hmmm,
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  Speaker 2: it was a lot.
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  Speaker 3: Don't you want to go to work or just watch?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to go to work. Watch I
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  Speaker 2: want somebody had moneyon in Japan, Carrol Ju go town.
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  Speaker 3: And you're still gonna end up on the internet.
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  Speaker 1: People gonna know you was over there. You know a bitch,
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  Speaker 1: you used to try to go to the next state
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  Speaker 1: over and strip.
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  Speaker 2: I'll go into the next continent.
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  Speaker 3: That was before the internet. That wasn't me this Ai,
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  Speaker 3: that's my surrogate girl.
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  Speaker 1: What if your fucking lag mess around to give out
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  Speaker 1: while you're in there.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, it's by ankle, by ankle, go fuck up.
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  Speaker 2: That's that's why I can't go, but I would want
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  Speaker 2: to remember on the yellow brick road. You gotta take
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  Speaker 2: a little cann off. Listen. I'm too old, I have
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  Speaker 2: aged out.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, man, you might you might be able
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  Speaker 1: to get up there. I know I'm not, y'all. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I just I never understood, like how First of all,
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  Speaker 1: it's two things about strippers. I never understood how y'all
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  Speaker 1: get up there naked and every night and dancing these strangers.
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  Speaker 3: And why the fuck y'all body so soft like that?
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  Speaker 3: Like what what products are y'all using?
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  Speaker 1: How I know stripper's body is soft because I have
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  Speaker 1: touched a stripper Okay, that wasn't her.
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  Speaker 3: And that bitch just be fucking soft.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know what type of products they be using,
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  Speaker 1: like what they be fullyat with the.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, they're definitely shaving their asses, you guys,
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: if you're not shaving your butt, it's not but ain't hairy.
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  Speaker 2: It's not hairy. But there's that little fine hair that's
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  Speaker 2: all over your body. If you shave it, it will
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  Speaker 2: be nice and smooth.
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  Speaker 3: Let me see right quick.
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  Speaker 2: It's a little it's like fine hair all over it.
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  Speaker 2: When I tell you I shave like. I learned this
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  Speaker 2: from this Korean skincare group that I'm in for Koreans
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: Skincare for Black Girls group, And they talked and there
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: was just one one tip to shave your entire body,
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: even like I was shaving my collar bone, like my
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: whole I shaved my whole body, even my bunch cheese.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: When you get in a shower today, tonight or whenever
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: the next time, you, babe, I don't know, shave your butt,
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: expec and increase the whole ass, the whole ass.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: How you shave your whole ass? What a razor and
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: you and you reach every part? Yes, fuck you, I
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: bet you'd be having like a little line in here.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Some we're that you hairy. I'm not as hairy as you.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: I don't think I feel like you got more hair
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: in your body than me.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: I'm probably more hairier than you, but I don't think.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: I don't consider myself hair. You know how people be
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: having like hairy ass arms. My arm don't grow hair
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: like that. It beat them.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Light skined girls. Light skined girls only shave their calf.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: You fuck run and see that bench thigh and shit's
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: fucking hairy is.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: The we're WoT underneathing.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: You'll be surprised how much hair is gonna come up
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: on that raising. You're gonna be humble, but then it's
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: gonna make your ass so smooth.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: One itch, though, if you shave a spot that's never
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: been shaved before, I'm my butt won't be itching.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: No, just you.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: I remember the first time I shaved my couchie in
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: high school. Oh my god, I was pat my pussy
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: all day long, like trying to scratch that shit on
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: the loan.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: I could not believe how bad my cucci was itching.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: That never happened to you, No, you know, I spent
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: the night with my friend.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: Yah, I hadn't heart so bad. I had the heart
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: and I I would go to the bathroom. But then
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: it got like, why do you keep going to the bathroom?
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: And I hadn't tell him I had I was farting
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: because you know, that just ruined me. Kill intimacy. Yeah,
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: that I'm going to the bathroom every five minutes because
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: I'm farting in there. What did you eat? I just
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: had an egg rolling a bowl. Oh so yeah.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: I should be following me sometimes not far me down
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: fell and followed me back to the bed. I gotta
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: kick that bitch. My fart definitely be loud. Sometimes, motherfucker
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: just pull up back to the bed with me. So
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: I just swung your clothes.
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: I stopped, I held it. Oh my gosh. When I
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: was driving home today, Oh my god, yeah, I was like,
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: first of all, he in his house is like eight minutes.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: In eight minutes, I farted at least seven team the
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: twenty times.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: You had on jeans, what kind of past you had on,
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: what kind of you had on? Don't it feel good
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: at a couple of times?
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Like when it roll up the front the front.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: When you fart, like with clothes on, and I like
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: it kind of rolls up the front.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: It feels good a little bit.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: Yes, you're fucking nasty, it does. See y'all won't admit
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: to some of this ship, but it's just regularly human shit.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Like you have a conversation with another real nigga and
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: they'd be like, yeah, I experienced that.
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know if it was. I'm never like, oh
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: that felt nice. Yeah, I know what you're talking about.
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: I like to poll strands to weave out my butt
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: crack too. What don't that feel good?
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: So you won't be having when you won't be having
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: random strands of hair down there like for me.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, especially what I'm doing, hair be hair in places
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: that I don't like.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: How did you get pulled out slow? I'll save my
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: butt tonight and you pull the hair out slow?
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Okay, that shit feels the fuck good.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: It's that word at all, aging, all right, all right?
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: So Aliyah Jones says that she's a corporate catfish, and y'all,
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: I've told y'all to be a corporate catfish on multiple occasions.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: So this woman basically changed their profile picture on LinkedIn
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: to a white woman, and she was getting better responses. Now,
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: I've been telling people, like aside from the podcast not
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: to put pictures on LinkedIn because I know that they discriminate.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Like they have your application now you can just go
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: you know, if they can't find your Facebook page, they
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: can just type up your instagra, I mean your LinkedIn profile.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: People will discriminate. There are black people who discriminate on
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: other black people. If you get a email that sounds
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: like a black person.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: So this shit happens.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: That's crazy, but it's not surprising. You know, the blonde hair,
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: white girl m hm yeah, I'm not surprised that they
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: you know, people want this this woman working at their job.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: So she said she was tired of not getting hired
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: and being overlooked. She explained to Unbothered, this is who
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: was doing an interview. She said, I studied for interviews, religiously,
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: showed up on time, got stood up, traveled across cities,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: made it to the final round, and still got nothing.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: After a while, it stopped feeling like a coincidence and
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: started feeling like a pattern. That's when I decided to
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: run an experiment. So in corporate Catfish, Jones, so she
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: started writing a whole blog about this corporate catfishing, and
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: she's the corporate catfish. In corporate Catfish, Jones claimed, someone
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: told her she wasn't corporate enough. She got a message
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: for somebody on LinkedIn and it was like a voice
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: memo on a direct message, and it told the person
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: told her she was not corporate enough.
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: What does that mean?
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Because I mean people got our generation got sleeves in
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: sleeve tattoos in corporate settings, right, Okay, so what does
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: that even mean? She said, they policed my tone and
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: told me that I'm not corporate enough, and should present
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: myself the way, and should present myself that way if
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: I want to be taken seriously. That moment said a lot,
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: because what does corporate enough even mean sounding less black,
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: real or robotic? I'm real or more robotic. She said,
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: I was showing up as myself and that made some
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: people uncomfortable. Being corporate should mean being competent, communative, and respectful,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: not silencing your personality, culture or humanity. Corporate culture is
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: still rooted in this outdated blueprint that prioritizes assimilation over authenticity.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: It's time we built something better, so she says. So
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: she changed her profile picture, simple little tweak, and she
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: was getting you know.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: But I mean, all right, just because you get the
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: interview and you show up black, then what because I
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: don't know, you.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Know, well sometimes because okay, before AI, I think AI
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: has always been a thing, right, but now it's like
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: more mainstream. But these hiring systems that people use, like
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: workforce stuff like that, they have always been using some
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: type of AI, you know, computerizations. Just yeah, so if
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: you if you got a factor in affirmative action, so
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: say for instance, you have an office with I don't know,
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: fifty people in there, y'all want to hire ten more people.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: Got to be percentage black, gotta be a percentage woman,
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like, now you got to
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: add in all this extra bollshits. So this system is
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: weeding people out. But just like when we talked about DEI,
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: how it benefited white women more anyway, So what are
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: we really even talking about?
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: So, even with DEI and affirmative action in place, there
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: are still discriminatory practices happening in corporate.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: Settings just period.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so if you are in the job market, yeah,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: you might need to not say that you're a black American.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I mean, you just got to play the game until
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: you win.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: That's all.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Play the game until you win, because you're not even
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: getting into the hiring process because they already knocking you out.
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: Your application is getting knocked out.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: It's so crazy with all these things trying to keep
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: us suppressed and keep us down, and keep puts sick
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: and keep us dying earlier than everybody else. I still
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: want to be a black woman. I still wouldn't choose
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: to be over there.
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: Ain't that dangerous, but it's lit.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: I still wouldn't wonderful nothing else.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: They don't want to be nothing else either, like their
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: motherfuckers want to be black too.
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: That's why they can't stand when it's too many of
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: us around. Like goddamn it, god damn it.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: But I had a homegirl telling me that a girl
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: whose name is probably like a Shanika or some shit
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: like that, said she she is in a position of
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: hiring people. And she said that when she sees, like, h,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: let's say an email that says ta Misha Brown or
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: something like that.
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: She's overlooking that application.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: So we are also doing it to each other when
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: we are in a position to put the next nick
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: Ononda and you overlook it to Misha exactly.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: Going back, Hi, kill, good morning, Kill, oh Ben, you
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: and Shakwanda.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: And I have refrain, Like I had my homegirl Tamika,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: like she started going by Renee because you know, she
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: had a master's degree and wasn't getting.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: Jobs just because her name was ethnic. Yep.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: So I mean it's it's unfortunate corporate settings do have
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: an uniform. Hopefully you can get someplace working from home
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: where you don't be looking like shit, right, you know
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like you just look at look like
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: ship from the house.
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: But that's just it is what it is until it's not.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: Do you know what another name that it might be
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: suck to have right now? Karen? Karen right now? All right?
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: You know Karen that works with Charlamagne. Well, when we
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: were first like working out our deal and stuff like
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: that with Black Effect, I was talking to I said,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: what's your name again?
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: She said like she didn't want to repeat her name.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: She didn't want to say Karen again.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's one of those names have right now. You
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: got to overcompensate for your name, just like being a name. Unfortunately,
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: what are we talking today?
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: So, y'all, today we are having a conversation about.
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: Orcasters, oh my favorite.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, in comparison to men, is there is there
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: equality amongst orgasms? Or is it an illusion? That's what
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: we're talking about today.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, I need more, I need details on what that means.
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: We'll be back.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: So it's twenty twenty five, y'all, it is October twenty
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: twenty five. Are women still faking orgasms in twenty twenty five?
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: Raise your hand.
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: I don't think them, no more. I do not. I
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: used to think them. I used to be the queen
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: of fake in the orgasm, not no more.
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I used to practice mind in the mirror this t.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: That's your best me and your best.
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: Come girl, my best come?
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: What best orgasm?
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: Girl? I'm not doing that. I can't fake orgasms like
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: that no more.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: And I'm you just know shy, She's shy, everybody.
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: I ain't doing it for free. I'm not about to
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: be moaning on this, Damn Mike.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: I'll least bet on OnlyFans with the moons.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: No, I don't. I don't fake them no more, just
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: because I don't have to. I come so fast now,
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: I don't know what that is. Listen, my boot will
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: breathe on my neck and I'll be like, you know,
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: anytime I do a fake orgasm, sound I just channeled
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: my inner black Man? Remember when he came on himself?
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: Black Man? Girl? You a big walking movie reference?
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, so I don't think I haven't faked the
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: orgasm in a very long time. And I feel like
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: we are women are actually the reason why niggas really
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: think they be hitting this pussy for real.
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: Like why would we ever fait?
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: You know, because I've said this before, I do feel
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: like the female orgasm is like a new new thing,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: you know, because our grandmother's really wasn't having orgasms, you
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: Nobody was even trying to concern with them having orgasms exactly.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: Jimmy Paul was just hitting that thing and on the
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: just sweaty.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I just think about like color purple his business, Yeah,
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: color purple exactly. I could not imagine living in that
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: time and having a deal with that type of bullshit
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: because their egos should have been bruised day one. But
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: we have women that still having sex and really not
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: enjoying it, still faking it.
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: And why why do we fake it?
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: Why are women still faking orgasms in twenty twenty five?
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: I really would like to know.
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: So I think there's two reasons that people fake an organasm.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: One because they wanted it over, wanted to be over.
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: Or Two now I've done that and the man is
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: working hard to get you to come, and you know
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: you're never going to come, so you just fake it
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: so it can be done. So they let me let.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: Me rephrase that right quick, not recent as in recent recent,
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: but I mean like recent in the last couple of years.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Go ahead, when your nigga listened to the show not
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: like that, boo boo. And then the second reason is
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: to feed a man's ego. You don't want to hurt
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: his feelings. You want him to feel like he's the
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: man because you care. Those are the two. Those are
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: only two reasons.
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: I agree. I agree.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: So this says the twenty twenty four Cross National study
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: eleven thousand people they interviewed found forty percent have faked
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: at some point. Eighteen percent of women versus nine percent
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: men report currently faking. Many stopped after improving communication and
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: slash comfort. And it also goes to say, like the
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: motives in the psychology behind fake and it says common
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: motives is to avoid negative feelings like you said, protect
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: your partner's ego and an encounter you said that right,
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: Or because orgasms feels unlikely given the way sex is happening,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: so you're in the middle.
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: It says, the orgasm feels unlikely, you're.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: Not going to ever get there, so you just start
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: faking it so it can be over.
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it says.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: Newer research links faking to emotion regulation difficulties and using
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: sex to cope, pointing to relational emotional dynamics, not just performance.
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: So I think for women, we do have to be
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: mentally in it. To have an orgasm, you got to
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: be I don't do you think prostitutes be having orgasms
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: when they have sex.
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: Sometimes you a real whole, You are a real who.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: If you having orgasms all as sex every all night,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: I don't, I don't think so.
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: I they probably fake it most of the time, but
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: I'm sure they come sometimes.
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: It's I think, I think.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: But the reason why I'm saying is that I think
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: that men's men orgasms is more connected to the act
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: of it, and with women it's more connected to the
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: emotional aspect of you know, having sex. So I know
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: prostitutes are not emotionally attached to their johns, but.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: It's not always emotional because sometimes the niggas just be
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: hitting that but you like it's over. You know, it
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: don't have to be like emotional or passion involved. It
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: could just be like the physical act.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I feel like, I mean, it's been
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: a long time where I could have sex with somebody
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: I don't like because even like when somebody you're in
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: a relationship with a long time and you know that
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: shit over mentally, but you still physically there, the sex
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: is not fucking good anymore, and like I start thinking,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: like why did I ever think this was good? That's
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: because I'm just not into it anymore emotionally, Like he
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: might still be doing his thing, you know, and it's
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: still great to him, but for me it feels a
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: little ugh ink. Yeah, it's such an ick Like I'm not.
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: Ingending it because mentally he's gross to you now, But
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: what if he wasn't mentally gross, but you also wasn't
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: in love with him, you know, m Like if you
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: didn't have an emotional connection to him, but he wasn't
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: gross to you, because once you check out, like the
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: idea of fucking that person is now like, eh, I don't.
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: Want you, That's what I'm saying. It's still like I
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: don't know, how do you think you can?
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: I don't think I can ever like get back there
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: once I get to that, ugh, what a person it
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: could be two years from now and I decide, let
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: me see how this sitting like it's just over for you.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: And it's not that you're like ugh to me for real,
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: it's just that I'm not in love with you no more.
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: So now it's like.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: Or even in like with you anymore? Yeah, because you
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: know that's a big thing. It's two different things. So
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: I feel like, once I fall out alike and lust,
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: I like lust. Now lust, you know you still like
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: that person a lot. Lust is so good. And that's
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: why I remember that time. I was like, how do
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: you stay in lust?
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: In order to stay in lust, you gotta keep you
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: gotta have sex with a new person every time, because
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: how do you stay in lust with the same person.
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: You don't even like? Even if you have sex a
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: lot with someone new, after a little while, it's coming like,
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: it's just chills next. I don't know if there's any
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: way to keep it lustfull.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: Because lust is good LUs just like lust is like
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: meeting somebody, y'all. I've been on several dates. You know,
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: you want to give him the kuchi, right and.
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: This this this, this.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: Is the day and y'all might be out of town
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: or y'all you know, in town, and y'all just hanging
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: out all day from like ten o'clock that morning to
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: ten o'clock that night. All day you're thinking about how
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: you're gonna do this when you get on it. That
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: is the feeling. I want to have in a relationship. Yes,
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: how do you keep that going?
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: That's drugs?
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: I think distance also, right.
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, distant?
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: Being away from for some time does help. Let me
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: tell you what makes this is gonna sound crazy, and
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: this is my toxic energy. But after a fight, after
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: a fight, that lust for energy real will ignite.
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: No, you might be a serial killer. I'd be so mad.
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: I'd be so after that.
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, after the after the fight
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: has been resolved or pushed it aside or whatever y'all decide.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: You know that first time after.
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: Take me through there, Take me through there?
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I have yet to listen to that and hold that
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: whole song, have you?
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: That's pretty much the gist of it. If you heard
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: that part, you heard the song, oh something? Yes, So
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: tell me you ain't never had like really passionate sex
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: after y'all come back from a fight.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: No, because I feel like when you if you're not
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: doing things to continuously fall in love, you've fallen out
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: of love. So if we like having fights to wear
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: like yeah, like the makeup to break up thing, I don't.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: I don't really particularly care for makeup to break up
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: because the more we make up to break, I'm falling
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: out of love. That's how I get to that point
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: and not want you to even fucking touch me. You
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like I don't play.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: Them one time, like really passionate six after y'all made
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: that is fucking toxic. It's what you Yeah, I like it.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: I don't want no toxic sec because I want that
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: shit to be happy.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: I wanted to be happy. But I mean, fights are
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: going to happen. I can't imagine a relationship where you're
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: never gonna fight.
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: I feel like there's some people who I taught.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: I saw this couple, you know how on Instagram they
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: walk around the cities and then they stopped couples like, hey,
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: y y'all a couple, How long have y'all been together?
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: It was this couple, a white couple, and they might
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: have been like in their fifties or something like that.
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: Looked like fifty six, early sixties or something.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: And he was asking how long they were were married
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: were together and they had been married for thirty one years.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: She said that she she didn't really he lived in
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: her building. She didn't realize he lived in her building.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: He saw she saw him. They walked past each each
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: other and they both, you know, turn back and look
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: at each other.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: So now she realizes later on that evening, while she's
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: on a date with somebody else going into her apartment,
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: that this her fucking husband. Okay, So she said, they
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: basically said from that like once they actually got together,
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: they were inseparable from that day on. And they said
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: how they do that is by basically having a competition
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: on how to make the other one happy. Like, yeah,
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: it's a competition. I want to make you happier than me.
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: You made me yesterday. You know what I'm saying, that's
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: that's the type of luck. Yeah, I don't want to
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: I don't want I'm past in my life the turmoil. Shit,
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: that ship was never turn on for me and I
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: got PTSD. I really still be thinking about fights I've
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: had in relationship.
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: Yes, that shit has never been been Ah, that's not good.
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: It's not good.
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: Good, it's not good. But the sex was good. I
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: just remember asking them after the fight six that it
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: was like very nice. So I'm just saying.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: I aspire for a relationship where there's no fights. I
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: feel like it's possible. You know if you find the
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: actual person, Like, yes, you want to have disagreements, but
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: different disagreements doesn't does not have to result into you know, arguments.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah to where you gotta you know that don't sound
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: like a perfect you know what you uh? The part
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: when you were talking about porschit because I did see
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: that that headline. Right, she was saying how she's dating
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: these two people, the man and a woman, but she
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: was actually at doing somebody's live show or something. She
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: was on stage talking and this is how the reports
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: came out of whatever. She was saying, how these two
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: people aren't narcissists, right, they are not narcissists, they're healthy people. Right.
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: So now she's being forced to check herself because those
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: are the situations that she's used to, right, and now
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: like these people are checking her and when she wants
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: some bullshit, right, so she might need to evaluate whether
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: or not she was a narcissist and her other relationships. Right,
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: that is what I'm hearing, is what I'm hearing, Like worry,
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, and that's growth, right, that's definitely growth. So
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: she was basically saying that, yeah, she'd be having to
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: check herself now because these people are healthy.
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: So what you're getting at that I need to stop
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: fighting with niggas. I feel like that. I mean, that's
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: what you was doing.
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: I don't want nobody taking me through shit, put me
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: through the man. You can talk me through these Yeah,
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: you can talk me through these orgasms though, Please do that. Yeah.
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: I don't want to fight, but I just feel like
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: it's inevitable. I don't want to fight a lot, you know.
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: I just don't feel like. I just feel like if
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: I'm in a relationship where there's never one fight over
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: thirty years, it's boring as fucking this relationship.
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: We gotta at least like physical fight at least, no.
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: Not a fist fight. I don't want to get physical.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: One of my exes told me he was gonna beat
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: my ass or we turned fifty. He was like, when
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: we turn fifty, I'm gonna beat your ass.
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: Your birthday. Not physical. I don't want to physically fight
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: a man because, just based on past experience, I know
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: that I'm not gonna win. So I just don't want
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: to do that. I need to. I just want to
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: argue some once, at least once about something.
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: So it says that across adulthood.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: Men report orgasms in about seventy to eighty five percent
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: of partner encounters versus women, it's forty six to fifty
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: eight percent for women. In a large US study of
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: orientation differences, heterosexual men ninety versus heterosexual women women sixty
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: five percent orgasm consistency.
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: Lesbian women reported higher.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: Orgasm rates higher orgasm rates than heterosexual and bisexual women,
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: pointing to technique slash communication not female dysfunction. I never
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: think it's female dysfunction. No, Like now, One thing I
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: always tell people, like when they start talking about squirting
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: and shit like that, like I gush, a'h, gush now,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: but like like squirting across the room and shit like that, Hey,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: maybe my coochie is broke because it doesn't do that.
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: Across the room. It's crazy.
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: Maybe it's broke. You know, I'm not into pee up
• 44:46
  Speaker 3: somebody's bedding.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: You.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: I'm damn sure not peen at my own bed. We
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: can do that nasty shit at your house.
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: I don't want to tell y'all what I do.
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: I'm shy. Oh do you be squirring because I don't.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying that. I don't want to talk about it.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: You mattress cover for Tammy.
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: You're a good one. I was at Haverdes this weekend.
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: Havebards had some good mattress covers on sale.
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: You might need that plastic ship that going?
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: Uh? I said, I'm not saying that.
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: So that going to baby the baby bed like the crib.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: That's what you probably need, Chad, I hear that. Next,
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: they got me nickname for your ass. Technique versus script
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: what actually happens or what actually helps? So it says
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: clatoral reality check for me? For me, I do require
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: a little clatoral stimulation while having sex? Like I Yeah,
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: I'm not a lesbian, right, So if I'm you gotta
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: girls second time? And now he's the third time, so
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: I could finish my thought, I'm not I'm not a lesbian.
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: So if we having sex, like you got to follow
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: up with some dick, sir, I do not just want
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: head the whole time.
• 46:21
  Speaker 3: I don't want a little finger in there while you
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: eating it too.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: That's your that's your girl too.
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I need like a combo? Can I get a combo?
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: So it says combined clatorial vaginal plus vaginal stimulation is
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: associated with more intense orgasms for more women focusing on
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: penetration alone often missus the mark.
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: You think that's true? Oh you said niggas breathing on
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: your neck? Does it?
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: I mean, right now, it's just so weird what I
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: got going on right now. I'm just coming so easy.
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: So I don't know. You breathe, cool breeze, go across
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: the back of my back. I'd be like, yeah, I mean.
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: For real, we are in our prime. You know what
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: I'm saying. I don't.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: I feel like I might be a little bit more
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: horny now and I hate that word, y'all, but horny.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: I feel like my libido is higher, very higher now
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: than it was. You know, I'll say ten years ago. Likewise, Yeah,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: because what was we doing?
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: Right? I agree? But I don't know why this conversation
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: is making me uncomfortable.
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: Girl, because you're fucking gay talking to me, bitch? Why
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: is it uncomfortable? I don't know talking about sex anymore?
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: I listen.
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: That's the crazy part, because we have had like some
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: very explicit conversations on this show, and then all of
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: a sudden, I'm like, oh my god, my vagina. It's embarrassed.
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: It's not on display though, nobody's seeing it.
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: It feels like it. First of all, I just think
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: I'm alright. So obviously I've expressed that I've had experiences
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: with women in my life, but I don't consider myself gay,
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: even though Ashley tells me as much as possible that
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: I am.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: A man has sex with a man one time, I'm
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: not a man in college that one time.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: It really is a double standard.
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: No, absolutely, to people who be on some game shit,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: it is a double sunning.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: For me.
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: It's the same shit.
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: I've lost by train of thought. I don't even know
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: where the fuck I was going at you.
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: I don't know you were shy about talking about coming,
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: Like I don't know why what is happening?
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: I am shy about it. I'm not shy about coming,
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: but I'm shyy about talking about it with y'all. But
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: now I do like it don't take much. I don't
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: know if that rolls unlock some unlocked something in me.
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: Do y'all? Yeah, that just made it happen real fast.
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: Now I'm ready to go to bed and go to work.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: I threw that thing in the trash. No hesitation either, Like,
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: just really, you didn't after like a week, no it's
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: too much. And I don't even feel like it's like
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: too much, like it feels good. It's almost like it's
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: just it's kind of irritating to me. And then I
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: also saw a video with this girl had a tester
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: on a radiation tester and it's giving off a lot
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: of radiation.
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: Really.
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so you zapping your gucci literally mm hmm.
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: When I went all those months of not having any sex,
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: I was definitely using that a lot. Let me tell
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: you about my best friend, Like I was least all
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: the time. But I think it might've unlocked something because
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: now I don't use it as much because I have
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: like a partner. Yeah, and yeah, you don't have to
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: work up very hard to give me where I need
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: to be.
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: M Yeah, I'm pretty easy nowadays as well. But yeah,
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: I might be a little greedy though, what do you mean,
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: Like I'd be wanting to have sex often and I
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: like marathons.
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: Okay, I want you that a marathon for you hour
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: and a half. You want to have a have set
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: for an hour and a half.
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: Yes, I do.
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: I would like to have sex for an hour and
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: a half, like and that would include like the fore play,
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: you know, what I'm saying, Like that's the most important
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: part to me, right, and then yeah, follow up with
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: some dick for like thirty minutes, and I mean we
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: can stop and start, but like things have to be
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: happening the whole time. I just need like the fuller
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: on session because sex for me is not just like
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: penetration the whole time, like just all the things like
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: still in the bed, rubbing up, kissing up.
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: You know, watch a little bit of TV.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: Give it a little head while you watch a TV,
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: Like all the things have to still be happening.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: Oh so that's a part of the sex.
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: Yes, watch on. It's part of the six You need
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: to watch TV like that. But I don't know.
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: Singing on my microphone like I do fucking around, I
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: might fucking run it off on the mic, not the dick,
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: but the actual mic.
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: Sing a little bit.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: It's not ship. It's if you leave the dick to
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: pick up of microphone, it's weird.
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: Okay, you'd be doing rap songs and scripts for movies.
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: That's actually be free styling. But that and that's where
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: a man is getting no sex. If I break out
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: the karaoke, just know you're going home the same way
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: you can listen.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: I don't have to have a marathon every session. You
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because I I do enjoy a
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: nice squeakie. Okay, I do enjoy a nice squeaky especially
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: when you got shit to do or you're just starting
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: to get it out the ways you go to sleep.
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: I enjoy a nice queakie. Quiki is are nice?
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: Twenty minutes on a Saturday night.
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: Twenty minutes, that's a I mean, twenty minutes is a
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: good time.
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: That's all I ever.
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: Twenty minutes straight, pound out, Poundtown twenty minutes.
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah that all I need.
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Poundtown for twenty minutes is good. Yeah, it's all Listen.
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: Anything over it, I'm calling the police. You get off
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: of me, Go like, what are you trying to do?
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: Kill me?
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: I need somebody to tomorrow. What is that phone call
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: going to sound like to the police?
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: Excuse me? I need you at this address right now.
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: This man is trying to take my life. You trying
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: to take my life?
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: Real sex? Do be having you feeling dreamed? Also?
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like it does exude a
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: lot of energy. But if we go like I'm just
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: saying you know, on a nice Friday or Saturday night.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, twenty minutes. Maybe some drugs are involved,
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: a little bit, a little bit of alcohol, you know
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, you know, a little fun. You
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: get up and go drink some water and come back
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: and do a little bit more stuff.
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: That's not fun, Sir Bernie Mack. That's it. I gotta
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: go to bed twenty minutes. If you ain't got it
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: about twenty minutes, you ain't getting.
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: It once a month, man, I need a marathon at
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: least once a month. That's all.
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: I'm asking masks for too much. Yeah, I don't know.
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: I might be greedy.
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: You might be a little greedy on drugs. I might
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: be a little tiny bit low greed. What y'all think though?
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: Are y'all?
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: How sex going okay? I am forty one? Actually right,
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: sex is going great for me. I would like to know, Tammy,
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: sex going great for you? Are you having sex now?
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: I am? Yes. Sex has been amazing.
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: Sounds good.
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: It has been really really good.
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: Amazing sex in your forties. It might be hard to
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: come by for some people. I got puma pussy'll know.
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: But y'all, but how sex for y'all. Y'all forties, Okay,
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: how is it? How is it going?
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: Nice? Yeah?
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: Do y'all have to use any special tools, any special lubricants,
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: No waterfalls.
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: My body's still doing what they need to do.
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: I know, isn't it great? Yeahn't great.
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: But I know, like we're getting closer to the age
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: where the body stop. And you know, some people are
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: experiencing that in our age group where their bodies aren't
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: producing well, especially like imagine all right, so imagine women
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: are our age who have been having sex with the
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: same guy for fifteen years or ten years, or seven
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: years or two years, I don't know. You know, you
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: might not get as wet because you know, he buy
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: the stroke to the left for seven, stroke to the
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: right for forty, and he gonna flip you over, lick
• 55:13
  Speaker 2: your butt, flip you back over, like you know exactly
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: what he gonna do. Like you might not get.
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: You know, I think that's fun sometimes anticipating like you
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: know they about to do this thing, like I know
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: it's up next, like your favorite thing you can't do
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: you do kind of get into a little routine like that,
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: or he about to he about to eat.
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: My Kuchie off the side of the bed. That's my favorite.
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: Stay your favorite he do he eats your coochie off
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: the side every time for seven years. Oh yeah, kuccie
• 55:43
  Speaker 2: off the side.
• 55:46
  Speaker 3: I am not like a super freak, you know.
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: I'm okay with the person whoever, whoever I'm with, We're
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: gonna do all the things like a little bit right,
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: but I'm playing jeans, so it ain't a whole.
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: Bunch of like what the fuck else you need?
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: Like hanging from the ceiling, like what what do y'all need?
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: That's why y'all should not be out here doing all
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: this bullshit because a man asks you to. It's never
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: going to be a limit. I don't need that much
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: to come. I don't need all that extra shit. So
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: if your man need all that, you know, maybe he
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: don't like you. I don't know, maybe he's like has
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: a porn addiction, get porn too, or maybe he has
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: maybe he has a porn addiction. That's a that's a
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: problem in a lot of relationships. Yeah, So now you
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: have this expectation of what sex is supposed to look
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: like because you're watching this this ship and these bitches
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: getting you're not paying me enough enough to do that shit.
• 56:42
  Speaker 3: My nigga, Like, you gotta up to pay if you
• 56:44
  Speaker 3: want some porn shit.
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: Do you watch porn?
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: I haven't in a long time. Like what I watched porn? Yes,
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: but it's like blocked in South Carolina, North Carolina. Right now,
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: I can't watch no porn. But I was at one point,
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: but I was likeugh, you just feel after it. I
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: never I just like have ideas and I have visions
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: in my mind of my own session.
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: That's how I like. I discovered porn in twenty seventeen,
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: and I was off of it by twenty eighteen. It's
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: just seem it don't do nothing for me.
• 57:16
  Speaker 3: You discovered porn in seventeen.
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I never looked at porn until twenty seventeen. And
• 57:23
  Speaker 2: then I was just like, yeah, I like I needed
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: my porn to have a plot, Like I need to
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: know how these people met.
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: You want soap oper porn.
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: It has to be otherwise I'm just gonna be grossed out.
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: That little nasty music just come on?
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, how much she said you fanby director?
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: You can't see a director like balls? Then she start
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: sucking the balls like that.
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: I need y'all to add bump into each other at
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: the grocery store or something like me something to make
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: it clean.
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: It's like a dick in the car in front of
• 58:04
  Speaker 3: the pickly Wiggily.
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: Clean, not the piggy wiggly. Tell everybody from.
• 58:11
  Speaker 3: The South, shit pilly wiggily be bumping.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: They got that good ass cafe cafeteria food they do.
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: Oh, speaking of that, I heard New York finally got
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: a bow Jangles.
• 58:25
  Speaker 3: I saw that.
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: You're gonna get fatter, because that's what.
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: You don't go mad asking me, oh, you don't eat girl.
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: The most I would eat from bull Jangles is an
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: egg biscuit strawberries strawberry strawberry jelly. But the bulberry biscuit
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: don't taste like how I used to. But I remember,
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: I remember how food used to taste as a kid.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: And this food ain't hitting on ship. So them buwlberry
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: biscuits used to be different. Yeah, to sing, they just
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: taste like a biscuit now with blueberry. Before it was
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: like the dough was tasting different than a biscuit.
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: It was different quality as it once was.
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, but that's the only thing I
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: eat from there, and then you know I would eat
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: their fries because I do remember enjoining the French fries.
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: But I know they'd be frying that ship with the
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: chicken mm hm, So I don't eat the fries.
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: Last time I went to go to bow Jangles, they
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: got to fighting at the drive through window and I
• 59:29
  Speaker 2: couldn't get my food. I was soaked.
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: We know that shit on the application for bul Jangles,
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: McDonald's and Berry Kings. He say, can you fight? It's
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: on application waffle House. Definitely waffle House better, waffle House
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: got ru licensed to carry on their app. Some motherfuckers
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: be shooting, and rightfully so, because people come to waffle
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: House drunken shit start and shit with them. People who
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: were in there working just try and do their job.
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: It's already hard enough. You work in the waffle house
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: at three am.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: Right, and now you got this drunk motherfucker coming here
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: mad because their eggs ain't fry hard enough and throw you. Yeah.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 3: Did you see that? It was a video?
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: This girl like she definitely sprayed waffle House up from
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: behind the counter like shot she was the employee, Yes,
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: because the bitches was throwing hell of shit at her. Yeah,
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: she definitely shut that ship up.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: She went to jail.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: But that's why you gotta leave people alone. You don't
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: know what are people at their thirteenth reason? You know? So?
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they assaulted her first.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: All right, do we have any more things to say
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: about your regina before we go?
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 3: It's nice.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 2: I don't even like how like when I'm talking to
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 2: a guy. I don't like using the word p I
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: don't like that word.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: Why.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 2: It just sounds I.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 3: Don't even say it during sex.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 2: I don't like it. It sounds dirty. Girl. Hello, everyone's like,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: can you stop calling it a vagina? I don't like
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: you calling it a vagina. I want to I don't
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: like words.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not dirty, So what you want to call it?
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: You got?
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: That is so ugly, my vagina. I like the word pussy.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: It's such a nice word. I don't like the word
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: of horny though, but pussy is nice word.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: Another word I don't like mooist And if you put
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: that one in front of pieces.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 3: Out, what would you even say that? It's wet? Okay,
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 3: it's wet man y'all nasty?
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like it.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: It was this lady on Instagram. She would always make
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: videos like this moist, the old White Lady moist moist.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: Stop please please doing enough on social media because you
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: literally could just do anything on that bitch.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 3: And ragu viral.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: That's that's what we need to get into. That is
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: our greatest endurance in life. It's a social media.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 3: Vagina.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what. It sounds nice and clean. All right, ladies,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: what's my last last for y'all? Don't be afraid to
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: tell your guy what it takes to get you where
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: you need to be. If you out here faking every time,
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: you're doing yourself a disservice, just have a conversation and
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 2: tell him, because you know women be doing that, never
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 2: expressing what they need to get them where they need
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 2: to be.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: I agree, I concurrento, just to piggyback off of what
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: you were saying. Be honest with that nigga because when
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: he get over here, he gonna know you was lying
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: because I'm gonna tell him he a goddamn lie, and.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 3: Start over. Start from the top, Start from fuck top.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 3: They get stop wanting to these niggas because when.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: They get into a real one, she gonna hurt their
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: feelings real it's gonna be like a little like he's
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: went thirty years. They can he be busting some ship
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: up somewhere. And even the term busting up. You know,
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: you don't want to bust the kuccia. You want it
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: to feel nice.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because guys think that if you're screaming that they're
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 2: doing a good job. Actually, that's not gonna stop either.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 2: I'm calling the police once again. What are you trying?
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: If I if I gotta do like this on your
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: stomach one too many times.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 3: It's over.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: Actually, if I got to tap about this, especially when
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: you married, you're not about to be busting my ship
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: up like that.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, what are you trying to do? What are
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: you trying to puss here?
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: This is a rental.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: And it's a motherfucker big body bends. You're not about
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: to be crashing my ship out like that. So if
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: I got to too many fucking times, it's the time
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: and place for everything. And now I don't want to
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: get beat up, you know for the marathon. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: get off me. So yeah, please be honest.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: He hurting your kouchie when he eat it and you're
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: scared to say something.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: No, girl, what now you're about to take me someplace else.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: This whole conversation, I'm thinking about all the type of
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: ship you ever had. Somebody to bite your kuccie, like,
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: let's at least try to eat your guccie. I had
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: a nigga eat my kucci once. That's where I had
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: to get the mirror to make sure I wasn't missing
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: a piece down there.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: He was nibbling on your reagina.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: I have never felt anything. I have never felt that
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: type of excruciating pain before.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 2: Oh, he tried to bite your clearers off.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 3: He was trying to eat it like it was literally serious.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: Did you hit him at the top of his head.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: Almost, you know, like that this was up like.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: Like what to do? But he didn't know. Maybe the
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: last girl liked her is bitten off.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 3: I don't know. Don't nibble want my cucci? Okay, it's
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 3: for sucking and licking. That's it. Like who told you
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 3: to literally eat kuci?
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 2: So bite it off? It's crazy. Yeah, tell him tonight, girl,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: tell him tonight.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: No, that ain't who beat my kuccie.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: This is a long time nobody listen every time tell
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: about my gucci like I'm shooting you.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 3: Nigga can bite my coucie. Nowadays, you're gonna get shot
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 3: in he nobody, he do.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: Be hurting me. I'm gonna tell him, girl, But you
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 2: justnna say at night, and you don't have to be
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 2: mean about it.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 3: Don't wait till after, though. You have to.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: Just like a dog when you're training a dog, you
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: have to catch them in the act while they're doing
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: the thing. You can't reprimand reprimand them after they've already
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: done the thing. So you gotta do it like literally,
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: why he licking at Kuchie like, I don't like that.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 3: That doesn't feel good. Do it like this? Men like construction,
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 3: Men like instructions. They like boundaries, you know, just say
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 3: it nice and sweet. No, baby, I want you to do
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 3: it like. Do it like this, talk to a real
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 3: low hum.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 2: And then give him positive reinforcement when he do it right.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 3: H good boy, good boy, good good boy.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 2: No. I don't know about that, but mag good boy.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 2: You be saying good boy.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 3: To your bigger No.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: Hell no, but I like a nigga to say good
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: girl to me.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that too.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 3: Yes, All right, y'all, we be getting out of here because.
• 1:06:31
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• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: cat and he That's how I'd be, y'all crazy, all right, y'all.
• 1:06:42
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