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Christmas Traditions For Your Children + Mom vs Wifey Battle For House Supremacy | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 3: I'm getting tagged on Twitter. I got guys in my mentions.
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  Speaker 3: They're saying, oh, sherman. My wife leaned over to me
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  Speaker 3: and said, Hey, when's Santa gonna build that pink jeep?
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  Speaker 1: I saw somebody hit us up on Social they were
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  Speaker 1: they were out in the garage trying to put that
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  Speaker 2: He's a big CFP Sickoh hi, I feel that too.
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  Speaker 1: One couple of Christmases ago, when Rue was like when
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  Speaker 1: Ru was one, my dad got her this Chevy Silforado
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  Speaker 1: that she could ride, that she could drive around.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, hey, Dad, she's one. She can't she
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  Speaker 2: can't be in this thing yet. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So I just sat in the garage for like an
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  Speaker 1: entire year, and I'm like, well, all right, I'll just
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  Speaker 1: pull this thing out of the box and we'll get it.
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  Speaker 2: Go and open the box and all the parts are
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  Speaker 1: One from Jjsmith on Spotify thirty degrees changing attire good
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  Speaker 3: I got for also New Dads a porch on Spotify.
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  Speaker 3: We're seeing those Spotify comments. My wife is one of
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  Speaker 3: the cryptic one, fellas, But the most important lesson I've
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  Speaker 3: learned with her is if she doesn't want to get
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  Speaker 3: up and get our boy overnight or in the morning,
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  Speaker 3: she'll tap me on the shoulder and ask, hey, do
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  Speaker 3: you want to get them?
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  Speaker 2: Or me?
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  Speaker 3: And fellas, let me tell you about the cold shoulder
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  Speaker 3: I got the one and only time I asked her
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  Speaker 3: to get him. I learned quick that if she's fine
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  Speaker 3: getting them, she's just gonna get up. But if she
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  Speaker 3: taps me and asks, buddy, it's dad's turn, No questions asked.
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  Speaker 2: I'm being called up. Calling in the left.
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  Speaker 1: I love that because that's a pocket there where you
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  Speaker 1: have some choices to make. Because sometimes Charle hit me
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  Speaker 1: with do you want to go up and get them?
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  Speaker 2: And if she tosses me the.
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  Speaker 1: Question, I know it's like she's wanting me to go,
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  Speaker 1: oh yeah, because if she was fine doing it, she'd
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  Speaker 1: already go up there, oh yeah. But every now and
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  Speaker 1: then she'll be like, do you do you want to
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  Speaker 1: go up and get them? And I'll just be like,
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  Speaker 1: I think he'd be a great fit for this moment.
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  Speaker 2: You know what.
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  Speaker 1: They love the way you do it, I wouldn't deprive
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  Speaker 1: the kids of that. Or are you asking me? Or if
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  Speaker 1: you're asking me, I'd rather not. I think I'm feel
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  Speaker 1: like this's this game. Yeah, if you're letting it be
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  Speaker 1: up to me, i'd rather not. I will if you
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  Speaker 1: want me to, I'd rather not. I think you're I
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  Speaker 1: think you'd be great for this moment right now.
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  Speaker 2: And thank you for communicating with me and like asking
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  Speaker 2: me beforehand.
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  Speaker 1: And by the way, for a shout out here to
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  Speaker 1: Charlo Gabriella Sestra on Spotify, laugh my ass off, empty
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  Speaker 2: I am charo. Mommy can't play yet. I have to
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  Speaker 2: do X, Y and Z. A subtle hint to my
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  Speaker 2: husband to get his ass up, shout out.
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  Speaker 3: I saw a lot of those from that video. There
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  Speaker 3: heavy fire. Wife is in her first trimester with our
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  Speaker 3: second and feeling like absolute shit. Twenty four to seven,
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  Speaker 3: no morning sickness. We're talking all day sickness.
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  Speaker 2: Every day.
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  Speaker 3: Afterwards, she gets home and basically goes to bed, and
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  Speaker 3: I know it's time to put on the ipaint and
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  Speaker 3: go to war. Nobody is coming to save me, getting
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  Speaker 3: dinner ready, clean up, playtime, bath, in bedtime. But I
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  Speaker 3: get to do this. I don't have to GBR wolf
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  Speaker 3: emoji GBR Wolf Mason cale Man, I a dog.
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  Speaker 1: There's so many times now, Derek, to where I gotta
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  Speaker 1: just say in my head, like I get to do
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  Speaker 1: this all because Buddy. Over the weekend, I was a
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  Speaker 1: little I don't know if you can hear the hear
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  Speaker 1: the nasal in my voice, but I was.
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  Speaker 2: A little under the weather. Same little under the weather.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I had the kids a couple of times
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  Speaker 1: solocust God bless my wife.
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  Speaker 2: She went and did some volunteer work at the food shelter.
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  Speaker 2: That's awesome for some repackaging, some organizing, some sorting, oh
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  Speaker 2: the can sorting stuff. I believe so. I love doing that,
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  Speaker 2: I believe so.
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  Speaker 1: So she was going for a nice chunk of time
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  Speaker 1: on Saturday and I got the two minions, bro and look, Scottie,
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  Speaker 1: she's one and she's all over the place. Like I
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  Speaker 1: was saying, it, alluding to it last week on the podcast.
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  Speaker 1: She's climbing the Christmas tree, She's tearing down ornaments, she's
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  Speaker 1: getting in every cabinet. She's got to put everything that
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  Speaker 1: is organized, it's got to be on the floor.
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  Speaker 2: And God bless her and Rue. She's in this phase
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  Speaker 2: as a three year old.
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  Speaker 1: And the dad's out there with the toddlers right now.
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  Speaker 1: They probably feel my pain, the parents out there with
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  Speaker 1: the toddlers.
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  Speaker 2: But Rue's just in this phase where everything is look
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  Speaker 2: at me.
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  Speaker 1: Watch me, dad, look at me, watch this, watch this.
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  Speaker 1: I'll beg you and then what did you do? She'll
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  Speaker 1: hit a few reps.
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  Speaker 2: I'll go over there. I'm like, oh my gosh, that's incredible, sweetheart.
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  Speaker 1: And then it's I got go over and try to
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  Speaker 1: like just nestle up on the couch or something like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: do you want to color? You want to do this?
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  Speaker 1: I got her coloring. We went to State Golden on
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  Speaker 1: Saturday morning. Oh yeah yeah, and she was busy coloring
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  Speaker 1: Christmas trees and ornaments on these worksheets.
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  Speaker 2: So I made a heady play. This is a dad
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  Speaker 2: hack right here too.
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  Speaker 1: If your kids, you're at a restaurant, you go somewhere
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  Speaker 1: and they got some stuff for kids where they can color.
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  Speaker 1: They can use crowns, make a heady play. If you
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  Speaker 1: see them very involved and focused in coloring on this worksheet,
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  Speaker 1: go ask them for extra worksheets so you can bring
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  Speaker 1: them home.
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  Speaker 2: She was fired up to color these Christmas tree ornaments. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and so I brought like four home.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm like, all right, when mom's out, if Ruth's
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna have her to her. If she already
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  Speaker 1: used up her TV coupon, She's gonna have to do
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  Speaker 1: things that keep her busy. Yeah, trying to I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to manipulate this to where when Scotty is down for
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  Speaker 1: her nap in the middle of the afternoon in that one, two, three,
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  Speaker 1: three thirty range, that could be some some father quiet.
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  Speaker 2: Time since Mom's gone.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So I got the worksheets out and this whole
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  Speaker 1: look at me, watch this face that I'm about to
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  Speaker 1: get to.
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  Speaker 2: I give her the worksheets. She is elated.
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  Speaker 1: We got a full box of crowns, and I get
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  Speaker 1: her set up because I'm trying to go and watch
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  Speaker 1: this documentary that I've been consuming, The Diddy documentary. By
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  Speaker 1: the way, way that documentary is being wild binged it
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  Speaker 1: wild Wild Dog, and she's going, dude, every thirty seconds,
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  Speaker 1: she color an ornament or a flower or a part
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  Speaker 1: of the tree. She color one little thing, and I'd
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  Speaker 1: have to get up and come look, come look at
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  Speaker 1: the ornament. I'm like, oh my gosh, you use blue.
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  Speaker 2: And then I go and was like, sit like, sweetheart,
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  Speaker 2: folks you know, focus in. I'll come check. Get the
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  Speaker 2: whole tree going there, tell me when it come over.
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  Speaker 1: Let the heart come here, come here, check this out.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's yellow.
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  Speaker 1: And I, sweetheart, like, just just color the whole tree
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  Speaker 1: and then let me know when you're done, and then
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  Speaker 1: I'll come.
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  Speaker 2: I'll come check it out.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sitting there watching the documentary and she's locked in
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  Speaker 1: and she's like dad, Dad. I'm like yes, sweetheart. She's like,
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  Speaker 1: will you come sit with me? Yeah, sweetheart, I'll come
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  Speaker 1: sit with you. Pause the documentary, go over there and
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  Speaker 1: sit with her. I gotta watch her basically the entire time.
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  Speaker 1: What color do you think here? Can't use red, can't
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  Speaker 1: use blue, can't use orange. Can't you just green?
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  Speaker 2: Purple, pink?
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, sweetheart, you gotta be able to mix
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  Speaker 1: you gotta be able to repeat some colors. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: talk her into it. But this phase, man, is I
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  Speaker 1: mean it'll beat you down. Yeah, it'll be sure. I'm talking, Hey.
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  Speaker 2: Dad, dadd come here, watch me. Watch me and I
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  Speaker 2: walk over that what is it sweet? And She'll be
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  Speaker 2: like just that, and I'm like, I'll stare at her
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  Speaker 2: and I'll say, is that it?
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  Speaker 1: It's like yeah, watch and I'm like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: that's incredible.
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  Speaker 3: You're gonna have to practice in the mirror, like twenty
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  Speaker 3: different reactions to her stuff.
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  Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta expand your bag.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks, sweetheart, you gotta what are we looking at?
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  Speaker 3: Tell him that's all what you said about the Christmas
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  Speaker 3: cookie that she made. When you texted into the group
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  Speaker 3: about the Christmas I put.
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  Speaker 2: That one out on Twitter, that one out on Twitter,
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  Speaker 2: he said the group.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'll be telling the boys like, hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I think ru is gonna be She's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be smart, bro, Like she is ahead of the game.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like looking at her making this little Christmas
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  Speaker 1: cookie and just it's all different colors. It's it's just
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  Speaker 1: plumped of plumps, uh, what we try call like mounds
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  Speaker 1: of icing in different spots. It's uneven, it's very below average.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm looking at this cookie and I'm like, sweetheart.
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  Speaker 1: I look over my wife.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, we think she's gonna be smart and she
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  Speaker 2: makes a cookie like this.
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  Speaker 3: It's that into the group message with the pumpg like
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  Speaker 3: Coop and Jared, and both Coop and Jared go, what's
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  Speaker 3: wrong with the cookie? And I'm reading this way later
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  Speaker 3: after y'all had this conversation Will, it's like she's using
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  Speaker 3: all different types of colors. Look, there's three different types
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  Speaker 3: of glitter on it. I told her she was grounded.
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  Speaker 2: Grounded. He was obvious.
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  Speaker 4: Up until now. I thought he was really really proud
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  Speaker 4: of it, and I didn't. I was just like, it's
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  Speaker 4: no like cookie.
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  Speaker 2: Will.
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  Speaker 1: Obviously, when we're sitting there doing our Christmas cookies, I'm
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  Speaker 1: fired up. But I'm like laughing to myself because I
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  Speaker 1: look at her cause she's like, check this one out.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just like, Dade, I look, well, we're looking at
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  Speaker 1: the sweetheart.
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  Speaker 2: That shit is trash. Oh my gosh, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Trying to find true goons there. It is our group
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  Speaker 1: chats called true goons. I dropped the picture in and
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  Speaker 1: you can put the tweet up two chef, but I
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  Speaker 1: dropped the photo of the cookie in there. You like me, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you rue smart as hell for three year
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  Speaker 1: old ruse Christmas cookie. Jared laughs and then he goes,
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know what's wrong with it. I said
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  Speaker 1: that icing game is trash. I said, three colors, three
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  Speaker 1: different types of sprinkles, clumpy, and then I just then
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: I randomly put after that she's grounded, and then Jared goes, which,
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: by the way, I looked at Charro and I said
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: that before Jared even sent this message. It's like, sweetheart,
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: what were we doing with yellow icing? Like those are
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: that's not a Christmas color? Like you could have just
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: left the icing white, because you know, you built the
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: food coloring in it to change it up, like we could.
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: Have just done red, green and white.
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: Because I'm sitting here trying to build sand as I'm
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: trying to build all these different things. Now just got
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: yellow sitting there, and Beaman goes, honestly true, also yellow,
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: it's Christmas. I said, yeah, my wife got a verbal
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: lashing for that as well.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: I was reading those laughing so hard, dude people right
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: out there. What are they talking about right now?
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: Look, it's Sunday night, Sunday night. What time we at
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: It's about nine pm? Oh yeah, after the kids went
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: down talking about I get to Yeah, that's what we
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: were talking about.
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: On Saturday night. My bless my mom's heart. I love
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: my mother, Miss Amy. She listens to every episode of
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: Miss Amy, I Love You. She came in town to
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: uh hang out with me and Jill, help take care
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: of scarlet. Let Jill and I have a little more
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: relaxing time. My mom is very talented artistically. She has
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: her own art company, and she had a gallery for
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: years and at Amy Young Art. And that's uh at
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: Amy Young Art with one why. I always told her
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: that makes it a little complicated, all because it's at
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: Amy Young Art. But there's just one why. So I
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: still want to give her a shout out.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: Shout out, no shoutout, shout out, no free shout out
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: Miss Amy. I am Young Art.
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: But she's extremely creative. She did a lot of interior
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: design work back in her day. It's about seven pm
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: on a Saturday, and she's like Sherman. Now, I don't
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: want to upset Jill, but I'm looking at y'all's living
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: room and dining room setup, and I really think that,
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: Oh no, we could really rearrange everything. No, I go, oh,
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: she goes, I'm thinking the couches move here, the dining
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: room table moves here. Granted, I'm feeling like shit on Saturday,
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: and I've not communicated this at all to my mom.
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: Or my wife.
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: So now I know it's too late for me to
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: cop out and say, hey, I feel like shit.
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: So I don't know if this is a good.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: Time cop out? What cop out on? What cop out on?
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: Helping with the redesign?
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: No? No? Oh wow? Oh wait. I wanted to, like,
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: you know, or I be my mother, But if my
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: mom would be over at our.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: House and pull me aside, me like, hey, I you know,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I think we could do a lot of redesign in
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: the living room. God, I just put my hand on
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: her shoulder and be like, hey, Mom, I love you.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: If you feel confident enough to tell my wife that's
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: what I did, that we need to redesign this house.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: I'm letting you know right now you're on your own.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: And when that grenade happens, cause it's gonna be explosive. Yeah,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on my wife's side. But if you
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: want to step into the jungle, yeah, be my guest.
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: So I tell I tell my mom, I say, you know,
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: you're really you're kind of pitching, uh the intern right now,
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: you got you gotta talk to the lady upstairs. I
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: got no say in this situation. But you know, if
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: you sell Jill on it, then uh yeah, you know
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: we could look into it. Thinking around seven pm on
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: a Saturday that you know. And Jill was all but
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: so excited for the redesigned ideas. Loved miss Amy's ideas,
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: and she loved them for real, loved them for real,
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: and we got to cracking, we got to crack.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, bro, when you brought that up, I
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, how is this gonna go down?
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Missed?
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: We missed like an entire portion of the argument because
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: when you were like and then I was going to
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: miss out on the redesign.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: I thought there was a whole story about them.
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: At Conflin, I wrote down four title names for the
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: episode about the conflict.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: Oh there was zero, you tell me there was zero conflict.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: Zero conflict.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: Mother in law comes into the house. Hey, I think
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: I don't really like the look at this place. I
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: think we should redesign some stuff. She I approached wifey
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: and wifey Jill, Queen Jill. She was just all on board.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: It's smooth sailing.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: Hey, I will say this, as far as the redesigned stuff,
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: she was exactly right, Like she really was exactly right
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: on all And it was more so.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: So you're calling your wife stupid, not at all.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: No, no joking, no, no, no, no, I'm just kid.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: I had flashbacks on my cage waiting for me.
• 19:56
  Speaker 6: What on the f?
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: You know what? My mom was exactly right. That place
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: was a dump. My house looks like.
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: I do have to before and after photos that I'll
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: send to you, chef. But it opened up a ton
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: of space. But dude, I lifted up two chairs, re
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: hung some paintings, and I I was just sitting there
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: on a Saturday, just thinking, late into the.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: Evening, Oh my gosh, I get to do this. I
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: get to do it.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: What happened with this sounded like there was some conflict
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: when you were feeling under the weather, and you should
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: have told him.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: You didn't say anything.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I just had to nut up or shut up,
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: and then I got really lightheaded. And like super pale
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: and like honestly was starting to feel a little dizzy,
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: and I was like, honey, I have to sit down.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: She was great about it, she was like, hey, let's
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: sit down. It was a huge bummer note or though,
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: because we were going to have a date night that night,
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: and so we're going to move all this furniture around
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: like right before our kind of late night date night.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: And yeah, I was just feeling like crap. So we
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: miss out on that. That was kind of a dad loss.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: But I'm feeling a little bit better good getting on
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: the other side of it as well.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but hey, is he good? Good?
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: You know what happened at at our house is you
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: talk about a Willie one Shell story. Your boy got
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: active over the weekend and you know, I'm talking heavy lifting.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: What were you doing something with?
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: The heat went out, not out, but the upstairs got
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: like north like around eighty plus degrees, so it's really
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: hot upstairs, not downstairs. And we shut the system off,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: but it was still blowing hot air. So I'm thinking,
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: what the what's going on? Yeah, and so I hit
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: up my boy shot out Robbie, and he's given me
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: all these little instructures go up in the attic.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: You know, check this, send me the serial number of that. Yeah.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: He's an h fat guy. Yeah, yeah, he's like, check
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: the breakers. I go to the main breaker circuit and
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: I don't see heat or a C or anything on it.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: I see like living room, bonus room, bathroom, I see.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: I shoot him a picture and I'm like, buddy, I
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: don't see I don't see the heat or the AC
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: on this thing. And he's like, you might have to
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: go outside by the unit rune. Are you stay inside,
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw the shoes on.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna go outside. What was it behind some bushes too?
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: It was next to a bush. Yeah. I go back
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: there and the AC units running. It's like, man, I'm
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: just kind of do one of them, kind of do
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: one of them.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Lean back, and I'm looking at your hat a little bit. Yeah,
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: I think that's the breaker circuit right there. It's open up,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: wiggle the breaker circuit. Realized there's just a little latch
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: on the side. Open that up.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: I see.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: All it says is a C breaker. So so I
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: just I send him a photo. I'm like, so, just
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: flip these off, and he's like, yeah, flip them off.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: Step back AC. The unit shuts down, and I'm like,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: all right, I think I gotta went inside. Looked at
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: my wife. I was like, I think we just wait.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Now go upstairs. Let's let's turn all the systems off,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: all systems off, breakers off. It says you can go quick,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: you can do a quick recep Five to ten minutes.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: We're gonna wait thirty yeah, because we're gonna make sure
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: this thing, the systems are you know, systems are gonna
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: be a go when we get this thing sparked back up,
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: go upstairs. Hot air is still blowing out after you
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: hit the break, after I hit the breakers, bro. But
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: the people who are true h backers out there, the
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: true Sikos that understand this game, they're probably like, oh, Willie,
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: it was probably just the AC and not the heat one.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: There's a heat one as well. You have two units,
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: one for heat, one for AC.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I believe. So you can call up Robbie, hey, bro,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: when heats still coming. Heat, all systems are off, I
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: flip the breakers off. Heat still coming even be hotter? Yeah,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: will you gotta go. You gotta go up to the attic.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: There's gonna be a gray box. Sitting there by the unit. Yeah,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: you'll find it. Open it up. If it says heat,
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: there's your heat one. Get the ladder down from the attic,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: you know. And I'm feeling like people talking about Willy's once.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: Ye will is handling business, right, you hit.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: The peter Pan pees again before you go, sweetart, I'm
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: gonna have to go up in the attic the dramatic
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: click of the ship.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go north of the wall. Where's the tape measure?
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: If I'm not back, you know what. Start feeling around
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: my pockets before I go up there. Let me get
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: a hammer and a tape measure. Flip off the breaker.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: You don't know what you're gonna need.
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: Just go up there with's like a little thing of
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: dirt and dust and just put it all over yourself.
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: After the breaker, I sit down the ladder.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: I'm climbing up on the ladder, you know, kind of
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: a kind of a fragile ladder, and I'm like, holding on, sweetheart.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: You got the kids down there, all you guys. You
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: guys stay downstairs. Don't come up here. This is big
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: boy stuff. Oh whoa, whoa, don't don't come up here.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: Don't come here.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: I'm looking at the I'm looking at the unit up
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: in the attic, and it's it's it's a big boy.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: It's got the big silver tubes going out everywhere. And
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of like looking around. Send him a photo
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: of the serial number. We're checking to see if we're
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: cyllinder warranty, because he's like, it might be the masterboard.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: It's not communicating correctly with the system. Yeah, but you
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: gotta shut it down. Will you got to shut it down?
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: Up there?
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: I see the great box over there. I kind of
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: prop it open. I see it's just a simple switch.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: Heat says Heat big written. I'm like, all right, here
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: we go. This is the heat. Like you know, I
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: don't want my wife to know. This ain't some big
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: boy stuff. I'm just I just randomly yo, dad.
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: Damn it. It's all good up here, sweetheart. It's all
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: good up here.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: Compton, looky, Yeah, flip it off, system shut down.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: Text Robbie. Hey, I shut it down. He said, all right, now,
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: you just wait. So we waited.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: I'm going around and I close. So we wait like
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: thirty minutes. Kick it back on. But this is when
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: my wife was out volunteering, so I kick it back on.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: I'm keeping her posted like, Hey, you know, I think
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: I got the system's reset.
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: I think we might be good to go. Yeah.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it starts blowing out hot air again. So
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: we might have like a like a like a masterboard issue.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah with the h vacuumit where it's like not it's
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: not uh communicating with the system correctly.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you can't.
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: Hey, I don't want to go too deep into it
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: for any mind, not interested, But I do have a
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: legitimate question. Go ahead, uh, something that my parents did
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: with the heat rising. And you have a lot of
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: open air space in that house. Yeah, do you have
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: floor vents in the upstairs as.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: If no floor vents in the upstairs all ceilings floor
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: vents on the first level.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Okay, and then ceiling vents on the ceiling events on
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: the top level.
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: If it's easy for you, you can close all the
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: ceiling vents.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: Closed them, buddy.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: And that didn't even help. No, that ended up helping
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: because again it was going out hot. So I'm like,
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: you know you're about to have We had like a
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: really cold Sunday, Yeah, but it was still like it
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: was like thirty to fifty on Saturday. And so as
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: we're about to do bedtime and everything else, we're opening
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: the windows until they actually go to bed. But we
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: got the windows open trying to like funnel through and
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: then I'm I'm standing on beds like I got this
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: metal pole and I'm closing the vents in the ceiling. Yeah,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: I was working. I was working. You crushed its man.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Hey, that's actually a huge dad hack.
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: By the way, we have a very small upstairs, but
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: we closed all our vents during the winter months and
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: just blast that heat downstairs and it filters all up.
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll tell you what.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: Didn't really close the vents in the bonus room where
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: we were good, where we were Chef Jack and I.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: We were on pup G on Saturday, and I finally
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: had kind of an open weekend. There wasn't really it
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: was just Army Navy on Saturday, so there wasn't a
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: lot of college football, and I felt like I had
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: to stay on top of so it felt like a
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: free night. And I just told my wife, like, once
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: we got the kids down, I'm gonna go get some
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: in with the boys. Man, I'm gonna go upstairs. I'm
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: gonna play some video games. And so I was up
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: there sweating. Oh yeah, because he got he eventually got
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: pretty damn hot in there, and I'm sitting there sweating
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: when we got our chicken dinner on pup G shout out.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: The boys shot out the gooblin.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Squad shot out the good squad so bad though, for
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: the goom berets out there?
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: Can we get a little chef Jack get his thoughts
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: on playing with the boys the other night?
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: I was it was good, man.
• 28:07
  Speaker 7: I didn't played video games with like a group of
• 28:09
  Speaker 7: friends in a long long time.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: He got called up to the big leagues. Yeah, because
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: you were out, you were you rocking with mom and wifey.
• 28:16
  Speaker 7: It was fun. Will had kind of a boomer moment
• 28:18
  Speaker 7: with his headset. Let's took about.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: You think I was? Because I did hear a little
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: somethings on the.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: I have no Boomer moment, man, if said Turtle Beach
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: top of the line, and it wasn't communicating with the discord.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: I couldn't hear the boys.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: If I can tell you all my my side of
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: it is, I'm passing in and out of sleep.
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: I'm sweating out some stuff. I'm not really checking my
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: phone other than just kind of surviving through the night.
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: So I wake up the next morning and it seemed
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: like y'all's planned to play was like eight thirty ish,
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: you like nine. And then I just see a string
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: of texts which we could provide to you. Jack of
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: will we can hear you, you can't hear us. Will
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: check check this system. I do the thing where you
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: like scrolled the text to the left and see the timestamps,
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: And it was like an hour and a half affair.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: It seemed like the boys are sitting there hating on me,
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: and I'm just like, hey, we were talking to go.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: I think it's a will issue and keeps like, yeah,
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: it's definitely Will issue.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: Something about at that age, man age Coop, Coopy, I'm
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: with you.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: I'm on, I ain't just on facetebook. That's incredible. And
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: then Coop with the eight kill game, Yeah, was an
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: a crazy went off. He crushed it. We got a
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: chicken dinner. How did Jack play? The chef check played awesome? Okay, good.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: We got in there with a squad, a dude who
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: was in the Marines when we had a fourth because
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: Cooop got off the marine joined us and he was
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: telling us about how it went down, Like he's like,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I like to use the stuff that I used for real,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, I like to use the stuff that
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: I think I would do for real.
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: And you know, that's a really good point. That's a
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: really good point because I think i'd use this him
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: to mutant, you know, if I was. But I was
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: in the ship for real.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: What was user name? But you gotta shout him? What
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: was it? Recon?
• 30:26
  Speaker 7: Yeah, recon something recon rob or something like this sting guy.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: But he was cool. Oh yeah.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: But I got on eventually like nine thirty because I
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: you know, I was gone.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: Was it Wednesday early through? Yeah?
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I got back like a Thursday afternoon and then
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Friday we had the double date night, so I met
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: and then straight we streamed on Thursday night. So I
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: missed bedtime on Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday. So my wife's
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: hit me with like, you got double bedtime duty on
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: Saturday and Sunday, just like lah ah loud. She hits
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: me when I'm not around her, like I think I
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: was over here or something, and she's text me, so
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: you got double bedtime duty on Saturday and Sunday, And
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I'm just laugh out loud.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Sure, I guess.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: But on Saturday, before I could goon with the fellas,
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: I'm going up there with Scottie at like seven and
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: then I come out when I get Scottie down and
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: Charles down there.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: That's when they was doing.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: The Christmas cookies. We're doing Christmas cookies at like eight o'clock. Like, hey,
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: it's bedtime, bro. But Rue was all fire to do
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: Christmas cookies. I know, it's kind of like a tradition.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: I know, like in this episode we're gonna be talking
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: about Christmas traditions. Oh yeah, holiday shopping. But we were
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: in the tradition of making Christmas cookies. And then she
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: hits me. He was like, oh, you should have made
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: the dough. Well, I was gone, you should have made
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: the dough. All was gone, Sweeter. I don't know how
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: to make the dough or the whatever the what is it? Yeah,
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: the dough, the cookie dough. It's correct, like the butter
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: and eggs and the flow or whatever.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: I don't know. You got this mixer out.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: Hey, listen, and I ain't gonna sit there while Ruthe
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: bosses me around on how to make cookies. What the
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: hell is it?
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: Kitchen aid, babe, what do you mean it's it's in
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: this cupboard. I've never seen this thing before. Yeah, that
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: kitchen aid could take your hand off if you're not careful.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, gotta be careful. That's so.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: Anyway, I'm putting Rue down at like eight thirty nine.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: I was probably like nine nine thirty when I left
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: the room and ended up joining the boys.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: But there you go.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Solid weekend, I had a night I finessed. It is
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: Sunday night. I finessed Rue because Rue was like, Mama,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: you're gonna do better because Charles gone, uh, she was
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: working this morning. So I had the kiddos making breakfast,
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: just being just being an all star.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: Dad dude, Yeah, being a rock star usual.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: Or just crushing it with the kiddos, and the in
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: laws came over for dinner and Charles like, it's bath
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: night for the kids. I'm like, oh, She's like, what
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: was the nose Like nose touched like not it or
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: something like that.
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: What's the the nose thing? Those goes? Yeah, yeah, those
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: goes you. And I'm like, yeah, I figured it me.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: So you said you want me to do? You want
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: me to do bad time for both of them, and
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: you know, double bedtime. I'm logging this in my brain.
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying it out loud. She's hearing me say
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: it out.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: She's hearing me say it out loud, and should listened
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: to this episode right now.
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: So I'm in there scrubbing the kids. Don't get the
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: bag clean, you.
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: Know, seeing into them and playing with the Yeah, splash, splash, splash.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: The you don't drink it, yeah yeah, cover your eyes waterboard.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: All right, let's go get you ready for bed. But
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: I finessed with because we're one of Mushy's my mom,
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: it's your turn to do bedtime tonight, and she's like,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: will you do my bedtime? She's like, I guess. So
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: that's a good point, rue, Yeah, you know what mama
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: should do bedtime? What if we turned away? We need
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: to flip the switch. We need to start sub tweeting
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: a little bit.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe we.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: I gotta find a way. Yeah, yeah, I gotta figure
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: out a good way to do that. I gotta figure
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: out a smart way to do that. Speaking of dad losses,
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: I have a pretty severe one.
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: Okay. Uh so tomorrow is Monday.
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: Jill is actually going with my mom and Scarlet to
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: the airport and they're gonna be flying to Texas.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: She's not gonna be flying back till Thursday.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: So I'm essentially gonna have to hold down the fort
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: from Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday to like midday Thursday. So I
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: guess that's three days without my two girls at home.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: So you're gonna have the house to yourself.
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's okay. I'm already I don't need to like
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: talk about it. I've already processed it.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: So you're telling me, your selfish ass wife, who's gonna
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: take the kiddo, Yeah, the five month old and fly
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: out tomorrow on Monday, Yeah with my mom and be gone,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah for three days. Yeah, and you're gonna have the
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: house to yourself.
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I know that.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: Y'all were talking about like pubg earlier and stuff, and
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: I was like a part of me was like, shit,
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: that's probably something that I'm gonna have to do this week,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: because what else am I gonna do?
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Just sit at home, sat on.
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: The couch and just kind of like watch, you know,
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: previews of the upcoming college football playoff.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: Nothing pisses me off more than one of my mother
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: wants to take the kids and leave that home alone
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: for days at a time.
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not holding her against it, holding it against her.
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: I know we're talking about like scoreboard stuff. I'm gonna
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: do my best and I like keep score on this.
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: But you know, I hope they have fun. I hope
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: she gets to spend quality time with her friends. And
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna do my best to try and hold it,
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: hold it down, hold it forth down.
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: All by myself at the house.
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: I'll probably have to order a peta, probably two medium
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: pizzas from Dominoes.
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: You know what you gotta do?
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: What when she flies, when she takes off, you let
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: it sit for a couple hours, and then you just
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: shoot her a message. You feel good about taking my
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: kid from me. I hope you're happy. I hope you're happy.
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: Hurt it seventy degrees in Texas right now. I hope
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: you're happy leaving me alone at home for a few days. Yeah,
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: hurted seventy degrees.
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: You'll be outside all day, and then I'll be inside
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: because it's freezing here in Nashville.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: I'll be inside.
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to bundle up with some blankets, make
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: a fire, and probably play some video games.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: Oh, this is where we need PT six more than ever.
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: Eat some pizza and wings. Maybe we try and get
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: a pet stick out on the sticks with us. Oh
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: my heart goes out for you, bro, Thank.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: You, dude, thank you. What a selfish bitch man all
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: day speaking himself the kids man, You're gonna be begging
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: for him to come home.
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: Speaking of selfish bitches, the employees that the daycare sold
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: me out a little belated dad loss from last week
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: with Jilly Bean.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: Was sick and dead, and I took Scarlett all by
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: myself on that last second.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: You know, Oh, I gotta get her.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: Jill lays out an outfit every single day for Scarlet,
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: with a big old.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: Bow, pretty outfit. I didn't have Jilly Bean.
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: So the outdit that Dad has laid out was built
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: for speed. It was built for getting to work by
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: eight am. Yep, is a nice little onesie q onesie
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: with some cowboy boots. Did I grab a bow? No,
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: that's not aerodynamic. I grab socks. She doesn't need it.
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: She's wearing a onesie. She doesn't need socks in her
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: cute little gold glittering cowboy boots. And I drop her
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: off at daycare and she had a great day and
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: then they run into Jill like three or four days
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: later and they go, I think Dad picked out the
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: appit on Tuesday. A.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: That's such bullshit.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: When people start commenting on oh, it looks like Dad
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: dressed him today.
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: I thought they were on my side. I do all
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: the pickups and drop offs. I'm the I'm the face
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: that they're seeing every single day, and they sold me
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: out like that.
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: But what's wrong with the with the onesie and some
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: cowboy boots? Like she looked cute as hell?
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like Charle was getting on my ass today, like, oh, Scotty,
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: let's get some clothes on you. It was about four
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: in the afternoon she set out her She set it
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: on her pjs.
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: From the night before. Was there any poop or be
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: on him any? Sweetheart?
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: It's lazy Sunday. Yeah, And she looks like she's having fun.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: Does she? Is she covered in her own poop? Or
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: oh she's not? Oh? Then she looks pretty good to me.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: It dude, don't even get me started.
• 38:50
  Speaker 6: Bro.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: It's like, I'll put shorts and a T shirt on
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: the room and like, my nannymback looks like Danny dressed
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: through today.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: What does that mean, hey, what if you did, yeah,
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: you know, you don't like shorts and a T shirt?
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: What if dad fucked around and picked out an outfit?
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah you know, Oh, God forbid, I'm a father. Don't
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: let a white boy get hot now.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but in all serious, God forbid, Dad's got
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: some motion.
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: Shout out, shout out the crystal and uh, miss Angie,
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: because y'all are angels and I love you. Hey, everything
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: I'm saying right now, just.
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I need your help. Please don't hate me. That
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: was for a laughs, that was a joke.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: It's sweetheart. We don't think you're selfish. We don't think
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: your selfish at all. With them, the picture is just hilarious.
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: So I'll compile some pictures for the pod of outfits
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: of Jill and that has picked out. And then they
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: sent a picture like of Scarlet and her little onesie outfit.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's brief. The contrast is funny.
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: This is dumb, guy brain. Why does Scarlett have clothes
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: she's not allowed to wear? That's a great Derek, you
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: know what I mean, Derek, that's a great question. Dumb,
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: dumb funkl guy brain. But why why would she have
• 39:59
  Speaker 4: an outfit? And boots that you're not allowed to put
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: her in.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: Derek, that's a great question. Hey, why would she have
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: a whole closet? Why would she have.
• 40:08
  Speaker 3: An entire closet with outfits that range all the way
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: to like a two year old?
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: Why would she have that in five months old?
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: And then why do we also buy new outfits like
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: every couple of weeks.
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: You know, these are good questions. That's not a dumb question.
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: You you asked that question, and my brain is saying,
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: I don't even know if there's an answer. Yeah, Like
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, yeah, I'm with you.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: Shouldn't all of her outfits be fair game to be
• 40:39
  Speaker 4: put on her body if they fit. I'm genuinely like,
• 40:42
  Speaker 4: I'm not even trying to make a bit like I'm asking,
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: dumb guy.
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: Well, she's got to have, Derek, she's got to have
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: her cute morning fit for maybe a picture on the
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: on the chair that will provided us not cheap.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: Yes, and look, if you don't want us suddress the
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: kids in certain clothes, don't have those clothes in the drawer. Yeah,
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: ruse three, so she'll wear three t I thought three
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: team meant three tall and meets three toddler, It sure doesn't.
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: I learned that the hard way too.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: And so one day Roue comes out and I got
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: earn some pants. And these pants, the bottoms of them
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: are like midway upper calf. They're like, well, what are
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: you doing? You got earn some two T pants? And
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: so I'm like, okay, I didn't know that. Like they're
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: if they're in the drawer, I'm going to see them
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: as a viable option that I.
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: Can put them in.
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: God, brother, you were me just two weeks ago before
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: we made the big change, because Scarlett was at the
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: zero to three months, but now she's at the three
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: to six months, but the zero to three months were
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: still in the drawer. That I go off of orders
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: from my five star general jillyban and so if I
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: don't get orders that everything in the right side of
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: the drawer is off limits.
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: And now we have migrated to the left side of
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: the chester. You gotta let me know.
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: You gotta let me know, because I'm still going into
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: the right drawer and yeah, I'm fighting Scarlet and I'm going, oh,
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: this thing's a little.
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: Dight, little snuff. I'm gonna get you some bigger, bigger,
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: out she's growing. Yeah, yeah, there you go, scars Car.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know i'd listen.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: I hate warl on that. I agree wholehard.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: Like dads that are trying and doing their absolute best,
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: you can't just it's like Ron Burgundy reading the teleprompter. Well,
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: if it gets in the drawer, it's fair game for
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: us to put on.
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: Like do you remember we were doing to put in
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: the lefty thing and I was like, I see the
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: Bobby sitting there, and I'm like, hey, we never used
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: Bobby formula, but I'm just.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: Going with me. Yeah. Yeah.
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: Fast forward to two nights ago and Jill's like, hey,
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: can you just make her a little two out, like
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: extra little two ounces. I think she's still hungry. And
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: we usually use the Baby Breza machine, which for any
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: st sixers out there, funkals that is a baby formula dispenser.
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: So it's just this the ultimate dad hack machine. We
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: talked about it in the first couple episodes. You hit
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: make it makes it. What Jill is now asking me
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: is to make just two ounces, which I could have
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: done on the Breza, but I was like, oh, that
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: just means one scoop, put in a bottle heat up
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: the bottle. I can do that pretty easily. And I
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: go to open up the Bobby and Jill goes, oh no, no, no, honey,
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: don't use the Bobby. We never used Bobby. I go, oh, yeah,
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: that's right, that's right, remembering that I made pre made
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: three bottles for daycare of Bobby first Scarlet.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my dumbass did not touch the I did that.
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: Sorry, of course, we don't use Bobby. Holy shit.
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: I just I've been centered with daycare with Bobby bottles.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: For the last week. She's going.
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: Scarlet hasn't been drinking her bottles very well at the
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: at the daycare, I've been.
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: Using their own formula that just came out. That's breaking news.
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: He're on for the duns.
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah so yeah, Ron Burgundy, Fuck you, candiego. I have
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: some other new Dad in the Trenches comments. We want
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: to get some comments beginning.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: If you're falling along on YouTube, Spotify, do you see
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: the clips on social media?
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: Leave comments? We love to read them on the podcast.
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: We sure do.
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: I have Marsh rz F nineties on TikTok boys. We
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: are currently in the four to five months trenches with
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: our old our daughter Sonny that's my mom's grandmother name.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: Shout out Sonny.
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: I'm talking no sleeping at night, spit up, screaming and crying,
• 44:46
  Speaker 3: only wanting to be held. We lost our dog recently,
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: and I feel as if she knows that she's gone.
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: Dad's struggling through it. She can sense it only once
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: your mom. Being a new dad is a wild ride.
• 44:58
  Speaker 3: My identity changed five months ago, and then changed it
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: again this week. This week, excuse me when I lost
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: my best friend. He's talking about his dog. It's just
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: been dad loss after dad loss after dad loss.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: When do the trenches in?
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: I listened to your podcast all the time for words
• 45:18
  Speaker 3: of advice and encouragement, but goddamn, this shit is difficult
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: and I feel as if I'm failing. How do you
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: guys cope with all the change?
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: Marsh?
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: RZF nineties, I have some advice for him?
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: Do you have anything you want to say?
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: This is why I would say, Marsh, the losses will
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: keep piling up.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: You are not. The losses will never stop.
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: They'll never stop. They'll keep piling up, And you are
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: not failing. You're just working through it. Find those small victories.
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: Hit those small victories. Start small you can't eat the
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: elephant with one big bite. You gotta take little bites.
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: Get those little bites in, get those little victory now.
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: I do have a cheat code for surroy Gate best Friend,
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: because I've lost some dogs in my day. Christmas is
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: the best time for a puppy, dude. And I know
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: you have a four to five month old, and so
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: you're probably thinking, Sherman, what the hell kind of evil
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: are you trying to put on me? You don't have
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: to get a puppy, Get a nice little five or
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: six year old, you know, sheltered dog that needs a
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: nice home this Christmas and find a little Surrey get
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: best friend. I think that's the number one way to
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: go when you're really feeling it with the dog loss.
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: And of course get approved with wifey, but get some
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: shelter dog that's sweet as an angel, just to like
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: have a new dog in there.
• 46:47
  Speaker 7: I do see a lot of people say that they
• 46:49
  Speaker 7: get a puppy when they have a child, too, like
• 46:51
  Speaker 7: their first kid, and I think the time's probably a
• 46:53
  Speaker 7: little different. Maybe the puppy before the child, right before,
• 46:56
  Speaker 7: Oh it's not as much chaos. But a lot of
• 46:58
  Speaker 7: people say that a kid agree is up with the
• 47:00
  Speaker 7: dog ends up pretty happy kid.
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: That is true.
• 47:04
  Speaker 7: That dog is gonna love that that toddler, that is true.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that would be my advice. Do you have anything.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: Well, Number one, the losses will never stop coming. Yeah,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: being a parent is very hard work. It will always
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: be very hard work. That's why on this pod we
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: talk about embracing the suck the whole good mantra mentality,
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: the whole you know, flipping your mindset from this is
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: happening to me too. I get to do this. So
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: a lot of my advice would just come would just
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: come down to, like what conversations are you having with
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: yourself on a day to day.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: Basis, Like when you wake up in.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: The morning and you're feeling down or you're feeling a
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: little depressive or already defeated, that is a very that
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: to me is a sign that you need to have
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: a very hard like look in the mirror and conversation
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: with yourself about what's motivating you and like what your
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: why is behind everything. Because again it's like even with fatherhood,
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: even with any area in life like career, anything that
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: goes on in your world that is day to day
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: and it's gonna be habitual. The environment you're around, stress
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: is never going to stress is never gonna stop. So
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: my advice would would be having a very close look,
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: a very close conversation with yourself on what is motivating
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: you because there's a lot to be grateful for. Again,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: we're gonna talk, and we're gonna laugh, and we're gonna
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: joke about a lot of the suck and the things
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: that are tough about parenthood or being a husband, and
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: what's shitty about work and YadA, YadA, YadA. But no
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: matter what, you at some point you gotta flip your
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: mindset and figure out what motivates you, figure out what
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: you are grateful for. You start with gratitude, your entire
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: mind shift, Your entire mindset will start to shift.
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So as simply as I can possibly put it, is.
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: Understand the conversations you're having with yourself, Like right when
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: you wake up up in the morning, right when you
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: wake up, when you're doing everything, whether either you work
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: out or you don't work out, or whether you're making
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: breakfast or your your wife needs helps, are doing something
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: like are you kind of down and having like a
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: negative voice in your ear when all of these things
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: are happening. Because if so, that to me is to
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: tell sign that you need.
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: To start with yourself.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because right there, that'll that'll begin to once you
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: once you have that little subtle two degrees shift, because
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: that's really all it is. It's it's it's like, you know,
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: life is essentially a bunch of choices going through your
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: head when things are happening to you right yeah, it's like,
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, woe is me? Life is happening to
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: me the moment you grab hold of that and realize
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: that that's gonna happen no matter what. So once you
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: filter it out through something differently and really check yourself
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: on how you're speaking to yourself or how you are
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: filtering the world and shifted to something, whether it's gratitude
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: or something positive, or you just catch yourself like, you
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: know what, I am being kind of a bitch about this,
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: I am being kind of soft about this. I am
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: kind of looking at this in a way different way
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: than how I should be. If you're listening to this
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: right now and thinking, like, you know, what I do
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: need to I do need to figure out like what
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: type of filter I'm using. If you start there you'll
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: be able to figure out like what you know what,
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: then you'll start to get excited about what then Like okay,
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: like let me start with gratitude. Let me start with
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: what I get to do throughout the day, Like Derek
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: having that having that monologue he had several episodes ago
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: on like Hey, I get to do this. Yes, because
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: the minute that happens is when things will start to
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: shift for you. Yes, because I know it's tough, man,
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: I know that shit's hard, and I'm just I'm just
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: telling you, like, life is never just going to seem easier.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: You're gonna get a you're gonna get a pay raise
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: of promotion, You're gonna have a moment where you feel good,
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: and that is just as fleeting as a song lyric
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: for a song lyric from any major hit. Like there's
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: gonna be other problems that come the next day or
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: the next week or the next month. You're gonna lose somebody,
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: something's gonna happen to you with the family. Your wife's
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: gonna be pissay, she's gonna be in a mood one day.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: Your kid, it's not gonna go the way you're gonna
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: you hope it goes at certain times.
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: No amount of money, no amount of possessions is going
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: to fix it either, Like you were saying, with the
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: promotions and all that stuff, It's say, I feel like
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: the number one way to get in the mindset of
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: being able to say good yeah after a shitty situation,
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: or being able to say hey, I get to do
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: this is when you are actively trying to better yourself
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: and giving yourself some self love, giving yourself some opportunities
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: to win, but to also grow and develop as a person.
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: I currently am going through that. I've talked about it
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: on the pod of like, bro, I am going through
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: the shit right now, Like this is hard. This is
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: like the last couple of weeks for me. I've been
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: really really shitty, been bad, And I had a conversation
• 51:47
  Speaker 3: and sit down with Jill of like, let's it's not like, oh,
• 51:53
  Speaker 3: things are really shitty. Well what if I got like
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: the biggest promotion ever what this podcasters blew up and
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: we had five point two million views per episode? Like, oh,
• 52:03
  Speaker 3: then I would feel less shitty. No, it's like, Suman,
• 52:07
  Speaker 3: where are some actual things in your life that need
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: to change? Like one, I'm I am not sleeping well
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: I'm on a terrible sleep schedule. I'm not eating well,
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: I'm out of shape, I'm taking in way too much
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: caffeine just to keep afloat during the day, and then
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: that makes me feel even shittier and sleep even worse.
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: And it's like Sherman, you have to break.
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: This cycle, and it is going to be a hard
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: cycle to break, but you need to lock in for
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: the benefit of your wife and daughter, to be a
• 52:38
  Speaker 3: more present father, to get out of these fonks in stuff.
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: You need good sleep, you need some good energy, So
• 52:44
  Speaker 3: you got to have a better diet. You got to
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: take care of yourself.
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: Like that.
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: Is like the example I would apply to marsh It's like,
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: find those things in your life that you can better
• 52:56
  Speaker 3: yourself on because then ultimately that is going to make
• 52:59
  Speaker 3: you stronger and able to say good in the in
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: the shitty situations. Does that make sense?
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, that would be absolutely nothing changes. If nothing changes, Yes,
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: And I would say too, you have self love for
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: yourself for a second, but the minute you have a
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: little bit of self self love for yourself, like be
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: fucking hard on yourself.
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, challenge yourself, your challenges.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: Change isn't going to happen like the moment change happens.
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: And again every area is when you're sick and tired
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: of being sick and tired. Yes, and dude, it for
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: me it's just I I take an approach of just
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: being hard of like just being hard.
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: On myself when it does get to that point.
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: Yes, it's like, Hey, you don't want to get to
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: a day where it's like, oh, I'm seeing a lot
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: at the end of the tunnel. It's like, no, be
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: the fucking light in the tunnel. And just that's how
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: you approach it. That's just how you approach it the
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: whole Nobody's coming to save you. Like that is to me,
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: the entire mentality about it. Because you might have every
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: reason to justify every feeling in the world that comes
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: through your mind. Yeah, every justification every Hey, you might
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: be right in the situation you're talking about, but no
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: matter what, unless you take full responsibility and accountability, like
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: you know what, all of this shit starts with me,
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: then nothing's going to change and you're gonna continue to
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: be a finger pointer. And I'm not saying marsh is
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: a finger pointer. I'm almost just getting in this this
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: mentality of like you know when those conversations because they're
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: happening and towards the end of the year, like it
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: happens with me all the time, where you talk about,
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: you know, not taking care of yourself, not sleeping, Well,
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: I haven't worked out like a month and a half.
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: You're talking about the caffeine and take on on my
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: ninth or tenth cup of coffee. It's it's fucking nine
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: pm at night.
• 54:30
  Speaker 2: That's me.
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: I mean there's a part where I'm sitting there looking
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: at my looking at my pale naked body in the mirror,
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: and I'm just like, God, you are a piece of shit.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: And at some point I just know in my head, dude,
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: will win. Are you going to be sick and tired
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: of being sick and tired about it and wake start
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: waking the fuck up early in the morning and taking
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: care of your business.
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah? So yeah, mars fucking and hey.
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: And the self love, like uh, I would say to that,
• 54:57
  Speaker 3: the self love can be the wor working out like
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: the suck, like the stuff that does suck to do,
• 55:03
  Speaker 3: that's hard to do, Like when you are bettering yourself
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: and you're taking those moments of like bettering yourself, that
• 55:11
  Speaker 3: can be.
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: The self love.
• 55:12
  Speaker 3: So to your point, don't let the self love be like, oh,
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: I you know, I'm great, everything's great. It's these people's fault.
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: Have that self love be more like pouring into yourself
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: for improvement the aka therapy aka going to the gym,
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: aka pouring into positive hobbies, positive people in your life,
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: et cetera. Yeah, yeah, so that was a good point
• 55:37
  Speaker 3: of like, don't let self love distract you.
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: I didn't want to.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: No, not at all, Not at all. It's just form
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: my approach. It's more of just the way I get
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: in my own face. It's like, get in your face
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: about it. Picture yourself grabbing you by the throat and
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: putting yourself against the wall and be like, when are
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: you gonna wake the fuck up? Let the heart turn black.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: Let the heart turn black. Yes, let the heart turn black.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: The only way, the only way I know how.
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: It's a good, good way. It's a good way.
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: I've I've come to adopt it, and I'm I enjoy it. Oh,
• 56:06
  Speaker 3: I got some that's sorry.
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: Real quick.
• 56:08
  Speaker 4: We have a lot of dads that say the word
• 56:09
  Speaker 4: failure a lot, like phone calls and stuff like that,
• 56:12
  Speaker 4: and I would love to hear you guys talk about
• 56:13
  Speaker 4: that for two seconds off that comment because the guy's like, Dude,
• 56:15
  Speaker 4: I don't want to be a failure. I think you
• 56:17
  Speaker 4: guys are a good example that I get having a
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: loss doesn't make you a failure, like preparing for it
• 56:21
  Speaker 4: and coming out of it, because that's what I got
• 56:23
  Speaker 4: from his is him being like, dude, I'm I'm a
• 56:24
  Speaker 4: failure because these things are all happening. Like you guys
• 56:27
  Speaker 4: are a perfect example and continuous to say, it's not
• 56:29
  Speaker 4: about the losses that come your way.
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: It's about preparing and what you learn from it. Just
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: the coolest part I thought from the comment.
• 56:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, fail A failure is someone that is failing to
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: act in the moment, like when you when you don't
• 56:43
  Speaker 3: take action, or something needs fixed and we're not taking
• 56:47
  Speaker 3: proactive steps to fix it. I think that is the
• 56:51
  Speaker 3: only definition of like the word failure. Hard things are
• 56:57
  Speaker 3: going to happen all the time. You're going to mess
• 56:59
  Speaker 3: up all the fucking time. You're gonna give your kid
• 57:01
  Speaker 3: Bobby for a week, You're gonna give them the wrong formula.
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: But like that is not like when you have those
• 57:10
  Speaker 3: hiccups or when you are beating yourself up like, you're
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: not a failure. A failure is exactly what Will was saying,
• 57:15
  Speaker 3: quitting and going his fault, his fault, his fault, my
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: job's fault, my wife's fault.
• 57:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a failure.
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: Taking taking the fail the failing to act and more
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: of like uh I would I would The wrinkle I
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: would say, is the failing to respond because it's all
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: about it's it's it's at the end of the day,
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be all about how you respond in every
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: moment because again we're we're nothing but a makeup of
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: all of our failures, and it's it's surely like, how
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: do we respond in those moments where we didn't show up?
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: Because fatherhood, parenthood, in this area of parenthood that we're
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: talking about is it's not about being perfect, not about
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: looking back and be like, look at all these wins
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: I had. No, it's just it's fining a way to
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: be consistent and show up. Like, even if you do
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: have a bad day or a bat moment, you're never
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: defined by that moment, that bad day, that bad week.
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: It might last a month, but if you if you
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: wake up the next day and go about it, go
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: about it a different way and respond the right way.
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: That to me is where you're going to ultimately start
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: having progress. It's all about progress. It's all about showing
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: up because again it's it's never about chasing perfection. It's
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: about showing up because that's what parenthood is because you're
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: gonna have bad words, like you know, I mess up
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: all the time with how I feel like I talked
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: to Rue every now and then and I'm like, ah,
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: that didn't that didn't come out the way that I
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: thought it would or the way I wanted it to. Like,
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: I'll have another opportunity. I need to figure out the
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: next opportunity seem to come.
• 58:36
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  Speaker 7: One got me sick? Hopefully not anytime soon. I need
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  Speaker 7: to kick some stuff out, I will say.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like it.
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  Speaker 7: Goes without saying being on a dad podcast as a
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  Speaker 7: twenty four year old, I am excited for that one day.
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  Speaker 7: It's super cool. It's cool to watch you guys interact
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  Speaker 7: and talk about it and stuff. And I think it's like,
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  Speaker 7: I think a lot of guys, some of isn't even
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  Speaker 7: talked about a lot is there are a lot of
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  Speaker 7: young guys out there that really aspire to be to
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  Speaker 7: be dads, and it's not talked about because you're twenty
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 7: four and it's like, hey, let's go, it's Saturday, let's go,
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 7: let's go hang out or do stupid shit. Yeah, but
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  Speaker 7: it's like, I think there's a lot of dudes out
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  Speaker 7: there that it never really gets communicated as much. Where
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 7: I feel like women you see it all the time.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 7: Where women are like, I can't wait to be a mother.
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  Speaker 7: I do think there's a very strong contingent of young
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 7: men out there like myself there, like, hey, when that
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 7: day comes, it's gonna be a sick, fucking yeah, awesome
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 7: ride and you aspire for that.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: So it's cool, well said St six. Yeah, that's your
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 2: captain St six seam and team. He's definitely having a
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: boy first. By the way, you think I'm you should
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: always five daughters. I'm fucked. Hey.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: By the way, here's here's one from a from Josh
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  Speaker 1: Josh rabe uh for on YouTube. ET six Dad hack
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: for the Christmas tree problem to piggyback off Chef the
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: train works? Does the train work Chef? Because we got
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: an interesting video from Chef last week.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: Run yeah, let me let me put so I get home.
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  Speaker 7: This is Wednesday, Wednesday night, and uh, for those listening,
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 7: I don't know.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: I just moved back to Nashville. I live with my
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 2: mom and dad.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 7: Shout out, it's really awesome saving on some money right now.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: But I get in there.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 7: My mom she listens to every episode and she was
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 7: laughing and she goes, hey, I listened to the episode.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 7: The train doesn't work the train, like we didn't put
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 7: ornaments on the bottom half of the tree when you're
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 7: a toddler because you destroyed everything. Oh no, I'll play
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 7: the I'll play the video right now.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: You did have ornaments down below because because.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 7: Me grab them, no, and welcome back, welcome back. So
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 7: to my surprise, that was a great way to start,
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 7: you know, my Wednesday when I get home, and so
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 7: I take a little video and send it to the
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 7: fellas and I'm just sitting there thinking I should have
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 7: thought that through because my parents, my whole life, told
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 7: me that I was a fucking menace.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, look the only dad hack out there.
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  Speaker 1: It seems like, don't put ornaments on the bottom half
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: of the tree. I will say, we got I do
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: have scott Zilla in check. She'll go over there. I'll
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: kind of tell her, gentle, because Charles always sitting here
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: like with it, whether she's patting waffle or like, you know,
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: doing something she doesn't want to rip off. She back gentle, gentle,
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: and she'll kind of like look at you and be
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: kind of soft about it. But I've been keeping her,
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: We've been keeping her in pretty good check with the
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: with the ornaments. She hasn't been too too much of
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: a problem to society recently when it comes to the ornaments.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 3: I got some love this pod comments that we can
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 3: run through really quick, rip all out of the comments,
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 3: So go ahead. Tristan Morris R. Seventy nine Underscore on YouTube.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 3: Fella has been listening for a while now, but this
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 3: episode hits a little different. Wife just let me know
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: she's pregnant yesterday and we are ecstatic. Question, how did
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 3: y'all break the news of pregnancy to your family members?
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 3: Thanks for all the advice that's gonna come and handy
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 3: real soon.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: What I did when we were having root for the
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: first time is I went on a Amazon and got
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: the coffee cups that says like Grandma and Grandpa, and
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: then they have like the stats the stats below. It
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: looks like a nutrition a nutrition label on the side
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: of a of.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 2: A food box. Yeah, we got up little coffee cups.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: They opened it up, had it.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: And then I want to say, I got a T shirt,
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: like I got these t shirts on Amazon that said
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: like uh something with like uncle or Tarano. So I
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: can't fucking remember, I don't know, but anyway, that's what
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: I did. I got gifts, they opened it up, they
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: saw tears.
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  Speaker 3: Jill went on a FaceTime rampage when she found out
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 3: that she was pregnant because she was nervous, and so
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 3: she faceigned one of her nursing friends of is this
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 3: a positive pregnancy test? So now that nursing friend knows,
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 3: she facetimes her cousin. That's basically her sister shout out Megan,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 3: who has a child, is this a positive preak? Like
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 3: does this look positive? Yes, that's posibly Okay, Now cousin knows. Well,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 3: now that those two people know, my mom has to know.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 3: That's my closest person to face times her mom.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 2: So by that.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 3: Time, when Sherman got home and she laid out the
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 3: pregnancy test, which fun little wrinkled, we weren't able to
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 3: post our video because I come in and I see
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 3: the pregnancy tests on the sweater. I yelled out, I
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 3: fucking told you because I told Jill that we were
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 3: gonna go one for one and doing the math in
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 3: my head.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 2: We went one for once, So fun times there. Yeah,
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 2: so I just facedign my my mom and dad.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, listen, there's no way, there's no perfect there's no
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: perfect way.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 2: They're going to be ecstatic. They're gonna be ecstatic and
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 2: shout out Tristan.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 3: I My next comment is actually about a person that
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 3: is announcing number three.
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  Speaker 2: Will and Shurm. I'm a father of two amazing boys.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 3: Four and two, and my wife and I recently found
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 3: out that we're expecting our third baby. To add to
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 3: the anxiety of the whole process, wife, he wants to
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 3: wait until birth to find out the gender. That means
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 3: agreeing on two names and not being able to mentally prepare.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 3: Would love to hear how you fellas would handle the situation. Sincerely,
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 3: Nick H from Saint Francis County, Missouri.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 2: Howltt what he's got a third one? Let's fucking go.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: I'm assuming that was planted to be a that was
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: planned it would be a surprise for all.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 2: Willie one, Yes, sir, Nick's having number three?
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: Yo?
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  Speaker 2: Is that not crazy?
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 7: Yeah?
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: That's awesome, dude. I want to sit here and FaceTime him.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 3: He texted me and he goes, hey, man, what's the
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 3: plan If if Will doesn't.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 2: Pick up that, it's me? You know what are you
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: gonna have to jump in there? You know? Spotify? Is
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 2: that Google? With that one? From? He goes.
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 3: You know that that brain plus CT we don't know.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 3: I said, I'll hold his hand and guide it to him.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 3: If it didn't click, I was gonna be like, hey,
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 3: Saint Francis County, will is that.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 2: Where you laid that one up for me?
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: I think you might have said Nick h first and
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: for something. Oh, I did say the name of my boys,
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: name of my best friend.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 2: I said the text. I said.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 3: If he doesn't get it, I'm going to be really
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 3: worried for you. But yes, Nick, Nick's having his third
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 3: So congrats.
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: Congrats Nick and Rachel. Yes absolutely, I'm thinking my head
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: like yeah. Charles brought up waiting, like, hey, I want
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: to say with Scottie. Maybe because we did a fresh
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: transfer to he you don't know the gender through IVF.
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 2: But she was like, do you want to wait until
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 2: the birth? I'm like, no, no, no, no, we ain't wait
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 2: to know. I gotta know.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 3: Really fun story for you guys. My mom and dad
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 3: decide to do that with me. My mom's gonna hate
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 3: that I'm telling the story, but I love my mother.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 3: Very spiritual gal and God told her she was having
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 3: twin girls, and so because of that, she then told
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 3: everybody that she was having twin girls when all fat staff.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 2: Was bacon in the oven.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 3: So she is looking people dead in the eyes and saying,
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 3: I'm having twin girls. All the gifts are coming in.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 3: They paint the nursery pink and yellow. Pink and yellow nursery.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 3: And then sure enough, she had a follow up dream
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 3: where an angel came to her because I am the
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 3: second born and I'm named after my dad, which was
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 3: very rare. She had an angel come to her in
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 3: a dream just a couple of nights before I was
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 3: born and said, it's actually a boy, and you need
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 3: to honor your husband and name him after your husband.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 3: And I was wearing pink onesies in that pink and
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 3: yellow nursery.
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 2: I beg that angel case aau.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: I see you've been telling everybody you've been getting way
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: too many games.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 2: Big Man was joking, Big Man's joker. Hey, we need
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 2: a cute thing.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 3: Big Man was joking up there, we gotta fix out
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 3: at dinner when we're praying a little bit.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: I love you, mom. That's a very fun story to tell.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 2: Oh that's awesome.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 3: So yeah, very very surprising. When she came out into
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 3: the waiting room and said it's a boy. Actually it's
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 3: not twin girls and his name Sherman. So yes, uh well,
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 3: let's do one more comment and then we can go
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 3: into our call.
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  Speaker 2: We like that. How are we doing on timing? We're good?
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: Oh sorry, well then we'll do crack of Colvin.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 3: This come from Stephen Stephen karafone four seven one five
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 3: on YouTube. I love this guy, repeat offender, sicko Steve. Here,
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 3: you are a sicko. Steve told the wifey I wanted
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 3: for the dad's merch for Christmas. I come home to
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 3: a package plastered and busting with the boy's tape. I
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 3: play dumb like a champ. Next day another box appears.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 3: This woman's out here double sickoing me with surprise gifts.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 3: Now I gotta sit here for two weeks pretending I'm
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 3: not thinking about those boxes. Twenty four to seven hashtag
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  Speaker 3: wife's a sickle.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: Bro.
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  Speaker 3: Stephen Karafone is a true PT siko. So wife got
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 3: him some some merch, got him some merch for crimbis.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: Shout out, joining the PT six father shout out, then
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: shout out joining the p.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 8: And shout out our merchs being like, hey, can you
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 8: guys have a package option next year as a gift
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 8: because their hubbies were bringing the boxes in with busting
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 8: with the boys tape on it, and so we got
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 8: a lot of pictures from the wives of their husband
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 8: holding the box where they're like, well, they know what.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 4: They're getting this year, So we might have to talk
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 4: to you about a gift option.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 2: That's kind that's sneaky. I'll put it under the tree.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 2: I don't know what you're getting.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 3: And maybe a little gift bundle, A gift bundle package
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 3: would be kind of fun too. Around Christmas comes with
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 3: the hat a shirt of day measure.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 2: For the dad's tape measure.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 3: But just old Willy watch up on there hitting the
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 3: peter panstairs, Hony, there's it's crazy up here, all right?
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: Awesome? Oh read the tweet.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 3: I got a Willy one shelf tweet special here that
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 3: I would This might have to be a new segment,
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 3: Will if that's okay with you.
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: You're saying you found a tweet that you read in
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: my voice and it made you chuckle. Yes, may I
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: take man, just take a shot at the dark on
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: which one it might be.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 3: Before you do, I just want to preface for Ptsikos
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 3: out there that don't follow Will Compton on Twitter, go
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 3: ahead and change that.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: It's at underscore Will Compton, And.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 3: Sometimes he tweets a lot about football, but sometimes he'll
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 3: put out these tweets where he has a internal dialogue
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 3: with the internet.
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: And Will what you get off to you enjoy him?
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 3: I love him because I read them in your voice
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 3: and it makes me so happy. What tweet do you
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 3: think that is this week?
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 2: I think I guess too.
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 3: Let's let will guess first and then you can guess, chef.
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: I would say Polar Express. Okay, pure Polar Express, ding
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: ding ding, And I knew whenever I fired that one off,
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: I was like, I bet sure sees this.
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 2: This was tweeted on but you're telling me.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 3: This was tweeted on December twelfth by Will Compton to
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 3: the Worldwide Web.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 2: Polar Express a great movie, But you're telling me a train.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: Pulled up in the middle of the night and conned
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: a bunch of kids to get on board by saying, hey,
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: it was headed to the North Pole. Magic or not?
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: That has to be a felony written all over such
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: a great tweet, dude, It was Pizza Friday. Why it's
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: pizza Friday? Movie night, a nice weekly tradition that we have.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: We were watching Polar Express. Yeah, great movie. I've seen
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: it before. It's a good movie.
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: And I'm sitting there and I'm sitting there watching it
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: this second time through. It was my second or third
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: time seeing the movie. You know, Ruse fired up. We
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: saw last year. But she kind of doesn't remember where
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: I remember. Police says, yeah, but she's enthralled by this movie.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: Not a lot of words throughout the movie.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of just.
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: Fascination and imagination, singing and yeah, singing and dancing. And
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: his train comes in the middle of the night, and
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: this kid is just outside in his backyard, not really
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: bundled up, and he stands there and sees Tom Hanks,
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: the the what is it called, the engineer, the train conductor,
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: and he's just like headed to the North Pole, and
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: and the kid just gets on and then you get on.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: They get on the train, and the car is just
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: a bunch of kids.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 2: You don't think.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: There's no adults, there's no nothing. It's just hey, you
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: got this golden ticket. We're going up to the North Pole.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: You get to meet Santa Claus, you get to meet
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: Santa Claus and you're just gone in the middle of
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: the night. That's crazy, that's crazy, It's crazy.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 2: I know that Will had one eyebrow up, one brown.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 2: I looked over my wife. I looked over my wife.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: I said, could you imagine, because you know what, we
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: got the train, we got the railroad basically in the backyard.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: Could you imagine if Rude just got up in the
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: middle of night, went outside and got on a train
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: because she thought it was headed to the North Pole.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: Bro I want to watch any fantasy I want to
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: watch any fantasy movie with Will, Like The Goodies and
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: at the end they go, Yo, there's the fucking pirate ships.
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 2: Real, there's a treasure. Imagine if you're looking for Hey it.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: Just to confirm, I went to Google and I was like,
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: is Polar Express is that they want to No?
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no. I typed in.
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: I was like, because I kind of missed, I kind
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: of missed a oh man, a part that I was
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: trying to get confirmed, which was right before that. I'm wondering,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: is that based on a dream? You know what I mean?
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: Like kid goes asleep and then it's a dream. But
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: then they're telling me like, no, this is just it's
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: just a it's just like magic.
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 2: Hey, magic or not, that's just a fella. Dad comes
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 2: in and kissed some good night.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: Like it lose to a couple of subtle hints that
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: the train's gonna be coming at midnight. The clock strikes
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: whatever it is, and then the kid just goes outside.
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: But it's not a dream. Yeah, so I think, all right,
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: maybe this is a dream. And I missed that part
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: before I fired this one off. I confirmed that it
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: like wasn't a dream. And the kid just went out
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: in the backyard got on a train because he thought
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: I was going to the North Pole. That's crazy because
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: we're driving. My wife and I were driving to that
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: double date and I'm just like, sweetheart that Pole Express.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 2: And buddy, he wait. He wakes up at the end
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 2: of the movie and he goes, was it a dream?
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: We just teaching our kids it's okay to go outside
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: in the middle of the night when they're stowing on
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: the ground waiting for a train. Is hey, you guys
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: going to the North Pole? She said, Baby, you know,
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: it's just a movie. Like we ain't gonna.
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 2: Let's go enjoy.
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 3: Let's go enjoy our Saturday our Saturday brunch.
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 2: It's okay, Honie just caught me off guard. Yeah, of course,
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 2: of course. Crack a cold one. Crack a cold one, guys,
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 2: Crack a cool one.
• 1:18:05
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  Speaker 3: Scarlet is rolling over by herself. Oh nice bro, and
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  Speaker 3: I have finally caught it on video. Roll the tape
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  Speaker 2: And welcome back. Let me get the let me get
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• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: She's going like this and then dude, my dad voice.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gos scarlet celebration. I love it. What am
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  Speaker 3: You got your back? Oh, you got der back in
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 3: And the first time I don't know if I had
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 3: touched on this on the pod. The first official flip
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 3: by herself was unseen because dad As was doing tummy
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 3: time with her and she was getting so close to
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 3: flipping over. This was when Jill was I forget Oh,
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 3: she was working. It was on one of my solo
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 3: Saturdays and I'm doing tewny times. She won't flip. I'm like, oh,
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 3: I'm hungry. I gotta make a PB and jay. So
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 3: she's her playpin's right there by the kitchen, so I'm
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 3: able to keep an eye on her.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 2: I go get the bread.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 3: And the peanut butter and jelly out, and I swear
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 3: I look into the playpen and she's on her back.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 2: I was like, you gotta be kidding me, Damn. I
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 2: just sat there with you for almost thirty minutes.
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 3: And as soon as I get up, and it was
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 3: because she wanted to see me in the kitchen.
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: That was like, what goal flip her back over? Yes,
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: she never did it. I was sitting there like, so
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: then I go stand in the kitchen. I'm like scarch card,
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: Scotch car.
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  Speaker 2: Look at Dad, Look at Dad, flip over, look at that.
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 2: She never did it, and now I finally have evidence.
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 2: I'm not crazy. Look at that. Look at that.
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: He ain't shit, man, man, man, you ain't Joe daddy girl.
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: Oh my crack a cold one. Christmas traditions, Yeah, Christmas traditions.
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: My wife, she loves to do what are them calendars
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: called the dure Yeah, the Advent calendars. Yes, or she
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: has these little slots, you know, entire month of December,
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: and she likes to get this throwback camera to where
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: it prints out the little the little photo, whether it's
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: or whatever it is. But every night, some kind of photo,
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: whether it's me and the kiddos or and the kiddos,
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: the kiddos, Yeah, tonight was the was the grandparents Lola
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 1: and open the kiddos. Yeah, take a picture every night,
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  Speaker 1: throw it in the Advent calendar.
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  Speaker 2: Uh.
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: We do Christmas cookies. We're making them. My told that
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: story on Saturday Night. Christmas cookies.
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: Obviously pictures with saying now whenever you have, but just
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: overall Christmas traditions.
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 2: That you do as a family.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 3: I love that putting up, the putting up the trees,
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 3: and an easy obvious one that was always my favorite
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 3: because of the tradition of my godparents sending me a
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 3: custom ornament every single year. Yeah, that's when I got
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 3: to unbox my newest ornament.
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 2: Bro.
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: And you don't appreciate custom ornaments and just in my
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: until you get older, Yes, just the way it is.
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well you're like, damn, why you just send me
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: an ornament?
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 1: And I wanted this toy, I wanted you know, this
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: video game, I wanted this or that, you just send
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: me an ornament. But now they're older, Like we still
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 1: have that nineteen eighty nine Willie see ornament from when
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: I was born.
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, a couple of from back in the.
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: Day, the.
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 2: Annual ornaments that Charle and I might have when.
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 1: It was just me, charl and Waffle, the me, Charle,
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 1: Waffle and Rue and now all of us was Scottie. Yep,
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: there's always an ornament every year, man, that I just appreciate.
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 1: We did busting ornaments one year. I got a couple
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: of buses hanging There's one hanging on Roue's little tree,
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 1: one hanging on ours.
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 2: Massive Star Wars fans, so I gotta get the lead,
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 2: you know, I gotta yield to ornament.
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 3: We got to talk some Star Wars one day. I
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 3: didn't realize that you were so into it, dude. I
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 3: love Star warss going though. I'm sorry, but overall, just
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 3: Christmas traditions. There's just nothing tis the season. There's nothing
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 3: that just brings life together in the season together like
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 3: Christmas traditions, like where we.
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 2: Have another like Advent.
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 1: I believe it's an Advent calendar where there's like chocolates inside.
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: So he's got a little you know, she's got to
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: crack one open each night. She's always fired up and
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 1: sitting right next to her for dinner. Can I open
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 1: this one? That? You know what fires me up about
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 1: this Advent calendar. She's kind of got to sitting next
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 1: to her at dinner, and it reminds me of like,
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: you know, kids these days, they's sitting there in the
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 1: mornings Like for me, we grew up on the cereal
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 1: boxes where you're sitting there eating cereal and you'd be
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 1: looking at the box the entire time because you didn't
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 1: have the phones, you didn't have everything else going on.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 1: But she's all fired up because she's got this advent
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 1: calendar sitting next to her and there, you know, I'll
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: try to have her spot these animals or it's got
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 1: all the numbers on us. I'm like fine, thirteen, Like
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: what you know what two numbers are in thirteen? And
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 1: so she's looking at this box will time just salivating
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: at the opportunity, like hey, you finish your dinner, you
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 1: get to eat the chocolate. She'll want to pop the
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 1: chocolate out early because she just want to see is
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: like what it is, whether it's just stocking a deer
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 1: Santa claus An ornament, what a snowflake. Yeah, she just
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 1: wants to sitting right there like, okay, I get that
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: if I eat my dinner.
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 2: But just Christmas traditions, man, my to throw.
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 3: Onto the traditions talk my parents. I was that kid
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 3: at school. I don't remember what grade. It was maybe
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 3: fourth or fifth that my parents had me believe in
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 3: so hardcore, dude in Santa they were so good.
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 2: Just to give some dad hacks, some tips.
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 3: Dad would get his big old work boots and he
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 3: would stamp them real hard in the fireplace. He'd build
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 3: a fire and then he would stamp them on the fireplace,
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 3: and he would put ash footprints throughout the living room.
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 2: Ever by the tree where the gifts are, that's amazing.
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 3: He would go over to the cookies where the cookies were,
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 3: and my mom would get the cushions and sit next
• 1:26:21
  Speaker 3: to the cookies and push the cushions in so it
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 3: looked like Santa was sitting there drinking and eating the cookies.
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 3: They even did it for the Easter Bunny. People don't
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 3: even do that for the Easter Bundy. They'd leave glitter
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 3: rabbit paus like with glitter around the yard and on
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 3: our front porch. I'm like, oh, well, they when I
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 3: found out Santa wasn't real, in full tears, I go, is.
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 2: The Easter Bunny not real either? That's how bad they
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 2: had me, dude. It was how old? How old were
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 2: when you found out about Santa Claus? I take fourth grade? Yeah,
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 2: I was close to that too.
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: Like I would look my friends in the eyes and
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 1: be like, I don't care what you say.
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 2: I swear to God. And you know, when you're a.
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 1: Kid saying I swear to God, Like that's the biggest
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: of the biggest, Yeah, I swear to God, saying Israel,
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 1: I've seen him with my own eyes. Like when we
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 1: lived with my grandparents, my grandpa would dress up as
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 1: Santa Claus and then my mom would wake me up
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 1: in the middle of the night. I remember this so vividly.
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 1: She woke me up in the middle of night. My
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 1: brother and I are like sleeping together on this full
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 1: sized bed. She wakes me up and she's like, hey, come, look,
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 1: and she took me to the crack of the door
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: and just had the crack of the door open, and
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 1: I just see the back of Santa Claus like putting
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: down presents.
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 2: I'm just like, holy shit.
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 1: And from that moment, I would whether you're at the
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 1: whether I'm at the cafeteria and class, whatever it is,
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, I, guys, I it makes sense what
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 1: you're saying, but I shit, you, I have seen this man.
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 2: I have seen this man.
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, maybe maybe, maybe he doesn't bring all
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: the presents, but I'm just telling you, there's got to
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 1: be one there at least, no matter what.
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 2: And old Billy two shelves just sitting there dressed as Santa,
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 2: just laying the presence down, Yeah, laying.
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 1: The presence down, dressing a full Santa suit fir. Yeah,
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 1: I was about fourth grade as well. Maybe maybe a
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 1: little bit later.
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know, but dude, I would go
• 1:28:15
  Speaker 2: toes with my boys.
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 1: Man for everyone would try and break it to me,
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't believe you.
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 2: Like I get it. I get it.
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 1: Everything you're saying about the optics at night time and
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 1: everything else, I get it.
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 3: How's he going from Abu Dhabi to Saint Francis, Missouri
• 1:28:30
  Speaker 3: in the same day.
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're like, you know, they would be tracking him
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 2: on TV.
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 1: And then my dad we'd always read this story at
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 1: night before, you know, as Christmas is coming, and if
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 1: he'd go out, he'd be playing there he isn't. I'm
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: just like, oh my god, it'll just be some star
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 1: apparently airplanes. Yeah, yeah, it's a different color. Maybe it's
• 1:28:53
  Speaker 1: got a little orange in the star or something. I'd
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: just be like, man, yeah, I guess that's him.
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 3: And my dad would my dad would go in the
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 3: backyard when there's an airplane now in the front yard,
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 3: and Mom would take us out and look, it's him.
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 3: My dad would be in the backyard going to team
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 3: with the jingle bells. I mean, bro, they had me
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 3: also for editing purposes, we can put this at.
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: The beginning smart because it's a family show. Is a
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 1: family a family show.
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 2: Warning is necessary? Yes, did I tell you guys that.
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 7: When my brother was in fifth grade, I was on
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 7: a family vacation with him my dad, and uh, that's
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 7: when I decided to tell.
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 2: Him Santa wasn't real. When I ruined the entire vacation,
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 2: fucking chef man. I was really really proud of that one.
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 3: As a middle schooler, my brother did, if I'm remembering correctly.
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 3: On my brother was the one that told my parents,
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 3: need you need to tell Sherman. He's catching flak at
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 3: school and he's like, he's coming to me about it.
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 2: You need to tell him. It's time.
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 3: I'd get made fun of for having pointy years in
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 3: elementary school. My mom told me to tell the kids
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 3: that I was an undercover elf that would go tell
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 3: Santa who was on the naughty list, and so then
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 3: making fun of my ears that that's a surefire away
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 3: to get on the nipty list.
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 2: Did it work?
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 3: This kid has forty years anything Santa's real? What fucking goofball?
• 1:30:23
  Speaker 2: My sweet mother? Yeah, thinkase, she set me up for success.
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 1: I mean you like do like say they have Santa
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 1: or we had like a picture thing at school one time,
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, this is a bullshit Santa. That ain't anything.
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 1: There's this reindeer I had, like a mascotthead Ar.
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 2: I'm like, who's in there? You ain't no fucking reindeer?
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 1: Man? Was that?
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 2: Ricky? Ricky?
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 1: I know that ain't Santa Claus. I'm big, I'm big
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 1: as ship.
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 10: Hey, I want to get one thing. I know you
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 10: ain't the real thing, So just gumkley I seen the
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 10: real You got my scratchy voice going the real one.
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 10: He's around the same size as my daddy. Yeah, you
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 10: ain't as big as my daddy.
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 2: Did.
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 4: The Nie set a situation where she started to which
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 4: she watches it, but she had a situation where she goes, hey, mom,
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 4: why do I gotta tell Sanna what I want again?
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 4: When I just told him last week what I wanted? Like,
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 4: why doesn't he remember what I want? And the lines
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 4: that they danced on to get around that one was
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 4: basically the whole like, oh, there's a network of people
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 4: that help Sanna get for it.
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 2: Dada dada. That one wasn't the real one.
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 4: The first one was so he's gonna tell him again,
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 4: but she just goes, why do I gotta tell him again?
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 2: I was like, ah, oh, she's on to it. Man,
• 1:31:48
  Speaker 2: It's a tricky dance.
• 1:31:50
  Speaker 1: Christmas traditions, man, Yeah, embrace him because again, as you
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 1: get like as Paris being older, you're gonna think like, uh,
• 1:32:00
  Speaker 1: I'm speaking more so to dads because life gets moving,
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 1: like you might think, oh, we got another year. Like, bro,
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 1: you're on, We're only going to have so many chances.
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 2: With our little ones. Yeah.
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 1: In traditions, it's like, traditions matter because they slow life.
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 1: They slow life down like kids grow fast. You know,
• 1:32:19
  Speaker 1: life is chaos. A lot of the times, our day
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 1: to day feels just like uh, you know that organized
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 1: chaos with the Google calendar reminded on it. And traditions
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 1: they remind you that, hey, this is home. The sense
• 1:32:33
  Speaker 1: of belonging, the sense of community, just the sense of
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 1: embracing you know, whether it's gifts and gifts don't even matter.
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 1: It's just the feeling that you have from having family traditions,
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 1: from having these Christmas traditions. It's like when Charles wanted
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 1: to do these few things, these things that we do
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 1: each night. It just fires me up because this is
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 1: how we are molding our kids for how they feel
• 1:32:55
  Speaker 1: when they get older and have a family.
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean, Like.
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 1: The big gifts, the expensive gifts like you. I remember
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: when I first got my second genesis. I remember a
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 1: few different gifts that I got along the way. But
• 1:33:05
  Speaker 1: it's not the gifts don't matter, it's the feeling you have. Yeah,
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 1: that what your parents created when you were in these moments.
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 3: It was the letters of My grandmother lived in Florida,
• 1:33:15
  Speaker 3: and when she got really sick, we do Christmas there. Well,
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 3: Santa would always leave a note. Jordan Sherman, I almost
• 1:33:22
  Speaker 3: missed you guys. I was in Texas. You guys were
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 3: n't there. I said, Hey, they must be at Grandma's
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 3: in Florida. Yeah, so I went and double checked. Found
• 1:33:31
  Speaker 3: you guys. Glad we got everything figured out. Love, Saint Nick.
• 1:33:35
  Speaker 3: Those are the little details. Doesn't have to be some big,
• 1:33:39
  Speaker 3: grandiose gift. No, it's just the magic of.
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 1: The Yeah, it doesn't have to be big. It can
• 1:33:44
  Speaker 1: be the same movie you watch every year. Yeah, the
• 1:33:46
  Speaker 1: same meal, the same dumb joke.
• 1:33:49
  Speaker 2: Jingle, all the way. Dude, such a banger, dude. Yeah,
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 2: it's the repetition.
• 1:33:54
  Speaker 1: The repetition builds that safety builds, that culture.
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 2: Yep. Because again, it's not gonna be the gifts.
• 1:34:01
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be the feeling that you gave them that
• 1:34:04
  Speaker 1: they are one day going to pass along. They're one
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 1: day going to pass along, because man, we're only gonna
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 1: get what about ten opportunities with our little ones, Like
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 1: if you're a new dad, or you're in it with
• 1:34:14
  Speaker 1: the toddler, or you have a six seven, you know,
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 1: and I would love for parents to chime on, to
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 1: chime in in the comments that have been through this
• 1:34:20
  Speaker 1: entire process. Now you have grown kids that are now adults.
• 1:34:24
  Speaker 1: But I'm thinking to myself, like you get on Instagram,
• 1:34:26
  Speaker 1: you see all these things like how many summers you have?
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 2: How many opportunities we're gonna have with our little kids?
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 1: And usually the age, the common age that all the dads,
• 1:34:34
  Speaker 1: that all the people that kind of speak to parent
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 1: culture they talk about is these ten opportunities. It's like,
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: we're gonna have ten Christmases. And then you know, as
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 1: they get older, that fourth grade, they're gonna they're gonna
• 1:34:44
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be about their friends. When you get done
• 1:34:46
  Speaker 1: with Christmas, they're gonna be ready to get out of
• 1:34:48
  Speaker 1: the house. Hey Mom, Dad, can I go here? Can
• 1:34:50
  Speaker 1: I go there? Can I do all these things? Because
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 1: they're gonna have They're gonna have other things going on
• 1:34:54
  Speaker 1: externally in their life to where the parents side isn't
• 1:34:57
  Speaker 1: as cool anymore. You'll still have those foundational tradition traditions,
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 1: which is why it's embraced them now so that way
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: they know what it's going to be like. They know
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 1: what that repetition is going to be. Like you're in
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 1: and you're out. But with our little ones that's here
• 1:35:09
  Speaker 1: for us right now that we get to enjoy. We're
• 1:35:11
  Speaker 1: only gonna have about ten of those opportunities. So it's like,
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 1: embrace those things. Embrace those things because that's the legacy
• 1:35:18
  Speaker 1: you're gonna leave for them that they're going to carry
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 1: over when they are parents one day.
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 2: Yes, it's like, dude, every year.
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 1: For me, it's like when I was busting Matt Malone's
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 1: balls or somebody's balls the other day on the stream
• 1:35:28
  Speaker 1: when we had the Christmas Story playing on the left,
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 1: I think I was sitting right next to Jared and
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 1: I was kind of walking through all these scenes because
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: that is the you're a quote the movie was on mute,
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 1: and I'm kind of telling him, you know, I'm I'm
• 1:35:38
  Speaker 1: like mouthing the quotes that are going on right now. Hey,
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 1: here's what's gonna happen next. Kid's gonna start swinging on them.
• 1:35:43
  Speaker 1: He's like, oh, crying for me when Wain crying like
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 1: he's about to jump him right now, start swinging all Mom,
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 1: it's gonna come watch this. But every year at Christmas,
• 1:35:51
  Speaker 1: Christmas Story is on T and T twenty four twenty
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 1: four hours around the clock. Yeah, and my mom just
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 1: always had the Christmas Story on like that movie to
• 1:36:00
  Speaker 1: be playing around the clock all day long, like while
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 1: we were doing Christmas.
• 1:36:03
  Speaker 2: So it something that I remember the feeling of.
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 1: All these traditions that we had, you know what I
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 1: mean to where you're wanting to carry those things over.
• 1:36:11
  Speaker 1: So that's like the thing that you're going to leave
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 1: with them as you build out these traditions.
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 2: With your family.
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 1: And again we're talking about holiday season right now, but
• 1:36:18
  Speaker 1: this goes for all traditions you have. We do like
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: pizza Friday, movie Day. You know, we're going to do
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 1: things annually set whatever it is to where they're going
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 1: to know that we are going to repeat some of
• 1:36:29
  Speaker 1: these traditions.
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 2: You're in and you're out.
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 1: So it's like things to look forward to as a
• 1:36:32
  Speaker 1: family because you hope that one day they carry it forward. Yeah,
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 1: and then that's how they remember mom and dad when
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 1: mom and dad are no longer around. Yes, so shout
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 1: out to shout out to Christmas traditions.
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 2: Embrace them.
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 1: And dad's if your wife's sitting there bugging you about
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 1: doing wanting to do this certain thing all the time,
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 1: whether it's every day or once a week, whatever it is, dude,
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 1: embrace it because you don't know how many times we're
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 1: going to have these these moments, these seasons, like with
• 1:36:57
  Speaker 1: our kiddos.
• 1:36:58
  Speaker 3: Yes, and shout out, shout out, jingle all the way,
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 3: shout out Arnold Schwarzenegger. Yeah, his son is actually in
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 3: the terminal list dark Wolf by the way, No ship.
• 1:37:13
  Speaker 2: It is.
• 1:37:15
  Speaker 1: Who?
• 1:37:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Patrick Schwartzengg and White Loatus season four and in
• 1:37:18
  Speaker 2: White Loadus season four, Patrick, don't want that one is
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 2: Dark Wolf, the one that just came out.
• 1:37:25
  Speaker 3: That's the prequel. Yeah, that's that's the one, I think.
• 1:37:28
  Speaker 3: Patrick Schwarzenegger said, he's in Dark Wolf.
• 1:37:32
  Speaker 1: Is that what he's saying, Patrick Schwarzenegger, I don't recognize him,
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 1: but the terminalism, he's the terminal I was like, not
• 1:37:41
  Speaker 1: dark Wolf, he's in the original.
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 2: Oh the O G O g's in the og.
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 3: God that scene in jingle all the way putting it together,
• 1:37:48
  Speaker 3: Arnold Schwartzinger, Jamie, your dad is so proud of you,
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 3: he loves you.
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 2: Well, he's not here.
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 1: How do you know that, because Jamie, I'm your father,
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 1: chat packs Old.
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 2: I showed Cat for the first time that movie the
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 2: other day.
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 4: I didn't realize or remember how crazy the jet back
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 4: scene was because in my mind it's all could happen.
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 3: And then he sliding around on a jetback due in
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 3: three sixties above. I'm like, every ship Ultraman? Is that
• 1:38:15
  Speaker 3: what the guy's name was? Was it Ultraman?
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 2: Great call? Oh it's double time. Let's hit the voicemails
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 2: six and one.
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 1: The dad's call in for a chance to be featured
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 1: on the show again, whether it's a dad win, a
• 1:38:33
  Speaker 1: dad loss calling to check in, give us some game,
• 1:38:35
  Speaker 1: put us on a dad hack, something to put in
• 1:38:38
  Speaker 1: the survival kit, whatever, it is call in six and
• 1:38:40
  Speaker 1: one the dads.
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 2: We will feature you on the show. Let's rip them.
• 1:38:43
  Speaker 3: Shocked that no dads have farted into the voicemail by
• 1:38:46
  Speaker 3: the way, oh don't don't challenge him saying I'm shocked
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 3: that we have a god named fart voice faults help
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 3: on a shelf?
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 2: Out here we go. What's up? Boys?
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 5: This is Kenny from Georgia. Huge fan of the show.
• 1:39:04
  Speaker 5: I'm a twenty six year old soon to be father
• 1:39:06
  Speaker 5: of two. Got an almost four year old little boy
• 1:39:09
  Speaker 5: right now. Ken, the wife and I are expecting the
• 1:39:11
  Speaker 5: second one coming up here first week of morning. Super
• 1:39:14
  Speaker 5: fun to be a dad again. Can't wait to dive
• 1:39:17
  Speaker 5: headed first back into the newborn trenches. I did have
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 5: a question Christmas time coming up. This is the first
• 1:39:24
  Speaker 5: year that we have been participating in the elk on
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 5: the Shelf deal that happens. I'm absolutely on a heater
• 1:39:31
  Speaker 5: right now. I have fought in. We are producing and
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 5: it's going well. But I'm starting to get to the
• 1:39:36
  Speaker 5: point where I'm shooting off the hip and I'm looking
• 1:39:38
  Speaker 5: for some new ideas. Curious to see are y'all doing
• 1:39:41
  Speaker 5: the helf thing at your house?
• 1:39:43
  Speaker 2: Is if you are.
• 1:39:44
  Speaker 5: Maybe you got some stories, maybe you got some advice,
• 1:39:47
  Speaker 5: need some new ideas, looking for some fresh content in
• 1:39:50
  Speaker 5: the house right now. So appreciate it.
• 1:39:53
  Speaker 2: Thank y'all. A couple questions. Kenny, by the way, that
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 2: was Kenny. Shout out Kenny, Kenny, thank you for calling in.
• 1:40:00
  Speaker 2: Listen to your boy.
• 1:40:01
  Speaker 1: I was never an ELF on the shelf guy, so
• 1:40:03
  Speaker 1: I don't even know the rules of ELF on a shelf.
• 1:40:05
  Speaker 1: I was the type of kid to where since I
• 1:40:07
  Speaker 1: didn't know what was going on. I got older, my
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 1: boys were talking about ELF on a shovel man.
• 1:40:10
  Speaker 2: That just sounds gay. Bro, Will let me introduce you. Hey,
• 1:40:16
  Speaker 2: I'm just being honest. That's young Will. I'm not saying
• 1:40:19
  Speaker 2: that now. I would love to embrace Yeah, Elf, that's
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 2: some pushy ship dude. You talk about ELF on What's
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 2: Gonna Happened? School was essentially just shame Gillis, you're just
• 1:40:31
  Speaker 2: kind of gay, kind of gay dude. That just sounds weak.
• 1:40:36
  Speaker 1: It's ELF's fucking up your house and your dad hasn't
• 1:40:39
  Speaker 1: done ship about it.
• 1:40:40
  Speaker 2: That's so that's my first question is what is explain
• 1:40:43
  Speaker 2: ELF on a ship? Because I don't even know what
• 1:40:44
  Speaker 2: it is. Charle brought it up this year.
• 1:40:46
  Speaker 1: We know we didn't do it or we didn't get
• 1:40:48
  Speaker 1: into it. I don't know if we're too late, like
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 1: if you have time starting on.
• 1:40:51
  Speaker 2: The first a prime example.
• 1:40:54
  Speaker 11: Yes, too late, too late now to do it? You
• 1:40:57
  Speaker 11: can yeah, okay, you just you buy the elf on
• 1:41:00
  Speaker 11: the shelf. Perfect example for this right here our studio.
• 1:41:04
  Speaker 11: If we had our own elf on a shelf, you
• 1:41:07
  Speaker 11: would have all these feathers scattered all over and you'd
• 1:41:10
  Speaker 11: have the elf sitting right there, so that the kids go,
• 1:41:13
  Speaker 11: who made this mess? And then little elf sitting there,
• 1:41:16
  Speaker 11: Oh my gosh, the elf did it. And he only
• 1:41:20
  Speaker 11: operates at night when they're sleeping, and he goes around
• 1:41:23
  Speaker 11: and he does little mischievous things around the house. But
• 1:41:26
  Speaker 11: he also watches you to make sure that you're being
• 1:41:29
  Speaker 11: good or else. He'll tell Santa Claus. Yeah, it's kind
• 1:41:32
  Speaker 11: of a tool that it sounds like a horror movie.
• 1:41:35
  Speaker 2: No, it's great. You can have an elf. Listen, hear
• 1:41:38
  Speaker 2: this out.
• 1:41:38
  Speaker 7: You can have an elf around, right, and let's say
• 1:41:40
  Speaker 7: Rue is acting for whatever reason, you'd be like, hey,
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 7: you know, elf, whatever you name him, he's watching all
• 1:41:46
  Speaker 7: the time, like if he's gonna repeat every night, whenever
• 1:41:49
  Speaker 7: you go to sleep. The magic in the elf is
• 1:41:51
  Speaker 7: that when they go to sleep, the elf reports back
• 1:41:54
  Speaker 7: to Santa, told him what he saw for that day,
• 1:41:57
  Speaker 7: and then that's what that's when you move him around
• 1:41:59
  Speaker 7: the house and so and like you said, Shirt, you
• 1:42:01
  Speaker 7: can have him do fun stuff, but it's like it's
• 1:42:03
  Speaker 7: a tool that like you can't touch him or else
• 1:42:05
  Speaker 7: the magic goes away.
• 1:42:06
  Speaker 2: I did see the.
• 1:42:07
  Speaker 1: Video or this mom like put the chicken bones and
• 1:42:11
  Speaker 1: you killed him because you touched him.
• 1:42:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:42:14
  Speaker 1: The idea that came up for Kenny of just creative stuff.
• 1:42:19
  Speaker 2: I would go nuclear with it.
• 1:42:21
  Speaker 3: I would park the car a little bit in the
• 1:42:22
  Speaker 3: front yard and just have the elf sitting up there
• 1:42:25
  Speaker 3: on the steering wheel.
• 1:42:26
  Speaker 2: Who parked the car like that? Who moved my car? Honey?
• 1:42:30
  Speaker 2: Look at the healthy park my car like that? That's crazy. Yeah,
• 1:42:33
  Speaker 2: the indre cars stuck there all day because you can't
• 1:42:35
  Speaker 2: move him. That's true.
• 1:42:36
  Speaker 4: If you get good videos, parents at home, police tag
• 1:42:39
  Speaker 4: us because we would love to be a part of it.
• 1:42:40
  Speaker 4: Because the best one I've seen is the kids will
• 1:42:42
  Speaker 4: get drawn on and the elf will be sitting there
• 1:42:44
  Speaker 4: with a sharpie and the parents are.
• 1:42:45
  Speaker 2: Like, who why'd you guys draw on your face?
• 1:42:47
  Speaker 4: And the kids like what and goes to the bathroom
• 1:42:49
  Speaker 4: and they got glasses and like a mustache, and the
• 1:42:52
  Speaker 4: elf did it with a marker and the parents, Oh, dude,
• 1:42:54
  Speaker 4: if you do it at home, please tag us.
• 1:42:56
  Speaker 2: I'd love to reshare that. That'd be fun. Is the
• 1:42:58
  Speaker 2: one with the irons scroll? I can't you this speaking
• 1:43:01
  Speaker 2: of kitchen? So basically, the elf is just the authority. Yes, yeah,
• 1:43:05
  Speaker 2: it's a tool. Wait why is the elf calling the shots?
• 1:43:08
  Speaker 2: And not really?
• 1:43:09
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, I'm not I'm just trying to
• 1:43:11
  Speaker 1: learn this game. So you just have the elf sitting
• 1:43:13
  Speaker 1: so random.
• 1:43:16
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell Santa if you mess up. But the
• 1:43:18
  Speaker 4: kid can't touch it because then it breaks the whole
• 1:43:20
  Speaker 4: allure of the elf being a real thing in your house.
• 1:43:22
  Speaker 4: But parents do it in a way where it's like
• 1:43:24
  Speaker 4: there was one we got tagged in. It was like
• 1:43:26
  Speaker 4: a bathtub and there was dirt in it and they
• 1:43:28
  Speaker 4: did an elf and a shove monster jam and it
• 1:43:31
  Speaker 4: was all these monster trucks and it was like, oh, look,
• 1:43:33
  Speaker 4: the elf when you were asleep had a monster truck jam.
• 1:43:36
  Speaker 4: And it's just cute and fun. But it's for the
• 1:43:37
  Speaker 4: kids to believe that Santa's watching them all the time
• 1:43:40
  Speaker 4: so they'd be good. So some sick of parent was like,
• 1:43:42
  Speaker 4: I don't want my kid fucking around anymore.
• 1:43:45
  Speaker 2: Elf.
• 1:43:45
  Speaker 3: I saw a seaman team sixer with a got a
• 1:43:49
  Speaker 3: kitchen aid and they put a Barbie doll on the
• 1:43:52
  Speaker 3: kitchen aid and turned it on slow so it was spinning,
• 1:43:55
  Speaker 3: and Elf on the shelf was sitting there with some
• 1:43:57
  Speaker 3: dollar bills in his hands. I was like, what are
• 1:44:04
  Speaker 3: we doing out on the shelf. It's gone full of il.
• 1:44:08
  Speaker 3: He's gone full of ill. But it's crazy when people.
• 1:44:12
  Speaker 7: Do so.
• 1:44:14
  Speaker 1: I could have the elf just sitting on rouge dresser.
• 1:44:19
  Speaker 1: It wakes up in the morning and I could have
• 1:44:21
  Speaker 1: the elf just sitting there with a knife.
• 1:44:26
  Speaker 2: Yea.
• 1:44:26
  Speaker 1: It wakes up and sees herself and now I'm just
• 1:44:28
  Speaker 1: next to ru and I'm like, he saw you didn't
• 1:44:30
  Speaker 1: eat your dinner last night.
• 1:44:32
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's a little extreme. That's hard core.
• 1:44:36
  Speaker 2: That's a horror movie. You don't have to do it
• 1:44:37
  Speaker 2: like that. But wait, you could, but you god.
• 1:44:49
  Speaker 3: She just wakes up and goes to the bathroom brush
• 1:44:52
  Speaker 3: her teeth. He's sitting there with winer fluid in one. Honey,
• 1:45:02
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I.
• 1:45:04
  Speaker 1: Get a helf on a shelf. You put a little
• 1:45:05
  Speaker 1: fifty one jersey on it. That's that's Willy one elf
• 1:45:08
  Speaker 1: right there. Oh honey, he must have seen you asked
• 1:45:12
  Speaker 1: me to hey, come look at this a bunch of times.
• 1:45:14
  Speaker 1: He must not like that. He might he must want
• 1:45:18
  Speaker 1: me to be able to watch the b dinny dock.
• 1:45:21
  Speaker 1: I think he wants me to watch the dock.
• 1:45:23
  Speaker 2: Honey.
• 1:45:24
  Speaker 1: Oh, I'm thinking about the Willy one elf. Now, it
• 1:45:27
  Speaker 1: could be good, just always standing over the elf.
• 1:45:32
  Speaker 2: Take you helf on a shelf. It's just willy one
• 1:45:34
  Speaker 2: elf standing over it, Willy wan elf on a shelf. Hey,
• 1:45:38
  Speaker 2: next year could go crazy with willy one elf on
• 1:45:42
  Speaker 2: a shelf.
• 1:45:42
  Speaker 3: That could go crazy. I would buy one. Wedding pop
• 1:45:47
  Speaker 3: Quizzes is our second call.
• 1:45:53
  Speaker 6: Sure, will Brook's here from Mississippi. Carle in Dallas See
• 1:46:00
  Speaker 6: in team sixer right here, and I love it. Getting
• 1:46:04
  Speaker 6: married in May. Pumped for that. The fiance told me
• 1:46:11
  Speaker 6: expectations didn't have She wanted to do the planning. I
• 1:46:15
  Speaker 6: don't have to worry about it. I get some stuff
• 1:46:18
  Speaker 6: here and there. You know what colored flowers do you
• 1:46:20
  Speaker 6: like do you like this linen tablecloth? Opinions are all wrong? Yeah,
• 1:46:26
  Speaker 6: just shake it off, keep going. But you know, getting
• 1:46:31
  Speaker 6: close to the time, getting around family and friends, everyone's
• 1:46:36
  Speaker 6: asking how the planning is here. I am just standing there,
• 1:46:39
  Speaker 6: you know, just noding talking here. It comes out of
• 1:46:44
  Speaker 6: left field. Quizzes hop pop quizz is talking about where
• 1:46:50
  Speaker 6: is it at? What's our band name? What's all this
• 1:46:54
  Speaker 6: this and that? Hey, I know it's in Mississippi. I
• 1:46:58
  Speaker 6: know it's in May, May sixteenth, Yes, sir, that's pretty
• 1:47:01
  Speaker 6: much it. Everyone laughing. I'm the I'm the butt of
• 1:47:05
  Speaker 6: the joke.
• 1:47:05
  Speaker 2: Oh Brooks, I just got to sit there, shake my head.
• 1:47:09
  Speaker 6: Hey, sorry about that. Shure him as you know, winger dog.
• 1:47:14
  Speaker 6: Here's something that.
• 1:47:15
  Speaker 2: Goes crazy, man, Sir Brooks, shake my head.
• 1:47:18
  Speaker 6: They're laughing at me. This is a different type.
• 1:47:21
  Speaker 8: But good.
• 1:47:22
  Speaker 6: This is what's going to be like from now on.
• 1:47:25
  Speaker 6: But the joke. But hey, we're gonna keep going. Love y'all, boys,
• 1:47:31
  Speaker 6: keep moving seeing a team six.
• 1:47:33
  Speaker 2: Out Brooks to quote last week, welcome to the fucking show.
• 1:47:38
  Speaker 2: Brother Brooks is on his way to becoming a Bill Compton.
• 1:47:44
  Speaker 1: The dad that you just you laugh at, you laugh
• 1:47:50
  Speaker 1: with we'll get Brooks over there. Look at him.
• 1:47:54
  Speaker 2: He don't know what he don't know how to unlock
• 1:47:57
  Speaker 2: this door.
• 1:47:57
  Speaker 3: But I'll tell you where Brooks will be on May sixteenth.
• 1:48:01
  Speaker 3: He'll be in his being one suit, standing right where
• 1:48:04
  Speaker 3: he needs to stand in order to say I do.
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  Speaker 2: And do the ring.
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  Speaker 3: He'll he knows all the main things that he needs
• 1:48:13
  Speaker 3: to hit everything else.
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  Speaker 1: You know, people are hitt him with you write your
• 1:48:18
  Speaker 1: own vowels, and he's like, what are you talking about?
• 1:48:20
  Speaker 1: We gotta ride our own I thought you just didn't
• 1:48:22
  Speaker 1: sickness and in health Like, yeah, those are vowels you
• 1:48:24
  Speaker 1: can say, but are you guys?
• 1:48:26
  Speaker 2: Do you not? When are you doing the wedding dress reveal? Wait?
• 1:48:29
  Speaker 3: What are you like when she walks out for the ceremony?
• 1:48:33
  Speaker 3: You talking about that?
• 1:48:35
  Speaker 2: Dudes? Do the diaper party?
• 1:48:38
  Speaker 5: Oh?
• 1:48:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like a batchelor party?
• 1:48:39
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, diaper like don't don't guys do? Yeah,
• 1:48:42
  Speaker 1: like a diaper party? Oh for when you're having a baby. Yeah,
• 1:48:45
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, that's when you're having this.
• 1:48:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, gonna we go. Yeah, you're talking about the
• 1:48:54
  Speaker 2: wedding shower.
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  Speaker 6: I believe.
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  Speaker 2: We have any Make.
• 1:49:01
  Speaker 3: Sure y'all bring the the newboyn diapers too. When you
• 1:49:05
  Speaker 3: come to the diaper party, it's right after the bachelor party.
• 1:49:09
  Speaker 2: They got sizes on these diapers.
• 1:49:17
  Speaker 3: We're gonna be a shady Oaks country clud t times
• 1:49:20
  Speaker 3: at this time, y'all be there for the bachelor party.
• 1:49:23
  Speaker 3: I don't know what the bachelor party gifts are. Apparently
• 1:49:25
  Speaker 3: I gotta get my bachelor some gifts. But I thought
• 1:49:28
  Speaker 3: my company was enough.
• 1:49:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, groom the groomsman gifts. Oh yeah, Shakia battle Shaki. Yeah,
• 1:49:34
  Speaker 1: get some good groomsman gifts.
• 1:49:36
  Speaker 2: Brooks.
• 1:49:37
  Speaker 3: I did, uh some cool buffalo hide leather wallets with
• 1:49:41
  Speaker 3: like guys, real nice and easy price tag wise, it
• 1:49:47
  Speaker 3: leans more to the expensive, but it wasn't like terrible.
• 1:49:50
  Speaker 1: I got the boys this uh like whiskey smoker. Oh
• 1:49:54
  Speaker 1: that's nice for like old fashions.
• 1:49:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's sick. I think Nick is probably the only
• 1:49:59
  Speaker 2: one who used it. Nick would hit me ou it.
• 1:50:01
  Speaker 1: I just smoked this bourbon bro Nick.
• 1:50:05
  Speaker 3: I really want to meet Nick in person. We can
• 1:50:07
  Speaker 3: talk about that man off the pod, but I really
• 1:50:09
  Speaker 3: want to hang out with Nick. God, that's no surprise
• 1:50:14
  Speaker 3: to me, no surprise.
• 1:50:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, he's the man. He's a purist you get
• 1:50:19
  Speaker 1: him a gift. He was like diving into all things whiskey. Yea,
• 1:50:22
  Speaker 1: all things whiskey. I'm trying to think what else, dude. Yeah,
• 1:50:26
  Speaker 1: there's gonna be so many little things. Hey, if you
• 1:50:28
  Speaker 1: want to sound smart, dude, just find out like the
• 1:50:31
  Speaker 1: little things about your uh, your wedding. I would even
• 1:50:35
  Speaker 1: kind of push for like one big thing of like
• 1:50:38
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be the guy's thing for us. Jill's mom
• 1:50:41
  Speaker 1: was like, hey, what if we had a cigar cutter
• 1:50:44
  Speaker 1: there that was like rolling cigars, Yeah, and cigars.
• 1:50:47
  Speaker 2: I said, absolutely, we should do that.
• 1:50:49
  Speaker 3: So then I like leaned really heavy into that, and
• 1:50:52
  Speaker 3: I would talk about that when people would bring up
• 1:50:54
  Speaker 3: the wedding, so I didn't have to answer a lot
• 1:50:55
  Speaker 3: of questions because I'd be like, Hey, we're gonna have
• 1:50:58
  Speaker 3: a cigar a cigar cutter there.
• 1:50:59
  Speaker 2: It's gonna be kind of nice.
• 1:51:01
  Speaker 3: And then nobody's really worried about anything else because you
• 1:51:04
  Speaker 3: just told them the most exciting part of your wedding.
• 1:51:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you won't be involved in a whole lot no,
• 1:51:09
  Speaker 1: and which is okay.
• 1:51:11
  Speaker 2: All I cared about is we got a couple of
• 1:51:12
  Speaker 2: apps that I wanted. I wanted.
• 1:51:14
  Speaker 1: I don't even know if we got toasted ravioly, but
• 1:51:16
  Speaker 1: I was like, I want either toasted Raveolar or Rocky
• 1:51:18
  Speaker 1: Mountain oysters.
• 1:51:19
  Speaker 2: Get rid a rocky voice. That's right.
• 1:51:23
  Speaker 1: The bull testicles, Yeah, man, they're tasty. Yes, very very
• 1:51:30
  Speaker 1: we got We got emails here again. If you are
• 1:51:32
  Speaker 1: international and can, I don't, or you'd rather just write
• 1:51:35
  Speaker 1: in instead of leave a voicemail six on one of
• 1:51:37
  Speaker 1: the dad's at gmail dot com and here we go.
• 1:51:40
  Speaker 1: We got one here from Luke Jones. Shout out Luke
• 1:51:43
  Speaker 1: and men. After four months of BUDS training, I am
• 1:51:46
  Speaker 1: now standing by for orders to PET six in June.
• 1:51:49
  Speaker 1: Good Wifey has been in the trenches with morning sickness.
• 1:51:53
  Speaker 2: Not so good but also good.
• 1:51:55
  Speaker 1: We've tried all traditional approaches, nausea bands, cold raps, brought diet,
• 1:52:00
  Speaker 1: preggie props, preggie pops. Doesn't help that the military has
• 1:52:05
  Speaker 1: us living twenty six hours from home, so family support
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  Speaker 1: is tough. I fly for a living, so the wife
• 1:52:11
  Speaker 1: is home alone a lot. She's gonna be one tough
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  Speaker 1: Empty six member. We're looking for any intel on things
• 1:52:18
  Speaker 1: that helped your spouses or things from fellow PT six members.
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  Speaker 1: We don't care how weird they are, we will try it.
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  Speaker 1: Much love to the boys in the studio. Started listening
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  Speaker 1: to the show a couple months ago, and your boy
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  Speaker 1: is caught up ps Oli pop. Chris Bapple is the
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  Speaker 1: now North Dakota.
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  Speaker 2: Luke hopping around, hopping around the morning sickness. I don't
• 1:52:52
  Speaker 2: have I don't have anything.
• 1:52:56
  Speaker 1: I feel like Charle got it for a little bit,
• 1:52:57
  Speaker 1: but not not too badly. And I could listen, I
• 1:53:00
  Speaker 1: could be messing that whole thing up. She could be
• 1:53:02
  Speaker 1: sitting there right now like bullshit, dude, I was You
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  Speaker 1: just weren't any help.
• 1:53:07
  Speaker 2: Pregnancy pops are real thing.
• 1:53:09
  Speaker 3: Jill didn't have it too terribly, but she did have
• 1:53:13
  Speaker 3: some morning sickness. Pregnancy pops are great. But the thing
• 1:53:15
  Speaker 3: that really helped her. They sell them at Walmart, Target,
• 1:53:18
  Speaker 3: any any grocery store. It's like these little candies and
• 1:53:22
  Speaker 3: you can find them in the like pharmacy aisle. But
• 1:53:25
  Speaker 3: it's like these little pregnancy morning sickness candies that are
• 1:53:29
  Speaker 3: almost like a Jolly Rancher and those really helped. Jill
• 1:53:34
  Speaker 3: should throw two of those in at a time, and
• 1:53:36
  Speaker 3: they taste like candy. Those were the trick, Luke, and
• 1:53:40
  Speaker 3: that's just for Jill. I don't know if that's gonna
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  Speaker 3: solve your empty sixers issues, but hang in there and
• 1:53:47
  Speaker 3: your empty sixers sounds like an absolute.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we need we need Beat six to sound off
• 1:53:51
  Speaker 1: in the comments to help our boy.
• 1:53:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, pepper boy, Luke, that would be huge. I have
• 1:53:56
  Speaker 3: a comment before the emails that I forgot to read
• 1:53:59
  Speaker 3: this one up for empty six or boys. I cannot
• 1:54:02
  Speaker 3: tell you how much I love this podcast. My husband
• 1:54:04
  Speaker 3: Trevor put me on while I was pregnant with our
• 1:54:07
  Speaker 3: first child back over the summer, and I was hooked.
• 1:54:10
  Speaker 3: I love y'all's dynamic and banter. We now have a
• 1:54:12
  Speaker 3: three and a half month old little boy named Cooper.
• 1:54:15
  Speaker 3: Coop Cooper shout out Coop, and listening to the pod
• 1:54:19
  Speaker 3: is a part of my daily routine. I stamp late
• 1:54:22
  Speaker 3: to pump and listen for thirty minutes at night while
• 1:54:25
  Speaker 3: I make bottles, clean the kitchen, and mentally prepare for
• 1:54:28
  Speaker 3: the next day. Keep doing what you're doing.
• 1:54:30
  Speaker 2: Much love for milk Team six. Thanks you go. That
• 1:54:33
  Speaker 2: came from Sarah Klegan. Shout out, Sarah, Dude, Empty six
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  Speaker 2: is showing out, man. They really are they like actually
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  Speaker 2: really are.
• 1:54:40
  Speaker 3: It's it's awesome to see. I meant to read that
• 1:54:43
  Speaker 3: one earlier because that was a really cool one.
• 1:54:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I got another one hear from an Empty six
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  Speaker 1: er Katie witt Will and surem. I just want to
• 1:54:49
  Speaker 1: send a quick message for hubby and I maybe we
• 1:54:51
  Speaker 1: get a shout out on the pod. My husband is
• 1:54:54
  Speaker 1: currently Seemen Team six and Rounds are literally getting shot
• 1:55:00
  Speaker 1: this Podcus is both hyped for the next chapter hopefully soon.
• 1:55:04
  Speaker 1: We've already been using embraced the suck and good in
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  Speaker 1: our house and we are fully bought in with team.
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  Speaker 1: Just wanted to give you both a huge shout out.
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  Speaker 1: You guys truly rock and your podcast means more than
• 1:55:15
  Speaker 1: you know. Thank you for everything you put out there.
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  Speaker 1: Keep doing what you're doing, Andrew and Katie Andrew Katie
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  Speaker 1: shout out especially Katie right now from an MPT sixer
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  Speaker 1: from the Empty six squad.
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  Speaker 3: Absolute sick of Katie Andrew enjoy shockwave brother, y'all, Just
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  Speaker 3: keep on keep on shoe.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, look, keep on shooting, bro. You are as the man.
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  Speaker 2: You get drained, you know what I mean.
• 1:55:41
  Speaker 1: Make sure you're eating a lot of stuff and make
• 1:55:43
  Speaker 1: sure you stay hydrated. Man, make sure you drink a
• 1:55:45
  Speaker 1: lot of water, eat a lot of chicken and steak.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:55:49
  Speaker 1: And when the women are on, they're'll wake me up
• 1:55:52
  Speaker 1: and about let you know they honey is time.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, get your six flag, get your flash bat. We
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  Speaker 3: This one comes from Aaron swandle Hey Boys new listener
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  Speaker 3: as of last month, but party pt six for four
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  Speaker 3: and a half years. We've got a four and a
• 1:56:14
  Speaker 3: half year old girl and almost two year old boy.
• 1:56:17
  Speaker 3: Just wanted to share a little reminder that we're all
• 1:56:19
  Speaker 3: out here embracing the suck together. Today was dot dot
• 1:56:23
  Speaker 3: dot A lot started with the morning meeting before daycare
• 1:56:26
  Speaker 3: drop off whatever, normal chaos, but the real storm came later.
• 1:56:31
  Speaker 3: My wife and I only have one car, so I
• 1:56:34
  Speaker 3: pick her up from work, then we get the kids
• 1:56:36
  Speaker 3: from daycare like usual. Side note, we also have an
• 1:56:39
  Speaker 3: eight year old dog, and because we apparently hate peace,
• 1:56:43
  Speaker 3: we added a three month old puppy two weeks ago.
• 1:56:46
  Speaker 2: Aaron. We get home at four pm.
• 1:56:49
  Speaker 3: My wife has to leave at four fifteen to get
• 1:56:51
  Speaker 3: our daughter to dance. We let the dogs out in
• 1:56:53
  Speaker 3: they're buzzing. I'm unloading the kids lunchboxes and one is
• 1:56:57
  Speaker 3: completely destroyed.
• 1:56:59
  Speaker 2: Good.
• 1:56:59
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to order a new one on my phone
• 1:57:01
  Speaker 3: while my wife is changing our son's massive diaper situation.
• 1:57:05
  Speaker 3: This guy's in the trenchets. My daughter's dancing around me, singing,
• 1:57:10
  Speaker 3: clinging to my arm while I'm trying to buy this lunchbox.
• 1:57:13
  Speaker 3: My wife comes out hands me the dirty diaper. I
• 1:57:16
  Speaker 3: toss it in the trash and immediately notice it kind
• 1:57:19
  Speaker 3: of splattered.
• 1:57:21
  Speaker 2: Interesting.
• 1:57:22
  Speaker 3: I look up and the puppy is licking something off
• 1:57:24
  Speaker 3: the hardwood. It is, in fact the shit. Then I
• 1:57:28
  Speaker 3: see it on the rug.
• 1:57:29
  Speaker 2: Good. Then I look at the puppy again, also shit
• 1:57:32
  Speaker 2: all over. Good.
• 1:57:34
  Speaker 3: I run her up stairs for a fast bath before
• 1:57:37
  Speaker 3: my wife has to leave. From downstairs, I hear the
• 1:57:39
  Speaker 3: other dog has shit on them too. Honey, good, send
• 1:57:43
  Speaker 3: them up. I bathe them. Both dogs, look down and
• 1:57:45
  Speaker 3: realize I have shit on my pants.
• 1:57:48
  Speaker 2: Good. It's now four point fifteen.
• 1:57:50
  Speaker 3: I come downstairs with the dogs and my wife is
• 1:57:53
  Speaker 3: washing our daughter's hair in the kitchen sink, because yes,
• 1:57:56
  Speaker 3: she also had shit in her hair.
• 1:57:58
  Speaker 2: Good. Only thing that got.
• 1:58:00
  Speaker 3: Me through was your show, especially Shirm's story about the
• 1:58:03
  Speaker 3: dog locked in the nursery. I felt so seen anyway,
• 1:58:07
  Speaker 3: appreciate what you guys do. You seriously make me feel
• 1:58:10
  Speaker 3: less alone in this dad journey.
• 1:58:12
  Speaker 2: Much love.
• 1:58:13
  Speaker 1: I love the storytelling too. Nothing gets me going great
• 1:58:17
  Speaker 1: these people send it in. Their stories are good.
• 1:58:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I got one more. I'll go speed to her
• 1:58:22
  Speaker 3: on it uh via email, KiB says what's up? Will
• 1:58:27
  Speaker 3: and Shurm and the boys Pt. Six are here to
• 1:58:30
  Speaker 3: an awesome nine year old steps On and a two
• 1:58:32
  Speaker 3: year old boy who I can only assume has CTE
• 1:58:35
  Speaker 3: from his wild stunts. Just wanted to say what you
• 1:58:38
  Speaker 3: guys have done. Creating this community of support honestly and
• 1:58:41
  Speaker 3: showing the fun and less than ideal moments of fatherhood
• 1:58:44
  Speaker 3: has helped me more than.
• 1:58:45
  Speaker 2: You can ever imagine.
• 1:58:47
  Speaker 3: Every week I look forward to listening in and getting
• 1:58:50
  Speaker 3: a break from reality with a laugh and some dad advice.
• 1:58:53
  Speaker 3: Me and my amazing wife decided it was time to
• 1:58:56
  Speaker 3: head back to buds and have one last kid. We
• 1:58:59
  Speaker 3: found out out in mid November that she was pregnant,
• 1:59:02
  Speaker 3: and last week have the first ultrasound. Let's boys, I
• 1:59:06
  Speaker 3: feel like I have been dropped into a war zone.
• 1:59:09
  Speaker 3: As the radiology tech gave us the news that my
• 1:59:12
  Speaker 3: wife is pregnant with twins. The only reaction I could
• 1:59:16
  Speaker 3: get out was just laughter. That turned into thousand yard
• 1:59:20
  Speaker 3: stare as I realized we are not prepared for twins
• 1:59:23
  Speaker 3: at all. Now I need a little advice in parentheses,
• 1:59:27
  Speaker 3: probably a lot of advice, but we'll stick with just one.
• 1:59:30
  Speaker 3: I think I'm most worried about me and my wife.
• 1:59:33
  Speaker 3: You being caught up in everyday chaos that comes with
• 1:59:37
  Speaker 3: four kids and three of them being under the age
• 1:59:39
  Speaker 3: of three. How do you guys manage to make time
• 1:59:42
  Speaker 3: for each other and prioritize date nights or just one
• 1:59:45
  Speaker 3: on one time in the chaos? Any tips or things
• 1:59:48
  Speaker 3: you guys do to keep the flame alive while in
• 1:59:51
  Speaker 3: the trenches of newborn and toddler phases. Much love for
• 1:59:54
  Speaker 3: what you guys have created in the community that you've grown.
• 1:59:57
  Speaker 3: Gonna keep this one anonymous as we he won't be
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  Speaker 3: announcing until sometime January, so let's just make a note
• 2:00:06
  Speaker 3: that blank that last email wants to remain anonymous. Yeah, oh,
• 2:00:13
  Speaker 3: twins twins, I said while I was reading the email too.
• 2:00:18
  Speaker 2: If I got the.
• 2:00:19
  Speaker 1: News of twins, fear would just take over my body.
• 2:00:23
  Speaker 1: I don't see how parents twins do it. Like Roan
• 2:00:26
  Speaker 1: from Barstow.
• 2:00:27
  Speaker 3: I was about to say, you know, who is somebody
• 2:00:29
  Speaker 3: that I really want to have a conversation with and
• 2:00:32
  Speaker 3: talk with is Round Dude.
• 2:00:33
  Speaker 1: We should get Roan on that acause Anytime Great was
• 2:00:39
  Speaker 1: their first shot out. It was twins. All he knows
• 2:00:42
  Speaker 1: is twins. So that's basically what he says, is like,
• 2:00:43
  Speaker 1: I don't know what I don't know, Like my first
• 2:00:45
  Speaker 1: experience is twins, so I don't know any other life.
• 2:00:47
  Speaker 2: Like yeah, it seems difficult and hard, but.
• 2:00:49
  Speaker 1: I'm just thinking, dude, no one like again, you have
• 2:00:52
  Speaker 1: Scotty five months like imagine twins.
• 2:00:54
  Speaker 2: Bro.
• 2:00:55
  Speaker 3: It was great look into what Ron is going through
• 2:00:59
  Speaker 3: with twins.
• 2:01:00
  Speaker 2: At the Super Bowl.
• 2:01:01
  Speaker 3: We have the pleasure of having dinner with him in
• 2:01:04
  Speaker 3: New Orleans and that was super Yeah. And while we're
• 2:01:09
  Speaker 3: sitting there, I happen to be sitting next to him
• 2:01:11
  Speaker 3: during the meal and Will says, hey, both of you
• 2:01:14
  Speaker 3: all are having kids.
• 2:01:14
  Speaker 2: Blah, blah.
• 2:01:15
  Speaker 3: Well that just hits it off. We start talking about
• 2:01:18
  Speaker 3: all the shit we're going through and we're laughing. We're
• 2:01:21
  Speaker 3: talking about, oh, why I'm doing this, I'm dealing with
• 2:01:23
  Speaker 3: this blah blah blah, and at the end of it
• 2:01:25
  Speaker 3: with perfect comedic time, comedic time, and he just goes Srman,
• 2:01:28
  Speaker 3: think about everything that you just said though, and multiply
• 2:01:31
  Speaker 3: that by two.
• 2:01:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, oh shit.
• 2:01:36
  Speaker 1: I could not imagine dude, the double well, not like
• 2:01:38
  Speaker 1: the double bedtimes, but like say you get one down
• 2:01:41
  Speaker 1: and the others still awake, you know what I mean,
• 2:01:43
  Speaker 1: Like you finally get one down and you're.
• 2:01:44
  Speaker 2: Just like, you're gonna wake up your brother, You're gonna
• 2:01:46
  Speaker 2: wake up your sister.
• 2:01:47
  Speaker 3: Yes, I was thinking about those solo saturdays I do.
• 2:01:51
  Speaker 2: Jill and I were laughing.
• 2:01:52
  Speaker 3: I was like, could you even imagine me with twins
• 2:01:54
  Speaker 3: on one of those solo saturdays, Like one you.
• 2:01:58
  Speaker 1: Know, no one's sleeping, well, the other one's not. But
• 2:02:02
  Speaker 1: the other one that's not is always waking up the
• 2:02:04
  Speaker 1: one who you are assuming is sleeping well. Yes, Oh man,
• 2:02:09
  Speaker 1: God bless you bro, God good luck out there.
• 2:02:12
  Speaker 2: Luck out.
• 2:02:13
  Speaker 3: I don't have any advice for Jacob other than recruit
• 2:02:16
  Speaker 3: an army.
• 2:02:17
  Speaker 1: Dude, recruit an army, get the get the in laws. Yeah,
• 2:02:21
  Speaker 1: he takes a village the twins. When I get three hunder.
• 2:02:26
  Speaker 3: Three, dude, he's a sick Oh, he's gone through it.
• 2:02:30
  Speaker 3: He knows what he's doing. But twins is gonna take
• 2:02:32
  Speaker 3: an army. Yeah, you got call in. I'm calling the
• 2:02:35
  Speaker 3: goon berets by God, like, I'll take any Hell, if
• 2:02:38
  Speaker 3: you can hold a baby, you're a part of the army,
• 2:02:41
  Speaker 3: come join.
• 2:02:42
  Speaker 2: This is one where you're having them conversations with God.
• 2:02:45
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
• 2:02:46
  Speaker 1: Because he's got the steps on, he's got the one
• 2:02:48
  Speaker 1: that's how old two or three two?
• 2:02:51
  Speaker 2: It's two years old.
• 2:02:52
  Speaker 1: So he understands the suck of like raising, like embracing
• 2:02:56
  Speaker 1: the suck of raising that first. Yeah, getting through sleep training,
• 2:02:59
  Speaker 1: whatever it is, getting them to sleep through the night,
• 2:03:02
  Speaker 1: the tantrums. He's in the thick of it right now
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  Speaker 1: with two year olds and their tantrums.
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  Speaker 3: That nine year old step son is about to become
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  Speaker 3: his best friend.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he knows the world of one of raising one.
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  Speaker 1: Now he's sitting there thinking, how in the fuck am
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  Speaker 1: I going to do it with two.
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  Speaker 3: Nine year old step son is a part of the army. Now, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you just looking welcome to the ranks.
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  Speaker 2: Brother, Why did you have to do this to me? Hey,
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  Speaker 2: you're pretty funny. I'll give you that here, you're a
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  Speaker 2: funny dude. But yeah, that he was.
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  Speaker 1: Asking though, prioritizing the relationship, prioritizing wife, which we do
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  Speaker 1: talk about that often. Erry, It's it's truly just it's
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  Speaker 1: just intentional prioritizing with the wife. Because your relationship with
• 2:03:44
  Speaker 1: your wife, as far as that fun flare all of
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  Speaker 1: that stuff where it's it's you two against the world.
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  Speaker 1: That is like that priority basically falls down to the
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  Speaker 1: bottom because you're both in You're both in your brain
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  Speaker 1: sacrificing everything for everything else to function. You to be work,
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  Speaker 1: whether the kids, whether it be I'm worn out on this,
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  Speaker 1: like you're all prioritizing each other while you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: handle your own business. That we always forget to prioritize
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  Speaker 1: the relationship, the marriage.
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  Speaker 3: And speaking on this is the perfect episode because you
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  Speaker 3: had brought up traditions. I really really like I have
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  Speaker 3: to set a tradition of a date night with Jill,
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  Speaker 3: and I really want to make that happen whereas in
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  Speaker 3: the books, this is date night.
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  Speaker 2: We we have date night.
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  Speaker 3: You if you don't do it and don't set it
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  Speaker 3: on a schedule and make it a priority. As Willie
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  Speaker 3: one chef says, it ain't gonna happen.
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  Speaker 2: It ain't gonna happen.
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  Speaker 3: And by god, we have to do it. And I
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  Speaker 3: think that's probably the move for anybody, including myself.
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  Speaker 2: You have to you have to do hearing you.
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  Speaker 1: Talk and it's like my boy who is earlier in
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  Speaker 1: the episode, is it ah, what was his name?
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  Speaker 2: I'm blinkoln on his name. He's not doing well. Yeah, yes,
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  Speaker 2: Like you just have to.
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  Speaker 1: Take yourself by the throat, put yourself against the wall
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  Speaker 1: and talking to you sherm and you just say yes, wake.
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  Speaker 2: The fuck up and do it.
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  Speaker 1: It's like Tony Robbinson this quote that I would, uh,
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  Speaker 1: will I will always think about where it's like you
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  Speaker 1: got to turn your shoulds in the must like you
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  Speaker 1: just you gotta stop saying we need.
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  Speaker 2: To do this, we should do this, blah blah blah.
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  Speaker 1: Just you've got to do it. You've got to prioritize
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  Speaker 1: and be intentional or it'll never happen. And it takes
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  Speaker 1: both of you to prioritize it because calendars, schedules, kids, work, everything,
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  Speaker 1: life goes fast and next thing, you know, like I'm
• 2:05:32
  Speaker 1: sitting here at the end of the year right now.
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  Speaker 2: Like, man, I do shit for my New Year's resolutions.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't wait to reset the clock and say
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  Speaker 1: all the things I'm going to do next year. And
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  Speaker 1: now I'm in my head thinking I'll be letting myself
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  Speaker 1: down again next year. And it's like that conversation right
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  Speaker 1: there is where I got to proverbiably perverbably proverbially right
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  Speaker 1: there is, right, just got to grab myself by the throat,
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  Speaker 1: bro it just will stop fucking talking to yourself, like
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  Speaker 1: the stop already planning for the failure that you're just
• 2:06:03
  Speaker 1: basically putting a quarter in the machine and you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: do it again. No, it's got to end. You gotta
• 2:06:07
  Speaker 1: be sick and tired of being sick and tired about it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but yeah, that's I digress.
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  Speaker 2: I'm you got a lesson.
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  Speaker 1: I'll be honest with you. It's ten thirty six right now,
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  Speaker 1: I'm starting to get sleepy. I'm starting to get sleepy.
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  Speaker 1: We got a big Monday tomorrow, same we gotta get ripping.
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  Speaker 1: I actually have a This is one from an Instagram
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  Speaker 1: that I follow called the Stoics. So this isn't parentid
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  Speaker 1: this is this is just to me, something I have
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  Speaker 1: bookmark that I feel like plays into a few of
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  Speaker 1: the themes we've been talking about tonight. Okay, so the
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  Speaker 1: Stoics on Instagram, you create the majority of your misery.
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  Speaker 1: Your opinion takes harmless moments and poisons them with fear, insulting, catastrophe.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing out there is destroying you. Your own opinion is.
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  Speaker 1: You become the enemy inside your own mind, and you
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  Speaker 1: feel every blow you delivered to yourself. So just a
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  Speaker 1: simple quote from the Stoics with two c's if you
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  Speaker 1: want to follow that on Instagram.
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  Speaker 3: Strong internal dialogue, give a strong internal dialogue.
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  Speaker 2: It's all internal dialogue.
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  Speaker 3: Sure, it's all internal dialogue. This one is based around
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  Speaker 3: the four hundred meter dash.
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  Speaker 2: I ran the four hundred meter dash in high school.
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  Speaker 3: I have a lot of love for track, and I
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  Speaker 3: thought it'd be fun to compare the strategy of a
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  Speaker 3: four hundred meter dash with fatherhood.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, with parenting. I'll keep it quick. Some game, give
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  Speaker 2: us some game.
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  Speaker 3: The so recently passed away legendary coach Clyde Hart.
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  Speaker 2: He coached at Baylor.
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  Speaker 3: He coached Michael Johnson, Jeremy Warner, Lashawn Merritt, and most
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  Speaker 3: decorated track athlete in US history, Alison Felix. Those are
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  Speaker 3: basically the four biggest names in the four hundred meter.
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  Speaker 3: No guy knows what he's talking about, Coach Hart said,
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  Speaker 3: the four hundred isn't about how fast you can run,
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  Speaker 3: It's about how slow you can slow down.
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  Speaker 2: We'll break it down for you.
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  Speaker 3: The strategy of a four hundred meter is from the
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  Speaker 3: zero to the fifty meter mark. You want to have
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  Speaker 3: a fast, powerful start, but not go all out sprint
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  Speaker 3: to start. How does that work with fatherhood? That's waking
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  Speaker 3: up on purpose, not in the panic, getting the kids
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  Speaker 3: moving while staying calm, cool and collected, being present, eye contact, jokes,
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  Speaker 3: hugs at the door. You are setting the tone for
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  Speaker 3: the day, not trying to win the entire day in
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  Speaker 3: that moment, but setting the tone for it. Fifty meters
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  Speaker 3: to two hundred meter mark, this is the most important
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  Speaker 3: phase of the race. This is where you have to
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  Speaker 3: run hard and stay loose. Upright, posture, smooth arms, controlled breathing.
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  Speaker 3: You should feel fast without forcing it. For fatherhood, that's
• 2:08:59
  Speaker 3: low walking in at work, being productive, reliable, focused, no
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  Speaker 3: unnecessary stress carried from home, having that strong internal dialogue,
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  Speaker 3: staying poised in the moment. You're running hard, but you're
• 2:09:12
  Speaker 3: in control. Two hundred to three hundred meters, that's when
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  Speaker 3: you attack the curve and I fucking love did you
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  Speaker 3: run track?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: High school, in middle school, I did my here but
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  Speaker 1: not ah not a.
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  Speaker 2: Lover of track like yourself.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, my favorite part of the four hundred meter race
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  Speaker 1: is attacking the curve.
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  Speaker 2: Let's attack the fuck.
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  Speaker 3: It's the two hundred and three hundred mark where you
• 2:09:37
  Speaker 3: are starting to feel tired. Yeah, it's starting to hit,
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  Speaker 3: but you have this curve in this natural inertia that
• 2:09:43
  Speaker 3: you can lean into and use that pain with the
• 2:09:47
  Speaker 3: momentum that you already have going into the turn. The
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  Speaker 3: race starts to bite at this moment. Focus on maintaining
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  Speaker 3: mechanics and not speeding up. How does that apply to fatherhood?
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  Speaker 3: Mental shift? You're years before you pick up the kids
• 2:10:02
  Speaker 3: or before you get home. Take that extra breath in
• 2:10:05
  Speaker 3: the car, get in the right mindset. If you are
• 2:10:07
  Speaker 3: not currently in the right mindset, check yourself a little bit,
• 2:10:11
  Speaker 3: put the phone away. Remember your kids don't need exhausted you.
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  Speaker 3: They need present you. They need you to show up
• 2:10:19
  Speaker 3: three hundred to four hundred meters. That's when you finish strong.
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  Speaker 3: That's when you make sure you're still kicking, picking up
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  Speaker 3: your knees, and have a good evening at home. If
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  Speaker 3: we're going to apply it to fatherhood, asking your kids
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  Speaker 3: about their day, asking your wife about their day, being
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  Speaker 3: patient even.
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  Speaker 2: When you're drained.
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  Speaker 3: Help lead backtime dishes, bedtime, homework, dinner, any of those routines.
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  Speaker 3: No quitting mentally just because you're home. And I applied
• 2:10:46
  Speaker 3: his quote from earlier. It was the four hundred isn't
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  Speaker 3: about how fast you can run, it's about how slow
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  Speaker 3: you can slow down. And in dad terms, the best
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  Speaker 3: dads aren't the loudest or the flashiest, high octane twenty
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  Speaker 3: four to seven.
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  Speaker 2: They're the ones who slow down the least when it
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  Speaker 2: gets hard. Well done. That was really good. Thank you,
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  Speaker 2: great analogy. Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: The old proverbial four hundred meter perverbial, as we say
• 2:11:17
  Speaker 3: in Dodgeball and The Underdog Story, the proverbial pumpkin.
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