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- 0:00Speaker 1: The ticket is in hand and the flight attendant has
- 0:03Speaker 1: made the final boarding call. The dreaded moment is here.
- 0:08Speaker 1: It's it's time to say goodbye. A son or a
- 0:13Speaker 1: daughter may be going off to college, a visiting sweetheart
- 0:17Speaker 1: may be returning home, or a grandparent moving away. We've
- 0:22Speaker 1: we've all experienced these, these kinds of goodbyes. First there's
- 0:28Speaker 1: that awkward small talk looks like good weather for the
- 0:32Speaker 1: trip or right soon, Yeah, I promise, And then one
- 0:39Speaker 1: last lengthy embrace, and then the tears come on, You're
- 0:45Speaker 1: gonna You're gonna miss your flight. I love you. More
- 0:50Speaker 1: tears that walk through the tunnel, and then a final
- 0:54Speaker 1: turn and a wave goodbye. How we dislay like saying goodbye?
- 1:02Speaker 1: You know, we don't even like the word. We'd rather
- 1:05Speaker 1: say see you later, or keep in touch or talk
- 1:09Speaker 1: to you soon. Because goodbye can sound so final but
- 1:15Speaker 1: wrenching as it is, saying goodbye can be an opportunity
- 1:19Speaker 1: to turn our attention to the Lord and focus on
- 1:21Speaker 1: the security that he alone provides. If said well, a
- 1:27Speaker 1: goodbye can ignite a hopeful flame of God's presence in
- 1:31Speaker 1: the hearts of the ones leaving, and even in the
- 1:34Speaker 1: ones who are staying behind. Paul concludes his wonderful letter
- 1:39Speaker 1: to the Thessalonians with such a farewell, instead of ending
- 1:44Speaker 1: with a breezy now, just keep smiling yours truly, Paul,
- 1:50Speaker 1: he takes a while to say goodbye. He takes to
- 1:53Speaker 1: us six verses to graciously affirm his readers with a
- 1:57Speaker 1: benediction that is the emotional capstone of his entire letter.
- 2:04Speaker 1: Because of the emotions Paul had for the Thessalonians, I
- 2:08Speaker 1: want to read his goodbye to them from the amplified,
- 2:12Speaker 1: and I want you just to sit there and listen.
- 2:15Speaker 1: Listen to the way Paul said goodbye. Now, also we
- 2:20Speaker 1: beseech you, brethren, get to know those who labor among you,
- 2:25Speaker 1: recognize them for what they are, acknowledge and appreciate and
- 2:30Speaker 1: respect them all your leaders who are over you in
- 2:33Speaker 1: the Lord, and those who warn and kindly reprove and
- 2:37Speaker 1: exhort you, and hold them in very high and most
- 2:41Speaker 1: affectionate esteem, in intelligent and sympathetic appreciation of their work.
- 2:48Speaker 1: Me at peace among yourselves, And we earnestly beseech you, brethren, admonish,
- 2:54Speaker 1: warn and seriously advise those who are out of line
- 2:59Speaker 1: that is the loafers, the disorderly, and the unruly. Encourage
- 3:05Speaker 1: the timid and faint hearted. Help and give your support
- 3:08Speaker 1: to the weak souls, and be very patient with everybody,
- 3:16Speaker 1: always keeping your temper. See that none of you repays
- 3:19Speaker 1: another with evil for evil, but always aim to show
- 3:24Speaker 1: kindness and seek to do good to one another and
- 3:28Speaker 1: to everybody. Be happy in your faith, and rejoice and
- 3:33Speaker 1: be glad hearted continually. Always be unceasing in prayer, praying
- 3:40Speaker 1: perseveringly thank God in everything, no matter what the circumstances
- 3:46Speaker 1: may be. Be thankful and give thanks for this is
- 3:50Speaker 1: the will of God for you who are in Christ, Jesus,
- 3:53Speaker 1: the revealer and mediator of that will. Do not quench,
- 4:00Speaker 1: press or subdue the Holy Spirit. Do not spurn the
- 4:03Speaker 1: gifts and utterances of the prophets. Do not depreciate prophetic revelations,
- 4:13Speaker 1: nor despise inspired instruction or exhortation or warning. But test
- 4:20Speaker 1: and prove all things until you can recognize what is good.
- 4:25Speaker 1: To that hold fast, abstain from evil, shrink from it,
- 4:30Speaker 1: and keep aloof from it, in whatever form or whatever
- 4:34Speaker 1: kind it may be. And may the God of Peace
- 4:38Speaker 1: himself sanctify you through and through separate you from profane things,
- 4:45Speaker 1: make you pure and holy, consecrated to God. And may
- 4:51Speaker 1: your spirit and soul and body be preserved, sound and
- 4:55Speaker 1: complete and found blameless in the coming of our Lord
- 4:59Speaker 1: jes Is Christ the Messiah. Faithful is he who is
- 5:03Speaker 1: calling you to himself and utterly trustworthy, And he will
- 5:09Speaker 1: also do it. That is, fulfill his call. By hallowing
- 5:14Speaker 1: and keeping you brethren, pray for us, greet all the
- 5:20Speaker 1: brethren with a sacred kiss. I solemnly charge you, in
- 5:24Speaker 1: the name of the Lord, to have this letter read
- 5:27Speaker 1: before all the brethren. The grace, the unmerited favor and
- 5:33Speaker 1: blessings of our Lord, Jesus Christ the Messiah be with you,
- 5:38Speaker 1: all amen.
- 5:41Speaker 2: So be it.
- 5:44Speaker 3: Saying hello is easy. In fact, it's fun. It's saying
- 5:49Speaker 3: goodbye that's hard. I think Neil Diamond's popular piece Hello
- 5:55Speaker 3: Again Hello tells us what a lilt there is connected
- 5:59Speaker 3: with saying hello. Well, not always, there are some exceptions.
- 6:04Speaker 3: There are times when saying hello is a difficult thing.
- 6:09Speaker 3: There's a young man in our church, for example, who,
- 6:12Speaker 3: though he's now a young adult and very happy in
- 6:15Speaker 3: the home into which he has been adopted, he decided
- 6:20Speaker 3: this past year that he would trace his original roots,
- 6:24Speaker 3: and so, through a rather arduous plan, he went to
- 6:30Speaker 3: the other country where he was in fact born. As
- 6:34Speaker 3: a matter of fact, he was adopted by a mother
- 6:37Speaker 3: and dad while the father was in the military serving
- 6:40Speaker 3: in Europe, and so the man's real mother not only
- 6:46Speaker 3: lives in another country, but she doesn't even speak the language.
- 6:51Speaker 2: Which added to the difficulty of the pursuit.
- 6:54Speaker 3: Nevertheless, he pressed on, and I wish I could have
- 6:58Speaker 3: him here to tell you his remark arkable story. It's
- 7:01Speaker 3: full of emotion. He found the town, he found the street,
- 7:08Speaker 3: he in fact found the house, and then he sat
- 7:12Speaker 3: down out front and thought, now, how do I walk
- 7:15Speaker 3: up and say hi, I'm your son. Well, I'll leave
- 7:21Speaker 3: that for another time you might want to.
- 7:24Speaker 2: Saying hello is.
- 7:27Speaker 3: Not always easy, but it's usually a lot easier than
- 7:30Speaker 3: saying goodbye. As a matter of fact, I thought recently
- 7:33Speaker 3: of the number of places where I have seen people
- 7:36Speaker 3: wrenched trying to get the words goodbye out.
- 7:42Speaker 2: Of their mouth.
- 7:44Speaker 3: I have been in airports, and I have been in
- 7:46Speaker 3: train stations and bus depots where those words could hardly
- 7:50Speaker 3: be said. I have been in courtrooms where they were said.
- 7:54Speaker 3: I have seen it happen in hospital corridors and in
- 8:01Speaker 3: prisons and on college campuses. I've been at holmes where
- 8:06Speaker 3: there was the need to say goodbye to a family member,
- 8:09Speaker 3: and it was always with an enormous amount of emotion.
- 8:13Speaker 3: Saying goodbye is not an easy thing. In fact, it's tough.
- 8:18Speaker 3: A former neighbor of ours told me some time ago
- 8:22Speaker 3: that her husband's company, a large corporation, has moved them
- 8:28Speaker 3: three times in the past seven years, and she says,
- 8:31Speaker 3: we have learned as a family.
- 8:33Speaker 2: Just to lighten the.
- 8:35Speaker 3: Pain of saying goodbye. We just no longer bother to
- 8:37Speaker 3: say hello. They have, by the way, moved again four
- 8:42Speaker 3: times in eight years. It is painful to say goodbye.
- 8:46Speaker 3: Stop and think. We don't even like to use the words.
- 8:50Speaker 3: We say see you later, or talk to you tomorrow,
- 8:55Speaker 3: or give me a call later on. We say have
- 9:00Speaker 3: a nice day. We've even learned how to say it differently.
- 9:04Speaker 3: On Monday nights, turn out the lights, the party is over.
- 9:08Speaker 2: We don't say goodbye.
- 9:10Speaker 3: I checked my correspondence and I found that in my
- 9:12Speaker 3: correspondence I have never once written goodbye and signed my name.
- 9:19Speaker 3: I've said gratefully, lovingly, affectionately, warmly, cheerfully, encouraged, relieved, affirmed, strengthened.
- 9:29Speaker 3: Never once have I said goodbye. And people who write
- 9:33Speaker 3: me often feel the need to sign in a religious way,
- 9:37Speaker 3: so they will sign with love in the Lord in Christ,
- 9:41Speaker 3: because of Him, yours and his one signed recently, I'll
- 9:47Speaker 3: see you here there or in the air's a new one.
- 9:53Speaker 3: And I even have letters signed without wax by an individual.
- 9:58Speaker 3: Starting to sound like Andy Rue right now talking about
- 10:01Speaker 3: this subject.
- 10:02Speaker 2: But we don't like to say goodbye? Why?
- 10:07Speaker 3: Why is it so hard simply to say goodbye? There's
- 10:13Speaker 3: finality in it. You can hear the lock snap, you
- 10:20Speaker 3: can hear the door shut. And the deeper we feel
- 10:27Speaker 3: about people, the longer it takes us to say goodbye,
- 10:31Speaker 3: if in fact we ever say it, we like to
- 10:35Speaker 3: lengthen our talk when it comes time to close off
- 10:41Speaker 3: the conversation.
- 10:43Speaker 2: You know that's biblical. You may be relieved to know that.
- 10:47Speaker 3: Never once in scripture is there a letter signed goodbye
- 10:51Speaker 3: at the end. Sometime the writer closes with a couple
- 10:55Speaker 3: of verses. Sometime he will give as much as an
- 10:59Speaker 3: entire chapter to saying it. But there's never simply a
- 11:04Speaker 3: curt goodbye. That's true in the Thessalonian letter. As a
- 11:11Speaker 3: matter of fact, you may have already forgotten that this
- 11:15Speaker 3: is the very first recorded letter Paul wrote. May not
- 11:21Speaker 3: be the first letter he wrote, but it's the first
- 11:23Speaker 3: one chronologically that has found its way into the New
- 11:27Speaker 3: Testament canon of scripture, which we call today a part
- 11:32Speaker 3: of God's Word. This letter and Paul felt deeply about them.
- 11:40Speaker 3: These are among his first born. Now, I'm a father,
- 11:46Speaker 3: I'm not a mother, but I think I know enough
- 11:48Speaker 3: mothers to know that there's something about the firstborn that
- 11:52Speaker 3: makes them.
- 11:52Speaker 2: Sort of special.
- 11:54Speaker 3: I've always said that mothers feel affectionately about the firstborn,
- 11:58Speaker 3: and fathers really owe the first born in apology.
- 12:01Speaker 2: I think most.
- 12:02Speaker 3: Dads ought to look at their oldest and say I'm sorry,
- 12:05Speaker 3: look I learned on you, and then go on to
- 12:07Speaker 3: the bigger and better things.
- 12:09Speaker 2: But mothers have a sense of.
- 12:13Speaker 3: Oneness with the first one that came from their womb,
- 12:17Speaker 3: or the first one that they've adopted. There's something special
- 12:21Speaker 3: about the first For example, this letter to that little
- 12:26Speaker 3: church in Thesalonaika. Let's kind of review it. Chapter one,
- 12:31Speaker 3: he says, I give thanks for you, says that in
- 12:35Speaker 3: verse two. In chapter two, he says, I love you dearly,
- 12:40Speaker 3: says that in verse eight, having thus a fond affection
- 12:44Speaker 3: for you, you'd become very dear to us.
- 12:47Speaker 2: I love you dearly.
- 12:49Speaker 3: Chapter three, he says, I'm concerned about you, in fact,
- 12:53Speaker 3: so concerned I sent Timothy to see how things were
- 12:57Speaker 3: verse five. For this reason, when I could endure it
- 12:59Speaker 3: no longer, I sent to find out about your faith.
- 13:03Speaker 3: Chapter three is a letter written kind of like a
- 13:06Speaker 3: mother or father would write someone who's been away to
- 13:09Speaker 3: college quite some time, and the only time they've written
- 13:13Speaker 3: home is to get money. But there's not really been
- 13:15Speaker 3: any contact. There's not really been any meaningful talk. There's
- 13:19Speaker 3: not even been much phone conversation, and you get concerned
- 13:23Speaker 3: in their absence. Chapter three is a I'm concerned for you.
- 13:27Speaker 3: Chapter four is I exhort you. Now, don't let this
- 13:32Speaker 3: pass too quickly. I give thanks for you. Chapter one,
- 13:37Speaker 3: I love you dearly. Chapter two, I'm concerned for you.
- 13:41Speaker 3: Chapter three, I exhort you, And there's a kind of
- 13:45Speaker 3: an exclamation point after that. In fact, the first eight
- 13:48Speaker 3: verses of chapter four form some of the most frontal
- 13:53Speaker 3: council on moral purity in all the Bible.
- 13:56Speaker 2: Do you know that right here? I exhort you to
- 14:01Speaker 2: be pure.
- 14:02Speaker 3: I exhort you to stay sexually clean. I exhort you friends,
- 14:06Speaker 3: I love you too much to let you play in
- 14:08Speaker 3: the traffic.
- 14:10Speaker 2: I exhort you. I guess Chapter five.
- 14:13Speaker 3: He's encouraging them. In fact, verse eleven says, therefore, encourage
- 14:18Speaker 3: one another. And that's exactly what he does. And he
- 14:20Speaker 3: gives them a grocery list. I call it a long list,
- 14:23Speaker 3: over a dozen count them over a dozen things between
- 14:26Speaker 3: verses twelve and twenty two that they're to do, and
- 14:29Speaker 3: he is encouraging them to do it. I encourage you.
- 14:33Speaker 3: So when it comes time to say goodbye, how can
- 14:35Speaker 3: he say goodbye to people like that? Oh?
- 14:38Speaker 2: What a way to say goodbye? He does it beautifully.
- 14:43Speaker 3: George Cohan used to give the council to fellow entertainers
- 14:48Speaker 3: in the world of showbiz. Always leave him laughing when
- 14:52Speaker 3: you say goodbye. That's not God's counsel. A good laugh
- 14:57Speaker 3: is good, but that's not God's counsel. Always leave them
- 15:01Speaker 3: laughing is not the way to say goodbye. If you're
- 15:05Speaker 3: spiritually minded, if you really walk with God, if you
- 15:08Speaker 3: really want your life to have an impact on someone else.
- 15:11Speaker 3: Always turn their attention back to God when you walk away,
- 15:20Speaker 3: when it's all over, when you say goodbye, when you
- 15:23Speaker 3: in the time with them, always be sure they love
- 15:26Speaker 3: the Lord more than when you started. That's good counsel,
- 15:31Speaker 3: and that's what Paul does. There's a profound farewell in
- 15:36Speaker 3: this letter, and I am really falling in love with it.
- 15:40Speaker 3: I'm confident he never dreamed it would be analyzed by
- 15:42Speaker 3: preachers for centuries to come. God bless him. I think
- 15:47Speaker 3: he just wrote an affectionate goodbye in the only way
- 15:51Speaker 3: that he was led.
- 15:53Speaker 4: To do it.
- 15:53Speaker 3: In fact, if you look at these verses twenty three
- 15:55Speaker 3: through twenty eight in chapter five, you see that they
- 15:58Speaker 3: really have to do with three things God himself verses
- 16:02Speaker 3: twenty three and twenty four, and then the little church,
- 16:08Speaker 3: the people there twenty five, twenty six, twenty seven. Three
- 16:12Speaker 3: times he uses the word brethren. That's a signal brethren,
- 16:15Speaker 3: pray for us, greet all the brethren with a holy kiss.
- 16:18Speaker 3: I know you're anxious to know about that one.
- 16:20Speaker 2: We'll get to it. Just relax, and then.
- 16:22Speaker 3: I adjure you I hold you under oath to have
- 16:26Speaker 3: this letter read to everyone, brethren, all the brethren. So
- 16:30Speaker 3: Verses twenty five, six and seven have to do with
- 16:34Speaker 3: the little church in Thessalonika. And last he closes with
- 16:37Speaker 3: his favorite expression, grace to you, Grace of our Lord
- 16:44Speaker 3: Jesus Christ be with you. He's packed a lot into
- 16:47Speaker 3: this farewell. He starts by talking about the Father, and
- 16:56Speaker 3: actually the way the verse reads verse twenty three, it's
- 17:00Speaker 3: like a benediction, which is what I call a prayer
- 17:03Speaker 3: with your eyes open.
- 17:04Speaker 2: It's a prayer wish, may God do this.
- 17:07Speaker 3: It's not that may we bow and then I pray,
- 17:10Speaker 3: but I could look at you with my eyes open
- 17:12Speaker 3: and say, may God do this, and may the Lord
- 17:15Speaker 3: cause that to happen, and may He bless that.
- 17:17Speaker 2: It's a what F. F.
- 17:20Speaker 3: Bruce calls a prayer, wish, a prayer wish. Now look
- 17:27Speaker 3: at how he does it verse twenty three. Now may
- 17:30Speaker 3: the God of peace himself. You read it in the English.
- 17:34Speaker 3: If you could read it in the Greek, you would
- 17:36Speaker 3: read now himself.
- 17:38Speaker 2: May the God of peace.
- 17:40Speaker 3: Why do I say himself like that, because in the
- 17:44Speaker 3: Greek sentence, when something appears early on out of place,
- 17:47Speaker 3: it's emphasis.
- 17:49Speaker 2: It's an emphatic part of the sentence.
- 17:52Speaker 3: It's like we would say her majesty, the Queen, his majesty,
- 17:59Speaker 3: the King himself God.
- 18:02Speaker 2: That's what it reads.
- 18:04Speaker 3: In other words, God is not going to provide these
- 18:07Speaker 3: things through some delegation. He's not going to bring along
- 18:12Speaker 3: a band of angels and make it happen. He himself
- 18:17Speaker 3: will be there. He himself promises to deliver these goods.
- 18:24Speaker 2: And now himself, his.
- 18:27Speaker 3: Majesty whom, God of peace. That's a great title, great word.
- 18:37Speaker 3: You know, it's an old word.
- 18:39Speaker 2: The oldest term is shalom. You know what it means.
- 18:44Speaker 2: It means to be whole, whol e, to be whole.
- 18:49Speaker 3: It often carries a wholesome or wholeness idea. In the
- 18:57Speaker 3: New Testament, the term has in mind harmony, friendship as
- 19:05Speaker 3: opposed to alienation, contentment, as opposed to chaos.
- 19:11Speaker 2: Just think about peace.
- 19:13Speaker 1: For a minute.
- 19:16Speaker 3: In fact, I remember one wag says that we really
- 19:19Speaker 3: believe in peace as a nation. We build a peace
- 19:22Speaker 3: statue after every war, and we have one all across
- 19:26Speaker 3: our country.
- 19:27Speaker 2: But this is real peace.
- 19:29Speaker 3: This is peace that is opposed to disorder, conflict, confusion.
- 19:38Speaker 3: This is peace that is without irritability, anxiety, or impatience.
- 19:44Speaker 3: This is peace, that is in contrast to restlessness and impulsiveness.
- 19:49Speaker 2: Hurry, doesn't that sound inviting? Makes me think of.
- 19:54Speaker 3: The words of Francis Havergal, written back in the latter
- 19:59Speaker 3: part of the nineteen century. We now have the words
- 20:02Speaker 3: put to music, and we love to sing them as
- 20:04Speaker 3: a church like a river. Glorious is God's perfect peace.
- 20:12Speaker 3: Remember the second stanza, Hidden in the hollow of his
- 20:16Speaker 3: blessed hand, Never foe can follow, never traitor stand, Not
- 20:24Speaker 3: a surge of worry, not a shade of care, not
- 20:28Speaker 3: a blast of hurry. Touch the spirit there where in
- 20:36Speaker 3: the hollow of the hand of the God of peace.
- 20:45Speaker 3: How unlike the gods of idolatry.
- 20:48Speaker 2: How many idols do you know.
- 20:53Speaker 3: That smile? They're all frowning. Look how many of them
- 20:59Speaker 3: have all of their demands satisfied and simply ask for
- 21:04Speaker 3: the worship of their followers. Not one they are demanding.
- 21:10Speaker 3: They are aggravated, they are peeved, they are irritable. They
- 21:15Speaker 3: have frowns, they have fire and smoke and eyes that
- 21:19Speaker 3: glare because they're not satisfied. Our God is satisfied. You
- 21:25Speaker 3: know why the cross, It's that wonderful my sin, Oh,
- 21:33Speaker 3: the bliss of this glorious thought, my sin not in part.
- 21:36Speaker 2: But the hole is nailed to the cross, and I
- 21:39Speaker 2: bear it no more. Praise the Lord, oh my soul.
- 21:43Speaker 3: When they drove the nails in his hands, and when
- 21:46Speaker 3: they put the spike in his feet, and when they
- 21:49Speaker 3: hung him, and he bled and died for me and
- 21:53Speaker 3: for you, He cleansed us from sin, and he furthermore
- 21:58Speaker 3: satisfied all of the righteous demands of the Father. Theologians
- 22:03Speaker 3: would write, the Father became proficiated, satisfied, and at that
- 22:10Speaker 3: great ethical moment, God smiled, and he's been smiling ever since.
- 22:18Speaker 3: And all that he asks of his worshipers is that
- 22:21Speaker 3: they come through the cross to him. That's all.
- 22:26Speaker 2: You don't have to pay for your sins. You don't
- 22:28Speaker 2: even have to work hard to give them up. You
- 22:32Speaker 2: don't have to wash your hands three times a day.
- 22:34Speaker 2: You don't have to come to church every day of
- 22:36Speaker 2: the week. You don't have to pay a gob of
- 22:38Speaker 2: money to earn your way in or to keep him satisfied.
- 22:41Speaker 3: The blood has satisfied him. All he asks is that
- 22:47Speaker 3: you come by faith through Jesus Christ. Because he's a
- 22:51Speaker 3: God of peace. All the wrath against sin has been
- 22:55Speaker 3: poured out on his son. That's why the Savior screamed,
- 23:00Speaker 3: my God, my God, why have you forsaken me? That's
- 23:07Speaker 3: when he took all of the awfulness of our sin
- 23:14Speaker 3: unto himself. And now God is satisfied, he's at peace.
- 23:23Speaker 2: Well, so much for his name. Well, at this rate,
- 23:27Speaker 2: we'll be here two hours. Let's move right on. What
- 23:29Speaker 2: does God do? I find three things right here in
- 23:32Speaker 2: the text.
- 23:32Speaker 3: They don't rhyme, they don't all start with the same letter,
- 23:35Speaker 3: they don't have a cute little ring to them, but
- 23:38Speaker 3: they're all in the text. Number One, May He sanctify
- 23:42Speaker 3: you completely or entirely, that's the way it reads. May
- 23:48Speaker 3: the God of Peace sanctify you entirely.
- 23:50Speaker 2: That's number one.
- 23:51Speaker 3: Number two, May He preserve you completely, it's right there.
- 23:57Speaker 3: May he may your spirit and soul and body be
- 24:00Speaker 3: preserved complete. And third, may He receive you blamelessly. There
- 24:08Speaker 3: isn't that a great outline? And I can't even claim
- 24:10Speaker 3: that it's mine. It's his. He gave it to us.
- 24:13Speaker 3: May He set you apart entirely. Sanctification is a theological buzzword.
- 24:18Speaker 3: Preachers love to use it and then kind of roll
- 24:21Speaker 3: their eyes and then go right on. And people think
- 24:24Speaker 3: when they hear sanctification that they need to move to
- 24:27Speaker 3: a monastery or maybe dress in plane wrap or look.
- 24:32Speaker 2: Kind of holy because it sounds awesome. Well, it is
- 24:36Speaker 2: an awesome thing.
- 24:37Speaker 3: But it's none of those religious has none of those
- 24:39Speaker 3: religious trappings. Sanctify simply means to set apart, to set
- 24:46Speaker 3: something apart.
- 24:48Speaker 2: Now in a Christian sense or.
- 24:51Speaker 3: Theologically, it means the separation of the believer from evil.
- 24:57Speaker 2: Things and evil way.
- 25:02Speaker 3: May the God of Peace set you apart from evil
- 25:07Speaker 3: things and from evil ways. Has nothing to do with geography.
- 25:15Speaker 3: You may or may not live in a monastery and
- 25:17Speaker 3: be set apart. You may or may not be in
- 25:22Speaker 3: up to date clothes and still be set apart. Has
- 25:25Speaker 3: nothing to do with externals.
- 25:27Speaker 2: Nothing.
- 25:28Speaker 3: You can even be an extrovert and be sanctified. You
- 25:34Speaker 3: can be loud, you don't have to be quiet. You
- 25:37Speaker 3: don't have to fold your hands and say religious things
- 25:41Speaker 3: a lot. You can laugh and have fun in life.
- 25:45Speaker 3: You can weep and be sad and still be set apart. See,
- 25:50Speaker 3: it has nothing to do with temperament. We have religion
- 25:53Speaker 3: to thank for making a lot of these words carry
- 25:58Speaker 3: that connotation. You cannot tell by looking at someone if
- 26:03Speaker 3: they're sanctified. Okay, so let's stop doing that, just a
- 26:10Speaker 3: little aside. There no extra charge for that. You can't
- 26:13Speaker 3: tell by the externals. If I am set apart, I
- 26:16Speaker 3: may look I may look extremely quote sanctified, but I
- 26:20Speaker 3: may be terribly carnal at the time. Now he's saying, here,
- 26:26Speaker 3: may the God himself set you apart entirely free from contamination, confusion,
- 26:31Speaker 3: and wickedness, all that poison removed. Second, may he preserve
- 26:38Speaker 3: you completely. I've all the word preserve.
- 26:42Speaker 2: For a moment. Okay.
- 26:44Speaker 3: Preserve it means to watch over, to guard, to keep.
- 26:50Speaker 3: One old lexicographer named Thayer wrote this term expresses watchful care,
- 26:56Speaker 3: It indicates safe custody, and often implies assault from without
- 27:04Speaker 3: assault of what contamination. Think of the word preserves. Okay,
- 27:12Speaker 3: I remember as a little boy helping my folks. Can
- 27:15Speaker 3: they let me help them? One time we canned tubs
- 27:20Speaker 3: of peaches. My mom got a run on peaches at
- 27:23Speaker 3: the what do you call farmer's market, and she came
- 27:28Speaker 3: home with bushels of those things, and so well, we
- 27:31Speaker 3: were boiling them up and we had curd jars, and
- 27:34Speaker 3: we had seal them tight. And I got tired and
- 27:37Speaker 3: had a bad attitude, and my dad told me, you're
- 27:40Speaker 3: gonna finish if it's the last thing you do. I
- 27:42Speaker 3: was convinced it would be the last thing I would do.
- 27:45Speaker 3: And I just got to where I just kind of
- 27:46Speaker 3: screwed them up nice quickly. And you could tell in
- 27:50Speaker 3: a few months which jars I had preserved and which
- 27:53Speaker 3: jars my folks had preserved. There were little fuzzy things
- 27:56Speaker 3: inside mine, inside theirs. It was clear, you know why,
- 28:00Speaker 3: because poison had come in and I hadn't sealed it tightly.
- 28:05Speaker 3: May the God of Peace seal you tightly so that
- 28:08Speaker 3: no poison gets in, because poison always wants to get in.
- 28:17Speaker 3: That's what Thayer is saying. It implies assault. May he
- 28:23Speaker 3: do that regarding every part of your body. May you
- 28:27Speaker 3: be completely preserved. I've said for years that the need
- 28:34Speaker 3: in our life is not to be isolated, but to
- 28:37Speaker 3: be insulated. We don't all need to move behind a tall,
- 28:43Speaker 3: thick wall away from the world. We need to be
- 28:46Speaker 3: very much involved in our world. Rubbing shoulders with the
- 28:52Speaker 3: the crooked perverse generation, which is a part of our times.
- 28:56Speaker 3: That's why salt and light have such an effect, and
- 28:59Speaker 3: that's the only place where it has an effect. But
- 29:03Speaker 3: as Jesus prayed, Father, I ask you not to take
- 29:05Speaker 3: them out of the world, but to keep them from it,
- 29:09Speaker 3: meaning guard them through it, preserve them. Now, some of
- 29:17Speaker 3: you are just hanging on what I'm going to say
- 29:20Speaker 3: about spirit and soul and body.
- 29:22Speaker 2: Am I a.
- 29:27Speaker 3: Trichotomist or a dichotomist who cares? You know, when you
- 29:32Speaker 3: get before the Lord in the final day, he's not
- 29:35Speaker 3: going to say you're a trichotomist. All you've got to
- 29:38Speaker 3: do is say I'm preserved and you can come right
- 29:41Speaker 3: on the end.
- 29:42Speaker 2: That's all it takes. I don't know.
- 29:46Speaker 3: I leave a lot of that stuff for those people
- 29:48Speaker 3: that are into that. I think if I were to
- 29:51Speaker 3: take five or ten minutes on that, you wouldn't be
- 29:53Speaker 3: any better off.
- 29:56Speaker 2: Than if I didn't.
- 29:57Speaker 3: So let's just leave it your whole it's part, it's
- 30:00Speaker 3: your whole person. May your spirit, soul and body be
- 30:04Speaker 3: preserved complete. And now he brings us to that great
- 30:08Speaker 3: day in the future without blame. At the coming of
- 30:13Speaker 3: our Lord, Jesus Christ so suddenly jumps from this time
- 30:16Speaker 3: to that magnificent moment in glory, and we stand before
- 30:20Speaker 3: our Lord and we are what blameless?
- 30:23Speaker 2: Is that good news? Blameless? How many people do you
- 30:28Speaker 2: stand before blameless?
- 30:31Speaker 3: Not many? The root term means to find fault, to rebuke, condemn,
- 30:39Speaker 3: find guilty. When you put a little prefix, the letter
- 30:42Speaker 3: A in front of that Greek term, it negates all
- 30:45Speaker 3: of that. In other words, to find no fault, to
- 30:48Speaker 3: have no rebuke, no condemnation, no.
- 30:52Speaker 2: Guilt, no guilt.
- 30:59Speaker 3: It just seems amazing, no guilt. You know why it's
- 31:03Speaker 3: amazing because you don't know of another soul that'll free
- 31:06Speaker 3: you from guilt. Other people put guilt on you. If
- 31:11Speaker 3: you don't have some, they'll manufacture it and lay it
- 31:13Speaker 3: on you, and they'll keep you under it. But when
- 31:17Speaker 3: you stand before your Savior, child of God, and he
- 31:21Speaker 3: examines you, he sees you in Christ, free of guilt,
- 31:25Speaker 3: without blame. Stay here, or keep your finger here and
- 31:33Speaker 3: go over to Jude.
- 31:35Speaker 2: Chapter.
- 31:36Speaker 3: Well, if it's got more than one chapter, you're in
- 31:38Speaker 3: the wrong spot, So locate verse twenty four.
- 31:43Speaker 2: Of Jude.
- 31:46Speaker 3: Jude twenty four. It's another one of these prayers with
- 31:49Speaker 3: his eyes open, another one of these Benedictions. And this
- 31:52Speaker 3: is a great statement speaking again of the Lord God.
- 31:57Speaker 3: Now to him who is able to keep you from stump,
- 32:03Speaker 3: that's preservation, and to make you stand in the presence
- 32:07Speaker 3: of His glory. There it is again, blameless with great joy.
- 32:13Speaker 3: To the Only God, our Savior, through Jesus Christ, our Lord,
- 32:18Speaker 3: be glory, majesty, dominion, and authority before all time and
- 32:23Speaker 3: now and forever. Amen, look at that closing of verse
- 32:28Speaker 3: twenty four. To him who is able to make you
- 32:32Speaker 3: stand in the presence of His glory, blameless with great joy,
- 32:39Speaker 3: Child of God, do not fear death, do not fear
- 32:45Speaker 3: stepping into the Lord's presence. You will be blameless.
- 32:52Speaker 2: Say well, I don't feel blameless.
- 32:56Speaker 3: You've forgotten already first Thessalonians five twenty four.
- 33:01Speaker 2: Look at it again.
- 33:02Speaker 3: Faithful is he who calls you, and he also will
- 33:07Speaker 3: bring it to pass. You don't have to do it.
- 33:13Speaker 3: All you have to do is be in the Savior,
- 33:18Speaker 3: and God does it. I fly a little bit, some
- 33:25Speaker 3: of you fly more. You know what I'm talking about.
- 33:28Speaker 3: You and I don't go sit down in the airplane.
- 33:32Speaker 3: And when they warm the engines up, we start flapping
- 33:34Speaker 3: our arms like a buzzard back there keeping this thing
- 33:38Speaker 3: in the air. I've got to get this thing off
- 33:41Speaker 3: the runway that they have places where they put people
- 33:45Speaker 3: like that that you sit down, you buckle up, and
- 33:49Speaker 3: you check it to them.
- 33:51Speaker 2: That thing's going to take off.
- 33:53Speaker 3: There's an amazing law that you just rely on and
- 33:56Speaker 3: it does it for you.
- 33:58Speaker 2: You don't fly, you sit in something that flies for you.
- 34:05Speaker 2: That's what this stuff is all about. In Jesus Christ,
- 34:11Speaker 2: I am complete.
- 34:13Speaker 3: I have all that I will ever need forgiveness, hope, relief, cleanliness,
- 34:21Speaker 3: freedom from blame, absence of guilt. And I am just
- 34:26Speaker 3: waiting for him to take me. And they're great to
- 34:33Speaker 3: have a heart like that. He gets all the credit
- 34:37Speaker 3: because my old heart would condemn me and it would
- 34:42Speaker 3: deserve hell. Let me share this story with you. It
- 34:49Speaker 3: makes it so clear. Doctor Christian Bernard tells of one
- 34:53Speaker 3: of his early heart transplant patients asking to see the
- 34:57Speaker 3: removed organ. Obligingly, the doctor brought from the laboratory the
- 35:03Speaker 3: large bottle where the old heart had been placed. As
- 35:09Speaker 3: the man looked at the big muscle which once pumped
- 35:12Speaker 3: life through his body, the famed surgeon suddenly realized this
- 35:18Speaker 3: was the first time in human existence that a person
- 35:20Speaker 3: had ever seen his own heart. It was indeed an
- 35:26Speaker 3: historic moment but the patient. But for the patient, the
- 35:31Speaker 3: sensation must have been even more moving, for the old
- 35:33Speaker 3: heart was worn out it had not been replaced. Had
- 35:39Speaker 3: it not been replaced, life would soon have been extinct.
- 35:43Speaker 3: And after a long pause, the grateful man up and said,
- 35:48Speaker 3: I'm glad I don't have that old heart anymore. I've
- 35:53Speaker 3: thought about that a lot. I'm glad I don't have
- 35:57Speaker 3: that old heart I used to have. I'm glad I'm
- 36:02Speaker 3: not riveted to the poison of my world. I'm glad
- 36:06Speaker 3: there's freedom, there's life beyond it. I'm glad that He
- 36:12Speaker 3: is faithful when I am not. I'm glad that he
- 36:15Speaker 3: will bring it to pass because I cannot. I'm glad
- 36:19Speaker 3: he's got it all put together, signs sealed, and just
- 36:23Speaker 3: about delivered. Now, so much for what God does. Look
- 36:31Speaker 3: at our part, or look at the brethren as you
- 36:33Speaker 3: get back to this passage. First of all, I want
- 36:37Speaker 3: you to remember that this section twenty five, six and
- 36:41Speaker 3: seven will introduce to you three things that characterize loyal friends.
- 36:50Speaker 3: You can see the first one in verse twenty five.
- 36:53Speaker 3: They pray for one another.
- 36:55Speaker 2: If you have one who says he is truly.
- 36:58Speaker 3: Your friend, that person prays for you and you should
- 37:02Speaker 3: give thanks for that person. I've said for years Christians
- 37:06Speaker 3: should always carry a list, and it should be a
- 37:08Speaker 3: list of names, and the name should be people for
- 37:12Speaker 3: whom they pray. Man called me this last Wednesday and
- 37:16Speaker 3: he said, I just want you to know that the
- 37:19Speaker 3: year is just underway and I'm promising every day this
- 37:25Speaker 3: year to pray for you. Wow, you have someone you
- 37:30Speaker 3: could name that you would pray for every day. I
- 37:34Speaker 3: have a friend that gave me a good idea, and
- 37:36Speaker 3: I do it.
- 37:36Speaker 2: He said.
- 37:37Speaker 3: You know when I go through my list when I
- 37:38Speaker 3: shower every morning, he said, I just make it a
- 37:42Speaker 3: part of my morning. I get in a shower, start
- 37:45Speaker 3: scrubbing down, start praying for those people that are on
- 37:48Speaker 3: my list, and connecting with the shower. Of course, you
- 37:51Speaker 3: got a shower every day that that's preferred, and when
- 37:57Speaker 3: you shower, you pray.
- 37:58Speaker 2: And just make it. Connect it to something you do
- 38:01Speaker 2: every day and it'll come naturally to you.
- 38:03Speaker 3: You want to make it a big deal, It'll just
- 38:05Speaker 3: be a part of the process. And he says, you
- 38:08Speaker 3: pray for us. In case you wonder if everybody needs prayer,
- 38:11Speaker 3: Certainly one man I would think that wouldn't need.
- 38:13Speaker 2: Much would be Paul.
- 38:15Speaker 3: He was young, had energy, well educated, he had the
- 38:18Speaker 3: miracle gifts. He was an apostle. No man was more
- 38:21Speaker 3: well respected, more mature, had a greater mind for truth.
- 38:26Speaker 3: But he says, pray for us, pray for us. Isn't
- 38:30Speaker 3: a person who's ever lived that couldn't say the same thing.
- 38:35Speaker 3: And another little thought, when a person keeps coming to
- 38:38Speaker 3: your mind, that's the spirit's way of saying, pray for
- 38:42Speaker 3: that person. Ever said to a friend of yours, I
- 38:45Speaker 3: can't get her, I can't get him off my mind.
- 38:48Speaker 3: That's God saying they need your prayers. That's part of
- 38:52Speaker 3: that undercurrent of God's spirit as he's nudging you, saying,
- 38:57Speaker 3: keep that person in prayer. So loyal friends, pray for
- 39:02Speaker 3: one another. Verse twenty six, Well we made it greet
- 39:07Speaker 3: all the brethren with.
- 39:08Speaker 2: A holy kiss. He would have to say holy, wouldn't he.
- 39:12Speaker 3: Any number of things have been said about this verse,
- 39:15Speaker 3: as you can imagine. Some have made a fetish out
- 39:18Speaker 3: of it, Some have turned it into a liturgy, some
- 39:21Speaker 3: have connected it with the communion table, the Lord's table.
- 39:27Speaker 3: Clearly it's a reference to being demonstrative in our affirmation.
- 39:32Speaker 3: My point here, of course, is true friends are affectionate
- 39:36Speaker 3: with one another. Leon Morris wrote these words very helpful.
- 39:44Speaker 3: I quote in the ancient world one kissed the hand, breast, knee,
- 39:48Speaker 3: or foot of a superior and the cheek of a friend.
- 39:52Speaker 3: Herodotus mentions kissing the lips as a custom of the Persians,
- 39:57Speaker 3: possibly from them it came to the Jews. Not a
- 40:01Speaker 3: great deal is known of kissing in the early Church,
- 40:03Speaker 3: but it is usually held that men kissed men and
- 40:06Speaker 3: women kissed women, and that the kiss was on the cheek.
- 40:10Speaker 3: There does not seem to be any connection with liturgical practices,
- 40:14Speaker 3: but the kiss would naturally be exchanged on the Lord's
- 40:17Speaker 3: Day when they came together for worship. In time, it
- 40:20Speaker 3: became the custom for the kiss to be exchanged between
- 40:23Speaker 3: men and women, and Clement of Alexandria objected to quote
- 40:29Speaker 3: resounding kisses in church, which made suspicious and evil reports
- 40:33Speaker 3: among the heathen. Never fails, abuses of this kind led
- 40:39Speaker 3: to its restriction, and there are several regulations dealing with it.
- 40:44Speaker 3: In the early church, councils W. E. Vine adds this council,
- 40:50Speaker 3: there was to be an absence of formality and hypocrisy,
- 40:55Speaker 3: a freedom from prejudice arising from social distinctions, from discrimination
- 41:00Speaker 3: against the poor, from partiality towards the well to do.
- 41:04Speaker 3: In the churches, masters and servants would thus salute one
- 41:08Speaker 3: another with a kiss without any attitude of condescension or disrespect.
- 41:15Speaker 3: The kiss took place most often between persons of the
- 41:18Speaker 3: same sex, well as you can see from just those
- 41:23Speaker 3: couple of quotes, and there could have been many. There
- 41:25Speaker 3: there's a lot of feeling about this, A lot of
- 41:29Speaker 3: things have been written about it.
- 41:31Speaker 2: Let me urge you to be discreet. Uh.
- 41:35Speaker 3: The answer is not that you look at the stranger
- 41:37Speaker 3: sitting next to you and you know, plant one on him.
- 41:41Speaker 3: That that's that's not the that's not discreet. That's not
- 41:45Speaker 3: the plan.
- 41:48Speaker 2: Uh.
- 41:49Speaker 3: There are times that the most that the most wonderful way,
- 41:52Speaker 3: you can't keep your hands off of person you really
- 41:55Speaker 3: are affectionate toward and and a friend with, and it's
- 41:58Speaker 3: appropriate that there be an brace or even a kiss
- 42:01Speaker 3: on the cheek. Don't kiss him on the mouth, you know,
- 42:05Speaker 3: that's tacky. I had a lady in a former church
- 42:10Speaker 3: that used to kiss me on the mouth, and I
- 42:12Speaker 3: used to wonder which exit can I.
- 42:15Speaker 2: Get out fast and get away from that?
- 42:21Speaker 3: And while I'm at it, brides and grooms, we are
- 42:25Speaker 3: in the day of the marathon kiss for brides and grooms.
- 42:29Speaker 3: I mean, the guy looks like Henry the Eight munching
- 42:32Speaker 3: on a lamb chot when he so why don't we
- 42:36Speaker 3: just have a basic little deal that you just peck
- 42:38Speaker 3: her and you've got the rest of your life to
- 42:43Speaker 3: to kiss her. You know, I have a line where
- 42:47Speaker 3: I say you may kiss the bride, and I have said,
- 42:50Speaker 3: on occasion, you may stop kissing the bride.
- 42:57Speaker 2: I mean, what are we trying to prove?
- 43:00Speaker 3: So greet all the brethren with the holy kiss, and
- 43:04Speaker 3: it's a show of affection.
- 43:06Speaker 2: Some people don't want to be kissed, so don't force
- 43:08Speaker 2: them to kiss.
- 43:09Speaker 3: Yet they just aren't kissing types. Some got married and
- 43:14Speaker 3: that's the last kiss they got.
- 43:15Speaker 2: That's just it. They don't kiss.
- 43:18Speaker 3: That's fine. It's a dumb idea, but it's that's if
- 43:22Speaker 3: you want to go that way. When you are with
- 43:25Speaker 3: Christians and you are doing the things that are affectionate,
- 43:28Speaker 3: use a little sense. That's what he that's what I'm suggesting.
- 43:32Speaker 3: And a kiss is appropriate on occasion, and when it's appropriate,
- 43:35Speaker 3: then it's not to be ill thought of. When it's not,
- 43:39Speaker 3: it's foolish to do it.
- 43:42Speaker 2: That's it.
- 43:43Speaker 3: And loyal friends care enough to pray and they demonstrate
- 43:48Speaker 3: their affection.
- 43:49Speaker 2: There are some.
- 43:50Speaker 3: People I can hardly be with without an embrace, and
- 43:53Speaker 3: there are other people that a handshake is sufficient, but
- 43:59Speaker 3: it's appropriate, and when it is have edit verse twenty seven.
- 44:04Speaker 3: Now he levels them with an oath. Ah, this is strong.
- 44:08Speaker 3: And we're on the subject of loyal friends. They pray
- 44:11Speaker 3: for one another, they show affection on one another. Look
- 44:14Speaker 3: at twenty seven. I adjure you by the Lord to
- 44:19Speaker 3: have this letter read to all the brethren. He doesn't
- 44:21Speaker 3: have any kind of half hearted feeling about it. He's
- 44:24Speaker 3: got his finger pointing, punching into their chest. You guys,
- 44:28Speaker 3: read this when you get together. Loyal friends listen to
- 44:34Speaker 3: the same body of truth. If you have a person
- 44:40Speaker 3: that you say is a real friend, but that person
- 44:43Speaker 3: diminishes your love for and interest in and obedience to
- 44:47Speaker 3: the scriptures, he's not a loyal friend. It's not a
- 44:51Speaker 3: good friend to hang around tightly with. Good friends keep
- 44:56Speaker 3: putting us back.
- 44:57Speaker 2: In the book what is it? The scriptures say, well,
- 45:00Speaker 2: what is it? That letter said that Paul wrote to
- 45:02Speaker 2: the Thessalonians? Where was that?
- 45:05Speaker 3: Or I really hear what you're wrestling with, and man,
- 45:08Speaker 3: I care about that? Seems to me over in Timothy,
- 45:13Speaker 3: or I read in the Psalms the other day they
- 45:18Speaker 3: listened to the same book. You have friends like that,
- 45:21Speaker 3: give God thanks for them. Friends are to get us
- 45:27Speaker 3: back into the text, back into the page of the scriptures.
- 45:30Speaker 3: That's part of being good brothers and sisters. We listen
- 45:33Speaker 3: to the same truth. And kids, when your mom and dad,
- 45:37Speaker 3: they didn't ask me to tell you this.
- 45:39Speaker 2: When your mom and dad say what is it?
- 45:42Speaker 3: The scripture says, they're giving you the finest counsel you'll
- 45:47Speaker 3: ever receive. Okay, When they are saying to you, let's
- 45:54Speaker 3: find out what God says about this. Then go on
- 45:56Speaker 3: a search with them. You're going to discover some wisdom.
- 46:01Speaker 3: They're your loyal friends and rare, are such friends?
- 46:06Speaker 2: Rare? And then he closes by.
- 46:09Speaker 3: That great word, grace be to you. Isn't that a
- 46:15Speaker 3: wonderful way to conclude it? What a way to say goodbye?
- 46:20Speaker 3: He doesn't say, may you go in fear and trembling,
- 46:23Speaker 3: or may you rest in peace, or.
- 46:26Speaker 2: May the force be with you, or may the wind
- 46:29Speaker 2: always be in your back.
- 46:31Speaker 3: It's not any of that. It's may grace, grace be
- 46:36Speaker 3: with you. He started like that. You remember chapter one,
- 46:40Speaker 3: verse one, Grace to you and peace. Chapter five, verse
- 46:45Speaker 3: twenty eight, Grace.
- 46:47Speaker 2: Be with you.
- 46:48Speaker 3: You say, I've heard of grace all my life. You know,
- 46:53Speaker 3: we've heard it so much we don't hear it anymore.
- 46:57Speaker 3: I like the book that was written. Grace is not
- 46:59Speaker 3: a blue eyed blonde. Grace is a truth that needs
- 47:06Speaker 3: to be uncovered and again discovered. It is it's been lost,
- 47:14Speaker 3: It's been forgotten.
- 47:16Speaker 2: This great truth.
- 47:18Speaker 3: Because of that, I've done some real study in it.
- 47:23Speaker 3: The root term is char car We get the word charisma, charismatic,
- 47:33Speaker 3: Charizomi meant to show favor, Charisma meant gift.
- 47:40Speaker 1: Charis means grace.
- 47:43Speaker 3: The root term indicates things which produce well being, and
- 47:52Speaker 3: all that it represents would include favor, beauty, thanksgiving, delight, kindness, benefit.
- 48:03Speaker 3: It even includes charm and joy. It is always that
- 48:09Speaker 3: which is undeserved.
- 48:11Speaker 2: It's this where it gets good.
- 48:13Speaker 3: It is always without measure. It is never earned, and
- 48:21Speaker 3: it can never be repaid. Theologically, it's favor that is lovingly, lavishly,
- 48:33Speaker 3: endlessly bestowed on people who deserve the opposite. Because Christ
- 48:45Speaker 3: took our judgment at the cross, it is unmerited favor.
- 48:54Speaker 3: When he says, go and grace, it meant something. Go
- 49:02Speaker 3: and live in the light of this truth. You will
- 49:06Speaker 3: not hear it outside these walls, but you will hear
- 49:12Speaker 3: it in this book. You will not get it from
- 49:16Speaker 3: men and women. You will get it from God. He
- 49:22Speaker 3: provides it in abundance. What a way to say goodbye?
- 49:30Speaker 2: Final thought for you?
- 49:33Speaker 3: Aren't you glad you have another book to call a friend.
- 49:40Speaker 3: It's called Thessalonians. It's a little five chapter letter that
- 49:45Speaker 3: some critics say, you know, it's another part of that
- 49:51Speaker 3: mysterious book some people want to follow. Can you imagine
- 49:54Speaker 3: where you'd be without this book? I'll tell you where
- 49:58Speaker 3: you'd be lost lost.
- 50:03Speaker 2: This book's a map. This book is hope. This book
- 50:07Speaker 2: is an anchor.
- 50:09Speaker 3: This book will help you fly when everyone else is
- 50:12Speaker 3: riveted to earth.
- 50:15Speaker 2: This book will keep you.
- 50:16Speaker 3: Stable when everyone else is giving up the ship. This
- 50:19Speaker 3: book will keep you clean when everyone else around just contaminated.
- 50:24Speaker 3: This book will make you laugh and give you joy
- 50:27Speaker 3: when all around you with sadness and depression and discouragement,
- 50:30Speaker 3: aren't you glad you have another friend?
- 50:33Speaker 2: Grace be with you.
- 50:39Speaker 3: Let's a bow together. There ever been a time in
- 50:53Speaker 3: your life when you just gave up the fight, stop
- 50:59Speaker 3: trying to do it a way. Maybe this is the
- 51:04Speaker 3: first time you've ever sat still long enough to hear
- 51:09Speaker 3: about the grace of God. Well, I've just opened a
- 51:15Speaker 3: tiny little part of the light. There are volumes that
- 51:20Speaker 3: could be set about it. You're going to have to
- 51:25Speaker 3: say goodbye someday. I've stood by too many caskets to
- 51:30Speaker 3: know that anything else is the truth. You're going to
- 51:34Speaker 3: somedays say goodbye to this earth and hello to God.
- 51:42Speaker 3: You're ready to do that. You can get ready. You
- 51:50Speaker 3: can be preserved, set apart and blameless by taking Christ.
- 52:00Speaker 3: Grace says you don't have to work hard to do it.
- 52:04Speaker 3: Christ took the payment for your sin, and all you
- 52:08Speaker 3: got to do is believe He died for you. It's
- 52:13Speaker 3: call taking a gift. Would you do that today? If
- 52:21Speaker 3: you've never trusted the Savior, this is your time.
- 52:25Speaker 1: This is your moment, and so our Father. As we
- 52:29Speaker 1: come to the end of this magnificent Letter to the Thessalonians,
- 52:34Speaker 1: it is as though you have written to us a
- 52:36Speaker 1: love letter. You have reproved us, you've exhorted us, you
- 52:41Speaker 1: have encouraged us, and you have often reminded us of
- 52:45Speaker 1: truth to live by as well as grace. To demonstrate.
- 52:50Speaker 1: Remind us, our Father, that accepting others is basic to
- 52:56Speaker 1: the whole subject of grace. Allow us to do that,
- 52:59Speaker 1: Show us how to do that, and to keep from
- 53:03Speaker 1: dictating to others what they should do and how they
- 53:05Speaker 1: should live their lives. Give us a contagion in our faith,
- 53:10Speaker 1: so that our walk draws others like a magnet to
- 53:15Speaker 1: your son. Jesus, Free us, our Father, from trying to
- 53:20Speaker 1: take charge and direct other people's lives and the way
- 53:25Speaker 1: we feel they should go. May we never assume a
- 53:29Speaker 1: position that we're not qualified to fill, And by learning
- 53:33Speaker 1: that lesson and demonstrating it, we will again draw others
- 53:37Speaker 1: to your son. And may we know our Father, your
- 53:42Speaker 1: love for us in greater measure because of our time
- 53:45Speaker 1: spent in the Letter to the Thessalonians, show us often
- 53:51Speaker 1: and remind us often of the importance of living out
- 53:56Speaker 1: these great truths until your son returns yearns. And what
- 54:00Speaker 1: a magnificent reminder we have had in this study of
- 54:04Speaker 1: that fact. Most of us who hear this message today
- 54:09Speaker 1: will never meet each other face to face until we
- 54:12Speaker 1: are caught up together with him and one another in
- 54:15Speaker 1: the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And
- 54:19Speaker 1: when that occurs, Our Father, may we know a joy
- 54:23Speaker 1: that we have never known on this earth. Fulfill us,
- 54:28Speaker 1: Fill us, our Father, with encouragement, as we anticipate that
- 54:31Speaker 1: hour when your son will return. Now, Lord, seal to
- 54:37Speaker 1: our hearts the things we have learned in this study together,
- 54:41Speaker 1: so that we are different people than we were when
- 54:45Speaker 1: we first started the journey together. And as we adapt
- 54:50Speaker 1: our life to your will, be honored, be magnified, be glorified. Father.
- 54:56Speaker 1: We ask it in the name of Jesus Christ Savior,
- 55:00Speaker 1: Our Lord. Amen.
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