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Dirty Rush: Does Joining a Sorority or Fraternity Get You on TV and Make You Famous??? · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush The Truth about Sorority Life with
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  Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice.
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  Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Fessler. All right, you guys, so
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  Speaker 2: we have the bachelor himself, Bob Guinea. I will say
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  Speaker 2: this before we start. I have never had more people
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  Speaker 2: say say hello to your guest for me from me, Yes,
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  Speaker 2: you are well loved, my friend.
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  Speaker 3: That's very sweet. Thank you. I appreciate here, of course.
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  Speaker 2: So first of all, Bob, you went to Michigan State, yes,
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  Speaker 2: and what fraternity were you in?
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  Speaker 1: I was an ATO at Michigan State epsilon.
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  Speaker 2: Eight of chapter Okay, back in the day, back in
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  Speaker 2: the day, well back in the day. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: if you called it pregaming, which is what we're going
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  Speaker 2: to talk about, because I certainly didn't. And now all
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  Speaker 2: my kids talk about is you did' neither. You're younger
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  Speaker 2: than me, but actually gets on my nerves a little now,
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  Speaker 2: But we're still going to talk about it. That whole target.
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  Speaker 2: All right, So tell me a little bit about how
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  Speaker 2: you all quote unquote pre back at Michigan State.
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  Speaker 1: I'm assuming that means pre partied, yes, right, and so
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  Speaker 1: you know that's what I call it's a week probably
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  Speaker 1: called it was pre partying, So yeah, I mean, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it would basically be like before you went to a function,
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  Speaker 1: or before you went to a game, or before you
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  Speaker 1: went to I mean when I was living in the
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  Speaker 1: frat house, it was probably before I went to class.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we would just like saddle up and have
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  Speaker 1: a couple of cocktails, turn on some.
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  Speaker 3: Music, get kind of in the in the zone.
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  Speaker 1: I guess, you know, you'd be basically kind of picking
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  Speaker 1: up on you know, getting yourself in the mood to
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  Speaker 1: party a little.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And so yeah, I just did it yesterday. I
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  Speaker 3: went to Detroit Lions game.
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  Speaker 1: I invited all my friends to a restaurant that was
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  Speaker 1: right nearby, and I had some clients with me and
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  Speaker 1: some friends, and I'm like, hey, we're pre partying over here,
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  Speaker 1: so come join us partying.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I have a hat time saying pregaming too. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know why. I just feel like it's all the
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  Speaker 2: young kids. Well you're a young kid, but so.
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  Speaker 3: I am not. I am not a young kid at all.
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  Speaker 2: How old are you?
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  Speaker 3: Fifty four?
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  Speaker 4: Get that?
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  Speaker 2: Are you kidding me?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: What do you know about pregaming? You're old like me?
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  Speaker 3: I pre party.
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  Speaker 2: That's my said, you pre partied four Damn boy.
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  Speaker 3: I think I'm actually older than you.
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  Speaker 2: Probably I'm fifty seven, so I don't think so Okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you look fantastic. Well so do you all? Right back
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  Speaker 2: to the subject at hand, anybody ever get crazy before?
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  Speaker 2: Do you remember any times where you were pregaming pre
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  Speaker 2: partying and no you made it to the actual party
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  Speaker 2: or you didn't.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I've been that guy.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I think I think you know, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you can get you can get yourself going a little
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  Speaker 1: bit too much at the pre party and by the
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  Speaker 1: time the actual party begins, you're so you know, you've
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  Speaker 1: you pre partied your way into full on post party.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, totally, you didn't make it to the party, right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I probably never missed the party, but I definitely
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  Speaker 1: have had some friends who have, you know, where they
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  Speaker 1: just get all sloppy and you're like, oh, buddy, you
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  Speaker 1: do not want to, you know, put yourself in this
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  Speaker 1: situation right now, you look it out for your friends
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  Speaker 1: when you're pulling them out of the party, right, but.
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  Speaker 2: Especially when you're frat or a sorority, right, Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't wanted to make a fool themselves, especially
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  Speaker 1: because a girl there that they like or whatever, and
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  Speaker 1: the last thing you wanted to do is make a
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  Speaker 1: full of themselves, and you know, missed the opportunity to
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  Speaker 1: make a good impression.
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  Speaker 2: You're a good you're a good man. Tell me what
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  Speaker 2: music were you listening to? But do you remember? Because
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  Speaker 2: I don't.
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  Speaker 3: I don't remember.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, my musical tastes haven't really changed all
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  Speaker 1: that much from then to now.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm sure I had Journey on that. I
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  Speaker 3: always love journey Going and every.
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  Speaker 2: Man after my own heart. Yep, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I Actually I'm raising my kids to be the same way.
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  Speaker 1: I had a six year old a four year old,
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  Speaker 1: and they really were Yeah, yesterday they're like.
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  Speaker 3: Why is it? Don't stop believing playing? I'm like it will?
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  Speaker 2: I love that is so yeah. I mean, because we're
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  Speaker 2: on the same age, then it's music that could get
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  Speaker 2: you like pumped, right. It was absolutely yeah. It wasn't
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  Speaker 2: the ballads necessarily.
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  Speaker 3: It was a.
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  Speaker 1: Fun era, right, So there was a lot of great
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  Speaker 1: stuff back then. I mean, I don't know if you
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  Speaker 1: were like echoing the Bunny Man and that, but I
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  Speaker 1: got introduced to them in college and they had some
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  Speaker 1: great you know, upbeat, and then I'd mix it in
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  Speaker 1: with my classic rock favorites and put together a fun playlist.
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  Speaker 1: I literally make a playlist for everything. Like when I
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  Speaker 1: go golfing, I'll have a golf playlist. I go boating,
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  Speaker 1: I got a boat playlist. Yeah, that's almost more important
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  Speaker 1: to me. I am that guy. It's all about the
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  Speaker 1: mood to me, and it's more important to me than
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  Speaker 1: than the party itself.
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  Speaker 2: Did you ever meet, speaking of the mood, did you
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  Speaker 2: ever meet like a special woman, a special girl at
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  Speaker 2: a pre party?
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  Speaker 4: Uh?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean sure, I'm sure I have.
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  Speaker 2: You can't even remember. There were so many more interested
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  Speaker 2: in your in your playlist. I know, I know, I
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  Speaker 2: get that. Do you miss the chaos and togetherness of
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  Speaker 2: a pregame? I could ask you that question, but you
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  Speaker 2: already told me you're still pregaming yesterday this day.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I just did it yesterday, and so I'm not
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  Speaker 1: missing it today. In fact, I am the opposite of
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  Speaker 1: missing it. I'm regretting it. I get that exhausted, and
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  Speaker 1: I wish that I wouldn't have pregamed. See now, at
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  Speaker 1: my age, the game is the game. The game, yea,
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  Speaker 1: the pregame becomes the game. And then I've also like,
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  Speaker 1: I got to have an espresso martini or five in
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  Speaker 1: there because I need the energy now. Or back in
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  Speaker 1: the day that probably would have put me through the roof.
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  Speaker 1: But now I like to have an espresso martini because
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I can still have a cocktail, but
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  Speaker 1: it gives me a little more energy to give something.
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  Speaker 2: I never drink them, and maybe that's the issue, because
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  Speaker 2: I can't pregame better be at seven pm, because nine
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  Speaker 2: pm I'm headed right into ram I like, I can't.
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  Speaker 3: You should try it.
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  Speaker 2: Espress really good. Yeah, I feel like dessert.
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  Speaker 3: Well I used to. I think they used to be.
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  Speaker 1: Now I feel like they've become a little bit more
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  Speaker 1: of a prime and the pump.
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  Speaker 3: Type of beverage.
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  Speaker 2: Right, what did you.
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  Speaker 3: Say, priming the pump, prime the.
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  Speaker 2: Pump, baby? You are a frat boy. You are still
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  Speaker 2: a frap boy.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I'm sure.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so great. I love it. I love it.
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  Speaker 2: So I've questioned, I wonder if you can remember any
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  Speaker 2: of this. Did your pregames ever turn into full blown
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  Speaker 2: emotional therapy? So it's an interesting question. I don't remember
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  Speaker 2: ever getting deep at a free at a pregame. No,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm you know, it was just all about
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  Speaker 2: what boy is here?
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  Speaker 1: We yeah, my buddies were more about let's let's have
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  Speaker 1: some cocktails, let's have some fun. Yeah, it really wasn't that.
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  Speaker 1: That wasn't the time that, don't get me wrong. Later
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  Speaker 1: in life, I wouldn't say a pre a pre party
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  Speaker 1: would turn into that, but you know, later in life,
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  Speaker 1: it's almost like the post party.
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  Speaker 3: Might turn inteah. Right, we're sitting there, you know.
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  Speaker 1: And and for me, you know, my my father just
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  Speaker 1: passed away not too long.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, literally thank you. I mean it's it's
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  Speaker 3: two years now or three years now.
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  Speaker 1: But my my buddies brought him up last night because
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  Speaker 1: everyone just loved my dad so much, and and that
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  Speaker 1: that was I guess that kind of was a little
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  Speaker 1: bit of an emotional moment at a at a pre party,
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  Speaker 1: but it was a happy emotional moment. It was like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, oh he was the best, wasn't he? Oh man,
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  Speaker 1: we love when we miss him. Let's get back to
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  Speaker 1: our cocktails, you know.
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  Speaker 3: So it was a we.
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  Speaker 1: Paid homage and then we got you know, we got
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  Speaker 1: right back after it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm getting to the age myself where drinking a
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  Speaker 2: lot is always going to turn into weeping probably, yeah, right,
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  Speaker 2: just getting a stoutied and weeping. It's perfect. That should
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  Speaker 2: be a book. All right, listen, thank you for coming on.
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  Speaker 2: You're a dom what a charmer. You and I have
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  Speaker 2: to pre game sometime soon. I would, but no game.
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  Speaker 2: That's all I can do is a pregame. They were
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  Speaker 2: going to bed.
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  Speaker 1: I like it.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you, my friend. Be well, all right,
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  Speaker 2: you guys, guess who we have? We have Mercedes and
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  Speaker 2: Jonathan from the Bachelor. How you guys? Hey, okay, so
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  Speaker 2: you were both in involved a Greek life. So Mercedes,
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  Speaker 2: you went to Iowa State and what sorority were you in?
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  Speaker 2: Delta Zeta Delta Zeta okay. Jonathan you went to Chapman
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  Speaker 2: and you were in Fiji and just for our listeners,
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  Speaker 2: that's five gamma delta right. Okay, Well, listen, we're talking
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  Speaker 2: today about pregaming, and I was talking about Guinea and
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  Speaker 2: I was saying, like, back in the day, we did
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  Speaker 2: not use that term, and now I just if I
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  Speaker 2: hear one more time, it will be one time too many.
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  Speaker 2: But we didn't. We just went out and before we
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  Speaker 2: went to the game. We all just hung out at
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  Speaker 2: the Sami.
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  Speaker 4: House drink before the drinks, I.
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  Speaker 2: Guess, But it wasn't like a thing like you have
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  Speaker 2: to like I feel like, yeah, you have to pregame night.
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  Speaker 5: So sure, it's definitely like okay, so where are we pregaming?
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  Speaker 5: It's like always like it's part of this.
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  Speaker 6: Also postgaming too, there is yes, oh yeah, like the
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  Speaker 6: party is loud and obnoxious, and then you go postgame
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  Speaker 6: where it's like chill and you can have like a nightcap.
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  Speaker 2: Ah. So I would dig that way more than probably
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  Speaker 2: the pregaming or the party. Uh tell me, like what
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  Speaker 2: it was like though in your house Jonathan before I
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  Speaker 2: mean while you were in college, Like what was it?
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  Speaker 6: Uh, well, you always too, and we were talking about
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  Speaker 6: this off camera. Actually is you always pregame the pre
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  Speaker 6: game too, because pregames where you going, you like actually
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  Speaker 6: get to like talk and like mingle with people. So
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  Speaker 6: you want to have a good off a little bit.
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  Speaker 6: So usually when I was getting ready, i'd be in
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  Speaker 6: the shower. I'd have one of the guys just throw
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  Speaker 6: me a drink, and I just have a drink in
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  Speaker 6: the shower.
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  Speaker 4: I'm getting ready for the day.
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  Speaker 2: A little sadly.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, maybe I'll try. You have like a white
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  Speaker 4: claw in the shower.
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  Speaker 2: A white claw in the shower.
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  Speaker 4: You take like a bubble bath, and you have like
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  Speaker 4: a glass of red wine with you. Yeah, but you're
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  Speaker 4: getting ready to shill out.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you got an issue about that another time. That's kidding,
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  Speaker 2: just kiddy. What about you, Mercedes?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel like I always stay.
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  Speaker 5: It was very much a party scene, so we were
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  Speaker 5: always pregaming and the same thing. Like the girls would
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  Speaker 5: get together before the actual pregame because when you go
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  Speaker 5: to the bars or like the party or whatever, it's loud,
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  Speaker 5: it's obnoxious, and everyone's just kind of like dancing, vibing
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  Speaker 5: and not really having conversations. Right, So you would take
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  Speaker 5: the edge off with the pre pregame with the girls
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  Speaker 5: and then go with the like the big group of
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  Speaker 5: guys and girls mix, talk whatever, and then go to
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  Speaker 5: the party.
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  Speaker 2: It definitely makes sense because I know it is like
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  Speaker 2: before maybe you hit the party with both sexes. You
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  Speaker 2: do want to like get your flow for sure.
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  Speaker 6: You also don't have the confidence you do as an
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  Speaker 6: adult back in college. You're like, all right, we're going
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  Speaker 6: to talk to girls, take a couple of drinks. You
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  Speaker 6: still don't talk to girls, But.
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  Speaker 2: Do you guys have either one of you have a
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  Speaker 2: signature pre party drink.
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  Speaker 4: Now that I'm older, Espresso martini for sure, to.
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  Speaker 7: Make sure that's just what you just said, that I
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  Speaker 7: drink mine with tequila.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, spresso martini with tequila.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, game changer, so good. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: It's okay for all you little ones out there, get
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  Speaker 2: your get your tequila in your espresso martini. What about music, guys,
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  Speaker 2: what any favorites things that you're listening to, like in
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  Speaker 2: college or pregaming, Like, was there just stuff that got
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  Speaker 2: you pumped up?
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  Speaker 5: Mm?
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  Speaker 2: You remember anything?
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  Speaker 7: I'm trying to think of, Like it's probably always.
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  Speaker 6: Rap, honestly, it was either that or like you have
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  Speaker 6: friends that are like into the oldies and they think
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  Speaker 6: it's like really sick, and then you kind of get
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  Speaker 6: on board of that too, Like they'll play like Billy
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  Speaker 6: Joel and everybody's singing along in that's also kind of
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  Speaker 6: a vibe too.
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  Speaker 2: So that's my vibe actually.
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  Speaker 4: Really really old.
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  Speaker 2: It's the truth about country. And this is now I'm
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  Speaker 2: off the topic of pregaming, but you guys, because I
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  Speaker 2: know like now, I feel like a lot of colleges
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  Speaker 2: the kids are listening to country music.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I love countries country.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, you guys.
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  Speaker 8: Ever met before?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Like twice?
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  Speaker 2: I like it. What were the nights to go out
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  Speaker 2: at your schools oy Like.
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  Speaker 4: Wednesday through Saturday.
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  Speaker 6: W Wednesdays went to the bars on Thursday, Friday, Saturday
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  Speaker 6: our house parties and then Sunday if you're watching the game,
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  Speaker 6: you can have day drinks.
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  Speaker 4: But then you kind of just chill out.
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  Speaker 3: Got it?
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  Speaker 4: Got it?
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  Speaker 2: What about shots? You guys we fans of shots or
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  Speaker 2: because I know for me that never ended?
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  Speaker 4: Well, yeah, shots yourself? Like shots?
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  Speaker 6: It was like you take poles, Yes, you just take
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  Speaker 6: the bottle and you just take a poll.
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  Speaker 2: From So everything has to have a new name.
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  Speaker 5: So what we did going out, we would take water
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  Speaker 5: bottles like plastic water bottles and fill it up with
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  Speaker 5: vodka and we would take that into the party and
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  Speaker 5: just yeah, just take poles.
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  Speaker 2: Out of it. I mean crazy sexual. So now you're
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  Speaker 2: taking a pole that's.
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  Speaker 5: The world into literally And also if I did that,
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  Speaker 5: now I look back on that time of my life,
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, how the hell did I survive? Like I
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  Speaker 5: if I did that now, I would be like not okay,
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  Speaker 5: the next day I would be on my deathbed.
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  Speaker 6: I will say most subtle flex ever ill yet have
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  Speaker 6: a hangover.
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  Speaker 2: Ever, you've never had a hangover in the shower. Still,
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  Speaker 2: Maybe that's the key.
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  Speaker 7: Maybe it's the key. The shower is the key.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what's wrong over. I don't know how
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  Speaker 4: it's even possible.
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  Speaker 2: Amazing, that's something to be proud of me. That is.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, do you guys, I don't really drink that much?
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  Speaker 2: All right? Yeah, so you guys are starting with the
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  Speaker 2: white claw. But do you ever like you ever hear
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  Speaker 2: liquor before in the clear? So do you ever follow
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  Speaker 2: those rules?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 5: I'm like such like I feel like I start with
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  Speaker 5: like espresso martinis now, and then like I might have
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  Speaker 5: like a glass of wine, and then we'll go into
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  Speaker 5: like liquor and then maybe a beard a bend, which is.
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  Speaker 4: Like so crazy.
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  Speaker 5: That's that's like a big night out. Okay, that's like
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  Speaker 5: I'm like.
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  Speaker 7: Out from like six to do you steal pregame? Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that you say, Okay, before we go to jingle ball,
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  Speaker 2: we have the pregame probably yeah for.
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  Speaker 6: Suwe like I don't go out that much anymore. But
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  Speaker 6: if I'm gonna actually go out for like a night
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  Speaker 6: and I know I'm gonna have like a good night, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Because is it also just that you want to get
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  Speaker 2: like the espresso win Is it kind of like just
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  Speaker 2: or just.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: If I'm having like a full night, I'll probably just
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  Speaker 6: start with like some Seltzers and then I'll have an
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  Speaker 6: espresso Martina or something to get the vibes up and
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  Speaker 6: then all right.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I feel like my pregame now, like sometimes
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  Speaker 5: the girls will get together, but sometimes we're like also
• 13:51
  Speaker 5: so last minute. So maybe it's just like having a
• 13:53
  Speaker 5: glass of wine while I'm getting ready. Okay, you know,
• 13:55
  Speaker 5: I feel like that's my prera. Now you guys meet
• 13:57
  Speaker 5: me at what room?
• 13:58
  Speaker 2: What's your room? No, I'll meet you hotel before jingle ball,
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: I'm going to get the espresso Martella. I'm in the lobby.
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: Thank you guys for coming on. Of course I'm seeing
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: either one of you hooked up.
• 14:12
  Speaker 4: What do you mean?
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: See, I don't even I can't talk freaking no.
• 14:15
  Speaker 4: If you're a boyfriend girl.
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: Friends, I have a day tonight, I'm not I'm not
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: into it.
• 14:20
  Speaker 7: A jingle.
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: No, I don't approve. Excuse me. Thank you for coming
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: in you guys, of course enjoy all right, guys. So
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: now I'm joined by yet another Beauty High Charity lass in.
• 14:48
  Speaker 8: Hello.
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: Hi, So you went to Auburn What.
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: Were you in?
• 14:53
  Speaker 8: I was a Sigma Kappa?
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: Very nice? And did they pregame back at at Auburn
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: University when you were saying MC kappa?
• 15:01
  Speaker 8: Oh, I fear we got down?
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: He did?
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: I want to hear. I want to hear what did
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: that look like for you guys back in the day.
• 15:08
  Speaker 9: Honestly, I'm like, I'm so grateful because I'm like, I
• 15:11
  Speaker 9: feel like I went to college during like the prime
• 15:13
  Speaker 9: years where like pregaming and like parties before like going
• 15:16
  Speaker 9: out to bars were like super huge, right, and so
• 15:19
  Speaker 9: everything that we did like always required like a pre game.
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: No, it's funny, yeah, because I was talking earlier to
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: you know, Bob Guinea also from that so he and I.
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: He's a little bit older, not as old as me.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: But this is like a new term for us pregaming,
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: and now it's like all I ever hear. Yeah, no, one,
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: we sometimes had a few drinks before the party, but
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: now it's official, like you have to have a pregame, right.
• 15:43
  Speaker 9: It's always like a little pre party before the function
• 15:46
  Speaker 9: even really begins. And that's why it's very like the
• 15:49
  Speaker 9: whole word pacing yourself that that.
• 15:51
  Speaker 8: Came from pregames.
• 15:52
  Speaker 9: Really like you don't yeah, like you don't really want
• 15:54
  Speaker 9: to get too crazy until you get to the party.
• 15:57
  Speaker 8: So it's like it's all like a system.
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: Wow, So were you good at that pacing yourself?
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 16:02
  Speaker 8: I mean I learned even start starting off.
• 16:07
  Speaker 9: Yeah, as a as a freshman sophomore, you're you're easing
• 16:10
  Speaker 9: yourself into it.
• 16:11
  Speaker 8: But yeah, I got I got the hang of it
• 16:13
  Speaker 8: pretty quick.
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: Well, tell us how do you how do you paste
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: yourself at a pregame?
• 16:17
  Speaker 9: I mean for me, I'm someone who's like very small,
• 16:20
  Speaker 9: and so it's like you really like I I knew
• 16:23
  Speaker 9: the type of drinks that I wanted to have. I
• 16:25
  Speaker 9: it was very like like particular about like not letting
• 16:29
  Speaker 9: other people like obviously fix my drinks.
• 16:31
  Speaker 8: It's just safety measures.
• 16:32
  Speaker 9: But also it's like you just you know, you have
• 16:35
  Speaker 9: to like keep tabs of like okay, how much you
• 16:37
  Speaker 9: know alcohol you might be for taking a long night.
• 16:40
  Speaker 8: It's a long night.
• 16:42
  Speaker 9: So would start off always like you know, you come
• 16:44
  Speaker 9: in with one drink and then usually like a couple
• 16:47
  Speaker 9: I don't want to say a couple of minutes, like
• 16:48
  Speaker 9: usually thirty minutes in, like you should be on your
• 16:51
  Speaker 9: second drink, and then obviously, like there's always shots, so
• 16:54
  Speaker 9: you have to like that's when it really gets tricky
• 16:56
  Speaker 9: because I'm like, at that point, it's like you've got
• 16:58
  Speaker 9: to keep tabs of how many shots you've taken, Charity.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: I feel like you should write this down, like this
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: should be in a handbook somewhere, because so far we
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: talked to quite a few people. Nobody had these instructions
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: for us. I love it. They have a lot of people,
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: a lot of mess.
• 17:13
  Speaker 9: No, exactly right, it really it's it really is a system,
• 17:16
  Speaker 9: I'm telling you. But like you know, you have the
• 17:18
  Speaker 9: nights where some nights you just like you know, you
• 17:20
  Speaker 9: get two carried away, but you learn I'm telling it.
• 17:22
  Speaker 9: At least I learned my lesson the following morning, right,
• 17:25
  Speaker 9: I don't ever want to do this again.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: So, yeah, I heard a lot of we had a
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: lot of our guests say espresso martinis are the answer.
• 17:31
  Speaker 8: Honestly for me.
• 17:33
  Speaker 9: Yeah, because people say, like obviously it's like the espresso
• 17:36
  Speaker 9: that keeps you up. But I I like, I do
• 17:39
  Speaker 9: it when I start to get sleepy, which is probably bad,
• 17:42
  Speaker 9: but I'm like, that's like, that's the only time I
• 17:44
  Speaker 9: drink espresso Martinis.
• 17:45
  Speaker 8: I never I never start off with them.
• 17:47
  Speaker 9: I only do it when I'm like, oh, like I
• 17:49
  Speaker 9: still have maybe like an hour or two left in
• 17:51
  Speaker 9: the night and I need, like I need to perk
• 17:53
  Speaker 9: me up.
• 17:54
  Speaker 8: Yeah, that's what I do it.
• 17:55
  Speaker 9: But I mean they're great. It's a great drink all around.
• 17:58
  Speaker 9: Yeah for me, I'm I'm I'm a little bit opposite
• 18:00
  Speaker 9: on that.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: No, I never did that either. We didn't. We didn't
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: have things like that back in my day. Or like
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: red Bull and vodka? Do you do that? Is that
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: what you drink it with? You drink it with vodka?
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: Red Bull?
• 18:10
  Speaker 8: I hated it. I'll be honest. It's not my I mean,
• 18:13
  Speaker 8: it's not my it's not my cup.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: So well, okay, so tell me if you can, Like
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: when you were pregaming in college, like any particular kind
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: of music you guys were into.
• 18:23
  Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, it was like that was like the
• 18:25
  Speaker 9: prime Like I feel like, I mean, it's crazy because
• 18:28
  Speaker 9: I'm like a lot of the artists that was like
• 18:29
  Speaker 9: really popular then and I feel like has kind of
• 18:32
  Speaker 9: fallen off a little bit. But like Travis Scott, like
• 18:35
  Speaker 9: that was like such the era that everybody like, right,
• 18:38
  Speaker 9: love Travis Scott, Like every time you go to a pregame,
• 18:41
  Speaker 9: like one of his songs are playing. He was just
• 18:43
  Speaker 9: really huge between I mean I was in college from
• 18:46
  Speaker 9: twenty fifteen to twenty eight, twenty nineteen, so like during
• 18:50
  Speaker 9: that time, yeah.
• 18:51
  Speaker 8: Like it was just huge.
• 18:54
  Speaker 9: I wasn't really big as big into like EDM or
• 18:57
  Speaker 9: house music then, but like it was starting to up
• 19:00
  Speaker 9: and it was becoming a little bit popular then too,
• 19:03
  Speaker 9: So that's kind of when I got like my start
• 19:05
  Speaker 9: of listening to that type of genre of music. But honestly,
• 19:08
  Speaker 9: you just want something that's like obviously going to keep correct.
• 19:12
  Speaker 9: Like it was very loud, but like very just like
• 19:14
  Speaker 9: you know, a good beat is all you need.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: Do you feel like the pregames were sometimes more fun
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: than the actual game. I don't mean a football game
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: or about but I'm just saying, like whatever party, yeah.
• 19:25
  Speaker 9: Oh yes, Well I went to Auburn, so and like
• 19:27
  Speaker 9: at the time when I was there, we only had
• 19:30
  Speaker 9: like it's such a big school and a big like
• 19:32
  Speaker 9: college well college campus. But in terms of like the
• 19:35
  Speaker 9: like nightlife and like social life of it, it's like, yes,
• 19:39
  Speaker 9: there are sororities, there were fraternities, but like going out
• 19:42
  Speaker 9: to bars and stuff, we didn't have many options. We
• 19:45
  Speaker 9: had like maybe a total of like five bars like that,
• 19:47
  Speaker 9: and like at some point you.
• 19:49
  Speaker 8: Like eventually rotate through all of them.
• 19:51
  Speaker 9: So it's like, yeah, people just got we had to
• 19:53
  Speaker 9: be creative and like house parties or just like pregames
• 19:56
  Speaker 9: became the thing, right, and usually like after a football
• 19:59
  Speaker 9: game or something, depending on the time.
• 20:01
  Speaker 8: We always like played football.
• 20:02
  Speaker 9: Our like slots were like earlier in the day and
• 20:04
  Speaker 9: that worked out so if you had like a three
• 20:06
  Speaker 9: thirty game, we would then like go back home, and
• 20:09
  Speaker 9: like most people were like okay, like we might go out.
• 20:11
  Speaker 9: But it's like there was always like a little flyer
• 20:13
  Speaker 9: going around of like, oh, we're having like a.
• 20:15
  Speaker 8: Party a pre game. Sometimes sometimes we called it kickbacks.
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: Just like relax and chill beforehand.
• 20:21
  Speaker 9: Right right, it's like a more like chill term for
• 20:23
  Speaker 9: like it's still a party, but it's like we're just
• 20:25
  Speaker 9: gonna be vibing it out and see where the night
• 20:27
  Speaker 9: takes us.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: Ye right right, we're trying to get specific with uh
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: with our guests today just for fun, But like, did
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: you have a signature pregaming drink?
• 20:36
  Speaker 8: I was a big at the time during college, was
• 20:38
  Speaker 8: a big vodka girl.
• 20:40
  Speaker 9: So anything with vodka usually, Like I learned early on
• 20:44
  Speaker 9: too that I just I mean, for me, it works
• 20:47
  Speaker 9: quicker just taking shot. Yeah, so I was less of
• 20:50
  Speaker 9: like a mixing girls, like just give a shot, let's go.
• 20:53
  Speaker 9: And yeah, so I was a big vaca girl until
• 20:55
  Speaker 9: I had just not a great experience and then.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Tell me about it? What was it? Not great experience?
• 21:04
  Speaker 8: It always happens.
• 21:05
  Speaker 9: I mean everyone goes through like their experimental journey of
• 21:08
  Speaker 9: like you know, liquor.
• 21:09
  Speaker 8: In college. For me, it was vodka, and I remember.
• 21:13
  Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, it was I think it was one
• 21:15
  Speaker 9: semi formal I had and I I.
• 21:18
  Speaker 8: Don't know what I was on.
• 21:19
  Speaker 9: I was feeling like really bold and I was like, yeah,
• 21:22
  Speaker 9: I can conquer the world.
• 21:23
  Speaker 8: I can anything.
• 21:24
  Speaker 9: And I had I mean, if I say the number,
• 21:26
  Speaker 9: everyone's gonna be like, yeah, no, you need to like
• 21:27
  Speaker 9: be hospitalized.
• 21:28
  Speaker 8: I say it, but I have no It's crazy.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: I all have that number twelve shots.
• 21:34
  Speaker 9: No, twelve shots before my semi formal, And I was like,
• 21:37
  Speaker 9: I don't even think I like kept count. But that's
• 21:39
  Speaker 9: what like my friends were saying. I ended up going
• 21:41
  Speaker 9: to the semi formal.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: You were still able to make it?
• 21:44
  Speaker 8: Damn girl, No, I know, but I listen.
• 21:47
  Speaker 9: I crashed very early once we got there because we
• 21:49
  Speaker 9: rode on the back of like one of the guys
• 21:52
  Speaker 9: that was driving his like pickup truck that's also not legal.
• 21:56
  Speaker 8: Godless.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: Right after twelve shots, I a little bit want to
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: puke right now, go on exactly.
• 22:02
  Speaker 8: So I think it was the car ride.
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: For sure, for sure, but go on.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 22:09
  Speaker 9: So I got to semi formal and I was like, no,
• 22:13
  Speaker 9: I need to go the bathroom. And like my best
• 22:14
  Speaker 9: friend at the time, she like came with me, and
• 22:17
  Speaker 9: of course, you know, held your hair, Yes, held my hair.
• 22:22
  Speaker 9: I did the solid rusty hook is what we called it.
• 22:25
  Speaker 9: So I just had to, like, I was like, I need,
• 22:26
  Speaker 9: I need to get this out of my system.
• 22:27
  Speaker 7: I'm learning.
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: Wait, I'm learning so many good terms. What's rusty hook?
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: Just puking in a toilet?
• 22:33
  Speaker 8: Yes, but sometimes you have to like kind of help you.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: Jump put your finger down. Yeah, I get the honk part.
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: Why is it rusty?
• 22:43
  Speaker 9: I don't know, because it's like no one wants to
• 22:45
  Speaker 9: do that, you shouldn't.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly right, okay, And did you still have a night?
• 22:52
  Speaker 8: No? I did not. Yeah, I was done.
• 22:55
  Speaker 9: I was like, no, I'm going back home, which really
• 22:57
  Speaker 9: sucked because my date was really sweet.
• 22:58
  Speaker 8: He was like, do you want me to come back
• 22:59
  Speaker 8: with you? And I was like no. I was like no,
• 23:01
  Speaker 8: please have the.
• 23:01
  Speaker 9: Time of your life. I'm going to go lay on
• 23:03
  Speaker 9: my couch. And so my friend she took me back home,
• 23:06
  Speaker 9: and then after semi forma, they all I came and
• 23:09
  Speaker 9: check on me. It was I had great people in
• 23:11
  Speaker 9: my corner, but I just was like after that, I
• 23:12
  Speaker 9: was like, no, I don't know what I was on.
• 23:15
  Speaker 8: I was doing too much. I was feeling too like.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: Listen, you are not alone. I want to say that
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: everybody who we've spoken to has actually, you know, been there,
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: done that, including yours. Truly, thank you very much. So
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: do you still pregame?
• 23:29
  Speaker 8: Definitely? Way less?
• 23:31
  Speaker 9: Yeah, it depends like if I'm with like a good
• 23:34
  Speaker 9: group of friends, like we were just at Zach and
• 23:38
  Speaker 9: Katie's wedding. Two weekends ago in Austin, and we had
• 23:41
  Speaker 9: like a bunch of people with us. So yeah, like,
• 23:44
  Speaker 9: if it's a social setting that requires that, we'll usually
• 23:47
  Speaker 9: keep it very cute and mild. But yeah, a pregame
• 23:49
  Speaker 9: is always nice just to jump start the night.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: But wait a second. Zach and Katie were on with
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: us just a little while ago. They are adorable. Oh yeah,
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: and they said they had only very few people at
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: their wedding. You guys must be very close.
• 24:02
  Speaker 8: Yeah they invited.
• 24:04
  Speaker 9: Yeah, so it was a few girls from our season
• 24:08
  Speaker 9: because we were all in Zach's season, and then Joey
• 24:12
  Speaker 9: and Kelsey were there, and I'm trying to think other
• 24:14
  Speaker 9: couples like Susie was also there.
• 24:16
  Speaker 8: So it was just like a good bland but it
• 24:17
  Speaker 8: wasn't a bunch of bachelor.
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah that's what they were saying. I love that.
• 24:21
  Speaker 8: Yeah, it was really sweet.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm sorry because this is all subject but how
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: close did you get were your runner up? How close
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: did you get to Zach?
• 24:29
  Speaker 9: I was no, I was yeah top four, so made
• 24:31
  Speaker 9: it to hometowns and then I got the boot after home.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: I can't believe you guys all ended up though, loving
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: each other and being friends so great.
• 24:37
  Speaker 8: Oh, we had such a good group of girls. I'm like,
• 24:40
  Speaker 8: I'm I love it. Ever thankful for that because it
• 24:42
  Speaker 8: makes experience that much better.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: Okay, listen, well, I hope you all pre game together soon.
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: Maybe one day, me and you we'll do twelve shots
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: and get in the background pick up I ever get,
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: never get, Honey, believe me that that ship has sailed
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: for me as well. Charity, Thank you, Love