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and Lisa Vanderpump · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, my loves It is La La Kent with Randall
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  Speaker 1: my fi.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, well today we have, first of all, two exciting
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  Speaker 2: things happening.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, pretty epic. I think this will be a milestone podcast.
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  Speaker 1: I do too.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to let you say the second thing. I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to say our guests, which Okay, so we have
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  Speaker 2: a guest on today that has been completely not only
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  Speaker 2: just There's just too much I want to say about her,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm just going to say she is epic, classy
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  Speaker 2: and one of the most badass women in business.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 2: She has just been so successful and such an influence
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  Speaker 2: in your life. She's changed your life in so many ways. True,
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  Speaker 2: and that is the incredible Lisa Vanderpump.
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  Speaker 1: The woman that single handedly made me just I was
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  Speaker 1: Lauring from Utah now I'm motherfucking La La Kent, both
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  Speaker 1: because of Lisa vanderbof So. Yeah, she's pretty bad ass.
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  Speaker 1: She's pretty high up there on the People that I Appreciate.
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  Speaker 2: Lists, So now everybody knows that Lisa's on. So then
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  Speaker 2: so we have set this up.
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  Speaker 3: Now. We had called.
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  Speaker 2: Lisa recently and we said, Lisa, we want you to
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  Speaker 2: come on this podcast. Yeah, we have a surprise for you.
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  Speaker 2: She doesn't know what the surprise is and she has
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  Speaker 2: no clue because I just said, it's just something fun.
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  Speaker 2: It's not that big of a deal.
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  Speaker 3: You come on.
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  Speaker 2: We've been trying to get Lisa on for like two
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  Speaker 2: months in your schedule and code.
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  Speaker 1: I know she's like busy. I don't know what she
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  Speaker 1: does all day, but like she's like a busy person.
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  Speaker 2: So but we were successful finally because La is like, babe,
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  Speaker 2: stop harassing her to get on this podcast.
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  Speaker 1: The thing is that only ussuring people I liked if
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  Speaker 1: I Randall is the best at it. Randall is like
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  Speaker 1: he which is why he is who he is, because
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  Speaker 1: he just pushes people until they're like fine, where me
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  Speaker 1: I ask one time and if you don't respond, it's
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  Speaker 1: like okay, we're good. Or if you're like I can't
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  Speaker 1: do it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, all right, are you retreat?
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  Speaker 1: I retreat? I like take it a little personally. Where
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  Speaker 1: Randall doesn't give up.
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  Speaker 2: No, I have no shame in my game. When it
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  Speaker 2: comes to ask getting guests on this show. It's like
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  Speaker 2: producing a movie. You just go for it and you
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  Speaker 2: just keep going for it until they Basically.
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  Speaker 1: That's how he got me. I told him no a
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  Speaker 1: hundred times and he was just persistent. And now I'm
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  Speaker 1: marrying the guy.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, thanks for thatot, I know, I know, Honny.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So that's the first surprise, and and and that is
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  Speaker 2: very special to have Lisa on the show.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't want to take care away for that.
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  Speaker 2: But now, Laala, you're gonna tell everybody what the surprise
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  Speaker 2: that you're going to surprise Lisa with.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I'm like shaking right now because I can't believe
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  Speaker 1: that it's a real life thing. I'm really emotional.
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  Speaker 3: I know it's okay.
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  Speaker 1: Let me gather myself.
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  Speaker 2: By the way, so everybody knows that they're not watching
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  Speaker 2: this podcast or any snippets of it.
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  Speaker 3: Laala has tears flowing.
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  Speaker 1: Over her eyes. I just like I cry about everything,
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  Speaker 1: but today it's very much happy tears. By the way.
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  Speaker 1: Today is my thirtieth birthday and I can't think of
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  Speaker 1: any other way to celebrate. Celebrate then with you guys
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  Speaker 1: coming through your headphones with speakers. And for my thirtieth birthday,
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  Speaker 1: I had the best gift given to me. My body
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  Speaker 1: also helped out too. I am pregnant.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Lala can't a soon to be mother.
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  Speaker 1: I am, and I'm like so excited. I feel very
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  Speaker 1: maternal and motherly. And it's just I feel it's very
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  Speaker 1: interesting and I'm gonna try not to ball my eyes out.
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  Speaker 1: I cry about everything, by the way, Tim, Like I
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  Speaker 1: look in the refrigerator and it could be empty or full,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like happy or sad about it.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I just it's like life is really hitting me in
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  Speaker 1: the face, all right. It's like, holy shit, I'm turning thirty.
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  Speaker 1: There's something living inside of me growing, which is in itself,
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  Speaker 1: Like what is this alien thing happening? And my life
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  Speaker 1: is changing very quickly and I can't. I don't love change,
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  Speaker 1: even though it's all great things. It's like, well, wait
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  Speaker 1: a minute, I'm a kid still. How am I having
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  Speaker 1: a kid?
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  Speaker 3: A kid?
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  Speaker 1: Having a kid?
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  Speaker 3: You never get rested to it.
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  Speaker 5: By the way, and first of all, congratulations, yes's amazing.
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  Speaker 2: By the way, Wow, Tim, you're so good at listening
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  Speaker 2: and then responding.
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  Speaker 3: I stuck at it, and I want to.
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  Speaker 2: By the way, I want to tell all the fans,
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  Speaker 2: I have been training myself for the last two weeks
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  Speaker 2: to listen and then respond, so I encourage all of
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  Speaker 2: you to tune in and let me know if I
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  Speaker 2: am listening and then responding, because that is not something
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  Speaker 2: I do in my regular life.
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  Speaker 3: So Tim could carry forward, my friend.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, I will be your listening sense.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I love it.
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  Speaker 5: So now I'm listening again.
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  Speaker 3: I'm waiting for you guys.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I want to say I want to I want
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  Speaker 2: to say something, so Lala, so I'm want to tell
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  Speaker 2: you guys something. So we just you know, recently found out.
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  Speaker 2: Obviously we you know, it was very early and we
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  Speaker 2: weren't sure of, you know, what was going to happen.
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  Speaker 2: And Lala has been keeping me posted daily because I
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  Speaker 2: guess there are charts on the internet where it says
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  Speaker 2: the evolution of your child. Now I didn't really ever
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  Speaker 2: know about these charts that did this. So she called
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  Speaker 2: me up. I think after the first couple days. Then
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  Speaker 2: she said, we have a baby squid in my stomach.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, it looks exactly like a shrimp. The
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  Speaker 1: shrimp is so damn cute.
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  Speaker 2: She called it a shrimp and then it went to
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  Speaker 2: a squid and it's moving forward, and when does can
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  Speaker 2: I ask a question because obviously you know how excited
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  Speaker 2: and I we talk hourly about this. When does it
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  Speaker 2: When do you stop calling it a shrimp, a squid
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  Speaker 2: and fish type names?
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  Speaker 3: When does it go to a well?
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  Speaker 1: I had a doctor's appointment yesterday and the heartbeat, You guys,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to hear that for the rest of
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  Speaker 1: my life. If I could just hear that heartbeat forever,
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  Speaker 1: I'm chilling, you know. I told Randall, I'm like, whenever
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  Speaker 1: you're having a heart day, you just remember the heartbeat
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  Speaker 1: and you will have the best day ever. But now
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  Speaker 1: it's like the size of a gummy bear, the cutest
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  Speaker 1: gummy bear.
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  Speaker 3: And I was saying, it's always food.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, It's like it's it's, you know, a raspberry exactly,
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  Speaker 1: very weird.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't notice that, but now I'm thinking about it.
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  Speaker 2: You're right, it is always food, and it's is it
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  Speaker 2: a gummy bear?
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  Speaker 1: Now it looks like a gummy bear. And maybe it's
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  Speaker 1: because my doctor was like, let's see this little gummy bear,
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  Speaker 1: because you know, little arms are out and about. But
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  Speaker 1: it was so cute because yesterday and it could have
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  Speaker 1: been in my mind, but we'll just pretend it was
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  Speaker 1: really happening. It was like torquing for its mama it
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  Speaker 1: was like showing out on the sonogram yesterday. It was so.
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  Speaker 3: Cute, it was it was I that's what it's.
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  Speaker 1: Called, right, a sonogram?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, God, I'm turning into such a mom.
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  Speaker 3: Will you spell sonogram for us?
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  Speaker 1: Don't do that, don't do that, don't do that.
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  Speaker 3: No, I'm kidding. We're not going to do the spelling
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  Speaker 3: be today. That's next week.
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  Speaker 2: I want to I want to ask you something because
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  Speaker 2: i'd love to hear, because I haven't asked you this yet.
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  Speaker 2: What would you say to your newborn almost? I mean, uh,
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  Speaker 2: that's the wrong thing, because what would you say to
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  Speaker 2: yours soon to be new child today? What advice would
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  Speaker 2: you give our child today? If you could talk to me?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that is hard. I think it would depend on
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  Speaker 1: if it was a boy or a girl. I think
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  Speaker 1: I'd be much more delicate if I knew it was
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  Speaker 1: going to be a chick. But honestly, I think the
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  Speaker 1: one thing would be like, you're safe with me. This
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  Speaker 1: world is going to really try to kick your eye,
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  Speaker 1: but I got you, Bill, I'm going to kick it
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  Speaker 1: to ask for you. You know. I love that as long
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  Speaker 1: as my kid always knows that it's safe. Yes, I'm
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  Speaker 1: chilling so that I.
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  Speaker 3: Have a question.
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  Speaker 5: Then are you going to find out whether it's a
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  Speaker 5: boy or girl?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'll decorate.
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  Speaker 3: What are you talking about?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how these people are like, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to find out until it's born. I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: would lose my mind.
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  Speaker 5: We did it twice.
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  Speaker 1: I can't why.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: Sarah was so freaked out by the prospect of giving
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  Speaker 5: birth any woman should be. I identify with that that
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  Speaker 5: she thought that having that surprise at the end of
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  Speaker 5: that process would be a good motivator.
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  Speaker 3: For We're gonna, okay, we're going to say no, I
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  Speaker 3: respect her.
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  Speaker 1: I'm definitely having to find out I have to. I
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  Speaker 1: respect women.
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  Speaker 3: But I respect This is your show, right, this is.
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  Speaker 1: The lawless it's my body. Don't tell me what to
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  Speaker 1: do with it. I get it.
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  Speaker 2: We are actually, we actually already planned that in a
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  Speaker 2: few weeks, we're gonna.
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  Speaker 1: No, don't tell them how we're gonna douse. I'm want
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  Speaker 1: to post that on my Instagram.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna leave those moments for you. You're the boss.
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  Speaker 2: But we are going to know in a couple of weeks,
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  Speaker 2: and we've already planned how to do the gender reveal.
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  Speaker 3: You're gonna be there, so obviously gonna be really fun.
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  Speaker 3: I will be honored.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it'll be the best day ever, well for me,
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  Speaker 1: and then you guys all better pretend it's the best
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  Speaker 1: day of your life too.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Now, let's talk about the day that you did
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  Speaker 2: find out about when you were pregnant and how you
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  Speaker 2: surprised me and the kids.
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  Speaker 3: Tell that story.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So we had bought a pregnancy test, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: weird about a pregnancy test because I've bought them before
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  Speaker 1: and then you do kind of get bummed out when
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  Speaker 1: you pee on it and it's like not pregnant. You're like,
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  Speaker 1: oh shit. So, like it was just sitting there, Randall,
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  Speaker 1: my mom in London went off to do their thing
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  Speaker 1: at camp where yes, Camp Highlander, you got to get
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  Speaker 1: the uh. They went to do archery. Riley, my little
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  Speaker 1: soul sister, was like, I'm trying to take a bath,
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  Speaker 1: the six year old she's in the bath doing her
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  Speaker 1: thing and I'm bored. So I'm like, I'm gonna take
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  Speaker 1: that test. And Riley says, you know, is it a
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  Speaker 1: test for your health? Because if it's a test for
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  Speaker 1: your health, then you got to take it. So I
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  Speaker 1: was like, all right, we'll take it right now. So
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  Speaker 1: I do my thing and I'm sitting there waiting. She's
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  Speaker 1: in the tub. It's like just a bathroom, you know,
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  Speaker 1: And it pops up pregnant, okay. And I look up
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  Speaker 1: at Riley and I was like, do you know what
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  Speaker 1: this means? She was what what does it say? I
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  Speaker 1: was like, this means Laala is gonna have a baby.
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  Speaker 1: She stands up screams, You're.
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  Speaker 4: Gonna have a baby.
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  Speaker 1: We gotta tell my dad right now.
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  Speaker 3: And let's rewind.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm at archery at Camp Highlander, where there's no reception,
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  Speaker 2: and I want to preface somebody. La left a little
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  Speaker 2: special little trink it out the night before. She said
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  Speaker 2: should I take the test? And I said absolutely not.
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  Speaker 2: We are having the greatest trip with the girls, with
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  Speaker 2: your mom with me. We're gonna wait till we get
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  Speaker 2: home because if you're not pregnant, it's going to be
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  Speaker 2: a spiral depression. And she looked at me and said, baby,
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  Speaker 2: you're right, and I was like great. So I go
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  Speaker 2: off to battle. I go off to the archery range
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  Speaker 2: with mom, who thinks she's a pro archer. With my
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  Speaker 2: with London, who thinks she's a pro archer, and we
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  Speaker 2: go off a new archery no reception. Meanwhile, we were
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  Speaker 2: there from archery, went down.
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  Speaker 1: A lake four hours four four hours, Riley and I
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  Speaker 1: just sat on the front porch waiting, waiting, and I
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  Speaker 1: kept saying like, let's go inside and like let's try
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  Speaker 1: to watch TV. And she was like, no, we have
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  Speaker 1: to wait right here because when they come in, we
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  Speaker 1: got to tell them.
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  Speaker 2: So no, wait, So I'm coming. So Lisa is hanging
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  Speaker 2: out with London at the lake. I go, Lisa, I'm done.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to go back to the cabin. I'll meet
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  Speaker 2: you when you guys are done. So I jog off
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  Speaker 2: to the cabin. Four hours later. Meanwhile, not thinking anything
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  Speaker 2: would be of any urgent news because we had an
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  Speaker 2: agreement that you wanted to take the test.
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  Speaker 3: I walk in. They're both standing there.
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  Speaker 2: They got this weird little game there, like they play
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  Speaker 2: games and tricks on me.
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  Speaker 1: So we're in North Carolina. I'm like, how, by the way,
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  Speaker 1: I am no Susie homemaker, all right, I'm looking up ideas.
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  Speaker 1: His mom is like, you could send him on a
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  Speaker 1: scavenger hunt.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, my mother notes, by the way, my mother,
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  Speaker 3: that's another thing. My mother already knew. I walk in
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  Speaker 3: the door. I want to just tell it from my pursuit.
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  Speaker 3: I walked in the door, and you hand me a box.
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  Speaker 1: A popcorn box.
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  Speaker 2: A popcorn box, and they're both got these grins on
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  Speaker 2: their face. By the way, truth be told. I had
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  Speaker 2: not a single clue because we had an agreement. So
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  Speaker 2: I look at this popcorn box and they go open it,
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  Speaker 2: open it. They're both like, like so giddy, and I'm
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  Speaker 2: like whatever, So I opened the popcorn box.
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  Speaker 3: I think they're gonna like something.
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  Speaker 2: Snake's gonna jump out and it's the pregnancy test. And
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  Speaker 2: I was just like, yo, that's cool.
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  Speaker 1: No, he was not. He solved his eyes out ball.
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  Speaker 3: I was emotional.
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  Speaker 1: I got sawm all right, I'll toast the video of
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  Speaker 1: you crying later.
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  Speaker 3: If you post that fucking video. Model.
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 1: Really, he's beside himself hugging me, being like is it
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  Speaker 1: really happy? For a second, I was like, are you
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  Speaker 1: upset about it? Or are these happy tears?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 2: By the way, I was very emotion I don't even
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  Speaker 2: remember because I was. It was so shocking because it's
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  Speaker 2: not like we took it together and I was ready
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  Speaker 2: for it. I just opened a popcorn box thinking they
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  Speaker 2: were tricking me, and I was so happy, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I was happy, and and then it was like and
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  Speaker 2: then your mom came. About thirty minutes later, we shod her.
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  Speaker 2: She cried, everybody cried. It was a big celebration, and
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  Speaker 2: from that moment on, I was like, this is for me.
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  Speaker 3: I'll tell you why. It was even more special.
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  Speaker 2: Camp Highlander, the camp that I went to as a child,
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  Speaker 2: and then my kids go.
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  Speaker 1: To who We did an entire episode about you guys.
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  Speaker 1: If you go back and listen, we literally have a
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  Speaker 1: full episode of Give Them All with Randall talking about
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  Speaker 1: how epic Camp Hunter.
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  Speaker 3: But I want to take it.
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  Speaker 1: So to say he loves it and it's his happy
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  Speaker 1: place is a little bit of an understatement, but.
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  Speaker 3: You know what's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: I did to take the test there originally because I
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  Speaker 2: wanted it to be positive at Camp, because I thought
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  Speaker 2: how magical this, this mountain gave me so much love
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  Speaker 2: and so much security in my life. And I was like,
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  Speaker 2: you know what, but if it's negative, it'll always remember
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  Speaker 2: it being negative. So I was like, fuck that, we're
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  Speaker 2: not ruining this Mountain and I come back and it
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  Speaker 2: was positive. And now that camp is even like our
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  Speaker 2: baby will go to this camp when it's six years old.
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  Speaker 1: I can't wait anyway, Like the child's not even born
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  Speaker 1: and you're you're talking to me about sending it away
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  Speaker 1: for two weeks. I'm like, not happening. I think that's cute.
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  Speaker 3: I signed him up already, He's in a six week session.
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  Speaker 1: I love it all I know.
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  Speaker 2: Let me say this baby, that day, that day, no bullshit,
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  Speaker 2: That day was so beautiful and so magical, and I
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  Speaker 2: just want to say that the way you surprised me
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  Speaker 2: was so perfect with Riley.
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  Speaker 3: It was it was flawless.
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  Speaker 1: Oh are you going to cry a little bit? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I won't put you on the spot.
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  Speaker 2: And it was just beautiful. It was everything it was
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  Speaker 2: supposed to be. And God was definitely shining down that day,
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  Speaker 2: and it was it was what it was supposed to make.
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  Speaker 1: It really was. And I think like I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: take it on my own because if it would have
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: been negative, like I just would have told Randall, like,
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: by the way, it's negative, like we have to try again,
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: you know, and figure out the ovulation dates or whatever.
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: Well you would have done it. You would have up
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: again at three in the morning.
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: At four forty eight am on September sixteenth, I'd say,
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: let's go attention, So it would have been you know,
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: but yes, it would.
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: Have been as But just like the fact that I
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: got to share that moment with Riley was like the
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: best day ever. It was the cutest, sweetest thing. She
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: was beyond excited and I would like, go inside just
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: because you're bored, and I would walk out and see
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: her and she was sitting on the chair, just like
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: waiting for you to come home. She would not even
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: go upstairs to get dressed. She sat for four hours
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: hours in a bathtub.
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: I didn't even know about. I didn't even know this. Yes,
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: and I'm going to tell you something.
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: I we were out for four hours archery lake all that,
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: So I'm just thinking, like four hours waiting.
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: I mean, I couldn't have done what you did.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: Like if I was getting a pregnancy test, I would
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: be sprinting to you like I went done it, but
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: but no, you that takes a lot of control. So
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: it was but it was beautiful because it was it
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: was us, and it was that moment.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: And I'll always remember it forever.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: I love you so much.
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: Well, I am equally excited that that we get to
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: share this surprise and you're going to obviously share it
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: with Lisa, somebody that had such a big effect.
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: On your life.
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: And I think that it just brings life full circle.
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: I always say that in business and life, we're always
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: coming full circle in some aspect. And I feel like today,
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: you know, you were a host at sir Yeah, and
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: now you're having a baby and Lisa, who gave you
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: just an incredible opportunity, you know, in your career to
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: jump started.
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: She's someone who was twenty three years old, a little
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: bit of a loose cannon, really living her best life,
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: to someone who came into her own and now is
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: like having her own baby. It's pretty intense and crazy.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: I am very excited for us, but I'm also very
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: excited for you and Lisa to have this moment and
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: without Ado, we're going to take a quick break and
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: then you are going to bring us back with the
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: great Lisa vander Plump.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: Love it. We are back with my queen Bee, Miss
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: Lisa vander Pump.
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: So good to see you.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: We miss you.
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: I miss you too. I mean, at first it was
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: that she like a bit of a break from everybody
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: who holds crazy. But now I really miss your naughtiness.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: Yes, I'm so happy that you say that, because I
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: kind of miss my naughtiness too. I look in the
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: mirror and I'm like, what's happened to you? You're so
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: normal now.
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: So you started to go on the normal trajectory in
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: the last year or so. Okay, So.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, by the way, Lisa, I agree with that. Twelve months,
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: she's been on that trajectory no more.
• 18:11
  Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, that's true. Well I I kind of knew
• 18:14
  Speaker 4: her before you did. Really, so I've got all the juice.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: Okay, I live in my best life.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: I didn't give my damn your.
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: Best life is with me.
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: Well, I always had a very soft spot in my
• 18:32
  Speaker 4: heart for La La, and even once she kind of
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: left for a little bit, I kind of chased her
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: back in. You know, I always knew you were capable
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: of great things.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: I Lisa, I just love and adore you for saying that.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: And you know it's funny, before you came on you
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: really did you know? You're the reason why I am
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: not learn from Utah anymore, and that I'm freaking lalac
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: kent because you gave me an opportunity that changed my
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: entire life. So I want you to know that I'm
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: extremely grateful for you, and I always have so much
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: love in my heart for you.
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: You know what, I really appreciate you saying that, because
• 19:07
  Speaker 4: I do feel I've given a lot of youngsters, you know,
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: such a good platform, and sometimes they don't always appreciate it.
• 19:14
  Speaker 4: But I'll tell you what, La, La, you would be
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: going places with or without me.
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: Ah, No, you would.
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: You're that kind of girl. You know, you're bright, you're beautiful,
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: and it would be rude if you didn't go somewhere.
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: Because you know you're who you are. You've got to
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: make most of it right.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: I agree, I love you.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: I want to say something, Lisa, you know you would
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: become You and Ken obviously very good friends of ours.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: You've been with all the stuff about me going on
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: the show and not going on the show, you were
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: always a friend of me. You always made me feel
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: comfortable and made me feel safe, and finally got to
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: a place where you said to me, it's time you
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: need to do this and it will be okay.
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: And you did well because you know you were like
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: a pigment of La LA's imagination. We can only talk
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: about somebody for so long and then they have to
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: make an appear rance. And the more important you became
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: in her life, the more important it became to the show.
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: So then I felt that she was taking heat because
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: you weren't part of it. Because it's like, people are
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: never interested in what you've got to say. They're interested
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: in what you've got to hide. They always want the secret,
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. So I think it was
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: good that you actually finally came out of the reality closet.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, right, Randa had to learn that the hard way,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: where like I would tell him, I'm like, because no
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: one knows, like if you're made up or not. People
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: are really dying to know who you are. Now they
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: know who he is, and it's.
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: Like, don't care. Sounds it's great.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: You know, his Instagram following is slowly creating.
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: Embraced you though, people embraced.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: You, They really did, Yeah they did.
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: And also you.
• 20:45
  Speaker 6: Were getting a bad rap from James when he was
• 20:48
  Speaker 6: in his psycho face and he was kind of saying
• 20:51
  Speaker 6: it was a difficult, you know, at that time, kind
• 20:54
  Speaker 6: of playground to kind of jump into.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: It was.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: It was a different time, and I think when I
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: came in, every body was kind of leveling off and people.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: Really embraced me. And you were right.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: Had I maybe gone on a few years before, maybe
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: it would have been easier. But at the end of
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: the day, I just my whole life was behind the
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: scenes and it was just what I knew.
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: Well, also, your life is more complicated then, and everything
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: probably needed to settle down before you could. Yeah.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Would you say your life is less complicated now.
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: Well it could only get more complicated.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: Yes, So I like to make things very difficult, dramatic.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: I crave like a dramatic moment because you know, I
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: grew up in the arts.
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: Hey, where where's your nails?
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: I don't have them?
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, you're gonna be so pragged mind. Look
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: wow tu, I'm grown and oh my seen the manicured months.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: Wait wait, you did that on your own.
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: I did it all on my own.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: It's insane to me. Lisa vander Pump is wealthy af
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: and she does all this shit by herself. It's the
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: craziest thing I've ever seen. She's like in her restaurants
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: with the flowers.
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: I'm like she used to be before COVID. I'll tell
• 22:06
  Speaker 4: you what, five months of paying rent and insurance and
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: this and having no business is taxing, stretching. You know,
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: it's a bit of a nightmare. But we'll get back
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: on track soon.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: I just want to say something, and I'm leading up
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: to so I had called you and I had said
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: to you that we just have a little surprise, not
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: a big deal, but we wanted to surprise you on
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: the pody.
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: You always have a surprise. Where are we going?
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: We're going on a trip. You've want to trip to Bermuda.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: No, we could do that too, But I just want
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: to say that, you know, obviously when we started the podcast,
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: and you'll hear, I was telling Laala that you know,
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: you've changed her life. I mean, single handedly giving her
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: the opportunity to be on your show, be in your restaurant,
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: all that stuff has changed her life forever. And I
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: feel like, you know, something beautiful happened to us, and
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: Laala wanted to share it with you first before anybody else.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: So I leave the floor to Lala again.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: So, after four and a half years that we've been together,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: of a lot of ups and downs, Lisa vander Pump,
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: I am having a baby. Oh my goodness, a little
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: baby emmy.
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, gosh, how exciting for you guys? A pink one
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: or a blue one? Do we know?
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: We do not know yet. Two weeks.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: We'll know that two weeks.
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: Want how many weeks saw you?
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: We're new, we're fresh. We're just approaching ten weeks.
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: Oh, you know what? It makes me want to cry,
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: But I don't want to cry because my eye.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: Oh I have been I sob about everything, Lisa, And
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: I'm like, there used to be reasons why I would cry.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Now I just break down for no reason.
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: Oh, how so, how many weeks saw you? Exactly?
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: Now?
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I'm like a couple of days, shy? I believe of
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: ten weeks?
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: Who are you feeling sick?
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: I feel nauseous. I only crave corn bread and diet
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: coke and watermelon. So it's okay.
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: Drinking diet coat for a start.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Okay, just.
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: A little bit of that, but not too much.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: She threw up a bunch of times this last week.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: It's been the worst I've seen she's been sick, and it's.
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: You know, I can relate to that. I know what
• 24:23
  Speaker 4: that's like. That was a nightmare. I spent the first
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: three months of my head down the toilet with Pandora.
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: I know what that's like. But you look fabulous.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: Well, thank you. I mean, my hair is getting thicker,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: which is great. My nails grow like weeds because the prenatles.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: So I was just really excited because I feel like
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: my life is changing and I feel like you're just
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: a huge part of my life and been in my life.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: So have a little child, I feel, And now I'm
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: giving birth to a baby in like a few months.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: That is crazy.
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: Well, you know what, I'm really happy for you, and
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: I think that this is perfect because I felt happy
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: the fact that the wedding was delayed and you know that.
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: So yeah, this is great. So you know what. I
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: remember the last time I spoke to you, and you
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: were in some awful, ugly pajamas like and I said,
• 25:12
  Speaker 4: oh my god, I said, he's clearly not going to
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: sleep with you. If you.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: Care, then I know. Can I tell you I wear
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: less clothing when I go out in public than I
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: do when I go to bed, which is weird. I
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: should be like dressing sexy for bed, but I'm like
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: said cream and flannels.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: Lisa, feel free to give her some advice.
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: It's probably the only girl that wears around the West
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: of Bed and not out to a barbecue.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah that's true. Yeah I do. I wear little to
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: no clothing out in public to show everyone else that
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: what they're not getting. But it's all, it's all pretend
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: randomly again is either what we clearly has a joke
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: one time, I feel like we have a really healthy
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: sex life.
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: We do. And look, you.
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: Must have rough keep feeling that wrangle if you only
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: did it one.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean the fact that we only tried for
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: one month.
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: One month, it was basically one month. Really she went
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: off the I U D.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: And then she had this little clock timer and she's like,
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: it's three o'clock on the eleventh, let's go right now.
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: And that you couldn't perform like that. You're that kind
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: of mass.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: I'm a rock star with a good enough blow job.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Cool stuff.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: We're talking about a newborn.
• 26:29
  Speaker 4: You were keeping it clean, remember your mother.
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: Lala, We are talking about our new boy.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: I know I have a few months to like whip
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: myself into shape and become a classy.
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: Moment they say the baby can hear your voice in
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: there right now?
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh fabulous. I heard that. It was only the
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: tone of the voice, not what you're saying.
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: Well, I probably don't think your baby knows what a
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: blowjob is, but I think we need to start the
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: way we mean to go on. And apparently when you're
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: pregn all this, you know, calm and like talking to
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: your baby. It's all about that, none of the mass
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: hysterics or hysteria.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: Lisa, I have a question, can you give us, because
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: obviously you've raised children successfully, what advice do you give La?
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: La soon to me, like, what is she what should
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: she know? What are some tips that? Look?
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: You know, oh wow, well this is a much bigger conversation,
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: but I yeah, no, but it really is. But I
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: you know what, when I was pregnant with Pandora, I
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: really wasn't that familiar with babies that babysat as a teenager.
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: But I it's not like I had any younger brother's sister.
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: My brother was sixteen months older than me, you know,
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: And I thought what am I going to do with
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: a baby? I really thought, what am I going to
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: do with this baby? And I didn't even really want
• 27:50
  Speaker 4: a baby. I want you to piece it ken, you know,
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: it was just that I was so crazy in love.
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: So I had this baby, and I remember thinking, what
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: am I going to do this baby? Within twenty four hours,
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: I was like, what am I going to do without
• 28:02
  Speaker 4: this baby? That was the bonding. I really felt like
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: that your whole life changes so much and everything's put
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: in perspective. But you know, like say, every moment, I
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: think video as much. You can take as many pictures
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: because you think you're gonna remember every moment, and you
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: don't because it all goes by, and it's also overwhelming.
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: But you know, I don't think you should perpetuate cycles
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: at all. You know how you often talk about when
• 28:28
  Speaker 4: I was younger, this happened to me, and you know,
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: for me, I wasn't in a tactile relationship with my parents.
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: They were very English. They didn't kiss me, bite me,
• 28:37
  Speaker 4: color me that much. So I wanted the opposite to
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: my kids. I got to bed with them every night.
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: I literally there was not one part of their body,
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: not one part of their body that was untouched by me,
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: even to the appointment decency amazing, Candora. I'd make a
• 28:52
  Speaker 4: bend over and I'd bite the back of the knees.
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: I was like a very very physical mother. So you
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: know what I'm like with my dogs, and you're like
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: that with your dogs. You know, you're very loving, very tactile,
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: and I think you're probably gonna be that kind of
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: mother as well. You'll love it.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: I think I'll be obsessed because even just the sonogram
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: that I you know, the few that I have, it
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: looks like a bean and I'm like, oh, it's perfect cute. Yes,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: But it's so funny that you bring the dogs up.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: Because when I look at Lily before, before I got pregnant,
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: I used to look at her and I'm like, how
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: could I love anything more than I love this dog?
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: Like not even a child like that too. Yeah, I
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: was like that.
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: I was like, I had this beautiful white samoid and
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: I was only twenty five when I had Pandora, and
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: I was just like, I'm gonna love you and you
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: will always be first place. And I said to Ken,
• 29:45
  Speaker 4: the baby's gonna be second place. And as soon as
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: I had the baby, I was just like, down, dad, right,
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: they're gonna be very careful with that. But Keim was
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: actually a really good father as well, you know, with
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: Panny and Max was very very hand and I do
• 30:01
  Speaker 4: think if you go into it with the understanding, but
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: things aren't you know, going to be perfect. There are challenges.
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: Just like any big shift in your dynamic of your relationship,
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: there can be time when you know you're tired and
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: everything's disrupted and physically everything's you know, speaking here and
• 30:20
  Speaker 4: who are and all that stuff. But even though it's
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: the best time of my life, but it's very kind
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: of uprooting, and that's the time you really need his support.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: I love that. On that note, We're going to take
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: a quick break and then I'm going to ask you
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: what Randall can do to help this baby mama out.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: We'll be right back. We are back with my favorite
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: woman of all time besides my own mama, Lisa vander Pump. Hello,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: my lad.
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: Not your second mama.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: You are like my second mama. That's pretty badass, and
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: it's like, who is your second mom? Lisa vander heard
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: of her. Thank you.
• 31:03
  Speaker 4: As I think as we were talking about just before
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: we kind of broke, you know, it's very important that
• 31:11
  Speaker 4: you do realize you go into this and you realize
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: that everything changes, every your priorities change, you know, every
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: single thing every aspect of your life will change, and
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: I don't think you should put too much pressure on
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: yourself to think that it's got to be the fairy tale.
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: You've got to understand that. And I think you know
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: also because sometimes the men also feel as much you
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: want their support, sometimes they feel pushed into second place.
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: Randal is very much a baby and like your undivided attention.
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: I can't even get it now, Lisa, I can't even
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: get it now right between the dogs, between the dogs
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: and her mother, I'm like third place. So I'd just
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: like to be in second would be great.
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: You're going to be lucky if you're going to be
• 31:54
  Speaker 4: in the top ten movie, you know what. I think
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: you've got to understand that it's your baby together, you know.
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: And Ken isn't demanding like that. His kind of so
• 32:10
  Speaker 4: I was a little bit, you know, he would come
• 32:13
  Speaker 4: in and he'd be like.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Like huh oh, my gosh. It was like kind of
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: like the opposite where Ken it was like, hey remember me. Yeah,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: So you said that Ken was very hands on, and
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: I've seen Randall be a dad to his two girls.
• 32:30
  Speaker 4: Your girls are gorgeous, by the way, they're gorgeous, lovely, girls.
• 32:35
  Speaker 4: I spent time with him on the plane.
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, bad, that's right.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: How did Ken balance being a husband now a new dad,
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: and his business and make that all work well?
• 32:48
  Speaker 4: I mean Ken was lucky like Randal that he has
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: autonomy in his life, so to speak. He can make
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: the decisions, you know. I mean, of course some things
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: have to be done, but it's not like you're in
• 32:59
  Speaker 4: aind of ninety five job where you have to defer
• 33:02
  Speaker 4: to other people. So we could kind of, you know,
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: create our own schedule, even though something's obviously with no commitments.
• 33:10
  Speaker 4: But I think it was the biggest shift to me.
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: I remember our relationship changing a bit, and in one
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: way it's you have to adjust because you know, the
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: nights and things like that and having a baby in
• 33:23
  Speaker 4: the bed and the constant demand. But there's something other
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: that's so incredible. You don't just feel like you're in
• 33:30
  Speaker 4: a relationship. You feel like you're a family. There's something
• 33:33
  Speaker 4: about it that changes, and I think you're just gonna
• 33:38
  Speaker 4: love it. You can be a lovely mother, as I say,
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: I think you can see how people are a lot
• 33:43
  Speaker 4: of people are, you know, as the maternal instincts of
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: the way they interact with animals, and you know, and
• 33:49
  Speaker 4: I know we usually what cames like with Jiggy that's.
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: A great example, Yeah, because he's heat babies, heat babies,
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: you're you know he babies or dogs like their children.
• 33:59
  Speaker 4: Yes, and we did have disagreements like Ken would you know,
• 34:03
  Speaker 4: I think with the children growing up, I was probably
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: a little stricter whereas Ken, especially Pandora being the first
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: go because he had a son, you know, prior, like
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: his son was fifteen when I met him, he being
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: divorced and he had his son custom of his son,
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: so he knew a lot more about kind of raising
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: babies and children than I did. But yeah, he's he
• 34:27
  Speaker 4: spoilt a little bit.
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: I don't do that.
• 34:30
  Speaker 4: He wanted to be the good guy all the time.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: If I don't want, I'm not Lord have mercy. That
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: is Randall.
• 34:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you're going to be the good guy. Lala's going
• 34:37
  Speaker 4: to be the bad guy.
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: Say oh yeah, oh no, no, it's already like that.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: As a stepmom, I'm like I'm like go to Target
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: buy everything, and Lala's like one.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: Thing each Yeah.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I definitely I respect La lot because I
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: know that she's very discipline in that perspective. That's going
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: to be great for me because she's been really goo
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: rate with my girls and helping me be more discipline.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: Because I'm very similar to Ken. I'm like, I want
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: to just I think it's all the time.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: I feel like kids in Beverly Hills can get spoiled
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: very quickly and not understand how hard it is to
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: make a dollar to go out and buy things. So
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: when I watch Randall just like spending money on things
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: that is, I'm like, they need to know that it's
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: hard to go out and just buy things.
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Oh.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: Mama has a job, so I'm allowed to buy whatever
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: I want.
• 35:34
  Speaker 4: Hey, yeah, No, No, I agree with you. Well, you
• 35:37
  Speaker 4: see my kids. You saw them, you know, you see
• 35:40
  Speaker 4: max waiting tables, you see Handy weaighted tables all through college.
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: I had a job since I was thirteen. I think
• 35:47
  Speaker 4: you do them a favor, instill values. But you know what,
• 35:50
  Speaker 4: that's going to come so much later. You don't need
• 35:52
  Speaker 4: to worry about No, I don't need to worry about year.
• 35:55
  Speaker 4: Just kiss that little I'm hoping for you, hoping for
• 36:00
  Speaker 4: a boy.
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: Or a girl, healthy, healthy?
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: Hell no, So if we're being like you know.
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: If we have a perfect, healthy child.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Yes, I was like a boy. I've always pictured myself
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: having a boy first, and I feel like I have
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: two girls already. I get to do the girl thing.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: I can't. We need more male energy in house. There's
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: a lot of girls wanting to play with La LA's
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: weave and her makeup, and it's like, I need a boy.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: I need some trucks around a football. I don't know.
• 36:29
  Speaker 4: Well, you see, Yeah, when I when I was pregnant
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: with Pandora, I wanted a girl so badly. Ken said,
• 36:35
  Speaker 4: you want the girl so badly that baby would change
• 36:38
  Speaker 4: sex incidity, and everyone said, all the way you're carrying,
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: it's going to be a boy, and I was like, no,
• 36:43
  Speaker 4: I want a pink one. I think it was more
• 36:45
  Speaker 4: about being pink. It was going to be like a
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: girl or a gay boy. You know, he just had
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: to be. I was gonna address it in like a
• 36:52
  Speaker 4: pink fluffy suit regardless, you know. Right. So when I
• 36:55
  Speaker 4: had Cesarean and so you know, I was way through
• 36:58
  Speaker 4: the whole thing and they is a but the girl.
• 37:03
  Speaker 4: I remember it was just but at that time it
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: wouldn't have mattered, you know, when it really comes to it.
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: But yeah, ideally that's what I wanted. I think that
• 37:12
  Speaker 4: was because Ken, like Randall, he had to goes. Ken
• 37:15
  Speaker 4: had a boy, and so I wanted to give him
• 37:17
  Speaker 4: a daughter and they were all boys, not family.
• 37:19
  Speaker 7: Ah, and then little baby Pandora. Yeah, and you know what,
• 37:25
  Speaker 7: You're so right about what you said, how Max waited tables.
• 37:29
  Speaker 7: Pandora works her butt off with your companies that you
• 37:33
  Speaker 7: have everything. And I remember on one of the episodes
• 37:37
  Speaker 7: you were like, no, Max is not a manager.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: What he just gets to be a manager because he's
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: my son. Yeah, work a little harder and maybe you'll
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: get promoted. It was freaking awesome.
• 37:46
  Speaker 4: Oh my god. I've been criticized so much about so
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: many things, and I don't care because you know, I've
• 37:51
  Speaker 4: raised and it's like all through COVID, Max has been
• 37:55
  Speaker 4: in Idaho working with autistic children and right really you know,
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: like wow, yeah, yeah, like working two or to sit
• 38:02
  Speaker 4: young people, and he's been you know, he's just a
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: very giving person and he's a very kind person. Now
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: he's volunteer volunteering at the vand Pump Dog Foundation. But
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: I don't know, it's just how you raise them. It's
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: so important that you instill those values you you really
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: give them the best chance in life. And for me
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: spoiling them, I mean, of course I spoiled them, but
• 38:26
  Speaker 4: I remember I got so much crap on Housewives. I
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: shouldn't talk about this. Bring the crap up again, But
• 38:34
  Speaker 4: I don't care bringing everybody oh yeah, when he's electricity
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: was cut off, and they were like, well, I said, no,
• 38:44
  Speaker 4: I work all the time. I work really hard, and
• 38:49
  Speaker 4: you know, you can pare your own electricity bill. And
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry if you've got a lighter candle and take
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: a cold shower until you you know, like, if you're
• 38:58
  Speaker 4: only working four shifts a week, no, you go do it.
• 39:01
  Speaker 4: And a lot of people criticized me for that, but
• 39:03
  Speaker 4: I don't care. I'm like, my kids are being spoiled.
• 39:06
  Speaker 4: They've always got place to come to, you know, I
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: love it.
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: They've always got a roof over their head, and they've
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: all yes.
• 39:12
  Speaker 4: And now I did buy them both, you know, gave
• 39:16
  Speaker 4: them the deposit for a place to live, and they
• 39:19
  Speaker 4: both have a mortgage, you know, and Laura and Jason
• 39:22
  Speaker 4: have a mortgage and Max has a mortgage. I just
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: gave them, you know, a health, a start, but I
• 39:27
  Speaker 4: like them to have their responsibilities. I think it's the
• 39:29
  Speaker 4: best thing could do. But not when they're just born. Ala,
• 39:33
  Speaker 4: you do not need to tell them to go get
• 39:34
  Speaker 4: their own.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: The segment comes out, you better start earning your keep
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: exactly out there and get a job.
• 39:41
  Speaker 4: Are you going to breastfeed?
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: I want to do it all. I just don't want
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: to turn into a cow, you know, just like totally.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: And you know, I feel very grateful that it did
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: not take me very long to get pregnant. I have
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: friends that have been trying to get pregnant for years.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: And then, you know, you just think when you have
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: a baby, you're gonna breast feed. And there are women
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: who their baby just cannot seem to attach and they
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: feel like the bond isn't there. There's like so many
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: things that you just think are gonna happen. I'm gonna
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: get older, have a baby, breastfeed, do the whole thing,
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: and so I just like I want to take it.
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: I would love to have just a very easy experience
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: being you know, a human cass. Oh, you know, like
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: the baby is like right on the nipple.
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: Popping in pantsy. I mean I yeah, I pressed that
• 40:32
  Speaker 4: and it was very easy for me and thank god
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: for that. But only for a few months, you know,
• 40:39
  Speaker 4: but it was yeah, it was good.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah. These women that have their baby on the
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: tit at like literally a year and a half. I'm like,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: this is getting a little weird. We should try to
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: wean them off.
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: Now when they're opening your shirt the buttons and standing
• 40:52
  Speaker 4: up to do.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: It, that is so funny.
• 40:57
  Speaker 4: I know. But you know what I'm all about. You've
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: got to do what's right for you. You've got to
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: do what's right for your family, you know. And I
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: think everybody kind of makes different choices and that's good too.
• 41:08
  Speaker 4: But I'm very happy for you, and you know, it's
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: good to see you kind.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: Of well, we're excited that you got to share this
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: moment with us.
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: Who else knows?
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: I mean, I would just say my close friends and family,
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: not very much.
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: I'd say probably six people total, like recently, just because
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: you know, we weren't sure.
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: We want to make sure everything was healthy. But that's it.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: I mean, you're you're you're probably the the you're number
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: seven probably in and I was just family.
• 41:36
  Speaker 4: So you know, and you have you had any tests
• 41:40
  Speaker 4: or not have you you just had a blood test.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Yes, I did my blood work. Everything seems to be
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: looking great.
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: And now I just heart beat. How it's above and healthy.
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: The heartbeat is fantastic. And now I just sit here
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: and pray every day that everything goes smoothly and I
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: just deliver a healthy child in April.
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: Oh April, so probably be a tourist. Maybe tourists.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: Which, by the way, the uh the birthstone for an
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: April baby is a diamond, So you know what I've
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: been asking for my push prizent diamonds. Oh really, of
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: course you don't have enough lace me this old thing,
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: this old thing, I don't think. I'm just kidding.
• 42:25
  Speaker 4: It's sweating.
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: Look, yeah, now that okay.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: So I have a couple of questions because I know,
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: you know, in COVID we've all been doing different things
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: and you're normally wrapped with Vander pump by now onto
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: six other shows. But I saw on the trades you
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: had announced a new show that you're doing, so I'd
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: love to just hear a few things about what you
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: have going on New Dogs with Peacocks.
• 42:50
  Speaker 4: Well, there's just so much story there because every day
• 42:53
  Speaker 4: there's a different poignant story or heart. Well you know that, Lala,
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: You've been there, So it's gonna be show You're on
• 43:00
  Speaker 4: Peacock and it's it would be about all the individual
• 43:04
  Speaker 4: stories about the people, about the dogs and their past
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: and trying to you know, match the right dog with
• 43:10
  Speaker 4: the right person. And there's a lot of very interesting
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: people out there that you know, come to I mean,
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: you saw we've been involved with a bedroom program and
• 43:19
  Speaker 4: things like that training dogs. So I just think it
• 43:22
  Speaker 4: would be a beautiful show because having lived it, the
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: experience and being part of it and the incredible team
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: I have a band of pump dogs. I just think
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: there's just so many stories to tell. So yeah, I
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: think it was a natural kind of progression for us,
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: and it's it's very exciting.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: I'm thrilled about this new show. I mean, you you
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: take anything vander Pump and already it turns to gold
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: and then you throw puppies and dogs in and I'm like, okay,
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: you got me hooked.
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, well, it's a show that you and I would
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: definitely watch, La La of course, Yeah, because all those
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: stories and the things that we've seen over the years,
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: and I just think that, yeah, it's a feel good
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: Factor show. Of course, there's going to be some very
• 44:06
  Speaker 4: kind of you know moments. Sometimes it can be difficult
• 44:10
  Speaker 4: and rescue, of course. I mean some of the things
• 44:12
  Speaker 4: we've seen have been extraordinary the way people, you know,
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: have treated animals in the past. That that's what a
• 44:19
  Speaker 4: rescue center does and is and steps in. But very
• 44:24
  Speaker 4: a lot of feel good, feel good stories, and I'm
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: going to be happy to share that. I've been really
• 44:29
  Speaker 4: busy doing everything. I've just started my podcast Congratulations.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: By the way, when does your first episode air? Do
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: you have an ear date?
• 44:37
  Speaker 4: I think it's going to be on the fourteenth September. Wow,
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: I know, yeah, yeah, it's it's an interesting time.
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: Lisa.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: When do you because you're on the forefront of restaurants
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: in Los Angeles obviously you own a lot of restaurants
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: in Nevada here or whatever. When do you see the
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: world of restaurants coming back? I mean, do you see
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: it soon?
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: I know?
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Outdoor eating is a very common thing, and that's where
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: I eat well.
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: I mean, we're lucky with the fact that when we
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: do decide to open, we have really good sized patios,
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: which is very unusual, like pump is almost you know,
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: it's like ninety percent garden Tom. Tom has two big
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: gardens and we'll be able to put the table and
• 45:23
  Speaker 4: chairs outside, and so has a great, you know, big
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: garden at the back, and we'll probably be able to
• 45:28
  Speaker 4: go out with the pavement as well. So we're very
• 45:31
  Speaker 4: fortunate with that. But we've just been waiting for it
• 45:34
  Speaker 4: to be safe, you know, really, and when I keep
• 45:36
  Speaker 4: seeing the numbers going up, I want every single person,
• 45:40
  Speaker 4: do not let this be political. Wear a mask. You know,
• 45:44
  Speaker 4: it's just like unless you're tested with my podcast, we
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: get tested, you know things. Put it all social distancing.
• 45:52
  Speaker 4: Just be responsible because you know, also Ken's older than me,
• 45:56
  Speaker 4: sixteen years old of me, so I'm very protective of him.
• 45:59
  Speaker 4: We know the city sticks get worse as you get older,
• 46:02
  Speaker 4: or health conditions. I mean he's very healthy. But you
• 46:05
  Speaker 4: know it's an utmost parity. I mean, I have been
• 46:07
  Speaker 4: very busy here. We're open in Vegas. That's you know,
• 46:13
  Speaker 4: kind of running probably. I mean it's running really well.
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: But don't tell Randall that he'll he'll fuel the jet
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: and we'll go there just dinner.
• 46:21
  Speaker 6: I mean, no, no, no, no, you stay there righta.
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: You be careful now, oh, no, I don't leave. I
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: don't leave my house, Lisa. It's a rare occasion that
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: I get out of the bed.
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: I'm very I'm very protective of her with COVID more
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: so than before. You know, we always wear masks, We're
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: always very conservative, and we're tested every week just because
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: of the business we're in. But now I tell her, like, Babe,
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: you must be like super hyper alert because I.
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: Know, even if I've seen friends, and I haven't seen
• 46:50
  Speaker 4: that many people at all, We've been very, very isolated
• 46:54
  Speaker 4: and keeping this whole place going because I'm on my
• 46:57
  Speaker 4: own here you can see. I mean, I do a
• 47:00
  Speaker 4: good job, but it's like it's a lot. Oh, I'm
• 47:03
  Speaker 4: sure things I've been doing. I mean, God, what was
• 47:07
  Speaker 4: I saying. I can't remember what I was saying.
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: Protecting ourselves I pump or Vanner pump Garden being open.
• 47:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean vand Pump Garden is open, as I say,
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: But distance the thing is essential, and Caesars are doing
• 47:20
  Speaker 4: a really good job of that. I've got so many
• 47:22
  Speaker 4: other things that I need to start and things in
• 47:25
  Speaker 4: the pipeline that are exciting, so I just want to
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: get this over and done with. But you know, if
• 47:31
  Speaker 4: we just adhere to the guidelines and kind of you know,
• 47:35
  Speaker 4: stop kind of breaking the rules, I think it will
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: pass a lot quicker and hopefully a vaccine will be
• 47:40
  Speaker 4: around the corner.
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm very grateful.
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: I looked at the numbers today, like LA is now
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: going down, down, down, down, So I just hope that
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  Speaker 2: we continue that trend and not go crazy and open
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  Speaker 2: everything up right away, like let's see.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I'm very cognizant of you know, so many
• 47:56
  Speaker 4: people that work for us, work for us for years.
• 47:59
  Speaker 4: I want to make sure every everybody's safe. You know,
• 48:01
  Speaker 4: it's not just about the customers and saying, oh if
• 48:03
  Speaker 4: we're all safe and everything and where it's about the
• 48:05
  Speaker 4: people that work for us, you know, really like they've
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: put themselves. So we've just been kind of waiting, you know,
• 48:12
  Speaker 4: really just watching it and we want to see the
• 48:15
  Speaker 4: numbers kind of really slide down because it kind of
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: had a bit of a spike and were about to
• 48:21
  Speaker 4: open and then we think, you know, so I think soon.
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  Speaker 4: I think New York is looking in really good shape
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  Speaker 4: in terms of the virus, not with everything.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: Else and also Florida, which was really bad. My mother
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: just called me and told me they've opened restaurant side,
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: so they've gone down.
• 48:39
  Speaker 4: I think they were getting something like two thousand a
• 48:42
  Speaker 4: day now compared to only a few weeks ago. They're
• 48:44
  Speaker 4: getting twelve exactly. Yeah, and UK is getting back to normal.
• 48:49
  Speaker 4: I just think soon. But I uh, it's been it's
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: been tough. I mean, having a business close for this long,
• 48:58
  Speaker 4: you know, it's not just as I said in the reunion,
• 49:01
  Speaker 4: it's not just a job. It's our life, bro. So
• 49:04
  Speaker 4: just being kind of inside and I'm so lucky because
• 49:07
  Speaker 4: if I was going to be anywhere, it would be
• 49:08
  Speaker 4: exactly in this house. It's been amazing, you know, with
• 49:11
  Speaker 4: the view and everything, even though it's been a lot
• 49:14
  Speaker 4: to keep going. But I just want to get everybody
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: back to work, you know. I think everybody wants to
• 49:19
  Speaker 4: get back to work. It's the malaise of being at
• 49:21
  Speaker 4: home boredom, you know. Yeah, yea.
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: And people don't realize the stress because obviously I'm a
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: business owner too.
• 49:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just you're.
• 49:28
  Speaker 4: Still going to pay the rents and insurance.
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: You've got to pay your It's brutal, crazy.
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: It's brutal. So I'm very fortunate.
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: We're just getting back to work right now, and I'm saying,
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: people like the appreciation the crew of the movie that
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: I'm shooting right now, that the level of appreciation I
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: think people have today, and I think in your world
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: as they come back, it's going to be you're never
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: going to take for granted going to work again.
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: At least I will.
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: Never complain about traffic or or going away. I'm not
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: saying just you know, it's the appreciation.
• 50:00
  Speaker 4: Well, I think if we also understand that you look
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: at what kind of are my parents, what they went
• 50:07
  Speaker 4: through in their generation, you know, in the Second World
• 50:11
  Speaker 4: War and what they had to go through and being
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: evacuated and the houses bombed and kind of or other
• 50:17
  Speaker 4: pandemics when thirty million people have died or you know,
• 50:21
  Speaker 4: it's it's I think, if we can get through this
• 50:25
  Speaker 4: and this is the worst thing that we have to
• 50:27
  Speaker 4: do with, certainly the worst thing that I've had to
• 50:29
  Speaker 4: deal with in my lifetime. Of course, we saw the
• 50:33
  Speaker 4: horrors of nine to eleven over here. I lived in
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: Europe at the time, and we've seen you know, I
• 50:37
  Speaker 4: grew up with kind of terrorism and things, you know,
• 50:41
  Speaker 4: in the UK, but seeing on this global this global
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: pandemic has been really devastating. You know. Yeah, I think
• 50:50
  Speaker 4: it's made a lot of people, given a lot of
• 50:53
  Speaker 4: people time for reflection of what's important. And you know,
• 50:57
  Speaker 4: another thing, having lost my brother to suicide and being
• 51:00
  Speaker 4: an advocate, you know, for the kind of for the
• 51:03
  Speaker 4: Trevor Project, I really want to encourage people. If anybody's
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: of course, somebody's listening to I feel like it's just
• 51:11
  Speaker 4: the three of us having an intimate conversation. You know,
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: They've got to reach out, you know, because having lost
• 51:18
  Speaker 4: my brother and you think, my god, you know, there
• 51:21
  Speaker 4: are so many people. Mental health is so kind of
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: prevalent right now, people not knowing what to do, and
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: you've got to reach out. There are people Trevor Project
• 51:31
  Speaker 4: or suicide hotlines, you know, reach out to people, do
• 51:35
  Speaker 4: FaceTime with people.
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: What is a number of the Trevor Project? Is there
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: a number?
• 51:39
  Speaker 4: I don't know of quite heart, It's on my Instagram.
• 51:41
  Speaker 4: I just did another PSA for them, but you know, yeah,
• 51:44
  Speaker 4: it's really really I never thought it would affect my life,
• 51:48
  Speaker 4: but yeah, I've just been an advocate for them, and
• 51:51
  Speaker 4: I just think, you know, this with the homeless as well,
• 51:53
  Speaker 4: being such an advocate. But you know, it's difficult times
• 51:57
  Speaker 4: for people. So I said, everybody who's listening watching all
• 52:01
  Speaker 4: my love, you know, I want everybody and you, guys,
• 52:04
  Speaker 4: I'm so happy for you. I always said you make
• 52:06
  Speaker 4: a great couple.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: Oh thank you for being such a beautiful part of
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: our life. We love you so much.
• 52:14
  Speaker 4: Okay, real quick, guys, a wonderful mother.
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: Wait, real quick.
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: The Trevor Project is one eight six six four eight
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  Speaker 2: eight seven three eight six again one eight sixty six
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: four eight eight seven three eight six. If you're going
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: through anything or have any thoughts in depression or taking
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: your own.
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: Life, please reach me hotline.
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and just please reach out, call somebody, call Suitside Prevention.
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: There there are people that want to hear your voice
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: and help. And it doesn't matter what you're going.
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: Through it because this will pass. You have to always
• 52:46
  Speaker 4: remember there is light at the end of the chunnel.
• 52:49
  Speaker 4: That's one thing, you know. It was very difficult for
• 52:51
  Speaker 4: me to focus on when I asked my brother, You've
• 52:53
  Speaker 4: got to look at that light at the end of
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: the chunnel, and we've got to kind of walk towards it,
• 52:58
  Speaker 4: march towards it.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: We love Lisa than.
• 53:03
  Speaker 4: When you said you had some news. This was the news.
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: I was hoping.
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: We love that love it, Lisa, you're the best ever.
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: We'll talk soon, okay.
• 53:12
  Speaker 4: Lots of love to both of you, okay, and let's
• 53:15
  Speaker 4: see each other very very soon.
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: All right, Well that was that was awesome. I mean,
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: you know it was.
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: It's still very so real, and I just want to
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: thank all of you guys who listen, you guys who
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: watch vander Pump Rules, those of you who follow me
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: on Instagram.
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm, okay, it's okay.
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: I am happy, maybe a little too happy. Your love
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: and support means a lot to me, and I'm really
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: excited to share my journey of becoming a mom with
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: you guys. So I love you all very much. I
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed this episode of Give Them Lala with
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: Randall and be prepared because this bang in bod is
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: about to change very rapidly. I'm sorry, I still have
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: to give them La La.
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: It's it's give them La La with baby.
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: Oh. You're getting the boot. You're getting the boot. I
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: love it. We'll catch you guys next week