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268 - How Taylor Swift's Incarnation Cross Shaped Her Career · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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  Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to
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  helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
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  flow without sacrificing results.
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  Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
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  according to your human design.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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  Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, everybody.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and we are here today, together,
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  to do a celebrity reading.
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  And we're going to do one a little bit differently than we've done in the past.
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  We are actually going to do an Incarnation Cross reading.
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  And the reason for that is I really want to show you guys
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  what the Incarnation Cross is.
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  We've talked about it on the show, but I think it helps to have examples.
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  And the way that I approach all celebrity stuff on here.
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  I do not purport to know special things about these people.
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  I don't know them personally, so I'm taking what we see out in the
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  world because we're all seeing it.
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  What we see might feel a little bit different because we all have
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  our opinions, but that's where I try my best to separate my opinion
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  and just speak about the things that are actually happening, very
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  factually and approach it that way.
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  So that I can show you a design at work.
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  So I can show you how somebody's design, the mechanics of it, are
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  just at play because it can be difficult to see it for ourselves.
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  And part of the process that has helped me the most, too, is the more
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  I observe people in my life, people in the public eye, observe myself.
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  The more I become aware of design itself and then seeing it play out
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  in the people around me and the people that I am aware of and I'm
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  witnessing, the more I understand this beyond the definitions, and I can
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  start to see how they come together.
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  So that's my goal with these episodes, is to show you how this stuff comes together.
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  And the Incarnation Cross, I think, is something that gets people very confused.
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  It is also known as your purpose.
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  I really like it as a life theme.
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  That's going to tell us what are these consistent themes that
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  you're going to bring that you are going to constantly be embodying.
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  You're either going to be embodying the shadow of it or you're going
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  to be embodying the gifts of it.
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  And that will move throughout your life.
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  Now, these bigger themes, they are going to have a huge effect on the
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  rest of your life, whether you're in the shadow of them or the gift.
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  If you're in the shadow, you will typically find that everything
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  feels hard because it is influencing the rest of your chart.
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  Because it is such a huge part of your energy, this incarnation process.
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  the four gates that are part of it.
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  So what I'm going to do today is I want to take you through
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  someone's incarnation cross.
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  We're going to do Taylor Swift.
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  She's very much in the news right now.
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  And I feel like she's one of those people.
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  We've done an episode.
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  We've talked about her here on the show before.
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  Episode 110 was a reading for her.
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  I did a little mini celebrity reading for her way back.
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  Go back to episode 110 if you want to hear the whole thing.
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  We are only going to focus on the four gates of her incarnation
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  cross and a little bit of her life story through her nodes.
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  But it's mostly going to be incarnation cross.
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  And the reason for that is, I think that she's someone, she has
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  put so much of her life out there.
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  She has divulged a lot of her personal experience, how she feels about
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  that all the time, I don't know.
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  But, to me, I can see her design very much at work, and I don't know this woman.
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  So I don't know what happens behind closed doors, but as we go through
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  this, I hope you see that some of this stuff is just quite obvious.
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  And we've been watching her, she's been around for so long that we've
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  actually seen the evolution of her design and how she's maneuvered it.
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  Now, of course, everything Incarnation Cross is a piece, it is a very big
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  piece, but her whole chart is going to influence her purpose or her life theme.
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  Now let's talk about it.
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  A little glimpse into Taylor.
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  She is a 5/1 splenic projector.
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  So we're going to talk about Taylor Swift's human design, but we're mainly
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  going to focus on her incarnation cross.
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  But the fact that she's a 5/1 splenic projector speaks about
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  how her purpose will be fulfilled.
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  The 5/1 is going to be who she shows up as.
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  Splenic is going to be the way she makes decisions.
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  How she moves through life if she's in alignment will be spontaneous.
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  And as a projector, she is going to follow recognition.
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  What are you being recognized for?
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  And the rest of her chart, the fact she has an open G center and open
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  throat, all of these other things play into this, of course, but I go
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  into that more in depth in episode 110 and I don't want to just repeat it.
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  The incarnation cross though, I think is a theme that we are
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  seeing her really step into here.
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  And I touched on it in episode 110, but now we're going to dive deeper into it.
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  So let's just talk about Incarnation Cross here for a moment.
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  Incarnation Cross is the conscious sun, conscious earth,
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  unconscious sun, and unconscious earth gates in your human design.
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  So those columns of the gates that run down on either side,
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  they're the top two on each side.
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  The personality on the right, the design on the left, or conscious
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  versus unconscious, they all mean the same things, we just have
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  different languaging for them.
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  So, it can be known as your purpose, the Incarnation Cross, we do call it purpose.
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  And I want to be clear here on the distinction there, and why depending
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  on who I'm speaking to and what I'm speaking about, I might talk about them
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  a little bit differently, which is why I like to give a little bit of context.
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  Life theme, I think, makes a lot of sense because it tells us that these
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  are four themes that are going to be consistently coming up in our lives.
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  These are kind of going to be the umbrella themes that everything
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  plays itself out underneath.
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  And your nodes are going to have an effect on that as well.
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  And we'll talk a little bit about hers.
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  I don't want this to be a two hour episode.
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  So we'll touch on that just a little bit here, but ultimately, when you learn
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  to master these and you're living in the highest expression of them, somehow
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  your purpose is lived out in this way.
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  When you step into the bigness of these, when you step into the
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  highest expression of these energies, of your cross, by leaning on the
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  other aspects of your design.
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  So I think Taylor has started to grow into her cross and you're starting
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  to see this come out more, because it comes out more over time because you're
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  mastering yourself throughout your life.
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  She hasn't done that by just focusing on her cross.
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  She's focused on, what I can see are certain aspects of her design.
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  She has mastered certain channels.
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  There's certain things that are coming out in higher expression.
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  And she's becoming a better projector as the type of projector that she is.
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  Using her channel of struggle to apply focus to her creative work.
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  That how she's dealt with the shadows of her cross seems to be that she has
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  leaned, I'm guessing unknowingly on these strengths that are innate in her.
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  Meaning her channels stand out to me the most.
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  Her channel of judgment, being able to correct the things that she sees
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  are wrong, using that, sharing that.
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  Using her channel of struggle to see through creative projects.
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  By being creative, she's able to correct things that she sees
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  wrong in the collective, in life.
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  And then her channel of surrender, which is the 26-44, this channel of a
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  transmitter, which is all about having a message, which is all about leadership,
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  which is all about being your own boss and being able to sell people stuff.
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  And she's one of the greatest salespeople out there right now.
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  And what is she selling?
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  She's selling her story and she's selling her creativity.
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  And that's how she's leaning into and growing into her incarnation cross.
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  So let's talk about that.
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  Let's look at her incarnation cross.
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  She is the left angle cross of confrontation.
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  Interesting, right?
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  Sometimes the names of these make a ton of sense and some of them don't.
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  Like, my cross is the cross of dominion.
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  I didn't know what that meant.
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  I was like, dominion over what?
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  I don't get it.
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  I get it a lot more now because I've broken it down to the four
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  gates and I have leaned into the stuff that I did know, which
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  was the mechanics of my design.
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  So it's not about you necessarily understanding that title, but
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  some of them jump out at you.
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  So she's the left angle cross of confrontation.
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  I think there's been a lot of confrontation in her life, whether she
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  has asked for it, I don't want to say that she's invited it cause that's not
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  at all what I mean, but whether she's had control over it or not, confrontation
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  has been a theme in her life.
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  That's more how I wanted to word it.
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  She's a left angle because she's a 5/1.
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  Being a left angle means that her destiny is tied to other people.
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  Literally everybody that she meets, she has some sort of karma with.
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  She has a song called Karma.
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  I find there are a lot of weird, funny synchronicities between her design and
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  the songs that she writes and the language that she uses, karma being one of them.
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  Being a left angle means that your destiny is connected to other people.
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  If you're a left angle cross, you have a 5 in the front or a 6 in the front of
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  your profile, it will be very difficult for you to live out the purpose of your
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  life and to step into everything that you are here to be, which is really what your
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  cross is about, without other people.
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  And it doesn't necessarily mean that they're doing it with you, it just means
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  that your interactions with other people are going to be part of that journey.
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  They are going to be part of your growth.
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  They're either going to be your downfall or they will be
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  the thing that lifts you up.
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  But for better or for worse, people are necessary.
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  Cleaning up the karma, learning through it, and you learn through
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  it, through the lessons of your design, through facing the shadows and
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  learning to find the gifts in yourself.
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  That's what this is really all about.
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  So let's break that down for Taylor here.
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  The left angle cross of confrontation is made up of four gates, like they all are.
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  Her conscious son is gate 26, and that's in a fifth line.
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  Her conscious earth is gate 45, which is in a fifth line as well.
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  That's what makes her a 5/1, because the ones are on the other side.
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  Her unconscious son is gate 6, the gate of conflict in the first line.
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  And her unconscious earth is gate 36, the gate of crisis, also known
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  as the darkening of the light.
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  The gate 26 is known as the gate of the egoist.
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  It sits in the ego center.
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  Gate 45 sits in the throat.
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  It is the gate of the gatherer.
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  Gate 45 is one of the biggest, if not the biggest leadership gate in the body graph.
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  It is the top of a hierarchy.
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  It is the queen of the castle.
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  It is the queen of the tribe, or king.
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  But we're talking about a woman here.
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  And she certainly has worked her way up to be the queen of a tribe.
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  So that is her conscious earth gate.
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  Her conscious sun gate is gate 26, the egoist, which is about being
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  able to adapt what you say, adapt how you deal with people, how you
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  put yourself out there, and be able to adapt so that people like it.
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  People buy it.
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  It's marketing.
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  It's why 26 is known as the marketing gate.
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  Because it is the ability to sense what people need, sense what they're
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  looking for, and know exactly how to package that and give it to you.
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  Now, there's lots of shadowy sides, but the shadow side of 26 can be manipulation.
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  It can be not using that power for good.
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  And the shadow of it in the gene keys is pride and working out of pride or
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  letting your pride drive your actions.
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  And maybe being in a low frequency of that causes.
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  Not the greatest behavior.
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  Now with this, let's talk about the gift because we tend to
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  talk about the shadow of 26.
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  I think that's the one that comes out first because people can
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  see it as shifty, and it can be.
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  But I'm not at all making that claim about Taylor, I'm just talking
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  about the gate here in general.
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  But the gift is artfulness in Gene Keys, that's the word that they use for it.
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  The way that I look at it is it's just, it's like the ultimate resourcefulness.
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  Gate 26 is really about being satisfied with what you've achieved.
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  And there are so many themes that go along with this and her being, with it
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  being in the fifth line, it very much is about the message and the marketing.
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  26 in the fifth line is about being able to sell people what they want.
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  And that artfulness, that resourcefulness of being able to really shift in a moment
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  to change for what the situation needs.
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  And that gate 45 is saying, I will lead us.
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  There's strong leadership energy, particularly 45 in the fifth line.
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  So this is who she is.
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  This is going to be the light she shines in the world.
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  We see that.
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  So when we put this cross together with the other side of it, now we go
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  from being leadership, ego focused and expression focused to being emotional.
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  6 and 36, they're highly emotional gates, these sit in the emotional
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  center, they sit in the solar plexus.
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  She has an open emotional center.
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  So what does that mean?
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  That means that this theme is going to play out in probably more of an
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  erratic way than if she had this as a defined center or with any
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  of these being defined channels.
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  These are hanging gates.
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  So these might feel a little tougher to grab.
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  26, it's a defined center with a channel.
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  That's probably going to feel like her strongest, most reliable energy.
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  45, hanging gate and an open center.
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  So bringing the 26th into alignment is probably going to help stabilize the 45.
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  They are a polarity.
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  So that might feel a little bit easier.
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  It's also on the personality side.
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  The other side, we get to the design side and we are looking at emotions.
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  We are looking at deep, deep emotions.
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  36 is also a very sexual gate.
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  It is all about experience.
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  It is all about what happens when we leap in and say, I just want to
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  do it to know what it feels like.
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  I think there's a lot of that in her songs, that she had to go
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  through it to learn the lesson.
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  She couldn't think about it.
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  She couldn't know better.
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  She just had to do it because she needed to feel it.
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  And to know what it felt like, and she wouldn't understand it until she did.
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  And somehow those connections with people, those experiences with people that maybe
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  didn't work out, or do work out, or become her best friends, or fall by the wayside
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  because that relationship had to end for whatever reason, it served its purpose.
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  Now being a 5/1 they do serve a purpose, as long as you're looking
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  at it, processing it, and allowing yourself to understand what these
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  relationships are about, that you're really connecting with that.
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  That karma that you have with all of these people, it's really, really tied
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  to your ability to be able to process those emotions around those relationships.
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  That's what this cross is about.
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  Confrontation is the name of it.
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  Conflict is the gate of her unconscious son.
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  And crisis is the gate of her unconscious earth.
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  Now, does this mean that she's only going to be in conflict and crisis all the time?
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  No, of course not.
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  Usually our design side stuff is the stuff that comes later for us.
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  Once we get the conscious sun and conscious earth under control through
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  our life, then we start to create a higher expression, and a higher
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  understanding, and a deeper connection to the gifts of the unconscious side.
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  It's unconscious to us though.
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  It just has to work itself out in its way.
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  It's not something that we necessarily try to bring into alignment.
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  And I have 26 and 45, her conscious sun and conscious
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  earth are my unconscious side.
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  So I have that relationship with those where it wasn't something I
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  could necessarily do on that side.
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  I had to do the work on the personality side and then watch and observe and put
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  gentle contemplation on these unconscious sides to allow them to show up.
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  Allow them to open.
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  It's coming out in our behavior.
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  is really where the unconscious side comes out.
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  So Taylor's behavior, we see a lot of emotional situations, right?
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  We see some confrontation.
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  Some of it seems like relationships that she has willingly gone into, and then
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  she's obviously in the public eye, and we have the whole Kim Kardashian thing, and
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  all of these other aspects where she's had these public feuds with people, I
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  mean, the way that she sees it is that Kim Kardashian entrapped her, and framed
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  her, and then tried to destroy her name.
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  That's a conflict.
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  That's just something that with these gates, the 36 and the 6,
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  these are going to be things that probably get attracted into her life.
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  Not because it's a bad omen that she was born under, it's because these
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  are the lessons that her soul needs to learn in order to do whatever it is
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  that she was put on this earth to do.
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  What was she put on this earth to do?
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  She's here to change things through confrontation.
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  She's here to learn things through confrontation and to gain support to
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  lead and to gain support from followers, from people in order to expose the
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  things that are not right in this world and to show at least her understanding
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  of where we need to be going.
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  It's a cross of emotional resilience and building emotional resilience over time.
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  We don't come into this life emotionally resilient.
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  Usually, it's something that we have to learn and cultivate.
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  Certainly somebody with this cross is going to have to learn
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  emotional resilience over time.
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  Because the nature of that 36th gate is to not know.
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  It is to not understand right away.
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  It's not logical.
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  It's emotional.
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  It's not a logical path.
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  It is an emotional path that her cross is pulling her on.
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  Through that emotional path, through the behavior of it, through the
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  interactions that she has, probably unconsciously pulling this stuff to
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  her, she's learning the lessons, or not, learning the lessons of this cross.
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  Learning the lessons of maybe not getting caught up in confrontation.
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  Maybe learning how to resolve confrontation with diplomacy,
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  which is the gift of gate six.
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  So it's showing you how these key strengths are things that
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  get built up in us over time.
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  Now, Taylor is still very young.
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  She's 34, she won't move into her nodal shift, into that second phase
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  of life for almost another 10 years.
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  She's got quite a bit of time.
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  So when she shifts into that second theme, we might see a big change in her.
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  Now, that's kind of where the nodes come in.
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  The nodes talk about the trajectory of your life.
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  So, if we were to kind of sum this up, Taylor's design nodes, her
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  environment is Gate 29 and Gate 30.
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  And really, this is about perseverance and kind of grinding it out.
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  That her life theme, the stage that it's set on until she's about 42, 43 years old,
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  is going to be built around perseverance, commitment, just going for it and really
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  putting in the effort and the energy consistently to make it all happen.
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  Grinding it out, so to speak.
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  And then that'll shift, so we'll see how that goes for her after.
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  And we'll see what type of lessons she's pulling out of this.
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  Because she does sort of let us know how she's processed these things,
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  she does it through her songs.
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  Like I said, that's a way of looking at the rest of her chart, Because that's
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  really how this all gets played out.
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  We live in the gifts of our channels.
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  We live in the gifts of our centers.
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  We get guided by our authority.
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  We live correctly as our energy type.
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  So for her, she's going to step into this very strong leadership role,
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  possibly as like a lightning rod, being a 5/1, dealing with projections,
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  dealing with the way the world sees her.
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  Either being swayed by that or standing up to it, learning to deal with that.
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  And I think we've seen her do that over all the years that
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  she's been in front of us.
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  And whatever they've said about her, I think she feels like a lot of 5/1's do.
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  Like there's a lot of criticism that feels unwarranted, and a lot of
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  attention that maybe feels excessive.
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  And why does everyone have so many opinions about me?
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  Cause that's sort of just how it works for us.
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  It's a savior.
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  And I think she's dealing with the fact that she gets some
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  benefits of being the savior.
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  She commands an army.
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  She is a leader, but there's a dual, that's a double edged sword because, I
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  didn't say that I would save all of you.
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  That's not what I signed up for.
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  It might be part of what she's thinking at times.
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  So, being that 5/1, the more she steps out into that, the more she becomes
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  embodied in that, the stronger her energy becomes, the stronger her power becomes.
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  What's the power?
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  Her power of confrontation.
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  Her power of being able to navigate confronting and difficult situations, even
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  in times of crisis, to be able to lead and still adapt and still put out a message
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  and her leadership qualities throughout that, despite it, or maybe because of it.
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  So there's usually a strong sense of personal justice with this cross.
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  There's a strong sense of a natural ability to lead and inspire others
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  based on what you feel is right.
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  I think that is something that has really played out for her.
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  Now if you have this cross you might be like, well I'm not Taylor Swift.
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  How does this play out for me?
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  It's gonna be through the rest of your design.
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  Taylor's a projector.
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  So when I say that it plays out through your type, your strategy, your authority,
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  all of that, this is played out through what has Taylor been recognized for.
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  She's been recognized for her songwriting.
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  She's been recognized as a performer.
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  She's been recognized as an artist.
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  The more she gets recognized, the more successful she becomes.
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  That's how it works with projectors.
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  And then she's leaned into her channels, knowingly or unknowingly,
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  I'm guessing unknowingly, but she might be able to look at herself and
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  say, I know that these are my gifts.
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  I think she understands herself to a certain degree.
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  Enough to say things like, I know that I'm not sexy, I'm not
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  going to be that type of person.
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  And they ask, well what are you?
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  And she's like, I'm creative, I'm smart, and I'm hardworking.
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  I have the ability to sit down with something creative and I have
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  the discipline to see it through.
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  Where a lot of people don't have the discipline to sit there with
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  nothing until it becomes something.
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  That's her channel of struggle.
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  How does she do it?
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  What is she sharing?
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  What types of things is she sharing?
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  She's sharing her channel of judgment.
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  How is she doing that?
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  She is transmitting it through the design of a transmitter.
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  I hope you're seeing that it's the living of the rest of your design that allows
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  your cross to come into greater focus.
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  And it's working through these shadows.
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  She may have had to work through.
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  The shadows of pride, of dominance, of maybe being not the greatest leader,
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  maybe being a dominant leader where she wasn't really looking at everybody
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  as equal or like a flat organization or being able to say, I lead, I
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  decide, but everybody matters here.
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  She might have had periods where she had to go through that to understand
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  that and work her way through it so she could become a more communal leader.
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  She might have had to work through conflict and friction and difficult
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  relationships and learn how to deal with them more diplomatically.
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  She might have had to work through her areas of crisis and difficult
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  situations and really dark times.
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  And I think that's probably the one that we see very, very clearly.
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  Her purpose ultimately in life is grounded by her ability to navigate
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  turbulent times, to be able to handle the emotions that come with deeply sexual
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  situations, deeply emotional situations.
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  Going from, I don't know, to I know through experience, which can lead
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  to a lot of difficulty when we're going through something and we're
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  not going to read about it and we're not going to logically break it down.
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  We're going to say, screw it, just do it.
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  I'm going to go do this thing because I just want to have
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  this emotional experience.
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  I want to know what it's like to be with that guy.
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  And I want to feel it and I want to feel it to my bones and I want to know
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  what it's like to have lots of sexual experiences, and I want to know what it's
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  like to dive in to this type of life.
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  That sometimes brings crisis.
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  That sometimes brings deeply dark emotional places.
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  That sometimes brings us to our knees.
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  Because it's unpredictable.
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  We can't figure it out.
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  And then we look to the past and we try to make sense of it.
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  That's what the emotional side does.
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  That's what the abstract does.
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  So, understanding how this all works can help you understand maybe why
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  the things happen in our lives.
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  That there's a greater purpose at work.
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  That there is something that's happening beyond us, that's guiding us.
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  And if we just pay attention to the lessons that are innate in our design,
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  that are coming through all the time, that we can somehow step into
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  what is our bigger purpose in life.
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  Because her purpose does have something to do with confrontation,
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  and it does have something to do with showing people a different way.
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  And maybe helping them learn, or demonstrating how you navigate a crisis.
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  How you can come out stronger.
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  And leading from that place.
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  There are so many interpretations that we could make from that.
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  But from a very high level, these are possibilities and potentials.
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  I know that understanding my cross has certainly given me so much
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  clarity as to why the things that happen, happen, what my lessons are.
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  The more I pay attention to the lessons, the less lessons I have to
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  learn because I'm living in the gifts.
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  And then life changes.
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  And then you start to feel really, really grounded about the steps that you take.
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  Because you're like, this is what I'm here to do.
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  So if this sounds interesting to you, we have a little
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  guide on Incarnation Crosses.
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  DM me Incarnation Cross.
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  Just those two words though please so that the bot sends it to you correctly.
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  DM me Incarnation Cross, we will send you the little guide, or go to
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  nicolelaino.com/incarnationcross.
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  We'll have it all linked up for you in the show notes, as well as episode 110, which
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  was my full reading of Taylor's chart.
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  If you want to go back and listen to that, we will link that up in the
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  show notes for you as well, but please DM me Incarnation Cross if you would
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  like that little guide on incarnation crosses, we'll have it for you there.
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  Thank you so much for being here.
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  I hope you like this episode.
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  I hope you like this little detour that we've taken on our human design journey
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  where we dove into a celebrity chart.
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