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Dirty Little Secret: “Engaged… But Still Paying for Her Ex’s Car?! The Secret She’s Hiding” · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Put it off your chest to comments, you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the Dirty Little Secret Mikes one of two
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  Speaker 1: point nine Bill at a Kid Candice Lopez, producer poo.
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  Speaker 1: I was just thinking, we're kicking off stuff a bus
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  Speaker 1: on Friday. Maybe we do a live dirty little secret fun. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because we're gonna be doing it in live at Walmart
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  Speaker 1: in Garland on Friday morning at Garland North Gartland Avenue
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  Speaker 1: and George Bush. And we're kicking off stuff a bus,
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  Speaker 1: which is such a good cause. We're getting toys for
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  Speaker 1: toys for tots and for kids here in the Metroplex
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  Speaker 1: and for this Christmas, kids who needed this Christmas, and
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  Speaker 1: we need you to show up and show love. We'll
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  Speaker 1: be living on that bus until we stuff it full
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  Speaker 1: of toys, kicking it off Friday morning. Maybe we'll do
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  Speaker 1: a dirty little Secret then we'll see. We're gonna do
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  Speaker 1: one now. And if you have one eight three three
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  Speaker 1: seven eight seven one o two nine, bring it. I
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  Speaker 1: don't care if it's a big secret, little secret, silly secret,
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  Speaker 1: serious secret. And you got one, all right.
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  Speaker 2: So here's the good part. I just got engaged.
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  Speaker 1: That's right. Well, let's let let's not skip over that.
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  Speaker 3: Congratulations, thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I have kind of wait for you.
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  Speaker 3: Guys say something, but you know, no, we're excited for you.
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  Speaker 1: That's that's awesome.
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  Speaker 2: Good for you, thank you, thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 3: But here's the deal, though, I know that, but does
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  Speaker 3: a butt more good news is that, you know, we've
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  Speaker 3: only been dating for two years and this man is
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  Speaker 3: he's such a great guy.
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  Speaker 2: He's already talking about taking steps for a future, like
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  Speaker 2: combining I finances, buying houses, all the grown up stuff.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so before we met a few years ago, I
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  Speaker 2: actually co signed for a car for my ex. This
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  Speaker 2: act of mine. Actually did something stupid and he got
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  Speaker 2: arrested and he's actually in prison.
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  Speaker 1: Oh oh, that's not good.
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  Speaker 2: I've been slept paying for this car ever since.
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  Speaker 1: Guys, so you're paying for so you're paying for the
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  Speaker 1: car he's in jail, prison, whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and my fiance doesn't know. I didn't tell him.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so he doesn't he does? Does it
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  Speaker 1: know that you're paying for your ex's car who's in prison? Right?
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  Speaker 5: How much is left on the payment?
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  Speaker 1: Like? Do you have to pay off?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm almost paid off. There's only like five
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  Speaker 2: grand left five grand.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, still another year?
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  Speaker 1: Was it in ultimate? Because I feel like it's an ultima.
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  Speaker 1: It's given me ultimate energy. I'm just kidding. So are
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  Speaker 1: you going to tell your fiance? I mean, what do
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  Speaker 1: you because if you combine finances, obviously he's gonna see.
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  Speaker 2: It, right, So I've been stalling.
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  Speaker 4: I'm telling him, hey, well, I don't think we should
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  Speaker 4: combine finance until I pay off my student.
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  Speaker 2: Loans, right, yeah, right right.
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  Speaker 4: But he's forever talking about murder the accounts and planning
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  Speaker 4: ahead and doing all these things.
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  Speaker 3: He's so for it.
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  Speaker 2: He's just but it makes me.
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  Speaker 5: Sit to my stomach.
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  Speaker 3: Guys, he's such a great guy, and I feel like dirt.
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  Speaker 5: Well.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, who says you don't have to combine finances?
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  Speaker 1: I know plenty of people who are. May you do
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  Speaker 1: have separate finances, So maybe that's just not your thing.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe we have a joint account together where we take
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  Speaker 1: care of the bills and you have your own account.
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  Speaker 1: I mind, it doesn't have to be. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what you and Eric kntess? What are you and Eric? Do?
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  Speaker 1: You can buy in all finances pretty much?
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  Speaker 5: I mean, we have our own accounts, but we have
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  Speaker 5: combined joint accounts.
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  Speaker 1: Also, so you also have side accounts. Yeah, oh like
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  Speaker 1: side girl.
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  Speaker 5: I just didn't get rid of my bank accounts, like
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  Speaker 5: you know, my savings accounts.
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  Speaker 1: Does you know how much is in that? It does, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because it's technically half his. Yeah, yeah, for sure. All right,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know you had to open of all that. Sure, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I have to, I guess. But it is your account
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  Speaker 1: is your account, his account is his account. Yeah. But
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  Speaker 1: here's the problem with this though. If he feels I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, if you don't tell him and he does
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  Speaker 1: find out, he's going to feel like there's obviously some
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  Speaker 1: major trust that's broken here.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, absolutely, And I feel horrible lying to him
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  Speaker 4: just in general, whether I could pull off the you know,
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  Speaker 4: holding off on the combined combining accounting.
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  Speaker 2: I just really feel terrible.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to put myself in your shoes. Now. I
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  Speaker 1: did do something kind of stupid back in the day.
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  Speaker 1: I bought a car for a girl. Yeah, and I
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  Speaker 1: was making payments out of it. We broke up. Who
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  Speaker 1: you know this because you had to go steal it back.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I forgot about it. First of all,
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  Speaker 1: you're acting surprise, She took the car when we broke up.
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  Speaker 1: She took the car when we broke up, and I
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  Speaker 1: had to go get it. I had to literally go
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  Speaker 1: almost steal the car back because her name wasn't on it. No,
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  Speaker 1: who had to go repoe it for me? God, we've
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  Speaker 1: been through a lot of crap. The point is, I
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  Speaker 1: was I had that car, and I was dating other people,
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  Speaker 1: and I'd explained why I had this random car, and
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  Speaker 1: I was just honest about it. Yeah, I bought this
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  Speaker 1: from my ex and we broke up. So here it
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  Speaker 1: is now I'm going to figure out what to do
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  Speaker 1: with it. So I don't know if I would look
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  Speaker 1: at you different if I'm your fiance and you tell
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  Speaker 1: me the truth about something. The problem is you've waited
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  Speaker 1: a little long now, right, that's the problem. You know.
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  Speaker 5: I think we combined finances until we actually got married,
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  Speaker 5: but you're still delaying it.
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  Speaker 1: Even if you do that, Yeah, then I mean, this
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  Speaker 1: is not the end. Even if he finds out it's
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  Speaker 1: not a deal breaker. It's like you had a big heart. No,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think so. You had a big heart. You're
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  Speaker 1: trying to help an ex. People. If everyone's done, that
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  Speaker 1: was it. You have to own it that it was
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  Speaker 1: a bad decision.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, you could tell him before we combine.
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  Speaker 5: I just need to get this off before it becomes
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  Speaker 5: your issue too, exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, let us know what happens. And and yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: I'd love to follow up on this, and and good luck,
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  Speaker 1: it'll be okay. Don't don't worry about it. Don't let
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  Speaker 1: it freak you out this much.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, thank you guys. You guys are awesome. Thank you
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  Speaker 2: so much.
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  Speaker 1: You feel better confessing, don't you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually do.
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  Speaker 1: That's what we're here for.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you.