Latest / The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast / Women Tell All with Kirpa, Jane, Heather, Bri, Tracy & Nick Viall
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Live from Planet Blue in Malibu, California. This is the
- 0:05Speaker 1: Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast with i R Radio.
- 0:09Speaker 1: The season is ending in dramatic fashion. Tonight's episode of
- 0:14Speaker 1: Almost Famous Podcast will maybe be the same way. Welcome
- 0:19Speaker 1: back with a special episode after Women Tell All, we
- 0:22Speaker 1: have an episode that we're bringing on some of this
- 0:25Speaker 1: season's favorite contestants, and our first guest is definitely one
- 0:30Speaker 1: of this season's favorite contestants. We have Kerpa in studio
- 0:36Speaker 1: or in the shop right now. You guys, we may
- 0:41Speaker 1: have a better Tell All than the actual Women tell
- 0:45Speaker 1: based on this gossip that Kerpa is about to give. Y'all,
- 0:50Speaker 1: Holy moly, go for it, so you'll Yeah, you saw
- 0:54Speaker 1: it on The Women Till All. I mentioned that Kaylin
- 0:57Speaker 1: slid into a cast member's d M before she was
- 1:01Speaker 1: on the show, So that was Dean sid Dean Damns.
- 1:05Speaker 1: Do you here's a question. Do we have a problem
- 1:09Speaker 1: with that? I don't have a problem honestly. I think
- 1:14Speaker 1: what turned me off was how far along we were
- 1:17Speaker 1: in the process, and that's when she was bringing it up.
- 1:20Speaker 1: She brought it up there. Yeah, that's how we all knew. Wait,
- 1:24Speaker 1: slow down, Okay, So remember this is just people listening. Okay,
- 1:28Speaker 1: they only have one way to pick up on this stuff.
- 1:31Speaker 1: So you're telling me in the house or in the
- 1:33Speaker 1: mansion or wherever, beautiful location. Yes, in the car along
- 1:37Speaker 1: in the process. Was all this said on a mode
- 1:40Speaker 1: of transportation? No, this was we were in a hotel
- 1:45Speaker 1: on camera, off eating. Always she knows when to talk.
- 1:49Speaker 1: It's always when there's no mic on her, and she
- 1:52Speaker 1: says team at one point, I slid into somebody's how
- 1:58Speaker 1: did how did this conversation get to say? I don't
- 2:00Speaker 1: even know how it started, but we were I don't know.
- 2:04Speaker 1: She just brought up that she had tried damning him,
- 2:07Speaker 1: and I think they were supposed to meet and he
- 2:09Speaker 1: never like he know, he doesn't fall him. Okay, I'm
- 2:14Speaker 1: planning something with him on Friday, and it's like a
- 2:16Speaker 1: big to do. It's actually Jadeen Tayner's gender reveal, and
- 2:21Speaker 1: like every day I'm like, are you gonna back out?
- 2:23Speaker 1: Are you gonna back out? Um? I I think this
- 2:29Speaker 1: is wild news only for one reason. I wonder how
- 2:31Speaker 1: often this happens? Right? I mean, Kurpa, you're beautiful. The
- 2:35Speaker 1: show loves you, like you're coming off of this on
- 2:37Speaker 1: a higher You're gonna get so many d m you're
- 2:39Speaker 1: never gonna know. No, you know, you're never gonna be
- 2:42Speaker 1: able to keep up with it. And so the fact
- 2:44Speaker 1: that one Dean saw the d M is impressive. Second
- 2:48Speaker 1: that she sent the d M, you know what, she
- 2:51Speaker 1: was interested. Dean's a good looking guy. Women like him, like,
- 2:54Speaker 1: not that bigdeo. But the fact that she brings it
- 2:56Speaker 1: up half we do season, she's still thinking about it. Yeah,
- 2:59Speaker 1: that's that's why, Like it was such a big deal
- 3:02Speaker 1: and Katie brought it up. I brought it up like
- 3:04Speaker 1: to Colton, And that's that's what turned me off. It's
- 3:07Speaker 1: not the fact that she slid into the d m
- 3:09Speaker 1: s and like, I'm sure other people have done that too,
- 3:11Speaker 1: but it's like talking about it that far along when
- 3:13Speaker 1: we're supposed to be like in this for Colton dating Colton,
- 3:17Speaker 1: It's like, are we bringing that up? Yeah? Uh? Did
- 3:21Speaker 1: she slide into his d M s during casting or
- 3:24Speaker 1: before she was even in the casting process. I think
- 3:27Speaker 1: that makes a difference. So she's just a fan girl.
- 3:29Speaker 1: I can't say that I wouldn't slide into that. I
- 3:33Speaker 1: don't know, but I think it was probably just a
- 3:37Speaker 1: few months before. I worry about this now though, I
- 3:40Speaker 1: guess I don't now. But when I was single and uh,
- 3:45Speaker 1: we were in Vegas when I was single, and I
- 3:47Speaker 1: was like, I really want to meet a girl? How
- 3:49Speaker 1: do I do it? And I was like, I'm not
- 3:50Speaker 1: against the girl from the franchise, but also like how
- 3:54Speaker 1: I didn't know how to approach anybody. And it was
- 3:56Speaker 1: actually Nick, who's here tonight as well, and he goes
- 3:59Speaker 1: just slide in the d MS like cinema message, shoot
- 4:02Speaker 1: your shot. This is where shooting your shot backfires fast.
- 4:06Speaker 1: You can't just throw this. You can't throw the messages around.
- 4:09Speaker 1: Because what if I were to reach out to somebody
- 4:10Speaker 1: when I was single, Yeah, I send you a d M? Right,
- 4:15Speaker 1: I'm seeing like Kurpa like what do you have to
- 4:17Speaker 1: Let's hang out? And you say, yeah, we hang out
- 4:19Speaker 1: a couple of times. And then what happens if paradise
- 4:21Speaker 1: comes along? You go on Paradise and I'm freaked down.
- 4:24Speaker 1: I go, oh, but Kirp and I talked a couple
- 4:26Speaker 1: of times. It's gonna bring off this idea that you're
- 4:28Speaker 1: just chasing after Bachelor Nation. Yeah, that's true. It doesn't
- 4:32Speaker 1: work out well, right, we gotta be careful out there,
- 4:34Speaker 1: be careful. The d M s this is a and
- 4:37Speaker 1: it's like putting me into a deep side little thought
- 4:39Speaker 1: here what is wrong and what is not wrong when
- 4:42Speaker 1: it comes to the pusler. Well, let's get back to
- 4:45Speaker 1: the women's tell all, because I thought this was one
- 4:47Speaker 1: of the most unorganized but also one of the most
- 4:50Speaker 1: entertaining tell alls that I've ever watched my own. I
- 4:53Speaker 1: so just to kind of catch up a little bit. Uh,
- 4:57Speaker 1: last week, we watched Cold and Jump a Fence. UM,
- 5:00Speaker 1: one of the wildest things in Bachelor history. Kurpa, I
- 5:02Speaker 1: want to get your opinion on that in a second.
- 5:04Speaker 1: But the women tell all then happens, and right away
- 5:09Speaker 1: the women are after each other. And I was on
- 5:11Speaker 1: a show yesterday, UM with a few people, and this
- 5:15Speaker 1: is a statement that's made and I want to hear
- 5:16Speaker 1: if you both agree. Let's not take anything away from
- 5:18Speaker 1: Colton in this statement, but they're saying that the women
- 5:22Speaker 1: this season definitely made the season. And I wonder if
- 5:26Speaker 1: after this tell all, if that was proven true or
- 5:29Speaker 1: not based on how it happened. You guys ran wild,
- 5:32Speaker 1: it was, but it was crazy. Yeah, it was really
- 5:35Speaker 1: crazy in the press room to listen to you, like
- 5:37Speaker 1: to everybody. I was like, I can't hear a thing.
- 5:39Speaker 1: And Chris stopped it a couple of times, saying like,
- 5:42Speaker 1: you girls, you're not gonna be heard if you just
- 5:43Speaker 1: keep talking over each other. And it got to the
- 5:45Speaker 1: point where even after he said that, it's kept going. Yeah, exactly,
- 5:49Speaker 1: So there was some there're some arguments that really never
- 5:52Speaker 1: wrapped up. Watching it back, you're like, Okay, well, I
- 5:54Speaker 1: guess we're just gonna drop it because they're never going
- 5:56Speaker 1: to come to a conclusion. Um. I think the big
- 5:59Speaker 1: one ends for the night was on Jeka versus Nicole,
- 6:03Speaker 1: And what was weird about on k versus Nicole was
- 6:07Speaker 1: that Nicole got a hot seat and Nicole was only
- 6:11Speaker 1: really a part of one episode. I agree it is.
- 6:14Speaker 1: It is odd how the hot seats happened this year. Kurba,
- 6:17Speaker 1: what is your take? Why are the women so fiery
- 6:19Speaker 1: with each other right now? Like what's being held in?
- 6:23Speaker 1: I really don't. I wasn't expecting it to get that heated.
- 6:27Speaker 1: Was it like that when you had But Okay, my
- 6:31Speaker 1: theory is back when I had a women Tell All,
- 6:34Speaker 1: it was going into the second season of Paradise. Paradise
- 6:37Speaker 1: was something that like you wanted to be asked to do,
- 6:38Speaker 1: but it wasn't like a game changer, like not change
- 6:41Speaker 1: your life because the first season was hit enough for
- 6:45Speaker 1: them to do it again, but like nobody became a
- 6:48Speaker 1: star from it. Um So I think that now so
- 6:51Speaker 1: many girls look at Women tell All as their audition
- 6:55Speaker 1: for Paradise. They want to get a word in. So
- 6:57Speaker 1: many random girls like who left Night one like that
- 7:01Speaker 1: one girl served with a j She was James here,
- 7:08Speaker 1: you're gonna ask her. He was defending. I was tearing down.
- 7:12Speaker 1: It was like, um, sorry, we'll ask Jane that same question.
- 7:20Speaker 1: What was the passion behind it? Kerpa, what are your
- 7:24Speaker 1: thoughts now after you've gone from the episodes watching this
- 7:27Speaker 1: whole thing play out, What's going through your mind? And
- 7:31Speaker 1: are you who are you feeling the most emotion for
- 7:34Speaker 1: during the last few episodes? Um? Well, after watching Colton
- 7:39Speaker 1: jumped the fence, I'm feeling for him because he's clearly
- 7:42Speaker 1: going through a lot and I tried to warn him
- 7:47Speaker 1: and Jerry went back and watched your episode today because
- 7:50Speaker 1: he was like I'm going to prove like I'm going
- 7:53Speaker 1: to go back and watch the fact that like Kerpa
- 7:56Speaker 1: and Tasha and warned him against what happening to him
- 8:00Speaker 1: in this moment. Yeah, we tried based on what though.
- 8:03Speaker 1: I mean, That's the thing is during the episodes, we
- 8:05Speaker 1: never got that you just warned him. Which is the
- 8:07Speaker 1: right thing to do or the wrong thing? We don't know.
- 8:10Speaker 1: But why did you feel like it was so clear
- 8:13Speaker 1: that whoever was still there weren't there for the right reasons.
- 8:16Speaker 1: It was just after Katie had told us that she
- 8:18Speaker 1: had heard those things in Singapore about casting Kylin talking
- 8:23Speaker 1: about Bachelorette and like the d M thing and endorsement
- 8:27Speaker 1: deals after and later all that kind of stuff. So
- 8:30Speaker 1: when he when Colton came to me ar Taesia and
- 8:33Speaker 1: asked like, Hey, what do you guys think about this?
- 8:36Speaker 1: I had no problem like saying, you know, what, if
- 8:39Speaker 1: I were you, Like, I know, I you know your
- 8:42Speaker 1: relationships better than I do, But if I were in
- 8:44Speaker 1: your shoes, maybe just inspect these relationships a little bit harder,
- 8:48Speaker 1: like ask the deeper questions of casting and Kaylin just
- 8:50Speaker 1: in case. So at that point you seem kind of like,
- 8:53Speaker 1: can I be honest? I seem like you're like lukewarm
- 8:56Speaker 1: about your relationship with Colton. I moved really slowly, and
- 9:00Speaker 1: I it's hard for me to jump all in, So
- 9:03Speaker 1: I was really trying to like feel him out because
- 9:06Speaker 1: I mean, at the end of this it's an engagement
- 9:08Speaker 1: and I've been engaged and I don't want to have
- 9:10Speaker 1: to like to do that again and have it end horribly.
- 9:13Speaker 1: So I was really trying to feel him out. So
- 9:16Speaker 1: I knew it came off like I didn't care, but
- 9:18Speaker 1: I was just trying to like get more out of
- 9:21Speaker 1: him and see if there was that connection. Well, I
- 9:24Speaker 1: felt you in that moment. I was like, this girl
- 9:26Speaker 1: is speaking the truth and he's just deciding not to
- 9:31Speaker 1: see it. This is one of my favorite episodes of
- 9:32Speaker 1: the Almost Famous podcast because it is our own little tell.
- 9:35Speaker 1: We don't have like an episode to break down. It's
- 9:37Speaker 1: just it's just so fun cause we get you in
- 9:39Speaker 1: here and we go, Kurt, but what really happened? And
- 9:41Speaker 1: you're telling us. So there's two questions we're gonna ask
- 9:44Speaker 1: every single person from your season that sits down here.
- 9:46Speaker 1: One is do you wish it would have worked with
- 9:48Speaker 1: you in Colton? I don't think we were right for
- 9:51Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, I think he's a great guy. He
- 9:54Speaker 1: has like things that I'm looking for in a partner,
- 9:57Speaker 1: but I don't think we were the right match. Question two,
- 10:01Speaker 1: Can I get outside of yourself? Can I guess what
- 10:03Speaker 1: you're gonna say? You're gonna say, who do you want
- 10:06Speaker 1: to see him with? If anyone? No, but we'll add that, Yeah,
- 10:10Speaker 1: outside of yourself? Who do you want to see him
- 10:12Speaker 1: with with? If anyone? I love Tasha. I think she
- 10:17Speaker 1: would be a good fit for Colton. Tasia for Colton
- 10:21Speaker 1: is what Kurba says in my final question, outside of yourself?
- 10:24Speaker 1: Who should be the next batchlor At? I love Hannah
- 10:27Speaker 1: Ge Hannah Gee for next Bachelor? Can we talk about
- 10:30Speaker 1: Hannah be first? I like, I have like a massive
- 10:32Speaker 1: girl crush on her in the way that I get
- 10:35Speaker 1: giddy watching her, Like I get smiley watching her. See
- 10:38Speaker 1: this is where maybe you guys can help me with this.
- 10:41Speaker 1: People get that way with her. I didn't feel that
- 10:43Speaker 1: with her, but people get really excited about Hannah Be
- 10:46Speaker 1: my god, I love her so much, like you guys,
- 10:47Speaker 1: I'm not sure whether I want to be her or
- 10:50Speaker 1: be friends with her. She's amazing, She's just no bullsh
- 10:54Speaker 1: like she'll say whatever she wants and quirky. I love her.
- 10:59Speaker 1: She just like finds me of a better version of me.
- 11:03Speaker 1: Like she's just like me, You're the best version of
- 11:10Speaker 1: you you can ever. I don't know. I just like
- 11:12Speaker 1: I love watching her because I relate to her. But
- 11:16Speaker 1: I don't feel awkward watching her like I feel awkward
- 11:18Speaker 1: watching myself. What was the reason for that? I hate
- 11:21Speaker 1: Listen to my voicemail, Kerpa, Um, you are definitely one
- 11:24Speaker 1: of our favorites. I hope to see you in paradise.
- 11:28Speaker 1: We'll see, We'll see. Come do it. Yeah, you gotta
- 11:33Speaker 1: do it. Look what happens for these two? They're writing
- 11:35Speaker 1: books together now. And speaking of that, Uh, Lucy and
- 11:38Speaker 1: Clark by Ashley I Can, Eddie and Jared Havn is
- 11:42Speaker 1: out in bookstores now. Make sure you go to Lucy
- 11:44Speaker 1: and Clark book dot com dot com and order it today.
- 11:48Speaker 1: It's a good book. I've read it, Kerpa. Thanks for
- 11:50Speaker 1: coming on, Thanks for having me. This is gonna be
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- 14:23Speaker 1: you showed up on Women Tell All and and just
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- 14:40Speaker 1: it's gonna be awesome. So Tracy, we've got to dig
- 14:43Speaker 1: into this. Yeah, let's right in. We knew about you
- 14:48Speaker 1: before the season even started, So there's tweets that came
- 14:54Speaker 1: out and we have to talk about because we haven't
- 14:56Speaker 1: got to hear your side of the story, okay, And
- 14:58Speaker 1: I'm just gonna leave it up to you to explain
- 15:00Speaker 1: all that because before the season even happens. This is
- 15:03Speaker 1: one of the unfortunate things about the show is you're filming,
- 15:06Speaker 1: you can't protect yourself, you can't explain yourself, and so
- 15:10Speaker 1: these things just keep spurling around in the media and
- 15:13Speaker 1: we don't get to hear from you. So what was
- 15:14Speaker 1: going on and where? And I think I want to
- 15:17Speaker 1: ask you, did your mind change from those tweets that
- 15:19Speaker 1: time you went on the show. Um, I came out
- 15:23Speaker 1: already and publicly apologized for it. It was an extremely
- 15:27Speaker 1: long time ago. It was embarrassing. I said some things
- 15:31Speaker 1: that I definitely shouldn't have said. I wasn't thinking when
- 15:34Speaker 1: I said them. It's unfortunate that I ever would have
- 15:38Speaker 1: written that stuff and it came out and people saw it.
- 15:41Speaker 1: But all I can do is kind of own it
- 15:43Speaker 1: and apologize. I think it's the best thing to do
- 15:46Speaker 1: because the funny part not the funny parts. I know
- 15:49Speaker 1: it was very personal to you, but a lot of
- 15:51Speaker 1: people from the show have had things they've said in
- 15:54Speaker 1: the passaitive came out while they're on the show, or
- 15:56Speaker 1: you know, when they're younger and they've they've had different,
- 15:58Speaker 1: you know, viewpoints. But the fact is five years ago,
- 16:04Speaker 1: six years ago, I wasn't a believer in the show.
- 16:06Speaker 1: I would have if I was a fan of The Bachelor,
- 16:08Speaker 1: I would have gone, this is funny. I like watching it,
- 16:10Speaker 1: but I'll never go on it. And then I go
- 16:12Speaker 1: on it and I go, oh no, this this is
- 16:14Speaker 1: this actually is something that could work, and this is
- 16:16Speaker 1: actually affects real lives and so your worldview or your
- 16:20Speaker 1: opinions change, which I think is completely fair. Yes, I
- 16:24Speaker 1: mean everyone I'm sure has said things that they didn't mean,
- 16:29Speaker 1: and unfortunately I had to have it publicly come out
- 16:34Speaker 1: and have people see that about me, and that's not
- 16:36Speaker 1: who I am. So again, all I could do was
- 16:39Speaker 1: apologize and hope that people see me for the new,
- 16:43Speaker 1: better person that I am today. Um, I hope so
- 16:46Speaker 1: every day we can do that. When the Jonas Brothers
- 16:49Speaker 1: reunited this week, my my friend was reading me tweets
- 16:53Speaker 1: from two thousand and eight, and um, this is going
- 16:57Speaker 1: to prove your point. Yeah, this is actually going to
- 17:00Speaker 1: be amazing. Actley has been a fan of the Jonas
- 17:01Speaker 1: Brothers for years and now they actually know who actually is.
- 17:05Speaker 1: They've no, no, I've went for a bit. Oh what
- 17:11Speaker 1: Oh please explain They've known who I've been for a bit.
- 17:15Speaker 1: Oh okay, sorry, I'm like, it's just like a nut anyway,
- 17:29Speaker 1: your defensive note the Jonas Brothers. Okay, this is something
- 17:36Speaker 1: that I said. It goes. I'm like a really good
- 17:39Speaker 1: fan pretty much a professional, loyal and supportive also good
- 17:44Speaker 1: qualities for a musicians girlfriend. Yes, and then I also said, hey, hey,
- 17:49Speaker 1: you you I don't like your girlfriend. I think you
- 17:51Speaker 1: need a new one. The official song of the summer
- 17:54Speaker 1: of two thousand eight and two thousand nine because Joe
- 17:58Speaker 1: was dating Taylor's Lift and Camilla Belle. And so what
- 18:04Speaker 1: do we take away from this? Don't tweet And to
- 18:08Speaker 1: the Jonas brothers have known Ashley for a wall time, Tracy,
- 18:15Speaker 1: thanks for joining us. Thanks for answer those questions. I
- 18:17Speaker 1: know it's not fun to talk about, but here's the deal.
- 18:19Speaker 1: We don't know you any differently than what we've known
- 18:21Speaker 1: from the show, and you're sitting here today and we're
- 18:22Speaker 1: just thankful that you're here talking to us. Thank you
- 18:25Speaker 1: for having me. Um, there's so much I want to
- 18:27Speaker 1: break down with you, and there's so much ash she
- 18:28Speaker 1: wants to break down with you. But we've got to start.
- 18:30Speaker 1: You were involved in a little drama this season. It
- 18:32Speaker 1: was involved in a little bit. How did you get
- 18:34Speaker 1: into that? Um? I believe it's started with the fact
- 18:40Speaker 1: that I'm this ancient old woman in the house and
- 18:44Speaker 1: you take one of the much younger girls and she
- 18:48Speaker 1: was just poking at me and poking at me, and
- 18:51Speaker 1: I think I broke a lot quicker than I'd expected.
- 18:55Speaker 1: One of your other cougar pals wasn't at women tell all,
- 19:00Speaker 1: she was not a lease why not. Unfortunately, she was
- 19:03Speaker 1: in a wedding in Mexico and she could not be there. Yea.
- 19:07Speaker 1: I wish she was sad about that would be hurt.
- 19:09Speaker 1: I was very sad. I'm a little sensitive right now, Tracy.
- 19:13Speaker 1: I feel you right. Actually, I want to know if
- 19:15Speaker 1: you we haven't talked about this yet ever in our friendship.
- 19:18Speaker 1: I'm turning thirty at the end of this month, and
- 19:20Speaker 1: I'm excited about it. I'm good should I was really
- 19:23Speaker 1: excited to turn Yeah, I feel good about it, Like
- 19:25Speaker 1: you know, there's some craziness to it, like where I
- 19:27Speaker 1: don't feel like a kid anymore. I don't feel like
- 19:28Speaker 1: I can just mess around anymore. I feel like there's
- 19:30Speaker 1: some responsibilities that I need to continue to consider. Um.
- 19:34Speaker 1: But it's a life step and I'm I'm I feel
- 19:36Speaker 1: like my twenties were good to me and I'm ready
- 19:38Speaker 1: to move on. But I awesome a little sensitive at
- 19:41Speaker 1: this at the fact when I was single, of what
- 19:44Speaker 1: turning thirty meant being single, and so I felt that,
- 19:47Speaker 1: you know, not that long ago and I know we
- 19:50Speaker 1: a lot of us have. So the fact I could
- 19:52Speaker 1: see myself being in a house trying my hardest to
- 19:56Speaker 1: find love on a crazy show, because hey, the world's
- 19:58Speaker 1: not working for me, so let's try to do reality television.
- 20:00Speaker 1: I get that perspective. And there's somebody there who's beautiful, younger,
- 20:04Speaker 1: and has so many years ahead of her. She doesn't
- 20:06Speaker 1: feel or he doesn't feel the pressure of time on
- 20:09Speaker 1: his shoulders like we do, and they poke at you
- 20:11Speaker 1: and poke at you at a very I would break.
- 20:13Speaker 1: I know I would. I would not handle that well.
- 20:15Speaker 1: I would honestly probably get become a shell of myself,
- 20:18Speaker 1: which isn't fair to you. Is that how you felt?
- 20:20Speaker 1: Or am I just speaking for you know? I don't
- 20:22Speaker 1: think it was fair. Actually, I wanted a fair shot at,
- 20:27Speaker 1: you know, meeting Colton and talking to him and having
- 20:29Speaker 1: my experiences with him when everyone got the chance to
- 20:32Speaker 1: sit down, and every single time I sat down, I
- 20:36Speaker 1: was interrupted by some joking situation like a bathrobe or
- 20:43Speaker 1: you don't see stuff happened in the pool one day.
- 20:45Speaker 1: Just it was constant. So yeah, it was a little
- 20:49Speaker 1: unfortunate that I didn't get what I thought was a
- 20:52Speaker 1: fair shot always to speak to him. Yeah, did you
- 20:58Speaker 1: hope it was Colton? Then? I mean, you know he is.
- 21:01Speaker 1: He is a little younger. I don't mind dating younger guys. Okay,
- 21:03Speaker 1: So when you were signing up for the show going
- 21:06Speaker 1: to the casting, we often don't know who the batchelor's
- 21:07Speaker 1: going to be. Actually didn't think it was going to
- 21:10Speaker 1: be Colton. I didn't sign my contract until I knew
- 21:13Speaker 1: it was gonna That's when actually, I know you want me,
- 21:20Speaker 1: so I'm not going on this it's this guy, And
- 21:21Speaker 1: I said, Okay, Chris is the batchel we've got to have. Actually,
- 21:24Speaker 1: they called me and they're like, are you going to
- 21:26Speaker 1: send in your contract? And I was like, I'm gonna
- 21:28Speaker 1: wait till the bachelor's announced. I didn't want it to
- 21:34Speaker 1: be r. Oh, really, we've never talked. You didn't want
- 21:37Speaker 1: it to be R. Yeah. I didn't think that R
- 21:38Speaker 1: and I would ever work out. Chris and I certainly
- 21:44Speaker 1: wouldn't have worked out though, either. So did you want
- 21:47Speaker 1: it to be Colton? Um? I was fine with a
- 21:49Speaker 1: bean Colton once I found out. I just didn't expect
- 21:51Speaker 1: it to be him. So I hadn't considered it. What
- 21:54Speaker 1: do you think coming off now the show. Yeah, the
- 21:57Speaker 1: show is done. It's ending up for everybody, right, mean,
- 22:00Speaker 1: so everybody in this room that's been on the show,
- 22:02Speaker 1: Colton himself is moving on to a new chapter of
- 22:04Speaker 1: life completely. This was something you all tried. Yes, how
- 22:07Speaker 1: are your motions? How are you feeling? And after watching
- 22:10Speaker 1: it back and knowing you were involved in drama along
- 22:12Speaker 1: the way with Nicole and Demi, what are you thinking? Um?
- 22:16Speaker 1: I mean, I like to think I'm a little old
- 22:20Speaker 1: to be involved in this drama. So it sucks that
- 22:23Speaker 1: I am constantly brought back into it, but I mean
- 22:26Speaker 1: it is what it is. Uh, But I mean I
- 22:29Speaker 1: want to keep dating and find someone and potentially go
- 22:32Speaker 1: to Paradise. Thank you for my Leaden. So you know
- 22:37Speaker 1: that they're going to put you in Demi against each other.
- 22:41Speaker 1: I am absolutely sure that that will happen. So you
- 22:43Speaker 1: still don't like loved Demi? Huh? I don't really how
- 22:45Speaker 1: to pick up a problem with her at this point.
- 22:47Speaker 1: I mean, once we're back in that environment again, God
- 22:50Speaker 1: only knows that will happen. Seriously, your feud with her
- 22:53Speaker 1: seemed like nothing compared to her food with Courtney. Yea
- 22:57Speaker 1: and Courtney that got rough, was insane, actually handle herself.
- 23:02Speaker 1: She's not here right, I think she's away in Atlanta,
- 23:06Speaker 1: so you did not handle herself very well. And that
- 23:08Speaker 1: a pacifier like literally getting up into somebody's girl like that,
- 23:12Speaker 1: like to get literally somebody's grill. I thought she was
- 23:16Speaker 1: actually gonna punch her. I was sitting directly behind Corney
- 23:19Speaker 1: and I saw her, like slow motion get up and
- 23:21Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, what is she doing. And
- 23:23Speaker 1: she starts to approach her faster and faster, and I
- 23:26Speaker 1: think we probably all thought she was going to punch
- 23:28Speaker 1: her in the face. It was the craziest thing I've
- 23:29Speaker 1: ever seen. I thought I was un in for a
- 23:33Speaker 1: very different show. Was not good. It was not good.
- 23:36Speaker 1: She really did get in her face, shove a pass
- 23:39Speaker 1: for I would not have taken that well, showed a
- 23:41Speaker 1: pacifier in her mouth. I thought. I thought that was
- 23:44Speaker 1: one of the weirdest things that's happened. Um shish, little baby.
- 23:48Speaker 1: She was like trying to make a point that, like
- 23:51Speaker 1: Demi was a baby when one through the same age
- 23:53Speaker 1: that she wanted to make clear that Demi was the
- 23:55Speaker 1: more immature one in the situation, goes ahead, rows a
- 23:59Speaker 1: passify her in her mouth area, and she thinks that
- 24:02Speaker 1: that's proving she's more mature. Interesting stuff. Guys, Demi still
- 24:06Speaker 1: has this way though, to close that up with saying
- 24:10Speaker 1: all this stuff really being that pest that we've talked about,
- 24:13Speaker 1: being the lovable pest and still like walking away from
- 24:17Speaker 1: these situations like pretty unscathed. Like she just sit there
- 24:19Speaker 1: and took it through her jabs, walked up on stage
- 24:22Speaker 1: and did her thing and walked off smiling and everybody
- 24:24Speaker 1: clapped her. Demmy, it's like a scrappy box. Yes. Everyone.
- 24:27Speaker 1: Everyone loves her. And I love her now too because
- 24:30Speaker 1: I met her, you know, and we did interviews after
- 24:32Speaker 1: Womens at All and I was like, your bundle of
- 24:36Speaker 1: energy and joy, Like she's so fun. I loved her.
- 24:39Speaker 1: She's a great time. I mean, that's de me for you, Tracy.
- 24:42Speaker 1: We hope to see you in Paradise. I think we will.
- 24:45Speaker 1: I think we will. Um. I hope you prepare yourself
- 24:48Speaker 1: mentally for all this stuff that's gonna be coming up
- 24:49Speaker 1: in Paradise for you, that I can prepare myself a
- 24:52Speaker 1: little better this time around and maybe like push back
- 24:55Speaker 1: a little at time. We have three questions. We asked everybody,
- 24:59Speaker 1: Uh tonight. Yeah, First one is do you wish it
- 25:04Speaker 1: would have worked out with Colton? I wish it would
- 25:09Speaker 1: have just worked out with someone that I had a
- 25:11Speaker 1: connection with, Colton or anyone but Colton specifically. Do you
- 25:16Speaker 1: think it would have worked out? I think we had
- 25:17Speaker 1: a lot in common and he's someone that would have
- 25:20Speaker 1: been a really great friend for me. But no, we
- 25:22Speaker 1: probably weren't great for each other too. Who do do
- 25:25Speaker 1: you see Colton being most compatible with or is there
- 25:30Speaker 1: anyone he really would be in this group? Um? I
- 25:33Speaker 1: think he's probably the most compatible with Cassie. That's the
- 25:37Speaker 1: first that's the first vote for Cassie in the second
- 25:39Speaker 1: vote of the night. But why do you say that? Why? Um?
- 25:46Speaker 1: Because we saw it because of what we like. Um.
- 25:52Speaker 1: I mean he's distraught and heartbroken over her, and you
- 25:58Speaker 1: don't get that kind of emotion out of someone who
- 26:00Speaker 1: only has lukewarm feelings for someone. He is you can
- 26:03Speaker 1: tell he's very much in love with her and really
- 26:06Speaker 1: really wants it to work. So it's Cassie or nobody.
- 26:08Speaker 1: And finally, who should be the next bachelor at other
- 26:11Speaker 1: than yourself? I think I'd make a great bachelor a personally. Um,
- 26:16Speaker 1: I think that Klin would make a beautiful bachelor at
- 26:20Speaker 1: actually so we had the first vote for Klin. Hey, Jcy,
- 26:24Speaker 1: thank you so much. Carry yourself with poise, go on paradise,
- 26:27Speaker 1: do something cool that we can talk about. I have
- 26:29Speaker 1: a lot of fun, find yourself love all right, thank you?
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- 28:21Speaker 1: success recently from Night one Exeters from the franchise grocery
- 28:25Speaker 1: store Joe comes to Mind, Dance with the Stars, hosting
- 28:28Speaker 1: Dance with the Stars on tour and going on Paradise
- 28:31Speaker 1: and finding love. We have a Night one Exeter on
- 28:35Speaker 1: the podcast right now. Jane, Welcome to the Almost Famous podcast.
- 28:38Speaker 1: I am totally team Joe. By the way, he's like
- 28:41Speaker 1: an angel in human form. How do you know? Well,
- 28:45Speaker 1: I mean I've watched and I feel like I have
- 28:47Speaker 1: a pretty good like perspective as like the audience does.
- 28:50Speaker 1: So like, I mean, who doesn't love Joe, right, He's
- 28:53Speaker 1: like he's the most one of the most lovable guys
- 28:55Speaker 1: on TV. In my opinion, he's kind of like your
- 28:58Speaker 1: I mean, I would imagine is he your role model?
- 29:00Speaker 1: Kind of because I look at him and I'm like, Okay,
- 29:03Speaker 1: he didn't make it far. He should have, right, but like,
- 29:07Speaker 1: now look at him. He was like on Dancing with
- 29:09Speaker 1: the Stars, like people still got to see his personality,
- 29:12Speaker 1: like he's sweet, he's funny. So like I look at
- 29:14Speaker 1: him and I'm like, okay, whatever, you don't have to
- 29:17Speaker 1: make it far. If you have a presence, you know
- 29:19Speaker 1: the audience will recognize it. Anyways, let's be really honest here.
- 29:25Speaker 1: There's one person for every every season of Paradise that
- 29:31Speaker 1: was eliminated night one, one lucky person gets that chance
- 29:35Speaker 1: again and right, and I think it's between you maybe
- 29:39Speaker 1: now after this woman tell all and floff girl, it's
- 29:43Speaker 1: gonna be a battle. I mean, gosh, I love her
- 29:47Speaker 1: so much, like me and her super similar because they're
- 29:50Speaker 1: both outgoing and like funny. I mean, if you look
- 29:52Speaker 1: at the women tell all, I do feel like I
- 29:55Speaker 1: had a little bit more of like more of opinions
- 29:59Speaker 1: to say. Um, but if it does come down to
- 30:02Speaker 1: me and her made the best woman win both of us,
- 30:09Speaker 1: where I high five the slaty What is it like?
- 30:12Speaker 1: I mean, we haven't talked to a Night one Exeter
- 30:14Speaker 1: since Joe, but Joe's was a little different because all
- 30:17Speaker 1: of a sudden he blew up on the Twitter sphere.
- 30:19Speaker 1: What is it like to prepare for the show, go
- 30:22Speaker 1: on the show, and then leave Night one? Like? What
- 30:25Speaker 1: is that? Honestly? What are those feelings like? I mean,
- 30:28Speaker 1: you know, getting ready for it, Like, at least in
- 30:31Speaker 1: my experience, like I walked in there and I was
- 30:33Speaker 1: like I felt confident. I like, I'm pretty like open
- 30:38Speaker 1: and I'm not really shy, so for me, like I
- 30:40Speaker 1: didn't really have like too many barriers. So when you
- 30:43Speaker 1: go home night one after feeling confident, it's kind of
- 30:47Speaker 1: like a pretty big downer. Like I was almost like
- 30:50Speaker 1: I kind of self doubted myself for a little while.
- 30:53Speaker 1: But I'm back, I'm alive, I'm here, I'm ready prepared eyes.
- 30:57Speaker 1: And I'm just kidding, how did that conversation with go?
- 31:01Speaker 1: You know, our conversation went so well it didn't even air,
- 31:04Speaker 1: like people didn't even get to like see it on TV.
- 31:06Speaker 1: But like, our convo went so good. We were laughing,
- 31:10Speaker 1: like there were no awkward pauses, There was no like
- 31:13Speaker 1: twirling of the hair, like what do I say next?
- 31:16Speaker 1: Like the conversation was really flowing. So I think that
- 31:19Speaker 1: was like a really big surprise, like when I got
- 31:21Speaker 1: sent home because our one on one went pretty good.
- 31:25Speaker 1: What's it then like watching the whole season back, knowing
- 31:28Speaker 1: you were at the mansion on night one, and now
- 31:30Speaker 1: you see these women who you probably didn't know well
- 31:33Speaker 1: but you ran into on that night, you know, pursuing
- 31:36Speaker 1: this Colton guy and now falling in love, and you
- 31:39Speaker 1: watch this whole thing now as a fan. Yeah, I
- 31:42Speaker 1: feel like my perspective as well as like, I think
- 31:45Speaker 1: there was one other girl and the women tell all
- 31:47Speaker 1: who went home night one, So I feel like our
- 31:49Speaker 1: perspective really resides with the audience because we watched it
- 31:53Speaker 1: all on TV um and I don't know some of
- 31:57Speaker 1: the girls. I was just like, Oh, they're just sitting
- 31:59Speaker 1: there to that really taking much action, Like I don't
- 32:02Speaker 1: really see their personality. So for some of them, I
- 32:04Speaker 1: was a little surprised, um, but definitely looking back at
- 32:09Speaker 1: night one, Um, maybe I should have taken more action.
- 32:13Speaker 1: You know at a second, Jane, you acted as if
- 32:15Speaker 1: you were friends with Kaylin. You don't know Klin. Well,
- 32:18Speaker 1: see again, my perspective comes from watching the whole season,
- 32:22Speaker 1: like just like the audience, and I don't know she
- 32:25Speaker 1: held herself with class and dignity. You know, I didn't
- 32:28Speaker 1: see her going to Colton talking like deep behind other
- 32:32Speaker 1: girls as backs. But they were all attacking here. But
- 32:35Speaker 1: you were refuting stuff that you don't actually know happened
- 32:38Speaker 1: or did not happen. Well, I stated in Women to All,
- 32:41Speaker 1: I'm like watching it from television. I think she held
- 32:44Speaker 1: herself with dignity. And I think a lot of girls
- 32:47Speaker 1: are jealous, and I think a lot of girls are insecure.
- 32:50Speaker 1: Um and yeah, I think they were all just snaking
- 32:53Speaker 1: up on her, and like I honestly felt bad, like
- 32:55Speaker 1: I have her back. Like just from my perspective, it
- 32:59Speaker 1: is a it is an interesting moment when when somebody
- 33:02Speaker 1: to go home sits there and at the tell all right,
- 33:04Speaker 1: because you do sit there as a fan like everybody else,
- 33:07Speaker 1: you had a unique fans perspective, and then you choose
- 33:10Speaker 1: to speak up, which I think for everybody watching goes wow,
- 33:13Speaker 1: that doesn't happen very often. What was going through your
- 33:15Speaker 1: mind in that second and that moment to go, I
- 33:17Speaker 1: need to say something now and this is my this
- 33:19Speaker 1: is my time to say It was this before after
- 33:22Speaker 1: the tequila shot. No, I'm not kidding actually, and that
- 33:25Speaker 1: was like my little trap. Um. I was like, whatever,
- 33:27Speaker 1: I have an opinion. I'm not scared to state it. Um.
- 33:31Speaker 1: I never bash anyone, but like, I'm going to be honest,
- 33:34Speaker 1: and I am team Kalin. I think she's classy, I
- 33:37Speaker 1: think she has dignity, and like when all of them
- 33:39Speaker 1: attack her, like I'm gonna step forward. I don't blame
- 33:44Speaker 1: me for that. I mean, hey, this is your moment,
- 33:47Speaker 1: take it or leave it, and I hope you have
- 33:49Speaker 1: another moment. In Paradise. We're asking every single person that
- 33:51Speaker 1: sits down the night these three questions. Jane, do you
- 33:56Speaker 1: wish it would have worked out with Colton? Why? I'm
- 34:00Speaker 1: so sorry. You know, He's just not my cup of tea,
- 34:06Speaker 1: Like I prefer strong coffee. Actually no, no, no, let
- 34:10Speaker 1: me rephrase that. I prefer like, I know the man
- 34:13Speaker 1: that I marry is going to be the kind of
- 34:16Speaker 1: man where when a girl walks up to him for
- 34:19Speaker 1: the fourth time asking if she can interrupt, my man
- 34:24Speaker 1: is gonna be like this babe is crazy. No, you
- 34:27Speaker 1: cannot interrupt for the fourth time. That's the kind of
- 34:30Speaker 1: backbone I want in a man. So we don't want coffee,
- 34:35Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Like, let's you know that, Let's
- 34:37Speaker 1: make it an espresh of shot, you know, like ay
- 34:42Speaker 1: question the second question, who remaining do you want to
- 34:45Speaker 1: see Colton with? If any? I mean, gosh, I keep
- 34:50Speaker 1: saying team Calin. I do like Halin, I do like Tasia.
- 34:54Speaker 1: I feel like they were the most like easy going
- 34:56Speaker 1: with him. Um, it just seemed the most natural to
- 35:01Speaker 1: and finally, outside of yourself, who should be the next
- 35:04Speaker 1: batchelor at dun Dundune? I mean obviously no, I'm just kidding.
- 35:08Speaker 1: I'm so kidding. I definitely don't think it should be me.
- 35:10Speaker 1: I do think it would come down to shocker. Kay.
- 35:16Speaker 1: Who are you guys all surprised? Thank you, thank you
- 35:23Speaker 1: so much for Jordan. Are you guys are awesome by
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- 37:03Speaker 1: favorites in this season. We've held no secrets about it.
- 37:06Speaker 1: I think this girl's great. I have no clue why
- 37:08Speaker 1: she went home. I don't know what. Week three we
- 37:11Speaker 1: have Brie on the podcast in person this time, welcome back,
- 37:15Speaker 1: finally meet you guys. Thank you, Brie. Um. You talk
- 37:20Speaker 1: to us a couple like a month ago, I want
- 37:22Speaker 1: to say, and you're like, I wish I had more airtime.
- 37:24Speaker 1: I feel like people needed to get to know me better.
- 37:26Speaker 1: But then you still didn't say anything during women. I'm
- 37:30Speaker 1: that I really I texted in the day, I said,
- 37:32Speaker 1: what is going on? I'm pulling forward. She's one of
- 37:35Speaker 1: my favorites, and I watched tell all and you're not there.
- 37:37Speaker 1: You're literally wrikingly beautiful, like you're like, thank goodbye, like
- 37:43Speaker 1: that was on crack like above. Um, I wanted to
- 37:48Speaker 1: say more, Honestly, I just I don't know. I wasn't
- 37:50Speaker 1: there for the drama. I left so early, So honestly
- 37:53Speaker 1: I didn't know about what was going on in the house,
- 37:55Speaker 1: and I just I didn't feel like I needed to
- 37:57Speaker 1: like add to anything that was going on with Nicole
- 37:59Speaker 1: or with Demi or whatever. I didn't. I didn't have
- 38:02Speaker 1: anything to say. I'm more of, like, you know, sweet
- 38:05Speaker 1: and soft with my words. I don't want to hurt
- 38:07Speaker 1: anyone's feeling. So I kind of just sat there and
- 38:09Speaker 1: waited until I was called on. And because our last guest,
- 38:14Speaker 1: Jane who night one, was like she I just had
- 38:17Speaker 1: to say something, had such a voice. I was really surprised,
- 38:19Speaker 1: very surprised. But I don't know. Yeah, Brie, I'm more
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- 38:29Speaker 1: think like, if you weren't there, you can't like act
- 38:32Speaker 1: as if you really know facts, Like you have an
- 38:34Speaker 1: opinion based on what we all saw, but you don't
- 38:38Speaker 1: know I'm basically just a viewer like anybody else, just
- 38:41Speaker 1: commenting on what's happened on the show because I'm seeing
- 38:44Speaker 1: it all just from TV. I didn't have anything to say.
- 38:46Speaker 1: I didn't need to add anything and make less of
- 38:49Speaker 1: anybody there, So I didn't need to add to that.
- 38:53Speaker 1: What do you think, Ben, I mean, I'm with Brie
- 38:55Speaker 1: in this. I mean, I just think, you know, there's
- 38:57Speaker 1: a unique situation. Yes, at your moment, and you've been
- 39:00Speaker 1: on the show, and yes, you're sitting up there and
- 39:02Speaker 1: it's exciting, and you have you can talk whenever you want,
- 39:05Speaker 1: So I get that. You know, you if you went
- 39:06Speaker 1: home at night one, it's probably exciting for you. But
- 39:09Speaker 1: I remember during Caitlin season The Bachelotte, there's a guy
- 39:11Speaker 1: that had went home early on and was kind of
- 39:13Speaker 1: criticizing Caitlin, and I was very angry. I took it
- 39:16Speaker 1: very personally because I was like, you just haven't been
- 39:18Speaker 1: there to get to know her. You have no right
- 39:20Speaker 1: to speak, and so I don't think. I don't know
- 39:23Speaker 1: if it's harsh or not. I don't think if you
- 39:25Speaker 1: weren't around during the tell, you don't have a right
- 39:27Speaker 1: to talk like you you don't know the insides of
- 39:29Speaker 1: the story. You know, it's like you can't don't go
- 39:32Speaker 1: here like you don't you can't talk about Colton like
- 39:36Speaker 1: six weeks down when you weren't there for the six
- 39:38Speaker 1: weeks and seeing him cry and cry with him breathe. Yes,
- 39:42Speaker 1: I still don't get it. So, I mean, because here's
- 39:45Speaker 1: what I'm saying. He's looking at your face, but he
- 39:47Speaker 1: has a girlfriend, so yeah, but I'm looking at you
- 39:51Speaker 1: and I have a girl crush on you. So this
- 39:54Speaker 1: is what surprising to me, honestly is you. You throw
- 39:56Speaker 1: off more bachelorette vibes than any buddy else that I
- 40:00Speaker 1: can think of in the season right now, you think,
- 40:03Speaker 1: I mean the soft spoken. I want to be kind,
- 40:07Speaker 1: I want to be considerate. I don't want to speak
- 40:08Speaker 1: outside my turn. I want to make sure that I'm
- 40:11Speaker 1: listening to everybody that's bachelortte material. Why isn't the conversation happening? Well,
- 40:17Speaker 1: I mean there wasn't enough to go off of. Frustrating
- 40:21Speaker 1: no one knows about me. I mean, there wouldn't be
- 40:24Speaker 1: a much interest. I don't think compared to other girls
- 40:26Speaker 1: that you would know that make it farther into this season.
- 40:29Speaker 1: I mean, I think there's going to be some interest
- 40:32Speaker 1: after Paradise. Well you were interested in Dean, you said,
- 40:36Speaker 1: Ben and Dean. But Ben is a taken man now.
- 40:38Speaker 1: So we heard that Kaylin sleeped In sleeped In slipped
- 40:43Speaker 1: in to Dean's d MS before the season. I didn't
- 40:48Speaker 1: going back. Who's going to get Dean? I didn't know
- 40:51Speaker 1: that actually, Um, but Kayl and I were friends outside
- 40:54Speaker 1: of the show. We talked, We're hanging out tomorrow and I, um, yeah,
- 40:58Speaker 1: So I mean it's up for grabs, you know. Will
- 41:02Speaker 1: you ask Caitlin tomorrow night for us? Who's gonna get Dean?
- 41:06Speaker 1: You or her? You guys over the place? Here can
- 41:11Speaker 1: we do? And we've done these a zillion times, we
- 41:13Speaker 1: proposed this idea of a zillion times. But let's make
- 41:15Speaker 1: Dean the almost famous bachelor and we'll have you guys
- 41:18Speaker 1: all in the in the running. I actually just texted
- 41:21Speaker 1: Dean while we're here and I said, all these girls
- 41:23Speaker 1: want you. It's so nuts. Why isn't he here tonight?
- 41:27Speaker 1: He is just getting back. He just got back yesterday
- 41:29Speaker 1: from Japan. Yeah, Dean, Dean has that way about with
- 41:32Speaker 1: with the ladies. Good for Dean, Um, I don't know
- 41:36Speaker 1: if he's interested in anybody right now. I think he's
- 41:38Speaker 1: traveling the world and having a blast doing it. Um
- 41:41Speaker 1: So Caitlin slides in the d MS. We talked abut
- 41:43Speaker 1: a little bit ago. She's your friends, so you're never
- 41:45Speaker 1: back here. We can't get we can't figure out is
- 41:48Speaker 1: it okay to slide into a bachelor or bachelor at
- 41:51Speaker 1: Contestants d m s and then go on the show.
- 41:54Speaker 1: So you slide in before the show and then you
- 41:57Speaker 1: go on to the show. Is that Is that an issue?
- 41:59Speaker 1: I don't know is this public knowledge? Like, how do
- 42:02Speaker 1: you guys know that? Because Kerpa, you were there, you
- 42:06Speaker 1: weren't listening. Ka didn't name names in. Um, yeah, I
- 42:13Speaker 1: didn't know. But um, to be honest, I mean about
- 42:16Speaker 1: a year or two ago, I was in. Was his
- 42:19Speaker 1: name Chase? Yeah, I reached in, you know, That's what
- 42:23Speaker 1: I said. I would have done it as a fan
- 42:24Speaker 1: girl before Calf. Yeah, I've been watching the show. I
- 42:26Speaker 1: thought it was cute. I actually saw him at Horror
- 42:28Speaker 1: and it's a couple of years ago and I was like, yeah,
- 42:30Speaker 1: I'm just gonna stay what's up? And it didn't go anywhere.
- 42:33Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think it's did he respond, Yeah,
- 42:37Speaker 1: I was gonna say it didn't go anywhere. Okay, Yeah,
- 42:39Speaker 1: well that'd been juicy. I would like that anyways. Um,
- 42:43Speaker 1: I don't think it's wrong. I really don't. I mean
- 42:45Speaker 1: I think before you know you're going on the show,
- 42:47Speaker 1: you see somebody your attract to, you're interested in, uh,
- 42:50Speaker 1: and you say hi, what's up? And you see where
- 42:52Speaker 1: it takes you. I mean, I slid in the d
- 42:54Speaker 1: M S. I'm getting I got better at it. Look
- 42:56Speaker 1: what it brought me. You can't hold yourself back. It's
- 42:59Speaker 1: just the way of the road these days, you know.
- 43:00Speaker 1: It's it's how we meet people. You know. Where is
- 43:04Speaker 1: life going to take you? I mean we I follow
- 43:06Speaker 1: on Instagram. Now you're modeling, You're you're traveling. Now, this
- 43:10Speaker 1: was happening way before the show started. What is life
- 43:12Speaker 1: going to look like for you in this Paradise A
- 43:14Speaker 1: part of it? I hope. So I would love a
- 43:17Speaker 1: chance to be on Paradise. Um kind of just doing
- 43:19Speaker 1: the same thing I was doing before the show hasn't
- 43:22Speaker 1: changed too much. Um. So yeah, I'm hoping for a
- 43:25Speaker 1: second chance in Paradise. We'll see where that goes as
- 43:28Speaker 1: a model. Does it hurt your career or help it
- 43:31Speaker 1: to be on the show? Because I know that Courtney Robertson,
- 43:34Speaker 1: who of course got a villain edit and made it
- 43:36Speaker 1: to the final rows, she said it hurt her career,
- 43:40Speaker 1: but with you, you went out a little bit more discreetly, right,
- 43:43Speaker 1: does it appens? So? I think because I didn't make
- 43:46Speaker 1: it as far on the show, it didn't affect me
- 43:49Speaker 1: in a negative way. I think it could. I know
- 43:51Speaker 1: that that happens to a lot of girls that go
- 43:53Speaker 1: on UM America's Next Top Model and things. I have
- 43:55Speaker 1: friends that have done that and it only hurt their career.
- 43:58Speaker 1: So I mean that was definitely a risk that I
- 44:01Speaker 1: was taking by going on this show, and I don't
- 44:04Speaker 1: Luckily it didn't do that. UM kind of just it's
- 44:07Speaker 1: been the same now before we close up, we've been
- 44:10Speaker 1: asking everybody the three questions, and I think are fun asked.
- 44:14Speaker 1: But I want to ask you. Were you excited about
- 44:16Speaker 1: it being Colton? Um? I was excited to get to
- 44:19Speaker 1: know him. I didn't really know who was going to be.
- 44:22Speaker 1: I was just really interested in whoever would show up
- 44:26Speaker 1: because I felt like, UM, the bachelor always past a
- 44:31Speaker 1: well rounded guy and that's hard to meet in l A.
- 44:34Speaker 1: And so I figured whoever it would be, he would
- 44:36Speaker 1: be a great guy. And he was. I hear that
- 44:38Speaker 1: a lot, that it's hard to date in l A.
- 44:39Speaker 1: Do you guys agree it is? Yeah, it's hard to
- 44:42Speaker 1: date in l A, very hard. I've been single for
- 44:44Speaker 1: three years, so that's ridiculous. I think that that is
- 44:50Speaker 1: a travesty. I'm texting Bean after this. I'm saying, Dean,
- 44:55Speaker 1: I don't know what you're thinking, buddy, but you're an idiot.
- 44:58Speaker 1: If you don't try this, you're not going to be
- 44:59Speaker 1: the better one. Actually not going after that. We're gonna
- 45:03Speaker 1: set up now we have our Dean is the almost
- 45:05Speaker 1: famous bachelor and Brie is the almost famous bachelor. At
- 45:09Speaker 1: let's do it. If I could buy and I'm gonna say,
- 45:12Speaker 1: if I could buy Stock and Brie right now on.
- 45:14Speaker 1: I think these next couple of months she's going to
- 45:17Speaker 1: become a fan favorite and she is gonna rock Paradise.
- 45:20Speaker 1: Do you agree? Yeah? I think that you're alone. You
- 45:23Speaker 1: don't cost very much to buy in now, but the
- 45:27Speaker 1: people are going to be millionaires. Um predicting it now, Bree.
- 45:33Speaker 1: Three questions Okay, so the second question you got that one,
- 45:36Speaker 1: and now the second question is who remaining do you
- 45:39Speaker 1: see Colton ending up with? And none of them is
- 45:42Speaker 1: an answer. None of them is an answer if you'd
- 45:46Speaker 1: like it to be. I'm really curious to see what happens. Um,
- 45:49Speaker 1: I don't know where like this goes after Cassie. He
- 45:52Speaker 1: obviously seemed very into her and she left. Um, so
- 45:55Speaker 1: I don't I don't know what will happen next. Maybe
- 45:58Speaker 1: no one the so we have Jade Tanner's a little
- 46:02Speaker 1: little baby cry, Emmy's flipping in the background. It's late.
- 46:05Speaker 1: I get it. Um all right, Briee. Outside of yourself,
- 46:09Speaker 1: who should be the next bachelorette? I don't know if
- 46:12Speaker 1: I could handle the bachelorette, to be honest, I don't
- 46:14Speaker 1: know if I want that for myself. Um. I think
- 46:16Speaker 1: Tassia would be a great bachelorette. She was previously married
- 46:20Speaker 1: and in the house, she was an amazing woman and
- 46:23Speaker 1: friend everyone, So I think that she would really hold
- 46:25Speaker 1: herself well. And um, yeah, I think she's in for
- 46:29Speaker 1: the right reason. That's nice to hear. That is really
- 46:31Speaker 1: nice to hear. I like Tasha. I think Tassha Tasha
- 46:35Speaker 1: just seemed to get, uh the raw end of the
- 46:37Speaker 1: deal here At the end, the perfect storm happened and
- 46:41Speaker 1: Tassia got pushed out. Why Colton was trying to shouldn't
- 46:44Speaker 1: I s push in? That's what she said. Everyone, Hey
- 46:49Speaker 1: Brie again, I know we'll talk to you after paradise.
- 46:53Speaker 1: During Paradise, I'm excited to watch your your whole experience
- 46:55Speaker 1: here for next couple of months. Thanks for coming Almost
- 46:57Speaker 1: Famous podcast. Thank you so much. See you guys. See alright, guys, Well,
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- 48:24Speaker 1: You're professional at this by now, aren't you? Oh? Such
- 48:27Speaker 1: a professional? Absolutely not, Heather on the podcast, Heather, you're
- 48:31Speaker 1: a fan favorite. We may be saving the best for last,
- 48:36Speaker 1: and then you're back and ready to go. I I
- 48:38Speaker 1: just gotta start. Um. I know that you guys have
- 48:41Speaker 1: sat together a couple of times. Right now, we haven't
- 48:45Speaker 1: never met. I thought you guys had met well, but
- 48:47Speaker 1: I'm just gonna dive in. I'm not saving any questions
- 48:49Speaker 1: for Ashley. How does this work? I have good friends
- 48:53Speaker 1: who are twenty four and they haven't had their first
- 48:56Speaker 1: kiss yet. Really yeah, good friends three that I can
- 48:59Speaker 1: name because it all came up and watching the show
- 49:02Speaker 1: Beautiful People, Beautiful women just hasn't happened. Um, I know
- 49:06Speaker 1: this is something you can talk about all the time.
- 49:08Speaker 1: How does this happen for you? Like, is this really?
- 49:11Speaker 1: You've never been kissed? It is real? I have never
- 49:14Speaker 1: I had never been kissed. No, it was real. Have
- 49:17Speaker 1: you kissed anyone since Colton? No? No, don't say like that. No,
- 49:22Speaker 1: I have just every single person I see, every guy
- 49:27Speaker 1: on the street. Yeah, yeah, restaurants. Yeah. After my first kiss,
- 49:34Speaker 1: I was dreading my second. I was like, I'm still
- 49:36Speaker 1: not ready to jump back into that. I was scared
- 49:39Speaker 1: of Colson. I was like I did the first thing.
- 49:40Speaker 1: I was like, I can't. I can't do it anymore.
- 49:42Speaker 1: It's too scary what your first Okay, thanks to feel
- 49:49Speaker 1: a little bit better. So leading up to the Bachelor,
- 49:52Speaker 1: there was your expectation to have your first kiss on
- 49:55Speaker 1: the show, like in life, like before the or like
- 49:59Speaker 1: once I was on the bat Okay, Um, I mean
- 50:03Speaker 1: I wasn't positive I could have got I was like,
- 50:05Speaker 1: maybe I'll go home night one second week. So I
- 50:08Speaker 1: didn't know, but I thought, I mean, if I got
- 50:10Speaker 1: far enough, then obviously that was kind of going to happen.
- 50:14Speaker 1: I can't think of a better way to have your
- 50:16Speaker 1: first kiss. I thought it was fantastic been on the show.
- 50:19Speaker 1: I would oh if I had, If I hadn't been kissed,
- 50:21Speaker 1: I would have been waiting. I would have saved myself
- 50:23Speaker 1: at that moment, because you sure knew it that there
- 50:26Speaker 1: was gonna be fireworks, blasts in the background, a lot
- 50:29Speaker 1: of like just intense girl. But here's what I gotta
- 50:32Speaker 1: tell you. You did great. I watched that back so
- 50:37Speaker 1: replay like you had. You had great friction. I thought
- 50:41Speaker 1: your mouth's aligned just perfectly. You moved at the perfect rate,
- 50:45Speaker 1: and there's a rhythm to it. I thought, for your
- 50:46Speaker 1: first kiss, how did you learn or how did you
- 50:49Speaker 1: prepare for that moment? I didn't prepare. I mean I
- 50:53Speaker 1: was terrified the shower wall. I did the shower wall,
- 51:00Speaker 1: and I did my arm. I mean not too much,
- 51:02Speaker 1: but enough enough, like enough to at least feel how
- 51:05Speaker 1: it feels. Yeah, I didn't prepare at all of the
- 51:08Speaker 1: When I got the date card, I literally Hannah by
- 51:11Speaker 1: she wasn't really one of my really close friends. They
- 51:12Speaker 1: look at her and I'm like, help me. Yeah. I
- 51:15Speaker 1: was like, like I was terrified because I was like,
- 51:17Speaker 1: on the one on one either I'm gonna go home
- 51:20Speaker 1: or I'm gonna kiss him, like it was one of
- 51:21Speaker 1: the two. It wasn't really you know, it was gonna happen.
- 51:24Speaker 1: So I was just like, like, I was panicked. So
- 51:26Speaker 1: the entire day I was just like, Oh my gosh,
- 51:29Speaker 1: how did she help you? Did she give you some
- 51:30Speaker 1: good advice? What did she say? She just gave you
- 51:32Speaker 1: some advice. I can't even remember now. I kind of
- 51:34Speaker 1: blocked it all out, but yeah, she's just like, hey,
- 51:36Speaker 1: just she just kind of pet me up a little bit.
- 51:38Speaker 1: But I thought that was one of the most underrated
- 51:40Speaker 1: moments that we didn't talk about in this season is
- 51:41Speaker 1: the fact that Heather in the clutch with pressure on her,
- 51:45Speaker 1: fireworks in the background, pulled through and just has an
- 51:48Speaker 1: amazing makeout session with Cold. You were so good, it
- 51:51Speaker 1: looked so natural. I would have never thought your hand
- 51:54Speaker 1: placement was great. Thank you so much. The only hard
- 51:58Speaker 1: part which we talked about was the lead up to it.
- 52:00Speaker 1: Colton did a terrible job but not making that moment
- 52:02Speaker 1: really awkward, Like there was a lot of like wanted
- 52:05Speaker 1: it to be awkward. No, I don't think he did.
- 52:08Speaker 1: I don't think he knew how to move. Maybe he
- 52:10Speaker 1: just didn't realize how awkward it was. But for the viewer,
- 52:13Speaker 1: I had to cover up my eyes during it because
- 52:15Speaker 1: he had like one arm around you. There was like
- 52:17Speaker 1: talking and then like looking off at the distance and
- 52:19Speaker 1: then talking. You're like, just kiss her, just kiss her,
- 52:21Speaker 1: make it happen, and he did it, and then finally
- 52:23Speaker 1: it happened, and it's like this relief, but for a
- 52:25Speaker 1: long time it was like one of those awkward moments
- 52:27Speaker 1: on the show that's really hard to watch. Yeah, I know,
- 52:30Speaker 1: I was terrified. I honestly, I don't know why. I
- 52:32Speaker 1: didn't think like there was fireworks. I just didn't know
- 52:36Speaker 1: for sure. And I was like the whole like that
- 52:38Speaker 1: whole entire, like last ten minutes, I kind of like
- 52:41Speaker 1: blacked out. I really wasn't sure what was going on.
- 52:43Speaker 1: But I was like, what's going to happen? We're standing here,
- 52:45Speaker 1: and it was like a long time that was like
- 52:47Speaker 1: something's about to happen. So I was just like I
- 52:50Speaker 1: don't know I do not know how sad would have
- 52:52Speaker 1: benef it didn't happen. Oh if I was like, oh
- 52:57Speaker 1: this is special to wait until wasted for her because
- 53:02Speaker 1: I know she's not the one. Yeah, he could have.
- 53:04Speaker 1: I mean that's what I wasn't like at the dinner.
- 53:07Speaker 1: He could have said like sorry, like I don't I
- 53:09Speaker 1: don't think you're my wife and I don't want to
- 53:10Speaker 1: waste that. So I wasn't sure. You said that there
- 53:15Speaker 1: was some weird eight months relationship that you were in
- 53:18Speaker 1: and you didn't kiss the guy. I said. I think
- 53:20Speaker 1: on the podcast that this must have been just like
- 53:22Speaker 1: the producers saying, do you like, there must have been
- 53:26Speaker 1: some guy, so tell him a story about some close
- 53:28Speaker 1: to be relationship and you were like okay. So I
- 53:30Speaker 1: went on a couple of days with this guy. It
- 53:32Speaker 1: went over the span of eight months. I've had those
- 53:35Speaker 1: weird I like been on dates with guys and I
- 53:38Speaker 1: didn't kiss them until like date five because it was
- 53:40Speaker 1: so dragged out and separated. Was that what it was like? So?
- 53:43Speaker 1: I dated a guy after college and he was super
- 53:47Speaker 1: intentional with dating and he had gotten out of a
- 53:49Speaker 1: really intense relationship and where he was it was super
- 53:53Speaker 1: intense relationships. So I he was really interested in pursued
- 53:56Speaker 1: me and asked me on dates, and I just really
- 53:58Speaker 1: wasn't sure, Like I just wasn't You just didn't like him,
- 54:03Speaker 1: You were not sure because I, like, I wanted to
- 54:06Speaker 1: like him so badly, good on paper, had everything I wanted,
- 54:09Speaker 1: and I wanted to like him so badly. So I
- 54:11Speaker 1: kept going on dates with him for eight months for
- 54:14Speaker 1: a long time. But he knew my situation, so he
- 54:17Speaker 1: knew you had ever been kissed. Yeah, we were friends
- 54:20Speaker 1: before and then, but he wasn't such a serious relations
- 54:23Speaker 1: relationship before that. I didn't want to give him any
- 54:26Speaker 1: further affirmation if I wasn't fully feeling okay, it was
- 54:30Speaker 1: just bad. I don't know this hits deep. I actually
- 54:32Speaker 1: I have talked about it many times, like just talking
- 54:34Speaker 1: about relationships and how that works in the pressure when
- 54:37Speaker 1: you you know, say you're a virgin with Colton or
- 54:39Speaker 1: you haven't been kissed like that, people don't want to
- 54:41Speaker 1: take that from you. So here's the big question now
- 54:43Speaker 1: and then it's happened, and man, we're really expounding on
- 54:46Speaker 1: this kiss. So I'm sorry about that, but it's so
- 54:48Speaker 1: interesting to me. Do you regret having it happen. Oh
- 54:53Speaker 1: absolutely not. There we go. Hey, No, it wasn't radical
- 54:57Speaker 1: first kiss you could ever have. When people were like, no,
- 55:00Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to on TV, I was like, why
- 55:04Speaker 1: that's why else would you want? It could have been more?
- 55:06Speaker 1: For Acre, You're never going to regret having your first
- 55:10Speaker 1: kids with a hot guy, like a nice guy on
- 55:13Speaker 1: TV with fireworks. Yeah, it was highly It could have
- 55:18Speaker 1: been better. It could not even better. I wish I
- 55:20Speaker 1: was sometimes. Okay, my last question for you is you
- 55:24Speaker 1: left on your own, and I have this inkling that
- 55:28Speaker 1: you left on your own because you're like, rather saying
- 55:31Speaker 1: goodbye on my own and then have to say to
- 55:34Speaker 1: have him say goodbye to me at a rose ceremony,
- 55:37Speaker 1: that's a well, that's what my fear doing that because
- 55:40Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want people to think that.
- 55:41Speaker 1: I'm like, that's what That was my biggest fear. When
- 55:43Speaker 1: I wasn't fear because I was like, I don't want
- 55:45Speaker 1: people to think like, oh I think I'm gonna get
- 55:47Speaker 1: broken up with and so I need to dump in first.
- 55:49Speaker 1: That's so stupid. I could care less. So you really
- 55:51Speaker 1: didn't really didn't feel it. So he expressed that week
- 55:56Speaker 1: in Denver that he was so serious about wanting to
- 55:58Speaker 1: get engaged at the end of this and that that
- 56:00Speaker 1: was something he absolutely wanted. And I felt like at
- 56:04Speaker 1: the point in our relationship that I just didn't have
- 56:06Speaker 1: enough time with him at that change things up for Cassie.
- 56:10Speaker 1: He said, never mind, don't need to get engaged. Unbelievable world.
- 56:16Speaker 1: I'm stressed out for everybody right now. We've asked every
- 56:19Speaker 1: guest that's came on three questions. Ready for him? Ready?
- 56:22Speaker 1: Do you wish it would have worked out with Colton? No? Obviously,
- 56:25Speaker 1: Now you left yourself go why did you break it?
- 56:30Speaker 1: You just went into it. I just I didn't have
- 56:32Speaker 1: enough time. He wanted to get engaged, That's what he said,
- 56:34Speaker 1: and so I just didn't think I had enough time
- 56:36Speaker 1: with him to know, and I wasn't fully confident, and
- 56:38Speaker 1: I knew that the other girls, a lot of the
- 56:39Speaker 1: other girls, the four girls left, were so got it. Okay,
- 56:43Speaker 1: number two, which are the remaining girls? If any do
- 56:46Speaker 1: you think will be good with Colton? I think Hannah
- 56:51Speaker 1: g R. Cassie, I think both of them. Okay, wow,
- 56:55Speaker 1: interesting votes. Cassie. I think I think that they would
- 57:00Speaker 1: be a good I think Cassie and Colton they're a
- 57:03Speaker 1: good match. Like I really do like their lifestyles, like
- 57:06Speaker 1: everything about them. I really like even during the show,
- 57:08Speaker 1: like I was like, yeah, they would be a really
- 57:10Speaker 1: good match. But I mean, I don't know. Okay, final
- 57:13Speaker 1: question outside of yourself, we would't even ask you yet.
- 57:17Speaker 1: Are you gonna go on Paradise? I don't know of course. Okay, anyways,
- 57:23Speaker 1: I'll set of yourself. Who should be the next Bachelor
- 57:25Speaker 1: at one of the Hannah, Oh no, Hanna be She's mine.
- 57:33Speaker 1: But like Hannah, Gee, that's totally fine too, both of them.
- 57:36Speaker 1: I'm fine with the Hannah. I'm fine with one of
- 57:37Speaker 1: the Hannah's perfect. Okay, wait, are you gonna have your
- 57:41Speaker 1: second kiss ever on Bachelor Paradise? See the second kiss
- 57:44Speaker 1: for Paradise? And then when you look at the camera
- 57:47Speaker 1: and give us this thumbs up like this for you
- 57:48Speaker 1: actually been Heather, Thank you so much, Thank you so much.
- 57:57Speaker 1: This is fun. That's so fun. Alrighty, the this episode
- 58:01Speaker 1: is going to be closed up or till all I
- 58:02Speaker 1: thought was fantastic. I love for this episode. One of
- 58:05Speaker 1: our greatest works. We are next guest has his own podcast,
- 58:09Speaker 1: now called The Vital Files. Um. He's been on the
- 58:13Speaker 1: podcast many times. He's one of bach your nation's most infamous,
- 58:16Speaker 1: iconic and legendary people. We love him. His name is Nick.
- 58:21Speaker 1: Nick welcome back to the Almost Famous podcast. And he's
- 58:24Speaker 1: the only one that approaches us with his eyes on
- 58:27Speaker 1: his phone and not a smile. I'm just happy to
- 58:30Speaker 1: see here. That's a beautiful Jackie's gorgeous man's jacket. He
- 58:35Speaker 1: just always dresses night. How do you? How do you
- 58:38Speaker 1: dress nice all the time? I threw this on to
- 58:42Speaker 1: be quite honest with you, right after I painted you
- 58:44Speaker 1: painted shirt list today? Was it a livestream? No? No,
- 58:49Speaker 1: I have to re I have to I'm gonna do
- 58:51Speaker 1: another one here. Wait, Nick, this is one of the
- 58:53Speaker 1: first things I want to talk to you about. Is
- 58:55Speaker 1: this real? Like you actually are that good at painting?
- 58:58Speaker 1: I just I just painted this man. No, you did not.
- 59:01Speaker 1: I don't get how you do this, Nick? To make
- 59:07Speaker 1: it so, we're bringing Kurpran Heather back. They're walking past.
- 59:10Speaker 1: Do you believe that Nick is this good of a painter?
- 59:12Speaker 1: What are you talking about? I have to do another one.
- 59:15Speaker 1: I mean, we're if you if you need to go
- 59:17Speaker 1: on Nick's Instagram at some point and follow this. It is.
- 59:21Speaker 1: It is one of the most unbelievable things I've ever seen.
- 59:23Speaker 1: I watched the first time back three times because like,
- 59:26Speaker 1: how have I never seen? What is this? What is this? Oh?
- 59:30Speaker 1: That was my first try at this paint. If you
- 59:32Speaker 1: don't know what we're talking about it, it's gonna be
- 59:34Speaker 1: up on Nick's story soon. Just keep checking. I'm coming
- 59:37Speaker 1: I they want to call it, I'm gonna get me
- 59:38Speaker 1: an I g t V and I'm gonna call it
- 59:40Speaker 1: paint therapy. Okay, wait, you say it's paint by the
- 59:43Speaker 1: numbers or paint? What is it called paint? What I'm
- 59:46Speaker 1: gonna do like a show? No? I know, but what
- 59:49Speaker 1: is this paint? I'm gonna talking paint. He's eating a starburst?
- 59:54Speaker 1: But how long have you had this skill? I mean
- 59:57Speaker 1: I have always I wanted to be a cartoons for
- 59:59Speaker 1: Disney when I was a kid. How about how this
- 1:00:01Speaker 1: never came up on the show? And how have I
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: never known this? About? How hold on Sorr? I shouldn't
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: have chosen Well, so again, this is gonna this is
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: gonna be all I wrote I wrote on my first
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: season on on Andy season I I wrote that book
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: and I drew those pictures. That's so cute. So there
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: was a bit of an artist in you. I've always uh,
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: I've always wanted I've always wanted to be an artist
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: when I was a kid, and then I just didn't
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: do it for twenty years. This it just shows where
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: I'm at in life and single and so I just
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: looking for hobbies and you know, things to do when
- 1:00:38Speaker 1: I'm alone at night. And you picked up painting, I
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: like it, are you going to display them in your home?
- 1:00:43Speaker 1: I thin't gonna give them away? It actually costs a
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: lot of like every time I do a painting. I
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: think with us, it's like a hundred bucks, like supplies
- 1:00:51Speaker 1: in the frame. I think we're just gonna give them away.
- 1:00:52Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, like friends or like Oxen
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: and Waffe for charity or something or something like or
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: something maybe a way to like sell natural habitstential oils
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: dot com. I mean, yeah, please promote everything you got. Okay, Nick, uh,
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: we have a big night ahead of us still, and
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: so let's get to the point. Who do you think
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: should be the next bachelor? At Uh? Hannah be she
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: really warmed up to me here's the thing. UM, A
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: couple of reasons why I think Hannah Be will Be
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: is the best pick amongst the women. Um. She had
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: mildly unfavorable at it early on, uh and then really
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: warmed up, and I think everyone liked her more. UM.
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: I think it's a really compelling storyline, especially and I
- 1:01:38Speaker 1: think Klin is great. I like Kalin um, but um,
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: certainly Klin is gunning for the bat sharrette and I'm
- 1:01:45Speaker 1: I'm assuming she wants it to so for Hannah Be
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: to get over Kalin. She like, finally beat finally, you know,
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: it's like the underdog story. And think she was as
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: jealous of me and she did it and I Karen
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: just fine. I also think Hannah b is the most uh.
- 1:02:05Speaker 1: She emots the most and the most interesting, and she
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: will probably it will She's the most entertaining to watch.
- 1:02:10Speaker 1: She's she's not safe. She makes me giddy to watch.
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: She will she will do things that she regrets, and
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: I will enjoy watching it. Okay, So I think she
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: would be a great choice. So this episode, UM, with
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: Colton and the fence jump, would you call that the
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: most dramatic? Which I haven't I haven't been able to
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: look to see how the reactions. Chris Harrison said, they
- 1:02:32Speaker 1: broke the world, break the world. It's a bit hyperbolic,
- 1:02:35Speaker 1: but it has to be one of the most It's
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: gonna be like bird Box where everybody's like jumping over
- 1:02:42Speaker 1: fences today. I'll be honest a little envious of Colton
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: because he did have the most dramatic episode of her No. Well,
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: I don't know how this is all going to play out,
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: but it sounds like a quit. It sounds like it
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: looks like he's gonna chase the girl he likes, and
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: you know he's it's gonna it's romantic looking. And you know,
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: Cassie has been clear that she's not ready to get engaged,
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: so he like, there's no pressure to get engaged anymore
- 1:03:11Speaker 1: for Colton. So you're jealous because you wish you could
- 1:03:14Speaker 1: have just dated instead of getting engaged. Well, I mean,
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: like it's just it's a it's a lot less pressure,
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: um to just to keep it real. Um. And I
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: think there's stresses that the engagement can can bring. Um.
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: I don't know. It's a it's an interesting interesting it's
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: an interesting episode. So there's a tweet that I want
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: to ask you about nick uh that Colton has tweeted
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: it says the realist moment ever hashtagg the batchelor. Do
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: you believe this was the realist moment ever in Bachelor history?
- 1:03:43Speaker 1: I don't love that Colton tweeted that himself. Yeah, it's
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: a little self promoting. Uh. Do I think it's the
- 1:03:50Speaker 1: most realist? I mean it's a It was a great episode.
- 1:03:52Speaker 1: I think there's been a lot of real moments. I mean,
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: I don't know you could pick the do you think
- 1:03:56Speaker 1: you could pick the most realist? I felt like there's
- 1:03:59Speaker 1: some episodes, there's some moments that we had that I'll
- 1:04:02Speaker 1: tell you what I mean. Had Vanessa left in that moment,
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: I probably would have done the same damn thing. Um,
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: I don't know how you would have felt if Lauren
- 1:04:08Speaker 1: when I left in that moment, Probably similar, I think.
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: I think what's interesting about this episode is that it
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: it kind of and I'm proud of the show for
- 1:04:15Speaker 1: airing it, is that they kind of showed what would
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: ultimately prayby happen every season at this point, I think
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: it's pretty common for the lead to have a favorite
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: or a front runner at this point, and if your
- 1:04:26Speaker 1: front runner or your favorite at this Laten game decides
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: to leave. Even if you weren't sure about your decision,
- 1:04:32Speaker 1: it's gonna make you into panic mode and and make
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: you want to you know, the whole want way. You
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: can't have element maybe players and and so I think
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: Colton's reacting authentically to it. Is it more real than
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: you know everyone else who's in those you know, you're
- 1:04:46Speaker 1: only a product of whatever environment you're in. You know, Um,
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: it was real for you to fill Joejoe and Lauren
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: that you know, like you know, it's just it's whatever
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: happens happens. Um. I mean, you could have a bad decision,
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: but it was probably a real moment when I when
- 1:05:01Speaker 1: I you know, afar with Andy you regrettable but real. Um,
- 1:05:07Speaker 1: So yeah, I don't. I don't. It's it's been self
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: promoting at that point. It's a little weird, alright, feel
- 1:05:12Speaker 1: himself right now. I don't know to tweet during this
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: during this episode, I think at all, say what you
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: feel then come out. That's exactly I said. It's it's
- 1:05:19Speaker 1: odd to tweet it all during this episode. So, um,
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: I don't. I think this episode is so emotional and
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: so hard to watch it, I think do you think
- 1:05:26Speaker 1: it takes away from the real illness of it a
- 1:05:29Speaker 1: little bit? Yeah? I think it does. Almost like if this, yeah,
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: you couldn't you couldn't talk about this openly? Uh, if
- 1:05:38Speaker 1: it was if it hurt that much? And so this
- 1:05:40Speaker 1: is what this is where I'm reading into this. Then
- 1:05:42Speaker 1: now I wonder what happens in the weeks to follow,
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: because if if he's at a place where he can
- 1:05:46Speaker 1: emotionally tweet about this and watch it back with confidence
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: and at least enough clear he's either a uh he
- 1:05:52Speaker 1: was either a full of or be with Yeah. So
- 1:05:56Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. It's pointing to what's happening next
- 1:05:59Speaker 1: to him being Yeah, that's what I'm saying. That's my theory.
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: So if that's the case, let's make let's lead under
- 1:06:04Speaker 1: that assumption. Are you jealous too because he gets to
- 1:06:09Speaker 1: be with the girl and not have to get engaged? Um, no,
- 1:06:12Speaker 1: I wanted to get engaged. I was confident, but not
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: want to get engaged. But what were you ready to
- 1:06:16Speaker 1: get engaged? Yeah? I was, I was, but I can
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: see me like ready in life, I'm going to engage tomorrow.
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: I think Ben was ready to get I was, I was,
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: I was. I I do think though, what it does
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: say and I get what you're saying, is it takes
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: the pressure off um and that he kind of gets
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: to have his cake and eat it too, which a
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: little bit, which is not ideal for anybody in this
- 1:06:36Speaker 1: whole thing. Well also also like Colton is probably too
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: young to get engaged. That was kind of the big
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: that I wrought the same age. You were at a
- 1:06:44Speaker 1: different place in your life. You're not you were. You
- 1:06:46Speaker 1: weren't a virgin. You you dated more than three people. Um,
- 1:06:50Speaker 1: you had experienced. Colton, by his own admission, hasn't had
- 1:06:53Speaker 1: no experience with dating. And that was the one criticisms
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: and going in that he's how could he be ready
- 1:06:58Speaker 1: to get engaged? And now he's like, it's getting a loophole.
- 1:07:02Speaker 1: It really worked out most fulfilling prophecy. Um. Okay, Nick,
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: you have the new vile files UM file files. You know, UM,
- 1:07:13Speaker 1: we wanted we don't talk about compete more of it
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: probably with Jared and Dean in Vanessa. How is yours
- 1:07:18Speaker 1: different from how does how does that? I really mastered it?
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: Is it pretty good? Rights? How? What what are they
- 1:07:28Speaker 1: going to get from your podcast that they won't from
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: our Bachelor podcasts. Oh well, I mean we don't talk.
- 1:07:34Speaker 1: We talk a little Bachelor, but it's not the focus,
- 1:07:36Speaker 1: you know, it's kind of give the people what they want.
- 1:07:39Speaker 1: We try to. It's a lot of dating stuff, a
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: lot of life stuff. I really just kind of talked
- 1:07:43Speaker 1: about what's on my mind. We take questions from fans
- 1:07:46Speaker 1: and they come in with their interesting dating stories and
- 1:07:49Speaker 1: um they we just try to get the nittigati, nitty gritty,
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: um different ideas that come in my mind. Last week,
- 1:07:56Speaker 1: we had a psychologist and we talked about anxiety and
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: depression and I kind of just talked about the things
- 1:08:01Speaker 1: that I didn't get depressed and get anxiety about, and
- 1:08:04Speaker 1: hopefully it might be helpful and try to break down
- 1:08:07Speaker 1: the kind of preconceived notions of what therapy is. This week,
- 1:08:10Speaker 1: um on on this coming tomorrow, we'll be dropping an
- 1:08:12Speaker 1: episode talk about body issues. And I have two of
- 1:08:15Speaker 1: my friends. They're both models. One is a curve model
- 1:08:18Speaker 1: or plus size model, if you will. The other one,
- 1:08:21Speaker 1: uh is just a regular model. But like obviously they
- 1:08:23Speaker 1: are objectified every day for their bodies. And and I've
- 1:08:27Speaker 1: had some stories about, you know, mistakes I've made in
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: dating and just how people in their bodies and dating
- 1:08:32Speaker 1: is play a role, and it's just another topic we
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: talked about. Um. So yeah, we're just kind of having fun. Uh.
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: I think when I have a Demi on the following
- 1:08:40Speaker 1: week fun. Yeah, I'm I wasn't sure if I was
- 1:08:45Speaker 1: gonna have her on. I was like, you know what,
- 1:08:47Speaker 1: So Demi is gonna help me recap the Bachelor finale
- 1:08:51Speaker 1: and we'll we'll get into some maybe we'll talk about
- 1:08:53Speaker 1: internet bowling or bowling with Demi. Hey, I don't know,
- 1:08:57Speaker 1: so we just talk. I just I like I like
- 1:08:58Speaker 1: to hear myself talk an absolute man. Hey, uh, let's
- 1:09:02Speaker 1: head out of here. It's been a big night, Nick,
- 1:09:04Speaker 1: thanks for coming on. Make sure you tune into Vittle Files.
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