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- 0:45Welcome
- 0:45to
- 0:45the
- 0:45Sheppertonian.
- 0:46I'm
- 0:46Gareth,
- 0:47and
- 0:47before
- 0:47we
- 0:48begin
- 0:48today's
- 0:48story,
- 0:49a
- 0:49huge
- 0:49thank
- 0:50you
- 0:50to
- 0:50the
- 0:50members
- 0:50of
- 0:51our
- 0:51business
- 0:51club
- 0:52who
- 0:52make
- 0:52this
- 0:52podcast
- 0:53possible.
- 0:54Thanks
- 0:54to
- 0:54our
- 0:54supporters,
- 0:55Walfinch:
- 0:56Hampton,
- 0:56Twickenham
- 0:56and
- 0:57Virginia
- 0:57Water,
- 0:57who
- 0:58are
- 0:58redefining
- 0:59home
- 0:59care
- 0:59by
- 0:59helping
- 1:00clients
- 1:00pursue
- 1:01active
- 1:01lifestyles;
- 1:02and
- 1:03Island
- 1:03Motors,
- 1:04our
- 1:04local
- 1:04family
- 1:05run
- 1:05mot
- 1:05and
- 1:06repair
- 1:06specialists
- 1:07who
- 1:07offer
- 1:07convenient
- 1:08evening
- 1:08and
- 1:08weekend
- 1:09collection.
- 1:10We're
- 1:10also
- 1:10grateful
- 1:11to
- 1:11our
- 1:11partners
- 1:12the
- 1:12Ferry
- 1:12Coffee
- 1:12Shop.
- 1:13Whether
- 1:13you're
- 1:13walking
- 1:14the
- 1:14Thames
- 1:14path
- 1:15or
- 1:15making
- 1:15a
- 1:15special
- 1:15visit,
- 1:16they
- 1:16look
- 1:16forward
- 1:17to
- 1:17welcoming
- 1:17you
- 1:17to
- 1:18their
- 1:18coffee
- 1:18shop
- 1:18overlooking
- 1:19the
- 1:19Thames
- 1:20at
- 1:20Shepperton
- 1:20Lock.
- 1:21Danielle
- 1:22Davies,
- 1:22a
- 1:22celebrant
- 1:23creating
- 1:23ceremonies
- 1:24as
- 1:24unique
- 1:24as
- 1:24the
- 1:24people
- 1:25at
- 1:25their
- 1:25heart;
- 1:26and
- 1:26the
- 1:26Sound
- 1:26Boutique
- 1:27providing
- 1:27thoughtful
- 1:28audio
- 1:28for
- 1:29every
- 1:29story.
- 1:30You
- 1:30can
- 1:30find
- 1:30links
- 1:31to
- 1:31all
- 1:31of
- 1:31our
- 1:32supporters
- 1:32and
- 1:32partners
- 1:33on
- 1:33the
- 1:33Business
- 1:33Club
- 1:34page
- 1:35at
- 1:35thesheppertonian.uk
- 1:36and
- 1:36also
- 1:36in
- 1:37the
- 1:37show
- 1:37notes
- 1:37of
- 1:37this
- 1:37episode,
- 1:38so
- 1:38just
- 1:39scroll
- 1:39down.
- 1:40Today
- 1:41we
- 1:41meet
- 1:41a
- 1:41man
- 1:41named
- 1:42Andy.
- 1:4212
- 1:43years
- 1:43ago
- 1:43he
- 1:43was
- 1:44faced
- 1:44with
- 1:44a
- 1:44stage
- 1:454
- 1:45lymphoma
- 1:46diagnosis.
- 1:46Out
- 1:47of
- 1:47that
- 1:47dark
- 1:47time,
- 1:47he
- 1:48built
- 1:48something
- 1:48that
- 1:49has
- 1:49become
- 1:49a
- 1:49lifeline
- 1:50for
- 1:50hundreds
- 1:51of
- 1:51people
- 1:51in
- 1:51our
- 1:52community.
- 1:52I
- 1:53was
- 1:53diagnosed
- 1:53with
- 1:54stage
- 1:54four
- 1:55lymphoma
- 1:56and
- 1:56although
- 1:56I
- 1:56think
- 1:57I
- 1:57was
- 1:57expecting
- 1:57something,
- 1:58I
- 1:59thought
- 1:59originally
- 1:59it
- 1:59was
- 2:00hernia
- 2:01because
- 2:01my
- 2:01stomach
- 2:02has
- 2:03this
- 2:03big
- 2:03thing
- 2:04moving
- 2:04from
- 2:04one
- 2:04side
- 2:05to
- 2:05the
- 2:05other.
- 2:06And
- 2:06at
- 2:06the
- 2:06time
- 2:06I
- 2:06was
- 2:06building
- 2:07a
- 2:07little
- 2:07garage,
- 2:08although
- 2:08I
- 2:08wasn't,
- 2:09I'm
- 2:09not
- 2:10a
- 2:10builder,
- 2:10but
- 2:11I
- 2:11felt
- 2:11that
- 2:12something
- 2:12was
- 2:13my
- 2:13right
- 2:13abdomen,
- 2:14it
- 2:14was
- 2:14up
- 2:15by
- 2:15the
- 2:15top
- 2:15and
- 2:15I
- 2:16thought,
- 2:16oh
- 2:16yeah,
- 2:16when
- 2:16I
- 2:16finish
- 2:17this,
- 2:17I
- 2:17go
- 2:17and
- 2:17do
- 2:17it.
- 2:17But
- 2:18by
- 2:18then
- 2:18a
- 2:18lot
- 2:19of
- 2:19lumps
- 2:20and
- 2:20bumps
- 2:20started
- 2:20coming
- 2:21up
- 2:21around
- 2:21my
- 2:21neck,
- 2:22under
- 2:22my
- 2:23arms
- 2:23and
- 2:23so
- 2:24on,
- 2:24and
- 2:24I
- 2:24knew
- 2:24it
- 2:25was
- 2:25something
- 2:25a
- 2:25bit
- 2:25beyond
- 2:26that.
- 2:26So
- 2:26I
- 2:26went
- 2:27for
- 2:27a
- 2:27scan
- 2:28the
- 2:28doctor
- 2:28sent
- 2:29me
- 2:29and
- 2:29everything
- 2:29else
- 2:29and
- 2:30it
- 2:30was
- 2:30found
- 2:30that
- 2:31was
- 2:31so
- 2:31large,
- 2:32in
- 2:32fact
- 2:32the
- 2:32one
- 2:32in
- 2:32my
- 2:33abdomen
- 2:33was
- 2:3410
- 2:35x
- 2:3511
- 2:36cm.
- 2:36So
- 2:36it
- 2:37was
- 2:37massive
- 2:38and
- 2:38that's
- 2:38why
- 2:39it
- 2:39was
- 2:39stage
- 2:39four,
- 2:40because
- 2:40of
- 2:40his
- 2:40size
- 2:40more
- 2:41than
- 2:41anything
- 2:41else.
- 2:42So
- 2:42I
- 2:42saw
- 2:42a
- 2:43consultant.
- 2:43The
- 2:43consultant
- 2:44said,
- 2:44look
- 2:44what
- 2:45you
- 2:45want
- 2:45to
- 2:45do,
- 2:45do
- 2:45you
- 2:45want
- 2:46treatment?
- 2:46And
- 2:46I
- 2:46wasn't
- 2:47keen
- 2:47in
- 2:47that.
- 2:47I
- 2:48wanted
- 2:48to
- 2:48go
- 2:48what
- 2:48is
- 2:49called
- 2:49watch
- 2:49and
- 2:49wait,
- 2:50see
- 2:50what
- 2:50happens.
- 2:51Although
- 2:51it
- 2:51was
- 2:51a
- 2:51massive
- 2:52and
- 2:52everywhere
- 2:52was
- 2:52pumped
- 2:53up.
- 2:54But
- 2:54then
- 2:54I
- 2:54had
- 2:54the
- 2:55treatment
- 2:55two
- 2:55and
- 2:55a
- 2:56half
- 2:56years
- 2:56later
- 2:57because
- 2:57of
- 2:57what
- 2:57I
- 2:58was
- 2:58doing,
- 2:58it
- 2:59kept
- 2:59everything
- 2:59at
- 2:59bay.
- 3:00But
- 3:00at
- 3:01the
- 3:01same
- 3:01time
- 3:01I
- 3:01knew
- 3:02I
- 3:02couldn't
- 3:02carry
- 3:03on
- 3:03what
- 3:03I
- 3:03was
- 3:03doing.
- 3:04So
- 3:04eight
- 3:04years
- 3:05ago
- 3:05I
- 3:05was
- 3:06looking
- 3:06for
- 3:07somewhere
- 3:08to
- 3:08go
- 3:08and
- 3:08talk
- 3:09to
- 3:09People.
- 3:09I'm
- 3:10not
- 3:10a
- 3:10guy
- 3:10to
- 3:11get
- 3:11on
- 3:12Internet
- 3:13and
- 3:13talk
- 3:14to
- 3:14them.
- 3:14I
- 3:14didn't
- 3:15think
- 3:15it
- 3:15was
- 3:15emotional
- 3:15enough.
- 3:16All
- 3:16my
- 3:17life
- 3:17I
- 3:17worked
- 3:17with
- 3:17people,
- 3:18so
- 3:19there
- 3:19wasn't
- 3:19anything
- 3:20around,
- 3:20believe
- 3:20it
- 3:20or
- 3:20not.
- 3:21And
- 3:21I
- 3:21thought,
- 3:21I'm
- 3:22going
- 3:22to
- 3:22start
- 3:22this
- 3:22myself.
- 3:23So
- 3:23I
- 3:24approached
- 3:24Shepperton
- 3:25Medical
- 3:25Practice.
- 3:26They
- 3:26said,
- 3:27you
- 3:27can
- 3:27use
- 3:28our
- 3:28name,
- 3:29but
- 3:29you
- 3:29must
- 3:29make
- 3:30sure
- 3:30that
- 3:30people
- 3:30think
- 3:31that
- 3:31it's
- 3:31nothing
- 3:31to
- 3:31do
- 3:32with
- 3:32us.
- 3:32And
- 3:33I
- 3:33said,
- 3:33absolutely.
- 3:33Wonderful.
- 3:34We
- 3:35give
- 3:35you
- 3:35the
- 3:35room
- 3:36so
- 3:36you
- 3:36can
- 3:36start
- 3:36here.
- 3:37And
- 3:38that's
- 3:38how
- 3:38we
- 3:38started,
- 3:39with
- 3:40three
- 3:40people
- 3:40turning
- 3:41up.
- 3:41What
- 3:41Andy
- 3:42created
- 3:42wasn't
- 3:43a
- 3:43clinical
- 3:43environment,
- 3:44but
- 3:44a
- 3:45safe
- 3:45place
- 3:45for
- 3:46emotional
- 3:46expression
- 3:47where
- 3:47patients
- 3:47could
- 3:48feel
- 3:48validated.
- 3:49The
- 3:49Patient
- 3:49Cancer
- 3:50Support
- 3:50Group
- 3:51is
- 3:51a
- 3:51registered
- 3:52charity
- 3:53and
- 3:53it
- 3:54covers
- 3:55Spelthorne,
- 3:56Runnymede
- 3:56and
- 3:57Elmbridge
- 3:58as
- 3:58well
- 3:58as
- 3:59surrounding
- 4:00areas.
- 4:00Now,
- 4:01that
- 4:01means
- 4:01we
- 4:02had
- 4:02people
- 4:02coming
- 4:02from
- 4:03Slough,
- 4:03people
- 4:04coming
- 4:04from
- 4:04Feltham,
- 4:05so
- 4:06basically
- 4:06we
- 4:07don't
- 4:07turn
- 4:07anyone
- 4:08down.
- 4:08People
- 4:09would
- 4:09talk
- 4:09about
- 4:10their
- 4:11own
- 4:11experiences.
- 4:12They
- 4:12talk
- 4:13about
- 4:13their
- 4:13fears,
- 4:14their
- 4:14triumphs.
- 4:15And
- 4:15I
- 4:15think,
- 4:15in
- 4:15my
- 4:16view,
- 4:16that
- 4:16creates
- 4:17an
- 4:17atmosphere
- 4:19that
- 4:20patients
- 4:21feel
- 4:21validated
- 4:22and
- 4:23at
- 4:23the
- 4:23same
- 4:23time
- 4:24understood,
- 4:25because
- 4:25everybody's
- 4:26talking
- 4:26about
- 4:26the
- 4:27same
- 4:27thing
- 4:28by
- 4:28sharing
- 4:29stories
- 4:30and
- 4:30by
- 4:31learning
- 4:31from
- 4:31others.
- 4:33I
- 4:33think
- 4:33that
- 4:34for
- 4:34me,
- 4:35it
- 4:36creates
- 4:36and
- 4:37it
- 4:37fosters
- 4:38a
- 4:38sense
- 4:39of
- 4:39belonging
- 4:40and
- 4:40people
- 4:41feel
- 4:42they're
- 4:42not
- 4:42alone
- 4:43in
- 4:43their
- 4:43struggle.
- 4:44They
- 4:45open
- 4:45up
- 4:45a
- 4:45little
- 4:45bit
- 4:46more.
- 4:46And
- 4:46I
- 4:47think
- 4:47the
- 4:47empathy
- 4:47within
- 4:48the
- 4:48group
- 4:48is
- 4:49so
- 4:50apparent
- 4:51in
- 4:51so
- 4:51many
- 4:52cases
- 4:53and
- 4:53it
- 4:53becomes
- 4:54so
- 4:54obvious,
- 4:54and
- 4:55maybe
- 4:55that
- 4:55alleviates
- 4:56some
- 4:57of
- 4:57the
- 4:57isolation
- 4:58and
- 4:58fears
- 4:59people
- 4:59have.
- 5:00I
- 5:00think
- 5:01the
- 5:01majority
- 5:01of
- 5:01people
- 5:01will
- 5:02call
- 5:02me
- 5:02first,
- 5:03they
- 5:03will
- 5:03write
- 5:03to
- 5:03me,
- 5:04so
- 5:04I
- 5:04give
- 5:05them
- 5:05an
- 5:05idea
- 5:05as
- 5:05to
- 5:05what
- 5:05we
- 5:06do,
- 5:06what
- 5:06to
- 5:06expect
- 5:06there.
- 5:07But
- 5:08I
- 5:08have
- 5:08found
- 5:08that
- 5:08it's
- 5:09always
- 5:09very
- 5:09difficult
- 5:10for
- 5:10people
- 5:10to
- 5:10come
- 5:10and
- 5:11talk
- 5:11about
- 5:11their
- 5:11own
- 5:12personal
- 5:12things.
- 5:12So
- 5:13what
- 5:13I
- 5:13tend
- 5:13to
- 5:13do,
- 5:13as
- 5:13soon
- 5:14as
- 5:14they
- 5:14come
- 5:14in,
- 5:15if
- 5:15I
- 5:15haven't
- 5:15seen
- 5:15them
- 5:16before,
- 5:16I
- 5:17will
- 5:17talk
- 5:17to
- 5:17them
- 5:17about
- 5:18what
- 5:18happens.
- 5:18So
- 5:18I
- 5:18spend
- 5:19two
- 5:19or
- 5:19three
- 5:19minutes
- 5:19with
- 5:20them.
- 5:20There
- 5:20is
- 5:20coffee,
- 5:20tea,
- 5:21biscuits
- 5:21and
- 5:21everything
- 5:21else,
- 5:22so
- 5:22they
- 5:22relax
- 5:23anyway.
- 5:23More
- 5:24often
- 5:24than
- 5:24not,
- 5:24they
- 5:25turn
- 5:25up
- 5:25with
- 5:25a
- 5:25partner
- 5:26or
- 5:26a
- 5:26friend
- 5:26or
- 5:27something,
- 5:27and
- 5:28what
- 5:28I
- 5:29do
- 5:29say
- 5:29to
- 5:29them,
- 5:29because
- 5:30there's
- 5:30a
- 5:30lot
- 5:30of
- 5:30misconception
- 5:31out
- 5:31there
- 5:32about,
- 5:33oh,
- 5:33I'm
- 5:33forced
- 5:33to
- 5:34say
- 5:34something,
- 5:34I
- 5:34don't
- 5:35want
- 5:35to
- 5:35attend
- 5:35meetings,
- 5:36and
- 5:36it's
- 5:36not
- 5:36like
- 5:36that
- 5:37at
- 5:37all.
- 5:37I
- 5:37tell
- 5:38them
- 5:38to
- 5:38sit
- 5:38back,
- 5:39listen
- 5:40to
- 5:40what
- 5:40was
- 5:41going
- 5:41on.
- 5:42If
- 5:42they
- 5:42want
- 5:42to
- 5:42contribute,
- 5:43if
- 5:43they
- 5:44feel
- 5:44that
- 5:44they're
- 5:44happy
- 5:45to
- 5:45do
- 5:45that,
- 5:45by
- 5:46all
- 5:46means,
- 5:46do
- 5:46it.
- 5:47If
- 5:47you
- 5:47don't,
- 5:47just
- 5:47listen,
- 5:48because
- 5:50you
- 5:50learn
- 5:50by
- 5:50that,
- 5:51as
- 5:51well,
- 5:51and
- 5:51you
- 5:51think,
- 5:52is
- 5:52it
- 5:52really
- 5:52the
- 5:53place
- 5:53for
- 5:53me?
- 5:53And
- 5:55I
- 5:55know
- 5:56these
- 5:56kind
- 5:56of
- 5:57meetings
- 5:57are
- 5:57not
- 5:58for
- 5:58everyone,
- 5:59I'm
- 5:59well
- 5:59aware
- 6:00of
- 6:00that.
- 6:01But
- 6:01also
- 6:01anyone
- 6:02who
- 6:02comes
- 6:02there
- 6:03who
- 6:03doesn't
- 6:03want
- 6:03to
- 6:03start
- 6:04talking
- 6:04about
- 6:04things,
- 6:05you
- 6:05could
- 6:05find
- 6:05that,
- 6:06oh,
- 6:06I
- 6:06feel
- 6:06comfortable
- 6:07here.
- 6:08You
- 6:08know,
- 6:08people
- 6:08are
- 6:08talking
- 6:09about
- 6:09themselves
- 6:09and
- 6:10they
- 6:10share
- 6:10their
- 6:10own
- 6:11stories.
- 6:12So,
- 6:12you
- 6:13know,
- 6:13it
- 6:13is
- 6:14one
- 6:14of
- 6:14empathy,
- 6:15it's
- 6:15one
- 6:15of
- 6:15welcoming,
- 6:16it's
- 6:16the
- 6:16one
- 6:16of
- 6:16there's
- 6:17nothing
- 6:17solid
- 6:17about
- 6:18it.
- 6:18There's
- 6:18no
- 6:19script,
- 6:20if
- 6:20you
- 6:20like
- 6:20to
- 6:20go.
- 6:21We
- 6:21do
- 6:21what
- 6:21we
- 6:21like.
- 6:21And
- 6:22there
- 6:22is
- 6:22a
- 6:22lot
- 6:22of
- 6:22humour
- 6:23as
- 6:23well
- 6:23in
- 6:23there,
- 6:23not
- 6:24just
- 6:24talking
- 6:25about
- 6:25cancer.
- 6:25The
- 6:26group
- 6:26thrives
- 6:26on
- 6:27peer
- 6:27to
- 6:27peer
- 6:27support
- 6:28where
- 6:28those
- 6:28in
- 6:29remission
- 6:29provide
- 6:29hope
- 6:30to
- 6:30the
- 6:30newly
- 6:31diagnosed.
- 6:32I
- 6:32think
- 6:32the
- 6:33most
- 6:33profound
- 6:34benefit
- 6:35of
- 6:35the
- 6:35group
- 6:35is
- 6:36the
- 6:36hope
- 6:37and
- 6:37inspiration
- 6:38that
- 6:38it
- 6:38provides
- 6:39to
- 6:39so,
- 6:39so
- 6:40many
- 6:40people.
- 6:41When
- 6:41you
- 6:41hear
- 6:42in
- 6:42stories
- 6:43of
- 6:44resilience,
- 6:44if
- 6:45you
- 6:45like
- 6:45recovery,
- 6:47then
- 6:48anyone
- 6:48coming
- 6:48in
- 6:48listening
- 6:49to
- 6:49that
- 6:49gives
- 6:50a
- 6:50sense
- 6:50of
- 6:51hope
- 6:51that.
- 6:51Hold
- 6:52on
- 6:52a
- 6:52minute.
- 6:52There
- 6:53is
- 6:53a
- 6:53light
- 6:53at
- 6:53the
- 6:54end
- 6:54of
- 6:54the
- 6:54tunnel.
- 6:55And
- 6:55I
- 6:55do
- 6:55know
- 6:56from
- 6:56my
- 6:56own
- 6:56experience
- 6:57that
- 6:57the
- 6:57tunnel
- 6:58might
- 6:58be
- 6:58long.
- 6:59And
- 6:59I'm
- 6:59a
- 6:59realist
- 7:00to
- 7:00know
- 7:00that,
- 7:01you
- 7:01know,
- 7:01let's
- 7:02be
- 7:02serious
- 7:03about
- 7:03this.
- 7:03There's
- 7:04no
- 7:04easy
- 7:05way
- 7:05out
- 7:05of
- 7:05this.
- 7:05You're
- 7:06going
- 7:06to
- 7:06go
- 7:06through
- 7:06some
- 7:06tough
- 7:07times,
- 7:07but
- 7:08that
- 7:08light
- 7:08at
- 7:08the
- 7:09end
- 7:09of
- 7:09the
- 7:09tunnel
- 7:09just
- 7:10keeps
- 7:10you
- 7:10going.
- 7:11And
- 7:11I
- 7:11think
- 7:11that's
- 7:11really
- 7:12what
- 7:12it
- 7:12is.
- 7:12We've
- 7:12got
- 7:13some
- 7:13300
- 7:13members
- 7:14now
- 7:14on
- 7:15Facebook
- 7:15and
- 7:15everything
- 7:16else.
- 7:16But
- 7:16I
- 7:17think
- 7:17what's
- 7:17happening,
- 7:18particularly
- 7:19on
- 7:19the
- 7:19last
- 7:19one,
- 7:19we
- 7:20have
- 7:2013
- 7:21different
- 7:21cancers
- 7:22within
- 7:23the
- 7:23room
- 7:23and
- 7:24people
- 7:24will
- 7:24say,
- 7:25well,
- 7:25hold
- 7:25on
- 7:25a
- 7:25minute,
- 7:26how
- 7:26is
- 7:26the
- 7:27prostate
- 7:27cancer
- 7:28going
- 7:28to
- 7:28help
- 7:28a
- 7:28lung
- 7:29cancer?
- 7:29Or
- 7:30it's
- 7:30not
- 7:31about
- 7:31medical
- 7:32side
- 7:33here.
- 7:33We're
- 7:33talking
- 7:34about
- 7:34how
- 7:34people
- 7:34can
- 7:35cope
- 7:36and
- 7:36what
- 7:37is
- 7:37the
- 7:37best
- 7:37way.
- 7:37And
- 7:38some
- 7:38of
- 7:38the
- 7:39exchanges
- 7:40between
- 7:41the
- 7:41patients
- 7:42and
- 7:42the
- 7:42carers
- 7:43and
- 7:43the
- 7:43loved
- 7:43ones
- 7:43is
- 7:44phone
- 7:44numbers
- 7:44is,
- 7:45oh,
- 7:45I've
- 7:45done
- 7:45this.
- 7:46Or
- 7:46maybe
- 7:46you
- 7:46go
- 7:47there.
- 7:47And
- 7:47I
- 7:47think
- 7:47that's
- 7:47really,
- 7:48it's
- 7:48a
- 7:48peer
- 7:48to
- 7:48peer
- 7:49support
- 7:49and
- 7:50it
- 7:50works
- 7:50wonders.
- 7:50I'm
- 7:51only
- 7:51there
- 7:51to
- 7:51put
- 7:52the
- 7:52jigsaw
- 7:52pieces
- 7:53together,
- 7:53you
- 7:54know,
- 7:54okay,
- 7:54I'm
- 7:55privileged
- 7:55to
- 7:55be
- 7:55running
- 7:56it,
- 7:56but
- 7:57someone
- 7:57needs
- 7:57to
- 7:58do
- 7:58that.
- 7:58That's
- 7:59all
- 7:59it
- 7:59is.
- 7:59But
- 7:59they
- 8:00is
- 8:00their
- 8:00group,
- 8:01as
- 8:01simple
- 8:02as
- 8:02that.
- 8:02They
- 8:02are
- 8:02charity.
- 9:15Andy
- 9:15has
- 9:15extended
- 9:16this
- 9:16support
- 9:16through
- 9:17a
- 9:17private
- 9:17Samaritan-type
- 9:18listening
- 9:19line
- 9:19and
- 9:19a
- 9:20YouTube
- 9:20channel
- 9:20featuring
- 9:21inspirational
- 9:21stories
- 9:22and
- 9:22research.
- 9:23Last
- 9:23year
- 9:24we
- 9:24decided
- 9:25that
- 9:26maybe
- 9:27people
- 9:27want
- 9:27to
- 9:28talk
- 9:28to
- 9:28us
- 9:29in
- 9:29private.
- 9:30So
- 9:30I
- 9:31have
- 9:31now
- 9:31got
- 9:31a
- 9:32dedicated
- 9:33line
- 9:33for
- 9:34anyone
- 9:34wishes
- 9:35to
- 9:35speak
- 9:35to
- 9:35us.
- 9:35It's
- 9:36a
- 9:36kind
- 9:36of,
- 9:36if
- 9:36you
- 9:37like,
- 9:37a
- 9:38Samaritan
- 9:38line,
- 9:39if
- 9:39I
- 9:39can
- 9:39put
- 9:39it
- 9:39like
- 9:40that,
- 9:40where
- 9:40it's
- 9:41a
- 9:41listening
- 9:41ear.
- 9:42And
- 9:43there
- 9:43is
- 9:44a
- 9:44phone
- 9:44number
- 9:45on
- 9:45Facebook
- 9:46group.
- 9:46It's
- 9:47only
- 9:47for
- 9:48members
- 9:49because
- 9:49if
- 9:49I
- 9:49put
- 9:49it
- 9:49out,
- 9:50I
- 9:50won't
- 9:50be
- 9:51able
- 9:51to
- 9:51cope
- 9:51with
- 9:52the
- 9:52phone
- 9:52calls.
- 9:53And
- 9:53because
- 9:54it's
- 9:54not
- 9:5424,
- 9:557
- 9:56sitting
- 9:56on
- 9:56here
- 9:57waiting
- 9:57for
- 9:57the
- 9:57calls
- 9:57to
- 9:58come
- 9:58in,
- 9:58they
- 9:58can
- 9:59leave
- 9:59their
- 10:00name,
- 10:00their
- 10:00phone
- 10:00number,
- 10:01and
- 10:01I
- 10:01will
- 10:01call
- 10:01them
- 10:02back.
- 10:02It's
- 10:03not
- 10:03a
- 10:03question
- 10:03of
- 10:03advising
- 10:04anyone.
- 10:04It's
- 10:05just
- 10:05that
- 10:05maybe
- 10:05they
- 10:05want
- 10:06to
- 10:06listen
- 10:07to
- 10:07someone
- 10:07else,
- 10:08what
- 10:08it
- 10:08is,
- 10:08rather
- 10:08than
- 10:09the
- 10:09relatives.
- 10:09I
- 10:10have
- 10:10had
- 10:10a
- 10:10few
- 10:10calls
- 10:11and
- 10:11in
- 10:12fact,
- 10:12a
- 10:12couple
- 10:12of
- 10:12them
- 10:13I
- 10:13actually
- 10:13met
- 10:14and
- 10:14had
- 10:14coffee
- 10:15with
- 10:15them
- 10:15because
- 10:15obviously,
- 10:16to
- 10:16start
- 10:17with,
- 10:17they
- 10:17don't
- 10:17want
- 10:17to
- 10:18be
- 10:18seen.
- 10:18They're
- 10:19not
- 10:19telling
- 10:19you
- 10:19too
- 10:20much.
- 10:20They
- 10:20want
- 10:20to
- 10:20be
- 10:21anonymous.
- 10:21And
- 10:21I
- 10:21can
- 10:22understand
- 10:22that,
- 10:22you
- 10:23know,
- 10:24but
- 10:24that
- 10:24obviously
- 10:25sparked
- 10:25off
- 10:26a
- 10:26different
- 10:26relationship.
- 10:27And
- 10:27in
- 10:28fact,
- 10:29those
- 10:29people
- 10:29as
- 10:29they
- 10:30come
- 10:30to
- 10:30the
- 10:30group,
- 10:31so
- 10:31you
- 10:31can
- 10:31see
- 10:31how
- 10:32it
- 10:32goes.
- 10:32And
- 10:33at
- 10:33the
- 10:33same
- 10:33time,
- 10:34last
- 10:34year
- 10:34we
- 10:34set
- 10:35up
- 10:35a
- 10:35YouTube
- 10:36channel.
- 10:36We
- 10:37interview
- 10:37cancer
- 10:38patients.
- 10:39So
- 10:39it's
- 10:40an
- 10:40inspirational
- 10:41side
- 10:41of
- 10:41it
- 10:42as
- 10:42well
- 10:42there,
- 10:43because
- 10:44I
- 10:44research
- 10:45quite
- 10:45a
- 10:46bit
- 10:46on
- 10:47new
- 10:47studies
- 10:48and
- 10:49research,
- 10:49and
- 10:50that's
- 10:50something
- 10:50that
- 10:50we
- 10:50talk
- 10:51about
- 10:51the
- 10:51meetings
- 10:51as
- 10:52well.
- 10:52I
- 10:52decided
- 10:53that
- 10:54I've
- 10:54done
- 10:54the
- 10:54work,
- 10:55so
- 10:55I
- 10:55do
- 10:55a
- 10:55little
- 10:56video,
- 10:56maybe
- 10:56five
- 10:57minutes
- 10:57or
- 10:57something,
- 10:57and
- 10:58I
- 10:58upload
- 10:58that
- 10:59there.
- 10:59So
- 10:59a
- 11:00lot
- 11:00of
- 11:00people
- 11:00will
- 11:00look
- 11:00at
- 11:01that
- 11:01as
- 11:01well
- 11:01or
- 11:01listen
- 11:02to
- 11:02that
- 11:02as
- 11:02well.
- 11:03I
- 11:03hope
- 11:03it
- 11:03all
- 11:03helps.
- 11:04Yeah.
- 11:04Andy's
- 11:05journey
- 11:05from
- 11:05a
- 11:05stage
- 11:06four
- 11:06diagnosis
- 11:07to
- 11:07a
- 11:07community
- 11:07leader
- 11:08is
- 11:08a
- 11:08powerful
- 11:09reminder
- 11:09of
- 11:09the
- 11:09resilience
- 11:10found
- 11:10right
- 11:11here
- 11:11in
- 11:11Shepperton.
- 11:12Yes,
- 11:12I
- 11:12have
- 11:13been
- 11:13a
- 11:13patient.
- 11:13I
- 11:13have
- 11:13been
- 11:14in
- 11:14remission
- 11:14for,
- 11:14I
- 11:14don't
- 11:15know,
- 11:15seven
- 11:15years
- 11:15now,
- 11:16whatever
- 11:16it
- 11:16is.
- 11:17But
- 11:17at
- 11:17the
- 11:18back
- 11:18of
- 11:18your
- 11:18mind,
- 11:18you're
- 11:19still
- 11:19a
- 11:19patient.
- 11:19Whichever
- 11:20way
- 11:20you
- 11:20look
- 11:20at
- 11:20it,
- 11:20you're
- 11:20a
- 11:21patient.
- 11:21I
- 11:21think
- 11:21every
- 11:22six
- 11:22months,
- 11:22I'm
- 11:22reminded
- 11:23of
- 11:23my
- 11:24checkups
- 11:25that
- 11:25I
- 11:25have,
- 11:25that
- 11:25I'm
- 11:26a
- 11:26patient.
- 11:27I
- 11:27have
- 11:27adopted
- 11:28a
- 11:28few
- 11:28things
- 11:29that
- 11:29helped
- 11:29me
- 11:29so
- 11:30far.
- 11:30But
- 11:30I
- 11:31think
- 11:31listening
- 11:31to
- 11:31other
- 11:32people
- 11:32as
- 11:32well,
- 11:33I
- 11:33think
- 11:33I
- 11:34have
- 11:34learned
- 11:34a
- 11:35lot
- 11:35more.
- 11:36Maybe
- 11:36I
- 11:36wasn't
- 11:36doing
- 11:37that
- 11:37at
- 11:37the
- 11:37time,
- 11:38but
- 11:38I
- 11:38can
- 11:38see
- 11:39now
- 11:39how
- 11:41people
- 11:41are
- 11:41pinning
- 11:42their
- 11:42hopes
- 11:42on
- 11:43certain
- 11:43things,
- 11:44either
- 11:44because
- 11:44they've
- 11:45heard
- 11:45or
- 11:45they're
- 11:45doing.
- 11:46And
- 11:46I
- 11:47think
- 11:47that
- 11:48I
- 11:48gathered
- 11:49that
- 11:49information
- 11:49because
- 11:50those
- 11:50people
- 11:50might
- 11:50not
- 11:51be
- 11:51there
- 11:51tomorrow.
- 11:52Some
- 11:52of
- 11:52them
- 11:52come
- 11:52there
- 11:52and
- 11:53they
- 11:53go
- 11:53back,
- 11:53and
- 11:53I
- 11:53thought,
- 11:53this
- 11:54is
- 11:54quite
- 11:54nice
- 11:54to
- 11:55mention
- 11:56at
- 11:56some
- 11:56meetings
- 11:57to
- 11:57help
- 11:57others.
- 11:58So
- 11:58it's
- 11:58gathering
- 11:59of
- 11:59information,
- 11:59really.
- 12:00And
- 12:00if
- 12:00someone
- 12:01tells
- 12:01you,
- 12:01I
- 12:02know
- 12:02what
- 12:03you
- 12:03mean,
- 12:04you
- 12:04don't,
- 12:05you
- 12:05really
- 12:05don't
- 12:06know
- 12:06what
- 12:06I
- 12:06mean,
- 12:07simply
- 12:07because
- 12:07I
- 12:07am
- 12:08me
- 12:08and
- 12:08you
- 12:09are
- 12:09you.
- 12:09And
- 12:10although
- 12:11we
- 12:11understand
- 12:12roughly
- 12:12what
- 12:12the
- 12:13situation
- 12:13is,
- 12:14everyone
- 12:15is
- 12:15unique
- 12:16in
- 12:16their
- 12:16experience
- 12:17and
- 12:17it's
- 12:18nice
- 12:18to
- 12:18mention
- 12:18all
- 12:19of
- 12:19these
- 12:19things
- 12:19because
- 12:19they
- 12:20might
- 12:20fit
- 12:21on
- 12:21one
- 12:22situation
- 12:22but
- 12:23not
- 12:23on
- 12:23the
- 12:23others.
- 12:24And
- 12:24people
- 12:24will
- 12:25judge
- 12:25for
- 12:25themselves
- 12:26as
- 12:26to
- 12:26what's
- 12:27good
- 12:27for
- 12:27them.
- 12:27And
- 12:27I
- 12:27think
- 12:28that's
- 12:28so
- 12:29great,
- 12:29so
- 12:30great.
- 12:30I
- 12:30asked
- 12:31Andy,
- 12:31if
- 12:31people
- 12:32are
- 12:32unsure
- 12:32about
- 12:33whether
- 12:33to
- 12:33reach
- 12:33out
- 12:34and
- 12:34join
- 12:34a
- 12:34group
- 12:34like
- 12:35this,
- 12:35what
- 12:35would
- 12:36he
- 12:36say
- 12:36to
- 12:36them?
- 12:37I'll
- 12:37say
- 12:38that
- 12:38we've
- 12:39all
- 12:39been
- 12:39through
- 12:39that
- 12:40situation.
- 12:41It
- 12:41is
- 12:41daunting.
- 12:43And
- 12:43I
- 12:43think
- 12:43what
- 12:43you're
- 12:44going
- 12:44to
- 12:44get
- 12:44out
- 12:44of
- 12:44the
- 12:45group
- 12:45is
- 12:46a
- 12:46sincere
- 12:47message
- 12:48and
- 12:48a
- 12:48sincere
- 12:49experience
- 12:50from
- 12:50people
- 12:50who
- 12:50are
- 12:51already
- 12:51going
- 12:51through.
- 12:52Yes,
- 12:53it's
- 12:53an
- 12:53enormous
- 12:54mountain
- 12:55to
- 12:55climb,
- 12:55but
- 12:56at
- 12:56least
- 12:56at
- 12:57the
- 12:57same
- 12:57time,
- 12:58maybe
- 12:58what
- 12:59other
- 12:59people
- 12:59are
- 12:59saying
- 13:00will
- 13:00help
- 13:00you
- 13:01move
- 13:02on
- 13:02to
- 13:02the
- 13:02next
- 13:02stage.
- 13:03And
- 13:03I
- 13:03think
- 13:04that's
- 13:04really
- 13:04the
- 13:05message
- 13:05that
- 13:05I'm
- 13:05going
- 13:05to
- 13:06put
- 13:06across
- 13:06to
- 13:06a
- 13:06newly
- 13:07diagnosed
- 13:07is
- 13:08there
- 13:08is
- 13:08hope
- 13:09out
- 13:09there.
- 13:10It's
- 13:10difficult
- 13:11to
- 13:11know
- 13:11which
- 13:12avenue
- 13:12to
- 13:13take,
- 13:13if
- 13:13you
- 13:13like,
- 13:13because
- 13:14the
- 13:14medical
- 13:15is
- 13:15telling
- 13:15you
- 13:15one
- 13:16thing,
- 13:16you've
- 13:16got
- 13:16relatives
- 13:17and
- 13:17friends
- 13:18who
- 13:18are
- 13:18trying
- 13:18to
- 13:18support
- 13:19you,
- 13:20but,
- 13:21you
- 13:21know,
- 13:22we've
- 13:22all
- 13:22been
- 13:22through
- 13:23there.
- 13:23I
- 13:23didn't
- 13:24tell
- 13:24my
- 13:24kids
- 13:24for
- 13:24three
- 13:25months
- 13:26because
- 13:27I
- 13:27didn't
- 13:27want
- 13:27them.
- 13:28What
- 13:28I
- 13:28thought
- 13:28I
- 13:28was
- 13:29trying
- 13:29to
- 13:29protect
- 13:29them.
- 13:30And
- 13:31when
- 13:31they
- 13:32heard,
- 13:32obviously
- 13:33I
- 13:33won't
- 13:33say
- 13:33what
- 13:33they
- 13:34said,
- 13:34but
- 13:34friends
- 13:35always
- 13:35say,
- 13:36ah,
- 13:36you'll
- 13:36be
- 13:36all
- 13:36right.
- 13:37You
- 13:37do
- 13:37that.
- 13:37And
- 13:38sometimes
- 13:38it's
- 13:39not
- 13:39what
- 13:39you
- 13:39want
- 13:39to
- 13:40hear
- 13:40because
- 13:40if
- 13:40you're
- 13:41not
- 13:41doing
- 13:41okay,
- 13:42you
- 13:42think,
- 13:42oh,
- 13:43my
- 13:43friend
- 13:43said
- 13:43I
- 13:44should
- 13:44be
- 13:44okay.
- 13:44So
- 13:44you're
- 13:45going
- 13:45further
- 13:45down
- 13:46from
- 13:46the
- 13:46people
- 13:46within
- 13:47the
- 13:47group,
- 13:47you're
- 13:47going
- 13:47to
- 13:48hear
- 13:48what
- 13:49they've
- 13:49gone
- 13:49through.
- 13:50You
- 13:50can
- 13:50find
- 13:50the
- 13:51group
- 13:51at
- 13:51thepatientcancersupportgroup.co.uk.
- 13:54We
- 13:55have
- 13:55a
- 13:55website
- 13:55which
- 13:56is
- 13:56straightforward,
- 13:57thepatientcancersupportgroup.co.uk.
- 14:00They
- 14:01can
- 14:01find
- 14:02email
- 14:02in
- 14:03there.
- 14:03It
- 14:03actually
- 14:03tells
- 14:04them
- 14:04who
- 14:04is
- 14:04supporting
- 14:05us,
- 14:05what
- 14:06do
- 14:06we
- 14:06do.
- 14:06So
- 14:07we
- 14:07also
- 14:07have
- 14:08a
- 14:08Facebook
- 14:08group
- 14:09that
- 14:10can
- 14:10join
- 14:10that
- 14:10is
- 14:11private,
- 14:11so
- 14:11we
- 14:12don't
- 14:12work
- 14:12want
- 14:12any
- 14:13silly
- 14:14things
- 14:14to
- 14:14be
- 14:15uploaded
- 14:16on
- 14:16that.
- 14:16I
- 14:17do
- 14:17approve
- 14:18patients
- 14:19to
- 14:19come
- 14:20in
- 14:20or
- 14:20anyone
- 14:20to
- 14:21come
- 14:21in,
- 14:21and
- 14:21also
- 14:22I
- 14:22approve
- 14:23every
- 14:23single
- 14:23post
- 14:24that
- 14:24goes
- 14:24in
- 14:24there.
- 14:25But
- 14:25it's
- 14:26again,
- 14:26I
- 14:26think
- 14:26it's
- 14:27word
- 14:27of
- 14:27the
- 14:27mouth
- 14:27these
- 14:28days.
- 14:28I
- 14:28mean,
- 14:29we're
- 14:29supported
- 14:30by
- 14:30the
- 14:31two
- 14:31hospitals.
- 14:32Our
- 14:32poster
- 14:33is
- 14:33on
- 14:33every
- 14:34notice
- 14:34board
- 14:35of
- 14:35the
- 14:35hospital
- 14:35by
- 14:36change.
- 14:36Because
- 14:37of
- 14:37my
- 14:37connection
- 14:37with
- 14:37them,
- 14:38I
- 14:38sit
- 14:38on
- 14:38the
- 14:38cancer
- 14:38board
- 14:39of
- 14:39the
- 14:39hospital.
- 14:39So
- 14:40therefore
- 14:40I
- 14:40get
- 14:40as
- 14:41a
- 14:41patient
- 14:42representative,
- 14:42let's
- 14:43just
- 14:43say
- 14:43so
- 14:43I
- 14:43get
- 14:44information
- 14:44from
- 14:44them.
- 14:45I
- 14:46take
- 14:46hours
- 14:46there.
- 14:47So
- 14:48that's
- 14:48why
- 14:48the
- 14:48posters
- 14:49there,
- 14:49Macmillan
- 14:50have
- 14:50it
- 14:50on
- 14:50their
- 14:51website
- 14:51so
- 14:51they
- 14:52can
- 14:52be
- 14:52referred
- 14:53to
- 14:53from
- 14:53there.
- 14:54Medical
- 14:54practices
- 14:55have
- 14:55it
- 14:55on
- 14:55their
- 14:55electronic
- 14:56screen
- 14:57now
- 14:57as
- 14:57well
- 14:57as
- 14:58posters.
- 14:59That
- 14:59was
- 14:59Andy
- 15:00Anderson
- 15:00of
- 15:00Shepperton's
- 15:01Patient
- 15:01Cancer
- 15:02Support
- 15:02Group.
- 15:03As
- 15:03he
- 15:03mentioned
- 15:03you
- 15:04can
- 15:04find
- 15:04out
- 15:04more
- 15:04from
- 15:05the
- 15:05patientcancersupportgroup.co.uk
- 15:08where
- 15:08you
- 15:08can
- 15:08see
- 15:08their
- 15:09scheduled
- 15:09meetups
- 15:10and
- 15:10the
- 15:10link
- 15:10to
- 15:10the
- 15:11Facebook
- 15:11group,
- 15:11as
- 15:12well
- 15:12as
- 15:12loads
- 15:12of
- 15:13information
- 15:13about
- 15:13the
- 15:14group.
- 15:14Thanks
- 15:14again
- 15:15to
- 15:15our
- 15:15Business
- 15:15Club
- 15:16supporters
- 15:16and
- 15:16partners.
- 15:17And
- 15:17don't
- 15:17forget,
- 15:18if
- 15:18you're
- 15:18a
- 15:18business
- 15:19and
- 15:19want
- 15:19your
- 15:19message
- 15:20seen
- 15:20and
- 15:20heard
- 15:20by
- 15:21a
- 15:21local
- 15:21audience,
- 15:21you
- 15:22can
- 15:22find
- 15:22out
- 15:22more
- 15:23on
- 15:23the
- 15:23Business
- 15:23club
- 15:24page
- 15:25at
- 15:25thesheppertonian.uk.
- 15:26Thank
- 15:27you
- 15:27for
- 15:27listening.
- 15:27I'm
- 15:27Gareth.
- 15:28This
- 15:28has
- 15:28been
- 15:28the
- 15:29Sheppertonian.
- 15:29Until
- 15:30next
- 15:30time,
- 15:30I'll
- 15:31see
- 15:31you
- 15:31around.