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- 0:00Speaker 1: It really is a pretty cool place to hang out. Arrow.net, A-R-R-O-E.net,
- 0:05Speaker 1: 21 different podcasts. Not just podcast episodes, we're talking about
- 0:09Speaker 1: full-fledged podcasts. Arrow.net, A-R-R-O-E.net. Enjoy your exploration. When it's difficult
- 0:19Speaker 1: to make up your mind, I mean, having that power
- 0:21Speaker 1: of choice is actually something that'll weaken a person's heart.
- 0:25Speaker 1: On this episode, we're going to put focus on today's
- 0:27Speaker 1: mobile DJ, the party planners, performers, and side hustle players. Plus,
- 0:34Speaker 1: making the choice to not make a choice, delegating everything
- 0:39Speaker 1: to someone else. My name is Arrow. Life is a
- 0:43Speaker 1: series of choices. I mean, who decides when you're not
- 0:45Speaker 1: making the right choice? And is it a fear of
- 0:47Speaker 1: things going wrong? The greatest lessons in life are often
- 0:50Speaker 1: lost inside hidden away attempts and concepts. Well, it's time
- 0:54Speaker 1: to reopen that heart. Having that power of choice is
- 0:58Speaker 1: your daily gift. On this highway, we're going to learn
- 1:01Speaker 1: how to trust mirages. What is the choice? How about
- 1:05Speaker 1: making the choice to be a mobile DJ in 2026?
- 1:09Speaker 1: Are there any true performers still around, or is it
- 1:13Speaker 1: all about that quick side hustle? First, let's be very
- 1:16Speaker 1: clear about one thing. Being a mobile entertainer is a performance.
- 1:21Speaker 1: It's very much a skill, and it's carefully crafted. But
- 1:24Speaker 1: there's still truly a big divide that's generating bad energy.
- 1:29Speaker 1: There are two kinds of mobile DJs today. Those selling
- 1:33Speaker 1: a service with speakers, lights, music, press play, collect some
- 1:36Speaker 1: money and go home. You get the picture? For some DJs,
- 1:39Speaker 1: it's about landing a gig to make that side hustle money.
- 1:44Speaker 1: Then there's the performer. Never a gig. Always a show.
- 1:48Speaker 1: It's the art of studying a crowd, understanding music's history
- 1:52Speaker 1: and the confidence to change moods while scoring even a
- 1:56Speaker 1: bigger dance floor. So who's winning here? Well, it's the
- 1:59Speaker 1: experienced DJ. Anyone can play music. Not everyone can create
- 2:04Speaker 1: an emotional experience. Reading a room is so important. The
- 2:10Speaker 1: opportunity is there for both styles to DJ. But as
- 2:14Speaker 1: the person behind the music, you have to know what
- 2:17Speaker 1: your role is and becoming what they call the differentiator.
- 2:21Speaker 1: That's where the DJ believes in their services. You know, quality,
- 2:26Speaker 1: developing an identity, and standing up and standing out while
- 2:30Speaker 1: putting the people and the music way ahead of everything else.
- 2:35Speaker 1: Coming up next, making that choice to not make a choice? Ooh. Hey,
- 2:44Speaker 1: thanks for coming back to the choice. Making that choice
- 2:47Speaker 1: to not make a choice. Yeah. Giving the decision to
- 2:52Speaker 1: other people. It's still seen as making a choice when
- 2:57Speaker 1: you give it to somebody else. Avoidance and not wanting
- 3:00Speaker 1: to deal with it. It's still making a choice. Trust
- 3:05Speaker 1: is also an issue. People have to trust whatever choice
- 3:09Speaker 1: you make, and hell yeah, there's always going to be
- 3:12Speaker 1: an indifference, which can lead to a fear of responsibility.
- 3:17Speaker 1: Not owning the consequences. That's called passive surrender. Not fighting
- 3:23Speaker 1: for what you want. The important distinction is the intent.
- 3:28Speaker 1: If you truly don't care about making a choice, delegation
- 3:32Speaker 1: is your only place to go. But, but, but, but, but.
- 3:35Speaker 1: If you do care and remain silent, oh, that's not
- 3:39Speaker 1: a good place. That's your passive surrender. Now the answers
- 3:46Speaker 1: rest in the hands of those who've picked up the
- 3:49Speaker 1: choice and walked with it. If you had just taken
- 3:52Speaker 1: the choice yourself, things would be much different. But too
- 3:55Speaker 1: many leaders don't want to be caught up holding on
- 3:58Speaker 1: to the baseball glove while the ball is somewhere up
- 4:00Speaker 1: in the sky and the sun is ever so bright.
- 4:03Speaker 1: What's your choice? To make a choice or to settle
- 4:07Speaker 1: for another person's choice? And you once had that, but
- 4:12Speaker 1: you delegated it out. It's still making a choice, but
- 4:18Speaker 1: do you have the right to play along? That is
- 4:22Speaker 1: a choice. I'm Errol, and that's what I was writing
- 4:25Speaker 1: while the sun was waking up on a brilliant new day.