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Give that Man a Chance! · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  Ladies, I have a feeling that you are overlooking some really
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  great guys on the dating apps. OK, so let's talk about it.
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  How do I know this? Because I talk to you ladies all
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  the time. That's what I do when I'm not
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  here and when I'm not matchmaking.
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  I'm coaching with you ladies. And we're doing swipe sessions
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  together and I'm reviewing men's profiles.
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  And I had a conversation with a woman just the other morning.
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  That's what triggered this video for you.
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  And she was saying that she did not like his style like she
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  liked. Because I teach you ladies to
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  payless attention to the photos and more attention to the
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  details in someone's profile. OK, that's what matters.
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  Why? Because you all take such shitty
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  pictures. OK, Until I came along and
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  helped you ladies, your pictures were bad too.
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  So many of you ladies low level, haphazard.
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  Horrible. The men do the same thing, OK.
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  The difference is those men don't have my help and you do.
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  So she and I were talking and she was like, yeah, you know, he
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  seems like a great guy, Gina. But those glasses, the shape of
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  those glasses. And then she was, I don't know
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  what else she was saying. She didn't like something else
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  he was wearing or whatever. And she says, you know, and she
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  was typing this in in Boxer because we go back and forth,
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  you can leave voice notes or type to me in Boxer.
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  I prefer to talk into Boxer to my ladies.
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  But she typed it in and she was saying, you know, and I don't
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  want to change anybody, you know, that's who he is.
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  And I and I had to stop her and say that is not who he is.
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  Just because he doesn't have a clue about style doesn't mean
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  anything. And so many of you ladies
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  believe that, like, well, if he can't figure out style, then you
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  know, that's just telling of of everything.
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  No, it's telling that nobody has given him a clue about his
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  style. Do you think celebrities would
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  be as hot and attractive as they are before the stylist came
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  along? All right, No, they would not.
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  They would just be some average slob on the street that you
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  wouldn't give two shits about. But no, he has a celebrity
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  stylist and a whole team behind him that fixes him up.
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  So most of these guys, especially, they're really great
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  guys. Ladies, listen up here.
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  Lean in close. Lean in close.
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  OK? Especially they're really good
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  guys and they're not players and they're not dropping into your
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  DMS and they're not trying to date every lady on the planet.
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  Most of these guys are never going to have a clue about the
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  perfect shirt to wear or the perfect style or the glasses.
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  All right? I know so many women, including
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  my friend Keisha, who's dating that man, who's maybe not quite
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  a billionaire. She corrected me.
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  Yes, he sold his company for 2.5 billion, but apparently he's not
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  quite a billionaire. OK, fine, Keisha.
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  Fine Keisha. I heard you OK.
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  She took him him shopping. She fixed his style.
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  It was an easy fix because she was smart.
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  She didn't overlook him just because maybe she didn't.
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  He didn't wear the right blazer or the right jeans.
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  Ladies, he's smarter than that. Style is such an easy fix.
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  Pay attention to the details. Is he putting down what he does
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  for a living? Is he putting effort into his
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  profiles, in in meeting, in the details?
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  He's really saying things that are thoughtful things that make
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  sense, things that make him seem like a man who has layers.
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  He's got interested in personal growth.
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  He's interested in things. He's not some schlub laying on
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  the couch popping beers and popcorn in his mouth, but he's a
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  man who who in every other way read the details matches you.
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  If every other way he matches you, give him a little bit of
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  slack on his pictures, OK? Because remember, yours was
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  shitty too, before I helped you. Hope it helps.