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- 0:01Speaker 1: Take and Charlotta Aginet the guy my dad asked up.
- 0:05Speaker 1: The breakfast club is r I love coming here. I'm
- 0:13Speaker 1: never not gonna come here. You guys are good to
- 0:15Speaker 1: me and La tie them alway. Gonna good deal for
- 0:16Speaker 1: a lot of people in hip hop generation. The breakfast
- 0:18Speaker 1: club is where people get the information on the topics,
- 0:21Speaker 1: on the artists and everything like that. In that aspect,
- 0:23Speaker 1: radio still the point the breakfast club with my name,
- 0:26Speaker 1: come up with respect you is your time to get
- 0:32Speaker 1: it off your chests, whether you're man or blast, So
- 0:34Speaker 1: we better have the famous we want to hear from
- 0:36Speaker 1: you on the breakfast Club. Hello. Who's this? Hey? Nick? Nick?
- 0:42Speaker 1: What up? Getting off your chest? Hey? First and foremost,
- 0:46Speaker 1: I want to thank y'all for being here on the
- 0:47Speaker 1: radio every morning. I don't even need a drink coffe
- 0:50Speaker 1: y'all need here is like yo yo, yo, yo yo.
- 0:52Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Okay, I absolutely appreciate you, King, Yes, sir, Oh, So,
- 0:57Speaker 1: I got this problem at work. We got someone who's
- 1:00Speaker 1: a supervisor, but their brother also works there, and since
- 1:04Speaker 1: they're related to the supervisor, they think they can just
- 1:07Speaker 1: boss people around, and they when everyone that's there is new,
- 1:11Speaker 1: they tell them immediately. Hey, like I'm the boss, you
- 1:13Speaker 1: gotta listen to everything I say. See, got all these
- 1:16Speaker 1: people coming in taking orders from someone that they don't
- 1:18Speaker 1: even need to be taking orders from them. So I
- 1:20Speaker 1: don't know what I should do. I want y'all s feedback,
- 1:22Speaker 1: sh call them out on it. Should I tell someone
- 1:25Speaker 1: about it? Or just let his stricklor show later down
- 1:28Speaker 1: the road? Who you gonna tell? So? Hey, the supervisor's boss.
- 1:32Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So I don't want to
- 1:33Speaker 1: be Oh, okay, okay, I don't think that's snitching. Man.
- 1:36Speaker 1: There's no permanent friends or enemies when it comes to
- 1:38Speaker 1: business man. You at work, you think that person wouldn't
- 1:40Speaker 1: have to take to do that to you. You think
- 1:41Speaker 1: if you were doing something wrong, the supervisor would say, well,
- 1:44Speaker 1: I don't want to be a snitch. Business is business man. Yeah,
- 1:47Speaker 1: it's matphew to have that job. You'll have it, yes, sir?
- 1:49Speaker 1: All right? I might have to be all right, bro?
- 1:53Speaker 1: Good lord? Nick? Hello? Who's this yo? Y'all? Let's talk
- 1:56Speaker 1: for smarty Craigs. What's up? Brother? Getting over the chest? Marty?
- 2:00Speaker 1: What's up? King? I'm doing I'm good listening god, yo, Envy,
- 2:04Speaker 1: are you familiar with the shipping container home? Yes, I
- 2:07Speaker 1: seen them before. Okay. I just started a new company
- 2:11Speaker 1: called Black Currency, and I get the shipping container homes
- 2:14Speaker 1: for twenty thousand dollars in China and they come with bathroom, kitchen, everything. Bro, Like,
- 2:20Speaker 1: we are about to start bringing them over and start
- 2:22Speaker 1: building them. Yeah, I've seen that. I didn't even have
- 2:24Speaker 1: a show calling like the shipping containing shows where they
- 2:27Speaker 1: have the containers and they own like a little village,
- 2:28Speaker 1: you know, like a little neighborhood. It looks dupe. Oh man,
- 2:31Speaker 1: it's crazy, yo, Charlottagne, I got a book stories for
- 2:34Speaker 1: my daughter. Man, you gotta check out my instagram so
- 2:37Speaker 1: you can see the series. What's going on? What's the instagram? Oh,
- 2:41Speaker 1: Marty Grace is New York and Marty Grace is New York. Yeah, yo,
- 2:47Speaker 1: nby started. I got the smart lock Now, I just
- 2:51Speaker 1: got my own smart lock company, so many we can
- 2:54Speaker 1: start putting some of these spart locks on some of
- 2:55Speaker 1: your property. You are, Angela, Okay, what's the spot lot.
- 2:59Speaker 1: I'm looking at you. I'm looking at you and looking
- 3:00Speaker 1: at your smart lots right now, I feel safe. Smart
- 3:02Speaker 1: lot yeah, the still say smart lot. Y'all'll been trying
- 3:06Speaker 1: to hit y'all feel like the last two years the pandemic.
- 3:09Speaker 1: But y'all been so busy. Now, well, listen, I love
- 3:13Speaker 1: the fact that you have this business. Make sure you
- 3:14Speaker 1: document yourself building these little homes. Oh yeah, I definitely
- 3:18Speaker 1: have an ankle. I appreciate you, guys. I love you, guys.
- 3:20Speaker 1: I missed y'all. All right, brothers, appreciate you. Hello. Who's this, y'all?
- 3:25Speaker 1: What's going on? Nvs? Nick from Michigan? Man, what's up?
- 3:29Speaker 1: What's happening? King? Man? Man? Look, I had a serious
- 3:33Speaker 1: debate with my friends and my group chat yesterday. I
- 3:36Speaker 1: don't know how the words it's like for the radio,
- 3:38Speaker 1: but they said, I'm lame because I have never received
- 3:42Speaker 1: the oral from the back. You never received oral from
- 3:46Speaker 1: the back? How old are you? First of all, I'm
- 3:48Speaker 1: thirty three. Hold on you saying that you never got
- 3:50Speaker 1: your buddy cart all No, no, out from the back.
- 3:54Speaker 1: Many it might be that you might just be small.
- 3:59Speaker 1: My thing is this the positioning of it? Like, why
- 4:01Speaker 1: would you do that? Took that thing up? Mommy, make
- 4:04Speaker 1: it row? I told my boy, I'm like, bro, no,
- 4:11Speaker 1: that's not something like from the side from the front,
- 4:14Speaker 1: from the front, from the back to the side. I'm
- 4:18Speaker 1: just curious, how did that conversation start? What do you
- 4:20Speaker 1: guys say, Hey, who's been on their knees before? Like,
- 4:22Speaker 1: how did that always started? Alway? Started? Was the homies said,
- 4:27Speaker 1: y'all won't believe what happened last night. And that's how
- 4:30Speaker 1: using starts exactly, and that's how we started. Like, man,
- 4:34Speaker 1: you wild and bro I think y'all, I want y'all
- 4:37Speaker 1: to be more sexually liberated. Man, y'all care too much
- 4:40Speaker 1: about what First of all, if you're in if you're
- 4:43Speaker 1: in the bedroom, right and you with a woman and
- 4:45Speaker 1: a woman asked to do that when you're thinking about
- 4:48Speaker 1: what your boys think, that within itself is weird. Why
- 4:52Speaker 1: are you thinking about your boys in that situation? No, no, no,
- 4:55Speaker 1: I don't think anybody was thinking about game boys. I
- 4:58Speaker 1: think after the fact, what the five? It happens? So
- 5:01Speaker 1: either week, man, we make, we make we tell each
- 5:05Speaker 1: other every day. True, it's just weird for me, but
- 5:11Speaker 1: let's keep it real. You're thinking about it because he
- 5:13Speaker 1: said it was amazing. Thing about it a little bit.
- 5:16Speaker 1: It's thinking about it from the battle. That's absolutely disrespectful.
- 5:24Speaker 1: A lot of dudes do that when they're really trying
- 5:25Speaker 1: to disrespect somebody, suckingbody from the back. Why this man, blessing,
- 5:33Speaker 1: but listen in the bedroom. Do it makes you feel comfortable.
- 5:36Speaker 1: If you don't feel comfortable doing it, don't do it
- 5:38Speaker 1: all right, get it off your chest. Eight undred five
- 5:40Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. If you need to
- 5:42Speaker 1: hit us up now, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
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- 6:25Speaker 1: traffic on Power one oh five one. This is your
- 6:30Speaker 1: time to get it off your chests. Whether you're man
- 6:32Speaker 1: or blessed, so plea but have the same in. We
- 6:35Speaker 1: want to hear from you on the breakfast flow. Hello,
- 6:38Speaker 1: who's this? No freaking way, freaking way, what's up? Good morning?
- 6:44Speaker 1: Who's this? This is Monica from Texas, bj eny, good
- 6:48Speaker 1: morning Monica. Even Yeah, everybody's here, yo. I love all
- 6:53Speaker 1: of these guys. I've been calling for a month. I'm sad.
- 6:57Speaker 1: I listened to you guys, even off the breakfast shows.
- 6:59Speaker 1: I listened all y'all podcasts. Thank you. I went to
- 7:02Speaker 1: your real estate seminar in Houston in twenty nineteen. Let
- 7:07Speaker 1: me say to anybody, like the money that I paid
- 7:10Speaker 1: I got back after the first person who came up there. Anyways, y'all,
- 7:15Speaker 1: I posted on my dude plug congratulations. Oh yeah, that's exciting,
- 7:20Speaker 1: so exciting us a NB. I'm you didn't cut me off, y'all.
- 7:24Speaker 1: He's like you just hear a cute. He didn't even
- 7:26Speaker 1: listen to four sitteens. As soon as you say something,
- 7:28Speaker 1: he'd be like, yeah, I do a real estate seminar.
- 7:32Speaker 1: The next day seminar is gonna be No, we'll congratulation
- 7:35Speaker 1: the comments. Did you have to put down? You put
- 7:36Speaker 1: down three and a half to do an FH loan
- 7:38Speaker 1: or regular loan? Yes? I did an loan. Um, I
- 7:41Speaker 1: did an FA loan. I had to put down about
- 7:43Speaker 1: thirty and how much was the problem? I went through
- 7:47Speaker 1: your guy, um, what's his name, Matt Company? Okay, it
- 7:51Speaker 1: was a really cool process, Like I'm just I'm so happy,
- 7:55Speaker 1: a scial blessing, Like I'm the first person to own
- 7:57Speaker 1: anything in my family right, say, right now, my parents
- 8:01Speaker 1: were staying an apartment. How much was your property? How
- 8:03Speaker 1: much did you pay? Um? The full cost of it
- 8:05Speaker 1: was three hundred forty two Look at three hundred and
- 8:08Speaker 1: forty two thousand dollars and you had to put down
- 8:10Speaker 1: thirty five hundred dollars. Yeah, and it ended up appraising
- 8:13Speaker 1: over that price. So, I mean, it was just such
- 8:15Speaker 1: a blessing up the sellers, like they really worked with
- 8:18Speaker 1: me because I'm not gonna lie to FH. A loan.
- 8:21Speaker 1: It's um tedious, it is, And if they were looking
- 8:26Speaker 1: to liquidate, they could have easily, you know, pushed me
- 8:29Speaker 1: off to the side and went with somebody else because
- 8:31Speaker 1: a commission alone would have been quicker. But I'm just
- 8:34Speaker 1: I'm very thankful, I'm very blessed. I came in at
- 8:36Speaker 1: the right tide, right before the market went right back
- 8:38Speaker 1: up two plenty five percent interest. Like, it's just congratual.
- 8:43Speaker 1: Love to hear that. You know, It's funny every time
- 8:45Speaker 1: I tell somebody but no, you kid, no you can't.
- 8:47Speaker 1: I'm like, I know people that do it all the time,
- 8:49Speaker 1: and I'm glad you know we were able to help
- 8:51Speaker 1: you get your first property. Congratulations, Yo, d NBA is
- 8:55Speaker 1: just list Like literally, I just listened to drink Champs
- 8:57Speaker 1: one with you and Angela on there. Oh my gosh,
- 9:01Speaker 1: this is crazy. I'm such fans. I love all of
- 9:03Speaker 1: you guys. Charlaman. I bought your book, the one that
- 9:05Speaker 1: you're sitting in the chair back. Oh, thank you. I
- 9:11Speaker 1: appreciate in your new house. People is buying your books
- 9:15Speaker 1: just because like they're fans of you. You guys are amazing. Y'all.
- 9:20Speaker 1: Jews talked about Ratchet things. But you also, all right,
- 9:23Speaker 1: now bring life to a lot of um, a lot
- 9:25Speaker 1: of boys to make money. You guys have a lot
- 9:27Speaker 1: of good people on there, and you put a lot
- 9:28Speaker 1: of people on. There's a lot of people I wouldn't
- 9:30Speaker 1: have even known or paid attention to that are helping
- 9:34Speaker 1: people like me. And so I'm gonna thank for y'all.
- 9:37Speaker 1: Keep doing what you're doing. Now, you got to teach
- 9:39Speaker 1: somebody how to how to buy a crib. Now, that's
- 9:41Speaker 1: what you got to do. Now, Now you gotta teach
- 9:42Speaker 1: somebody else how to buy a crib, right exactly, all right, Monica,
- 9:45Speaker 1: you have a good morning. You made me feel good
- 9:48Speaker 1: this morning. I'm glad you got your crib grass Mama.
- 9:50Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Hello, who's this yo? This is Joy
- 9:55Speaker 1: from the Beach with a good brook club Jay from
- 9:58Speaker 1: v Beach. What's up? Broken? You off your chests, y'all?
- 10:00Speaker 1: I just wanted to call up man and say, first
- 10:02Speaker 1: of all, good morning, Michigue, good morning, Charlemagne, good run,
- 10:05Speaker 1: and envy money man. Yeah, when you was hiding about
- 10:09Speaker 1: north about Virginia the Malls Yo Military servings back in
- 10:13Speaker 1: the day in the early nineties when it was jumping
- 10:15Speaker 1: they would always push us out. The more we try
- 10:18Speaker 1: to clamb around too much or whatever, they'd always push
- 10:20Speaker 1: us out. Yeah, but it created a bad situation out there.
- 10:23Speaker 1: I remember all the time that the police with harassed
- 10:25Speaker 1: the kids and harass the teams. And it was usually
- 10:26Speaker 1: only black kids. I mean military cycles was only black kids.
- 10:29Speaker 1: But same thing with the marling Inhampton. It was the
- 10:32Speaker 1: same thing. And yeah Collins mall, Yeah, Collinson was the
- 10:36Speaker 1: same thing. Man. But I am I just want to
- 10:38Speaker 1: say to eat two m to all three of y'all. Man,
- 10:41Speaker 1: I appreciate everything that y'all to do and give it
- 10:43Speaker 1: to the community, um, especially in the seven five seven area.
- 10:47Speaker 1: To the people listening. If y'all don't pick up on
- 10:50Speaker 1: the gyms that the breakfast club is dropping the yard
- 10:53Speaker 1: man on entrepreneurial ships, um um, investing your communities and
- 10:57Speaker 1: mental health. Man, y'all really missing the boat. I really
- 11:00Speaker 1: want to say, I appreciate all everything that y'all do.
- 11:02Speaker 1: Oh on top of the yo, East Bortomore, what's good people?
- 11:06Speaker 1: Stand up East Baltimore, stand up Boredomore. I ain't here
- 11:10Speaker 1: you say you you know how it all right? Man?
- 11:16Speaker 1: I've a go with man I was with Jesse hilarious yesterday.
- 11:18Speaker 1: I'm like, why you ain't seen you? Soon? As I
- 11:22Speaker 1: said it, we got something special going on with the
- 11:23Speaker 1: seven five seven too. We got a big project that
- 11:25Speaker 1: we're working on. I can't wait to announce. Stand as
- 11:26Speaker 1: well man. Shout out to everybody at Hampton University, Norfolk State,
- 11:29Speaker 1: Virginia Union, in all of Virginia schools. All right, get
- 11:32Speaker 1: it off your chest. Eight hundren five eight five one
- 11:34Speaker 1: on five one. If you need to vent, hit us
- 11:36Speaker 1: up now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast
- 11:39Speaker 1: Club Morning. Everybody is DJ N v Angela yea and
- 11:45Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got some
- 11:47Speaker 1: special gifts joining us this morning. That's right. One of
- 11:49Speaker 1: them have been here a whole lot. Super friend to
- 11:51Speaker 1: the room. I've got Mike Epps. Another is a legend
- 11:55Speaker 1: who I'm mad. It's the first time we ever talking
- 11:57Speaker 1: to her on Breakfast Club and it's via damn zoom.
- 12:00Speaker 1: That's right, one the Pikes welcome. Good morning. But warning,
- 12:04Speaker 1: I mean finally I made it. I made it, Breakfast Club.
- 12:08Speaker 1: You should have been here in person, that's what you
- 12:10Speaker 1: should have been. What did I have to do to
- 12:12Speaker 1: get here, and like you said, zoom when I wander
- 12:16Speaker 1: when I saw you with Mike Epps and get a
- 12:19Speaker 1: show on Netflix as as number one, and I finally
- 12:23Speaker 1: make it to the Breakfast Club. I saw you. I
- 12:26Speaker 1: saw you at Tiffany hat as you fortieth birthday party
- 12:29Speaker 1: in December of twenty nineteen, and you said you was
- 12:32Speaker 1: coming to Breakfast Club and then then here come COVID.
- 12:34Speaker 1: I know, right, you would have. If you would have
- 12:37Speaker 1: called a gun Chars long time ago, you'd have been
- 12:40Speaker 1: on this right, Mike. We are celebrating good news though
- 12:50Speaker 1: with the news show the up Shars. I like the
- 12:52Speaker 1: good news because Page has been telling me about this
- 12:55Speaker 1: show for quite a while because he was on the show,
- 12:57Speaker 1: so he kept talking it up, talking it up, and
- 12:59Speaker 1: you know somebody talks about something, You're like, all right,
- 13:01Speaker 1: when this is a show coming out already, but it's out,
- 13:04Speaker 1: and so congratulations on how well it's doing on Netflix.
- 13:07Speaker 1: Thank you thanks for our answer. Yeah it's it's I mean,
- 13:11Speaker 1: I thank y'all, Thank the fans, thank y'all for watching man.
- 13:16Speaker 1: Like I would say, y'all just not binging it. Y'all
- 13:18Speaker 1: are devouring it. I mean, people are like watching it
- 13:22Speaker 1: like two or three times. It's amazing. Hey, let me
- 13:26Speaker 1: ask y'all a question, man before we get started, because
- 13:28Speaker 1: you know, we just did come out of a pandemic.
- 13:30Speaker 1: I guess we're still in it, but how are y'all?
- 13:33Speaker 1: And I want to honor answer. I mean, I ain't
- 13:36Speaker 1: gonna lie. You know, I've been through a lot, you
- 13:39Speaker 1: know what I mean. I've been through I lost both
- 13:42Speaker 1: my parents in December, and you know, previous to that,
- 13:48Speaker 1: we was all on home detention. We was locked down.
- 13:51Speaker 1: So it's been rough for me. But you know, I
- 13:54Speaker 1: got so much faith in God. I ain't gonna let
- 13:57Speaker 1: nothing to stop me. I got to stay down. I'm
- 13:59Speaker 1: doing what they wanted me to do, you know what
- 14:01Speaker 1: I mean. And let's be good. Let's be successful and
- 14:05Speaker 1: be happy, you know what I mean. I'm sitting healing energy. Yeah, Mike,
- 14:10Speaker 1: Mike has Mike has really you know, been through it,
- 14:13Speaker 1: and uh and I think it was it was cool
- 14:16Speaker 1: that we, you know, aren't just doing a show about
- 14:18Speaker 1: about a family. You know, I've known Mike for years,
- 14:22Speaker 1: so it's like it's like with family, you know, and
- 14:26Speaker 1: uh so we all you know, it was supporting him,
- 14:29Speaker 1: keeping him lifted up. But he's he's a strong brother,
- 14:32Speaker 1: he really is, and he has, like you said, that
- 14:35Speaker 1: faith in God, and uh it got us all through,
- 14:38Speaker 1: you know, and uh, I'm you know, I'm dealing with
- 14:41Speaker 1: the I got the the kids and everything at all.
- 14:44Speaker 1: But it's uh, you know, we just feel we just
- 14:47Speaker 1: feel blessed. Really, I mean, you know it's hard and
- 14:51Speaker 1: then and we're not gonna sugarcoat it. I mean a
- 14:53Speaker 1: lot of people went through depression. You know. I had
- 14:56Speaker 1: some issues, you know, dealing with it because it was
- 15:00Speaker 1: just we've never experienced something like this, you know, like
- 15:02Speaker 1: Mike saying, like and then when you see all these
- 15:05Speaker 1: people losing their lives. I know so many friends who've
- 15:08Speaker 1: lost people also, and uh, you feel blessed, but but
- 15:13Speaker 1: you also are like just it's just sad. You just
- 15:15Speaker 1: feel sad. And then all the stuff we were going
- 15:18Speaker 1: through with the with from George Florida on and before that,
- 15:21Speaker 1: you know, it was just dang, it was just feels
- 15:24Speaker 1: like like when like the camel's about to break man
- 15:27Speaker 1: all when we come back, we have moved with Wanda
- 15:29Speaker 1: Sykes and Mike eppste Or the new Netflix series The
- 15:32Speaker 1: Upshows don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Go Morning, the
- 15:35Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Yeah, Flording, everybody is DJ Envy and Juli Yee,
- 15:42Speaker 1: Charlomagne and the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We're
- 15:45Speaker 1: kicking it with Wanda Sykes and Mike Epps Charlomagne. Do
- 15:48Speaker 1: you ep on this show too? Right? Yeah? You can?
- 15:51Speaker 1: And uh and uh co creator with Regina Hicks. How
- 15:55Speaker 1: is the approach different when you the EP and co
- 15:57Speaker 1: creator and you starring it? How is your approach to
- 16:00Speaker 1: the to the role different? Um? But you know, I've
- 16:03Speaker 1: been in this position before, so it was uh, you know,
- 16:07Speaker 1: I'm in the writer's room and uh, you know, getting
- 16:11Speaker 1: the scripts together and everything. And then when I'm but
- 16:15Speaker 1: when I'm on stage and performing, I try to you know,
- 16:18Speaker 1: I turn that other part off so we can, you know,
- 16:22Speaker 1: so I can make the make the performance. But when um,
- 16:26Speaker 1: when I'm not in the scene, then I get back
- 16:29Speaker 1: behind the monitors and you know and watch everything. But um,
- 16:34Speaker 1: it was cool working with Mike because you know, like
- 16:37Speaker 1: encourage him to like, hey, man, if this this, how
- 16:40Speaker 1: would you say this? If this doesn't sound right to you?
- 16:43Speaker 1: Or you know, Mike, you got a better joke for this,
- 16:45Speaker 1: So it was. It was just um, real cool, very
- 16:49Speaker 1: collaborative and looks like y'all probably had a lot of
- 16:52Speaker 1: fun on set too, working together like that. Looks like
- 16:56Speaker 1: it was fun. It was fun showing up every morning
- 16:58Speaker 1: with wand D, Kim and Page and I mean it
- 17:02Speaker 1: was it was almost like summer school. You remember how
- 17:05Speaker 1: far summer school used to be. Now that was not
- 17:12Speaker 1: I mean, you don't have to go all day, you
- 17:13Speaker 1: know what I mean a couple hours. I hated being there,
- 17:17Speaker 1: but I get what you're saying. It was fun. I
- 17:20Speaker 1: had to go for seventh grade, eighth grade, and ninth
- 17:22Speaker 1: grade three years in a row with my dumb ass.
- 17:24Speaker 1: I'm a school much to check it into Mic apps.
- 17:29Speaker 1: We appreciate you also make apps. I want to say
- 17:31Speaker 1: thank you. Know I was the Breakfast Club first started
- 17:34Speaker 1: pre one of the comedians that came on and you
- 17:36Speaker 1: rock with us with a lot of people, didn't you
- 17:38Speaker 1: remember we just seen the skip that Todd. I think
- 17:40Speaker 1: it was like our first skit. You remember that skip?
- 17:42Speaker 1: Were you know the girls in Yeah? Yeah? And not
- 17:46Speaker 1: only that, Mike used to Mike used to have me
- 17:48Speaker 1: host his um his I don't know that was Easter Sunday.
- 17:52Speaker 1: It was a show. You used to do it to
- 17:53Speaker 1: Garden every year for about three or four years, and
- 17:56Speaker 1: Mike used to always have me hosted. Man, I appreciate
- 17:59Speaker 1: that tough crowd. It's a tough proud to host in
- 18:01Speaker 1: front of Well you got a comedian, yea, not for me.
- 18:04Speaker 1: All I had to do is say, coming to the stage,
- 18:07Speaker 1: you'll ready for my go for the Breakfast Club. Man.
- 18:14Speaker 1: I'm just honored. I finally made it here. Man, No,
- 18:16Speaker 1: you gotta come to the studio. We are we are honored,
- 18:21Speaker 1: and I would be so excited for you to come
- 18:23Speaker 1: up in person. Absolutely absolutely all right, thank you. We
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- 18:58Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five Want to join it
- 18:59Speaker 1: to the got you with the Breakfast club, talk about
- 19:02Speaker 1: it morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy.
- 19:08Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us?
- 19:10Speaker 1: Where asking this comes from? Little Duvall, Little Duva wanted
- 19:14Speaker 1: to know what celebrity you think your mama messed with.
- 19:17Speaker 1: It is very interesting watching these comments under the Little
- 19:20Speaker 1: Duvall's post, because I did not realize that so many
- 19:22Speaker 1: people's mothers messed with so many celebrities. But it makes
- 19:25Speaker 1: all the sense in the world, right, Like when you
- 19:27Speaker 1: go back and you watch all of these old videos,
- 19:30Speaker 1: you see these women that they used to call groupies.
- 19:33Speaker 1: Those are people's mamas and grandma's. Now, can I read
- 19:36Speaker 1: some of them right fast? Sure? All right? One person
- 19:39Speaker 1: said Lorenz tap my grandma said he used to be
- 19:42Speaker 1: at the crib with my mom's after school. I saw
- 19:44Speaker 1: that one. Somebody said Crefflo Dollar clubfot dollar. Yeah. Somebody
- 19:48Speaker 1: said usher they went to school together. Plus I have
- 19:51Speaker 1: the pictures. I got pictures. Somebody said little John because
- 19:54Speaker 1: she told me. Somebody said Bob Molly. Somebody did say
- 19:59Speaker 1: my mama told me. Somebody said I seen big Ticket
- 20:02Speaker 1: at my house of Virginia one night. So y'all be
- 20:04Speaker 1: thinking them kids to be asleep. Y'all ain't know them
- 20:06Speaker 1: kids were paying attention the twenty years later, they remember
- 20:09Speaker 1: your face. Yeah. Now, somebody said, a Kelly, Now that
- 20:13Speaker 1: was crazy. Somebody said that day mama was in the
- 20:15Speaker 1: dressing room and all Kelly and all Kelly had always
- 20:17Speaker 1: his boxes, and he was sitting a little too comfortable. Yeah,
- 20:20Speaker 1: and didn't somebody under that. Somebody under that comment said,
- 20:22Speaker 1: I bet she got you know, yo, see, I played
- 20:25Speaker 1: too much. Somebody said that for really, I played too much.
- 20:28Speaker 1: Somebody said, my mama got caught texting. Uh chee chief
- 20:30Speaker 1: from Scarface was chee chee. Oh Hello what ha Mercy
- 20:37Speaker 1: Jesus Christ. Okay. Somebody says, Michael Jackson's crazy when you
- 20:44Speaker 1: look up and you see your mom and her uncle
- 20:46Speaker 1: Luke video. Bro, your mama was in the Yan Yang
- 20:49Speaker 1: Twins video. You know she got add up. Well, let's
- 20:51Speaker 1: go to the phone line. Then another one said Patrick
- 20:53Speaker 1: Ewan and Keith Sweat, God, damn your mama stopping. Stop
- 20:59Speaker 1: all right, let's go to the full lies. Eight hundred
- 21:01Speaker 1: five eight five one on five one? Hello, who's this? Hello? This? Oh?
- 21:05Speaker 1: I don't want to say my name. That's right, don't
- 21:08Speaker 1: say your name because you're about to add your mom out.
- 21:10Speaker 1: All right? So, so who your mama used to mess
- 21:13Speaker 1: with the legend? Who oh Prince Prince? Okay, hey, I'm
- 21:22Speaker 1: gonna tell you something. Prince was blocking that from the
- 21:23Speaker 1: grave because that did not come out the first time
- 21:25Speaker 1: you said that. How do you know she met with Prince?
- 21:29Speaker 1: My mama is very open. Princes not want this phone
- 21:37Speaker 1: called me? And so let's move on. Yes, let's go hello,
- 21:41Speaker 1: who's this man? Hey? Ben Man? What celebrity you think
- 21:44Speaker 1: your mama messed with? I know that she slept with Breadth? Really,
- 21:51Speaker 1: how do you know this for sure? So we all
- 21:54Speaker 1: went to a show. I was like three years old,
- 21:57Speaker 1: and we saw Brandon and Heard at Denny's after the show,
- 22:03Speaker 1: and I was with my mom and uncle. Bret Hart
- 22:05Speaker 1: asked my mom if she wanted to go back to
- 22:08Speaker 1: the hotel and play checkers with them, So my uncle
- 22:12Speaker 1: took me home. My mom, did you ever ask your
- 22:17Speaker 1: mama if she had sex with Breton Hips? And what
- 22:21Speaker 1: she said? She said, Hell, yes, she got on then, man,
- 22:25Speaker 1: dropping the clues, Bret Hart putting your mom in the shop,
- 22:29Speaker 1: That is amazing man, you just leave your kids to please.
- 22:34Speaker 1: That is an amazing story. Hey bro right right, I
- 22:38Speaker 1: have to call it and let y'all know, yes, sir,
- 22:40Speaker 1: all right, have a good day. Yo. That's crazy. Let's
- 22:45Speaker 1: go to double caller. Hello, who's this? Hey, Shane? Now
- 22:49Speaker 1: who your mama used to mess with? How so my
- 22:54Speaker 1: mom used to deal with Nicole from Loving hip Hop?
- 22:58Speaker 1: And how she even found out he was on the
- 23:01Speaker 1: show was that she was watching it with her man
- 23:03Speaker 1: and she was like, oh mom, God, that's my and
- 23:07Speaker 1: he he like danced up and watching love Him. Who
- 23:10Speaker 1: is Nico? It was Nico? You know who Nico is,
- 23:14Speaker 1: the one who was flinging from the shower ride with Mimi. Yeah,
- 23:18Speaker 1: that's friend. Your mama had sex with Nico, Yes she did.
- 23:22Speaker 1: And then so everybody's been saying that he was gay
- 23:24Speaker 1: or whatever, and my mom was like, he wasn't gay
- 23:27Speaker 1: when I was the letter. Why is she telling people this?
- 23:30Speaker 1: Why is she telling Why is she telling people that
- 23:32Speaker 1: a good story? I was? It was? It wasn't a
- 23:35Speaker 1: good story. He was locking hip Hop. He's kind of cute.
- 23:39Speaker 1: Were you were you calling from? I'm falling from Brooklyn
- 23:43Speaker 1: and I'm actually in front of my kid school. My
- 23:45Speaker 1: little girl thinks this is so funny that I'm on
- 23:47Speaker 1: the Fresco club. Na something I want better for you
- 23:50Speaker 1: and your mama. I just want to throw that out there. Okay,
- 23:54Speaker 1: I'm I'm hanging up this phone, praying for better days
- 23:57Speaker 1: for you and your mama. Okay. Wait, I love you,
- 24:00Speaker 1: guys and our most you guys continue to expect. Thank
- 24:04Speaker 1: you for answering. Yes, ma'am. Nicole went that old though,
- 24:09Speaker 1: Vico like forty something already. Her mama might be like
- 24:12Speaker 1: forty something. We old? You know when don't you gonna
- 24:15Speaker 1: realize this? You should be forty six years old and
- 24:18Speaker 1: have a twenty one year old daughter. I guess you're right. Yes,
- 24:22Speaker 1: whyn't you change your out for the game? Grandfather? Why
- 24:25Speaker 1: do you change your out for the game? I think
- 24:26Speaker 1: you want drugs? All right? What's the moral of this story?
- 24:29Speaker 1: The marl of the story is, uh, you know, every
- 24:31Speaker 1: woman that you love in your life, at some point
- 24:33Speaker 1: in time, has has wrote to you know what I mean?
- 24:36Speaker 1: Your mama, your grandma, I'm serious, your aunts, They all
- 24:40Speaker 1: had a life, bro, unless your mama. Let's bet your dad,
- 24:43Speaker 1: and that's the only person she's been with. That's probably
- 24:45Speaker 1: her story and she's sticking to it. We got more,
- 24:49Speaker 1: don't move. It's the best of the Breakfast Club, the
- 24:52Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. More than everybody is DJ Movie, Angela Yee,
- 25:01Speaker 1: Charlomagne and the Guy. We are to Breakfast Club. We
- 25:03Speaker 1: got a special guest in the building, Pete Davidson, superstar.
- 25:07Speaker 1: Oh thank you, thank you, Pete Davidson. What's happened to
- 25:12Speaker 1: my brother? Nothing? Man, just struggling to growing mustache. Oh
- 25:15Speaker 1: so you're actually trying to grow out. I couldn't tell
- 25:17Speaker 1: if you wash, you shaved it or nut. No, I'm
- 25:19Speaker 1: trying for the I'm filming this thing and they were like,
- 25:22Speaker 1: can you grow mustache? Un apparently nobody. So it's a movie. Yeah,
- 25:26Speaker 1: it's a movie. That's a horror movie that we're shooting
- 25:29Speaker 1: like a few weeks. So I'm hoping it comes in
- 25:31Speaker 1: by that. Yeah. Have you been during the pandemic? Brother?
- 25:34Speaker 1: I've been okay. Now, I had a rough go at
- 25:38Speaker 1: the beginning, but luckily S ANDL came back, so like
- 25:41Speaker 1: I luckily had some sort of normalcy. I don't know
- 25:44Speaker 1: if you felt that way with the show and stuff. Absolutely,
- 25:47Speaker 1: I think I, you know, was one of the spoiled
- 25:49Speaker 1: ones during the pandemic where I got to work and
- 25:51Speaker 1: uh it kept my mental good. So I'm good now.
- 25:55Speaker 1: But it's this is a time absolutely I saw last night?
- 25:59Speaker 1: Was it last night? You read in it with Elon Musk? Yes?
- 26:02Speaker 1: All this controversy around Eli Musk and SNL. So why
- 26:06Speaker 1: did you guys discuss it? Yeah? I don't understand. I'm like,
- 26:08Speaker 1: why is this? We didn't discuss it at all because
- 26:10Speaker 1: we're all just like why is I just don't understand, Like,
- 26:12Speaker 1: this is the dude everyone's so freaked out about. Like
- 26:17Speaker 1: I thought I missed something. I didn't like say something.
- 26:19Speaker 1: Did he do something? Like I was like, what did
- 26:21Speaker 1: he do? He's just like a you know, really wealthy
- 26:25Speaker 1: businessman that makes like, you know, nerd. Yeah, I don't,
- 26:29Speaker 1: I don't know. He's really nice, He's I'm excited. So
- 26:32Speaker 1: there any truth that the cast of SNL is like
- 26:35Speaker 1: upset and refusing the film with him and all this
- 26:37Speaker 1: other nobody that I've everybody's kind of been like, YEO,
- 26:41Speaker 1: who's the guy that's so pissed off? Because we because
- 26:45Speaker 1: we're on a group text, so we're all just everybody's
- 26:48Speaker 1: like I don't know that's what Michael Chase said. I
- 26:50Speaker 1: wonder if somebody just put that out there just to
- 26:51Speaker 1: build up buzz for him being on this show. And
- 26:54Speaker 1: you know how social media and all. Yeah, you know,
- 26:57Speaker 1: people like controversy and people like to quote Michael Caine,
- 27:01Speaker 1: people like to watch the world burns sometimes. You know,
- 27:04Speaker 1: you were living in your mom's basement during the pandemic,
- 27:08Speaker 1: right salute Amy? Yeah? Amy, why did you choose to
- 27:11Speaker 1: stay to Uh well, I was about to move out.
- 27:14Speaker 1: I lived on my own from like seventeen to twenty
- 27:17Speaker 1: four to five and then got wild, so I moved
- 27:21Speaker 1: home and stay with my mom, and uh I was
- 27:24Speaker 1: getting ready to move out, and then the pandemic happened,
- 27:26Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, we should all just you know,
- 27:28Speaker 1: stay together. My sister stayed and then we all just
- 27:32Speaker 1: recently moved out. But it was really nice and we
- 27:35Speaker 1: all got a bunch of dogs and it was really cool.
- 27:37Speaker 1: That makes perfect sense though. We was having this conversation
- 27:40Speaker 1: yesterday because our friend Ebbony Williams was saying how she
- 27:43Speaker 1: was upset her fiance didn't want to stay with her.
- 27:45Speaker 1: He wanted to stay with the kids. And I'm like, well,
- 27:47Speaker 1: that's his kids during a pandemic. You want to be
- 27:50Speaker 1: with your family, your closest people, right, Yeah, absolutely, Yeah.
- 27:54Speaker 1: I didn't want to be alone. Yeah, you know, and
- 27:56Speaker 1: I don't know how to cook or anything. So yeah,
- 28:00Speaker 1: it was really really nice. Did you feel better moving up? Yeah?
- 28:02Speaker 1: I feel good now. It felt well, you know, like
- 28:05Speaker 1: even though I had a cool setup down there, at
- 28:07Speaker 1: some point I was like, I am living with my mom,
- 28:10Speaker 1: you know, like on some level, on some level like
- 28:13Speaker 1: I am like, you know, it's it's a weird thing,
- 28:17Speaker 1: you know. So, uh, I had to get out of there.
- 28:19Speaker 1: But it's got to be different for you though, because
- 28:21Speaker 1: I mean you help with them. I'm sure you're helping
- 28:22Speaker 1: with the bills, right well yeah, I mean I bought
- 28:24Speaker 1: it with her. Yeah yeah, yeah, it's not like, yeah,
- 28:27Speaker 1: I'm out, but you know it's still like, you know,
- 28:29Speaker 1: you wake up and your mom's there and you know
- 28:31Speaker 1: you're taking like a dump and she's like screaming and
- 28:35Speaker 1: you can't hear her because you're in the bathroom. Yeah,
- 28:38Speaker 1: it's just like a situation I don't want to be
- 28:41Speaker 1: in a like twenty seven? Is it air for you
- 28:44Speaker 1: that every move you make and everything you do gets
- 28:46Speaker 1: like dull press. Yeah, I don't understand it because, like
- 28:51Speaker 1: I really I don't have social media at all, so
- 28:55Speaker 1: like I've made it very clear that that that type
- 28:58Speaker 1: of lifestyle is really not what I'm about, Like I'm
- 29:01Speaker 1: not like online being like you know, so I don't
- 29:05Speaker 1: I really don't understand the appeal. But uh, I really
- 29:09Speaker 1: just feel bad for like people I'm close to and like,
- 29:13Speaker 1: you know, my family, because they got they gotta read
- 29:16Speaker 1: that stuff, you know, people. I don't think that people
- 29:18Speaker 1: realize that, like it's like a chain reaction, like it
- 29:21Speaker 1: doesn't only affect the person, like that everybody involved around
- 29:25Speaker 1: them is kind of affected and it's not not really fair.
- 29:29Speaker 1: But I don't know. I hope it's stop. It has to.
- 29:32Speaker 1: It'll stop soon, so there'll be another Yeah, there's gotta
- 29:39Speaker 1: be another kid. There's a lot of people people don't
- 29:41Speaker 1: care about, you know what I'm saying. I know people
- 29:44Speaker 1: that in movies, TV shows, everywhere, and nobody cares what
- 29:48Speaker 1: they do, So you should be grateful that they can.
- 29:51Speaker 1: I am very grateful. I just I definitely I don't
- 29:54Speaker 1: want to understand to the extent that they go, Like
- 29:57Speaker 1: if it was just about the work that was super cool,
- 30:00Speaker 1: but it's like it's about like weird stuff. What is
- 30:03Speaker 1: your pickup lines? Like how do you approach women? Because
- 30:06Speaker 1: a lot of guys could use some advice and I
- 30:08Speaker 1: would love to know, like what is your approach how
- 30:10Speaker 1: when you're interested in somebody, how do you approach them?
- 30:13Speaker 1: I am just very, very honest. I think like what
- 30:18Speaker 1: a lot of people do is they try to put
- 30:20Speaker 1: on their you know, not even their best self, but
- 30:23Speaker 1: like almost a version of themselves that they would like
- 30:26Speaker 1: to be. Eventually that will unravel, you know, So I
- 30:30Speaker 1: just off the top of them, like, hey, I'm nuts,
- 30:33Speaker 1: here's all my issues, here's what I do, here's the
- 30:36Speaker 1: therapists is what happens. And that could either be a
- 30:39Speaker 1: lot for someone or it could be you know, they
- 30:43Speaker 1: could you know, most of the time people going through
- 30:45Speaker 1: the same thing. They could be or they could be
- 30:47Speaker 1: like cool, that was really refreshingly honest, or sometimes they
- 30:50Speaker 1: could be a little intense and weird and people can't
- 30:53Speaker 1: handle that stuff. But I think always going into it
- 30:56Speaker 1: honest and like just not playing any of the games,
- 30:59Speaker 1: like any of the text games or the I won't
- 31:02Speaker 1: hit you up for a certain amount of hours because
- 31:05Speaker 1: I don't I want to seem busy, you know, like
- 31:09Speaker 1: if i'm if i'm you know, if I'm in you
- 31:12Speaker 1: like I'm really in here. Other folks in Staten Island
- 31:15Speaker 1: still mad at you for what you said and about
- 31:17Speaker 1: the bar, and I mean I said that and then
- 31:21Speaker 1: like the next day the guy like ran over a cop,
- 31:24Speaker 1: which wasn't really a good response. Yeah. I love Staten Island,
- 31:29Speaker 1: obviously I lived there. Still, Like I'm a comedian, I
- 31:33Speaker 1: pick at stuff, I make fun of myself and where
- 31:36Speaker 1: I'm from, I don't think it's fair to pick at
- 31:38Speaker 1: other stuff and not be able to pick at your
- 31:40Speaker 1: own stuff. But there's some there's some people on Staten
- 31:44Speaker 1: Island that are some interesting people. And you got you
- 31:47Speaker 1: gotta deal with you just gotta deal with it. I
- 31:50Speaker 1: don't give it about those people. Uh, And I just
- 31:54Speaker 1: hope they stopped doing stuff like that. How do they
- 31:56Speaker 1: treat you when you're moving around Staten Island? Honestly set
- 32:00Speaker 1: of the time, super positive, but like you know, there's
- 32:03Speaker 1: that uh it's a little it's just like that bad.
- 32:06Speaker 1: It might be jealousy though, especially you know when you
- 32:08Speaker 1: the movie King of Staten Island. Yeah, great film. You
- 32:11Speaker 1: know what I means with the japt they might get
- 32:13Speaker 1: mad at the fact you labeled yourself king. Yeah. I
- 32:17Speaker 1: like how people thought that that was my idea for
- 32:18Speaker 1: the title. My idea for the title was the worst
- 32:23Speaker 1: the word. And Judd was like, no, that is that
- 32:26Speaker 1: is horrible. It was like he was like, this is
- 32:29Speaker 1: a film, so we're gonna call it the King of
- 32:31Speaker 1: stat I was like, all right, I think being shirtless
- 32:34Speaker 1: on a poster that says the King of Staten Island
- 32:37Speaker 1: and You're like, this would that would be aggravating, but
- 32:40Speaker 1: it could be a bit I could see. I say,
- 32:42Speaker 1: it's a big yeah, I think so, yeah, I can
- 32:44Speaker 1: see that for sure. We got more with Pete Davidson
- 32:46Speaker 1: when we come back, Don't Move. It's the Breakfast Club,
- 32:48Speaker 1: Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the
- 32:55Speaker 1: guy we all the Breakfast Club was still kicking it
- 32:57Speaker 1: with comedian and from Saturday Night Live. Pete Davidson, you're
- 33:01Speaker 1: doing an audible original hit job. Yes, the audio scripted
- 33:05Speaker 1: audible original with Kiki Palmer. It's a workplace comedy. It's
- 33:09Speaker 1: about two people that work at a place that hires
- 33:15Speaker 1: people to kill the most dangerous people in the world,
- 33:19Speaker 1: and it's it's really funny and fun and I had
- 33:22Speaker 1: fun working with Kiki. It was kind of like this.
- 33:25Speaker 1: It was the first thing I got to do during
- 33:27Speaker 1: the pandemic, so we were both just so thrilled to
- 33:30Speaker 1: like be around another person. And uh, it's really fun.
- 33:34Speaker 1: And I think there's twelve thirty minute episodes. Now, what
- 33:38Speaker 1: made you want to do that? Because you do TV,
- 33:40Speaker 1: you do film? Why the Audible Original? Well, first of all,
- 33:43Speaker 1: would be like you and like Kevin Harden just like
- 33:46Speaker 1: we're doing okay, you guys, just like it's like a
- 33:49Speaker 1: lot of bags, you know, I would have loved to
- 33:52Speaker 1: have that hit job. Oh my god, there's a lot
- 33:54Speaker 1: of bags around that you could know. I think expanding
- 33:58Speaker 1: the brand is wonderful. I also love voiceover work because like,
- 34:04Speaker 1: if it's great, it's great. If it doesn't work out,
- 34:08Speaker 1: your face isn't on it, so it's like who gives
- 34:12Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like it's like it's like
- 34:13Speaker 1: nobody's ever been mad at someone for a cartoon and
- 34:16Speaker 1: you got we got rid of a bunch of your tattoos, right, Yeah,
- 34:18Speaker 1: I've been removing them, because it's just like it takes
- 34:21Speaker 1: like three hours to cover all of them, and then
- 34:25Speaker 1: when you're watching the movie you can kind of tell
- 34:27Speaker 1: the skin just kind of looks weird. So I just
- 34:30Speaker 1: figured i'd burn them off. He'd been doing the lazy surgery. Yeah,
- 34:33Speaker 1: it sucks, like they put goggles on you and so
- 34:37Speaker 1: you're just like in the dark, and then your doctor
- 34:41Speaker 1: like has to announce the tattoo before he lases it
- 34:44Speaker 1: because he wants to make sure I want to get
- 34:46Speaker 1: rid of that one. So it's like kind of embarrassing
- 34:49Speaker 1: because I'll just be in the dark and all of
- 34:51Speaker 1: a sudden you'll hear Stuie Griffin smoking a blunt and
- 34:56Speaker 1: I'll be like yeah, and I'd be like all right,
- 35:00Speaker 1: star lasering and it's just like really embarrassed, Like how
- 35:03Speaker 1: would you when you got to the first tattoo, Yeah,
- 35:05Speaker 1: sixteen or seventeen, and it was me and my buddy
- 35:08Speaker 1: Ricky got Swerve Life tattooed on our knees because that
- 35:14Speaker 1: Big Sean song where he said swerve. At the time,
- 35:19Speaker 1: it was like huge and we were like swerve. We
- 35:21Speaker 1: were like, that's that's forever, that's a life, that's what life. Yeah,
- 35:28Speaker 1: so we got it on our knees. I actually showed
- 35:32Speaker 1: Big Sean. He thought it was really funny. Why didn't though, well,
- 35:35Speaker 1: swerve life. We put it on our knees because on
- 35:38Speaker 1: the right leg, because that's the acceleration like on the
- 35:41Speaker 1: gas tap. It's very well stut and we was swerved. Okay, Yeah,
- 35:49Speaker 1: I was sixty. I didn't know. I thought. When you
- 35:52Speaker 1: showed it to him, he was like, you're moron. No,
- 35:54Speaker 1: he was like, oh wow, I think that's the nicest
- 35:59Speaker 1: thing he could have said. Wow, where did you see
- 36:02Speaker 1: him at that? You just pulled your out. We just
- 36:04Speaker 1: we've we've text exchanged. Yeah, he's a good guy, you said,
- 36:08Speaker 1: you said in the beginning of the beginning of the pandemic,
- 36:10Speaker 1: it was really rough for you. What do you mean
- 36:12Speaker 1: with it? I was working a lot, then all of
- 36:16Speaker 1: a sudden nothing and then like I was in my
- 36:20Speaker 1: mom's basement alone with my thoughts for like three to
- 36:24Speaker 1: four months, and then I was just doing press about
- 36:26Speaker 1: like you know, for the movie, and it was just
- 36:29Speaker 1: like dad's stuff. It was like your dad's dad. How's
- 36:32Speaker 1: that feel? It's just movie? Go to my grew epic
- 36:37Speaker 1: about your dad. Daddy, daddy, dad, And I was just like, ah,
- 36:43Speaker 1: and I'm on zoom and I'm just and I hear
- 36:45Speaker 1: my mom upstairs, and I'm just like, oh, this is
- 36:48Speaker 1: a nightmare. I kept retriggering you basically kept retriggering me.
- 36:52Speaker 1: And then like, you know, I'm like super insecure about like,
- 36:56Speaker 1: you know, I make jokes about my dad being dead
- 36:59Speaker 1: or tells stories about him too, because one I want
- 37:03Speaker 1: him to live on and two I think making a
- 37:07Speaker 1: joke about something like that and if he could get
- 37:10Speaker 1: a laugh out of it kind of it's a little healing,
- 37:12Speaker 1: you know. But I'm super insecure. People like, oh, you
- 37:15Speaker 1: talk about your dad to be famous, and I'm just like,
- 37:20Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think so my dad, I believe
- 37:26Speaker 1: it or not. I haven't lived very long and I
- 37:28Speaker 1: don't have very much to talk about. So I take
- 37:31Speaker 1: from what I know criticizer, But yeah, man, I get
- 37:35Speaker 1: I'm I'm working. You know, I was super insecure and
- 37:39Speaker 1: still I am a little bit, but like got a lot,
- 37:41Speaker 1: got a lot better. I got a lot of help,
- 37:43Speaker 1: and uh, luckily at the end of the day, you know,
- 37:47Speaker 1: I don't know if you did this where you like
- 37:48Speaker 1: tiered your friends where during the pandemic, Angelina, I don't
- 37:53Speaker 1: know if you did that where you're like, okay, these
- 37:55Speaker 1: are like fourth tier friends. These are like friends that
- 38:00Speaker 1: that like these are friends are like we're all out,
- 38:03Speaker 1: like okay, I'll have a drink with that person and
- 38:05Speaker 1: like we pretend like we're friends, but we're not. And
- 38:08Speaker 1: then there's like third tier friends where it's just like
- 38:11Speaker 1: you guys used to be really tight, but you're not anymore,
- 38:15Speaker 1: but you still keep in touch because you feel guilty. Right.
- 38:17Speaker 1: Then there's second tier friends who think that they're first
- 38:20Speaker 1: tier friends but they're not. And then there's then there's
- 38:23Speaker 1: your real friends. I did that. I tiered my friends out,
- 38:26Speaker 1: and then it made me like kind of just I
- 38:29Speaker 1: was like, my family's important. These four people are important,
- 38:34Speaker 1: and you know, now I'm gonna try and work and
- 38:36Speaker 1: have some fun stuff being so hard on myself. Yeah,
- 38:38Speaker 1: I don't know if I tiered people. You know what
- 38:40Speaker 1: I said, Like, it's certain people that you check on.
- 38:42Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, You check on it often, right,
- 38:44Speaker 1: And I guess people you saw during the pandemic, right,
- 38:49Speaker 1: I mean you couldn't see everybody, but if you're close
- 38:51Speaker 1: enough to see a person you saw it him once. Yeah,
- 38:54Speaker 1: you're like, okay, that's my that's my that's my faults.
- 38:56Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I actually got that closer. I got closer
- 38:59Speaker 1: with certain people during the pane. I live by myself,
- 39:04Speaker 1: so I think it's different, you know, from me. Like
- 39:06Speaker 1: if people who have families or they're married, obviously that's
- 39:09Speaker 1: who you're with. But when you live by yourself, you
- 39:11Speaker 1: have to make sure that you interact with people, right,
- 39:14Speaker 1: because that can really just make you feel just so insane,
- 39:18Speaker 1: Like you have to see people. And so there's people
- 39:21Speaker 1: that I never really got a chance to spend time
- 39:23Speaker 1: with like that. Like one of my friends came and
- 39:24Speaker 1: stayed with me for months. Yeah, so now we're really
- 39:29Speaker 1: tight and we were always cool, but we weren't as
- 39:31Speaker 1: close as we are now thanks to the pandemic. Your
- 39:33Speaker 1: pandemic bodies. Yeah, that's my pandemic. That's no, that's interesting
- 39:37Speaker 1: because I'm thinking about it, I'm like, who did we
- 39:39Speaker 1: saw on We do a couple of phone calls, do
- 39:43Speaker 1: phone calls, a monthly checkout, FaceTime, syah. But it was
- 39:49Speaker 1: pretty low key for me. Pretty low yeah, besides family
- 39:54Speaker 1: and like you know, seeing my grandparents from across the
- 39:57Speaker 1: street for the first six months. U. Yeah, it was
- 40:00Speaker 1: pretty I might have saw six people. Yeah, you as
- 40:05Speaker 1: I did. I did move around a lot. I'm not
- 40:07Speaker 1: gonna lie. I went to Mexico. I went to go
- 40:10Speaker 1: see Dave Chappelle and Yellow Springs. That's cool. I heard.
- 40:13Speaker 1: That was awesome. When you could just take over a town,
- 40:18Speaker 1: you could do that night. Maybe you could runs Ohio
- 40:24Speaker 1: like Davids like you might as well be stuff. Yeah yeah,
- 40:29Speaker 1: Now Eminem hit you too after you played him on
- 40:31Speaker 1: S and L. Yes, so that conversationally, I he said
- 40:35Speaker 1: a bunch of really nice things that he didn't have
- 40:38Speaker 1: to say. So, you know, just through you know, teams
- 40:41Speaker 1: reached out and I just said thanks, and uh yeah,
- 40:45Speaker 1: he was really nice. He just was like, I I
- 40:48Speaker 1: appreciate the raps. I thought they were cool, and you know,
- 40:51Speaker 1: I was like, I think you're really cool. It's really
- 40:53Speaker 1: cool for me, and thank you. And then it got
- 40:56Speaker 1: off the phone immediately. I don't know if you guys
- 41:00Speaker 1: like that, but when you talk to like someone that
- 41:02Speaker 1: cool or like legendary, you're just like, Okay, I got
- 41:08Speaker 1: what I needed and I don't want you to hate
- 41:09Speaker 1: me and buy it. I just like, yeah, I just
- 41:14Speaker 1: I'm so afraid of and the ending is always the worst, right,
- 41:18Speaker 1: you just don't know how to end it. You're like,
- 41:20Speaker 1: all right, thanks shit, yeah, yeah that's why. I yeah,
- 41:24Speaker 1: texting is sometimes better for all right, Well move, we
- 41:27Speaker 1: got more with Pete Davidson. When we come back. Is
- 41:29Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club with more morning everybody is DJ Endry
- 41:35Speaker 1: Angela yee, Charlomagne the guy we all the Breakfast Club
- 41:38Speaker 1: was still kicking it with comedian and from Saturday Night Live.
- 41:41Speaker 1: Pete Davidson. Ye, naw, Pete. You know what I went
- 41:43Speaker 1: in to ask you about SNL and your past experience.
- 41:47Speaker 1: I know that there was some criticism you had of them,
- 41:49Speaker 1: but obviously you're still on the show, so you guys
- 41:52Speaker 1: ratified whatever was wrong. So did that help when you
- 41:54Speaker 1: publicly spoke about it and then they were like, okay,
- 41:56Speaker 1: how can we fix this? Like what happened? So I
- 41:59Speaker 1: did that with with you. Matter of fact, let's flash
- 42:02Speaker 1: back to that that interview we did. Peek. Now, when
- 42:04Speaker 1: it comes to being the budet of the jokes at SNL,
- 42:07Speaker 1: why not just tell them they can't joke on your
- 42:08Speaker 1: personal life? Because then like I'm a hypocrite, Like I
- 42:13Speaker 1: can't tell that's what they do, that's their show. Like
- 42:15Speaker 1: if I'm just fodder now though maybe I shouldn't be there.
- 42:19Speaker 1: Have you expressed that? Yeah? I literally was just like
- 42:22Speaker 1: picture what it's like to be made fun of and
- 42:24Speaker 1: then cut to immediately they think I'm dumb, Like I'm
- 42:28Speaker 1: literally painted out to be like this big dumb idiot.
- 42:31Speaker 1: So you've outgrown it, that's what you're saying. Yeah, I've
- 42:33Speaker 1: done as much as I can. Over there. I was
- 42:36Speaker 1: like fresh out of rehab and like not really thinking clearly,
- 42:39Speaker 1: and you know, I was definitely feeling a certain type
- 42:43Speaker 1: of way, but I didn't really handle it in the
- 42:46Speaker 1: best way. It was definitely a learning experience because like
- 42:50Speaker 1: the backlash or like the not not backlash, or just
- 42:54Speaker 1: like what I had to deal with following that kind
- 42:57Speaker 1: of sucks. So like the mature would have been to
- 43:00Speaker 1: like internally deal with that and be like, hey, I
- 43:04Speaker 1: feel this way, and then they would have been like, oh, hey,
- 43:06Speaker 1: actually it's all in your head, or like we hear
- 43:09Speaker 1: you will make this work. I don't think you would
- 43:12Speaker 1: be malicious in that composition. I wasn't. No, I just
- 43:15Speaker 1: definitely just I definitely felt a certain type of way,
- 43:18Speaker 1: you know by name. Yeah you just said you don't
- 43:22Speaker 1: like you know, but now I feel really happy and
- 43:26Speaker 1: lucky to be there. I've you know, I apologize to
- 43:29Speaker 1: the cast, you know, for you know, letting it out
- 43:32Speaker 1: in that way and not you know, coming to them,
- 43:34Speaker 1: and they were cool with it, and uh yeah, I
- 43:38Speaker 1: because of that, I think I'm having the most fun
- 43:41Speaker 1: I've had. One because of the ability, can't believe I
- 43:44Speaker 1: get to work, and then two is just like I
- 43:47Speaker 1: feel really relaxed there. Now there's no like tension, you know,
- 43:51Speaker 1: So maybe it was good it happened. No matter how
- 43:53Speaker 1: much gossip Cop tries to bring me down, things are
- 43:58Speaker 1: all peachy, Dirty Rock Baby did did that make the
- 44:02Speaker 1: group chat go off? Like so, Pete, there's the cast
- 44:05Speaker 1: members that uh, you know, group chat, no group chat
- 44:10Speaker 1: without you in it, and they're like, yo, did you
- 44:12Speaker 1: see what he was say? Yeah, you're gonna give Pete
- 44:14Speaker 1: anxiety I have. I'm gonna now Colin. I remember Colin
- 44:19Speaker 1: came out to him the day after that Caro Ount.
- 44:21Speaker 1: He was like, I don't feel that way about your
- 44:23Speaker 1: bad eight. I was like, oh no, everybody that was
- 44:29Speaker 1: good though it was health I think it was healthy.
- 44:32Speaker 1: It was good in a lot of ways where I
- 44:35Speaker 1: got to learn and you know how I could now
- 44:37Speaker 1: I feel like I handle things better. You know what
- 44:39Speaker 1: would help that if like, because you know, mental health
- 44:42Speaker 1: matters everywhere, right, if they had on these sets instead
- 44:46Speaker 1: of like meetings where y'all go over writing, y'all just
- 44:48Speaker 1: had meetings to see how everybody feels. Yeah, if they
- 44:50Speaker 1: bought everybody together and just be like, how did everybody feel? Yeah? Good? Bad, happy,
- 44:55Speaker 1: said whatever? And then people could express themselves in those moments.
- 44:57Speaker 1: If more companies did that, more programs did that, I
- 44:59Speaker 1: think it would help a lot. It would help a lot.
- 45:01Speaker 1: It's like the problem with that is like, uh, it
- 45:05Speaker 1: just sounds lame. So like people people online and be like, oh,
- 45:10Speaker 1: you need to have a meeting about your feelings, don't
- 45:13Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, dude, yeah I do. What do you think? Therapy? Really?
- 45:18Speaker 1: Sad therapy and meetings about our feeling It would take
- 45:21Speaker 1: five minutes. Hey, everybody, everybody good? Anything? Anybody mad or
- 45:25Speaker 1: upset about anything? Aybody want to fix anything? And then
- 45:28Speaker 1: you know, go on what you're dead? Yeah? Yeah, give
- 45:31Speaker 1: everybody Maybe give everybody edibles and then you know it's yeah,
- 45:34Speaker 1: microdoc and mushrooms. Yeah you did that recently. Yeah, I
- 45:39Speaker 1: switched to acid instead of doing the mushrooms. I find
- 45:43Speaker 1: that it's more fun. Really. Yeah. But that's when you
- 45:46Speaker 1: put the little paper under your tongue. Yeah, yeah, it's
- 45:48Speaker 1: really cool. It hasn't changed since the eighties doing That's
- 45:54Speaker 1: the one thing that will never change the way you
- 45:56Speaker 1: do drugs, whenever your people still blowing up, blow and
- 46:01Speaker 1: will never change. What do you wanted to do? What
- 46:04Speaker 1: did it do for you? I mean, for me, it
- 46:07Speaker 1: makes me more mellow and appreciative of things and kind
- 46:09Speaker 1: of relax and enjoy music more. But you know, some people,
- 46:16Speaker 1: I don't know. I've never had this experience, but some
- 46:18Speaker 1: people are like, oh my god, I saw a dragon.
- 46:20Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know what you're doing. I have.
- 46:23Speaker 1: I saw or from Winnie the Pooh and we were
- 46:27Speaker 1: playing charades, and so my friend's boyfriend like was trying
- 46:31Speaker 1: to act something out and he turned into Yoor and
- 46:34Speaker 1: then I all of a sudden it was in Alice
- 46:35Speaker 1: in Wonderland. And then the chair turned into like a nice,
- 46:38Speaker 1: friendly like bear that wanted to give me a hug.
- 46:41Speaker 1: It was it was interesting. That's never happened to even
- 46:44Speaker 1: on your rooms. No, never. I don't know. Maybe I
- 46:47Speaker 1: just did them too much. Yeah. The first time I
- 46:50Speaker 1: ever did it, I remember being like whoa man? But
- 46:54Speaker 1: like ever since then, I never got like that. I
- 46:56Speaker 1: always tell people if you're not in a good mood,
- 46:58Speaker 1: you can't do it because you have bad hallucinations and
- 47:01Speaker 1: it could be a really bad experience. If you're like
- 47:04Speaker 1: trying to forget something or you're going through something tragic,
- 47:07Speaker 1: sometimes it makes it worse. Yeah, you gotta be in
- 47:10Speaker 1: a positive mood and with like at least someone that's
- 47:14Speaker 1: cool and that's like down. Otherwise you're gonna have a
- 47:17Speaker 1: really bad time. Suicide squad, suicide squad? Who's that coming up?
- 47:21Speaker 1: August seventh? I think is gonna be theaters. I think
- 47:24Speaker 1: theaters an HBO Max okay okay at the same time
- 47:27Speaker 1: or HBO Max for a month and then only theaters.
- 47:30Speaker 1: Now that's a big movie, bro, that's sick. What's the
- 47:32Speaker 1: character you playing? Yeah, Blackguard. His name is Richard Hurts,
- 47:36Speaker 1: which is uh dick hurt Hurt. Yeah that's how it
- 47:41Speaker 1: is in a comic book. Yeah, uh um yeah, yeah.
- 47:49Speaker 1: I was like, you know, of course, if I ever
- 47:52Speaker 1: get to play a superhero, of course his name would
- 47:54Speaker 1: be Dick Hurts. But dude, it's one of those things
- 47:58Speaker 1: that I still I'm just like it was when I
- 48:01Speaker 1: got to shoot it. It was the first time I
- 48:02Speaker 1: was like, Wow, is some Hollywood That's gotta be your
- 48:05Speaker 1: biggest one, right, Yeah. I was like, I've never seen
- 48:08Speaker 1: something like this before. Like they built a beach that's
- 48:12Speaker 1: like nicer than most resorts I've stayed at. Wow, I
- 48:15Speaker 1: was like, can I stay here when you guys wrapped set?
- 48:18Speaker 1: And like it was just like the first like what
- 48:20Speaker 1: welcome to the biz kid kind of moment for me.
- 48:23Speaker 1: I can't believe it. I get to see like a poster.
- 48:26Speaker 1: I mean, I'm very small on the poster, but I'm
- 48:29Speaker 1: on it. Yeah, you know what I mean. It's it's
- 48:30Speaker 1: it's it's it's a cool feeling and uh, it's it's
- 48:34Speaker 1: like my first time. My uncles are like or like
- 48:38Speaker 1: my little cousins are excited about something I've done, which
- 48:41Speaker 1: is fun. PDD man, I'm happy to see you. You
- 48:44Speaker 1: look good. Thank you man, good man. All's well in
- 48:47Speaker 1: the world of Pete David you as well, Angela to
- 48:50Speaker 1: see you and we have history too. We actually started
- 48:53Speaker 1: a music video together. Yeah, oh fai music video right,
- 48:58Speaker 1: remember that's so funny. Yeah. I got to look back
- 49:01Speaker 1: at that. I think were you there too? Oh yeah
- 49:03Speaker 1: yeah yeah, I was the host. It was a game show. Yeah, yeah,
- 49:07Speaker 1: video online somewhere. I don't know. It was weird. I remember,
- 49:12Speaker 1: I don't want to remember what was the joke. It
- 49:14Speaker 1: was like, oh, he takes or something. I don't remember.
- 49:20Speaker 1: I don't remember what the song was. But every time
- 49:22Speaker 1: I've seen fam a couple of times, he's been like,
- 49:27Speaker 1: all that was gonna be super funny in five years. Yeah,
- 49:30Speaker 1: we what. I was looking at code for a while.
- 49:33Speaker 1: I was looking at that remember that balls video? Oh yeah,
- 49:39Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah, something like that. We did some weird,
- 49:42Speaker 1: some weird. Yeah. I was gonna you know what, I'm
- 49:45Speaker 1: gonna post that tomorrow. I was gonna post the video
- 49:47Speaker 1: of when you was on my old talk show. Oh
- 49:50Speaker 1: oh what uya? Yeah? I had your mom talking to
- 49:53Speaker 1: you all sexy. Yeah, what are the nightmare? That was?
- 49:58Speaker 1: That was awful? That was all set up. Yeah. I
- 50:02Speaker 1: was just like, oh I like this one and that
- 50:04Speaker 1: was my mom. Listen, life is good man, I mean
- 50:09Speaker 1: to listen big. The biggest thing is I'm happy that
- 50:11Speaker 1: we're in studio having a conversation. You know what I mean.
- 50:14Speaker 1: I feel that feels good. Yeah, it feels positive. Feel
- 50:17Speaker 1: we made it through twenty twenty. Absolutely, So y'all make
- 50:20Speaker 1: sure y'all check out Pete Davidson Hit Job. When does
- 50:22Speaker 1: the job come out of it out? I think it's
- 50:24Speaker 1: out or it's If it's not out, it will be
- 50:27Speaker 1: out within a week from whenever this is out. Yeah,
- 50:30Speaker 1: so it's an audible original. I'm sure it's free with
- 50:32Speaker 1: your audible membership PDD. Love you, brother, Thank you for
- 50:34Speaker 1: coming man, Thanks for having me. Thank you, Rachel. It's
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- 50:58Speaker 1: out for Florida. The craziest people in America come from
- 51:03Speaker 1: the Bronx and all of Florida. Yes, you are a donkey.
- 51:08Speaker 1: The Florida man a chapter and at n for a
- 51:11Speaker 1: very strange reason. It gave him too much money. Florida
- 51:14Speaker 1: man is arrested. I've definitely say he's rigged the door
- 51:16Speaker 1: to his home and an attempt to electricate his credit.
- 51:19Speaker 1: Ordo man here the day with Sea ain't the god.
- 51:25Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all keeping get you elected? Well, donkey,
- 51:28Speaker 1: the day goes to a Florida man named Joseph Davis. Now,
- 51:31Speaker 1: what did your uncle Charla always say about the great
- 51:33Speaker 1: state of Florida. The craziest people in America come from
- 51:37Speaker 1: the Bronx, and all of Florida in today is no exception. Now,
- 51:39Speaker 1: if you know Joseph Davis, are Joseph, you are somewhere
- 51:43Speaker 1: and you can hear my voice. Just know that police
- 51:46Speaker 1: have a warrant out for your arrest. I'm sure you
- 51:48Speaker 1: notice already. And I hate to make you hot, but
- 51:51Speaker 1: it is what it is. Okay, your life, our entertainment. Now,
- 51:54Speaker 1: who out there is a regifter? Raise your hand. I am.
- 51:58Speaker 1: I get so many things that I'm appreciative of people
- 52:01Speaker 1: sending me stuff all the time. Clothes, sneaker, you know, liquor, games,
- 52:06Speaker 1: all types of stuff, and I'm the type I'm appreciative
- 52:08Speaker 1: of it all, so you know, I thank you, but
- 52:12Speaker 1: I don't need a lot, so I usually end up
- 52:13Speaker 1: just giving away a lot of the stuff. For anyone
- 52:15Speaker 1: who has ever sent me anything, don't take that personal.
- 52:17Speaker 1: It makes my day to be able to make someone
- 52:19Speaker 1: else's day with a gift you gave me, so please
- 52:22Speaker 1: continue to send me things to read. Gift Now, that's
- 52:24Speaker 1: how I red gift. But in Florida, they clearly regift difference.
- 52:27Speaker 1: See in Florida, what someone red gifts doesn't even have
- 52:29Speaker 1: to be a gift they personally received. It just has
- 52:33Speaker 1: to be a gift they acquired. Oh trust me, many
- 52:35Speaker 1: a child's life in Florida has been made better by
- 52:38Speaker 1: stolen goods at Christmas. And I'm not here to knock
- 52:40Speaker 1: your hustle. But oftentimes it's not how you steal, it's
- 52:45Speaker 1: what you steal. Okay, all stealing is not created equal.
- 52:48Speaker 1: In forty eight year old Joseph Davis proved that. Now
- 52:51Speaker 1: follow me here. Okay, it gets a little complicated, just
- 52:54Speaker 1: a tad bit. See the reason Joseph Davis is getting
- 52:57Speaker 1: donkey of the day to day is because he stole
- 53:02Speaker 1: an engagement ring and wedding bands from his girlfriend in
- 53:06Speaker 1: Orange City and used them to propose to his other
- 53:11Speaker 1: girlfriend in Orlando. What the Florida is going on here?
- 53:16Speaker 1: Did you hear what I said? I said, Joseph Davis,
- 53:19Speaker 1: forty eight years old, is getting the biggest he had
- 53:21Speaker 1: because he stole an engagement ring and wedding bands from
- 53:25Speaker 1: his girlfriend in Orange City and used them to propose
- 53:29Speaker 1: to his other girlfriend in Orlando. Let me give you details. See.
- 53:33Speaker 1: Police started investigating Joseph when a woman from Orange City, Florida,
- 53:37Speaker 1: told detectives she had discovered her boyfriend was actually engaged
- 53:41Speaker 1: to someone else. When she looked up the fiancee's Facebook page,
- 53:46Speaker 1: she noticed the photo of her wearing a wedding band
- 53:49Speaker 1: and engagement ring that was identical to her own. I've
- 53:53Speaker 1: seen that before. Okay, it was her in wedding band
- 53:57Speaker 1: and engagement ring from a previous marriage. When the Range
- 54:01Speaker 1: City woman checked her jewelry box, she found her rings
- 54:04Speaker 1: were missing, as were several other pieces of jewelry, including
- 54:09Speaker 1: a diamond ring that belonged to her grandmother. The total
- 54:14Speaker 1: value of the stolen property six two hundred and seventy
- 54:17Speaker 1: dollars to look on the fiance's face when she finds
- 54:20Speaker 1: out how Joseph acquired this jewelry priceless. Oh you know,
- 54:24Speaker 1: Orange City reached out to Orlando. Girlfriend reached out to
- 54:26Speaker 1: fiance or should I say Joe's ex girlfriend and ex fiance.
- 54:30Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they both un followed him in real life
- 54:32Speaker 1: as they should after this debaccle. She reached out and
- 54:35Speaker 1: according to sheriff reports, the now ex fiance brought back
- 54:39Speaker 1: some of the items, not all. Now let's take a
- 54:42Speaker 1: break right here for a second. What did you like
- 54:45Speaker 1: that much that you couldn't give all of her property back?
- 54:48Speaker 1: Just some? That ex fiance from Orlando is claiming she
- 54:52Speaker 1: was duped, So I guess she needed to keep a
- 54:54Speaker 1: little something for her pain and suffering. But it's not yours.
- 54:57Speaker 1: Only in Florida can someone have access to are stolen
- 55:00Speaker 1: goods and tell you they're gonna give you some back. Now.
- 55:04Speaker 1: This story also approves that being an f boy as
- 55:06Speaker 1: a choice, you have to make constant, intentional choices in
- 55:10Speaker 1: order to maintain the level of f boyism Joe has achieved.
- 55:14Speaker 1: Not keep in mind, he's forty eight. You know, so
- 55:17Speaker 1: there's no such thing as growing out of f boyism. Okay,
- 55:19Speaker 1: he goes by different names like Joe Brown and Marcus Brown.
- 55:22Speaker 1: If you're telling women different names, absolutely f boy behavior.
- 55:26Speaker 1: Joe once took the fiance. Listen to this. Joe once
- 55:29Speaker 1: took the fiance to a house that actually belonged to
- 55:34Speaker 1: his girlfriend from Rnge City while the girlfriend was at work,
- 55:38Speaker 1: and Joe claimed the house was his. He then asked
- 55:41Speaker 1: the fiance to move in with him, but then disappeared.
- 55:45Speaker 1: Now this is where I get confused, because the story
- 55:47Speaker 1: says by that time, the fiance discovered her laptop and
- 55:49Speaker 1: jewelry were missing. So I don't know if he stole
- 55:52Speaker 1: from the fiance too. I don't know. I just know
- 55:55Speaker 1: Joe's and f boy And my issue is this, if
- 55:58Speaker 1: you don't plan to be with any of these women,
- 56:00Speaker 1: why are you stealing jewelry from one to propose to
- 56:03Speaker 1: the other If you don't plan on being with them,
- 56:05Speaker 1: you stole her grandmother's diamond ring they give to another woman,
- 56:09Speaker 1: And you don't plan on being with any of them,
- 56:12Speaker 1: and you're giving them other names. What's the point. Not
- 56:14Speaker 1: a story gets better, Neither the ex girlfriend ex fiancee
- 56:19Speaker 1: knew Joe's real name, but they put their brains together,
- 56:22Speaker 1: those two Florida brains, and remembered he had a relative
- 56:25Speaker 1: in North Carolina, so detectives were able to track down
- 56:28Speaker 1: the relative who identified Joe Davis. I'm gonna be honest
- 56:30Speaker 1: with you. Joe Davis kind of a legend. Give him
- 56:33Speaker 1: a half a bomb, just a half a bomb, half top. Okay,
- 56:37Speaker 1: he's kind of a legend. First ballot, F boy, Hall
- 56:40Speaker 1: of Famer, and you have to let a legend be
- 56:43Speaker 1: a legend, even if the legend is an f boy.
- 56:45Speaker 1: Joe Davis not only has an active warrant for stealing
- 56:48Speaker 1: jewelry from his girlfriend and using it to propose to
- 56:51Speaker 1: his other girlfriend, but Joe also has an active arrest
- 56:54Speaker 1: warrant for a hit and run crash with injuries in Oregon,
- 56:57Speaker 1: Oh my god. And previously he's been arrested for possession
- 57:00Speaker 1: of a fake ID, filing a false police report, domestic
- 57:03Speaker 1: consult and possession of cocaine. Okay, I take back my
- 57:06Speaker 1: legendary status. He's not a legend, he's just enough boy.
- 57:09Speaker 1: He had possession of cocaine, would intend to sell and
- 57:11Speaker 1: according to the Sheriff's office. The jail where Davis previously
- 57:14Speaker 1: was booked, noted he had a tattoo on his left
- 57:18Speaker 1: arm that said only God can judge me the devil,
- 57:22Speaker 1: and that tattoo was a damn liar, because as I
- 57:26Speaker 1: sit in my Starbucks, because only God can judge you
- 57:29Speaker 1: is not true. We are all judging you right now.
- 57:33Speaker 1: Are you judging him, Envy, Yes, Angelie. Are you judging him? Yes? Yes.
- 57:37Speaker 1: So that's a lie when you say only God can
- 57:39Speaker 1: judge you. See, even when people say only God can
- 57:42Speaker 1: judge you, I say to them, well, God created man
- 57:45Speaker 1: and woman in his image according to his likeness, and
- 57:48Speaker 1: we are that image and likeness of God. Therefore we
- 57:50Speaker 1: two shall judge, and we two shall be the jury.
- 57:54Speaker 1: And the jury has declared Joe Davis of Florida guilty
- 57:57Speaker 1: of being a great a sort of five boy. Please
- 58:02Speaker 1: give Joseph Davis of Lucia County the biggest here, all right,
- 58:09Speaker 1: we got more, don't move. It's the best of the
- 58:10Speaker 1: Breakfast Club, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy
- 58:19Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlot Migne, the guy we are the Breakfast Club.
- 58:22Speaker 1: We got a special guest in the building. Kelly Price, welcome,
- 58:26Speaker 1: thank you, how you feeling? You know what? Great? Happy
- 58:30Speaker 1: to be alive. I'm gonna get you from Queens, New y'all. Ye,
- 58:33Speaker 1: fall Rockaway, Yeah, Jaicaway Friday out of Far Rockaway, Queens,
- 58:41Speaker 1: we got put out. We were homeless, okay, yeah, and
- 58:44Speaker 1: you know, kind of rolling around and landed. But my
- 58:47Speaker 1: grandfather's church was on the South side of Jamaica, so
- 58:49Speaker 1: like those were my stomping grounds. I was between Far
- 58:51Speaker 1: Rockaway and South side of Jamaica, and so yeah, all
- 58:54Speaker 1: day long, I'm yeah, yeah, yeah. We were homeless a lot.
- 59:00Speaker 1: Really yeah. I was homeless probably for the last time,
- 59:04Speaker 1: right before I turned eighteen. Wow, times were crazy. My dad, um,
- 59:09Speaker 1: he passed when I was nine, right before my tenth birthday.
- 59:12Speaker 1: But he had a substance abuse problem, and so you know,
- 59:15Speaker 1: there was that, and so my mother trying to raise
- 59:18Speaker 1: three girls in this city and on welfare and you know,
- 59:20Speaker 1: all of it I did. My grandfather was my first pastor,
- 59:26Speaker 1: and so we I feel like I was in church
- 59:28Speaker 1: nine days a week. When you're homeless, right, what gives
- 59:31Speaker 1: you the audacity, the hope, the audacity to dream. I'm
- 59:34Speaker 1: going to tell you something and it sounds crazy. It
- 59:38Speaker 1: was my faith. It was this belief that as long
- 59:42Speaker 1: as I do my part and I'm respectful about it,
- 59:46Speaker 1: God has to make it happen for me. You know, people,
- 59:48Speaker 1: whether whether you put it out like some people say,
- 59:50Speaker 1: what goes around comes around, if you call it the universe,
- 59:53Speaker 1: whatever it is, there are laws and principles in life
- 59:56Speaker 1: period that if followed, they have to service you back.
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: It's so easy to be bitter in a situation like that.
- 1:00:02Speaker 1: You no, no, I just wanted a better day. And
- 1:00:06Speaker 1: then turning up pregnant at eighteen years old, coming from
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: this real sanctified family, I was like, okay, so now
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: what you're gonna do? Because you getting ready to have
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: a baby. And at this point I'm sleeping in the
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: downstairs level of my grandparents house. I don't want to
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: tell them that I'm pregnant. So all of this is happening,
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: and Mabria carry gigg happened like early in my pregnant
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: that they push you away because they're so into the church,
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: so about values that they say, you know what, we
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: don't want you here. No, no, I have to honestly
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: say that as strict as that upbringing was I have
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: to say my grandparents. They weren't happy about it, but
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: they embraced me. They didn't make me feel like I
- 1:00:46Speaker 1: was dirty. They were transformative for me and that they
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: were the catalysts to having me think another way about
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: what I've been hearing in church. Your grandparents gave you
- 1:00:56Speaker 1: something that that you named your new album after Grace? Yeah,
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: Grace Yeah. And I always say, you know, like I
- 1:01:03Speaker 1: was going to ask you, when is the time that
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: you needed grace? But you yeah, you answer it. Yeah.
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: I've needed grace a lot in my life and we
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: all do. Every time I've talked about this project. When
- 1:01:12Speaker 1: people ask me, I say, I think the problem is
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: is that we as humans, we really can do better
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: about extending grace to other peoples. Most of the time
- 1:01:19Speaker 1: we don't realize how important grace is until we need
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: it for ourselves. I have a uverse reading plan that's
- 1:01:26Speaker 1: coming out I think in about two weeks on the
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: subject of grace, and I broke the word down into
- 1:01:31Speaker 1: an acronym um. Grace is a gift. Is the gift
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: of giving responsibility, accountability of yourself and to expect accountability
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: of other people. But with compassion and empathy. That's real
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: grace because at some point when you need it, right,
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna want. Why doesn't this er give
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: them more grace? You know? Cancel culture is the is
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: the polar opposite of grace. Yes, everybody's screaming canceled, cancel, cancel,
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: but you're not gonna want to hear cancel when it's
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: time to cancel you. So did you watch it versus?
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: Because I know obviously asy brothers played a really important
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: role in your career. So what did you think. So
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: I haven't seen it all the way through because I
- 1:02:15Speaker 1: literally went to bed early. So I started watching some
- 1:02:17Speaker 1: of it and I want to see the rest of it.
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: So everybody was like, you gotta pick one, you gotta
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: pick one. I'm like, but I love them both. Having
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: to pick one, of course, I'm gonna say, I'm superbosed.
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: You can't ask like the dude. Literally, when everybody was
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: telling me I was too fat, too black, and too
- 1:02:33Speaker 1: loud to make a record, he was like, you could
- 1:02:35Speaker 1: be twelve hundred pounds and blue. Who wouldn't buy that voice?
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: I was like, don't left to everybody else in the
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: business like I'm the check. They hiding in the room
- 1:02:42Speaker 1: with a microphone, like, Yeah, that's so hard because you
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: were talking and you've spoken on this before. How when
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: you were about to get a record deal they had
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: an issue with your weight. Yeah, they said, sat you
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: down and told you you had to lose weight in
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: order for them to be able to sign you. No,
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: it was m jive bunch of j asked turkeys over there.
- 1:03:05Speaker 1: Wait till signing day. We hadn't have been negotiating for
- 1:03:08Speaker 1: months and I came into the city to sign that
- 1:03:11Speaker 1: day and they told me to stop by the officers
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: before I went to my attorney. That was the first
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: deal and so I was choked up. But I was like,
- 1:03:20Speaker 1: you not christ sitting in this. I was sitting with
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: the head of every department in the conference room, and
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: I said, I just have one question. Who gets to
- 1:03:29Speaker 1: say when it's enough? So what did they say? Like
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: in the meeting, they was saying, Hey, we're gonna sign
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: this deal. But we had been in negotiations. The copy,
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: the execution copy was in my attorney's office at that time.
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: I got a call from my lawyer saying, go by
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: the jive officers before you come to sign they say
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: they need to meet with you about something. Best call
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: I could have ever received, because had I signed the
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: paperwork first, I would have been locked into something and
- 1:03:55Speaker 1: possibly sat on a shelf turn the deal down. Yeah
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: I did. Oh wow, I walked away. That's real faith
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: right then. And that was that after more money, more problems,
- 1:04:05Speaker 1: after all of this, that was right before it. Yeah,
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: how do they say that? Do you? Um? I walk in,
- 1:04:11Speaker 1: I sit down and there's awkward silence, and so, you know,
- 1:04:16Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, hi, everybody, it's supposed to be a
- 1:04:18Speaker 1: great day. I'm signed. Yeah, yeah, we're gonna talk about
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, they we want to know who you
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: want to work with. And I was like okay, um,
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: and then awkward silence, and so Jeff Finster is his name?
- 1:04:33Speaker 1: Remember that name? Listen. I'm forty eight and I've been
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: doing this for thirty years. I earned the right to
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: call that. Uh says, you know, why don't we just
- 1:04:42Speaker 1: go ahead and say it? It's you know, let's just
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: say it. And I'm like say what he says, Listen,
- 1:04:48Speaker 1: We're gonna need you to lose a significant amount of
- 1:04:51Speaker 1: weight before we put this record out. So my eyes,
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: I'm like a deer in headlights in this moment, and
- 1:04:58Speaker 1: so I say, okay, how much weight? Like do you
- 1:05:03Speaker 1: want me? Whitney Houston? Then do you want me? Because
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: like I come from a family where the women women
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: are you know, whether they're bigger or smaller, they're still
- 1:05:12Speaker 1: they're thick. Who gets to decide how much is enough?
- 1:05:16Speaker 1: And no one knew? And nobody knew and I said, okay, Well,
- 1:05:19Speaker 1: then the question is if I get to a place
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: where I'm feeling okay about it and you don't what
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: happens to the record And the answer was we don't know. Wow,
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: you see what happened to Jeffence today? So well he
- 1:05:33Speaker 1: was he went over to another label. Allegedly he was
- 1:05:35Speaker 1: let go because of sexual misconduct with a former employee. Wow,
- 1:05:41Speaker 1: it felt like you know, when I was doing mixtapes,
- 1:05:43Speaker 1: everybody knew your name because you had vocals, you were
- 1:05:46Speaker 1: singing over everything, but it felt like the world was
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: hiding you didn't want to see you even even no
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: more money, more problems video, It was like the little screen.
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: How did that feel? Because you knew you could sing,
- 1:06:00Speaker 1: you know, you could out sing most of the people
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: I were out there, But it felt like everybody didn't
- 1:06:04Speaker 1: want to show you. You know, it was interesting. I
- 1:06:06Speaker 1: was just grateful I was asked to be in the
- 1:06:08Speaker 1: video because other people weren't putting me in the video.
- 1:06:10Speaker 1: I've been Martha washed, like and when I say that,
- 1:06:13Speaker 1: I mean having written for people, and then I would
- 1:06:16Speaker 1: go demo the record. The artist is supposed to go
- 1:06:18Speaker 1: in and sing their own music. I can remember riding
- 1:06:20Speaker 1: down the street and hearing the song start and I'm like, oh,
- 1:06:23Speaker 1: it's out, but I'm hearing me and I'm like, wow,
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: you said Martha washed as in like they Sometimes the
- 1:06:31Speaker 1: labels would leave my vocals on, but it was their
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: artists and they wouldn't show you. I mean, that's somebody
- 1:06:36Speaker 1: that happened to that. What happened with you? You're driving down,
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: You're hearing the song on the radio, and then all
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: of a sudden, you're like, yo, this is my voice. Yeah.
- 1:06:44Speaker 1: I was shocked. Sometimes they would come back and say, well,
- 1:06:46Speaker 1: we want to keep your background vocals. That was common,
- 1:06:49Speaker 1: but to hear the record and to hear that in
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: the verses, I'm hearing my voice laced in between like
- 1:06:57Speaker 1: and I can hear the punches. My ear is fine, tuned.
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: You know what I mean when I say I can
- 1:07:01Speaker 1: hear where they punched. The engineer punched me in and
- 1:07:04Speaker 1: then popped her back in Tasha Holiday, and she wouldn't
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: have known that that was what was happening. That's a
- 1:07:10Speaker 1: call that was over her head. She had just gotten signed.
- 1:07:13Speaker 1: Somebody at the label said, we don't like it. Fix
- 1:07:16Speaker 1: it up, all right. We got more with Kelly Price
- 1:07:18Speaker 1: when we come back, don't move. It's to Breakfast Club.
- 1:07:20Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela yee. Charlomagne,
- 1:07:25Speaker 1: the guy we are to Breakfast Club was still kicking
- 1:07:27Speaker 1: it with Kelly Price. Yee. Now during this time when
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: all this is happening, were you married already? I got
- 1:07:32Speaker 1: married very early. I ended up marrying my baby's dad.
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: That was that. Now, that was the thing that I
- 1:07:38Speaker 1: should have probably tried to escape. But you know, growing
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: up the way we did. Like for me, you know,
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: back then, it was like you got pregnant, you get married.
- 1:07:46Speaker 1: Is it good at first? In retrospect, no, it was
- 1:07:49Speaker 1: never good. It was just what was supposed to be
- 1:07:51Speaker 1: done right. And I think that that's a mistake. Like
- 1:07:54Speaker 1: I don't think you tell somebody if you're in this position,
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: you need to get married because y'all might not need
- 1:08:00Speaker 1: to be together. You feel like that was the godly
- 1:08:02Speaker 1: thing to do. That's what the church taught. How did
- 1:08:06Speaker 1: you get the strength to finally leave that marriage because
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: that took a while. It took a long time, and
- 1:08:11Speaker 1: it took a lot of it was it was like
- 1:08:14Speaker 1: twenty five years. Yeah wow, a lot of hurt, a
- 1:08:18Speaker 1: lot of mistrust, a lot of outside kids. Um, and
- 1:08:23Speaker 1: he was your manager. Yeah wow, Jesus, So you was
- 1:08:26Speaker 1: intertwined personally and professionally. Like leaving, I had to rebuild
- 1:08:32Speaker 1: my life. What was the last strow? What was the
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: thing that was like I can't do this anymore. I
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: had a dream and I saw everything around me burning
- 1:08:40Speaker 1: and being destroyed, and then I saw myself and I
- 1:08:42Speaker 1: looked really sickly, and then I saw like the end
- 1:08:45Speaker 1: of my life. And this was literally year after my
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: baby sister died. That was a rough year for me.
- 1:08:54Speaker 1: M My baby sister had a drug issue and her
- 1:08:59Speaker 1: body was just over it. One by one, her organs
- 1:09:02Speaker 1: started to shut down and so she passed on Easter
- 1:09:06Speaker 1: Sunday in twenty fourteen. And between and my grandfather passed
- 1:09:12Speaker 1: on Easter Sunday last year, so this year, for me,
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: it was important to refocus and try to reposition this
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: time of the year between that time from the time
- 1:09:21Speaker 1: that she died and that time where I had this dream.
- 1:09:25Speaker 1: Pretty much, I packed on probably about seventy five eight pounds.
- 1:09:30Speaker 1: I was drinking very heavily every day, going and doing
- 1:09:33Speaker 1: my shows, knocking them out, getting back to the hotel,
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: and drinking until I passed out. It was a crazy year.
- 1:09:40Speaker 1: And I looked at myself in the mirror on my
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: way to do a show in Chicago, and I broke
- 1:09:45Speaker 1: down crying. I looked at myself. I was like, like,
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: what happened to you? And I said, Okay, God, if
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: you give me the strength to get myself together, to
- 1:09:54Speaker 1: pull my life back together, I'll do it. And I
- 1:09:57Speaker 1: had no idea where I was going to go. They kid,
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: the kids were grown, yes, And that was the biggest
- 1:10:04Speaker 1: relief for me. I didn't want to blow their life up.
- 1:10:06Speaker 1: You think that's a mistake. Two people who stayed together
- 1:10:08Speaker 1: for the kids. Yeah, I think it's worse for kids
- 1:10:11Speaker 1: to see toxic parents. Did they ever talk to you
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: about that? I thought I was shielding them from it.
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: And what I didn't learn until they became adults and
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: came back and had conversations with me about it is
- 1:10:25Speaker 1: that I mean, they saw things, but they were kind
- 1:10:29Speaker 1: of like sat in the middle of things. I called
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: myself trying to shield it from them. Their father had
- 1:10:34Speaker 1: a very different approach. One of the kids said to
- 1:10:37Speaker 1: me that their father told them, you know, if you
- 1:10:40Speaker 1: tell your mother, she's going to have a nervous breakdown,
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: she can't handle it. So he kind of dumped the
- 1:10:45Speaker 1: weight of that on them. And literally I didn't know
- 1:10:49Speaker 1: this until again, they were grown, they were out of
- 1:10:51Speaker 1: the house and they felt comfortable enough to come and
- 1:10:54Speaker 1: say something to me about it. Probably the process in
- 1:10:56Speaker 1: their own traumas yea, And how that impacted them when
- 1:10:58Speaker 1: they was kids. Yeah, that that angered That angered me.
- 1:11:01Speaker 1: It angered me so much. And so to what you're saying, No,
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: there's no such thing as staying together for the kids.
- 1:11:08Speaker 1: You the way to keep it together is if you're
- 1:11:10Speaker 1: not working separate, because what that becomes is what they
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: see as normal. So trauma bond, trauma bonds caused trauma
- 1:11:17Speaker 1: to everybody who sees him. Now, did you I know
- 1:11:20Speaker 1: your husband didn't just let you go easily. I know
- 1:11:22Speaker 1: he was probably furious. He was, but it wasn't his choice, right.
- 1:11:26Speaker 1: He had the opportunity to hire, you know, whoever he
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: needed to hire to try to do whatever he needed
- 1:11:33Speaker 1: to do. And you know, I was prepared for it.
- 1:11:36Speaker 1: I was the breadwinning the family. So I was gripping
- 1:11:40Speaker 1: myself for what was to happen. You know, if it
- 1:11:43Speaker 1: was devastating financially or whatever. Did not he did not,
- 1:11:47Speaker 1: That was a miracle. I actually was gearing up for
- 1:11:49Speaker 1: a fight. I wanted to go back to your meeting
- 1:11:51Speaker 1: with jib right, Like psychologically, what happens to you when
- 1:11:54Speaker 1: somebody tells you that you're too big? Like? What what
- 1:11:57Speaker 1: was your mind state moving forward after that meeting? It
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: messed with my head. I had heard it said like
- 1:12:03Speaker 1: I heard whispers of it. True story. At Daddy's house
- 1:12:07Speaker 1: working on a record for a group that was signed
- 1:12:08Speaker 1: to Motown. What was their name? Group that was signed
- 1:12:11Speaker 1: to Motown. Puff was producing the record. I was there
- 1:12:14Speaker 1: as the vocal producer, and I was there cutting the
- 1:12:17Speaker 1: song on the guys, and so I wanted to make
- 1:12:20Speaker 1: a change lyrically to something. So I told him y'all
- 1:12:23Speaker 1: take a break. I went and sat in a corner,
- 1:12:26Speaker 1: like behind one of those folding things inside of the
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: room where the microphone was, sat on the floor with
- 1:12:31Speaker 1: my pen and pad, and I hear the guys walking
- 1:12:35Speaker 1: in the hallway outside the room. Then they come into
- 1:12:38Speaker 1: the room and they're having a whole conversation, and just
- 1:12:40Speaker 1: out of nowhere, the conversation turns to, yo, did you
- 1:12:43Speaker 1: get a look at her? She looks like a fat
- 1:12:46Speaker 1: aid nel carter and so. But and I'm in the corner,
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: and so I'm like, dang. So they walk out the room,
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: they're in the hallway. They're in the hallway, and I'm
- 1:12:58Speaker 1: sitting there. I don't want to have that awkward moment
- 1:13:00Speaker 1: of walking out of the room and going past them.
- 1:13:03Speaker 1: But they won't leave, and I'm like, okay, you got
- 1:13:06Speaker 1: you on the clock. You gotta get the session. So
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: I pulled it together, walked out the door and walked
- 1:13:12Speaker 1: past them, and they're looking like I went back into
- 1:13:15Speaker 1: the control room. They came into the control room, Miss Kelly,
- 1:13:19Speaker 1: Can we have a word with you? I said, no,
- 1:13:20Speaker 1: we have work to do. We should just go ahead
- 1:13:22Speaker 1: and finish the record. Wow, that group a pop. Nope,
- 1:13:27Speaker 1: I did get an apology from one of the I
- 1:13:29Speaker 1: swear to god. I was walking through an airport and
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: this guy was trying to stop me and he's like
- 1:13:33Speaker 1: remember me. I'm like, no, I don't, just tell me
- 1:13:35Speaker 1: where I know you're from. And he told me, he said, well,
- 1:13:37Speaker 1: remember when you did that song for the group of
- 1:13:39Speaker 1: blah blah. He said, we were idiots, we were blah
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: blah blah. Yeah, And I'm like, what what you got
- 1:13:43Speaker 1: going on right now? He's like no, we're still trying
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: to figure it out. And I'm but I'm you know,
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: this is years later, and I'm like, okay, so what
- 1:13:52Speaker 1: was your next deal after that? Because okay, so true story.
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: He did put an offer on the table and I
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: said no it started. So there was a bit of
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: a bitting war that did happen. It ended up being
- 1:14:10Speaker 1: between MCA did he had paperwork on the table and
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: and then it wasn't deaf Cham. It ended up being
- 1:14:18Speaker 1: Ronald Eisley, who I met because of puff. I was
- 1:14:23Speaker 1: in the studio working on a track that he was
- 1:14:26Speaker 1: doing for a Leah finished it. I'm on my way out.
- 1:14:29Speaker 1: He was on his way and he was like where
- 1:14:30Speaker 1: are you going. I'm like home, I'm done. He's like, no,
- 1:14:33Speaker 1: I need you to stay. I got something popping. Like.
- 1:14:35Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, what you got he said, Eisley Brothers,
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: I'm like dope. He was like, okay, so I need
- 1:14:40Speaker 1: you to write it. I'm like, yeah, I can do that.
- 1:14:41Speaker 1: I said, Well when does it need to be done?
- 1:14:43Speaker 1: He said, like right now? Right now? He said, He's here,
- 1:14:47Speaker 1: He's leaving his hotel on his way to the studio
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: right now. Well, you have to be kidding me. You
- 1:14:52Speaker 1: have to be kidding. He was like, no, yeah, so
- 1:14:56Speaker 1: big ups to New York traffic. It took him about
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: forty five is to get to the hotel to the
- 1:15:01Speaker 1: to the studio from the hotel, which was enough time
- 1:15:05Speaker 1: for me to depend the first one back. Wow, So
- 1:15:11Speaker 1: what deal did you take at that time? Because you did,
- 1:15:13Speaker 1: He gave you all for the deal you had. Ron
- 1:15:15Speaker 1: Eisley off of the deal that already said, he doesn't
- 1:15:17Speaker 1: care what you way, what you look like, your voice
- 1:15:19Speaker 1: is amazing. And where did you decide to go from there? Um?
- 1:15:22Speaker 1: I ended up being with Ronald. He had the least
- 1:15:24Speaker 1: amount of money on the table. Puff was mad at you.
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: The guy that I introduced you to you signed with
- 1:15:30Speaker 1: he found he felt a way about it. He but
- 1:15:33Speaker 1: I and I said to him, I said, I need
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: you to understand I'm I'm thinking like from business. At
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: this point, I told him, I said, Faith and I
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: are not the same, but we are too similar. One
- 1:15:44Speaker 1: of us is not gonna make it here, and she's
- 1:15:48Speaker 1: already here. So I wouldn't assume that I would be
- 1:15:51Speaker 1: the priority. Not to mention. Puff probably wanted all your
- 1:15:54Speaker 1: publishing that too. Yeah, did deal with a lot in
- 1:15:58Speaker 1: twenty twenty. You know, you lost your mind, my mother,
- 1:16:01Speaker 1: my grandfather. That by the way, thank you, I appreciate it.
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: I'm sure you're still in the process of healing. What
- 1:16:08Speaker 1: does that process look like to you? The greatest project? Yeah,
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: it ultimately was the thing that kept me, I feel like,
- 1:16:15Speaker 1: from probably going over the edge at the end of
- 1:16:17Speaker 1: the year. School friends, church friends, to the tune of
- 1:16:20Speaker 1: about fifteen or more people lost in my life last year?
- 1:16:24Speaker 1: Did you even get to see your mom last year
- 1:16:28Speaker 1: in the casket? Wow? When you when you recorded the
- 1:16:32Speaker 1: album was you know they always say sometimes when you're
- 1:16:34Speaker 1: trying to stay busy as a response to trauma, you're
- 1:16:36Speaker 1: not dealing with did you actually want to work or
- 1:16:39Speaker 1: was it a trauma response? A little of both, but necessary,
- 1:16:43Speaker 1: necessary because I had been in the house all year.
- 1:16:46Speaker 1: But yes it was a trauma response. But that has
- 1:16:50Speaker 1: always been my goal to When I was a young kid,
- 1:16:52Speaker 1: I can remember just like finding a pad and a
- 1:16:55Speaker 1: pencil and just doodling whatever was coming out of my head,
- 1:16:58Speaker 1: whatever was going on. Have you given yourself time to grief?
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: Not enough, because following death are things that have to
- 1:17:06Speaker 1: be done, things that need to be put in place.
- 1:17:09Speaker 1: If they're not already in place, if there's not a
- 1:17:11Speaker 1: directive left, then you know the family's kind of stuck
- 1:17:14Speaker 1: trying to put things together. And so I absolutely have
- 1:17:18Speaker 1: not had enough time. And I feel that sometimes when
- 1:17:21Speaker 1: I feel that day coming on, I allow myself to
- 1:17:24Speaker 1: have that moment. The blows from last year, I think
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: God will teach me how to live with them. I don't,
- 1:17:31Speaker 1: I have to honestly say, being filled with faith, I
- 1:17:34Speaker 1: don't know that those are things that you ever get
- 1:17:35Speaker 1: over right, But you learn how to continue to live
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: with them and process them, and eventually you get to
- 1:17:42Speaker 1: a place where the thought of it doesn't make you cry.
- 1:17:45Speaker 1: You can smile and go dang, I miss them. Please
- 1:17:48Speaker 1: protect your mental health. That's what I would tell you
- 1:17:50Speaker 1: about God. But I got a therapist. I do too,
- 1:17:53Speaker 1: I do too. I listen. I promise you. I think
- 1:17:56Speaker 1: that God gave us doctors for a reason. Yeah. I
- 1:17:58Speaker 1: actually got to referral very recently to go to somebody. Yeah.
- 1:18:02Speaker 1: I remember when you first got divorced, you were saying
- 1:18:05Speaker 1: how difficult it is dating because you had never really dated. No,
- 1:18:08Speaker 1: so how is it now? It's been some years, Jesus,
- 1:18:11Speaker 1: I don't like dating life in the twenty first century.
- 1:18:15Speaker 1: It's why in mental groupies too. Anybody do yce just
- 1:18:20Speaker 1: because you Kelly Price, Yeah, I didn't like it. I'm
- 1:18:23Speaker 1: off the markets. Yeah and happily so a lot of yeah. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:18:36Speaker 1: it was it. Dating was ikey. The very first date
- 1:18:39Speaker 1: that I went on. I laugh at it now, but
- 1:18:42Speaker 1: I was traumatized after that date. I thought the date
- 1:18:44Speaker 1: went well. I got home, I went out to dinner,
- 1:18:47Speaker 1: had great conversation, had a great glass of wine. I'm like, okay,
- 1:18:51Speaker 1: it's cool. I drove my own car. I didn't want
- 1:18:53Speaker 1: to get picked up. I don't need you to know
- 1:18:54Speaker 1: where I live in case you crazy. Um, and like
- 1:18:57Speaker 1: two hours after I got home. Thing, I look at
- 1:19:00Speaker 1: the phone and I'm like, whoa, really he's in a
- 1:19:02Speaker 1: penis station. Oh yes, girl, Oh yes. I was like
- 1:19:08Speaker 1: wait a second, no context, no nothing, no, what did
- 1:19:15Speaker 1: you respond or say anything? Like what I was? What
- 1:19:20Speaker 1: did y'all talk about? Oh? You trying to blame? I
- 1:19:24Speaker 1: thought we had really good, grown, intelligent conversation. Now did
- 1:19:28Speaker 1: you reply at all? What the hell? That could be
- 1:19:32Speaker 1: taken out of context though, Like that could be like
- 1:19:34Speaker 1: what the hell and taken out of context once they
- 1:19:38Speaker 1: were blocked though, Like I'm just you know, who does that?
- 1:19:41Speaker 1: That's no, that's crazy. Was it from the up angle
- 1:19:44Speaker 1: or underneath? I didn't. That's been about six years. Hey,
- 1:19:51Speaker 1: give him from grace. Grace. The grace was he didn't
- 1:19:57Speaker 1: catch a tongue lash. I'm talking about you know, I
- 1:20:07Speaker 1: could have picked my words better. How do you have
- 1:20:10Speaker 1: a vocabulary? Use it? So can you finish your thought
- 1:20:14Speaker 1: on why this area doesn't give grace? Earlier? You got
- 1:20:17Speaker 1: cut off a little bit. You know. I think that
- 1:20:19Speaker 1: we are living in a time where everything is so
- 1:20:22Speaker 1: right now, right now, right now, right now, right now,
- 1:20:24Speaker 1: and if you can't get it then this person can.
- 1:20:26Speaker 1: And if this person can't, then that one can. And
- 1:20:29Speaker 1: I think it's beyond microwave mentality. For I think the
- 1:20:33Speaker 1: two thousands, early two thousands nineties would have if that
- 1:20:36Speaker 1: was microwave mentality. This is something else. This is like
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: astro rocket juice. What like every the attentions when you're
- 1:20:44Speaker 1: talking about fifteen second videos and that's the height of
- 1:20:48Speaker 1: somebody's day, Like we want quick thrills, we have less
- 1:20:52Speaker 1: of an attention span. We were becoming harder to please.
- 1:20:56Speaker 1: We want more and more and more and more and
- 1:20:57Speaker 1: more dumbed down. And I think it has everything to
- 1:21:01Speaker 1: do with that. I think it has everything to do
- 1:21:03Speaker 1: with people not learning that process is necessary. And so
- 1:21:09Speaker 1: in all fairness to them, God help them. They they
- 1:21:12Speaker 1: don't extend grace to others, but they really don't know
- 1:21:14Speaker 1: how to extend grace to themselves. When you look at
- 1:21:16Speaker 1: people who have that kind of a mentality, there's also
- 1:21:19Speaker 1: a lot of self destructiveness there too. And I realized
- 1:21:23Speaker 1: that about myself. I can forgive somebody else, had a
- 1:21:27Speaker 1: hard time forgiving myself when I really sat down and
- 1:21:30Speaker 1: thought about you could have did this differently, You could
- 1:21:32Speaker 1: have did that differently, like your kids are grown now,
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: but you're listening to them tell you how this affected
- 1:21:38Speaker 1: them and why this and why that and why you
- 1:21:40Speaker 1: could have stopped that. That was a huge thing for
- 1:21:43Speaker 1: me to feel like in doing what I thought was
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: the best for them, it wasn't. No. And SIT's like
- 1:21:52Speaker 1: literally at the center of the places where they questioned themselves,
- 1:21:56Speaker 1: question relationships, have trust, you know issues. I'm like you
- 1:22:01Speaker 1: could you could have did something about that. Grace forgiveness
- 1:22:04Speaker 1: is it's important for us to know how to be
- 1:22:07Speaker 1: that to ourselves, because you can't really do it for
- 1:22:10Speaker 1: somebody else if you haven't practiced it. And people do
- 1:22:13Speaker 1: tend to be hard on themselves. But we also live
- 1:22:16Speaker 1: in a society where the beauty that we see being
- 1:22:19Speaker 1: put in front of us doesn't even exist. To allow
- 1:22:22Speaker 1: our culture to be infiltrated and then dictated to what
- 1:22:26Speaker 1: our beauty is supposed to be, To watch our people
- 1:22:30Speaker 1: deconstruct their bodies to only go back and build it
- 1:22:34Speaker 1: back up to be a not authentic version of what
- 1:22:38Speaker 1: you were already given. We let people get in our
- 1:22:42Speaker 1: heads and tell us your lips are too thick, your
- 1:22:45Speaker 1: noses are too wide, You know your booty is too big,
- 1:22:48Speaker 1: this is too that, and we drink the kool aid
- 1:22:54Speaker 1: and now we're watching it create eating this unattainable bar perfection.
- 1:23:02Speaker 1: You can't even get to that, it's impossible, but you
- 1:23:04Speaker 1: gotta get you when you make mistakes, we're not giving
- 1:23:06Speaker 1: nobody any grace. So it's just like, how do you
- 1:23:09Speaker 1: grow and evolved? Like my whole life I was taught
- 1:23:11Speaker 1: about growth and evolution to people I gravitated towards, whether
- 1:23:14Speaker 1: it's Malcolm x Maya Angel whoever. It was, yes, because
- 1:23:16Speaker 1: they evolved and they grew and we saw it. But
- 1:23:18Speaker 1: now it's like, Nope, you're not allowed to make any mistakes,
- 1:23:21Speaker 1: Like how do you live like that? That's not human.
- 1:23:24Speaker 1: That's why you got to filter out the noise and
- 1:23:26Speaker 1: at some point just silence everything. Learning how to be
- 1:23:30Speaker 1: still and sent to yourself is one of the best
- 1:23:33Speaker 1: things that anybody can do for themselves. And I'm not
- 1:23:37Speaker 1: even saying this to try to be funny. Listen to
- 1:23:40Speaker 1: all the voices in your head and figure out which
- 1:23:43Speaker 1: one is telling you the right thing. Ohay, Key Price,
- 1:23:46Speaker 1: Kelly Price, Well, let's let's get into a record right now.
- 1:23:49Speaker 1: What record you want to I want to play. I
- 1:23:50Speaker 1: want to thank you. We appreciate you for joining us.
- 1:23:55Speaker 1: Thank you. I want to thank you for having me
- 1:24:00Speaker 1: because we definitely need more grades breast as world. So
- 1:24:03Speaker 1: thank you for coming and sharing your story. And I
- 1:24:04Speaker 1: don't know somebody's gonna be inspired by your testimony. Well,
- 1:24:08Speaker 1: it's Kelly Price. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. What's
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- 1:24:52Speaker 1: We got a special guest on the line right now,
- 1:24:54Speaker 1: Robert Green. Thank you, Good morning everyone. What's uping my man?
- 1:24:59Speaker 1: You know you want to my favorite authors. What's happening? Oh?
- 1:25:02Speaker 1: Not much? What's going on with you? Thank you so
- 1:25:04Speaker 1: much for having me. I really appreciate it. What's this
- 1:25:07Speaker 1: book about the new book Yeah, the book that I'm
- 1:25:10Speaker 1: writing about is what I'm talking about, what I call
- 1:25:12Speaker 1: this sublime. I discuss it a little bit in in
- 1:25:17Speaker 1: the Laws of Human Nature, the last chapter about confronting
- 1:25:21Speaker 1: your own mortality, confronting the fact that your days are numbered,
- 1:25:24Speaker 1: and how you deal with it, and how you can
- 1:25:26Speaker 1: kind of turn the kind of worst aspect of being
- 1:25:30Speaker 1: alive into something actually very beautiful. And so I'm kind
- 1:25:34Speaker 1: of creating a new philosophy and a new way of
- 1:25:37Speaker 1: looking at the world. It's I hate to use the word.
- 1:25:40Speaker 1: It's a book that's a little more spiritual than my
- 1:25:43Speaker 1: other books, if you will, But it's something that I've
- 1:25:46Speaker 1: been wanted to write for many years, and then recently,
- 1:25:49Speaker 1: you know, with my stroke, with nearly dying, coming very
- 1:25:53Speaker 1: very close to dying, it kind of changed me in
- 1:25:55Speaker 1: some ways. So that's sort of basically what the new
- 1:25:59Speaker 1: book is. Well, no, why why do you not like
- 1:26:01Speaker 1: to use words like spiritual, Robert, I love words like spiritual.
- 1:26:05Speaker 1: I think this book is spiritual, but in a very
- 1:26:08Speaker 1: practical sense. I want to sort of literally change how
- 1:26:12Speaker 1: you look at the world around you and see that
- 1:26:14Speaker 1: it's actually intensely, awesomely beautiful to be alive, and it's
- 1:26:20Speaker 1: something that we don't think about, and how incredible it
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: is to live in the world that we live in,
- 1:26:25Speaker 1: which I think most people are just kind of walking
- 1:26:27Speaker 1: around sleepwalking. So it's spiritual in that sense, you know,
- 1:26:32Speaker 1: is that like I live every day like it's your
- 1:26:33Speaker 1: last A little bit, A little bit, yeah, I mean,
- 1:26:36Speaker 1: you know, I have a feeling when the stroke happened,
- 1:26:39Speaker 1: like I was actually dog I could feel it in
- 1:26:42Speaker 1: my bones that my life was passing and that things
- 1:26:45Speaker 1: were kind of melting from the inside. And then when
- 1:26:48Speaker 1: you have that feeling, it kind of makes you think
- 1:26:51Speaker 1: how insane it is to actually be alive. It kind
- 1:26:54Speaker 1: of reconnects you to a very primal way of thinking
- 1:26:58Speaker 1: about your body and about your just consciousness. That's so interesting, man,
- 1:27:03Speaker 1: because you know, I've been in a car wreck before,
- 1:27:06Speaker 1: I've had a gun pointed at me, and after the
- 1:27:08Speaker 1: fact you think to yourself, Oh, I could have died.
- 1:27:12Speaker 1: But you said you actually felt the feeling of life
- 1:27:15Speaker 1: slipping away. Yes, I did. I mean I was going
- 1:27:18Speaker 1: into a coma. I mean I was driving my car
- 1:27:20Speaker 1: when it happened, and my girlfriend was with me, and
- 1:27:24Speaker 1: she just told me that she ordered me to pull over,
- 1:27:27Speaker 1: and then I kind of slipped into a coma. And
- 1:27:30Speaker 1: as I was slipping into the coma, I had this
- 1:27:33Speaker 1: very strange feeling kind of going through my body. And
- 1:27:36Speaker 1: then you know, I was asleep for in a coma
- 1:27:39Speaker 1: for a couple hours as they operated on me, and
- 1:27:42Speaker 1: I also had kind of some weird visions as they
- 1:27:45Speaker 1: were operating on me. And I came out of the coma,
- 1:27:47Speaker 1: but it was a feeling literally of like your bones
- 1:27:51Speaker 1: kind of melting from the inside, that life was sort
- 1:27:54Speaker 1: of draining out of you. And then every now and
- 1:27:57Speaker 1: then that feeling will return to me in just odd moments,
- 1:28:01Speaker 1: just kind of in a flash, more often earlier on,
- 1:28:04Speaker 1: but still a little bit. Now, Wow, you know, I've
- 1:28:08Speaker 1: made this. I've made this a part of my daily repertoire.
- 1:28:12Speaker 1: I realized that all my affirmations you know today was
- 1:28:15Speaker 1: all about integrating. Are integrating the shadow work? Like leaning
- 1:28:18Speaker 1: into your shadow work? Yeah, the shadow side. So that
- 1:28:22Speaker 1: comes from the law of human nature, you know, confronting
- 1:28:25Speaker 1: your dark side. Right, So the shadow work is something
- 1:28:29Speaker 1: that I'm very interested in. When you talk about the
- 1:28:31Speaker 1: shadow side, what do you mean, Well, I mean that
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: everybody has a dark side to them, and I mean
- 1:28:37Speaker 1: everybody's single human being. And what that is is when
- 1:28:41Speaker 1: you were a child, when you were two years old,
- 1:28:43Speaker 1: three years old, you were like a complete human being.
- 1:28:46Speaker 1: You had all of these emotions. Some of them were
- 1:28:49Speaker 1: very positive and loving, but also some of them were
- 1:28:52Speaker 1: very negative and very aggressive. So you had this kind
- 1:28:55Speaker 1: of aggressive nature. And then slowly, as you get older,
- 1:28:59Speaker 1: you have to kind of tamped down the rough edges
- 1:29:02Speaker 1: of your personality. You have to learn how to get
- 1:29:04Speaker 1: along with people, and kind of this is part of
- 1:29:07Speaker 1: you that's very much active, and it was very much
- 1:29:10Speaker 1: a part of you when you were a child, gets
- 1:29:12Speaker 1: tamped down and repressed and it becomes your dark side.
- 1:29:16Speaker 1: And then if you completely ignore it, if you repress
- 1:29:20Speaker 1: it so deeply, it will come out later in life
- 1:29:23Speaker 1: in things that you in behavior that suddenly comes over
- 1:29:27Speaker 1: you that you don't know why it happened. You know,
- 1:29:29Speaker 1: you get angry at someone, you yell, you get even
- 1:29:31Speaker 1: a little bit aggressive, and then like a couple hours later,
- 1:29:34Speaker 1: you go, what came over me? What was that? That
- 1:29:37Speaker 1: was almost like somebody else inhabited my body, But in fact,
- 1:29:41Speaker 1: the shadow says, that is exactly who you are. You've
- 1:29:44Speaker 1: been trying to hide it for so many years, and
- 1:29:47Speaker 1: it leaks out in your behavior, And the point of
- 1:29:50Speaker 1: the chapter is to make you confront it, to make
- 1:29:53Speaker 1: you look at your dark side, to make you look
- 1:29:55Speaker 1: at your aggressive, ambitious impulses. You're slightly some time to
- 1:30:00Speaker 1: anti social tendencies, and I will just simply look at
- 1:30:04Speaker 1: it and find a way to integrate it into your
- 1:30:06Speaker 1: personality in the positive way. What inspired you to become
- 1:30:10Speaker 1: so involved in theories of like power, persuasion, and seduction,
- 1:30:13Speaker 1: Robert Well, Sha, I mean, the truth is, when I
- 1:30:17Speaker 1: first was contemplating the book, I was kind of a
- 1:30:21Speaker 1: little bit angry in the sense that I hadn't had
- 1:30:25Speaker 1: many many different jobs prior to writing books. And my
- 1:30:29Speaker 1: experience of the work world is that there were a
- 1:30:32Speaker 1: lot of people who were extremely manipulative in this environment,
- 1:30:36Speaker 1: very political, a lot of egos going on, and it
- 1:30:40Speaker 1: seems like this is kind of a natural aspect of
- 1:30:42Speaker 1: the human being that people want power, they want a
- 1:30:46Speaker 1: sense of control in their life, they want to be
- 1:30:49Speaker 1: recognized by others, and they will almost do anything they
- 1:30:52Speaker 1: can to get it. And I witnessed a lot of
- 1:30:55Speaker 1: this stuff going on, particularly in Hollywood, and nobody is
- 1:31:00Speaker 1: writing about it. I wanted to write the book that
- 1:31:02Speaker 1: I felt I wanted to read that nobody else out
- 1:31:04Speaker 1: there was writing, and kind of show the dynamics that
- 1:31:08Speaker 1: go on that make people who are powerful, the kind
- 1:31:11Speaker 1: of laws that they abide by, so that I could
- 1:31:14Speaker 1: help the little guy out there, like myself, people who
- 1:31:17Speaker 1: are generally naive, because I was quite naive, navigate some
- 1:31:21Speaker 1: of these very difficult political environments. You know, how do
- 1:31:25Speaker 1: you navigate in a world like that? And I know
- 1:31:27Speaker 1: you've spoken about identifying toxic people and making sure that
- 1:31:32Speaker 1: your radar is good, but sometimes I can identify them,
- 1:31:35Speaker 1: but then you still have to deal with them, like
- 1:31:38Speaker 1: you just said, in some way. How does that work? Well,
- 1:31:41Speaker 1: the most important thing in dealing with really talkic people
- 1:31:44Speaker 1: is to first recognize them, as you say, and then
- 1:31:46Speaker 1: if you have to work deal with them on a
- 1:31:48Speaker 1: day like they're your boss. You have to learn to
- 1:31:51Speaker 1: control your emotions, because what talkic people do. They learn
- 1:31:55Speaker 1: to play on your emotions and get you angry and
- 1:31:57Speaker 1: get you upset and get you the thinking about them
- 1:32:01Speaker 1: all of the time. And in that relationship, you were
- 1:32:05Speaker 1: the weak person and they're the strong one. They know
- 1:32:07Speaker 1: how to continually pull your streams. They can be like
- 1:32:11Speaker 1: a narcissist, can be very very passive aggressive. They always
- 1:32:15Speaker 1: make you feel like you were the one to blame
- 1:32:17Speaker 1: for some kind of problem when they're the ones instigating.
- 1:32:21Speaker 1: So a degree of detachment, the ability to stand back
- 1:32:25Speaker 1: and not get involved in their emotional games and tell yourself,
- 1:32:29Speaker 1: you know, I'm not going to this person is trying
- 1:32:32Speaker 1: to manipulate me. I'm not going to let them enter
- 1:32:34Speaker 1: my mental space. They can do whatever they want as
- 1:32:38Speaker 1: long as I have some self control, as long as
- 1:32:40Speaker 1: I remain true to myself and I recognize what's going on,
- 1:32:43Speaker 1: I'm not losing power in this dynamic. So that's I
- 1:32:47Speaker 1: think the key thing is to be able to step
- 1:32:50Speaker 1: back and have some emotional distance from them. I love
- 1:32:53Speaker 1: when you talk about change is law and how you
- 1:32:57Speaker 1: talk about you're not tied to a particular position. You'll
- 1:33:00Speaker 1: loyalty is not to a career, our company. You are
- 1:33:02Speaker 1: committed to your life's task to give it full expression.
- 1:33:05Speaker 1: Can you can you expound on that? Yeah? Well, your
- 1:33:08Speaker 1: goal in life, what I call your life's task, is
- 1:33:10Speaker 1: to realize what makes you different, what makes you unique
- 1:33:14Speaker 1: and So the problem in the world today is a
- 1:33:15Speaker 1: lot of people are running away from what makes them different,
- 1:33:18Speaker 1: what makes them unique, and they lose this contact with
- 1:33:22Speaker 1: what separates them. And so that's what you want to
- 1:33:24Speaker 1: be loyal to. The goal is to make a lot
- 1:33:27Speaker 1: of money right away, or you know, to be in
- 1:33:30Speaker 1: a hurry to make a lot of money. In fame,
- 1:33:32Speaker 1: the goal is discover what it is that you were
- 1:33:34Speaker 1: desstined to create. Wow, we appreciate you for joining us
- 1:33:38Speaker 1: this morning. Thank you so much. Oh it's a pleasure,
- 1:33:40Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you. Got a positive note for the people. Well,
- 1:33:44Speaker 1: the posotive note today is simply this. Remember that you
- 1:33:46Speaker 1: ask for growth, don't be surprised when life challenges the
- 1:33:50Speaker 1: f out of you. Okay, the price of growth is pain.
- 1:33:52Speaker 1: Thank God for it all. Breakfast you finish, y'all done?
- 1:33:56Speaker 1: Line should still sexy in