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Season 2 - Episode 84 - Co-Creating · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim. Every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the chicken coop.
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  Today we are talking about decisions, you, make and
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  co-creating and what that all means, big conversation, but
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  we're going to try to break it down, just a tad and see if we
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  can get some clarity on at least my beliefs of it.
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  Because I think I, you know, I have been exposed to lots of
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  different beliefs on this subject, and I think that, what
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  has I've learned, has served me and I want to share it with all
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  of you. So there is a debate, Going on
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  about, you know, people in the world will love to talk about
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  how they don't have choices. Things just seem to happen to
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  them and I am of the belief that sometimes things do happen.
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  You know, I was 10 years old and my dad had a heart attack and I
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  didn't have any control over that.
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  I had no control over that whatsoever.
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  However he had some control over that he didn't have to smoke.
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  He didn't have to eat the way he ate, and he didn't have to make
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  the choices he made for himself in those conditions that caused
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  his body, to get the way that it was.
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  Now, we could sit here and debate all day long if he
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  understood it, if he knew about it, if he was informed, did the
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  cigarette companies? Inform them back in the 70s that
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  this is, what was going on. Probably not.
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  But were there signs that he was not well.
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  Just he took high blood pressure medication.
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  Was he seeing a doctor for it? Yes.
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  Did a doctor? Tell him to stop smoking.
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  Yes. Did he continue to smoke?
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  Anyway, yes. So was I a victim of the
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  situation or was I a victim of his choices and you got to know.
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  I mean I'm talking about somebody that was my person.
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  My father was my person. I loved him more than I can
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  can't even explain. So this isn't about putting
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  blame on anyone. This is about.
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  Operating with awareness and the understanding of what choices
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  you make as a person affect other people in ways, when they
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  don't have anything to say about it, IE kids.
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  However, most adults have lots of different options and lots of
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  different choices. I think lots of things that
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  happen to you, when you're a kid but you're right, we don't have
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  a lot of control over those. What we do have control over
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  though, is what we believe about them.
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  We Have control over them, we can take that, you know, as an
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  adult and say this is what that event meant to me.
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  This is how I assign it or I can stay in that mentality of what
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  it brought to me and and suffer my entire life for something
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  that happened when I was a kid. And I am of the belief that we
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  have been given the universe has given us the ability to imagine
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  to create to have emotions and feelings that are Beyond.
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  Any other creatures that we know of, although there is some
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  debate about that because elephants and other animals that
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  are highly intelligent animals dolphins, have been shown to
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  have very similar types of capabilities.
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  We just don't know, the fullest extent of it yet because the
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  science hasn't caught up with it.
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  However, I'm a firm believer that, you know, anything is
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  possible and that's maybe that's true.
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  Anyway, back to what I was saying.
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  I think that We have once we have the awareness at whatever
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  age, that is whatever age, your awareness starts to develop, you
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  start to be able to create thoughts and push yourself
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  forward with them. So, if your awareness comes in,
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  I know when I was a child that awareness of him, almost dying
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  did change my perspective and did it make me a different
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  person? 100%?
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  Am I was I grateful for that. Yeah, really was And even though
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  my mother was so anxious all the time, my mother's anxiety,
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  helped me to learn anxiety. But what that did in turn was
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  help me to be a really, really driven person to get rid of it.
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  And it helped me to be a better Coach help.
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  Everybody else out of it. So, there are ways and
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  perspectives that you can attach to anything.
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  Now, could I have attached? I suffered from this when I was
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  a child and it was a terrible thing and I continue to suffer
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  for it. My all Life.
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  Yeah, but guess what? That's what the whole thing of
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  Freewill imagination. Creativity does for us, it gives
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  us the ability to co-create and I was not going to stay in a
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  mentality of a victim. I was not a victim of anything.
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  Nothing. I am I have the ability to
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  change what I believe and I think that's what's so
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  empowering about having this and that's why I'm talking about it.
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  I mean, is it a controversial subject to talk?
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  Talk about? Yeah, it is because some people
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  want to stay in that place of. Oh, this happened to me instead
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  of, you know what it happened. And I have a choice about what I
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  believe about it. I have a choice about what I can
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  take from it. I have a choice about how I want
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  to cultivate myself from this. Moving forward.
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  I don't have to choose to think that this happened as the phrase
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  goes. And again, the see, even this
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  phrase is controversial to some people, it happened to me.
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  Is is the way they choose, but the phrase that I always like to
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  say as well, did it happen for you or to you?
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  And some people get really into it, just pissed off about that
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  phrase because they're like, well how could it happen for me?
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  I mean, this is terrible, but those moments give you the
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  ability to shape its kind of like that whole thing about a
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  pearl does not form unless it's under the pressure of that
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  oyster creating it, a diamond does not form unless it's that
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  It's under the pressure of turning that coal into that
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  diamond and sometimes the pressure comes from the pains.
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  And sometimes the pressure is what we need.
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  Sometimes things crack Under Pressure, but I think the
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  interesting thing about human beings as we have the choice, we
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  do have the choice. We do have the choice.
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  So I'm just throwing it out there for some food.
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  For thought today, you have the choice about your situations
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  about what you believe about them and what you want to see
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  and what you want to focus on. On.
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  So you can co-create with the universe.
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  You can co-create with God and you can make decisions and move
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  forward in such a powerful way. So, I hope you have a great day
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  co-creating and I hope that this is helpful to you to hear some
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  different perspectives on this. And I hope you have a blessed
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  day. I'll see you tomorrow.
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  Bye.