Latest / Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge / The Judge Returns (RHOC Reunion Part 1)
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod, which Teddy Mellencamp and camera
- 0:06Speaker 1: judge to get through Fury Union. We needed a drink.
- 0:17Speaker 2: Well I can't drink, guys. Oh well, well it's probalypos.
- 0:25Speaker 2: It's just clear, although it was a clear liquid, right yeah.
- 0:32Speaker 1: True. Well, guys, I guess we already got started for
- 0:36Speaker 1: a second. But here we are another episode of two
- 0:39Speaker 1: teas in a pod and a sea, but this time
- 0:41Speaker 1: it's all three of us.
- 0:43Speaker 2: I know, I'm so excited to be back. It seems
- 0:46Speaker 2: like it's been forever. I am so glad that OC
- 0:49Speaker 2: is over with. I appreciate you feeling in for me.
- 0:53Speaker 2: You did an amazing job. Even though I didn't listen.
- 0:56Speaker 3: Thank you, I just didn't.
- 0:58Speaker 2: I know that, Teddy, I know that you guys were
- 0:59Speaker 2: doing your job. So I'm like, I'm diving it myself,
- 1:02Speaker 2: all ruffled up because I wanted to hear it.
- 1:04Speaker 1: But I saw.
- 1:04Speaker 2: Clips and heard from my assistant and all that that
- 1:07Speaker 2: you did an amazing job.
- 1:09Speaker 3: I get it. I get it, and I've had I've
- 1:10Speaker 3: enjoyed doing this. You know, it was fun watching you
- 1:14Speaker 3: guys this season, and you know, I thought was a
- 1:16Speaker 3: great season.
- 1:17Speaker 1: I'm good. Thank you. Well, I'm just so glad you
- 1:19Speaker 1: decided to grace this with your presence right during the reunion,
- 1:23Speaker 1: because that seemed effortless for you. Oh yeah, the.
- 1:26Speaker 2: Last month has been effortless, forming the worst month of
- 1:29Speaker 2: my life.
- 1:30Speaker 1: Okay, So first and foremost, Tamra just got out of
- 1:33Speaker 1: the hospital. How are you feeling? What's the update? Are
- 1:38Speaker 1: you on ozempic?
- 1:42Speaker 2: No, I'm not on ozempic Nope. So basically what happened
- 1:46Speaker 2: about three I can't even remember. I've lost track of time.
- 1:49Speaker 2: Three to four weeks ago, I got severely sick in Scotland,
- 1:52Speaker 2: severely sick. I'm like, this is how I'm dying. I'm
- 1:55Speaker 2: not dying because the trader is going to kill me.
- 1:57Speaker 2: I'm dying because.
- 1:58Speaker 1: I'm so sick.
- 2:00Speaker 2: And so I went through that. I rallied, I had
- 2:04Speaker 2: some days off, I rallied and went through with it.
- 2:06Speaker 2: I started getting these intestinal issues. Originally it was upper respiratory,
- 2:11Speaker 2: lost my voice, couldn't felt hard to breathe. I thought
- 2:14Speaker 2: I was ended up in a respirator. Then it went
- 2:17Speaker 2: to intestinal pain. I finished, came home and the pain
- 2:23Speaker 2: didn't go away, and it kept getting worse and worse
- 2:25Speaker 2: and then finally Eddy goes on Sunday. It was all
- 2:28Speaker 2: day on Sunday, doubled over pain between my rips. You
- 2:31Speaker 2: need to go to the hospital. Now, I have a
- 2:33Speaker 2: history of intestinal issues. I had a major emergency surgery
- 2:38Speaker 2: ten plus years ago. Well, evidently that surgery left me
- 2:42Speaker 2: with a ton of scar tissue and that's what's causing
- 2:46Speaker 2: my intestinal obstructions.
- 2:48Speaker 1: So did the surgery that you recently had, did that
- 2:51Speaker 1: help matters or did it make things worse?
- 2:53Speaker 2: Do you think, well, it took out a lot of that.
- 2:56Speaker 2: So the surgery I had last December was reconstructive surgery
- 2:59Speaker 2: from the surgery had ten plus years ago. He removed
- 3:03Speaker 2: a lot of the scar tissue. Removed the scar because
- 3:05Speaker 2: it was split right down my stomach, went right through
- 3:08Speaker 2: my belly button. My belly button was pretty much sewn up.
- 3:12Speaker 2: And he also found another hernia which was the size
- 3:15Speaker 2: of a quarter, so he sewed that up, which eventually
- 3:19Speaker 2: my intestines would have went through that and I would
- 3:21Speaker 2: they would have been strangled, and then I'd be in
- 3:24Speaker 2: the emergency surgery all over again. So fast forward to now,
- 3:30Speaker 2: this is an issue that I'm going to be having
- 3:32Speaker 2: the rest of my life. So there's scar tissue in
- 3:34Speaker 2: my intestines. The first time I had surgery, part of
- 3:37Speaker 2: my testines were dying. They had to and there was
- 3:39Speaker 2: a tear in it so they had to repair it.
- 3:41Speaker 2: So all that when you have abominal surgery, it causes
- 3:44Speaker 2: scar tissue.
- 3:46Speaker 3: So it started with a hernia.
- 3:48Speaker 1: It started.
- 3:49Speaker 2: It started with a hernia that would hiatal hernia that
- 3:53Speaker 2: I did not take care of, didn't know I had.
- 3:55Speaker 2: I was having some issues, but I went in for
- 3:58Speaker 2: multiple cat scans, ultra sounds. They couldn't find it at
- 4:00Speaker 2: the time.
- 4:01Speaker 1: Mind, is that stomach pain or like, what are the symptoms?
- 4:05Speaker 2: That is like severe pain between your your breastbone and
- 4:09Speaker 2: it feels like oh myr like yep, feels like heartburn
- 4:12Speaker 2: and digestion all that kind of stuff, but it's unbearable,
- 4:15Speaker 2: like you're doubled over. You feel like you're gonna throw up.
- 4:19Speaker 2: My intestines grew through that attached itself to the fat
- 4:23Speaker 2: the fashion on my stomach and they were being strangled
- 4:27Speaker 2: and they turned black. Oh god, yeah, so it it
- 4:32Speaker 2: was a whole thing. And so now this is something
- 4:36Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to deal with this time that I
- 4:38Speaker 2: went in it was a partial obstruction. Thank god. They
- 4:42Speaker 2: were able to put a tube down my nose into
- 4:45Speaker 2: my intestines and they were twenty four hours, actually thirty
- 4:48Speaker 2: six hours. They were sucking everything out. It wasn't fun,
- 4:53Speaker 2: but it worked. If it didn't work, then I would
- 4:56Speaker 2: have to go in and have surgery.
- 4:58Speaker 1: And do they think that they're there? Is it just
- 5:01Speaker 1: because of this has been going on for years or
- 5:03Speaker 1: do you think it was some sort of medication that
- 5:04Speaker 1: you had to take for when you were sick when
- 5:06Speaker 1: you're in Scotland or is it food related?
- 5:09Speaker 2: It's it's scar tissue related. So it's all scar tissue yeap,
- 5:13Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. But you got out without any surgery.
- 5:16Speaker 2: Now you're drinking clear liquids. Yeah, I'm on a special
- 5:19Speaker 2: diet for two weeks. I got to reevaluate my diet
- 5:22Speaker 2: in general, Like I have to stay away from like
- 5:25Speaker 2: really dark, greeny, leafy stuff. There's a lot of things
- 5:29Speaker 2: I have to stay with them.
- 5:31Speaker 3: I have so many questions that I'm going to ask
- 5:33Speaker 3: you off camera at some point, But thank you so much.
- 5:35Speaker 3: First of all, I'm so glad that you're okay. I
- 5:37Speaker 3: was so care on my feet. I was like wait,
- 5:39Speaker 3: what's happening? And thank you for sharing with us because
- 5:44Speaker 3: I always like to know, especially at this point, and
- 5:46Speaker 3: you know, as we're getting older, like what is to everyone,
- 5:49Speaker 3: and we have to be so careful and to stay
- 5:52Speaker 3: educated on like things that could be small things that
- 5:55Speaker 3: we think and they can you know, be in a
- 5:58Speaker 3: situation like yours because I think I actually we may
- 6:00Speaker 3: have a hernia that I have not had checked out.
- 6:02Speaker 3: So this is definitely going to get.
- 6:05Speaker 1: Into you have to.
- 6:07Speaker 2: There's so many different types of hernias. There's you know,
- 6:10Speaker 2: like in bilical hernias. This one was a hiatal hernia
- 6:13Speaker 2: thing it's called so it's up higher on your stomach, okay,
- 6:16Speaker 2: and if the and what happens is the hernia is
- 6:18Speaker 2: going to get bigger and bigger and bigger, and then
- 6:21Speaker 2: your intestines can grow through that hole and attached to
- 6:24Speaker 2: the inside of your stomach wall, which is could be deadly.
- 6:29Speaker 2: My grandmother died of intestinal issues. And I am most
- 6:32Speaker 2: like my grandmother in every single way, look like her,
- 6:35Speaker 2: act like her, everything, same size.
- 6:38Speaker 1: So we would have loved your grandma. Yeah, she was.
- 6:41Speaker 2: She was a spicy She was a spicy one.
- 6:43Speaker 1: Before we even get into talking about this two part reunion, which, wow,
- 6:50Speaker 1: where do you know? I let everybody know that you
- 6:53Speaker 1: had said the way that Trace and megas was done
- 6:58Speaker 1: prior is not something are comfortable doing? No? And where
- 7:02Speaker 1: are you now? Well?
- 7:03Speaker 2: I feel uncomfortable even talking about this because I when
- 7:06Speaker 2: I got back, you know, when Shannon got her DUI
- 7:09Speaker 2: I found out the day the day on air filming,
- 7:15Speaker 2: the day I left for Scotland. So I had sent
- 7:18Speaker 2: her a message, you know, and talked to her a
- 7:19Speaker 2: little bit, but then I was gone and my phone
- 7:21Speaker 2: was gone, so I didn't know what was going on,
- 7:24Speaker 2: you know, from for three weeks. After thinking about it
- 7:29Speaker 2: for a long time, I was thinking, like, this doesn't
- 7:31Speaker 2: make any sense, Like how do we go on and
- 7:33Speaker 2: do a show about pour some tequila on me? Like, yeah,
- 7:38Speaker 2: I'm not an enabler. I personally take this very serious.
- 7:42Speaker 1: I know because people are calling you guys the Trace enablers. Yeah.
- 7:46Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I have spoke my mind to them
- 7:49Speaker 2: about it. They want to get on a conference call
- 7:51Speaker 2: and discuss it. So I haven't gotten that far yet.
- 7:54Speaker 1: So is Vicky pushing for it to happen as well?
- 7:56Speaker 3: Yes?
- 7:58Speaker 1: Why doesn't she know that's going to look bad for Shannon.
- 8:01Speaker 2: I don't think it's a good look, but I'm open
- 8:03Speaker 2: to hear what they have to say.
- 8:05Speaker 1: Okay, what are your thoughts, Cynthia, Well, it.
- 8:09Speaker 3: Was just heartbreaking to see what happened to Shannon. And
- 8:15Speaker 3: you know one of the things.
- 8:17Speaker 2: That wait, what happened to Shannon?
- 8:19Speaker 3: Yeah, the whole thing with the d U. I think,
- 8:22Speaker 3: you know, with her.
- 8:24Speaker 1: Chammer's calling you out, like what Shannon did.
- 8:27Speaker 2: It's not what happened to hers, what she did.
- 8:29Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry, Well what she did? Okay, So it
- 8:33Speaker 3: was heartbreaking to see Shannon go through what she went through.
- 8:36Speaker 2: For sure, I think postponing it would be the best
- 8:41Speaker 2: solution to this. I know that the one thing is
- 8:44Speaker 2: is that we've I think we sold out five hundred seats,
- 8:47Speaker 2: so that's an issue as well.
- 8:49Speaker 1: I mean, I think, do you want to care if
- 8:51Speaker 1: Justin Bieber can reschedule a concert, the trace of Vegas
- 8:55Speaker 1: can reschedule like.
- 8:56Speaker 2: Well said, Well, I'm sorry, Well said.
- 9:00Speaker 3: I mean, does it work if you take alcohol out
- 9:02Speaker 3: of the equation. I mean, you guys could still have
- 9:04Speaker 3: a good time.
- 9:05Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, like I said, I don't want to
- 9:08Speaker 2: see too much because we haven't you know. I voiced
- 9:11Speaker 2: my opinion. They've heard my opinion, and we're going to
- 9:14Speaker 2: get on a on a Zoom Collors or Commerce Color
- 9:17Speaker 2: or something here and try to talk this through. So
- 9:20Speaker 2: if you guys have any advice, send it my way.
- 9:22Speaker 1: My advice would just be listen. There's nothing that you
- 9:24Speaker 1: guys can say or do to change my mind. I
- 9:27Speaker 1: understand why you want to do it, because when we're
- 9:29Speaker 1: struggling sometimes we search to keep ourselves busy and do
- 9:33Speaker 1: a million things to help fill that void. But all
- 9:37Speaker 1: this is going to do is cause you more pain,
- 9:39Speaker 1: and I can't be a part of it. I love you,
- 9:41Speaker 1: but I can't do it.
- 9:42Speaker 2: Honestly, right now, my life has been so busy, and
- 9:45Speaker 2: then I got home and I thought it was going
- 9:46Speaker 2: to be simple. Then I end up in the hospital.
- 9:48Speaker 2: Like I can only concentrate, like to Bravo con right now,
- 9:51Speaker 2: like getting my hair done next week in Bravo Con.
- 9:54Speaker 3: That's the only thing that I can healthier priority. I mean,
- 9:58Speaker 3: I mean period point, Bill, you just that that just
- 10:01Speaker 3: is the priority right now?
- 10:02Speaker 2: Yeah, and that that's exactly it. I'm I'm a yes person. Yes, Yes,
- 10:07Speaker 2: I'll do it. I'll do it, do it? And then
- 10:08Speaker 2: I think, oh god, what I say yes? And now
- 10:10Speaker 2: I've just learned, like I'm going to make myself the
- 10:12Speaker 2: priority and I'm not going to do something I don't
- 10:15Speaker 2: want to do.
- 10:16Speaker 3: No is a beautiful word. I am a people pleaser
- 10:19Speaker 3: and I say yes as well.
- 10:21Speaker 2: Well.
- 10:21Speaker 3: I used to be a people pleaser, and no has
- 10:23Speaker 3: been a very important word in my vocabulary for the
- 10:26Speaker 3: last year.
- 10:27Speaker 2: That is good to know. That's because Eddie's always saying,
- 10:29Speaker 2: stop saying yes to everything.
- 10:32Speaker 1: I say no to a lot of things you do.
- 10:33Speaker 2: You're good about that.
- 10:34Speaker 1: I'm like, now you can't do it, doesn't Yeah, And
- 10:37Speaker 1: I've learned a little bit from you too, I mean
- 10:39Speaker 1: you have your boundaries. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll do it.
- 10:42Speaker 3: I'll do it.
- 10:42Speaker 2: I'll do it. And then when I'm so overwhelmed, I'm like,
- 10:44Speaker 2: I can't get mad of it anybody but myself.
- 10:46Speaker 3: That's because okay, that's thenother important thing. Just even creating
- 10:50Speaker 3: boundaries and saying no, like all of that stuff works.
- 10:52Speaker 3: Is we like, you know, live our lives. It's just right.
- 10:57Speaker 1: Well, I think also a common misconception because you're so
- 11:00Speaker 1: tough on the show, like you you're so like in
- 11:04Speaker 1: it that you actually are a big softy. So the
- 11:07Speaker 1: second that somebody asks you to do something for them,
- 11:10Speaker 1: for sure, you want to do it.
- 11:12Speaker 2: Like if I want somebody I don't like, I'm like, okay,
- 11:15Speaker 2: I'll do it. Yeah, And what's wrong with me?
- 11:18Speaker 1: But I think I think ultimately, whenever somebody's really pushing
- 11:22Speaker 1: you to do something you don't want to do or
- 11:24Speaker 1: you don't feel as right, there's an ulterior motive to
- 11:27Speaker 1: it that's going to end up not only hurting them
- 11:29Speaker 1: but hurting you. Yeah, And that's why I would just
- 11:33Speaker 1: stick to this boundary. And I want you guys to succeed,
- 11:35Speaker 1: like even me and Vicky stuff apart, Like I watching
- 11:39Speaker 1: you guys go and do well is a win for
- 11:41Speaker 1: me to watch that happen, And I just think it
- 11:44Speaker 1: would backfire extremely.
- 11:46Speaker 2: That's what I'm concerned with.
- 11:59Speaker 1: One other thing I want to talk about when it
- 12:01Speaker 1: comes to know prior to getting into this recap, is
- 12:05Speaker 1: what is your thought processes on doing only fans with
- 12:09Speaker 1: your daughter?
- 12:12Speaker 2: That'd be a hard pass. No, you're not who in
- 12:16Speaker 2: their right mind is going to do only fans and
- 12:18Speaker 2: with their daughter their child? And what does that look like, well.
- 12:21Speaker 1: I don't know you were in the hospital. But Denise
- 12:23Speaker 1: Richards and her daughter posted a collab for OnlyFans and
- 12:30Speaker 1: has anybody seen this it?
- 12:32Speaker 2: What did they sucking each other's toes? Like, what the
- 12:34Speaker 2: hell is going on?
- 12:35Speaker 1: I don't know, Cynthia. I want you to come in
- 12:38Speaker 1: because I don't want to be like biased about this.
- 12:41Speaker 1: But she posted asking if let me see exactly what
- 12:45Speaker 1: she said. She posted asking if they should do another collab,
- 12:49Speaker 1: which must mean there's an original one, but I don't know.
- 12:52Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, and that's my question. What are
- 12:57Speaker 1: people doing?
- 12:58Speaker 2: Like when I think OnlyFans, I think it's like doing nasty,
- 13:01Speaker 2: dirty things on only fans, right, So.
- 13:04Speaker 1: I don't think it has to be It could just
- 13:06Speaker 1: be sexy photos.
- 13:07Speaker 3: Surprisingly, they have actually reached out to me. Okay a
- 13:11Speaker 3: few times me too. They reached out to me too,
- 13:15Speaker 3: So I'm like, I don't know who was like causing
- 13:17Speaker 3: the ability. I think she'd be great for only fans,
- 13:19Speaker 3: but in any case, they what they told me was, hey,
- 13:23Speaker 3: you know, you know you don't have to like be
- 13:25Speaker 3: like doing like anything crazy or porn or lick at
- 13:28Speaker 3: your toes or whatever. You could literally be making your
- 13:32Speaker 3: you know, banging potato salad on here, like I know
- 13:34Speaker 3: that they're trying.
- 13:35Speaker 1: To do you use the word banging in kind of
- 13:37Speaker 1: an awkward way.
- 13:41Speaker 3: Well it's a fodas, okay. But anyway, so I don't
- 13:46Speaker 3: know where it's at. I don't really follow only fans,
- 13:48Speaker 3: but I do see a lot of different people doing it,
- 13:50Speaker 3: and I love Denise. The only thing that concerns me,
- 13:53Speaker 3: and this is me not knowing a lot of information,
- 13:54Speaker 3: is the fact that you know it is anything sexual
- 13:57Speaker 3: at all period, Like bringing the daughter into that just
- 14:00Speaker 3: feels weird to me.
- 14:01Speaker 1: But what about like if it's just them posing in
- 14:04Speaker 1: the water and their bathing suits looking sexy. Does that
- 14:07Speaker 1: feel weird to you that people are paying for not
- 14:11Speaker 1: on the cover of like sports illustration.
- 14:13Speaker 3: The peg is on only fans makes it a little weird.
- 14:16Speaker 1: But yeah, I think for sure, for sure, Yeah, I
- 14:21Speaker 1: mean I think there's a tasteful way to do it.
- 14:24Speaker 1: But I think if people are paying to see you
- 14:26Speaker 1: and your daughter in that light, you know what their
- 14:29Speaker 1: ultimate intention is, and that's not to like put you
- 14:32Speaker 1: on a magazine cover and celebrate you in a positive way.
- 14:37Speaker 2: I mean, it all comes down to the context of
- 14:39Speaker 2: the picture. If it's them making potato salad in the kitchen,
- 14:42Speaker 2: go for it.
- 14:43Speaker 3: But if it's essexual doing it in a swimsuit in
- 14:46Speaker 3: the kitchen making potato salad, like, yes, just kidd.
- 14:50Speaker 1: You know, no, no, what now we're topless in the
- 14:53Speaker 1: kitchen making potato sees. Guys, this is actually we're not
- 14:57Speaker 1: We're not hating on anyone at this moment. We're just
- 14:59Speaker 1: announcing our first only fan shoe, which will be the
- 15:02Speaker 1: three of us and bikinis making Cynthia's famous potatoes salad.
- 15:06Speaker 1: It's seven dollars for the bundle and joint.
- 15:09Speaker 2: Listen, can we make it a little bit more money
- 15:11Speaker 2: than that? You make it fifteen so we each get
- 15:14Speaker 2: five dollars each.
- 15:15Speaker 1: Is that the math?
- 15:16Speaker 3: I was like, I'm curious. I definitely want to I'm
- 15:20Speaker 3: curious to see what the bottles actually look like.
- 15:23Speaker 1: Can you splurge, splurge, splurge on the seven bucks?
- 15:28Speaker 3: Let us know well, you know, I'm technically unemployed right now.
- 15:31Speaker 3: And it was like, I think you guys need to
- 15:37Speaker 3: order it and then let me know what and springs
- 15:39Speaker 3: out the photos to me.
- 15:43Speaker 1: Is good, I'm good, Okay, So we're now we're onto
- 15:49Speaker 1: the reunion and I call this reunion the Real Housewives
- 15:53Speaker 1: of Orange County and IMAX because I was blown away, like,
- 15:58Speaker 1: you look like I've never been to a movie theater before.
- 16:00Speaker 1: But when I walked when I saw you guys walk
- 16:03Speaker 1: in and they actually had the ocean, I was like, wow, Yeah,
- 16:06Speaker 1: I mean, let's talk.
- 16:07Speaker 3: About that for a minute.
- 16:08Speaker 2: That's actually the new studios by Amazon. So they're virtual
- 16:13Speaker 2: I don't know exactly the name, but it's Amazon Virtual
- 16:16Speaker 2: Stages and so it's a big round stage and we
- 16:21Speaker 2: had a set in the middle of sand, so the
- 16:23Speaker 2: set there wasn't much to the set, just sand and
- 16:26Speaker 2: a decking in our chairs, and then they flicked the
- 16:29Speaker 2: switch and it was like in real time. You it
- 16:33Speaker 2: was very distracting though you'd be sitting there talking you
- 16:36Speaker 2: see a bird flying over your head, you like, what
- 16:38Speaker 2: the hell is that?
- 16:39Speaker 3: But so cool.
- 16:41Speaker 2: I suspect we're going to see more of those, because
- 16:45Speaker 2: it's I feel like it it's easier, it.
- 16:48Speaker 1: Looks really good. Is that at the same location that
- 16:51Speaker 1: we used to do the reunions and they just know.
- 16:54Speaker 2: There's I think they're owned by Amazon.
- 16:57Speaker 1: Okay, now, at this point, Tam, me and Cynthia are
- 17:02Speaker 1: going to talk and then you just chime in if
- 17:06Speaker 1: there's something we missed or if you're mad at us,
- 17:10Speaker 1: or whatever it may be.
- 17:11Speaker 2: Oh, yeah for sure.
- 17:12Speaker 1: Okay, so it starts off with Heather's as I love that.
- 17:16Speaker 1: I'm looking at my rundown and like you're in every
- 17:19Speaker 1: single one of these paragraphs because truthfully, and this is
- 17:24Speaker 1: me saying, without you and without the dynamic between you
- 17:28Speaker 1: and Heather, I do not think this season exists. I
- 17:31Speaker 1: think we would have been back where we were in
- 17:33Speaker 1: Orange County three years ago. Yeah, for sure, because as
- 17:37Speaker 1: messy as it was at times, you can see a
- 17:39Speaker 1: true authentic friendship there.
- 17:42Speaker 2: And yeah, well I've always loved Heather and cared about Heather,
- 17:46Speaker 2: and Heather is she has a good heart, she is
- 17:49Speaker 2: a nice person. Do we agree on everything, No, we don't.
- 17:55Speaker 2: But we've have to cry at the end, Tam, I
- 17:58Speaker 2: started laughing when you did that about which part would
- 18:02Speaker 2: I cry about?
- 18:03Speaker 1: When you were like, I just.
- 18:05Speaker 2: Really wanted to be close friends, and I was like,
- 18:08Speaker 2: I think because I get emotional because this whole season
- 18:11Speaker 2: has been pretty tough on me, So it was really
- 18:13Speaker 2: hard on me to be accused of bullying and going
- 18:17Speaker 2: after her and ganging up when that's not entirely true.
- 18:21Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that makes sense. Well, Heather's asked about how
- 18:25Speaker 1: she feels about falling back into a friendship with Tamra.
- 18:27Speaker 1: She says Tarmra said something unkind about her every episode.
- 18:31Speaker 1: Tamra says she came in not knowing where she stood
- 18:34Speaker 1: with Heather. On Heather's podcast, she said there's no place
- 18:37Speaker 1: for Tamara on the show anymore. Heather says she wasn't
- 18:41Speaker 1: the one to say it and that she never told anything.
- 18:44Speaker 1: Andy confirms it. However, She also says she never uses
- 18:47Speaker 1: the word loser, and then we see her using it.
- 18:48Speaker 2: But that's not what Andy and Heather said.
- 18:52Speaker 1: What did they say?
- 18:53Speaker 2: So, her co host on the podcast had said there
- 18:58Speaker 2: was a whole conversation about me. This is before I
- 19:00Speaker 2: was even asked back to the show that if anybody
- 19:03Speaker 2: can come back, she wants Heather Alex Pelino to And
- 19:07Speaker 2: you know I wrote hard for her when she was gone.
- 19:09Speaker 2: I constantly did interviews, talk to Andy, bring her back,
- 19:12Speaker 2: bring her back, we need her, and she didn't do
- 19:15Speaker 2: the same to me. And then she went on to
- 19:17Speaker 2: say there was no, or her co host that day.
- 19:20Speaker 2: There's no place for Tamar on the show because she's
- 19:23Speaker 2: a blogger, which I'm not a blogger, remember if you
- 19:27Speaker 2: remember that? And Andy had said in to I can't
- 19:32Speaker 2: remember where he said it, but he said something on
- 19:34Speaker 2: the terms that, well, you know, it might be hard
- 19:37Speaker 2: to bring Tamra back because she has a podcast based
- 19:41Speaker 2: around the show. You know, the show is that's why shows.
- 19:45Speaker 2: So I had called him and I said, wait, did
- 19:47Speaker 2: Heather tell you that because she said something similar to
- 19:50Speaker 2: that on her podcast And He's like no, no, no,
- 19:54Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay, done, left and alone.
- 19:55Speaker 1: I don't even know why it was brought up at
- 19:58Speaker 1: the reunion. But then my question for you, Cynthia is
- 20:03Speaker 1: where do you think Heather and Tarma went wrong? As
- 20:06Speaker 1: a viewer. Do you think it was a power struggle
- 20:08Speaker 1: or do you think it was like past issues or
- 20:11Speaker 1: do you think Heather was so used to having everyone
- 20:13Speaker 1: kiss her ass and now Tarmra's coming in and everyone's
- 20:16Speaker 1: kissing her ass and she can't take it or what
- 20:18Speaker 1: is it?
- 20:19Speaker 3: Well? I think you know, when you are not asked
- 20:23Speaker 3: to come back to the show, you know that's difficult
- 20:28Speaker 3: to go through that process is because it's almost like
- 20:31Speaker 3: mourning a part of your life that is no longer
- 20:34Speaker 3: there anymore. So when you do get an opportunity to
- 20:37Speaker 3: go back to the show, it's like you do feel
- 20:40Speaker 3: a little displaced and you got to and you know, like,
- 20:43Speaker 3: obviously they're not asking you to come back to twitter
- 20:45Speaker 3: your thumbs. You got to come in somewhat hot because
- 20:48Speaker 3: if let you go, now you get an opportunity to
- 20:50Speaker 3: come back, So now you got to be like, you know,
- 20:52Speaker 3: you got to come in hot basically if you want
- 20:54Speaker 3: to continue to be a part of the show.
- 20:57Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean when they let you go and then
- 20:58Speaker 2: bring you back, it's because haws, it didn't work when
- 21:01Speaker 2: you were gone.
- 21:02Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true too. I would agree that you being
- 21:06Speaker 3: back on the show definitely was a huge part of
- 21:11Speaker 3: the season with that question, just even for the drama
- 21:13Speaker 3: and just all of it, Like you were like all
- 21:15Speaker 3: up in the mix, all up in the mixed. So anyway,
- 21:18Speaker 3: I think that's that's hard. So I felt like tim
- 21:20Speaker 3: Or you were like kind of came back a little like, well,
- 21:23Speaker 3: first of all, you know, I know you don't show it,
- 21:24Speaker 3: but I know your feelings were hurt and it like
- 21:27Speaker 3: I said that you didn't get to come back in
- 21:29Speaker 3: the first place. Now you're back. Now you got to
- 21:31Speaker 3: find your place and you got you also have to
- 21:33Speaker 3: come in hot, and you have to like prove that hey,
- 21:35Speaker 3: I'm an asset to the show. And then you got
- 21:37Speaker 3: to figure out how your friends are. You and Shannon,
- 21:39Speaker 3: we're going through y'all stuff. So that was like real
- 21:41Speaker 3: because that feels like your real, real friend on the
- 21:43Speaker 3: show to me. And I felt like you had to
- 21:46Speaker 3: juggle with a lot, and then you were sharing about
- 21:48Speaker 3: your dog and the gem and it was just a
- 21:51Speaker 3: lot going on. I felt like just watching it, you
- 21:54Speaker 3: were a little defensive and just kind of like focused
- 21:57Speaker 3: on I'm gonna get my ass back on the show
- 21:59Speaker 3: and stay on your well you don't want to, and
- 22:01Speaker 3: you didn't really show balance of you going through all
- 22:04Speaker 3: that other stuff. I didn't really see play out on
- 22:06Speaker 3: the show. So I could be like, Okay, she's going
- 22:09Speaker 3: through stuff, but she hasked to like she most secured
- 22:11Speaker 3: this job that she wants back.
- 22:13Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think coming back when it comes to
- 22:16Speaker 2: Heather her doing her podcast in saying you know there's
- 22:21Speaker 2: no place for me, and then her she also said
- 22:24Speaker 2: I'm just trying to I get it, she's trying to
- 22:26Speaker 2: stay relevant. I get it, she's trying to make a brand,
- 22:29Speaker 2: which I've been on TV for many years. I already
- 22:32Speaker 2: have a brand. A lot of things were said, and
- 22:34Speaker 2: I went back questioning like, is she really my friend?
- 22:36Speaker 2: I was told by multiple cast members that when she
- 22:39Speaker 2: came back, she said a lot of negative things about me,
- 22:43Speaker 2: So then of course I'm gonna question, like are we
- 22:46Speaker 2: not friends like we? I thought we were really good friends.
- 22:49Speaker 2: So there was a lot of questions in my head,
- 22:51Speaker 2: like who is she?
- 22:53Speaker 3: What does she? Does she not like me?
- 22:55Speaker 2: Does she like me? And I just went back or whatever.
- 22:58Speaker 3: Yeah, Well to your point, Tam, because even thinking about
- 23:01Speaker 3: you know, someone I'm not on the show. So even when,
- 23:04Speaker 3: like my castmates say, when people ask them, oh, who's
- 23:06Speaker 3: your ideal? You know six people that you would want
- 23:09Speaker 3: on a show like every time, and I'm not really
- 23:11Speaker 3: interested in being a part of the show. But it
- 23:13Speaker 3: still still feels nice to still be on the list
- 23:15Speaker 3: to me, Yeah, especially after eleven years of being on
- 23:19Speaker 3: the show, because you know, you know, they didn't keep
- 23:21Speaker 3: you on there all that time for nothing that you
- 23:22Speaker 3: contributed to the show.
- 23:24Speaker 1: But it is, it is.
- 23:26Speaker 3: It hurts your feelings.
- 23:27Speaker 1: It's a flat on the face when they don't say how.
- 23:31Speaker 2: In Howther's defense, we did have this conversation and she said,
- 23:34Speaker 2: you know, me and Alexis are going through some similar
- 23:36Speaker 2: situations right now, and that's why she said her it
- 23:40Speaker 2: would be nice to have somebody that can relate to
- 23:43Speaker 2: what she's going through.
- 23:44Speaker 3: Well, I think I think in those situations what I
- 23:49Speaker 3: do because people people always ask me like, who do
- 23:51Speaker 3: you think you know? When I was on the show,
- 23:52Speaker 3: who do you think you come back? Who do you think?
- 23:54Speaker 2: I hate that question.
- 23:56Speaker 3: I hate it so much. I always look at it like,
- 23:58Speaker 3: even if I'm not friends with you on the show,
- 24:01Speaker 3: I know this is your job. I don't want to
- 24:02Speaker 3: be the cause of anyone losing her job. Like I
- 24:05Speaker 3: was like, you guys don't right for the show anymore. Fine,
- 24:07Speaker 3: But I would never open up my mouth and say
- 24:09Speaker 3: I don't feel like this one should come back, and
- 24:11Speaker 3: that when she come back and this one didn't bring anything.
- 24:14Speaker 3: I would never never do that, and I always don't
- 24:17Speaker 3: like it when I see other people do it, because.
- 24:19Speaker 1: Yeah, well I think this is a good this is
- 24:21Speaker 1: a good point, which brings me to listen. I think
- 24:24Speaker 1: that Heather had an excellent reunion. I thought she I
- 24:27Speaker 1: thought she was well spoken, I thought she was funny.
- 24:30Speaker 1: I thought she had some good comments. I loved the
- 24:32Speaker 1: dynamic between her and camera. I loved that she riled
- 24:35Speaker 1: Emily up and Emily was like lost or cool. Like
- 24:38Speaker 1: all the things as the viewer were great, But the
- 24:40Speaker 1: one thing that really resonated with me was all of
- 24:44Speaker 1: the side conversation about the things that Heather said. Sounds
- 24:48Speaker 1: to me like she thinks she's producing the show, and
- 24:52Speaker 1: that's what bothered me, Like all the things that all
- 24:55Speaker 1: the women actually seem upset about, which like even the
- 24:59Speaker 1: comment between Emily and Gina shouldn't be so close or
- 25:04Speaker 1: this person or I can't do the show with this
- 25:06Speaker 1: loser or whatever it is. Like it seems to me
- 25:09Speaker 1: she's trying to do all of these things off camera
- 25:13Speaker 1: to try to make the show better. But like, you
- 25:16Speaker 1: don't have a producer credit and it's not your place
- 25:20Speaker 1: to coach the other women on how to be better housewives,
- 25:25Speaker 1: and that's not going to be received well if you've
- 25:29Speaker 1: actually been on the show. And I personally have been
- 25:31Speaker 1: coached on how to be a better housewife and you see, oh,
- 25:34Speaker 1: well that turned out right.
- 25:36Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing, like with all the stuff that
- 25:39Speaker 3: happens off the camera and then what happens on the camera.
- 25:42Speaker 3: This is why I love breaking the fourth wall. I
- 25:45Speaker 3: just think it's so necessary because there's so much stuff
- 25:47Speaker 3: that can't be explained if it didn't happen off camera
- 25:50Speaker 3: unless you unless you break the fourth wall. So I
- 25:54Speaker 3: just felt like watching Heather like we've all been there.
- 25:58Speaker 3: You know how many side conversations I've had with cast
- 26:00Speaker 3: members about like other cast members, like as soon as
- 26:02Speaker 3: we start filming, the phone starts ringing, honey, how it happened?
- 26:06Speaker 3: What do you think about this? I heard this, bring
- 26:09Speaker 3: this up on camera. I'm gonna go here, I'm gonna
- 26:11Speaker 3: go there. Like it's just the way the show works.
- 26:13Speaker 2: It's the nature of the business.
- 26:15Speaker 3: Totally one. But I think if you get hawk ye
- 26:21Speaker 3: than that are hell to the fire. You know, that
- 26:25Speaker 3: is when you just have to just take on the
- 26:27Speaker 3: shit and be like, look, you know what, I was
- 26:29Speaker 3: talking to all kinds of shit about this girl off camera.
- 26:31Speaker 3: She's not my kind of girl or whatever, because the
- 26:33Speaker 3: reality is, you know, there are organic relationships that happen
- 26:37Speaker 3: on the show. But for the most part, a lot
- 26:38Speaker 3: of you guys, I'll put together, I don't know that happened.
- 26:40Speaker 3: The people I was on the show with, I would
- 26:42Speaker 3: have organically been friends with them, had enough been on
- 26:45Speaker 3: the show with them. So it's what it is. So
- 26:47Speaker 3: with that said, I think that once it just seemed
- 26:51Speaker 3: like hew, they just kept you know, because she was like, oh,
- 26:53Speaker 3: I said it, but that wasn't my attention or I didn't.
- 26:56Speaker 3: I didn't mean to said that.
- 26:56Speaker 1: Web.
- 26:57Speaker 3: It's kind of like, Okay, been there, done it, get it,
- 26:59Speaker 3: but you still except on it. Look, I said it.
- 27:02Speaker 1: It was horrible.
- 27:03Speaker 3: I said it. I take it back, I'm sorry, and
- 27:05Speaker 3: just move on instead of all this, well you know
- 27:07Speaker 3: this then and the other. I think at some point
- 27:09Speaker 3: you's got to be like I got caught. Let me
- 27:11Speaker 3: just go ahead and.
- 27:12Speaker 1: Yeah, like we everybody talked about. And also it goes
- 27:15Speaker 1: like this, you may talk shit about somebody six months
- 27:18Speaker 1: ago and then your relationship has totally changed and now
- 27:21Speaker 1: they're one of your close friends. That when you have that,
- 27:23Speaker 1: I do believe that there is like a sisterhood. Yeah,
- 27:27Speaker 1: this like it doesn't matter how much time has passed
- 27:30Speaker 1: like even today, I sent Durit a text message. I'm like,
- 27:33Speaker 1: I need to know for Bravo con if this is
- 27:36Speaker 1: actually your list of people you chose as DUI's sheakhest Housewives,
- 27:41Speaker 1: cause I'm I'm I'm really I'm really.
- 27:44Speaker 2: Really confused on this one.
- 27:47Speaker 1: And she responded back in like three minutes. You know,
- 27:50Speaker 1: like there's always that comment like commonality where like they're
- 27:53Speaker 1: you're always going to have that relationship. But let's let's
- 27:57Speaker 1: let's move on to how Bryan was invited to the
- 28:01Speaker 1: reunion to come share his side of the story but decline.
- 28:04Speaker 1: Jen says that if Ryan were there to defend himself
- 28:07Speaker 1: to Tamra, he would just come across as an asshole.
- 28:10Speaker 1: Tamra says things shifted when Ryan cheated on Gins. Jen
- 28:13Speaker 1: calls Tamera a piece of ship friend. Tamra said, you're
- 28:17Speaker 1: a piece of shit, you cheater. And then do we
- 28:21Speaker 1: think Ryan should have come on and had a conversation
- 28:24Speaker 1: with Tamra at the reunion or not?
- 28:28Speaker 2: In my opinion, you guys got to know we made
- 28:31Speaker 2: up at the season finale. We were good, Everything was fine, okay,
- 28:36Speaker 2: So if he would have come on and explained himself.
- 28:38Speaker 2: I had no intentions of attacking him or questioning him.
- 28:41Speaker 2: I said what I said. What I said was one
- 28:44Speaker 2: hundred percent the truth, one hundred percent.
- 28:48Speaker 1: Why would Ryan come on to the reunion when he
- 28:50Speaker 1: can just comment continuously post the reunion on Instagram for
- 28:55Speaker 1: present engagement, and go on all these podcasts and try
- 28:58Speaker 1: to paint everybody in a certain light because the way
- 29:00Speaker 1: that I felt watching the reunion, and granted I still
- 29:03Speaker 1: don't one hundred percent get why any of y'all care
- 29:06Speaker 1: that Ryan's a cheater and Jens choosing to be with him,
- 29:09Speaker 1: because I think that's on her.
- 29:11Speaker 2: I would care if your husband was cheating on you
- 29:13Speaker 2: or Cynthia's husband was cheating on him on her, like
- 29:16Speaker 2: if you're constantly cheating, Like would you guys want me
- 29:19Speaker 2: to just go, oh, okay, that's good, But you wouldn't be.
- 29:22Speaker 1: Mad at me for it?
- 29:23Speaker 2: Would I wasn't mad at her for him cheating on her.
- 29:26Speaker 2: That's ridiculous. I was mad because of the lies. She
- 29:31Speaker 2: knew exactly what went down. We had conversations about what
- 29:34Speaker 2: went down. My advice to her when she joined the
- 29:37Speaker 2: show was there's a lot of stuff out there. Be honest,
- 29:40Speaker 2: and then Emily and Gina started bringing up her cheating
- 29:42Speaker 2: on her husband. I never brought that up. That never
- 29:45Speaker 2: came out of my mouth. That was Emily and Gina
- 29:48Speaker 2: and I set her down on camera. They didn't show it,
- 29:50Speaker 2: and I said, this is before the cup Fitness probably said,
- 29:53Speaker 2: my advice to you is to be honest, because if
- 29:56Speaker 2: you're gonna lie and say it didn't happen and make
- 29:59Speaker 2: up all these lives we've seen Star her story changes constantly,
- 30:02Speaker 2: you're gonna look like you're gonna look bad.
- 30:04Speaker 3: Just own it.
- 30:05Speaker 1: But the problem is she ends up looking good because
- 30:07Speaker 1: it looks like all of you guys are invested.
- 30:11Speaker 2: I don't know that everybody believes her story.
- 30:13Speaker 1: Well, I don't think anyone believes her story, but I
- 30:15Speaker 1: do think that because of the fact that it looks
- 30:19Speaker 1: like everybody's so invested and.
- 30:22Speaker 2: She should be thanking us, she actually had a season.
- 30:26Speaker 1: Well, but my question is, you guys are all on.
- 30:29Speaker 1: You're on her ass about not being one hundred percent
- 30:32Speaker 1: authentic about her relationship with Ryan. That being said, I
- 30:38Speaker 1: just have to ask. I know it was touched on
- 30:40Speaker 1: at the Union, but I need more information. Why weren't
- 30:42Speaker 1: you on Shannon's ass about John Jansen.
- 30:45Speaker 2: I think what happened was is when I came back
- 30:47Speaker 2: to the show, I had not been around John and
- 30:49Speaker 2: Shannon for two and a half years. I did not
- 30:51Speaker 2: know what the state of their relationship was at that time,
- 30:54Speaker 2: and so when you see me, they do a flashback,
- 30:56Speaker 2: which was a very unfair flashback was I was not
- 30:58Speaker 2: talking to the women of about her relationship. I was
- 31:01Speaker 2: as before me and Shannon even made up. I was
- 31:03Speaker 2: talking to Eddie two and a half years ago. The
- 31:06Speaker 2: relationship was not doing well. There was a lot of
- 31:08Speaker 2: fighting going on.
- 31:10Speaker 1: Now.
- 31:11Speaker 2: She did not open up to me. She told me
- 31:13Speaker 2: why we were filming, that everything was good. I went
- 31:16Speaker 2: to one dinner, two dinners with them as a couple.
- 31:19Speaker 2: They seemed in love. He talked about wanting to get married.
- 31:23Speaker 2: That's all I had to go on.
- 31:25Speaker 1: That's it.
- 31:26Speaker 3: Well, it seemed like for us, like watching the show,
- 31:30Speaker 3: it seemed like number one, like they kept, you know,
- 31:33Speaker 3: telling us that you and Jen were friends. But it
- 31:35Speaker 3: felt like on one hand, you were coming out of
- 31:39Speaker 3: concern about her relationship, and then it felt like you
- 31:43Speaker 3: just wouldn't let it go, and then it turned in
- 31:46Speaker 3: like it felt like you were angry at her. And
- 31:48Speaker 3: one of the things I always ask my friends in relationships,
- 31:51Speaker 3: you know, hey, if I see your man doing something
- 31:55Speaker 3: inappropriate or something and looks inappropriate, or I see him
- 31:58Speaker 3: with another woman and it feels like it doesn't feel right,
- 32:01Speaker 3: are you the kind of friend? Do you want me
- 32:03Speaker 3: to tell you? And I always ask that question because hey,
- 32:06Speaker 3: number one, everyone doesn't want to know everyone to keep
- 32:09Speaker 3: really good point, I'm the kind of person tell me,
- 32:12Speaker 3: tell me even think, and I will deal with it.
- 32:16Speaker 3: And I'm not going to throw you under the bus.
- 32:19Speaker 3: I'm going to take the information and do what i
- 32:20Speaker 3: need to do with it.
- 32:22Speaker 1: So what if they tell you yes, I want you to.
- 32:24Speaker 2: Tell me yes. And then when you tell then when
- 32:26Speaker 2: they when you tell them, they go after you as
- 32:28Speaker 2: a liar, Well then that's not right. It's okay, Well
- 32:31Speaker 2: they're my prop That's exactly what happened.
- 32:34Speaker 1: Well, I think also, I was talking to Emily about this,
- 32:36Speaker 1: and I hope I'm not throwing you under the bus, Emily,
- 32:38Speaker 1: but I was asking, truthfully, like, explain to me what
- 32:44Speaker 1: this obsession is between Ryan and Jen and all of it.
- 32:49Speaker 1: And I'm just I don't I don't care like, I,
- 32:53Speaker 1: as an outsider, I don't care what he's doing. She
- 32:56Speaker 1: wants to pretend it's not happening. No skin off anybody
- 32:59Speaker 1: else's They're not hurting you guys. And she said, I
- 33:02Speaker 1: think the problem is that he had never even met
- 33:06Speaker 1: her mother or anything until they started filming, and everybody
- 33:11Speaker 1: felt like this new found serious love towards her is
- 33:15Speaker 1: directly correlated to the filming schedule. Yep. And so I
- 33:22Speaker 1: think that's what's not being shown. And so because we're
- 33:26Speaker 1: not seeing that, we're not getting it, like we're assuming
- 33:29Speaker 1: people have embarrass people cheat, people like she Jen said
- 33:33Speaker 1: she didn't sleep in the same room with her husband
- 33:35Speaker 1: for two years. You know what, if I didn't sleep
- 33:37Speaker 1: in the same bed as my husband for two years,
- 33:39Speaker 1: I probably would leave him as well. And I don't
- 33:43Speaker 1: know who i'd leave him for. That being said, when
- 33:46Speaker 1: you add the level of fame to a relationship at
- 33:50Speaker 1: the beginning of it, when it starts out toxic, it's
- 33:53Speaker 1: not great.
- 33:54Speaker 3: No, But I love loved because I wanted Gen to
- 33:59Speaker 3: say this all season. I love that she finally was like,
- 34:04Speaker 3: if this is my shit, Sam whatever, she said, let
- 34:09Speaker 3: me eat it, And I was like, please, and at
- 34:14Speaker 3: a side of fries and watch it down with a
- 34:16Speaker 3: gender like I honestly feel like once, as her friend, Tim,
- 34:22Speaker 3: your only job to meet was to give her this
- 34:24Speaker 3: information coming from your heart, and what she decided to
- 34:28Speaker 3: do with it was on her and it just felt like,
- 34:31Speaker 3: I don't know, they just didn't show a lot of it,
- 34:33Speaker 3: the other ladies bringing it up time after time. It
- 34:35Speaker 3: just felt like you were really on her ass about
- 34:37Speaker 3: it a lot on the season that I want.
- 34:40Speaker 2: Yeah, and I know, and I regret it it. You know,
- 34:43Speaker 2: it took me back to a time in our friendship,
- 34:45Speaker 2: like when you talk about anger like I was mad.
- 34:47Speaker 1: I was mad.
- 34:48Speaker 2: I was totally mad. We had a friendship because she
- 34:53Speaker 2: came to my gym.
- 34:55Speaker 1: If you think she came to your gym because she
- 34:57Speaker 1: wanted to meet you because you were on the show.
- 35:00Speaker 3: Yeah, I liked Jen on the show. I actually liked
- 35:02Speaker 3: this entire cast.
- 35:03Speaker 2: To be honest.
- 35:04Speaker 1: Yeah, this show is great.
- 35:06Speaker 3: I mean I feel like she was a good fit
- 35:08Speaker 3: in a way because she wasn't a good fit and
- 35:09Speaker 3: it kind of made her a good Yeah.
- 35:11Speaker 2: No, I think she's I think she's great for the
- 35:12Speaker 2: show now. So back then she came because I did
- 35:15Speaker 2: a fitness competition. She wanted to do one, so we
- 35:18Speaker 2: trained her. I got to know her through the gym,
- 35:23Speaker 2: and then we went like we hung out a few times,
- 35:27Speaker 2: like we got closed. She came over to my mom's
- 35:29Speaker 2: seventieth birthday in October with her husband, you know, but
- 35:34Speaker 2: there was some issues after the Ryan stuff started, and
- 35:37Speaker 2: there was some old on.
- 35:38Speaker 1: I have a question. Sorry, I have to interrupt. Why
- 35:41Speaker 1: were you on a trip with Ryan and Cabo? Yea,
- 35:45Speaker 1: So we were.
- 35:48Speaker 2: So Ryan was going to our gym. We had no
- 35:51Speaker 2: idea that he was fooling around with Jen at this so.
- 35:54Speaker 1: They both were going.
- 35:56Speaker 2: So mind you, Jen and her husband were just at
- 35:58Speaker 2: my house right seventieth birthday Okay, Okay, So.
- 36:03Speaker 1: You and Jen were close when she was still with
- 36:05Speaker 1: our ex, not when she got with Ryan.
- 36:07Speaker 2: When she got with Ryan, things went sideways. Okay, ok
- 36:10Speaker 2: That's what happened, and then we didn't we we didn't.
- 36:13Speaker 2: There was no big blow up. There was a lot
- 36:15Speaker 2: of I'm so sorry, Tamer that happened at your gym. Like,
- 36:18Speaker 2: there was a lot of that going on, but I
- 36:20Speaker 2: had to put some distance. He was going to Cabo
- 36:24Speaker 2: and he had some Heather was going. Another one of
- 36:26Speaker 2: his friends was going, and he said to Eddie, Hey,
- 36:29Speaker 2: you want to go to Cabo. He had this free
- 36:31Speaker 2: private jet that was going out there. It wasn't his,
- 36:34Speaker 2: it was going out there to pick somebody up, you know.
- 36:37Speaker 2: And we flew commercial home and Eddie's like, I don't.
- 36:40Speaker 1: Know, you know.
- 36:41Speaker 2: And Eddie had broke his arm. He was in a cast.
- 36:44Speaker 2: It was, you know, a year or two into the pandemic,
- 36:47Speaker 2: and Jen is not there. Jen is not there, No,
- 36:50Speaker 2: and so we Eddie decides it was he decided. He's like, yeah,
- 36:53Speaker 2: we'll go. And I'm like, really, because I thought for
- 36:55Speaker 2: a million years he'd say no because we didn't really
- 36:57Speaker 2: know him that well. Very superficial. So we go and
- 37:02Speaker 2: we're sitting out by the pool.
- 37:04Speaker 1: Had you been fired yet? Yeah?
- 37:06Speaker 2: I was during the pandemic. Yeah, I was on the show.
- 37:09Speaker 2: So he sat at the end of his chair and
- 37:12Speaker 2: he started crying and he said, there's something I have
- 37:15Speaker 2: to tell you, And I said what. He's like, I've
- 37:20Speaker 2: been having an affair with Jennifer and I always called
- 37:23Speaker 2: her Gen, so I didn't know who was talking about.
- 37:24Speaker 2: I go who, He goes Jennifer PACHANKI, I go, she's married.
- 37:28Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, her husband found us, you know, I go,
- 37:33Speaker 2: just Will know. Yeah, her husband found us in the
- 37:35Speaker 2: car talking. And you never said that they had sex
- 37:39Speaker 2: in the car. She said that, which is very telling.
- 37:42Speaker 2: She said that I never said they were having sex
- 37:45Speaker 2: in my car. This is I'm just repeating what Ryan said.
- 37:47Speaker 2: He found us in the car.
- 37:48Speaker 3: She said.
- 37:49Speaker 2: At one point he was giving me. Yes, Will did
- 37:51Speaker 2: find us in the car. He was giving Ryan was
- 37:53Speaker 2: giving me a gift, is what she said. If you
- 37:56Speaker 2: go back to another episode. And at that point, Eddie
- 38:02Speaker 2: and I went up to our room, I go, do
- 38:05Speaker 2: not post any pictures, because if Will knows, and Will
- 38:08Speaker 2: knows that we are with Ryan, this just looks.
- 38:12Speaker 1: Bad for us. This all makes a lot of more sense. Yeah,
- 38:15Speaker 1: so I thought you guys were friends with Ryan and Jen,
- 38:18Speaker 1: and then you found out about Ryan and Jen with
- 38:22Speaker 1: him cheating on her with whoever. No, and that's why
- 38:25Speaker 1: you were this upset.
- 38:26Speaker 2: And I'm not saying that you know we were best
- 38:28Speaker 2: friends with Will. No, we weren't best friends with Will
- 38:31Speaker 2: our Jen.
- 38:32Speaker 1: You know.
- 38:33Speaker 2: It was like, hey, we're having a party, you want
- 38:34Speaker 2: to come over. Trained Will had sent me a message
- 38:38Speaker 2: after her fitness competition, which she won. She crushed it.
- 38:40Speaker 2: She did an amazing job. She put the work in
- 38:42Speaker 2: and he said, thank you so much for being a
- 38:44Speaker 2: good friend to Jen. I'm like, yeah, no problem, Like
- 38:47Speaker 2: it was, that's all.
- 38:50Speaker 3: It was like you guys, now you and you has
- 38:52Speaker 3: friends or not.
- 38:54Speaker 2: Well, you know, we ended the reunion and you know,
- 38:58Speaker 2: if you watch the peacock version and very so much
- 39:02Speaker 2: better guys at the end of it, and I've just
- 39:05Speaker 2: sent this clip, I you know, sit there and I
- 39:09Speaker 2: talk to her and I tell her, you know, I
- 39:11Speaker 2: hope we can move forward. Let's go to dinner, you know.
- 39:14Speaker 2: Evidently in a message on social media, she put on
- 39:19Speaker 2: that I was crying. She told one of my cast members,
- 39:21Speaker 2: I was hysterically crying, saying I was sorry, I wanted
- 39:25Speaker 2: to fix this. Never happened. That never hapt crying.
- 39:29Speaker 1: That you were never hysterically crying. But they did show
- 39:32Speaker 1: you when you guys, which I actually hate, and all reunions,
- 39:35Speaker 1: I'm sorry I do when they ask everybody like their
- 39:38Speaker 1: favorite part of what they're looking forward to the most
- 39:41Speaker 1: about next year? Right? Could she potentially be talking about
- 39:45Speaker 1: the point when you start kind of like cheering up
- 39:47Speaker 1: and you're saying you're looking forward to building a better.
- 39:49Speaker 2: No, no, no, she said. At the end of the reunion,
- 39:52Speaker 2: I came up to her and I know what she's
- 39:53Speaker 2: talking about. We were outside. They showed it on the
- 39:55Speaker 2: Peacock version. I invited her to dinner. I said, I
- 39:58Speaker 2: hope that we can put this past us. But she
- 40:01Speaker 2: went out there and made this whole, you know, exaggerated story,
- 40:04Speaker 2: and it's wish. She does a lot, So I tried
- 40:06Speaker 2: my best. I reached out to her after the reunion.
- 40:08Speaker 2: We had a couple of little small talks and I said, hey, listen,
- 40:12Speaker 2: my glam team is setting up a room at Bravocan.
- 40:15Speaker 2: You know, do you want to get in on this.
- 40:17Speaker 2: You have used both of them or one of them before, Like,
- 40:19Speaker 2: is this something you want to do? And I never
- 40:21Speaker 2: heard back from her. And then shortly after that I
- 40:23Speaker 2: went to Film Traders and then I got home to
- 40:26Speaker 2: a total shit storm where they were both going after me,
- 40:30Speaker 2: my husband, my son, like all this stuff, and I'm like,
- 40:34Speaker 2: this is the reamin hadn't even aired. This was like
- 40:37Speaker 2: they started this after the season finale where we were
- 40:39Speaker 2: good at the season finale.
- 40:41Speaker 1: I think she's leading the charge.
- 40:43Speaker 2: I don't know. I hope it's him not her.
- 40:46Speaker 1: What do you think, Cynthia, I mean, I don't know, Jim.
- 40:50Speaker 3: From what I saw from the show, she didn't seem
- 40:52Speaker 3: she seemed kind of passive to me. I just don't
- 40:54Speaker 3: see her like all of a sudden kicking into like
- 40:56Speaker 3: this whole.
- 40:56Speaker 1: Like you know, yeah, this personally like this.
- 41:01Speaker 2: And as far as her like coming onto the show.
- 41:04Speaker 2: When braun Win was cast on the show, they you know,
- 41:07Speaker 2: they often do like if you own a business, is
- 41:09Speaker 2: there any girls at your business that you think would
- 41:11Speaker 2: be good for the show. So this was five years,
- 41:13Speaker 2: I don't know how many years ago. So I had
- 41:15Speaker 2: given her name along with I think Tatiana's name, who
- 41:18Speaker 2: hangs out with Gina all the time, and a few
- 41:20Speaker 2: other girls, And so they interviewed her and she didn't
- 41:23Speaker 2: make it. Then you know, I got a text message
- 41:27Speaker 2: from her and we we weren't, like I said, there
- 41:30Speaker 2: was no huge blow up. We didn't hate each other.
- 41:32Speaker 2: We just kind of grown apart and I didn't really
- 41:35Speaker 2: want to be around that whole ship storm that she
- 41:37Speaker 2: was going through.
- 41:38Speaker 3: And she was had a relationship like t him when
- 41:42Speaker 3: you were off the show. Well, no, Jin just got
- 41:44Speaker 3: on the show. But were you and Jin still friends
- 41:46Speaker 3: like when you were off and she wasn't even on
- 41:47Speaker 3: the show, Like what is that like? What was that like?
- 41:50Speaker 2: Oh prior like the year prior to her getting Yeah,
- 41:52Speaker 2: when we were not that close at that point. She
- 41:56Speaker 2: was not coming to the gym.
- 41:57Speaker 1: I hadn't.
- 41:58Speaker 2: I mean it'd probably been much since I had seen her.
- 42:02Speaker 2: We I think there was like a farewell dinner for
- 42:04Speaker 2: one of our our members at our gym, and she
- 42:06Speaker 2: showed up and I hadn't seen her for a long time. Hey,
- 42:08Speaker 2: how you doing whatever? And it was very superficial and.
- 42:12Speaker 3: You guys were growing a friendship this It wasn't like
- 42:14Speaker 3: you guys were these best of friends and.
- 42:16Speaker 1: No, no, no, we were better friends before when she
- 42:19Speaker 1: was married.
- 42:20Speaker 2: So so basically she had texted me. I remember I
- 42:23Speaker 2: was sitting in the parking lot dropped my daughter off
- 42:25Speaker 2: at work one day and she said, Hey, can you
- 42:28Speaker 2: call me? The producers have reached out to me. And
- 42:32Speaker 2: I had been reached out at that point as well,
- 42:35Speaker 2: and so she called me and I said, so what's
- 42:38Speaker 2: going on. She's like, yeah, they reached out they you know,
- 42:40Speaker 2: they want me to try out for the show. And
- 42:42Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, cool like that do you want to do?
- 42:44Speaker 1: Do it?
- 42:45Speaker 2: Like I'm not going to stop you. And I said, well,
- 42:47Speaker 2: you know Eddie knows Ryan, and you know you've worked
- 42:50Speaker 2: out at my gym. So there is some you know,
- 42:53Speaker 2: natural organic friendship there, if you want to call it that.
- 42:58Speaker 1: And so that was it.
- 42:59Speaker 2: That's the conversation. And then she would call me randomly
- 43:04Speaker 2: and say have you heard anything? Have you heard anything?
- 43:06Speaker 2: And I'm like, no, I haven't heard anything. So it
- 43:09Speaker 2: wasn't me trying to get her on the show. I
- 43:11Speaker 2: wasn't calling production going you have to get this girl
- 43:13Speaker 2: on the show and nothing like that. I didn't even
- 43:16Speaker 2: I didn't even know if I was coming back.
- 43:19Speaker 3: Right right right.
- 43:31Speaker 1: Well. One of one of my favorite parts is when
- 43:34Speaker 1: you said one of my favorite lines, which is when
- 43:37Speaker 1: you say Texas.
- 43:39Speaker 2: And texts text. I was like, that's my girl, Tam.
- 43:42Speaker 1: She's like, I selling the Texas. I was like, damn,
- 43:45Speaker 1: we have talked about it. It is texts.
- 43:47Speaker 2: I don't think that I normally say that an everyday
- 43:50Speaker 2: thing because you you always say it Texas.
- 43:54Speaker 1: You'll say like text like it's texts. Yeah, no, you
- 43:58Speaker 1: said Texas, And I was like, oh my gosh, but
- 44:00Speaker 1: I start I realized, well, you.
- 44:01Speaker 2: Know, I don't really know the English language. Though that's
- 44:03Speaker 2: not no big.
- 44:05Speaker 1: Well me neither. But as we conclude episode one of this,
- 44:11Speaker 1: what do we think there's anything else? Like we definitely,
- 44:14Speaker 1: I mean there was a lot of Ryan and Jen stuff.
- 44:16Speaker 1: I feel like we got to just keep it moving
- 44:19Speaker 1: it is.
- 44:20Speaker 2: I'm not going to go backwards on this, like I
- 44:22Speaker 2: haven't said anything I haven't said on the show already.
- 44:25Speaker 2: I know that he's attacking me Eddie and doing all
- 44:29Speaker 2: this stuff. I'm not going to even comment on that, Like,
- 44:31Speaker 2: let him do his thing. He had his opportunity to
- 44:34Speaker 2: come to the reunion.
- 44:35Speaker 1: Well how did you feel when Andy brings up how
- 44:38Speaker 1: you said that Heather has not worked since the late
- 44:40Speaker 1: nineteen hundreds, and then Heather says to you, can you
- 44:45Speaker 1: imagine if I said to you, only nine years at
- 44:48Speaker 1: the gym, it's not equinox, how much money did you lose?
- 44:51Speaker 1: Like you handled it way better than I for sure
- 44:55Speaker 1: would have, Like, don't you think Cynthia?
- 44:57Speaker 2: Like I was like, like, first of all, first of all,
- 45:01Speaker 2: the whole thing about the nineteen hundreds was twisted to
- 45:05Speaker 2: the point of no return that never happened. Did I say,
- 45:09Speaker 2: did I say nine hundreds? I did, but I didn't
- 45:11Speaker 2: say in that context basically was happening.
- 45:13Speaker 1: It's like Texas, Yeah, it was, No, it was.
- 45:16Speaker 2: It was one of these things where Taylor wanted me
- 45:18Speaker 2: to pull it up and so because her scream was broken,
- 45:22Speaker 2: so I'm like here, and it was never done in
- 45:24Speaker 2: like a malicious way on my part, and there was
- 45:27Speaker 2: so much conversation that wasn't aired. She did all these
- 45:30Speaker 2: and I thought it was impressive. I didn't think that
- 45:32Speaker 2: it was belittling her career whatsoever. So when I said
- 45:36Speaker 2: nineteen nine nine, ninety ninety eight, ninety seven, ninety eight,
- 45:38Speaker 2: and I said nineteen hundreds, at one point didn't even
- 45:42Speaker 2: know I said it, did not even know I said
- 45:45Speaker 2: it until the producer told me. And so then it
- 45:49Speaker 2: was like we started laughing because I said it not
- 45:52Speaker 2: at her career, but the fact that I said it,
- 45:54Speaker 2: that was it. Yeah, it was barely It was really
- 45:58Speaker 2: hard for me to explain that without breaking the fourth
- 46:02Speaker 2: wall or you know what I mean.
- 46:04Speaker 1: On the show.
- 46:05Speaker 3: Yeah, they definitely made it in a moment that was
- 46:07Speaker 3: bigger than probably what it was.
- 46:08Speaker 2: It was a moment that wasn't a moment.
- 46:10Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but last it took close out episode one.
- 46:14Speaker 1: At last year's reunion, Shannon told Gina that she would
- 46:17Speaker 1: never bring up the dui ever again. Shannon says she
- 46:20Speaker 1: does not remember bringing it up. She was drunk and
- 46:23Speaker 1: mad at Gina. Gina asked Shannon what her children's names are.
- 46:26Speaker 1: Shannon says Sianna and can't remember the others. Gina says,
- 46:29Speaker 1: you've known me for six years and you don't even
- 46:31Speaker 1: know their names. Gina says that Shannon is worried about
- 46:34Speaker 1: everyone else talking about her own relationships, so she decided
- 46:38Speaker 1: to make things up about her children. Slash cps. Should
- 46:42Speaker 1: Shannon be able to name all of Gina's kids and
- 46:45Speaker 1: is blaming alcohol a poor way out of apologizing.
- 46:50Speaker 2: Listen, Gina has been on the show for five years.
- 46:54Speaker 2: I've met her kids once, maybe twice. I don't have
- 46:59Speaker 2: little kids, so it's not like you know Emily where
- 47:01Speaker 2: their kids will pare?
- 47:02Speaker 1: I mean, tamer what are my kids' names?
- 47:06Speaker 2: Let me think now? Hold on cruise slid duff Bella.
- 47:12Speaker 3: Okay, I don't have one what's my daughter's name?
- 47:16Speaker 1: Noela?
- 47:17Speaker 2: Noela.
- 47:17Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's one of those sorry loser Noel.
- 47:25Speaker 2: And it's one of those things like, you know, if
- 47:29Speaker 2: you're not hanging out with those kids and you're not
- 47:32Speaker 2: around them all the time, and if you don't have
- 47:33Speaker 2: a good memory, like I could see her not knowing
- 47:36Speaker 2: and then being put on the spot.
- 47:38Speaker 1: Do you think Shannon knows your kids names?
- 47:41Speaker 2: I would hope, so, I would hope.
- 47:43Speaker 3: So how many kids does Gina have?
- 47:46Speaker 1: Three?
- 47:47Speaker 3: She has three small kids.
- 47:50Speaker 2: They're all small kids. But you know, in Shannon's defense,
- 47:53Speaker 2: like she probably would have said it to me, I
- 47:54Speaker 2: would probably would have clammed up because I don't know
- 47:56Speaker 2: her children like that. Yeah, but also I I don't know,
- 48:00Speaker 2: I felt like at this point, but it was a
- 48:03Speaker 2: good move on Gena's part. It was an excellent Gina
- 48:07Speaker 2: must have been starving because she freaking ate Shannon up a. Yeah,
- 48:13Speaker 2: that was a great move on the chess board for
- 48:15Speaker 2: her because yeah, it was my chest mate. I mean,
- 48:17Speaker 2: Andy's face said it all.
- 48:19Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and that's kind of where I don't know,
- 48:23Speaker 1: but we've all been to a place like I know
- 48:26Speaker 1: I have. I've seen Tam or do it. I don't
- 48:29Speaker 1: know if you have, Cynthia, but at some point we've
- 48:31Speaker 1: blamed alcohol for our behavior. But when it becomes a
- 48:35Speaker 1: repetitive excuse, yeah, that's where it becomes a problem. Like
- 48:39Speaker 1: I still remember in Provence when I was a complete
- 48:42Speaker 1: asshole and said shit about Erica and the next day
- 48:45Speaker 1: I said to her, like, holy shit, I drank so much.
- 48:47Speaker 1: I don't even remember last night. No one will even
- 48:49Speaker 1: tell me what I said, but I know I hurt
- 48:50Speaker 1: your feelings.
- 48:52Speaker 3: But like if I said that, every week, yeah, you
- 48:55Speaker 3: basically get like two drinking passes per season, and then
- 48:58Speaker 3: after that they paint you to be an alcoholic pretty much.
- 49:00Speaker 3: If you're going to it, that's our show.
- 49:03Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean I think episode one was super juicy.
- 49:08Speaker 1: I appreciated everybody's effort. I also just had one final question.
- 49:16Speaker 1: Why was Heather allowed to wear black?
- 49:19Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 49:19Speaker 2: It's funny because when she she wears black any chance
- 49:22Speaker 2: she can, it's her color. But when she walked out,
- 49:25Speaker 2: Andy goes Heather black like that, like really, so what
- 49:31Speaker 2: she wanted to wear and she.
- 49:32Speaker 1: Got to wear it? Well, I do know that, like
- 49:34Speaker 1: when it comes to these things, you send pictures in advance.
- 49:38Speaker 1: It's not like it's just willing Milly.
- 49:41Speaker 2: Like you're you're saying, but if you want to be
- 49:43Speaker 2: forceful and say this what I'm wearing, they're they're gonna
- 49:47Speaker 2: say okay.
- 49:48Speaker 1: In a shocking turn of events, I never did that.
- 49:52Speaker 2: I mean, she looked great. I thought it was a
- 49:54Speaker 2: beautiful dress. Yeah, it totally f fit the beach vibe.
- 50:01Speaker 3: So no, she looked amazing.
- 50:02Speaker 1: No, everybody. I thought everybody looked beautiful. Yeah I didn't
- 50:06Speaker 1: look great.
- 50:07Speaker 3: I didn't love Jen and Gina's dress that I didn't
- 50:12Speaker 3: like their dresses that much, but I thought they looked great.
- 50:14Speaker 1: But apes are hard to pull off in general, especially
- 50:18Speaker 1: if you're my height. M Okay, but I did.
- 50:23Speaker 3: And I'm not saying this stammer because on this podcast
- 50:25Speaker 3: with you thought you looked really great. I thought it
- 50:28Speaker 3: looked amazing, and I definitely thought I thought Emily looked great.
- 50:32Speaker 2: Yeah, she looks really good.
- 50:34Speaker 3: And Shannon's look surprised me, but I was fine with Like,
- 50:39Speaker 3: I just I don't know what I was expecting.
- 50:41Speaker 1: From her, but I was like, oh, who Shannon Jane.
- 50:44Speaker 3: No, Shannon Eric Jane, I get it. I get it. Yeah,
- 50:49Speaker 3: this is fine.
- 50:50Speaker 2: I mean, listen, she took a chance. You know, that's
- 50:53Speaker 2: what fashion is all about, right, I love it. It
- 50:56Speaker 2: probably wasn't the best, but it wasn't the worst.
- 51:00Speaker 1: It was like the one time I took a chance
- 51:01Speaker 1: and wore a red lip. I still regret it to
- 51:04Speaker 1: this day. All Right.
- 51:04Speaker 2: I've taken lots of chances, and.
- 51:08Speaker 3: Don't don't start pulling on my reunion pictures. I mean,
- 51:10Speaker 3: I got it right a lot, but one or two
- 51:13Speaker 3: times I got it wrong are the ones.
- 51:14Speaker 2: I don't know why it's so difficult. It's like when
- 51:16Speaker 2: you're told you have like three weeks to find this
- 51:19Speaker 2: dress in a certain color. It's like, you know, we frantic,
- 51:23Speaker 2: and then we'd start looking and it's like, oh my god,
- 51:25Speaker 2: I can't find it.
- 51:26Speaker 1: Can't find it. Plus there's only like six places all
- 51:28Speaker 1: of us shop from it. And then you wear it
- 51:31Speaker 1: and then you're like, oh, somebody else has already done.
- 51:33Speaker 2: Then you submit it and they're like, no, somebody else
- 51:35Speaker 2: already submitted that dress off or Revolve.
- 51:38Speaker 3: And then the worst when you try to get something
- 51:40Speaker 3: custom and it just looks a hot miss.
- 51:42Speaker 1: I will never do that, never in my life. I'm
- 51:44Speaker 1: not tall, so there's no need for customs.
- 51:48Speaker 3: I've seen some beds.
- 51:54Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Well, be back to drop the episode
- 51:57Speaker 1: for episode two of Real Housewives of Orange County Reunion