Latest / The Manifestation Station / Ep 32. "Unlocking Your Daily Magic: Three Wins to Transform Your Life"
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- 0:07You're listening to the manifestation station podcast i'm your host holly edwards
- 0:13and together we can help create your magic,
- 0:21hey you gorgeous lot and welcome back to another episode of the manifestation station.
- 0:29I am back from my holidays
- 0:32didn't i just have the most
- 0:36glorious glorious trip
- 0:39it was just divine it was
- 0:42really good quality time
- 0:46with my partner and it's just
- 0:49what we needed it was one of those trips where you
- 0:53know when you sort of feel like you just don't do much at all we didn't want
- 0:56any planning we didn't want any alarm setting but we still we were waking up
- 1:03quite early we would go for a walk or we'd go to the gym I know you might be
- 1:08rolling your eyes going you went to the gym.
- 1:11When you're on holiday and I know it might sound really boring
- 1:15and really dull but when we were awake and
- 1:18if you know me and you follow me on
- 1:20Instagram or you've been listening to the last couple of episodes you
- 1:25will know that I have become a fan of the
- 1:275am club which has
- 1:30literally changed my life but one
- 1:33of the most important things in it is not always about the
- 1:36getting up at the five o'clock it's about moving first thing
- 1:39in the morning before your phone before you do anything and
- 1:43that's completely changed my mindset so whilst we're on holiday
- 1:46I wasn't setting my alarm and doing the 5am
- 1:49club but we were waking up naturally pretty early and
- 1:52even though we're on holiday we're like sod it should we just move our
- 1:55bodies we pop out for a walk but it was absolutely roasting
- 1:59the humidity oh my god we were in Dubai and obviously we've decided to go in
- 2:06peak summer as well and it was roasting so even if you went out for a walk at
- 2:106am you're melting so we'd just maybe go to the gym I would do half an hour on the treadmill maybe.
- 2:17And there's something just about moving your body in the morning this is not
- 2:22what the episode's about anyway by the way I'm just giving you a little bit
- 2:25of an insight into my holiday and I would just go on a treadmill and I just
- 2:30walk I just walk and you know what I was watching I was watching The Handmaid's
- 2:33Tale on my phone so I know I said I wouldn't be on my phone but I'm not doom scrolling.
- 2:38So it was just lovely. We had good quality time. We had good food.
- 2:42We weren't rushing anywhere.
- 2:43I didn't sit on my phone for long periods of time.
- 2:47Although if you did follow me on Instagram, you'll see that I kept filming my
- 2:52poor partner at the bar during breakfast. He was very much enjoying the champagne breakfast.
- 2:58And it became quite a funny thing actually.
- 3:00And on that note, my social media manager has basically told me I need to show
- 3:07more of me on social media, more of me and life.
- 3:11So I do apologize now because if you follow me on Instagram,
- 3:16you're going to be seeing a lot more of my life.
- 3:18So whether that's a good thing or a bad thing, I don't know,
- 3:22but it's what's going to happen. So I'm still going to be manifesting.
- 3:25But ultimately, I want you to see real life and what real life looks like.
- 3:29And, you know, finding the enjoyment in real life, the good bits,
- 3:33the bad bits and all the bits in between. So anyway, that was my holiday.
- 3:36I hope you're all having a lovely time. If you've got children...
- 3:40And you're in the UK we are now on summer holidays
- 3:43now maybe that means you are
- 3:46already run off your feet and you're exhausted and you're
- 3:50trying to feed the kids every five minutes because they
- 3:52want constant snacks or maybe this is a good thing because you
- 3:56get to go on holiday and get to have a bit of free time
- 3:59with your kids maybe you need to step away from your
- 4:02children for a while or if you don't have children maybe you're just
- 4:05enjoying summer and today you can
- 4:07just indulge indulge in a
- 4:10little bit of the manifestation station where
- 4:14this week on the episode we are
- 4:17talking about something that you can add into your life so easily and this episode
- 4:24is I'd like to think it is transformational and it's a practice that I like
- 4:31to call three wins a day so settle in I'm your host Holly Edwards.
- 4:37This is three wins a day. So this episode is for you if you're feeling overwhelmed,
- 4:44maybe stuck in a bit of a slump, you're at a crossroads or maybe just simply
- 4:50you're looking to reconnect with your goals without needing a full life overhaul.
- 4:55This isn't a huge undertaking but this is three kind of simple wins a day that
- 5:01is going to make your life feel so much Shhh, vunni það.
- 5:05And give you so much more mental clarity. So you know me, I'm all about keeping
- 5:11things really practical and down to earth and easily achievable.
- 5:16And that is one of my main things with the manifestation station and with my podcast.
- 5:22And when I'm coaching one-on-one, I am all about the most simplest shifts in your life.
- 5:30So simple that you cannot fail. You cannot fail and that's what this is about today.
- 5:37I'm going to show you how to create a powerful shift in your life using just
- 5:43three small intentional wins a day.
- 5:46One for your body, one for your mind and one for your soul.
- 5:51That isn't it. It is that simple, it's doable and it works.
- 5:55So shall we dive in? Shall we, shall we, shall we?
- 5:59Let's talk about the power of micro wins.
- 6:03Let's start with a question. So when was the last time you celebrated yourself?
- 6:07Now I did a podcast episode a while ago and it was about celebrating the small wins in your life.
- 6:13And actually it's a task that I often set for people.
- 6:17This is a bit more than this today, but let's start with this.
- 6:20When was the last time you celebrated yourself? And I don't mean for the big stuff.
- 6:25It's not launching a huge business or manifesting your dream home,
- 6:30even though that is something that we can do.
- 6:32But I'm talking like tiny wins, like drinking water first thing in the morning
- 6:37or stepping outside for 10 minutes of fresh share before using your phone or
- 6:42choosing a kind thought over a negative one.
- 6:46So these small wins add up in your day and they anchor us into a life that feels
- 6:53more intentional, more aligned, more grounded and fulfilling.
- 6:59So they give us a sense of progress, even on the days where things feel chaotic,
- 7:04unclear, or maybe you just feel a little bit lost.
- 7:09And the best part about this practice, the best part, you can start this today,
- 7:17literally today, with the three wins method. So we're going to break it down.
- 7:23Remember, it's physical, it's mental, and it's spiritual.
- 7:27So you don't need an hour for each one. These are small little hacks that you
- 7:31can kind of just slot into each of those categories.
- 7:34And some of the most powerful wins only take five or 10 minutes,
- 7:39maybe even less actually.
- 7:40So let's start with the physical.
- 7:43So this is about, let's, can I just reiterate for one second before I move on to physical?
- 7:48This is about having three wins a day that fall into those categories.
- 7:53So physical, mental, spiritual.
- 7:57Physical mental and spiritual so starting with a physical win now before you
- 8:03think I'm going to tell you that you need to maybe start training for a marathon
- 8:06don't worry this isn't as big as that we're not talking about getting in the
- 8:10gym and doing body pump you know three or four times a.
- 8:16I'm going to put a slight little side note in here because I've just had a memory
- 8:20about when I was in a really low place a few years back.
- 8:25And I was single, I was living in my flat and, you know, spending lots of money
- 8:31on bills and working all hours of the day.
- 8:35And I'd actually just been through
- 8:37a breakup and I was mid-30s and I was like, oh God, here we go again.
- 8:42Do I really have to start this again? Am I really doing this?
- 8:46And I was just in a really kind of, I was going to say reflective, but it wasn't that.
- 8:51I was just, I was really down in the dumps and a bit lost.
- 8:54And out of nowhere, I was, I think I was chatting to my sister actually.
- 8:59And she was like, do you know what? You just need to set a challenge, something for you.
- 9:03And on a whim that night out of nowhere, I rang up a charity to see if they
- 9:09had any charity places left for the London marathon.
- 9:13And I think this was about in November and the marathon in the UK London marathon is April and.
- 9:21They went actually we do we do have a
- 9:24place left and they talked me into it and I put the phone down and I'd signed
- 9:28up for the London marathon as a non-runner I was terrified I think I woke up
- 9:35the next day and I was like oh my god what am I doing but you know what all
- 9:40of a sudden my life my energy,
- 9:43my mindset had shifted.
- 9:46I'm talking like overnight because actually that first day I thought well I'll
- 9:50just put my trainers on and I'll go for a run and I'll see how far I can run
- 9:53and I think I could run kind of to the end of my road and up the hill a little bit.
- 9:58It was probably less than a mile and I was like oh I've got some serious training
- 10:02to do but you know what I trained,
- 10:04I did train and you're probably thinking well hold on a minute you've just told me to do small wins,
- 10:10a small physical win but I just wanted
- 10:13to kind of tell you that if you do set yourself a challenge as well something
- 10:18you know doesn't have to be as big as a marathon it could be your couch to 5k
- 10:22it could be going to park run on the weekend it will be so it could be something
- 10:27smaller which I'm about to go into but setting yourself a challenge is I don't know it's really.
- 10:34I kind of want to say like quite enlightening it's
- 10:37quite life-changing now but that marathon this isn't
- 10:41what this is about today but that marathon actually completely
- 10:45changed my life and it changed my mindset I wasn't thinking about the breakup
- 10:50I was thinking about my victories my how much better I was doing through training
- 10:55how I was kind of focusing my thoughts on my body and my strength and my mental strength as well,
- 11:03So anyway, I ran the marathon. I completed it.
- 11:06I was visualizing originally at the end that I was going to be dating someone
- 11:11and that they would be at the finishing line and that I would embrace them and
- 11:14we'd have this lovely like, oh my God, I'm in love again.
- 11:18And actually I wasn't with anyone when I did the marathon. I was single and
- 11:23across the finish line of my own, my family were there and that's exactly what I needed.
- 11:27And the reason it was, it didn't teach me, like it taught I don't need a man.
- 11:31I don't need my relationship.
- 11:33This is about me. And you know what?
- 11:36Later I met my partner and blah, blah, blah, blah.
- 11:39Anyway, this has turned into me running the marathon. It's not about that,
- 11:43but I'm just hoping that you may be inspired to go, I'm going to set myself a goal.
- 11:47I'm going to set myself a challenge. And maybe I'll do a whole episode on that
- 11:50soon. But let's get back to having a physical win.
- 11:54So what I was saying was you don't need to train for a marathon.
- 11:58But a physical win doesn't mean exhausting yourself at the gym or forcing yourself
- 12:04into a routine that you hate and maybe sometimes can't keep up with.
- 12:08It just means choosing something that reconnects you to your body.
- 12:13So you are making kind of a physical choice. So this could be.
- 12:18Let's think about some easy examples, some beautiful examples for physical wins.
- 12:24So it could be a 20-minute walk in nature.
- 12:27No phone, just you, your body, your senses. 20 minutes walk, even 10 minutes.
- 12:33Even 10 minutes will be a physical win.
- 12:36How about a real good stretch in bed first thing in the morning?
- 12:41I mean, like a real good, some yoga stretches.
- 12:44Really stretch your body. and this
- 12:47counts guys if you really can't get out of bed you do
- 12:50it in bed this is what I'm saying these are easy physical wins
- 12:53you are choosing a physical win so have
- 12:57a good old stretch in bed really feel
- 13:00your muscles kind of push them to like
- 13:03the biggest stretch you can do for your legs your back
- 13:06your arms and you won't be
- 13:08on your phone which is great how about dancing to one
- 13:12song in the kitchen while you're boiling the kettle most of
- 13:15you probably have a tea or a coffee in the morning so put
- 13:19on a tune put on a track and get
- 13:22your blood pumping just dance and
- 13:25move and that's one song that
- 13:28could be three minutes how about a 10 minute
- 13:32yoga flow do you know what you can do this in your pjs
- 13:35guys like sometimes i think people stop doing
- 13:38something physical because they're like oh you know I've
- 13:41got to put my clothes on I've got to get downstairs I've got put my
- 13:44trainers on to go out how about just a 10 minute yoga flow even if you're in
- 13:48your pajamas put YouTube on it just follow a 10 minute easy yoga flow this is
- 13:54where YouTube is your best friend there are so many quick you know 10-15 minute
- 14:00classes whether it's yoga it's stretching it's dancing.
- 14:04Just a very quick 10 minutes will be a physical win for your day.
- 14:09Maybe it's strength training and with your body weight for 15 minutes,
- 14:13that's like, you know, lunges, it's star jumps, things like that.
- 14:17Again, if you really want to, come down in your PJs, guys.
- 14:20But also, it's not always about moving. Now, I'm a big advocate for moving.
- 14:25I really think it does something to your brain in the morning.
- 14:28But choosing a physical win isn't always just about exercise.
- 14:32It could be something as simple as making yourself
- 14:36a nourishing breakfast smoothie or a
- 14:39really healthy breakfast maybe you're having your eggs and
- 14:42your salmon or maybe you're just having a really fruit good
- 14:45fruit smoothie packed with vitamins and nutrients
- 14:49that's a physical win sometimes it's
- 14:52just choosing something for your physical body
- 14:55that can be a win and it does something to your
- 14:57brain it clicks something in your brain where you go choosing myself
- 15:01and that's a physical win and you get to celebrate it
- 15:04so actually a physical win for
- 15:07me like so to give you an example and to give you an example of just a short
- 15:12sharp physical win last year i i was filming a couple of series of something
- 15:17in morocco because if you don't know this about me i designed the hair and makeup
- 15:21for film and tv so i was filming something in morocco we were working.
- 15:26Ridiculous hours and i had
- 15:29no time we were getting up in the dark we were getting up
- 15:32at four in the morning I didn't really have much time to exercise but
- 15:36I knew that moving my body in the morning and and
- 15:39getting this you know ticking off this physical wind would
- 15:42make me feel better even if it meant getting up 10 minutes earlier now I'm naturally
- 15:48naturally not a morning person however this 5am club thing has made me change
- 15:53my mind on that a bit but naturally I could easily go back to bed laying in
- 15:57the morning and stay up late at night however what I did in Morocco type.
- 16:02Was I laid out some
- 16:06workout clothes even if that was actually
- 16:09do you know what most of the time thinking about it I did it in my pajamas but
- 16:12if not I laid out some workout clothes but I'm talking like it was just a baggy
- 16:17t-shirt and a pair of pants guys seriously and I put my laptop on and I had
- 16:21a YouTube clip ready to go and it was kind of either I either had this YouTube clip which was
- 16:28like dance, it was like dance party for 10 minutes.
- 16:32Or I just put on my Spotify and I have an uplifting playlist.
- 16:36And I would put that on my speakers and play it quite loud. I had to be careful
- 16:40of any neighbors in the hotel.
- 16:41And actually some of my neighbors, the actors that were in the show,
- 16:44listened to this podcast. So I'm really sorry if I woke you up.
- 16:48And I would just put on, sometimes I had seven minutes, seven minutes to move.
- 16:54And sometimes I would play my music shake and I would just, you know that saying
- 17:00when they say dance like no one's watching, I would just bounce around, dance,
- 17:05clap my hands, like move, shake and I would just move my body, be in my own zone.
- 17:11I tell you what, if anyone saw me, I looked like a nutter.
- 17:14If anyone saw me, they'd be like, she has got no moves. I
- 17:17was like half asleep but I was really putting some
- 17:20energy into it and I would bounce and dance and sing and clap for seven minutes
- 17:25and that's all it was and do you know what it did it lifted my spirit it gave
- 17:31me a life of intention where I felt like I was picking that physical win for
- 17:36the day I felt accomplished and you know what also I felt.
- 17:40I felt like I'd woken up and I felt like I had the strength of the day and we
- 17:45would go to work and it would be in the morning and everyone was fueling themselves
- 17:48with coffee to try and wake themselves up.
- 17:50And I was like, I actually feel pretty awake, guys.
- 17:53I actually feel pretty good. So that was just seven minutes in the morning that
- 17:57was absolutely changing my day ahead.
- 18:00Now, the key to this, the absolute key is consistency over intensity.
- 18:08So make sure that whatever you decide to do for this physical win just keep
- 18:13it small keep it enjoyable.
- 18:16And if it's small and enjoyable it will always
- 18:19win over huge and unsustainable tasks
- 18:23unless you're doing your marathon which I'm tempted for you to do but it's it's
- 18:29small consistencies and that is what is going to stick it doesn't mean that
- 18:33you've got to do the same thing every day but choosing to have at least seven
- 18:36or ten minutes a day where you go I'm going to stretch today or I'm going to
- 18:41go and listen to my music and dance in the kitchen today.
- 18:43I'm going to go outside in my garden barefoot and do some yoga.
- 18:47Whatever it is, stick to it and stay consistent.
- 18:51So think about that today. What is your physical win for today?
- 18:56Part two up next is the mental win.
- 19:00This is one for your mind health. So if you think about it, we take care of
- 19:06our skin, our hair, our clothes. But what about the space in our brain?
- 19:11The mind is one of the most important things that we need to look after.
- 19:16And a mental win is anything that declutters your headspace and refreshes your thoughts.
- 19:24So let's look at some mental wins that you can try today.
- 19:27How about something like reading 10 pages of a book that inspires you or teaches you something?
- 19:34Just 10 pages. And do you know what will
- 19:37normally happen and this is actually I should have said this during the physical
- 19:40bit as well I'm saying do something really simple
- 19:43seven minutes a day you know but actually if
- 19:47you read your 10 pages of your book guaranteed you
- 19:50might go I'm going to read a little bit more because you're going to really enjoy it guaranteed
- 19:53that if you're dancing around for your physical win in
- 19:56the morning you might go I'm going to do another song because you'll
- 19:59be enjoying it and you've chosen your you've chosen your win
- 20:02and it's a bit like I want to I want some more of that so maybe
- 20:05just read 10 pages of a book that inspires you or
- 20:08teaches you something or even just a
- 20:11book I think reading in general great
- 20:14if it's you know a book like my future manifesting
- 20:17book which is going to be published something like that that teaches you something
- 20:20but even just picking up some kind of storybook because I think not being on
- 20:26your phone and engaging your mind is just absolutely so healthy how about try
- 20:32writing in your journal even if it's just one page or even just a few sentences.
- 20:38So you can give yourself journal prompts. If you don't know where to start,
- 20:41you don't want to just write feelings, you could probably Google it or I could do an episode on it.
- 20:46But something like, what do I want more of in my life right now?
- 20:50And then go with that. What do I want more of in my life? There is something
- 20:53about writing on paper, writing in a journal, your thoughts,
- 20:58your feelings, your wants and your goals.
- 21:01There is such a mental win in that.
- 21:04And it's something that I implore you to do. And sometimes I have my book or
- 21:09my journal sitting there and I think, oh, can I be bothered to write anything today?
- 21:13But as soon as I start writing, I just feel, I don't know what it is.
- 21:17It's like you feel accomplished.
- 21:19You feel like you get some mental clarity and that is your mental win.
- 21:24Another mental win could be turning off notifications or deleting an app for
- 21:29the day. Sometimes deleting an app or turning off notifications can really help
- 21:34to have like a digital declutter.
- 21:37So turning off notifications, one, you're not being bothered by your phone or
- 21:41just deleting some apps and kind of making your phone a little bit tidier.
- 21:44I also find, I haven't written this down, but in this category,
- 21:47also sometimes just unsubscribing to some emails.
- 21:51Sometimes I'll sit and I'll just do 10. I'll just do 10 and I'm like, I feel so good.
- 21:56How about decluttering one
- 21:59drawer or one space so you'd be
- 22:02shocked just if you declutter an area but
- 22:06something small this is not like right go through your whole
- 22:09wardrobe and pull everything out this is you know what I'm going to go and do
- 22:12that drawer that you know the drawer that we all have the drawer with all the
- 22:15batteries the pens the elastic bands the random I just love those drawers though
- 22:20they have everything don't they but how about you just declutter one just declutter
- 22:25one drawer or one space, you will be shocked,
- 22:29shocked, I tell you, at how mentally clear you will feel after that.
- 22:34How about for another mental win? You could listen to a podcast,
- 22:38maybe The Manifestation Station.
- 22:42Perhaps that will help you. But just a podcast, you know, just you and your
- 22:46podcast where one that makes you laugh or one that teaches you something,
- 22:51one that's inspiring, one that's self-help.
- 22:54Again, this gets you away from doom scrolling on your phone.
- 22:58It gets you away from whatever is going on in your life, the chaos,
- 23:02the kids, you know, the housework.
- 23:04Even if you listen to it whilst you're doing the housework, perhaps that could
- 23:07be a physical win and a mental one.
- 23:09How about one of my favorites is doing a brain dump. These are the best.
- 23:14It's basically a brain dump. Like if you go up and open your notes app on your
- 23:19phone, brain dumping before bed is really, really productive.
- 23:25It gives you mental clarity.
- 23:26It's writing everything down either in, you know, in your journal or your notepad
- 23:31or writing it down on your notes app. And it's just brain dumping.
- 23:36List all the things that are bothering you or all of the things that you need
- 23:40to do, maybe that you need to achieve the next day.
- 23:44Offload it. Pop it onto paper. pop it onto your note app and that's a way of
- 23:50offloading and that is a mental win.
- 23:52How about replacing one complaint with a compliment?
- 23:57So even if that's just mentally, if you're going to complain about something,
- 24:01maybe just stop and give a compliment or think of something positive to counteract that.
- 24:07All of these are mental win examples and it's important that you get this physical
- 24:12win, your mental win and your spiritual win.
- 24:16One of my favourite mental wins recently is about having a break from my phone,
- 24:21whether that's a 10 minute screen break or longer.
- 24:25And what I've actually been doing is that I've been trying to leave my phone
- 24:29in another area of the house or if I'm working, I leave it somewhere so that
- 24:34it's not with me all the time.
- 24:35Now, I actually have my phone on a rope that I wear, you know, around my neck.
- 24:41And it's funny isn't it because when you think about it you're like it's burdened you
- 24:44have this phone around your neck but I just always find it handy but
- 24:47what I've been trying to do is that if I'm working I write my
- 24:50book or even if I'm watching the telly I try to leave it somewhere else now
- 24:55and it gives me a break from that phone and oh I cannot tell you what it's done
- 25:01for my mental well-being and I think you know because I use Instagram a lot
- 25:06I'm you know I'm content creating as well at the moment.
- 25:09You can find that actually you spend an awful lot of time on your phone and
- 25:12I don't think that's always healthy.
- 25:14The phone is great, social media is fantastic.
- 25:18But being on it all the time, just, I don't know, it kind of makes you feel a little bit low.
- 25:22So I've just found it just gives me headspace.
- 25:26It gives me time to breathe, move, write freely without my phone,
- 25:32without doing scrolling, without getting distracted by a message or a notification.
- 25:36Give that a go. And, you know, another really underrated mental win that we
- 25:42haven't mentioned is laughing.
- 25:45Honestly you know like really really laughing
- 25:48whether even that means I don't know what
- 25:51will make you really laugh even if that means watching a really funny reel
- 25:54now I know that means back on your phone but it's just something to induce a
- 25:58bit of laughter maybe call that one friend who always cracks you up laughter
- 26:03resets your nervous system so it's like magic so again that could be a mental
- 26:08win you see a friend for coffee you have a good old laugh and that's your mental win for the day.
- 26:13So tell me this guys, what is your mental win going to be for today?
- 26:20So last but definitely not least is the spiritual win.
- 26:25This one is all about reconnecting with your inner self, your intuition,
- 26:31the quiet part of you that knows you're already worthy, already loved and already aligned.
- 26:39So spirituality looks different for everyone.
- 26:43Let's expand the list just, you know, beyond meditation.
- 26:47So here are some examples of some beautiful spiritual wins that you could do today.
- 26:53Maybe that's saying some positive affirmations in the mirror with intentions.
- 26:58Maybe I am safe. I am guided.
- 27:03I trust in the divine timing I am exactly where I'm meant to be I love that
- 27:10one it's one of my favorites if you don't really know what to use for an affirmation
- 27:13use that one I am exactly where I need to be right now.
- 27:19Another example is maybe practicing five to 10 minutes of mindfulness.
- 27:23That is just being present. It is just breathing and noticing.
- 27:30So maybe just sitting still and just practicing mindfulness.
- 27:35Maybe it's sitting outside in your garden or being outside, just looking around you, taking it in.
- 27:42I go for mindfulness walks. if you
- 27:45follow me on instagram or if you don't what are
- 27:48you doing i'm at the holly edwards and at the
- 27:51dot manifestation station so i
- 27:54sometimes practice mindfulness walks so basically what
- 27:57you do is you choose a color and you go on a
- 27:59walk and you have to look out for that color so i went recently for a red walk
- 28:04i walked you know around the block i probably went for about a half an hour
- 28:09walk and you spot everything that's red and what happens is that you start looking
- 28:13and spotting and it means that
- 28:15you are fully in the moment and it actually calms your nervous system.
- 28:20So you'll spot a post box and then maybe you'll spot some flowers or a red front door.
- 28:25And it actually feels really fun, but it's actually a really good way.
- 28:28If you struggle with mindfulness and you struggle to be still and be in the
- 28:32now, maybe that's a good idea for you.
- 28:35How about practicing gratitude? It's so simple.
- 28:39I've probably done so many episodes, I think, on gratitude and what gratitude
- 28:44does for your mind, your body, and for your soul.
- 28:47So just write down three things, big or small, things that you're grateful for.
- 28:52Maybe if you're a little bit more spiritual, you want to say a prayer,
- 28:58say something, speak to the universe, speak to God if you're religious,
- 29:01whatever that is maybe just kind of
- 29:04ask for what you need it's like asking and
- 29:07surrendering so sometimes I do this I'm like
- 29:10dear universe like help me out here this is
- 29:13what I'm feeling this is what I really need can you
- 29:16show me the way or like please help me like ask for help so again if you're
- 29:22religious that can be speaking to your god if it's if it's spiritual it's it's
- 29:26universe asking you know there's a higher power out there and it's asking for
- 29:30help another example is just listening to music for a spiritual win.
- 29:34Again, it's kind of falling into mindfulness. And I think a lot of this comes
- 29:38back to mindfulness, but maybe listening to music that shifts your soul and just your being.
- 29:43That can be as simple, that can feel spiritual. That can feel like you're awakening
- 29:48and it kind of taps into something.
- 29:51You could also, on this note, on a spiritual win, you could do yourself a vision board.
- 29:55You can make a vision board now that takes a little bit more
- 29:58time than you know seven minutes or ten minutes but
- 30:01if you're feeling like you want a spiritual win it could
- 30:04be your spiritual win for the week that you make yourself a
- 30:07fissure board put on everything that you
- 30:10want to attract into your life words that align with
- 30:12you pictures that represent the future you so
- 30:16making a spiritual board can really help tick this spiritual win or maybe you
- 30:21could just take yourself on a little walk and I like to do morning mantra walks
- 30:26so I walk slowly I take in my surroundings and I quietly repeat something like.
- 30:34I trust the timing of my life. Everything I need is already within me.
- 30:39This feels like a spiritual win. I'm tying it in with physical as well.
- 30:44It's a bit like habit stacking, which I've told you about before,
- 30:47is that you can kind of put a new habit onto another one that already exists.
- 30:52So you can have a morning mantra session whilst you're doing your walk.
- 30:55But I find that it changes the whole tone of my day.
- 30:59Just a morning mantra walk, saying out loud, you know, taking in my around is
- 31:04I trust the timing of my life. Everything I need is already with me.
- 31:08Spiritual wins are less about doing and more about being.
- 31:12So I want you to think about that. And I want to ask you now,
- 31:15what does your soul need today?
- 31:18What does your soul need today? And here's the thing about this whole practice.
- 31:23We've looked at the physical win, the mental win and the spiritual win.
- 31:28But here's the thing it's not about perfection
- 31:31it's about momentum it's just about doing it's a bit like the consistency that
- 31:36we spoke about earlier when you commit to these three daily wins even if they're
- 31:43imperfectly you're creating a foundation of self-respect of clarity and alignment.
- 31:51Honestly, it makes you feel like you have purpose.
- 31:55And if you're thinking, well, how these are such small little steps,
- 32:00honestly, try it and cut back to me because I guarantee you,
- 32:03it's almost like you're taking charge and saying to yourself,
- 32:07no, here is my physical win.
- 32:09Maybe your physical win is just drinking some more water.
- 32:12Maybe your physical win is taking a five when it was, whatever those things
- 32:16are, it's like you're taking control and saying, I'm the master of my own destiny.
- 32:21So it gives you this feeling of feeling grounded.
- 32:26And what happens next is you have this amazing compounding effect.
- 32:31So you start seeing results. You start feeling better.
- 32:36You start showing up differently.
- 32:39You become the kind of person who follows through.
- 32:42So these consistent steps, it means you become the kind of person who follows through.
- 32:48And you become magnetic. And people will ask you, what's changed with you?
- 32:53What's going on with you? And you know what? it's not
- 32:56a massive overhaul that you're undertaking it was tiny intentional
- 33:00daily wins so make it
- 33:03your own make these daily wins your own I
- 33:06want you to make this practice yours so I've
- 33:09given you some examples there but I want you
- 33:12to choose some wins that feel good for you what
- 33:15works for you not just what I'm telling
- 33:18you to do not just what Instagram tells you
- 33:21to do some days your spiritual win might
- 33:24be lying on the floor with your dog honestly having a
- 33:27moment with your dog that counts some
- 33:30days your physical win might be drinking two extra glasses of
- 33:33water that still counts you don't
- 33:36have to get it right you don't have to kick yourself if you didn't do something
- 33:42more you just simply have to show up that's it that's your challenge to show
- 33:47up so let's set yourself a challenge How about try three wins a day for the next seven days?
- 33:55One for your body, one for your mind, and one for your soul.
- 33:59All of those three subjects, three themes, three steps, they could take less
- 34:05than 30 minutes total in your day.
- 34:07They could take, I mean, even less, can't they? They could probably take less
- 34:11than 15 minutes if you really wanted to.
- 34:14But the shift is huge.
- 34:17So do let me know do let
- 34:21me know what wins you have today I would love
- 34:23to hear them whether you're listening to this in the morning you
- 34:27could do your three wins even if it's the evening I bet you
- 34:30you can still fit three wins in
- 34:33for today so give it a go let me know slide into my dms you know I love that
- 34:38and let's wrap this up for the day with a quick reflection ask yourself right
- 34:44now what's one thing I can do today to support my body what's one small thing
- 34:50I can do to unclear my mind.
- 34:54What's one small thing I can do today to feed my spirit?
- 34:58And let that be your guide. If you don't know what to do, let that be your guide.
- 35:02So I hope, I hope, I hope, hope, hope, hope, hope you have enjoyed this episode
- 35:07and that it has resonated with you.
- 35:09If it has, please send it to a friend. That's how we spread our kindness.
- 35:13Or screenshot your three wins for the day. Tag me on Instagram, slide into my DMs.
- 35:19If you could leave a review for the podcast, I will thank you forever.
- 35:23And I just love seeing you put these things
- 35:26into action guys and I want you to remember this you're
- 35:30not behind you're not too late you
- 35:33are one small win away from getting back on
- 35:36track if you're feeling lost this is
- 35:39for you if you're feeling you need some clarity on your
- 35:42goals this is for you if you feel like you want to just
- 35:45step up a little bit this is for you you want one small win away from getting
- 35:49back on track so until next time stay intentional stay inspired and keep manifesting
- 36:00magic love you lots goodbye.
- 36:03Music.