Latest / The Delicious Culture with Jon Francois / The Big Lebowski & Florida Man Are Delicious w/ Ephraim Herschmann
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- 0:00I live in South Florida. You're dealing with
- 0:01like Florida people. And like Florida people
- 0:03is a real thing. It's crazy to see it. You move
- 0:05down here, you're like, that's a real thing.
- 0:06Crazy Florida man stories were a part of my daily
- 0:09routine when I used to work in radio. The amount
- 0:11of crazy Florida man stories that I was given
- 0:13is insane. Hey, delicious, grab a plate and taste
- 0:22the delicious culture. I'm your host, John Francois.
- 0:24We are feasting on food, pop culture and lifestyle
- 0:26with a business development guru, educator, dad
- 0:30and husband, entertainment, nut and host of the
- 0:34come together with Ephraim Hirschman podcast.
- 0:36It's the one and only Ephraim. Hirshman, how
- 0:39you doing, man? I'm great, man. I'm so happy
- 0:41to be here, John. Thanks for having me. I can
- 0:43already tell this is going to be a great conversation
- 0:44because one, before we started recording, we
- 0:47connected on the fact that we have a busy day.
- 0:50We both have four podcast recordings to do. And,
- 0:55uh, can you tell me about like who you're recording
- 0:58today? And if you are already exhausted as I
- 1:00am, because like you're only recording number
- 1:03two. And I'm just like, Oh my God, I don't know
- 1:05if this apple and coffee is going to get me through
- 1:07the rest of the day. I don't know if it will,
- 1:11if it will either, dude, I think you need a.
- 1:13I don't know. I have four, actually this is my
- 1:16first episode that I got started with. I have
- 1:21another show I'm recording with half an hour
- 1:23after this one. And then I'm hosting a doctor
- 1:27in Canada that study, that helps with addiction,
- 1:31particularly with gambling. And that's something
- 1:34that... I've noticed that a lot of my friends
- 1:37and peers and colleagues all have enthusiastically
- 1:40been partaking in recently, you know, a lot of
- 1:43parlay bedding. I'm a big UFC fan, a big NBA
- 1:46fan. We've been seeing a lot of, and you know,
- 1:50throughout the years, the last couple of years
- 1:51I've seen a ton of my friends just begin to throw
- 1:54in these parlays, you know, I got three leg.
- 1:56bet on, you know, on Gagey Patty and whoever
- 1:59it is. And I got, you know, I got, you know,
- 2:01I got the heat winning tonight and I got bam
- 2:03with under 30 and it makes the game more fun.
- 2:06But I've noticed that it's kind of, you know,
- 2:07taking people up. So he and I were going to talk
- 2:10about that. And then and then I'm doing a solo
- 2:13episode after that. Every five, every five guests
- 2:16that I have on my show, I record a solo episode.
- 2:19Just to kind of check in with with the crowd.
- 2:21So that's the that's the for today and It'll
- 2:24be I'm sure it's it's already a lot of fun. So,
- 2:27I mean, I love this work. It's just you talk
- 2:29a lot, you know Yeah, you talk a lot and that
- 2:31could be both fun. It could also be energy draining
- 2:34But at the end of the day you focus on the fact
- 2:36that it's very fulfilling and that you do what
- 2:37you love. So I love that Yeah, no the gambling
- 2:40addiction thing. That is really an interesting
- 2:43discussion I mean, I've only like played the
- 2:46slot machines at a casino in Connecticut when
- 2:49I used to live there. Um, and I got lucky. I
- 2:52like, I think I won like 20 bucks or whatever,
- 2:54but like, I quickly knew that like, oh yeah,
- 2:58like the, I have a better chance of losing all
- 3:02my money than, than gaining money. So when you
- 3:05know how the gambling industry likes to take,
- 3:08take, take from you instead of give, give, give,
- 3:10uh, then, you know, to stay away from it. But
- 3:13you know, there are people that. uh, have probably
- 3:16won a good amount of times and they think, Oh
- 3:18God, like I could keep winning, winning, winning.
- 3:20I'm on a good luck streak. And then you've hit
- 3:22that moment when you're like, fuck, I just spent
- 3:25$20 ,000 and I can't pay my bills. Oh yeah. Oh
- 3:29yeah. Huge problem. I've always been too conservative
- 3:33with my, with my money. And I always think to
- 3:35myself like what I could spend 25 bucks in the
- 3:38casino now and just figure that I'm gonna lose
- 3:39it, or I could spend 25 bucks and get like three
- 3:42Guinnesses, you know, and have a great time.
- 3:44Or here's some live music somewhere and pay a
- 3:46cover charge. And that gives me three hours of
- 3:48entertainment. So I usually like to, you know,
- 3:51kind of lay it. But let me tell you, I mean,
- 3:53like... There is nothing like I bet Justin Gaethje
- 3:56at the White House fight who was the under six
- 3:58to one underdog or something like that, you know,
- 4:01and I just wanted, I just felt, you know, put
- 4:02five, 10 bucks in, see what happens and, and
- 4:05when it hits, you really feel like. You can't
- 4:07be beat. Like it's the dopamine is just incredible.
- 4:11So I'm not faulting anyone for it, but I do think
- 4:13it's I think it's interesting to study on a emotional,
- 4:16psychological level. And, you know, and obviously,
- 4:19you know, listen, I got I got plenty of vices
- 4:20myself, so everyone needs vices. But to, you
- 4:23know, understand where they're coming from and
- 4:25how to deal with them, I think is healthy. What
- 4:26are your vices, Ephraim? I'm curious. Talk about
- 4:30gambling. What other vices do you have that you're
- 4:33willing to share to our audience? Sure. Um, I'm
- 4:36a pretty enthusiastic pot smoker. Um, and, um,
- 4:41and I, and I used to really be into craft beer.
- 4:43Uh, you know, I loved, uh, stouts, barrel H stouts,
- 4:48but, uh, those got expensive quickly. And, um,
- 4:50you know, I used to drink IPAs and. I mean, when
- 4:53I say I'd probably have a beer a day, but these
- 4:56IPAs I've found out since becoming buddies with
- 4:58all these brewers are like, I mean, it's like
- 5:02drinking a loaf of bread every single time you
- 5:04drink one. And if you have a double or triple
- 5:07IPA or something like that, you get to eight,
- 5:09nine, 10 % alcohol. Part of the way that it gets
- 5:12that high in alcohol percentage is they have
- 5:14to dump in sugar to convert to alcohol. You know,
- 5:18a lot of times the reason why it's so sweet or
- 5:20the reason why it's so delicious, A, because
- 5:23it is, but it's like the equivalent to drinking
- 5:26one of these, you know, Dunkin' or Starbucks
- 5:27frappuccinos and thinking and calling it a coffee.
- 5:30You know what I mean? Right. You're getting a
- 5:32milkshake. You know, yeah, don't get me started
- 5:35on that. I mean, look, Starbucks, they make their
- 5:38drinks look so sexy, so delicious. It's I mean,
- 5:41yes, it looks like a milkshake. I love milkshakes.
- 5:43That's great. But as someone who has been used
- 5:46to drinking black coffee every day, you then
- 5:50go to a Dunkin or Starbucks and you get their
- 5:53version of coffee. And maybe you want to like,
- 5:55you know, treat yourself and have like a, you
- 5:57know, a whipped creamy caramel frappuccino macchiato
- 6:01latte. And... Yeah. Like you said, it's like,
- 6:05oh my God, you drink it and it's like 95 % just
- 6:08milk and whipped cream and sugar. Like you really,
- 6:13you at least for me, like it too, like sits in
- 6:16you, especially if you used to black coffee,
- 6:18you know, like I used to put stuff in my coffee.
- 6:21I used to do like the sugar and the, and the
- 6:23creamer and all that stuff back in the day when
- 6:25I thought I had to, to make coffee taste good.
- 6:27And what it ended up doing was just making me
- 6:31have to go pee like every two seconds. because
- 6:33of all, like, the sugar and stuff that was in
- 6:35it. And then I tried black coffee, and it's like,
- 6:38oh, not only am I, you know, feeling more of
- 6:40a, like, nice caffeine bitterness to wake me
- 6:43up in the morning, I'm not going to the bathroom
- 6:45as much. And when you're, like, I Uber and Lyft
- 6:48drive to pay the bills in Burlington, Vermont,
- 6:50and it's kind of inconvenient to go to the bathroom,
- 6:54like, every two seconds when it clearly interrupts
- 6:56your day. So, yeah, I get what you mean. I get
- 6:59what you mean. Have you ever tried throwing...
- 7:02Either lemon, like a slice of lemon peel, or
- 7:05a little piece of lemon in your black coffee.
- 7:07No! What sensation does that give? The citrus
- 7:11goes with black coffee beautifully. Having it
- 7:17iced is super refreshing, but having it hot with
- 7:19a black coffee, they really compliment one another.
- 7:22I'm a big fan of it. God, does it make me go
- 7:25poop any more than I already do? I wouldn't throw
- 7:30it in with milk, obviously. If you have your
- 7:33black coffee, you know, just like the way it
- 7:34is, I, you know, I'd have, you know, espresso
- 7:36pot, whatever you want to, whatever you use.
- 7:38Just throw a little lemon, a little lemon peel
- 7:42in. Makes a huge difference. It's really cool.
- 7:44Yeah, yeah, yeah. Wow. As for your other vices,
- 7:47um, uh, pot smoking and, and beer drinking. So
- 7:51the pot smoking thing, it's interesting because
- 7:52like for the, I would say a majority of my life,
- 7:56I just never like got into it. And then, um,
- 8:00it may have been, this was a guest that I recently
- 8:02recorded on the podcast, uh, someone from my
- 8:05old days in Connecticut, uh, that I used to work
- 8:07with and also briefly dated who was a very enthusiastic
- 8:10pot smoker then, and I think is now, and I think
- 8:13I smoke. a little bit of pot with her 10 years
- 8:16ago, and that might have been the first time.
- 8:18If not that, then definitely my wife when she
- 8:20was my girlfriend, and I would like, you know,
- 8:24stay over at her house with her friend and her
- 8:26friend, my god, she's, you know, the Seth Rogen
- 8:30of Vermont Pops, if you could believe it. But
- 8:35no, I mean, I got more into smoking pot with
- 8:39them. And yeah, it's nice and relaxing. I'm one
- 8:43of those people that it just makes me very sleepy
- 8:45very easily. Like just a little is hit. Um, I
- 8:49don't do it often. It's nowadays me and my wife,
- 8:52it's a rare special occasion thing. Like I think,
- 8:56uh, New Year's Eve, and maybe a few months ago
- 9:00when we had a free weekend and we just want to
- 9:02watch TV and relax like we smoke hot. So it's
- 9:04one of those things that we just do, you know,
- 9:06kind of rarely. But yeah, I get it. I mean, you
- 9:08know, people do use it for medicinal purposes,
- 9:10for relaxing purposes. It's a nice thing to have.
- 9:14Yeah, yeah, I mean I also I didn't start I'm
- 9:1730 now I didn't start smoking till I was probably
- 9:1924 25 so after I graduated college and Only always
- 9:24because when I was in high school all the potheads
- 9:27that I that that I'd known were You know they
- 9:30I mean, I'm not I'm not really too pro, like
- 9:33kids or teenagers smoking a ton of pot. There's
- 9:36a lot of data about how, like while your brain
- 9:39is still forming, it makes it a lot more of an
- 9:42addictive substance and it could have a little
- 9:44more of an impact than once your brain's already
- 9:45developed. And like when I was in high school,
- 9:48I used to see my friends, they used to scare
- 9:49me. They used to be like, oh, I can't do anything
- 9:51without smoking. And like these guys used to
- 9:52be cool and they used to get all these girls
- 9:54and then they used to be athletes and then they
- 9:56just stopped caring about anything. And I was
- 9:58like, oh man, I don't want to do anything to
- 9:59do with that. And then when I was in college,
- 10:01I had a bunch of buddies that lived in my apartment,
- 10:05you know, like a whole crew that lived in my
- 10:06apartment complex with me. And they were smart
- 10:10and funny and ambitious and massive potheads.
- 10:14And I was like, I didn't know that this could
- 10:16even exist, man. And, you know, and they're like,
- 10:19well, you know, we're just, you know, they're
- 10:21like, listen, there's, you know, just like there's
- 10:23different types of people in every kind of culture
- 10:25and every kind of world. You know, there's different
- 10:26there's different crews of this. And then I got
- 10:31introduced to The Big Lebowski, which is one
- 10:33of my favorite movies since then by the Coen
- 10:35Brothers. And, you know, that started like a
- 10:38five -year, you know, obsession with that movie.
- 10:41But, you know, you can't watch that movie sober.
- 10:43I mean, it doesn't even mean anything to anyone
- 10:45sober. And I tried. I tried. A decade ago when
- 10:48I lived in Iowa, I tried and I was sober. And
- 10:50that was my mistake because... Yeah. Like I love
- 10:53me some what's the actor's name? Jeff Daniels?
- 10:56Jeff Riches. Sorry. I get the Jeffs. No problem.
- 10:58John Goodman. John Goodman. Yeah, John Goodman.
- 11:00Fantastic. Love John Goodman. But yeah, I did
- 11:04get the feeling watching that movie and granted
- 11:07I love other Coen Brothers movies. This particular
- 11:10movie, there was something clear about it where
- 11:13it's like, oh, if I'm not smoking pot, then this
- 11:16is annoying and confusing. So I really want to
- 11:19give The Big Lebowski another watch because it's
- 11:21- You should, bud. And also, I think it's so
- 11:25odd that it's something that you have to become
- 11:27familiar with before you can appreciate it. It's
- 11:30so not anything that most people are exposed
- 11:32to or used to. You know, it's almost like when
- 11:35you watch Friends, or How I Met Your Mother,
- 11:37or The Office for the second time, or whatever
- 11:41it is, and you watch it for the second time.
- 11:43At that point, you already kind of know the characters,
- 11:45so everything becomes a lot more endearing, and
- 11:46a lot more quotable, a lot more on brand with
- 11:50who that person is. The same thing with this
- 11:52movie. It's so shocking. The first time you watch
- 11:54it, you're kind of just scratching your head
- 11:55the whole time. And then the second time you
- 11:58get around to it, you're like, oh right, he's
- 11:59supposed to be doing that. They're supposed to
- 12:02be silly in that kind of way. And then what is
- 12:05the story of that movie anyway? I don't because
- 12:06all I knew all I saw was because Jeff's character
- 12:09His name is like what the dude. Yeah, Lebowski
- 12:11the dude. So what's the point of it? Like is
- 12:14it just one big pot fantasy? Or is it like is
- 12:16there something more deeper to the story? It's
- 12:18a true. It's it's it's funny. It's it's a quote
- 12:21-unquote true crime type of movie It's a crime
- 12:23-solving movie where there's two guys named Lebowski
- 12:26in California. One of them is this wealthy um,
- 12:32this wealthy handicap gentleman that has this
- 12:36super hot young girlfriend obviously is not interested
- 12:39in dating him. And then there's the dude who's
- 12:42also named Lebowski. Doesn't go by the name Lebowski,
- 12:45really. And the rich Lebowski's girlfriend disappears
- 12:49after she owes money all over town to everyone.
- 12:52And the people coming to collect inadvertently
- 12:54drop in on the stoner dude. And they start looking
- 12:59for money from him. That's the famous, where's
- 13:01the money Lebowski line that society loves. And
- 13:05then And then he cuts a deal with everyone, basically,
- 13:10with the kidnappers and the girl and the other
- 13:13Lebowski to basically try and broker a return
- 13:16in a very stoner -ish, incapable, hysterical
- 13:20kind of way. And they end up being right, which
- 13:23is the craziest part of the entire movie. So
- 13:26it's a cult movie. It's classic. It's timeless.
- 13:31It's extremely quotable. And the gentleman that
- 13:36plays Donnie, who's the guy from Boardwalk Empire?
- 13:40Steve Buscemi. Is he in the movie? Thank you.
- 13:42I'm sorry. I'm losing my mind. Yeah, and he's
- 13:45in that too. So if you haven't seen it, with
- 13:47all that in mind, I would say that that's definitely
- 13:50worthwhile. but you have to like, there's a lot
- 13:52of factories, you gotta be ready for it. Yeah,
- 13:54Steve Buscemi, he's interesting because like
- 13:56if you want to watch a Coen Brothers movie or
- 13:58like any Adam Sandler movie from like the 90s
- 14:01or 2000s or Boardwalk Empire, which he's phenomenal
- 14:03in, Steve Buscemi is the guy and he is such an
- 14:07anti -type. in Hollywood because you would get
- 14:10the impression that, oh, to be a successful actor
- 14:12or actress in Hollywood, you have to have a certain
- 14:14look. And Steve Buscemi looks like he has smoked
- 14:1710 packs a day for God knows how long. He looks
- 14:21like he doesn't eat much because he's too busy
- 14:23smoking that like probably ruins his appetite.
- 14:25But yet, like the roles that he chooses, like
- 14:28there's just a certain thing about him when you
- 14:31see him on screen where it's like, yeah, I like
- 14:33that guy. I want to keep watching that guy. Sure.
- 14:36I also, I would, I also about him is that, like
- 14:38you said, he's so diverse of an actor. I love
- 14:41diverse actors, actresses. I love when they're
- 14:44not typecast into just, like, Ryan Reynolds is
- 14:47awesome at what he does. He really is. I love
- 14:49him and no one's gonna take away, you know, what,
- 14:52like, all the classic movies that he's done.
- 14:54in my heart at least. But he's a very similar
- 14:57role every single time. And Ryan Gosling on the
- 15:00other hand has a whole history, has a whole library
- 15:03of playing a freaking crazy variety of different
- 15:06characters and does it well. And I think Amy
- 15:09Adams is another person, I just watched, actress,
- 15:12I just watched Arrival for the first time. I
- 15:15don't know if you ever watched that movie. No,
- 15:17no, is that recent? What's it about? It's one
- 15:20of those sci -fi UFO type movies. A UFO kind
- 15:25of touches ground to earth. And they're trying
- 15:27to figure out a way to communicate it. So they
- 15:29get a physicist played by Jeremy Renner and then
- 15:33Amy Adams is a linguist. So you have kind of
- 15:37the humanist and the scientist work together
- 15:39to help try to decode this alien language and
- 15:42communicate with it for the betterment of humanity.
- 15:45I mean, she's she also has this just incredible
- 15:49library and incredible career that playing. all
- 15:52sorts of awesome roles. And, I mean, she's political,
- 15:54she's sci -fi, she's thriller, she's comedy.
- 15:57Yeah, I mean, she's enchanted, you know? I mean,
- 15:59it's crazy. She's really awesome. Yeah, I'm not
- 16:01a fan of Amy Adams. Like, the movies that I've
- 16:04seen her in, I've just been like, eh, you know.
- 16:06It didn't do much for me. I'm trying to think
- 16:10of what I've seen her in. A Man of Steel, I've
- 16:12seen her in... God, I think she was jacking off
- 16:16Philip Seymour Hoffman in The Master. remember
- 16:21that bathroom scene where she's like furiously
- 16:23jacking them off and I think they have like a
- 16:25tense marriage or something like that. I'm like,
- 16:27yeah, of course. Of course I'm a stupid straight
- 16:30guy. Of course that would be like the one thing
- 16:31from the movie that I remember. Um, but, uh,
- 16:35yeah. And then maybe there was something else
- 16:36that I saw her in that I'm not maybe hustler.
- 16:39Was she in that movie? Like hustler with like
- 16:41Bradley Cooper, Jennifer Lawrence. Uh, maybe
- 16:44I didn't watch it. American hustler, American
- 16:46hustler, American hustler. Yes. She was an American
- 16:48hustler. She was the, um, Oh gosh, I didn't remember
- 16:51the - Was there - Was she Bradley Cooper's girlfriend?
- 16:54Her love interest in the movie? Maybe. I don't
- 16:56know. Let's look it up. Who was Amy Adams in
- 17:01American Hustler? I hear the complaints about
- 17:08the roles, but they're still diverse. You know,
- 17:11like if they're not your movies, they're not
- 17:12your movies, but she's not playing one. So in
- 17:15the American Hustler movie from 2013, if you
- 17:17can believe it, my God, 13 years ago, Amy Adams
- 17:20plays Sidney Prosser, the sharp, seductive and
- 17:23highly skilled British con artist who partners
- 17:25with Christian Bale's Irving Rosenfeld. Let's
- 17:30see. I don't see anything about her being Bradley
- 17:33Cooper's girlfriend. No, Christian Bale is not
- 17:36of interest then. Okay, okay, Christian Bale.
- 17:39Yeah, yeah, who partners with I thought it was
- 17:41like business partner, but I guess maybe romantic
- 17:43partners as well with Christian Bale's character.
- 17:45I don't know. Anyway. So Amy Adams, yeah, she,
- 17:48no, she seems like a nice person and I've seen
- 17:50her. No, no, I mean, she seems fine, but it's
- 17:52just like Amy Adams, Jennifer Lawrence, like
- 17:55there are, there are certain actresses that have
- 17:57gotten all the accolades and I've watched them.
- 18:00And I know you have those like Ryan Reynolds,
- 18:02like Ryan Reynolds probably has gotten enough
- 18:05accolades to be done with his career. He could
- 18:09retire, but you're like, you said, like he plays
- 18:11a similar role in every movie. You just don't
- 18:13see it. And that's how I feel about Amy Adams
- 18:15and Jennifer Lawrence. And you know, I just don't
- 18:19I mean they they seem like nice pleasant people
- 18:20when you interview them, but like Who are some
- 18:23of your favorites some of your favorite actors?
- 18:27Yeah Denzel Washington, I can watch almost anything
- 18:31with him. He's on that much more of acting, for
- 18:33sure. And look, you can make an argument that
- 18:35when Denzel Washington plays a villainous character,
- 18:38it's pretty much a variation of Training Day.
- 18:42And it's fine, but Denzel just has this certain
- 18:45presence on screen where it's like, even if he
- 18:47plays the same character many times... Uh, I
- 18:50still like it. I still want to watch. So that's
- 18:52how Washington, um, the, the recent guests that
- 18:55I just interviewed, uh, an actor by the name
- 18:57of Dave Maldonado, who was, uh, Hogwood in the
- 19:00Academy award winning movie Sinners. Um, we were
- 19:03talking about, like, he was acting with Michael
- 19:06Stuhlbarg. Uh, I think that's how you pronounce
- 19:08his last name, uh, who's also in Boardwalk Empire.
- 19:11He played, uh, Arnold Rothstein. Remember Arnold
- 19:13Rothstein, that character? I didn't get far enough
- 19:15into the show. Oh God, you should, because it's
- 19:17a good show. Have you watched Your Honor with
- 19:21Bryan Cranston? No. Maybe years ago. Anyway.
- 19:25Yeah. Call Me By Your Name? Is that Robert Downey
- 19:27Jr.? Or no? No, no, no, no, no. Have you seen
- 19:29Call Me By Your Name with Dimethy Chalamet and...
- 19:32No. Okay. Uh, well, Michael Subaru, he's one
- 19:35of those character actors. He's not like leading
- 19:38man's stature, like a Tom Hanks or whatever,
- 19:40but he's one of those actors that is so respected
- 19:42for how he handles the craft and he appears in
- 19:44a lot of stuff, but in more like supporting roles.
- 19:47But it's like, you still remember him because
- 19:49he's such a dedicated, intense actor. Um, So
- 19:53Michael Stuhlbarg, that's an actor who I like.
- 19:57In terms of actresses, I don't know. I mean,
- 20:00Viola Davis can pull off a good performance.
- 20:02I'm just thinking off the top of my head. Octavia
- 20:04Spencer, I'm just thinking about the fact that
- 20:06they have like a Ma sequel coming out. Octavia
- 20:08Spencer can do really good with horror. Of course,
- 20:11we all remember the eat my shit moment in the
- 20:13help. Like that's iconic. So yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 20:17There's a few actors and actresses that I like
- 20:19to see on the screen that I think does a really
- 20:23good job. And oh, also pot smoking. I lied. I
- 20:28did actually smoke one of those like, what do
- 20:32you call those? The vape stick, the THC stick.
- 20:35Oh yeah. What do you think of that? What did
- 20:36you think? What was your experience? Oh, it was
- 20:38fun. I mean, it was like my second time doing
- 20:40that. So my theater friend, Sophia, we both perform
- 20:45in theater in Vermont. Oh nice. We took a walk
- 20:49in this beautiful area of the state this time
- 20:51of year called Waterfront Park in Burlington,
- 20:54Vermont. And she has, she owns one of those vape
- 20:56sticks. And, you know, have you ever like, smoked
- 21:00weed and just had a nice deep honest conversation
- 21:03with somebody. Sure. Isn't it the greatest? Yeah.
- 21:06And you're lowering a lot of walls, you know,
- 21:08and then you also get into like a mental flow
- 21:10if you're really in the, if you really, especially
- 21:12if you're like, you can start cooking, you know,
- 21:15and like when you, when you start cooking and
- 21:16like there's nothing, there's no inhibitions
- 21:18kind of washing you away then. Uh, it could be
- 21:21really productive. Yeah. And for those listening
- 21:22and watching, I mean, uh, Sophia, uh, she was
- 21:25on this podcast. So please check out our episode.
- 21:27She was a fun time. Um, but yeah, no, I just
- 21:29remember like, you know, a month ago, summer
- 21:31weather, nighttime, Vermont, smoking weed and,
- 21:35and, and, and walking by the water at waterfront
- 21:37park. Like it was, it was just absolutely beautiful.
- 21:41And, um, and when you mentioned like craftbeering
- 21:43and IPAs, uh, I remember that being a big thing
- 21:47in Decora, Iowa, where I used to live. to work
- 21:51in radio when I used to work in that industry.
- 21:54And they have a lot of craft beer places. And
- 21:57I remember drinking it and respectfully not being
- 22:00crazy about it. No, because I'm just not a beer
- 22:03drinker. You know how it is. I mean, there are
- 22:04people that love it. And then there are people
- 22:06like myself that are like, eh. I could go for
- 22:08like a margarita instead. I kind of forced myself
- 22:12into it because I was so excited about it. And
- 22:14like, initially I didn't love it. It was definitely
- 22:16an acquired taste. I think a lot of the things
- 22:18that I've liked, you know, I like smoky scotch,
- 22:20but that's because like my dad drinks it and
- 22:22like I wanted to be cool when I was 18. You know,
- 22:24I was like, oh yeah, this is good. I'm like,
- 22:25this tastes like crap. But like, you know, then
- 22:27eventually it grows on you. I got, yeah, I got
- 22:30full circle with the beers. I used to go from
- 22:32Keystone Light in college to, you know, 30 rack
- 22:35with over the weekend with my buddies. I moved
- 22:39from New York to Seattle and drove cross country
- 22:41with my buddies and stopped in a different brewery
- 22:45in every state along the way. And then I'm back
- 22:48to drinking Landshark and Bud Light again. You
- 22:50know, it all goes full circle. Which I want to
- 22:53ask, because like we talk about like craft local
- 22:57hometown beer versus a more national chain product
- 23:02like a Budweiser. What is... the difference in
- 23:06terms of taste and texture? Like, can you explain
- 23:08that to me? Yeah, I think that a lot of this,
- 23:14I think it depends on what you're drinking. For
- 23:16example, if you're drinking a light beer and
- 23:18you're drinking, let's say, again, a land shark.
- 23:21A lot of them are good. A lot of them that wouldn't
- 23:25be good is because they sat on the shelf for
- 23:27too long. If they're in glass bottles and they're
- 23:29sitting outside before the warehouse packs it
- 23:31in and there's sunlight bouncing. They're sitting
- 23:34in the sun for hours. That could affect the body.
- 23:36It could affect the smell. It could affect the
- 23:38taste. There's also, if you want to be fancy,
- 23:42quoting about it, the way that they put hops
- 23:44in it or the type of hops that they put in it
- 23:46make a big difference. Sorry? What are hops?
- 23:50Oh, hops are a plant. Actually, I believe related
- 23:54to the cannabis plant. Because they have that
- 23:59similar earthy smell. If you ever drink a Stella
- 24:01and you open it, it kind of smells a little bit
- 24:03like weed. That's the hop smell that you're getting.
- 24:07And they're a plant. They grow on the vine. Actually,
- 24:10your hometown, or I guess your current hometown,
- 24:12your neck of the woods is a huge distributor
- 24:15of hops around the world. Vermont, Maine... You
- 24:19know, the Northeast and the Pacific Northwest
- 24:22are both enormous in hop farming. And they have
- 24:28different... And almost like how, you know, when
- 24:30you have wine and it depends on like the ground
- 24:33that it's grown on and the texture and the environment,
- 24:36it creates different bodies and flavor. flavor
- 24:41notes and tones. The hops could be sweet, they
- 24:44could be bitter, they could be fruity, they could
- 24:46be dry. There's a lot that goes into that. And
- 24:50so you have something, for example, West Coast
- 24:52is a little bit more earthy or piney. And then
- 24:54the East Coast hops a little bit juicier, a little
- 24:57bit sweeter, a little bit more tasting like fruit.
- 25:01Recently, New Zealand, Germany, Greece have all
- 25:07kind of joined in the big hop. I guess farming
- 25:11experimentation. My wife and I went on our honeymoon,
- 25:15I guess four years ago now, which is crazy, to
- 25:18Santorini. And we went to a couple of breweries
- 25:21there and I was blown away by the craft beer
- 25:23scene. And they said that a lot of the beer is
- 25:26grown, sorry, a lot of the hops that they get
- 25:29are fresh and from these local Greek areas, Greek
- 25:32islands. So it's really cool. At the end of the
- 25:35day, A lot of it is similar, you know, like if
- 25:38you're drinking Bud Light. If you're drinking
- 25:40Bud Light and you go to a craft brewery and you're
- 25:42like, hey, let me get a lager on tap. You know,
- 25:44they're going to be similar. But, you know, I
- 25:47think that the more you drink it, the more refined
- 25:49and the more nuance you get to notice. The more
- 25:51nuance you notice. Nice. I live in a tiny town
- 25:56called Richford up here in Vermont. It's like
- 25:59two miles from Canada. I don't know about their
- 26:01relationship with like local breweries and craft
- 26:03beers, but I do know that when I worked down
- 26:05in Burlington, which is basically - Oh yeah.
- 26:07It's basically the New York city of Vermont.
- 26:09Like there's an area on like, it's like, uh,
- 26:12God, I think it's like around pine street in
- 26:14Burlington, uh, that I've nicknamed myself like
- 26:17brewery alley. Like it just, it's just like you
- 26:21and maybe you've seen this, uh, near your neck
- 26:24of the woods where, um, you will just go like
- 26:28you'll, you'll turn on a road and all of a sudden
- 26:31in this small neighborhood, there's like four
- 26:35or five, six breweries, like all in the same
- 26:38distance. And you could just walk from one to
- 26:41another very easily. So to all our Asheville,
- 26:44all your Asheville listeners, uh, there, there's
- 26:47a brewery district in Asheville and it's literally
- 26:50Yeah, North Carolina, yeah. And they have blocks
- 26:53of these. And these are some of the best breweries
- 26:55in the country. Seattle has that. When I moved
- 26:58to Seattle, I called a buddy of mine who used
- 27:00to make in college homemade mead, honey wine
- 27:03and Applejack, which was sick. I mean, he used
- 27:06to, he'd keep these containers in this closet
- 27:09and these jugs. And depending on the season,
- 27:12he would spice them or flavor them accordingly.
- 27:14So in the summer, it'd be berries. In the winter,
- 27:16it'd be cloves and cinnamon. And maybe, you know,
- 27:19in the fall, he'd put a little bit of nutmeg
- 27:20or even cayenne pepper or something like that.
- 27:24And so he, it's funny, he switched his degree
- 27:27from engineering to music, which was not a career
- 27:30move, a passion move, obviously. And so I called
- 27:35him when I was thinking of moving to Seattle,
- 27:37I was like, Sam. Brother, there's like 165 breweries
- 27:42in the Seattle zip code alone. If you want to
- 27:45try something fun and something new, I know you're
- 27:47good at this. Come with us. And he's like, hell
- 27:49yeah. And he's still brewing. And, you know,
- 27:51six, seven years later, he's still brewing in
- 27:54the Pacific Northwest. And he's, he loves it.
- 27:57It's a really, really cool world. And even if
- 27:59you don't like the beer. The people are awesome.
- 28:02That's what I've found about a lot of these little
- 28:03communities is that the more specific communities
- 28:06that they are, you know, if it's a cigar lounge,
- 28:08if it's a craft brewery, if it's a weed dispensary,
- 28:12people that are going there for like the purpose
- 28:14of a passion that they have or a vice, whatever
- 28:16you want to call it, they tend to be these kind
- 28:21of out of the box fun... real nice people. You
- 28:25don't just wander into a tiny little hole in
- 28:28the wall brewery by accident most of the time.
- 28:30You're usually looking for something like that
- 28:32and if you're looking, then you're probably gonna
- 28:34have someone that has something to talk about,
- 28:35something to say. So it's a great way to meet
- 28:37people. I love that. Apple Jack wine? Did you
- 28:39say wine made out of like Apple Jack cereal?
- 28:42Did I catch that earlier? What were you talking
- 28:44about? There's apple cider. Apple cider. He calls
- 28:48it Apple Jack. But he would take apple cider
- 28:51and add this yeast and whatever the enzyme is
- 28:55that ferments and turns into alcohol. And you
- 28:58stick it in the closet and you literally don't
- 28:59have to do a lot. There's a little aerator and
- 29:01I don't know the chemical process, but I know
- 29:04after about... And then after about a month or
- 29:06two, you get this say 10 -12 % apple cider kind
- 29:12of thing. Like sweet honey apple cider. And he
- 29:16would freeze it. And then hold it upside down
- 29:19and the first stuff that would drip out would
- 29:20be the most alcohol content because alcohol defrosts
- 29:24at a higher temperature than the rest of the
- 29:26liquid does. So the stuff that's dripping out
- 29:29of the container... is the most alcohol heavy.
- 29:32And then so he'd have, so he'd take a jug, I'd
- 29:35say a gallon jug and cut it into half, but it's
- 29:38the strongest portion of it. So instead of being
- 29:39a 10 % apple cider, it's like a 20, 25 % apple
- 29:44wine. And it was, and you know, and, and we used
- 29:49to do these power hours and it was, it was always
- 29:50a good time. It was, it was fun to make these,
- 29:54these activities something a little more personalized
- 29:56and handmade. It's a good time. Vermont, we make
- 29:59some great apple cider, you know? Yeah. Cold
- 30:01Hollow, that's a great brand of apple cider,
- 30:04and something that my wife introduced me to,
- 30:07you know, how they have root beer floats. An
- 30:09apple cider float, you put apple cider and vanilla
- 30:11ice cream together, it is quite a... No way.
- 30:14Quite a delicious treat, yes. Really? Now granted,
- 30:18I think with the root beer float with like the
- 30:20fizziness of the soda, like the ice cream pairs
- 30:23better with it. Apple cider is more like a juice,
- 30:26so just imagine like these like... weird looking
- 30:30clumps of ice cream just awkwardly sitting. in
- 30:33a weird way in apple cider. Maybe it's not as
- 30:37complimentary looking as a root beer float where
- 30:39the ice cream blends in more, melts in better,
- 30:43but still, it's delicious. Growing up, I went
- 30:46to camp in Wisconsin, and we used to go to the
- 30:49A &W, the A &W factory, and I was like, oh man,
- 30:53dude. My kids don't know what that is. It's sad.
- 30:57I mean, granted, they're three in one. It's like
- 30:59a Krispy Kreme where the A &W, I feel like it's
- 31:02It's like a Krispy Kreme where it's a chain that
- 31:04used to have a lot more locations and then they
- 31:06just became more specialized and rare. You know,
- 31:10I was talking about how we only live two miles
- 31:11from Canada here in Richmond, Vermont And I think
- 31:14we went to the Granby Zoo in Canada maybe a year
- 31:17or so ago and on the way back we spotted an A
- 31:20&W restaurant in Canada and yeah, I mean the
- 31:23the pure sort of 1950s like childhood joy of
- 31:28getting one of their signature root beer floats
- 31:30with like a hot dog or fries or cheeseburger
- 31:32It's it's great. It's a great feeling Have a
- 31:37feeling that that kind of stuff is gonna is coming
- 31:38back I've been reading more about yeah how the
- 31:42I guess I don't know I don't know even know what
- 31:45the terminology is the Gen X errs Is that is
- 31:47that is that the terminology? I well depends
- 31:50on like when they're born. So if you're talking
- 31:52about people born between 1965 and 1980 That's
- 31:57the Gen X generation. That's the generation once
- 31:59after that. There's Gen Z No, no, no. So Gen
- 32:02X is a 1965 to 1980 millennial, my generation,
- 32:061981 to 1996. And Gen Z is like 97 to 2010. And
- 32:12I believe Gen Alpha is 2010 till this year. I
- 32:15think like this year starts the Gen Beta generation.
- 32:19So, okay. So Gen Z and Gen Alpha. are, I guess,
- 32:23are seeing a huge spike in group activities,
- 32:27like going to the movies and concerts and leaving
- 32:30their phones behind. Yeah, yeah, for sure. And
- 32:33what's interesting is you kind of see how society,
- 32:37especially in the last six, seven, eight years,
- 32:40has kind of moved away from creating these environments
- 32:43of in -person experiences. And it looks like
- 32:47the demand for those in -person experiences,
- 32:50and society's adjusted accordingly, but we don't
- 32:52have a ton of... things to do, it feels like,
- 32:55you know, with other people. Most of our lives
- 32:57revolve around FaceTiming and calling and texting
- 33:00and whatever. And it looks like this generation
- 33:02is trying to make a push for more embodied experiences.
- 33:05And I'm curious whether those type of activities
- 33:08like bowling or diners or, you know, old school,
- 33:11you know, these more old rollerblading, all this
- 33:14fun stuff. That have been awesome. That have
- 33:17been like staples. Especially, I don't know about
- 33:19you, growing up for me, these were staples. Like
- 33:21some of the best experiences were going a rollerblading
- 33:25alley. I don't even know what you call it. You
- 33:27know, the wood with the... Can I ask how old
- 33:30you are? Sorry? Can I ask how old you are? I'm
- 33:3230. Okay, so you were born in 96? 95, December
- 33:3695. Okay, okay. So yeah, you're, you're, you're,
- 33:39you're, you're, yeah, you're a millennial, just
- 33:40like me. Okay. You're like, you're, you're almost
- 33:42bleeding into Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. I
- 33:44think they call you guys zillennials, right?
- 33:45Where it's like that border between or no, no,
- 33:48or is zillennial like the Gen X and millennial
- 33:50hybrid? I don't know. Anyway, either way, you're,
- 33:52you're millennial. Let's just keep it at that.
- 33:56Yeah, no, no. Rollerblading, dining, bowling,
- 34:00all that stuff. Ice skating. Yeah, ice skating.
- 34:04My sister took ice skating lessons. I've clumsily
- 34:07ice skated in my past and it wasn't a pretty
- 34:10sight to see. You should have seen me and my
- 34:13wife ice skating when we were on our honeymoon
- 34:15cruise. I was holding on to the railing in your
- 34:17life as if I was about to get into an accident.
- 34:20But yeah, you're right. I mean, when we were
- 34:22growing up in the like, you know, 90s, 2000s,
- 34:24Yeah, those activities were more prominent because
- 34:28we did not really have smartphones. The internet
- 34:32was certainly coming to fruition, but smartphones
- 34:34didn't come around until like 2007 with the release
- 34:37of the iPhone. So a lot of our childhood was...
- 34:41classic in -person experiences. Like, if you
- 34:44want to have a good time, you're not going to
- 34:45be, you know, stuck in your computer or your
- 34:47tablet or your phone. You're going to go out
- 34:49and bowl and have a good time. And I love the
- 34:52fact that you're saying that Gen Z and Gen Alpha,
- 34:54the younger generations, are realizing that,
- 34:56like, being stuck to your phone is just not a
- 34:59great way to live and to be able to, like, you
- 35:02know, find that community, you know, find those
- 35:03in -person experiences. I see it all the time.
- 35:06I mean, I Uber and Lyft drive for living in Burlington,
- 35:09and Burlington is a college town. So all the
- 35:12college students that I, you know, pick up, you
- 35:14know, the, the fact that I'll often like pick
- 35:16up groups of people that are like wanting to
- 35:17go out to the restaurant or the bar or whatever,
- 35:19or the movie theater. It's like, it's great.
- 35:21It's great to see people of that generation build
- 35:25community. And they also make for great date
- 35:28ideas. I mean, I mean, how many times I don't
- 35:31know what your dating history has been, but have
- 35:32you did the classic thing where you're like,
- 35:34Oh, here's someone I'm interested in. Let me
- 35:37take them out on a date to the bowling alley
- 35:39or to the mall. You go to the mall and then you
- 35:43figure out what to do from there. You know, I
- 35:45really like you want to go to the mall with me.
- 35:46You're like, Whoa, that was, that was the most
- 35:48painful thing I ever had to do. Oh my God. Is
- 35:54mall, is mall culture coming back? Cause like,
- 35:57I can never tell because I don't know. I don't
- 35:59know. It's hard to tell. Right. Yeah. Cause like,
- 36:02I mean, the university mall in, in, in Burlington
- 36:05is, uh, I mean, sometimes it's just, uh, kind
- 36:08of sad to see what a desert it can be. maybe
- 36:12during the holiday season, it still gets busy.
- 36:15But like, for the most part, I feel like it's
- 36:17representative of how malls are not what they
- 36:20used to be. Because you and I, both growing up,
- 36:24you know, you went to the mall, not only for
- 36:26holiday shopping, but like if you had nothing
- 36:29to do on a Saturday. I remember many times just
- 36:31going there to just browse for TV on DVD sets
- 36:35for fun, maybe buy some clothes, maybe check
- 36:38out a movie, playing at a movie theater in the
- 36:40mall. So yeah, I don't know. I mean, you know,
- 36:43I feel like either there's that rare chance I'm
- 36:46going to see a lot of people shopping at the
- 36:47mall or I'm just going to go into the mall and
- 36:50it's like, you're wondering like, how do you
- 36:52guys stay in business? It's like, there's nobody
- 36:53here. I think that if it's going to make a comeback,
- 36:58they're going to have to change what the perception
- 37:00of a mall is because shopping is just too convenient
- 37:05and too cheap online for like it to revolve around
- 37:08shopping. You know, like we used to have to go,
- 37:11like again, you go to the mall and you go shopping
- 37:12because you needed to, and maybe you'd find a
- 37:14good deal at the mall. But I mean, the fact is
- 37:16that the overhead costs, you know, you have to
- 37:18make rent and you have to, you have to pay your
- 37:20employees and you have to, you have to pay all
- 37:21these, whatever costs to run, to run an in -person
- 37:24shop at Fifth Avenue or in a big mall in Minnesota
- 37:28or anything like that. It's, you're going to
- 37:30have more overhead. You're going to have to charge
- 37:31more. But if malls are about Dave and Buster's
- 37:35bars, pool halls, and movie theaters, all of
- 37:38a sudden, that's a really awesome place that
- 37:40a lot of people, again, especially if you're
- 37:41going to follow this trend, want to participate
- 37:45in. So I think that, and most, listen, most,
- 37:48I don't know, this is part of the fun experience
- 37:50also, is that they're transient. That shops are
- 37:53always opening and closing. And I don't know
- 37:54about you, but growing up, it was always exciting
- 37:57when all of a sudden a store that you'd pass
- 37:59by be like... wait a minute, it's all boarded
- 38:01up. And then like six months later, a new store
- 38:03popped up and you're like, whoa, that's awesome.
- 38:07And then went out of business super fast. I'm
- 38:08like, shoot, I like that place. I mean, which
- 38:10is probably, yeah, which is probably not a good
- 38:12sign for, for, for the ball business. If stores
- 38:14keep opening and closing like that. But like,
- 38:16uh, yeah, no, I know what you're talking about.
- 38:17Like one moment, uh, it is a forever 21. And
- 38:21then the next moment, literally in the university
- 38:23mall in Burlington, I kid you not, it is a cowboy
- 38:26theme store. So you can buy. cowboy clothes,
- 38:29cowboy boots, like, and Vermont being a rural
- 38:32state, I guess I get it, but I. talk about it
- 38:35with my wife and I laugh because Burlington is
- 38:38not the sort of small rural Vermont town culture
- 38:41that people might think it is. Burlington is
- 38:44basically the New York city of Vermont where
- 38:45it's more liberal, more college leaning, like
- 38:48the young people that are there, they're more
- 38:51likely to dress however, whatever the current
- 38:54trend is and, you know, go to the bar, go to
- 38:57the restaurant, go to the movies, blah, blah,
- 38:59blah. Like they're not, you know, Hey, let me
- 39:02like put on my cowboy clothes and go milk a pig
- 39:06or something. Like that's, that's, that's probably
- 39:08the many other far out remote small Vermont towns
- 39:12that are outside of, of, of Burlington. But yeah,
- 39:15it's just hilarious. What trends, what other
- 39:18trends have you noticed, uh, dealing with a lot
- 39:20of college kids nowadays? Oh, I don't know. I
- 39:22mean, I don't pay too much attention to what
- 39:25they, well, okay. I will say that, um, baggy.
- 39:30clothes seem to be making a comeback. Like I
- 39:33see, I've seen girls wear these sort of baggy
- 39:35Capri pants, Birkenstocks, which were certainly
- 39:39a thing that I saw girls wear back when I was
- 39:42in middle school in the early two thousands to
- 39:45see those same Birkenstocks being worn by modern
- 39:47day college students. It's like, Whoa, that's
- 39:51interesting. I keep hearing about how fashion
- 39:53from the nineties has made a comeback today,
- 39:55but you know much like you i mean you and i we
- 39:59were born in the nineties and it's so different
- 40:01from being an eighties born millennial who actually
- 40:04like was a teenager came of age in the nineties
- 40:06and they can remember what the fashion was like
- 40:09i mean me my earliest memory Maybe like my fifth
- 40:13birthday party in like 1996. But other than that,
- 40:18like I was really doing a lot of my growing up
- 40:20and my memory forming in the, in the two thousands.
- 40:23So what I know about 90s fashion is just through
- 40:25like, you know, pop culture documentaries. Like,
- 40:28oh, I love the 90s. Let's go back in time and
- 40:30see what it was. But what about you? What trends
- 40:33have you noticed? Where are you, by the way?
- 40:35Where are you based? I live in South Florida.
- 40:38I live in South Florida. I'm in Hollywood. So
- 40:39the mall culture there must be a lot busier than
- 40:42the mall culture in Burlington, Vermont, I would
- 40:44imagine. Right? It's not. I mean, I guess it's
- 40:48different because you're dealing with like Florida
- 40:50people. Like Florida people's a real thing. It's
- 40:53crazy to see it. You move down here. You're like,
- 40:55that's the real thing Okay, so crazy Florida
- 40:58man stories were a part of my daily routine when
- 41:01I used to work in radio because like I was like
- 41:02the goofy guy that would like talk in between
- 41:05songs that like a top 40 station I was that stupid
- 41:07idiot for a while and We have show prep websites
- 41:11that we use to figure out stuff to talk about
- 41:13and the amount of crazy Florida man stories that
- 41:15I was given is Insane and I also will want to
- 41:18tell you that there are a good number of people
- 41:21that I drive in Burlington as an Uber and Lyft
- 41:24driver who are moving down to Florida and they
- 41:28seem like they have the personality that would
- 41:31work well with Florida and vice versa. I've seen
- 41:35people who have moved to Vermont from Florida
- 41:37and I ask, What made you come here from Florida?
- 41:42And the optimistic part of me wants to say like
- 41:45oh what I mean Florida is fucking hot as hell,
- 41:47you know, especially during the summer Maybe
- 41:48they just want more see that they want the four
- 41:51seasons. Yeah, but literally every answer is
- 41:54it's Florida. It's they've got issues How would
- 41:58you describe the issues if if there are if there
- 42:00are any and South Florida? I think that the issues
- 42:05are I'll tell you this, as far as societies go,
- 42:11they're relatively good issues to have, right?
- 42:13Like the issues aren't like... I think that you
- 42:17hear stories of like, I mean obviously politically
- 42:20in Burlington and Florida couldn't be further
- 42:24apart. And you know, I used to live in, I lived
- 42:27in Seattle, so I lived, I'm from New York. And
- 42:30you know, so politically all those places are
- 42:33pretty far apart. So people are moving out of
- 42:34Florida like, I don't like Florida. A lot of
- 42:37times I've noticed that it has more to do with
- 42:39the political climate. Yeah. which has a lot
- 42:42to do with it. But I think that as far as the
- 42:45actual application of the policy... It tends
- 42:50to be pretty hands -off and so much so hands
- 42:53-off to the extent that you end up getting these
- 42:55Florida man stories because you're like well
- 42:56like Shouldn't it be like shouldn't you stop
- 42:58someone from like eating an alligator like in
- 43:00the middle of the highway or something like that?
- 43:06Shouldn't you stop someone from shooting a guy
- 43:08in the head because he didn't get a $15 refund
- 43:10for I don't know some food that went bad at a
- 43:13restaurant probably yeah No, no kidding, but
- 43:21I but but I think that uh, yeah I think that
- 43:24I think that every place has has trade -offs
- 43:26right and has has pretty legit ones and I think
- 43:29that Generally speaking what you know, I mean
- 43:32right personally I got the area I live in is
- 43:35is pretty much just a homey Quiet neighborhood
- 43:38kind of place where I'll be shocked. I'll be
- 43:40talking to someone like oh, yeah I want to go
- 43:42into my you know, I come over or you know, I
- 43:44was just going gator hunting yesterday like You're
- 43:46a gator hunter. He's like, yeah, only on weekends.
- 43:49I enjoy it as a side project. I'm like, but what
- 43:51do you want? I'm an accountant. I'm a lawyer,
- 43:53you know, like totally people that like have
- 43:55just different, um, now, now I want to know how
- 43:57this works because I certainly up here in Vermont
- 44:00deer hunting. That's, that's a, that's a normal
- 44:02thing. There's a, there's a deer season. That's
- 44:03how common it is up here. But like gator hunting,
- 44:07like how does that work? Gator hunting, iguana
- 44:09hunting, there is snake hunting. So iguanas apparently
- 44:15are an invasive species to South Florida and
- 44:17they're all over the place. And they're warm
- 44:20-blooded, which means that when it gets below
- 44:23like 70 degrees, they... freeze they literally
- 44:27like their bodies just like freeze up and they
- 44:29start dropping out of trees and like and so in
- 44:32the winter time you could be driving or like
- 44:34walking out of your house and a frozen iguana
- 44:37would just fall out of a bush or out of a tree
- 44:39just right in front of you and like it looks
- 44:41like it's dead and then as soon as the sun comes
- 44:44out and you know like it's 11 12 o 'clock in
- 44:46the afternoon they'll just pop up and run off
- 44:48It's the craziest thing you'll ever see in your
- 44:50entire life, but because they're invasive and
- 44:52because they've become so Overpopulated I guess
- 44:56like with the deer problem. I imagine Florida
- 44:59State Actually will give you I think like a couple
- 45:03of bucks five ten fifteen bucks back per iguana
- 45:06that you bring in and so there are people that
- 45:08like load up their pickup trucks with iguanas
- 45:10and Bring it and bring them in Alligator or gator
- 45:15hunting is more of like an everglade kind of
- 45:18sport. I believe the alligators eat chicken so
- 45:20they use chicken as bait and they kind of just
- 45:22hang out drink beer and You know sit under the
- 45:25shade until a gator comes to eat the trap did
- 45:28the chicken and you know and and they bait it
- 45:31out and then they just shoot it and I don't really
- 45:34know what goes on from there. Yeah, do they eat
- 45:37it? Am I going to like eat alligator pie? I have
- 45:39no idea. I'm kosher. And so I don't eat that
- 45:44kind of stuff anyway. And I also don't, I don't
- 45:48know, I don't mess around with guns. I don't,
- 45:49I don't, I don't, they're not, they're not my
- 45:51cup of tea. I like. You're in the wrong place.
- 45:53I feel like with Florida, they go crazy with
- 45:55guns down there or am I wrong? It's funny because
- 45:59a bunch of my friends, you know, they moved down,
- 46:01they moved in from. anywhere from California,
- 46:03Baltimore, Maryland, New York, and one of the
- 46:06first things they do is they'll buy a gun. And
- 46:08I'm like, I'm not getting a gun until I know
- 46:10how to use one, until I know what the heck is
- 46:13going on. I'm all for your right to have it,
- 46:15but every time I come over, I'll text my friends
- 46:18like, I'm coming to the side, I'm coming to the
- 46:20backyard. Don't don't do anything man, you know
- 46:23and like tell your wife that I'm coming too because
- 46:25I don't So I have a witness in case you shoot
- 46:29me exactly I'm afraid of guns. I literally am
- 46:33afraid of guns. I I don't know if I'll ever use
- 46:36one I have this paranoid fear that I will get
- 46:42shot someday. And I don't know, maybe that's
- 46:44just like, you know, called being black in America.
- 46:48But yeah. Raise your chances pretty significantly.
- 46:50Right. Exactly. Exactly. Earlier, you mentioned
- 46:56the guest that you recorded for your Come Together
- 46:58podcast. Can you explain to me and the audience
- 47:02what the podcast is? I listened to one of the
- 47:05recent episodes, by the way. It's fantastic.
- 47:07Thank you. Yeah. You know, if you had to give
- 47:09us a very enticing elevator pitch on what the
- 47:12podcast is about, how would you say it? Educational
- 47:14and fun. And I have a lot of different interests.
- 47:17I love to learn. So I have different series.
- 47:20So for example, I have a psychology series and
- 47:24And anything that I'm interested in in the psychological
- 47:27world, right? Group psychology. Why do people
- 47:30act differently when they're in a collective
- 47:32crowd as opposed to the way you act alone? What's
- 47:36our relationship with ourselves? Why do I feel
- 47:38like I want to always sabotage myself whenever
- 47:40I'm doing well in my life? Or something crazy
- 47:42like that. And there's a million different lenses
- 47:45to look at things. And so I have different series
- 47:48with guests that specialize in whatever industry
- 47:52it is. And I'm at it for over two years now.
- 47:55And I've been fortunate enough to have some really,
- 47:57really spectacular guests across different industries.
- 48:00The most exciting one that I've been... really
- 48:03enthusiastic about has been my science series,
- 48:06because I've been more interested in bridging
- 48:08philosophy and science, like, not only how things
- 48:11work, but what are the implications now for us,
- 48:14now that we kind of understand how things work.
- 48:16And I just interviewed a real hero of mine named
- 48:20Dr. David Kaiser, and he wrote this awesome book
- 48:23called How the Hippies Saved Physics. Yeah, it's
- 48:27a great name. And the cover of the book, if you
- 48:29look up the cover of the book, is an awesome,
- 48:31awesome cover. I'm not going to ruin it for you,
- 48:33but check it out. And he's an MIT physicist and
- 48:37historian. And he basically notes how, and takes
- 48:41this book about how post -World War II, during
- 48:45the Cold War, science was essentially weaponized.
- 48:50Like people think of science now as... you know,
- 48:53like mad scientist or you're gonna try to create
- 48:55weapons or bombs or, you know, whatever it is,
- 48:58right? The Iron Man, the Iron Man journey that
- 49:00he goes on, so to speak. And he goes, and then
- 49:04there was a group of hippies, of scientists that,
- 49:07he goes, in the late 60s, early 70s, a lot of
- 49:10funding for physics was cut. And so you had 20
- 49:13physics students graduating and all applying
- 49:15for one job. It was 20 to one. competition. But
- 49:19that means that a lot of physics students and
- 49:21a lot of really smart physics students didn't
- 49:23have work. It didn't have anything to do. And
- 49:25so they're all hanging out on the West Coast.
- 49:26They're hanging out in Stanford. They're hanging
- 49:27out in California. They're hanging out in San
- 49:29Francisco. That's where the hippie scene is at
- 49:31the time. And they start noticing weird things.
- 49:34And they start noticing that when people meditate,
- 49:36you get this out of body experience. And they
- 49:38say, well, scientifically, how does that work?
- 49:41How does your consciousness separate from your
- 49:43body? And if your consciousness does separate
- 49:45from your body, does that mean that Has to stay
- 49:48right above your body. Could you can you go walk
- 49:50somewhere else to your consciousness? Can you
- 49:52can you can you see things? separate from where
- 49:55you are or How about bending things with metal
- 49:58or quantum entanglement or like all these crazy
- 50:01ant -man concepts or anything like that? And
- 50:03and and you know, there's a whole world of skepticism
- 50:06obviously around it but there's very real science
- 50:09that that there's real industries like there's
- 50:12a lot of a lot of bank security and a lot of
- 50:15password security and encryption is based on
- 50:17quantum mechanics. And there's something crazy
- 50:19that Einstein called a spooky entanglement from
- 50:24a distance. So if two cells or two atoms interacted,
- 50:28you could literally shoot them to two ends of
- 50:31the universe. And once they've already interacted
- 50:33once, no matter how far apart they are from one
- 50:35another, there's still going to be some connection
- 50:37between the two of them. And that's tangible.
- 50:40And David Kaiser himself and his lab from MIT
- 50:43went and tested this themselves and they did
- 50:45some amazing work. And so all this stuff that's
- 50:49science fiction -y, we're starting to kind of
- 50:51understand in theory how some of it could happen
- 50:53in real time, in real life. And that's some really,
- 50:56really fun and exciting things that are coming
- 50:57up. So my science series revolves around the
- 51:02combination of understanding the science and
- 51:06then understanding how it could actually be applied
- 51:08in a cool and fun way to our worlds. I love that.
- 51:11Come together with Ephraim Hirschman. Find it
- 51:14wherever you get your podcast. That is great.
- 51:15Hippie and physics. Being together as an absolute
- 51:19idea. We got music podcasts, economics. What
- 51:26kind of music do you listen to? Everything. God
- 51:28damn. Alternative rock, Latin jazz, basically
- 51:32whatever I'm in the mood for. It could be hip
- 51:34hop. I could be in a Frank Sinatra, Saturday
- 51:36Night mood. What kind of music stuff do you have
- 51:40on your podcast? I mean, all that stuff is great.
- 51:43I've been, the music stuff has been back and
- 51:45forth between, I'm working on more musicians,
- 51:48but music historians and I did, do you know,
- 51:52I mean, it's a Grateful Dead cover band, but
- 51:54Joe Russo's almost dead. Are you familiar with
- 51:56them? I'm not, no. No? Oh, they're great. So
- 51:58the lead guitar player and singer Tom Hamilton
- 52:00was just on. He's one of the coolest dudes. He
- 52:03used to be a bassist and lyric writer for Aerosmith.
- 52:08actually yeah he's really cool and it's been
- 52:12I mean it's been a ton of fun and there's no
- 52:15limit to where conversations go and it's no limit
- 52:18to to how much you can learn and how much your
- 52:20eyes can be opened if you're just willing to
- 52:22to see a little bit so it's really it's been
- 52:24it's been a great trip I love it all right I
- 52:26got some three delicious questions that I asked
- 52:28all my guests are you ready for that mm -hmm
- 52:30let's do it I want to know what is a delicious
- 52:34meal you've had lately. A delicious meal that
- 52:36I've had lately is my wife is into making both
- 52:42sourdough and her own freshly milled flour. And
- 52:47she made a freshly milled sourdough bagel, which
- 52:49was just tasted like a regular bagel, which is
- 52:52actually a huge win for the for the for the freshly
- 52:55milled and sourdough world. Um, but Taylor Swift
- 52:59and Travis Kelsey, cause I heard that Taylor
- 53:01and Travis, like they, uh, on their downtime,
- 53:04uh, I think it was, uh, Taylor appearing on Travis's
- 53:06podcast with his brother, Jason, and they were
- 53:08talking about their passion for making sourdough
- 53:10at home. Um, can you, can you tell me what goes
- 53:13into making sourdough? Like what, what's that
- 53:15life? No idea. I know that, that, that the, that
- 53:19the base or the starter. The starter is like
- 53:22a living organism. You have to feed it. You have
- 53:24to take care of it and it could die. And then
- 53:26if it dies, you have to get starter from someone
- 53:28else that has a healthy starter. I don't know
- 53:30how it works, but... You have your wife take
- 53:33care of that. I'm a fan of it. So sourdough bread
- 53:37bagels. I don't know. I definitely haven't tasted
- 53:40sourdough bagels. Maybe I've had a bite of sourdough
- 53:43bread in the past and I don't remember. Can you
- 53:45describe the taste and texture and how it would
- 53:48compare to say like a regular bagel or piece
- 53:52of bread? It's definitely, I would say a little
- 53:57drier, a little thinner in texture. There's a
- 54:03much more The crust is much more pronounced,
- 54:06I would say. It's got much more of a crunch.
- 54:09And I think it's made with different types of
- 54:12yeast and there's different types of enzymes
- 54:14in it. So it's a little lighter as far as when
- 54:20you're biting into it. It's less dense than regular
- 54:22bread, I would say. But I had it with grilled
- 54:27cheese and an omelet in the morning and that
- 54:29was mine. Delicious. You know what? Now that
- 54:34I think about it, I used to get those sourdough
- 54:36breakfast sandwiches from Dunkin Donuts. Oh yeah.
- 54:38Does it count as genuine sourdough if it comes
- 54:40from Dunkin? Cause I know a lot of their stuff
- 54:42is very thick tasting. I would say it's in the
- 54:45right spirit. I don't know. Not accurate, not
- 54:49homemade, not authentic, but it's in the right
- 54:51kind of direction, John. That's so funny. I know
- 54:55I can find sourdough bread in stores, but sourdough
- 54:57bagels, I don't know if I've ever seen that in
- 54:58a grocery store aisle. Is that something that
- 55:00you can only make from scratch or can you find
- 55:02it? No, I'm sure they have it. I don't think
- 55:03it tastes much different. I think it's supposed
- 55:06to be a little, quote unquote, healthier for
- 55:08your gut health or whatever. That's a great advertisement
- 55:12for bagels. If you like bread in circular form,
- 55:15try it. Definitely. Yeah, your delicious pop
- 55:20culture obsession at the moment. What is a TV
- 55:23show, movie, book, podcast, music, anything you're
- 55:26watching or listening to that you're loving and
- 55:27you want to share? I just watched Disclosure
- 55:31Day, the new Spielberg movie. Get out! Literally,
- 55:34Dave Maldonado from Sinners. He was talking about
- 55:36how he watched that movie. What are your thoughts
- 55:39about Disclosure Day? I want to know his thoughts.
- 55:41What was his thoughts? So his thoughts seem to
- 55:44be similar to my friend Kate's thoughts. So my
- 55:47friend Kate, who I acted in a theater production
- 55:49with in the Burlington area of Vermont, she went
- 55:52in with high expectations because how can you
- 55:55not? Like you read all the reviews and stuff
- 55:56like that and they're like, oh my God, this is
- 55:58Steven Spielberg's greatest film. So given that
- 56:02Steven Spielberg directed, oh, I don't know,
- 56:04fucking Jaws and E .T. and Schindler's List and
- 56:07Close Encounters of the Third Kind. and saving
- 56:09Private Ryan, like you would think, it's one
- 56:12of the best movies ever made. Right, exactly.
- 56:15You would think like out of all that and that
- 56:16his catalog, Disclosure Day is the best movie
- 56:18ever made. I must be in for an experience. And
- 56:21Kate was like, it was good. Not the best movie,
- 56:24but it was good. And Dave had a similar sentiment
- 56:28where I was just like, eh, eh, it was meh. So
- 56:32tell me what your experience was. I would definitely.
- 56:36put it higher than Good and Meh. Although, to
- 56:39be fair, I didn't go into it with the same expectations
- 56:43of this is like Spielberg's great final comedy
- 56:48project or anything like that. I thought the
- 56:51movie was really unique. It was really good.
- 56:54I really, really, really liked it. I think that
- 56:56going in knowing that it's not Spielberg's best
- 56:58movie, but that this is just a good movie that
- 57:00I think... let him tell you the story, let him
- 57:04take you away on this tale. A lot. It crosses
- 57:08genres in a very interesting way because John
- 57:12Williams does the score and he's awesome. And
- 57:15by the way, for those listening and watching,
- 57:19John Williams, he's also done the score for Jaws.
- 57:24Harry Potter, Superman, the grisly movies. Star
- 57:26Wars. If you want a guy that is responsible for
- 57:29the scores, the movie scores that made your childhood,
- 57:32go to John Williams. He's the GOAT. He's the
- 57:34GOAT. He's the GOAT. But go ahead. And Hans Zimmer,
- 57:35Hans Zimmer's number two, I think. Oh yeah, Hans
- 57:37Zimmer as well. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But remind
- 57:40me what Disclosure Day is about and why. The
- 57:43premise of the movie is that there's life that
- 57:44is greater than humanity or greater than human
- 57:47intelligence. The universe is filled with all
- 57:51sorts of intelligent life. And the question that
- 57:54remains is, can humans handle being told this
- 57:57idea or not? And there's two camps. There's the
- 58:02institutional camp that says, absolutely not.
- 58:05collapse the world into chaos and definitely
- 58:08don't do that. And then there's the minority,
- 58:11which is we have the right to know, especially
- 58:13if this is something that is so earth literally
- 58:16life changing, so earth shattering. So and all
- 58:18these words are like so literal, right? Earth
- 58:20shattering and life changing that how can you
- 58:23not? You can't hold this back. And in fact, you
- 58:25should probably come out with a plan in order
- 58:27to the secret. The answer isn't to necessarily
- 58:31not tell people, but tell them in a way that
- 58:33could be, you know, that could be digested, perhaps.
- 58:36And the movie has a real tone of urgency. Like,
- 58:40it's really speaking to the time. You know, coincidence
- 58:43not, matrix or not, glitch or not, the next day
- 58:46another trove of UFO files were released, the
- 58:48day after the movie came out. Which obviously
- 58:53sounds a little bit like a joke to me, but you
- 58:55never know. It's not, it's real. Yeah, but I
- 58:58would say that... for a far better version of
- 59:01the almost the exact same thing, the 1997 movie
- 59:04Contact, directed by Robert Zemeinkis and starring
- 59:07Jodie Foster and Matthew McConaughey. I just
- 59:10watched that this week and I, every half an hour
- 59:13or so was like, what the hell? It blew my mind.
- 59:18I thought I was just crazy. Sorry? What's that
- 59:20movie about? Similar premise. That humanity is
- 59:24not alone, but... It's discovered by a by Jodie
- 59:28Foster, who's a scientist who is obsessed with
- 59:31radio. And she when she's a kid, she lives in
- 59:34Michigan and she radios all the way down to Pensacola,
- 59:36Florida. And then as adult scientist, she's radio
- 59:39into space. And that movie I thought that I was
- 59:43just high and I was like that maybe that's why
- 59:45it's blowing mine And then I forced my wife to
- 59:47watch it and she every half an hour or so. She
- 59:49was like Okay, good. I'm not crazy That's wonderful,
- 59:55I love that and finally what is a delicious thing
- 59:59that has happened in your life lately I spent
- 1:00:04the last four years teaching high school English
- 1:00:06part -time and I felt like I was juggling too
- 1:00:10much. I had the podcast. I have two kids. I do
- 1:00:13sales and business development. I taught high
- 1:00:16school. I practiced jiu -jitsu. I played music.
- 1:00:20I felt like I could not. I kept on trying to
- 1:00:22juggle all these balls and something kept on
- 1:00:25falling. So I put teaching on hold for this upcoming
- 1:00:28year. And I have to, and I'm deliciously learning
- 1:00:33how to be still for like, I got, I found an extra
- 1:00:37four or five hours of my day every day now. And
- 1:00:40that is like crazy. And I don't even know what
- 1:00:43to do with it. So I'm still trying to process
- 1:00:45this time. Cause I'm, I'm like you, like when
- 1:00:47you're going, going, going, when you have all
- 1:00:49these things going on and then you're like, fuck,
- 1:00:51like I gotta like settle down or else I will
- 1:00:55pass out. And then all of a sudden you have this
- 1:00:57big chunk of time that you've that where it's
- 1:00:59free and you have nothing to do, you can either
- 1:01:02like lean into it and be relieved and love that
- 1:01:06time. Or you can go crazy because you're so used
- 1:01:08to going, going, going. And all of a sudden you're
- 1:01:10just uncomfortable with the silence, with your
- 1:01:12thoughts, with doing nothing. Um, that's good,
- 1:01:16man. That's, that's, that, that's good that you,
- 1:01:18uh, have, uh, taken some stuff off your plate,
- 1:01:20that you have trimmed the fat, so to speak. Um,
- 1:01:23I went through a similar thing last year, 2025.
- 1:01:26I had pretty much. I think they call it a quarter
- 1:01:29life crisis, even though I feel like quarter
- 1:01:31life is like 25 years old and I'm 34, but it's
- 1:01:34a younger version of a midlife crisis. Sure.
- 1:01:37Where last year I was just like, fuck, like I
- 1:01:39feel like I'm getting older and my wife and I,
- 1:01:41we eventually want to have kids. And I feel like
- 1:01:44I need to like do everything that I. aspired
- 1:01:48or dreamed about doing like right now. And last
- 1:01:51year was just so overwhelming because not only
- 1:01:52was I doing this podcast, but I was trying to
- 1:01:55get back into acting in a much more full timey
- 1:01:59professional sense, much like I wanted to do
- 1:02:02when I was like in my high school and college
- 1:02:03years and in my twenties. And I also dabbled
- 1:02:07in voiceover. I was paying a certain price. Yeah.
- 1:02:10Yeah. I was paying a certain amount of money
- 1:02:11for coaching, you know, I'm, I'm being told like,
- 1:02:13Oh yeah, you have a great voice for voiceover
- 1:02:14and you could like, you know, make some money
- 1:02:16off of it. So I was like, Oh sure. Let me try
- 1:02:18this out. So yeah. And also I'm driving 10 to
- 1:02:2213 hours a day on the road, four days a week,
- 1:02:25Uber and Lyft driving to pay the bills. So, uh,
- 1:02:28driving more than 40 hours a week, podcasting.
- 1:02:32Usually I set aside a day like this to, you know,
- 1:02:34produce, uh, record, edit, all the stuff for
- 1:02:37the podcast. And then I'm, you know, doing voiceover
- 1:02:40coaching, which is not just in the moment being
- 1:02:42taught, but also there's homework you got to
- 1:02:44do afterwards. And also, you know, acting opportunities.
- 1:02:48I would audition for film and TV stuff. I would
- 1:02:50get involved in theater stuff. And that's also
- 1:02:53a big commitment with, you know, rehearsing the
- 1:02:55lines and getting into character, blah, blah,
- 1:02:57blah. So it was a lot last year. I felt like
- 1:03:00I was terrible self -esteem wise. felt tired
- 1:03:04all the time. And one by one, with the help of
- 1:03:08my therapist, I began to ask myself, what are
- 1:03:11the value of each of these things that you are
- 1:03:15putting on your plate? And one by one, it was
- 1:03:18like, okay, voiceover, the only value that I've
- 1:03:21seen in it is that I could make money from it.
- 1:03:23But other than that, like, as far as like the
- 1:03:26actual work of it all, I was miserable, even
- 1:03:29though I would occasionally get positive reinforcement
- 1:03:31from my teacher. I just did not feel good. I
- 1:03:35just, I didn't feel good reading someone else's
- 1:03:38script. I just didn't get much energy or passion
- 1:03:40from it. And I'm spending 150 bucks every two
- 1:03:42weeks for it. Uh, so. Uh, yeah, not cheap, not
- 1:03:46cheap in this economy. So, uh, I decided to just
- 1:03:50try out like missing a week or so just to break
- 1:03:54from it and see how I felt about it. And then
- 1:03:56that turned into what it is now. I mean, I haven't
- 1:03:57gone back since and I haven't missed it. So voiceover
- 1:04:00is gone. I used to, um, uh, get acting coaching
- 1:04:03from my former high school theater director to
- 1:04:05like really get back into a professional sense
- 1:04:08of acting. And then, um, all of a sudden I realized
- 1:04:11like, oh, wait a minute, like the way that I
- 1:04:14felt about acting when I was in my teens and
- 1:04:16twenties is just not how I feel now. How I feel
- 1:04:19now is I would prefer acting to be like a more
- 1:04:22fun, occasional hobby, something that I occasionally
- 1:04:24get paid for. And what it was in my teens and
- 1:04:26twenties was full -time, intense. Like this is
- 1:04:29something that you have to dedicate your time
- 1:04:30to. So realizing that I didn't have the energy
- 1:04:33for acting like in a sort of intense way, I took
- 1:04:35away the coaching and I just leaned into just.
- 1:04:38getting involved in, you know, local theater
- 1:04:40in Vermont and maybe, you know, maybe looking
- 1:04:42into a film or TV thing. Um, I did one of those
- 1:04:45micro dramas in LA. I don't know if you've ever
- 1:04:47seen a one or two minute micro drama, but I shot
- 1:04:49one of those really quickly. So that's cool.
- 1:04:52Yeah. Um, so the acting coaching got, got taken
- 1:04:54away and then, um, uh, I still obviously have
- 1:04:57to do driving to pay my bills, but really what's
- 1:05:01left is the podcast and the podcast has always
- 1:05:03been a passion of mine because Throughout all
- 1:05:06the external validation that I've been trying
- 1:05:08to seek from like, you know working in commercial
- 1:05:10radio for eight years and Doing voiceover and
- 1:05:13an acting coaching the podcast represented Oh,
- 1:05:16this is something that I can create for myself
- 1:05:20that you know, maybe others will enjoy maybe
- 1:05:21they won't but at the end of the day It's something
- 1:05:23that feels true and authentic to me. I like creating
- 1:05:26something I like putting it out there on my own
- 1:05:28terms I love having conversations with a variety
- 1:05:30of interesting people like yourself Uh, and I've
- 1:05:33been podcasting for, for six years and I know.
- 1:05:36Nice. I know. Yeah. Yeah. And, you know, they
- 1:05:38had to take some hiatus this year and there when
- 1:05:40I was burned out, you know, from doing radio
- 1:05:42and podcasting at the same time, cause that's
- 1:05:44a lot of content creating, but, um, yeah, I just
- 1:05:47realized that, Oh, wait a minute. This podcast
- 1:05:49is really like the one true creative endeavor
- 1:05:52that I really, really value. It's something that
- 1:05:54I create on my own that I can call. uh myself
- 1:05:58an expression of myself and I love the creative
- 1:06:01stimulation of like creating something week after
- 1:06:03week talking to different kinds of people producing
- 1:06:05content you know things like that the best thing
- 1:06:07isn't it yeah yeah yeah yeah so um so I have
- 1:06:10to thank my therapist Barbara because she had
- 1:06:13a therapist everyone should go to therapy man
- 1:06:15big believer in that Has she not tell me that,
- 1:06:18you know, Hey, like figure out what is the value
- 1:06:20of what you're doing in your life. I probably
- 1:06:22would have still, you know, done like five or
- 1:06:25six things at the same time and driven myself
- 1:06:26and probably my wife crazy. Cause you know, it
- 1:06:28was affecting my time with my wife too. So, yeah,
- 1:06:30yeah, yeah, sure. Um, so I'm, yeah, I'm so glad
- 1:06:32that you are, um, that you have chosen to, uh,
- 1:06:36take a little bit of a break. So what, what is
- 1:06:39your, uh, what is your plate looking like? What
- 1:06:41are, what are your main focus now? Um, My focus
- 1:06:46is now, I mean, huge part obviously is family.
- 1:06:50You know, my wife, kids, I happen to live, most
- 1:06:53of my family lives in New York, Connecticut,
- 1:06:56New Jersey, Tri -State area. So, but I'm Orthodox
- 1:07:01Jewish and I'm very close with my community.
- 1:07:03I go to synagogue two, three times a day. And
- 1:07:06actually a big part of, in addition to talking
- 1:07:11to people about whatever I'm dealing with, is
- 1:07:14praying has been very reflective and really,
- 1:07:16really helpful. I feel like I'm kind of re -associating
- 1:07:20what my understanding of what my goals should
- 1:07:22be. But most of my energy right now is family.
- 1:07:28podcast and then whatever I got to do to make
- 1:07:30whatever whatever sales I got to do to make money.
- 1:07:32So I really want the podcast. The goal is to
- 1:07:35set to maybe take this next year or two and set
- 1:07:38up the podcast and my business and work in a
- 1:07:41way that I could go back to teaching, but have
- 1:07:44a much healthier handle over it. When I started
- 1:07:46teaching, I didn't have kids when I started teaching.
- 1:07:48I didn't have a mortgage. I started teaching.
- 1:07:50I didn't have the podcast, you know, and all
- 1:07:52of a sudden all this stuff just pops up in your
- 1:07:55life. And then you go. Oh, crap, man. Like I
- 1:07:58just it's just too much. You know, so so and
- 1:08:01then and I mean, and I love consuming. I love
- 1:08:04I love TV. I love music. I love I love reading.
- 1:08:07I'm reading. I'm reading more books now than
- 1:08:09I have in years. And I finally get a chance to
- 1:08:12watch shows that my friends and neighbors I freaking
- 1:08:14loved on Apple TV. I thought was incredible.
- 1:08:20Isn't John Hamm in that show? Yeah, John Hamm.
- 1:08:23Sure. Yeah. And then it started Mad Men and I
- 1:08:25was like, it's too much John Hamm. Mad Men is
- 1:08:29a good watch. I remember when it was still on
- 1:08:33the air on AMC and it was the show that everybody
- 1:08:37was talking about. This was like the late 2000s,
- 1:08:39early 2010s era of like prestige TV. You got
- 1:08:43to watch Mad Men, Breaking Bad, The Sopranos,
- 1:08:45Girls. He loves Kano's, Entourage. Scandal, like
- 1:08:50all these water cooler shows that people were
- 1:08:54talking about. Entourage, yes, Entourage included.
- 1:08:57Boardwalk Empire, you could put that in there.
- 1:09:00And Mad Men, I tried it a first time and could
- 1:09:03not get into it, but then because I was younger
- 1:09:06and wanted to like... you know, be a part of
- 1:09:08the cool crowd. Like I gave it another spin and
- 1:09:12yeah, I remember just being into it. I remember
- 1:09:14it was like summer of 2010. I was summer counseling
- 1:09:17at a camp in between like college semesters.
- 1:09:21And, uh, I think I got like mad men on DVD from
- 1:09:25my local library because this was before streaming.
- 1:09:27This was before, you know, that became a thing
- 1:09:30with Netflix and such. So, uh, just being able
- 1:09:32to like grab those DVDs from the library and
- 1:09:35like really binge this, uh, interesting view
- 1:09:38of like, um, of Madison Avenue and advertising
- 1:09:42and the sixties and certainly the misogyny and
- 1:09:44the masculinity. Oh yeah. Oh yeah. Yeah. Well,
- 1:09:47yeah, with Don Draper, he's certainly a flawed
- 1:09:49character, but, um, So when you're saying too
- 1:09:52much Jon Hamm, are you saying that, like, you
- 1:09:54aren't a fan of the show? No, I love him, but
- 1:09:57I can't... I mean, think about... You know, one
- 1:09:59of the things I love about the long -form TV,
- 1:10:01especially since, like, the mid -2000s, since
- 1:10:04that, like, really the Sopranos era kind of kicked
- 1:10:07off, but really even before that with, like,
- 1:10:09Oz and other HBO shows, was you have a chance
- 1:10:12to tell a long -form story with a lot of depth
- 1:10:17in a way that a movie just can't. And so... You
- 1:10:21know, I, so on one hand, that's awesome. On the
- 1:10:23other hand, it's a lot of Jon Hamm lodging like,
- 1:10:26you know, 20 hours of Jon hair, you know, 25
- 1:10:28hours in the week. It's funny because I watched,
- 1:10:31my wife and I watched Homeland earlier this year.
- 1:10:33Oh my God. Oh yes, me too. Yeah. We literally
- 1:10:36finished, we finished Homeland like probably
- 1:10:39a month or so ago. Oh God, what a fantastic show.
- 1:10:42Well, and what's more incredible about it is
- 1:10:44that If you think about HBO shows, they have
- 1:10:47like 10, 12 episodes in a season. Maybe 15 if
- 1:10:49they're stretching it. Homeland did like 25 hour
- 1:10:52plus long episodes per season for like seven
- 1:10:55seasons. At the time, the networks considered
- 1:10:58a season of television like 20 to 25 episodes.
- 1:11:01So there was a lot of... Content there's a lot
- 1:11:04of television. So homeland a homeland actually
- 1:11:06had 12 episodes a season. It was on Showtime
- 1:11:08Really was it more? I was it was yeah. Yeah.
- 1:11:11Yeah, we literally did a Yeah, yeah, yeah, no
- 1:11:15home homeland was on Showtime and You know when
- 1:11:18I think of Showtime I think of like Dexter like
- 1:11:20that That was another show in that sort of 200
- 1:11:22to 2010s prestige TV era But no, no, no homeland
- 1:11:26a homeland was in that sort of HBO Showtime premium
- 1:11:29cable We're only gonna have like 10 to 12 episodes
- 1:11:31a season. Oh, yeah You're right, actually. Why
- 1:11:34did it feel so long? Because it was intense,
- 1:11:38pretty much every episode, I mean, because it
- 1:11:40deals with terrorism. What a great show. What
- 1:11:41a great show. Fantastic. Yeah, it deals with
- 1:11:44terrorism and Carrie Matheson and her bipolar
- 1:11:47disorder as she's a member of the CIA. Incredible.
- 1:11:51Yeah, I don't know. Me and my wife, we watched
- 1:11:53it. We certainly talked a lot about it in a podcast
- 1:11:55episode that people can see on this Delicious
- 1:11:58Culture feed at some point, if they wish. Yeah,
- 1:12:01God, I felt sad when it ended as you do with
- 1:12:05any show that you're attached to because you
- 1:12:06just feel like you have a special bond with these
- 1:12:09characters and their storylines and to just have
- 1:12:13it be over just like that. That's sort of the
- 1:12:16downside of like having a show all at once available
- 1:12:19to you on streaming and then you can just binge
- 1:12:20it all is that, you know, if you're really into
- 1:12:23the show, like you could get through it all in
- 1:12:25like a month or so. And then all of a sudden
- 1:12:26it's like, oh, it's done. Whereas with Homeland,
- 1:12:29if you watched it in real time on Showtime, then
- 1:12:31you were literally on this nine year journey
- 1:12:35of Carrie Matheson and company. It felt too real
- 1:12:38to me, man. I asked someone, I did a podcast
- 1:12:43with the former CIA guy. And I was like, dude.
- 1:12:46How'd that movie get made? How'd that show get
- 1:12:48made? How did anyone let that show get made?
- 1:12:51Because I do know that there's times where government
- 1:12:53does step in and say, hey, we're not letting
- 1:12:55you make this, we're not letting you tell the
- 1:12:57story this way because it's too important that
- 1:12:59the national perspective on this is not that.
- 1:13:03Yeah, I did a great episode of the guy named
- 1:13:05Tom Sucker, who I actually would recommend reaching
- 1:13:08out to because he was an awesome guest. And he's
- 1:13:11an investigative journalist between the relationship
- 1:13:13between Hollywood and government. And his website
- 1:13:16is called spyculture .com. And he has all these
- 1:13:20foils and all these documents that he's got from
- 1:13:23intel agencies, from NASA, from the Department
- 1:13:26of Defense, the Pentagon. And their relationship
- 1:13:30with Hollywood goes back to the 50s, goes back
- 1:13:32even earlier than that. So, you know, because
- 1:13:35the government realizes, knows how useful of
- 1:13:40a weapon Hollywood is. You could tell enormous
- 1:13:43stories and create very powerful narratives that
- 1:13:46millions of people consume and really shapes
- 1:13:49and forms their perspectives. And so you want
- 1:13:52to make sure that the movie that you're making,
- 1:13:55like Miracle, the awesome hockey movie, the USA
- 1:13:571980 Olympic hockey team. That's an American
- 1:14:02propaganda movie in the best way, but the Americans
- 1:14:04are the good guys and the heroes, and the Russians
- 1:14:06are the bad guys and the villains, and that is
- 1:14:09the way the world works, and that's what it is.
- 1:14:15So I was confused how it got made and the CIA
- 1:14:18guy's response to me was there are times where
- 1:14:21they will lean into the bad guy, you know, like
- 1:14:24good cop, bad cop perspective too. They don't
- 1:14:26mind leaning into both perspectives. So there's
- 1:14:27times where the CIA can be the best thing in
- 1:14:29the entire world, like the movie Argo with Ben
- 1:14:31Affleck. Gosh, I forgot who else was in it, but
- 1:14:34whatever. And then, oh, Bryan Cranston. And then,
- 1:14:38yeah. And then there were times where you lean
- 1:14:40into it in a little bit of a negative way, but
- 1:14:42scary negative. Like, hey, don't mess around
- 1:14:43with us. And that's kind of a homeland, it feels
- 1:14:45like. Yeah. I remember, God, George and Megan,
- 1:14:49these fantastic people, they host a podcast called
- 1:14:51No Season Two, where they basically review shows
- 1:14:55that did not get a second season. And... Megan
- 1:14:59also watched Homeland and was talking about like
- 1:15:04how she felt there was Islamophobia in that show
- 1:15:07that would not hold up today. And I actually
- 1:15:10was confused when she said that because if anything,
- 1:15:14Certainly, yeah, there were moments where like,
- 1:15:16you know, the terrorist characters, like they
- 1:15:18were just seen emphatically as like, oh, yeah,
- 1:15:20this is the bad guy. They're trying to inflict
- 1:15:22harm. But then you look later on and there was
- 1:15:25this particular terrorist that did a lot of fucking
- 1:15:28damage. I mean, this was the terrorist. Yeah,
- 1:15:30the main guy I know you're talking about. Yeah,
- 1:15:32yeah. Like he like he he held a bunch of people
- 1:15:34hostage in the CIA office building, shot some
- 1:15:37people, blah, blah, blah. But then his art just
- 1:15:40turns around and he becomes this guy that's looking
- 1:15:42for peace. with the U .S. trying to figure that
- 1:15:46out with Saul Berenson who also works for the
- 1:15:48CIA and... Manny Patinkin. Manny Patinkin, yeah.
- 1:15:52Fantastic. My father prepared to die. Wait, what?
- 1:15:56He's Inigo Montoya from The Princess Bride. Oh,
- 1:15:58okay. Yeah. My name's Inigo Montoya. He killed
- 1:16:01my father prepared to die. Oh. To be honest,
- 1:16:05my high school science teacher showed us that
- 1:16:06movie and I was not into it. I'm sorry. I don't
- 1:16:09like the movie. Revisit. It may be worth it.
- 1:16:11But I'll try to watch it again. I will try to
- 1:16:13watch it again. And I know Manny Patinkia, my
- 1:16:16wife, she's also a fan of the show Criminal Minds.
- 1:16:18I know he's in Criminal Minds as well. But anyway,
- 1:16:21no, no, no. But what I liked about Homeland was
- 1:16:23that they could have easily been, you know, especially
- 1:16:26like, you know, in the 2010s of it all when we
- 1:16:29were still in Afghanistan. And I know like Osama
- 1:16:33bin Laden just got assassinated in 2011 when
- 1:16:35Homeland began. And, you know, everybody was
- 1:16:38like erupting and cheering across the street
- 1:16:39for that. Um, but yeah, the Homeland both showed
- 1:16:44that yes, like, you know, these terrorist organizations,
- 1:16:47the Al Qaeda's and such, there are definitely
- 1:16:50genuinely bad people that want to cause harm
- 1:16:52to the U S and humanity. But also within that
- 1:16:56there are compassionate people, people that either
- 1:16:59a lot. I thought Homeland is very fair. It made
- 1:17:01me, it made me rethink a lot of things. It forced
- 1:17:03me to think a lot about how much of our perspective
- 1:17:06in our relationship with. our other human neighbors
- 1:17:10and other human family members are manufactured.
- 1:17:13And how much our perception of them is not necessarily
- 1:17:16as black and white as we were raised to think.
- 1:17:21I mean, again, the show revolves around the Middle
- 1:17:25East conflict. So there's going to be terrorism,
- 1:17:27there's going to be displays of... There feels
- 1:17:31like a lot more, there feels like a lot of American
- 1:17:32terrorism in that movie, as far as, you know,
- 1:17:35and Israeli terrorism in that movie. Oh, yeah.
- 1:17:36In the show, rather, for sure. But so I think
- 1:17:39it's, I feel like it's more fair than most other
- 1:17:42portrayals in cinema recently, but it really
- 1:17:45does provide this new perspective on the Muslim
- 1:17:48religion, first of all, that I think a lot of
- 1:17:50people were not prepared for. Yeah. And even
- 1:17:53that idea, if we open our, again, there's probably
- 1:17:58a ton of value. Every religion, every religion
- 1:18:01generally has a lot more value than not. And
- 1:18:04I think that we were, you know, the America in
- 1:18:08particular for the last 60, 70 years has been
- 1:18:10on this kind of crusade against religion. And,
- 1:18:13you know, obviously, you know, no system is perfect.
- 1:18:15Everything has their flaws. But there's a lot
- 1:18:18to, I'm sure there's a lot to the Muslim faith,
- 1:18:21Islam faith that is extremely valuable that I
- 1:18:24bet would have a very positive impact on the
- 1:18:25world. And, you know, this is coming from an
- 1:18:28Orthodox Jew. You know, I think that generally
- 1:18:32belief in God is a good thing. Belief in community,
- 1:18:34belief in charity, belief in modesty, belief
- 1:18:36in caring for one another is generally a good
- 1:18:38thing. And so I... I'm a fan. I thought the show
- 1:18:43was very fair for the most part. Yeah, I mean,
- 1:18:44you take Nicholas Brody from the first three
- 1:18:47seasons, the American prisoner of war who comes
- 1:18:49home and then realizes like, oh, wait a minute.
- 1:18:52maybe fighting for my country wasn't a great
- 1:18:53idea. Maybe the Muslims are the people that I
- 1:18:56want to side more with. Um, and then again, like,
- 1:18:59you know, the terrorists, uh, you know, some
- 1:19:00of them like wanting peace with the U S and,
- 1:19:03and the fact that yes, you could go from bad
- 1:19:05to good, so to speak. So yeah, there was a lot
- 1:19:07of nuance and layers in terms of who could be
- 1:19:10the good guy, who could be the enemy and, and,
- 1:19:12and Homeland. And I really appreciated that.
- 1:19:14Efrem, thank you so much for being on the podcast.
- 1:19:16Uh, if you can, uh, plug away, like how do, how
- 1:19:19can people follow you on socials? How can people
- 1:19:20follow your Podcasts, everything. Great question.
- 1:19:22Thank you. Come together with Afraim Hirschman
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