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Blazing Budz Subs Raves and Sex Stores · ABJ

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  What's going on everybody? We are back again.
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  Blazing Buds episode 4. Yeah.
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  Yikes, 4 and already so once again be pulling the curtain
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  back. This has is airing before
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  actually episode 3 is going to be airing.
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  I'm going to check just real quick the comment sections to
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  see if anyone did comment things that we can address first.
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  That just kind of came to my head.
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  My makeup got addressed. Our makeup.
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  Makeup got addressed. Multiple times Courtney brought
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  it up in the chat, asked about references if you want to see.
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  I did respond to her in a Instagram slash Facebook post
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  that where I show examples of the different kinds of makeup I
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  was doing. And then last Wednesday, I went
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  to Pill Guru and Abby so that she felt personally attacked
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  because somebody, Tony says it was his line.
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  She thought it was your line, said that.
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  Oh, there's some girls that have just been doing the same makeup
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  since middle school. That was definitely me.
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  Definitely. Yeah.
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  So real quick too, audio wise on YouTube, 5 plays.
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  The video for last week almost hit 100 plays.
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  It was at 95. It has 10 thumbs up and three
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  comments, which is super exciting because a lot of the
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  videos don't go that high. So that's pretty, that's pretty
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  dope. How do I become a guest?
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  Lol Bri bring me from Swaggies. Oh yeah, she did comment that.
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  Yeah, So I'm not sure who you are, but maybe, maybe a guess.
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  We'll see. She's great.
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  She's great. We'll see.
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  We'll see if you pass the vibe check.
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  But yeah, maybe. I mean, let me lower this a
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  little bit. If I hate this, all right, I
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  need a producer. I need like someone to come do
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  shit for me. That's all I got there.
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  Let's see how and then our actual YouTube channel.
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  So if you're watching this on the ABJ channel.
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  Two comments. It was, you said.
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  Hey freaks the that. Was the other?
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  Nah, yeah. Wrong.
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  Totally not wrong. And the 1st.
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  That was on the 1st episode. With bang and beer blazing Buds
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  actual profile only one view one like and one comment that was
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  all Courtney and they said I don't wear makeup.
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  I don't know why where I actually watched but I watched
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  this two Times Now I need Lily to post these two looks now.
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  So they wanted you to post your looks that you did.
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  I believe you 4 or. 5. And you did that on your
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  Instagram, so I don't know if I have your social medias on our
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  stuff, but I will put it in the links in the bio.
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  So tell me which ones you're comfortable giving to people and
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  we'll put those in the link so people can follow you as well.
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  So if you talk about something like I'll post on my Instagram
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  for everyone to see and like I'll #blazing buds it so you can
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  check that hashtag and we can all kind of maybe we'll start
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  that this episode we'll use #blazing buds.
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  So for something on our social medias that you guys want to see
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  or something like that, it could be something that all of us can
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  participate in the in the hashtag.
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  Or if there's something we talked about a lot more.
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  Context yeah, so yeah, you can just on Instagram, Facebook are
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  probably the two better ones you can hashtag I know I've been
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  posting a lot of stuff on Snapchat as well too.
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  I just looked at my stats. 137,000 views in the last 28
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  days. That's awesome.
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  That's. A lot.
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  I don't get any engagement and it's not translating over to
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  Facebook or YouTube. But I mean.
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  It's getting a lot on on Snapchat.
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  I don't know if I would say you don't get any engagement.
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  You get snaps all day long from people.
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  I do, but they're just, I think it's like people just sending
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  streak stuff like they don't really care about our our
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  friendship or our conversation. Just like here's here's my wall.
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  But that's. Still somebody watching your
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  content, you know what I mean? Yeah.
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  Sure. There's people.
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  Listen, I used to be one of those people that I would wake
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  up in the morning, smoke AJ, drink my coffee and go through
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  all of my stories and just see. There's no way I can do that
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  because I follow. I followed a bunch of people on
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  my quick ad. That's why I don't do that.
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  That's probably the reason why I get a lot of views, because I I
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  have so many people on my friends list, right?
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  Which is kind of the reason I did it, because to promote the
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  show more, get more eyes. Yeah.
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  So that is a thing, merchandise still available.
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  The hoodies are now shipping. So if you ordered the
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  embroidered hoodies, we did find out that the I Heart AVJ ones
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  had an issue with the designing and stuff like that so they had
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  to they had to redo the design so it was able to pre print it.
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  My friend ordered the Saint Patty's day one and he he got it
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  and it looks great. So they do a good job with the
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  embroidery. The ABJ logo is available on all
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  hats now, so I put it on all different hats.
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  So that's on the teespring. Yeah.
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  So that's pretty much a tons of Blazing Bud stuff.
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  Everything else is there. Go grab it.
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  My cousin bought a Bud. Actually, my cousin, I don't
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  think they bought a Blazing Bud shirt.
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  They bought the ABJ 420 shirt, the ABJ 666 shirt, but they did
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  get Blazing Buds stickers. So there is now a Blazing Bud
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  sticker in the world that will be on someone's car driving
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  around. And well, since these episodes
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  have dropped, have you become more famous because of the
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  podcast? And after hearing about when
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  news went to the place in Pottsville.
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  Yes. Adult sexy one Yeah yeah, yes so
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  we got recognized at the at the at the adult store.
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  I, I, I hate saying the sex store 'cause I feel like that
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  'cause it makes it sound dirty and, and, and I and like, yeah,
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  and we did have a whole conversation with.
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  Sometimes there's just cute tops in there.
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  It doesn't. Have to be Oh my gosh, they have
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  like so much stuff that was I'm going back.
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  They had a lot of stuff that like in with their like fishnets
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  and stuff or 4. Of them, they had a gorgeous.
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  And they had like these, there was the most beautiful corset.
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  It was like purple. It was a purple set.
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  And it was so pretty. And I'm like they actually have
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  my size. Great selection with clothing.
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  Great selection with and clothing for all sizes.
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  Maybe not so much your time. You couldn't find a lot of
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  smalls. Much in a small which that's OK.
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  Like I get it because smalls do go fast, especially I feel like
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  especially with lingerie, there's only so many sex stores,
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  lingerie stores, whatever you want to call it in the area.
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  And there is, I would say it's 12:50 strip club to sex store
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  ratio. But this had like nightwear gear
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  and stuff too. Yeah, but I mean, like, I, what
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  I'm saying is like, I feel like smalls go faster because that's
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  what most people are wearing when they're strippers.
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  They're not going to Victoria's Secret to spend $80.00 on an
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  outfit that's going to bust as soon as they go on the pole 2
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  times. We're going to go to the sex
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  store that's a little cheaper, still has really nice stuff.
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  But but like lingerie but also like nighty wear stuff that's
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  not so revealing but it's more comfortable with silk, like
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  silky and like. Like.
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  They're very, yeah, very conscious about everyone and
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  everyone's things and everyone's ideas.
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  Hold on of tons of soaps and like incense and cleaning things
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  and hygiene products and like I was very impressed of that place
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  and I thought it's very clean. I thought the staff was amazing.
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  They're the conversations, the conversations good.
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  The pricing was good. They had sales even if it was
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  like maybe like one thing was one price and the one next was
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  not that they'll work with you like they're like they were
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  nice. They were super, super cool
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  people. The owner is someone that
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  they're talking about. They're they're all someone
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  who's like a registered nurse. So they they want to help people
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  not just in medicine, but in that too of like, hey, you can
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  go and get something for a medical thing or you can get it
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  from the store and it's a lot cheaper.
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  You don't need to go through your insurance or like different
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  things like that where it's a place to like, I don't know, it
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  was just a really dope place. And I and I think a lot of I
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  think a lot of the people in the local area, look at Roots,
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  that's a 61 shop and they give it a negative connotation or
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  people go in there and do fucking horrible things to these
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  people. Like just fucking treat it with
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  respect. It's not there to fucking Yeah.
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  It's not there just for what you think it's there for.
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  It's, it's, it's a, it's a safe place for people.
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  And it's not just they're like, listen, I, I probably, I don't
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  know if I'll go back for anything on the adult side of
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  things if, because most of it would be stuff she's into.
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  But honestly, some of this men's soaps and some of the the men's
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  hygiene products they have, they smell really good and they like
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  there's beard wash and there's beard soaps and face washes and
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  body soaps and stuff like that and it's like less.
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  Bad Dragons and more. Yeah, I mean the bad Dragons are
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  still there. You can get your creature cock
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  or I was going. To say they're creature cocks,
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  bad Dragons, you have to go on Bad dragon.
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  Or you can get really nice smelling soaps and if maybe,
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  maybe that's your thing of like, I don't want to go to Walmart
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  because they don't have the soaps I want.
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  But the sex store has ones that are like cater to men where you
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  can feel more masculine because you're having masculine smells.
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  You know what I mean? Like there was a lot of there
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  was a little bit of everything there for people.
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  It was really cool, really cool. And I'll, I'll, I'll, I'll put
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  this out there. If you're someone who like
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  cleans up your area down there, men, they sell for women.
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  I'm going to I'm going to let you sit on the secret.
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  Ladies, I'm sorry for outing you.
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  There's this stuff called coochie cream and it's better.
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  Dare you. It's better, you know, it's
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  better than shaving cream. It's better than shaving cream.
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  First buy it, fellas. Coochie.
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  Cream, I'm not mad about you guys using this.
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  Here's what I'm going to say. So if you have the audacity to
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  go into your girl's shit, ask her how to use it because it is
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  a pea size amount. Will you work on your entire
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  leg? And this man is over here
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  spreading it like ketchup for this little bit of spot he's
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  going to put on his freaking I. Didn't.
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  Know about Coochie? Cream it like.
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  We're going to. We're going to go in there.
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  Better. Than shave.
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  It shaves way close to the skin. Yeah, it gets.
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  Super no irritation. Skin conditioner, but it also
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  like pulls it pulls the follicles up like it opens them
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  up and then you get the closer shape, but it also conditions
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  you as it's doing it so you guys just put you on razor bumps I.
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  Just put you on. Yeah, you put me.
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  On coochie cream. It started in like those pure
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  Romance parties. They were the only ones who
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  carried it. It was like coochie cream by
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  Pure Romance. And then I guess it just like
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  built off enough that they just have like an entire.
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  My God, I'm gonna get myself some.
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  Coochie, we need some nut. We need some nut.
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  Slack slather. Come on, Coochie.
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  Cream have. You make a make a, dude.
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  Version manscaped that makes that weird shit, what is it?
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  Called. It's good too.
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  Manscape makes the They do have a good nut butter, yeah.
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  I don't. Want to hear it.
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  I don't know if it's as good as coochie cream, but we'll have to
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  I'll have to experiment. I'll have to experiment.
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  But no, they were super nice. Everybody there was really cool.
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  We went because Lily needed some stuff for an upcoming show.
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  We're going to that rave. I'll she'll probably talk talk
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  more about it later on the episode, but grabbed everything
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  she needed for the rave and and and we got to see some other
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  cool stuff there and it was it was nice.
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  I really like their store. We've been to a lot of different
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  adult stores and stuff like that and the selection and the like.
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  It didn't you didn't feel like some some adult stores you go
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  into, you feel a little kind of cringy, cringy or a little like
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  grossed out or maybe like you could tell a.
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  Little too much. Like I went to the one in Philly
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  and it was like, I went upstairs and there's diapers and I was
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  like. Yeah, well, sometimes too, a lot
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  of sex stores will very heavily lean into one demographic or one
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  thing. So like if they overload on
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  movies, they have no toys or they go hard on toys.
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  But like there's always that imbalance of things like the
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  lingerie section is 1 little rack.
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  You know what I mean? Say is that that I liked about
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  what was this store called? I'm so sorry.
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  Route 61 or 661 or something like that.
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  Route 61 Route. 61. I thought it was OK there.
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  Anyway, this place that we went to, the thing that I liked their
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  setup is that when you walked in, you're walking into
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  lingerie, you have to go through a wall to get to the toys, and
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  then you're going to another wall before you see all the DVDs
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  with just straight, you know, tits and Dicks all.
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  Over it eases you. In to like right, you have to
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  kind of go through it, whereas a lot of the stores that we've
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  been to, it's like, hey. Here's guy on guy.
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  Front and center and you're like.
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  OK, here's the lower top. Here's a lower rubber toast of a
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  woman. Right here's 10 rows of freaking
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  porn before you get to anything else in the.
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  Store, I didn't think of that. That's that is a really good
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  observation of the store you kind of walk into like it eases
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  you into it too. Yeah.
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  Yeah, that's a that's a great observation.
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  Thank you. Really good stuff.
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  Yeah, it was a good Yeah. But they were super cool and
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  they they and they listened to the episode.
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  So that was really nice. So maybe we'll get like a
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  blazing Bud sticker in the store.
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  We'll we'll give them a little thump, something to hang up.
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  Yeah. But I wanted to give them a
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  shout out and thank you for for. New merch rain idea logo just
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  came into my head. What only buds?
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  Only buds. Oh like yeah, we can do that.
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  Or like a Bud's hub, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Yeah, yeah, that'll be fun. But that's pretty much what I
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  got to start it off. Check out the merchandise, stuff
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  like that. Follow us on social media.
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  Links are below, but let's get into our topics today and see
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  where this one goes. Should I just start since we
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  were already kind? Of would you want to go with the
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  weed conversation first? Yeah.
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  So we got to re up a little bit. I don't have mine but we both
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  got OG. Banana OG.
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  Kush Banana OG Kush from Hello Beyond.
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  You got yours was from sencha and yours was an indica 27.6%.
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  I could be wrong on that. Mine was from the bank and mine
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  was a hybrid, but it was still banana OG Kush and mine was 26%.
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  Mine was like a percentage lower, yeah.
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  And then I also got some DS wax, some sugar, and I don't even
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  remember. I think it was Wedding OG Kush,
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  but that one's a sativa. And that's what's gonna.
• 14:10
  How does it feel to be back into the medical marijuana game?
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  I I missed it. I've been, I'll be honest.
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  I'll be honest. I think that I think that
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  getting dyspo weed is worth it. I know everyone's like, oh,
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  you're paying so much. And I'm like, yeah, but I
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  actually, and it's gay for what I right.
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  I feel. More comfortable.
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  Getting exactly, I know exactly what I'm getting.
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  I know the percentages on the back.
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  I could tell you what terpenes it is and everything else.
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  I can look into the research of everything that's into it.
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  But also I feel like you got a better high from it too.
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  Like I'm I it. Takes me more as.
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  Well, right, It takes so much flour.
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  For instance, if I'm smoking St. weed it it'll take me 3-4 bowls
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  before I get high and I'm sitting like earlier today I
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  smoked like an eighth of this and I was like I'm good.
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  So you know what? I mean, I feel like I have.
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  Some fun with some real quick so you know how we do untapped.
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  Oh, are we going to start Leafly?
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  Banana OG it is a Leafly it's called.
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  No, but for which? It's just a banana OG is it's a
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  banana OG but it is a kush weed so it doesn't say kush.
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  No, I know that. But it's just the string.
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  I'm not doing brand, it's just the.
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  String have it by brand just by. String, yeah, I think, I don't
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  think, I think it's kind of like you make a logger, right?
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  But it's just the brand like that I don't have.
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  To, yeah, but if you say like it's a Pilsner, well, what brand
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  of it? Like you know what I mean?
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  Yeah, I don't know. I don't know if they go that
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  route. I don't know.
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  I'll let you know what we'll we'll learn more about it.
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  But a banal OG Kush. This is a 4.3 rated weed 617
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  reviews, 11,000 hearts on it. It is a hybrid a banana OG is an
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  indica dominant cross of an OG Kush and banana.
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  The smell and flavor of overripe bananas.
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  This hybrid definitely earns its name.
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  Banana OG has a a reputation of as it's a creeper leaving those
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  who over in bed in a near comatose state before intense
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  hunger and sleepiness that's in patients treating muscular pain,
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  appetite loss, insomnia may benefit from a Banana OG effects
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  are going to be sleepy relaxed tingly on there.
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  My nose gets tingled when I get when I smoke flavors tree fruit
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  tropical sweet. You probably didn't get a lot of
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  those because we smoked them in a Peach plot helps with anxiety
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  stress and pain. Yeah so that's kind of the write
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  up of a banana OG. What about?
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  Wedding Italian wedding crush I. Didn't know that was going to be
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  a thing. A talent is that is that the the
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  one you have? That's what I got my wax in.
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  I don't see any. I see wedding cake OG.
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  Cush. Oh, that's the one wedding cake.
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  What did I say before? No, I've had Italian wedding.
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  Wedding Cake is also known as the Triangle mints #23 it's put
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  potential as a indica hybrid marijuana strain is crossing
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  Tangled Kush with animal mints. Fun fact in Canada the strain is
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  known as Pink Cookies. The wedding cake strain provides
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  a relaxing, euphoric effect euphoric your fork effects that
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  calm the body and mind and the strain yields a rich and tangy
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  profile with under notes of earthy pepper.
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  Medical marijuana patients choose wedding cake to help
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  relieve symptoms associated with pain, insomnia, and appetite
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  loss. Consumers with a Consumers with
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  low THC tolerance should enjoy this strain with extra slice of
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  care due to its high THC content.
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  Wedding cake also has sorted popularity over the years and is
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  named the Leafly strain of the year in 2019.
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  It has, Yeah. So it's tangled mints #23 pink
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  cookies or Wedding cake is all what it goes by.
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  It's, it's more of a calming 1. It's a high THC low.
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  It's interesting. Though because I got it in a
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  sativa. Yeah, flavor is a vanilla
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  flavor. It's topical, is relaxed,
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  relaxed, aroused or hungry so. It does make me very hungry.
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  I feel like it makes. Me, I thought, I'm going to say
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  it makes you very aroused. No, I'm I'm depressed.
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  Man, vanilla pepper buttery for flavors.
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  Helps with anxiety, stress and depression for that strain, it's
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  good. There you go, New little new
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  feature to the show. We got a Leafly.
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  Yeah, nice little, nice little addition there.
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  But yeah. So let's dive into what you guys
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  wanted to talk chat about today. So while we were talking about
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  us going to the adult store because we're going to a rave
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  this weekend, which is going to be like a wrestling show, so I
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  looked into it. We should like pop in a little
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  thing for it here, but so from 6:00 PM to 10:00 PM is well,
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  fortunately. They're listening to this.
• 18:56
  They won't be able to come join us fair.
• 18:57
  Yeah, but so at any rate, I can still explain how.
• 19:00
  This is going to go though. So from 6:00 PM to 10:00 PM are
• 19:05
  the BDSM exhibitions, and then from 10:00 to 2:30 is the
• 19:13
  wrestling show, and then the rest of it is just the race.
• 19:15
  So from 2:30 to 6:00 AM or whenever I guess the the last
• 19:20
  match ends until 6:00 AM is the rest of the rave party.
• 19:23
  I thought Alex on the impression that they're going to be playing
• 19:25
  music while they wrestle. I think they are, I think, but
• 19:28
  once the wrestling's over, they're still, they have like 8
• 19:31
  DJ's coming. OK, So there is still going to
• 19:34
  be going. There is still going to be DJ's
• 19:35
  going while the wrestling's going.
• 19:37
  But the wrestling's going to end at some point and the rave is
• 19:40
  going to continue. On If you're a DJ and you're DJ
• 19:43
  ING and wrestling master happen. Are you offended?
• 19:47
  I think if. You.
• 19:47
  It's almost like a stand up comic and the TV is on.
• 19:50
  I mean, I guess I feel that, but at the same time, like Wrestle
• 19:54
  Pit has already happened. We've we've been to a few venues
• 19:57
  where they have music going on with the wrestling.
• 20:00
  So I feel like there's definitely DJs that would be
• 20:02
  into it too. That would be like hell yeah.
• 20:03
  I would love to do like a soundtrack for the.
• 20:05
  Band we did. We did the, we didn't do the
• 20:08
  band with the wrestling at the same time the band played.
• 20:11
  And while the band was setting, breaking down and setting up,
• 20:13
  then somebody wrestled. So what I'm saying is if you're
• 20:16
  a DJ. Brewery shows where there have
• 20:19
  been bands while wrestling is happening.
• 20:21
  Sure. I'm just saying this shows that
• 20:22
  we have traditionally done with High Tension, have the bands and
• 20:25
  the DJ like this. There were two separate things.
• 20:28
  So I'm saying if you're a DJ and you pull the hour slot of the
• 20:31
  wrestling and you have to DJ during the wrestling, are you
• 20:34
  mad that no one's dancing because they're watching the
• 20:36
  wrestling? Like, like, is it, do you think?
• 20:38
  I think that's the one I went to.
• 20:39
  I think that's a fair question, but I think it is going to be
• 20:42
  more along the line of how Wrestle a Pit was, where there's
• 20:44
  going to be a DJ, there's going to be their set.
• 20:46
  And then because there's only 5 or 6 matches and that's going to
• 20:51
  be happening for a six hour span, you know what I mean?
• 20:54
  Or a four hour span. I think there's still going to
• 20:56
  be like a set of one DJ, then a match and then another DJ and
• 21:00
  then a. Match I went out to like The
• 21:02
  Woodlands and. I'm.
• 21:04
  Down there and I'm like, everybody's in this room and
• 21:08
  it's like the shittiest person singing.
• 21:11
  It was like, I guess it was it was emo night and the guy was up
• 21:15
  there rapping and I was like, this is not the fuck I signed up
• 21:19
  for. I'm like, what the fuck?
• 21:20
  I'm like, I am dressed all emo and it was Halloween and well,
• 21:25
  it was around October, but it ended up and I was like, this
• 21:31
  room is annoying. I'm gonna go somewhere else and
• 21:33
  I'm like, I didn't know there was other departments in the.
• 21:37
  Woodlands, yeah, it's like every level is a different part and I.
• 21:40
  Randomly went in and I was like this is a different bar.
• 21:43
  And I. And this guy's like blasting
• 21:46
  music down on the dance floor and he's dancing but he's the
• 21:49
  one playing and nobody else is down there.
• 21:50
  And it's been down there for like 2 hours.
• 21:52
  I'm like, this is like you're sitting in the back rooms and
• 21:55
  you're just like zoning out. But I'm.
• 21:57
  Like that's how the club was in London.
• 21:58
  There was there was an emo room like a alt grunge room.
• 22:02
  Then there was like the new metal room and then there was a
• 22:04
  karaoke room. It was sick and it went till 9
• 22:07
  in the IT went till 9:00 in the morning the next day.
• 22:10
  I don't know how the one in England was, but The Woodlands
• 22:13
  is like a hotel. So it's literally just levels
• 22:16
  and levels, but the it's like it's like the first 3 or 4
• 22:19
  levels is like where they have all the different bars and clubs
• 22:22
  and stuff, but they're probably too old for that.
• 22:25
  Now, right? Or we're too old for.
• 22:26
  The yeah, it's more, it's more like college kids that go there.
• 22:29
  Yeah, we're too old for The Woodlands.
• 22:31
  Our time has come and gone. They even have like the 18 and
• 22:33
  over type nights so yeah. Yeah, we're I'm out.
• 22:36
  I'm out. I'm.
• 22:37
  Sure, it was a great time. I'm sure everyone was it.
• 22:39
  Was, I went there for a few Bachelorette parties, but then
• 22:42
  there was there was always drugs at The Woodlands like there any
• 22:45
  time you went into the bathroom, somebody's doing a bump on the
• 22:47
  toilet and you're like, I'm not using that bathroom I'm just
• 22:51
  gonna I'll just hold it for the next 7 hours and pee outside
• 22:54
  when I go to get in the car like but.
• 22:57
  Those SUS vibes from there for sure.
• 22:59
  Oh, definitely. But there was another place in
• 23:02
  Texas that was like that, but it was one big club and there it's
• 23:06
  a chain. We had one in my hometown for a
• 23:08
  bit. It's called Graham's Central
• 23:10
  Station. And it's like kind of like a
• 23:12
  train station. But when you went in, they were
• 23:14
  all the rooms were connected by like an archway.
• 23:16
  And like, there was a Blues room, there was a hip hop room,
• 23:19
  there was like a country room. There was a Harris.
• 23:22
  Room, like I just got blasted. I was drunk as hell.
• 23:27
  And I said to the other person I was with, I was like, we should
• 23:31
  totally walk to the back of the kitchen and just be back there.
• 23:35
  I was like, that's so cool. And I was like, all right, yeah,
• 23:38
  let's go. So I I'm back there and all you
• 23:40
  see is like an employee scatter pass.
• 23:42
  And I was like, my God, he didn't even realize that we're
• 23:45
  back here. And I was like, it's huge.
• 23:46
  And then I was like, let's hide somewhere and scare someone.
• 23:49
  I was like, why did we do that when we were drunk in The
• 23:51
  Woodlands? And I was like, my God.
• 23:53
  And I it was the most strangest thing ever.
• 23:58
  And then one of the waiters came and I looked at the person.
• 24:00
  I was like, I got us, don't worry girl.
• 24:02
  And I was like hi. I was like I just don't know
• 24:04
  where the bathroom is. I've been back here for like 5
• 24:06
  minutes trying to find like at least a bathroom.
• 24:09
  He's like oh, oh it's over here. And I was like oh thanks.
• 24:12
  Like you totally saved us. Bye girl.
• 24:15
  Oh. Thank you.
• 24:17
  I don't know how I would have gotten out of.
• 24:19
  Here. So rave.
• 24:22
  So the right so yeah. So where the conversation I
• 24:26
  wanted to bring up is I crochet a lot of my clothes for like
• 24:30
  pride for summertime. I make like a lot of bra let's
• 24:35
  and things like that. And I wouldn't necessarily say
• 24:39
  it's an argument that we've had, but there have been times where
• 24:43
  I'm like dressing up in one of the tops that I made because I
• 24:45
  feel really cute in it and I feel really confident in it.
• 24:47
  And we're going to a wrestling show that's outside and Tony's
• 24:51
  like, there's going to be kids there, you know what I mean?
• 24:54
  Like, maybe just put a little jacket on top of it.
• 24:56
  And I'm not saying that I he tells me what to wear or that
• 25:00
  like, first of all, I'll be damned if I let somebody tell me
• 25:03
  what to wear. But I do take what he has to
• 25:05
  say, like I take it into consideration like you're right,
• 25:09
  like we do kind of have a standard that we hold ourselves
• 25:12
  up to because we do work in the industry like.
• 25:14
  We also want to be also too. I feel like with our content,
• 25:17
  we're very open and honest about who we are, what we are.
• 25:20
  We wear devil shit. We fucking like you're not
• 25:23
  afraid to dress sexy or be about your sexuality.
• 25:26
  So when I'm at it, when I'm at when I'm at a situation that I
• 25:29
  feel is like more all age, I cater to it.
• 25:32
  You know what I mean? Like I, I, I don't, I'm not
• 25:34
  saying I want a younger audience because I think I think if
• 25:37
  you're under 18, this is not for you.
• 25:39
  Like this show is not for you. Most of my content is not for
• 25:42
  you. I do have some fans that are
• 25:43
  younger because of the wrestling aspect, but even in the
• 25:46
  wrestling ones, I try to be very careful of what I say because
• 25:48
  it's it's they're it's more all age.
• 25:51
  So when you go and you dress a little more sexy or you have a
• 25:53
  shorter skirt or I'm not like your belly showing is not a
• 25:56
  thing, but like, I don't care about that.
• 25:57
  But like where it is more like. I've worn crop, I think.
• 26:02
  I think the one outfit that you were kind of like, Are you sure
• 26:05
  about this? I was like, yeah, I'm confident
• 26:07
  in it. I'm going in.
• 26:08
  It was when I did the like Orange Cassidy Ish cosplay and I
• 26:13
  had the like crop top, denim shirt and the really short.
• 26:17
  Shorts. I think the only time I ever
• 26:19
  told you I was uncomfortable with something is when you were
• 26:21
  going almost like full like devil Catholic schoolgirl.
• 26:26
  So, but that was also, and, but the only time that I did it,
• 26:31
  I'll say this, the time that I did it to the extent that it
• 26:35
  would not normally be OK around kids is when we went to a drag
• 26:39
  show and then I went to wear the skirt again as a skirt.
• 26:44
  But I think that I'm not saying necessarily in your brain, but I
• 26:48
  think that you look out for how other people would think.
• 26:51
  It would be like a fetish. It's not a skirt that's super
• 26:54
  short. It actually has quite a bit of
• 26:56
  link to it, but it's red, it's Plaid, it has a giant jeweled
• 26:59
  cross on it. So it's like.
• 27:02
  It looks more like it more looks like a like a sex club kink
• 27:06
  pride. But it's not.
• 27:07
  It's trip. It's a trip skirt.
• 27:11
  It had it had. It actually has like the big
• 27:13
  chains that go with it, but I never wear the chains with it.
• 27:16
  Maybe the chains would save you? It's literally a trick.
• 27:19
  It's like Janko jeans, but make them emo and sell them in a hot
• 27:23
  topic. Got you.
• 27:24
  But, but what I wanted to talk about was I'm, I decided to make
• 27:28
  my outfit. And I guess something I'll say
• 27:31
  is when I made my outfit for Pride last year, I made a
• 27:35
  rainbow top and crocheted shorts and they were very thick.
• 27:41
  The pattern that I used. And I, we, we went to pride and
• 27:45
  I was bummed out with myself because we drove an hour to go
• 27:48
  to Pride and it's the middle of Wilkes Barre with no freaking
• 27:53
  shade at all. The middle of the square has no
• 27:56
  shade. There's like a little bit of
• 27:57
  trees. You're lucky if you find a spot
• 27:59
  to sit under them because everybody's trying to find a
• 28:01
  spot to sit under them. So we only made.
• 28:04
  A frying pan the whole day. We only made it like maybe an
• 28:06
  hour and a half and I was like, I'm going to pass out and I'm
• 28:10
  wearing a crocheted like bralette and shorts, like booty
• 28:14
  shorts. And so I came home because we
• 28:17
  were going to another drag show a week later and I made flared
• 28:21
  pants. If you've seen any of my recent
• 28:24
  videos with the Anthony 5 questions and that that's what I
• 28:27
  asked him to use for the background picture because I'm
• 28:29
  very proud of that outfit when I came downstairs.
• 28:33
  This is not trash talking. We live with your mom, who is
• 28:37
  very traditional. Sure.
• 28:40
  And I came downstairs and I'm wearing a thong with it.
• 28:43
  I was, I'm confident it was a whole fishnet flared outfit, but
• 28:47
  I didn't feel uncomfortable until I went downstairs.
• 28:50
  You had to really look this ear ass.
• 28:53
  But I think that your mom knows that I dress sexy and she was
• 28:57
  like, you're wearing that. I love it, I think.
• 28:59
  It's funny. Is that what you're going to
• 29:00
  wear? And then all of a sudden I kind
• 29:02
  of felt like, should I not wear this?
• 29:05
  Like, is it, is it that bad? Is it because I'm wearing a
• 29:09
  thong? But like it to be fair though,
• 29:12
  right? I made the rainbow.
• 29:13
  OK, And here's how my brain works is I made it fishnet, like
• 29:18
  fishnet flared pants. And the top band is red and then
• 29:23
  it goes to orange and then it went to yellow, like around my
• 29:26
  knees. So I'm sitting there like I
• 29:28
  don't have red panties. I have orange, but I have like a
• 29:34
  darker orange. So that'll work.
• 29:36
  But the only ones that I have are like a thong.
• 29:38
  And I don't have time. Like I finished them the day
• 29:40
  before because that's what I do. I'm a procrastinator.
• 29:43
  I don't have time to go get another pair of underwear.
• 29:44
  So this is what I'm wearing, like, and that's how it is.
• 29:47
  And so like your mom was like, I mean, you have the body to pull
• 29:50
  it off, but Are you sure about that?
• 29:53
  And so I guess something that I wanted to talk about is I feel
• 29:56
  like there have been times where I have been very confident in
• 29:59
  what I'm wearing and the way people talk about other people,
• 30:03
  the way that people just even not necessarily being rude or
• 30:08
  nasty or saying, but no, like your mom has said this.
• 30:13
  And I'm not saying this to put her down in any way, but she's
• 30:16
  been like, wow, if I had a body like that, I'd wear it.
• 30:19
  If I had a body like that, I'd show it off too.
• 30:21
  And it's like, I'm not doing it to show it off.
• 30:23
  I'm doing it because I'm proud of it.
• 30:26
  Like, and, and I feel like a lot of myself esteem lately has been
• 30:31
  that I'm not proud of my body because I've gotten really,
• 30:34
  really small. But like when I make my clothes,
• 30:36
  I make it to flatter my body. So I can't find we're going to
• 30:40
  this rave, bringing it back around and I'm looking at like
• 30:43
  all of the outfit choices that I have and nothing fits me the way
• 30:47
  I want it to fit me. So I decide I'm going to crochet
• 30:49
  an outfit. So I make a very, very short
• 30:52
  skirt. The pattern only called for it
• 30:55
  to be 66 rows long which is about 3 inches and I'm like
• 31:00
  that's I'm not comfortable with that.
• 31:02
  Tarzan had more clothing I. Tripled the length of it to make
• 31:06
  myself feel comfortable. It still does not fully cover my
• 31:09
  butt, but I've figured out which swim trunks I'm like, which
• 31:13
  bikini bottoms I'm wearing underneath them, and we went to
• 31:16
  the club so that I could get or the club to the sex store so
• 31:21
  that I could get fishnets because I haven't.
• 31:25
  I'm currently working on leg warmers, but I wasn't sure if I
• 31:28
  was going to make them or not because it is the rave thing.
• 31:31
  I kind of want to do that, but I made a top and sorry, I keep
• 31:36
  hitting this microphone. The top that I made is stars and
• 31:40
  it's a bikini top, but it is each star has a strap on it.
• 31:45
  Each point of the star has a strap on it.
• 31:47
  So it's very harnessy in the way that it's made.
• 31:50
  But it also because it's crocheted, it has like the holes
• 31:54
  in between it. So I'm like, I'm covered.
• 31:59
  I can pull my busts in to make it look like I have a little bit
• 32:03
  of something going on there. So I feel confident.
• 32:05
  But if I pull it that tight, my nipples going right through it.
• 32:10
  So I'm like, I gotta get pasties like and.
• 32:12
  Was that the thing that you were posting on your snap?
• 32:15
  The one day it's like black, grey and white.
• 32:16
  Yeah yeah, I sent it to you cuz I had looked at it in like the.
• 32:20
  Tail, if I was looking at it right and I'm like I was wearing
• 32:23
  a little nipples so. I said yeah, I know my nipples.
• 32:26
  I was like, mine will go right through there.
• 32:28
  My nipples were through it and I was like, I'm not.
• 32:31
  And I know we're gonna be an I mean.
• 32:32
  Paste and it's gonna be. Mark And it's, you know, no
• 32:35
  one's gonna be like, hey, lately I can see that, you know what I
• 32:39
  mean? But at the same time, I'm very
• 32:40
  self-conscious. Yeah, there's you, there's you.
• 32:44
  But so I'm like, I need to get pasties.
• 32:47
  So we went to the store to get pasties, but I'm sitting there
• 32:50
  and I'm thinking like. Three hours later.
• 32:52
  Tony asked me how I would if I'm wearing this out.
• 32:55
  Like, am I like, he's like, you're getting dressed at the
• 32:57
  venue, right? And I'm like, no, like, I think
• 33:00
  I'm going to get dressed at home.
• 33:01
  I'm making a little shrug. And he like, I could see his mom
• 33:05
  already going, You're going to leave wearing that.
• 33:09
  And so I want everyone's opinions on what do we think is
• 33:13
  inappropriate if my butt is covered right, if I'm wearing
• 33:17
  the same swimsuit that I would wear out in front of my kids, in
• 33:21
  front of your kids, Because I know I'm covered enough and
• 33:23
  nothing's coming out, but a little bit of my butt cheek is
• 33:27
  showing. And you can see, like, here's
• 33:30
  The thing is I have a cupcake tattooed on my butt.
• 33:32
  And that was your mom's thing when I tried the outfit on for
• 33:35
  her first. She's like, I can see your
• 33:36
  cupcake. And I'm like, you could see it
• 33:39
  in the summer time when I get in the pool too.
• 33:41
  Like, but what do we think is inappropriate for public to see?
• 33:48
  I guess it just depends on like if I see an ass, an ass is an
• 33:53
  ass, You're you're going to see that at the beach.
• 33:55
  It's just whatever. But when it comes to like
• 34:00
  there's so many girls in our area that are very, it's got to
• 34:05
  be like the smallest thing and it's like, oh, I do it for me,
• 34:08
  but I know she's doing it for the guy that she's trying for.
• 34:11
  So there's that because there's always like that voice in the
• 34:15
  back of your head. You always want to like look
• 34:17
  sexy. But like it's almost like how I
• 34:20
  explained with the gay pride stuff, I don't think fetishes
• 34:24
  should be in it at all or if it is separated to an adult event
• 34:30
  only because I'd love to go to New York pride, but or any
• 34:35
  pride. But going and seeing the bear
• 34:39
  flag up for like being a fetish. Like it's like it's like too
• 34:44
  much. I don't need you to.
• 34:47
  It's about love. I get it.
• 34:48
  But it's not about, hey, you're getting collared and leashed
• 34:52
  here right now in the middle of New York City with all these
• 34:55
  kids watching, and you're barely wearing anything except for a
• 34:58
  leather jockstrap. Honestly, I think this could
• 35:02
  just could this be I'm sorry as a straight guy asking this
• 35:05
  question but I'm like I'm not trying to place devil's advocate
• 35:08
  but I am I am trying to think from the people who are close
• 35:10
  minded are the ones who are so negative against the community.
• 35:13
  Do you think because like these pride events do welcome kink
• 35:17
  into it, that the outside people don't see the pride, they see
• 35:22
  the king and then like and then and.
• 35:26
  That's kind of why I think people who are in the community.
• 35:28
  I'm not saying that having a kink doesn't mean that you
• 35:31
  shouldn't have a community to talk to.
• 35:33
  Sure. However, when people are just
• 35:37
  trying to love the person that they love and you're sitting
• 35:41
  here saying, well, my fetish should be included in that too,
• 35:44
  that's a fetish. That's something that you could
• 35:46
  do with anybody. Because I think like that the
• 35:48
  community is, is showing love and support, right?
• 35:51
  And I think love and support is important and I.
• 35:54
  And. I don't and I don't exactly.
• 35:56
  And I think if you're, I think what the community gets attacked
• 35:59
  for a lot is it's deviant, it's evil, it's sexual, it's this,
• 36:03
  it's it's it's, it's unholy, it's that.
• 36:06
  And I'm not saying saying that pride has to be PG and I'm not
• 36:09
  saying pride has to be hide who you are, but like I think
• 36:13
  there's a time and a place. For your pronouns and everything
• 36:16
  else. Like hey, you want the pride of
• 36:18
  it in public and then the minds is willing to do fetish club,
• 36:23
  then bring your club. Bring it because then like
• 36:26
  everyone who is your consent, it's what goes back to the sex
• 36:29
  in public. It's, it's hard because you want
• 36:32
  to have that voyeurism aspect, but also somebody could walk in
• 36:36
  on that that wasn't consenting to it.
• 36:37
  And I think when you do bring your, your, your, your fetish
• 36:41
  into public or maybe your, your, your outfit choices where they
• 36:45
  can lead more into the fetish or you're wearing stuff that's more
• 36:48
  revealing, like not everyone's consenting to that, you know
• 36:52
  what I mean? And, and I, I made a joke before
• 36:54
  the show started about this topic of like, I think it really
• 36:57
  just comes down how hot you are. And I'm not, I don't mean that
• 37:00
  I'm being funny when I say that, but it's also the truth.
• 37:03
  Like if, if, if somebody was a little chunky and was wearing
• 37:08
  fishnets and booty shorts and fucking the tank top and they
• 37:11
  walk down the street, everybody like, I'll honey, put that away.
• 37:15
  And then Someone Like You walks down and you're skinny and you
• 37:17
  know what I mean? And and and and fitting and then
• 37:20
  you wear they're like, get it, girl, get it.
• 37:22
  It's like. No, absolutely.
• 37:23
  And and I don't. I don't think that's fair
• 37:25
  either, but I think both should be held.
• 37:26
  I hate hearing. From like a guy.
• 37:28
  Being like, oh, I don't date bigger women.
• 37:30
  I'm like, you are bigger, right? So you shouldn't just not.
• 37:35
  Where I like that I struggle if I'm big and they're big.
• 37:39
  I had a situation where we I belly bumped and I was like, and
• 37:43
  it wasn't so much on them, it was on me too.
• 37:45
  I. Just I can understand.
• 37:46
  That yeah. And so I think sometimes of
• 37:48
  being even being bigger with her and like I put weight on her,
• 37:51
  I'm like, am I crushing you? I'm.
• 37:53
  Over here, like crush me. Yeah, I feel like so conscious
• 37:56
  about it, but like I. Hate hearing I don't hate it but
• 37:58
  it's just like the person if I choose that person I'm like the
• 38:02
  reason I like you isn't because of your body that's like your
• 38:07
  personality and stuff I. But I still love your body.
• 38:12
  I was telling, I was telling, I was telling John the other day,
• 38:15
  I was like, if you were 1000 lbs.
• 38:17
  I'm going to wheel you in the garage.
• 38:19
  We're going to hose you off, we're going to get a drain in
• 38:21
  the garage. Like your personality and how
• 38:23
  you have like achieved it's like.
• 38:27
  How you treat me? As yeah, I.
• 38:29
  You could change your appearance.
• 38:30
  You could. I'll probably cry if you cut
• 38:33
  your hair, I'll be honest. But I mean past that.
• 38:35
  I've seen you with short hair before.
• 38:37
  Still looks pretty good. If you started treating me like
• 38:42
  shit, then I would be like, yeah, I don't give a.
• 38:44
  Fuck what you look like. Note to self.
• 38:48
  Treat me like a queen then what are you doing?
• 38:51
  I think, I think, I do think I'm think I'm killing that
• 38:53
  department. I haven't been called queen in
• 38:57
  like a year and a half. Fuck which it which it's like
• 39:00
  Princess. I don't want to Queen's more.
• 39:04
  I said. I I'm siding with Princess
• 39:07
  instead of Queen. Yeah, I just, I don't.
• 39:10
  Know I like Princess. He doesn't like Princess.
• 39:12
  What? Creeps me out.
• 39:13
  I like I think queen of this sounds so random.
• 39:16
  I think Queen is like, Oh my wife, my powerful, my soul mate,
• 39:22
  and then Princess is like. Kid, that's where my brain goes.
• 39:28
  That's where I go. That's why.
• 39:30
  That's why I don't want to hear like I hear like AI hear a dad
• 39:34
  call his daughter Princess, don't like it.
• 39:37
  I don't want to bring that to. I haven't.
• 39:38
  Heard that in a while. Yeah, I, I, I look at like terms
• 39:42
  that parents call children and like, hey, hey, champ.
• 39:45
  Like if a girl was like hey sporto daddy and.
• 39:48
  I'm. Like I, I I was not usually a
• 39:51
  fan of it at first either. Like I it's not like such.
• 39:55
  Interesting Every every guy. Like Sir or daddy?
• 39:58
  I would rather like, yeah, I'd rather Sir.
• 40:01
  I think it has more assertiveness over daddy.
• 40:03
  I feel like you're old. Yeah.
• 40:06
  Yeah, I. Am old.
• 40:06
  I'm with that no, either with like a or.
• 40:09
  I think authority is one thing. I think that if if you're
• 40:12
  getting too worried of a. I think, sweetheart, I.
• 40:16
  Don't even know what the it's like a power play.
• 40:18
  Hey, sweetie. If you're going into a power
• 40:20
  play pipe mode, I feel like Sir is appropriate, but I feel like
• 40:24
  if it's not on a power thing of like then you're just then it's
• 40:28
  is weird. Don't make me call you Sir.
• 40:30
  That's gross. Well.
• 40:31
  I'm not judging the daddy thing, though.
• 40:32
  That's your thing. Actually, for me, this is just
• 40:34
  my these are my, these are my barriers.
• 40:36
  I'm not judging you if you use them.
• 40:37
  I'm. Just I just love saying the
• 40:40
  first name of them, like repetitive because I feel like
• 40:43
  it's like getting them going. Yeah, yeah, a little bit of
• 40:48
  everything. Princess creeps me out.
• 40:52
  Creeps me out. Gives you the ick.
• 40:54
  Gives me the ick. Say, call me Princess, I'd
• 40:57
  rather not. So I guess here's my question.
• 41:00
  Do you think it's completely inappropriate?
• 41:03
  I'm going, I'm circling back to my to end my conversation.
• 41:06
  So I bought pasties because I feel like the pasties should be
• 41:10
  worn right. So I bought pasties.
• 41:15
  I'm going to wear my bikini top over it.
• 41:16
  I've decided not to wear the harnesses that I was wearing.
• 41:19
  Like I had a like a pentagram harness under it.
• 41:22
  And then another one that went on to my legs decided I'm not
• 41:25
  doing those. So it's going to be the skirt,
• 41:28
  the bikini top, like a shrug, like arm sleeve thingy and then
• 41:33
  leg warmers. And I think I'm going to do like
• 41:35
  some little bows in my hair with like the little crochet coming
• 41:38
  down. I feel like I'll be super
• 41:42
  covered, but do you think that that jumps into unconsenting if
• 41:48
  I'm completely uncovered? So I, I feel like you're, you're
• 41:52
  dressing for an event that is one, once again, an event that's
• 41:57
  catered to the indoors where things are supposed to be behind
• 42:00
  closed doors and not for the general public.
• 42:02
  So at the only reason I said, are you wearing that to the
• 42:04
  club? Because like, if you're like, I
• 42:05
  have to stop and use the bathroom and you're going into a
• 42:08
  McDonald's like I, I, I just, I don't think it should be
• 42:12
  something where a parent was like, like.
• 42:13
  Why are they dressed like that, Mommy?
• 42:15
  Like, you know, oh, she's probably going to a rave,
• 42:17
  sweetie. You know, I mean like, you know,
• 42:19
  I just, I'm just saying I'm. Being I think it's I feel like
• 42:23
  it would be one thing if this was in Monoi City.
• 42:25
  I think in anywhere I just a big.
• 42:27
  City and I feel like things are much more even.
• 42:30
  Even like going to a concert and going and picking up like
• 42:32
  alcoholic giant and like I'm in high heels, fishnets and my
• 42:36
  shortest shorts with my big corn shirt and I'm like strutting
• 42:40
  through and I'm thinking. Yeah, you're going into beer,
• 42:43
  you're going to buy beer and leaving like you're not.
• 42:45
  I don't. I don't.
• 42:46
  It's weird. It's.
• 42:46
  Going to the bathroom and leaving.
• 42:48
  But you're in a public restaurant in that situation.
• 42:51
  Or like. I don't know, I'm just, I'm not
• 42:54
  saying I'm, I'm, I'm locked into this.
• 42:56
  I'm just asking the question because because I think, I
• 42:59
  think, I think a lot of people are like, well, I don't give a
• 43:03
  fuck what people think. And I'm one of those people too.
• 43:05
  But I also think it is a good mindset to have, like even if
• 43:09
  you don't know the person or the people or the scenario, it's
• 43:12
  just a simple shred of respect. So here's me now.
• 43:17
  Here's. I don't think enough people have
• 43:18
  that sort of. Respect.
• 43:19
  I feel like you're correct. The video that I originally sent
• 43:24
  you, I had about a black pair of fishnets on, but they were the
• 43:28
  ones that have like the shorts built into them.
• 43:30
  And my initial thought was, sorry Nancy, I'll put on a pair
• 43:35
  of black stockings where you can't see anything and it's
• 43:38
  literally like wearing a pair of leggings underneath to get out
• 43:41
  of the house to go onto the street and still be.
• 43:44
  I feel like my top is still something that any girl would
• 43:47
  wear it during the summertime. So I feel like honestly the
• 43:51
  biggest problem is my butt. It's not going to be my top,
• 43:54
  it's going to be my bottoms. So my brain was if even if I
• 43:58
  don't wear the skirt and I just wear like a pair of leggings or
• 44:01
  a pair of stockings, whatever, I would still be covered and that
• 44:04
  would be comfortable enough, right?
• 44:05
  And I think if like there's a situation too where you're
• 44:07
  leaving the club and we're leaving at like six or two in
• 44:09
  the morning and you're walking back in your sexy outfit.
• 44:12
  I don't really, I think in that situation too, I mean, it's more
• 44:15
  dangerous because it's night time and people are fucking
• 44:18
  psychos. But like, there's no kids around
• 44:19
  either, right? No one has their kids at 2:00 in
• 44:22
  the morning, right? You know what I mean?
• 44:23
  So I think that's a little safer.
• 44:25
  But like me, I, I love black craft and there's a shirt that
• 44:28
  says fuck racism or fuck homophobia.
• 44:31
  And I want that shirt so bad. But it's also a shirt where I
• 44:35
  would have, I would be very selective of where I wear that.
• 44:38
  I feel terrible with like OK I wear my assholes lip forever
• 44:43
  shirt that says kill your local pedophile and then I'm like.
• 44:48
  Message is great. I was out and some lady was like
• 44:51
  that's disgusting. And I'm like, you're right, it
• 44:55
  is. They've got a files are and.
• 44:58
  They're more hung. Up.
• 44:59
  I meant just the word and I was like, I was like, well, do you
• 45:03
  want them dead or yeah, do you want to keep them alive?
• 45:06
  And we pay for it like. Yeah, no, I said the message is
• 45:09
  great, but it's just like once again is like maybe maybe
• 45:12
  harshness of that, I don't know. It's it's a double edged sword
• 45:15
  because you're like, well fuck them, who cares?
• 45:16
  My message doesn't get. Shirts anywhere or yeah, you
• 45:20
  gotta watch where some of them. I had a conversation with
• 45:24
  somebody other day at work where like there's a bunch of people
• 45:26
  at work who wear all religious things and have religious
• 45:28
  tattoos and I was questioned about my 666 tattoo and I was
• 45:32
  like, I think my tattoo is no different than your cross.
• 45:35
  I think if you're offended by mine, I could say I'm offended
• 45:37
  by yours. And, and like people are wearing
• 45:40
  Jesus chains and Jesus things and Jesus T-shirts and I, I mean
• 45:44
  my, I don't, I won't wear my devil hoodie that says devil
• 45:47
  with a big giant devil in the back, but I'm wearing one of my
• 45:49
  black craft. But it's like it looks like a
• 45:51
  tarot card, but it says believe in yourself and it's just like a
• 45:54
  skeletons. And I thought that's
• 45:56
  appropriate. Like that's not spreading.
• 45:58
  It's not, it's not, it's not like I'm pushing it.
• 46:00
  Well, that's like a a narrative, you know?
• 46:02
  Right where I have a black craft hoodie that has a nun on it with
• 46:06
  like pentagram carved into her head and on the back of it it
• 46:09
  says sorry I missed church I was busy practicing witchcraft and
• 46:13
  becoming a lesson. Yes, I have it I.
• 46:15
  Love it. It's one of my favorite.
• 46:18
  But like, so literally I was supposed to go, I was supposed
• 46:22
  to go pick up my kids at church the other day and I thought I
• 46:26
  was just like picking them up. Like I could just sit in the in
• 46:29
  the car and I was wearing that hoodie.
• 46:31
  And then I'm realizing that this is an actual church service and
• 46:34
  I'm like, I'm not walking in guys.
• 46:35
  Like I'm sorry. Love you.
• 46:37
  Actually, we're going to a wrestling shirt and I asked you
• 46:39
  to not wear that. That's another, yeah, but that
• 46:41
  is something that's more like, OK, I can see how that could be
• 46:44
  problematic. I I, well, here's the thing.
• 46:46
  If I ever say I, I maybe I'm not comfortable you wearing
• 46:49
  something. It has nothing to do with you
• 46:50
  feeling sexy or me me being jealous because guys are going
• 46:53
  to look at you. I said that already.
• 46:55
  I said that this isn't because of who he is, of more of how you
• 46:58
  think of how everyone else will. Think and mostly children, like
• 47:01
  there's going to be kids there. Oh, it's terrible.
• 47:03
  I had a I had a shirt on the other day.
• 47:05
  I was taking the trash out and there's so many kids up by me
• 47:08
  and I just grabbed, I thought it was my regular black just paint
• 47:11
  shirt and it was God comes first.
• 47:15
  But on the back it's huge. And I'm like, I'm walking past
• 47:19
  this little girl holding it like this.
• 47:20
  I'm like, Oh my God, I just realized I had my hair up.
• 47:23
  I'm like. Is it?
• 47:25
  Cum And then I looked and I was like sorry and they were like
• 47:29
  she already asked about it and I was like no.
• 47:32
  Yeah, I'm. Like, well, trying to tell her.
• 47:35
  Guy's not real. Sorry, that's why I get in.
• 47:40
  Trouble. Yeah, so.
• 47:42
  I'm awesome with the. Camera.
• 47:43
  Sorry, I'm I'm moving too much and I'm getting myself out of
• 47:46
  frame. Sorry, what?
• 47:48
  Do you want to talk about? I was going to, I was going to
• 47:51
  kick it over to you for the next one.
• 47:52
  I just was going to talk about dating profile profile dating
• 47:56
  etiquette like what to not put in your bio or.
• 48:01
  You're a Cowboys fan. Cowboys fan or in your pictures?
• 48:04
  I read you my bio. Sure.
• 48:05
  All right, so I do that all the time.
• 48:07
  Should we do this? I do that all the time to people
• 48:09
  like tell me all your bio. I don't have one.
• 48:12
  Of them I don't get any. I get no love on Tinder, none.
• 48:18
  I think maybe because of my bio so I write, I wrote.
• 48:20
  Great sense of humor, open minded judgement, free lives on,
• 48:24
  laughs, smiles, laughs. Always down for a fun
• 48:26
  conversation. We're looking for connection and
• 48:28
  friendships and Hangouts. No with no expectations of
• 48:31
  anything physical unless the vibe is good.
• 48:32
  Currently in an open E&M relationship.
• 48:35
  Everyone is aware and I this is a 00 drama is what I strive for.
• 48:39
  Just fun, connections, experience.
• 48:41
  Life is too short. Good.
• 48:43
  No red flags in that. I thought that I thought my
• 48:47
  write up was the reason why people don't don't match with
• 48:49
  me, but I also really want to be open and honest about me being
• 48:53
  in a relationship and being open that everyone's aware.
• 48:55
  Like you. You know the whole dynamic of
• 48:57
  what I'm about and like. Talking to.
• 48:59
  Somebody and no expectations like even if we chill, I'm not
• 49:02
  trying to hook up. I'm just trying to like
• 49:03
  genuinely meet you, have a good conversation to learn about you,
• 49:06
  you know, And then in my biography, it would probably be
• 49:10
  called if I if my if someone wrote a biography, it would the
• 49:13
  book would be called and I wrote if you don't expect too much for
• 49:16
  me, you might not be let down. And then the key to my heart is
• 49:20
  pizza and beer. My favorite playlist is called
• 49:24
  Emo is not dead. And then I wrote horror movies,
• 49:27
  podcast music, craft beer, wrestling.
• 49:30
  Good. Are you ready for?
• 49:31
  Mine. I'm ready.
• 49:32
  Not the best at BIOS, much better at conversation.
• 49:35
  DM me. Next.
• 49:39
  Hey, I got hot pictures on mine though.
• 49:41
  I'm just saying, you know, natural me.
• 49:44
  And I'll even put a photo of me and you in my photos to show
• 49:48
  that like good, like to be open. I was thinking across that in my
• 49:52
  in my Tinder. On your Tinder.
• 49:53
  Yeah, I used to come across that a lot and I was like, you didn't
• 49:56
  say you were probably 3 days ago.
• 49:59
  Yeah. Like you didn't say that you had
• 50:01
  a wife three days ago. You didn't say that you were
• 50:05
  moving to Chicago. Yeah, the only, the only
• 50:08
  difference between my my Tinder and like the field, we'll say
• 50:13
  the lifestyle one is, is I write like personal.
• 50:15
  But that's because we also have joint accounts.
• 50:18
  Yeah, that one's a little different.
• 50:20
  I'll read that one too. It's not.
• 50:21
  Different. That's literally.
• 50:22
  No, I add. I add another line to it because
• 50:25
  it's a different scenario this. Morning and it was the exact
• 50:27
  same. I thought there was a different
• 50:31
  dynamic. Oh so I so great sense of humor,
• 50:36
  open minded judgement free lives on last smiles always done for
• 50:39
  more looking for connections friendship in A and then I also
• 50:43
  write in an open relationship. We practice E and MI could also
• 50:46
  play solo or we can come as a package deal.
• 50:49
  My partner and I also play together as well as full to open
• 50:53
  full our soft swap and work and whatever works for everybody
• 50:56
  else like. So that's the only thing I add
• 50:58
  differently to that is like I'm on this site where I can go and
• 51:01
  play and meet a single female or that dynamic or if you're in
• 51:04
  relationship, we can still meet or if you're looking for more, a
• 51:07
  couple dynamic. All of us can hang out Exactly
• 51:09
  right. So that's so I don't put that in
• 51:11
  my Tinder because I feel like they're two different realms.
• 51:13
  Yeah, you know what I mean. And I don't not and if I meet
• 51:16
  somebody on Tinder, I'm not trying to bring you in for a
• 51:19
  threesome. It's more or less a one-on-one
• 51:20
  connection. Yeah.
• 51:21
  Yeah, no, you have me curious because I don't remember if I
• 51:23
  made a bio on this one, but I had a Tammy account and same.
• 51:31
  It's only dudes. Well, why you're pulling yours
• 51:33
  up. Why am I?
• 51:33
  Why am I on a site looking for a girl and all you're going to
• 51:36
  show me is dudes? Horny girls, dudes tell people
• 51:40
  that I was a bio woman. I'm like, you need to fix this,
• 51:44
  Yeah. Like.
• 51:44
  Or people are going to threaten me.
• 51:46
  My SO I downloaded pier and it has I don't know why it has
• 51:51
  lesbian on there that's weird couple.
• 51:55
  It does have that I'm in a couple or in a relationship. 33
• 51:58
  years old, 5 foot 7 and then partnered in an E&M Poly
• 52:01
  relationship. I learn more towards polysexual
• 52:03
  but kind of awkward when it comes to beginning
• 52:05
  conversations. Please DM me and I promise I'll
• 52:07
  message you back. Just remember first impressions,
• 52:09
  I mean the most I because if you message me and you're like hey,
• 52:13
  want to fuck bye. Which is interesting because
• 52:17
  you're more polysexual, not polyamorous.
• 52:18
  Yeah, but don't just expect that.
• 52:20
  Like, like ask me if I ask me anything about me.
• 52:25
  Don't just be like, hey, I see you're here, so we're fucking
• 52:27
  now. That's right, that's her.
• 52:29
  That's her. Who the fuck are you?
• 52:31
  I'm asked with a girl on Facebook dating and I was I, I
• 52:35
  thought I laid the greatest fucking opening line down.
• 52:38
  I screenshot it to her and sent it to her.
• 52:40
  The girl's profile was like her and Beetle.
• 52:43
  There was, there was something Beetlejuice in every single
• 52:46
  photo she had like a Beetlejuice in the background.
• 52:48
  She had Beetlejuice on the one wall, her one shirt and she in
• 52:51
  the one profile was Beetlejuice. You had her makeup done like
• 52:53
  Beetlejuice. So I wrote, I wrote as the
• 52:56
  opening line, Hey, how you doing?
• 52:58
  And then did the entire quote of Beetlejuice when he first enters
• 53:01
  the movie of like, I'm I'm the guy.
• 53:03
  I see the exodus 365 times and it keeps getting funnier every
• 53:06
  time you see it. And I put the whole quote and I
• 53:08
  went. And she goes.
• 53:10
  So and then I wrote So what are you up to?
• 53:11
  And she went huh? And I was like, you don't get
• 53:14
  it. And she's like, no.
• 53:15
  And then on friend and on, on. I was like unmatched.
• 53:18
  I was like, that is five of your pictures.
• 53:21
  Personality Beetlejuice and then not no Beetlejuice.
• 53:24
  Yeah, I just did the new one. I.
• 53:25
  Hated it. The new one wasn't even out yet.
• 53:27
  Oh. My God.
• 53:28
  Yeah, I know. That was a.
• 53:29
  While yeah, I was so disappointed I was like, yeah, I
• 53:31
  nailed that. I never put thought into another
• 53:34
  messaging open message ever again like fuck it, I well you
• 53:38
  know what usually when I say first is like, hey, how you
• 53:40
  doing? Did you read my profile?
• 53:42
  Because if you didn't read it and you're not into the thing,
• 53:44
  the dynamic, let's just not wait each other side and.
• 53:48
  That's fair. Yeah, I guess so.
• 53:49
  Usually like my thing is like, or at least on lifestyle sites
• 53:54
  is if you come at me with like here's a Dick.
• 53:57
  Pic I hate it. I'm just like, no dude, I know.
• 54:01
  It it would get me more around to get a fucking face picture
• 54:03
  before. And that's I.
• 54:04
  Literally have and don't do it like half don't do it just close
• 54:08
  up or like what happened to your like mouth?
• 54:11
  Like what? I don't have it downloaded on my
• 54:13
  phone. But it drives.
• 54:14
  Me but my my my other profile that I have literally says on it
• 54:19
  send me a face pic first like don't even.
• 54:22
  I shouldn't have to waste them here for a picture slot to tell
• 54:25
  you to read my bio. To read that you need to send a
• 54:28
  face picture. Right.
• 54:29
  Don't. Send me NSFW, I'm at work.
• 54:34
  Yeah. What's on your profile
• 54:37
  etiquette, Cowboys fans? Cowboys fans is the number one.
• 54:42
  I'm not I'm not even joking. I actually I just seen on on
• 54:46
  field that was like a really pretty girl.
• 54:48
  Her husband husband was like a pretty as a decent looking dude.
• 54:52
  And I was like, Oh, this is a good looking couple.
• 54:53
  They're older. They won't probably won't be
• 54:55
  drama. And I scroll through, scroll
• 54:57
  through, scroll through and like the last photo, he's in the
• 55:00
  Cowboys hat in jersey. And I was like, damn.
• 55:03
  It's not gonna work. Out.
• 55:04
  I hit no, I hit no, I hit no. I couldn't do it.
• 55:07
  I was like, I'm sure he's a real nice guy.
• 55:09
  I'm sure he's a real. Nice guy, but I'm gonna make
• 55:11
  that's a serious like but. I'm gonna make fun of him.
• 55:13
  We. Had that as a conversation,
• 55:15
  like, can we agree upon this, that Cowboys fans are just the
• 55:18
  fucking worst. And he was like, yeah,
• 55:20
  absolutely. And he was like telling me about
• 55:22
  I think this actually was a thing, was like, what was it?
• 55:24
  What's a big turn off for you in Tinders and Tinder profile
• 55:28
  pictures? And I was like, guys with Fish.
• 55:31
  Like well let me see the. You want to see the size of this
• 55:33
  dead fish? I just got it's.
• 55:36
  It's crazy and. Bigger than your Dick, we get
• 55:38
  it. If you got a big shark in your
• 55:40
  hand or something, yeah, show me that.
• 55:42
  Oh, the crabs. Just show me the crabs.
• 55:44
  Don't, don't show me a fucking fish, right?
• 55:47
  I want to get a goldfish and hold it.
• 55:49
  I just. Think it'd be fun?
• 55:51
  My kids kill their fish all the time.
• 55:53
  Just played around. Jesus Christ.
• 55:58
  But yeah, fish and and. Cowboys I see a lot of people
• 56:01
  who don't like when like hunters post the photos of their.
• 56:04
  If I see a thing, that's the same thing as fish.
• 56:06
  I'm not saying it's a turn off or a red flag for me, but I
• 56:10
  won't match with you if if you're if I see like you hunt or
• 56:13
  fish because if that's your hobby, I am so not that person
• 56:17
  and I can adapt to. It.
• 56:20
  I just don't want to. See it off the bat?
• 56:22
  I can't. Say what your hobbies are
• 56:24
  including in those pictures. Yeah, I can't because I'm
• 56:26
  because I have no interest. In a ghillie suit 24/7, yeah.
• 56:31
  Right. I'm gonna, I'm gonna maybe sound
• 56:34
  shitty for this and I don't care if I see Trump hats or if I.
• 56:39
  See. Yeah, no.
• 56:40
  Absolutely. Or when people have to put in
• 56:41
  their profile. And yes, I voted for Trump.
• 56:45
  By just crazy, yeah. I hate the people that make it
• 56:49
  their personality. That's why it's just.
• 56:51
  Gonna do like somebody cool like.
• 56:53
  It's like a Cowboys fan. I like Lady Gaga.
• 56:55
  I might dressing up in her get up and like come.
• 57:00
  On Cowboys, fans are the MAGA of the NFL world.
• 57:02
  Yeah, pretty much I think the world can agree with.
• 57:06
  That yeah, you know who I'm a fan of?
• 57:10
  Yankees fans are the same way too.
• 57:12
  You know who I'm a fan of? I get it.
• 57:13
  It's fucking tattooed on your fucking neck and your arm and
• 57:16
  you're wearing a hat and a fucking your shoes Again, I get
• 57:20
  it. You're from New York, bro.
• 57:22
  Oh, I thought. You were going to say it for the
• 57:23
  Cowboys? Listen, I take a Yankees fan
• 57:26
  over a Cowboys fan. I think the Yankees are the
• 57:29
  Northeast Yankee. I mean, the I think the Yankees
• 57:31
  are the the Yankees of the of the of the Cowboys.
• 57:34
  Yeah, like. The Cowboys of.
• 57:35
  The Yeah, You know what I meant? Like I said, when I meant it.
• 57:38
  Yeah. Horrible.
• 57:39
  Anything else? What's another thing you're you
• 57:41
  look on profiles. It's just like OK, things like
• 57:45
  grinder, grinder having a username, like put your fucking
• 57:49
  first name there and be normal and not be like looking for CD
• 57:55
  tonight with the number 2 and then like an ice cube next to it
• 57:59
  cuz you want to smoke some MAV and like stuff like that.
• 58:02
  I didn't know that's what the. Argument is, but in seriousness,
• 58:04
  that's how the one that we're on is like all the time.
• 58:07
  You get the most random fucking names and you're like.
• 58:10
  My. Main thought on that was to
• 58:12
  filter people out as good as I could.
• 58:14
  I'm like, hey, I'm like. I wish I went to any dating site
• 58:18
  had the filters like grinder. Well, I I said, Oh my God, what
• 58:23
  did I say to this? Oh, I always would say party
• 58:25
  because most trans girls like to party with to the capital T
• 58:29
  Tina. And that's what the lingo is on
• 58:32
  there. If you see somebody has party in
• 58:34
  their name, that's what that means and.
• 58:35
  I'm. What does that mean?
• 58:36
  Just do math to this one out but it's like crazy.
• 58:41
  Is math the big gay drug? I think so.
• 58:44
  I honestly think so. Listen.
• 58:47
  I used to be. Hold on.
• 58:48
  Wait a second, I have to preface this, but I've only done math
• 58:51
  once and it was against my will and I was unbeknownst to me.
• 58:55
  It's just insane. Can I ask a quick question of
• 58:57
  another? However, I will say like there
• 58:59
  was there were butt things involved and it was like.
• 59:03
  That way I feel and it's sad because I can just look at
• 59:06
  somebody and see like either a sunk in an eye or I I know bone
• 59:10
  structure so well on someone already.
• 59:12
  And then I'm like party and then he's like I used to, but I would
• 59:16
  for you and I'm like and then I write you would destroy your
• 59:20
  whole life for some bitch you just spent 5 minutes ago and
• 59:24
  he's like, well, I thought you like and I was like, I don't I
• 59:26
  don't like people who have done something.
• 59:28
  Crazy. And still do, yeah, but I'm
• 59:30
  still willing filtered. I don't just anything to do with
• 59:33
  what are. What are the we've kind of seen
• 59:35
  a few times where they like they sniff it?
• 59:37
  Poppers. What the Hell's that Poppers
• 59:40
  Glass cleaner? They're basically like fucking
• 59:42
  smelling salt of essentially. But it makes you.
• 59:46
  Euphoric. Have you ever done it?
• 59:49
  I've been offered to by my ex gay roommate.
• 59:52
  Not that he's ex gay, he's just my ex roommate.
• 59:55
  Used to be gay. Not anymore.
• 59:57
  Used. To be gay, he went to he went to
• 59:59
  church. I wanted to try those.
• 1:00:02
  He had conversion therapy. It went really good for him.
• 1:00:05
  No, he offered for me to try it before and he was like, yeah, I
• 1:00:08
  have them on me all the time. And I'm like.
• 1:00:10
  All the time so. Not all the time, but like.
• 1:00:13
  No, that's like me Karen Lube at work.
• 1:00:14
  I'm like I'm ready whenever like but.
• 1:00:19
  But he was like, yeah, you want to try?
• 1:00:20
  I'm like, no, I'm good. But I'm curious.
• 1:00:23
  But I'm good. Is it like doing a whip it?
• 1:00:26
  It opens you up both ways. So you could Deep Throat and you
• 1:00:30
  can take a BBC. You ain't going to feel it.
• 1:00:34
  You're probably going to feel it for 30 seconds.
• 1:00:38
  Yeah, they don't last long. Yeah, she better keep sniffing,
• 1:00:41
  boy. I'm like, this is what you do to
• 1:00:46
  get on. I bought some just to keep on my
• 1:00:49
  purse, 'cause I thought it was hysterical.
• 1:00:51
  I'll be like, I was at the restaurant with my mom.
• 1:00:53
  I was like, hey, and she goes, what's that?
• 1:00:56
  I was like VCR cleaner. She goes, why do you have that?
• 1:00:59
  I was like, I don't know, don't you do VCR cleaner all the time?
• 1:01:03
  Like or like I'll just like, I'll be at the bar.
• 1:01:05
  I'm like, do you just want to do poppers?
• 1:01:07
  And they're like, what the fuck? I was like.
• 1:01:11
  What? We were, we were at a place one
• 1:01:12
  time. This guy was just like, he just
• 1:01:16
  kept doing it, but like, nobody was, nobody was around.
• 1:01:18
  Him, nobody he's doing but like. But nobody was around him.
• 1:01:21
  Man, he's. Doing he's.
• 1:01:23
  Just doing we were out of. He's got he's got his five hour
• 1:01:27
  energy right there. Have you seen the video of
• 1:01:31
  somebody going up to like people and be like, does this smell
• 1:01:34
  weird? And I'm like.
• 1:01:37
  I love it I. Love it.
• 1:01:39
  Oh my God, I think they're the. Funniest thing?
• 1:01:40
  I'm like somebody I would puke on you.
• 1:01:42
  Somebody, I forget the video, but it was like, listen to him.
• 1:01:48
  I keep thinking of it. I'm like, that's so scary.
• 1:01:50
  Someone was working and he goes, hey, can you smell this?
• 1:01:53
  And he goes, oh, what the? Fuck, I like the game guitar.
• 1:01:56
  And he's like, what the fuck was that?
• 1:02:01
  He's like, what the fuck, Sheila, get up front right now.
• 1:02:04
  He's like what the fuck? No, I seen I seen that exact 1
• 1:02:12
  is not bad. Oh, we talked about this off
• 1:02:14
  camera before we determined. We found.
• 1:02:16
  We figured me out. I am the gayest straight dude of
• 1:02:19
  all time. All right.
• 1:02:23
  I have. I have a lot of gay tendencies
• 1:02:25
  and I'm into gay things but not like gay sex.
• 1:02:27
  Ghost. Is not gay who ghost I.
• 1:02:31
  Don't think I didn't say Ghost isn't gay.
• 1:02:33
  I agreed that it's super gay and I liked that it's super gay
• 1:02:36
  first. Until we all said no, they're
• 1:02:38
  gay. No, I it's super gay.
• 1:02:41
  Never. Yeah, it's it's.
• 1:02:42
  Evil it's Lady Gaga, but male it's evil Elton.
• 1:02:45
  John. I dropped the other.
• 1:02:48
  Yeah, sorry. No, there was other things too
• 1:02:51
  that I was like that. I do that.
• 1:02:54
  I do care. About your hair and your.
• 1:02:56
  Skin. I moisturize sometimes, yeah.
• 1:03:00
  A feminine size. Super game things that a
• 1:03:02
  straight guy tried to be do, they'd be like bro.
• 1:03:05
  I mean, technically the first time I met you, you kissed my
• 1:03:08
  boyfriend. I did didn't know that.
• 1:03:11
  I'm not afraid. You don't know that.
• 1:03:13
  Story. There you go.
• 1:03:14
  There's your segment. We know what you're talking
• 1:03:15
  about. So we worked at American Eagle
• 1:03:19
  and she, I knew her because she was in a hot dog eating contest
• 1:03:23
  and she and she and she won and I was cheering her on.
• 1:03:27
  It was. Me against like 5 huge like
• 1:03:29
  brick houses of deer. She fucking dominated, dominated
• 1:03:33
  and I was fucking losing it. So anyway, I ended up finding
• 1:03:36
  out that she's dating a kid that I used to live with in town.
• 1:03:39
  And he was at the job and he was talking tough and talking like
• 1:03:43
  he was a little reckless and saying like, homophobic, Trumpy
• 1:03:46
  shit. I didn't know this.
• 1:03:47
  And I was like, yeah, why are you acting like a fucking tough
• 1:03:50
  guy? You've been a bitch your whole
• 1:03:51
  life. And he's like, we've known each
• 1:03:54
  other since we're kids. And I was like, you're not about
• 1:03:56
  that life. I said, I'll prove it to you.
• 1:03:58
  Next time I see you, I'm going to walk up and I'll kiss you on
• 1:04:01
  your mouth. And then you're going to do
• 1:04:02
  nothing about it. And everyone's like, you won't.
• 1:04:04
  You won't. Everyone's convinced, like when
• 1:04:07
  you talk to me at a job or like on the Internet, like I'm not
• 1:04:11
  who I am all the time. And I'm like everything.
• 1:04:14
  Is in public online because I'm like, I'm not about to hide all
• 1:04:17
  this. I'm like, this is too funny.
• 1:04:18
  This is me and if you don't like it.
• 1:04:20
  Sorry, So it was his birthday and they're like, yeah, we're
• 1:04:22
  all leaving work early and we're going to the nest.
• 1:04:24
  He's there with this girl. And I was like, and they're
• 1:04:26
  like, you won't do it. I go, I fuck, I won't.
• 1:04:29
  Walk right into the bar, walk straight across the crowd of
• 1:04:32
  thing leaned over the table, grab him by his fucking ears,
• 1:04:35
  kiss him right in his mouth and pushed off.
• 1:04:36
  I said, I told you you weren't doing nothing about it, pussy.
• 1:04:38
  And I walked away. But everybody was laughing, like
• 1:04:41
  everybody was laughing. I'm already tipsy.
• 1:04:44
  I'm trying to get him drunk because he's never been drunk
• 1:04:46
  before in his life. At this point.
• 1:04:47
  I think he was turning like 2425, something like that, but
• 1:04:51
  he had never been drunk. So I'm like, oh, we're getting
• 1:04:53
  you fucked up. So he's already drunk when this
• 1:04:56
  happens and everybody's just laughing.
• 1:04:58
  And I'm like, he's like, that's my friend Tony.
• 1:05:01
  And I'm like, what's up? Nice to meet you.
• 1:05:04
  That's how I meet. This guy, whatever you get off
• 1:05:06
  the way. You did not.
• 1:05:08
  You didn't Whatever bitched me. Nice try.
• 1:05:12
  Like we were, we were like, we were friends.
• 1:05:13
  We were friends. Like I wouldn't say like, like
• 1:05:17
  we weren't talking like on an everyday level, but it was like
• 1:05:20
  every now and then we touch base like, Hey, what's new?
• 1:05:22
  How you doing? Like, oh, I'd randomly bump into
• 1:05:24
  you at a strip club. I was.
• 1:05:26
  I was. Bartending, She's bartending.
• 1:05:28
  She wasn't stripping, but I was just like, oh shit, you and
• 1:05:32
  you're like, yeah, what's up? I was like, we, so we, we were
• 1:05:35
  at a wrestling show and it was instead of drinking $17.00 beers
• 1:05:41
  at the casino, I got an alert on my phone that if we showed our
• 1:05:44
  wrestling ticket to the, it's, I think it just recently closed it
• 1:05:48
  too. Just closed it.
• 1:05:49
  But if you showed your wrestling ticket, you didn't pay a cover
• 1:05:52
  charge and you got in for free and all beers and.
• 1:05:56
  Beers were two. Dollars beers were two dollars,
• 1:05:57
  shots were fireball, shots were a dollar.
• 1:05:59
  And if you got a beer, and if you got a beer, you got a free
• 1:06:02
  burger. Burger and.
• 1:06:05
  Fries and I was like so we could eat meals, look at boobs and
• 1:06:08
  $2.00 beers. I said I just paid $17.00 for
• 1:06:12
  this. I can get destroyed on $17.00 at
• 1:06:15
  this other place. I'm like, I don't see this is
• 1:06:18
  this is a no brainer. What are we doing here?
• 1:06:20
  And then we all went over. So literally, I think it was
• 1:06:22
  only one of my first few days there.
• 1:06:24
  Like I had just been trained. So we had just opened up for day
• 1:06:27
  shift and the day shift was get any drink.
• 1:06:30
  You could buy a soda for a dollar and get a free burger and
• 1:06:34
  fries. I took a bite of the burger
• 1:06:37
  because my buddy ate it. I was like I'm not eating a
• 1:06:39
  burger at a strip club. It wasn't a bad burger.
• 1:06:41
  The bad, the bio I. Had it was made in the strip
• 1:06:43
  club, it was made in the bar that was next door that had
• 1:06:46
  closed down and they literally just had like a door to the
• 1:06:48
  kitchen so the chef would come in and like drop it off.
• 1:06:50
  Yeah, I, I wasn't aware of that. I'm.
• 1:06:53
  I'm thinking it's like Sky Blue's makeup thing and he's
• 1:06:56
  there. Fucking want a fucking hot
• 1:06:58
  griddle. Yo honey, move your thumb.
• 1:07:03
  Wait, sky blue? You had to go sky blue.
• 1:07:06
  I was a wrestler. Yeah, sorry.
• 1:07:08
  I just, I just put like something and the color and
• 1:07:11
  usually that's. You have to go with things that
• 1:07:13
  they can't afford. Platinum, diamond, Ruby.
• 1:07:17
  I couldn't afford lilies at the time, you know, be like that.
• 1:07:21
  Jesus Christ, what a trailer park bitch right here.
• 1:07:24
  But yeah, so that was that was that was the I Kissed Your
• 1:07:29
  Boyfriend's story. Yeah, I didn't find out about
• 1:07:32
  this story though, so, so I will say that I'll be honest with
• 1:07:37
  everyone. I voted for Trump the first go
• 1:07:39
  around. Get out.
• 1:07:40
  I was with him, not him. There's the door.
• 1:07:43
  By his ex or not his ex, my ex, the one that he kissed at the
• 1:07:46
  time. And I didn't see all of the
• 1:07:49
  fucking signs because I was stupid.
• 1:07:52
  And then after we split up, like, I don't know, I guess I
• 1:07:56
  would say my eyes opened up a little bit, but like some of the
• 1:08:00
  things that went on in the bedroom even we're like, oh, he
• 1:08:04
  would want to say like he'd want to do kinky things.
• 1:08:07
  And then it was like we could never talk about that because
• 1:08:09
  he's religious. Like, and it was like, it was
• 1:08:11
  weird shit like that. And I'm like, but he liked me
• 1:08:14
  because I started dancing actually when I was with this
• 1:08:16
  dude and. Was that something?
• 1:08:17
  I don't know if I can though. Didn't we hook?
• 1:08:20
  Didn't we hook up before we hooked up?
• 1:08:23
  What do you mean? Wasn't that here's your
• 1:08:26
  imagination there? Didn't Didn't we hook up before
• 1:08:30
  we hooked up? You just said about you used to
• 1:08:32
  do things or talk about things, but it was supposed to be kind
• 1:08:35
  of. Shut the fuck anyway.
• 1:08:41
  So I. Wasn't there for it.
• 1:08:42
  I didn't start like putting like the pieces together.
• 1:08:47
  And then I find out about this like years later, because one of
• 1:08:50
  the girls that was working with you guys, I guess, had gotten
• 1:08:54
  really upset about this. And we were cool with her at the
• 1:08:58
  time. My ex and I were cool with her.
• 1:09:01
  And then she started dating somebody who is in town as well.
• 1:09:05
  And he was like, oh, we don't talk to her.
• 1:09:06
  We don't. And I'm like, she's so sweet
• 1:09:08
  though. Like why would you have anything
• 1:09:10
  that to say about her? He's like, no, she's a bitch.
• 1:09:12
  And I'm like, well, how is she a bitch?
• 1:09:14
  What makes you call her a bitch? But he wouldn't tell me why and
• 1:09:17
  he's like, we just, we got into an argument and I don't think
• 1:09:19
  we're going to get past it. And then here we are like 8
• 1:09:22
  years later and me and Tony start talking and he's like,
• 1:09:26
  dude, how are you with him? Like he's like homophobic and
• 1:09:29
  shit. I'm like, what are you talking
• 1:09:30
  about? And he's like, yeah, this is
• 1:09:32
  this this and this happened. And I'm like, yeah, so that
• 1:09:36
  explains a lot because that explains why he stopped talking
• 1:09:38
  to this girl. And then he.
• 1:09:40
  Starts with AD, right? Yeah, she, I, I still talk to
• 1:09:42
  her every now and then. She's super nice.
• 1:09:43
  Yeah, I'm friends with her on. Facebook and everything.
• 1:09:45
  She's a really cool person. No, I don't know, American Eagle
• 1:09:48
  Girl. I think she's still there too.
• 1:09:50
  I'm not sure. Things you save as a contact,
• 1:09:53
  yeah. Yeah.
• 1:09:53
  No, actually, do you know how many people you meet in
• 1:09:56
  warehouses? John, John inbound.
• 1:09:59
  John Inbound. Lead John inbound.
• 1:10:01
  John. John Inventory.
• 1:10:05
  Yeah. Old dude, yellow shirt.
• 1:10:09
  I can't learn anyone's names in my job, so I can't pronounce
• 1:10:11
  half of them. I.
• 1:10:13
  Know I asked you if you knew the one lead and he's like what name
• 1:10:17
  did you just. Say.
• 1:10:19
  The Duolingo you can do this. I have been doing Duolingo a
• 1:10:22
  lot. Yeah, actually, when you're
• 1:10:23
  talking about stuff on the Internet, I found these videos
• 1:10:25
  that are so bad and so stupid that I think they're funny, but
• 1:10:30
  because they're fucked up Franks.
• 1:10:31
  But this dude will walk into like a public place that has
• 1:10:35
  like a public bathroom, like like like a Wawa or a fucking
• 1:10:40
  Sheets or a fucking Walmart or a Red Robin or something or like
• 1:10:46
  anything like a low is our Home Depot.
• 1:10:48
  And he'll go into the bathroom and see that someone's in there
• 1:10:51
  using the bathroom. So that he quick runs out and
• 1:10:54
  finds an associate and says my little brother's locked in the
• 1:10:57
  bathroom. My God.
• 1:10:59
  And then gets the associate to open the door.
• 1:11:03
  And the guy's like, what the fuck?
• 1:11:04
  And then this kid or merely pulls his photo and has the most
• 1:11:10
  obnoxious fucking Simpsons laugh.
• 1:11:14
  They're just like more fun than they've just seen someone on the
• 1:11:20
  toilet. Like, like, oh, it's so good,
• 1:11:23
  it's so stupid. It's a stuff of humor.
• 1:11:25
  But. You put in jail.
• 1:11:28
  It's so stupid but it's my. New favorite ones are where
• 1:11:32
  they're in like Home Depot or like Walmart and they're
• 1:11:36
  screaming and he goes, that wasn't me, that wasn't me.
• 1:11:41
  And they were like, well, the screen came from over here.
• 1:11:43
  And then you'd hear the back of Screamer and he's like, see now
• 1:11:47
  what the fuck? And I won an apology and.
• 1:11:49
  He's like, I wasn't profiling you.
• 1:11:52
  And it was, it was just like, Oh my God, they did a group of
• 1:11:56
  three the one time where they had a third screamer and it was
• 1:11:58
  like, oh. I see they had six.
• 1:12:00
  They had six people. There was a video just recently
• 1:12:02
  where a guy walked into a target and brought like 60 people with
• 1:12:07
  him and said that he was from corporate and these are all the
• 1:12:09
  new workers. I seen that and they're all like
• 1:12:11
  get. The fuck out.
• 1:12:12
  He's like everyone get to work, everyone get to work.
• 1:12:14
  I haven't. Seen that one?
• 1:12:17
  Yet like the cops couldn't arrest 60 of you for
• 1:12:19
  trespassing. I love that stuff it's so dumb.
• 1:12:22
  It's like, that's the humor I would do as a.
• 1:12:24
  Kid, the ones that the ones that always get me are the ones that
• 1:12:27
  I send you where there's there's this guy who shows like the
• 1:12:30
  coolest art things. That it'll be.
• 1:12:32
  Like like here's this cool way to do this and this person uses
• 1:12:36
  coffee and then the way that it dries they.
• 1:12:38
  Use the contrasting of the. Send this to someone who shit
• 1:12:40
  their pants. Wait a minute.
• 1:12:43
  Why he's talking about the whole beautiful thing, all power and
• 1:12:45
  he's like, send this to someone who fucking.
• 1:12:48
  Who always has shit stains? Yeah, who shit?
• 1:12:50
  Who has shit stains? What are the ones that oh I'm
• 1:12:53
  trying to think of? The first one I sent you, you're
• 1:12:54
  like, yo, what the fuck is that? Like it's funny.
• 1:12:57
  Like, that's hilarious. And then I just started like
• 1:12:59
  sending them. And then now he gets someone his
• 1:13:01
  and I'm like, yeah, you're laughing.
• 1:13:02
  I like to be a man guy. Did you ever see the be a man
• 1:13:04
  guy? Or it's like, I haven't seen the
• 1:13:07
  most, it's the most toxic masculine things of all time.
• 1:13:10
  But it's funny because you're laughing at the toxic.
• 1:13:12
  So it's like next time you're in a bathroom, shit with the door
• 1:13:15
  open, be a man. Don't call off work.
• 1:13:18
  That made me think of the get sick and die daddy chill, daddy
• 1:13:21
  chill. But it.
• 1:13:26
  They had these videos and it was like how it's made and it'll be
• 1:13:30
  like, hey, and on the elevator air 13 cookies for your fucking
• 1:13:34
  mom. Like they'll like add stuff to
• 1:13:36
  the end and it looks so realistic.
• 1:13:38
  And I'm like, God, his voice was so realistic.
• 1:13:41
  Did you ever you ever see the cheetah guy?
• 1:13:43
  Ayo, cheetah. What's so oh?
• 1:13:45
  My gosh, the guy who does like the recipes?
• 1:13:47
  He is a cooking show I. Know you know who that is?
• 1:13:51
  Lil Dicky. No, it's not.
• 1:13:53
  I'm almost. Certain it's definitely not Lil
• 1:13:55
  Dicky and so this guy he has a puppet and it's like a cheetah
• 1:13:59
  and he'd be like hey yo cheetah the puppet comes and goes what's
• 1:14:02
  so he goes I got I got a little hunker in for a snack you want
• 1:14:06
  to make one let's do it I want to make some queso or something
• 1:14:09
  like that and he'll be like how do I do it he'll be like first
• 1:14:12
  you get a copper block and then you get the.
• 1:14:14
  Cheese. Oh, it's so awesome.
• 1:14:16
  Oh my God. Oh.
• 1:14:17
  He's and he's so good. No, he didn't do it.
• 1:14:20
  I'm trying to find. I'm trying to remember which
• 1:14:21
  one. I don't know how to cook but
• 1:14:24
  this this this cheetah fucking teaches me how to cook.
• 1:14:29
  I'm dummy ass. Or Vladimir.
• 1:14:30
  Putin. I'll believe it when I see it.
• 1:14:32
  I have a lot of anti trump shit on my TikTok too.
• 1:14:34
  I'm trying to get back my own cheetah cooking.
• 1:14:46
  That's that's not it, you know? Is he gone?
• 1:14:50
  You're. Doing wonderful.
• 1:14:56
  There you go. I know those little kids eat
• 1:15:04
  that shit up. My.
• 1:15:06
  Christian my God I see so many fucking puppets talk about we
• 1:15:15
  took that away from my food. Soy sauce and garlic kind of mix
• 1:15:20
  it all together. Me trying to raise recipe down
• 1:15:22
  to have ADHD. That's why he does it in a song.
• 1:15:25
  He's so good. Lyrics I'll be cooking and then
• 1:15:27
  you get a little bit of it a bit.
• 1:15:31
  How do you make this sandwich a yo?
• 1:15:33
  What's so like you know you don't have to wrap it every
• 1:15:36
  time, right? It's the only way I remember it
• 1:15:38
  can. We talk about the the the things
• 1:15:41
  that kids do eat up these days. As far as TikTok goes, then
• 1:15:45
  alpha. Slimed ASMR like it's the worst
• 1:15:48
  it's. Just weird, bizarre things like
• 1:15:50
  my kids will send me. Let's just look at like the last
• 1:15:52
  thing my kid sent me, shall we? Let's do that time.
• 1:15:57
  To make my bed and start my day and my bed is a mess.
• 1:16:01
  Laptop. Oh, but it's dead.
• 1:16:03
  No matter, I have another computer.
• 1:16:05
  Let's go into. That I hate it already and I.
• 1:16:06
  See, I left the lights on from last night.
• 1:16:08
  That's always. I hate this guy.
• 1:16:10
  It's that or what babies are watching.
• 1:16:12
  It's like, yeah, they're really putting on and I'm just like.
• 1:16:15
  That none of it makes sense. Or honestly, I I'll say this, I
• 1:16:20
  like Miss Rachel Coco Mellie, you can suck my asshole.
• 1:16:25
  I do like Bluey. I love Bluey too.
• 1:16:27
  Bluey's, you know, that's some heartfelt shit there.
• 1:16:30
  I love. He does some heart to hearts.
• 1:16:32
  They really do. They're, he had an aunt who had
• 1:16:35
  a miscarriage and they had like a whole, a whole thing about
• 1:16:38
  that, like. Bluey Episodes.
• 1:16:40
  It was like the season finisher. That shit made me cry, man.
• 1:16:43
  It was. Beautiful.
• 1:16:45
  Isn't that cancelled? I think, I think it did just get
• 1:16:49
  cancelled well, that they're not renewing it.
• 1:16:51
  Oh my gosh, that's such a mistake.
• 1:16:53
  Yeah, so many. Kids like Netflix will buy it or
• 1:16:56
  something. Yeah, for sure.
• 1:16:58
  Do you want to get into the book?
• 1:17:00
  I was thinking, OK, we call my mom.
• 1:17:04
  Oh boy, have. Her pick the number and I read
• 1:17:07
  it to her. Oh my gosh.
• 1:17:09
  And then when I'm done reading it, I asked her if she would do
• 1:17:12
  it and rate the scale. OK.
• 1:17:14
  And then done. Your mom would be cool with
• 1:17:16
  this. Yeah.
• 1:17:17
  All right, let's do it. We'll tell her that she's on a
• 1:17:20
  podcast too, and then put it on speaker guest.
• 1:17:24
  Calling. Welcome mom to the podcast You
• 1:17:34
  got to tell Skook moms. Tell Skook moms they're on.
• 1:17:36
  They're re recorded. You're being recorded right now,
• 1:17:40
  OK By who? The FBI with my iPhone.
• 1:17:48
  So I, I'm gonna have you on the podcast right now and I'm going
• 1:17:53
  to have you pick a number, alright?
• 1:17:56
  Through our 101 Kinky things OK? A number from what to what?
• 1:18:03
  A number one through 100 and 172.
• 1:18:11
  OK. OK, so pick a number one through
• 1:18:16
  172. 71. Wow. 71 and then yeah, here you.
• 1:18:26
  Go now do I got to tell you the kinky.
• 1:18:27
  Part. Of it.
• 1:18:28
  Oh. My God, did you get right?
• 1:18:29
  To it. Oh my God, did you open right to
• 1:18:31
  it? Is it crazy?
• 1:18:33
  Oh. Fuck.
• 1:18:34
  OK, I need you to hold this. Hold the phone.
• 1:18:36
  OK, I'm going to hold it up to your microphone.
• 1:18:39
  OK, mom, now I know. Wait, which #71?
• 1:18:43
  Oh, real quick, real quick. Give her the premise.
• 1:18:45
  We're going to read. We're going to read the passage
• 1:18:47
  of the kink. And then you have to either rate
• 1:18:50
  it from A1 to five if you have, if you've done it or you're
• 1:18:53
  interested in doing it from 1:00 to 5:00.
• 1:18:55
  OK. One being you just totally
• 1:18:58
  interested in doing it. Yes, OK.
• 1:19:02
  One as no and five as. Yes, yes, all.
• 1:19:05
  Right. 5 is full, yeah. Is that full volume?
• 1:19:07
  I want all of it. Yeah, I think it's because of
• 1:19:10
  this. Very possibly.
• 1:19:14
  All right. Can you hear me?
• 1:19:16
  Yeah. My God, it's so low.
• 1:19:18
  It is. So it's submission.
• 1:19:24
  Submission is the counterpart to dominance and involves giving up
• 1:19:27
  control to a partner. A submissive person, also called
• 1:19:31
  a submissive or sub for short, may enjoy being bossed around,
• 1:19:36
  receiving strong sensations such as pain, bondage or forced
• 1:19:40
  pleasure, and meeting their dominant needs both sexually and
• 1:19:44
  non sexually. Some people submit only in the
• 1:19:47
  bedroom, while others prefer a relationship style that allows
• 1:19:50
  them to take on a submissive role more or less 24/7.
• 1:19:55
  Particularly when your life is stressful and busy, it can be
• 1:19:57
  nice to surrender to somebody else's will and give up the
• 1:20:01
  responsibility of making decisions for a while.
• 1:20:04
  It can also be hot to witness someone's desire for you in the
• 1:20:07
  way they dominate you, the trust involved in giving up control to
• 1:20:10
  another person. Can be incredibly intimate and
• 1:20:13
  may bolster your relationship. And yeah, would you do that?
• 1:20:23
  Give up full control to somebody else.
• 1:20:26
  It could only be in the bedroom or it could be all the time that
• 1:20:30
  would be up to use. No, I want to be the boss.
• 1:20:34
  I Lily was thinking if, if she's anything like her kids, I don't
• 1:20:38
  see anyone like telling you what to do she.
• 1:20:40
  Came up with something where she said I'm the boss, I'm the dog.
• 1:20:43
  Yeah, I'm, I'm making this my bitch.
• 1:20:47
  All right, wait, so rated one to five of.
• 1:20:52
  Me being the boss. Of you being the sub.
• 1:20:56
  Oh, No 2. We're on the scale.
• 1:21:01
  That's a traditional love. You stay home and cook, all
• 1:21:06
  right? Now when when am I doing the
• 1:21:08
  number thing? You already did the number
• 1:21:10
  thing. Oh, OK.
• 1:21:13
  All right. OK.
• 1:21:15
  All right. Love you.
• 1:21:16
  All right, Love you. Bye.
• 1:21:18
  Bye. Your mom's definitely not a sub.
• 1:21:21
  My mom definitely isn't. As soon as I saw that, I was
• 1:21:23
  like. I'm a 0.
• 1:21:25
  It's like I don't want to be hit I.
• 1:21:27
  Was like OK I'm a zero, I'm a zero in being a sub.
• 1:21:33
  A full 0. A0 All right, a .5.
• 1:21:37
  OK, I'll allow it. Me, if I was a biological role,
• 1:21:42
  do you like to be pegged totally still?
• 1:21:47
  But I, I probably would do it at like a four and a half only
• 1:21:55
  because if I'm doing that full time, there's going to be at
• 1:21:59
  least a benefit for me. Like I, I don't know, I'm a big
• 1:22:02
  people pleaser. So I, I, I need another people
• 1:22:07
  pleaser. I just so I would, I'd give it 4
• 1:22:11
  1/2. I would do it got to be some
• 1:22:14
  love in there though. I have no stranger collar me up.
• 1:22:18
  Amen. So I, I am submissive.
• 1:22:23
  I don't, I wouldn't say that I'm submissive with everybody, but I
• 1:22:28
  do have, I do fall in that I will only be with somebody that
• 1:22:32
  I trust in that way. Like I'm not giving you the
• 1:22:35
  power to have like total control over me unless I completely
• 1:22:39
  trust you. And I feel like that does go
• 1:22:41
  into a little bit of my PTSD trigger warning.
• 1:22:45
  I was essayed a few times in my life, and yet that is still
• 1:22:50
  something that I'm very much into, is the roughness, the
• 1:22:54
  bondage. And it's the pain, but it's
• 1:22:56
  because it's just like how like I hate explaining CNC to people
• 1:23:01
  because I'm like it. It's a relief.
• 1:23:02
  I'm going to have to say like the hard R.
• 1:23:05
  Like, right? Absolutely.
• 1:23:07
  I hate saying it, but it's like, I want you to chase me through
• 1:23:10
  the woods with a gun and I want you to actually get me down.
• 1:23:13
  Right, this is this is a cat and.
• 1:23:14
  Mouse and my clothes are back in the car and I still got to go
• 1:23:16
  back with you like crazy. My mom, but like, and I think
• 1:23:20
  it's a trauma, certainly the trauma, absolutely.
• 1:23:23
  There is a level to it where it's like I went through
• 1:23:26
  something traumatic and I have to find a freedom in that
• 1:23:31
  traumatic, in that, in the trauma.
• 1:23:33
  And I think that it is a huge turn on to a degree of like,
• 1:23:39
  yeah, I'll give myself to you and I'll let you do whatever you
• 1:23:42
  want to me. And I trust you that you're not
• 1:23:44
  going to take this to a level that I'm uncomfortable with.
• 1:23:48
  Where you're not enjoying it and the person is, that's you.
• 1:23:51
  Know that this is something that's for both of us.
• 1:23:53
  This isn't just so you can beat the fuck out of me and leave me
• 1:23:56
  here half dead. But as far as like a rated
• 1:24:02
  thing, yeah, I would say I'm definitely for it.
• 1:24:04
  I would give that a big old 5. But I think again, like that's
• 1:24:08
  not being submissive. Maybe I shouldn't even say I'm
• 1:24:13
  not always submissive because I think that there is.
• 1:24:16
  I still have that vulnerability with everybody, but I don't act
• 1:24:21
  on it with everyone. Like there is still that like,
• 1:24:23
  hey, I'm trusting you with this. But I feel like I don't know if
• 1:24:26
  we really scared. I don't know if we've really
• 1:24:28
  talked about this much actually on the podcast, but like, when I
• 1:24:31
  meet with somebody, I don't want to meet with somebody by myself
• 1:24:34
  for the first time. Yeah, yeah.
• 1:24:35
  Like I'm very much like I need. We we've talked about how I've
• 1:24:38
  been, I've been in the in the room while you're having an
• 1:24:41
  experience and it's not so much of me there to watch and be a
• 1:24:44
  creep. It's I'm.
• 1:24:45
  There like it's like going on a first date.
• 1:24:47
  And you don't drive there and to make sure you're safe you.
• 1:24:49
  Up and you're having to put that trust and and like yeah, it's
• 1:24:52
  it's like nervous a serial killer.
• 1:24:54
  Please don't kill me. Please don't arm me like I need
• 1:24:57
  you to right be responsible with this.
• 1:25:00
  Absolutely. Big O 0 from you.
• 1:25:03
  Oh, wait a point. 5.5 But I even struggle with the Dom side, like
• 1:25:07
  the dominant side, especially when it gets into that rougher
• 1:25:10
  things like I, it's not something I'm super comfortable
• 1:25:13
  with and I try to do some of it to be there for you.
• 1:25:18
  Because obviously, like, like I said, we've had that experience
• 1:25:21
  where we are going to have somebody else fill those shoes
• 1:25:24
  and they were not respectful with it.
• 1:25:26
  And so it kind of was like, well, then I guess I have to
• 1:25:28
  step up and do it so I can meet you and fulfill what you're
• 1:25:31
  looking for. But it's something for me that's
• 1:25:34
  kind of triggering because I was someone who was like beaten and
• 1:25:37
  hit a lot and and and I'm not saying my parents were bad for
• 1:25:41
  doing it, but it definitely like I don't like to be hit or like I
• 1:25:45
  don't have that like, oh, that's play fight.
• 1:25:47
  Like no, I get hit. It's weird, I could probably be
• 1:25:49
  the sub but like the Dom side I totally would love to do but I
• 1:25:52
  feel like I could. Not like if she ever I ever told
• 1:25:55
  her if you ever pull my. Hair punched anybody.
• 1:25:57
  Like if you ever fought but I ever told her, like if you ever
• 1:26:00
  pull my hair or like bite me too hard or anything like that, like
• 1:26:03
  it's done for me. Like I don't, I don't I just for
• 1:26:05
  me, I, I it's a complete I'll, I'll go if you pull my hair, I
• 1:26:09
  will go shave my head. Yeah, like I just don't like it
• 1:26:12
  because when I was a kid I had a rat tail and my aunt just loved
• 1:26:15
  pulling on it, like to hurt me. And I was just like, pull it
• 1:26:19
  again. And she did.
• 1:26:20
  And I went in the fucking kitchen and I cut it off.
• 1:26:23
  I said. And I fuck it through the point
• 1:26:25
  I like now you can fuck a pull all day long, you fucking bitch.
• 1:26:27
  And. Then I got my mom got back to
• 1:26:29
  me. She really said you don't know
• 1:26:32
  why I picked 71 and they said no.
• 1:26:35
  I said why did you pick? And she goes, it's 69 with two
• 1:26:37
  fingers up my ass. I thought he was going to say
• 1:26:42
  69, like I already beat you to that one.
• 1:26:44
  We did 69 already. We should get a sticky note and
• 1:26:47
  write down the numbers we've done already.
• 1:26:49
  Yeah. I was I was thinking. 6971 and
• 1:26:51
  what did you pick I. Don't remember.
• 1:26:54
  But it was we. Know what?
• 1:26:55
  It was what was. 69 it was costumes.
• 1:26:58
  Last costumes, the 69 was a table of contents. 69 is
• 1:27:04
  voyeurism or public play? I'm hearing like I'll just read
• 1:27:08
  every word. Yeah.
• 1:27:11
  Oh God, I can't wait to get to 137.
• 1:27:13
  And now? You know which one we're doing
• 1:27:14
  next. Time, yeah.
• 1:27:16
  Costume. Yeah, like the Dom sub thing,
• 1:27:18
  I'm still, I'm still trying to figure it out, but like I also
• 1:27:21
  don't like to be bossy and I don't like to get in a spot
• 1:27:25
  where I have to yell or be like punishing.
• 1:27:27
  Go ahead. I think in general, people who
• 1:27:31
  are Subs are people who in their day-to-day life, I'm not saying
• 1:27:37
  that they take a lot of shit, but they feel like they're
• 1:27:40
  bossed around and they have to or they have to boss people
• 1:27:43
  around or they feel like they have to have that power control
• 1:27:46
  that when they're in that scenario that they're like, I
• 1:27:51
  don't want any of this. I don't want to have to.
• 1:27:54
  Think I also. Single.
• 1:27:55
  Fucking I also have. I don't have.
• 1:27:57
  Doing things all day long and I'm thinking about what needs to
• 1:28:00
  be done and this needs to be done.
• 1:28:01
  And I still have three days until this show that I have to
• 1:28:03
  have something done for. But you're zooming because I
• 1:28:05
  have some, right? And that's how I am.
• 1:28:06
  But then whenever I'm in a scene, I'm like, I don't have to
• 1:28:09
  think about a single. Thing it's kind of like the I
• 1:28:14
  seen a quote the other day and it's like when you're out with
• 1:28:15
  your like guy, you can shut your brain off.
• 1:28:18
  Yeah, I explained that to John. I was like, I love 1st dates
• 1:28:21
  because I could just like zone out and just get to know
• 1:28:25
  somebody. I also, I also have a lack of
• 1:28:27
  trust where if like you're with a girl and she's like, I want to
• 1:28:30
  do this and then you do it and then the next day she's like, I
• 1:28:32
  wasn't into that. And now I look at you
• 1:28:34
  differently and it's like. And I will say that we have had
• 1:28:38
  an experience where I ended up getting triggered, but you
• 1:28:42
  didn't continue with it. Like you were like, OK, we're
• 1:28:45
  done here and everything was taken care of.
• 1:28:48
  But like, I felt horrible. I knew I knew you felt bad
• 1:28:52
  because I was crying, but I felt bad because I was like, he's
• 1:28:55
  never going to want to do this again.
• 1:28:57
  I made him feel like. He but also like I felt I felt
• 1:29:02
  some type of way a little bit, but like because I think the
• 1:29:06
  biggest thing that I'm trying to get better at is is conveying my
• 1:29:08
  emotions and feelings and how I feel about such a situation.
• 1:29:12
  But as soon as I feel you're hurting or I say something that
• 1:29:15
  bothers you, my feelings are null and void at that point that
• 1:29:18
  I'm making sure you're OK. And I don't think that's healthy
• 1:29:21
  for me. I'm not trying to be a Dick, but
• 1:29:23
  it's just like, it's not about you right now.
• 1:29:24
  Like I'm opening up. And so when I was in that
• 1:29:27
  scenario where like, oh fuck, she wanted this and now she's
• 1:29:30
  upset and I didn't want to do this in the 1st place and now I
• 1:29:33
  feel like a fucking asshole. And then I got to eat that to
• 1:29:36
  make sure she's OK. I guess it's it's like a really
• 1:29:39
  hard mental fuck on the other side too, you know, I mean, but
• 1:29:42
  I I'm I'm still trying to be comforting for her, but now in
• 1:29:44
  my mind, I feel like a fucking like I'm like, I don't even know
• 1:29:47
  if I like she. I want to do this ever again.
• 1:29:49
  You know, I mean, so it was it was it was tough, but then
• 1:29:52
  obviously through reassurance and conversation was like that
• 1:29:54
  you didn't trigger me being you This like because I've had past
• 1:29:58
  experiences and essentially I have we're going into this
• 1:30:01
  trying to help her get over those experiences by doing it,
• 1:30:04
  but it's just like, I fucking hate it.
• 1:30:07
  It was, it was something that was done in the manner that it
• 1:30:10
  was done. It wasn't that he did it or he
• 1:30:13
  knew about it or he knew that it would happen, but it was like an
• 1:30:16
  instant like flashback. And I was like, yeah.
• 1:30:19
  I'm not going to. Rule anymore, you know.
• 1:30:20
  I don't even know where to go to to like put myself in a
• 1:30:22
  headspace for it too. So I was like, what do I do
• 1:30:24
  here? And then I'm just like, what
• 1:30:25
  would a fucking like villain do? Like, like, you know what I
• 1:30:29
  mean? Like I think like a horror movie
• 1:30:30
  and I'm like, I don't know. It's not a good place to put
• 1:30:33
  your head, especially if you're also trying to, I'm not trying
• 1:30:37
  to be vulgar, but I mean, we're here, we're talking about this,
• 1:30:39
  but you're also still trying to have sex and have the mindset of
• 1:30:42
  having sex. But then I'm I'm having sex,
• 1:30:46
  which is an enjoyable experience, and I'm trying to
• 1:30:48
  stay turned on by doing something that is such a turn
• 1:30:51
  off for me. And you're trying.
• 1:30:53
  I don't like, I don't know. It's just it's really it's like
• 1:30:55
  I'm trying to like stay in the game, but also I'm doing of
• 1:30:58
  things that are completely a huge turn off for me or like
• 1:31:01
  things that like I don't stand for at all in the.
• 1:31:03
  Back of my throat I'm. About to.
• 1:31:04
  I'm about to. I'm about to switch this up
• 1:31:06
  real. Quick though.
• 1:31:07
  Although you're uncomfortable with it.
• 1:31:10
  You hear what I said? I did.
• 1:31:11
  I did. Because I'm like, oh, I'm
• 1:31:13
  totally enjoying being down here.
• 1:31:14
  But then I'm like, I just get this move but give me a towel or
• 1:31:17
  something, something to get that straw.
• 1:31:20
  But in seriousness though, like there have been things where
• 1:31:23
  you're like, I'm on. Or.
• 1:31:25
  We're doing things that make you uncomfortable, but the reaction
• 1:31:29
  that you're getting, I would say I maybe I'm wrong speaking for
• 1:31:33
  you, but I feel like you, you do get something out of it.
• 1:31:36
  You get something out of maybe not of doing it, but out of my
• 1:31:39
  reaction. I feel, I feel, I feel more
• 1:31:41
  confident knowing that you're actually enjoying it, but it's
• 1:31:44
  still something that's like, it's not my go to like.
• 1:31:46
  No, I know that, but I mean like.
• 1:31:48
  She wants me to do that tonight. But what I mean is, well, first
• 1:31:51
  of all, that that's something that we've always talked about
• 1:31:53
  too, is like we, we have a conversation before.
• 1:31:56
  It's not like, oh, we're doing this now.
• 1:31:58
  It's not just like, hey, surprise, we're into this
• 1:32:00
  dynamic now and this is how it's going to go and fuck you because
• 1:32:03
  I'm your Dom. It's like, Hey, do you feel like
• 1:32:06
  doing this? Yeah.
• 1:32:07
  OK, cool. No, OK, whatever.
• 1:32:09
  Yes. But maybe not so hard on this
• 1:32:11
  and more of this. And we talk about it, but I
• 1:32:15
  don't know what's going to say. That like that I comply.
• 1:32:20
  Yeah, I think you're kind of already answered your question.
• 1:32:23
  I think I was saying how like we are doing stuff that makes you
• 1:32:25
  uncomfortable, but I think that like, where was I where I was
• 1:32:28
  talking about how I'm uncomfortable.
• 1:32:30
  When I'm not consenting. Not that I'm not consenting,
• 1:32:32
  because I am consenting. And where we started from when
• 1:32:35
  we first started where it was like, I don't think I can do
• 1:32:37
  this. We didn't go balls deep of like,
• 1:32:40
  let's do, oh, let's get me completely chained up and gagged
• 1:32:44
  and where I can't move and all that.
• 1:32:46
  Like we didn't go head first into it.
• 1:32:48
  It was like, OK, we're going to kind of baby step into this.
• 1:32:50
  But I think that I, I would say that your comfortability has
• 1:32:54
  opened up in the way that you do things now.
• 1:32:57
  It's not. I feel like you're a little more
• 1:32:58
  sure about things. Yeah, a little bit.
• 1:33:00
  Yeah, until like another element gets added that I'm like, I got
• 1:33:03
  to learn knots. The fuck you?
• 1:33:06
  Don't. You could just pie them already
• 1:33:08
  knotted and just clasp them together.
• 1:33:12
  I got to be told. Grabbing a Christmas I got to be
• 1:33:14
  a fucking. I got to be a fucking fisherman
• 1:33:16
  and a firefighter. Listen, I do.
• 1:33:18
  All I'm saying is we bought, you know what I mean?
• 1:33:20
  Like I'm not even asking. I have to use handcuff keys, you
• 1:33:22
  know what I mean? Like what the fuck am I?
• 1:33:25
  We're going to get night sticks and fucking hit her.
• 1:33:27
  Here's the thing. We bought a kit.
• 1:33:28
  We bought a kit. We bought a kit.
• 1:33:30
  We. Got a mazer and. 1/2 ago we used
• 1:33:33
  to even fucking use it, so I don't want to hear it.
• 1:33:35
  We have all of these things, none of it's been used.
• 1:33:39
  You're right. We'll get there eventually.
• 1:33:41
  One day not. On me, though, it's all for you.
• 1:33:44
  It's all for the girl who wanted to peg.
• 1:33:48
  I mean get there eventually. You can, you can do it, but it
• 1:33:50
  ain't happening to me. Stay tuned.
• 1:33:56
  I promise you that. Episode on.
• 1:33:59
  ABJ. ABJ gets paid.
• 1:34:02
  Yeah, yeah. Give me.
• 1:34:04
  Some poppers maybe? You'll pop right up.
• 1:34:06
  It'll be. Fine, yeah.
• 1:34:08
  Tony's Poppers subscription. I'll open up, but it's going to
• 1:34:11
  be a mess for everybody. Anything.
• 1:34:18
  Anything else you want to ask you guys?
• 1:34:20
  Anyone chat about before we get out here?
• 1:34:24
  Another eventful episode here on the Dabbery skis.
• 1:34:27
  Oh yeah. So we talked about you did get
• 1:34:29
  dabs. I did my first set of dabs.
• 1:34:32
  That's fun. What else happened?
• 1:34:34
  Just. He's a miracle worker.
• 1:34:36
  I can't talk about that. Fair.
• 1:34:38
  Yeah, fair. He defies the odds doing dabs.
• 1:34:42
  We'll just say that. Yeah, I don't know how something
• 1:34:44
  happened that happened, but it was weird.
• 1:34:47
  I mean, I can say a little, I can talk about it.
• 1:34:49
  I feel like you could talk about it without.
• 1:34:50
  Using the exact things that happened during the first
• 1:34:52
  episode, I did talk about that I do have a medical card and I do
• 1:34:55
  work in a place that if something were to happen they
• 1:34:57
  are going to test you. But I did write on my
• 1:34:59
  application that I have a medical card.
• 1:35:01
  I've opened about my medical card.
• 1:35:03
  I I still think maybe where I work is a little like unsure of
• 1:35:06
  if I'm allowed to have a card or not but so I'd never go to.
• 1:35:11
  Work places are like. That yeah, I don't go.
• 1:35:12
  Fine with that, as long as. You, and I'm not saying this in
• 1:35:14
  case someone's listening or anything, I do not go to work
• 1:35:17
  under the influence. Once again, it's a respect thing
• 1:35:20
  because. You're just risking somebody
• 1:35:21
  else's safety. Safety, your own safety, product
• 1:35:23
  damage. I take that serious.
• 1:35:24
  Like I know my job. Some people think your job's
• 1:35:26
  bullshit, but I people put a lot of money into a company and I'm
• 1:35:29
  not going to go there fucked up and then damage things or go
• 1:35:31
  there high because I can't function that day.
• 1:35:33
  If you have to and you can do that, go for it.
• 1:35:36
  You know what I mean? But it's just not my thing.
• 1:35:39
  Yeah. So I I did the dabs and I slept
• 1:35:43
  really good because it was the first time we had any stash for
• 1:35:46
  a while when we were able to indulge.
• 1:35:48
  And I finally got a good night's sleep.
• 1:35:49
  My body felt good. It was awesome.
• 1:35:51
  And I woke up the next day and I'm at the job and I was driving
• 1:35:55
  and I was freaking out because I feel like I was in someone's
• 1:35:57
  way. And I'm still on news.
• 1:35:58
  I want to cut it. And when I cut it, they had
• 1:36:00
  products sticking out too far and I clipped the corner and I
• 1:36:03
  ripped the Styrofoam off it and they said I guess it damaged a
• 1:36:06
  little bit too like the product. So because I damaged something,
• 1:36:08
  I had to get piss tested. And I was like, I want to be
• 1:36:10
  honest, like I'm going to fail because I smoked last night.
• 1:36:13
  I'm not under impaired right now, but I did last night and I
• 1:36:17
  did dabs which are way stronger. I didn't even pop for THC.
• 1:36:23
  That's. I don't know way.
• 1:36:25
  I don't know how, I don't know how it's happened, but I was, I
• 1:36:29
  was open and on it. I I think because that's how
• 1:36:31
  little I really use and I and because.
• 1:36:34
  Don't a lot of places don't even test for marijuana?
• 1:36:38
  But like, like me, I get to a nice buzz and then I stop.
• 1:36:42
  I just get to a nice buzz and I stop.
• 1:36:43
  I'd never overindulge and anything I do like I don't
• 1:36:46
  overindulge in weed. I don't overindulge in like like
• 1:36:50
  the start of the episode in the middle.
• 1:36:51
  I was high and now right now I have I'm not I'm.
• 1:36:54
  Like on that good zone, yeah. It's more of a body high for me
• 1:36:57
  than anything, like my mind's clear.
• 1:36:58
  My back doesn't hurt. But I would I would definitely
• 1:37:02
  be going in for round two if it wasn't the end of podcast and I
• 1:37:04
  didn't have another one in two hours.
• 1:37:06
  But like, yeah, so like I was just nervous, but I did dabs and
• 1:37:09
  I somehow still pass clean. But I mean, if that cost me my
• 1:37:14
  job, I'm sorry. But I mean, I was open for
• 1:37:16
  honest. Well, I'm like, hey, I'm gonna
• 1:37:18
  like, here's my card. Like I'll show you right now.
• 1:37:20
  Like it's not something I abuse because like, once again, like I
• 1:37:23
  I also like I do a show that's about beer and I do a show
• 1:37:26
  that's about weed. But you don't always have to be
• 1:37:28
  a fucking frat boy about being a drunk or drinking or trying
• 1:37:31
  beer. You don't have to be this
• 1:37:33
  terasypical pothead who doesn't fucking want anything for their
• 1:37:37
  life or wants to do anything for themselves.
• 1:37:39
  Like to smoke all day. I'm I'm I'm smoking because it
• 1:37:42
  it helps with my body pain and anxiety so.
• 1:37:44
  You don't take those breaks just going to wear off and it's just
• 1:37:46
  then you're going to be trapped in that cycle.
• 1:37:48
  Yeah, So I don't know. I just, I it's about doing
• 1:37:50
  things responsibly and still fun.
• 1:37:52
  Like like the first episode we showed us smoking and I was
• 1:37:55
  like, I don't know if I want to do that.
• 1:37:56
  Like I don't want to make, I don't want to glorify it.
• 1:37:58
  I don't think the idea should be showing us doing it.
• 1:38:00
  I think it should be. Less Cheech and Chong more.
• 1:38:02
  Which which I feel bad too because like I showed me
• 1:38:05
  drinking a beer and a beer review and I there's not even a
• 1:38:07
  second thought in my brain if that's going to be perceived
• 1:38:09
  bad, but I'm afraid to smoke a bowl.
• 1:38:12
  And I think that's even fucked up that I have to think that
• 1:38:14
  way, right? You know what I mean?
• 1:38:16
  Like I think it's weird how. Could you weed snort?
• 1:38:20
  I know I'm a fucking. Snorter.
• 1:38:23
  I don't know, it's just weird. I don't.
• 1:38:26
  Getting all that devil's lettuce in, yeah.
• 1:38:28
  Yeah, so we have the show this weekend, the Rave Show and then
• 1:38:32
  Double Show. I don't know how we're going to
• 1:38:34
  sleep. That's going to suck.
• 1:38:35
  But we're going to try to vlog it too and see how that goes.
• 1:38:38
  So that's coming to come. And you're getting music.
• 1:38:40
  On that too, we'll be. Vlogging as well as doing an
• 1:38:43
  episode. 2 episodes of dot Cole in high school, one on the way
• 1:38:46
  there, one on the way back. I'll be picking an album to
• 1:38:49
  review and Tony will be picking an album to review on the way
• 1:38:51
  back. And we're going to listen to it
• 1:38:53
  and talk about it and review it. We're going to, I have to do a
• 1:38:55
  movie review by the end of sometime soon because I don't
• 1:38:57
  think I have one for this week unless I just don't put a movie
• 1:39:00
  review out. But I don't know how I'm going
• 1:39:02
  to get it done between today and Wednesday.
• 1:39:04
  But we'll figure it out. Keep.
• 1:39:06
  Forgetting about tomorrow. Yeah.
• 1:39:08
  So I don't know, we'll figure out.
• 1:39:10
  We are still doing the research for the next TBI episodes
• 1:39:12
  that'll probably drop next week. It'll be we're, we're still
• 1:39:18
  shooting for the 20th, but we're recording.
• 1:39:19
  It Yeah this week. We'll try that too during
• 1:39:22
  Vampires. So a lot of content we did hit,
• 1:39:25
  we did hit 1400 subscribers, which is cool.
• 1:39:26
  So we're up to 1400 on the ABJ channel.
• 1:39:29
  So thank you guys for the support there.
• 1:39:32
  Grab merchandise, help support the podcast.
• 1:39:34
  That's all I really got. Anything else you guys want to
• 1:39:36
  plug or talk about? Grab your Shamrock hoodies now.
• 1:39:40
  Yeah, you get your Shamrock hoodies.
• 1:39:41
  I'll leave them up for a little longer.
• 1:39:42
  And I the Valentine's ones are still up too.
• 1:39:44
  I was about to say it was. Like, so if you want to get
• 1:39:46
  that, I'll leave them up for another like to the end of this
• 1:39:48
  month and then they're both going and then the 420 hoodies
• 1:39:51
  available now, Yeah. And I think there will be a
• 1:39:53
  WrestleMania one as well coming out.
• 1:39:55
  Russell Radio One, there's going to be an ABJ Zebra print one
• 1:39:58
  that's coming out and there's also going to be instead of I
• 1:40:01
  love ABJ, it's going to say moms love ABJ for Mother's Day.
• 1:40:07
  Don't worry, there will be a dad's one it.
• 1:40:10
  Can't be dad's love ABJ. It needs to say daddies love
• 1:40:13
  ABJ. So we can do mommies and then
• 1:40:17
  daddies. I hate being called mommy.
• 1:40:22
  That's like. Listen.
• 1:40:25
  No, hold up. Let me pause.
• 1:40:27
  Let me say this. When I say Daddy to you, it's
• 1:40:30
  not because I look at you as my father figure.
• 1:40:32
  I look at you as someone who is that that control protectiveness
• 1:40:39
  that like I. Was going the wrong way.
• 1:40:41
  Well, no, not actually. Like, yeah, I'm willing to give
• 1:40:44
  you that power of like saying that like you are in control of
• 1:40:46
  me. And that's the title that I want
• 1:40:50
  to use. But I'm not saying it like I
• 1:40:51
  have a dad kink. Like I wish I was with my.
• 1:40:53
  Dad or no, I never perceived. It however, like if I if you as
• 1:40:58
  a man who is much larger than me called me mommy, I'd be like
• 1:41:04
  that's why interesting. I don't know.
• 1:41:06
  I feel like I will say, I will say.
• 1:41:08
  Level of oh, I want to get you pregnant so bad I'm like I.
• 1:41:12
  Yeah, it's I don't like that either.
• 1:41:15
  Oh man, being breeding, I'm just like.
• 1:41:16
  Not. Breeding kink, right?
• 1:41:18
  That's what. That is breaking.
• 1:41:19
  I'm not I, I'm. You can't get me pregnant so you
• 1:41:22
  just ruined my freaking yeah situations.
• 1:41:26
  I'm. Like open talk about your kids
• 1:41:27
  before you say them because you can ruin the moment.
• 1:41:29
  It's like sending a Dick pic first.
• 1:41:30
  Don't do it. Anything else hurts.
• 1:41:33
  Get out of here. There was something else.
• 1:41:37
  Oh, were you? Did you?
• 1:41:39
  So we did talk about the rave show, but did you talk at all
• 1:41:42
  about Labor of love? Not really. 2 wrestling shows on
• 1:41:46
  one weekend. You'll see the vlog.
• 1:41:48
  You'll see the vlog if I'm still alive for it.
• 1:41:53
  So I'm really tired. 6:00 AM to 6:00 at night and then a show
• 1:41:56
  the next day at noon and then drive home from Philly.
• 1:41:58
  Yeah, I'm gonna be fucked. Did we take?
• 1:42:00
  No, we didn't take off that day. We took off I.
• 1:42:02
  Did the the Breaking Benjamin Daughtry and something else in
• 1:42:07
  New York. And then the next day I went to
• 1:42:09
  New Jersey to do corn and that shit was insane because I wish
• 1:42:15
  corn Gojira and spirit box for the first day because like
• 1:42:20
  that's a lot to take in and you're tired and you're like, Oh
• 1:42:23
  my God, I listen to corn. I'm going to go fucking insane.
• 1:42:25
  Yeah, I know something I want to talk about now that I didn't
• 1:42:28
  know was a thing until a week ago, maybe.
• 1:42:31
  And apparently it's a song that's been out for at least a
• 1:42:35
  year. Spirit Box and Megan the
• 1:42:38
  Stallion. Have you heard this song?
• 1:42:39
  Yes. Sickening.
• 1:42:41
  It's called Cobra. I literally sent it.
• 1:42:43
  I sent it to Katrina Creed. And I was like, I know what your
• 1:42:46
  new entrance music should be. It'd be dope.
• 1:42:49
  What's what'd she say? That's when she reacted.
• 1:42:52
  It. Together, yeah.
• 1:42:54
  I was like, I'm like listening to it.
• 1:42:56
  I like was listening to the beginning of it and I'm like.
• 1:42:58
  He had it on the car. He's.
• 1:43:00
  Depressed. OK, OK, interesting.
• 1:43:03
  And then I hear Megan and I'm like whoa, wait a damn minute,
• 1:43:07
  where has this been my whole life?
• 1:43:08
  Suggest. And then I just put it on.
• 1:43:10
  Suggest some albums, music, movies, books, Tik toks follow.
• 1:43:14
  Us up to listen? Follow us on Tik.
• 1:43:15
  Toks and send us your funny videos that we could talk about
• 1:43:17
  on the next episode Yeah, let's just keep using the hashtag
• 1:43:20
  blazing buds. Send us cool stuff.
• 1:43:23
  We do have a group chat that you guys can join on Facebook.
• 1:43:26
  So if you head over to the cult of a BJ on Facebook, there is a
• 1:43:29
  community tab. There is a Blazing Buds that
• 1:43:32
  chat doesn't have to just be about weed or weed related.
• 1:43:36
  It could be anything on the show, anything you want to go in
• 1:43:38
  there and talk about, it's a safe place.
• 1:43:39
  Go chat. If you want to talk about your
• 1:43:40
  kinks, you want to talk about a funny video on the Internet.
• 1:43:43
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• 1:43:46
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• 1:43:50
  Facebook's not your thing, then jump over to the Discord and we
• 1:43:53
  have a Blazing Buds channel in there as well.
• 1:43:55
  So there's there's something for every community.
• 1:43:57
  So we have the Cult of ABJ Discord and the Cult of ABJ
• 1:44:00
  Facebook and we have Cult of ABJ T-shirts.
• 1:44:02
  So just come and join the cult, you know what I mean?
• 1:44:04
  We'll see you there there. That'll do it for this episode.
• 1:44:06
  We'll see you guys next time. I don't know how we're going to
• 1:44:09
  enable name this one the completely honest.
• 1:44:10
  We'll figure it out. But thank you guys so much.
• 1:44:13
  Also on all major podcast platforms are the ABJ podcast,
• 1:44:17
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• 1:44:21
  We'll see you guys in the next one for out of here.
• 1:44:23
  Happy Saint Patty's day. Go birds, not birds, Larry Bird.