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- 1:08Speaker 3: the Voice of Charleston. Good Monday morning, I am del Cooper.
- 1:10Speaker 3: John Burdett is in a studio with us this morning.
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- 2:00Speaker 3: like the page over there. John, Good morning, how you
- 2:02Speaker 3: doing this morning.
- 2:02Speaker 4: I'm doing wonderful.
- 2:03Speaker 3: Happy belated Mother's Day to your wife. Oh yeah, it's
- 2:09Speaker 3: the Monday after Mother's Day. And you know, things are
- 2:12Speaker 3: We always talk a little bit about the week before
- 2:15Speaker 3: in the market and stuff like that. Things are are
- 2:18Speaker 3: you just don't know yet. You know, there's there's there's
- 2:22Speaker 3: the suggestion of deals, and there's been some frameworks of
- 2:25Speaker 3: deals that have been talked about. And we have the
- 2:28Speaker 3: Paws and China tariffs that have that have been announced
- 2:31Speaker 3: for ninety days to get us back to where we
- 2:33Speaker 3: were like sort of before the tariffs came into place, so.
- 2:35Speaker 4: Which which looks to have stoked the market this morning.
- 2:38Speaker 4: So we'll see how that plays out through the day.
- 2:40Speaker 3: Oh, all the demand on shipping, there's going to be
- 2:43Speaker 3: such a demand on shipping for the ninety day pause period.
- 2:47Speaker 3: That's going to be interesting times. It's interesting times, and
- 2:50Speaker 3: it always is as far as the market goes. But
- 2:52Speaker 3: things last week sort of it looked too bad for
- 2:55Speaker 3: the most part.
- 2:55Speaker 4: No, I mean last week was kind of a breather
- 2:58Speaker 4: week after several weeks of of you know, climbing climbing
- 3:03Speaker 4: back up. But yeah, last week was was almost a
- 3:07Speaker 4: calm before the storm. I think. I think there are
- 3:10Speaker 4: expectations with some of these trade things were going to
- 3:13Speaker 4: be uh coming to a head or at least beginning
- 3:16Speaker 4: to and so the market was at a breather and
- 3:20Speaker 4: the and like I say, this morning, looking at the future,
- 3:22Speaker 4: so it looks like it's so at least at the
- 3:25Speaker 4: open going to be considerably higher. Techy's looked happy. Yeah,
- 3:28Speaker 4: they look happy. You can be able to get parts
- 3:30Speaker 4: from China again, so you need to able to have that,
- 3:32Speaker 4: I guess right, And the techy's were very happy as
- 3:34Speaker 4: far as that goes. So yeah, So we've been following
- 3:37Speaker 4: this story, of course since the President took office, with
- 3:40Speaker 4: the different trade announcements of tariffs and different things like that,
- 3:44Speaker 4: even in a relatively short amount of time. I mean
- 3:45Speaker 4: we were only talking four or five months at this point,
- 3:48Speaker 4: even in a relatively short amount of time, and the
- 3:50Speaker 4: tariffing has been even shorter than that, like from the
- 3:52Speaker 4: official rollout of it. We've seen the market. Yes, it's
- 3:54Speaker 4: been volatile, it's been up and down a little bit,
- 3:56Speaker 4: but we found it regain its legs and basically, well
- 4:00Speaker 4: it wants to start turning again. Some situation is going
- 4:02Speaker 4: to come up where it just catches, catches back on
- 4:04Speaker 4: and starts going the way that we've always expected.
- 4:06Speaker 3: You can you can see it. You can see that.
- 4:08Speaker 3: It's that it's chugging along. There's just other pressures right now.
- 4:12Speaker 4: Yeah, no doubt about it. And and it's a good
- 4:14Speaker 4: example of why when the fear is the highest, it's
- 4:18Speaker 4: probably the wrong time to make those decisions. You know,
- 4:20Speaker 4: when you were feeling that anxiety yourself, so so was
- 4:25Speaker 4: everybody else in the market at that time, and people
- 4:28Speaker 4: were were selling at that time. The ones that held
- 4:32Speaker 4: firm and held strong are the ones now that are
- 4:34Speaker 4: benefiting from it. Because if you got out of the
- 4:36Speaker 4: market when fear was the highest, when the market was
- 4:40Speaker 4: the lowest, when did you get back in now? Are
- 4:44Speaker 4: you in yet or are you waiting for another shoot
- 4:47Speaker 4: to fall, which it may nobody knows, but well, you're
- 4:50Speaker 4: you've missed out on thousands of points of recovery. It
- 4:54Speaker 4: makes it a very difficult game to win when you're
- 4:57Speaker 4: when you're trading and moving money on emotion.
- 5:01Speaker 2: That's very true.
- 5:01Speaker 3: One thing that I noticed this weekend, and this is
- 5:04Speaker 3: this is like the definition of anecdotal, but it was
- 5:06Speaker 3: an observation that I made, and I pay attention to
- 5:08Speaker 3: these kinds of things around my neighborhood. Walking around the
- 5:10Speaker 3: neighborhood this weekend, just going for a walk with my kid,
- 5:12Speaker 3: up and down the blocks and different things like that,
- 5:14Speaker 3: I've noticed three decks being built, big decks. Three big
- 5:18Speaker 3: decks being built. In an addition, being put on a
- 5:21Speaker 3: house that's a couple streets over from me and another place.
- 5:24Speaker 3: I think it was having sighting done or something of those.
- 5:26Speaker 3: That's a relatively normal springtime thing to do. I mean,
- 5:29Speaker 3: I kind of get the sighting thing, but the rest
- 5:30Speaker 3: of these are kind of expanses. You know, those are
- 5:33Speaker 3: optional things that you're putting into your home. So people
- 5:37Speaker 3: are bettering their houses in my and honestly in my neighborhood.
- 5:41Speaker 3: That's something that's been kind of up and down. You know,
- 5:43Speaker 3: it's over in Canall City. Some pockets of it. Things
- 5:46Speaker 3: happen at a nice pay. Some things are liking behind
- 5:48Speaker 3: quite a bit. But this is relatively active in my
- 5:50Speaker 3: neighborhood right now. People must be able to do something.
- 5:54Speaker 3: I mean, as far as.
- 5:54Speaker 4: Look downtown, there are a couple of construction sites go
- 5:57Speaker 4: on pretty good projects. Across the river. The construction looks
- 6:04Speaker 4: to be almost complete on the new gas station. And oh,
- 6:07Speaker 4: that's gonna be a great gas station.
- 6:08Speaker 3: Yeah, the one next to the old lottery or where
- 6:12Speaker 3: the old lottery building is right here where lowries and stuff.
- 6:14Speaker 3: Over there, there's been a it's been a gas desert
- 6:16Speaker 3: over in that area forever. That's a I've always wondered
- 6:18Speaker 3: why there wasn't one in between Canal City and howth Charleston.
- 6:21Speaker 4: Basically the handy Arby's on the way home.
- 6:23Speaker 3: No right, they got to meet some man. But you're right,
- 6:27Speaker 3: it's just it's good to see. I mean, people can
- 6:30Speaker 3: have their their levels of concern and different things along
- 6:33Speaker 3: those lines, but it is just see good to see
- 6:35Speaker 3: the business of business still being done, and especially at
- 6:38Speaker 3: a residential level. In my neighborhood. It's not a neighborhood
- 6:41Speaker 3: that goes through a lot of these things, so it's
- 6:43Speaker 3: kind of nice. Even a new fence, that's all a
- 6:44Speaker 3: couple of new fencers. Like, hey, they got a new fence.
- 6:46Speaker 3: Looks good, you know, I mean, it's kind of nice
- 6:47Speaker 3: to see that kind of thing.
- 6:48Speaker 4: No doubt. And and you know, if you look at
- 6:50Speaker 4: the market right now, real estate market, residential real estate
- 6:53Speaker 4: in Charleston, Hey, there's nothing for sale, Yeah, nothing at all,
- 6:57Speaker 4: really not much for sale, and prices are for which.
- 7:00Speaker 3: Is probably why people are like building decks and additions
- 7:02Speaker 3: and stuff. Is because you can't get a house.
- 7:04Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, it's it's pretty you know, pretty tough, and
- 7:07Speaker 4: prices are higher, there's no there's no doubt about it.
- 7:11Speaker 4: And that usually you know, doesn't happen when the world's
- 7:15Speaker 4: about the.
- 7:15Speaker 3: End, as far as we know, hasn't as far as
- 7:20Speaker 3: we know. You can get on the conversation this morning,
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- 7:23Speaker 3: Three zero four three four five fifty eight fifty eight.
- 7:25Speaker 3: One of the things that we want to talk about
- 7:26Speaker 3: this morning kind of our main topic unless and unless
- 7:29Speaker 3: you dear caller, send us in another direction. We want
- 7:31Speaker 3: to talk about involving your adult children and your financial planning.
- 7:35Speaker 3: And this can be something that's very important, not only
- 7:37Speaker 3: if maybe you're at you come to a point where
- 7:39Speaker 3: you become incapacitated, even not critically, but incapacitated to some degree,
- 7:45Speaker 3: and people need to have access to things. But also
- 7:49Speaker 3: especially in your actings like that, you put together your estate,
- 7:52Speaker 3: everybody does their their due diligence with that, and you
- 7:56Speaker 3: take the advice he my parents went through a state planning.
- 7:58Speaker 3: That's what you're supposed to do, right, But even then,
- 8:01Speaker 3: if there's not communication that's involved there as much as
- 8:04Speaker 3: possible of somebody putting together a tight a state, it
- 8:06Speaker 3: doesn't mean there's not going to be any confusion whatsoever,
- 8:09Speaker 3: because you have when you have adult children involved in
- 8:11Speaker 3: things like that. So there's all types of things we
- 8:14Speaker 3: need to talk about with where the documents are, the
- 8:16Speaker 3: big picture planning, what happens with long term care, something
- 8:19Speaker 3: along those lines. So we have all types of things
- 8:21Speaker 3: that we can talk about this morning as far as
- 8:23Speaker 3: that goes, and as far is there a general rule
- 8:25Speaker 3: when we start talking about this type of You have kids,
- 8:29Speaker 3: you're planning for retirement, so there's going to be something
- 8:32Speaker 3: more than likely. So what's the first general rule when
- 8:34Speaker 3: it comes to something like that.
- 8:36Speaker 4: Well, you know, every family is different. Some families are
- 8:40Speaker 4: very very private and some are very very open. I
- 8:43Speaker 4: mean I have clients that will come in even bring
- 8:47Speaker 4: their younger children in you know, teenagers, things like that,
- 8:51Speaker 4: to try to educate them on the market on how
- 8:56Speaker 4: you save for goals and retirement and and and you know,
- 9:01Speaker 4: those those type of things. And in early on that
- 9:04Speaker 4: can be very very important, very valuable, because you don't
- 9:07Speaker 4: get a lot about in in uh, in formal education,
- 9:12Speaker 4: and and so having some exposure to that young certainly
- 9:16Speaker 4: is a huge benefit. And so I always encourage, you know,
- 9:20Speaker 4: if you want to bring your children, you know, bring
- 9:23Speaker 4: bring them in. I mean, certainly if they're of the
- 9:25Speaker 4: age where they can kind of grasp some of the concepts.
- 9:30Speaker 4: And and then as clients age and progress uh through retirement,
- 9:34Speaker 4: uh and and people are living longer, you know, I
- 9:38Speaker 4: see it a lot more these days of you know,
- 9:42Speaker 4: situations where you know, it's not that the client can
- 9:46Speaker 4: no longer make decisions, it's just that you know, you
- 9:50Speaker 4: can you can tell that maybe sometimes things are not
- 9:53Speaker 4: quite as uh easy to grasp as as as they
- 9:58Speaker 4: used to be. And and oftentimes they will involve their
- 10:02Speaker 4: adult children too to help them with those decisions and
- 10:07Speaker 4: make sure that they're you know, it almost it almost
- 10:11Speaker 4: becomes like, you know, the client still knows exactly you
- 10:16Speaker 4: know what's going on, but maybe feels a little more
- 10:18Speaker 4: unsure than they used to feel. And so sometimes bringing
- 10:22Speaker 4: that adult child in can can help that process out
- 10:26Speaker 4: and help smooth it and also help educate the adult
- 10:31Speaker 4: children on what the estate plan is going to look like,
- 10:34Speaker 4: what to expect, you know, what those expectations are, what
- 10:38Speaker 4: roles that your children may have. You know, somebody is
- 10:41Speaker 4: probably gonna or it's going to have to be the
- 10:43Speaker 4: executor of the of the estate. And and trying to
- 10:47Speaker 4: be clear, I think is valuable so that there's unfortunately
- 10:54Speaker 4: sometimes there's there's through miscommunication, maybe some animosity that can
- 10:59Speaker 4: form between between children. You know, having those conversations early
- 11:03Speaker 4: can help smooth those over and then and then the
- 11:08Speaker 4: the parent can communicate to the children, these are my
- 11:12Speaker 4: wishes right right, So these are how this is how
- 11:15Speaker 4: I'm I'm thinking, and this is what I want to happen,
- 11:20Speaker 4: and and communicate very clearly that you know, this is
- 11:23Speaker 4: my decision because it's my money.
- 11:25Speaker 3: Right and like you said earlier, well the notes that
- 11:29Speaker 3: you sent me early, uh last night said open the
- 11:31Speaker 3: door with a purpose. You can set exactly the scope
- 11:34Speaker 3: that you want to deal with when you're talking with
- 11:36Speaker 3: your adult children. You don't have there's not like a
- 11:39Speaker 3: right or wrong way, and there's not like you have.
- 11:42Speaker 3: Because I'm opening this door, you get all the information
- 11:44Speaker 3: you can control exactly what somebody's want to control. You
- 11:46Speaker 3: can control your own prophecy and your own agency and
- 11:49Speaker 3: things along those lines. But bringing somebody in if you
- 11:51Speaker 3: have adult children, to help make sure that your state
- 11:54Speaker 3: has managed correctly or you know, it doesn't have to
- 11:56Speaker 3: be deaf like I said, it could be incapacitation, could
- 11:58Speaker 3: be long term care, you know where when you're getting
- 12:01Speaker 3: into older years and might need some assisted living something.
- 12:04Speaker 3: Having a plan in place and how to put these
- 12:06Speaker 3: things together it could be a very important part. I've
- 12:08Speaker 3: seen confusion just in the last you know, a few
- 12:11Speaker 3: years of my older life, as I see family are
- 12:13Speaker 3: that move separate from my immediate family, and I see
- 12:17Speaker 3: things that move around where people get confused about different
- 12:20Speaker 3: things with inheritances and where the money is coming from,
- 12:22Speaker 3: Who's going to take care of to the elderly person
- 12:26Speaker 3: when they get sick.
- 12:26Speaker 5: There.
- 12:26Speaker 3: I've seen this confusion happen a lot, even in well
- 12:29Speaker 3: planned estates. So there it's not just planning the estate
- 12:31Speaker 3: well you have to have some communication aspect in it too.
- 12:34Speaker 4: Yes, and and also there's a lot of confusion on
- 12:41Speaker 4: what the rules are if you inherit money, you know
- 12:45Speaker 4: things have to be done and it's and it's much
- 12:47Speaker 4: better to even if you don't go in detail, even
- 12:50Speaker 4: if you don't want to disclose the details to your children,
- 12:54Speaker 4: maybe it's still a good idea to educate them on. Okay,
- 12:59Speaker 4: these are the choices you may have because you can
- 13:02Speaker 4: you can make some pretty poor choices if you receive
- 13:06Speaker 4: an inheritance, particularly if it's IRA tax deferred money, you
- 13:12Speaker 4: know there are big tax implications potentially, and knowing some
- 13:17Speaker 4: of those rules is it makes that whole process a
- 13:21Speaker 4: whole lot easier. And if you bring your children into
- 13:23Speaker 4: to some of those conversations, you know they will be
- 13:27Speaker 4: educated on what they will be facing. Even if you
- 13:30Speaker 4: don't share down to the down to the dollar, what
- 13:34Speaker 4: what the estate looks like. Yeah, even if you want
- 13:37Speaker 4: to be private about it, you can at least get it.
- 13:39Speaker 3: And if you have a financial planner or somebody that
- 13:42Speaker 3: you're working with, you can be helped through these these
- 13:44Speaker 3: decisions in this information. But it's just important to have
- 13:47Speaker 3: that those types of things put together, and and within
- 13:50Speaker 3: those you can have your your power attorney, your medical
- 13:52Speaker 3: power of attorney, all of your legal documents and things
- 13:54Speaker 3: like that. Just simply telling somebody where the key to
- 13:56Speaker 3: the lock box is or the safety deposit box or
- 13:59Speaker 3: something like that. I mean, just something as simple as that.
- 14:00Speaker 4: In a digital world, all the passwords I mean, you know,
- 14:04Speaker 4: you see you see stories about uh, you know, the
- 14:07Speaker 4: crypto billionaire that lost the you know, passed away and
- 14:10Speaker 4: nobody has the code to get the get the bitcoin.
- 14:14Speaker 4: Well those are extreme examples, but you don't think about
- 14:17Speaker 4: all the passwords you have.
- 14:18Speaker 3: Yeah, and in a real situation anymore, even with what
- 14:21Speaker 3: we would consider relatively you know, like high place financial institutions.
- 14:24Speaker 3: I've I've ran into this problem a lot, and it's
- 14:26Speaker 3: gotten emergent just in the last year. And that is,
- 14:30Speaker 3: there is no customer service anymore. So for example, if
- 14:32Speaker 3: you go to a website and you try to log in,
- 14:35Speaker 3: thinking you know your loved one's password, you fail enough
- 14:38Speaker 3: times to trigger the account being locked where you have
- 14:40Speaker 3: to pick up the phone and call someone to get
- 14:42Speaker 3: it unlocked.
- 14:43Speaker 4: Good luck, good luck. Yeah, I mean even though without
- 14:47Speaker 4: not talking about money, I mean anything. Our pictures now
- 14:51Speaker 4: are are espostally digital. You know, there's no shoe box
- 14:54Speaker 4: full of pictures like there used to be. They're all
- 14:57Speaker 4: locked up on a phone. Do you not You have
- 14:59Speaker 4: a way to act, says that, right, you know all
- 15:01Speaker 4: of those things, and we do. In my office, I
- 15:05Speaker 4: have a notebook that outlines the the It's a place
- 15:11Speaker 4: you can organize and outline some of those things and
- 15:14Speaker 4: lead in a designated location so that so that that
- 15:18Speaker 4: at least is available to your children or your beneficiaries,
- 15:24Speaker 4: so that there is a roadmap to to decipher. You
- 15:29Speaker 4: know where things are and and you know what the
- 15:32Speaker 4: disposition is.
- 15:33Speaker 3: And it could get very complicated very quickly these days
- 15:35Speaker 3: because you have a little bit of digital footprints everywhere,
- 15:37Speaker 3: and if you don't, if you don't keep those together
- 15:39Speaker 3: and for ways to access different things. The picture thing
- 15:42Speaker 3: is a great is a great example and unfortunately kind
- 15:45Speaker 3: of reminds me of a of a haunting story that
- 15:47Speaker 3: I read and it was probably the last year sometime,
- 15:49Speaker 3: but it's stuck around in my head forever and thinking
- 15:50Speaker 3: about and it was all of the abandoned cloud accounts
- 15:53Speaker 3: from people that have passed away, and there was an
- 15:55Speaker 3: article written about approximately how many a lot of the
- 15:59Speaker 3: tech company have retention policies that they don't really adhere
- 16:03Speaker 3: to all that well, so a lot of things get
- 16:04Speaker 3: like archive because they're looking to do like machine learning
- 16:07Speaker 3: on a lot of this stuff that you you know,
- 16:09Speaker 3: give them permission for on the tos and you don't
- 16:11Speaker 3: know about. They end up archive and it lives forever.
- 16:13Speaker 3: So you're like your loved one's memory that where they
- 16:16Speaker 3: passed away and they had hundreds of pictures in the cloud.
- 16:19Speaker 3: Those things are being used for like machine learning, and
- 16:21Speaker 3: they're product. I mean, it's they're just like ghost images
- 16:23Speaker 3: of someone that's now one allowed that's being used to
- 16:26Speaker 3: inform machine learning. It's just it's sort of a just
- 16:29Speaker 3: it makes me uncomfortable. The story makes me a little
- 16:31Speaker 3: bit uncomfortable, you know. So anyway, you want to make
- 16:34Speaker 3: sure that you give access because in that situation, if
- 16:36Speaker 3: someone had access to it and you pass, they could
- 16:38Speaker 3: archive all this stuff in hard hard copy or get
- 16:40Speaker 3: it on you know whatever, download the JPEGs, and they
- 16:43Speaker 3: could delete the account. I mean, you could actually have
- 16:45Speaker 3: some control over your over your your post life information
- 16:50Speaker 3: in that case. If that's something you're concerned about on
- 16:52Speaker 3: top of the financial and everything else interests, if you're
- 16:55Speaker 3: worried about just your agency in the afterlife, If that
- 16:58Speaker 3: makes any sense, I mean, some people could are concerned
- 17:00Speaker 3: about that, and you don't want for those things to
- 17:02Speaker 3: be used, and you have to you have to give
- 17:04Speaker 3: the keys to the kingdom to someone. Even if you
- 17:05Speaker 3: use one of those services. You hear about these services
- 17:07Speaker 3: that that sounds kind of morbid, but they they kind
- 17:10Speaker 3: of pull for your death. You know, if they get
- 17:12Speaker 3: notification that you've died, then they release certain information. So
- 17:15Speaker 3: I mean, even if it's something like that, anything that
- 17:16Speaker 3: that can can make things easier for your loved ones
- 17:19Speaker 3: is going to help in those cases.
- 17:20Speaker 4: Yeah, no doubt about it. And in having those conversations,
- 17:24Speaker 4: while they may be uncomfortable, really are a tremendous gift
- 17:29Speaker 4: to your children. The more the more of that work
- 17:33Speaker 4: that you do up front, it's it's a It truly
- 17:35Speaker 4: is a is a is a gift.
- 17:38Speaker 3: Something an arc that I saw happened in my life
- 17:40Speaker 3: in real time was a family that had set through
- 17:44Speaker 3: a a trust meeting from an inheritance. They set through
- 17:49Speaker 3: me and it was it was like a conference call
- 17:50Speaker 3: and it was considerably in depth and along and things
- 17:53Speaker 3: like that. The problem was, at least what I can
- 17:57Speaker 3: tell from the outside looking in, is that nobody they
- 18:00Speaker 3: took copious notes and they didn't ask for anything in writing.
- 18:03Speaker 3: And so eventually days and then weeks or whatever passed
- 18:07Speaker 3: the initial discussion point. People were still trying to talk
- 18:10Speaker 3: about this meeting that they had off of like memory
- 18:13Speaker 3: and impressions and like. And then it ends up that
- 18:15Speaker 3: one person thought they heard something else than what the
- 18:17Speaker 3: other person did. And months later, when the things starting
- 18:20Speaker 3: to get resolved, everybody's just as confused as if they
- 18:22Speaker 3: never even had a meeting to start with. So not
- 18:25Speaker 3: only make the meeting, but also make sure you have
- 18:27Speaker 3: the information to reference and you take notes if you
- 18:29Speaker 3: have to or whatever it might be.
- 18:30Speaker 4: Yeah, no doubt, no doubt. And also, you know, if
- 18:34Speaker 4: you as a client, you may have things structured in
- 18:40Speaker 4: your financial life for you and your purposes. Sometimes when
- 18:45Speaker 4: when you pass and your your children inherit, they look
- 18:50Speaker 4: at this and it's like, wonder, why why on earth
- 18:54Speaker 4: did did dad or mom do this? You know, these
- 18:57Speaker 4: are terrible investments. Well maybe they were not for them, right,
- 19:01Speaker 4: maybe they are now for you. Now that you've been
- 19:06Speaker 4: fun So sometimes there can be confusion about you know,
- 19:11Speaker 4: where they were, they taken advantage of where they and
- 19:14Speaker 4: you know, having an understanding of the why behind what
- 19:18Speaker 4: mom and dad did can can help as well.
- 19:20Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that there's any number of things that
- 19:22Speaker 3: I might do in my life that's left like I'm
- 19:24Speaker 3: waiting for the the the the payoff, you know, and
- 19:27Speaker 3: if I were to not be around, you know, and
- 19:30Speaker 3: then nobody knew to look for the payoff, they might
- 19:32Speaker 3: be like, what the heck was this all about?
- 19:33Speaker 5: You?
- 19:33Speaker 3: I mean, you don't really know, you know, if you
- 19:35Speaker 3: don't know, if somebody you do, if you don't ask,
- 19:37Speaker 3: and if they don't tell you, things might look a
- 19:38Speaker 3: little strange like that.
- 19:39Speaker 4: Yeah, And then and then of course the decision making
- 19:42Speaker 4: that the beneficiary of your children have on how to
- 19:46Speaker 4: handle the money themselves. That can be a huge benefit
- 19:50Speaker 4: to your children if they have a little education on
- 19:54Speaker 4: the tax cerramifications. For instance, of an IRA inheritance. A
- 19:59Speaker 4: lot of folks have their money now tied up in
- 20:01Speaker 4: iras or or furrow and k's and and that sort
- 20:05Speaker 4: of thing. You know, what are the rules to handle
- 20:08Speaker 4: that money?
- 20:09Speaker 5: You know?
- 20:09Speaker 4: A lot of folks think that, well, I inherited the money,
- 20:12Speaker 4: I'm going to just stick it in my bank account
- 20:14Speaker 4: and be done with it. Well, there can be huge
- 20:17Speaker 4: tax implications with that that you could manage that better
- 20:22Speaker 4: and and get much more out of the inheritance if
- 20:26Speaker 4: you know how to handle it, and and if you
- 20:29Speaker 4: know who to talk to. You know, a lot of times,
- 20:34Speaker 4: you know, the children, they have no idea who the
- 20:36Speaker 4: advisor is, that the that the that their parents are using.
- 20:42Speaker 4: You know, part of our job, I mean, we really
- 20:45Speaker 4: prod ourselves into that. Hey, you know, we're going to
- 20:48Speaker 4: sit down with you and work through this very difficult
- 20:51Speaker 4: period of time and sort out everything that we can
- 20:55Speaker 4: uh to make that easy and make sure you're educated
- 20:58Speaker 4: on the process and the implications of the decisions that
- 21:02Speaker 4: you now have to make, because you know, I'm sure
- 21:06Speaker 4: the parents that that was the goal. How do we
- 21:09Speaker 4: get the most out of those for our children? Well,
- 21:12Speaker 4: you have to have a little information to make that happen.
- 21:15Speaker 3: It's a great information. With John Bredet from Fourth Avenue Financial,
- 21:18Speaker 3: we need to take a break here and wrap up
- 21:20Speaker 3: our conversation. On the other side of that, you're welcome
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- 21:39Speaker 3: we come back and clarify climb, clarifying inheritance, and then
- 21:44Speaker 3: and just what kind of questions you might want to
- 21:46Speaker 3: ask to clarify things and things along those lines. So
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- 24:39Speaker 4: I'm not sure that that song, while it's a wonderful song,
- 24:42Speaker 4: that it goes with what we're talking about. We don't
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- 25:15Speaker 3: Right before we went to the break, I did mention
- 25:16Speaker 3: a couple things I wanted to talk about a little
- 25:18Speaker 3: bit from information that John sent me last night, and
- 25:23Speaker 3: I wanted to just touch on the long term care thing.
- 25:24Speaker 3: I talked about it once a moment ago. But this
- 25:26Speaker 3: is something that if your parents or if loved ones
- 25:30Speaker 3: are discussing this, they've probably done the due diligence and
- 25:33Speaker 3: they know what's going on. And basically if you don't
- 25:36Speaker 3: know this as somebody that's not looked into it, there
- 25:40Speaker 3: is no magic bullet when it comes to long term care.
- 25:42Speaker 3: If it's something that you need help. In fact, if
- 25:44Speaker 3: you're planning on government help, well it's there, but you
- 25:47Speaker 3: have to be destitute to get government help. You basically
- 25:50Speaker 3: have to either there's ways that you can put things
- 25:54Speaker 3: in a trust or whatever where you don't have Basically
- 25:56Speaker 3: you can't own anything. You can't have any money at
- 25:58Speaker 3: all for the government to help out in long term care.
- 26:01Speaker 4: And your your money down first.
- 26:03Speaker 3: And people don't want to do that, you know, so
- 26:05Speaker 3: you have to come up with an alternate plan.
- 26:07Speaker 4: Right, and it can be very difficult. And you know,
- 26:09Speaker 4: you have a there's a look back period of five years,
- 26:15Speaker 4: so if you try to do things last minute, that's
- 26:18Speaker 4: not going to work out. And do it, it's not
- 26:20Speaker 4: going to work out. And and and like most things
- 26:23Speaker 4: within the financial plating world, there's a trade off. I mean,
- 26:26Speaker 4: you can do things, but then you're giving up certain
- 26:29Speaker 4: rights and access to your funds, you know early, and
- 26:36Speaker 4: so you have to have to decide if that's the
- 26:38Speaker 4: right thing for you. But certainly, you know, long term care,
- 26:42Speaker 4: I mean, you can spend ten fifteen thousand dollars a
- 26:45Speaker 4: month on a full facility care that that chews up
- 26:49Speaker 4: a lot of the states really really quick. And that's
- 26:53Speaker 4: an issue that it certainly warrants a discussion with your
- 26:57Speaker 4: family well before before an event like that takes place,
- 27:02Speaker 4: if you're going to do anything about it as far
- 27:04Speaker 4: as mitigating the potential impact.
- 27:07Speaker 3: And it could be it could be really catastrophic. I again,
- 27:10Speaker 3: this again, this is completely unodotally, but of the situations
- 27:13Speaker 3: of long term care that I've seen in my life,
- 27:16Speaker 3: and I've seen it, I don't know, maybe of people
- 27:18Speaker 3: that I'm intimate enough with, maybe half a dozen times
- 27:21Speaker 3: or something like that. I've only seen it done correctly once.
- 27:23Speaker 3: Almost every other time, it's a it's a huge burden
- 27:27Speaker 3: and a mental issue with the family that's trying to
- 27:29Speaker 3: take care of their their aging parents. You know, it's
- 27:33Speaker 3: it's extraordinarily difficult. I mean, if you don't have anything planned,
- 27:36Speaker 3: you basically have to tell your parents that you need
- 27:37Speaker 3: to go broke. They need to find a way to
- 27:39Speaker 3: you know, give their money away, spend their money, not
- 27:41Speaker 3: I mean everything that they've worked for just to get
- 27:44Speaker 3: six years, seven years, eight years of minimum care for
- 27:49Speaker 3: the remainder of their life. I mean, it's it's not
- 27:50Speaker 3: a great situation if you don't have it planned for.
- 27:52Speaker 3: And that's one thing that bring your bring your adult
- 27:55Speaker 3: kids into it. Bring your kids into it, planned for
- 27:57Speaker 3: it correctly, because i mean, you've worked your whole life
- 28:00Speaker 3: life to retire, Okay, you don't want to be in
- 28:02Speaker 3: that situation.
- 28:03Speaker 4: Right And it's also important for the children to understand
- 28:06Speaker 4: what the rules are and and also the possibility. You know,
- 28:11Speaker 4: sometimes sometimes people don't do the things that they need
- 28:15Speaker 4: to be doing to protect themselves because like, oh, mom
- 28:18Speaker 4: and dad, I'll probably inherit a half a million or
- 28:21Speaker 4: a million dad, you know, you start banking on that,
- 28:25Speaker 4: and then if something like a long term care situation
- 28:27Speaker 4: comes up, like you say it can, it can chew
- 28:30Speaker 4: that up in our in our heartbeat. And so you know,
- 28:33Speaker 4: you have to be aware that that, you know, an inheritance,
- 28:38Speaker 4: it's not your money, you know it, even if your
- 28:42Speaker 4: parents intended to be your money, life happens, you have
- 28:45Speaker 4: to take care of yourself as well. And that should
- 28:47Speaker 4: be part of the conversation that that has had. You know,
- 28:51Speaker 4: this is mom and dad's money, and it's got to
- 28:53Speaker 4: be used to care for mom and dad and uh
- 28:58Speaker 4: and if there's anything left, great, but that can't be
- 29:01Speaker 4: your financial plan.
- 29:02Speaker 3: And there's things that happened my base on my second mom.
- 29:05Speaker 3: My mom's sister passed away Christmas twenty three and she
- 29:09Speaker 3: had a relatively expansive estate and things like that. And
- 29:12Speaker 3: one of the things that she had was just a
- 29:13Speaker 3: regular bank account with a few tens of thousands of
- 29:16Speaker 3: dollars in it. You know, I mean, somebody older that's
- 29:18Speaker 3: properly managed their finance, it's not an unusual thing to have.
- 29:21Speaker 3: If you didn't know anybody, it'd be like, oh, hey,
- 29:23Speaker 3: there's whatever, the thousands of dollars they could split among
- 29:25Speaker 3: the inherents. My mom had to use all of that money,
- 29:28Speaker 3: and in fact you use she's the executor of the estate,
- 29:30Speaker 3: and in fact you some of her own just for
- 29:31Speaker 3: legal fees because there was some property out of country,
- 29:34Speaker 3: different things like that that they have to chase down.
- 29:35Speaker 3: But here's this money that was, you know, tens of
- 29:37Speaker 3: thousands of dollars that was sitting there, forty fifty thousand
- 29:39Speaker 3: dollars something like that was sitting there. It's all gone,
- 29:41Speaker 3: not from anything else except for just paying for legal fees,
- 29:45Speaker 3: doc fees. I mean, just all this stuff that was
- 29:47Speaker 3: incidental costs attached to it. A relatively robust estate. You
- 29:51Speaker 3: can't plan. I mean, you can't just assume those things that, oh,
- 29:55Speaker 3: we have an inheritance coming for you don't know, you
- 29:57Speaker 3: really don't know what I was going to be tied
- 29:58Speaker 3: up there.
- 29:59Speaker 4: In hell at the disposition, how long it will take
- 30:03Speaker 4: before you even receive an inheritance. So it's just all
- 30:07Speaker 4: of these things. It's it's there's so many unknowns when
- 30:11Speaker 4: people face this event. The more you can talk about
- 30:15Speaker 4: it beforehand, the whole process is so much easier, so
- 30:18Speaker 4: much more efficient, and you're more likely to get the
- 30:23Speaker 4: result that you want.
- 30:25Speaker 3: That's great advice from John Burdett for Fourth Avenue Financial Union.
- 30:27Speaker 3: Gives the call this morning three zero four three four
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- 30:36Speaker 3: you're more than welcome to gives a call this morning
- 30:38Speaker 3: if you want to hear the conversation for the last
- 30:40Speaker 3: couple of minutes that we have left in the program,
- 30:42Speaker 3: wrapping up a little bit of the discussion that you
- 30:44Speaker 3: should be having with adult children in your financial planning
- 30:47Speaker 3: when it comes to the end of life and things
- 30:50Speaker 3: as well. We talked about the long term care. You
- 30:55Speaker 3: discuss inheritance expectations, which is sort of rolled into all
- 30:57Speaker 3: of that, and if there's any form of gift or
- 31:01Speaker 3: anything along those lines that the person planning for the
- 31:05Speaker 3: estate is doing as well. You may not even necessarily
- 31:08Speaker 3: have to put a number to it, but it's not
- 31:09Speaker 3: bad to let people know that they could have some
- 31:12Speaker 3: expectation or at least give people an idea of what
- 31:14Speaker 3: the game plan is going to be.
- 31:16Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no doubt about it. And there are decisions
- 31:19Speaker 4: that people make as well to Hey, I don't want
- 31:22Speaker 4: to wait until I have more than I need to
- 31:25Speaker 4: take care of myself. I'd like to benefit my children
- 31:29Speaker 4: while I'm alive, right, grandchildren while I'm alive. And in
- 31:33Speaker 4: those type of plans and the expectations of what that
- 31:37Speaker 4: money is for, you know, is it for most likely
- 31:41Speaker 4: the intent is not to go blow that money, but
- 31:45Speaker 4: it actually benefit their children and grandchildren in a maximum way.
- 31:50Speaker 4: And so those things take thought and education. And there again,
- 31:58Speaker 4: bringing your children, grandchildren into meetings with your advisor can
- 32:05Speaker 4: can make that process better. I mean, that's that's something
- 32:08Speaker 4: that I would do for my clients. You know, if
- 32:11Speaker 4: you if you want to bring your your loved ones
- 32:16Speaker 4: in on the conversation, I'd be happy to have that conversation.
- 32:19Speaker 4: I'd be happy to help educate on the prop the
- 32:23Speaker 4: process and in how to maximize the blessings that that
- 32:29Speaker 4: you're you're going to be receiving.
- 32:32Speaker 3: And there's ways to do it right, and you you
- 32:35Speaker 3: just have to be curious, you have to be aware
- 32:37Speaker 3: and understand that these things are complicated. You can't chat
- 32:41Speaker 3: GPT your way through it. You know, you have to
- 32:43Speaker 3: really get somebody involved and knows what they're doing to
- 32:45Speaker 3: walk you through it.
- 32:45Speaker 4: And I've had cases over the years where I've seen, wow,
- 32:48Speaker 4: that was really done correctly. And early on in my career,
- 32:52Speaker 4: I had a case with a fellow that, you know,
- 32:57Speaker 4: he's just a average guy, and he had invested and saved,
- 33:03Speaker 4: lived very frugally and you know, seven figure estate, and
- 33:08Speaker 4: he had one daughter that he wanted to leave the
- 33:11Speaker 4: money to, and he never spent any money at all.
- 33:14Speaker 4: He just lived like a like a miser reeling. And
- 33:18Speaker 4: he came to me one time and said, you know,
- 33:20Speaker 4: I haven't been on a vacation in years, asked me,
- 33:24Speaker 4: would it be okay if I took fifteen hundred dollars
- 33:27Speaker 4: out of my investments and went fishing. I was like, well,
- 33:31Speaker 4: of course, you know that you could do that. And
- 33:35Speaker 4: so he went fishing, and when he came back, he
- 33:38Speaker 4: was talking about how great the trip was. He was
- 33:40Speaker 4: glad that he did it. And then unfortunately, about a
- 33:44Speaker 4: month later, he comes in the office and he has
- 33:48Speaker 4: finds out he has terminal cancer and he passes away
- 33:52Speaker 4: shortly thereafter and leaves this money to his daughter who
- 33:57Speaker 4: had I had never met and never talked talk to,
- 34:01Speaker 4: and within a year, all of that sacrifice he made
- 34:06Speaker 4: to save that that money was gone. And and you know,
- 34:10Speaker 4: would that have been different if if she would have
- 34:13Speaker 4: been brought in? And I always think of that that when, uh,
- 34:16Speaker 4: when I see, you know, situations where you know, the
- 34:20Speaker 4: children are uninformed, because that's a that's a you know,
- 34:24Speaker 4: a prime example of you know, would that have changed
- 34:27Speaker 4: the situation? You know, it's hard to say, but but
- 34:29Speaker 4: it certainly would have.
- 34:30Speaker 3: Uh might at least have more respect for the sacrifice
- 34:33Speaker 3: and the work and exactly what's going on and have
- 34:35Speaker 3: some some sober consideration into what you're going and not
- 34:38Speaker 3: just treat it like you won the lottery or something right.
- 34:41Speaker 4: Right, because that lottery mentality that's never well, look at
- 34:44Speaker 4: the people that win the lottery have almost never does hapen.
- 34:47Speaker 3: I know, we beat that horse, But that's one thing
- 34:49Speaker 3: I have seen, maybe not lottery so much as just
- 34:51Speaker 3: people getting getting sums of money for one thing or another. Man,
- 34:55Speaker 3: I have not met one person that handled it well.
- 34:57Speaker 3: I mean I really have not. Like it's it's it's
- 34:59Speaker 3: pretty dark, honestly.
- 35:00Speaker 4: Well, athlete, it's all these people that that get money
- 35:04Speaker 4: quickly that way, you know, they never built the habits
- 35:07Speaker 4: that are required to handle that money. You know, if
- 35:11Speaker 4: you didn't have the habits to build it, you know,
- 35:13Speaker 4: how are you going to have the habits to keep
- 35:15Speaker 4: it right?
- 35:16Speaker 5: Right?
- 35:16Speaker 4: Money, money goes to live where it's treated the best,
- 35:19Speaker 4: and you have to know how to you know, turn
- 35:23Speaker 4: the light on for it.
- 35:24Speaker 3: It's always it's like water or or anything. It's when
- 35:26Speaker 3: I always escape to to to the place that it
- 35:28Speaker 3: can settle. And you have to know, you have to
- 35:29Speaker 3: make sure that you know what you're doing with that.
- 35:31Speaker 3: And and it's been amazing to me that, I mean,
- 35:35Speaker 3: I get it when you get money that that and
- 35:37Speaker 3: if you've not had a lot in a while that
- 35:39Speaker 3: you really want to you might feel like you want
- 35:41Speaker 3: to treat yourself or whatever might be. But man, you
- 35:43Speaker 3: got to put some guardrails on it, you know, I mean,
- 35:45Speaker 3: treat yourself for the rest of your life and not
- 35:46Speaker 3: for the rest of the year, you know. And there's
- 35:48Speaker 3: some things that you can do to make sure that
- 35:50Speaker 3: you can do that. Getting back just finally to the
- 35:52Speaker 3: discussion about with planning for finances and long term care,
- 35:57Speaker 3: different thing along those lines and this is sort of
- 35:59Speaker 3: what we've been nipping, right. If you're the kids in
- 36:01Speaker 3: this situation, like we talked about with the daughter of
- 36:03Speaker 3: your client that you just talked about, If you're the
- 36:05Speaker 3: kid in this situation and you are being brought in,
- 36:09Speaker 3: ask copious questions, Sure find if you if you don't know,
- 36:13Speaker 3: ask take notes, make sure record the conversation, get permission
- 36:16Speaker 3: and record the conversation. If you can do whatever it
- 36:18Speaker 3: is that you that you need to do to make
- 36:20Speaker 3: sure that you have it because a lot of people
- 36:22Speaker 3: it's a lot of jargon. You may not understand. There's
- 36:25Speaker 3: a lot of if then that this types of things
- 36:27Speaker 3: that you may not be able to retain in your memory.
- 36:29Speaker 3: If you're just trying to go off of that, get notes,
- 36:31Speaker 3: get a copy whatever it is that you're responsible for,
- 36:34Speaker 3: and educate yourself on it, because you don't want to
- 36:36Speaker 3: go into it ignorant when when it comes to head.
- 36:39Speaker 4: No, yeah, going into anything blindly, you're not going to
- 36:42Speaker 4: get the best result. And you know, working with your advisor,
- 36:46Speaker 4: working with mom and dad, even if mom and dad
- 36:50Speaker 4: ever brought it up, you know, if they're at a
- 36:51Speaker 4: certain age, it certainly can be a sometimes tricky but
- 36:56Speaker 4: certainly something maybe you bring up with them.
- 36:58Speaker 3: That's great information. It's always job ber dead at Fourth
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- 37:07Speaker 3: seven threes aer A four seven, four six seven non
- 37:09Speaker 3: seven to seven here in Charleston, located at the street
- 37:11Speaker 3: downtown Charleston. Online it's Fourth Avenue Financial dot com. You
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