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Love is an always choice for the 5D mystics in the enlightenment soul age group · Inspiring Human Potential

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  When we look at all the different types of content
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  online, it's very interesting as an online marketer and
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  entrepreneur to not only look at the Miss information that
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  continues to lead people. But also understand that that
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  misinformation our belief systems based on past subject
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  matters and subject matter experts I should specify.
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  So, So, as a 5D individual Mystic, a person who is
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  consistently educating myself with new information.
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  In addition, to remembering the gist of the old information just
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  came across. For example, one of those lovely
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  pieces of content on a great website or YouTube channel, I
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  should say, but I'm sure they have a website where they gather
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  all different authors and Educators and they have a
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  buttload of beautiful videos. Some, this one was titled
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  something about Unrequited love and how love is unrequited.
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  And I'm like no it's not. You obviously didn't learn about
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  the polyvagal theory or Stephen porches in my polyvagal theory
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  class and yes Stephen porch is still building more and pickled
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  data. So when you go to Wikipedia
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  somehow, it's still introducing the polyvagal theory as
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  unproven, but every one of the trauma expert somatic experts
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  and One who's helping people in mental health, that was about
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  Steven forges and the polyvagal theory because that is actually
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  how our nervous system works. Meaning.
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  He's found a way to explain to us or the gist of it is we have
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  the social engagement system and Stephen porges talks to us about
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  it. And he lets us in on a little
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  secret that you cannot love in your body, unless your social
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  engagement system is on. And that's our eventual.
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  They don't nerve. It's part of our Sympathetic
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  nervous system response, which is the rest and rejuvenate the
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  psychology Buddhists that I learned from.
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  In one of these webinars also, mentioned the ventral vagal
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  nerve and yoga are a bunch of ventral vagal nerve toning
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  exercises. They also allow you to learn how
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  to do mindfulness, which is what allows you to start to control
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  and or work with your neocortex, your break.
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  And then you should also know that we have three layers to our
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  brain there. Jillian.
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  That brainstem the mammalian, I believe is the limbic system
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  which includes the amygdala, the hippocampus, and maybe other
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  areas that I won't remember all the time.
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  And then our core text in your part of our brain, which is
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  where we stink. I'm always shins are what?
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  Begin the engagement for you of anything?
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  And those emotions are your nervous system actually and oh I
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  forgot the other part of our lovely nervous system.
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  Thank you psychology Buddhists. The flight freeze which is our
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  reptilian Our older ancient nervous system response and here
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  our bodies. They can be restorative which is
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  in their natural, actual habitat the way they are all supposed to
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  be Humanity. Humanly speaking or this
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  regulated or modulated. And those would be individuals
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  who the modulated the sympathetic.
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  They're in a constant self-preservation mode and I
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  think it's about yeah, flight or fight, but it's just very much
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  in that active hyper and this rag.
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  They did, we have fatigue distressed and there's postures
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  that they somatic experts. Excuse me, I learned this from
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  my wake and embodied certificate course on EP.
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  You can go check it out and bodied philosophy.
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  It's great for anyone who actually wants to either improve
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  their own knowledge of being a human, or maybe you like to do
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  personal development and support people to tap into their
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  infinite, higher human consciousness potential because
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  it is infinite. So back to the fact that love is
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  not unrequited, Netted, because you can't be in a state of Love,
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  unless you are in a social engagement State.
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  Because when you are in physiologically speaking, thank
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  you, compassion therapy, Trainers for teaching me what
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  happens, in an MRI when we are in a physiological state of
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  compassion, which is the optimal state of anyone.
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  Who's actually again in the wishing to support each other.
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  And really what it is is you're safe in your own body and you're
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  safe with people. So before we begin, I think
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  Polyvagal Theory dr. Stephen, purchase calls it.
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  Neuroception the fact that we all have a default mode Network
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  that has others in the South and it's consistently scanning to
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  ensure. Can I turn on my social
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  engagement system or can I turn it off when you hear the people
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  that only speak spiritual or spirituality language say shut
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  off the monkey brain. What they don't realize is that
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  they're not talking about you thinking, it's actually this
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  oats because when you learn about the integrated mind which
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  is the hell healthy human mind. Thank you Daniel Siegel and you
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  can achieve this all on your own or with the support of a very
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  good somatic sensory motor travel expert.
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  A good Mentor guide a good meaning, someone who knows at
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  the very least the foundation or something about getting here.
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  I mean I know a lot of people help people but without telling
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  you what they're helping you with, you won't take ownership
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  of it. So you don't really know why you
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  want to meditate or why you want to do yoga.
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  You don't know what's Into your body.
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  So you think you're doing an activity that makes you
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  something more, but really, you're just beginning a process
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  which is called allowing yourself to move.
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  Into your inner well-being and restorative embodied cell
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  phones. You can sit in your body with a
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  social engagement system, on which means you can engage with
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  people with respect and love and compassion.
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  No matter what they are doing on the other end, which is why we
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  do not react and respond. Those reactions are Implicit
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  memory their safety behaviors. They are deaf deaf children.
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  Emotional responses. A lot of people, I see them in
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  those States, they're adults, but they don't know how to work
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  with their emotions because they have a lot of leaders who tell
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  them emotions are stupid. Instead of telling them where
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  they come from. So back to this, default mode
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  Network, that scans for others, in the South, the 5D Mystic with
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  the love cycle, our default mode network is always off, meaning,
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  you're always ready to engage with people and to enjoy
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  ourselves. In fact, life is a joy ride.
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  We don't really know of human suffering because when we have
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  an emotion, come up, we don't suppress it and we're not in our
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  temporal Junction. We actually named it and moved
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  to our prefrontal cortex pop and feeling sad.
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  Oh yeah, that person over there, they actually insulted me.
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  Well, it's normal. Let me see.
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  Maybe I'll find out why they insulted me.
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  Hey, you want to let me in on? Why you insulted me?
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  Oh, that's the reason. OK, thank you.
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  Bye. Bye.
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  Very straightforward. We don't actually need those
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  social filters to guide us on what it means to communicate
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  very straightforward because we have access to our left and
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  right mode. We have access to our linguistic
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  Center and our nonverbal Center. And we're picking up immediately
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  on the body language and in front of us, is not a human
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  being with the physical knife or a gun or anything like that.
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  So we don't need to get into a fight mode and get all defensive
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  and go to adoptive. Child.
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  Let me prove. I'm right, let me make it all
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  about me. That me, go ahead and try to
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  control this situation and you, and let me not recognize that
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  I'm in a situation that is communicative.
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  But it seems like it's a little Battlefield going on between
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  Egos and that's something that the 4D Community or 3D Community
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  wants to talk about, is human, Sure, no, no, it's The Reptilian
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  nervous system with the same cycle, Lane fault Revenge
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  cycles, that limit human potential.
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  But that most people think makes them badass somehow.
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  And I say most people, I shouldn't say that but even the
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  spiritual bypassers, there's a bunch of people that are they
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  are excuse me, quite and their ego, is about the things,
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  they're doing the holistic middle ground and they don't
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  realize that they're not. Better than anyone else.
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  We're all humans, we all actually are great at being able
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  to maybe work with our emotions or not.
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  So great and the suppressive agents.
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  For those types of not-so-great include compulsive activities,
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  sex drugs, alcohol food, all of what you will.
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  See in a movie, there's one, I forget what it's called.
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  It's the guy that goes off to his friend's wedding and they
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  all get pretty, you know, I'm not even gonna bother saying it
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  and apparently that seems cool. People to do a person that knows
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  about compulsiveness equating human suffering, being masked.
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  Not so cool to see adults throw away their life because they
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  don't know about their body. So, again, back to love, when we
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  are in a state of compassion. So, when your default mode
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  network is down regulated, which happens with an integrated mind.
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  Thank you. Daniel Siegel to the integration
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  of the mine is where your left and right.
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  Communicate equally, we're all hands are on deck and you, are
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  you Analyzing to the optimal way.
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  Your lovely brain here. It's in your skull and the
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  nervous system and you're aware of the sensations.
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  And you do not shove them down, they come up, you also learn for
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  my 5D Mystics. There's another course I'm
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  taking is very beautiful about energy and I can't wait to
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  finish it because there are like Windows of quote-unquote
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  tolerance for the energy intake so we can expand energy hold
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  which FYI that's when you're getting your light bodies and
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  Move into that rainbow body. So, I've had like these three or
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  four light bodies, my rainbow body.
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  And then after the rainbow body, every year, sometimes I will
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  feel that charge expands. So, recently with the full moon,
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  for example, and that's a side note for my Mystics because I
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  know some of you are not in this fear of being perceptive of the
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  energy field around you, but also there's not the
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  relationship with this field of intelligence, but those of us
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  who do we channel guide? Since we have a lot of aspects
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  that we look to contribute. In addition to those lovely
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  akashic, record readings or tarot readings.
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  It's an actual way to support the people that you come across
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  to expand to their next best spot.
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  If they want to, we all have a sense of self.
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  We all have a self. Every person has fragmented,
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  sense of self. Meaning, there are parts that
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  Can have been broken, so we all have what they will say, is a
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  portion of trauma. These are those charged state?
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  So, they're frozen like icicles, and they have age groups, and
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  it's not because something bad has to happen to you.
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  It's, because trauma, I for eyes, when the body goes through
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  too much, too soon too fast and your body doesn't process it.
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  So, it stays stored in a trauma memory.
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  And in time, your body is going to move into wholeness all on
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  its own because it's a biology, it's a Memory, meaning it is
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  cellular. And I use words that again the
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  rigid leaders don't like the new words we use and the new
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  information because they want to stick to just, what was before,
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  machines, began to help us, see, inside the brain.
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  And I don't know what to tell you about those people except
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  for their old-fashioned and their ignorance and they refute
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  their colleagues information. And honestly insulting someone
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  and the entire body of Education to me, five, I mean you're not
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  an educator in my book, you're a person who's Again to become
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  arrogant in the knowledge you have and you apparently didn't
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  know that knowledge keeps building.
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  So you might be proven wrong. I'm so sorry to have two
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  children when I speak. I'm not trying to prove that I'm
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  right or wrong, but I know that today I say a tomorrow, it might
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  not be true tomorrow for all. I know they find out something
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  new and it will be B. Will I be ashamed?
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  No, I won't because I'm sharing something that I know has value
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  and meaning to someone and I'm not doing it to prove that I'm
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  right. That's the difference between
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  It's or adoptive children when you try to prove, you're right,
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  you're also insecure by the way. Because if you're certain about
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  your truth, you don't need to prove it time will give us all
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  the answers. There's a saying in a Time lies
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  have short legs and when, you know, that life is, consistently
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  moving into its next best step. It's only people that are
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  short-sighted that don't understand how the flow of Life
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  Works, excuse me. They're not 5D Mystics those of
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  us who are, we know it's all good.
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  So back to love and to Stephen, porches.
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  And that Neal Segal. So with the integrated mind, all
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  hands on deck, they fought mode Network down.
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  Regulated neuroception is the word that I think I used
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  already. I don't know but that's where
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  the oats is communicating. So for most people, what I've
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  seen adoptive children have is this defense posture and they
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  get very, very defensive. I get very, very charged, I'm
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  learning more and more how to have a more adult tone and very
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  important topics from the heart. So speaking from the heart is
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  straightforward learning how to be the Out with it.
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  That one is one that batteries because when we're interacting
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  with each other, our nervous systems are communicating.
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  So if I'm at ease but you're not, I'm going to need to learn
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  how to recalibrate in an effort to maintain my he's which I can
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  do by mine, sifting and mine site and being mindful, which is
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  easy. Once again for person who does
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  tend to and have Mastery not control.
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  Mastery means I flow with my emotions.
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  It means if I'm upset, they can come forth because I know how to
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  share. Them not transfer them.
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  The transference that takes place is when the person's
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  reactive. So one social engagement system
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  is the way that you are going to be in a state of love because
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  your body knows it's safe. So even if you're attacking my
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  belief system, my body will not be feeling that it's being
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  physically attacked, which is instead what?
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  Most people their brain. The way it works at least for
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  now is that when someone attacks or belief system the brain
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  actually treats it like your Uncle safety is a threat is in
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  threat and that's because the ego-self of U which is U, has
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  belief systems that are allocated and places that are
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  special and you're going to say. But I am right automatically,
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  you're wrong. The impact is immediate.
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  The only person who can choose to disengage from that.
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  Reactivity is the individual who stores the emotions, and the
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  thoughts and says, wait a minute.
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  I'm a differentiated self. I'm a human, their human.
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  I don't have to have the same belief.
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  These thoughts don't have to agree, but to have that.
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  You need self-empowerment true confidence, which means that,
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  you know, it isn't about being right or wrong.
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  It isn't about controlling anything.
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  And it isn't about me being in. It's not about anything except
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  for. It's an exchange of ideas and
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  thoughts and ideas. You had at.
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  So most people again, they don't really do this so every
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  conversation depends on. If you're talking about things
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  that people are okay with and it's all great and Danny the
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  minute you start to share what they think.
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  According to their stereotypes, generalizations, all the very
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  dumb. Down conversations that
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  sometimes I get to engage in its dumb down for a person.
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  Like I because there's a lot that I would be able to share,
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  but I won't because I'm going to have to begin to argue with
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  people who actually are convinced beyond a shadow of a
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  doubt that there are certain things in place because that's
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  how we're made, and I'm like, okay yeah, I'm not again, we
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  don't try to prove you're right. We like to Enlighten the
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  conversation and have fun. First of all and life is too
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  short to get into any type of argument with With anyone for
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  that matter. Adoptive children are not trying
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  to transform. They actually have Consolidated.
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  All of what they are, and they refute even when intellectually
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  culture, this is the part that gets me.
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  So, I have a friend of mine that I tease a little bit and
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  yesterday did this as they were using one of their, I'm an evil
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  person story, again, I said to them, I said, is this the most
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  creative? You can get and my younger
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  friend who's expanding? He made a joke and his joke was
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  basically AA silent. Silent behind me.
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  But look at that and the person moved away which she's done
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  before. And the young gentleman said,
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  did you notice how he just chose to disengage from what you just
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  said? I said yes, I did notice because
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  I've already addressed the topic with him before and I said, I'm
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  not doing Doing it to be mean, I'm actually doing it just
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  because he has such a huge amount of information that he's
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  reducing everything that he does into this facade in this
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  personality that doesn't need to be the only thing he talks about
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  or the only examples. He has a lot more in his creator
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  space, but in order to create, you need to have a level of
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  comfort in being yourself yourself as you are with your
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  imperfections and her flaws means speaking your mouth.
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  So example, Don't have these social filters and I usually
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  lead just from whatever, I feel like, and it pretty much goes
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  well but there are those who lead with social filters.
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  Let X will want to present to me aspects and those aspects we
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  are, we meaning the 5D person because it's a person who thinks
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  Beyond because we perceived that's of the world of people
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  and I should say we pick up first of all, you're not
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  Nonverbal language. The South has already in
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  existence in your body. It's you.
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  And then those fragmented the trauma memories.
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  They want to be seen, do they want to be met by compassion?
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  This is why compassion shatters compulsive Nest, it shatters the
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  same cycle, because it allows a person to be seen for who they
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  are and welcomed compassion, the insula lights up the amygdala,
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  the temporal Junction, the prefrontal cortex, and your
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  mental vague Nervous system state is engaged.
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  The oxytocin Gene hormone is released and that is a body in a
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  state of love. An integrated mind with a
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  restorative embodied self, which is what a 5D person will be.
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  Either their entire life move themselves towards however, you
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  want to look at it. It's a whole self.
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  They don't do the, I need to heal me because we are aware
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  where human being and we want to love each other and we don't
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  have a hard time speaking from the heart because what's the
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  part about About emotions that people don't get but we won't
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  know what it's like to have a shame body which is this
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  regulation modulation we won't know what it's like to have
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  this. Trauma memory come up, which is
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  very painful. Heartbreak got wrench torn
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  apart. Thank you, bezel van Berkel we
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  won't know that but we will know how to be compassionate when
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  people who are in those States will answer us and treat us in
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  certain ways. And we will also know how not to
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  do transference and countertransference because our
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  heart will only feel sad when these individuals.
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  Vigils take whether it be their social filters, whether it be
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  their cliche sentences, and then go and use misinformation.
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  Because you know, again there's a lot of beautiful people out
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  there, they're giving misinformation love is not
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  unrequited. Love is an emotion.
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  It actually comes from your body.
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  There's a brain circuits for it. There's a whole bunch of things
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  that people don't know about love.
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  And as a teenager, for example, I already knew that love is not
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  one human being. As a solo Poli.
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  In fact, I already told that one human being.
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  By the way, you don't get more time because you're now you and
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  I are an item. You get equal time and if you
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  can't handle it, that's your stuff, not mine.
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  I we're not objects or not property were not ownership.
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  This is where a person who is an integrated mind or sort of
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  embodied self and is an actual optimal.
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  Adult human is forgiving annoyance because we don't seek
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  our relationships to attach. We have a sense of security
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  within us again though, we won't know the shame blame fault
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  Revenge Cycles. Only when people are doing them,
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  we will know how to use our words in time.
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  It is thanks to our choice of compassion, that naturally comes
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  from within our body. Because we will not be mad at
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  people when we can feel that their rudeness, their meanness
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  there, whatever people that use their little social filters,
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  want to do. Their manipulation, they're
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  gaslighting they're lying, they're blocking their and
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  friending, their cold cold responses, everything that
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  they're insults the words, anything and everything that a
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  person will do to another person when you are an actual
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  Enlightenment. So age group individual, let me
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  add that one here, your heart will only feel very sad about
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  these aspects and you will keep on learning though about how to
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  use language. Communication.
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  That's where My lovely functional adult love language
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  for the enlightenment. So a drupe inclined person or at
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  the very least, 5D inclined person the paid subscription
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  podcast model content because there are ways for us all to be
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  in a space called heart. It's where you stop.
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  Before you speak and you get a hold of your adoptive child and
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  you get a hold of your emotions and you recognize my beliefs are
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  not. The only ones around and I can
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  speak with a town that is respectful.
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  Doesn't matter what? I think.
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  I know. I don't know.
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  I can disengage. Age from getting into some type
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  of little spits back. Why?
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  Because you're a human others are human.
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  Nobody knows everything. That's why and love, it's not
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  something that is in one human being.
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  It's something that you feel. If you feel safe in your own
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  body. So the people who don't yet feel
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  safe, they have shame blame for Revenge Cycles, inner critic,
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  outer critic denying through addictions drugs, sex food,
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  alcohol, compulsive activity and withdrawing.
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  The withdrawing can mean silence.
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  Can we in hanging out? Out with the same, people again
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  again, again what it means is it's a person who doesn't grow
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  up, who doesn't actually get to tap into more of the
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  beautifulness that they are, because they think emotions are
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  not present, because they don't understand that their nervous
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  systems and the sensations. You are your emotions.
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  First, and foremost your thoughts come after, either you
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  wield, how you begin to work with the emotions or you don't.
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  And it's, you know, something that takes the conscious wanting
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  of a a person to choose love is straightforward for the 5D
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  person, which is why we share it compassionately and infinitely
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  and for ever, as long as we can. I hope that you have enjoyed and
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  that you will come back. In the meantime, have a great
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  day.