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  Speaker 2: And once again this is reaction time. But we get
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  Speaker 2: And I want to start with a very interesting video
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  Speaker 2: here talking about life. And I want to hear you
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  Speaker 2: guys thought if you sometimes wake up and feel this way, like,
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  Speaker 2: do you have a question what are we doing in life?
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  Speaker 2: First question, do you have a wake up? Sometimes you
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  Speaker 2: because everyone apps and downs lord days and where you
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  Speaker 2: feel like nothing is really working. You are wake up
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  Speaker 2: and you're like, man, what the fuck am I doing
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  Speaker 2: in life?
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  Speaker 3: Like you know what?
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  Speaker 2: Do you question that?
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  Speaker 6: Sometimes?
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  Speaker 3: Question for real? For real? Like guy ten, No, like.
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  Speaker 2: Not really even that, Like you feel like you're not
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  Speaker 2: figuring out the meaning of life, Like you're so confused.
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  Speaker 3: Because because yeah, I don like this is not.
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  Speaker 2: Working I'm supposed to do. So what's the essence of
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  Speaker 2: doing this?
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  Speaker 3: Let me ask you this just to expound on that question, Sha, like,
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  Speaker 3: could you Lisa any fact I like, like, have you
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  Speaker 3: ever thought about like let's let's assume we do not
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  Speaker 3: know what, Like you're on a rock with a blue sky?
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  Speaker 3: Where does the blue come from? First of all? Like
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  Speaker 3: what is this? What is this?
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  Speaker 6: What am I? Like?
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  Speaker 3: You exist but without diffinite answers and then you're on
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  Speaker 3: a rock? Nothing is it? Can you leave that to
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  Speaker 3: like what is this? Like funny?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I definitely feel so it's it's it happens to
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  Speaker 6: a human mostly Comma. You're questioning, like I feel like
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  Speaker 6: sometimes not when when things do panic when you expect,
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  Speaker 6: so you ask yourself, like what is really the essence needing?
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  Speaker 6: But again also I feel like as a human being,
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  Speaker 6: once to figure out your purpose, I feel like pop
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  Speaker 6: figure out going life, literally, like what is my purpose?
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  Speaker 6: What am I on apt for? What did I come
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  Speaker 6: to do here?
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  Speaker 3: You know?
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  Speaker 2: And stuff exactly the answer I was looking for. So
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  Speaker 2: do you think about as a purpose.
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  Speaker 6: I definitely think so.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, It's just that for most people it's a luxury
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  Speaker 3: finding that purpose, or it's hard because it's a luxury,
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  Speaker 3: do you know what? Like you're so stuck into teens
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  Speaker 3: and just trying to survive that you never take the
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  Speaker 3: time to go like what am I here for? Like
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  Speaker 3: most people are just trying to eat by the way,
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  Speaker 3: like not just not to starve to death. Okay, So
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  Speaker 3: to take some time off and meditate, figure out take
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  Speaker 3: six months off, go to go where body you're telling
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  Speaker 3: him what to find a serene place and this man
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  Speaker 3: aritation you get like like we'll go to you get
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  Speaker 3: like such a person you're telling them find your purpose.
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  Speaker 3: It's a luxury, Like it's a lu journey for people
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  Speaker 3: that have uh time and time is money, if you
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  Speaker 3: get what I mean. So if you have the time,
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  Speaker 3: where you can actually say let me figure it out,
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  Speaker 3: you know, because it's supposed to be around after high
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  Speaker 3: school is when you're trying to figure your life out.
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  Speaker 3: But most people two campus, right, you know, so like
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  Speaker 3: they never get that time to because like most people
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  Speaker 3: like this this content creator that was in Dubai the
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  Speaker 3: other day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Why yeah, like like you see for him to start
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  Speaker 3: doing this, like you see where he's at, right, like
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  Speaker 3: where he comes from? Tell me how many people.
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  Speaker 2: For everyone exactly Malaysia, how many?
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  Speaker 3: How many people around you have the larger to start
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  Speaker 3: going like I think I'm a content creator. That's why
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  Speaker 3: it's like it's very the number of people that get
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  Speaker 3: to make it in life need like the one percent
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  Speaker 3: like that throughout that stress like a pitea.
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  Speaker 6: Me.
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  Speaker 3: But you're still like, ah, man, what is my purpose?
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  Speaker 3: Are you? By the way, you'll come Jay okay, and
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  Speaker 3: you're like, I am meant for bigger than kubebasy maui right,
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  Speaker 3: And you're like what if I started doing content with
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  Speaker 3: maw you know like that, But you see people from
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  Speaker 3: such a background, like for you to actually tell this
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  Speaker 3: person like say take some time off and I were
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  Speaker 3: rent the last month and probably too probably you get
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  Speaker 3: it's so hard for people to actually figure out what
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  Speaker 3: their purpose is, and that's why a lot of people
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  Speaker 3: just live hand to mouth like they today be like
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  Speaker 3: you are? Youre not after CAUs there's no such job
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  Speaker 3: as your your But is it really about workful person?
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  Speaker 3: Because because you see, we're stuck in a loop of
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  Speaker 3: the rat where you have to work to eat.
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  Speaker 6: But is it really that? Is it? Because like going
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  Speaker 6: a job?
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  Speaker 3: Like yeah, exactly, like you got a job.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, because I feel like purpose is more than
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  Speaker 6: what you're meant to do, what you're meant to do
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  Speaker 6: on That's how I feel like purpose is, Like it's
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  Speaker 6: more than job. It's like because you're literally and I
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  Speaker 6: feel like it's better explained when another person sees it
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  Speaker 6: through you. Okay, that's how I feel.
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  Speaker 3: Like it is.
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  Speaker 2: You do, Do you feel like you know your purpose
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  Speaker 2: currently right now? Or you're still in that gap of
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  Speaker 2: trying to figure out am I doing the right thing?
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  Speaker 2: Or should I change my career?
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  Speaker 7: No?
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  Speaker 6: I figured out my purpose and it came like really,
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  Speaker 6: I feel like younger your time? Dark Yeah, darkness. That's
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  Speaker 6: why I say even comelas when you say it, it's
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  Speaker 6: a luxury For me, I feel like it's hard, and
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  Speaker 6: it's arguable, it's arguable it makes sense from your perspective,
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  Speaker 6: but I'm looking at it from a perspective. People struggle
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  Speaker 6: so much to do a lot without even figuring out
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  Speaker 6: what they're supposed to be doing. You've done this, you've
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  Speaker 6: struggled with this, You've struggle with this, You've done this,
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  Speaker 6: and then you look at it. I'm like, it's a struggle.
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  Speaker 6: For me, it's hard. Some people, it's hard for them
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  Speaker 6: to realize their purpose. Some people figure out their purpose
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  Speaker 6: at a younger age, like literally they were meant to
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  Speaker 6: do that. They shine at it, and then there's you imagine,
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  Speaker 6: you've lived for fifty sixty years, we're not going to
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  Speaker 6: purer it was something different you're calling, or something different
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  Speaker 6: and you've been doing a different thing. So for me,
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  Speaker 6: I feel like it's more of that's anger, like a job.
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  Speaker 6: It's more of really hard struggle to figure out unless
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  Speaker 6: we've been in that space. Because for me, realize what
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  Speaker 6: I'm supposed to do on art or what I'm supposed
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  Speaker 6: to do with my life came from a very dark space.
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  Speaker 6: Like Dan Alarasta could hit, You're like, it is certainly fun,
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  Speaker 6: But what the heck comes?
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  Speaker 2: Do you feel like you discovered your purpose at an
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  Speaker 2: early age or along the way and at totage if
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  Speaker 2: you don't mind talking about it.
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  Speaker 3: First of all, I don't feel like we have a
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  Speaker 3: singular purpose. I feel like purpose is more from how
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  Speaker 3: you grow, because it changes, like and you can fulfill
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  Speaker 3: your purpose, you know, and you can fulfill multiple purposes?
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  Speaker 3: Did I figure am I now? Yes in a way
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  Speaker 3: and no in a certain way, because personally, when I'm
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  Speaker 3: good at something, I get bored with it, like really quickly,
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  Speaker 3: Like I really love the process of learning. It intrigues me.
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  Speaker 3: So once I realize I'm proficient in something, I'm really
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  Speaker 3: lazy to do it. Like Nicola say, I can do it,
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  Speaker 3: I can do it. So I feel like I'm a
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  Speaker 3: scholar at heart, and I feel like that's my purpose
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  Speaker 3: in a certain way, Like I feel like my highest
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  Speaker 3: purpose in this lifetime is to educate. What I haven't
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  Speaker 3: figured out is what, when and who? Okay, okay, but
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  Speaker 3: I feel like it's to educate, Like in I do
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  Speaker 3: not have the patience quamally, Plus I cannot smoke chalk
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  Speaker 3: for a career.
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  Speaker 2: For me, for me, I'd say I agree first the
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  Speaker 2: answer you gave purpose, because the first thing when I
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  Speaker 2: saw this video, I was like, maybe this guy's looking
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  Speaker 2: for the right word, but Advenati explain. But I also
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  Speaker 2: love the way it was breaking down everything because it's
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  Speaker 2: so many questions that sometimes you'll find yourself ask him
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  Speaker 2: and I get in the dark place, or sometimes two
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  Speaker 2: things are not working. Now you don't really have to
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  Speaker 2: be in a really really dark space. You're just trying
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  Speaker 2: to make this work. But it's also timing. You're like,
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  Speaker 2: this is not going according to my time. I should
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  Speaker 2: have done this by this particular time. But also the
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  Speaker 2: finances are not financing and all that, so you start
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  Speaker 2: questioning am I really doing the right thing? Like what's
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  Speaker 2: my purpose? So I go back to that because I
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  Speaker 2: remember there's a time when discussing that, I think he
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  Speaker 2: are not kid, not someone else talking about purpose in life.
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  Speaker 2: I think Mimi and I watter on or something or
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  Speaker 2: someone else purpose in life. Then for him, he says
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  Speaker 2: people there's no purpose for that is for him. I
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  Speaker 2: think that's the answer he gave. But we start with
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  Speaker 2: I believe everyone has a purpose because could do like Nan,
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  Speaker 2: you can't just be existing and there's nothing most people do.
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  Speaker 2: There's nothing you're giving.
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  Speaker 6: Bad because of them. If you give them a chance
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  Speaker 6: to actually exploit, they can figure out.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like and this is this feel feels ilitist
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  Speaker 3: to say, But my NPC, they have no purpose. That's true, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: they just exist for the purpose of But I feel
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  Speaker 3: like you are.
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  Speaker 2: An NPC only if you can't try get out of
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  Speaker 2: that bracket and figure out your process.
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  Speaker 3: She actually said, agree.
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  Speaker 2: And along the way of you creating or doing things
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  Speaker 2: you're doing, you'll find something in it and you're like this, this,
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  Speaker 2: this is what I've been looking What is going to
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  Speaker 2: work for me?
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  Speaker 3: Let me explain it like this couldn't say when any
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  Speaker 3: at a.
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  Speaker 6: Fuck?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that could have at thirty your moker, sir, like you,
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  Speaker 3: I'm a stick now like indienda you get. And the
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  Speaker 3: reason is there's a certain thinking burn the ships. I
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: don't know if you understand what that means. So back
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: in the day, I can't remember which a commander it was.
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: He was Roman, so they went to war, and how
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  Speaker 3: he'd make sure they win is when they learned at
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  Speaker 3: the show they burned the ships that could be home
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  Speaker 3: like this is home now we either win here or
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  Speaker 3: we die. Hear you get like burned the ships. So
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  Speaker 3: most people never really discover that purpose because they never
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  Speaker 3: banned the ships. Like Kokua dead, then Joba, you're not
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  Speaker 3: willing to burn the ship. You you are in a
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: dead relationship. You're not willing to do so. So yeah,
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  Speaker 3: like what you say, it is definitely true. It does
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  Speaker 3: you can discover. But most people are so addicted to
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  Speaker 3: their routines that they cannot break that routine. They cannot
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  Speaker 3: bann that ship so that they can go figure out
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  Speaker 3: their purpose. And that's why I call them in pieces,
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  Speaker 3: because you lack the discipline to say no for your
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  Speaker 3: own benefit. Like good example is I feel like we
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: all have that one friend who Alianza Campo, whils Campo.
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  Speaker 3: I'm I'm attach around Campo like people have been in
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  Speaker 3: campus for eight years, nine years? Okay, why he's he
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  Speaker 3: doesn't realize what his purpose in school is. Okay, the
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: purpose is to graduate, to move on to the next thing.
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  Speaker 6: If I agree with you, I just feel like, and
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  Speaker 6: this might be a tip maybe for somebody, because like
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  Speaker 6: first and foremost, it doesn't mean if you drop out
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  Speaker 6: of school. Yes, I'm just saying you know I want
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  Speaker 6: to give an example. Yeah, I want to give an example.
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  Speaker 6: With your example, I feel like for you to figure
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  Speaker 6: out your purpose is it's not a struggle number one,
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  Speaker 6: it's not a circle. You don't feel as if it's job.
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  Speaker 6: You don't feel as safe, you're overworking, You're doing your love. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: you love doing it and then you thrive it naturally.
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  Speaker 6: So come on my cash, you lay, I'm gonna come
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  Speaker 6: drop comas you. I feel like most of the time,
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  Speaker 6: and it goes back to my point, came lish because like,
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  Speaker 6: for example, I feel like they don't you call them NPC.
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  Speaker 3: That's the name you give them, crucified by my own Yeah, NPC. Right.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like it's also like because the world has
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  Speaker 6: been structured into your work, work, work, a lot of
• 20:36
  Speaker 6: people are stuck into because the system has been created
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  Speaker 6: like that, you're stuck into the matrix. He find your casaco.
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  Speaker 6: You can be a checky at your easy cause I'm
• 20:46
  Speaker 6: doing to buy a casini and a jump killer. Owners
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  Speaker 6: struggle look like, man, this is your struggle killers. But
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  Speaker 6: you keep going for ten years, for five years, for
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  Speaker 6: fifteen years, for fifty years, and then you're like, okay,
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  Speaker 6: there's nothing that is coming up, and then they have
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  Speaker 6: you want to tell this person who has builts and
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  Speaker 6: kids to figure out something, and the probably figure you're pointing,
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  Speaker 6: this is not for me. So it's starting to funnily
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  Speaker 6: parent job. So I feel like also that is a
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  Speaker 6: factor that actually, how do you say, uh, what's the
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  Speaker 6: right term detire you? If that is a word from
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  Speaker 6: like meeting your purpose or finding out what your purpose? Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: it's a barrier because now you're stuck into this routine
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  Speaker 6: stuff and there's no way you can figure because man,
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  Speaker 6: come you're too you not your anger. Nobody can tell
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  Speaker 6: me came lesh that they don't. I only say one thing.
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  Speaker 6: You cannot know your purpose. But of course you always
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  Speaker 6: know what is not your purpose. That's true.
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  Speaker 3: That is.
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  Speaker 6: Not because of the troubles you first while doing. That's
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  Speaker 6: so true, and it's so obvious on your face.
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  Speaker 2: That is a true I do agree. I agree you
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  Speaker 2: can tell when something is not for you because I
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  Speaker 2: think but I'm me most and I feel pity for
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: people who are doing what they don't really love. And
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: that's why I personally, i'd say, going back to the
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  Speaker 2: question I asked you, when did you discover your purpose? Personally,
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: I knew I wanted to be in media or media
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  Speaker 2: equal dog Like I used to find myself watching in Republic.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys, but in Republic and
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: TV straight up like you go to my interviews and Saturdays,
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: I used to find myself in the Catociny. Then I'd
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: be somewhere at your desk imagining I'm interviewing myself or
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: interviewing someone. So from there, I just knew wanted to
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: be in media. Is that what I've really been pushing
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: ever since? S have I been in spaces where I'm
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: doing something I don't like here and you can, literally,
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: like Nica, just because I need the money. You know,
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: I'm here because I don't have a choice, and I'm
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: not yet there where I want to be. But along
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: the way with the creating, like you said, as you're
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: doing other things, you'll find whatever you like or love
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: for your purpose literally in between, because in the creation,
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: that's why literally everything fell into place. And I was like, goddamn,
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: this is literally the like Nico Coyinger entertainment, and this
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: is what I want. This is where I want to be,
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: and this is where I like to be. So let
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: me just share the video literally as we listened to
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: the GAT to say, like you had so many questions
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: in between, which is very interesting.
• 23:22
  Speaker 8: I want to ask something that sounds simple but nobody
• 23:24
  Speaker 8: ever actually answers, what the fuck.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: Are we doing?
• 23:28
  Speaker 9: Like not you, not me, not your five year plan
• 23:31
  Speaker 9: or your grind or your self care era, I mean us,
• 23:34
  Speaker 9: the whole human species, eight billion people, breathing, living, working, stressing,
• 23:39
  Speaker 9: reproducing scroll.
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: I feel like he started off with a very good whatever, Yeah,
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: what the fuck are we doing? And I want I
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: want to pose that question to all of y'all, and
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: I don't want it to be a monetary answer building
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: careers or whatever. What do you think you're here for?
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: Like part from like job?
• 24:03
  Speaker 6: I say, purpose from me is no job, like.
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: Like like see see like just what are you here for?
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: Like what do you feel like you're here for?
• 24:16
  Speaker 6: For me?
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: I feel like a mean IM want to you say,
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: not not.
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: Job wise, not no monitory. It's not about money, it's
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: not about family, it's not about personally.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: I feel like it's storytelling, if not storytelling, using my
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: voice to change people's lives, because I feel like my
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: story has a lot that can educate and it depends
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: on how I narrate it literally and how it can
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: relate to someone else and not just relate, but ensure
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: either as a parent. Yeah, empower like literally speak up
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: my truth, but not just picking up because I want
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: to gain, like you say, not to gain. I've never
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: looked at it that way. Gaining not like a job
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: because I want to just people to hear me out
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: and let it be an impact to someone I don't know.
• 25:06
  Speaker 6: Really, I feel like for me, I'm more of a connector.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm yeah, bring together yea, even.
• 25:14
  Speaker 6: In people's lives, like literally like like I like, I
• 25:20
  Speaker 6: find it so easy for me in life, and I
• 25:22
  Speaker 6: feel like I'm an intermediary between somebody and something, of
• 25:27
  Speaker 6: people and people. I feel like that's more of my
• 25:29
  Speaker 6: purpose in life. That's how I see. That's how I
• 25:32
  Speaker 6: was saying. It's not for me. It's not about a
• 25:35
  Speaker 6: job like I was meant to do this and this.
• 25:39
  Speaker 6: I feel like it's more of what to do the
• 25:41
  Speaker 6: impact to live on earth, if that makes sense, So
• 25:44
  Speaker 6: the impact to live in people's lives. Yeah, what's yours?
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: I feel like I'm a problems over and I think,
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: you know, like that's when I feel most alive when
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: I find a solution to basically anything, Like I feel
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: like I'd have been part of the team that made fire,
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: you know, like fish one, let's find a solution or
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: or you know, like part of the team that figured
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: out iron working like you know. And for me, when
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: I feel most alive, and this is so weird because
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: it goes against a lot of the things I believe in,
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: is whenever I'm doing work with my hands, like right now,
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to learn woodworking and metal work, and yeah,
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: I am so happy you can be part of eyes
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: like I can spend the whole day getting it wrong
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: and I'm just happy, like I'm la you know. And
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: because like the other day, somebody is because I'm trying
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: to buy keep your troubling at so someone who is
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: telling me if it is only I have never thought,
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: god see, I will connect it wrong. I was like,
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: And so I was like, you need a mentor these
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: things like will mess you up, you know, because.
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: Again they didn't need classes. Y.
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So like for me, yeah, i feel like I'm
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: a thinker and a problems over above everything.
• 27:33
  Speaker 6: Also a healer, if that makes sense.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Char I'm a healer and the second, what you say
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: a connector, but I can't say how, but I do
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: know about that. Again, I'm a connector. I don't know
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: how to put it, but I am because I found
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: myself even to my intermediary, someone who knows someone fixed this.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: So make this happen type of ship and then connecting
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: a creator I kind of like miscalcula diys for a
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: very long time. I think this I discovered in twenty nineteen.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: I used to love doing cover phones quad jeans. Then
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: I'll just make it as a cover then trying to
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: do so by your happin like I just did it.
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: That'll just make it fancy and from them for myself
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: literally do normally. I think you saw that thing I
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: was trying to clean for my house and for myself.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: Like if I see something that I like, or I'm
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: gonna try make Yeah, I like you to just putting
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: the pieces together and it comes very beautiful. So if yeah, literally,
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: but mostly we can communications path so we can agree.
• 28:50
  Speaker 6: That in life you can have multiple purposes.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: You have to have like you don't need to have
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: a space.
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: This is like you I'm talking your purpose. Okay, that's it,
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: milking child because you're calling my teeth boo. Okay, just
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: boom until you can just boom, you know, and then
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: when you're a child that your purpose is to play
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: and to explore, you know, not to do exams, not
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: to quitter your floors to your whatever. You know, that
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: is not your purpose.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: You know us love my hand.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: Who knows, maybe I know, maybe.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: I think you too. I did not I could take
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: the roll of leadership. So seriously like this because high
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: school primary missing makers all type ship. I'm part of noisemakers,
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: So why the hell am I writing noisemakers like head girl.
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: For a week your primary there was in our school
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: head and I think it was class four, five and six.
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: They had this then transfer, you know, but they had
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: this sin so napango according to performance, so allah that
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: keeps them kill when your group leader in the group,
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: so sony performers all the back bencher, so hope, player,
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: academical academy, rugby players, footballers.
• 31:03
  Speaker 6: Creatives look number one, so at.
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: Least so you uh kill him to this is a
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: man me by then I tried to draw super strikers
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: live Conna, come Tilly.
• 31:25
  Speaker 6: Tilly, then do the white one white and blue.
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: White and red red your proper. Yeah, can you live
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: on a gim like? Can you corepay attention miss me
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: miss your mana high school and back dishow you know
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: a cord you see me up a that will be
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: too comfortable, I mean too cool and end up.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: If you have a good friend, good good.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: We go open, Oh my god, because the best one.
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: I requite a tactic that some believer and qu nouns
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: the calculate na.
• 32:46
  Speaker 6: Lo n maybe narrow my chalk because me to call
• 32:58
  Speaker 6: back Ben my talk bro. Afternoon double came. What the heck?
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Afa, it's crazy.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: My best time. That was the afternoon school games. So
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: road the geography double mess on your geographs. That's your
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: school team room. And you know you're not.
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: Imagine lesibi to the game. Funny thing actually joint soccer
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: because of that. It's not because I'm a music from runner,
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: because I can be crist like can went like a
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: whole way. It was crazy, my snow. She was almost
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: the one making me run call your ones literally it's crazy.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: But let me finish up with this video.
• 34:18
  Speaker 9: Arguing killing, loving, surviving.
• 34:21
  Speaker 8: What are we collectively working towards? Stop and really think
• 34:24
  Speaker 8: about that for a second. Man what are we collectively
• 34:26
  Speaker 8: working towards, Because if you zoom out far enough, it
• 34:29
  Speaker 8: looks like we're sprinting nowhere. Because right now it looks
• 34:31
  Speaker 8: like we built the most advanced systems in human history
• 34:35
  Speaker 8: just to keep ourselves too exhausted to question them.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: It looks like we feel like something that bothers me.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Also with that toil saving, see, I get the essence
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: of CUSAVE, but sometimes to get the essence of CSAVE,
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: I get the essence of cusave. If you have kids,
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: like our old family already said, like can you come
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: to maybe call single like living life? Just live life?
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: Why brother only last Tuesday? The way she said, when
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: you die it's written ten million or one million in
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: your bank account.
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: Mean yeah, you.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Leave a family or relatives behind. Literally it goes back
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: to your questioning, like for people I don't know if
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: you guys bank by force, thinker print because she's close
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: to dying and they can't allow bank account. So you're
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: like goddamn, which is sure, but you've been working so
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: hard for someone else to enjoy.
• 35:45
  Speaker 6: In that situation Like that you show like if you
• 35:48
  Speaker 6: didn't write a will, you're putting a back to a bank.
• 35:51
  Speaker 6: Takes it they give to your family next, So there's.
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: There's actually a body, government body that deals with specifically that.
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: So there's a specific time where if money in Macaqua
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: count in a fight to hook for so that when
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: the family comes they can reclaim.
• 36:20
  Speaker 6: Okay, So so like they give to your family, right if.
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: They can prove it. Most times, what do like what WANGI?
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: They never even know? But going back to your culture, saving, man,
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: I feel like people were sold the very wrong thing
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: about saving. It is one of the worst ways to
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: accumulate wealth. Like, actually, you can never accumulate wealth by
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: saving money. Money is a tool nikkana screw driver MEINGI
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: I'm a better electrician here, you get.
• 37:03
  Speaker 6: More like an acid.
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: No, it's a tool that should be used to achieve something.
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: People save for the sake of it. And I feel
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: like I've talked about this before, like save towards something
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: like save to invest, save, see that you save a deal.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: You save to said you could not be saved, you know,
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: like what your purpose.
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: Like when saving, like when you save money or better yet,
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: don't think about it like saving, think about it like investing. Okay,
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: And I'd really love it if as a society we
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: focus more on investing than saving. Like when you're saving money,
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: think about it like you're investing in yourself. Like in
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: the said capital for your be a shar of selling suits.
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: This is seed capital for your like it's seed capital,
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: like you're you're you're an angel investor in your own business.
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: Because you see, most of our parents got into the
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: habit of saving and a genema I didn't nice. If
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: you bind your safe, you get like yama, I'm a
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: dangy holiday. Why save to somehow somehow not somehow because
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: of that saving culture. Let me let me tell you this.
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: You will never hear a wealthy person talking about saving
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: here ever. Literally it is the worst way because when
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: I say you, when I say you're happy bank, you
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: know what you're doing doesn't matter. Actually, that is one
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: of the worst places to say. There's no there's no
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: incentive to save money with a mobile money anything some banks. No,
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: you see banks.
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: That's giving you accessibility of your money like you.
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: See you see with banks or building credit. Okay, if
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: you have a good credit score with banks, you can
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: access I remember, okay, you can access capital, save million.
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: They will never give you another nine or ten million
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: to go start a business, okay, Like, and our our
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: generation should actually go back to banks, banks and circles.
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: That's that's where it's at. Like and if if you're
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: not willing to take risks, you will never succeed. Like yeah,
• 40:08
  Speaker 3: their deficiencies in the system. Hell yeah, Might you get auctioned?
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: Hell yeah? How many billionaires have been auctioned? May where
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: will go? Upon your poverty? Saying I have never been
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: auctioned because you're poet. There is nothing they can auction?
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: Why we were a bank account? Wait? Wait the only
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: thing I'm liver? Okay, look at course your credit score
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: is bad and you're you're out here saying I don't
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: trust banks. Actually there is not. You shouldn't even be
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: talking about banks. Why is it idea? Because you do
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: not have the financial or the economic literacy to understand
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: how money works. So like you see, like myself, money
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: very interesting and people if people actually understood how bad
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: saving is for their well being in future, they will
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: not really.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: Uh Like again critical thinking mind.
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: Is a kid? Do you think a hundred bob three
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: years ago is worth the same as a handbob now?
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: Hell it's probably seventy shillings now has.
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: Lost of value very soon turn twenty. Bobs ten probably
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: lose values.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, what are you buying with it wasn't a bob
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: like because the only place is the supermarket, you get it?
• 41:52
  Speaker 6: So like the market common is less than bobs on
• 41:54
  Speaker 6: a Columbia.
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: Literally because money currency loses value. Okay, assets saying.
• 42:07
  Speaker 6: Universe and acid. That's what I started. Like something that's
• 42:11
  Speaker 6: going to.
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: Bring you money, No, not man capital money. Money is
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: a very binary town. Like it's a very money. Money
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: can be anything. Work persons in a part of value.
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: Take the capital, something that you can use as capital,
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: normal capital, okay, Like livestock is capital, chamber capital, factories
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: are capital you get Yeah, lands those are that's capital okay,
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: Like these are the things you need to focus on acquiring.
• 43:00
  Speaker 6: What about talent?
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: That's capital because it is It is a resource you
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: can use for the betterment of self. So how do
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: you do how you grow your own talent by investing
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: in yourself? Right, you're a content creator, Buy a better camera, Okay,
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: your go to school, learn editing, learn this and that,
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: this and that to create a better version of yourself
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: that is worth more. That's yeah, that's capital. Now you
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: become your own source of fulfillment, and yeah, your fulfillment
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: is better yea, because at the end of the day,
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: Africans were wealthier when we didn't have a money economy.
• 43:58
  Speaker 3: You know, Africans were much wealthier when we didn't focus
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: on hi ling. We we created drill well and it
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: was so much better. And if we had that mentality
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: in today's world, we'd easily figure out our purpose. Because
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: you need to operate in life from a few point,
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: you know, like if you can operate from a few point,
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: you're good. What wi they can never that's true.
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: But yeah, literally, get closer to winding up on the
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: next since I think we've already concluded this video before
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: answered Literally the question that is trying to question on
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: the last video I have is coming from Eric Commondy
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: this morning Rods before and.
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: I'm not saying after Persa, I'm saying elea person.
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's true, understand money, money is at all.
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: I love that the Mini Man is a tool. And
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: I think you keep on saying that.
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: I keep on saying it.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: I keep saying that people need to understand money is
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: a tool. How you make use of it?
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: You know, I'm a media naire.
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: How you make use of it. It's up to you.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: But on the last video of today the reaction, I
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: hope you have been informed in case you've been in
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: that bracket of questioning what what are you doing in
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: this life? Are you doing the right thing? I help
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: you have understood that everyone has a purpose and you
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: know your purpose and maybe trace back understand when did
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: you discover your purpose and all that. I always love
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: telling people shout to. One of the persons close to
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: me was telling me I've told them how to track
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: back because because me, I'm that type of a person.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: I love posting or going back to my previous post
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: videos and shout to snapchat for having snaped you. I
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: think snapches is one of the and even know of
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: the apps. If you literally, if you're someone who posts events,
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: if I even go go leave and Instagram, you go
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: back to literally how you started your journey. You're like, goddamn,
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: and you need to grow and that teaches you something
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: like it gives you just some air consistency teaches in
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: a bond, don't give up, like how you've been pushing
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: in the layer, to keep on believing in what you
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: actually want and go get it because kukrd two also
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: want to give you what you want. Well, I told
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: you to agree the universe is going to find you
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: with the right people without you putting effort. That's a lie.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: You have to literally put in effort. Then the right
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: people are gonna naturally come to you and help you
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: with what you want. But on the last video is
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: the video literally shared from every Commondy's page. I really
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: really have to break in video. I don't know if
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: you search money. Yeah, it's really really has to breaking.
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: And literally before I share it because it's a child,
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna share. I'm just gonna explain what
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: is happening. It was a child, was a boy child.
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: Actually I'm a true not true, not like the coulture,
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: not true.
• 46:59
  Speaker 6: You need I'm trying, not.
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: True, nassy, I'm trying to punish you. If you look
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: at the pinchion is pinching of bitterness, like this person
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: has either bitterness of the mom or the husband, and
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: according to the video it's the father who has been
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: flocking or abusing. The child literally has a head damage.
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: And a scan. You can't girl your skll eco.
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if you guys know.
• 47:34
  Speaker 6: A big but that's not normal.
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: Guys that can let me tell you, let me find
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: the video and my uncle yeah and tells you Flanning
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: com and.
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: You food like you need to go more food immediately
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: called Mangay. You become inst Africa.
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: I don't know if the people are behind that were
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: arrested Ali Go su Mariqua. The child was supposed to
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: undergo operation, so we commonly survive. I think it was
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: either every Commondi or on TikTok, but su Maria they're
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: supposed to take here or for operation imagine, So it's
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: it's possible. Whatever you're trying to question, but that's not okay.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: So on conclusion, literally what I said, my comment happens
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: to actually have the most likes, which I like people
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: resonating with that. I said, stop having children if you're
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: not ready to be apparent enough to love and guide
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: your children. This is really had to break him. And
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: also the people can Galati the same, like this is
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: so sadden all that, but why, Like I think we've
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: talked about this a couple of times them and I
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: feel like this comes from trauma personally. There's a discussion
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: we're having with kids some time back and I was
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: telling me most of the situation. If you see someone
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: repeating them in their life, it's trauma. Nikki Woods are
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: heal like and it's sad because I'm really so proud
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: that we are the generation that is trying to change
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: that like, and if you are that person who's trying
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: to change the pattern that you've grown up in, shout
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: to Youbanna, like, literally shout to you, because they really
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: grown up with really traumatized parents, parents who didn't know
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: how to raise us better. They knew the only way
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: to communicate to you is by beating you, flocking to you,
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: shouting to you, telling you how so much that is
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: your work as a parent. And that's why I go
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: back to you. If you're not ready to having a child,
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: I'm heavy on and this is joby about that shit. Literally,
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: if you're not ready for a baby, like this was
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: an oops moment or you're like, godamn it happened, I'd
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: rather you are bought that baby miner, but your depens
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: and wards married stop mile.
• 50:14
  Speaker 6: The cop.
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: Was a couponier, a racker that coupe leqa. But do
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: you give back to a child and you go damp them?
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: And I can TikTok wrap to call me. That child
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: is not even breathing until someone had the baby crying.
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: It's a new born baby. Someone gave birth to a
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: damp Toto man out of nowhere in the cold. Why
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: do you why would you do that? Like nine months
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: I can't even fathom what I can fathom me the
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: first month of no connection to ship, nine months of connecting.
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: Older too.
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I saying that.
• 50:55
  Speaker 3: So it's you take.
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: And dreaming and the layer. Then you go down for
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: kids somewhere like please, if you're not ready to be
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: a parent again, this will support a bosh. I'll support
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: the family, planning care how it damages, so long as
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: you're not damaging a baby's life like.
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: This at a certain aging life children's homes. Yeah, and
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: like good and and your total finish from a kazi, Yeah,
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: taking after purpose.
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: I didn't come as that, tash me. And everyone is
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: going through their own stuff.
• 51:52
  Speaker 5: Me.
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: If I start telling my problems, are you gonna send
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: me money?
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: Please?
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: Everyone is going through ship please.
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: But I do these offeredages very differently, not really oftenag
• 52:07
  Speaker 3: is more like me, but sematony flats. We will feed you, sir,
• 52:18
  Speaker 3: who total it's okay, todoh monom a wazy layer, you
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  Speaker 3: come to us, Okay, not there, mem could lear diapers
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: bond and I'm your life is not about at yours yes,
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: Leander or whatever like. Actually, we need to encourage people
• 52:49
  Speaker 3: in certain ways who baden because like your video Warner,
• 52:59
  Speaker 3: have you seen this child's Diesimbo total Evila mean evilivo? Okay?
• 53:20
  Speaker 3: You know, like you can break trust and toaco like
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: Toto come and the most loving father ever. It's like
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: when you can tell you this is how like trauma
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: can establish itself in the brain and it's so hard
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: to get trauma out of especially a child, like it
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: was so embedded any former TVs like reference point about
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: he tried to kill him.
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: So I remember for me the first time I met
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: my step mom because I really grew up with a
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: very free mom. As we wind up, I grew up
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: with a really free spirited mom. I keep on saying that.
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: I think that's why I get it from like free
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: spirits and open to doing life like seeing nothing based
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: on a Christian way like church, by the way, like
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: never used to care about churches. But when I met
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: my step mom, the first thing she used to tell
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: me not even the first thing, but the thing I
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: might talk anything that could provoke my dad. I don't
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: cares the fact that I really used to have that.
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: I don't care and I really wrap with someone who
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: attorney and your relation before beating me atturny one. My
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: mom in crews to be the person that one. If
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: you repeat it, that's when she's gonna.
• 55:09
  Speaker 6: Now is that you know?
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: Kid like that You're like, you know, like like my
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: my mom that was her good to go to used
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: to do me that culture how she hold like yeah,
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: it's may know my conference for Lisa, ma me give
• 55:40
  Speaker 3: me up, Like.
• 55:45
  Speaker 6: I feel like personally, if you're not really ready, yeah,
• 55:50
  Speaker 6: if I already Mary apparent to mar because I described
• 55:55
  Speaker 6: today that it was a disciplinary that's how I describe father,
• 56:03
  Speaker 6: not disciplinary and actually require African discipline.
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: It can be like.
• 56:12
  Speaker 6: This is my perhaps man, I have like those memories.
• 56:16
  Speaker 6: I think this shouldn't be aware to al her whole night.
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: God he.
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: Was it was like really.
• 56:32
  Speaker 6: Class to class because I lose calam so I was embodying.
• 56:41
  Speaker 6: I remember letter shoe less and no cocone firm calam.
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: I'm just like it's a pen.
• 56:51
  Speaker 6: And the worst thing is we had a shop to
• 56:55
  Speaker 6: look on a shopping whose of it so local there
• 57:02
  Speaker 6: today your homework, I can let us and no body
• 57:08
  Speaker 6: listen body thunder guy. It was so bad because he
• 57:13
  Speaker 6: used to kill us. Now class too, I've experienced that
• 57:19
  Speaker 6: was like class too. So I look at it. I'm
• 57:22
  Speaker 6: like our parents because maybe my peraps was no joke
• 57:26
  Speaker 6: like it was city midi. So he was in charge
• 57:32
  Speaker 6: of discipline. Just imagine yea discipline. For example when see
• 57:44
  Speaker 6: mentioned when I collect the bank, so you can imagine.
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: My parents away.
• 57:55
  Speaker 6: This is I can be every day and then we're
• 57:58
  Speaker 6: not from Nairobi and I can be a three is
• 58:00
  Speaker 6: a particular naerobic and it was because of just beatings
• 58:03
  Speaker 6: and stuff. So as a parent, those are the things
• 58:07
  Speaker 6: you change when you're going to when you're going to
• 58:09
  Speaker 6: Actually it doesn't have to because like I feel like
• 58:13
  Speaker 6: minutes when my sister gave birth to narciss to like
• 58:21
  Speaker 6: and because my perps and then lucky as not just
• 58:31
  Speaker 6: like so not just on specific homes, it's.
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: Just hair.
• 58:43
  Speaker 6: Some gook on a book. You are not you are
• 58:45
  Speaker 6: playing with other kids. You're a kid. Can you be
• 58:48
  Speaker 6: a kid? You know that type of life? I love
• 58:50
  Speaker 6: on the level and you want to raise your kids,
• 58:51
  Speaker 6: I feel like a goa. There is fear instead of
• 58:56
  Speaker 6: I end. I'm not weaving, Carl, you know, there's just
• 59:01
  Speaker 6: fear because like what came your father in beer that
• 59:12
  Speaker 6: shows like so much love and people have so much
• 59:16
  Speaker 6: love to give outside because now you didn't. You didn't
• 59:19
  Speaker 6: find so much love growing up, and then you seek
• 59:22
  Speaker 6: love from people, so piga who ship, you're not move on.
• 59:30
  Speaker 6: Such things just come and affect you later in life.
• 59:33
  Speaker 6: So even if you're going to raise kids like I
• 59:35
  Speaker 6: feel like you know, Commanda at a high school day,
• 59:37
  Speaker 6: little longer was it moing like lonso because ineffective, Like
• 59:43
  Speaker 6: it didn't work he didn't work in families and he
• 59:45
  Speaker 6: didn't work in school. So why is it still working
• 59:47
  Speaker 6: up to right now? Why is it that you're still
• 59:49
  Speaker 6: meeting a kid like that? So crazy?
• 59:53
  Speaker 3: What believing like?
• 59:57
  Speaker 6: I don't know if you know, if you if there's
• 59:59
  Speaker 6: a difference and totally community, I'm assaging.
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  Speaker 3: Community happy maybe Chapper, so you see, and also.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 6: Bad people will come for you to like that's this
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 6: one your man that chap across not on door, but
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 6: she came to figures with the fan in the club.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 6: I reported it, just y, I turn them when you're
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 6: looking from I turned to talk, didn't a car. I
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  Speaker 6: could just be a male the BC impare and I'm
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 6: looking at it from that perspective on her phone and
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 6: I'm away from you.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 3: It's I saw this kid. I saw this skid, and
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 3: I bet he may talk from real life experience. So
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 3: it was a skid by a content creator. Nah, I'm
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 3: to talk about back and out with the girls, sir,
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 3: A lot since impatient lang that lick. I'm sorry, I
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  Speaker 3: can even quite an engine and.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: Crazy, but yeah, literally stop having kids. If you're not
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 2: ready to be a parent. Heal your trauma. Please understand
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: your trauma as well. You could be healing something that
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 2: you don't know, Like, sit down, reflect your childhood life,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: your current life. What is it you're going through?
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 6: Uh?
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: And when you think about being a parent, are you
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: ready to pass that to your children or would you
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: want them to learn something different from you?
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 6: You know?
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: And man, because we need to grow a generation full
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: of love, full of understanding people care for them like
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: it's going to come, as sister, what to come?
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 6: I me me.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 2: I'm a victim of growing up with a very fucked
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: up father. A very loving mam, but a very fucked
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: up father, literally, and that at some point it almost
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: damaged me. And if not meeting the right group of people,
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: also sit with people who can advise you. Men, learn
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: to listen like catching his kiser. You don't have to answer,
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: because one thing I've learned in the spaces I was
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: I could find people who are telling me the truth.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 2: I don't want to listen to that shit. But later
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 2: on the nanny Kitch and even comeless literally is a
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: couple of times cons and we is to pisce me
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 2: the fuck off twenty twenty three. There's a time Comel
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: could sit me down and be a realistic shit about shit, Nicola,
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 2: like man An bow Man used to pisce me the
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 2: fuck off. But then I go sit down nicolake ah,
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: but that sense, and that makes sense. You just you
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: don't have to reply, You don't have to act like
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: you're paying attention to seem like you're that attentive person,
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: act like sometimes you don't can I go body, but
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 2: then sure you're you're capturing something from someone like go
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 2: sit down, digest or a reflectively if idea being honest,
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: cause hey, you don't want to pass trauma to your kids.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 2: And you don't want to die with trauma. You wanna
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: heal trauma, live life like because I feel like most
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: of the people are. They don't enjoy life because I're
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 2: gonna trauma and I'm to a juryanam a based any
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  Speaker 2: space is Flanny or Donna go out on a hangout.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 2: You just don't do ships, don'na be involved in life.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: Partic question nothing nona fuck up, fuck around, you know
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 2: and find out the way?
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, actual, fuck up, fuck around.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 2: And find out And that's the only way you can
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 2: learn and understand life. But with that being said, there
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: has been our time right here with you every Thursday,
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 2: every Tuesday, action time with me myself came lash and
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: money in the building and of course the same time,
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  Speaker 2: same place. Tune in later comelass is coming back with
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: the sports reviews in just an hour's time, and of course.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 6: We have me.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 3: Since you've talked about sports, we have to remind you,
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 3: just to remind you can donate two Champions League trophies
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 3: to and still have more Champions League trophies.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: Isn't the guy living in Manchester United? It's still the
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  Speaker 2: same guy, is the guy, oh, please talking, you want
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