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What's Happening at the courthouse: "My ex-husband cheated on me with my best friend" · "What's happening at the Courthouse?" with Rameez Khan

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  Speaker 1: For some prison is where it ends. For all court
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  Speaker 1: gives where it begins. TV show, This is the real world,
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  Speaker 1: and this is what's happening at the courthouse on KFM
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  Speaker 1: mornings point for me.
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  Speaker 2: And yesterday remy editors. Goodwood, Goodwood, Goodwood, great Wood. It's
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  Speaker 2: always great out in Goodwood. Eh, it's always fire.
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  Speaker 3: The suburbs always hold the darker stories.
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  Speaker 4: Un let's be real. Rebbies will get the people.
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  Speaker 2: Talking, Okay. So this is where he patrols the courthouses
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  Speaker 2: all over the Western Cape, Goodwood, the one yesterday, and
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  Speaker 2: he asks everybody one simple question, what.
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  Speaker 3: Are you doing at the courthouse today?
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  Speaker 5: To support My partner has been arrested for a case
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  Speaker 5: sexual assault.
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  Speaker 6: This is a very sea of things. How long do
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  Speaker 6: you know him?
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  Speaker 5: Five years? We've been seeing each other now for a year.
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  Speaker 3: You were telling me that the charge is completely false.
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  Speaker 5: A charge was later A kissed him from his ex
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  Speaker 5: is his baby mama. My partner, Mary kay is opened
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  Speaker 5: against the current boyfriend.
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  Speaker 3: So her current boyfriend for what the reason?
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  Speaker 5: They trespased his property and he pointed a firearm at
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  Speaker 5: your partner, at my partner in his house. They were
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  Speaker 5: intoxicated and He's obviously been animosity obviously. And what is
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  Speaker 5: so crazy about it is this incident happened while the
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  Speaker 5: kids was around, rapped in front of him, so the
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  Speaker 5: firearm was pointed at the dead front of Yes, of
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  Speaker 5: the age of four and two.
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  Speaker 6: Was the mother present when this happened, Okay, so she
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  Speaker 6: obviously really didn't regard her kids in this in this instance,
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  Speaker 6: I don't.
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  Speaker 5: Know what was going through her mind.
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  Speaker 3: At that time.
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  Speaker 6: Your partner then goes and layser case against his baby
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  Speaker 6: mama's boyfriend or partner. Then she goes and lays a
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  Speaker 6: sexual assault yes charge against him.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, So on the day that he appeared, she threatened
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  Speaker 5: my partner to say, I'm going to lay a case
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  Speaker 5: against you. You are going to jail. I'm going to
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  Speaker 5: be sure that you go to jail. It did nothing
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  Speaker 5: to her.
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  Speaker 3: Now he has been arrested and inside you.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, she knew it would be arrested immediately on a
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  Speaker 5: Schedule five case.
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  Speaker 3: But did she have proof of this though?
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  Speaker 5: It was a word and according to the case rappen
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  Speaker 5: on the fourth, but and she only opened it on
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  Speaker 5: the twenty six. So he's traumatized. This work is being
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  Speaker 5: affected itself that for that, she's taking advantage. She's just
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  Speaker 5: regarding the authority of the court. She should know. She
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  Speaker 5: shouldn't take it lightly to commit perjury as well.
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  Speaker 6: Obviously this is something that was completely unforeseen.
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  Speaker 5: This is just the word of mouth. And it's been
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  Speaker 5: two days now that he's been locked up.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, two days, that's crazy. Thank you very much for
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  Speaker 3: your time, Ma'm thank you. What are you doing at
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  Speaker 3: the courthouse today?
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  Speaker 7: I'm here for maintenance my ex husband. He came to
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  Speaker 7: appeal on the maintenance. She is not able to pay
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  Speaker 7: spousal maintenance and child.
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  Speaker 3: Maintenance for yourself and for your kid. How many kids
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  Speaker 3: do you have?
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  Speaker 7: I have two kids, but one with my ex husband.
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  Speaker 3: Now basic basis for one kid.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, basically it for one kid.
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  Speaker 3: And how come it's for yourself as well?
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  Speaker 7: During our marriage, my husband and during my pregnancy, my
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  Speaker 7: husband cheated on me with my best friend who loves
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  Speaker 7: opposite us. When I found out last year on January,
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  Speaker 7: he moved out by us and he started building a
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  Speaker 7: life with his girlfriend.
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  Speaker 3: Which is your ex best friend.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, yes, I bought house to get in everything there
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  Speaker 7: ever two month baby also now, oh and now we
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  Speaker 7: for the divorce was finalized in everything, but appealing that
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  Speaker 7: he won't be able to play spousal maintenance and the
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  Speaker 7: child maintenance.
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  Speaker 6: So basically the reason why, obviously the espousal maintenance is
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  Speaker 6: because you were so pregnant with your.
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  Speaker 3: Child and he didn't cheat.
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  Speaker 7: It Is that why he moved out when our baby
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  Speaker 7: was a month old?
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I moved out.
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  Speaker 7: And then started building a life with his girlfriend, his
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  Speaker 7: current girlfriend. Yet I didn't see the signs of the
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  Speaker 7: red flags. I didn't see any of it.
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  Speaker 4: She was like.
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  Speaker 7: Sleeping over by us. Oh I didn't see any Yes,
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  Speaker 7: I trusted both both of them with my life.
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  Speaker 3: How long do you know her?
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  Speaker 7: Since you were three years old?
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  Speaker 3: What?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah? She was like my mom's don't keep my sister.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, how are you feeling?
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  Speaker 7: I'm trying to Yeah, I need to go for my children.
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  Speaker 7: I need to say strong.
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  Speaker 3: It sounds like a story out of a movie.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, Yes, I think I can write a book. Yes,
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  Speaker 7: they also went for protection orders against me. Why apparently
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  Speaker 7: I rest him in everything, But that thing was sorted
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  Speaker 7: out here and tomorrow is was supposed to be our
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  Speaker 7: anniversary and today I'm here at good Whether.
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  Speaker 3: Is he here?
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  Speaker 2: Yes? Easier?
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  Speaker 3: How does he face you though, I.
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  Speaker 7: Don't think he feels anything, both of them. If I'm
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  Speaker 7: gonna lit sold me back, then where am I gonna
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  Speaker 7: get myself in life?
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  Speaker 3: Where do you see yourself after this?
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  Speaker 7: Successful? For my children, for myself? Like I said, I
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  Speaker 7: need to move forward. I need to show my daughters,
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  Speaker 7: my eldest one specifically, because she's starting year old. She
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  Speaker 7: knows everything that's going on, So I need to show up.
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  Speaker 7: It's not okay to be treated this way. True, it
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  Speaker 7: doesn't matter what life throws that you. You need to
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  Speaker 7: move forward. You need to work on to become what
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  Speaker 7: you need to become.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you very much for your time, man, Thank you,
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  Speaker 3: good attitude.
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  Speaker 4: Man, Sure the way I'm rooting for that woman?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Another love thy neighbor.
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  Speaker 4: Eh, but how heart breaking someone you saw as a sister,
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  Speaker 4: someone you trusted your entire life.
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  Speaker 2: You know they say most accidents happen within five ks
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  Speaker 2: of your house. I'm sure most cheating happens within one
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  Speaker 2: kilometer of your house.
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  Speaker 3: Yeay, within the same friend groups, work.
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  Speaker 2: Group, Yeah, most cheating happens within what's that the the
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  Speaker 2: degrees of separate six degrees? Six degrees? Like you pick
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  Speaker 2: anybody in the world. I think with cheating, probably one
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  Speaker 2: degree of separation. Hey hey, all right, that's what's happening
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  Speaker 2: out in Goodwood courthouses. Good job for me, Thank you
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  Speaker 2: very much your comments on over two nine four five
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  Speaker 2: zero nine four zero Frank on the way in fifteen minutes.
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  Speaker 2: It's a big one. Love it age hearing Sapphire here
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  Speaker 2: on k FM Mornings. All right, the courthouse? What's he
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  Speaker 2: gonna the courthouse with Ramis? I love your comments from
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  Speaker 2: the gallery. What are you saying today morning, guys?
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  Speaker 3: Motivation?
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  Speaker 2: I think that's what everybody in lives that lady there
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  Speaker 2: and all goes out to her with them positive.
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  Speaker 3: She's got you go gole you go, gole you.
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  Speaker 2: How's that guy leaves two months old?
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  Speaker 3: Baby? Babies are bad? Oaks? I said you.
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  Speaker 4: Also, it's so easy to judge that guy. But as
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  Speaker 4: the other woman, how do you think that this is
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  Speaker 4: a great deal for you?
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, which which which woman you're talking about?
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  Speaker 3: The best friend?
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  Speaker 2: Friend?
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  Speaker 4: Like, how do you think that is like a steal?
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  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I'm going to steal my my besties. Man,
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  Speaker 4: she's got a one month old at home. But that
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  Speaker 4: is the price to me that is my new man.
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  Speaker 4: Why would you want that? I would be petrified that
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  Speaker 4: this man would turn and leave me too. We've seen
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  Speaker 4: that story so many times, where you think you special
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  Speaker 4: and you're just not.
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  Speaker 2: You're just another stepping start. Well, you know.
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  Speaker 3: What's going on in the boobs?
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  Speaker 2: Why are you asking me? Everything that's happening is good
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  Speaker 2: ones far from me?
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  Speaker 4: No, no, but I mean blowberg, good words, birds and
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  Speaker 4: birds and birth.
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  Speaker 3: What are neighbors doing to each other? What are friends
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  Speaker 3: doing to each other?
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  Speaker 2: Scared?
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  Speaker 3: I'm scared guys giving desperate housewives.
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  Speaker 4: People are bored people honestly and like follow your dream
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  Speaker 4: Herald Compass.
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  Speaker 2: What did I say about marriage Advarsity the other day? Selfish?
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  Speaker 2: People are selfish, and that's what it is. If you
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  Speaker 2: want a happy marriage and you're not selfish, ninety percent
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  Speaker 2: of your problems go away.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, we're also talking about like a midlife crisis.
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  Speaker 5: And for a lot of people, a midlife crisis is pilates, but.
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  Speaker 3: For others it's cheating. Yeah, it's like, okay, but.
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  Speaker 4: I love this woman's attitude.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, she's going to be successful.
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  Speaker 3: We're all rooting for her.
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  Speaker 2: She seems strong. Just doo