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Scotty has a BIG announcement about his relationship.... · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Well, thanks for hanging out with us for another episode
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of Scotti and Abby Unfiltered. What
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  Speaker 1: a weekend history has officially been made. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: this is the moment in my life that if you
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  Speaker 1: would have asked me what was going to happen in anuary,
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  Speaker 1: I would have said no way.
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  Speaker 2: And I would have said, as it is on the
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  Speaker 2: record that this happening.
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  Speaker 1: I am so excited to be able to share what
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  Speaker 1: happened over the weekend, one of the best things and
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  Speaker 1: the best conversations I have had, and how that has
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  Speaker 1: forever changed me. And we're going to talk about that
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  Speaker 1: in a second. But I do also want to know
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  Speaker 1: because we had our Corona like pool party yesterday, and
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  Speaker 1: so that's why my voice is pretty rough right now
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  Speaker 1: because trying to talk over people while there's a DJ that's.
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  Speaker 3: Just just wrex me.
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  Speaker 2: It's exhausting.
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  Speaker 1: So we were out there in the sun having drinks,
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  Speaker 1: and as soon as I got back, I got a
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  Speaker 1: text from Abby that.
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  Speaker 3: Was like, you need to know the text that I
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  Speaker 3: just got.
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  Speaker 1: So I have no idea what is about to be
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  Speaker 1: talked about, what was shared, what is the tea that
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  Speaker 1: is about to be spilled. But my main question right
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  Speaker 1: away is did it have something to do with said party?
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  Speaker 2: No, okay, nothing to do with the party, has nothing
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  Speaker 2: to do with you. Oh god, I have nothing to
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  Speaker 2: do with the the day ending splash you gave for
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  Speaker 2: the girls and I'm just kidding. No, No, You're totally fine.
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  Speaker 2: Has nothing to do with you. And everything to do
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  Speaker 2: with the curse that may have been lifted upon me. Oh,
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  Speaker 2: I still feel like we need to hire a nutsy witch.
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  Speaker 2: I still feel like we need to do a sage ritual.
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  Speaker 2: But last week I was talking about how I feel
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  Speaker 2: like I had this curse on me that guys will
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  Speaker 2: ask me out and then just disappear, like they do
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  Speaker 2: the hard part and then they never follow through. I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: what is happening to where all these things are are
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  Speaker 2: going on to where I'm getting asked out by these
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  Speaker 2: guys that I'm into and then something just something just
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  Speaker 2: happens to where they just run off into the out.
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  Speaker 1: So many times, like it's so interesting because we've had
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  Speaker 1: a couple like good looking guys that we've like even
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  Speaker 1: you've met out in public or you like found them
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  Speaker 1: and you're having great conversation online and we're like, oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, they're doing the thing, and literally we never
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  Speaker 1: hear from them. It's not even like a Okay, no,
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  Speaker 1: I can't it's no other message.
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  Speaker 3: God.
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  Speaker 2: So anyway, I think I can't remember if it was
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  Speaker 2: last week of the week before, but I was telling
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  Speaker 2: you that one of our coworkers is setting me up
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  Speaker 2: with somebody. Yes. So we're at a raise game. One
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  Speaker 2: of our salespeople was like, oh my god, you're so cute,
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, I know, and she goes, I
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  Speaker 2: know someone who's super cute. Do you want me to
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  Speaker 2: set you up with them? And I was like, okay.
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  Speaker 2: I remember she showed me a photo for the gun.
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  Speaker 2: To my head, I could not tell you what this
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  Speaker 2: man looks like. I was like, I remember him having
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  Speaker 2: long brown hair, and that's my one thing. And I
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  Speaker 2: was like, yeah, I'll go all with them.
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  Speaker 3: That dude has hair, sign has long brown hair.
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  Speaker 2: I'm in and he has a house. Sure fire me up.
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  Speaker 2: So anyway, I say yes to this date and then
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  Speaker 2: I like, never hear anything about it again, except she
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  Speaker 2: keeps texting me being like, oh my god, let me
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  Speaker 2: know what he says, like I want all the tea.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, girl, like, there's no tea, And so in
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  Speaker 2: my head I'm thinking, okay, somewhere along the line, like
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  Speaker 2: she passed on my information and he was like hell no,
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  Speaker 2: like absolutely not, or like maybe he was into it,
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  Speaker 2: but then was kind of, you know, maybe his other hose.
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  Speaker 3: I have no idea.
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  Speaker 2: You got a roster, he's got a roster. So I
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  Speaker 2: just I was like, whatever is never happening. But our
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  Speaker 2: salesperson was like, at the very least, like one day
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  Speaker 2: we'll get out on the boat. I was like, well,
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  Speaker 2: maybe I'm getting a boat day out of this.
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  Speaker 3: The very least, at least there's a win. At least
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  Speaker 3: there's a boat.
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  Speaker 2: So anyway, long story short, I run into one of
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  Speaker 2: our sales lady's friends out at the Sapphire, this new
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  Speaker 2: club that just opened up near Eddie Vee's.
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  Speaker 1: I am, okay, just I hate to take it on
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  Speaker 1: a quick tangent. I'm so freaking jealous. I saw this
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  Speaker 1: place open up, uh huh, every bit of me wanted
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  Speaker 1: to go. So, like this place is supposed to be
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  Speaker 1: like fifties themed, yes, where it's like cocktail lounge, live music,
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  Speaker 1: but it's like, I don't know, like fifties music where
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  Speaker 1: it's like, what is it a guy in a piano.
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  Speaker 2: It's it feels like it's New Year's Eve every night
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  Speaker 2: at their place. Like that's that's how they're selling it.
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  Speaker 2: You and your lady would love it.
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  Speaker 3: How actually did you go in?
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  Speaker 2: So I made a new friend, a new connection here
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  Speaker 2: in Tampa that I'm like, uh, so, I guess this
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  Speaker 2: is another side tangent. I made a connection here in
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  Speaker 2: Tampa through just some business things. And this person who
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  Speaker 2: just keeps inviting me to the most exclusive things in
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  Speaker 2: Tampa Like it's actually so sick. I'm like, oh, this
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  Speaker 2: is lovely, Like thank you for bringing me out. I'm
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  Speaker 2: so grateful that you you think I'm cool enough to
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  Speaker 2: come to these places.
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  Speaker 3: That is so sick.
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  Speaker 1: Like Abby literally came into Tampa Bay already has one
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  Speaker 1: of the biggest, like matchmaking profiles in the area. Going
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  Speaker 1: to the most exclusive events. The aura that you bring
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  Speaker 1: is insane. I am so jealous.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, this person took me to stow Ball House. Have
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  Speaker 2: you heard of Stowvall House.
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  Speaker 1: No, see, I'm not even that fanstuses.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know anything.
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  Speaker 2: Apparently, so Stoveall House is like the Soho House of
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  Speaker 2: Tampa because there's no Soho House here. And if you
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  Speaker 2: don't know what Soho House is, Soho House is it's
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  Speaker 2: a member's social clubs. You pay a fee and then
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  Speaker 2: you have access to all these houses all around the world.
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  Speaker 2: They have like pools, hotels, restaurants, all these things. We
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  Speaker 2: don't have one. Timpa's like ooh yet, but we have
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  Speaker 2: Stowball House, which might be cooler than so all the
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  Speaker 2: SOHO houses combine. It's like this old historic home that's
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  Speaker 2: been restored into a member's club. So you pay a
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  Speaker 2: fee and there's a restaurant, there's gardens, there's events, there's
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  Speaker 2: what a bar. It's it's so cool. I'm trying to
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  Speaker 2: think of what I want to compare it to. But
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  Speaker 2: it feels like you're in some rich, old billionaires home.
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  Speaker 2: But he's throwing a house party. Yes, that's what it
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  Speaker 2: feels like. There's Picasso's on the wall. I mean, I
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  Speaker 2: don't even know if I'm really allowed to talk about this,
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  Speaker 2: but it's sick. And what's crazy is so I'm just kidding.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, whatever I'm going, I'm thinking, I'm just like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to stand how house. I meet this guy
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  Speaker 2: for ABEV last week to you know, talk about business
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  Speaker 2: and stuff, and I remember I was holding my phone,
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  Speaker 2: and I remember that we were in this conversation because
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  Speaker 2: this guy just knows everybody, He's very well connected. And
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  Speaker 2: so we're talking to these two people and this woman
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  Speaker 2: keeps looking down at my phone and I'm feeling so
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  Speaker 2: embarrassed I'm like, oh my god, like my cat photo,
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  Speaker 2: I'm really like such a slot because I you know,
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  Speaker 2: I just dressed up kind of like in smart casually.
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  Speaker 2: I have like a pink pencil skirt on or something.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, maybe I should have been a
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  Speaker 2: little bit more old money looking because it feels very
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  Speaker 2: country clubby. And this woman keeps looking down on my phone.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, this is so embarrassing. So I sit
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  Speaker 2: down and he goes, hey, I'm just letting you know
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  Speaker 2: you can't use your phone here. Oh oh, she was
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  Speaker 2: looking at my phone. She thought I was like recorded
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  Speaker 2: or something.
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  Speaker 1: Oh Jesus, you're about to get taken out before you
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  Speaker 1: even started.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 2: Meanwhile, I just gotten out of my uber. I have
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  Speaker 2: my headphones all wired around the phone, my cat on
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  Speaker 2: my home screen.
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  Speaker 3: I don't belong in this place.
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  Speaker 2: I'm in my I'm in my dsw heels that I've
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  Speaker 2: had since the eleventh grade. Like it's yeah, I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't belong here. So anyway, he took me to a
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  Speaker 2: still wall house and then invited me to the Sapphire
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  Speaker 2: the next night to interact with more people.
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  Speaker 1: It's great, good Lord, I don't like, where is one?
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  Speaker 1: Where's the extended invite?
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  Speaker 2: Well? I was like, I'm the plus one of the
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  Speaker 2: you know, I mean like I'm the plus one, So
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  Speaker 2: I don't know that I get the plus one, you
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  Speaker 2: know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: And this is the guy that I got to meet
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  Speaker 3: at the party.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, okay, and so one of his he has a
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  Speaker 2: business connection with Papa Bagels. So he's going to drop
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  Speaker 2: Papa Biggles to us later this week.
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  Speaker 3: That's freaking crazy, you know, I don't it's who you know,
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  Speaker 3: it's really who you know.
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  Speaker 2: But I thought it was cool that he wanted to
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  Speaker 2: know me. I was like, what, that's really sick.
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  Speaker 1: That's place you have made a splash in this area.
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  Speaker 1: Like that is so cool talking to you again side tangent.
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  Speaker 1: But like I talked to people, I'm like, yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I got a show going on. They're like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, I see you're all over my pages. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's because that girl is a genius when it comes
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  Speaker 1: to content.
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  Speaker 3: So kudos to you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad it's getting you into places that I don't
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  Speaker 1: even know about. Fantastic.
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  Speaker 3: I've only been here for twelve I'm gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Get you into Stowall house. I'm gonna make you my
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  Speaker 2: plus one plus one.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, extend the invite because it is very cool.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I can't afford to be here, but I
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  Speaker 2: do love coming here for above.
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  Speaker 3: Is there any idea of like what it costs?
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  Speaker 1: I it has to be stupid expensive if it's going
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  Speaker 1: to be like that kind of membership I'm thinking to
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  Speaker 1: be a member.
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  Speaker 2: I think there's a waiting list, Like I think you
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  Speaker 2: have to get sponsored by a member. Okay, first of all,
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  Speaker 2: let me show you the photo.
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  Speaker 3: Oh lord, that it's like a yearly membership. I'm gonna say,
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  Speaker 3: oh my god, where is this.
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  Speaker 2: It's on Base Shore. It's like four miles from where
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  Speaker 2: I live.
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  Speaker 3: Holy crap. That looks like it's a big, beautiful white house.
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  Speaker 1: And if it's on Bay Short, it's right on the
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  Speaker 1: most beautiful part of Tampa Bay.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so okay, you know what, it's actually not as
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  Speaker 2: bad as I thought it was gonna be.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, you or less ten thousand.
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  Speaker 2: You can be a junior member, so up until you're
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  Speaker 2: thirty five. Oh, that's like your The initiation fee is
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  Speaker 2: five k okay, and the monthly dues are three hundred.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so not as much as I was thinking.
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  Speaker 2: That's well, let me tell you what the what the
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  Speaker 2: once you all hit once you hit thirty six, which
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  Speaker 2: I guess makes sense because I'm assuming if you're a
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  Speaker 2: big business person in Tampa, like you know this is,
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  Speaker 2: you're gonna be making enough money to where I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: maybe this is a business.
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  Speaker 3: Right as long as you can make it work for
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  Speaker 3: your business, use it.
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  Speaker 2: So the initiation fee if you're thirty six years or
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  Speaker 2: older is thirty K, and then the monthly dues are
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  Speaker 2: three twenty five. All right, it is pretty crazy that.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, if you're young, you can join for literally nothing.
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  Speaker 2: I mean not literally nothing, but compared to thirty k,
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  Speaker 2: I am crazy.
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  Speaker 1: But again, like I think of, the big thing is
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  Speaker 1: like sometimes you hear those numbers and you're like, oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, I made one connection in my life, Like
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  Speaker 1: literally I got a coach, and I remember I got
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  Speaker 1: a coach, and I was like, oh my god, this
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  Speaker 1: is such an expense. That coach, within like a couple
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  Speaker 1: of weeks was able to help me get the rays
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  Speaker 1: that I've always wanted in this building, like within weeks
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  Speaker 1: of hiring. So it's not even like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: it's so much money. It's what you could do when
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  Speaker 1: you're now in those rooms. So if you spend that
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  Speaker 1: and you meet the right person when you're in this
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  Speaker 1: house I'm maybe not how to spell this name, that
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  Speaker 1: could help you get a job that you're making so
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  Speaker 1: much more than maybe you're making.
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  Speaker 2: Now, that's the whole benefit, honestly, I think. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: especially up until thirty five, when you really need to
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  Speaker 2: build your network. I mean, it's a lot of money.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be like, oh it's only five
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  Speaker 2: thousand dollars and then it's a lot. It's a lot
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  Speaker 2: of money. But if you if you're in business, I
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  Speaker 2: mean I see how it would be a huge benefit.
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  Speaker 1: Heck yeah, especially like entrepreneurs that are like I need
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  Speaker 1: somebody to help fund this invest that's dope.
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  Speaker 2: Most of the food's really good.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, it wouldn't hurt.
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  Speaker 2: I had some hot chocolatechip cookies. They were religious.
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  Speaker 3: The foods really good. The chocolate chip cookies are the
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  Speaker 3: king there.
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  Speaker 2: Anyway, I've taken us on a crazy tangent. What were
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  Speaker 2: we talking about?
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  Speaker 3: The guy?
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  Speaker 1: So you're ending the spell, So you were talking about
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  Speaker 1: how you went to the Sapphire and the guy that
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  Speaker 1: Scotty was hooking you up with.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, where were we in the story?
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  Speaker 3: You got to the point where you went to the sapphire.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so I went to the Sapphire. Oh, and so
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  Speaker 2: I was again this guy knows everybody. So he goes, oh,
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  Speaker 2: I want you to meet my friend Blue blah blo
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  Speaker 2: boo boo. And I go, oh, hey. And so it's
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  Speaker 2: this woman. And so I'm chatting with this woman. She's
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  Speaker 2: so nice, and I'm telling her what I do for work,
• 11:29
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, yeah, I work for Magic ninety
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  Speaker 2: four nine. And she goes, oh my god, like my
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  Speaker 2: best best friend is a salesperson for Cox Media Group.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, who is it. She goes, Oh, it's
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  Speaker 2: blah blah blah blah blah. I was like, are you
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  Speaker 2: judy me?
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  Speaker 3: I love her.
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  Speaker 2: So we took a selfie and we sent it to her.
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  Speaker 2: And I think it's that selfie that maybe nudged things along,
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  Speaker 2: because then Sunday night, I finally get a text message
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  Speaker 2: from that mutual friend. Because I was talking to that woman.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I was laughing with her. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, look at my text messages with blah blah blah,
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  Speaker 2: because we're literally just talking about this guy that she's
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  Speaker 2: trying to set me up with. I'm like, he won't
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  Speaker 2: hit me up. I don't know what's going on. So
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  Speaker 2: we were laughing about that. So anyway, I think bumping
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  Speaker 2: into her nudge things along. So then I eventually got
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  Speaker 2: a text message from this man on Sunday.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, so we actually got something finally. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: it's amazing. He was.
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  Speaker 2: He was very enthusiastic, which I'm glad he was because
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  Speaker 2: I was kind of like, I feel like his mom
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  Speaker 2: is just like gun to his head, like Texas girl, you.
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  Speaker 3: Better text her right now, and if you don't, you're
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  Speaker 3: browning my friendship.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure he was just busy like that was my
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  Speaker 1: kind of assumption, is one he's busy too. It's always
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  Speaker 1: interesting when a friend's trying to hook you up because
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  Speaker 1: you're like, is the actual person interested in me?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Like are they truly? Are you just trying to do
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  Speaker 1: this again when you set me up with somebody? But
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  Speaker 1: he did text you now as is there something on
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  Speaker 1: the books?
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  Speaker 2: So I'll fill you in. I feel bad I'm putting
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  Speaker 2: this dude on blast boat.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, like he doesn't have.
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  Speaker 1: The weird thing about this job is that could also
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  Speaker 1: be our faults of like we always talk about these things,
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  Speaker 1: and the person hears that, they're like, Okay, this is
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  Speaker 1: not what I signed up for, So you are more
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  Speaker 1: than welcome to say you know what.
• 12:58
  Speaker 3: That's where it is.
• 12:59
  Speaker 2: And well, I'll basically just tell you that he texted
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: me a jiff of some guy dunking and he said, Hey,
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: it's blah blah blah, my mom, give me your number.
• 13:07
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure this is how she feels right now
• 13:09
  Speaker 2: with the dunk like the same dog. And I was like, oh,
• 13:11
  Speaker 2: it's so nice. And then we basically just started talking
• 13:13
  Speaker 2: about when we're gonna link up, and I haven't heard anything.
• 13:17
  Speaker 3: I love that.
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, it started now now it's just again, it's just
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: having fun and seeing what happens, and I like and
• 13:23
  Speaker 1: I'll end it after this just in case he finds
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: a way to listen to this.
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: Oh they always listen.
• 13:28
  Speaker 3: I know he's listening.
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: Actually, let's wave to him right now.
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: Hey, Well, I was gonna give him kudos because that
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: opening text is actually really cool.
• 13:35
  Speaker 2: I was really sweet. Here's my question though, and I'll
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: bring this up. And I have no shame in him
• 13:39
  Speaker 2: hearing this because I would bring this up. So he
• 13:43
  Speaker 2: texted me, he goes, Actually, I've been listening to your
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: station every time I go into work in the morning.
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: You've got a new fan. You guys are crushing it.
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, that's so nice. But then
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: this is where I got confusing. So then I responded,
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: blah blah blah blah blah. He sends me another text
• 13:56
  Speaker 2: and she goes, She goes, and he goes, is your
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: work in norm nine to five? I'd love to meet
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: you soon? And I was like, so, if you're listening
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: to me in the morning, are you are? You know
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: I am not at work from nine to five. I'm like, so,
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: I'm like, is he listening? Is he lying to me
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: just to butter me.
• 14:16
  Speaker 3: Up this to get you all?
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: Is he accidentally listening to Alexia thinking it's.
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's following him up with Alexia thinking
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: it's me that's so funny. But then I'm thinking, is
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: he listening to Unfiltered thinking it's the full time job?
• 14:31
  Speaker 3: Oh man?
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: I mean, if he's listening and Unfiltered, well at least
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: he's getting the full version of you. Yeah, at least
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: he knows what he's stepping into. If he hasn't, well
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: he's in for a nice surprise. Get a little nine
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: am action, you know, maybe goes into work a little later.
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: He just hears us during the commercial free hour.
• 14:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, just having like a little seven seconds chat.
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: I hope everything, Like I I hope the first date
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: is really fun because I've heard a lot of fun
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: dates that from friends recently where it's like I was
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: talking to friend yesterday They're like, yeah, our first date
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: was a Savannah Banana's game, and I was like, what
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: a legendary first date.
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: That sets the bar so high. Though, but this.
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: Guy seems like you would do something that would be
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: not in that same vein, but different than just like
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: a let's go meet for something super casual like coffee,
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: Like it might be a little extra spicy than that.
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: Here's the thing. I'm happy to meet.
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: For coffee, I know, but it has to be like
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: maybe a cool coffee shop, like a coffee in a walk.
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: Like it seems like he's willing to do the extra step,
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: which I love when guys do this because I'm like, guys,
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: if you want to be somebody that stands out literally,
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: just do like one step more because so many guys
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: are like, all right, I'm just going to say what's
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: up and when we set up a date, and I'm
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: just gonna leave it at that. I'm like, put a
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: little effort in, like you know most people or they're
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: not asking for much, they're just asking for effort. Be
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: that person that does the extra step.
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: I just want to make a go on a date
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: with me?
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: Well that would help to at this point.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: I'm like, can we get to the date. But I'm like, yeah,
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: I'm when it comes to the beginning a relationship, I
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: just want to meet and see if we vibe and
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: and then go from there. Because I will say, I'm
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: a little bit nervous about dating someone who knows somebody
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: at work. Yeah, but that makes sense, Yes, Oh it
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: absolutely doesn't. And I'm like, I'm a little nervous because
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: I don't want to what if I don't like him,
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean? And then isn't going to
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: be become a thing?
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: Well I did.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: I had a situation a couple months ago, and I'm like,
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: when I was just stepping into the dating scene and
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: we had like this whole friend circle, and then me
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: and this person were kind of talking and once that
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: like completely crumbled like fire and flames, Like I haven't
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: been able to talk to the rest of the friend group.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: It's been months now, and I'm like, oh, that kind
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: of sucks. I feel like I should reach out individually.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: But I'm like, also, maybe that was the chapter that
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: needed to close everything.
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: I don't think that.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: Would happen in your case as long as nobody does
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: anything insane now.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: And let's say I haven't done anything insane in my
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: dating relationships in the past, but it's ever too late.
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: Maybe he's crazy.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, it would be fun. I mean,
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: I think it's going to be fun.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: I'm excited for the first date whenever that happens, whatever
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: it is, and we don't have to share anything.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: Else about it. That's well.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: I mean, we haven't set up anything yet, so we'll
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: see if you text me back. That's because listen, that's
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: my curse. They asked me out, then they go.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: Up, no thanks, We'll bring in our shaman, our Facebook
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: marketplace shaman. This weekend was also very adventurous in my
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: life in the dating world.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: It was I know.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: Well, I will say one of the coolest moments that
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: happened before the story that I'm about to share is obviously,
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: if you've been a part of this podcast, you've heard
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: the saga of this, let's say relationship for me and
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: I am going to go ahead.
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: And it's fine if you say.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: Scott, you literally said months ago you are not going
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: to get into a relationship. And I got on here
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: and I said, I am not going to get in
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: a relationship.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: I am going to be single.
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: And what did I say?
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: You said, that's bull Yeah, those bull crap. Well, here's
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: the deal.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: At the beginning this year, I was casually dating and
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: I was casually just seeing like what what does life
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: look like as a single guy? And it was fun
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: and there was a couple like little meetups, so little connections,
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: but nothing in that moment ever felt like I was
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: going to step into a relationship.
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: After two days, Scott was like, I've seen what I
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: needed to see. You need to go back into a relationship.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Well it's fascinating because if that was the case with
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: how those dates went, I could have easily been single
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: all year because I was like, I'm not gonna do
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: something unless it's truly worth it. Now, if you've heard
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: the podcast this, it was many months ago at this
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: point where I went on this date and I opened
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: the door, and it was literally like I knew in
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: that moment that this was different than anything else I've experienced,
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: and I knew that everything that I said prior to
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: that was a bunch of bs that me trying to
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: be as soon as I opened the door on the
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: first date. This is the date that went on for
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: twelve hours, that we explored pretty much every little pocket
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: of Saint Pete. That the conversation never died and it
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: never has. And so over the past couple months, we've
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: gone on some of the most adventurous dates. We've had
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: some of the most fun making our friends, meeting new people,
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: integrating our lives. And one of the conversations I got
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: to have last week that I kind of shared with
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: you a little bit in the last podcast is we
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: did a cute date where like I just I facetimed
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: her and we cooked dinner together because we're kind of
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: doing a little distance right now, and I thought this
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: was super sweet because we're making the same meal at
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: the same time as wo We're together, but she also said, Hey,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: my parents will be here, just letting you know. I
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: figured maybe they're just in the background, maybe they'll just
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: kind of just be passing by the phone every now
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: and then I get on the FaceTime and immediately, for
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: the first time ever, her mom literally takes the phone,
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: pops it over to her face, and starts talking to me.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so I have the first parent interaction
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: happening right now. Her mom knows about but now we're
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: actually talking and jump scared. At first, I was so
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: nervous because I'm like, first off, her mom speaks Spanish.
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: I am not that efficient in Spanish.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: Does she speak English or just only Spanish?
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Both okay, but mostly Spanish, where I'm mostly English with
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: a lot of practice trying to get really good at Spanish.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: And it was for this reason because I was like,
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: when I meet them, I want to make sure that
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: I'm speaking Spanish and I show that I put an effort. Well,
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: she gets on the phone and we start going back
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: and forth, and I'm using as much Spanish as I can,
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: but then we're laughing. Then we have these little jokes
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: going on back and forth. She leaves the phone back
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: and I just hear the laughter back and forth between
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: these two, and so all those nerves that I had
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: built up, Like immediately I was like, oh my gosh,
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: this is so cool. Like it feels like I already
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: have a connection with her mom, like I already have
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: trust in her her parents, And I knew in that moment,
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: I was like, this is I knew I wanted this
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: moment to happen because of what was going to happen next.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: And so I already had planned that week. I mean,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: we've been dating at this point for nearly three months,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: and I knew from the very first month, I was like, Okay, yeah,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm serious about this one.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: I'm locking this one down.
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I'm not interested in anybody.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: I'm not looking at any other dates, cancel out anything
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: else planned. I am focused purely because I know this
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: is something special. And so this weekend, I knew I
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: wanted to make it official, and so I set up
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: this whole plan where after we went out, we would
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: come back and I wanted to do something that I
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: really showed that every single time we've dated, I took notes,
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: I took notes on what we did, what we talked about.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure that I had a running
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: list of all these extraordinary moments, because what happens is
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: it starts the compound and you're like, oh, one moment
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: leads to another, and all these moments are so special,
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: but it shows how you've progressed in a relationship. And
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: so without revealing all the details, because I like some
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: of the things that I get to keep private with her,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: I showed her that I wrote down everything.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: You don't want to share. She told me about it,
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: about how you did. I think that's so beautiful and creative.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: You don't want to share that.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: I'll share one of the things I did because I
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: think this is the moment that I'm super proud of.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Because this is not something I got from CHADGBT. This
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: is not something I saw on a movie. This was
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: something that literally came to me, and I was like,
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: I want to do this because it showcases who we
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: are and where we're going. And I got ourselves a notebook,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: and in that notebook.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: I created our story.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: What I did was one of the first things that
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: we did because she had to move back to Florida and.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: One of the first dates.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: And I talked about this many podcasts ago because you
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: guys were telling me that there might be a little
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: too much. But on the second day, we went out
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: to the beach. One of the things that she craved
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: the most when she was moved away is coming back
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: and seeing the water, and I was like, I want
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: to do this.
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: She shared it on the first date.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: It was one of her most special places to go,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: and so I was like, I'm taking you there. We
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: got up five am, she came over to my house
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: and we drove over to the beach. Her favorite spot
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: in Tampa Bay to see the sunrise. So it's right
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: by this pastry shop, she was telling me. And so
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: we sat there on the beach and one of the
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: most fun memories for me is as soon as we
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: got there, you could see someone's joy just be brought
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: back into their soul. It's a place that brings back memories,
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: that brings back peace. And then while those days, on
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: that same date, we walked the beach and I just
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: love that every time that she found like a sea
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: shell that she truly loved, like she'd pick it up.
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: It was like just little moments that brought so much joy.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: And so for the past couple of weeks, i'd hit
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: the beach solo and I went out recently with my brother,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: and I wanted to pick up a shell that reminded
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: me of every memory that we've created over the past
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: couple months. And so I collected all these shells. And
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: pretty much what I did is I collected all these
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: shells and I gave them to her, and I said,
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: every shell represents a memory that we've made up unto
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: this point. And so she'd.
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: Pick a shell and I'd share the memory.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: And at the end, because again her family speaks Spanish,
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to learn Spanish. I wanted to show that
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: I'm continuously putting an effort. I asked her to be
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend in Spanish.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: Like on my therape shared he said, be my girlfriend
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: in Spanish.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: And so it is official. I have a girlfriend, which
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: feels crazy to say.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: Which is crazy because I think I've been calling her
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: your girlfriend the last two months.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: And that's kind of the funny thing is is like
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: I was waiting to really make sure that, like one,
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: I didn't want to rush her. I didn't want to
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: rush this. I didn't want to rush anything that needed
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: I already knew. And so there didn't need to be
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: any pressure. Yeah, but when we went out a couple
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: of weeks, I'll be saying to our friend groups like,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, this is Scott's girlfriend. And then she was
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: just laughing and so on board with it, and she's like, yeah,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: I mean, why, you know, what, what is up with
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: that official thing?
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: I was like, don't worry, I got something in the work.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: It is coming together. But I don't do anything ordinary.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: I don't do anything just as the base bar. Like,
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure that it was a memory.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure that it was a moment.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: And so yes, I am a boyfriend, I have a girlfriend,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: and you'll thank nova.
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: See that's so beautiful.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: It is very exciting, and I'm very very grateful that one.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: It went even better than I could have anticipated. I
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: had no idea how it was going to go, but
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: I knew it was going to go well, and I
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: knew this was what I wanted as soon as I
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: opened the door many months ago. I knew exactly this
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: is the moment that I was shooting for. So now
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: the story continues.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: It's so beautiful. So what next? Where you asking her
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: to marry you?
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: God, Jesus Christ.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: But you always have some kind of romantic venture lined up.
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: So what's next for you guys?
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: I you know, now, what's exciting is we have like
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: a list of dates that we have a little distance
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: in between us with literally where we live, so we
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: can only see each other on the weekends. So as
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: much as there's things that I want to do, we
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: have to be very patient. Yeah, it's very patient. But
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: I could reveal this. One of the things that I
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: have is I'm finally going to bring her to my hometown. Oh,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: I'm going to a wedding for one of my best
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: friends over in zero.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: Very exciting.
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: I remember we talked about this about whether or not
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: it was too soon for her to come to the wedding.
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: Well, she's coming to the wedding.
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: That's all right. When's the wedding June.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: It's in June, so we're like just a couple of
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: weeks away.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: She's gonna get to meet some of like the guys
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: that I grew up with and see some of my
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: closest friends. She's gonna be able to see the town
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: that I talk about. She's gonna be able to meet
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: my dad, which that's cool. Am my dogs. So that's
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: the biggest thing that's coming up right now because now
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: we get to do those things together plus ones two events,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: we get to go on double dates with friends.
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: Because now me novell brag.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: A little more. Why don't you because you want to
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: know what. I got a text. I don't know if
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: I've talked about this on the podcast yet, but I
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: got a text from my brother's fiance a couple of
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: weeks ago, and she goes, remind me what your plus
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: one's name is, son of a gun because I did
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: RSVP because you know it's my parents are paying for
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: some of the weddings, so they're like, yeah, we can
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: get a plus one. But the problem is is this
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: wedding is on July fourth, so like all my close
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: friends have plans. Yeah, and so I'm like, you know,
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: maybe I'll get a boyfriend by then. I'm like, I'm
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: manifesting it because last year I was like, yeah, I'm
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: gonna be engaged at my brother's wedding. I was putting
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: it onto the universe, and then here I am, I
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: can't even get a freeing first date. Shut up, you're
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: the worst.
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: You're the one laughing.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: And so She's like, so, what's what's his name? And
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: I just like didn't respond, and she goes, we can
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: just leave it blay for now.
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: You know, why do they need a name? It's fine
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: write it on a peg when we get to the
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: actual day on the little paper.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: Because my my best friend in Virginia, she always does things.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: I think her mom's birthday is July fourth. And then
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: I have another my other close friend, Taylor, Like she
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: always does really cool, fun things, and so I don't
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: want to drag her to my family wedding.
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: Well what's more fun than a wedding.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's free food, it's free drinks, the beautiful venue,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: there's dancing.
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, my family's a lot though, but they're gonna be
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: hanging out with you.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: And then you guys get to mingle together when it's like,
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: oh my god, did you hear what your uncle said?
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: And it's like, yeah, that's that's so true. I actually
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: do kind of need an ally. But the thing is
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: I'm a bridesmaid, so I'm gonna be with the bridal
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: party all day, damn it, you know what I mean.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: And it's like, you have a job up until the reception,
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: and so I don't want to do that to any
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: of my friends where it's like be by yourself. Although
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: they would get a stay at a nice resort.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's a perk and they could just sit by.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: Is there a pool. Here is a pool, they could
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: sit by the pool. Look at it as a staycation
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: for them or a vacation for them. You're doing them
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: a service. That's actually so nice of you as a friend.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: You're helping them escape their family, their family drama, maybe
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: a day off of work, their.
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: Fun plans in July at least, come be with me
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: and my family and all the fights we're gonna get into.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: Skiddy, I was like, is there anybody in your family that, like,
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to think when I comes to my family.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: I have such a small family, but I'm super close
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: with like my cousins, Like, is.
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: Anybody that you're like, Oh, it's so cool to see
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: them again.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: I mean I see my family all the time. They
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: all live here, and there's nobody that I'm like, oh
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: my god, it's been so long. I'm like, there you
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: are again.
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: I mean maybe it could be you know this this
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: I'm not eve gonna say it though.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: What I was gonna say the guy that just sent
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: a text like, if it's starting, I'm.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: Going to bring well. Okay, so if it's May, you
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: got eight today, I have a month and a half. Listen.
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: If I'm always quickly as you move, we will be
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: engaged by my brother's winning.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: You know, you know I don't even a lot of
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: people have said that, like Scott, you moved so quick.
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: I'm like, look, I was not planning on this. I
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: was not. But when you when you know that feeling,
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: I listen. I'm I'm the biggest hater when it comes
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: to people in the wrong relationships. I was pushing you
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: out of that other relationship because I knew it wasn't right,
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: Like you're I really feel like you're in a good position.
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: That is such a good point.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: I was thinking about that a lot, Like imagine, like
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: the way I was talking about some of the people
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: at the beginning of this year versus the way I
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: came in after that first date.
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: That is the prime example.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: There's a clear difference. I'm telling you, that's what everyone's after,
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: and I think that's what everyone deserves. So when I
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: saw that you had it, I was like, oh, I'm
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: on board. Yeah, also your ladies great, you know what
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: I mean. Like I've known her like acquaintance wise for
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: for a year or so.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: And she got to meet some of my friends over
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: this past weekend, which is super nice, some of the
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: people that are closest to me. So it's nice that
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: now we're at that chapter where it's like, oh, yeah,
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: I meet some of the people that truly know, like
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: my heart and my soul. And so when we go
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: out to events, you already have faces that you know,
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: and I already feel I met some of her friends
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: yesterdayt the pool party, and I'm like, what the hell
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: is up with your friends? When it's like all of
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: them seem so chill and so easy to talk to,
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: Like it's so easy. Yeah, It's like I'm waiting for
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: like some shooter drop, like do you have a crazy friend,
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: like one that actually is going to hate me?
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: And so far, everybody's just been so supportive.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: Side note, she got kind of sick yesterday.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: She okay, yeah, she's fine, Okay, cool, she's fine.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: We came back and it was so nice, Like, I
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: don't know how you do it after a party, but
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: I need to. Friday, I worked and I am seed
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: An event.
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: It was incredible.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: Saturday, I worked and I am Seen an event. It
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: was all day in the sun. And then Sunday we
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: did the pool party. I looked forward to nothing more
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: than getting home and just doing nothing on the couch
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: except for ordering Uber Eats.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: Got like a ton of like Thai food. Oh yeah,
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: and then we watched Off Campus.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, and I forgot that we have to
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: catch up on that too. We don't have time.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: Today, but I will. I'm okay. Then we could say
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: this for tomorrow before.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: I mean, do we have what we have twelve minutes now?
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: We should probably because there's things I want to dive
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: into on the show.
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: Because as stupid as I thought this show is going
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: to be, I.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: Thought the show was going to be stupid.
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: I am so addicted. It's so good. I could not stop.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: Like literally last night, I'm like, we got to do
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: another episode, like we got just I know, I was
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: supposed to only watch two, but let's watch three.
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: And then I got a finish four.
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: You finished three or you finished.
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: I finished three? I started the fourth.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: Okay, the fourth episode is my favorite.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: I'm so excited.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: I will watch that one today because, like I was like,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: this is gonna be dumb, but.
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: You know what, as dumb and corny.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: As it is, kudos, it's good and it hits on
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: like as it's so funny because it's like corny, but
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: it hits on such great dynamics and like relationships and
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: in friendships that you're like, yeah, they're doing it in
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: a corny way, but like that's legit. Like I want
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: to dive into some of those things on the podcast tomorrow,
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: and I know one of the things we want to
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: talk about is what are the scenes or what are
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: the movements and all.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: That, Oh, the things that you notice versus what I
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: would notice.
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: Yes, that are quote unquote sexy.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're extremely attractive, and just like that would get
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: your attention.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: And then the show gets surprisingly deep after episode five
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: or six, Oh lord will be six is when it
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: gets deep. I don't know, it seems like.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: It's building to that. Yes, they started to have little
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: moments like I think the start of episode.
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: Four is like whoo oh yeah. Yeah.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: I was like, okay, we're you know what. But I
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: like the conversation. I do like when shows go there
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: because I'm like, Okay, you're having the conversation that maybe
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: a lot of us don't know how to have, but
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: it also opens the conversation for other people. So I'm
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: very excited. We'll dive into that. We got to go
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: into another sales meeting. I want to give a shout out.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know, we have some sales people here that listen,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: maybe some promo people, and I do want to leave
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: with this shout out to the promo team from yesterday.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: Dude, shout out to the promo.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: Team like that junk was ridiculous at the pool party.
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: We were leaving now, I was like, do y'all need help?
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: And I could see in their eyes they wanted to
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: say yes, but they're like, no, we're fine, We're fine.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: I mean, the setup was beautiful.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: It looks so good. They killed it.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think it was such a great like
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: setting point for where we want to go with these events. Yeah,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: a lot of work, but so much fun had. You know,
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: well over one hundred people at this pool party. And
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: so now we get to start planning the next one.
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, when's the next Can we announce when?
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: I don't think so.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: I'm excited about that location.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Again, and that's something we could say, is that the
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: Moxie Hotel. If you ever in the Saint Pete area,
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: if you live here, then definitely check that out.
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: But gorgeous.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: I don't know how many rooftop pools there are, but
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: that one's like the best location to see downtown Saint Pete.
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: It's right next to the trap. Oh yeah, yeah, and.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: It was nice in side note, because Friday, I'm launching
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: my Trampa Bay Girls trip. If you're like, oh my god,
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: that hotel looks so cool, that rooftop looks so fun,
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: that's where we're staying and we're doing a rooftop pool
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: party on Sunday. Alexia is doing it with Saint Pete gals.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: Oh that's sick.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's kind of like a Trampa Bay getaway
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: x Saint Pete goals. Like Alexi is going to be
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: a part of a lot of the events, like she's
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: bringing some girls down, she's hosting the pool party on Sunday.
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: So if you thought it looked fun, did.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: You already start sharing like some of the things that
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: you're gonna do, because I saw you post a.
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: Couple of things.
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: Yes, I've started sharing the itinerary because I finally locked
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: it down and because I was trying to see how
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: many sponsors I could get on board, to like see
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: how low I could get the price. And so it's
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: seven nine. It goes live on Friday on The Girls
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: Gonna Get Away's Instagram. There's twelve spots and it's all
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: shared rooms at the Moxie Hotel and it's gonna be
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: super vimun So.
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: That includes this day.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: That includes like, yeah, so it's three nights at the Moxie.
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: I know it's a really good deal.
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: I was like, that's it, like right there alone boom, Yeah, three.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: Nights at the Moxie. Friday, we're doing dinner at Sparrow,
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: which is that really cool rooftop restaurant, and then we're
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: taking a party bus to show Bar, which is the
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: you love that piano bar.
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: I love show Bar. Oh that is a good time
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: in the board.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: That's gonna be a good time. And then the party
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: bus will take us back to the hotel and then
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Saturday it's a sandbar cruise and then dinner reservations. I
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: think I'm gonna do Olivia.
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love Olivia.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: That would be incredible. Yes, I still have not gone
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: to Olivia. But whenever you talk to people in Tampa
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: Bay one it's beautiful, yes, but two like people rave
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: about the food.
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: Olivia is so good. And then Sunday's the pool party
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: with Alexia and all of Saint Pete Al. That'll be fun.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: I'm actually really jealous about this. I kinda I at
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: least want to go to the pool party.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: Oh no, come, and you should come to show Bar too.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: We were him on the party bus.
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: Maybe because you have the connection with yourment, you're the
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: reason why. Yeah, that's going to show Bar. So you
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: should come to that, and should come to the pool
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: party obviously, because the pool party is co ed too.
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: So if you're like a single gal and you're like,
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: I want to meet hot guys in Tampa pool party,
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: pool party, and then we're gonna go to Noble Tavern
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: that night.
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: Holy crap, I know that is you. That is incredible.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: I am so jealous.
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: I know so Scotty, you'll be a part of the weekend, Alexi,
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: you'll be a part of the weekend. I think my
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: mom's coming down too. So if you've been seeing some
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: of my trips and you're like, oh my god, I
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: want to go. But like, when six thousand dollars go
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: to fucking grease, that's a lot of money. I'm like, yeah,
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: I totally agree. This is a great way to have
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: a really fun.
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: Rowdy weekend. It will be a little rowdy.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: I will say, Oh, we're doing a workout class at
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: Peach Pump. Forgot about that too, Peach Bump.
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: They're gonna be working on the booty and then we be.
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: Working on the booty. It's an all women's workout class
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: just for the lower body. Oh and I think Rebecca's
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: coming to Rebecca my old coworker. Good lord, Yeah, this
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: thing is stacked. It's gonna be I'm like so excited.
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: It's in August.
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: It's in August. It's the twenty first, of the twenty fourth. Wow.
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: Okay, well that's really cool. I'm jealous.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: Well I'm glad I get to be part of it
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: because I was like, that sounds like a good time. Well,
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: all right, we're gonna hop off. If you want all
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: that info, hit up Abby Abby, what's your socials.
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: At the Abby Murphy or go to at Girls Gun
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: Getaways on Instagram. That's where you'll see the link. On
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: Friday at.
• 36:18
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• 36:21
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• 36:24
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• 36:26
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• 36:28
  Speaker 2: Shout out Beatbox.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: You know, they're also, like I said, if this is
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: your first time here on the podcast, they want to
• 36:32
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• 36:33
  Speaker 3: Beatbox, send you to Bonnaroo.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: They're also want to give somebody one thousand dollars five
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: hundred dollars in gas money so you can actually go
• 36:39
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• 36:41
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• 36:43
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• 36:47
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• 36:49
  Speaker 3: We'll be back tomorrow