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One of the Easiest, Most Potent Manifestation Hacks · All In with Allie

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In today's episode, we are going to talk about one of the easiest,
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most potent manifestation hats that you can do anytime, anywhere, instantly. It
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is powerful, it works, it's proven. I'm fired up. Let's go.
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Welcome to Allline with Ali podcast, the podcast for online business owners and
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entrepreneurs who are ready to create the life and business of their dreams. I
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am so happy you are here. All right, So we all know what
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manifesting is, right. It's conscious creation, it's co creation. It's you
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realizing that you do play a role in what it is that you create on
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this planet. And it's you simply being intentional about it. They talk about
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it in the Bible. You can. I mean, it's not a new
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subject, right. I feel like I don't need to give any kind of
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intro to what manifesting is. And you know that it's not a bad thing.
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It's nothing to be ashamed of, is nothing to be scared of.
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Everybody does it, whether they realize it or not. Even when you're not
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aware that you're manifesting, you are manifesting your reality. And that's the scary
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thing because if you're not aware of it, then you're just kind of like
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this bag floating in the wind, taking life as it comes to you and
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just accepting it and not being aware of the power of your thoughts and your
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ability to shape your own reality and to create things that you want to create
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in your lifetime. So there are lots of methods for manifesting and calling in
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and creating the things that you want. There's journaling, there's you know,
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using meditation per manifestation. There's vision boards, there's visualization, there's tons of
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different modalities. You know, you can as soon as you listen to this,
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and if you were to do a Google search, you're all of a
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sudden going to get these ads for these special journals. Right. I remember
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I got this journal once that was like I think it was three six y
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five something anyway, and it like had you write as an affirmation what it
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is that you're creating three times in the morning, and then six times in
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the afternoon, and then nine times in even I don't know, something like
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that. So there's my point in saying that is there's a lot of different
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ways and modalities to create what it is that you want, which is great,
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right, But what I've noticed, because I've always been fascinated by this,
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I've always had my own deep knowing and deep understanding of my own power.
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But all of ours, right, like nobody here is special. We
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all have this ability. All of us can be as powerful of creators that
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we want. But you have to realize that, accept it, and claim
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it right because we've been given free will, and part of free will is
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we get to co create. So if you are scared of it, or
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you don't believe that it's true, or you don't want to believe it's true,
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and you are affirming to yourself that you're not a powerful creator, that
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you're not a co creator at all, that life is happening to you and
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so on, that's what you're going to get. It's a self fulfilling prophecy.
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And that's where people I see it doesn't work because I said it wasn't
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gonna work, and then it did work. It's like, but do you
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realize you created that? Look how powerful you are. You not only can
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create what you want, but you can also create what you don't want.
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This is why I don't listen to to scary podcasts and crime podcasts, and
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I mean, I'll indulge here and there. Some of them are really good.
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But I don't immerse myself in things that I don't want to see in
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my own life because we are power. I'm a very powerful creator. No,
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absolutely, not like I need to be in a little bit of a
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in a bubble. We'll talk about that. We'll talk about Delulu in a
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minute before that reason. Okay, So I really think because like I said,
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I've always had an interest in this always, and as soon as I
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knew that this was something like a thing, I've always studied it. I've
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always, like you know, I've done my own research. I've looked at
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the science of it and you know, quantum physics, and I've read up
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on people who talk on this and people that you know, claim to be
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their own powerful creators as well. We're going to talk about some of the
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most I guess famous examples here in a bit. But one thing that I've
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noticed is we tend to make this more complicated than it needs to be.
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We tend to just want to overcomplicate it, right because realizing that we can
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create whatever it is that we want and do so easily seems too simple.
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It seems too much of a hack, too much of a like a hack
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into the system, right, too much of a cheat code. This,
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surely this can't be easy, so we go into Okay, in order for
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me to create this, I need to write it down seven thousand times and
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then I'll be worthy. And that's what it is, right, It's this
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if you can't let things be easy for you and you find this isn't just
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in relation to manifesting, but this is just in life in general. I
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want you to pay attention to this. If you notice that you tend to
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try and make things more complicated than it needs to be, that is an
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issue with receiving. That is some sort of worthiness issue. Right. If
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somebody were to come up to you and say, hey, I want to
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buy your most your your biggest business package or whatever, or can you make
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me you know, I want to spend one hundred thousand dollars with you.
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Can you write me up a package? And if your first thought is like
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this is it's a trap, No way, we need to let's get on
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a discovery call first. Let's and you notice that you're trying to make it
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more complicated. This is an issue with receiving. Not saying that we can't
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make sure, we can't vet people that want to work with us. And
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let's think of a different example, because that's not the best example. Let's
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say, oh, okay, here's a good one. In relationships. Right,
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Let's say you are single and you want to meet your dream partner and
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you finally meet the one or he seems like he or she right, they
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check all the boxes and it's just easy with them, right, there's no
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drama. They're not doing shady stuff. They call when they say they are,
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that text when they say they are. They're just genuinely good people and
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they want to be with you, and they really freaking like you. If
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you are then going and thinking this is too good to be true. This
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person they must be doing something shady. Why do they like me? This
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is weird? Like you hear people joke about that, like I don't like
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them because they like me, and that says something about them. We've all
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like, I've made that joke for it. But that's an issue with you're
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receiving, right, That's a deep, deep, deep self worth issue.
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And if you're doing that in one way, chances are chances are pretty good
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you're doing that in a lot of different other categories in your life. You're
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probably doing that in some level in business. You're probably doing that at some
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level in your health, right, you think in order for you to be
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healthy and to be thriving, you need to be taking seven million supplements and
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you need to be working out every single day, twice a day. It's
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just like, why are we over complicating this? If you eat well,
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you drink water, you move your body a decent amount. Right, everybody's
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different obviously, but like you get what I'm saying. And when it comes
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to consciously co creating aka manifesting, you see this a lot too. Okay.
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In order for me to create what I want, I need to meditate
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on it fifty minutes a day, and I need to create a vision board
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and I need to be visualizing x amount of time. And here's the thing.
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You get to do whatever you want, and you get to have fun
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with this, and if that feels fun for you, if that makes the
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experience more potent, and actually get your mind around to believing that what you're
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doing is working and it's and call the thing in by all means, do
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whatever you want, right, visualize until you know from sun up to sundown.
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But the point is is it's all in how you think about it.
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If you think that that's the only way, we're over complicating it. If
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you're doing it, because that's one way that you know, and that feels
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really good and it helps you believe again in what it is that you're creating.
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Fine, but it's not the only way. Okay. So again,
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this is something that I've been interested in for years and years and years.
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I've done a lot of studying on it. It's one of my favorite subjects
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to learn about. It's one of my favorite subjects to talk about. And
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I've decided that one of the I think most powerful, like I said in
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the title, easiest, most potent halfs that we can do, is this.
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Are you ready for it? It is simply speaking what you desire and
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what you're creating into existence. But there's a little bit more to it,
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okay, But that that is the summary. It is speaking it with a
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level of belief and coupled with okay. So that's that's like, there's two
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parts to this, right, Part one genuinely believing what it is that you're
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doing and speaking it out loud, and then part two believing that you are
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a powerful creator. When you pair these two things together, you are a
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powerful creat You already are a powerful creator, but now we've just taken your
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your power to level ten because you're able to do it so intentionally versus you
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know, we're all powerful creators, but not all of us are creating what
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it is that we want because we don't understand this. So again, so
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simple, right, and we're going to break it down because it's it's not
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simply. You can't. I can't just sit here and say I'm going to
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be a billionaire tomorrow and it's gonna come true. I know that's not going
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to happen, okay, And the fact that I know that means that it's
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not going to happen. So it's not just like like you got to have
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that belief behind it. There's got to be power. There's got to be
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energy in your in your in the words that you are speaking. One of
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the things that I'm teaching Cruise right now, my son who's five and a
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half, is words have power. Because he's in this like shock humor phase
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and he says things. He'll be like, nobody loves cruisy, Cruisies mean
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by these just things, you know, he's trying to get a reaction,
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which is normal. It's part of it. But one of the things that
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I'm teaching him is like, no, no, no, no, words
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have power. You don't just speak things for the sake of speaking things.
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You want to be intentional and thoughtful about the words that you were putting out
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into the world because they carry energy, they carry a frequency, they have
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power, they will create something right from your mouth to God's years. It's
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there's there's a frequency and there's a residence there. So anyways, speaking what
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you desire and what you're creating into existence with a level of belief, of
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course, and then also the belief that you are a powerful creator. So
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this is why I said, you can do this at any time. You
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could do this anywhere. But let's let's dive into this a little bit.
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So for me when I'm thinking about this, and I have like I have
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one example, well, I have many examples where I've done this. Okay,
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I've talked about how I've spoken my husband, Actually I wrote Chris into
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existence. I've talked about this before. But before I met Chris, I
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I was in, you know, a pretty bad relationship, just like an
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all going toxic situation, and I was over it, right, I was
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just like, oh my god, this ain't it. I know I'm worthy
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of a man who I love, who loves me back, who treats me
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well, like that reciprocates my love for him, you know, like and
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no, he's out there. And I came across this article that talked about
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that talked about writing like writing a letter to your future partner, you know,
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and like like giving details on however much detail you want, but essentially
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capturing the essence of who he is as a person. And I did this,
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and one of my most frustrating things that is the fact that I don't
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have this letter. I don't know where this letter is. I must have
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lost it in a move or something, or maybe it just magically disappeared because
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it came true, who knows. But months so that was like this summer
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of two thousand and fourteen. I met Chris October twenty fourteen, you know,
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like so like that, so when I say speaking your words into existence,
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it's again, don't get caught up and like it has to be specifically
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this way exactly. Okay, if you have any kind of Virgo in you,
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or any sign that's like Virgo like me, you're going to try and
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be like, but tell me exactly what to do. That's not the point.
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It's simply like the belief in what you're writing and your power to create
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it, and then either speaking it, writing it, whatever feels good for
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you. Okay. So like that's one thing. That's one major example of
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what I've done, and the other examples you know, many different moments in
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my business, but most probably recently when I claimed and declared my first six
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figure month last year. I came on here it was like a month prior
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and and I declared it. I was like, it's time, I'm ready.
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So and it happened and we overshot it and it was it was freaking
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amazing. I came I did a podcast on you can go find it,
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and I think I called it The Power. No. I did another podcast
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after that called The Power of Declaration, But it must have been like the
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one before that or something that I did this, And when I hear that,
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I think to myself, why don't I do this with everything right,
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why don't I declare I'm going to have you know, I'm going to make
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multi six figures each month, or I'm gonna be a billionaire by the age
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of forty or I'm going to be able to, you know, retire so
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and so you know why, like, why don't I just walk around declaring
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these things? Well, why don't you do that too? Here's why.
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Fear. Okay, the reason why we don't do this more and we don't
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use this hack to our benefit more is because of fear. Fear of what
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one, fear of what if it really happens and all of you know,
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the the ripple effect of what that means, and probably more importantly, fear
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of what if it doesn't happen and you look like a fool. So that's
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the biggest one for me. I don't necessarily have a fear of like,
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oh gosh, what if that does happen. It's more so a fear of,
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okay, what if I say that out loud and it doesn't happen.
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What are the repercussions of that? Not only do I look like a fool
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in some people's eyes or delusional, but now I'm questioning my own power.
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Like that's the big thing for me. I don't want to claim something and
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it not happened, and of me question if I am a good co creator
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because that feels deathly to me. That like that would just shake my whole
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existence because I know I am, but there are things that we got to
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refine, right that You've got to have a level of belief. So when
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this comes up for you, this shows you right there, This is like
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the big red flag for you, like, hey, yes, this is
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why you're scared to say this out loud. This means that we have work
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to do in building the belief. Because if you believe that what you're about
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to say is going to come true or has a really good chance if you
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do the work of coming true, you would say it. But if you're
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not saying it out of fear of you know, whatever I just said or
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something else, that's the work that you need to do. Okay, So
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if you're not speaking it out loud because you don't want to look stupid when
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it doesn't happen, well, why do you think it's not going to happen?
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What stories are you telling yourself? So if somebody were to come up
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to me and said, declare next month, you're going to have a multi
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six figure month next month, I would I would have pause in saying that,
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because my belief is in order to create multi six figures in a month,
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in my business, I would need more people in more of my programs,
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and I would I would need to in my mind to have a strategy
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to create that. I write like this is me, like okay, in
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order for me to be worthy or be able to receive that, I need
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to do work for that. I need to believe in, you know,
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in order for me to believe, I would need to have like a really
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big launch or a new offer that gets a ton of people in. And
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I would have to do the math in my head to get around thinking do
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you see do you see what I'm doing here? So it's like, okay,
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then we need to work on that. How can you get around to
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believing that that is possible to happen? Now? Like with with what it
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either your current circumstances, can we bring our mind can we wrap our mind
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around you creating what you want via your current circumstances? Or what aligned action
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can we take to get the necessary components to create the thing that you want?
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And oftentimes, and you will see this a lot if you're studying on
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law of attraction or manifesting, you'll see that, like the how isn't important,
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it's the intention, it's what It is that you're creating. We don't
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need to know the how. If you believe in your ability, your worthiness,
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and what it is that you're creating. If you believe enough, then
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that energy attracts in the necessary components to make that happen. And yes,
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sometimes there is aligned action, right. So a good example to think about
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this is like if I wanted to be a bodybuilder, and I believed that
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I could be a bodybuilder and I could compete in one of the big bodybuilding
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competitions. That's that's a really really good start. But I'm not going to
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sit on the couch and believe that and think about that and it's just all
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of a sudden, I'm gonna win. I would have to sign up for
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the competition that I think I can win, and I would have to qualify
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for it. So there's a lined action required there. If you want to
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be an uber successful business owner, you know who creates x amount of impact
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x amount of revenue, we need a business. We need a portal for
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that to come through. Okay, So but maybe one of the things that
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you can create is the idea for that. So Sarah Blakely has been quoted
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in saying that before she got the idea for Smanks. She wrote in her
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journal, I'm going to invent a product and sell it to millions of people
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that will make them feel good. So she didn't even know. It's not
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even It's not like she got the idea for spanks and she was like,
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this is going to be one of the most successful products on the freaking planet
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and make me a billionaire. She didn't know the how, She just had
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the intention. She had the overall bigger vision. I'm going to be an
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inventor of something that makes people feel really good and millions of people are going
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to benefit and buy this. And then she got the idea for spanks,
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but she didn't get the idea for Spanx. And then twiddle her thumbs and
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say, okay, when am I going to be a billionaire? When am
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I going to be successful? Where's it? I declared it. I wrote
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it in my journal. I got the idea. No, there was action
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required. Do you know how many probably billion dollar ideas or at least million,
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multi million, ridiculous amounts of success ideas that you get probably daily that
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you're like, Hugh wouldn't work. I truly believe we get some of the
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best ideas, but we don't believe in ourselves, or we don't want to
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do the work to make it come true, to bring it out to you
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know, birth it into the world, and then just let's onto somebody else.
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Elizabeth Gilbert writes about this in the book Big Magic. She talks about
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I think she calls it the Muse, I think, don't quote me on
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that, but she talks about how she believes that when you are receptive,
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when you're in a receptive state, the muse or you know, you could
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probably look at this as God, the universe will drop in downloads of incredible
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ideas. But if you're not going to birth them into the world, they're
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going to take it and give it to somebody else. And she tells this
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story about how she got this idea for this book, and she wrote,
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I want to say she wrote a portion of it right, and it was
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a very very very specific book idea, and something happened, you know,
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life kind of got in the way. She didn't put it out into the
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world. And then cut to like a year or two later, one of
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her colleagues releases a book that was so eerily similar you would have thought she
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like broke into Elizabeth's house and got the transcripts and just like changed a few
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details. But that was impossible, Like there's there's no way like these.
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This transcript was like locked and looked. You know, there's that wasn't a
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thing. It didn't happen. But this showed she was like, Wow,
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I got this idea. It was mine to put out into the world,
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but I didn't put it out into the world and it was granted to somebody
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else. So again we get these ideas right, and there is a level
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of action to be taken. You have to do your part and also the
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action, the aligned action. When you're taking it, what are you doing?
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You are saying I believe in myself enough to make this happen, that
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I'm going to take this action. Because if you didn't believe in your ability
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to be a successful business owner, you wouldn't start the business, you wouldn't
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continue to run the business. You'd be insane. Right. I know I'm
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never going to be a professional basketball player. It's not in the cards.
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So guess what I don't do. I don't practice basketball. Right, it's
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not in the cards, and if it is, I don't want it.
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So you're not gonna find me on a basketball court. But I do believe
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and my ability to help women and change women's lives and help them realize their
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own power and help them create the life and business and their dreams. So
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I continue to show up for this podcast and speak my heart. I continue
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to put out programs and offers to help them do that and to help myself
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do that. If I didn't believe in it, I wouldn't do the action.
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So the action is your. It's you stepping in faith. Okay.
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I'm going to do my part. I'm going to meet you, Universe,
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God halfway and do my part. So the next time you get or have
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you find yourself putting something on a vision board or dreaming up something really big,
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ask yourself, would I claim this right now? Would I say this
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on a podcast right now? Would I would I put this out into the
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world? Yes or no? If yes, or we're on a really good
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track, great, If no, Why that is your work? Okay?
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So why am I not? Why would I not declare that I'm going to
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be a professional basketball player because I don't want to be one. I don't
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want to make that happen, and I don't believe that's possible for me.
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Cool, that's why it's not going to come true. But okay, what's
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the other thing that I would claim? Okay, so like that's I want
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you to do that? Do that practice for yourself? What are the things
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that you are intentionally calling in right now? And would you go downstairs or
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wherever you are and say it out loud to your family right now? Would
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you say it to your partner with confidence? I'm going to make this happen.
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There are things that I won't even say allowed to Chris because he's the
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closest person to me and I don't want to look like a full to him.
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But that shows me the work that I need to do. So let's
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now shift into another way to think about this too, when it like through
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the lens of like why aren't we saying this out loud? Why aren't we
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talking about this? Okay, yes, let's dive into the fear for sure,
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But also I think another reason in addition to the fear, if there's
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another reason why some of us don't do this, And another thing that I
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think at best slows us down with our co creations and at worst stops our
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co creations, is our unwillingness to let go of what is quote unquote realistic.
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I'm a realist. Let's be realistic here, Let's be real. But
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the problem with that is we're creating something new. So if I want to
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create something that's not here right now, but I'm looking at what's here right
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now, and I'll only speak out loud and allow myself to believe and what's
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currently made manifest in my life, then I'm not going to call in the
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new thing, or again, I'm at least going to slow it down.
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So I see a lot of people doing that. And there's this idea of
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like being delusional Delulu, and I love it. I love the same Delulu.
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That's my favorite thing. Like I want to make cats? Should I
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make cats with Delulu on it? Would you buy it? I would wear
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it every single day because I truly believe it is delusional people with good intentions
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that create some of the most incredible creations and powerful manifestations. Ever, it's
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people who allow themselves who have the audacity to be a level of delusional.
28:49
So what is that? What does that mean? Positive thinking? Manifesting Lucky
28:56
Girl syndrome. Right, It's this idea that what is isn't that this is
29:06
just a fraction of the picture. Yes, this is what I'm doing right
29:10
now. These are my current results, but this is not the full story.
29:15
And furthermore, I'm not acting as if what's here right now. I'm
29:21
acting as if what's coming. I can see what's on its way to me.
29:25
So I'm going to act as that version. I'm going to behave as
29:29
if that's already here. That is what some people consider delusional, like that,
29:36
that's not a thing, that's not real. You're you're a freaking looney
29:40
tune. What do you mean? What do you mean You're going to be
29:45
a multi million business owner? Like you've barely hit this number this year?
29:49
How dare you? How dare you hire that coach when you've only made this?
29:53
How dare you put out that offer at that price point when you've only
29:56
done that? How dare you name your podc cast six figure influencer when you
30:00
haven't hit six figures in your business yet? How dare you? That's not
30:07
realistic? Be real? It's like this. I understand time, I understand
30:17
that this is this is just one timeline, and I understand to you this
30:21
seems very very real. But I also know who I am in what you
30:26
consider the future, which is just me on a different timeline. I know
30:32
it's just a matter of time until that thing happens. I am that person
30:37
now and it's coming fast. Do you feel the power in that? But
30:47
people get so get so touchy, right That pisses some people off because they're
30:53
threatened by it because they don't understand it, and they want to cut you
30:59
down and they want to make you feel like you're doing something wrong by gaslighting
31:03
you and calling you crazy delusional. So I love That's why I love it
31:11
so much that we've taken back the word delusional and we've you know, made
31:14
it something cute. And by the way, I did do the research,
31:18
like where did delusional come from? And it came from K pop and like
31:21
weird, not weird, but like crazy obsessive fans. But also it trickled
31:27
it's trickled down into like yeah, like in other ways, you know,
31:33
Lucky Girl syndrome just this this deep, deep belief that what you want is
31:40
coming to you, that you are lucky, that you are a powerful creator,
31:45
that what is is happening right now is only a fraction of what's coming.
31:53
So we took we took the word delusional back and we twisted it and
31:59
made it something powerful. And I'm so here for that and the more uber
32:05
successful and famous people that I study, because I've talked, I mean,
32:09
I always refer to different documentaries or books that I'm reading, and I noticed
32:15
this a lot, and I've noticed this common theme that they this is what
32:22
they do, right. They not only speak out loud what it is that
32:25
they're creating, but they believe and they know that they are a powerful creator.
32:37
I saw a video of Oprah the other day on some channel and she
32:43
said, this is her quote. She said, I don't vision board anymore
32:46
because I'm a powerful manifestor. I don't even need to do that. It's
32:52
like, damn, And I don't think any of us can argue that Oprah
32:57
is a powerful creator, right when you look at the span of her career
33:02
and what she's done. But she believes, right, And I would argue
33:08
that she believed that, maybe not to take extent that she does now,
33:13
but she believed that on some level in the beginning of her career. And
33:16
if you've listened to the story of her career and the things that she went
33:21
for, she had this deep belief in herself that nobody else saw coming.
33:25
Everybody probably thought she was delusional, like a woman you think you're going to
33:30
have your own first of all, do you think you're going to be on
33:32
this news station or this radio show or you know, I can't remember exactly
33:36
like how she got started, let alone like like have one of the biggest
33:39
talk shows on the history of the planet. I guarantee you a lot of
33:45
people thought she was Hella delusional, like Loney beIN Lock Her Up. But
33:52
she did it. I'm probably gonna get some hate for this, but I
33:58
love love Logan and Jake Paul. Okay, bear with me. So I
34:05
listened to Logan Paul's podcast. It just for me. It's really fun to
34:09
listen to and they talk about really interesting topics and I like the banter back
34:15
and forth and they bring on really great guests if I know who they are.
34:20
And I noticed this theme with both of them because once I started listening
34:24
to the podcast, I kind of got into like, so there's Logan Paul
34:28
and his brother Jake Paul, and I realized, like they both have their
34:30
history and their drama and whatever. Who cares, Like we've all made mistakes.
34:36
So anyway, I've started learning more about both of them just from and
34:42
if you haven't seen Jake Paul's Netflix documentary, it's really good. But you'll
34:46
see both of them make really really bold declarations. This is part of what
34:52
they've done. But they've done this since they were teenagers, since they were
34:55
making crummy YouTube videos for like dozens of viewers if that. But like Jake
35:05
Paul or Logan, he says all the time, like one of his biggest
35:08
affirmations that he was saying as a kid was he he was going to be
35:12
one of the greatest entertainers of all time. And not only does he have
35:15
this huge podcast, but he now does a WWE and he just like got
35:22
some major championship with a w DOE. I don't know, I don't know
35:24
exactly what it's called, but it's a really big deal and we know who
35:30
he is right Like he's on track to creating that for himself. He created
35:35
a billion dollar brand. Prime just sold its billiant bottle. I mean,
35:45
say what you want about what he's doing, but like he's doing some big
35:49
things, whether you agree with it or not. Same thing with his brother.
35:52
I'm going to be an elite fighter and he's doing that, and a
35:57
lot of people have opinions about that. Listen, I'm not very versed in
36:00
the fight world, nor do I care to be, but you can't argue
36:04
like this guy he didn't fight a day in his life and it's only been
36:07
a couple of years and he's like one of the biggest names in these different
36:13
industries for fighting. He brings a lot of attention, He's garnered a lot
36:16
of respect. He claimed that, and he had no reason to. So
36:23
that's one of the reason why I like them, because it's just it's so
36:27
interesting to watch. It's like, wow, Okay, you believe in yourself,
36:31
like to an extent that is delusional, and then look what you do.
36:37
Look what they're doing. It pays off. And it's not to say
36:42
everything they do turns to gold because they they've had plenty of missteps. They've
36:47
had plenty of l's for sure, But in the grand scheme of things not
36:54
doing bad, I don't they getting back. You can argue that. Who
37:00
else I talked about Oprah Phil Knight, the creator of Nike. If you
37:05
read his book, he believed that he was creating one of the biggest if
37:07
not the biggest shoe bring in the world, and we know how that worked
37:10
out. Michael Jordan best basketball player of all time, and we see how
37:15
that worked out. We talked about Sarah Blakey. Right, there's like this
37:20
common thread of this deep rooted belief not only in the thing. Like it's
37:25
not so much the declaration that they're that they're claiming, that's a big piece
37:30
of it, but it's their ability to make it happen. I'm saying this
37:36
out loud because I know that I can make it happen. If not now,
37:39
it's it's only a matter of time. It's that it's that they go
37:47
both together, right, the two things that go together. It's it's the
37:52
belief in the thing and then your belief in yourself. I just came across
38:00
this woman. Her name is Chelsea Dian and her Instagram is Poems and p
38:09
Andies is her Instagram name Poems and Ponies like the flower Penies. And I
38:16
can't remember maybe I saw her from Gella Darling. Anyway, I followed her
38:23
and she just stood out to me. I really liked the things that she
38:28
was putting out and she was hosting. She does these like these classes on
38:35
it seems to be a theme of like really powerful women in history. And
38:39
she was doing a class and I was like, ooh, I want to
38:43
be there for that class. And she has this membership right in order to
38:46
get in on the class whatever it is that she's teaching. She's a writer,
38:51
she's a poet, and she helps other women also write. But she
38:55
has this membership. It's eighty eight dollars a month, and that's how you
39:00
get to tune into whatever classes she's currently doing. In any class that she's
39:05
done before you get access to the full library. And I'm not a poet.
39:10
I liked write. I wouldn't consider myself a poet. So I would
39:14
see her talk about, you know, different things, but it would always
39:16
lead to this membership and I'm like, yeah, but I'm not a poet.
39:20
I don't know. I don't think this is for me. And finally
39:22
she was hosting this class. I can't remember which one it was, but
39:23
I was like, okay, I'm just going to get in. Let's see,
39:27
let's see what this is. So I got in. I watched this
39:29
class blew my mind. She is an incredible teacher, like so badass,
39:37
so entertaining, so just rooted in female empowerment. And so since then I've
39:45
been binging her other classes because they're just one you learn a ton, right.
39:50
She does classes on She did like a two part class on Frieda Callo,
39:53
Cleopatra, Stevie Mix, Madonna, Medusa, Dolly Parton. She's doing
40:04
one as this comes out, it will already be live. She's her next
40:07
one is on Princess Diana, which I'm so excited about anyway. But then
40:12
she also has these other classes on just like different ideas of like like,
40:17
for example, poetry for a manifestation, and I listened to that one and
40:24
she gave I'm pretty sure it was in that video. She gave such a
40:30
cool tip that I'm starting to do and it feels so good and feels so
40:34
exciting and it just it just feels powerful. But she gave this idea.
40:37
By the way, go follow her again. She's Poems and Peonies on Instagram
40:43
and her membership is called Poems and Power and it's eighty eight dollars a month,
40:47
and it's just she's just phenomenal. These are it's so good and she's
40:52
so into it and it's really inspired me different things that I can bring to
40:58
my own business. And I just I think you would probably really like her
41:01
anyway, so go check her out. Shout out Chelsea Dane. But anyway,
41:06
she gave this tip that I was like, oh, that's so good.
41:10
And she gave this tip to like have a special journal, and on
41:15
the journal you write down anything I write on these pages comes true. Everything
41:22
I write on these pages comes true. And that's how intentionally you need to
41:29
be with the words, like that is your special magic manifestation journal. And
41:35
you know, her prompt is like like just have and you know you when
41:38
you get a new desire that's birth, like write it on the pages and
41:43
believe that, like anything that's there has to come true. So you have
41:46
to be really careful what you write in there, right, And I just
41:51
thought that that was such a fun idea. So if you like that,
41:54
try it on yourself. But like I said, we tend to overcomplicate this
42:00
or we think or yeah, maybe I'm just talking to myself here, but
42:04
like I definitely will, like, Okay, if I want a big thing,
42:07
I need to do more, I need to spend more time. But
42:09
what I noticed is the things that come into my life the fastest are the
42:14
things that I claim or that I say, oh, that would be really
42:16
cool, and I don't have any doubt that that fuzzies it up, that
42:22
muddies the waters, and then I let it go and then boom ooh,
42:25
let me tell you another story. This is just like a small example of
42:30
me creating something, but it was really freaking cool. So and I told
42:34
this my stories the other day, so if you've heard it, just listen
42:37
to it again. But I I don't know. I've been like on a
42:40
sweet kick lately, and I love a good brownie, like ooh, tell
42:46
me tell me anything better than like a good, rich, gooey brownie,
42:52
right, So I've been a hunt pretties and instead of just making him on
42:57
my own like you could, I don't know. I'm just like, we'll
43:01
get uber eats a couple of times a week, like for lunch or something,
43:06
so I'll if the restaurant that we're ordering from has a brownie, I'll
43:08
order it. I'll be like, Okay, maybe this is really good and
43:13
they just missed the mark. I don't know something about it. It's just
43:15
not I don't think it's like dark enough. I don't think it's dense or
43:19
rich enough, I don't know. So I did that a couple of times
43:21
in one week, and I was like, oh, man, I need
43:23
to find and I thought of this brownie that I had. This is so
43:28
random, but from what's the Greek place to Zekie's. I don't know if
43:34
you've ever eaten there, but we have this chain of Greek restaurants called to
43:37
Zekie's here in Tennessee. And one time I went randomly, this was years
43:45
ago, and they were selling these these brownies and these little plastic containers and
43:50
I just randomly got one. And when I tell you, it was the
43:52
best brownie I've ever had in my entire life. And they don't sell them
43:54
anymore. I don't know. It's random, right, but I thought of
43:59
that brownie. I was like, God, Lee, if I could find
44:00
that brownie again. And then it was like moving on with my life,
44:05
right, Like I'm not obsessing over a brownie. But also I don't doubt
44:08
in my body that I could find that brownie again, right. I was
44:12
like, oh, you know, I'm sure one day I'll I'll indulge in
44:15
a brownie like that again. And I move on with my life. Okay,
44:20
When I tell you two days later. Okay, I'm sitting on my
44:27
couch. It's like eight pm. We had just gotten the boys down.
44:30
So it's that sweet spot in the evening where like Chris and I are eating
44:35
dinner, we're finishing up dinner, we're watching a show, we're catching our
44:38
breath, We're just like enjoying the quiet. And it's also the time after
44:44
dinner that what you're craving something sweet, right, that's when you go rummaging.
44:49
You're looking for something in the fridge and the pantry. And I was
44:52
just kind of like, ah, man, do I want something? Do
44:55
I get in cruises? Halloween candy? I don't know? Is on his
45:00
phone and he kind of chuckles, and I look over and he was like,
45:06
our neighbor had texted him and said that he was sending over a dessert
45:10
that he wanted us to try, because our neighbor just like started this bakery
45:16
out of his basement and he like gives loaves of bread and different he'd like
45:22
tests out all these desserts and all of us in the neighborhood to get to
45:27
try it and benefit from it. Lucky yes, And he was like,
45:30
Okay, he's he's running over at this dessert right now and again it's like
45:34
eight o'clock at night and I'm like, no freaking way, please be something
45:37
chocolate. When I tell you, they were dark chocolate, sour dough,
45:45
geared Delly brownies. Oh my god, they were freaking insane in sane.
46:00
Okay. They took the to Zekie's brownie and put it to shame. And
46:05
that was like the best Barnie I've ever had in my life. And here
46:08
I am again. I didn't have to do anything. I just like thought
46:13
about it, talk, you know, thought about it. A couple of
46:15
days were like let it go, and bom, as I'm sitting on my
46:17
couch, It's hand delivered to me the best Barnie I've ever had in my
46:21
life. And I had this moment. I had this thought like, oh
46:23
damn, I made that. I created that, Like, like what else
46:29
could be that easy? What else can I allow to be that easy in
46:34
my life? So my homework for you is one, do the test yourself,
46:44
like what what do you want to create? Like what's one one big
46:46
goal of yours that means a lot? Actually it has a meaning to you.
46:52
Would you go declare that out loud right now, like if you were
46:55
on a podcast and this was going out to the world, would you say,
46:59
I'm going to be the person to do blank, this really big thing.
47:05
Would you do that? If yes, great, we are on the
47:08
right track. Maybe it's going to happen. If not, why what are
47:14
you scared of? What's the story that you're telling yourself? And do you
47:20
have a fear of being delusional? What people will think of you? Okay,
47:23
so that's going to tell you some things that you need to clean up
47:27
and work on right there? What can you disprove and how you do that
47:30
is disprove it? Okay? What stories? So I won't declare I'm going
47:37
to have you know, multi six figures in my business, you know,
47:40
next month, because I believe that I would need to do additional work that
47:45
I haven't thought of yet in my mind, so that right there, I
47:47
need to do workaround believing different avenues that this could come through that are available
47:53
right now or in my ability to create a brand new idea that pops off
47:59
the freaking chart and creates this insane, really fast success that happens. We're
48:06
all just a launch away from our biggest month or an idea away from our
48:09
biggest month. So that's the work that I need to do. What's the
48:14
work that you need to do? And then I would love for you to
48:17
either get that journal right, have a special book dedicated to your creations and
48:24
what you are calling through, and you write at the top of the page
48:29
everything I write down on these pages comes true, or if you don't like
48:32
that, like what could be whatever version of that? What's your modality for
48:38
speaking these things into existence? And then the last thing here, I just
48:44
want you to be all of us here. I'm speaking to myself too,
48:46
all of us be all around more conscious of the words that we are speaking
48:51
out loud into the world in the same way, you know, like as
48:54
I'm as I'm speaking to Cruise about this, it's like your words have power.
49:00
I'm also like, okay, the irony of me saying that because I
49:05
say all the time I talk and indulge in crap all the time that I
49:09
do not want to happen. But you know, you get in conversations with
49:14
people and you just want to be relatable and you just want to be realistic
49:20
and normal, and it's like, yeah, but I don't want to be
49:23
realistic and I don't want to be normal. So I need to be better
49:29
about the words that I'm putting out in that I'm putting energy into and putting
49:32
out into the world. Because all of our words have power, all of
49:37
our beliefs have power and have a frequency to it. Right, let me
49:44
know how this goes. Also, I want to give you or tell you
49:49
about something really cool before we wrap up, so as you know, or
49:52
maybe you don't, I have a membership called All In the membership. And
49:59
with this membership, if you get inside access to all my programs and you
50:01
get two coaching calls a month, so ton of value. And this membership
50:07
is a year long commitment, which I realize if you're new to me,
50:12
you that's a really big ask. And this isn't like it's priced in a
50:17
to me a very affordable way. Well affordable isn't the word, but compared
50:23
to the value it's priced where like it makes if you want my stuff and
50:29
you want coaching for me, it's priced very well, right, because the
50:34
value far exceeds the price of the membership. But I also realize that's a
50:37
really big ask to ask you to jump into a container for a full year
50:45
at the price point that it is some of you. If you get in
50:46
and you love it, it would make all the sense in the world.
50:50
But if you don't know if you would love it yet, that's a really
50:52
big ask. So what we have decided to do is we have decided to
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make get to where for one month, and one month only December, you
51:04
can actually test out the membership. You can try it on for a month
51:08
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51:12
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so you can do just the calls. So if you're like I just
51:25
I just need some coaching, I could really use some support, Like as
51:30
I'm going into the new year, as I'm closing down this year, I
51:32
could really really use some coaching and also just be in the vibes of other
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52:37
you can reach out to me on Instagram. But that's all that I
52:39
have for you today. I hope you enjoyed this. I love you,
52:44
and I will see you here next week. Bye.